1 00:00:05,559 --> 00:00:09,040 Speaker 1: Let's do a couple voicemails first, go ahead, Raymundo, Bobby. 2 00:00:08,840 --> 00:00:09,480 Speaker 2: And Eddie. 3 00:00:09,680 --> 00:00:13,560 Speaker 3: Oh my goodness, that guessing game of trying to guess 4 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:17,200 Speaker 3: each other's people had me crying. 5 00:00:17,840 --> 00:00:20,920 Speaker 4: Thank you so much, and I hope you do another one. 6 00:00:21,040 --> 00:00:21,400 Speaker 3: Thanks. 7 00:00:21,600 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 1: Did you see that video? 8 00:00:22,840 --> 00:00:23,040 Speaker 5: Yes? 9 00:00:24,120 --> 00:00:26,040 Speaker 6: Oh, I guess I can say who doctor Phil? 10 00:00:26,079 --> 00:00:28,000 Speaker 1: And yeah, you can say this up, doctor Phil? 11 00:00:28,000 --> 00:00:30,880 Speaker 6: And I know I get nervous. 12 00:00:32,320 --> 00:00:34,320 Speaker 1: That game. Who knew that game would take off like 13 00:00:34,360 --> 00:00:37,040 Speaker 1: it has? I posted that on Thursday or maybe Friday. 14 00:00:37,040 --> 00:00:39,440 Speaker 1: It's got a million views already. Uh, but yeah, that 15 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:40,600 Speaker 1: was a disaster of a game. 16 00:00:40,640 --> 00:00:41,199 Speaker 7: It really was. 17 00:00:41,479 --> 00:00:43,479 Speaker 1: Yeah, so we put it up on Friday's podcast list. 18 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:45,040 Speaker 1: You guys may have heard it. We put it up separate, 19 00:00:45,520 --> 00:00:49,200 Speaker 1: but it's also up on YouTube. And yeah, whatever, that's stupid. 20 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:51,080 Speaker 1: Give me the next one, Eddie. 21 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:55,000 Speaker 8: Ah, man, I promise I won't sue you if something 22 00:00:55,040 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 8: happens with the sauce. Can you use this reporting as 23 00:00:58,720 --> 00:01:00,920 Speaker 8: proof of that. I'll try to make get more official. 24 00:01:01,160 --> 00:01:06,720 Speaker 8: I Lonnie Thomas Wilson assume all risk and responsibility of 25 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,960 Speaker 8: obtaining and consuming Eddie Sausa. 26 00:01:10,120 --> 00:01:11,640 Speaker 7: Appreciate it all right? 27 00:01:11,840 --> 00:01:13,399 Speaker 1: Send the guy the sausa overnighted. 28 00:01:13,720 --> 00:01:15,600 Speaker 7: You have it overnighted. 29 00:01:16,200 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: Okay, why do you say that you want to spend 30 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:18,120 Speaker 1: the money on. 31 00:01:18,200 --> 00:01:21,280 Speaker 7: No, it's just it's a process, the whole ice situation 32 00:01:21,440 --> 00:01:24,319 Speaker 7: and a container that's not gonna leak, and like it 33 00:01:24,319 --> 00:01:26,360 Speaker 7: doesn't get there in a day, and then it's gonna 34 00:01:26,400 --> 00:01:27,000 Speaker 7: leak everywhere. 35 00:01:27,120 --> 00:01:28,640 Speaker 1: The boss, it's not gonna leak. You're gonna make it 36 00:01:29,080 --> 00:01:32,360 Speaker 1: talking about leaking the whole it's not an excuse. 37 00:01:32,400 --> 00:01:33,080 Speaker 7: I've thought about you. 38 00:01:33,120 --> 00:01:38,040 Speaker 1: Literally, you don't, or you would have outside you would have. Okay, 39 00:01:38,200 --> 00:01:40,440 Speaker 1: you guys voicemails. If you want to hit us up, 40 00:01:40,480 --> 00:01:44,080 Speaker 1: you can't. Eight seven seven seventy seven, Bobby, I'll go first. 41 00:01:45,000 --> 00:01:49,200 Speaker 1: This guy, Scott Dow was offered a senior operations administrator 42 00:01:49,240 --> 00:01:52,480 Speaker 1: position after a job interview last year. He's suing now 43 00:01:52,920 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: because he interviewed with FedEx. They withdrew the offer after 44 00:01:57,200 --> 00:02:00,560 Speaker 1: finding d u I, child pornography and harassment convictions on 45 00:02:00,600 --> 00:02:04,760 Speaker 1: his record. He is now suing under Pennsylvania's Criminal History 46 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:09,400 Speaker 1: Record Information Act, known as KRAYA, which bars employers from 47 00:02:09,440 --> 00:02:13,480 Speaker 1: rejecting applicants based on convictions unless they're related to the job. 48 00:02:13,919 --> 00:02:16,320 Speaker 6: Wait, well, I mean do you I could be related 49 00:02:16,360 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 6: to the job. 50 00:02:18,040 --> 00:02:19,280 Speaker 1: How about the child porn? 51 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:19,560 Speaker 2: Yeah? 52 00:02:19,600 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 7: You just no, No, you don't want him. 53 00:02:21,800 --> 00:02:25,680 Speaker 1: That's any job, that's just like every job life. And 54 00:02:25,720 --> 00:02:27,760 Speaker 1: I'm not sure what happened with this, but I'm just 55 00:02:27,800 --> 00:02:31,880 Speaker 1: reading the story. It said child pornography conviction on his record. 56 00:02:32,320 --> 00:02:36,680 Speaker 1: So this guy it's so public now, like why would 57 00:02:36,720 --> 00:02:40,760 Speaker 1: this guy sue? Move on? They're not hiring you. You 58 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,240 Speaker 1: have child porn on your record, But now that you're suing, 59 00:02:43,280 --> 00:02:45,920 Speaker 1: it's now so public that people like us who had 60 00:02:45,919 --> 00:02:47,880 Speaker 1: never even known about this story, maybe people didn't even 61 00:02:47,880 --> 00:02:49,760 Speaker 1: know about him, are now going to know he's a 62 00:02:49,760 --> 00:02:55,120 Speaker 1: freaking child porn on his record. Crazy, And if he 63 00:02:55,160 --> 00:02:57,359 Speaker 1: does get hired for some reason of the court overturns, 64 00:02:57,360 --> 00:02:59,000 Speaker 1: they have to hire him or they're just going to 65 00:02:59,040 --> 00:03:01,320 Speaker 1: find a reason to fire them. There's a paper trailum. 66 00:03:01,840 --> 00:03:03,120 Speaker 1: And also he don't get beat up. 67 00:03:03,919 --> 00:03:09,880 Speaker 6: Yeah, could he be rehabilitated or is it like I 68 00:03:09,960 --> 00:03:10,480 Speaker 6: can right? 69 00:03:11,200 --> 00:03:14,520 Speaker 1: Well, I don't know, man, child porn rehability somewhere. 70 00:03:14,240 --> 00:03:16,560 Speaker 7: Else, right, not at my company? 71 00:03:17,000 --> 00:03:17,200 Speaker 8: Right? 72 00:03:17,320 --> 00:03:23,560 Speaker 1: I know Scott Dale was conditionally offered the job. Dal 73 00:03:23,639 --> 00:03:26,639 Speaker 1: reacted by calling his attorney. It is now suing. The 74 00:03:26,720 --> 00:03:29,640 Speaker 1: lawsuit claims FedEx never explained how his specific convictions were 75 00:03:29,639 --> 00:03:35,120 Speaker 1: relevant to the position. Dude, Yeah, child porn on your record, 76 00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:35,680 Speaker 1: that's it. 77 00:03:35,760 --> 00:03:40,040 Speaker 7: What's the job? Is he like a driver or does well? 78 00:03:40,040 --> 00:03:41,640 Speaker 6: That's why I was thinking maybe the d U I 79 00:03:41,640 --> 00:03:42,320 Speaker 6: would impact it. 80 00:03:42,480 --> 00:03:44,200 Speaker 7: But even then, if you're a driver, you can be 81 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:45,320 Speaker 7: in contact with kids. 82 00:03:45,520 --> 00:03:49,480 Speaker 1: That's from Penn Live. Is that story that is it's 83 00:03:49,520 --> 00:03:53,960 Speaker 1: like the worst things, the absolute worst thing. Uh so 84 00:03:54,000 --> 00:03:56,360 Speaker 1: we don't feel sorry for you according to this story. 85 00:03:56,880 --> 00:03:57,480 Speaker 1: Any what do you have? 86 00:03:57,840 --> 00:03:58,000 Speaker 5: So? 87 00:03:58,240 --> 00:04:01,800 Speaker 6: New footage was released from the twenty twenty five crash 88 00:04:01,840 --> 00:04:04,320 Speaker 6: in DC of the plane that went into the black 89 00:04:04,360 --> 00:04:06,240 Speaker 6: Hawk or the black Hawk that went into the plane 90 00:04:06,240 --> 00:04:11,080 Speaker 6: how much? Yeah, yeah, full of the ice skaters and yeah, 91 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,000 Speaker 6: taken off from which tall and then sixty minutes had 92 00:04:14,000 --> 00:04:17,680 Speaker 6: this whole thing because this has resurfaced and they were 93 00:04:17,720 --> 00:04:22,560 Speaker 6: going through newly released footage, newly released docks and in 94 00:04:22,600 --> 00:04:25,560 Speaker 6: the docks it shows that a second incident happened just 95 00:04:25,760 --> 00:04:30,320 Speaker 6: hours later, just a few hours later, where another helicopter 96 00:04:30,440 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 6: approached as a flight from Connecticut was coming in for 97 00:04:33,120 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 6: a landing. An alarm went off on the plane and 98 00:04:36,360 --> 00:04:38,320 Speaker 6: they scrapped the landing to dodge the chopper. 99 00:04:39,440 --> 00:04:40,760 Speaker 5: Those happened, yes. 100 00:04:40,600 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 6: But sixty Minutes went on to report the air traffic 101 00:04:43,360 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 6: controllers have spent more than a decade telling the FAA 102 00:04:46,640 --> 00:04:49,680 Speaker 6: that it's dangerous to have so many helicopters and passenger 103 00:04:49,960 --> 00:04:54,960 Speaker 6: jets sharing the airspace in DC. And so, I don't know, 104 00:04:55,040 --> 00:04:58,760 Speaker 6: it just freaks me out of how many near misses 105 00:04:58,800 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 6: that there are. And yeah, to think of the airspaces 106 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:06,680 Speaker 6: that are heavy with traffic, like airplane traffic for one. 107 00:05:06,720 --> 00:05:08,280 Speaker 6: But yeah, and DC, there happens to be a lot 108 00:05:08,320 --> 00:05:12,000 Speaker 6: of helicopters too. So if they've been talking about this 109 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 6: for a decade, we might need to implement some change, 110 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:17,880 Speaker 6: Like let's go, let's focus on that instead of some 111 00:05:17,920 --> 00:05:20,800 Speaker 6: of this other ridiculous stuff. Sometimes we focus on the birds. 112 00:05:21,000 --> 00:05:21,640 Speaker 1: Freak me out. 113 00:05:21,920 --> 00:05:22,400 Speaker 6: The birds. 114 00:05:22,480 --> 00:05:23,920 Speaker 1: Geese, you can't control that. 115 00:05:24,120 --> 00:05:26,040 Speaker 6: Yeah, that's there's nothing. 116 00:05:25,839 --> 00:05:27,640 Speaker 1: Like block of birds happens to fly up right around 117 00:05:27,680 --> 00:05:30,359 Speaker 1: that time. Now, all those don't end up in horrific 118 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:34,960 Speaker 1: crashes debts, but some do. But yeah, I didn't know 119 00:05:34,960 --> 00:05:35,880 Speaker 1: there was one right after that. 120 00:05:36,080 --> 00:05:36,960 Speaker 5: Yeah, I had to avoid. 121 00:05:36,960 --> 00:05:39,360 Speaker 6: When I saw the newly released footage, I was like, 122 00:05:39,400 --> 00:05:41,280 Speaker 6: scroll pasted, scroll pasted it because I didn't want to 123 00:05:41,279 --> 00:05:44,000 Speaker 6: watch it because they said it's i mean, obviously horrific 124 00:05:44,040 --> 00:05:44,320 Speaker 6: to watch. 125 00:05:44,360 --> 00:05:46,200 Speaker 1: It's also back in the news because of that airplane 126 00:05:46,240 --> 00:05:49,080 Speaker 1: hit the fire truck, So any of the crash stuff 127 00:05:49,120 --> 00:05:51,400 Speaker 1: is now trending clickable. 128 00:05:51,640 --> 00:05:54,440 Speaker 7: Has there been footage of that crash the fire truck one? 129 00:05:54,520 --> 00:05:55,440 Speaker 1: I've only seen pictures. 130 00:05:55,480 --> 00:05:56,599 Speaker 7: Yeah, I saw simulation. 131 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,600 Speaker 1: Learning a simulation like someone drew a cartoon o. 132 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, a three D animation of kind of the of 133 00:06:02,279 --> 00:06:03,960 Speaker 7: how it went down. But I don't know how true 134 00:06:03,960 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 7: that is. 135 00:06:04,320 --> 00:06:07,000 Speaker 6: Well, you know how sometimes the video will say, you know, 136 00:06:07,440 --> 00:06:10,880 Speaker 6: you know sensitive, keep scrolling, and it'll give you like 137 00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,279 Speaker 6: five seconds to keep scrolling, and so I kept scrolling, 138 00:06:14,279 --> 00:06:16,479 Speaker 6: but I assumed it was about to show what happened. 139 00:06:16,720 --> 00:06:19,080 Speaker 1: Oh, I never saw a video, Mike, is a video? 140 00:06:19,279 --> 00:06:20,000 Speaker 7: Yeah, I've seen it? 141 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:20,279 Speaker 6: You have? 142 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 1: I is it hardcore? It's pretty far away, so you 143 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,720 Speaker 1: don't fully know what you're looking at. What's the camera? Like, 144 00:06:30,000 --> 00:06:31,240 Speaker 1: was someone doing with their phone? 145 00:06:31,279 --> 00:06:33,840 Speaker 7: No, it's like just like a camera they had security camera. 146 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:35,680 Speaker 2: Mm hmm. 147 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:37,120 Speaker 1: That sucks. 148 00:06:37,279 --> 00:06:39,479 Speaker 5: Yeah, totally all right. 149 00:06:41,000 --> 00:06:44,320 Speaker 6: So anyway, if you're flying into d C, that's up. 150 00:06:45,520 --> 00:06:49,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, hell anywhere. You really can't do anything. You can't 151 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,880 Speaker 1: do a heads up anything, like you're just sitting on 152 00:06:51,920 --> 00:06:53,400 Speaker 1: a plane. It can't be head zone. It's not like 153 00:06:53,400 --> 00:06:55,120 Speaker 1: if you're a softball game, you're watching her foul ball. 154 00:06:55,279 --> 00:06:56,240 Speaker 7: She's talking to the pilots. 155 00:06:57,320 --> 00:07:00,680 Speaker 6: Like the pilots on this one situation from Conecticut, the 156 00:07:00,680 --> 00:07:03,920 Speaker 6: plane had an alarm that went off, and they were like, oh, 157 00:07:04,560 --> 00:07:06,279 Speaker 6: aboard landing, did. 158 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:07,320 Speaker 1: The alarm go off on the other plane? 159 00:07:07,360 --> 00:07:09,760 Speaker 5: I got I guess I don't know, Okay. 160 00:07:09,640 --> 00:07:13,480 Speaker 1: Lunchbox Amy Lynn Bradley, Oh missing? 161 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:14,480 Speaker 7: We know the name? 162 00:07:14,560 --> 00:07:18,760 Speaker 1: Oh yeah yeah? He went on, Oh you show an update? 163 00:07:18,800 --> 00:07:20,200 Speaker 2: There was an update this? 164 00:07:20,400 --> 00:07:21,200 Speaker 7: How did I miss this? 165 00:07:21,360 --> 00:07:24,200 Speaker 1: So this was a Netflix show. Everybody and you know 166 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:25,880 Speaker 1: she's missing. We're not spoiling anything. 