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Speaker 1: No, beggars can't be choosers. That's kind of what we're

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Speaker 2: Do it if you're watching us recorded.

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Speaker 1: This comes from Roxy Walker, who says, I fifty one male,

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Speaker 2: He's like, as soon as my daughter from this marriage twelve,

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Speaker 3: Well these birthdays today?

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Speaker 2: This is good? Please critique?

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Speaker 2: There he is.

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Speaker 1: We've already had people that voted that they should that

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Speaker 4: Which I mean, I think is what the kid kind

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Speaker 1: Up, I think what Opie actually, you know what, there

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Speaker 1: They're probably trying to get health information so that way

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Speaker 2: Anything of the.

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Speaker 1: Family, probably contact, probably wants to they probably they could

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Speaker 4: I just want to know, like where you come from.

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Speaker 4: So I think it is completely okay. Yes, I think

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Speaker 4: it's completely I think I think op but like I

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Speaker 1: And I think I think right now it's like it's

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Speaker 4: More, which is good.

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Speaker 1: I think you kind of it's it's almost like cheating

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Speaker 4: Tell like like I feel like there's no reason to

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Speaker 2: One of doing this billion people. Yeah, one of a

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Speaker 1: You Like the whole agreement between everyone was like oh, hey,

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Speaker 4: For a lot of people do close adoptions too, so

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Speaker 1: Cut right right, because yeah, what if the family there's

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Speaker 4: knows no, like like the kid doesn't know who I

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Speaker 4: that's a very different situation as far as I'm saying that,

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Speaker 4: that's what that situation is. Yeah, yeah, we do have

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Speaker 4: as we know, that wasn't the case. Well, the one

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Speaker 4: thing we do have, which is helpful context for you,

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Speaker 1: That was sixteen when she gave birth. So context, but

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Speaker 1: we have these relevant comments to close it out. Definitely

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Speaker 1: doesn't make it look better, makes it look very bad.

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Speaker 1: Yeah right, So Lucy loves Apple says, info, what did

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Speaker 1: you tell her son that she didn't want contact? Opie

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Speaker 1: says having interacted with him at all, seems the law

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Speaker 1: firm that represents him was just trying to tie up

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Speaker 1: so maybe it's literally just trying to confirm the family tree.

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Speaker 1: I didn't share any insight on her state of mind

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Speaker 1: FRIENDO says you're the ahole. Not only was it not

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Speaker 2: You wanted your.

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Speaker 1: Half sister to be confronted with a situation you know

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Speaker 2: You just didn't want to do it. In writing, I mean, she.

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Speaker 1: And if we're just going by what's literally in the story,

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Speaker 1: to The dad was like, you're going to go to

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Speaker 2: The full story of what went down.

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Speaker 1: So maybe she does have a perfectly legitimate reason, but

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I feel like I still don't see OP as the

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Speaker 1: Yeah I don't think I do. I don't think I

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Speaker 2: She just wanted the situation to go away.

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Speaker 1: Had she been clear about not wanting to be contacted,

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Speaker 1: I really doubt I would have been approached at all.

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Speaker 2: That's why I chose the phone call route.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to go on the record of having nothing

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Speaker 1: more to say on the matter, ask and answered, and

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Speaker 2: And so yeah, so let's quickly break down, like.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, did op make the right move now that we

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Speaker 4: Mean, I can't. I came in a little late, but

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Speaker 4: OPI did.

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Speaker 1: And they didn't. They didn't say this for a fact.

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Speaker 1: But she was like, I only basically confirmed like the

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Speaker 1: the relatives were, which probably goes in line with health stuff.

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Speaker 1: Is there any sort of like familial disease.

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Speaker 4: It's like she like dish some massive tea. It was.

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Speaker 2: It was like the basics of it.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I definitely think that the adopted children at

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Speaker 1: kind of seems like this could have easily.

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Speaker 4: Been so, I mean, yeah, So in conclusion, I don't

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Speaker 4: But dude, I was seeing some stuff in the chat

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Speaker 4: about people. There's a Netflix documentary about a sperm donor

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Speaker 4: with five hundred and fifty kids.

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Speaker 2: I did see to.

446
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Speaker 4: One and a half thousand.

447
00:22:18,520 --> 00:22:19,080
Speaker 2: Wow.

448
00:22:19,440 --> 00:22:21,200
Speaker 4: I did see the title one.

449
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:25,440
Speaker 2: Thousand children or something A thousand kids. That's that's so many.

