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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show on demand.

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Speaker 2: If you have one thing in your house, it could

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Speaker 2: instantly make you sexier. Mm hmmm, it's the Doeubile Show.

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Speaker 2: Is it the Jubile Show playing in your house twenty

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Speaker 2: four to seven?

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Speaker 3: Definitely, absolutely, if we need to tell you that.

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Speaker 2: But there is something that you might have in your

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Speaker 2: house right now that will make you sexier instantly.

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Speaker 3: Only if you have it. Though, do you have a houseplant?

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Speaker 3: How many houseplants do you have? So remember during the pandemic,

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Speaker 3: the whole concept of being a plant mom or a

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Speaker 3: plant dad really started to pop. But now since then,

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Speaker 3: that's become one of the most desirable traits for you

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Speaker 3: to have on dating apps. So Render and Bumble and

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Speaker 3: all of those have done different surveys that showed that

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Speaker 3: people that had plant dad or plant mom in their bio.

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Speaker 2: What we're going to add, we're swiped on. I love

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Speaker 2: and have always loved houseplants.

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Speaker 4: Like real ones are just like fake ones that are

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Speaker 4: just that.

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Speaker 2: Does not count real ones. Real ones m hm. But

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Speaker 2: they're hard to keep alive. I've killed a lot of them, right,

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Speaker 2: I kill most of them, not on purpose, right because

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Speaker 2: I love them, but I just don't water them enough

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Speaker 2: and some of them are hard to take care of.

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Speaker 2: But I've always left houseplants. I didn't know that now

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Speaker 2: putting it in your dating profile in the bio actually

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Speaker 2: is more attractive. It is.

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Speaker 3: And this really blew my mind because currently I'm living

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Speaker 3: with my parents, as I've told you guys before, and

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Speaker 3: my mom happens to have a super green thumb like

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Speaker 3: her garden is her jam. So I have a plant

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Speaker 3: I've named Fiona. It was a philodendron and it had

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Speaker 3: this like really cool pot that came with me everywhere

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Speaker 3: that I've moved. So once I got home, it died.

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Speaker 3: Really so my mom got really disappointed in me because

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Speaker 3: the plant died.

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Speaker 2: So she's not just like, oh, that's said your plant died,

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Speaker 2: disappointed and didn't because she.

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Speaker 3: Wants me to be like her and be good at

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Speaker 3: plants because she's good at plants. So if I'm bad

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Speaker 3: at plants, she takes a personally like she didn't teach

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Speaker 3: before reflection on your mom so exactly in her mind.

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Speaker 3: So here's the hack. If you also kill plants. Did

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Speaker 3: you know that there is an air plant?

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Speaker 2: Yes, well it might absolutely. Airplants are so dope. And

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Speaker 2: I've known about them since I was in sixth grade.

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Speaker 2: You want to know why because I went to the

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Speaker 2: school and they had horticulture and I took hor culture class.

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Speaker 2: I realized though that the school I think have horticulture class,

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Speaker 2: horticulture class, well say that, Yeah, it's a word that

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Speaker 2: you sound drunk saying, no matter what. Horder culture. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: but it was kind of like it was a really

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Speaker 2: broke school. And they had this big field that needed

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Speaker 2: to be cleaned up. And I realized at a certain point,

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Speaker 2: wait a minute, all we're doing is cleaning up this field.

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Speaker 2: So I think they just made a class so we

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Speaker 2: would do that. But they did tell us about airplants, right,

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Speaker 2: they were amazing.

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Speaker 3: So my mom came home with airplants for me, what's

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Speaker 3: an airplane? She put the airplant in Fiona's little pot

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Speaker 3: that has a face on it and was like, you

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Speaker 3: can't kill this one. So every Sunday she reminds me,

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Speaker 3: She goes, did you give the girls a bath?

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Speaker 4: The girl?

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Speaker 3: Because water plants they live off of air, so you

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Speaker 3: want yeah, airplans? Oh, my bad, my bad. I was like, wait,

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Speaker 3: what airplants live off of air? So once a week,

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Speaker 3: you water them and then you put them like for

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Speaker 3: ten fifteen minutes. You just let them sit in the tub,

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Speaker 3: and then when they get out, they're good for another week.

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Speaker 2: They just kind of feed off the moisture in the air.

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Speaker 4: But doesn't that mean if you hit the water them,

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Speaker 4: you stopped they feed off water also?

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Speaker 3: Okay, My point is this is the easiest plant to

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Speaker 3: keep alive, and already you have questions.

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Speaker 2: Ye, well, super hard to kill. And you know what,

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Speaker 2: so Bumble and Tenders say that one of the most

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Speaker 2: attractive things you can have in your house's plants. That's

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Speaker 2: why I'm talking about it, and I'm thinking back on

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Speaker 2: my dating history and because I've known about airplants for

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Speaker 2: a long time. Yeah, I had airplants in my house

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Speaker 2: because I also kill plants. And you know what, I

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Speaker 2: think those airplants did seal the deal for me quite

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Speaker 2: a few times, you know, because they've come over like

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Speaker 2: what's that. I'm like, oh, that's an airplant. Yeah, those airplants,

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Speaker 2: And now I think about it, they sealed the deal

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Speaker 2: for me a couple of times. Yeah, because yeah, I

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Speaker 2: be like, oh, you've never heard of an airplant before.

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Speaker 2: Those are airplants. They live off of basically the moisture

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Speaker 2: in the air. Cool that I know about that hunt.

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Speaker 2: They'd be like whoa. I'd be like, yeah, and then whoa.

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Speaker 2: Let me let me show you the airplants that are

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Speaker 2: upstairs in the bedroom. I'll make you gasp for air. Wow, Like,

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Speaker 2: where are the airplants in the bedroom. There aren't any.

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Speaker 2: Let's just get in the bed anyway. Yeah, no, I

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Speaker 2: could see how that would happen about you know what.

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Speaker 2: Plant zaddies are a real thing.

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Speaker 3: It just flirted with the dude recently, you know, the

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Speaker 3: one I was telling you about this in my orbit. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: he posted a picture that he had plants in his

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Speaker 3: living room. He's in your what he's in my orbit?

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Speaker 2: Orbit? Like you mean like a planet orbiting?

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Speaker 3: Like, yeah, he's in my orbit, Like he's around like

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Speaker 3: we've hung out, like you know a little bit. I've

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Speaker 3: been talking a little bit, but it's like we haven't

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Speaker 3: landed on the moon yet, right, Okay, So you're.

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Speaker 2: Telling Victoria about this guy hits in your orbit and

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Speaker 2: he's he has plants.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, so I hit him up and I called

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Speaker 3: him a plant zaddie with like a winky's smirky face.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, he played into it too. It was really great.

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Speaker 3: So then you know what's gonna happen next time I

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Speaker 4: Like, Hey, I got an airplant, and.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, does not Atty Philodendron need some water? Add it

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Speaker 2: looks like you got just a watering can for the jobs.

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Speaker 2: I got a plant that need water. Yeah, plants are hot. Obviously,

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Speaker 2: it's confirmed he need a marry. You need an airplant.

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Speaker 2: That's why I know where you can find one. It

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Speaker 5: Saddy did Gubile show on demand?

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Speaker 2: I'll tell you Patty in the park? What? Yeah, like

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Speaker 2: p O t t y or p A r t y.

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Speaker 3: Why So parents are being shamed for something new today

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Speaker 3: and it is allowing their children to potty in the park.

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Speaker 3: So instead of letting their little kids go into the

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Speaker 4: What's a training potty?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 2: You know, like when you're kids learning how to go

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Speaker 4: But does that mean it just stays there like in

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Speaker 4: the I mean it's portable.

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Speaker 3: You can pick it up and move it around, you know. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: but whatever, you no, it's in the potty. It doesn't

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Speaker 4: Then it stays in the potty.

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Speaker 2: Correct. Do they have a little green bag dispenser for

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Speaker 2: your kids put their dogs and you have to follow

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Speaker 2: them around with it too? I really don't. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: They didn't get that explicit other than the fact that

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Speaker 3: this has become a problem because since COVID, you know,

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Speaker 3: they didn't want to let their kids go into the

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Speaker 3: bathrooms or you know, touch things. So they were just

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Speaker 3: letting them go outside and their little portable body. But

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Speaker 3: now that's a problem because they don't watch their hands.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. I don't know.

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Speaker 3: I'm not a parent, but I just wanted to let

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Speaker 3: you know that this is something that's being watched closely.

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Speaker 6: I am not about shaming parents. I think you should

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Speaker 6: raise your kids however you see fit. That's for America, right,

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Speaker 6: But this one shame them. This is ridiculous. If there

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Speaker 6: is a bathroom available to you, you should use it.

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Speaker 6: Stop subjecting other people to your nonsense. Well, Brad, and

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Speaker 6: Brad's the only part producer. Brad is the only parent

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Speaker 6: in the room, so he speaks from parental experience. Although

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Speaker 6: I potted in a park recently and I thoroughly enjoyed it.

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Speaker 6: The sun was beating down.

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Speaker 2: On me, it was warm outside, and I tinkled right

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Speaker 2: there while I was meditating on a bench, and I

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Speaker 2: see why parents want their kids to experience that. It

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Speaker 2: was great. You made the bench. You're portable. Yes, that's

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Speaker 2: what's turned up.

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Speaker 1: The Jubil Show on demand.

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Speaker 4: It's another Jubile phone.

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Speaker 1: Frameay Mornings on the twenties.

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Speaker 2: Hello, Hi is this an?

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Speaker 7: That's me? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Hi Denise, how are you? You don't know me. I'm

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Speaker 2: one of your neighbors. My name is Pete Eakins, and

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Speaker 2: I am calling you today because I need to have

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Speaker 2: a conversation with you about something that has happened. Okay,

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Speaker 2: you have me quite nervous. Okay, Well, yeah, you know

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Speaker 2: I don't want to sugarcoat things. You might want to

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Speaker 2: be a little nervous about this unless okay, unless we

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Speaker 2: come to an agreement.