167 00:07:26,840 --> 00:07:28,440 Speaker 6: And the show called like Where's Amy? 168 00:07:28,560 --> 00:07:30,120 Speaker 7: It's called like Amy's Missing or something. 169 00:07:30,800 --> 00:07:32,119 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's called Where's Amy. 170 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:34,840 Speaker 1: No spoiler, Amy's not in this show brought to you 171 00:07:34,880 --> 00:07:39,200 Speaker 1: by Netflix. Yeah, go ahead. Twenty eight years later, the FBI. 172 00:07:40,360 --> 00:07:41,320 Speaker 2: Is looking for new leads. 173 00:07:41,760 --> 00:07:43,560 Speaker 9: They will give you twenty five thousand dollars if you 174 00:07:43,600 --> 00:07:44,680 Speaker 9: can tell us where she is. 175 00:07:44,840 --> 00:07:47,200 Speaker 1: Okay, So two things must have happened one of two things. 176 00:07:47,480 --> 00:07:49,160 Speaker 1: One they got so much pressure from the show and 177 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,200 Speaker 1: people being so curious about it, or two there have 178 00:07:51,200 --> 00:07:52,840 Speaker 1: been a couple of things that have happened since that 179 00:07:53,200 --> 00:07:55,360 Speaker 1: and all of the from the notoriety of the show. 180 00:07:55,440 --> 00:07:58,880 Speaker 1: From that, they have discovered she could possibly be alive. 181 00:07:59,160 --> 00:08:00,520 Speaker 7: Yeah, I'm going to go with option one. 182 00:08:00,680 --> 00:08:02,640 Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's just the I think the hype 183 00:08:02,640 --> 00:08:03,160 Speaker 2: from the show. 184 00:08:03,200 --> 00:08:05,400 Speaker 9: So they're like, oh, but my whole thing is twenty 185 00:08:05,400 --> 00:08:08,040 Speaker 9: five thousand dollars, Like, come on, guys, like she's been 186 00:08:08,080 --> 00:08:10,960 Speaker 9: missing for twenty eight years, let's go one hundred thousand dollars. 187 00:08:11,160 --> 00:08:12,520 Speaker 1: Really, they have to get. 188 00:08:12,360 --> 00:08:15,120 Speaker 6: The money from I mean, they may not, like is 189 00:08:15,160 --> 00:08:20,320 Speaker 6: it from people that donated for probably federal right, the. 190 00:08:20,400 --> 00:08:22,280 Speaker 9: FBI is offering the money, So I assume they just 191 00:08:22,360 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 9: make up a number. But I feel like twenty five thousand, 192 00:08:24,440 --> 00:08:27,720 Speaker 9: I'm like, that's not really for someone that's been a 193 00:08:27,720 --> 00:08:30,200 Speaker 9: big case like this twenty eight years. If you want 194 00:08:30,200 --> 00:08:33,200 Speaker 9: to get people talking, one hundred thousand dollars gets people talking. 195 00:08:33,280 --> 00:08:36,160 Speaker 7: It sounds like a check the box number, like hey. 196 00:08:36,040 --> 00:08:37,920 Speaker 1: We tried, yeah, we offer I don't know, twenty five 197 00:08:37,920 --> 00:08:39,680 Speaker 1: thousand bucks, Like if I had some information they could 198 00:08:39,679 --> 00:08:41,120 Speaker 1: possibly lead to it. I'm like, you know, I don't 199 00:08:41,120 --> 00:08:43,000 Speaker 1: want to get involved in this because it's probably not 200 00:08:43,040 --> 00:08:45,520 Speaker 1: true and I don't want to have to deal with 201 00:08:45,520 --> 00:08:47,480 Speaker 1: the cops. And it's like twenty thousand bucks for from it. 202 00:08:47,520 --> 00:08:50,959 Speaker 1: I probably would call for twenty's that's real money, makes. 203 00:08:50,800 --> 00:08:52,520 Speaker 7: So money, But twenty five they tax that. 204 00:08:52,559 --> 00:08:53,120 Speaker 1: It that your quiet? 205 00:08:53,120 --> 00:08:57,040 Speaker 6: Well, yes, because if it's a gift from the federal government. 206 00:08:57,200 --> 00:08:59,480 Speaker 7: And you know they tax it, get them back. 207 00:08:59,520 --> 00:09:00,960 Speaker 1: I don't know that, but I'm just like, you know, 208 00:09:01,080 --> 00:09:02,959 Speaker 1: they do, So it's probably not even twenty five thousand 209 00:09:02,960 --> 00:09:03,920 Speaker 1: because the federal gonna take it. 210 00:09:03,960 --> 00:09:06,240 Speaker 7: Right bag, Yeah, exactly, it's probably like the nineteen You 211 00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:09,560 Speaker 7: have to actually, like your hit. Your clue has to 212 00:09:09,600 --> 00:09:10,320 Speaker 7: solve the case. 213 00:09:10,400 --> 00:09:12,640 Speaker 1: Your clue has to lead to them solving the case. 214 00:09:12,679 --> 00:09:14,679 Speaker 7: Correct, because even if you have like a good clue 215 00:09:14,720 --> 00:09:16,240 Speaker 7: and they just can't do anything with it, like you 216 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 7: don't get any of that money. Right. 217 00:09:17,400 --> 00:09:19,440 Speaker 1: Sometimes this is not the case with this story because 218 00:09:19,480 --> 00:09:21,480 Speaker 1: it's been twenty eight years ago. 219 00:09:21,559 --> 00:09:22,200 Speaker 2: You say, yep. 220 00:09:22,640 --> 00:09:24,480 Speaker 1: Sometimes they'll start at twenty five and move it up 221 00:09:26,040 --> 00:09:29,800 Speaker 1: for two reasons. One because maybe more money will invoke 222 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:33,320 Speaker 1: more attention, but also it's a way for them to 223 00:09:33,400 --> 00:09:36,840 Speaker 1: keep having this story hit the news. Yeah, so if 224 00:09:36,880 --> 00:09:38,600 Speaker 1: you start at twenty five and then you got to fifty, 225 00:09:38,640 --> 00:09:40,520 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a headline again. When it goes to fifty, 226 00:09:41,400 --> 00:09:43,040 Speaker 1: it's gonna be a headline again when it goes to 227 00:09:43,080 --> 00:09:45,520 Speaker 1: one hundred thousand. So but if you're just like, we 228 00:09:45,559 --> 00:09:47,760 Speaker 1: still have twenty five thousand dollars, anybody out there, no 229 00:09:47,760 --> 00:09:50,120 Speaker 1: one that's not making the news if you still are 230 00:09:50,160 --> 00:09:52,440 Speaker 1: only offering twenty five thousand, So do. 231 00:09:52,440 --> 00:09:53,800 Speaker 7: You guys think about it a lot when you're on 232 00:09:53,800 --> 00:09:54,160 Speaker 7: the cruise. 233 00:09:54,240 --> 00:09:56,720 Speaker 1: I not once forgot about it. Really, I'm consuming so 234 00:09:56,840 --> 00:09:58,880 Speaker 1: much media and watching so many shows. I don't even 235 00:09:58,920 --> 00:09:59,880 Speaker 1: remember the shows that we watched. 236 00:10:00,120 --> 00:10:03,440 Speaker 7: Times i'd sit on my balcony and just think about like, well, 237 00:10:03,559 --> 00:10:06,360 Speaker 7: could she have jumped out? Like would she make it here? 238 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:09,040 Speaker 7: And then the neighbor across the way, like look, I 239 00:10:09,040 --> 00:10:11,679 Speaker 7: could literally I would even like look at the panel 240 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:13,680 Speaker 7: you know, separated the two rooms and be like wow, 241 00:10:13,760 --> 00:10:16,320 Speaker 7: like that neighbor could have jumped over if you wanted to. 242 00:10:17,440 --> 00:10:17,800 Speaker 7: I don't know. 243 00:10:18,400 --> 00:10:21,560 Speaker 1: I thought I was so dangerous though, like being on 244 00:10:21,600 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: a cruise one I don't think from my room, I 245 00:10:24,880 --> 00:10:26,000 Speaker 1: could have jumped down and hit the water. 246 00:10:26,080 --> 00:10:28,280 Speaker 7: Don't think me same. It was too far. 247 00:10:28,440 --> 00:10:32,200 Speaker 1: I clipt the rescue boats. I don't know if back 248 00:10:32,200 --> 00:10:34,200 Speaker 1: then twenty eight years ago, I don't know. Also the 249 00:10:34,200 --> 00:10:37,400 Speaker 1: dimensions of this cruise ship in anyway, So I'm speaking 250 00:10:37,720 --> 00:10:41,280 Speaker 1: only from my one experience. And two, why in the 251 00:10:41,320 --> 00:10:43,080 Speaker 1: world would you climb across that thing out on the 252 00:10:43,080 --> 00:10:45,640 Speaker 1: boat because you could probably go room to room if 253 00:10:45,640 --> 00:10:48,920 Speaker 1: you hold onto the rail and go. That's so dangerous. 254 00:10:49,280 --> 00:10:51,920 Speaker 7: Because one of the clues was, well, I want to 255 00:10:51,920 --> 00:10:52,680 Speaker 7: talk about it. 256 00:10:52,679 --> 00:10:53,360 Speaker 2: It doesn't matter. 257 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,760 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter if someone hasn't watched it. But it's 258 00:10:56,800 --> 00:10:59,120 Speaker 1: a news story and it's not a spoiler. 259 00:11:00,440 --> 00:11:02,040 Speaker 5: It also, but who did it? 260 00:11:02,800 --> 00:11:03,280 Speaker 6: We don't know. 261 00:11:03,520 --> 00:11:04,000 Speaker 7: I don't know. 262 00:11:04,280 --> 00:11:06,920 Speaker 1: I think she Okay, we're gonna play. We're just gonna 263 00:11:06,960 --> 00:11:08,920 Speaker 1: guess based on what we've seen and we haven't even 264 00:11:08,920 --> 00:11:11,640 Speaker 1: seen it all. Yes, right, I think she's just she's 265 00:11:11,720 --> 00:11:12,440 Speaker 1: drawing a fell off. 266 00:11:13,840 --> 00:11:14,360 Speaker 2: Okay. 267 00:11:15,200 --> 00:11:20,120 Speaker 7: I think that she was taking off the boat to 268 00:11:20,200 --> 00:11:25,560 Speaker 7: get trafficked and she became part of that system. Believe 269 00:11:25,640 --> 00:11:27,200 Speaker 7: she had a baby, that's why she doesn't want to 270 00:11:27,240 --> 00:11:30,000 Speaker 7: leave Amy. And I've talked about this and why would 271 00:11:30,040 --> 00:11:30,959 Speaker 7: she want to leave her baby? 272 00:11:31,040 --> 00:11:33,840 Speaker 1: You guys doing your own podcast, or I think we 273 00:11:33,880 --> 00:11:34,800 Speaker 1: talked about it on the boat. 274 00:11:34,840 --> 00:11:38,400 Speaker 6: On the boat, we had it all figured out. 275 00:11:38,360 --> 00:11:40,040 Speaker 1: Like people talking about a plane crash on a plane 276 00:11:40,400 --> 00:11:40,679 Speaker 1: like that. 277 00:11:40,760 --> 00:11:43,040 Speaker 7: Amy and I had a long We spent some time 278 00:11:43,040 --> 00:11:43,880 Speaker 7: together on the way back. 279 00:11:44,080 --> 00:11:46,600 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh coming back, because she came back together. 280 00:11:47,480 --> 00:11:52,760 Speaker 2: I think it was the. 281 00:11:52,720 --> 00:11:56,439 Speaker 7: I hated about the bass flairer Is. The documentary only 282 00:11:56,480 --> 00:11:57,880 Speaker 7: had one shot of the bass flair and it was 283 00:11:57,920 --> 00:12:01,199 Speaker 7: him being all sexy on He's So you watch that, 284 00:12:01,320 --> 00:12:02,880 Speaker 7: You're like, well, of course, yell look at him. 285 00:12:02,920 --> 00:12:04,800 Speaker 1: He moves his hip like that playing bass. Of course 286 00:12:04,800 --> 00:12:05,800 Speaker 1: the guy's up to no good. 287 00:12:05,920 --> 00:12:08,040 Speaker 9: Because I just after being on the cruise ship, I 288 00:12:08,040 --> 00:12:10,120 Speaker 9: don't see there's any way you get off that boat 289 00:12:10,200 --> 00:12:11,439 Speaker 9: unless you get checked out. 290 00:12:11,520 --> 00:12:12,720 Speaker 2: There's no way to get off the boat. 291 00:12:13,000 --> 00:12:15,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, I would agree, except that's twenty eight years ago. 292 00:12:15,440 --> 00:12:18,280 Speaker 1: I just don't know the protocol. It's like falling off 293 00:12:18,280 --> 00:12:20,440 Speaker 1: of it. How we had our ship no way. But 294 00:12:20,520 --> 00:12:22,640 Speaker 1: I don't know, because I think there are probably different 295 00:12:22,720 --> 00:12:24,160 Speaker 1: rules and standards twenty eight years ago. 296 00:12:24,240 --> 00:12:26,480 Speaker 9: Yes, because I mean even the employees had to scan 297 00:12:26,640 --> 00:12:27,480 Speaker 9: to get off the boat. 298 00:12:27,559 --> 00:12:30,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, I did. You know, watch when we were on 299 00:12:30,280 --> 00:12:33,520 Speaker 7: port all the food that would be taken off and 300 00:12:33,760 --> 00:12:36,840 Speaker 7: on the boat, you know, in forklifts, So that could 301 00:12:36,840 --> 00:12:40,000 Speaker 7: be a way too, you know, taking down to one 302 00:12:40,040 --> 00:12:41,719 Speaker 7: of the food containers and then like. 303 00:12:41,800 --> 00:12:44,040 Speaker 1: So you're putting a body in a container she's dead then? 304 00:12:44,920 --> 00:12:45,079 Speaker 3: Oh? 305 00:12:45,160 --> 00:12:47,040 Speaker 7: Yeah? True? Or passed out? 306 00:12:47,440 --> 00:12:51,160 Speaker 1: Yeah, Hey Scooba, Steve is he in there? Yea? Sometimes 307 00:12:51,160 --> 00:12:51,840 Speaker 1: you know, I right hear. 308 00:12:51,880 --> 00:12:52,200 Speaker 2: What's up? 309 00:12:52,720 --> 00:12:54,880 Speaker 1: Any idea how our boat for next year? Selling? 310 00:12:56,040 --> 00:12:57,679 Speaker 4: Last I talked, they haven't give me an update as 311 00:12:57,679 --> 00:13:00,440 Speaker 4: far as post cruise way that yeah, nothing for last time. 312 00:13:00,600 --> 00:13:01,839 Speaker 1: I know you told us it did like thirty five 313 00:13:01,840 --> 00:13:03,760 Speaker 1: percent while on the boat, Yes, yeah, and they were 314 00:13:03,760 --> 00:13:04,520 Speaker 1: pretty happy with that. 315 00:13:04,600 --> 00:13:06,760 Speaker 4: So I'm sure they'll give us information here that a 316 00:13:06,800 --> 00:13:08,360 Speaker 4: bunch of calls last week about it, so we should 317 00:13:08,400 --> 00:13:10,360 Speaker 4: have some new information probably the next week or so. 318 00:13:11,040 --> 00:13:12,240 Speaker 1: Yeah, if you guys want to come on the cruise 319 00:13:12,240 --> 00:13:14,200 Speaker 1: next year, Topshelf Country Cruise dot Com. 320 00:13:14,840 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 7: Let's see, Eddie Lunchbox is gonna love this one. So 321 00:13:20,360 --> 00:13:23,840 Speaker 7: the internet is they think they found something with Taylor 322 00:13:23,880 --> 00:13:24,640 Speaker 7: and Travis. 323 00:13:24,840 --> 00:13:25,600 Speaker 1: What's something mean? 324 00:13:26,080 --> 00:13:29,480 Speaker 7: Some kind of turmoil something weird about the relationship. So 325 00:13:29,679 --> 00:13:33,200 Speaker 7: at the iHeart Music Awards that happened there was a 326 00:13:33,240 --> 00:13:35,800 Speaker 7: camera that panned over to Taylor and Travis at a 327 00:13:35,840 --> 00:13:38,280 Speaker 7: time they weren't expecting it, and you can see them 328 00:13:38,320 --> 00:13:40,000 Speaker 7: kind of get busted by the camera like they were 329 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:42,559 Speaker 7: like in the middle of some weird whatever conversation and 330 00:13:42,559 --> 00:13:44,960 Speaker 7: then like, oh, let me hug and kiss. So now 331 00:13:45,040 --> 00:13:47,880 Speaker 7: the internet is like, oh, there's trouble there. Something was 332 00:13:47,920 --> 00:13:51,920 Speaker 7: not right. So I there's something going on. 333 00:13:52,040 --> 00:13:55,080 Speaker 1: Even if they were fighting, they would not do it there, 334 00:13:55,400 --> 00:13:57,120 Speaker 1: or there are cameras everywhere. They're probably just having a 335 00:13:57,160 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 1: normal person conversation. 