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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Show. Alex,

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Speaker 1: good morning, Welcome to the pro problem. How are you? Hi?

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Speaker 2: Oh? I could be better. I'm mostly just confused, right right?

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Speaker 1: So you met a woman named Stella fill Us in

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Speaker 1: all the background, how did you meet? Tell us about

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Speaker 1: any dates you've been on, and then what you think

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Speaker 1: is happening now where the problem is?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Well, I mean we met on Hinge. We got

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Speaker 2: into talking.

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Speaker 3: Everything had really been like kicking off really well.

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Speaker 4: I got her number.

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Speaker 3: We went to a restaurant that she actually suggested, she

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Speaker 3: said she wanted to try it, and the date went

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Speaker 3: really well. I mean I paid for dinner, I got

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Speaker 3: our chair.

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Speaker 2: I was a complete gentleman all the way. Soup to nuts.

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Speaker 4: I don't know why on earth I'm being ghosted here.

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Speaker 2: You've never heard that before? He came Soup to nuts?

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Speaker 1: No, I never Yeah, yeah, I want to put supermana

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Speaker 1: not well circle back on that. Then, I guess you

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Speaker 1: go find yourself some low hanging fruit. If that's the case,

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Speaker 1: I've heard it use I've never used anyway. Whatever, we're

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Speaker 1: getting distracted, which is not surprising. So Alex, you want

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Speaker 1: to know sort of what happened, because you know, like

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Speaker 1: most people, if you go on a day that you

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Speaker 1: think went well and then the person is not responding

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Speaker 1: to you, not receptive, then it's like, wait a minute,

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Speaker 1: I like this person. It can be hard to meet

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Speaker 1: someone that you're interested in and excited about and you

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Speaker 1: want this person to be, you know, feel the same way,

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Speaker 1: and if they don't, it's like, wait a minute, what

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Speaker 1: did I miss?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? I don't even know what it was that I've

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Speaker 2: I've missed here? What did I do?

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Speaker 4: Right?

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Speaker 2: Right?

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Speaker 1: Okay, Well, let's I'm gonna play a song and come

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Speaker 1: back in a couple of minutes. We're gonna call Stella

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Speaker 1: see if we can get her on the phone, and

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Speaker 1: then we'll ask these questions. You'll be on the phone

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Speaker 1: as well. At some point you're welcome to jump in

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Speaker 1: on the call. And our hope, as always is that

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Speaker 1: we can straighten this out and then set you up on.

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Speaker 2: Another date that we pay for. Thank you.

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Speaker 1: I let's see what's going on? Part two of waiting

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Speaker 1: by the phone. Next right after this song, back in

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Speaker 1: two minutes.

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Speaker 2: Don't move.

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Speaker 1: It's the Fread Show, The Fred Show. Good Morning, It's

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Speaker 1: Monday to day that we should have off after the

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Speaker 1: super Bowl, but we're here. I'm sorry, Alex. All right,

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Speaker 1: let's call Stella. You guys went on a date recently.

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Speaker 1: You met on Hins. You thought the date went really well.

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Speaker 1: You were a gentleman, you paid for dinner, you mentioned

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Speaker 1: you really thought that you, you know, put your best

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Speaker 1: foot forward, soup to nuts.

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Speaker 2: And yet she's not calling you, and you want to

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Speaker 2: know why.

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Speaker 3: I don't know what's up.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're being ghosted, you think. Let's call her now?

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Speaker 2: Good luck? Alex. Hello, Hi is a Stella? Yeah, this

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Speaker 2: is hey Stella. Good morning.

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Speaker 1: My name is Fred. I'm calling from the Fred Show,

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Speaker 1: the Morning radio show. The whole crew is here. I

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Speaker 1: do have to tell you that we are on the Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I'm sorry. We are on the radio right now, though,

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Speaker 1: and I need your permission to continue with the call.

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Speaker 2: Is that okay? If we talked for a minute on

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Speaker 2: the show, sure, I'm a fan.

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Speaker 4: Well thank you.

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Speaker 1: Well, well then you probably know what this is. Then

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Speaker 1: we're calling on behalf of a guy named Alex. So

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Speaker 1: you met on Hinge and went out with recently.

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Speaker 4: Yes, I did go out with an Alex.

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Speaker 2: Okay, so what happened?

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Speaker 1: Because he called us and told us that he liked

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Speaker 2: But you're not responding to him. What's your side of

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Speaker 4: I mean, I'm I'm honestly pretty shocked that he that

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Speaker 4: I'm hearing about this at all, like on the radio.

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Speaker 4: But I'll get into it if if that's helpful.