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Speaker 7: Okay, so you.

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Speaker 2: Well, gosh, how did I say it? Do you have

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Speaker 2: any pets?

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Speaker 7: Yes?

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Speaker 8: I do?

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Speaker 2: And what sort of pet might you have? I have

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Speaker 2: a cat, right, Yes, that's what I'm calling about.

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Speaker 7: Okay, my cat. Ya.

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Speaker 2: I'm just gonna go ahead and say it. You're an

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Speaker 2: unfit cat mom. I'm sorry. Yes, I've noticed it for

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Speaker 2: a while. Everybody in the neighborhood has talked about it.

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Speaker 2: You are an unfit cat mom. And your your former

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Speaker 2: cat showed up on my doorstep the other day and

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Speaker 2: chose me as its new cat parents. So I'm calling

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Speaker 2: you cat.

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Speaker 7: What are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: That's my cat, It was and it is now my cat.

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Speaker 8: No, that's my cat.

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Speaker 2: No, I don't know if you heard me. He's been

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Speaker 2: my cat for twelve years. He's not going anywhere, and

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Speaker 2: he was fed up. The cat was fed up. That's

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Speaker 2: why he shut up on my doorstep, and he chose

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Speaker 2: me as his new cat daddy outdoor cat.

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Speaker 9: And he walks around the neighborhood. You've probably seen him

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Speaker 9: because I've been here for a very long time.

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Speaker 2: Now, what some people might call an outdoor cat I

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Speaker 2: call an neglected cat. And so that's why.

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Speaker 9: Let me assure you, sir, he is not neglected. He's

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Speaker 9: very well taken care of it, very spoiled.

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Speaker 2: I can understand being hurt realizing that your cat chose

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Speaker 2: a different, you know, owner. Can that happen? He did

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Speaker 2: not choose a different owner.

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Speaker 9: He walks around at his leisure as a cat do.

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Speaker 8: I assure you this is what he does, sir.

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Speaker 7: I've had him many years.

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Speaker 2: He said that he's tired of being He didn't say crap.

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Speaker 9: To you because he doesn't speak, So give me my

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Speaker 8: Hell you are.

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Speaker 2: Yes, she is angry, just like you said she would be.

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Speaker 2: I'm talking to him right now. I'm letting him know that.

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Speaker 2: You know, you're putting up a little bit of.

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Speaker 9: But I'm about to call the cops so I can

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Speaker 2: It's I wouldn't do that, you know, I wouldn't do that.

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Speaker 2: You're talking to my cat.

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Speaker 7: My cat doesn't talk.

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Speaker 2: You're certainly not talking to him. Just give me my

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Speaker 2: So I don't think you're ridiculous.

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Speaker 9: You can't do such a thing that doesn't exist.

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Speaker 2: Cat protective services, cat protective services.

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Speaker 1: Who are you?

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Speaker 2: I'm Jewble from the Jewbel Show doing a phone brank

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Speaker 2: on you and your boyfriend Tyler set you up. That's

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Speaker 2: who I am. Oh my god, I knew your voice

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Speaker 2: familiar is a joke by God.

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Speaker 8: Listen to you guys all the time.

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Speaker 2: Are you forging yeah or no? Yeah? Yeah? I know

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Speaker 9: Somebody and Tyler is the one responsible for his being

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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show on demand.

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Speaker 8: Up.

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Speaker 2: Christa is on the phone today for a first date

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Speaker 2: before we talk about Cameron and your date, how long

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Speaker 7: It's been a couple of weeks now.

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Speaker 2: Have you tried to reach out to him multiple times?

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Speaker 8: I did. I sent a couple like techs back to back,

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Speaker 4: If you know me asking if it's been like a

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Speaker 8: He went really well, and like I know, he's a

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Speaker 3: But to your point, though, Victoria, what was it about

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Speaker 8: I don't know. He was like really charismatic and obviously

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Speaker 8: Like no, his personality, like he just he like brought

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Speaker 7: He was like cracking.

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Speaker 8: Jokes and he was like really really cute around kids

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Speaker 8: I don't know, he just like made me feel special

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Speaker 2: Okay, well that makes sense. Yeah, so that's good. So

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Speaker 2: what do you think happened?

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Speaker 8: Then?

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Speaker 2: Why do you think he's ghosting you?

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Speaker 8: I truly have no idea.

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Speaker 7: I don't know.

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Speaker 8: I mean, like literally, the only thing I can think

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Speaker 8: I don't know, like he's so natural with kids, but

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Speaker 2: What did you do?

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Speaker 8: I like kind of tried to like scare him a

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Speaker 8: It's like a long story, but it kind of freaked

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Speaker 8: But I don't know, maybe that was a red flag somehow, Okay.

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Speaker 2: I mean as a person who you know, I never

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Speaker 2: I know where you're coming from, because I could tell

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Speaker 2: I don't know if that's enough to not call somebody back.

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Speaker 2: That was Let's back up, Christay, can you tell us

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was a day date, and like I said,

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Speaker 8: we went to this aquarium which was so fun, and

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Speaker 2: Yeah, seriously, all right, and you've heard nothing and that

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Speaker 2: you can't think of any other thing that went kind

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Speaker 8: No, Like, we kissed at the end, and we basically

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Speaker 2: Okay, cool, Well, then we'll play a song come back,

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Speaker 8: Okay, thank you.

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Speaker 2: Play a song, come back, get your first date follow

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Speaker 2: follow up, if you're just joining us, christ is on

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Speaker 8: Yeah, we went to an aquarium together. We had a

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Speaker 10: Made a kid cry, but like I didn't think anything of.

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Speaker 2: It, be like lots about it.

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Speaker 8: And then afterward we grabbed a couple of beers and pizza.

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Speaker 8: It was so fun. We kissed goodbye and we said

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Speaker 2: But I haven't heard anything that's weird. I mean, like

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Speaker 2: gonna call him right now here we go. Hey, Hi,

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Speaker 2: I speak to Cameron please.

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Speaker 8: Hi.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, this is Cameron.

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Speaker 2: Cameron. What's up man? How are you? My name is

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Speaker 2: Jewbel from a radio show called The Jewbel Show.

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Speaker 3: Hi, Cameron, Not to overwhelm you, but my name is Nina.

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Speaker 4: Mine's Victoria, also from the show.

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Speaker 2: There's three people on the phone with you right now.

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Speaker 2: We're calling you because we got an email about you

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Speaker 8: Yeah.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, you So you guys have an email about me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah. We do a segment on the show. It's called

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I think I know what this is about, honestly,

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Speaker 7: and I don't know if you guys really want want

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Speaker 10: You're calling me, but now.

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Speaker 3: Well, I mean, is it that much of a thing thing?

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Speaker 3: I mean, we got a couple of minutes, it's.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Yeah, I want to make sure we're talking about

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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, that's that's the one. I kind of figured.

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Speaker 2: Well, everybody who agrees to do the first day follow up,

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Speaker 6: How do I say this.

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Speaker 7: I'm kind of angry about it, if I'm being honest. Okay,

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Speaker 7: So the date was pretty great. I actually really really

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Speaker 7: then I have to suppletely that I'll meet this guy

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Speaker 7: because I don't know, I don't understand the rules of

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Speaker 2: So how did that even come up though?

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Speaker 3: Because we heard it was like a nice kiss at

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Speaker 3: we'll see you again soon.

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Speaker 2: So where in that did that come up?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? So we we kiss and it was good and

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Speaker 7: And then three hours later she said, yeah, I would

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Speaker 7: because he she said, she doesn't need permission to date anyone.

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Speaker 7: Like you know what I mean, It's like layers of

441
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Speaker 7: players of like mental I don't. I couldn't. I didn't

442
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Speaker 7: want to even follow at that point.

443
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Speaker 2: This is after you kissed.

444
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Speaker 7: This is after we kissed. Yeah, this didn't come up

445
00:19:38,480 --> 00:19:40,400
Speaker 7: in the beginning. This didn't come up, you know, when

446
00:19:40,400 --> 00:19:43,360
Speaker 7: we were texting before the day. This came up at

447
00:19:43,400 --> 00:19:47,199
Speaker 7: the end when I felt emotionally like she's a really

448
00:19:47,200 --> 00:19:50,320
Speaker 7: cool person. I could see myself with this person, do

449
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Speaker 7: you know what I mean?

450
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Speaker 3: Yeah, I probably feel like I would ghost at that

451
00:19:54,160 --> 00:19:54,760
Speaker 3: point too.

452
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Speaker 7: I mean, what are you going to do? Like, I

453
00:19:56,840 --> 00:19:58,680
Speaker 7: can't change that, do you know what I mean? And

454
00:19:59,160 --> 00:20:02,199
Speaker 7: I if I'm judgmental, but I don't want to be.

455
00:20:02,440 --> 00:20:04,199
Speaker 7: And so just the best thing to do just to

456
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Speaker 7: like not engage and just move back into the weird

457
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Speaker 7: dating pool.

458
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Speaker 3: It is so weird out there. I feel your struggle Cameron.

459
00:20:12,560 --> 00:20:14,800
Speaker 3: But I don't think you're being judgmental for that. I

460
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:18,600
Speaker 3: think you feel misled. Yeah, well thanks for telling us, man,

461
00:20:18,640 --> 00:20:19,480
Speaker 3: I appreciate it.

462
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Speaker 7: Yeah, yeah, I mean I don't I don't know. I guess. Sorry.

463
00:20:24,720 --> 00:20:27,800
Speaker 7: I wasn't more positive, you know, but that's how I.