336 00:13:58,400 --> 00:14:00,760 Speaker 6: You can't sit where they were sitting and be like, 337 00:14:00,840 --> 00:14:03,080 Speaker 6: I feel like they're always expecting the cameras to be 338 00:14:03,160 --> 00:14:05,360 Speaker 6: on them at a thing like that. 339 00:14:05,640 --> 00:14:07,760 Speaker 7: I mean, guys, I don't believe it. I think it's 340 00:14:07,800 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 7: they're perfect together. I think this. 341 00:14:09,600 --> 00:14:11,440 Speaker 1: Do you ever fall in the Galor Rabbit all? 342 00:14:11,480 --> 00:14:11,719 Speaker 7: What's that? 343 00:14:12,360 --> 00:14:12,760 Speaker 2: Gaylor? 344 00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:13,400 Speaker 8: No? 345 00:14:14,120 --> 00:14:15,480 Speaker 1: Where there's all these stairs? She's gay? 346 00:14:16,120 --> 00:14:17,480 Speaker 2: What Galor Like? 347 00:14:17,600 --> 00:14:19,240 Speaker 1: Taylor? Oh yeah, this is wait. 348 00:14:19,280 --> 00:14:22,160 Speaker 6: I have never even heard of this, neither have I. 349 00:14:22,280 --> 00:14:23,720 Speaker 7: You act like that's so normal. 350 00:14:23,880 --> 00:14:24,080 Speaker 6: Yeah. 351 00:14:25,200 --> 00:14:27,960 Speaker 1: All over the years, I've seen a lot of galer stuff. Really, 352 00:14:28,160 --> 00:14:30,560 Speaker 1: I don't believe it, but like her and Carly Kloss 353 00:14:30,560 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 1: were together, Morgan, you see the galer stuff. No Swift 354 00:14:37,840 --> 00:14:40,800 Speaker 1: comes up with this stuff, Mike you I have seen that. 355 00:14:41,200 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: I didn't make it up. I also don't believe it. 356 00:14:44,360 --> 00:14:45,560 Speaker 5: It's on Wikipedia. 357 00:14:46,360 --> 00:14:50,120 Speaker 6: Gaylor, sometimes referred to as Galerism, is a loose conspiracy 358 00:14:50,160 --> 00:14:54,680 Speaker 6: theory that claims that Taylor Swift is non heterosexual. 359 00:14:55,240 --> 00:14:58,360 Speaker 1: And that Travis is also probably gay. And they're like, well, 360 00:14:58,400 --> 00:14:59,160 Speaker 1: look at the clothes. 361 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:02,680 Speaker 7: He wears, just baggy stuff. 362 00:15:02,480 --> 00:15:04,640 Speaker 1: Like that, she's his beard. I don't believe it, but 363 00:15:04,680 --> 00:15:06,760 Speaker 1: that's but over the years has been a lot of 364 00:15:06,800 --> 00:15:09,080 Speaker 1: Gailor and they also like find lyrics in her songs, 365 00:15:09,840 --> 00:15:11,840 Speaker 1: but again, you can assign a lot of things to 366 00:15:11,960 --> 00:15:12,720 Speaker 1: song lyrics. 367 00:15:13,000 --> 00:15:15,800 Speaker 7: Is there a date, like there's a wedding date? Right? 368 00:15:15,960 --> 00:15:18,640 Speaker 1: I don't know no, no, no, people know no. 369 00:15:18,800 --> 00:15:19,400 Speaker 2: No wedding date? 370 00:15:19,480 --> 00:15:22,160 Speaker 1: Man, do they have one? Maybe? But we don't know. 371 00:15:23,200 --> 00:15:24,040 Speaker 2: It's all for showman. 372 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:26,280 Speaker 1: Oh you still are on that they're not real. They're 373 00:15:26,280 --> 00:15:26,880 Speaker 1: not getting married. 374 00:15:26,920 --> 00:15:28,000 Speaker 7: Why would they keep doing this? 375 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: Lunchbot Tom Cruise, he had baby, a baby, right? But 376 00:15:33,840 --> 00:15:36,280 Speaker 1: was his for contract was? 377 00:15:38,280 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 2: Yes, it was people. 378 00:15:39,720 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 1: Auditioned to be his wife. 379 00:15:41,040 --> 00:15:45,000 Speaker 6: Yeah, but but his wasn't for being gay, right, No, yeah. 380 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:46,360 Speaker 1: Oh, I don't know if it was gay or not. 381 00:15:46,440 --> 00:15:47,960 Speaker 1: I don't think so. I think it's scientology. 382 00:15:48,240 --> 00:15:50,360 Speaker 9: Yeah, I'm not saying even so gay, I'm not or 383 00:15:50,400 --> 00:15:52,280 Speaker 9: that Taylor and Travis is. I'm just saying I don't 384 00:15:52,280 --> 00:15:55,320 Speaker 9: think it's real. It's all contract work and for publicity. 385 00:15:55,440 --> 00:15:57,720 Speaker 7: So Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes were never like just 386 00:15:57,840 --> 00:16:00,200 Speaker 7: married and loved married. And then it got weird. 387 00:16:00,280 --> 00:16:02,560 Speaker 1: From the from the things that we've heard. 388 00:16:03,320 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 7: No, mmm, because I remember like she was trying to 389 00:16:06,760 --> 00:16:07,440 Speaker 7: get out or whatever. 390 00:16:07,600 --> 00:16:09,400 Speaker 1: We don't we don't know. We really don't know anything. 391 00:16:10,040 --> 00:16:13,320 Speaker 1: But what's weird is that Tom and Nicole Kidman were 392 00:16:13,320 --> 00:16:18,080 Speaker 1: married and they had two kids. And like, I'm not 393 00:16:18,120 --> 00:16:19,880 Speaker 1: gonna say I know her, know her, but I've spent 394 00:16:20,040 --> 00:16:22,600 Speaker 1: We've had at least three long conversations. We see each other. 395 00:16:23,440 --> 00:16:26,080 Speaker 1: It's always warm and she and sometimes I let her 396 00:16:26,080 --> 00:16:28,200 Speaker 1: say high first, gunn't a bother that type of thing. 397 00:16:28,840 --> 00:16:30,720 Speaker 1: That's just that's bizarre to think she's married Tom Cruise. 398 00:16:31,960 --> 00:16:35,840 Speaker 7: All you guys met her, Yeah, Wow, you've never met her. 399 00:16:36,120 --> 00:16:37,840 Speaker 2: Sorry about that movie never. 400 00:16:38,280 --> 00:16:38,960 Speaker 7: I probably won't. 401 00:16:39,000 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 1: Now I've been at her house. Well yeah, I know 402 00:16:42,640 --> 00:16:44,720 Speaker 1: it's still her house. She doesn't live there anymore. 403 00:16:45,120 --> 00:16:46,120 Speaker 7: That's crazy, man. 404 00:16:47,000 --> 00:16:48,400 Speaker 1: I have a friend that lives right next to them, 405 00:16:48,720 --> 00:16:54,280 Speaker 1: and she's always walking. She's very perfect, fair skin really 406 00:16:54,360 --> 00:16:57,160 Speaker 1: so she's wears like a big always covered, big hat. 407 00:16:57,240 --> 00:16:57,560 Speaker 2: Whatever. 408 00:16:57,560 --> 00:16:59,800 Speaker 7: I don't even think i've seen her, maybe maybe like 409 00:16:59,800 --> 00:17:02,040 Speaker 7: what's CMA's or something from a distance, so. 410 00:17:02,120 --> 00:17:05,479 Speaker 1: Nice, like could not be nicer. Like we've been in 411 00:17:05,520 --> 00:17:07,920 Speaker 1: the mall. What's the makeup store? 412 00:17:08,440 --> 00:17:08,800 Speaker 6: Sephora. 413 00:17:08,920 --> 00:17:10,359 Speaker 1: We've been a Sephora, her and her daughter in there. 414 00:17:10,400 --> 00:17:11,920 Speaker 1: I didn't bother. I didn't even to see me because 415 00:17:11,920 --> 00:17:15,000 Speaker 1: I didn't want to have her start talking. And it'son 416 00:17:15,119 --> 00:17:17,160 Speaker 1: be like, that's an cool kidman. So like I saw, 417 00:17:17,200 --> 00:17:18,840 Speaker 1: I was in Sephora with Kaitlin, and I kind of 418 00:17:18,920 --> 00:17:20,919 Speaker 1: hid in the corner because I know if she had 419 00:17:20,920 --> 00:17:22,760 Speaker 1: seen me, she probably said hi, but I didn't want 420 00:17:22,760 --> 00:17:25,280 Speaker 1: to bring attention to her. Like they're so they're very normal. 421 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,480 Speaker 1: They have such an abnormal life, but it's very normal 422 00:17:29,440 --> 00:17:31,000 Speaker 1: because again they're just walking. She was just walking on 423 00:17:31,040 --> 00:17:31,320 Speaker 1: the mall. 424 00:17:31,440 --> 00:17:34,400 Speaker 7: Yeah, I feel like you're not the only person that's 425 00:17:34,400 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 7: seen her at the mall or seen that they suck. 426 00:17:36,240 --> 00:17:39,280 Speaker 10: I saw the whole family at the mall and they've 427 00:17:39,320 --> 00:17:40,520 Speaker 10: pet my dog, Roomy. 428 00:17:41,600 --> 00:17:42,640 Speaker 1: You've seen her a couple of times. 429 00:17:42,760 --> 00:17:43,440 Speaker 7: It's crazy. 430 00:17:44,000 --> 00:17:47,960 Speaker 1: Yeah, like worldwide, super famous, and in this town you 431 00:17:48,000 --> 00:17:51,080 Speaker 1: can just go to the mall because most people, if 432 00:17:51,080 --> 00:17:54,920 Speaker 1: you live in Nashville, most people don't bother famous people 433 00:17:54,960 --> 00:17:57,240 Speaker 1: if they live in Nashville. Where it gets tricky at 434 00:17:57,280 --> 00:17:59,240 Speaker 1: Taurusts coming to town because I get it, you're like, 435 00:17:59,240 --> 00:18:01,800 Speaker 1: oh my god, some Iby fans. But it's why people 436 00:18:01,840 --> 00:18:04,520 Speaker 1: that live here that have public lives don't go to 437 00:18:04,600 --> 00:18:07,760 Speaker 1: places where they're a tourists because it'll be it'll be insane. 438 00:18:07,920 --> 00:18:12,399 Speaker 1: But you can see everybody that's in country music or whoever. 439 00:18:12,440 --> 00:18:14,840 Speaker 1: Just there's like, you know, twenty or thirty places that 440 00:18:14,960 --> 00:18:15,840 Speaker 1: kind of everybody goes. 441 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:16,200 Speaker 2: People. 442 00:18:16,359 --> 00:18:18,000 Speaker 1: I used to always say, if you go to True Food, 443 00:18:18,240 --> 00:18:21,280 Speaker 1: I don't think it's like that anymore. True Food in Nashville. 444 00:18:21,320 --> 00:18:24,600 Speaker 1: You'll see somebody there because it's just such a normal place. 445 00:18:25,000 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 1: It's not fancy. It's in a part of town that's 446 00:18:29,040 --> 00:18:31,680 Speaker 1: just normal, you know what. People A lot of the 447 00:18:31,760 --> 00:18:33,480 Speaker 1: artists would live around there. If you're they're young in 448 00:18:33,480 --> 00:18:36,200 Speaker 1: that like apartment complex at condo place. But I don't. 449 00:18:36,280 --> 00:18:37,560 Speaker 1: I don't think that's the case anymore. 450 00:18:38,080 --> 00:18:40,360 Speaker 7: Target. Seen a couple of Target, Yeah. 451 00:18:40,119 --> 00:18:41,840 Speaker 1: But it's usually the Target like Franklin or Brentwood. 452 00:18:41,920 --> 00:18:43,560 Speaker 7: Yeah, not down Target. 453 00:18:43,640 --> 00:18:46,199 Speaker 1: No. Yeah, you know it's crazy. There's a Chick fil 454 00:18:46,240 --> 00:18:49,119 Speaker 1: A that's downtown that was a corporate Chick fil A. 455 00:18:49,200 --> 00:18:50,920 Speaker 1: Now they've turned it into a corporate and they serve 456 00:18:50,960 --> 00:18:51,360 Speaker 1: out of it. 457 00:18:51,800 --> 00:18:55,439 Speaker 6: What do you mean by corporate? The corporate just like 458 00:18:55,440 --> 00:18:57,320 Speaker 6: an office. Oh, so they didn't have it wasn't a 459 00:18:57,359 --> 00:18:58,080 Speaker 6: restaurant at all. 460 00:18:58,480 --> 00:19:00,560 Speaker 1: Okay, and now it's corporate. I think. So this is 461 00:19:00,600 --> 00:19:02,640 Speaker 1: my theory. I think so many people saw the sign, 462 00:19:02,680 --> 00:19:04,200 Speaker 1: they would go to it thinking there was food there. 463 00:19:05,119 --> 00:19:05,760 Speaker 7: Oh funny. 464 00:19:05,960 --> 00:19:07,280 Speaker 6: So they're like, well, man, we got to turn this 465 00:19:07,400 --> 00:19:09,119 Speaker 6: down and think that sign could be busy. 466 00:19:09,320 --> 00:19:11,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, and so now it's just a walk in. It's 467 00:19:11,520 --> 00:19:14,000 Speaker 1: like a window only there's no restaurant in there. But 468 00:19:14,040 --> 00:19:15,760 Speaker 1: I think they built little kitchen in that corporate spot. 469 00:19:15,840 --> 00:19:18,800 Speaker 7: Do you know that there's a cracker barrel campus. 470 00:19:18,960 --> 00:19:21,440 Speaker 1: I've been to it. You have, yes, because I did 471 00:19:22,640 --> 00:19:24,640 Speaker 1: a couple of campaigns with them and so I went 472 00:19:24,680 --> 00:19:27,000 Speaker 1: to the campus and I saw where they were building, 473 00:19:27,040 --> 00:19:29,800 Speaker 1: Like the room, they had different versions of those when 474 00:19:29,840 --> 00:19:32,840 Speaker 1: you walk in the store. They would build fake stores. 475 00:19:32,960 --> 00:19:34,760 Speaker 7: Oh, like the front of the restaurant. 476 00:19:35,080 --> 00:19:36,600 Speaker 1: And practice displays. 477 00:19:36,880 --> 00:19:37,640 Speaker 6: Is that where they train? 478 00:19:38,560 --> 00:19:39,160 Speaker 7: Yeah, I guess. 479 00:19:39,520 --> 00:19:42,600 Speaker 1: I think corporate is there and corporate does the picking 480 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:44,119 Speaker 1: of the selections. But I don't think they take all 481 00:19:44,160 --> 00:19:46,480 Speaker 1: employees to train there, but corporate. You have to live, 482 00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:48,000 Speaker 1: you have to live in that part of Tennessee. 483 00:19:48,080 --> 00:19:50,120 Speaker 7: But it is big amy, it's big. It's big. It's 484 00:19:50,119 --> 00:19:51,840 Speaker 7: like a college campus, but it's all cracky. 485 00:19:51,880 --> 00:19:55,000 Speaker 6: That's like when if you've ever gone to Dave Ramsey's campus, 486 00:19:55,040 --> 00:19:57,920 Speaker 6: it's huge, call it a campus. 487 00:19:58,000 --> 00:19:59,640 Speaker 1: It's like I've done his show a couple of times. 488 00:19:59,640 --> 00:20:00,320 Speaker 7: Isn't it a building? 489 00:20:01,359 --> 00:20:06,080 Speaker 6: It seemed well, I was overwhelmed, Like I was like, 490 00:20:06,160 --> 00:20:08,960 Speaker 6: did you do a show? I did his daughters Rachel 491 00:20:09,280 --> 00:20:13,200 Speaker 6: Rachel Cruz recently a couple of years ago. 492 00:20:13,440 --> 00:20:15,639 Speaker 10: You already no, may You're you talking about the one 493 00:20:15,680 --> 00:20:17,760 Speaker 10: that's like the giant building all kind of you can 494 00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:20,640 Speaker 10: see it from the highway. Yeah, Ramsey Solutions. 495 00:20:20,680 --> 00:20:22,439 Speaker 6: I just know there was like it seemed like there 496 00:20:22,480 --> 00:20:25,480 Speaker 6: was multiple buildings. And where I was parking, it felt 497 00:20:25,480 --> 00:20:28,440 Speaker 6: like I was on a campus. I thought they even 498 00:20:28,480 --> 00:20:30,720 Speaker 6: called it maybe campus but. 499 00:20:30,720 --> 00:20:33,639 Speaker 7: Maybe looks like it looks like a college. 500 00:20:35,359 --> 00:20:38,120 Speaker 6: Okay, yeah, this wasn't. I don't recall a gate. 501 00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,719 Speaker 1: But no gate, no campus. And he's like, yeah, I'm 502 00:20:40,720 --> 00:20:41,560 Speaker 1: a red gate at all. 503 00:20:42,080 --> 00:20:44,600 Speaker 5: Morgan, Oh yeah, okay. 504 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,560 Speaker 10: So this girl goes grocery shopping. She thought it was 505 00:20:47,560 --> 00:20:50,040 Speaker 10: going to be a normal grocery shopping trip. She bends 506 00:20:50,080 --> 00:20:52,480 Speaker 10: down to grab something off of one of the bottom shelves, 507 00:20:53,600 --> 00:20:56,359 Speaker 10: and there was a guy behind her who decided to 508 00:20:56,560 --> 00:20:57,879 Speaker 10: expose himself. 