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Speaker 1: It's time to catch a Cheater.

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Speaker 2: Only on the Jubile Show. Gwynn is on the phone

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Speaker 2: today for to Catch a Cheater. She's been with her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend Eddie for seven years. Oh wow, and now she

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Speaker 2: thinks he might be cheating. Gwen, that's a long time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's been a journey. You know, we've been together

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Speaker 3: for quite some time and we've had some bumpy roads

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Speaker 3: and it hasn't been you know, just rainbows and sunshine.

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Speaker 3: We've been through a lot together and I've been sticking

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Speaker 3: it out with him, you know, and between a friend's funeral,

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Speaker 3: his parents passing, and losing his job for almost a year,

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Speaker 3: which took a lot on us fiscally, his drinking got

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Speaker 3: really bad.

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Speaker 1: So yeah, he's I mean I had to ask him and.

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Speaker 3: Beg him, and he's been going to AA and he's

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Speaker 3: been really trying. But his meetings lately they're usually once

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Speaker 3: a week and now he leaves it like four times

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Speaker 3: a week for a meeting, and I'm just like, what's

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Speaker 4: Does he need that?

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Speaker 1: Though?

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Speaker 4: I think that when you need extra support, you can

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Speaker 4: attend more meetings, right.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, you can attend as many as you want.

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Speaker 2: You can do one every day. You don't think he's

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Speaker 2: going to the meetings that much, you.

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Speaker 3: Know what, he could, but now, like as opposed to

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Speaker 3: like two months ago, they were fine and he would

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Speaker 3: come home with life and energy and really start to

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Speaker 3: open up about his feelings.

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Speaker 5: And now he comes home, he doesn't want to talk.

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Speaker 5: I can't touch him. He goes into the toower.

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Speaker 1: In any gifts in bit oh, you know, and it's

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Speaker 1: just like he's so distant. If you're going through more emotionally,

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Speaker 1: like you should talk to me.

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Speaker 4: The straight to the shower. There is always something that's

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Speaker 4: a flag for me.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, the only logical thing that I always

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Speaker 3: jump to is that he wants to wash the snow

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Speaker 3: off of another person.

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Speaker 4: That's hard to think. That's hard to like process in

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Speaker 4: your own mind, I'm sure, but maybe, I mean, it

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Speaker 4: sounds sketchy. But then also he could have a legit

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Speaker 4: reason this time. I don't I feel like I have

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Speaker 4: a real feeling on this story right really, because it.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like he's going through a lot. So yeah, it

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Speaker 2: could be that he's just going through a lot. It

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Speaker 2: also could be that he's messing around.

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Speaker 3: You know.

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Speaker 1: I figure you guys could help you know, we definitely can.

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Speaker 2: We will play a song come back, and then do

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Speaker 2: the usual You already told us what grocery store you

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Speaker 2: guys are Award Card members at, so we'll call from

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Speaker 2: there say that every single month we offer one Lucky

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Speaker 2: Rewards Card member free flowers to deliver to anybody they want,

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Speaker 2: and we'll see if he sends us to you or

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Speaker 2: somebody else.

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Speaker 1: Okay, thanks guys, gosh, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll play a song, come back and get your

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Speaker 2: to Catch a Cheeter. Next it's time to Catch a

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Speaker 2: Cheater only on the Tuble Show. Right in the middle

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Speaker 2: of to Catch a Cheater and if you're just joining us,

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Speaker 2: Gwyn is on the phone and she thinks that her

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Speaker 2: boyfriend of seven years might be messing around. His name

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Speaker 2: is Eddie. We're about to call him and pretend to

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Speaker 2: be from the grocery store that he's a Reward Cards

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Speaker 2: Rewards Card member at, and do the usual thing that

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Speaker 2: we do. We're going to tell him that every single month,

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Speaker 2: we choose one Rewards Card member at random we gets

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Speaker 2: free flowers delivered from our brand new and improved floral

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Speaker 2: department to anybody that he wants, and we'll see if

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Speaker 2: he sends him to his girlfriend or to someone else.

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Speaker 2: But before we call him, Gwen refresh everybody's memory on

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Speaker 2: why you think he might be cheating.

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Speaker 1: You've just been going through a lot.

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Speaker 6: He started a a up again, and he went from

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Speaker 6: one meeting a week to four meetings a week, and

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Speaker 6: he takes showers after coming home, and he doesn't talk,

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Speaker 6: and he doesn't want me to touch him, and some's

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Speaker 1: It doesn't still right?

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, you ready for us to call him?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm ready. I hope. I don't know. Emotionally I'm not,

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Speaker 1: but yeah, I need this all right?

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Speaker 2: Here we go.

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Speaker 1: Hello is this Eddie?

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Speaker 7: H Yeah, Eddie?

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Speaker 2: How are you? My name is Jordan. I'm calling from

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Speaker 2: I'm calling with the exciting news that you're this month's

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Speaker 2: big winner. Congratulations for what, oh maybe you don't know.

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Speaker 2: Every single month, we choose one of our Rewards Card

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Speaker 2: members to say thank you very much for being such

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Speaker 2: a loyal customer and shopping with us by giving them

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Speaker 2: free flowers delivered anywhere in the country from our flooral

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Speaker 2: department we do deliver now, trying to get the word

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Speaker 2: out and also saying thank you very much for being

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Speaker 2: such a loyal customer. So what you want is thirty

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Speaker 2: six long stem red roses, a box of chocolates, and

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Speaker 2: a card to be delivered to anybody that you want.

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Speaker 2: It's absolutely free. It's actually a two hundred and forty

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Speaker 2: seven dollars value.

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, okay, that's cool.

