1 00:00:00,080 --> 00:00:02,440 Speaker 1: My girlfriend destroyed my gift for my little sister, so 2 00:00:02,520 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: I brought. 3 00:00:02,880 --> 00:00:07,680 Speaker 2: Up with her do it break up? I wasn't ready. 4 00:00:07,880 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 1: He's in it ladies and gentleman. So my girlfriend Meghan 5 00:00:11,840 --> 00:00:14,080 Speaker 1: and I stay together. We lived together. She had a 6 00:00:14,080 --> 00:00:16,320 Speaker 1: fight with her parents and asked if we could move 7 00:00:16,360 --> 00:00:18,600 Speaker 1: in together, so we did. Not long ago. I had 8 00:00:18,640 --> 00:00:20,919 Speaker 1: to take my little sister in as well, so we 9 00:00:21,000 --> 00:00:23,960 Speaker 1: got a full house. Now I can't disclose much except 10 00:00:24,000 --> 00:00:26,320 Speaker 1: the fact that I was her only option. By the way, 11 00:00:26,480 --> 00:00:30,680 Speaker 1: this comes from maybe girlfriend redditack from our side Showkay 12 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:33,280 Speaker 1: story time. Oh so when we had to talk about 13 00:00:33,320 --> 00:00:36,159 Speaker 1: me taking my sister in, my girlfriend Megan did not 14 00:00:36,360 --> 00:00:38,360 Speaker 1: like this idea. She told me that I was too 15 00:00:38,400 --> 00:00:40,879 Speaker 1: young to have such a responsibility. What will happen when 16 00:00:40,880 --> 00:00:42,960 Speaker 1: we get married, have our own kids, Our place was 17 00:00:43,000 --> 00:00:45,839 Speaker 1: already too small, et cetera, et cetera. But didn't outright 18 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,120 Speaker 1: say she had an issue with it. 19 00:00:47,320 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 2: That is literally saying she has a billion issues. It 20 00:00:50,320 --> 00:00:51,720 Speaker 2: sounds like she listed all. 21 00:00:51,600 --> 00:00:53,800 Speaker 3: The issues she wish she outright said she had an issue. 22 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:58,280 Speaker 1: Oh, I obviously couldn't turn my back on my sister 23 00:00:58,600 --> 00:00:59,040 Speaker 1: or you could. 24 00:00:59,080 --> 00:01:00,960 Speaker 2: You know, dude, I would turn my back on my 25 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,000 Speaker 2: sister in an instant. Right, we got it out on 26 00:01:03,040 --> 00:01:06,280 Speaker 2: this street on out here. She wants a job, Yeah right, 27 00:01:06,400 --> 00:01:10,280 Speaker 2: He's a place to lit streets, straight straights with. You 28 00:01:10,440 --> 00:01:11,600 Speaker 2: don't teach street smart. 29 00:01:11,640 --> 00:01:14,000 Speaker 1: So I went ahead with it despite her reservations, my 30 00:01:14,000 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: girlfriend's observations. Although my sister has always been friendly to 31 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:19,959 Speaker 1: Megan from the moment she met her, Meghan is always 32 00:01:20,040 --> 00:01:22,880 Speaker 1: just indifferent with her. And it's because my sister really 33 00:01:22,959 --> 00:01:25,360 Speaker 1: admires her and enjoys talking to her. I just thought 34 00:01:25,360 --> 00:01:28,560 Speaker 1: maybe they don't connect because of my sister's age. But 35 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:31,240 Speaker 1: a month ago, I bought my sister a Nintendo Switch, 36 00:01:31,360 --> 00:01:33,440 Speaker 1: and she has always wanted one and all of her 37 00:01:33,440 --> 00:01:35,800 Speaker 1: friends have one. I figured she deserved it, as she 38 00:01:35,840 --> 00:01:38,640 Speaker 1: does well in school, also really quick, pretty w brother 39 00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:42,240 Speaker 1: taking the sister and like kasing her a switch becoming 40 00:01:42,600 --> 00:01:45,200 Speaker 1: her like father trying to say something, so you. 41 00:01:45,360 --> 00:01:49,680 Speaker 2: Yeah, gives Sophia a switch, give her. 42 00:01:49,600 --> 00:01:52,840 Speaker 1: An She helps with chores and is generally a well 43 00:01:52,880 --> 00:01:55,160 Speaker 1: behaved kid. She loved it and she has been taking 44 00:01:55,200 --> 00:01:57,960 Speaker 1: good care of it. Meghan wasn't happy when I bought it. 45 00:01:58,080 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: She actually sulked. 46 00:02:00,080 --> 00:02:03,680 Speaker 2: Why is Megan caring? So much about all these good 47 00:02:03,720 --> 00:02:05,440 Speaker 2: things that Opie's doing for his sister. 48 00:02:05,440 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 1: Where's my switch? 49 00:02:06,440 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 2: That's true, I'm the girlfriend. Yeah I should get the 50 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:09,600 Speaker 2: switch first. 51 00:02:09,680 --> 00:02:12,120 Speaker 3: But if they're living together, they can both use the switch. 52 00:02:12,280 --> 00:02:14,440 Speaker 2: No, no, only one player, only one can have it. 53 00:02:14,520 --> 00:02:17,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, you're right. If it's her switch, then she shouldn't 54 00:02:17,639 --> 00:02:20,519 Speaker 3: let anyone else use it. Yes, no one should, and 55 00:02:20,600 --> 00:02:22,680 Speaker 3: the house should be allowed to use her switch. 56 00:02:22,880 --> 00:02:23,680 Speaker 1: That's what I'm saying. 57 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:26,040 Speaker 2: I'm not saying that switches are meant to be shared. 58 00:02:26,080 --> 00:02:28,840 Speaker 1: I'm switch up. No'll switching out? Nope, nope. Now she 59 00:02:28,880 --> 00:02:33,240 Speaker 1: would borrow the switch. She would borrow the switch incessantly, 60 00:02:33,280 --> 00:02:36,120 Speaker 1: and my sister would not say no, maybe because she 61 00:02:36,240 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 1: was afraid to. But Megan would use it too much, 62 00:02:38,919 --> 00:02:40,720 Speaker 1: so much that it felt like it belonged to her. 63 00:02:40,800 --> 00:02:43,560 Speaker 1: My sister never said anything, she would just patiently wait 64 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:46,239 Speaker 1: for her turn. Sometimes Megan would use it even when 65 00:02:46,280 --> 00:02:48,800 Speaker 1: my sister was at school, saying that she gets bored 66 00:02:48,840 --> 00:02:49,519 Speaker 1: when I'm at work. 67 00:02:49,600 --> 00:02:51,040 Speaker 2: Maybe get a job, Megan. 68 00:02:51,280 --> 00:02:53,760 Speaker 1: Maybe all this may be uncomfortable, so I asked her 69 00:02:53,800 --> 00:02:55,680 Speaker 1: to please tone it down on the switch, as it's 70 00:02:55,760 --> 00:02:58,560 Speaker 1: unfair to my sister since it was her gift. Megan agreed, 71 00:02:58,600 --> 00:03:00,480 Speaker 1: although it was clear that she was a set. She 72 00:03:00,560 --> 00:03:03,119 Speaker 1: gave us the silent treatment for the rest of the night. 73 00:03:03,440 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 1: Last week, when I came back from pricking up my sister. 74 00:03:05,880 --> 00:03:09,480 Speaker 2: No, sorry, I read ahead. Frick Oh god. 75 00:03:09,480 --> 00:03:12,919 Speaker 1: No, I read ahead. You're spoiling it for everyone. Last week, 76 00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,080 Speaker 1: when I came back from picking up my sister from 77 00:03:15,120 --> 00:03:18,360 Speaker 1: school after work, we found her switch broken. 78 00:03:18,520 --> 00:03:21,280 Speaker 2: Now, ah, she is a child. 79 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:22,280 Speaker 1: Instant breakup? 80 00:03:22,360 --> 00:03:25,480 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, oh no, just I mean I was still 81 00:03:25,520 --> 00:03:27,600 Speaker 2: talk but with the intention of breaking up. 82 00:03:27,680 --> 00:03:28,960 Speaker 3: And talk about breaking up. 83 00:03:29,080 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm breaking up with you talk talk successful and 84 00:03:33,360 --> 00:03:37,240 Speaker 1: that's putting it lightly. It looked like it was deliberately smashed. 85 00:03:37,240 --> 00:03:38,280 Speaker 2: Oh my god. 86 00:03:38,520 --> 00:03:41,080 Speaker 1: My sister was distraught, and when I asked Megan what 87 00:03:41,120 --> 00:03:43,920 Speaker 1: the f happened, she told us that she accidentally dropped 88 00:03:43,920 --> 00:03:44,960 Speaker 1: it and broke. Whoops. 89 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:48,240 Speaker 2: Oh well, maybe you can go intentionally pay for a 90 00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 2: new one. 91 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:51,720 Speaker 1: Wait wait wait wait wait readact it broke. 