509 00:20:58,560 --> 00:21:02,800 Speaker 1: So he is behind her behind the shelf. 510 00:21:03,000 --> 00:21:06,000 Speaker 10: Nope, So she's squatting down, she's trying to grab something 511 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,119 Speaker 10: and put it in her basket that's on the floor, 512 00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:10,880 Speaker 10: and he's kind of standing like caddy quarter behind her, 513 00:21:11,520 --> 00:21:13,840 Speaker 10: and she kind of turns around and sees him, and 514 00:21:13,880 --> 00:21:16,119 Speaker 10: at that same moment, he shows. 515 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:17,920 Speaker 5: Her his penis. 516 00:21:18,720 --> 00:21:19,359 Speaker 1: It just shows her. 517 00:21:19,520 --> 00:21:21,560 Speaker 10: Was he like, oh, it gets yep, it's right behind you. 518 00:21:21,640 --> 00:21:22,879 Speaker 1: Then I don't want see his penis. 519 00:21:23,160 --> 00:21:24,600 Speaker 5: It's blurred. It's blurred. 520 00:21:25,000 --> 00:21:27,040 Speaker 10: But then he proceeds to put it on her ear 521 00:21:27,240 --> 00:21:29,080 Speaker 10: all while filming it. 522 00:21:29,200 --> 00:21:32,199 Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, so she's down, he just comes up 523 00:21:32,520 --> 00:21:33,360 Speaker 1: puts his ding dong on. 524 00:21:33,280 --> 00:21:36,919 Speaker 2: Her right on top of it. 525 00:21:37,200 --> 00:21:39,040 Speaker 1: He came from behind the product, so he didn't want 526 00:21:39,040 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 1: her to see him. 527 00:21:39,960 --> 00:21:42,000 Speaker 10: Yeah, he was kind of like sneaking it, but then 528 00:21:42,119 --> 00:21:43,960 Speaker 10: he brings it up and puts it on her ear, 529 00:21:44,119 --> 00:21:45,159 Speaker 10: like literally. 530 00:21:44,880 --> 00:21:47,160 Speaker 1: On freaking weirdo. This dude needs to have the crap 531 00:21:47,200 --> 00:21:47,800 Speaker 1: beat out of him. 532 00:21:47,960 --> 00:21:49,720 Speaker 10: Yeah, and he's filming the whole thing. 533 00:21:49,720 --> 00:21:54,760 Speaker 1: In prison, because that's not that technique there was not 534 00:21:54,880 --> 00:21:59,240 Speaker 1: learned today. This guy has done this before. Every time 535 00:21:59,320 --> 00:22:01,320 Speaker 1: has to be a first no, this guy, but he's 536 00:22:01,320 --> 00:22:03,320 Speaker 1: not nervous. He knows exactly where he's going. He knows 537 00:22:03,359 --> 00:22:03,960 Speaker 1: where to stand. 538 00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:05,200 Speaker 7: Yeah, and he. 539 00:22:05,160 --> 00:22:07,399 Speaker 10: Hasn't they're looking for him, like he hasn't been. 540 00:22:07,240 --> 00:22:09,879 Speaker 1: Caught, hasn't been caught? 541 00:22:10,359 --> 00:22:11,200 Speaker 2: How was he not caught? 542 00:22:11,200 --> 00:22:15,400 Speaker 10: How was secur Whole Foods in California foods? 543 00:22:15,960 --> 00:22:17,800 Speaker 5: This is I was this is more. 544 00:22:17,720 --> 00:22:25,440 Speaker 1: Of a type thing. Wow, that is creepy. You're just 545 00:22:25,480 --> 00:22:27,480 Speaker 1: shopping for groceries and now you've got some dudes ding 546 00:22:27,560 --> 00:22:30,720 Speaker 1: dong on your ear, like if it were hopefully if 547 00:22:30,720 --> 00:22:31,280 Speaker 1: that happened. 548 00:22:31,440 --> 00:22:32,919 Speaker 2: But she doesn't seem to react very I. 549 00:22:32,880 --> 00:22:36,160 Speaker 1: Don't think you think that's what it is. I think 550 00:22:36,200 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 1: you're confused, very very if you had the understanding what's happening, grabbing, 551 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:46,480 Speaker 1: freaking twist, grab the nuts and freaking twist. I really 552 00:22:46,520 --> 00:22:47,440 Speaker 1: don't run. You should run. 553 00:22:47,560 --> 00:22:48,240 Speaker 7: That's crazy. 554 00:22:48,400 --> 00:22:50,639 Speaker 1: You should run. That's that's a weird story to come 555 00:22:50,680 --> 00:22:51,159 Speaker 1: to the table with. 556 00:22:51,200 --> 00:22:51,440 Speaker 3: Morgan. 557 00:22:51,640 --> 00:22:52,000 Speaker 5: I saw it. 558 00:22:52,880 --> 00:22:54,640 Speaker 10: I mean, people are weird right now. 559 00:22:54,680 --> 00:22:55,480 Speaker 5: Man, I don't know what's. 560 00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:56,120 Speaker 2: Going on right now. 561 00:22:56,200 --> 00:22:56,840 Speaker 7: They've always been. 562 00:22:58,000 --> 00:23:01,679 Speaker 1: We just have more cameras and TikTok. Bots have surpassed 563 00:23:01,760 --> 00:23:05,240 Speaker 1: humans when it comes to Internet traffic now. Yesterday, the 564 00:23:05,240 --> 00:23:08,240 Speaker 1: State of AI Traffic report was released and confirmed that 565 00:23:08,400 --> 00:23:11,240 Speaker 1: artificial intelligence and bots have surpassed human users on the Internet. 566 00:23:11,359 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 1: Automatic traffic is defined as Internet traffic generated by software 567 00:23:14,560 --> 00:23:17,679 Speaker 1: systems rather than human users. CNBC. This is all what 568 00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:24,159 Speaker 1: Twitter is because Twitter can be extremely harsh, hardcore. You 569 00:23:24,200 --> 00:23:26,400 Speaker 1: say something, it's it's all bought. It's sixty to seventy 570 00:23:26,440 --> 00:23:27,200 Speaker 1: percent bots. 571 00:23:27,600 --> 00:23:29,040 Speaker 6: So who's running the bots? 572 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:32,160 Speaker 1: Well, there can be our bots running bots. There can 573 00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:34,640 Speaker 1: be people that you program and look for these type 574 00:23:34,640 --> 00:23:36,040 Speaker 1: of words and say this type of thing back. 575 00:23:36,080 --> 00:23:39,400 Speaker 7: Okay, yeah, hey that video I sent you of all 576 00:23:39,440 --> 00:23:41,399 Speaker 7: the like the bot farm with all the phones in 577 00:23:41,400 --> 00:23:41,879 Speaker 7: there whatever. 578 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:46,280 Speaker 1: They so not really oh yeah, like streaming farms. So 579 00:23:46,800 --> 00:23:49,840 Speaker 1: ediot sent me a video of they kicked in a door. 580 00:23:50,119 --> 00:23:51,880 Speaker 1: This is not in America, by the way, And there's 581 00:23:51,920 --> 00:23:54,399 Speaker 1: like a thousand phones and they put them all to streams, 582 00:23:54,440 --> 00:23:55,840 Speaker 1: just over and over again, like. 583 00:23:55,800 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 7: The same content whatever. They're trying to get stream numbers. 584 00:23:58,119 --> 00:24:00,280 Speaker 1: Artists do this all the time. Music now too, they 585 00:24:00,320 --> 00:24:03,639 Speaker 1: can you can farm streams And. 586 00:24:03,560 --> 00:24:06,120 Speaker 7: All of these like thousand phones on the wall had 587 00:24:06,119 --> 00:24:08,240 Speaker 7: the same video playing the same video over and over. 588 00:24:08,320 --> 00:24:09,359 Speaker 7: So that's how the numbers are up. 589 00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:10,440 Speaker 6: That's crazy. 590 00:24:10,800 --> 00:24:12,919 Speaker 1: And how am I text back to anyways? How do 591 00:24:12,960 --> 00:24:13,439 Speaker 1: I hire this? 592 00:24:13,960 --> 00:24:15,280 Speaker 7: He goes, I need that? 593 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:21,360 Speaker 1: Yeah, like how do I hire a bot farm? 594 00:24:21,560 --> 00:24:22,080 Speaker 5: I don't know. 595 00:24:22,960 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 7: That's crazy? 596 00:24:23,760 --> 00:24:24,760 Speaker 6: Like you don't want. 597 00:24:24,560 --> 00:24:27,080 Speaker 1: That though, No, But so if you need a story, 598 00:24:27,080 --> 00:24:28,480 Speaker 1: like let's say an artist is like I got a 599 00:24:28,480 --> 00:24:31,400 Speaker 1: song streamed three hundred thousand times yesterday. I'm really blowing 600 00:24:31,480 --> 00:24:33,040 Speaker 1: up and then other people believe it, so they start 601 00:24:33,080 --> 00:24:35,679 Speaker 1: to pull you on playlists. So ready to go, And 602 00:24:35,680 --> 00:24:37,480 Speaker 1: so that's what you do. You use it to build 603 00:24:37,480 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 1: a story. It's illegal, don't do it. But like, how 604 00:24:42,320 --> 00:24:43,400 Speaker 1: do I how do I do that? 605 00:24:43,680 --> 00:24:46,280 Speaker 7: That'd be crazy. See what the video was, I couldn't see. No, 606 00:24:46,520 --> 00:24:47,679 Speaker 7: I was trying to like zoom in. 607 00:24:48,160 --> 00:24:50,440 Speaker 1: I couldn't tell. I did see a Madison Beer video 608 00:24:50,440 --> 00:24:52,680 Speaker 1: on the Tonight Show they pulled that had nothing to 609 00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,439 Speaker 1: do with bots. I don't know if that she her 610 00:24:54,480 --> 00:24:57,040 Speaker 1: performance wasn't that good. But she went on a perform 611 00:24:57,080 --> 00:24:59,439 Speaker 1: on Jimmy Fallon and some of it was still up 612 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:02,920 Speaker 1: on Twitter and now they've taken it down, and I 613 00:25:02,960 --> 00:25:04,720 Speaker 1: don't know if it's because of the comments and it 614 00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:06,400 Speaker 1: wasn't that good. Mike, Will you see if you can 615 00:25:06,720 --> 00:25:09,080 Speaker 1: find that for me? You know she's dating, right. 616 00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:12,400 Speaker 7: I bet you if he told me, I'd be like, oh, yes, 617 00:25:12,440 --> 00:25:12,879 Speaker 7: I need that. 618 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:13,640 Speaker 1: He's a quarterback. 619 00:25:14,240 --> 00:25:21,480 Speaker 7: Oh Joe Burrow. No for the Chargers, Oh, justin Justin Herbert? 620 00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:22,240 Speaker 2: Wow? 621 00:25:23,320 --> 00:25:24,000 Speaker 7: And did the air? 622 00:25:24,800 --> 00:25:25,040 Speaker 1: Yeah? 623 00:25:25,160 --> 00:25:26,679 Speaker 7: Okay, so it aired and then they pulled it. 624 00:25:26,720 --> 00:25:28,520 Speaker 1: Yeah, from what I saw, do you see anthing about it, Mike, 625 00:25:29,160 --> 00:25:32,359 Speaker 1: I'm still reading it. It is down right, Yeah, it 626 00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,680 Speaker 1: looks like it. Yeah, maybe it wasn't a good performance. 627 00:25:35,760 --> 00:25:38,639 Speaker 1: It just says due to licensing agreements or a shift 628 00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 1: in promotion strategy. Yeah, that's is that code? 629 00:25:42,520 --> 00:25:46,639 Speaker 5: For like, yes, oh yeah, she is hot, she's very pretty. 630 00:25:46,680 --> 00:25:50,359 Speaker 2: She's got forty million followers on Instagram. Let me see hello, 631 00:25:50,920 --> 00:25:51,680 Speaker 2: you want to see he writing? 632 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:52,240 Speaker 7: Yeah, I don't know. 633 00:25:52,280 --> 00:25:55,040 Speaker 2: I don't know if she is Oh yeah yeah yeah, see. 634 00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:56,359 Speaker 6: Yeah she's pretty? 635 00:25:56,680 --> 00:25:58,560 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, oh yeah? 636 00:25:58,880 --> 00:25:59,320 Speaker 5: Is he good? 637 00:25:59,359 --> 00:26:02,280 Speaker 1: Why do you two keep? Oh yeah, I know too. 638 00:26:02,440 --> 00:26:04,240 Speaker 7: No, don't wrote me out how old ish? 639 00:26:04,280 --> 00:26:05,840 Speaker 6: So you just said it Eddie you go oh yeah, 640 00:26:06,240 --> 00:26:08,160 Speaker 6: oh you said oh yeah yeah, No no, the said, 641 00:26:08,200 --> 00:26:09,040 Speaker 6: oh yeah, I know her. 642 00:26:09,280 --> 00:26:13,240 Speaker 1: I know her. It's twenty seven, okay, Like I'm glad 643 00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:14,080 Speaker 1: she's not nineteen. 644 00:26:14,359 --> 00:26:18,480 Speaker 2: Who cares if she's nineteen trying to do it's Do 645 00:26:18,520 --> 00:26:19,359 Speaker 2: you want to see a different one? 646 00:26:19,400 --> 00:26:20,840 Speaker 7: No, I'm good. I know her. Now. 647 00:26:21,680 --> 00:26:23,639 Speaker 6: I think that we're we need to evolve past the 648 00:26:23,800 --> 00:26:25,680 Speaker 6: well or eight D you know, like. 649 00:26:25,800 --> 00:26:28,320 Speaker 1: Why because it's still because what's your number? 650 00:26:28,800 --> 00:26:29,119 Speaker 5: Listen. 651 00:26:29,480 --> 00:26:31,439 Speaker 6: Now that we are in our forties, I see an 652 00:26:31,440 --> 00:26:33,280 Speaker 6: eighteen year old, I get very confused. 653 00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:34,320 Speaker 1: They look so little. 654 00:26:34,400 --> 00:26:36,320 Speaker 6: I'm like, there's no way you're old enough to drive, 655 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,040 Speaker 6: there's no way you're old enough to go off to 656 00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 6: college and take care of yourself on your own. 657 00:26:40,000 --> 00:26:41,080 Speaker 5: Did we look this little? 658 00:26:41,280 --> 00:26:43,360 Speaker 6: Yes, we did and you know what makes you think 659 00:26:43,359 --> 00:26:45,320 Speaker 6: about is men that were into that, and that's sick. 660 00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:48,240 Speaker 6: Now that i'm the age, I'm like. 661 00:26:49,200 --> 00:26:51,000 Speaker 9: Well, Madison Beer ain't got nothing to do with that. 662 00:26:51,040 --> 00:26:53,359 Speaker 9: She was, She's twenty seven, plenty of age and plenty 663 00:26:53,359 --> 00:26:55,000 Speaker 9: of it. They want to go, oh yeah, oh yeah. 664 00:26:55,119 --> 00:26:56,159 Speaker 7: I didn't say oh. 665 00:26:56,080 --> 00:26:59,160 Speaker 6: Yeah, yeah, oh yeah her, but then you can oh yeah, 666 00:26:59,720 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 6: oh I know her as long as they've moved the tassel. 667 00:27:02,680 --> 00:27:05,240 Speaker 7: And there was a pause before you said there wasn't 668 00:27:05,520 --> 00:27:08,000 Speaker 7: oh yeah, so oh yeah, oh yeah, I know. 669 00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:10,439 Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, oh yeah yeah. And I 670 00:27:10,440 --> 00:27:12,560 Speaker 1: got a question, how did I accidentally add her to this? Well, 671 00:27:12,560 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 1: I don't even know what that. 672 00:27:13,359 --> 00:27:18,120 Speaker 10: Is Instagram, it's. 673 00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:23,480 Speaker 2: How do I do that? What is that? 674 00:27:28,200 --> 00:27:29,320 Speaker 5: I just keep it there? 675 00:27:29,960 --> 00:27:30,879 Speaker 1: Yes, you can delete it. 676 00:27:31,359 --> 00:27:32,720 Speaker 2: You ought to show me how. I have no idea. 677 00:27:32,800 --> 00:27:35,120 Speaker 9: I was trying to click on pictures and I don't 678 00:27:35,119 --> 00:27:35,520 Speaker 9: know how. 679 00:27:35,359 --> 00:27:36,040 Speaker 2: That got up there. 