464
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Speaker 2: Feel, all right, Yeah, I mean that's that's fine. All

465
00:20:30,520 --> 00:20:31,960
Speaker 2: we wanted to find out was the truth, and I

466
00:20:31,960 --> 00:20:34,080
Speaker 2: appreciate you being truthful. I also need to be truthful

467
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Speaker 2: and tell you that Christa has been on the phone

468
00:20:36,640 --> 00:20:38,680
Speaker 2: the whole time and has been listening and wants to

469
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Speaker 2: talk to you.

470
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Speaker 9: Oh my god.

471
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Speaker 7: Okay, okay, Hi, Hi, How are you not great that.

472
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Speaker 8: I feel like you are actually being judgmental? To be honest,

473
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Speaker 8: A lot of people are in open relationships. It's not

474
00:21:00,680 --> 00:21:04,800
Speaker 8: like this weird, like abnormal thing. It's like very common.

475
00:21:05,359 --> 00:21:07,520
Speaker 8: And you didn't have to ghost. You could have.

476
00:21:07,920 --> 00:21:09,040
Speaker 7: You could have just told.

477
00:21:08,840 --> 00:21:12,119
Speaker 8: Me straight up like I'm not comfortable with that, and

478
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Speaker 8: I would have a hypocritical you know what I mean? Yeah,

479
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:16,760
Speaker 8: but I told you.

480
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Speaker 2: It's not like I it's not like I withheld.

481
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Speaker 8: Information from you. I told you when I needed to tell.

482
00:21:20,840 --> 00:21:24,439
Speaker 7: You, so you felt you needed to tell me after

483
00:21:24,920 --> 00:21:27,320
Speaker 7: I got to know you and liked you as opposed

484
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Speaker 7: to me knowing that you come with a certain set

485
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Speaker 7: of everyone comes with you, don't You don't think I

486
00:21:36,160 --> 00:21:38,080
Speaker 7: need to know that I do.

487
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Speaker 8: And that's why I told you, and I it was

488
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Speaker 8: the first date. It's not like I told you like

489
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Speaker 8: three months in or something like we had a great date,

490
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Speaker 8: and you even said that yourself.

491
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Speaker 7: We had a great date. And I'm a literally I'm

492
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Speaker 7: a one woman man. And I was really disappointed because

493
00:21:55,040 --> 00:21:58,360
Speaker 7: I don't want to date you and another dude, or

494
00:21:58,720 --> 00:22:00,639
Speaker 7: you while you're dating another dude. Do you know what

495
00:22:00,680 --> 00:22:03,360
Speaker 7: I mean? Like I want to devote one person.

496
00:22:03,440 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 8: It goes both ways, Like you could have said on

497
00:22:05,359 --> 00:22:09,919
Speaker 8: your profile, like I'm not interested in dating you know

498
00:22:10,200 --> 00:22:11,600
Speaker 8: a person who's in an open.

499
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Speaker 3: Relation, Like don't you think that it would be the

500
00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:15,919
Speaker 3: person that's in the open relationship to disclose? Maybe you

501
00:22:16,000 --> 00:22:17,600
Speaker 3: can put that on your profile. Is there like a

502
00:22:17,640 --> 00:22:19,960
Speaker 3: simple like the pineapple that people can just put on there?

503
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Speaker 8: Oh yeah, well I told like I told him in person.

504
00:22:23,119 --> 00:22:25,359
Speaker 8: I didn't like I didn't want him to like judge

505
00:22:25,400 --> 00:22:27,960
Speaker 8: me based on my profile and then not like get

506
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:30,280
Speaker 8: to know me. Okay, and he got to know me

507
00:22:30,320 --> 00:22:31,159
Speaker 8: and he really liked me.

508
00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,480
Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean you told me at the end of

509
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Speaker 7: the day, once we kissed, once I had gotten to

510
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Speaker 7: know you. Why didn't you just tell me maybe at

511
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Speaker 7: the beginning of the date.

512
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Speaker 8: It didn't come up, Cameron. You didn't ask me anything

513
00:22:44,960 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 8: that that would like make that would make me want

514
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:49,800
Speaker 8: to tell you that, right.

515
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Speaker 7: I didn't ask you at the end either.

516
00:22:51,880 --> 00:22:55,320
Speaker 8: Yeah, okay, fair, But like you're making you're making me

517
00:22:55,359 --> 00:22:57,120
Speaker 8: out to be like a bad person because I.

518
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Speaker 7: Because I'm in an open relationship. I don't think you're

519
00:23:00,480 --> 00:23:03,280
Speaker 7: about a person. I'm just disappointing because I really liked you.

520
00:23:03,440 --> 00:23:05,280
Speaker 2: Cameron. Would you like to go on another date with Krystal?

521
00:23:05,320 --> 00:23:05,960
Speaker 2: We'll pay for it.

522
00:23:07,960 --> 00:23:12,760
Speaker 7: I appreciate that, but no, unless she is maybe knocking

523
00:23:12,840 --> 00:23:15,040
Speaker 7: to do this thing. But I don't want to change someone, you.

524
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Speaker 2: Know, Krista, How are you doing? Are you okay over there?

525
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Speaker 8: I mean, of course, I'm disappointed. I think that really

526
00:23:21,880 --> 00:23:24,600
Speaker 8: sucks and I feel like we're shooting ourselves in the

527
00:23:24,600 --> 00:23:26,880
Speaker 8: foot because this was like, this was a good thing.

528
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Speaker 8: But I guess there's like I can't argue with your belief,

529
00:23:30,800 --> 00:23:34,600
Speaker 8: so I mean, Cameron, I'll a'll say is like, you know,

530
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Speaker 8: we could have had a really good fun time the

531
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Speaker 8: three of us, and you're listing out, So I don't.

532
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Speaker 8: I don't think so, but thinks.

533
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Speaker 5: The Jubile show on demands dirty little secret?

534
00:24:01,720 --> 00:24:05,240
Speaker 2: Hello, Hey, what's up? You have a dirty little secret?

535
00:24:05,640 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 1: Hey?

536
00:24:06,000 --> 00:24:07,520
Speaker 7: Yeah, I have a dirty little secret.

537
00:24:07,560 --> 00:24:09,120
Speaker 2: Okay, sweet? What is it?

538
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Speaker 8: So?

539
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Speaker 10: I actually just moved to Holland, but I haven't told

540
00:24:14,680 --> 00:24:16,800
Speaker 10: any of my family or friends.

541
00:24:17,040 --> 00:24:18,159
Speaker 7: They just think I'm on vacation.

542
00:24:19,040 --> 00:24:23,440
Speaker 2: What you moved to Holland? Are you in Holland right now?

543
00:24:24,760 --> 00:24:25,520
Speaker 7: Yeah?

544
00:24:25,920 --> 00:24:32,680
Speaker 2: Whoa? Are you wearing wooden shoes? Not that many people

545
00:24:32,720 --> 00:24:33,560
Speaker 2: were weird?

546
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:34,600
Speaker 7: Comfortable?

547
00:24:34,760 --> 00:24:38,000
Speaker 2: Sorry, that's beside the point though. That's so cool though,

548
00:24:38,200 --> 00:24:42,320
Speaker 2: that's crazy worldwide. Yeah, I know. Huh. We have a

549
00:24:42,359 --> 00:24:44,920
Speaker 2: listener in Holland, but we can't tell anybody because she

550
00:24:45,040 --> 00:24:46,560
Speaker 2: told them that she's just traveling.

551
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:50,879
Speaker 7: Yes, please don't tell anyone.

552
00:24:51,280 --> 00:24:52,840
Speaker 2: So you actually moved there?

553
00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:56,520
Speaker 4: Yes, but everybody thinks that I'm just on holiday.

554
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,480
Speaker 2: But why don't you want everybody to know?

555
00:25:00,920 --> 00:25:04,600
Speaker 11: I'm just like waiting for the right time to tell them.

556
00:25:04,760 --> 00:25:07,320
Speaker 2: So when is the right time?

557
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Speaker 9: I guess we'll find out hopefully when I get settled, comfortable,

558
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:16,200
Speaker 9: but right now I'm just figuring it out.

559
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Speaker 2: Okay. One way to avoid drama, just peace out. I'm

560
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 2: going on vacation for a week, or I've just moved.

561
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Speaker 2: Thank you for telling us your dirty little secret. I'll

562
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Speaker 2: let you go because the roaming charges probably right right.

563
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Speaker 1: The Jubile Show on demand.

564
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Speaker 2: Real quick, look up in the sky. Okay, it's a bird,

565
00:25:41,760 --> 00:25:45,440
Speaker 2: it's a plane. It attempts to shock and lacks subtlety.

566
00:25:45,600 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: It's a sordid male fantasy. It pretends to reveal exploitation

567
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:53,680
Speaker 2: while revealing it. I'm not talking about the dirty Little Secret.

568
00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:56,720
Speaker 2: Those aren't taglines from the show or quotes from a

569
00:25:56,800 --> 00:26:00,320
Speaker 2: kinky new version of Superman. That's what critics are saying

570
00:26:00,320 --> 00:26:03,040
Speaker 2: about The Idol, the new series starring The Weekend and

571
00:26:03,160 --> 00:26:06,440
Speaker 2: Lily Rose Depp, Anny Dep's daughter. If you haven't heard

572
00:26:06,480 --> 00:26:09,080
Speaker 2: of it, it's being called a skantastic dark side of

573
00:26:09,119 --> 00:26:11,800
Speaker 2: showbiz fable that perpetuates the myth that pop stars are

574
00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:15,960
Speaker 2: corporate puppets. Wow, that's kind of bold. Yeah. It's getting

575
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:21,640
Speaker 2: slammed though by normal regular citizens and movie critics and

576
00:26:22,000 --> 00:26:25,920
Speaker 2: people in Hollywood because of all the graphic adult on

577
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Speaker 2: screen content. So here's the question. Do you think graphic

578
00:26:28,760 --> 00:26:31,600
Speaker 2: nasty time scenes in movies and TV shows are necessary

579
00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:37,239
Speaker 2: or our graphic bedroom being THHOS scenes unneeded? Call us

580
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Speaker 2: eight eight three four three one o six one text

581
00:26:39,040 --> 00:26:40,760
Speaker 2: in four one o six one, Nita, What do you

582
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Speaker 2: think are graphic fun time adult fun time scenes necessary

583
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Speaker 2: in movies? Or no?