450
00:22:25,640 --> 00:22:27,720
Speaker 2: That's yeah, that's kind of crazy.

451
00:22:27,960 --> 00:22:29,560
Speaker 1: I feel like I used to be like a sperm

452
00:22:29,600 --> 00:22:33,919
Speaker 1: donor or whatever, but now I'm like, dude, being a

453
00:22:33,960 --> 00:22:35,479
Speaker 1: sperm donor is kind of crazy.

454
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:38,679
Speaker 4: Yeah, dude, you could, it could. Your sperm can go

455
00:22:38,800 --> 00:22:42,720
Speaker 4: far and wide, Like that's literally your your biological biog,

456
00:22:42,840 --> 00:22:43,560
Speaker 4: your DNA.

457
00:22:43,840 --> 00:22:46,040
Speaker 2: Dude a little it's a little crazy.

458
00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:49,479
Speaker 4: It's a lot of power to donate your sperm, but

459
00:22:49,560 --> 00:22:54,000
Speaker 4: also like a lot of responsibility. Responsibility.

460
00:22:54,080 --> 00:22:58,119
Speaker 1: I mean, you're you're you're literally removing the responsibility from it,

461
00:22:58,160 --> 00:23:00,640
Speaker 1: but there is an inherent responsibility.

462
00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,119
Speaker 4: I think people are gonna try, Like if you have

463
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:05,399
Speaker 4: like a thousand kids, you're saying like not like like

464
00:23:05,480 --> 00:23:08,120
Speaker 4: a bunch of them are probably gonna try to find you, right,

465
00:23:08,600 --> 00:23:13,080
Speaker 4: you know you're gonna have like like vision quest to

466
00:23:13,119 --> 00:23:16,639
Speaker 4: go find you. Yeah, they're gonna like every couple of months,

467
00:23:16,640 --> 00:23:18,760
Speaker 4: there's gonna be a new kid that's gonna be like,

468
00:23:19,040 --> 00:23:20,080
Speaker 4: you're my dad.

469
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Speaker 3: Dude. If I was a sperm donor, I'd have a

470
00:23:22,320 --> 00:23:26,440
Speaker 3: note for every like pup that I spermed in and

471
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:29,960
Speaker 3: like be like here's what I look like, this is

472
00:23:30,000 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 3: what I do, and I'm really cool.

473
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Speaker 2: Well, I think the whole point of it. You think

474
00:23:35,320 --> 00:23:36,600
Speaker 2: they keep her a cup though.

475
00:23:36,720 --> 00:23:38,480
Speaker 3: They don't keep the cup. No, no, no, it's a little

476
00:23:38,520 --> 00:23:40,199
Speaker 3: note like you put it in a little bottle. So

477
00:23:40,280 --> 00:23:42,200
Speaker 3: you got the bottle and then you got the bottle

478
00:23:42,240 --> 00:23:44,080
Speaker 3: of sperm and you give them both.

479
00:23:44,119 --> 00:23:44,760
Speaker 2: I don't even know.

480
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Speaker 1: I think in many cases, uh, the mom will will

481
00:23:48,920 --> 00:23:50,160
Speaker 1: like legally deny.

482
00:23:49,880 --> 00:23:53,120
Speaker 4: That, yeah, because yeah, because she does. She doesn't want

483
00:23:53,160 --> 00:23:56,760
Speaker 4: you to have any connection into the sperm down her loss.

484
00:23:56,760 --> 00:23:58,840
Speaker 3: Because I'm a baller, you.

485
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Speaker 1: Are, dude, those cups would be honored to have your

486
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:03,600
Speaker 1: your your gs and them, but.

487
00:24:03,960 --> 00:24:05,960
Speaker 3: We're selling them at five hundred of pop. Ladies, just

488
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:06,960
Speaker 3: let us know, and.

489
00:24:06,840 --> 00:24:09,520
Speaker 2: I get five hundred of pop five.

490
00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,280
Speaker 3: Hundred, five hundred, five hundred, actually fifty.

491
00:24:12,840 --> 00:24:14,159
Speaker 2: Your price is way higher than that.

492
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Speaker 4: There not, No, dude, I'm not I'm not giving a

493
00:24:17,920 --> 00:24:20,800
Speaker 4: giving away my guys. This is.

494
00:24:23,119 --> 00:24:28,120
Speaker 2: What anyways, this is not happening. Okay, guys, So.

