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Speaker 1: Hi am Kate Hudson, and my name is Oliver Hudson.

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Speaker 2: We wanted to do something that highlighted our relationship.

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Speaker 1: And what it's like to be siblings. We are a

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Speaker 1: sibling railvalry.

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Speaker 2: No, no, sibling, don't do that with your mouth, sibling revelry.

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Speaker 1: That's good. Oliver Hudson reporting live from Wilder Hudson's room.

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Speaker 1: Once again. It is twelve to ten and the kid

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Speaker 1: has come into his room unexpected. He's supposed to be

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Speaker 1: at school. Why aren't you at school number one for

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Speaker 1: your period? But that doesn't mean you can come home. No,

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Speaker 1: So I'm still gonna do this podcast from your room, buddy,

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Speaker 1: I need to I'm all set up. The people are

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Speaker 1: in the waiting room right now. Just hang out, Wilder.

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Speaker 1: I'm all settled in. Go into my room. My room

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Speaker 1: is better than your room anyway. Just go into my room.

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Speaker 1: Watch there he is. He's leaving his own room because

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Speaker 1: guess what I paid for this house. I paid for

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Speaker 1: this house. Thank you, thank you very much, love you.

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Speaker 1: All these clothes and computer this is all mine because

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Speaker 1: it's my money. Get out of here. It's Wilder Hudson. Everybody,

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Speaker 1: I mean, the kids, supposed to be home at three thirty,

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Speaker 1: not not twelve ten. He has a free period and

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Speaker 1: he comes home anyway, that was the intro. My intro

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Speaker 1: is my son introing into his own room. But let's

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Speaker 1: get to it because our ladies are in the waiting

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Speaker 1: room right now. They're triplets and they're all obgyns. Incredible. Actually,

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Speaker 1: I guess you could see one or then you could

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Speaker 1: see the other. I mean, how do they work that out?

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Speaker 1: I mean one can cover for the other. I mean

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Speaker 1: there's all kinds of things that they can go down.

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Speaker 1: These are doctors Joanna, Sarah and Victoria Badell, and let's

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Speaker 1: bring them in to get into this. How are you, guys,

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Speaker 1: I'm good. I'm not even gonna try to distinguish voices

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Speaker 1: with three people in general who are not triplets. It's

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Speaker 1: hard enough. So we're just gonna say this is the Bedells. Yes,

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Speaker 1: but this is great. Thank you guys for coming on.

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Speaker 1: This is so interesting.

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Speaker 3: We were actually just talking about how we don't think

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Speaker 3: that we're particularly interesting, but it's okay.

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Speaker 1: Well I don't know you. I don't I mean, maybe

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Speaker 1: you're not interesting personally, which I doubt.

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Speaker 4: That that's right, she's the boring one.

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Speaker 1: Are you the boring one?

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Speaker 4: I don't think so she's the least funny? Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Really who is the funniest I don't know.

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Speaker 3: Just my answer to that is always not Sarah.

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Speaker 1: Who's the who is the last born?

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Speaker 4: Sorry to label it correctly. Yeah, so I'm Joanna Sarah,

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Speaker 4: then Vicky.

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Speaker 1: Vicky Joanna Sarah Vicky from my left to my right. Well,

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Speaker 1: thank you guys for coming on. This is really a treat.

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Speaker 1: I mean the fact that you guys are all you

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Speaker 1: have your own practice together now, right? Was there ever?

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Speaker 1: I know that your was your mother and obi, yes, right, yeah.

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Speaker 4: We actually we practice with our mom as well.

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Speaker 1: Still yes, is she still the matriarch?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Like is she still? Do we still listen to mom?

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Speaker 1: Meaning like all right, Mom, come on, like let me

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Speaker 3: There's there's a mix of that, but she we always

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Speaker 3: end up listening to her.

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Speaker 1: I think you do you still? You don't? You don't?

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Speaker 1: You don't go against mom.

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Speaker 3: It takes a lot to go against Yeah, I mean

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Speaker 1: Not to her face? You know it's always you know,

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Speaker 1: it's your it's your it's your mom. I mean, you

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Speaker 1: you're like, okay, yeah, okay, mom, you know, thank you,

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Speaker 1: thanks for the advice, but you know, the kids are fine,

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Speaker 1: everything's going to be fine. So you guys almost didn't

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Speaker 1: have a choice, I mean, growing up in this world,

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Speaker 1: first live birth at what eight years old? Right? Do

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Speaker 1: you remember that experience because it seems to be a

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because there were a lot there are a lot

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Speaker 1: All right, that's well, that's what I was about to ask.

