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Speaker 1: It is time now to check Steve's voicemail and if

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Speaker 1: you would like to leave Steve a message, call him

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Speaker 1: eight seven seven twenty nine Steve eight seven seven twenty

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Speaker 1: nine Steve call him number one. Steve is a woman

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Speaker 1: who needs finance relationship advice.

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Speaker 2: Hello, see Harvey. My question is I've been in a

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Speaker 2: relationship for a couple of years now, and I love

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Speaker 2: him dearly and I would do anything in the world

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Speaker 2: for him, but I just don't seem to know how

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Speaker 2: to talk to him about live. It seems like I

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Speaker 2: pay for everything. I pay rent, I pay life and gas,

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Speaker 2: I pay for a phone, I pay everything, and he

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Speaker 2: does work and he does make money, but it just

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Speaker 2: seems like he lets all that fall on me. And

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Speaker 2: I like to know how I can get the courage

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Speaker 2: to just talk to him and sit him down. I

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Speaker 2: just don't know how to do that, and I can

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Speaker 2: really use your advice. Thank you very much.

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Speaker 3: Good Well, you know what, in the very beginning you said,

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Speaker 3: I love him dearly and I would do anything for him,

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Speaker 3: And that's exactly what you are. You're doing everything for him,

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Speaker 3: including enabling him and taking care of him. So now

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Speaker 3: if you would do anything for him. I think your

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Speaker 3: bigger question would be is what is he willing to

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Speaker 3: do for you? What kind of one side of relationship

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Speaker 3: have you signed up for? So now, ma'am, it's not

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Speaker 3: about the courage. It's not courage you need. It's standards

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Speaker 3: that you need. You need, you need a sense of

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Speaker 3: who you are. You need some self value, some self esteem.

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Speaker 3: It's what you need. You don't need courage, you need

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Speaker 3: self esteem. You pay all the bills, you love him,

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Speaker 3: when you would do anything for him, Why ain't he

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Speaker 3: chipping in.

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Speaker 1: Because he's working?

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Speaker 4: Said he works.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, but you said all of it falls on you,

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Speaker 3: including him at night, so he just gets all of it.

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Speaker 4: Ma'am. This ain't about courage.

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Speaker 3: It's about self worth, value and self esteem, and it's

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Speaker 3: about you stop. Get this is this is borderline that

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Speaker 3: this is not right and you know it, but he

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Speaker 3: know it too. Yeah, but you can't allow this man

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Speaker 3: to take advantage of you because I think he knows

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Speaker 3: you will do anything for him. Come on, ma'am, you

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Speaker 3: gotta sit down and go, hey, listen, this is the

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Speaker 3: way it has to work moving forward. When you get

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Speaker 3: paid and I get paid, these are the bills that

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Speaker 3: we're splitting if that's how you're gonna do it. But

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Speaker 3: then let me explain something to you. You're not going

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Speaker 3: to have a man that's willing to take care of

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Speaker 3: me because he's proven that. What kind of man do that?

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Speaker 3: What kind of man don't? Sorry, many man, and I

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Speaker 3: don't care what new fangal relationships y'all come up with.

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Speaker 3: It's a man's job and obligation to take care of

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Speaker 3: whoever he loves.

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Speaker 4: That's our job.

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Speaker 3: I'm sorry because y'all let Instagram or some new fangled

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Speaker 3: thing come along. It's your job as a man to

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Speaker 3: take care of those you love, and that's your that's

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Speaker 3: your responsibility.

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Speaker 4: You a man, Yeah you don't. You don't get to

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Speaker 4: shuck that because you don't feel like no, no.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, all right, let's get another color in. This is

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Speaker 1: Sharon calling about her three year old grandson, Steve.

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Speaker 4: Good morning, Steve.

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Speaker 2: My name is Sharence and I have a little genius

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Speaker 2: which is my grandson that I would like.

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Speaker 1: For you to talk to. Three years old.

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Speaker 4: He knows all the planets in the universe.

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Speaker 2: He can tell you how much miles there are, you

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Speaker 2: can just tell you the different size there.

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Speaker 4: And he's only three years old.

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Speaker 2: His name is Killer, and he is rarely a gift

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Speaker 2: from God.

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Speaker 3: You know what, baby, everybody think they grand baby is

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Speaker 3: a gift from God.

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Speaker 4: Ain't nobody feelna talk to his little nutty?

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Speaker 3: I don't really know how planting and I don't give

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Speaker 3: him how many planets he is and how far they

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Speaker 3: all wait from each other.

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Speaker 4: You need to get his in there and get potty trained.

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Speaker 3: Sitting there being there, peeing on hisself and Steve boober

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Speaker 3: and individ.

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Speaker 4: That's what he doing. You need to learn something like that.

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Speaker 3: And everybody think they baby smart just because your baby

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Speaker 3: smarter than you, don't make the baby smart sitting up

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Speaker 3: in here sucking his thumb.

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Speaker 1: Sorry, Sharon Genius, I want you.

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Speaker 4: To talk to Taylor and I about talking to no

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Speaker 4: three year old.

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