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Speaker 1: looking jewels, second dat day. How do you define what
Speaker 1: a romantic kiss is? Is it thirty percent tongue, fifty
Speaker 1: percent tongue, one hundred and twenty percent tongue at all?
Speaker 1: For me, I define a romantic kiss all based on
Speaker 1: where the thumb goes. But I'm different than others. And Andrea,
Speaker 1: who is on the phone today, says that her meeting
Speaker 1: with a guy ended with a romantic kiss. So why
Speaker 1: is he not calling her back? I don't know. We're
Speaker 1: about to find out. Andrew, what's up? How are you?
Speaker 1: Do you ahead? How are you all good? How do
Speaker 1: you define a romantic kiss? Andrea? I think like fifty
Speaker 1: percent tongue, like a nice medium, sorry, nice and gentle?
Speaker 1: And did he like cradle your head with both of
Speaker 1: his hands and gaze deeply into your eyes? Oh yeah,
Speaker 1: a little bit of hair plane? Wow? All right? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I mean it was definitely the best kiss I've had
Speaker 1: in a while, So I don't know why he's not
Speaker 1: on me back. Well, tell us a little bit about him.
Speaker 1: What's his name? His name is Tim Tim And how
Speaker 1: did you meet Tim? I met him at a friend's
Speaker 1: work party at a bar okay, And did you know
Speaker 1: him beforehand or no? She introduced us that night. I
Speaker 1: noticed him as soon as I walked in. Though. He's
Speaker 1: so my type, tall, scoorgeous, dark head, these like baby
Speaker 1: blue eyes with smile. Was like, Oh my gosh, I
Speaker 1: made my heart melt. Did you tell your friend right
Speaker 1: away you have to introduce me to him? Oh? Yeah, yeah, No,
Speaker 1: I mean she knows my type. We've been friends her
Speaker 1: forever and I'd heard her mention him before. She was
Speaker 1: like on my radar, but that was the first time
Speaker 1: I'd ever seen him or met him. And yeah, he's
Speaker 1: he's in florado boy hands. You're like flustered right now.
Speaker 1: I can hear it, I am it's so pathetic. Did
Speaker 1: it show on your face how horny this guy makes you? No,
Speaker 1: it wasn't like dirty or anything like that. It was
Speaker 1: just like, you know those butterflies, like that feeling of
Speaker 1: like my stomach is all like and not horny little butterflies.
Speaker 1: We all get those horny little butterflies sometimes alone. All right,
Speaker 1: So what happened next after you met this guy? Well,
Speaker 1: we talked and hung out that whole party. It was
Speaker 1: more of a group setting though, so as like the
Speaker 1: work party was wrapping up, he asked if I wanted
Speaker 1: to go to this other bar down the street and
Speaker 1: get a drink, So just the two of us went.
Speaker 1: Did you bring the horny butterflies with you? No, I've
Speaker 1: gotten those a little more under control of that time.