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Speaker 1: At such a young age, you know, how was that?

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Speaker 1: Because obviously there's the miracle and the beauty of what

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Speaker 1: it's completely insane. But as an eight year old, are

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Speaker 4: You're not thinking about that?

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Speaker 3: then our mom afterwards, wasn't that so cool?

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Speaker 1: But was it kind of a moment where she pulls

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm like all right, stand over there, Okay,

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Speaker 1: Were you asking for this?

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Speaker 3: I don't remember asking, don't. It was just kind of

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Speaker 3: very well. Can my daughters come in? It was kind

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Speaker 3: bring them in. I don't think this would be allowed nowadays.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, totally. I mean, yeah, my mom brought me to

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Speaker 1: like sets, you know, like comes to your mom work.

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Speaker 1: You know this is different. It's like, hey, come see

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Speaker 4: But you're right. The offer was do you want to

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Speaker 4: come to work with me with no, like you want

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Speaker 4: to close your eyes right here? Like hey, maybe maybe not.

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Speaker 4: You're allowed to say now.

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Speaker 3: Also, but also certainly we had gone to work with

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Speaker 4: That was very unexpected.

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Speaker 3: Never seen staples in like a person, and then being

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Speaker 4: For some reason?

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh gosh, wow.

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Speaker 4: So that was not when we decided to become.

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Speaker 1: You know, of course that was not, but it was

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Speaker 1: imprinted somewhere in your memory, you know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: You know, it's funny because I was just I was

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Speaker 1: this on another podcast. We were talking about nepotism, you know,

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Speaker 1: to have been attributed or seems to be attributed to,

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Speaker 1: like the entertainment industry, you know what I mean. But

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Speaker 1: I always say that's bullshit. I mean, nepotism is exists

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Speaker 1: across all jobs, all facets. You know, if you're a

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Speaker 1: your son get into that bang. It's gonna happen, you

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Speaker 1: we love what our parents did, and if we can

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Speaker 1: get a leg up, you get a leg up. You know.

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Speaker 1: So how much was that in play with you guys?

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Speaker 1: Not necessarily nepotism, because you have to go to medical school.

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Speaker 1: You got to work your way through. But at what

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Speaker 1: point were you all three? And it's interesting being triplets

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Speaker 1: because when you're dealing with different age gaps, you know,

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Speaker 1: just different different influences, different times of life. But it's

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Speaker 3: It's so funny that you say that just with nepotism

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Speaker 3: in general, because even obviously that's a topic now that

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Speaker 3: That's my bias. Yeah, and I'm just gonna say ended

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Speaker 1: Was that kind of the same with all you guys

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Speaker 1: don't know, we'll see.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I think generally yes, And then you know, you

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Speaker 3: And I think going through OBGYN it was just something

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Speaker 4: I'm not starting from zero.

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Speaker 3: And with us, I guess you know, we all had

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Speaker 3: They're there for actually a really special thing that you

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Speaker 3: And now we're taking care of patients that our mom delivered,

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Speaker 1: don't enough estrogen and then no, no, no, you know

432
00:24:35,160 --> 00:24:37,960
Speaker 1: it's like the bloating and the sensitive breasts, and it's

433
00:24:38,000 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 1: like it's almost like this fine balance at least yes, her,

434
00:24:42,119 --> 00:24:43,040
Speaker 1: it seems.

435
00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:49,160
Speaker 3: Yeah, especially in perimenopause, right, just because you're still having

436
00:24:49,240 --> 00:24:52,680
Speaker 3: so many just natural hormone fluctuations that it can be

437
00:24:52,800 --> 00:24:56,040
Speaker 3: hard to Yeah, it can be hard to catch up

438
00:24:56,119 --> 00:24:59,600
Speaker 3: with medicine with that, but yeah, stick with it.

439
00:25:00,000 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 4: It's worth it.