680 00:27:36,640 --> 00:27:40,200 Speaker 1: I did a baby State of the Union on YouTube. 681 00:27:40,240 --> 00:27:41,680 Speaker 1: It's about a half hour. We're going to play that 682 00:27:41,760 --> 00:27:43,800 Speaker 1: now and then we have a caller. We're going to 683 00:27:43,840 --> 00:27:45,240 Speaker 1: talk to you about some stuff. So we're going to 684 00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,520 Speaker 1: play this baby State of the Union. We'll take a 685 00:27:47,560 --> 00:27:48,880 Speaker 1: break and we will come back. 686 00:27:50,720 --> 00:27:50,880 Speaker 7: Hi. 687 00:27:50,880 --> 00:27:53,480 Speaker 1: Welcome to the Baby State of the Union, where I'm 688 00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 1: just going to answer most of the questions I'm getting 689 00:27:56,320 --> 00:27:59,320 Speaker 1: all the time in comments and d ms about the 690 00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:02,119 Speaker 1: last couple of weeks of my life. That'll be mostly 691 00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:04,760 Speaker 1: what this video is. I will say though, that I 692 00:28:04,800 --> 00:28:08,080 Speaker 1: do a bit understand what they would call dad brain. 693 00:28:08,600 --> 00:28:12,040 Speaker 1: Yesterday I was leaving the gym. It was the first 694 00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 1: time that i'd actually been to a workout in a 695 00:28:13,800 --> 00:28:16,480 Speaker 1: couple of weeks. Because for those who don't know, this 696 00:28:16,560 --> 00:28:20,400 Speaker 1: is my first child. So I it was later in life. 697 00:28:20,520 --> 00:28:22,600 Speaker 1: I mean, I was forty five years old until we 698 00:28:22,640 --> 00:28:25,080 Speaker 1: actually had a baby. And so if you're watching this, 699 00:28:25,160 --> 00:28:26,480 Speaker 1: you're like, what's up with the old guy talking about 700 00:28:26,520 --> 00:28:28,040 Speaker 1: a baby? Like we just had a baby for the 701 00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:29,679 Speaker 1: first time ever. So all this stuff is new to me. 702 00:28:30,640 --> 00:28:32,520 Speaker 1: And so I mean, I didn't even know that I 703 00:28:32,560 --> 00:28:33,960 Speaker 1: was going to have kids. I didn't even know that 704 00:28:34,000 --> 00:28:35,600 Speaker 1: I was gonna get married. I don't think until I 705 00:28:35,640 --> 00:28:37,960 Speaker 1: met my wife I thought I was going to get married. 706 00:28:38,320 --> 00:28:41,080 Speaker 1: Because I was thirty seven or thirty eight before I 707 00:28:41,080 --> 00:28:44,320 Speaker 1: met my wife, I'd kind of given up on thinking 708 00:28:44,360 --> 00:28:46,760 Speaker 1: that I would actually meet somebody that I felt like 709 00:28:46,800 --> 00:28:50,680 Speaker 1: would make me better that I would not settle for. 710 00:28:51,240 --> 00:28:53,680 Speaker 1: So on my mind, I kind of given up. I'd 711 00:28:54,160 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 1: always thought, hey, having kids would be fun, but I 712 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:58,120 Speaker 1: was never gonna have kids or get married for the 713 00:28:58,120 --> 00:29:00,360 Speaker 1: sake of just getting married, which would have hurt me politically. 714 00:29:00,400 --> 00:29:01,880 Speaker 1: I think if I ever ran for political office, because 715 00:29:01,880 --> 00:29:03,640 Speaker 1: I'd have been the weirdo that wasn't married. Running for 716 00:29:03,720 --> 00:29:07,560 Speaker 1: office hard to get votes whenever you're not married with 717 00:29:07,560 --> 00:29:10,520 Speaker 1: a kid, because they want to see that traditional nuclear family. Also, 718 00:29:10,520 --> 00:29:12,280 Speaker 1: I wrote a kid's book without a kid. How weird 719 00:29:12,400 --> 00:29:16,400 Speaker 1: is that? Now a bit it makes sense, and I 720 00:29:16,400 --> 00:29:21,000 Speaker 1: didn't write the book to get kids. It's weird to 721 00:29:21,000 --> 00:29:23,200 Speaker 1: say I wrote a book that I thought I would 722 00:29:23,240 --> 00:29:25,240 Speaker 1: have liked as a kid. But yeah, when I was 723 00:29:25,280 --> 00:29:28,120 Speaker 1: doing press for my book Stanley the Dog in his 724 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:30,440 Speaker 1: First Day of School, it was a little weird doing 725 00:29:30,440 --> 00:29:32,440 Speaker 1: interviews when I didn't have a kid and I wrote 726 00:29:32,440 --> 00:29:33,840 Speaker 1: a kid's book. I'm not going to lie, but now 727 00:29:33,880 --> 00:29:36,320 Speaker 1: that I have a kid, please buy my book Stanley 728 00:29:36,360 --> 00:29:40,200 Speaker 1: the Dog the First Day of School. So we have 729 00:29:40,560 --> 00:29:44,280 Speaker 1: a child. She's a couple weeks old now, and it's 730 00:29:44,320 --> 00:29:47,120 Speaker 1: been a blur and it feels like it was just yesterday, 731 00:29:47,120 --> 00:29:48,680 Speaker 1: and it also feels like it was ten years ago 732 00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:51,240 Speaker 1: at the same time, because we have dedicated all of 733 00:29:51,240 --> 00:29:53,120 Speaker 1: our time to that. The first week I took off 734 00:29:53,200 --> 00:29:57,680 Speaker 1: work completely, I had been working with the show for 735 00:29:57,720 --> 00:30:00,000 Speaker 1: a couple of months prior to make sure I had 736 00:30:00,080 --> 00:30:03,880 Speaker 1: recorded full shows, and we had all these shows that 737 00:30:03,920 --> 00:30:06,640 Speaker 1: went up on our Bobby Bone Show stream and even 738 00:30:06,720 --> 00:30:09,920 Speaker 1: secondary podcasts, and we had done interviews for my Netflix 739 00:30:09,920 --> 00:30:12,560 Speaker 1: podcast called The Bobby Cast. Like we were working. We 740 00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:14,800 Speaker 1: were grinding for like three or four months to make 741 00:30:14,800 --> 00:30:17,000 Speaker 1: sure we recovered so I could take a week off work, 742 00:30:17,040 --> 00:30:19,880 Speaker 1: and that's what I did. Took a week fully off work, 743 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:22,400 Speaker 1: and the second week I worked from home so if 744 00:30:22,400 --> 00:30:26,560 Speaker 1: my wife needed anything, I was there. I could walk 745 00:30:26,600 --> 00:30:30,400 Speaker 1: out of the studio and help her. So now we're 746 00:30:30,440 --> 00:30:33,400 Speaker 1: in like the third week, which I'm back to work 747 00:30:33,960 --> 00:30:39,640 Speaker 1: seventy five percent. But it's a lot of attention paid 748 00:30:39,680 --> 00:30:41,520 Speaker 1: on one thing. I would compare it to a long, 749 00:30:41,560 --> 00:30:43,920 Speaker 1: long road trip where you really haven't done a lot 750 00:30:43,960 --> 00:30:46,520 Speaker 1: of work, but you've been so focused on something to 751 00:30:46,520 --> 00:30:49,320 Speaker 1: make sure that nothing bad happens that you're exhausted. Like 752 00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,520 Speaker 1: the first week, we'd be like, why are we so 753 00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,600 Speaker 1: tired because we didn't really do It's not like we 754 00:30:53,600 --> 00:30:55,360 Speaker 1: were doing curls with the baby. We weren't like lifting 755 00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,760 Speaker 1: her above our head. You just focus on it and 756 00:30:57,800 --> 00:31:01,680 Speaker 1: building out a schedule. And so my brain was and 757 00:31:01,720 --> 00:31:03,680 Speaker 1: still is in a bit of mush so much so 758 00:31:03,760 --> 00:31:06,320 Speaker 1: toa what I was talking about is I was leaving 759 00:31:06,360 --> 00:31:07,959 Speaker 1: the gym yesterday. It was the first time I had 760 00:31:08,000 --> 00:31:10,320 Speaker 1: been back to work out in like a trainer capacity, 761 00:31:10,320 --> 00:31:14,360 Speaker 1: and I've been boxing a bit, and my coach comes 762 00:31:14,360 --> 00:31:16,120 Speaker 1: out of the front door because he has a small 763 00:31:16,160 --> 00:31:18,120 Speaker 1: boxing studio, and he's like hey, and I'm thinking, he's 764 00:31:18,120 --> 00:31:20,160 Speaker 1: gonna tell me, man, you're really crushing it, like day 765 00:31:20,200 --> 00:31:22,760 Speaker 1: one back you could be a pro boxer. He was, 766 00:31:22,800 --> 00:31:25,760 Speaker 1: and he was like, hey, your trunk's open. And not 767 00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:27,440 Speaker 1: only with my trunk open, but the stroller was like 768 00:31:27,480 --> 00:31:30,880 Speaker 1: halfway hanging out of the back. So got a little 769 00:31:30,880 --> 00:31:33,840 Speaker 1: bit of dad brain there. Thankfully he saw that i'd 770 00:31:33,880 --> 00:31:35,239 Speaker 1: have been driving down the road, I'd have lost the 771 00:31:35,240 --> 00:31:38,400 Speaker 1: stroller and those things are not cheap. Stroller, the bassinet 772 00:31:38,480 --> 00:31:40,360 Speaker 1: that goes on top of the stroller, all that hanging 773 00:31:40,360 --> 00:31:45,680 Speaker 1: halfway out the truck, So that happened yesterday. We had 774 00:31:45,680 --> 00:31:48,400 Speaker 1: installed these gates in our house, and not so much 775 00:31:48,440 --> 00:31:51,000 Speaker 1: a baby gate so a baby can't get somewhere, but 776 00:31:51,040 --> 00:31:52,920 Speaker 1: we had put these gates up in a car in 777 00:31:52,960 --> 00:31:56,440 Speaker 1: one place specifically so the dogs don't have free run 778 00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:59,400 Speaker 1: in the house. It has been a bit of an 779 00:31:59,400 --> 00:32:02,280 Speaker 1: introduction with the dogs to the baby, and we have 780 00:32:02,320 --> 00:32:04,400 Speaker 1: a bulldog, and Stanley's been great because mostly because he 781 00:32:04,440 --> 00:32:09,640 Speaker 1: doesn't care. So, you know, we did the whole let 782 00:32:09,680 --> 00:32:13,240 Speaker 1: the dogs smell the baby, let the dog be around 783 00:32:13,240 --> 00:32:14,720 Speaker 1: the baby a little bit, but don't give it full 784 00:32:14,760 --> 00:32:16,920 Speaker 1: access to the baby. You know, people say put blankets 785 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:19,640 Speaker 1: in the dogs kennels or beds, and so we've done 786 00:32:19,760 --> 00:32:22,720 Speaker 1: that type of stuff. And so for the first week, 787 00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,120 Speaker 1: Stanley was around her a lot, and he just doesn't care. 788 00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:28,000 Speaker 1: If it's not food, he doesn't care. He's an eight 789 00:32:28,040 --> 00:32:30,160 Speaker 1: year old bulldog at this time. He just wants to 790 00:32:30,200 --> 00:32:34,720 Speaker 1: be fed. Ella a little more high strung. She's definitely taller, 791 00:32:34,800 --> 00:32:37,160 Speaker 1: more athletic, so she can get to places that Stanley can't, 792 00:32:37,560 --> 00:32:41,800 Speaker 1: and so with her, we've had to really be precious 793 00:32:41,840 --> 00:32:44,200 Speaker 1: with the time that we allow her around the baby, 794 00:32:44,880 --> 00:32:47,040 Speaker 1: and she's now great. It just took a second. But 795 00:32:47,040 --> 00:32:48,720 Speaker 1: we have these gates that we've put up to block 796 00:32:49,120 --> 00:32:51,720 Speaker 1: different entrances in her house so the dogs can't get 797 00:32:51,760 --> 00:32:53,760 Speaker 1: to the baby, not so the baby can't get to 798 00:32:53,800 --> 00:32:56,080 Speaker 1: the dogs. That being said, it's annoying with the gate 799 00:32:56,280 --> 00:32:58,960 Speaker 1: because the gay goes up to about a little higher 800 00:32:58,960 --> 00:33:01,240 Speaker 1: than the top of my hip, and I'm a little 801 00:33:01,240 --> 00:33:03,520 Speaker 1: more than six foot tall. And there was a wrestler 802 00:33:03,600 --> 00:33:06,160 Speaker 1: back in the day WCW named Ellegante and he seven 803 00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 1: foot seven. He would step over the top rope, So 804 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,120 Speaker 1: I kind of picture myself as being Ellegante, and I 805 00:33:11,120 --> 00:33:14,880 Speaker 1: would step over the top of the gate. And I 806 00:33:14,960 --> 00:33:18,040 Speaker 1: had some diapers, I had like a cloth on my shoulder, 807 00:33:18,560 --> 00:33:22,239 Speaker 1: I had the peanut that you changed the baby on, 808 00:33:23,240 --> 00:33:27,520 Speaker 1: and I'm stepping over the gate and my foot catches 809 00:33:27,560 --> 00:33:30,120 Speaker 1: and I wipe out face first on the freaking floor. 810 00:33:30,440 --> 00:33:33,520 Speaker 1: Like I'm talking, hit hard, shoulder hits, head, hits. I 811 00:33:33,600 --> 00:33:38,760 Speaker 1: had surgery on my ankle. My ankle hurts. So also 812 00:33:38,840 --> 00:33:41,720 Speaker 1: a bit of probably dad brain is that I wasn't 813 00:33:41,760 --> 00:33:44,200 Speaker 1: super focused on getting over the gate, but I wiped 814 00:33:44,240 --> 00:33:46,440 Speaker 1: out herd. Everything still hurts, my back hurts, my neck hurts. 815 00:33:47,160 --> 00:33:47,800 Speaker 1: That happened. 816 00:33:48,400 --> 00:33:48,560 Speaker 3: Now. 817 00:33:48,560 --> 00:33:51,240 Speaker 1: I have other questions from you guys, specifically because I 818 00:33:51,240 --> 00:33:52,760 Speaker 1: did the Q and A on my Instagram and I 819 00:33:52,800 --> 00:33:54,320 Speaker 1: was like, hey, ask your questions and it was ninety 820 00:33:54,360 --> 00:33:58,280 Speaker 1: nine percent baby questions. So here we go. Any music 821 00:33:58,320 --> 00:34:02,080 Speaker 1: you play for the baby. There's two songs that we 822 00:34:02,240 --> 00:34:04,760 Speaker 1: play the most for the baby. Number one is this 823 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:09,319 Speaker 1: song by Imagen Heap. It's called the Happy Song. And 824 00:34:09,560 --> 00:34:11,120 Speaker 1: I know imagin Heap from back in the day. 825 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:12,000 Speaker 5: She was. 826 00:34:14,280 --> 00:34:18,800 Speaker 1: Like an emo, I don't want to say electronic artist, 827 00:34:19,200 --> 00:34:22,440 Speaker 1: but kind of in the B York world. And so 828 00:34:23,040 --> 00:34:26,759 Speaker 1: there's this song that they commissioned an artist to do 829 00:34:27,360 --> 00:34:30,279 Speaker 1: because scientists had come up with a lot of different 830 00:34:30,320 --> 00:34:32,919 Speaker 1: things you should put in songs in different melodies that work, 831 00:34:33,239 --> 00:34:36,120 Speaker 1: and she was the one they asked to do it. 832 00:34:36,239 --> 00:34:39,880 Speaker 1: And it supposedly calms your baby down, which is crazy, 833 00:34:40,280 --> 00:34:41,920 Speaker 1: and I don't know that it works, but I do 834 00:34:42,000 --> 00:34:45,360 Speaker 1: know that sometimes the baby gets calmer while it plays. 835 00:34:46,239 --> 00:34:49,520 Speaker 1: But this song was scientifically created to make your baby happy. 