92 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:54,040 Speaker 2: I knew you were going to drop it. 93 00:03:54,680 --> 00:03:57,119 Speaker 3: You're intentionally Oh my goodness. 94 00:03:57,240 --> 00:03:59,040 Speaker 1: Did you see that? That was some top tier stuff 95 00:03:59,120 --> 00:03:59,440 Speaker 1: right there. 96 00:03:59,520 --> 00:04:02,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, but that's that's because you had editor play. 97 00:04:02,640 --> 00:04:04,520 Speaker 1: It back in slow moan and show professionals and we'll 98 00:04:04,600 --> 00:04:05,760 Speaker 1: let the people decide. Comment below. 99 00:04:05,760 --> 00:04:07,200 Speaker 3: You didn't even have to try that hard? 100 00:04:07,760 --> 00:04:09,400 Speaker 1: No, No, it was professional. 101 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:11,200 Speaker 2: What if your screen is broken. 102 00:04:11,240 --> 00:04:14,320 Speaker 1: That I live for the art. I live for the art. 103 00:04:14,360 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 1: If my screen hasn't get broken in the process, I've done. 104 00:04:16,520 --> 00:04:19,720 Speaker 2: I've done my duty. Regular Picasso cut off your ear 105 00:04:19,760 --> 00:04:22,400 Speaker 2: next than go Van Gop cut off your ear. 106 00:04:23,640 --> 00:04:26,120 Speaker 1: No, but it was obvious that she was lying, and 107 00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: when I pointed that out and all the other times 108 00:04:28,200 --> 00:04:30,400 Speaker 1: where she seemed to have an issue with an eleven 109 00:04:30,480 --> 00:04:32,840 Speaker 1: year old for no reason, she got annoyed and told 110 00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:35,080 Speaker 1: me that everything was fine until my sister moved in. 111 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:37,640 Speaker 1: I called her childish and asked her to please pack 112 00:04:37,680 --> 00:04:39,880 Speaker 1: her bags and go back to her parents' house because 113 00:04:39,960 --> 00:04:40,920 Speaker 1: I needed time and. 114 00:04:40,880 --> 00:04:41,600 Speaker 2: Space to think. 115 00:04:41,720 --> 00:04:44,880 Speaker 1: This only made her more annoyed, but she did eventually leave. 116 00:04:44,920 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 1: Her best friend texted me last night to tell me 117 00:04:47,080 --> 00:04:49,520 Speaker 1: that I was an a hole for kicking Megan out because, 118 00:04:49,560 --> 00:04:52,000 Speaker 1: on top of everything else, I know how rocky her 119 00:04:52,000 --> 00:04:54,520 Speaker 1: relationship with her parents is. Does this make me an 120 00:04:54,560 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: a hole? We have an update? But is OPI the 121 00:04:56,640 --> 00:05:01,120 Speaker 1: a hole? Did OP unjustly ca her out? Where she 122 00:05:01,120 --> 00:05:03,280 Speaker 1: she new information. Seems like she doesn't have a good 123 00:05:03,279 --> 00:05:04,120 Speaker 1: relationship with her parents. 124 00:05:06,560 --> 00:05:08,560 Speaker 2: It's not a psy issue, correct. 125 00:05:08,600 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 1: Maybe she should have thought about that before fashing the switch. 126 00:05:11,440 --> 00:05:14,520 Speaker 2: Like, yeah, a baby, she shouldn't have been a terrible person. 127 00:05:15,320 --> 00:05:16,080 Speaker 1: That's a great thought. 128 00:05:16,240 --> 00:05:18,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, if she wasn't such a child, then she wouldn't 129 00:05:19,000 --> 00:05:20,279 Speaker 3: have to live with her parents. 130 00:05:21,480 --> 00:05:23,480 Speaker 2: I wouldn't have said it better myself. Also, I want 131 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:25,640 Speaker 2: to go back, get a job. Why doesn't she have 132 00:05:25,680 --> 00:05:28,880 Speaker 2: a job. There's this really fun game called get a job. 133 00:05:29,680 --> 00:05:31,440 Speaker 2: You get the job, and then you get the money, 134 00:05:31,480 --> 00:05:32,400 Speaker 2: and then you get the money. 135 00:05:32,560 --> 00:05:35,680 Speaker 1: Game over. But let's get into it. 136 00:05:35,720 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 2: Won't be playing switch all day. You'll have something to do. 137 00:05:37,720 --> 00:05:40,080 Speaker 2: Getting a job is like switch, But in real. 138 00:05:39,920 --> 00:05:41,720 Speaker 1: Life, Twitch streamers switch on Twitch. 139 00:05:41,960 --> 00:05:44,640 Speaker 2: That's not a real job, switch on Twitch. Job. You 140 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:46,520 Speaker 2: can't be a streamer, dude, Yeah, dude, you can't. You 141 00:05:46,560 --> 00:05:47,120 Speaker 2: can't do live. 142 00:05:47,200 --> 00:05:50,120 Speaker 1: You can't like record five days a week with two. 143 00:05:49,880 --> 00:05:55,120 Speaker 2: Studios to make a ridiculous no, impossible, impossible, disgusting. 144 00:05:55,839 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: But we have an update. Oh yeah, I just wanted 145 00:05:57,960 --> 00:06:00,440 Speaker 1: to write an update on what happened after I posted 146 00:06:00,560 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: when I kicked Megan out. I already knew that there 147 00:06:02,920 --> 00:06:05,679 Speaker 1: was no way we could continue our relationship. After reading 148 00:06:05,680 --> 00:06:07,880 Speaker 1: the comments on the post, I knew that I needed 149 00:06:07,880 --> 00:06:10,640 Speaker 1: to officially end the relationship and not leave things hanging. 150 00:06:10,800 --> 00:06:13,120 Speaker 1: I only said to her I needed time to think 151 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:15,480 Speaker 1: because I wanted her to leave without a fuss. She 152 00:06:15,520 --> 00:06:18,200 Speaker 1: had already caused enough trouble. I hadn't spoken to her 153 00:06:18,240 --> 00:06:20,919 Speaker 1: since what happened because I was ignoring her texts, some 154 00:06:21,040 --> 00:06:23,279 Speaker 1: of them telling me that she missed me and wanted 155 00:06:23,320 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: to come back home. I decided to text her to 156 00:06:25,360 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: arrange a meeting. She told me to come over to 157 00:06:27,360 --> 00:06:30,120 Speaker 1: her friend's place because she only stayed a few days 158 00:06:30,120 --> 00:06:32,520 Speaker 1: at her parents' place. When I got to her friend's place, 159 00:06:32,560 --> 00:06:35,200 Speaker 1: I told Megan that the relationship is not working out 160 00:06:35,279 --> 00:06:38,640 Speaker 1: for me and it's best that we break up. I said, 161 00:06:38,680 --> 00:06:40,599 Speaker 1: I don't see myself getting over the fact that she 162 00:06:40,640 --> 00:06:43,320 Speaker 1: intentionally destroyed something that meant a lot to my sister 163 00:06:43,520 --> 00:06:47,320 Speaker 1: over her irrational jealousy. Not to mention that she never 164 00:06:47,360 --> 00:06:49,480 Speaker 1: really opened up to my sister, which should have been 165 00:06:49,600 --> 00:06:51,440 Speaker 1: enough for me to end the relationship. 166 00:06:51,480 --> 00:06:55,280 Speaker 2: Then true, she was giving red flags all throughout this relationship, 167 00:06:55,360 --> 00:06:59,120 Speaker 2: and this one was just the most apparent, and like 168 00:06:59,200 --> 00:07:01,920 Speaker 2: in your face, the rose tinted glasses off it broke, 169 00:07:02,000 --> 00:07:05,360 Speaker 2: shattered them, shattered the rose tasting glasses. And now instead 170 00:07:05,360 --> 00:07:07,039 Speaker 2: of just seeing a little rose tint, it was just 171 00:07:07,240 --> 00:07:10,760 Speaker 2: giant red in your face, a flag. You're blinded by redness, 172 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:15,080 Speaker 2: broken glass everywhere, broken, you're stepping on glass, bleeding more red. 173 00:07:15,480 --> 00:07:18,560 Speaker 2: You're seeing red. Now, Now you're mad. Now you're seeing red. 174 00:07:18,600 --> 00:07:19,720 Speaker 2: Now you're charging like a bull. 175 00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,920 Speaker 1: God, but my sister deserves to be around someone who 176 00:07:22,960 --> 00:07:25,000 Speaker 1: is willing to form a relationship with her. I had 177 00:07:25,040 --> 00:07:26,960 Speaker 1: the rest of her stuff and proceeded to give it 178 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:30,000 Speaker 1: to her. She started crying and pleading, and then accused 179 00:07:30,080 --> 00:07:32,040 Speaker 1: me of choosing my sister over her. 180 00:07:32,200 --> 00:07:35,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, duh, I'm gonna choose my sister over you, you, 181 00:07:35,160 --> 00:07:38,040 Speaker 2: you skanky banky anytime, but. 182 00:07:38,000 --> 00:07:40,760 Speaker 1: Also said that I clearly never loved you. 183 00:07:40,760 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 2: Want to retry your No, I'm I'm sticking with it. 184 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:50,800 Speaker 2: I choose my sister over that terrible person. There you go, anytime. 