495
00:24:30,560 --> 00:24:33,320
Speaker 1: Let's answer the question of the episode, which is, how

496
00:24:33,359 --> 00:24:36,960
Speaker 1: do you maintain a good relationship with your siblings? Where

497
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:41,320
Speaker 1: is the line where it goes into being damaging or

498
00:24:41,320 --> 00:24:43,560
Speaker 1: disrespectful to your sibling?

499
00:24:45,240 --> 00:24:50,240
Speaker 4: See Wednesday Mama Misfit says, I'll pay Riley stop. You

500
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:51,199
Speaker 4: got it first.

501
00:24:51,320 --> 00:24:55,920
Speaker 1: You got your first, your first customer, because I think

502
00:24:55,920 --> 00:24:58,400
Speaker 1: there is I think there's a lot of potential customers

503
00:24:58,400 --> 00:25:01,679
Speaker 1: in chat right now. Not even gonna lie, I'm not

504
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:03,879
Speaker 1: even gonna know.

505
00:25:03,920 --> 00:25:08,159
Speaker 2: You're worth kid, thank you can really getting away your sperm.

506
00:25:08,440 --> 00:25:10,840
Speaker 2: It would probably have to be through a like why

507
00:25:10,840 --> 00:25:11,960
Speaker 2: why wouldn't it be legal?

508
00:25:12,600 --> 00:25:15,560
Speaker 1: Because there's probably that's that's so loaded. If you if

509
00:25:15,560 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 1: you give someone your sperm, then they're probably probably legally The.

510
00:25:18,440 --> 00:25:20,840
Speaker 2: Father definitely can sell you. I think you could tell

511
00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:21,959
Speaker 2: you it's your, it's your.

512
00:25:22,200 --> 00:25:24,879
Speaker 1: You got to go through like a why why you

513
00:25:24,960 --> 00:25:27,240
Speaker 1: go through an intermediary to make sure that it's like you.

514
00:25:27,200 --> 00:25:30,720
Speaker 4: Have to go through an intermediary to have sex. No,

515
00:25:30,800 --> 00:25:33,719
Speaker 4: but do you want kind of donating sperm to one person?

516
00:25:34,800 --> 00:25:38,840
Speaker 2: Stop? What are we doing right now? Oh?

517
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Speaker 1: That's you, thanks buddy, that you Yeah. I feel like

518
00:25:44,960 --> 00:25:49,080
Speaker 1: with the siblings, I mean you can kind of say

519
00:25:49,080 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: it's almost for any relationship, is anything that.

520
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:53,920
Speaker 2: Dude?

521
00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 4: Guys, guys, what callon of John?

522
00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,119
Speaker 2: Stop? Stop? No one's getting it.

523
00:26:05,440 --> 00:26:07,359
Speaker 1: You can't even do the show like this is so

524
00:26:08,000 --> 00:26:09,720
Speaker 1: we've been completely derailed.

525
00:26:10,800 --> 00:26:13,080
Speaker 2: We've been completely Oh my god, Bill Conkling.

526
00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:15,200
Speaker 1: No, there's a ninety day fiance guy who does sperm

527
00:26:15,240 --> 00:26:19,560
Speaker 1: done issue through Tinder and bumble whoa. I mean they'll

528
00:26:19,560 --> 00:26:22,320
Speaker 1: probably they could probably legally be like, yo, you're the father,

529
00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,600
Speaker 1: give me whatever.

530
00:26:24,680 --> 00:26:28,760
Speaker 4: Yeah, child support, child support, child support, that that's the issue.

531
00:26:29,000 --> 00:26:30,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I was saying.

532
00:26:30,720 --> 00:26:32,840
Speaker 4: That's what. But if you're down to pay a billion

533
00:26:32,880 --> 00:26:37,479
Speaker 4: dollars child, just go for it. Sweet hotty a swirl.

534
00:26:38,760 --> 00:26:39,760
Speaker 3: Oh dude, that's me.

535
00:26:41,440 --> 00:26:44,000
Speaker 4: That is Riley, right, Riley is what you get.

536
00:26:44,760 --> 00:26:49,160
Speaker 3: Also, sometimes I matched with John and today I'm asking

537
00:26:49,160 --> 00:26:50,440
Speaker 3: with Sam. Look at this, Look at his fit.

538
00:26:50,800 --> 00:26:54,200
Speaker 2: That's true. Oh you guys are so matching right now?