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Speaker 2: Oh, let's get into it.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, we met on hint. I thought his profile was

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Speaker 4: I guess I'm really going to get into it. Like

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Speaker 1: Know whether who whoa whoa whoa whoa? Wa hold on, yeah, no,

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Speaker 1: so you're on hold on. I got to make sure

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Speaker 1: I'm clear on this that I heard you correctly. Sally.

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Speaker 1: You're on a first aid with a man you just met,

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Speaker 1: and it's not like, Hey, did I sit on something

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Speaker 1: or is there like brush something off? Me, here, is

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Speaker 4: I have no idea. I mean I was like like

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Speaker 4: I was like completely in shock. I mean, it's like disgusting.

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Speaker 1: Were We talk about this all the time, you know,

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Speaker 1: with people in relationships or whatever, and people get comfortable

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Speaker 1: and I would contort myself in front of them. You're

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Speaker 1: in every possible angle to address this myself and let

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Speaker 1: If I'm in a relationship, I'm I'm out here, put

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Speaker 1: see what's going on without anybody knowing we have a problem.

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Speaker 1: I'm trying not to even go like talk to anybody

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Speaker 1: the woman he went on a first date. Well, then sell,

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Speaker 1: if you're a fan of the show, you know that

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Speaker 1: Alex is here. Alex explain yourself.

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Speaker 3: Okay, yeah, I know why became public information?

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean what you called the radio station.

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Speaker 2: You want to know why she's not calling you. That

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Speaker 3: I had a concern.

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Speaker 2: I wanted to share it with someone. I was go

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Speaker 3: Didn't get it?

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Speaker 2: Look today, you heard the story with me, so you

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Speaker 2: still get the buffer. There is no one else in

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Speaker 2: your world that could go look at it. Professionals for you,

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Speaker 3: I thought I thought we had like intimate connection. I

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Speaker 2: I can see I was wrong.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I mean we call this preserve the sexy. I

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Speaker 1: feel like when you first meet someone, for as long

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Speaker 1: We all know that stuff happens, and we you know,

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Speaker 1: and I'm not saying you should be ashamed of that.

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Speaker 2: But they didn't even get to the sexy right to

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Speaker 2: preserve you. That's exactly right.

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Speaker 1: And again, I mean, I'm sure you get to a

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Speaker 4: Don't ever say no, because one of that might be you.

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Speaker 2: My body will my body hole will fall off before

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Speaker 2: and I'll have to go find it myself and buy

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Speaker 2: you want to replace it before anywhere before.

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Speaker 1: You look at my No, No, absolutely, absolutely, absolutely not, Alex.

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Speaker 1: You got to know that it's just not attractive. And

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Speaker 1: and like, look, yeah, I'll look what.

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Speaker 2: No, I'm not that. Won't look at that. No, I

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Speaker 2: won't look at that. What do you want? What?

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Speaker 3: I find comfort with each other and intimacy to be sexy.

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Speaker 3: And I don't know why all y'all are hiding yourselves

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Speaker 3: from your date. Why you're afraid to like be yourself

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Speaker 3: in front of someone.

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Speaker 4: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: That's not that's not for me.

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Speaker 3: I just want to put everything out there.

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Speaker 1: I'm a crazy person. Everybody knows that. But if I

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Speaker 1: had something on my butt, I cancel the date. There

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Speaker 1: wouldn't be a date, just in case somebody might have

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Speaker 1: to see that. No, so we're selling. Oh I'm a coward.

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Speaker 2: I'm a coward because I would have a random people

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Speaker 2: on a he and you look at my Okay, so

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Speaker 2: you would do it? Honestly, I'm a sucker. Like it's

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Speaker 2: really hard for me to say no to something that

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Speaker 2: someone asks of me. Oh my god, I could see

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Speaker 2: Jason doing it as well.

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Speaker 3: Yes, I would be looking at woody halls and I would.

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Speaker 2: It's a hobby of yours. So I mean, I'll just

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Speaker 2: ask the question.

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Speaker 1: I know the answer is rhetorical, but still, I would

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Speaker 1: you consider another day with him? If he keeps everything,

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Speaker 1: all of his clothing on. We'll pay for it, you know,

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Speaker 1: we'll send him too urgent care first. I guess we'll

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Speaker 1: pay the co pay.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: No, I'm sorry, Alex. There's no way you've.

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Speaker 2: Got to learn.

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Speaker 1: Not going to happen, Alex. I'm sorry, man, it's not

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Speaker 1: gonna work out, you know. Please go to the doll Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean I have that looked at. If it's still there,

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Speaker 1: it's been long enough. You know, I don't want anything

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Speaker 1: to happen to you. Man. Okay, he sounds so dejected,

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Speaker 1: but it's you know, kim. Guys, thank you for your time,

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Speaker 1: best of luck at.

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Speaker 2: Both of you.

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Speaker 4: Thank you so much thanks.

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