185 00:07:50,400 --> 00:07:53,320 Speaker 1: So much better. She knew that this would happen after 186 00:07:53,400 --> 00:07:55,960 Speaker 1: my sister moved in, And you know that I would 187 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:58,080 Speaker 1: tell you that anytime you need to put a smile 188 00:07:58,120 --> 00:08:01,160 Speaker 1: on your face. You can go tap her profile every 189 00:08:01,160 --> 00:08:04,720 Speaker 1: weekday at three pm PSD and join us live YouTube Facebook. 190 00:08:04,760 --> 00:08:05,960 Speaker 1: We're there, We're live right now. 191 00:08:06,160 --> 00:08:06,920 Speaker 2: Talk do it? 192 00:08:06,960 --> 00:08:07,280 Speaker 3: Come on. 193 00:08:07,360 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: But before we end the story, we do have another 194 00:08:09,680 --> 00:08:12,600 Speaker 1: small bit left. Is this deserved? Is this too harsh 195 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,000 Speaker 1: on the now ex girlfriend? 196 00:08:15,200 --> 00:08:17,200 Speaker 2: No, not harsh at all, I think, I mean, well 197 00:08:17,560 --> 00:08:21,920 Speaker 2: it's harsh, but harsh deserved, totally warranted. Yeah, it's it's 198 00:08:22,040 --> 00:08:23,200 Speaker 2: warranted harshness. 199 00:08:23,280 --> 00:08:25,880 Speaker 1: And also, like, is it really even I guess it is. 200 00:08:26,280 --> 00:08:28,400 Speaker 1: It is sudden to like have someone like move out 201 00:08:28,400 --> 00:08:30,480 Speaker 1: and whatnot. But again it's all just totally warranted. 202 00:08:30,480 --> 00:08:33,560 Speaker 2: You know what else suddenly break in someone's switch, that's true. 203 00:08:33,600 --> 00:08:36,560 Speaker 1: And to Opie's point, it's it was really her attitude 204 00:08:36,600 --> 00:08:37,959 Speaker 1: of never accepting the sister. 205 00:08:38,320 --> 00:08:41,160 Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, it's a giant red flag. You gotta 206 00:08:41,280 --> 00:08:44,120 Speaker 2: if you are close to family, your partner's got to 207 00:08:44,120 --> 00:08:46,319 Speaker 2: accept that family. That's true, or it's just not gonna work. 208 00:08:46,320 --> 00:08:47,840 Speaker 2: Ain't gonna work, Ain't gonna work. Now. 209 00:08:48,000 --> 00:08:50,400 Speaker 1: I just said to her, this is exactly why I'm 210 00:08:50,400 --> 00:08:52,600 Speaker 1: breaking up with you. I also told her that she 211 00:08:52,800 --> 00:08:55,320 Speaker 1: really needed to reimburse me the three hundred dollars for 212 00:08:55,360 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 1: the switch that she accidentally rolled. The footage dropped because 213 00:08:59,840 --> 00:09:02,440 Speaker 1: my little sister's heartbroken over it and has been sad 214 00:09:02,480 --> 00:09:04,920 Speaker 1: about it ever since. She rolled her eyes and told 215 00:09:04,920 --> 00:09:06,920 Speaker 1: me that she already said it was an accident and 216 00:09:06,960 --> 00:09:09,680 Speaker 1: that is not her problem anyways. Since I don't want 217 00:09:09,720 --> 00:09:12,000 Speaker 1: to be with her anymore, I don't feel like continuing 218 00:09:12,000 --> 00:09:13,400 Speaker 1: to argue with her that's. 219 00:09:13,360 --> 00:09:16,160 Speaker 2: Whack you break something, or like, well, not my problem 220 00:09:16,200 --> 00:09:18,360 Speaker 2: because we're not together. So you can just go around 221 00:09:18,600 --> 00:09:21,960 Speaker 2: what you go around in a china shop, smack into 222 00:09:22,000 --> 00:09:25,120 Speaker 2: all the fine china, it shatters everywhere, and the guy 223 00:09:25,120 --> 00:09:27,280 Speaker 2: who owns the store is like, hey, you gotta pay 224 00:09:27,320 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 2: for this, and she's like, we're not in a relationship. 225 00:09:29,440 --> 00:09:30,360 Speaker 2: I don't have to pay for it. 226 00:09:30,440 --> 00:09:34,680 Speaker 1: Extradition, relationship extradition. I am not in a jurisdiction where 227 00:09:34,679 --> 00:09:36,800 Speaker 1: you can come after me. It's true, right, we're I'm 228 00:09:36,840 --> 00:09:40,199 Speaker 1: not living in the relationship. I live outside the relationship with. 229 00:09:40,200 --> 00:09:42,319 Speaker 2: In the relationship, and I live outside of those rules 230 00:09:42,320 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 2: and regulations. I'm a free agent. 231 00:09:44,240 --> 00:09:45,920 Speaker 1: You where are you gonna see? And me will take 232 00:09:45,960 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: that to court. 233 00:09:46,720 --> 00:09:49,920 Speaker 2: Right, that's instant immunity anyway, It doesn't have to pay 234 00:09:49,920 --> 00:09:51,800 Speaker 2: the China shop owner anything. 235 00:09:51,960 --> 00:09:54,400 Speaker 1: Yeah, the bonus. You can do this to anyone you're 236 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:56,360 Speaker 1: not in a relationship, exact. 237 00:09:56,400 --> 00:10:00,400 Speaker 2: So she's just going around smashing switches to everyone she's 238 00:10:00,440 --> 00:10:01,280 Speaker 2: not making out with. 239 00:10:01,640 --> 00:10:04,120 Speaker 1: There's basically eight billion people you can. 240 00:10:04,000 --> 00:10:08,080 Speaker 2: Do this to, dude, one simple hack of that. Lawmakers 241 00:10:08,080 --> 00:10:11,320 Speaker 2: don't want you to know about rage room. The world 242 00:10:11,440 --> 00:10:14,559 Speaker 2: is a rage room exactly. Oh wait, wait, this person 243 00:10:14,880 --> 00:10:18,520 Speaker 2: completely destroyed your car. Did you kiss? Though? 244 00:10:19,120 --> 00:10:20,199 Speaker 1: Is a Facebook official? 245 00:10:20,760 --> 00:10:23,600 Speaker 2: It's not Facebook official. I was sorry. There's nothing we 246 00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:26,079 Speaker 2: could do. Supreme Court goes free and clear. 247 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:28,720 Speaker 3: Supreme Court in a car accident. The police officers like, 248 00:10:28,760 --> 00:10:31,079 Speaker 3: can I see your insurance? Can I see if you're 249 00:10:31,120 --> 00:10:31,920 Speaker 3: in a relationship? 250 00:10:32,320 --> 00:10:32,520 Speaker 2: Yeah? 251 00:10:32,559 --> 00:10:33,679 Speaker 1: Can I see your smooches? 252 00:10:33,760 --> 00:10:34,720 Speaker 2: Can I your smooches? 253 00:10:34,920 --> 00:10:37,120 Speaker 1: None to show? So I don't feel like continuing to 254 00:10:37,200 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: argue with her, So I told her to never contact 255 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:41,520 Speaker 1: me again and I left. When I got home, I 256 00:10:41,559 --> 00:10:43,880 Speaker 1: blocked her everywhere. I am relieved that she is out 257 00:10:43,880 --> 00:10:46,440 Speaker 1: of our lives, but I'm very disappointed to myself that 258 00:10:46,559 --> 00:10:49,000 Speaker 1: it took something so drastic for me to see that 259 00:10:49,040 --> 00:10:51,040 Speaker 1: Megan was not a good person. 260 00:10:51,080 --> 00:10:53,920 Speaker 2: All right, Well, I think the moral of the story 261 00:10:54,160 --> 00:10:57,760 Speaker 2: is you do whatever you want to anyone you want. 262 00:10:58,200 --> 00:11:00,960 Speaker 2: If you're not smooching, you can break. And that's just 263 00:11:01,080 --> 00:11:03,680 Speaker 2: one simple hack that the government doesn't want you to 264 00:11:03,720 --> 00:11:04,080 Speaker 2: know about. 265 00:11:04,200 --> 00:11:07,240 Speaker 1: Question if you find someone attractive and you want to smooch, 266 00:11:07,320 --> 00:11:09,680 Speaker 1: but then you also want to destroy all their possessions, what. 267 00:11:09,559 --> 00:11:12,720 Speaker 2: Do you do destroy possessions first, smooch after. 268 00:11:12,960 --> 00:11:15,920 Speaker 1: And that's the answers. That's all we need to know. 269 00:11:16,120 --> 00:11:19,480 Speaker 2: And on a secondary note, that's way less important. I 270 00:11:19,520 --> 00:11:22,200 Speaker 2: think you should have heed the red flag, right, Like, 271 00:11:22,360 --> 00:11:26,800 Speaker 2: if someone is taking action against someone that you love 272 00:11:27,000 --> 00:11:30,679 Speaker 2: consistently or in like slight ways, take that as information 273 00:11:30,840 --> 00:11:33,640 Speaker 2: to maybe question, like is this a healthy relationship? 