539
00:26:54,640 --> 00:26:55,080
Speaker 4: What the heck?

540
00:26:56,000 --> 00:26:58,880
Speaker 1: Even the yeah, you're right, Holy crap, I think we're

541
00:26:59,160 --> 00:27:04,040
Speaker 1: I think that's it. I think that's that's that's the

542
00:27:04,040 --> 00:27:06,840
Speaker 1: whole episode. Well, if you love us, make sure to

543
00:27:06,880 --> 00:27:08,200
Speaker 1: subscribe We love.

544
00:27:08,000 --> 00:27:12,520
Speaker 2: You, and sit it. Have your children. This is an

545
00:27:12,520 --> 00:27:14,400
Speaker 2: episode from Deep within the Archives.

546
00:27:14,400 --> 00:27:18,520
Speaker 1: Time for okop relam.

547
00:27:18,560 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 2: It's so unfair, wrongly imprison me.

548
00:27:21,040 --> 00:27:24,560
Speaker 1: Get ready for some blackmail that will destroy your police department.

549
00:27:24,960 --> 00:27:27,960
Speaker 4: Sounds like the blackmail is gonna be like that cop

550
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,000
Speaker 4: orgy thing that's been all over the news lately.

551
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:33,480
Speaker 2: I'm unaware of this. Oh yeah, there was this.

552
00:27:33,680 --> 00:27:37,199
Speaker 4: There was this police department somewhere in the country that

553
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,439
Speaker 4: was just having like these parties every week and on duty,

554
00:27:41,640 --> 00:27:43,919
Speaker 4: and the whole police department was in on it. It

555
00:27:44,000 --> 00:27:48,440
Speaker 4: was basically like Hugh Keefner's playboy mansion, but with sexy

556
00:27:48,480 --> 00:27:52,520
Speaker 4: police officers. And if you look up like police officer

557
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,680
Speaker 4: meme or whatever, there's a couple faces that pop up now,

558
00:27:55,720 --> 00:27:59,680
Speaker 4: the boys in blue and the women in blue. God,

559
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:05,760
Speaker 4: thank you for your service. Always, Thank you. For servicing me.

560
00:28:06,040 --> 00:28:07,600
Speaker 4: That's what they said at the end of the parties.

561
00:28:07,680 --> 00:28:08,760
Speaker 4: Oh yeah, I believe it.

562
00:28:08,840 --> 00:28:10,840
Speaker 2: Hey it's a bit noisy in here. You need to

563
00:28:11,080 --> 00:28:11,879
Speaker 2: quiet down.

564
00:28:12,040 --> 00:28:14,919
Speaker 4: Yeah, don't. I'm gonna have to handcuff you if you're

565
00:28:14,920 --> 00:28:18,480
Speaker 4: getting too frisky. Oh god, let me uh, let me

566
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:24,440
Speaker 4: frisk you. Let me shoot my shot over here? Uniform?

567
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:27,560
Speaker 2: Nice Okay.

568
00:28:28,920 --> 00:28:32,320
Speaker 1: Back in November of twenty eighteen, I was arrested at

569
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,080
Speaker 1: work in front of my boss and my coworkers.

570
00:28:35,440 --> 00:28:37,320
Speaker 2: Why that is awful.

571
00:28:37,520 --> 00:28:39,960
Speaker 4: It's a little embarrassing, or it's badass, Like have you

572
00:28:39,960 --> 00:28:42,760
Speaker 4: ever seen there, like the teenage movies where it's like.

573
00:28:43,040 --> 00:28:45,320
Speaker 2: Can you arrest me in front of all my friends?

574
00:28:45,360 --> 00:28:48,920
Speaker 2: And they think that's sick? Wow, that's Have you ever

575
00:28:48,920 --> 00:28:52,760
Speaker 2: seen super Bow? Oh that was yeah, yeah, superdad.

576
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,120
Speaker 4: Super baddy like mclovin gets arrested in front of the

577
00:28:55,120 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 4: school and the girl was like, oh my god, it

578
00:28:58,320 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 4: was badass like that.

579
00:28:59,520 --> 00:29:02,560
Speaker 1: Yeah, dude, high schoolers are idiots?

580
00:29:03,240 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 2: Or are they super smart or the geniuses genii?

581
00:29:07,000 --> 00:29:10,720
Speaker 1: This was the most humiliating thing I have ever experienced.