Speaker 1: But obviously, I mean he was feeling it too if
Speaker 1: he asked you to go to another bar with him,
Speaker 1: I know, right, That's what I thought. Okay, then, so
Speaker 1: how did things go at the second bar? Well, we talked,
Speaker 1: but he was getting a little more flirtatious, like put
Speaker 1: his arm around me and like really sweet. I wish
Speaker 1: it would just started getting late though, and it was
Speaker 1: a work night, So around like eleven o'clock, we're like, ah,
Speaker 1: you know, should probably go. So he called me a cab,
Speaker 1: super gentleman. Yeah, were you guys pretty wasted by this point? Um,
Speaker 1: I'd say, like happily tipsy okay, so not super hammered, No, No,
Speaker 1: like I could still think informed sentences and you know, okay,
Speaker 1: so he called you a cab and this is that
Speaker 1: when the romantic kiss happened. Yeah, so he kind of
Speaker 1: walked me outside and like he kissed me and then
Speaker 1: he did this adorable like little like fun me out
Speaker 1: and like brought me back in for like a final kiss,
Speaker 1: and it was it was super sweet, and so I,
Speaker 1: you know, I could get into sign and was like, hey,
Speaker 1: we should do this again. Sometimes did he seem almost
Speaker 1: like too smooth, like he's done this so many times
Speaker 1: that he's got like a program. Yeah, that's what I mean,
Speaker 1: Like the toral seems like a little almost over at
Speaker 1: the top, Nate. I mean it seemed genuine, like in
Speaker 1: the moment maybe I maybe I was a sucker, but
Speaker 1: he seemed super genuine and just smooth, but not in
Speaker 1: like a slimy way. Yeah. So I was tired. I
Speaker 1: went home. I didn't even realize that I didn't give
Speaker 1: him my number. So I was like, well, if you
Speaker 1: know he'll want it, he'll find it. So I waited
Speaker 1: a couple of days and nothing. So I got hold
Speaker 1: of my coworker and was like, hey, this is weird,
Speaker 1: but can I give his number? Like we haven't talked,
Speaker 1: and she sent it to me, and so I texted him,
Speaker 1: was like, Hey, this is Andrea. I had a really
Speaker 1: great time the other night. I just wanted to make
Speaker 1: sure you had my number. Did you respond to that
Speaker 1: at all? Yeah? All he said was thanks, that's really
Speaker 1: just thanks. No thanks, I had a good time too,
Speaker 1: or thanks I'll see you later. No, just thanks. That sucks. Yeah.
Speaker 1: Why do you think he would be so cold like
Speaker 1: that after what sounds like a great evening? I don't know.
Speaker 1: I mean, I've been trying to figure it out because
Speaker 1: I don't want to be too clingy or too forward.
Speaker 1: But the only thing that I can think that it
Speaker 1: might be is when we were talking and hanging out
Speaker 1: at the second bar Um, I mentioned to him that
Speaker 1: I still live with my parents, like I still live
Speaker 1: at home, and he kind of gave me a little
Speaker 1: bit of an odd look. So, I don't know, if
Speaker 1: you know, he was just playing it cool that night,
Speaker 1: but thinks I'm not mature enough for like, I don't know,
Speaker 1: so you think that he might not want to date
Speaker 1: you because you live at home with your parents, I guess.
Speaker 1: I mean, I have a job, I'm responsible. It's not
Speaker 1: like you know, I'm living in the basement playing video
Speaker 1: games all day. Some guys like that. Yeah, all right,
Speaker 1: I can play a mean Mario Kart. But all right,
Speaker 1: well we'll play a song. Come back, call him and
Speaker 1: get your second date update. Okay, awesome, thank you guys.
Speaker 1: All right, hang on rooking jubil in the morning. Second update.
Speaker 1: If you're just tuning in for today's second date update.
Speaker 1: That music right there would be the sound of horny
Speaker 1: Little butterfly, you know the ones that getting your stomach
Speaker 1: is and as you see somebody that you find attractive. Well,
Speaker 1: Andrea is on the phone and she has a bad
Speaker 1: case of the horny butterflies because she met a guy
Speaker 1: named Tim and her friend's work party. They hung out
Speaker 1: for a little while even after the work party, and
Speaker 1: end of the night with a romantic kiss. But now
Speaker 1: he's not calling her back. She actually was able to
Speaker 1: text him and say that was fun, we should do
Speaker 1: that again, and he just said thanks. So apparently he's
Speaker 1: not hearing the same horny butterfly music that she's hearing
Speaker 1: in her head. But we're about to see if we
Speaker 1: can get him on the phone and find out why
Speaker 1: he's not calling her back. Andrea, Are you ready? I
Speaker 1: guess are you regretting doing this after being labeled as
Speaker 1: a horny butterfly girl? You know, I guess I'll wait
Speaker 1: to hear what he has to say until I regret it. Well,
Speaker 1: I'm gonna dial his phone of her right now and
Speaker 1: find out why he's not calling you back. Here we go. Okay, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: it is Tim there. Yeah, this is Tim. Who's this Tim?