584
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Speaker 8: No?

585
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Speaker 2: I don't think so.

586
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Speaker 3: No, I don't think they're necessary at all, which is

587
00:26:48,640 --> 00:26:51,879
Speaker 3: funny because you probably thought I would say yes because

588
00:26:52,000 --> 00:26:55,960
Speaker 3: I'm a little perf. However, I don't think that they're necessary.

589
00:26:56,040 --> 00:26:58,000
Speaker 3: I still think you can tell the story without having

590
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Speaker 3: all of the extra like show.

591
00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:02,640
Speaker 2: You know, I disagree. I think that they are necessary

592
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:04,840
Speaker 2: depending on what it is. Right in a Disney movie,

593
00:27:04,840 --> 00:27:07,760
Speaker 2: not so much, okay, but depending on what the kind

594
00:27:07,760 --> 00:27:10,480
Speaker 2: of Disney movie. You know, But if it's a movie

595
00:27:10,480 --> 00:27:15,560
Speaker 2: where you're supposed to be show showing how exploitive something is,

596
00:27:16,480 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 2: and the exploitation in Hollywood. When it comes to this stuff,

597
00:27:19,520 --> 00:27:21,800
Speaker 2: I feel like it should be made to be real

598
00:27:21,840 --> 00:27:22,639
Speaker 2: life and gritty.

599
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Speaker 3: I don't think it's I don't think it's about exploitation though.

600
00:27:25,760 --> 00:27:28,000
Speaker 3: I think it's about feeling something in a moment, you

601
00:27:28,040 --> 00:27:31,320
Speaker 3: can create tension between two people, or you can create

602
00:27:31,960 --> 00:27:34,040
Speaker 3: disrespect if it's going to be in that in that

603
00:27:34,080 --> 00:27:38,200
Speaker 3: capacity without having to show every little detail of somebody's body.

604
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Speaker 2: Yeah, So for me, it's for me, it's about because

605
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:44,119
Speaker 2: when I watch movies and and things like that, I

606
00:27:44,160 --> 00:27:47,800
Speaker 2: always like the little things that make it seem super real. Right,

607
00:27:48,200 --> 00:27:53,679
Speaker 2: And so when there's been a you know, horizontal mambo

608
00:27:53,760 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 2: seen in a movie that is like I like to

609
00:27:55,720 --> 00:28:00,520
Speaker 2: bingo card, they're really really you know, it's either a

610
00:28:00,600 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 2: movie I'm trying to think. There's there's a movie that

611
00:28:02,880 --> 00:28:06,639
Speaker 2: an older movie, but the sex scene in it, I

612
00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,440
Speaker 2: was like, man, that is an amazing one because they

613
00:28:08,480 --> 00:28:12,720
Speaker 2: really captured what it's like to have very romantic love

614
00:28:12,960 --> 00:28:15,760
Speaker 2: making as an adult with someone in the room when

615
00:28:15,880 --> 00:28:19,399
Speaker 2: you're doing adult things consensually. Right. But I just like

616
00:28:19,400 --> 00:28:23,080
Speaker 2: like in movies, for me, anything that seems super real,

617
00:28:23,240 --> 00:28:25,760
Speaker 2: even if there's a little camera jiggle or something like that,

618
00:28:25,800 --> 00:28:27,600
Speaker 2: where I'm like, man, that is exactly how it is

619
00:28:27,640 --> 00:28:29,520
Speaker 2: when you drive in a car and hit a speedbump, right,

620
00:28:29,760 --> 00:28:31,280
Speaker 2: And they just put that in in the middle of

621
00:28:31,320 --> 00:28:34,679
Speaker 2: a conversation or a conversation where it veers off and

622
00:28:34,720 --> 00:28:37,560
Speaker 2: they have one of those everyday conversations that you would

623
00:28:37,600 --> 00:28:38,840
Speaker 2: have with someone and then it gets back to the

624
00:28:38,840 --> 00:28:41,040
Speaker 2: topic of the movie. I'm like, man, that was amazing

625
00:28:41,040 --> 00:28:43,120
Speaker 2: writing because it just made it so real life right there.

626
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,440
Speaker 2: So when I see a sex scene like that in

627
00:28:46,480 --> 00:28:49,600
Speaker 2: a movie that like this, I said, it's situational. This

628
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:54,840
Speaker 2: is supposed to be about the nasty dark, a s

629
00:28:54,880 --> 00:28:58,240
Speaker 2: fantastic dark side of showbiz. I feel like it is

630
00:28:58,280 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 2: appropriate in that instance.

631
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Speaker 3: I'd still think that you can create that narrative without

632
00:29:03,600 --> 00:29:06,440
Speaker 3: having to show like every part of somebody's body, you

633
00:29:06,440 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 3: know what I mean. Like some it's just about feeling something,

634
00:29:09,560 --> 00:29:13,760
Speaker 3: and you can feel that without seeing every part go

635
00:29:13,880 --> 00:29:15,800
Speaker 3: into where it goes on the bingo card, you know

636
00:29:15,840 --> 00:29:22,920
Speaker 3: what I mean, where the whelocks without saying because you

637
00:29:23,040 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 3: just saw where every mark was made, you still understand

638
00:29:27,080 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 3: what that means and it's still hot, like it still

639
00:29:29,520 --> 00:29:31,720
Speaker 3: can do those things. One of my favorite sex scenes

640
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Speaker 3: in a movie of all time was from Do I

641
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Speaker 3: Have Time to tell you what this is?

642
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Speaker 2: Okay?

643
00:29:36,760 --> 00:29:42,920
Speaker 3: The movie was about a guy who was not doing

644
00:29:42,960 --> 00:29:46,240
Speaker 3: it for like forty days or something. For forty days

645
00:29:46,240 --> 00:29:49,320
Speaker 3: and forty nine. Oh that one, okay, Josh Hartnett, And

646
00:29:49,360 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 3: one of the sexiest sex scenes ever is him blowing

647
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Speaker 3: this flower on her body.

648
00:29:54,240 --> 00:29:55,400
Speaker 2: You don't see her naked.

649
00:29:55,400 --> 00:29:58,719
Speaker 3: They're not actually doing anything physical, but he's blowing this

650
00:29:58,960 --> 00:30:01,360
Speaker 3: flower in the era rogenous zones that make.

651
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Speaker 2: It just so like and you feel things like you

652
00:30:04,360 --> 00:30:07,600
Speaker 2: can paint a picture without all the I think ultimately,

653
00:30:08,080 --> 00:30:10,360
Speaker 2: in this instance, it just comes down to proof. Look,

654
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:13,240
Speaker 2: there's there are stereotypes in certain instances for a reason.

655
00:30:13,680 --> 00:30:16,960
Speaker 2: Men and women are a bit different. It's the way

656
00:30:16,960 --> 00:30:19,479
Speaker 2: that they process things that may be true. Dudes are

657
00:30:19,560 --> 00:30:21,880
Speaker 2: super visual. I'm like, that's gritty in real life.

658
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Speaker 12: I love it.

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Speaker 2: In the place of the bingo with the flower, I

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Speaker 2: don't see where the flower's going. This is stupid. I

661
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Speaker 2: want to see the end of the destination. It does

662
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Speaker 2: nothing for me. That wasn't even real at all. And

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Speaker 2: then you're like, oh my, all the thoughts racing through

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Speaker 2: my head of where that flower could go and what

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Speaker 2: it could do is I'm just like, give me the tension. Wow,

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Speaker 2: and I'm like, release the tension. Call us eighted eight

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Speaker 2: three four three six one text in four one six one.

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Speaker 2: Do you think they're necessary in the movies. It's the

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Speaker 2: Jubile Show.

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Speaker 1: Did Jubile Show on demand?

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Speaker 2: Be careful what maniacs you let in your house. One

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Speaker 2: of our listeners has called us in a panic because

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Speaker 2: she hooked up with the guy last night and apparently

674
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Speaker 2: she left for work this morning, he was still there

675
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,520
Speaker 2: and something drastic has happened and she needs your help,

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Speaker 2: So be ready to call us eight eight eight three

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Speaker 2: four three six one eight eight eight three four three

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Speaker 2: one six one. And let's talk to Gina right now. Gina,

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Speaker 2: what's up?

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Speaker 10: I just I love your show, you guys, I always listen,

681
00:31:17,760 --> 00:31:19,080
Speaker 10: and I just like felt compelled.

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Speaker 7: I have to tell you something right now.

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Speaker 2: What is it?

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Speaker 10: I've been dating this guy and like so I literally

685
00:31:26,000 --> 00:31:29,560
Speaker 10: just left for work and I left before him, and

686
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Speaker 10: it was now I told you at the first time

687
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Speaker 10: he spent my house, I looked at my cameras because

688
00:31:33,840 --> 00:31:36,800
Speaker 10: you know sometimes and I'm just curious. So I've noticed

689
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Speaker 10: on my next camera that he didn't make the bed.

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Speaker 12: He left and didn't make the bed.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so this is the how long have you been

692
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Speaker 2: dating this guy?

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Speaker 10: Like through like two and a half months. Like I

694
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Speaker 10: usually spend the night at his place.

695
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Speaker 2: But like, yeah, and you just noticed that he didn't

696
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Speaker 2: make your bed. Do you make his bill? When you

697
00:31:53,400 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 2: leave his house?