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Speaker 2: So if you know who you want to send it to,

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Speaker 2: I can take the information down in just a couple

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Speaker 2: of minutes on the phone. I can set up a

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Speaker 2: time to call you back. Unless you know who you

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Speaker 2: want to send it to right now.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I can. I can just tell you how to

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Speaker 7: send it to now.

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Speaker 2: So we'll just start with the name, the first name,

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Speaker 2: first and last name of the person that you would

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Speaker 2: like to send them to.

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Speaker 7: Uh, we can go with Scara, all.

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Speaker 2: Right, and is there? It does come with a card.

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Speaker 2: Would you like to put a message on a card?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, sure, that'd be great.

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Speaker 2: Okay, go for it. I can take that down for

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Speaker 2: you right now.

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Speaker 7: Okay. It's thank you for helping me help myself. I

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Speaker 7: owe you so much. I'm falling harder for you every day.

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Speaker 2: Oh that is lovely. It's probably not lovely to your girlfriend, Gwenn.

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Speaker 2: What who is on the phone right now?

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Speaker 1: You're a piece of This.

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Speaker 2: Is the Jubile Show, Eddie. It's a radio show and

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Speaker 2: we do a segment where we try to catch people

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Speaker 2: cheating by seeing who those flowers to. And that's what

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Speaker 2: this whole thing is. So I'm here.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I'm here, Nina, and you're busted. Bro.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Hey it's Victoria and your girlfriend Gwenno is on

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Speaker 1: Wow, this is every funeral. I was there for you

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Speaker 1: each time, and this is what you do. This is

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Speaker 1: what you do to me. I'm selfish. You're horrible, You're horrible.

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Speaker 1: You're such a piece of crap.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, well who is Sarah?

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Speaker 4: And how do you know her?

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Speaker 7: Sarah happened to be my AA sponsor.

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Speaker 2: Okay, this is a.

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Speaker 1: That makes it an audition, Like what.

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Speaker 7: I'm just seeing her? You know, I thought I was

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Speaker 7: seeing her guitars because in the flowers with the vide,

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Speaker 7: I just wanted to thankful for helping me.

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Speaker 5: And what about falling harder for her every day? That's

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Speaker 5: total bullsh and you know it, how long has this

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Speaker 7: I mean I don't know how to explain that. I mean,

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Speaker 7: there's nothing going on. It's just like she's a sponsor.

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Speaker 1: She helps me.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you're making that up now after the fact, Eddie.

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Speaker 4: We all heard him say that, right, I'm falling more

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Speaker 4: for you every day.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, I'm falling harder for you every day.

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Speaker 5: And this leg because you you sound like you have

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Speaker 5: no remorse whatsoever, Like you're totally like this is normal,

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Speaker 5: Like this is okay.

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Speaker 1: How are you so calm? How are you so.

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Speaker 7: Because there's not what you think? That was just being

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Speaker 7: kind and saying that I wasn't.

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Speaker 4: I didn't mean that.

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Speaker 1: Why are you falling for her? That's not kind. That's

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Speaker 1: you admitting that you have feelings.

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Speaker 4: Also, isn't that like breaking a rule over recovery. Shouldn't

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Speaker 4: you not get into relationships, especially with your sponsor?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, well you know what, I called book on that

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Speaker 5: as well, because your sponsor's name, if I'm not mistaken.

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Speaker 1: Is Derek not Sarah.

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Speaker 7: Well, Sarah is like a sponsor because she's also in

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Speaker 7: AA and we've been getting really close and she's also

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Speaker 5: Yeah, you know what, And I was like a girlfriend

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Speaker 5: to you because now I'm an ex and all you're

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Speaker 5: going to be in front of the house, so you

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Speaker 5: were like a resident of our house, and now you're

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Speaker 5: like homeless. Okay, so just remember all these lights and

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Speaker 5: maybe okay, it.

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Speaker 7: Doesn't have to go to if I'm just saying that

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Speaker 7: she understands that.

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Speaker 5: Far about her being your sponsor.

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Speaker 1: Do you realize that? Do you realize.

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Speaker 5: No, she's kind of like a mistress because she is.

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Speaker 5: What's wrong with you? How are you that delusional? You're

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Speaker 5: such an I can't believe I dedicated my time and

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Speaker 5: energy to your trauma.

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Speaker 1: You just you're just one big regret.

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Speaker 7: I just needed an addition of support, that's all.

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Speaker 4: Like the oopsie as I fell down on you. Support.

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Speaker 4: I mean, he didn't actually say it. And Eddie, why

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Speaker 4: don't you just say.

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Speaker 1: It and say what I didn't?

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Speaker 7: I didn't do anything. I'm not cheating.

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Speaker 5: Okay, Well, now you can get all the support you

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Speaker 5: need from Pharaoh. So enjoy your new life and enjoy

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Speaker 5: her mattress.

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Speaker 2: Gwenny hung up. Oh, I'm sorry, so sorry.

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Speaker 5: You know I'm sorry, but I'm a little relieved. Now

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Speaker 5: I know I'm not crazy. Yeah, I mean, now you

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Speaker 5: know I'm not. I'm just done. I'm done. I'm just

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Speaker 2: And you'll hear you know, You'll find you'll find the

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Speaker 2: right person. Obviously it wasn't meant to be, but it is.

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Speaker 2: I do know that feeling, though it's terrible, but also

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Speaker 2: at least now you know and take that.

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Speaker 4: Energy you're putting into his trauma and put it right

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Speaker 4: into you.

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Speaker 1: Thank you so much, this is Oh God.

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Speaker 2: Let us know if you need anything.

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Speaker 1: Okay, yeahs

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Speaker 4: So you will show to catch a cheater.