274 00:11:33,760 --> 00:11:37,240 Speaker 1: And to not generalize. We've read a million stories where 275 00:11:37,480 --> 00:11:39,840 Speaker 1: the family members are terrible and it's like they're not 276 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:42,120 Speaker 1: actually family because of how terrible they are. This is 277 00:11:42,160 --> 00:11:45,600 Speaker 1: a literally a child and an amazing family member at 278 00:11:45,600 --> 00:11:47,560 Speaker 1: the same time, So it's like you have no right 279 00:11:47,720 --> 00:11:49,040 Speaker 1: to act that way out. 280 00:11:49,120 --> 00:11:51,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, Like I can understand if you have a 281 00:11:51,080 --> 00:11:54,840 Speaker 2: crazy mother in law that's you know, putting crazy gloves 282 00:11:54,840 --> 00:11:57,679 Speaker 2: in your your bed that you're allergic to. Like that 283 00:11:57,880 --> 00:12:01,080 Speaker 2: is a story that we read recently that is live 284 00:12:01,200 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 2: now everywhere on all platforms. But yeah, if that's not 285 00:12:04,160 --> 00:12:06,120 Speaker 2: the case and you just have a beautiful, lovely little 286 00:12:06,120 --> 00:12:08,680 Speaker 2: sister and they're not down with the cysts, I say 287 00:12:08,760 --> 00:12:09,320 Speaker 2: down with them. 288 00:12:09,480 --> 00:12:11,920 Speaker 1: Ooh, but you know what I want to get down with? 289 00:12:12,000 --> 00:12:16,520 Speaker 2: What do you want to get down with this next Storyoo? 290 00:12:16,600 --> 00:12:21,000 Speaker 2: Maybe let's do it. We went from friends to something more. 291 00:12:21,320 --> 00:12:23,640 Speaker 2: But now I need to get tested. Please don't fail 292 00:12:23,920 --> 00:12:26,880 Speaker 2: I they emailed twenty five. I feel like you want 293 00:12:26,880 --> 00:12:29,320 Speaker 2: to fail that test? You want negative on everything? Or 294 00:12:29,400 --> 00:12:32,480 Speaker 2: do you? I'm John goes In trying to be positive 295 00:12:32,640 --> 00:12:35,600 Speaker 2: for all those tests. I'm a positive guy one hundred percent. 296 00:12:35,800 --> 00:12:38,680 Speaker 2: That's me. I Female twenty five have been friends with 297 00:12:38,840 --> 00:12:41,120 Speaker 2: male twenty five for ten years. I will be calling 298 00:12:41,200 --> 00:12:45,800 Speaker 2: him and hopefully for negative ninel fronts. Ever since freshman year. 299 00:12:45,800 --> 00:12:47,520 Speaker 2: We had a couple of classes together, so it wasn't 300 00:12:47,520 --> 00:12:51,600 Speaker 2: hard making Nigel a friend. He was funny, smart, very sarcastic, 301 00:12:51,640 --> 00:12:53,600 Speaker 2: even though he was very quiet and shy in school. 302 00:12:53,679 --> 00:12:56,040 Speaker 2: I like to believe he was himself around me. By 303 00:12:56,080 --> 00:13:00,679 Speaker 2: the way, this come from Lesbie Real on the r 304 00:13:00,760 --> 00:13:04,880 Speaker 2: slash Okay storytime subred at mysel Now maybe he grew 305 00:13:04,920 --> 00:13:07,240 Speaker 2: a crush on me as well as I did for him. 306 00:13:07,320 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 2: But even though I am sure it took some big 307 00:13:10,040 --> 00:13:12,840 Speaker 2: guts to ask me out one day after school, I 308 00:13:12,920 --> 00:13:17,120 Speaker 2: rejected him. Oh uh boom Auci. I didn't reject him 309 00:13:17,120 --> 00:13:19,600 Speaker 2: because I didn't think he was cute or attractive. He 310 00:13:19,720 --> 00:13:23,720 Speaker 2: is an amazing guy, but I respected the amazing friendship 311 00:13:23,760 --> 00:13:26,360 Speaker 2: we had made that I was being selfish on my 312 00:13:26,520 --> 00:13:28,600 Speaker 2: end because I didn't want to lose it. I of 313 00:13:28,600 --> 00:13:30,720 Speaker 2: course told him these things and how I felt about 314 00:13:30,760 --> 00:13:33,400 Speaker 2: losing his friendship if something didn't work out between us, 315 00:13:33,480 --> 00:13:35,440 Speaker 2: if we were to be in a relationship. He of 316 00:13:35,480 --> 00:13:38,360 Speaker 2: course took some time in distance towards me, which I 317 00:13:38,400 --> 00:13:40,839 Speaker 2: respect him. Second semester comes and thinks are kind of 318 00:13:40,840 --> 00:13:43,480 Speaker 2: back to normal. We never spoke about it again after that, 319 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:46,120 Speaker 2: which didn't seem to bother any of us. Our friendship 320 00:13:46,200 --> 00:13:48,520 Speaker 2: was still cool. In between the years of high school. 321 00:13:48,600 --> 00:13:51,560 Speaker 2: We both had our boyfriend slash girlfriends and would even 322 00:13:51,640 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 2: share some of our relationships to each other. So they're 323 00:13:53,640 --> 00:13:54,200 Speaker 2: still friends. 324 00:13:54,520 --> 00:13:59,600 Speaker 1: Sharing about the relationships or sharing I think sharing about 325 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:04,600 Speaker 1: the relitionlationships. You pervert, Ah, we got even more closer 326 00:14:04,800 --> 00:14:08,800 Speaker 1: double what is it called Sophia double superlative double, something 327 00:14:09,720 --> 00:14:13,600 Speaker 1: more closer, even more superb you would say, even more 328 00:14:13,679 --> 00:14:18,240 Speaker 1: close or even closer after graduation because we were older 329 00:14:18,280 --> 00:14:21,320 Speaker 1: and it accepted the good friendship we had. I was 330 00:14:21,320 --> 00:14:23,960 Speaker 1: there when we have parties with family and our friends. 331 00:14:24,160 --> 00:14:26,080 Speaker 1: His parents seem to like me a lot too, and 332 00:14:26,080 --> 00:14:28,800 Speaker 1: they would ask him to invite me to more family events. 333 00:14:28,800 --> 00:14:30,800 Speaker 2: Maybe the parents are runing to get them together. Our 334 00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,360 Speaker 2: friendship was genuine. Moving forward to twenty twenty one, he 335 00:14:33,480 --> 00:14:35,240 Speaker 2: ended up moving out of state because of his work. 336 00:14:35,280 --> 00:14:38,200 Speaker 2: We of course would still stay in contact and always 337 00:14:38,280 --> 00:14:40,440 Speaker 2: would make time to get together and hang out when 338 00:14:40,440 --> 00:14:43,560 Speaker 2: he was in town for holidays or family events. During 339 00:14:43,600 --> 00:14:46,520 Speaker 2: that time, I was in a very serious relationship with 340 00:14:46,560 --> 00:14:48,840 Speaker 2: my ex who I started dating in twenty sixteen. I 341 00:14:48,920 --> 00:14:52,160 Speaker 2: moved in with him in twenty eighteen until twenty twenty one. 342 00:14:52,280 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 3: Wow, that is a serious relationship. 343 00:14:54,080 --> 00:14:57,440 Speaker 2: Serious relationship. When I ended my relationship with him For contexts, 344 00:14:57,520 --> 00:15:00,360 Speaker 2: Nigel at the time had no idea I ended my 345 00:15:00,400 --> 00:15:03,040 Speaker 2: relationship and why if I told him right then and there, 346 00:15:03,160 --> 00:15:05,160 Speaker 2: then I know it would have been a problem. Why 347 00:15:05,200 --> 00:15:08,040 Speaker 2: would it have been a problem. The reason being is 348 00:15:08,040 --> 00:15:11,600 Speaker 2: because I ended my relationship over domestic violence issues where 349 00:15:11,600 --> 00:15:15,880 Speaker 2: I ended up putting my ex in jail. Wow. Wow. 350 00:15:16,000 --> 00:15:18,000 Speaker 2: So I kept it a secret until a couple months 351 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:20,720 Speaker 2: later after he had moved away. He even came into 352 00:15:20,800 --> 00:15:23,120 Speaker 2: town to check on me and see how I was doing, 353 00:15:23,160 --> 00:15:26,040 Speaker 2: so I updated him with everything that had happened. Our 354 00:15:26,080 --> 00:15:29,040 Speaker 2: friendship stayed the same, updates here and there until I 355 00:15:29,080 --> 00:15:32,360 Speaker 2: decided to join the gym. Nigel is a major gym rat, 356 00:15:32,440 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 2: so he's buff too. When our friendship slowly started evolving 357 00:15:36,400 --> 00:15:39,160 Speaker 2: into something else towards the end of December, So starting 358 00:15:39,240 --> 00:15:42,920 Speaker 2: January of this year, we kind of acted different, specially 359 00:15:43,080 --> 00:15:45,160 Speaker 2: towards me. I'm a shy person when it comes to 360 00:15:45,160 --> 00:15:47,600 Speaker 2: liking someone, so it was obvious I had grown some 361 00:15:47,680 --> 00:15:51,320 Speaker 2: feelings towards him. I am certain he sensed it too. 362 00:15:51,440 --> 00:15:52,640 Speaker 1: He's working all those glutes. 