440
00:25:01,359 --> 00:25:04,119
Speaker 1: No, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, No, I know, I know

441
00:25:04,359 --> 00:25:08,679
Speaker 1: she's uh, she's a trooper for sure. But I want

442
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,399
Speaker 1: to get back to one thing you said earlier. Joanna

443
00:25:11,440 --> 00:25:17,479
Speaker 1: said earlier, you got into the practice because men are

444
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:22,520
Speaker 1: horrible patients. I have to I want you to expand

445
00:25:22,600 --> 00:25:24,919
Speaker 1: on that a little bit because I think I agree

446
00:25:25,000 --> 00:25:29,760
Speaker 1: with you. You know, but I'm wondering where that comes from.

447
00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,639
Speaker 1: How are they horrible? How are they worse?

448
00:25:33,240 --> 00:25:36,359
Speaker 3: I have a theory and sometimes and it's funny, I

449
00:25:36,920 --> 00:25:38,879
Speaker 3: talked to my patients about this. Sometimes when you're like,

450
00:25:38,920 --> 00:25:41,600
Speaker 3: oh man, my husband, like he doesn't understand any of this,

451
00:25:41,960 --> 00:25:45,080
Speaker 3: and I think it's because from a very young age,

452
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:49,320
Speaker 3: girls start getting their period, like sometimes when they start

453
00:25:49,800 --> 00:25:53,679
Speaker 3: nine years old, So at some point, at a very

454
00:25:53,720 --> 00:25:56,919
Speaker 3: young age, girls are already paying attention to their bodies,

455
00:25:57,320 --> 00:26:01,120
Speaker 3: like by force, you have to pay attention, So we're

456
00:26:01,200 --> 00:26:03,720
Speaker 3: just kind of naturally doing that from a young age,

457
00:26:03,840 --> 00:26:06,520
Speaker 3: Like what you boys have to pay attention to the

458
00:26:07,720 --> 00:26:09,680
Speaker 3: like yeah, I'm fine, I'm fine, I'm fine. I don't

459
00:26:09,680 --> 00:26:11,560
Speaker 3: need to go to the doctor. I'm fine, nothing's going on.

460
00:26:12,000 --> 00:26:15,080
Speaker 3: Yeah yeah, where they just ask another boy and they're like, yeah,

461
00:26:15,160 --> 00:26:15,640
Speaker 3: you're good.

462
00:26:16,240 --> 00:26:19,720
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're like what is this thing on my knee?

463
00:26:19,800 --> 00:26:21,159
Speaker 1: Like I don't know, You're fine.

464
00:26:22,440 --> 00:26:27,560
Speaker 4: Right, Yeah. I definitely noticed, like it's gonna say I

465
00:26:27,800 --> 00:26:28,640
Speaker 4: look young.

466
00:26:28,600 --> 00:26:32,280
Speaker 3: And I definitely did, like in medical school, and I

467
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:36,600
Speaker 3: really felt treated that way, like whenever you're walking around

468
00:26:36,640 --> 00:26:38,880
Speaker 3: with the team of doctors, you're the girl on the team,

469
00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 3: you look the youngest, you appear maybe to me, I

470
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:45,480
Speaker 3: don't know, like the most ignorable and like I don't know,

471
00:26:45,680 --> 00:26:47,280
Speaker 3: I could it felt like men.

472
00:26:48,040 --> 00:26:50,359
Speaker 4: Some of the men talk to me like that, like

473
00:26:50,520 --> 00:26:53,800
Speaker 4: not looking at me or like okay. There was one

474
00:26:53,840 --> 00:26:55,480
Speaker 4: time I walked into a room because they would send

475
00:26:55,480 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 4: the medical students to do different things and uh, the

476
00:26:59,240 --> 00:27:00,040
Speaker 4: guy in the bed.

477
00:27:05,840 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 1: Even like an audible.

478
00:27:10,800 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 3: You're here anyway, and just you know, little things like that.

479
00:27:14,720 --> 00:27:17,520
Speaker 3: And it was very easy to notice that women didn't

480
00:27:17,600 --> 00:27:21,080
Speaker 3: do that, just straight up they didn't do that.

481
00:27:21,280 --> 00:27:23,440
Speaker 4: Or you could tell like you're trying to explain something

482
00:27:23,520 --> 00:27:26,879
Speaker 4: to them and they're like, uh huh uh huh, thank you,

483
00:27:27,080 --> 00:27:29,760
Speaker 4: you know what, you remind me of my daughter.