836 00:34:50,400 --> 00:34:53,120 Speaker 1: Imagen Heap The Happy Song. We play it all the time, 837 00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,880 Speaker 1: so much so that I sing it just randomly now 838 00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:57,160 Speaker 1: because we hear it all the time. It is on 839 00:34:57,160 --> 00:35:00,400 Speaker 1: a loop that one and the drugs don't work by 840 00:35:00,400 --> 00:35:06,440 Speaker 1: the Verve, and that song goes drugs don't work, and 841 00:35:06,480 --> 00:35:10,960 Speaker 1: then it's about drugs and stuff. But that song was 842 00:35:11,040 --> 00:35:13,200 Speaker 1: playing when my wife went into labor, and now I 843 00:35:13,239 --> 00:35:15,560 Speaker 1: can't stop thinking about it. We've played it so many times. 844 00:35:15,719 --> 00:35:17,399 Speaker 1: So those are the two songs we play the most. 845 00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,120 Speaker 1: The happy song and the drugs don't work by the 846 00:35:20,200 --> 00:35:23,800 Speaker 1: verve and the drugs don't work. They just make you worse. 847 00:35:23,960 --> 00:35:26,640 Speaker 1: But I know I'll see your face again. It has 848 00:35:26,680 --> 00:35:28,480 Speaker 1: nothing to do with babies. It's really a really sad 849 00:35:28,520 --> 00:35:31,719 Speaker 1: song about drugs. So as far as music goes, that's 850 00:35:31,719 --> 00:35:33,480 Speaker 1: where we are. We haven't played any of our kids 851 00:35:33,520 --> 00:35:37,080 Speaker 1: album I'm Raging Kidiots to the Baby, mostly because I 852 00:35:37,080 --> 00:35:41,160 Speaker 1: don't want to hear myself singing songs. Do you change 853 00:35:41,239 --> 00:35:45,279 Speaker 1: diapers was a question in a bunch of forms. I've 854 00:35:45,320 --> 00:35:47,920 Speaker 1: been at ninety five percent of the diaper changes, like 855 00:35:48,000 --> 00:35:51,000 Speaker 1: I've been an assistant at ninety five percent of the 856 00:35:51,000 --> 00:35:56,200 Speaker 1: diaper changes. We have a pit crew technique of baby 857 00:35:56,280 --> 00:35:58,640 Speaker 1: goes down onto the peanut, and the peanut is actually 858 00:35:58,680 --> 00:36:00,319 Speaker 1: a place. I didn't know this. All this is new 859 00:36:00,360 --> 00:36:02,400 Speaker 1: to me. The peanut is shaped like a peanut, and 860 00:36:02,440 --> 00:36:04,600 Speaker 1: it's a rubber thing that you lay the baby on 861 00:36:04,960 --> 00:36:07,000 Speaker 1: to change the baby. So if she peas or poops 862 00:36:07,040 --> 00:36:09,719 Speaker 1: on it, it's rubber. So you just wipe the peanut down, 863 00:36:09,800 --> 00:36:11,480 Speaker 1: clean it up, and it's good for the next time. 864 00:36:11,880 --> 00:36:13,560 Speaker 1: So the peanut gets carried around the house a bunch. 865 00:36:13,600 --> 00:36:16,800 Speaker 1: We have two peanuts. Now we layer on the peanut. 866 00:36:17,320 --> 00:36:20,440 Speaker 1: I go right to the wipes one, two, three wipes, 867 00:36:20,480 --> 00:36:23,480 Speaker 1: boom on the side of the peanut. Then I unzip 868 00:36:23,560 --> 00:36:25,960 Speaker 1: the onesie and pull the legs out, double leg lift. 869 00:36:27,719 --> 00:36:31,160 Speaker 1: Put the diaper underneath her. Now then my wife goes 870 00:36:31,200 --> 00:36:34,359 Speaker 1: in undoes the diaper goes down, make sure it's all good. 871 00:36:34,480 --> 00:36:39,319 Speaker 1: She does the cleaning of the baby, straps the diaper on. 872 00:36:39,600 --> 00:36:41,400 Speaker 1: If she needs more wipes, A hand her more wipes. 873 00:36:41,480 --> 00:36:43,320 Speaker 1: As soon as she's done with that, I'm then handed 874 00:36:43,320 --> 00:36:46,640 Speaker 1: the dirty diaper. I take the dirty diaper to the trash, 875 00:36:46,719 --> 00:36:49,319 Speaker 1: and I put the dirty diaper away. When I come back, 876 00:36:49,360 --> 00:36:51,120 Speaker 1: it's now time to zip her up in the onesie. 877 00:36:51,160 --> 00:36:53,080 Speaker 1: I have the right leg, she has the left leg. 878 00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:54,799 Speaker 1: Every single time, She's already done the arms while I 879 00:36:54,840 --> 00:36:59,240 Speaker 1: was away. Right leg, left leg, zip up, boom, done, 880 00:36:59,400 --> 00:37:03,720 Speaker 1: so we've got that down. I have done two solo changes, 881 00:37:05,280 --> 00:37:09,600 Speaker 1: that's right. I did a pee solo change and then 882 00:37:09,680 --> 00:37:13,680 Speaker 1: recently I did a poop solo change. It's pretty happy 883 00:37:13,680 --> 00:37:16,920 Speaker 1: with myself now. Selfishly, I don't want to get too 884 00:37:16,920 --> 00:37:18,200 Speaker 1: good at it because I'm gonna be asked to do 885 00:37:18,239 --> 00:37:20,560 Speaker 1: it all the time. But i do need to know 886 00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:22,680 Speaker 1: how to change a diaper, and I'm there for pretty 887 00:37:22,719 --> 00:37:24,200 Speaker 1: much every single one of them. I've been at work 888 00:37:24,200 --> 00:37:26,120 Speaker 1: a little more now, so I've not been able to 889 00:37:26,120 --> 00:37:30,000 Speaker 1: do them all in the morning, but i know the 890 00:37:30,040 --> 00:37:32,520 Speaker 1: timing of it all. We were having to feed her 891 00:37:32,560 --> 00:37:34,960 Speaker 1: every two to two and a half hours, and now 892 00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:36,800 Speaker 1: we're on a three to three and a half hour schedule, 893 00:37:37,120 --> 00:37:41,600 Speaker 1: so it's change her so she wakes up, feed her, 894 00:37:42,000 --> 00:37:43,840 Speaker 1: then she goes to sleep while she's eating, which is 895 00:37:43,920 --> 00:37:45,680 Speaker 1: very difficult to get her to wake up sometimes while 896 00:37:45,680 --> 00:37:47,239 Speaker 1: she's eating so she can eat enough food, and then 897 00:37:47,280 --> 00:37:48,840 Speaker 1: she takes an half and it just states on a 898 00:37:48,880 --> 00:37:51,520 Speaker 1: schedule like that until nighttime, which now she's sleeping at 899 00:37:51,560 --> 00:37:54,239 Speaker 1: times five and a half to six hours. So I've 900 00:37:54,239 --> 00:37:56,480 Speaker 1: been at ninety five percent of the diaper changes and 901 00:37:56,520 --> 00:37:59,360 Speaker 1: I've done two solos could I do it if my 902 00:37:59,400 --> 00:38:01,920 Speaker 1: wife said, hey, let's do a diaper change, or hey, 903 00:38:01,920 --> 00:38:04,239 Speaker 1: I'm going to be gone, can you absolutely I can 904 00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,480 Speaker 1: do everything that I need to do with the baby 905 00:38:06,520 --> 00:38:08,759 Speaker 1: if my wife is gone for three hours. I feel 906 00:38:08,840 --> 00:38:11,560 Speaker 1: completely comfortable with that. There are times now for like 907 00:38:11,600 --> 00:38:13,640 Speaker 1: an hour, hour and a half or so, it's just 908 00:38:13,680 --> 00:38:15,399 Speaker 1: me and the baby. I'm good with that. Something goes wrong, 909 00:38:15,440 --> 00:38:16,600 Speaker 1: I got it. I don't want to be the person 910 00:38:16,600 --> 00:38:17,799 Speaker 1: that doesn't know what they're doing. I don't want to 911 00:38:17,800 --> 00:38:20,640 Speaker 1: be that dad that doesn't have a clue. I want 912 00:38:20,680 --> 00:38:22,120 Speaker 1: to be the dad that knows how to do everything, 913 00:38:22,120 --> 00:38:23,960 Speaker 1: but then doesn't have to do everything because they're kind 914 00:38:23,960 --> 00:38:26,600 Speaker 1: of grossed out by it. That's where I am now. 915 00:38:26,760 --> 00:38:28,799 Speaker 1: I'm also not as grossed out by it as I 916 00:38:28,840 --> 00:38:31,680 Speaker 1: think I was at the beginning, because I've just been 917 00:38:31,680 --> 00:38:35,239 Speaker 1: exposed to it so much. So the other day, when 918 00:38:35,239 --> 00:38:38,200 Speaker 1: I was changing the first poopy diaper by myself, I 919 00:38:38,280 --> 00:38:41,200 Speaker 1: wasn't that grossed out by it. Now I'm being told 920 00:38:41,239 --> 00:38:46,000 Speaker 1: that when they start eating real food, it gets gross. 921 00:38:46,560 --> 00:38:48,840 Speaker 1: I'm probably gonna forget how to change diapers when that happens. 922 00:38:49,320 --> 00:38:50,960 Speaker 1: I'm going to go back to that where I'm like, oh, 923 00:38:51,600 --> 00:38:53,279 Speaker 1: I thought it went on her head. You know, I'm 924 00:38:53,280 --> 00:38:56,759 Speaker 1: probably going to get back to that area. But that's 925 00:38:56,800 --> 00:38:57,359 Speaker 1: where we are. 926 00:38:57,440 --> 00:38:58,720 Speaker 7: Now. 927 00:38:58,800 --> 00:39:02,880 Speaker 1: Here's another question. What are your top five moments with 928 00:39:03,000 --> 00:39:07,040 Speaker 1: the baby? Ah, good question. I made a list here 929 00:39:07,680 --> 00:39:12,480 Speaker 1: at number five. I have a friend that I'm really 930 00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:15,160 Speaker 1: close to, except sometimes he won't answer my call for 931 00:39:15,200 --> 00:39:19,120 Speaker 1: like three months. That's a weird juxtaposition, but it's my 932 00:39:19,160 --> 00:39:23,239 Speaker 1: friend of mad I love a Mod. I'd give him 933 00:39:23,280 --> 00:39:28,160 Speaker 1: a kidney. We have been friends for twenty years. He 934 00:39:28,239 --> 00:39:32,840 Speaker 1: was in my wedding. He's a groomsman, right, Eddie, Yeah, yeah, 935 00:39:33,160 --> 00:39:36,600 Speaker 1: A Mod was a groomsman in my wedding. Sometimes he's 936 00:39:36,600 --> 00:39:39,239 Speaker 1: just saying to answer the phone for months at a time. 937 00:39:39,239 --> 00:39:41,080 Speaker 1: He does this to other friends too. He just disappears 938 00:39:41,120 --> 00:39:44,880 Speaker 1: off the face of the earth. I had my daughter 939 00:39:45,400 --> 00:39:47,480 Speaker 1: on my chest and I didn't FaceTime many people to 940 00:39:47,520 --> 00:39:50,359 Speaker 1: show them her. But I wanted to show a Mod 941 00:39:51,160 --> 00:39:53,719 Speaker 1: and so I facetimed a Mod. He didn't answer. Well, 942 00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:57,080 Speaker 1: Now FaceTime allows you to send a video as a Hey, 943 00:39:57,080 --> 00:39:59,239 Speaker 1: you didn't answer, but here's a video. So I sent 944 00:39:59,320 --> 00:40:01,399 Speaker 1: a video and I'll like, dude, you didn't answer. Now 945 00:40:01,400 --> 00:40:04,160 Speaker 1: he's avoiding my calls or just been too busy to 946 00:40:04,160 --> 00:40:06,200 Speaker 1: call me back for two months. He called him back 947 00:40:06,200 --> 00:40:09,000 Speaker 1: in thirty seconds, and so then I talked to him 948 00:40:09,040 --> 00:40:10,560 Speaker 1: for a long time, which shows you he just doesn't 949 00:40:10,560 --> 00:40:13,319 Speaker 1: answer because he doesn't want to, and that sucks in 950 00:40:13,360 --> 00:40:16,600 Speaker 1: a mad if you're watching this, that sucks. But uh, 951 00:40:16,719 --> 00:40:18,600 Speaker 1: my number five moment with the baby was getting one 952 00:40:18,600 --> 00:40:20,600 Speaker 1: of my friends to answer my FaceTime because I had 953 00:40:20,600 --> 00:40:24,440 Speaker 1: the baby with me at number four. I've never been 954 00:40:24,440 --> 00:40:26,480 Speaker 1: someone to hold babies. I've held one baby in my 955 00:40:26,600 --> 00:40:30,800 Speaker 1: life ever, one time before my wife had our daughter, 956 00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,360 Speaker 1: and it was my nephew, and it's because they were like, 957 00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:35,239 Speaker 1: hold this baby real quick, and I was like, oh God, 958 00:40:35,760 --> 00:40:39,319 Speaker 1: and I just was was weird because I just never 959 00:40:39,360 --> 00:40:40,800 Speaker 1: held a baby. I didn't want to drop a baby, 960 00:40:40,880 --> 00:40:44,479 Speaker 1: really had no I wasn't drawn to babies, and so 961 00:40:45,360 --> 00:40:46,799 Speaker 1: I was never the person to be like, let me 962 00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:48,680 Speaker 1: hold your baby. So I didn't really understand this was 963 00:40:48,680 --> 00:40:53,040 Speaker 1: a thing. But we went to the pediatrician, and you 964 00:40:53,080 --> 00:40:56,200 Speaker 1: go like two days after you give birth, maybe one day, 965 00:40:56,200 --> 00:41:00,959 Speaker 1: but or ours led into a weekend and the atrician said, hey, 966 00:41:02,280 --> 00:41:04,399 Speaker 1: we're still at the back end of RSV you don't 967 00:41:04,400 --> 00:41:06,279 Speaker 1: want your baby getting that. You don't want flew all 968 00:41:06,320 --> 00:41:08,480 Speaker 1: this stuff. So don't let people around the baby if 969 00:41:08,520 --> 00:41:11,879 Speaker 1: they are feeling one percent sick, don't let them around. 970 00:41:11,880 --> 00:41:14,120 Speaker 1: If they've been on an airplane, don't let them around. 971 00:41:14,400 --> 00:41:17,560 Speaker 1: And don't let kids around the baby right now. So 972 00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:20,360 Speaker 1: those three things. So my wife has been super vigilant 973 00:41:20,400 --> 00:41:21,920 Speaker 1: about that. Now. There have been times like we were 974 00:41:21,960 --> 00:41:24,759 Speaker 1: on a walk yesterday and we saw somebody we knew 975 00:41:25,440 --> 00:41:28,080 Speaker 1: and she came over the person we knew and was 976 00:41:28,120 --> 00:41:29,960 Speaker 1: like so conscious to not grab and want to hold 977 00:41:29,960 --> 00:41:32,120 Speaker 1: a baby, and I thought that was so cool. I 978 00:41:32,160 --> 00:41:34,600 Speaker 1: don't have consciousness of that because I never wanted to 979 00:41:34,640 --> 00:41:36,520 Speaker 1: hold a baby, But there have been a couple of 980 00:41:36,520 --> 00:41:38,640 Speaker 1: times where we've been with people we know and they 981 00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:40,200 Speaker 1: don't like grab to hold the baby, and I think 982 00:41:40,200 --> 00:41:42,719 Speaker 1: that's super cool. They probably know people that aren't the 983 00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:44,600 Speaker 1: mom and the dad this early shouldn't be grabbing and 984 00:41:44,600 --> 00:41:47,919 Speaker 1: holding the baby. But I think that's been a top 985 00:41:47,960 --> 00:41:50,279 Speaker 1: moment of the baby seeing other people appreciate the fact 986 00:41:50,280 --> 00:41:51,759 Speaker 1: that we don't want anybody holding our baby because we 987 00:41:51,760 --> 00:41:56,160 Speaker 1: don't want aybody getting baby sick. That's number four. Number three, 988 00:41:57,920 --> 00:42:02,840 Speaker 1: I'd always heard the stories about when your kid is born, 989 00:42:03,800 --> 00:42:07,520 Speaker 1: there's gonna be this moment of anxiety that happens after 990 00:42:07,600 --> 00:42:10,319 Speaker 1: the birth when there's not a noise made because they 991 00:42:10,400 --> 00:42:12,840 Speaker 1: have to clear the airway of the baby. And so 992 00:42:12,880 --> 00:42:16,160 Speaker 1: I was always nervous about that few seconds. Baby comes out, 993 00:42:16,200 --> 00:42:18,080 Speaker 1: baby can't breathe. Oh God, is the baby gonna breathe? 994 00:42:18,080 --> 00:42:18,880 Speaker 1: Is baby gonna breathe? 