363 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:56,880 Speaker 2: Yeah right, yeah, cakes up, My cakes are sore for 364 00:15:56,960 --> 00:15:57,440 Speaker 2: me yesterday. 365 00:15:57,520 --> 00:15:58,320 Speaker 3: Ooh. 366 00:15:58,360 --> 00:16:02,760 Speaker 2: And February, Nigel took a big step confessing himself since 367 00:16:02,760 --> 00:16:06,320 Speaker 2: he asked me to be his Valentine even when he 368 00:16:06,360 --> 00:16:08,840 Speaker 2: was out of state. He made sure his presence was 369 00:16:08,920 --> 00:16:11,000 Speaker 2: there by sending me a lovely bouquet. 370 00:16:11,040 --> 00:16:13,520 Speaker 3: That is a big step because he's already been rejected once. 371 00:16:13,720 --> 00:16:18,800 Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, so you guessed it. We started talking romantically, 372 00:16:18,960 --> 00:16:21,240 Speaker 2: let's go. You can say I've been over the moon 373 00:16:21,280 --> 00:16:24,680 Speaker 2: with him. This man has been trying the true definition 374 00:16:24,840 --> 00:16:27,520 Speaker 2: of if he really wanted to, he would, because I 375 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,880 Speaker 2: can feel that he does want me. Oh God. Everything 376 00:16:30,960 --> 00:16:33,280 Speaker 2: was good until recently, a couple months back, he sort 377 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:37,440 Speaker 2: of started showing somewhat yellow to reddish flags. I'm not 378 00:16:37,480 --> 00:16:40,160 Speaker 2: sure if he started getting insecure since he was away 379 00:16:40,200 --> 00:16:42,640 Speaker 2: a lot because of his job and was maybe only 380 00:16:42,680 --> 00:16:44,800 Speaker 2: able to come down two to three times in the 381 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:47,280 Speaker 2: course of six months, which to me, I didn't mind 382 00:16:47,360 --> 00:16:50,120 Speaker 2: waiting to see him. I enjoyed our time together and 383 00:16:50,160 --> 00:16:52,160 Speaker 2: a part as well. Plus it was only going to 384 00:16:52,200 --> 00:16:54,960 Speaker 2: be temporary. I like this guy, even as close to 385 00:16:55,280 --> 00:16:57,960 Speaker 2: loving him. Whoa Yeah, the big L, the big L. 386 00:16:58,120 --> 00:17:00,320 Speaker 2: How he was with me, how he treated me, and 387 00:17:00,400 --> 00:17:02,800 Speaker 2: him in general as a person. I've known him for 388 00:17:03,280 --> 00:17:06,240 Speaker 2: years and have been an amazing friend, if not my 389 00:17:06,320 --> 00:17:10,320 Speaker 2: best friend. I fully trusted him until now. We thought 390 00:17:10,359 --> 00:17:12,359 Speaker 2: everything was good. I did thy glasses off for that. 391 00:17:12,480 --> 00:17:14,040 Speaker 1: I thought I thought we were going in happily. You 392 00:17:14,040 --> 00:17:16,800 Speaker 1: don't want to see this our big buff beautiful, big 393 00:17:16,960 --> 00:17:17,880 Speaker 1: body man. 394 00:17:18,080 --> 00:17:20,760 Speaker 2: You want to be blind to what's coming next, John, 395 00:17:20,880 --> 00:17:23,240 Speaker 2: I am blind, honestly, rip out your eyes too while 396 00:17:23,240 --> 00:17:28,720 Speaker 2: you're as throw eyeballs into some acid. God let him dissolve, 397 00:17:28,880 --> 00:17:31,120 Speaker 2: because you do not want to see where the rest 398 00:17:31,119 --> 00:17:34,080 Speaker 2: of this story goes. The happiness in the world, No, John, 399 00:17:34,320 --> 00:17:36,440 Speaker 2: only acid ized, All right, give it to me. The 400 00:17:36,480 --> 00:17:39,680 Speaker 2: beginning of September, he went into let's call it internship, 401 00:17:39,760 --> 00:17:42,199 Speaker 2: where he didn't have contact with the outside of the 402 00:17:42,200 --> 00:17:44,480 Speaker 2: world for training for part of it. This lasted almost 403 00:17:44,520 --> 00:17:46,679 Speaker 2: four weeks. I, of course, was still sending messages here 404 00:17:46,720 --> 00:17:48,359 Speaker 2: and there to update him even when he was away. 405 00:17:48,400 --> 00:17:49,800 Speaker 2: As soon as this man was able to get a 406 00:17:49,800 --> 00:17:52,520 Speaker 2: hold of me more like his phone, he bombed me 407 00:17:52,560 --> 00:17:56,000 Speaker 2: with questions after questions, some were goofy, almost like joking 408 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:58,439 Speaker 2: to get a giggle since we haven't been talking, and 409 00:17:58,480 --> 00:18:01,399 Speaker 2: some we're pretty serious. And the questions he put a 410 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:04,240 Speaker 2: lot of what ifs, like what if he cheats or 411 00:18:04,320 --> 00:18:07,400 Speaker 2: vice versa. He went as far as to randomly ask 412 00:18:07,480 --> 00:18:09,840 Speaker 2: me how many guys I've been with, just wondering. I 413 00:18:09,880 --> 00:18:12,439 Speaker 2: was caught by surprise because I've always been honest and 414 00:18:12,520 --> 00:18:15,960 Speaker 2: we have talked about us, not really getting into detail 415 00:18:15,960 --> 00:18:18,800 Speaker 2: about our past, mostly because I strongly believe it doesn't matter. 416 00:18:18,920 --> 00:18:21,840 Speaker 2: Knowing how extremely jealous he can be, I double asked 417 00:18:21,840 --> 00:18:23,680 Speaker 2: if he was sure he wanted to go that route. 418 00:18:23,720 --> 00:18:26,119 Speaker 2: He said yes, and so I told him, do you 419 00:18:26,320 --> 00:18:27,520 Speaker 2: see and I see you in this? 420 00:18:27,880 --> 00:18:30,360 Speaker 1: I see all the use. 421 00:18:30,400 --> 00:18:31,800 Speaker 2: I see all the use. I see a bunch of 422 00:18:31,800 --> 00:18:32,440 Speaker 2: red flags? 423 00:18:32,640 --> 00:18:32,760 Speaker 1: Hi? 424 00:18:32,920 --> 00:18:36,480 Speaker 2: Yeah? Yeah. To tell you he was upset would be 425 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:42,119 Speaker 2: an understatement. This man was probably foaming at the mouth. 426 00:18:42,400 --> 00:18:46,040 Speaker 2: Nigel was going bonkers because I mentioned that not all 427 00:18:46,080 --> 00:18:49,040 Speaker 2: guys treated me like crap and admitted I had two 428 00:18:49,160 --> 00:18:52,159 Speaker 2: men that treated me nice and even brought my standards 429 00:18:52,240 --> 00:18:53,359 Speaker 2: higher in a good way. 430 00:18:53,440 --> 00:18:56,400 Speaker 1: Oh No, there was people who treated you nice and 431 00:18:56,520 --> 00:18:58,200 Speaker 1: made you realize your self worth. 432 00:18:58,359 --> 00:19:01,800 Speaker 2: This man was not taking it well, claiming I was 433 00:19:01,960 --> 00:19:04,560 Speaker 2: glorifying these men that I have been with. This turned 434 00:19:04,560 --> 00:19:07,359 Speaker 2: into an argument that left a sour taste in my 435 00:19:07,440 --> 00:19:10,679 Speaker 2: mouth about how immature he was acting about something he 436 00:19:10,840 --> 00:19:13,840 Speaker 2: wanted to know so bad, also demanding I should be 437 00:19:13,960 --> 00:19:17,560 Speaker 2: saying if every man but him, and also put a 438 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:19,919 Speaker 2: what if situation that if I were ever to speak 439 00:19:19,960 --> 00:19:22,840 Speaker 2: to him again, I would be disrespecting him, even if 440 00:19:22,840 --> 00:19:24,800 Speaker 2: It was a short high from running into each other 441 00:19:24,840 --> 00:19:27,960 Speaker 2: at the grocery store again, all his scenarios in his 442 00:19:28,040 --> 00:19:30,080 Speaker 2: head now for what felt like forever. The next two 443 00:19:30,119 --> 00:19:32,600 Speaker 2: business days seem to be calmer, until there was a 444 00:19:32,920 --> 00:19:34,199 Speaker 2: I need to tell you something. 445 00:19:34,280 --> 00:19:36,760 Speaker 1: Here we go cheating, there we go geato. 446 00:19:37,040 --> 00:19:40,280 Speaker 2: Are they even together? Yeah, they're almost at the I 447 00:19:40,359 --> 00:19:42,199 Speaker 2: love you, But I thought they were kind of like, 448 00:19:42,280 --> 00:19:43,959 Speaker 2: I thought they were just seeing each other. Are they 449 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:45,840 Speaker 2: in a relationship, because I don't remember it being like 450 00:19:45,880 --> 00:19:49,040 Speaker 2: official official. I remember like him asking him to be Valentines, 451 00:19:49,119 --> 00:19:50,000 Speaker 2: but I don't remember. 