484
00:27:30,359 --> 00:27:32,600
Speaker 1: Oh gosh, So you could just.

485
00:27:32,640 --> 00:27:35,360
Speaker 4: Tell that it felt like they weren't taking me very seriously,

486
00:27:35,520 --> 00:27:37,639
Speaker 4: and women just by comparison, didn't do that.

487
00:27:38,880 --> 00:27:42,399
Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, But I wonder if there's something even overall

488
00:27:43,119 --> 00:27:46,760
Speaker 1: where men are just wimpier just generally when it comes

489
00:27:46,800 --> 00:27:50,480
Speaker 1: to medical stuff like I don't want to needle like

490
00:27:51,040 --> 00:27:53,399
Speaker 1: you know, you know, and women are just just tougher

491
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,159
Speaker 1: just generally when it comes to this.

492
00:27:55,880 --> 00:27:58,520
Speaker 4: Definitely, definitely, I don't know.

493
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:00,440
Speaker 1: Well, let me let me ask a question. And actually,

494
00:28:00,480 --> 00:28:03,440
Speaker 1: because you your patients are women, but you see men

495
00:28:03,520 --> 00:28:07,800
Speaker 1: all the time because the fathers, right, So, how how

496
00:28:07,920 --> 00:28:10,400
Speaker 1: has that sort of been Do you get all kinds

497
00:28:10,400 --> 00:28:13,480
Speaker 1: of different dads in there, you know, some were really

498
00:28:13,600 --> 00:28:17,680
Speaker 1: into it, some who are just nutty. I mean, yes,

499
00:28:17,840 --> 00:28:18,320
Speaker 1: but a.

500
00:28:18,400 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 3: Weird common theme is a lot of them wear Star

501
00:28:21,560 --> 00:28:23,200
Speaker 3: Wars theme shirts to the deliveries.

502
00:28:24,119 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: Are you kidding me?

503
00:28:25,560 --> 00:28:26,080
Speaker 4: Not kidding?

504
00:28:26,680 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 3: What?

505
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:27,880
Speaker 4: Yeah?

506
00:28:28,000 --> 00:28:28,160
Speaker 5: Why?

507
00:28:28,440 --> 00:28:28,680
Speaker 1: Why?

508
00:28:30,000 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 4: Unclear? I didn't notice, just not paying attention.

509
00:28:36,240 --> 00:28:37,720
Speaker 1: That is so funny.

510
00:28:38,360 --> 00:28:38,880
Speaker 4: Mm hmmm.

511
00:28:39,320 --> 00:28:42,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, there are all kinds of dads. I would actually

512
00:28:42,160 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 3: say most of the dads that we've encountered have actually

513
00:28:45,120 --> 00:28:45,840
Speaker 3: been pretty good.

514
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:49,880
Speaker 4: Yeah. Some of them have more questions, some of them

515
00:28:50,000 --> 00:28:54,880
Speaker 4: have no questions. Yeah, it's a whole range. Yeah, yeah,

516
00:28:54,920 --> 00:28:56,320
Speaker 4: but I don't know that's not them.

517
00:28:57,280 --> 00:28:59,400
Speaker 3: I'm going to put another no in the mail column.

518
00:28:59,560 --> 00:29:02,640
Speaker 3: I don't think that that's the fairest time to assess,

519
00:29:03,040 --> 00:29:06,000
Speaker 3: because you know, they're coming in a little happier.

520
00:29:06,520 --> 00:29:10,000
Speaker 4: I didn't they know whatever. Our patients are very nice,

521
00:29:10,080 --> 00:29:12,800
Speaker 4: but like, how am I supposed to behave in this situation?

522
00:29:12,920 --> 00:29:14,680
Speaker 4: But better be extra nice? I better be that.

523
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:15,480
Speaker 1: I don't know.

524
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:17,520
Speaker 4: It's kind of a biased time.

525
00:29:17,840 --> 00:29:22,440
Speaker 3: Yeah, it's generally a happy, exciting time. And yeah they're anxious,

526
00:29:22,520 --> 00:29:25,160
Speaker 3: but usually happy anxious.