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Speaker 8: You make his Yes?

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Speaker 10: I mean, isn't it a rule the last person out

700
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Speaker 10: of the bed makes the bed.

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Speaker 8: It's like take two.

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Speaker 10: Seconds, I mean for me.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, do you guys think it's a red flag?

704
00:32:07,640 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 2: Do I need to stop dating him?

705
00:32:08,760 --> 00:32:09,880
Speaker 10: Because it's really bothering me?

706
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Speaker 2: Is it a red flag that he didn't make your bed? Huh? Yes, yes,

707
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Speaker 2: it is a red flag.

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Speaker 3: Okay, So, Nina, So I think it's a red flag

709
00:32:18,280 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 3: because I just think it means he's selfish. Now do

710
00:32:20,520 --> 00:32:22,960
Speaker 3: I think that you should stop dating him right now?

711
00:32:23,120 --> 00:32:24,840
Speaker 3: I say, give him one more chance, and if he

712
00:32:24,880 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 3: still doesn't make the bed, okay.

713
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Speaker 2: So do you tell him about it? Or do you

714
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:31,280
Speaker 2: just test it and see if he makes the bed? Nina,

715
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Speaker 2: it's a test. It's always a test. Yeah, well, I

716
00:32:33,840 --> 00:32:35,000
Speaker 2: definitely know that about Really.

717
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Speaker 3: In the early stages, it's always a test because you

718
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:39,040
Speaker 3: gotta weed him out. They don't show you who they

719
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Speaker 3: really are until later, so you gotta do the sneaky test.

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Speaker 2: So you're saying, don't don't tell him, hey make my bed?

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Speaker 2: Next time, just see if he does it, And if

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Speaker 2: the next time he stays over he doesn't do it,

723
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Speaker 2: then you gotta let him go.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, Or I mean, I don't know how much you

725
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Speaker 3: like this guy. He doesn't make beds.

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Speaker 10: I mean I thought I liked him. I like him

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Speaker 10: a lot less after this morning.

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Speaker 2: I mean, from my it's surprising to me because I'm

729
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Speaker 2: not the best bed maker. My attitude is I'll make

730
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Speaker 2: it when I get home. Why why would you make

731
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Speaker 2: it before you get in it?

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Speaker 10: Well, I don't like not any if you're at someone

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Speaker 10: else's house for the first time.

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Speaker 2: That's what I'm about to say. Yeah, so at home,

735
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Speaker 2: if I was single, or the way I do it

736
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Speaker 2: now was my wife hates. I'll get up, i'll do

737
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Speaker 2: my stuff, I'll leave, and then when I get back,

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Speaker 2: like right when I get back, I'll go make the

739
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Speaker 2: bed so the room is clean. Then I clean up

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Speaker 2: when I get home after work, after the work day,

741
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Speaker 2: basically instead of in the morning. Interesting. Yeah, and that's

742
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Speaker 2: frustrating for some people. Yeah, but if I were to stay,

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Speaker 2: if I were to stay at your house, like if

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Speaker 2: we just were dating, I would make the bed no

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Speaker 2: matter what, because I would want to, you know, I'd

746
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Speaker 2: be putting my best foot forward. I want to show

747
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Speaker 2: off a little bit. Like, look, I even thought about

748
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Speaker 2: it and I made your bed. I just feel like

749
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Speaker 2: it means you care.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, unless like he woke up super late and had

751
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Speaker 3: to run out the door, like, well, there's no reason

752
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Speaker 3: not to at least try, and it does not do

753
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Speaker 3: you've made perfectly something.

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Speaker 10: Well, I mean he didn't wake up late. He like

755
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Speaker 10: made himself a cup of coffee, you know, scrolled on

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Speaker 10: Instagram that sort of thing.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I mean like I hope you watched the hop at.

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Speaker 2: Least I feel like, Okay, well if you read yeah,

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Speaker 2: call us up right now. Gina wants to know, is

760
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Speaker 2: this the red flag? Should you drop this guy because

761
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Speaker 2: he didn't make the bed after the first night he

762
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Speaker 2: stayed over. Also, if he didn't watch the coffee cup,

763
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Speaker 2: is that definitely like a deal breaker. Now, bet he

764
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Speaker 2: left the bed unmade and didn't watch the coffee cup.

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Speaker 2: I'm actually cool about the coffee cup. It's just the

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Speaker 2: bed is a no go for me.

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Speaker 10: Yeah, I mean, like a coffee cup, you know, put

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Speaker 10: it in this whatever you can, even if it was

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Speaker 10: on the counter. I mean, I whatever I'm not unreasonable.

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Speaker 10: I just really think you have to make your bed, okay,

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Speaker 10: especially call us.

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Speaker 2: Up right now eight eight eight three four three six

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Speaker 2: one eight eight eight three four three one oh six

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Speaker 2: one call us. Is it a deal breaker? And should

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Speaker 2: she drop that dude right now because he didn't make

776
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Speaker 2: the bed after the first night that he stayed over.

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Speaker 2: Nina thinks it's a deal breakers, the potential deal breaker.

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Speaker 3: Well, the thing is we let so many things slide,

779
00:34:51,880 --> 00:34:54,400
Speaker 3: and then later in relationships we have problems because we

780
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Speaker 3: missed all the flags in the beginning. Little things like

781
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Speaker 3: not making the bed and little selfish things that people

782
00:35:00,120 --> 00:35:03,040
Speaker 3: do throughout the day add up. So pay attention, open

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Speaker 3: your eyes, save yourself some heartbreak. That's all I'm saying.

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Speaker 2: You know what, That's true, Like small little things can

785
00:35:09,080 --> 00:35:12,040
Speaker 2: come back to bite you, right, there's subtle, little personality traits.

786
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Speaker 2: I've always said this, I will never date anybody. I

787
00:35:15,520 --> 00:35:17,480
Speaker 2: will like it's a deal breaker for me. If somebody

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00:35:17,560 --> 00:35:23,720
Speaker 2: doesn't eat seafood, right really, because yeah, well specifically doesn't

789
00:35:23,760 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 2: eat seafood or something that they've never tried before. They

790
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,000
Speaker 2: just go, I don't eat it because it's gross and

791
00:35:30,000 --> 00:35:31,200
Speaker 2: it's like, have you ever tried it?

792
00:35:31,680 --> 00:35:31,759
Speaker 8: No?

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00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,120
Speaker 2: Then how do you know it's gross? To me, that

794
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:37,520
Speaker 2: shows a personality that is not willing to try new things,

795
00:35:37,600 --> 00:35:41,160
Speaker 2: not willing to take risks, not willing to put strange

796
00:35:41,200 --> 00:35:45,120
Speaker 2: things in their mouth. So right, and to me that's

797
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:48,239
Speaker 2: a deal breaker. But I really like lifestyle wise, like

798
00:35:48,320 --> 00:35:50,759
Speaker 2: they're obviously not curious enough to just try a new

799
00:35:50,800 --> 00:35:52,600
Speaker 2: thing and see if they like it. Right, just put

800
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Speaker 2: a little bit of the fish in your mouth, and

801
00:35:54,160 --> 00:35:58,680
Speaker 2: then you have the knowledge of tasting fish to go.

802
00:35:59,120 --> 00:36:01,160
Speaker 2: I know that I don't like fish, So when someone

803
00:36:01,200 --> 00:36:04,480
Speaker 2: asks you, hey, do you like fish? Go, No, had

804
00:36:04,520 --> 00:36:07,400
Speaker 2: it one time? Don't like it? Not just no, I'm five,

805
00:36:07,480 --> 00:36:08,120
Speaker 2: it's gruss.

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00:36:10,120 --> 00:36:12,120
Speaker 3: I think that's fair because I know it seems silly

807
00:36:12,160 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 3: to be like, Okay, he didn't make the better, Oh

808
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:15,959
Speaker 3: you're not eating fish, But really it is a sign

809
00:36:15,960 --> 00:36:16,759
Speaker 3: of who a person is.

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00:36:17,080 --> 00:36:20,880
Speaker 2: Yeah it is, Hey, Heather, Yeah, do you think Gina

811
00:36:21,000 --> 00:36:24,160
Speaker 2: should stop dating the dude because he didn't make her bed?

812
00:36:26,280 --> 00:36:28,480
Speaker 11: Okay, So, to be honest, I think to dude to

813
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:31,600
Speaker 11: stop dating her because she has hammer in her bedroom.

814
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Speaker 2: I think that's a very good point. I don't think

815
00:36:39,520 --> 00:36:42,560
Speaker 2: the problem I mean, yeah, I mean it could be

816
00:36:42,600 --> 00:36:45,239
Speaker 2: a good thing. You never know. It's a very very

817
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:47,759
Speaker 2: good point. Hey, Christa, what do you think Do you

818
00:36:47,760 --> 00:36:50,359
Speaker 2: think it's a red flag that this dude didn't make

819
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:50,880
Speaker 2: her bed?

820
00:36:52,080 --> 00:36:55,880
Speaker 11: I think her reaction is a red flag for the

821
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:59,720
Speaker 11: fact that some people have a certain way of making

822
00:36:59,719 --> 00:37:02,479
Speaker 11: their own bed or washing their own dishes, and maybe

823
00:37:02,480 --> 00:37:06,120
Speaker 11: he's just being respectful of that and doesn't want to

824
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,000
Speaker 11: do it a certain way that she doesn't like.

825
00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:09,279
Speaker 7: So I think her.

826
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Speaker 11: Freak out about jumping a guy is a red flag.