452 00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:51,320 Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's true. 453 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:55,320 Speaker 2: I don't remember like good point. But it's clearly not 454 00:19:55,640 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 2: clearly romantic. It's clearly romantic and oh blake, yeah again. 455 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:04,080 Speaker 2: Have they had the exclusive talk that is yet to 456 00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:04,400 Speaker 2: be seen? 457 00:20:04,400 --> 00:20:06,720 Speaker 3: That is saying I love you before the exclusive talk 458 00:20:06,800 --> 00:20:07,479 Speaker 3: is wild. 459 00:20:07,800 --> 00:20:10,200 Speaker 2: It's say, you know people are Polly, So what does 460 00:20:10,240 --> 00:20:11,920 Speaker 2: that have to do with that? Well, you could say 461 00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:13,960 Speaker 2: I love you to someone and if you're Polly, you 462 00:20:14,000 --> 00:20:16,040 Speaker 2: would still exclusive. 463 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:17,040 Speaker 3: There's no intention. 464 00:20:18,440 --> 00:20:19,800 Speaker 1: I was the type of guy to be like, I've 465 00:20:19,840 --> 00:20:22,520 Speaker 1: got so much love to give, I just couldn't keep 466 00:20:22,520 --> 00:20:23,600 Speaker 1: it all to myself. 467 00:20:23,160 --> 00:20:25,560 Speaker 2: If He's a beef cake. He's a beefcake. He's so 468 00:20:25,680 --> 00:20:28,160 Speaker 2: beef wrong. He's got to share his love with as 469 00:20:28,160 --> 00:20:29,320 Speaker 2: many ladies as possible. 470 00:20:29,560 --> 00:20:31,240 Speaker 1: I'm blowing out the candles on this beefcake. 471 00:20:32,560 --> 00:20:34,040 Speaker 2: I need to tell you something. It was a text 472 00:20:34,080 --> 00:20:36,119 Speaker 2: from Nigel. I was at work, and when I got it, 473 00:20:36,240 --> 00:20:38,800 Speaker 2: I had twenty minutes before my break. Well, let's just 474 00:20:38,880 --> 00:20:41,240 Speaker 2: say this man did not wait for me to even 475 00:20:41,520 --> 00:20:45,000 Speaker 2: reply back, and he just straight up blurted it out. 476 00:20:45,160 --> 00:20:49,320 Speaker 2: This man confessed to me about him having what do 477 00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:55,240 Speaker 2: I say, love bumps? Bumps, He's got the love bumps 478 00:20:55,280 --> 00:21:01,359 Speaker 2: down south all around. He's got braille on his bone. Bone, 479 00:21:01,560 --> 00:21:07,000 Speaker 2: He's got he's got brai on the bone. Oh brother, Yeah, 480 00:21:07,200 --> 00:21:08,440 Speaker 2: he's got little pecks on. 481 00:21:08,440 --> 00:21:11,000 Speaker 1: The pee and the pecks on the. 482 00:21:11,320 --> 00:21:13,600 Speaker 2: He's got mounds on the. 483 00:21:16,760 --> 00:21:20,320 Speaker 1: No, we think we needed three or four more. Get 484 00:21:20,400 --> 00:21:22,760 Speaker 1: back to it. Also, how did he not know before? 485 00:21:22,840 --> 00:21:24,200 Speaker 1: Did he just find this out? 486 00:21:24,359 --> 00:21:26,600 Speaker 2: Like? No, he for sure knew he's got lumps on 487 00:21:26,640 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 2: the log. Also, how did did she nice well, yeah, 488 00:21:30,720 --> 00:21:37,320 Speaker 2: you don't know, you don't know. Blistersy blisters. God, backstory. 489 00:21:37,440 --> 00:21:41,160 Speaker 2: Last time he came into town was fourth of July. Weekend. Yes, 490 00:21:41,200 --> 00:21:43,679 Speaker 2: you can guess it. We had spicy sleep for the 491 00:21:43,680 --> 00:21:46,359 Speaker 2: first time too. So here I am two months later 492 00:21:46,440 --> 00:21:49,960 Speaker 2: getting told by this MF knowingly knew he had the 493 00:21:50,000 --> 00:21:54,400 Speaker 2: love bumps and still never said anything to me about it. 494 00:21:54,480 --> 00:21:58,000 Speaker 1: Get him out of here, get that lumpy log out 495 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:02,360 Speaker 1: sending down the river. Leave it to the beavers. 496 00:22:02,600 --> 00:22:05,440 Speaker 2: Sara ray and said he's a rib for her pleasure. 497 00:22:06,400 --> 00:22:11,520 Speaker 1: I send him to the Orc cloud for bumps. 498 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:14,400 Speaker 2: Apart, he went as far as not wearing protection at first, 499 00:22:14,440 --> 00:22:17,120 Speaker 2: but then impressed him about wearing one, so he did. 500 00:22:17,280 --> 00:22:19,600 Speaker 2: Thank god, hyl he took that choice from me. He 501 00:22:19,680 --> 00:22:22,439 Speaker 2: also dropped this info while not being present face to 502 00:22:22,480 --> 00:22:25,640 Speaker 2: face of this conversation. This is serious crap. He knows 503 00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:28,119 Speaker 2: how serious and precautious I am about these things because 504 00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:31,159 Speaker 2: we've had multiple conversations about this. He had multiple chances 505 00:22:31,200 --> 00:22:33,840 Speaker 2: to openly tell me about it because I would ask 506 00:22:33,880 --> 00:22:35,840 Speaker 2: about it. I also even went as far as to 507 00:22:35,880 --> 00:22:38,720 Speaker 2: go get checked before going into something with him, for 508 00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:40,920 Speaker 2: the safety of both of us. We had both came 509 00:22:41,000 --> 00:22:43,639 Speaker 2: back clean. But no, he kept this detail from me, 510 00:22:43,920 --> 00:22:46,240 Speaker 2: the excuse being I should have said something sooner, but 511 00:22:46,280 --> 00:22:49,160 Speaker 2: I was afraid of this outcome and kept pushing it back. 512 00:22:49,600 --> 00:22:51,879 Speaker 3: No, No, he was afraid that she wouldn't want to 513 00:22:51,920 --> 00:22:54,280 Speaker 3: sleep with him, which she should, she wouldn't have. 514 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:56,600 Speaker 2: He also claimed he was planning on telling me back 515 00:22:56,600 --> 00:22:59,000 Speaker 2: in July weekend, but forgot about it. 516 00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:01,119 Speaker 3: He just slep my mind. 517 00:23:01,720 --> 00:23:04,560 Speaker 2: Not how the F do you forget to mention you 518 00:23:04,720 --> 00:23:08,760 Speaker 2: have freaking log lumps to the person you claim to 519 00:23:08,800 --> 00:23:11,480 Speaker 2: care about, exactly you don't. I feel betrayed for my 520 00:23:11,520 --> 00:23:14,800 Speaker 2: best friend and from my partner. Not only that this 521 00:23:14,920 --> 00:23:18,440 Speaker 2: man was being so ignorant about my whole situation. Never 522 00:23:18,640 --> 00:23:21,120 Speaker 2: once was he worried about my health or to offer 523 00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,680 Speaker 2: to check myself because, like he called it, you should 524 00:23:23,720 --> 00:23:26,439 Speaker 2: be good because it's not active and I haven't infected 525 00:23:26,480 --> 00:23:28,960 Speaker 2: anyone or had an outbreak since twenty twenty three. 526 00:23:29,160 --> 00:23:31,640 Speaker 3: Wait, he's had it since twenty. 527 00:23:31,359 --> 00:23:33,800 Speaker 2: Twenty three and he hasn't said anything. Also in as 528 00:23:33,840 --> 00:23:36,880 Speaker 2: far as to say it's not a big deal, not 529 00:23:37,000 --> 00:23:39,960 Speaker 2: like AHIV or how well eighty percent of the population 530 00:23:40,080 --> 00:23:41,919 Speaker 2: have it. They probably just don't know, like if I 531 00:23:42,000 --> 00:23:45,359 Speaker 2: was going to be okay adjoining the eighty percent club 532 00:23:45,600 --> 00:23:49,800 Speaker 2: like it's an effing sorority club. Also, not educating me 533 00:23:49,840 --> 00:23:51,760 Speaker 2: about it. I mentioned to him three times until he 534 00:23:51,840 --> 00:23:54,679 Speaker 2: sort of blurred some fun facts, acting like this is 535 00:23:54,800 --> 00:23:57,960 Speaker 2: blues clues. He really had me there asking for myself 536 00:23:57,960 --> 00:24:01,000 Speaker 2: instead of him telling me about it from the start 537 00:24:01,119 --> 00:24:03,080 Speaker 2: and before you guys asked me if he got it 538 00:24:03,160 --> 00:24:05,119 Speaker 2: maybe when he moved out of state or cheated and 539 00:24:05,119 --> 00:24:07,600 Speaker 2: that's how he got it, or maybe didn't know until recently. Nope, 540 00:24:07,640 --> 00:24:11,199 Speaker 2: this man got it since twenty seventeen when his girlfriend 541 00:24:11,240 --> 00:24:14,440 Speaker 2: then was cheating, sleeping around with several