582
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 1: I later learned at the police station that I was

583
00:29:13,400 --> 00:29:17,840
Speaker 1: being charged with multiple felonies for what God, I want

584
00:29:17,880 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 1: to know what? All right, well, let's see this cave

585
00:29:21,240 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 1: is a huge surprise to me. Luckily, I was able

586
00:29:24,080 --> 00:29:26,640
Speaker 1: to keep my wits and lawyer up instead of speaking

587
00:29:26,680 --> 00:29:31,160
Speaker 1: with a detective for thirteen thousand dollars which completely wiped

588
00:29:31,200 --> 00:29:34,640
Speaker 1: my savings. Oh my god, I was able to retain

589
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:36,160
Speaker 1: a criminal defense attorney.

590
00:29:36,520 --> 00:29:42,960
Speaker 4: Yikes, what system is AFT up?

591
00:29:43,160 --> 00:29:43,480
Speaker 2: AFT?

592
00:29:43,640 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 4: Yeah, I want to know what he charged with Madad.

593
00:29:47,000 --> 00:29:50,479
Speaker 1: However, it cost me everything and I was unable to

594
00:29:50,520 --> 00:29:53,600
Speaker 1: pay my bond. This resulted in me staying in jail

595
00:29:53,640 --> 00:29:56,320
Speaker 1: for a total of fifty four days.

596
00:29:56,440 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 2: Oh my god.

597
00:29:59,040 --> 00:30:02,280
Speaker 4: Wow, it gives you time to read maybe, you know.

598
00:30:03,200 --> 00:30:05,560
Speaker 2: Work out a little bit, work out a little bit.

599
00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:08,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, you would actually have to pay money for an

600
00:30:08,600 --> 00:30:11,240
Speaker 4: Equinox membership to get the kind of body you're going

601
00:30:11,320 --> 00:30:12,360
Speaker 4: to be coming out of prison with.

602
00:30:12,560 --> 00:30:15,800
Speaker 2: I feel like prison is just free equinoxes. Like that.

603
00:30:16,280 --> 00:30:18,280
Speaker 2: There's a kernel that a comedian can like.

604
00:30:18,400 --> 00:30:23,680
Speaker 4: No, No, prison is literally a retreat where, No, you're

605
00:30:23,680 --> 00:30:26,160
Speaker 4: not addicted to your phone anymore, no social media. You

606
00:30:26,200 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 4: get to work out, you have a community of fellas. Ye,

607
00:30:29,400 --> 00:30:31,840
Speaker 4: you know, like like people are always Yeah, people people

608
00:30:31,960 --> 00:30:33,920
Speaker 4: like are always saying, oh, man, like I have no community,

609
00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:36,480
Speaker 4: join a gang in prison. Next.

610
00:30:36,640 --> 00:30:40,760
Speaker 1: Next a KOP episode is we took we took Sam

611
00:30:40,800 --> 00:30:42,840
Speaker 1: to a prison quote, it's just free.

612
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:47,840
Speaker 4: Equoox are already wearing orange, so we're ready to go.

613
00:30:48,200 --> 00:30:49,800
Speaker 4: We actually also in a jumpsuit.

614
00:30:50,000 --> 00:30:53,400
Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, the jumpsuit thumbnails are going to be very easy. Yeah, dude,

615
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,480
Speaker 2: we went to prison and it made our.

616
00:30:55,360 --> 00:30:57,680
Speaker 4: YouTube career pop off off.

617
00:30:58,080 --> 00:31:03,280
Speaker 2: Thanks prison, thank you. Okay, back back to our prison books.

618
00:31:03,920 --> 00:31:05,120
Speaker 2: Oh actually maybe not so.

619
00:31:05,440 --> 00:31:09,160
Speaker 1: As a status hearing, my attorney presented video evidence of

620
00:31:09,200 --> 00:31:12,400
Speaker 1: me gassing up my car three hours away from where

621
00:31:12,400 --> 00:31:15,000
Speaker 1: the crimes took place, and I ended up having all

622
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:16,640
Speaker 1: my charges dismissed.

623
00:31:16,680 --> 00:31:19,040
Speaker 2: It was proven he literally did nothing.

624
00:31:19,200 --> 00:31:22,720
Speaker 4: I'm glad that he was found to be not guilty.

625
00:31:23,040 --> 00:31:27,280
Speaker 4: I'm angry that he spent fifty four days in prison.

626
00:31:27,240 --> 00:31:28,720
Speaker 2: Like, how is this possible?