527
00:29:26,240 --> 00:29:29,640
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, until it goes wrong, Like you know, I mean,

528
00:29:29,920 --> 00:29:33,200
Speaker 1: there's all again, it's beautiful ninety percent of the time,

529
00:29:33,280 --> 00:29:35,280
Speaker 1: but you guys have to deal with a lot of

530
00:29:35,360 --> 00:29:38,920
Speaker 1: heartbreaking stuff as well, you know. I mean that's part

531
00:29:38,960 --> 00:29:40,040
Speaker 1: of the job, right.

532
00:29:41,200 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 5: Yeah.

533
00:29:42,000 --> 00:29:45,640
Speaker 3: Things can definitely, you know, change in an instant from

534
00:29:46,080 --> 00:29:50,760
Speaker 3: exciting to really really scary, and emergencies can happen.

535
00:29:51,120 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 5: Yeah.

536
00:29:51,520 --> 00:29:53,160
Speaker 4: Yeah, it's just one of those fields.

537
00:29:54,280 --> 00:29:55,520
Speaker 1: How do you deal with that? Do you have to

538
00:29:55,600 --> 00:29:58,200
Speaker 1: sort of do you have to separate yourself a little

539
00:29:58,200 --> 00:30:00,120
Speaker 1: bit from the emotion of it?

540
00:30:00,840 --> 00:30:04,120
Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, certainly in the moment, we're all well

541
00:30:04,200 --> 00:30:07,480
Speaker 3: trained to handle the emergency at hand, and you're really

542
00:30:07,640 --> 00:30:10,920
Speaker 3: not thinking about the emotional part, like when you're in

543
00:30:11,120 --> 00:30:16,040
Speaker 3: the uh you know, kind of leads with things. But afterwards,

544
00:30:16,360 --> 00:30:18,760
Speaker 3: really that kind of stuff hits me when I get

545
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,440
Speaker 3: home or like on the drive away from the hospital.

546
00:30:23,440 --> 00:30:25,640
Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean, and it is nice in those

547
00:30:25,680 --> 00:30:29,040
Speaker 3: situations to at least work with family where everybody is

548
00:30:29,840 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 3: immediately understanding as to what happened. I mean, even medically,

549
00:30:33,400 --> 00:30:35,040
Speaker 3: you like don't even have to go through what the

550
00:30:35,080 --> 00:30:37,600
Speaker 3: emergency was, you know, because they're all.

551
00:30:39,040 --> 00:30:43,320
Speaker 4: Totally understanding what just happened. And for the emotional support part,

552
00:30:43,640 --> 00:30:46,520
Speaker 4: or we were literally there or we were there together

553
00:30:47,040 --> 00:30:51,800
Speaker 4: a good amount of the time. So yeah, that's been helpful.

554
00:31:01,520 --> 00:31:03,400
Speaker 1: So how does one choose one of you?

555
00:31:03,560 --> 00:31:03,840
Speaker 3: Guys?

556
00:31:04,040 --> 00:31:06,960
Speaker 1: It's like you're triplets. Okay, let's see, like you know,

557
00:31:07,000 --> 00:31:09,880
Speaker 1: they're all great, and they're all the they're all very similar,

558
00:31:10,640 --> 00:31:14,800
Speaker 1: you know, like you're nicer than you if beds does

559
00:31:14,880 --> 00:31:16,800
Speaker 1: anybody be like Liz, does the one of you have

560
00:31:16,920 --> 00:31:20,000
Speaker 1: better bedside manner than the other or you know what

561
00:31:20,040 --> 00:31:22,760
Speaker 1: I'm saying, like or is it just they get all

562
00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: of you? If if my wife is coming in into

563
00:31:25,840 --> 00:31:27,720
Speaker 1: your practice, like we had all three.

564
00:31:28,560 --> 00:31:31,080
Speaker 4: Yes, so yeah, so.

565
00:31:32,600 --> 00:31:36,960
Speaker 3: We would rotate kind of you know, the first visit

566
00:31:37,000 --> 00:31:39,800
Speaker 3: and you see Joanna and then Sarah than Vicki and

567
00:31:40,320 --> 00:31:43,000
Speaker 3: we have our own individual call schedule.