guys, including him, 542 00:24:14,520 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 2: and this time I thought we were close, but he 543 00:24:16,359 --> 00:24:19,160 Speaker 2: had this secret of him, which okay, I can understand 544 00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:21,040 Speaker 2: to wanting to keep it from a friend, but I 545 00:24:21,040 --> 00:24:23,640 Speaker 2: think it's okay to not tell me about it when 546 00:24:23,680 --> 00:24:26,920 Speaker 2: I became a lover and someone they just had spicy 547 00:24:26,960 --> 00:24:29,240 Speaker 2: sleep with. Is insane and taking the choice for me 548 00:24:29,400 --> 00:24:31,479 Speaker 2: if I wanted to not have spicy sleep with him, 549 00:24:31,560 --> 00:24:34,240 Speaker 2: or at least more safe spicy sleep, knowing all the 550 00:24:34,280 --> 00:24:36,840 Speaker 2: risks that can happen. No, instead, he chose for me. 551 00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:39,800 Speaker 2: How can I ever trust him again or anything? He says? Oh, 552 00:24:39,880 --> 00:24:43,000 Speaker 2: I know I will never ever again. Nigel has been 553 00:24:43,000 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 2: feeling bad about the whole situation, but so have I 554 00:24:45,520 --> 00:24:47,919 Speaker 2: It took me three weeks to process it fully. My 555 00:24:48,000 --> 00:24:50,960 Speaker 2: sleeping schedule was room because of all the thinking. Not 556 00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 2: only that, but I also lost my appetite. He has 557 00:24:53,920 --> 00:24:57,120 Speaker 2: been the love bombing NonStop flowers, letters, cute messages, et cetera, 558 00:24:57,280 --> 00:24:59,399 Speaker 2: while I've been leaving him on red pretty much to 559 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:01,359 Speaker 2: talk to him. So I don't care. 560 00:25:01,600 --> 00:25:02,080 Speaker 1: That's right. 561 00:25:02,160 --> 00:25:04,280 Speaker 2: Well, I'm sure he was worried about where we stood. 562 00:25:04,400 --> 00:25:07,800 Speaker 2: So these past two weekends he has surprise visited me 563 00:25:08,080 --> 00:25:10,440 Speaker 2: and his family because his family is giving them four 564 00:25:10,520 --> 00:25:13,119 Speaker 2: day weekends, which I don't believe. But yet again, I 565 00:25:13,119 --> 00:25:15,800 Speaker 2: don't believe Crapp, he says anymore. The famous surprise visit, 566 00:25:15,880 --> 00:25:17,800 Speaker 2: he claims, was him showing up at my front door 567 00:25:17,800 --> 00:25:19,920 Speaker 2: with more flowers and an ice coffee at seven am 568 00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,680 Speaker 2: on a school day for me, I go to college. 569 00:25:21,720 --> 00:25:24,120 Speaker 2: I accepted them for courtesy for my mother, since she's 570 00:25:24,160 --> 00:25:26,320 Speaker 2: the one that led him in. So here I am 571 00:25:26,640 --> 00:25:29,880 Speaker 2: standing in the living room with a person that literally 572 00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,400 Speaker 2: mentally and emotionally ft my head up, and no one 573 00:25:33,520 --> 00:25:35,840 Speaker 2: really knows about it. I walked him outside and told 574 00:25:35,920 --> 00:25:37,399 Speaker 2: him there was no need for any of this and 575 00:25:37,440 --> 00:25:40,200 Speaker 2: to stop love bombing me. And did not show up again, 576 00:25:40,480 --> 00:25:42,720 Speaker 2: or I will kick him out next time. He was 577 00:25:42,880 --> 00:25:44,960 Speaker 2: begging for a chance to hear him out in person, 578 00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,560 Speaker 2: and I said, fine, I'll text you info on where 579 00:25:47,600 --> 00:25:50,399 Speaker 2: to meet the police station. Yeah, I would love the 580 00:25:50,560 --> 00:25:53,200 Speaker 2: point of this man. I let the weekend pass by 581 00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:57,399 Speaker 2: until Sunday. I sent him a message of time and place, 582 00:25:57,440 --> 00:25:59,639 Speaker 2: and before I headed out, I had shared my location 583 00:25:59,720 --> 00:26:02,680 Speaker 2: to a few of my friends, and one specific one 584 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:05,679 Speaker 2: had instructions that if I didn't text back after twelve 585 00:26:05,720 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 2: to call the police. I took out my Yeah. It 586 00:26:10,280 --> 00:26:12,359 Speaker 2: may sound all crazy, but I was not going to 587 00:26:12,440 --> 00:26:14,919 Speaker 2: risk going alone at night with someone who I thought 588 00:26:15,000 --> 00:26:18,440 Speaker 2: I knew better. So I showed maybe fifteen minutes earlier 589 00:26:18,480 --> 00:26:21,720 Speaker 2: to check my surroundings for my context. I mean, I 590 00:26:21,720 --> 00:26:24,680 Speaker 2: don't know about bringing a pew to this situation for. 591 00:26:24,720 --> 00:26:29,520 Speaker 1: Other protective devices, sure, but I think if that maybe, 592 00:26:29,840 --> 00:26:30,600 Speaker 1: I think that if. 593 00:26:30,440 --> 00:26:33,680 Speaker 3: You were that worried, then you should go with someone else. 594 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,119 Speaker 1: Yeah, or just I mean, he doesn't deserve anymore, or 595 00:26:36,119 --> 00:26:36,520 Speaker 1: don't go. 596 00:26:36,520 --> 00:26:38,760 Speaker 3: At all, Like I either show up with someone or 597 00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,400 Speaker 3: don't go at all. 598 00:26:39,560 --> 00:26:39,800 Speaker 1: True. 599 00:26:40,600 --> 00:26:43,280 Speaker 2: So I showed up maybe fifteen minutes earlier to check 600 00:26:43,280 --> 00:26:46,880 Speaker 2: my surroundings. From our context, it was our town's closest lake. 601 00:26:47,000 --> 00:26:52,720 Speaker 2: Why meet in such a yeah, like go and I 602 00:26:52,760 --> 00:26:56,040 Speaker 2: don't know, I feel like, go to cafe or something. 603 00:26:56,119 --> 00:26:57,960 Speaker 2: So I asked him to meet me at the deck. 604 00:26:58,119 --> 00:27:00,280 Speaker 2: You know, this is literally where the Bob Bob I 605 00:27:01,440 --> 00:27:07,560 Speaker 2: to a hit. She's like reputation. Yeah, tonight, you'll sleep 606 00:27:07,600 --> 00:27:10,920 Speaker 2: with the fishes. You'll be a lumpy log at the 607 00:27:10,960 --> 00:27:14,320 Speaker 2: bottom of the wake. That's a boyfriend to tell you. 608 00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:16,200 Speaker 2: I thought this through. You bet I did. This man 609 00:27:16,240 --> 00:27:17,280 Speaker 2: does not know how to swim. 610 00:27:17,359 --> 00:27:17,920 Speaker 3: Oh my god. 611 00:27:18,160 --> 00:27:20,280 Speaker 2: So if it came down to self defense or anything 612 00:27:20,320 --> 00:27:23,119 Speaker 2: like that, I'd have maybe an eighty percent chance to 613 00:27:23,160 --> 00:27:25,119 Speaker 2: get out of it alive. You know, you could just 614 00:27:25,240 --> 00:27:30,200 Speaker 2: meet at a public area instead of like unliving your ex. 615 00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,480 Speaker 2: It's scary being a girl in this world and having 616 00:27:32,480 --> 00:27:34,879 Speaker 2: to think these things. But I am done being naive 617 00:27:34,920 --> 00:27:36,240 Speaker 2: and meet at a coffee shop. 618 00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:39,879 Speaker 3: I understand, cause I understand why. I hope he would 619 00:27:39,880 --> 00:27:42,359 Speaker 3: be afraid in this situation, But why put yourself in 620 00:27:42,359 --> 00:27:43,040 Speaker 3: this situation? 621 00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, unless we want to take care of business. 