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Speaker 2: I've definitely been in some relationships like that where you

828
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Speaker 2: would make the bed right first time over, you make

829
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Speaker 2: the bed, do you think it's a nice thing? And

830
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:24,520
Speaker 2: then it's like you made it wrong though, should have

831
00:37:24,600 --> 00:37:26,239
Speaker 2: not made it at all? No, absolutely, I appreciate you

832
00:37:26,320 --> 00:37:27,400
Speaker 2: made it, but you should have made it right. I

833
00:37:27,400 --> 00:37:29,440
Speaker 2: don't know how you make it though. Okay, Well, that

834
00:37:29,480 --> 00:37:31,360
Speaker 2: type of a thing is a red five. I just

835
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Speaker 2: think the effort.

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Speaker 3: I think the effort goes a long way, especially when

837
00:37:33,960 --> 00:37:35,760
Speaker 3: you're guests in somebody else's house.

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Speaker 2: I don't know. Let's take one more call. Hey, I

839
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Speaker 2: do know, I know that's what I mean. I'm sorry EJ,

840
00:37:42,360 --> 00:37:42,960
Speaker 2: what do you think.

841
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Speaker 12: I think women play too much.

842
00:37:46,400 --> 00:37:49,520
Speaker 7: They think everything your test, and no one knows that it's.

843
00:37:49,360 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 12: A test, and say hey, I like my bed made,

844
00:37:54,880 --> 00:37:57,680
Speaker 12: And then he still doesn't. Okay, fine, saying you can't

845
00:37:57,800 --> 00:38:04,600
Speaker 12: just give him some random blind test flip flops.

846
00:38:04,760 --> 00:38:09,120
Speaker 2: Why not really? But like, I guess you're right, the

847
00:38:09,120 --> 00:38:11,000
Speaker 2: seafood thing is a test because I don't tell them, Hey,

848
00:38:11,000 --> 00:38:13,479
Speaker 2: if you answer this and say you've never had fish before,

849
00:38:13,480 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 2: it's a red flag. So yeah, I guess I do

850
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 2: the test too. But that happens so much where it's

851
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:20,759
Speaker 2: just like, hey, I'm gonna put this trash bag right here.

852
00:38:20,960 --> 00:38:22,320
Speaker 2: See if he picks it up and takes it to

853
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,400
Speaker 2: the trash on his way out. But you don't know

854
00:38:24,520 --> 00:38:27,040
Speaker 2: that that you know, like that that's a test. It's

855
00:38:27,080 --> 00:38:28,279
Speaker 2: like an unintentional test.

856
00:38:28,320 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 3: It's not like I had, like anybody has it in

857
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:31,919
Speaker 3: their head that they're like, let's see, we're getting ready

858
00:38:31,920 --> 00:38:34,719
Speaker 3: to grade them today. It's just basic things in life

859
00:38:34,760 --> 00:38:37,600
Speaker 3: that you pay attention to. And for some people people

860
00:38:37,719 --> 00:38:40,600
Speaker 3: being a good guest in someone's house is a requirement

861
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Speaker 3: because it just shows that you are courteous.

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00:38:43,440 --> 00:38:45,440
Speaker 2: Maybe that's why I haven't done well in relationships. I've

863
00:38:45,520 --> 00:38:50,920
Speaker 2: cheated on every test. EJ. Thank you very phone call men.

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Speaker 3: Amina, I'm Nina, I'm Nina, Amina, I'm Nina.

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Speaker 2: I'm Nina. I'm Nina.

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Speaker 3: And smile educators smile educators are trending.

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Speaker 2: So do you, smile educator? Do you have a resting

868
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Speaker 2: bee face?

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Speaker 8: Yes?

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Speaker 3: Do you feel like you've been smiling less since we've

871
00:39:16,920 --> 00:39:20,799
Speaker 3: been wearing masks from the pandemic? These are a real thing,

872
00:39:21,200 --> 00:39:24,400
Speaker 3: smile educators in Japan, though, so it doesn't mean that

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00:39:24,400 --> 00:39:27,839
Speaker 3: they won't come over here. So essentially these people help

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00:39:27,920 --> 00:39:31,680
Speaker 3: people smile better and have their face express their emotions

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Speaker 3: approached appropriately. So they say that after three years of

876
00:39:36,080 --> 00:39:39,040
Speaker 3: wearing the masks during COVID that they just don't know

877
00:39:39,040 --> 00:39:40,040
Speaker 3: how to smile anymore.

878
00:39:40,160 --> 00:39:42,160
Speaker 2: They don't know how to show their emotion anymore. So

879
00:39:42,280 --> 00:39:44,879
Speaker 2: smile educators, I started with the mask I was given

880
00:39:44,920 --> 00:39:48,319
Speaker 2: at birth, not even the one at COVID. But that

881
00:39:48,400 --> 00:39:50,400
Speaker 2: is a problem that I have had in my life

882
00:39:50,520 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 2: a lot. So maybe you need to learn how to

883
00:39:52,920 --> 00:39:55,759
Speaker 2: smile back. Do I've tried. I've been practicing. Let me

884
00:39:55,800 --> 00:40:00,200
Speaker 2: see in the mirror, what do you guys think? It

885
00:40:00,200 --> 00:40:04,600
Speaker 2: looks fake. I know it does, it really does. I

886
00:40:05,680 --> 00:40:08,600
Speaker 2: have been looking in the mirror going okay, because my

887
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:11,160
Speaker 2: face has kind of been frozen, and I do have

888
00:40:11,239 --> 00:40:14,520
Speaker 2: resting dface. That's the male version of resting beeface. And

889
00:40:14,800 --> 00:40:16,480
Speaker 2: a lot of times people will think I'm upset when

890
00:40:16,520 --> 00:40:18,120
Speaker 2: I'm not, think I'm in a bad mood when I'm not,

891
00:40:18,320 --> 00:40:20,360
Speaker 2: you know, and I don't like to be misunderstood anymore.

892
00:40:20,360 --> 00:40:22,360
Speaker 2: I've been misunderstood in a lot in my life because

893
00:40:22,360 --> 00:40:23,759
Speaker 2: of that. Right, I'm like, I promise I'm cool. I

894
00:40:23,800 --> 00:40:26,120
Speaker 2: don't have a problem. But they're like, you're so angry,

895
00:40:26,160 --> 00:40:29,600
Speaker 2: and I'm like, no, i'm not, I'm happy, and then

896
00:40:29,640 --> 00:40:31,279
Speaker 2: I start arguing with them, Like then I do get

897
00:40:31,320 --> 00:40:33,080
Speaker 2: angry because I'm like, yeah, now I am, because you know,

898
00:40:33,360 --> 00:40:37,800
Speaker 2: because I'm told you I'm happy. But this is true.

899
00:40:37,840 --> 00:40:39,920
Speaker 2: I've been looking in the mirror trying to smile and

900
00:40:39,960 --> 00:40:42,799
Speaker 2: it does look fake. So I don't know how to

901
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,239
Speaker 2: do it.

902
00:40:43,360 --> 00:40:45,560
Speaker 3: But it's not even just that. I think it's your

903
00:40:45,600 --> 00:40:47,799
Speaker 3: emotions in general. Like if somebody tells a joke and

904
00:40:47,840 --> 00:40:50,200
Speaker 3: you think something's funny, you don't show it on your face,

905
00:40:50,280 --> 00:40:52,960
Speaker 3: It'll just be like a delayed reaction. The joke happens,

906
00:40:53,560 --> 00:40:55,560
Speaker 3: moments go by, and all of a sudden, Jubil will go.

907
00:40:57,360 --> 00:41:01,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, and a really high compliment from me, because I'm

908
00:41:01,680 --> 00:41:03,200
Speaker 2: kind of a snob when it comes to that kind

909
00:41:03,239 --> 00:41:06,480
Speaker 2: of stuff, honestly, is when I go that's funny. Yeah,

910
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:09,600
Speaker 2: and that doesn't hit people in the same way. They're like, oh,

911
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,200
Speaker 2: he didn't think that was funny at all. I'm like, no,

912
00:41:11,280 --> 00:41:13,359
Speaker 2: I just gave you the best compliment I could because

913
00:41:13,400 --> 00:41:15,440
Speaker 2: I don't know how to smile or laugh loud like

914
00:41:15,440 --> 00:41:17,600
Speaker 2: that in the moment. But man, maybe these people are legit.

915
00:41:17,760 --> 00:41:20,480
Speaker 2: I thought this is kind of a silly, you know job,

916
00:41:20,680 --> 00:41:20,880
Speaker 2: but a.

917
00:41:20,920 --> 00:41:24,560
Speaker 3: Smile educator may be necessary.

918
00:41:24,800 --> 00:41:27,399
Speaker 2: That's what's tramp. Hey, you.

919
00:41:28,960 --> 00:41:30,439
Speaker 8: Probably brand new wood.

920
00:41:30,560 --> 00:41:33,399
Speaker 2: Just it's the Jewbil show. What's popping? It's checking Call

921
00:41:33,480 --> 00:41:35,120
Speaker 2: us up eighty eight three four three one o six

922
00:41:35,160 --> 00:41:37,120
Speaker 2: one eight eight eight three four three one oh six one.

923
00:41:37,680 --> 00:41:40,080
Speaker 2: It's time to all not fill alone. Every week at

924
00:41:40,080 --> 00:41:42,680
Speaker 2: this time, we all remind ourselves that we're actually not

925
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:44,400
Speaker 2: alone and check in with each other. You check in

926
00:41:44,400 --> 00:41:46,520
Speaker 2: with us, and we'll check in with you. Call us

927
00:41:46,600 --> 00:41:48,279
Speaker 2: up eight eight eight three four three one o six

928
00:41:48,360 --> 00:41:53,919
Speaker 2: one text in four one O six one. Hello Sky, Yes,

929
00:41:54,239 --> 00:41:55,640
Speaker 2: what would you like to check in about today?

930
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,719
Speaker 10: I would like men to know that it's okay to

931
00:41:59,760 --> 00:42:03,239
Speaker 10: share your feelings, be vulnerable, and then it's okay to

932
00:42:03,320 --> 00:42:04,399
Speaker 10: not be Okay.