995 00:42:19,080 --> 00:42:19,279 Speaker 7: Baby? 996 00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,600 Speaker 1: Is baby gonna breathe? And it starts crying, and you're like, whoa. 997 00:42:22,400 --> 00:42:25,680 Speaker 1: I didn't have that happen now. I didn't look. I 998 00:42:25,760 --> 00:42:28,640 Speaker 1: kept head up, I kept head at head. I kept 999 00:42:28,680 --> 00:42:29,680 Speaker 1: my head up near my wife. 1000 00:42:29,800 --> 00:42:30,480 Speaker 7: I was rooting her on. 1001 00:42:31,800 --> 00:42:33,240 Speaker 1: It was like I was at Budda Walton and Arena, 1002 00:42:33,880 --> 00:42:36,640 Speaker 1: like let's go woo pig Sue. I was rooting for 1003 00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:39,560 Speaker 1: my wife and they were like okay, and it was 1004 00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:41,880 Speaker 1: pretty quick, like well, my wife and a labor. It 1005 00:42:41,920 --> 00:42:45,239 Speaker 1: was less than an hour. It was super quick. So 1006 00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,560 Speaker 1: the baby was born. They were like here it comes, 1007 00:42:49,600 --> 00:42:51,640 Speaker 1: woll It's got a lot of hair. Oh my god, 1008 00:42:52,120 --> 00:42:55,719 Speaker 1: here's the baby. Wow. I started crying immediately. So I 1009 00:42:55,760 --> 00:42:57,719 Speaker 1: never had that moment of being like, oh my god, 1010 00:42:57,800 --> 00:43:02,040 Speaker 1: is the baby gonna live? They Yeah, that was a 1011 00:43:02,040 --> 00:43:04,440 Speaker 1: great moment for me because I was concerned about it 1012 00:43:04,480 --> 00:43:08,359 Speaker 1: going in and once we got there and I didn't 1013 00:43:08,360 --> 00:43:10,680 Speaker 1: even think about it till it was over because luckily 1014 00:43:10,719 --> 00:43:14,280 Speaker 1: for us, I don't know if the baby was breathing 1015 00:43:14,320 --> 00:43:16,160 Speaker 1: immediately or they cleared the air and I just wasn't 1016 00:43:16,200 --> 00:43:20,799 Speaker 1: down there looking. So that was number three, number two 1017 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:23,239 Speaker 1: top five moments with the baby. My wife and I 1018 00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,520 Speaker 1: have been going on walks with baby every single day. 1019 00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:31,839 Speaker 1: The baby's not walking, obviously, but that's been fun. They're 1020 00:43:31,880 --> 00:43:34,000 Speaker 1: not long walks because my wife had been recovery after 1021 00:43:34,040 --> 00:43:36,640 Speaker 1: having a baby with shout out to women who knew, 1022 00:43:38,520 --> 00:43:40,600 Speaker 1: who knew? I just felt like, you know, you had 1023 00:43:40,600 --> 00:43:42,560 Speaker 1: a baby, rube a little dirt on it, get to 1024 00:43:42,640 --> 00:43:49,120 Speaker 1: raisin because I've never been around babies. Dude, that sucks 1025 00:43:49,120 --> 00:43:54,120 Speaker 1: for you guys, Like I'll be honest. That sucks. Like 1026 00:43:54,200 --> 00:43:56,440 Speaker 1: it doesn't just come out it's not fluh. It's just 1027 00:43:56,560 --> 00:43:59,480 Speaker 1: come out clean like a slipping slide and all of 1028 00:43:59,480 --> 00:44:02,720 Speaker 1: a sudden it's out there with no like it. It's man, 1029 00:44:03,080 --> 00:44:05,160 Speaker 1: how about you guys for that? Like thumbs up? 1030 00:44:05,760 --> 00:44:05,960 Speaker 7: Uh. 1031 00:44:06,000 --> 00:44:07,719 Speaker 1: So we've been going on walks and we go a 1032 00:44:07,719 --> 00:44:09,840 Speaker 1: little further each day as my wife has been recovering, 1033 00:44:10,040 --> 00:44:14,000 Speaker 1: and she's been recovering like a champ, Like even going 1034 00:44:14,040 --> 00:44:16,080 Speaker 1: to the bathroom is hard for you guys who knew. 1035 00:44:16,239 --> 00:44:16,680 Speaker 7: I didn't know. 1036 00:44:16,719 --> 00:44:20,480 Speaker 1: I didn't think about it. Uh So going on walks 1037 00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:22,919 Speaker 1: because it's represented a couple of things. One my wife 1038 00:44:23,040 --> 00:44:25,760 Speaker 1: is recovering, and two, I'm pretty good at the stroller. 1039 00:44:26,760 --> 00:44:27,480 Speaker 7: Like whay quick quack. 1040 00:44:27,520 --> 00:44:31,000 Speaker 1: Why do you ever see that George Cliney movie where 1041 00:44:31,000 --> 00:44:33,239 Speaker 1: he flies all the time Andy Kendrick Sennate and so 1042 00:44:33,719 --> 00:44:36,960 Speaker 1: he's like so good at going through security at the 1043 00:44:37,000 --> 00:44:38,960 Speaker 1: airport or it's like what you do, what you do, 1044 00:44:39,560 --> 00:44:41,840 Speaker 1: and so, uh that's when I am with the stroller 1045 00:44:41,880 --> 00:44:45,359 Speaker 1: at this point, Like but the tame time uncollapse, it 1046 00:44:45,600 --> 00:44:48,080 Speaker 1: boom on top of it. Right now we're bassing at 1047 00:44:48,080 --> 00:44:51,160 Speaker 1: and on top broom handle out boom walking. We're getting 1048 00:44:51,160 --> 00:44:54,560 Speaker 1: pretty good at the car seat too, So that's where 1049 00:44:54,560 --> 00:44:56,600 Speaker 1: we are there. And then number one, my number one 1050 00:44:56,600 --> 00:45:00,640 Speaker 1: moment with the baby so far has been it's been 1051 00:45:00,800 --> 00:45:03,840 Speaker 1: definitely more taxing on my wife because she's been doing 1052 00:45:04,200 --> 00:45:06,839 Speaker 1: most of the hands on I've been with her every 1053 00:45:06,840 --> 00:45:09,960 Speaker 1: step of the way, but obviously I just mentioned she 1054 00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:15,760 Speaker 1: changing the diapers, and she's been exhausted and her body 1055 00:45:15,880 --> 00:45:19,560 Speaker 1: obviously has gone through it having to deliver a baby, 1056 00:45:20,040 --> 00:45:22,400 Speaker 1: and there's so much adrenaline. I mean, it took four 1057 00:45:22,480 --> 00:45:24,000 Speaker 1: or five days for the adrenaline to come out of 1058 00:45:24,000 --> 00:45:26,239 Speaker 1: my wife's bodies where she was. You know, she got 1059 00:45:26,280 --> 00:45:29,680 Speaker 1: exhausted after that was over. But so I've been super 1060 00:45:29,680 --> 00:45:32,239 Speaker 1: concerned about her. I think most of my energy has 1061 00:45:32,440 --> 00:45:35,360 Speaker 1: gone into making sure that she feels good or feels 1062 00:45:35,400 --> 00:45:37,239 Speaker 1: as best she can while doing it. So it's not 1063 00:45:37,280 --> 00:45:39,959 Speaker 1: like I've done nothing or she's been super attentive towards 1064 00:45:39,960 --> 00:45:41,680 Speaker 1: the baby. I've been pretty attentive to the baby, but 1065 00:45:41,680 --> 00:45:45,759 Speaker 1: I've been super attentive toward her. So every single thing 1066 00:45:45,800 --> 00:45:48,600 Speaker 1: she could ask for or want, hopefully I've been able 1067 00:45:48,640 --> 00:45:49,960 Speaker 1: to provide that. I got to call it the gate. 1068 00:45:49,960 --> 00:45:51,319 Speaker 1: It might be something for the baby, let me answer it. 1069 00:45:51,920 --> 00:45:55,759 Speaker 1: Here we go, Oh yeah, it's another baby coming over 1070 00:45:55,800 --> 00:45:56,800 Speaker 1: to play. 1071 00:45:56,920 --> 00:45:57,239 Speaker 7: It's not. 1072 00:45:58,719 --> 00:46:02,400 Speaker 1: So I've worried about my wife and I've tried to 1073 00:46:02,440 --> 00:46:05,360 Speaker 1: meet all of her needs and predict all of her needs. 1074 00:46:05,640 --> 00:46:07,640 Speaker 1: And I was talking to her the other night and 1075 00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:10,000 Speaker 1: I was just asking her, like, how do you feel 1076 00:46:11,440 --> 00:46:15,080 Speaker 1: baby was asleep, and she said that this has been 1077 00:46:15,120 --> 00:46:18,160 Speaker 1: the happiest she's ever been in her whole life, which 1078 00:46:18,160 --> 00:46:24,720 Speaker 1: I thought was amazing for her to say that, And 1079 00:46:24,840 --> 00:46:27,839 Speaker 1: I think that's my number one moment is her saying 1080 00:46:27,840 --> 00:46:29,279 Speaker 1: that this is the happiest she has ever been in 1081 00:46:29,320 --> 00:46:31,560 Speaker 1: her whole life. She's taken to it like a duck 1082 00:46:31,600 --> 00:46:33,520 Speaker 1: to water. Man, you see a baby duck's ever been 1083 00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,520 Speaker 1: in the water, hatches out, hops on the water. That's 1084 00:46:36,600 --> 00:46:38,799 Speaker 1: kind of what this has been like with her. So 1085 00:46:39,880 --> 00:46:43,319 Speaker 1: that's my number one moment for sure. The best thing 1086 00:46:43,360 --> 00:46:46,120 Speaker 1: I've ever seen is her be a mom and love 1087 00:46:46,200 --> 00:46:48,960 Speaker 1: being a mom so much it's crazy. It's like a 1088 00:46:49,000 --> 00:46:53,160 Speaker 1: different kind of love for my wife, because no doubt 1089 00:46:53,480 --> 00:46:56,960 Speaker 1: I loved her and I really liked her. Both of 1090 00:46:56,960 --> 00:47:00,520 Speaker 1: those things are super important. Like I think she's super funny, 1091 00:47:00,520 --> 00:47:02,759 Speaker 1: Like everything I ever wanted in a wife, I got 1092 00:47:02,760 --> 00:47:07,799 Speaker 1: it from her. But to see her now embrace being 1093 00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:10,520 Speaker 1: a mom like this, it has been a different kind 1094 00:47:10,560 --> 00:47:13,200 Speaker 1: of connection and a different kind of love. So that's 1095 00:47:13,239 --> 00:47:17,120 Speaker 1: been pretty cool. A few more here, What has happened 1096 00:47:17,120 --> 00:47:21,319 Speaker 1: A baby taught you that was unexpected that I have 1097 00:47:21,360 --> 00:47:23,680 Speaker 1: an appreciation for my parents, keeping me alive when I 1098 00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:28,120 Speaker 1: was a baby, because you have to do everything for 1099 00:47:28,160 --> 00:47:30,759 Speaker 1: these little babies. Obviously, I'm assuming most of you guys 1100 00:47:30,800 --> 00:47:34,920 Speaker 1: watching this have had a baby, but you have to 1101 00:47:34,960 --> 00:47:38,120 Speaker 1: do everything for it, and you're super concerned about everything. 1102 00:47:38,160 --> 00:47:39,960 Speaker 1: And I think back, and I don't have a relationship 1103 00:47:39,960 --> 00:47:47,680 Speaker 1: that is super warm with my parents parenting me. But 1104 00:47:47,800 --> 00:47:51,520 Speaker 1: mom got pregnant fifteen years old. My biological dad was 1105 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:55,520 Speaker 1: sixteen years old. Like you're talking about teenagers having kids 1106 00:47:56,840 --> 00:47:59,480 Speaker 1: and for me to be alive through the baby stage, Like, 1107 00:48:00,680 --> 00:48:04,000 Speaker 1: I have an appreciation they kept a baby alive when 1108 00:48:04,040 --> 00:48:08,080 Speaker 1: they were sixteen, seventeen, eighteen years old. That's crazy because 1109 00:48:08,120 --> 00:48:09,880 Speaker 1: we're doing everything we can to keep this baby alive. 1110 00:48:10,120 --> 00:48:12,759 Speaker 1: And I'm a forty she's my watching her thirties, and 1111 00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,799 Speaker 1: we're pouring everything into it. So there is an appreciation 1112 00:48:18,000 --> 00:48:22,480 Speaker 1: for my teenage parents that they just kept the baby alive, 1113 00:48:23,200 --> 00:48:26,360 Speaker 1: because that's a feat in itself, is keeping a baby alive. 1114 00:48:27,040 --> 00:48:29,279 Speaker 1: And also they didn't have the resources that we have, 1115 00:48:29,360 --> 00:48:31,680 Speaker 1: not even technology wise. But like I have money now, 1116 00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:35,000 Speaker 1: I've been working for a long time. I'm also in 1117 00:48:35,040 --> 00:48:37,840 Speaker 1: my forties, so I have money saved up. So it's easier. 1118 00:48:37,880 --> 00:48:40,560 Speaker 1: Whenever you can buy stuff that the peanut ain't cheap, 1119 00:48:41,960 --> 00:48:43,440 Speaker 1: they probably do me on a picnic table when I 1120 00:48:43,480 --> 00:48:46,160 Speaker 1: was a kid, make sure it didn't roll off. So 1121 00:48:46,200 --> 00:48:52,080 Speaker 1: I think that has been probably the thing most that 1122 00:48:52,120 --> 00:48:57,920 Speaker 1: I've appreciated since I've had a baby, about being a baby. 1123 00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:02,239 Speaker 1: All Right, we got a live question out of everyone 1124 00:49:02,280 --> 00:49:04,560 Speaker 1: who gave you advice, what is the most true and 1125 00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:12,160 Speaker 1: what advice are you actually taking. It's a great question 1126 00:49:13,160 --> 00:49:15,680 Speaker 1: and it's a live question, so I definitely didn't get 1127 00:49:15,680 --> 00:49:21,120 Speaker 1: to make a note here. I don't know that I'm 1128 00:49:21,160 --> 00:49:25,360 Speaker 1: taking anybody's advice. I started looking and reading some stuff 1129 00:49:25,400 --> 00:49:31,440 Speaker 1: from books, and mostly it's people's perspective, or mostly it's 1130 00:49:31,680 --> 00:49:41,840 Speaker 1: people's like what they went through that was specific to them. 1131 00:49:41,920 --> 00:49:43,719 Speaker 1: I don't have a good answer for that, because most 1132 00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:47,200 Speaker 1: people's advice is about being like macro parent, like this 1133 00:49:47,280 --> 00:49:48,920 Speaker 1: is what's going to happen to you as a kid. 1134 00:49:48,920 --> 00:49:50,680 Speaker 1: They're going to grow so fast, they're going to Most 1135 00:49:50,680 --> 00:49:52,319 Speaker 1: of it's not you have a one week old, here's 1136 00:49:52,360 --> 00:49:54,560 Speaker 1: exactly what you do. So I don't know that I'm 1137 00:49:54,680 --> 00:49:56,960 Speaker 1: against advice. I don't think any of the advice anybody's 1138 00:49:57,000 --> 00:49:59,480 Speaker 1: given me has been able to come to fruition yet 1139 00:49:59,480 --> 00:50:01,680 Speaker 1: for me using it because we just had the baby 1140 00:50:01,719 --> 00:50:07,000 Speaker 1: and it's all super newborn stuff. So yeah, live question. 1141 00:50:07,000 --> 00:50:11,879 Speaker 1: I should have really vetted that out. Here's another one. 1142 00:50:13,040 --> 00:50:15,640 Speaker 1: I think I answered this one accidentally. Do you wish 1143 00:50:15,640 --> 00:50:19,480 Speaker 1: you to have it started a family younger? No, because 1144 00:50:21,120 --> 00:50:24,160 Speaker 1: younger I wouldn't have had Caitlin. So I wouldn't have 1145 00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:27,200 Speaker 1: started a family because I never thought i'd get married. 