622 00:27:46,119 --> 00:27:49,280 Speaker 2: Nigel showed up, so we started talking, mostly because I 623 00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:51,000 Speaker 2: kept pushing it to cut the b s and get 624 00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:52,480 Speaker 2: straight to the point of it all. This man did 625 00:27:52,480 --> 00:27:54,480 Speaker 2: not say anything that would have made me changed my mind, 626 00:27:54,480 --> 00:27:56,080 Speaker 2: So I told him I wasn't going to sit here 627 00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,520 Speaker 2: and waste my effing time any longer the crap I've 628 00:27:58,520 --> 00:28:00,679 Speaker 2: already heard from him. He was still very confused on 629 00:28:00,720 --> 00:28:02,720 Speaker 2: what was going on and what was going to happen 630 00:28:02,960 --> 00:28:06,600 Speaker 2: next with us, like there was an us anymore. Regardless, 631 00:28:06,680 --> 00:28:08,960 Speaker 2: I let him down gently, sparing you guys all the 632 00:28:09,000 --> 00:28:11,600 Speaker 2: extra details I told him. Even though I wasn't certain 633 00:28:11,760 --> 00:28:13,760 Speaker 2: about how I will get past this, I had no 634 00:28:14,160 --> 00:28:18,320 Speaker 2: intentions on continuing anything with someone that I cannot trust, 635 00:28:18,359 --> 00:28:20,800 Speaker 2: and I simply don't see them the same since. I 636 00:28:20,840 --> 00:28:23,320 Speaker 2: am very disappointed that not once did he really think 637 00:28:23,359 --> 00:28:25,320 Speaker 2: about how this would affect me or what it would 638 00:28:25,320 --> 00:28:28,159 Speaker 2: do to me. Instead, not only neglected being honest with 639 00:28:28,200 --> 00:28:31,080 Speaker 2: me from the start, but also even after he told me, 640 00:28:31,240 --> 00:28:35,680 Speaker 2: he was absolutely ignorant about it. I know what push 641 00:28:35,760 --> 00:28:38,040 Speaker 2: him in the wake? Yeah, I mean, I don't know 642 00:28:38,080 --> 00:28:40,480 Speaker 2: about that, John, but at least, you know, like splash 643 00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,440 Speaker 2: them with some water. I know he needs a dose 644 00:28:42,480 --> 00:28:44,880 Speaker 2: of reality, a cold heart dose of reality. I know. 645 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:46,680 Speaker 2: I asked the question, but now that I got to 646 00:28:46,680 --> 00:28:49,200 Speaker 2: write most of it down, I will absolutely be okay 647 00:28:49,360 --> 00:28:50,800 Speaker 2: with being the a hole in the story because I 648 00:28:50,800 --> 00:28:53,200 Speaker 2: will be cutting ties with Nigel. But you should never 649 00:28:53,240 --> 00:28:56,560 Speaker 2: cut ties with us by joining our live every weekday 650 00:28:56,560 --> 00:28:59,320 Speaker 2: at three pm PSD right here on YouTube, Facebook and 651 00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:03,080 Speaker 2: Sigta just have our profile. Oh yeah, there's another relevant update, John. 652 00:29:03,120 --> 00:29:04,880 Speaker 2: But do you think Op is making all the right 653 00:29:04,920 --> 00:29:06,320 Speaker 2: moves in all the right places? 654 00:29:06,600 --> 00:29:10,920 Speaker 1: H You know, packing seems again to what we were 655 00:29:11,080 --> 00:29:14,480 Speaker 1: said a few times, like why even bother yourself dealing 656 00:29:14,520 --> 00:29:17,840 Speaker 1: with this scoundrel? Like just be like even in this case, 657 00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:20,720 Speaker 1: like usually I think it's in many scenarios it's good 658 00:29:20,720 --> 00:29:23,040 Speaker 1: to communicate on the phone or in person, but this one, 659 00:29:23,320 --> 00:29:23,760 Speaker 1: just be like. 660 00:29:23,960 --> 00:29:26,200 Speaker 2: Why are you? Yeah, why are you dealing with him? 661 00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:26,600 Speaker 2: Why are you? 662 00:29:26,760 --> 00:29:28,160 Speaker 1: I mean you don't even you don't even have to 663 00:29:28,160 --> 00:29:31,360 Speaker 1: explain yourself, yeah, at all, unless you want to just 664 00:29:31,400 --> 00:29:33,680 Speaker 1: make sure he gets the message loud and clear to 665 00:29:33,800 --> 00:29:35,360 Speaker 1: like not come back, which I guess she kind of 666 00:29:35,400 --> 00:29:36,640 Speaker 1: had to do because he was insisting. 667 00:29:36,680 --> 00:29:39,840 Speaker 2: But like n OP, like also go get tested. You know, 668 00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,920 Speaker 2: there's also good chance that you don't have it too. Yeah, 669 00:29:43,120 --> 00:29:46,520 Speaker 2: Like even if he was I don't know had an outbreak, 670 00:29:46,560 --> 00:29:49,080 Speaker 2: you could potentially not have it. So well, they said 671 00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,120 Speaker 2: they used protection, so they didn't use protect they did? Did? 672 00:29:52,320 --> 00:29:53,280 Speaker 2: I thought they didn't know? 673 00:29:53,400 --> 00:29:56,080 Speaker 3: They know she was saying that. She initially was like, no, 674 00:29:56,160 --> 00:29:58,000 Speaker 3: let's not use and she was like, no, we're using it. 675 00:29:58,160 --> 00:30:02,240 Speaker 2: Yeah, but just just go get tested and uh, you know, 676 00:30:02,560 --> 00:30:06,360 Speaker 2: I hope you're okay. Joints, but people deserve honesty when 677 00:30:06,360 --> 00:30:08,480 Speaker 2: it comes to something that can potentially cause you harm 678 00:30:08,520 --> 00:30:10,440 Speaker 2: health wise, and the fact that he doesn't see it 679 00:30:10,480 --> 00:30:12,440 Speaker 2: that way is not my problem. I told him about 680 00:30:12,480 --> 00:30:14,480 Speaker 2: how I hope the next girl he tries to talk 681 00:30:14,520 --> 00:30:17,320 Speaker 2: to he mentions it before Spicy sleep, at least on 682 00:30:17,360 --> 00:30:19,760 Speaker 2: the third date, since I wasn't the only one he 683 00:30:19,840 --> 00:30:22,080 Speaker 2: told after he had spicy sleep with them. He told 684 00:30:22,080 --> 00:30:24,600 Speaker 2: his previous X before me a year into the relationship, 685 00:30:24,640 --> 00:30:26,440 Speaker 2: and she allegedly didn't think it was a big deal, 686 00:30:26,560 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 2: so he also expected me to react the same. Heck, no, 687 00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:33,480 Speaker 2: this man is delusional and in conclusion, f this man 688 00:30:33,560 --> 00:30:36,560 Speaker 2: but not really because you shouldn't. And that is where 689 00:30:36,680 --> 00:30:37,560 Speaker 2: that story ends. 690 00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:37,920 Speaker 1: Wow. 691 00:30:38,160 --> 00:30:39,920 Speaker 2: Wow, is that the end of the episode. 692 00:30:40,000 --> 00:30:42,160 Speaker 3: I think? Did you already read three stories that they 693 00:30:42,160 --> 00:30:42,760 Speaker 3: only read two. 694 00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:44,520 Speaker 2: I don't think so. I think we only read two. 695 00:30:44,520 --> 00:30:45,480 Speaker 1: I think we need one more. 696 00:30:45,560 --> 00:30:48,240 Speaker 2: Close them out, let's close it out. Wait do we 697 00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:49,840 Speaker 2: not get the test results? I guess not. 698 00:30:50,160 --> 00:30:52,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, I was. I was waiting on the edge of 699 00:30:52,320 --> 00:30:54,960 Speaker 1: my seat the entire time, and I'm like, I'm just hoping. 700 00:30:55,200 --> 00:30:56,800 Speaker 2: I think there's a bit like a good chance that 701 00:30:56,840 --> 00:30:59,160 Speaker 2: she doesn't have it. Yeah, you know, if he hasn't 702 00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:02,720 Speaker 2: had an outbreak or something thing. So fingers crossed for you, peep. 703 00:31:02,720 --> 00:31:04,200 Speaker 2: But just get tested, Just get tested. 704 00:31:04,320 --> 00:31:06,560 Speaker 1: Yeah, my goodness, all right, boys and girls, are we 705 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:07,160 Speaker 1: ready for all? 706 00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:12,320 Speaker 2: Sen Get routinely tested like I get tested after every partner. 707 00:31:12,320 --> 00:31:12,960 Speaker 1: Make it a habit. 708 00:31:13,200 --> 00:31:16,040 Speaker 2: Yeah, it's it's a good habit to do. And it 709 00:31:16,080 --> 00:31:19,000 Speaker 2: seems like weird and scary at first, but it's actually 710 00:31:19,120 --> 00:31:21,480 Speaker 2: very very easy and chill. 711 00:31:21,560 --> 00:31:22,520 Speaker 1: Make it a daily ritual. 712 00:31:22,560 --> 00:31:24,760 Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know about daily ritual, but that's 713 00:31:24,760 --> 00:31:26,280 Speaker 2: how you stay clean. 714 00:31:26,240 --> 00:31:28,440 Speaker 1: Don't do aren't you a big fan of daily rituals? 715 00:31:28,920 --> 00:31:32,480 Speaker 2: Also? Yeah I am, I am. But also protected spicy sleep. 716 00:31:32,560 --> 00:31:35,000 Speaker 2: Then you could do your test a b of like 717 00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,600 Speaker 2: a common partner, and then if you're both clear, take 718 00:31:37,640 --> 00:31:38,760 Speaker 2: that off. 719 00:31:40,120 --> 00:31:43,560 Speaker 1: Save your daughter twenty twenty four, and we'll keep it 720 00:31:43,600 --> 00:31:45,320 Speaker 1: for twenty twenty five. Don't you worry. 721 00:31:45,440 --> 00:31:46,120 Speaker 2: I'm kidding. 722 00:31:47,560 --> 00:31:50,520 Speaker 1: But easy though. But let's get into this next story.