933
00:42:04,640 --> 00:42:10,040
Speaker 2: Guy, say that louder. Yeah, amen, Sky, absolutely, with all

934
00:42:10,040 --> 00:42:11,680
Speaker 2: of the men. What was that?

935
00:42:13,480 --> 00:42:14,759
Speaker 7: I said, share it with all of the men.

936
00:42:15,360 --> 00:42:17,560
Speaker 2: It sounded like you cussed. Sound was like I probably

937
00:42:17,600 --> 00:42:19,359
Speaker 2: shouldn't ask him what that was again, because it sounded

938
00:42:19,400 --> 00:42:21,520
Speaker 2: like you said that the s H word. We all

939
00:42:21,560 --> 00:42:23,680
Speaker 2: sat You were like, well, see if he's gonna say

940
00:42:23,200 --> 00:42:27,920
Speaker 2: it seriously though. You know, I've been very outspoken about

941
00:42:27,960 --> 00:42:30,440
Speaker 2: my emotional issues and things like that and things that

942
00:42:30,480 --> 00:42:33,640
Speaker 2: I go through, but not a lot of guys are

943
00:42:33,800 --> 00:42:36,440
Speaker 2: able to be vulnerable like that, and you should be.

944
00:42:36,680 --> 00:42:38,960
Speaker 2: It's how you get stuff out right, like it's how

945
00:42:39,000 --> 00:42:42,280
Speaker 2: you become not angry and aggressive and mad at the world.

946
00:42:42,480 --> 00:42:45,960
Speaker 2: And it's really nice when you go you share something

947
00:42:45,960 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 2: with somebody and you find out that, oh they're just

948
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 2: actually supportive. That's nice. That feels good to get that out.

949
00:42:52,239 --> 00:42:55,920
Speaker 2: You deserve to feel good too. It's okay. I love that, Sky,

950
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:57,920
Speaker 2: it is Sky. Thank you very much for your phone call. Man,

951
00:42:57,960 --> 00:43:00,000
Speaker 2: I appreciate you.

952
00:43:00,239 --> 00:43:01,799
Speaker 8: Yeah, thanks guys, thanks for doing what you do.

953
00:43:01,920 --> 00:43:04,880
Speaker 2: Yeah, thank you on a vulnerable on a vulnerable note,

954
00:43:05,239 --> 00:43:07,799
Speaker 2: I love you, Skuy for listening.

955
00:43:07,840 --> 00:43:08,520
Speaker 8: I love you too.

956
00:43:09,000 --> 00:43:11,600
Speaker 2: That's all good, all right, man, Thank you for the

957
00:43:11,600 --> 00:43:13,640
Speaker 2: phone call. Call us up eighty eight three four three

958
00:43:13,640 --> 00:43:15,680
Speaker 2: one six one. Text in four to one oh six one.

959
00:43:16,440 --> 00:43:17,759
Speaker 2: It's the check in Nina. What do you want to

960
00:43:17,840 --> 00:43:18,279
Speaker 2: check in about?

961
00:43:18,320 --> 00:43:20,400
Speaker 3: I'm feeling a little bit nervous that something bad is

962
00:43:20,440 --> 00:43:24,200
Speaker 3: going to happen with I don't know what. I cracked

963
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,840
Speaker 3: an egg this morning, and so somebody told me once

964
00:43:27,920 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 3: that if you crack an egg, like, I was going

965
00:43:30,320 --> 00:43:32,640
Speaker 3: to like make some coffee and harble some eggs before

966
00:43:32,640 --> 00:43:34,720
Speaker 3: I came to work, and one of the eggs slipped

967
00:43:34,719 --> 00:43:37,200
Speaker 3: out of my hand and just cracked all over the floor.

968
00:43:37,480 --> 00:43:39,680
Speaker 3: And I got really scared because, yeah, somebody told me

969
00:43:39,680 --> 00:43:41,280
Speaker 3: one time that if you do that, it's a bad omen.

970
00:43:41,360 --> 00:43:44,279
Speaker 3: It means that something bad is going to happen to you. Really,

971
00:43:44,320 --> 00:43:47,160
Speaker 3: and I'll do that all the time. Actually I never do.

972
00:43:47,800 --> 00:43:51,720
Speaker 3: So I was just like, ugh, huh, what's going to happen? Well,

973
00:43:51,960 --> 00:43:52,680
Speaker 3: what's broken?

974
00:43:52,960 --> 00:43:53,160
Speaker 8: Wait?

975
00:43:53,200 --> 00:43:55,840
Speaker 4: You had that much time in the morning other than Sultan.

976
00:43:55,840 --> 00:43:58,520
Speaker 2: I'm just kidding today I did Weeah. This is how

977
00:43:58,560 --> 00:44:02,360
Speaker 2: I look at it, right. We really do have the

978
00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:06,640
Speaker 2: power as human beings to make whatever we want happen.

979
00:44:07,160 --> 00:44:10,880
Speaker 2: So if you're thinking something bad it's gonna happen because

980
00:44:10,880 --> 00:44:12,960
Speaker 2: of an egg cracking, it's not the egg, it's you

981
00:44:13,040 --> 00:44:14,960
Speaker 2: thinking that it's gonna happen. I don't want to I

982
00:44:15,000 --> 00:44:17,080
Speaker 2: don't want anything bad to happen. Nothing bad it's gonna happen.

983
00:44:17,160 --> 00:44:21,000
Speaker 2: Then why did the egg crack? Because he's the eggs crack? Okay,

984
00:44:21,440 --> 00:44:27,640
Speaker 2: maybe the egg cracked because it's a good omen all right?

985
00:44:27,680 --> 00:44:30,439
Speaker 2: Maybe not call away in my back eight eight eight

986
00:44:30,440 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 2: three four three one o six one eight eight eight

987
00:44:32,840 --> 00:44:35,680
Speaker 2: three four three one oh six one. It's the check in, Phil,

988
00:44:35,960 --> 00:44:38,160
Speaker 2: not alone with us and the rest of the Jewbil

989
00:44:38,160 --> 00:44:41,520
Speaker 2: show fam. You listening and us every single week at

990
00:44:41,520 --> 00:44:43,120
Speaker 2: this time, it's the check in. Just call up and

991
00:44:43,160 --> 00:44:45,840
Speaker 2: tell us what's going on in your life? Hey, Brian,

992
00:44:47,239 --> 00:44:48,560
Speaker 2: Yeah was that man? What do you want to check

993
00:44:48,560 --> 00:44:48,960
Speaker 2: in about?

994
00:44:50,160 --> 00:44:50,640
Speaker 13: How you doing?

995
00:44:51,440 --> 00:44:54,960
Speaker 2: I'm good man, Thank you for asking. How are you good?

996
00:44:55,480 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: Nan?

997
00:44:55,760 --> 00:44:56,799
Speaker 13: And everybody else is good?

998
00:44:57,120 --> 00:45:00,680
Speaker 2: Yeah, we're okay. Thanks for asking, yeah, what's going on

999
00:45:00,719 --> 00:45:00,960
Speaker 2: with you?

1000
00:45:02,880 --> 00:45:05,080
Speaker 13: So it was it was a while ago on the show,

1001
00:45:05,120 --> 00:45:08,839
Speaker 13: but you guys took it like a whole hour pretty

1002
00:45:08,920 --> 00:45:10,640
Speaker 13: much and just talked about like mental health.

1003
00:45:11,000 --> 00:45:14,120
Speaker 12: Yeah, and like I was in a.

1004
00:45:14,080 --> 00:45:19,440
Speaker 13: Really low spot at that time, Like I like, I

1005
00:45:19,520 --> 00:45:23,160
Speaker 13: was really thinking about, you know, ending myself, and you

1006
00:45:23,239 --> 00:45:24,719
Speaker 13: guys helped me a lot. O.

1007
00:45:24,920 --> 00:45:31,600
Speaker 2: Man, that's amazing to hear, dude, as somebody like that

1008
00:45:31,680 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 2: hit me obviously, as somebody who also many times has

1009
00:45:36,040 --> 00:45:41,640
Speaker 2: attempted that in his life one time almost completing the task. Uh,

1010
00:45:42,560 --> 00:45:47,480
Speaker 2: it's great to hear that you say that that helped you, honestly, and.

1011
00:45:48,960 --> 00:45:51,240
Speaker 13: Yeah, like I really do appreciate it, guys.

1012
00:45:51,360 --> 00:45:52,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, well appreciate you.

1013
00:45:52,600 --> 00:45:52,719
Speaker 7: Man.

1014
00:45:52,760 --> 00:45:55,279
Speaker 2: If you're ever struggling again, like that, reach out, you know,

1015
00:45:55,719 --> 00:45:57,400
Speaker 2: I mean, you reach out to us, reach out to

1016
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:59,720
Speaker 2: the people around you, because you are definitely not alone.

1017
00:46:00,960 --> 00:46:03,040
Speaker 2: And I'm really glad that I did that. That one day.