568
00:31:43,160 --> 00:31:47,600
Speaker 4: So whatever day happened to fall on delivery for the delivery,

569
00:31:47,720 --> 00:31:49,120
Speaker 4: then that's the doctor that you got.

570
00:31:49,280 --> 00:31:51,640
Speaker 3: But we would make efforts if it wasn't in the

571
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,440
Speaker 3: middle of the night to have like two of us

572
00:31:54,520 --> 00:31:58,320
Speaker 3: come show up at the delivery or in rare cases,

573
00:31:58,360 --> 00:31:58,800
Speaker 3: all three.

574
00:32:00,560 --> 00:32:04,320
Speaker 4: If it just happened to work out that way, then yeah,

575
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:05,640
Speaker 4: or who was it?

576
00:32:06,440 --> 00:32:10,120
Speaker 3: There were patients that delivered the day you delivered, Yeah,

577
00:32:10,560 --> 00:32:14,160
Speaker 3: oh yeah, we were all there. Yeah, they and I

578
00:32:14,400 --> 00:32:16,600
Speaker 3: delivered babies the day that Joanna.

579
00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:22,239
Speaker 4: Had her baby, just question, you're not asked. They were

580
00:32:22,320 --> 00:32:23,040
Speaker 4: not my obi.

581
00:32:23,520 --> 00:32:27,000
Speaker 1: That was literally going to be my next question. I've said,

582
00:32:27,040 --> 00:32:29,160
Speaker 1: you guys have kids, Yes.

583
00:32:29,480 --> 00:32:32,280
Speaker 4: Well they do. I'm pregnant now, oh look at.

584
00:32:32,240 --> 00:32:38,600
Speaker 1: You congratulations amazing. Yeah wait, so you are not delivering

585
00:32:39,320 --> 00:32:40,680
Speaker 1: your sister's kids.

586
00:32:41,120 --> 00:32:45,080
Speaker 4: Absolutely not. Why why we established that boundary?

587
00:32:45,880 --> 00:32:49,120
Speaker 3: No, even before any of us got pregnant, we talked

588
00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,360
Speaker 3: about it and at first like, oh, that would be

589
00:32:51,440 --> 00:32:54,840
Speaker 3: so so cool, but then you know, the reality sets

590
00:32:54,880 --> 00:32:57,800
Speaker 3: in of well, if there truly was an emergency, like

591
00:32:57,920 --> 00:33:00,280
Speaker 3: God forbid you had to rush into a sea section

592
00:33:00,400 --> 00:33:03,680
Speaker 3: on your sister, and you're like, it's really scary, and

593
00:33:03,840 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 3: if God forbid anything were to go wrong or happened, like.

594
00:33:06,520 --> 00:33:08,920
Speaker 4: How do you live with that guilt of like yeah,

595
00:33:09,080 --> 00:33:09,240
Speaker 4: you know.

596
00:33:09,440 --> 00:33:13,200
Speaker 3: So it was just no, but we were present for

597
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 3: all of the deliveries.

598
00:33:15,160 --> 00:33:18,440
Speaker 4: At the leg holders. Yeah. Yeah, but it was also

599
00:33:18,720 --> 00:33:19,440
Speaker 4: a really good thing.

600
00:33:19,560 --> 00:33:24,000
Speaker 3: So Joanna, her daughter Jane, was the first baby that

601
00:33:24,200 --> 00:33:27,560
Speaker 3: was born amongst the three of us, and we were

602
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:32,600
Speaker 3: all there and as soon as she was born, instantly

603
00:33:32,760 --> 00:33:35,680
Speaker 3: all of us were just an inconsolable.

604
00:33:35,000 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 4: Tears, like happy tears. Yeah, and so we.

605
00:33:37,600 --> 00:33:39,920
Speaker 3: Definitely had a moment after of like if I was

606
00:33:40,040 --> 00:33:42,880
Speaker 3: delivering your baby, like I wouldn't have been able to.

607
00:33:43,000 --> 00:33:46,920
Speaker 1: Do anything, right, Yeah, I think that's so smart though,

608
00:33:47,120 --> 00:33:50,880
Speaker 1: really you know, yeah, it worked out. I guess it

609
00:33:50,920 --> 00:33:53,760
Speaker 1: out weighs all the fun you could have like push, bitch,

610
00:33:54,000 --> 00:33:57,040
Speaker 1: like what like, what are you doing? You got nothing?