Speaker 1: How are you? My name is Jubil and I host
Speaker 1: the radio show Brook and Jewil in the morning. What cool,
Speaker 1: We got that out of the way. I actually I
Speaker 1: got your phone number from somebody who listens to our show.
Speaker 1: They wanted me to call you. You're a radio station
Speaker 1: calling me? Yes, I am the entire station, music and everything. Well,
Speaker 1: is this like a prize or something? What's this about? No,
Speaker 1: it's actually a segment we do on our show. It's
Speaker 1: called the second Date Update. You recently went out with
Speaker 1: a girl named Andrea. Do you remember her? Oh? Jesus, yeah,
Speaker 1: that's not yes. Usually not what people like to hear
Speaker 1: when their name is brought up. But yeah, it's like
Speaker 1: an awkward situation there, man. Really, Andrea emailed us and
Speaker 1: told us a little bit about your date, how she
Speaker 1: thought you were awesome. But when she texted you asking
Speaker 1: if you guys can hang out again, all you did
Speaker 1: was text her back and say thanks. Yeah, I was
Speaker 1: just I was trying to, you know, be nice. All right?
Speaker 1: Did she do something to piss you off? She swears
Speaker 1: the date you guys had was awesome. It was fine.
Speaker 1: This is all. This is weird to say. The day
Speaker 1: was fine. I just I can't date her. What you sounded,
Speaker 1: I mean, the way she described it, you sounded like
Speaker 1: you were really into her. Yeah, everything was going fine.
Speaker 1: I like her, I think she's cute. So what's the
Speaker 1: big issue? Then? Her dad? I hate her dad? What
Speaker 1: How do you know her dad? What it's like? It's
Speaker 1: it's it's complicated. But the guy's a slimeballs. Her dad's
Speaker 1: a slimeball. Did you meet him? No? No, not when
Speaker 1: we were on I met him like a long time ago,
Speaker 1: and I don't even really want to explain it to her,
Speaker 1: to be honest. Did you know that who her dad
Speaker 1: was when you took her to the second bar and
Speaker 1: it's kissed And no I was. It was only afterwards
Speaker 1: I looked her up on like Facebook and saw you
Speaker 1: know what her last name was and who she's related to,
Speaker 1: and I guess I'll tell you her dad owns this
Speaker 1: like card dealership. And a couple of years ago, I
Speaker 1: bought a car from a used car and the guy
Speaker 1: totally screwed me over. It was it was like the
Speaker 1: worst I've ever been taking a back of my life.
Speaker 1: How random is that? I know, man, I know I
Speaker 1: was not expecting it. He give me a car and
Speaker 1: the horrible interest rate and it was one of my
Speaker 1: first times like getting a car, you know, on my own,
Speaker 1: so like I didn't know any better really, but like
Speaker 1: the guy totally took advantage of me, and that was
Speaker 1: like a big turning point in my life. Like no joke.
Speaker 1: I was like, I don't want to be in take
Speaker 1: advantage of anymore, Like I get smarter about this stuff,
Speaker 1: but I also like I want to prevent myself from
Speaker 1: that type of thing happening again, and I never want
Speaker 1: to see this guy again. Okay, so wait, you don't
Speaker 1: want to talk to her because you think her dad
Speaker 1: like she could be like her dad, or because you
Speaker 1: are afraid of this going into a relations and ship
Speaker 1: and you having to meet her dad. Well, first of all,
Speaker 1: she lives with her parents. So I'm guessing if you
Speaker 1: went into relationship, I would run into the guy sooner
Speaker 1: or later, right, And I don't know if I can
Speaker 1: control myself around him. To be honest, I'm not gonna
Speaker 1: be able to shape that guy's hand, you know, but
Speaker 1: it could be like the ultimate form of revenge. I
Speaker 1: mean to be honest, To be honest, like that actually
Speaker 1: went through my head, like, oh, I should just, like
Speaker 1: you know, I should sleep with her and then, you know,
Speaker 1: get back at this guy. Yeah, but I'm not. I'm
Speaker 1: not the type of guy. Okay, man, you're You're a
Speaker 1: way better dude than I am. Because if somebody screwed
Speaker 1: me around a car, I would do that in a heartbeat.