1018
00:46:03,040 --> 00:46:04,799
Speaker 2: I just kind of came in and I was kind

1019
00:46:04,800 --> 00:46:06,319
Speaker 2: of going through it with some personal things and I

1020
00:46:06,320 --> 00:46:08,440
Speaker 2: was like, screw it, man, and I saw the thing

1021
00:46:08,480 --> 00:46:11,799
Speaker 2: about loneliness and I was like, let's just talk about

1022
00:46:11,800 --> 00:46:13,359
Speaker 2: it for a while. So bluff everything for an hour

1023
00:46:13,440 --> 00:46:15,680
Speaker 2: and just talked, and it was amazing to see the

1024
00:46:15,719 --> 00:46:18,720
Speaker 2: response that we got. People still talk about it. People

1025
00:46:18,760 --> 00:46:20,680
Speaker 2: called up and talked about whatever was going on their life,

1026
00:46:20,719 --> 00:46:24,160
Speaker 2: good or bad, and then other people started calling being

1027
00:46:24,200 --> 00:46:27,120
Speaker 2: like dude, that was great because I'm going through something similar,

1028
00:46:27,560 --> 00:46:29,440
Speaker 2: or people would call up. Our listeners will call up

1029
00:46:29,480 --> 00:46:33,080
Speaker 2: and give other people advice based on their life. Experience

1030
00:46:33,160 --> 00:46:35,120
Speaker 2: is where you get the best knowledge. And it helped

1031
00:46:35,120 --> 00:46:36,600
Speaker 2: a lot of people out and we still hear about it,

1032
00:46:36,640 --> 00:46:38,360
Speaker 2: and I'm really glad that we did that, and Brian,

1033
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:41,120
Speaker 2: I'm very very happy that it helped you because you

1034
00:46:41,160 --> 00:46:42,600
Speaker 2: should be here. You have a reason to be here,

1035
00:46:42,600 --> 00:46:43,200
Speaker 2: you have purpose.

1036
00:46:44,760 --> 00:46:47,600
Speaker 13: Thank you, guys. I really do appreciate it. Man, Like

1037
00:46:47,960 --> 00:46:50,759
Speaker 13: I was in probably the darkest place that I've been

1038
00:46:50,800 --> 00:46:55,120
Speaker 13: in a really really long time and I couldn't see

1039
00:46:55,120 --> 00:46:56,880
Speaker 13: the light and you guys helped me.

1040
00:46:57,000 --> 00:46:59,239
Speaker 7: So thank you very much, thank you. I appreciate your

1041
00:46:59,239 --> 00:47:02,040
Speaker 7: guys to show you all the appreciate you.

1042
00:47:02,920 --> 00:47:05,400
Speaker 2: Yep you you you made me cry, so thank you,

1043
00:47:05,520 --> 00:47:09,040
Speaker 2: thank you. I have a going man. Call us up

1044
00:47:09,080 --> 00:47:10,880
Speaker 2: eight A eight three fourteen one six one text in

1045
00:47:11,120 --> 00:47:13,000
Speaker 2: four one o six one it's the check in just

1046
00:47:13,040 --> 00:47:17,560
Speaker 2: whatever you want to talk about. Hey, Odinya, what do

1047
00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:18,400
Speaker 2: you want to check in about?

1048
00:47:20,080 --> 00:47:26,120
Speaker 8: I was checking and a doubt. I am getting ready

1049
00:47:26,200 --> 00:47:27,680
Speaker 8: to task kindergarten.

1050
00:47:28,200 --> 00:47:39,640
Speaker 2: Oh sweet, that's so exciting. Congratulations, Thank you, have a

1051
00:47:39,680 --> 00:47:40,840
Speaker 2: good day. Bye.

1052
00:47:41,800 --> 00:47:42,680
Speaker 8: Halo a lot?

1053
00:47:42,960 --> 00:47:48,759
Speaker 2: You like to play Halo a lot? Yeah? Halo?

1054
00:47:49,040 --> 00:47:54,040
Speaker 9: What's your favorite part of the show us prank calls?

1055
00:47:54,760 --> 00:47:57,560
Speaker 2: Well, sweet, maybe we'll prank call you for your kindergarten graduation.

1056
00:47:57,800 --> 00:48:02,879
Speaker 2: That would be I have a good one, Odin, thank you. Yeah.

1057
00:48:03,560 --> 00:48:07,719
Speaker 3: Twenty twenty three three four one text in four to

1058
00:48:07,719 --> 00:48:10,000
Speaker 3: one O six one, Victoria, what do you want to

1059
00:48:10,080 --> 00:48:11,920
Speaker 3: check in about?

1060
00:48:13,239 --> 00:48:15,319
Speaker 4: I spilled my smoothie on me earlier. This is not

1061
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:17,640
Speaker 4: that deep, but that's just what I wanted to tell

1062
00:48:17,680 --> 00:48:19,279
Speaker 4: everyone today. And then I get to go on a

1063
00:48:19,600 --> 00:48:21,320
Speaker 4: pirate booze cruise this weekend.

1064
00:48:21,680 --> 00:48:22,800
Speaker 2: Well that sounds great.

1065
00:48:23,000 --> 00:48:24,840
Speaker 4: I'm personally I'm kind of happy and excited for that.

1066
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:27,839
Speaker 2: Yeah, pirate booze cruise sounds fun.

1067
00:48:28,080 --> 00:48:28,200
Speaker 7: Right?

1068
00:48:28,400 --> 00:48:30,360
Speaker 2: You have to dress as a pirate. Yes, you have

1069
00:48:30,400 --> 00:48:31,520
Speaker 2: to talk as a pirate the whole time.

1070
00:48:31,640 --> 00:48:33,879
Speaker 4: Let's hope Knox, I'm not going to let's hear.

1071
00:48:33,800 --> 00:48:38,520
Speaker 2: It, Victoria, You walked right into that one. Let's hear

1072
00:48:38,640 --> 00:48:39,920
Speaker 2: Victoria's pirate.

1073
00:48:39,640 --> 00:48:42,160
Speaker 3: Are you gonna be a wench that walks the plank

1074
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:46,000
Speaker 3: and gets me a beer?

1075
00:48:46,400 --> 00:48:47,799
Speaker 2: I don't know. You don't know how to just go

1076
00:48:48,080 --> 00:48:54,040
Speaker 2: r Your phone prank happens every single hour on the twenties.

1077
00:48:54,520 --> 00:48:56,319
Speaker 2: Victoria is about to tell you that the phone prank

1078
00:48:56,400 --> 00:48:59,359
Speaker 2: is happening right now. In her pirate voice, Victoria, take

1079
00:48:59,360 --> 00:48:59,960
Speaker 2: it away.

1080
00:49:01,520 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 4: The phone brenk is happening right now.

1081
00:49:06,280 --> 00:49:10,040
Speaker 2: Art that sounded like a chiwala that's starting to bark.

1082
00:49:11,239 --> 00:49:12,080
Speaker 2: What's trending, Nina?

1083
00:49:12,280 --> 00:49:17,319
Speaker 3: Second chances, second chances, that love, that's what's trending. So

1084
00:49:17,480 --> 00:49:20,200
Speaker 3: remember after Coachella we heard about how Camila Cabeo and

1085
00:49:20,239 --> 00:49:22,480
Speaker 3: Shawn Mendes were making out and stuff, and then they

1086
00:49:22,520 --> 00:49:25,120
Speaker 3: tried to squash it like it was just like Coachella thing,

1087
00:49:25,239 --> 00:49:27,920
Speaker 3: you know, we just made out. Well, apparently that makeout

1088
00:49:28,000 --> 00:49:30,440
Speaker 3: is still going on because they're holding hands and strolling

1089
00:49:30,480 --> 00:49:34,320
Speaker 3: all over the place and Shamila is on Shamila.

1090
00:49:34,400 --> 00:49:39,160
Speaker 2: I just named that. So they're officially dating then? Yeah,

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Speaker 2: where had they dated before? Is that why you say

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Speaker 2: second chances? Yeah, you don't know much about them jobs.

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Speaker 3: They were like living together and like all this stuff

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Speaker 3: and Miami. They were together for I remember, and then

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Speaker 3: like she broke up with this one dude and then

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Speaker 3: it up him because they were friends forever. I mean,

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Speaker 3: they've got quite a story. Okay, so I'm just out

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Speaker 3: here rooting for Shamila anyway, Second Chances.

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Speaker 2: Let's oh, speaking of second Chances, did I tell you

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Speaker 2: guys about the Jennifer Lopez been affleck video that I saw? Yes,

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Speaker 2: I did. Yeah, the one where they post it was

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Speaker 2: on Instagram was like a week ago. I'm just saying

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Speaker 2: to Second Chances because they were together and then they

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Speaker 2: got back together years and years later. Now they're married,

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Speaker 2: and I feel like that one, like I'm gonna tell

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Speaker 2: the future right now, that one is gonna end soon.

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Speaker 2: I feel like, oh my, I don't want to be

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Speaker 2: a downer. I'm not trying to bring that on them,

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Speaker 2: but you could just tell by the body language and

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Speaker 2: the video said chivalry is not dead because he opened

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Speaker 2: up her car door. But he did not open up

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Speaker 2: her car door in a hey babe, open up your

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Speaker 2: card door to be a gentleman way. He opened up

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Speaker 2: They weren't even she was walking in front of him,

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Speaker 2: looking at her phone. Neither of them were smiling. He

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Speaker 2: was chewing on his tongue so hard because of like tension,

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Speaker 2: not wanting to say something. His face was red. And

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Speaker 2: then he opened up the door. She got in and

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Speaker 2: then he slammed it closes with a big like there

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Speaker 2: you go. Few opened your door. You could tell they

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Speaker 2: were arguing big time. I saw that video for the

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Speaker 2: first time yesterday. Actually, you agree with me, Victoria, well,

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Speaker 2: not that they.

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Speaker 4: Might break up. The video is actually really funny, and

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Speaker 4: I watched it and I was like, oh my gosh,

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Speaker 4: this is what Jewbill was talking about.

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Speaker 2: This is the video.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys are finding so much joy and other

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Speaker 3: people's unhappy.

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Speaker 2: I'm a happier bottle. I'm sad for them, you know,

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Speaker 2: like this is their second shot. I was just saying,

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Speaker 2: you know, second chances. See the video. Though the video

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Speaker 2: is hilarious, like it's better than a sitcom, you know.

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Speaker 2: Sitcoms always try to capture those moments of your husband

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Speaker 2: and wife fighting. That's exactly it right there. That's why

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Speaker 2: I thought it was funny. That's why you should see that.

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