611
00:33:57,200 --> 00:34:01,800
Speaker 4: You know? So actually that is yeah. When I when

612
00:34:01,880 --> 00:34:03,560
Speaker 4: I had my person, I was pushing.

613
00:34:04,000 --> 00:34:05,880
Speaker 3: It took like an hour and I couldn't feel anything,

614
00:34:05,960 --> 00:34:08,360
Speaker 3: and they were both holding my legs and it's like,

615
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:09,680
Speaker 3: am I doing okay?

616
00:34:09,960 --> 00:34:13,480
Speaker 4: And they were like, yeah, you're doing greage?

617
00:34:16,800 --> 00:34:21,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, same, Yeah, you can raz each other and

618
00:34:21,680 --> 00:34:22,200
Speaker 1: it's okay.

619
00:34:22,400 --> 00:34:22,600
Speaker 5: Yeah.

620
00:34:25,080 --> 00:34:26,920
Speaker 1: So I have a twelve year old daughter. I have

621
00:34:26,960 --> 00:34:30,000
Speaker 1: two boys and my little girls in this. Since you've

622
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:35,440
Speaker 1: been practicing, have you seen any shift or change in

623
00:34:35,680 --> 00:34:37,960
Speaker 1: young girls sort of getting their period? Has it? Has

624
00:34:38,040 --> 00:34:41,719
Speaker 1: it gotten earlier? Are we is it we're talking about

625
00:34:42,280 --> 00:34:44,680
Speaker 1: you know, environmental stuff, foods?

626
00:34:45,760 --> 00:34:45,920
Speaker 5: You know?

627
00:34:46,000 --> 00:34:47,560
Speaker 1: Have we have we seen this at all?

628
00:34:48,160 --> 00:34:51,040
Speaker 3: So I actually maybe not like since we've been practicing,

629
00:34:51,120 --> 00:34:55,960
Speaker 3: but certainly since we were little and compared to this

630
00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:58,680
Speaker 3: day and age, the actual age of the onset of

631
00:34:58,800 --> 00:35:02,719
Speaker 3: periods has shifted towards a little bit younger, and what's

632
00:35:02,800 --> 00:35:07,880
Speaker 3: considered a normal range of first period is has shifted

633
00:35:07,920 --> 00:35:13,120
Speaker 3: to a younger age. I don't know we can account

634
00:35:13,200 --> 00:35:18,080
Speaker 3: for like one specific environmental thing to explain that, but

635
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:19,239
Speaker 3: I mean it's got.

636
00:35:19,280 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 1: To be something environment It's got to be something, right, Yeah, yeah.

637
00:35:25,560 --> 00:35:28,640
Speaker 3: I don't know, but I always I can't imagine getting

638
00:35:29,400 --> 00:35:34,080
Speaker 3: a period at age nine or whenever I hear patients. Yeah,

639
00:35:34,200 --> 00:35:36,800
Speaker 3: girls as young as eight and nine can get periods,

640
00:35:36,800 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 3: and I just always feel bad for my patients where

641
00:35:40,160 --> 00:35:42,719
Speaker 3: that was their experience, because that must have been a

642
00:35:43,080 --> 00:35:43,920
Speaker 3: very scary day.

643
00:35:44,280 --> 00:35:48,320
Speaker 1: Guy. Sure, oh yeah, oh gosh, no, I know. I

644
00:35:48,400 --> 00:35:50,680
Speaker 1: mean we're a very open family, you know.

645
00:35:51,520 --> 00:35:51,719
Speaker 3: Rio.

646
00:35:52,000 --> 00:35:55,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes Rio, she's like, I need to talk to mommy.

647
00:35:55,640 --> 00:35:57,120
Speaker 1: I'm like, what about me? She goes, I got to

648
00:35:57,160 --> 00:35:59,759
Speaker 1: talk to mom. I'm like, I'm like, did you get

649
00:35:59,760 --> 00:36:06,400
Speaker 1: your period? She's like, dad, daddy, you know. But at

650
00:36:06,440 --> 00:36:08,319
Speaker 1: the same time, like I could be with her when

651
00:36:08,400 --> 00:36:11,040
Speaker 1: that happens, you know, I mean, that's a it's a thing,

652
00:36:11,560 --> 00:36:14,440
Speaker 1: you know, is that that dads have to sort of

653
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Speaker 1: potentially deal with that first time.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's funny that you say that because even though

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Speaker 3: our dad was a gynecologist, any period question that I

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Speaker 3: had for myself mom, like, no, I would.