Speaker 1: I'd go over there just to have dinner with him
Speaker 1: and stare him in the face and shake his hand
Speaker 1: and be like, guess what I just did. And you're
Speaker 1: positive that that's their dad? Yeah, why why wouldn't you
Speaker 1: just tell her that? Who wants to like to hear
Speaker 1: that I can't date you because your dad's a Yeah,
Speaker 1: her to feel bad if I don't like I'm she
Speaker 1: raced her. I'm guessing she knows I'm like I don't
Speaker 1: like maybe she doesn't. I don't know. Maybe if you
Speaker 1: guys were dating for a little while and it was
Speaker 1: like at the point where you had to be around
Speaker 1: family members, Like I can't be around your dad ever.
Speaker 1: But this is the first guy, first time you're hanging
Speaker 1: out and you realize her dad as a guy that
Speaker 1: screwed you over three years ago. Yeah, like, why not
Speaker 1: cut cord now and like say troubled on the line. Yeah, okay,
Speaker 1: well thank you for telling us why. That's crazy? Yah. Yeah,
Speaker 1: I hate hearing about people getting screwed over and people
Speaker 1: being lied to, you know. Yeah, no, it's the worst. Yeah,
Speaker 1: that's probably why I should have told you this earlier.
Speaker 1: But she is actually on the other line listening and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. Are you serious? Yes? I
Speaker 1: am hate Tim, it's Andrey. Yeah, yeah, I heard everything
Speaker 1: you said about me and my dad. I don't say
Speaker 1: anything bad about you, I know, but you've been ignoring
Speaker 1: me because of something that wasn't even my fault and
Speaker 1: that doesn't even sound like my dad. I'm sorry, Like
Speaker 1: it sucks. It's allus the person your dad is a
Speaker 1: bad person. I guarantee you. I'm not the first person
Speaker 1: who's done this too. My dad is not a bad person.
Speaker 1: I'm sorry for whatever experience you feel like you had,
Speaker 1: But my dad is a good guy. And that does
Speaker 1: not sound like I'm sorry for whatever money out of
Speaker 1: my pocket and then giving it to you for your birthday.
Speaker 1: Like I'm sure like that makes easier to be on
Speaker 1: that side of things, But on my side of things,
Speaker 1: he's a bad guy. I'm sure it was just a misunderstanding.
Speaker 1: My dad is not a bad guy. I can't believe
Speaker 1: that you haven't let this go how long it was
Speaker 1: just a couple of years ago. It wasn't like when
Speaker 1: I was ten years old. But Jim, I mean, can't
Speaker 1: you give the guy benefit of the doubt, Like, do
Speaker 1: you have proof that he tried to screw you over?
Speaker 1: Maybe like he didn't know there was something wrong with
Speaker 1: the car or you buy. Oh come on, this is
Speaker 1: his business, Jim. If you signed a contract on the car,
Speaker 1: that's equally on you for not having checked things more clearly.