1146 00:50:28,239 --> 00:50:33,360 Speaker 1: And mostly too, I think, you know, I was really 1147 00:50:33,400 --> 00:50:35,360 Speaker 1: scared that I was going to have a kid and 1148 00:50:35,400 --> 00:50:37,719 Speaker 1: not have the money to have a kid. And I 1149 00:50:37,719 --> 00:50:39,000 Speaker 1: know there are a lot of people having kids. I mean, 1150 00:50:39,000 --> 00:50:40,680 Speaker 1: look at my teenage parents. They were able to have me. 1151 00:50:41,160 --> 00:50:43,480 Speaker 1: But I guess I didn't want to have a kid 1152 00:50:43,520 --> 00:50:45,440 Speaker 1: at six, seven, eight nine years old, not be able 1153 00:50:45,480 --> 00:50:47,560 Speaker 1: to afford the things that kids need to have just 1154 00:50:47,560 --> 00:50:48,839 Speaker 1: to go to school. Because I did, I wasn't able 1155 00:50:48,840 --> 00:50:50,040 Speaker 1: to afford those. There were times when I was a 1156 00:50:50,080 --> 00:50:52,040 Speaker 1: kid where I didn't go to school on the days 1157 00:50:52,040 --> 00:50:54,120 Speaker 1: that there was like a field trip or there was 1158 00:50:54,280 --> 00:50:55,640 Speaker 1: you had to bring money for that because I couldn't 1159 00:50:55,640 --> 00:50:57,040 Speaker 1: afford it. So I would just be like sick when 1160 00:50:57,040 --> 00:50:58,520 Speaker 1: I was a kid, So I just didn't want to 1161 00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:03,240 Speaker 1: put a kid in that situation. But no, I'm good. 1162 00:51:04,880 --> 00:51:07,160 Speaker 1: I also don't want to be one hundred years old 1163 00:51:07,800 --> 00:51:13,080 Speaker 1: al pacino eighty six years old having a baby. That's hey, 1164 00:51:13,120 --> 00:51:16,080 Speaker 1: but more power to them, you know. Other than that, 1165 00:51:16,800 --> 00:51:18,560 Speaker 1: I'm just kind of getting back on the train after 1166 00:51:18,600 --> 00:51:20,839 Speaker 1: a couple of few weeks. Other than one workout, I've 1167 00:51:20,840 --> 00:51:23,960 Speaker 1: worked out at all. I stopped taking vitamins, I was 1168 00:51:23,960 --> 00:51:28,280 Speaker 1: doing nad like I was on like formula. My formula 1169 00:51:28,360 --> 00:51:30,719 Speaker 1: was every day, wake up, do this. That's been completely off, 1170 00:51:30,719 --> 00:51:32,640 Speaker 1: so I got to get back there. I've never been 1171 00:51:32,680 --> 00:51:36,839 Speaker 1: so tired doing nothing because I've done nothing. I've worked. 1172 00:51:36,840 --> 00:51:38,239 Speaker 1: I'm talking about the baby. You don't do anything, just 1173 00:51:38,239 --> 00:51:43,160 Speaker 1: sit around, but you just make sure everything's always you know, 1174 00:51:43,200 --> 00:51:48,960 Speaker 1: being paid attention to. So I've never been so tired 1175 00:51:49,280 --> 00:51:51,040 Speaker 1: from doing nothing. But that's kind of how you feel. 1176 00:51:51,080 --> 00:51:52,680 Speaker 1: Also after you drive a car for a long time, 1177 00:51:52,760 --> 00:51:53,920 Speaker 1: like I didn't do anything, so I've sent a car 1178 00:51:53,960 --> 00:51:58,399 Speaker 1: for nine hours. Why am I so exhausted? So that's it. 1179 00:51:59,560 --> 00:52:04,080 Speaker 1: That's the state of the union. Other questions are like, 1180 00:52:04,320 --> 00:52:06,000 Speaker 1: are you going to show your baby on social media? 1181 00:52:06,040 --> 00:52:07,919 Speaker 1: And I've talked about this a lot. We don't really 1182 00:52:07,960 --> 00:52:10,319 Speaker 1: have a plan right now on what we are aren't 1183 00:52:10,360 --> 00:52:13,839 Speaker 1: doing right now. My wife has decided she doesn't want 1184 00:52:13,840 --> 00:52:15,880 Speaker 1: the baby's face on social media. My wife doesn't need 1185 00:52:15,880 --> 00:52:17,680 Speaker 1: the love from social media. She doesn't care about that, 1186 00:52:18,000 --> 00:52:19,920 Speaker 1: and so she also doesn't then want to have to 1187 00:52:19,920 --> 00:52:22,360 Speaker 1: deal with people saying negative things just to try to 1188 00:52:22,360 --> 00:52:25,640 Speaker 1: get at me. So we've decided right now, no baby face. 1189 00:52:25,640 --> 00:52:27,120 Speaker 1: And my wife went through it like my wife had 1190 00:52:27,120 --> 00:52:30,560 Speaker 1: a stalker, like with the FBI had to get involved 1191 00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:33,719 Speaker 1: with for a long time that just simply came from 1192 00:52:33,719 --> 00:52:35,839 Speaker 1: social media and internet at my job. So I think 1193 00:52:35,880 --> 00:52:37,759 Speaker 1: a little bit there's some trauma to that. It's like, 1194 00:52:37,800 --> 00:52:39,719 Speaker 1: why would we do this with our kid Whenever the 1195 00:52:39,800 --> 00:52:41,720 Speaker 1: adult had to deal with it. Imagine if the baby's 1196 00:52:41,760 --> 00:52:45,640 Speaker 1: having to do something. So right now, no, we're not 1197 00:52:45,680 --> 00:52:48,960 Speaker 1: dead set against it, but right now we've decided for 1198 00:52:49,080 --> 00:52:51,000 Speaker 1: us at this point, we're going to keep the baby's 1199 00:52:51,000 --> 00:52:56,399 Speaker 1: face off the internet. And that's all. We do have 1200 00:52:56,680 --> 00:52:59,120 Speaker 1: an app. Everybody has the app, but we do have 1201 00:52:59,160 --> 00:53:02,239 Speaker 1: a tab in the app it's the notes app. And 1202 00:53:02,280 --> 00:53:07,479 Speaker 1: on this notesapp, we've got a feeding schedule of what time, 1203 00:53:07,560 --> 00:53:11,360 Speaker 1: how many ounces, what diapers, what time had happened, dirty diapers, 1204 00:53:11,360 --> 00:53:13,279 Speaker 1: what time had happened, and like we keep it all. 1205 00:53:13,320 --> 00:53:17,919 Speaker 1: We've been tracking it. So we've been doing pretty good. 1206 00:53:18,760 --> 00:53:20,480 Speaker 1: My wife's been doing pretty good. My wife's been doing 1207 00:53:20,480 --> 00:53:22,960 Speaker 1: great actually, and I worry too when I went back 1208 00:53:23,000 --> 00:53:27,880 Speaker 1: to work, like how she would feel or react, and 1209 00:53:28,280 --> 00:53:30,560 Speaker 1: she'll just text me pictures and be like, we're killing it. 1210 00:53:30,680 --> 00:53:34,040 Speaker 1: We're doing good. She her heart breaks whenever, like the 1211 00:53:34,080 --> 00:53:37,160 Speaker 1: baby is sick or fussy and she can't figure out 1212 00:53:37,239 --> 00:53:40,360 Speaker 1: like fix it immediately. But I imagine that's just a 1213 00:53:40,440 --> 00:53:45,160 Speaker 1: parent thing. So thank you for all the questions. I 1214 00:53:45,160 --> 00:53:50,000 Speaker 1: think I've pretty much answered generally all the questions that 1215 00:53:50,000 --> 00:53:53,520 Speaker 1: are mostly asked over social media, and that is the 1216 00:53:53,640 --> 00:53:55,320 Speaker 1: baby state of the Union. 1217 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:56,000 Speaker 3: Thank you. 1218 00:53:57,560 --> 00:53:59,799 Speaker 1: It's good to Mario who lives in Denver. Mario, you're 1219 00:53:59,800 --> 00:54:01,799 Speaker 1: on the show What's Up Buddy Morning. 1220 00:54:01,520 --> 00:54:08,640 Speaker 3: Studio, So that's awesome. I'm calling I need some some 1221 00:54:08,760 --> 00:54:15,320 Speaker 3: life coaching and motivations for you guys. I I deliver 1222 00:54:15,560 --> 00:54:20,000 Speaker 3: a solid clients for a big box store currently and 1223 00:54:21,080 --> 00:54:24,200 Speaker 3: I work under somebody else and I've been reached out 1224 00:54:25,400 --> 00:54:28,680 Speaker 3: with the opportunity to get my own contract. It's all 1225 00:54:28,800 --> 00:54:34,120 Speaker 3: under it's all subcontractors that do all the work. So 1226 00:54:34,440 --> 00:54:35,840 Speaker 3: they reached out to me and ask me if I 1227 00:54:35,920 --> 00:54:37,560 Speaker 3: wanted to get my own contract and do it on 1228 00:54:37,640 --> 00:54:40,560 Speaker 3: my own. So I'm I'm basically starting my own business 1229 00:54:40,640 --> 00:54:44,719 Speaker 3: and working for myself. What has me really nervous is, 1230 00:54:45,160 --> 00:54:49,239 Speaker 3: of course there's a lot of upfront costs. I got 1231 00:54:49,360 --> 00:54:52,719 Speaker 3: to purchase a bunch of I mean, insurance, liability, insurance, 1232 00:54:52,760 --> 00:54:58,080 Speaker 3: all this stuff. But also there's become a contractor with them. 1233 00:54:58,280 --> 00:55:00,800 Speaker 3: They pay on net thirty, so I'm going to be 1234 00:55:00,920 --> 00:55:04,399 Speaker 3: working for a whole month before I get any type 1235 00:55:04,440 --> 00:55:09,640 Speaker 3: of income from them, So that has me nervous. Potentially 1236 00:55:09,800 --> 00:55:14,560 Speaker 3: I could own my own business and you know, it's great, 1237 00:55:14,680 --> 00:55:18,040 Speaker 3: but in the short term, it's really really hard for 1238 00:55:18,160 --> 00:55:22,120 Speaker 3: my family, and I having trouble pulling the trigger on 1239 00:55:23,040 --> 00:55:26,640 Speaker 3: again going a month without income and working and what 1240 00:55:26,719 --> 00:55:27,839 Speaker 3: am I going to feed my kids? 1241 00:55:29,040 --> 00:55:29,200 Speaker 2: You know? 1242 00:55:29,440 --> 00:55:31,040 Speaker 3: So I'm struggling with that. 1243 00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's definitely different whenever the question is what am 1244 00:55:33,400 --> 00:55:36,800 Speaker 1: I going to feed my kids? So this is the 1245 00:55:36,960 --> 00:55:38,520 Speaker 1: encouragement that I would give you, and it's going to 1246 00:55:38,560 --> 00:55:41,560 Speaker 1: seem at first not like encouragement, but whenever you do this, 1247 00:55:41,640 --> 00:55:44,279 Speaker 1: it's going to be nerve wracking anytime you pull the 1248 00:55:44,280 --> 00:55:46,040 Speaker 1: trigger on this. If it's today, if it's three years 1249 00:55:46,080 --> 00:55:49,440 Speaker 1: from now, you're going to feel this way. But big decisions, 1250 00:55:50,080 --> 00:55:53,480 Speaker 1: you're gonna have big nerves about them. And if it 1251 00:55:53,560 --> 00:55:55,839 Speaker 1: were easy, everybody be doing it. But it ain't easy, 1252 00:55:55,880 --> 00:55:57,680 Speaker 1: and everybody's not doing it, and here you are. It's 1253 00:55:57,680 --> 00:55:59,680 Speaker 1: the crossroads. Do you make this big decision or not. 1254 00:56:00,280 --> 00:56:03,000 Speaker 1: What I would advise you to do, just only knowing 1255 00:56:03,040 --> 00:56:06,879 Speaker 1: what you've told me, is I would work and try 1256 00:56:06,920 --> 00:56:09,239 Speaker 1: to save up enough of a nut that you can 1257 00:56:09,640 --> 00:56:12,920 Speaker 1: not get paid for a month. So if that's cutting 1258 00:56:13,000 --> 00:56:15,879 Speaker 1: back on some things for the next three, four, six 1259 00:56:16,000 --> 00:56:18,839 Speaker 1: months while you work your regular job. I would also 1260 00:56:19,560 --> 00:56:23,640 Speaker 1: on a calendar put a date to where you need 1261 00:56:23,760 --> 00:56:26,800 Speaker 1: to move to the next step, because we can continue 1262 00:56:27,000 --> 00:56:29,600 Speaker 1: to kick the can whenever there's something that we can 1263 00:56:29,680 --> 00:56:31,200 Speaker 1: keep kicking the can for, because you could go, you 1264 00:56:31,239 --> 00:56:32,360 Speaker 1: know what, I'm not quite through. I'll do it in 1265 00:56:32,400 --> 00:56:33,759 Speaker 1: three months. Yeah, I'm not quite through. I'll do it 1266 00:56:33,800 --> 00:56:36,879 Speaker 1: another three months. Put a date on a calendar, put 1267 00:56:36,960 --> 00:56:39,560 Speaker 1: some something definitive on it. It could be six months, 1268 00:56:39,640 --> 00:56:41,680 Speaker 1: nine months, and you need to save a little bit, 1269 00:56:41,760 --> 00:56:43,600 Speaker 1: little bit each month, even if it's very hard, and 1270 00:56:43,640 --> 00:56:45,319 Speaker 1: then you need to commit to doing this. If it's 1271 00:56:45,360 --> 00:56:47,200 Speaker 1: something that you think you need, you want and you 1272 00:56:47,239 --> 00:56:50,080 Speaker 1: should do, so you should do it. If you were single, 1273 00:56:50,320 --> 00:56:53,680 Speaker 1: I would say, bro eat ramen, go at it. Make 1274 00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:56,719 Speaker 1: it happen. Yep, it sucks, but everything that's worth having 1275 00:56:56,880 --> 00:57:00,440 Speaker 1: sucks at first. But you have kids. So put a 1276 00:57:00,520 --> 00:57:04,440 Speaker 1: day on a calendar. What is today, March thirtieth. Put 1277 00:57:04,480 --> 00:57:07,839 Speaker 1: a day on a calendar, say September first, and until 1278 00:57:07,880 --> 00:57:11,359 Speaker 1: September first, every extra five bucks, ten bucks, twenty bucks 1279 00:57:11,400 --> 00:57:14,080 Speaker 1: you get. You're putting it away to give you a 1280 00:57:14,239 --> 00:57:16,760 Speaker 1: month so you can start this other opportunity that will 1281 00:57:16,800 --> 00:57:19,800 Speaker 1: long term macro be more beneficial to your family because 1282 00:57:19,840 --> 00:57:21,360 Speaker 1: you can make your own hours, you can be your 1283 00:57:21,400 --> 00:57:25,640 Speaker 1: own boss. You have a ceiling that you can lift yourself. 1284 00:57:25,880 --> 00:57:28,880 Speaker 1: You're not just working hourly and hoping that you get overtime. 1285 00:57:29,600 --> 00:57:32,000 Speaker 1: So that would be my advice to you in the 1286 00:57:32,080 --> 00:57:33,040 Speaker 1: state that you're in right now. 1287 00:57:36,680 --> 00:57:39,720 Speaker 3: Yeah, love, that's great advice. I hadn't thought about. 1288 00:57:39,480 --> 00:57:41,280 Speaker 1: It that you gotta do it, though, So I'm not 1289 00:57:41,320 --> 00:57:44,040 Speaker 1: saying don't do it freaking out, yeah, but you should. Like, 1290 00:57:44,120 --> 00:57:46,880 Speaker 1: that's what's awesome. Like you only have a few opportunities 1291 00:57:46,920 --> 00:57:49,240 Speaker 1: in life to be nervous about possible good things happening. 1292 00:57:49,640 --> 00:57:51,680 Speaker 1: This is a good thing. This is an opportunity that 1293 00:57:51,720 --> 00:57:54,280 Speaker 1: you are going to create for yourself. There are some risks, 1294 00:57:54,320 --> 00:57:55,600 Speaker 1: so what you need to do is mitigate as much 1295 00:57:55,600 --> 00:57:57,520 Speaker 1: as that risk as possible. So save up ten, twenty 1296 00:57:57,600 --> 00:57:59,560 Speaker 1: thirty bucks whatever you can to make sure that you 1297 00:57:59,640 --> 00:58:02,320 Speaker 1: can work and not get paid for a full month 1298 00:58:02,360 --> 00:58:04,120 Speaker 1: as you start what's going to be even better for 1299 00:58:04,200 --> 00:58:10,640 Speaker 1: your family down the road. Right, Yes, that's that's make 1300 00:58:10,680 --> 00:58:14,200 Speaker 1: it happen. It's all on you make it happen. I'm 1301 00:58:14,240 --> 00:58:16,000 Speaker 1: a big believer. The world has beendable if you want 1302 00:58:16,040 --> 00:58:18,080 Speaker 1: it and you strategize, right, you can have anything you want. 1303 00:58:18,360 --> 00:58:20,040 Speaker 1: And I think you can do this. But you've got 1304 00:58:20,120 --> 00:58:21,800 Speaker 1: to put a day on a calendar or commit to it, 1305 00:58:22,120 --> 00:58:24,040 Speaker 1: because otherwise it's never going to be comfortable and you're 1306 00:58:24,040 --> 00:58:26,000 Speaker 1: never going to fall into it. It's going to be 1307 00:58:26,080 --> 00:58:28,400 Speaker 1: uncomfortable in September when you do this, So just know that. 1308 00:58:28,560 --> 00:58:33,000 Speaker 3: Okay, yep, all right, thank you, thank I appreciate it. 1309 00:58:33,000 --> 00:58:33,680 Speaker 3: I really appreciate it. 1310 00:58:33,760 --> 00:58:33,960 Speaker 2: Thank you. 1311 00:58:34,200 --> 00:58:39,600 Speaker 1: Go get it, Mario, thank you. I will all right, buddy, 1312 00:58:39,600 --> 00:58:40,680 Speaker 1: we're rooting for you. See later man. 1313 00:58:42,720 --> 00:58:43,000 Speaker 8: Thank you. 1314 00:58:43,200 --> 00:58:47,200 Speaker 1: By all right, we are done with today's podcast. Thank 1315 00:58:47,240 --> 00:58:50,120 Speaker 1: you very much. All you have to do is, I 1316 00:58:50,160 --> 00:58:52,680 Speaker 1: don't know, have a good day, come back tomorrow. That's 1317 00:58:52,680 --> 00:58:53,160 Speaker 1: all you got to do. 1318 00:58:53,200 --> 00:58:54,200 Speaker 7: Pretty easy, that's it. 1319 00:58:54,640 --> 00:58:57,240 Speaker 1: So thank you for being here and we will see 1320 00:58:57,280 --> 00:58:58,360 Speaker 1: you guys tomorrow. By everybody,