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Speaker 4: Have asked them. I wouldn't. I want to ask my

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Speaker 4: mom either.

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Speaker 3: I was the last to get my period, So yeah,

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Speaker 3: any period facing question them first, then maybe mom.

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Speaker 4: And then never dead.

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Speaker 1: Amazing. That is so funny. Well, you guys, this is

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Speaker 1: We've done I don't know, hundreds of podcasts and this

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Speaker 1: has been the most interesting one. I mean, I've never

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Speaker 1: talked about periods and vaginas more in my life. But first, yeah, well,

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Speaker 1: you know, I think you have to be. I think

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Speaker 1: dudes have to They have to be. It's just part

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Speaker 1: of being.

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Speaker 4: Thank you, It's true. Yeah, not on really feels that way,

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Speaker 4: but yeah, I agree. It makes a difference, it does.

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Speaker 1: It just makes life a little bit easier too, you know.

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Speaker 1: I mean if you have a knowledge, if you have

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Speaker 1: some knowledge, if you're going to understand what's going on biologically,

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Speaker 1: and then you may not take things so personally, you

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Speaker 1: know what I mean. Sure that's what happens. Yeah, but

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Speaker 1: this has been awesome. You know, where are you guys?

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Speaker 1: By the way, where do you live?

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Speaker 4: Miami? Miami?

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Speaker 1: You're in Miami. Okay, well cool, I appreciate you. Thank

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Speaker 1: you for taking the time.

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Speaker 4: Well, I have one question.

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Speaker 1: You can ask me anything.

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Speaker 4: Okay, maybe we've already crossed paths.

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Speaker 3: So in nineteen ninety five, oh gosh, our family with

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Speaker 3: our debt, we were on vacation in Aspen.

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Speaker 1: Okay, just got back yesterday.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we were.

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Speaker 3: I don't remember where we were, but we were at

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Speaker 3: a hotel with our dad, and I remember our dad

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Speaker 3: coming back to the hotel room saying, guys, I just

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Speaker 3: saw Kurt Russell and Goldie Han in the hotel.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, oh man, that would have been so cool. So

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Speaker 4: if your parents or you we're like, oh, are those

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Speaker 4: triplets over there? If they were talking about triplets at

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Speaker 4: this hotel and Aspen in nineteen ninety five, like around

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Speaker 4: New Year's if I.

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Speaker 1: Could already said that, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh my god,

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Speaker 1: we would have been like eight years old. Yeah, that

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Speaker 1: is funny. Yeah, oh gosh, what do you remember what hotel?

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Speaker 4: Was it?

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Speaker 1: The Jerome No Way?

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we have to ask Phil. Yeah, that is.

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Speaker 1: Funny, amazing, amazing. Well, I will I will run it

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Speaker 1: by them. I will run by them. Triplets sometimes are

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Speaker 1: hard to forget, right, So it's like, oh, wow, right,

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Speaker 1: it's true. I'm gonna run it by because she'll remember

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Speaker 1: more than Kurt for sure, and I'll get back to you. Okay,

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Speaker 1: all right, guys, thank you so much. Yes, you have

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Speaker 1: the best day, you too, you too, Bye bye bye.

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Speaker 1: Well that was interesting. I don't think i'd be talking

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Speaker 1: about menopause and periods, but hey, Oliver Hudson, I guess

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Speaker 1: this guy, this guy all rudds and he does it all.

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Speaker 1: We can talk. Just burped into the mic. He just talked.

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Speaker 1: You know, he can talk. He can talk sports, he

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Speaker 1: can talk anxiety, he can talk feelings, and he can

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Speaker 1: talk he can talk menopause. Jack of all trades, master

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Speaker 1: of none. But that was amazing. That was fascinating, very cool.

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Speaker 1: Glad to have had them on. And now I'm leaving

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Speaker 1: because I have nothing more to say. All Rudson out,

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Speaker 1: ah