Speaker 1: Oh my well, the apple certainly haven't balling far from
Speaker 1: the free plain. I am so offended right now. I
Speaker 1: don't even know what to do. I think you guys
Speaker 1: should go out again. Honestly, Like Andrea, I thought you
Speaker 1: were really cool. I cannot get past the fact that
Speaker 1: your dad's growed me over something. You know, I don't
Speaker 1: really like how you've treated me during this situation, but
Speaker 1: I'd be willing to get you together with my dad
Speaker 1: and see if he can get to a deal and
Speaker 1: make up for whatever wrong you feel like he did you. So, Andrew,
Speaker 1: you're kind of up for a second date if you
Speaker 1: take Tim to the car dealership and you get him
Speaker 1: a better deal on a car. Well, I mean, he
Speaker 1: clearly feels like my dad took advantage of him, and
Speaker 1: no one should feel that way. And I think my
Speaker 1: dad would agree. And I bet if he came down
Speaker 1: to the dealership, then my dad could get him into
Speaker 1: something newer and nicer. And a cardboard box would be newer,
Speaker 1: nicer than what he sold me. I got a second
Speaker 1: day update has turned into a car sale. Tim, would
Speaker 1: you like to accompany Andrea to her dad's dealership one
Speaker 1: more time? See if you can. You're crazy, you're missing out.
Speaker 1: She's a good salesman. Yeah, she's report her father to
Speaker 1: the Better Business Bureau. You know it's him. I don't
Speaker 1: want to talk to you anymore. You blew your chance
Speaker 1: with me, and you blew your chance on a great
Speaker 1: new car. She said, yeah, okay, yeah, maybe I'll see
Speaker 1: the next Presidence Day weakened Salem. In the morning, I
Speaker 1: got a text in at seven eight, five to nine
Speaker 1: two that says that guy's crazy. He should have gone
Speaker 1: on a second date and had the radio station buy
Speaker 1: him a new car, because you know, after all the
Speaker 1: second dates we always offered to pay for their date.
Speaker 1: I guess technically we would have to buy him a car.
Speaker 1: If you do know what I'm talking about, I'm talking
Speaker 1: about today's second date update. This girl Andrea wanted to
Speaker 1: call a guy named Tim because he wasn't calling her
Speaker 1: back and the reason he got screwed over by her
Speaker 1: dad on a car purchase and he realized who her
Speaker 1: dad was, He's like, I can't date. You know what
Speaker 1: he could have done? What's that? He could have called
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Speaker 1: date update anyway, Yeah, he wouldn't go out with her
Speaker 1: because he got screwed on a car. I kind of
Speaker 1: understand it, though. I mean that feeling of just getting
Speaker 1: raked over the coals sick. We're getting lots of texts
Speaker 1: in at seven eight five to nine two. Somebody said
Speaker 1: he needs to let it go. That was a long
Speaker 1: time ago, but more people are texting in, like I
Speaker 1: understand completely. Yeah, somebody texted in at seven eight five
Speaker 1: to nine two that said that they bought a car
Speaker 1: in California once and got screwed over, so now they
Speaker 1: will never purchase a car in California. Well what stance.
Speaker 1: I mean, no car dealership at all, just the whole
Speaker 1: state of California. It's one of the largest states in
Speaker 1: the entire country. But cool. It just sucks for her
Speaker 1: that she's getting screwed over by her dad. Well her
Speaker 1: dad screwing everybody over screwed this guy over in a
Speaker 1: car screw and her out of dates and he doesn't
Speaker 1: even realize it. Yeah, because the guy liked her. He's like,
Speaker 1: she's great. Everything about her is cool, except her dad
Speaker 1: is kind of an a hole and owns a car
Speaker 1: dealership and screwed me over. She didn't seem that surprised
Speaker 1: by the information. She really like, well, I can get
Speaker 1: you in there and you can get a better deal.
Speaker 1: I'm like, I feel like you're part of this family business. Yeah.
Speaker 1: She definitely has a job at the dealership and sells
Speaker 1: cars too, because she did say at the end of it, like, hey,
Speaker 1: let's just go down to the dealership so you can
Speaker 1: meet my dad again and he'll put you into a
Speaker 1: great new car. Yeah, anyone put you into a great
Speaker 1: on the inside, exactly, all right. Remember, if you want
Speaker 1: to do a second day update, all you have to
Speaker 1: do is email the show and we will call the
Speaker 1: person who didn't call you back.