627
00:31:28,880 --> 00:31:32,080
Speaker 1: His crime fifty four days was was filling up on gas.

628
00:31:32,200 --> 00:31:35,880
Speaker 2: He was the only person he murdered was the environment. Okay,

629
00:31:36,240 --> 00:31:40,600
Speaker 2: all those baby seals, dude, and the art take don't care.

630
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:45,200
Speaker 1: When I finally got out, I learned I had lost

631
00:31:45,320 --> 00:31:46,080
Speaker 1: my job.

632
00:31:46,440 --> 00:31:47,720
Speaker 2: It keeps kidding worse.

633
00:31:47,840 --> 00:31:51,479
Speaker 1: My god, and and I was in the process of

634
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:57,000
Speaker 1: being evicted and my son was taken away and is

635
00:31:57,080 --> 00:31:57,520
Speaker 1: now in.

636
00:31:57,520 --> 00:31:58,720
Speaker 2: The state's care.

637
00:31:58,960 --> 00:32:00,720
Speaker 4: They fuck his life.

638
00:32:00,760 --> 00:32:04,120
Speaker 1: I literally completely destroyed every single aspect of his life,

639
00:32:04,280 --> 00:32:07,960
Speaker 1: every single thing. His his job, his house, his child,

640
00:32:08,400 --> 00:32:09,400
Speaker 1: was his kid free.

641
00:32:09,560 --> 00:32:12,160
Speaker 2: We may never know, all, right, Sam.

642
00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:14,880
Speaker 1: Always asked the important questions that there are never answers

643
00:32:14,880 --> 00:32:17,160
Speaker 1: to doing these stories. We still don't know what he

644
00:32:17,200 --> 00:32:17,800
Speaker 1: was charged with.

645
00:32:18,000 --> 00:32:20,400
Speaker 4: I want to know what he's charged with. Dude, fifty

646
00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:21,840
Speaker 4: four days in prison.

647
00:32:23,720 --> 00:32:28,360
Speaker 2: And all of that stuff too, like well technically jail, jail, okay,

648
00:32:28,400 --> 00:32:30,440
Speaker 2: now in prison. Yeah.

649
00:32:30,480 --> 00:32:33,520
Speaker 1: Still his mother is a drug addict and I haven't

650
00:32:33,560 --> 00:32:36,560
Speaker 1: spoken to my own parents in nearly fifteen years. No,

651
00:32:37,240 --> 00:32:39,360
Speaker 1: they wouldn't let him go to my girlfriend because they

652
00:32:39,400 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: didn't consider her family. So I guess it's like of

653
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 1: all the people that were like eligible, like obviously his

654
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: girlfriend would have been the best person, but like they're like, no,

655
00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:48,960
Speaker 1: all of these people.

656
00:32:49,200 --> 00:32:52,200
Speaker 2: That's why he got a marrier man and then Op

657
00:32:52,440 --> 00:32:53,600
Speaker 2: proposed and.

658
00:32:53,480 --> 00:32:59,840
Speaker 1: The god Yeah, this is my love story. The plot twist, OKOPI.

659
00:33:00,520 --> 00:33:03,280
Speaker 1: Since my release, I've learned that I can't sue the

660
00:33:03,320 --> 00:33:06,239
Speaker 1: police and no one cares that I was locked up

661
00:33:06,240 --> 00:33:10,480
Speaker 1: for fifty four days because the detective did poor investigative work.

662
00:33:10,600 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 2: How is that fair?

663
00:33:12,200 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 4: That who police is? The police?

664
00:33:14,360 --> 00:33:16,120
Speaker 2: That's the actual question.

665
00:33:16,320 --> 00:33:18,280
Speaker 4: Are you You can't know, but you can sue a

666
00:33:18,280 --> 00:33:22,160
Speaker 4: police department for like wrongful? Isn't wrongful? Imprisonment like a thing.

667
00:33:22,360 --> 00:33:24,720
Speaker 4: He's learned that he can't sue the police. Remember that

668
00:33:24,760 --> 00:33:27,479
Speaker 4: there was that guy that like he was like the

669
00:33:27,880 --> 00:33:30,720
Speaker 4: I think he was a producer a Black Panther or something,

670
00:33:30,920 --> 00:33:33,840
Speaker 4: and he went to deposit like twenty grand in cash

671
00:33:33,840 --> 00:33:36,560
Speaker 4: at his bank account and then he got the director

672
00:33:36,600 --> 00:33:39,840
Speaker 4: of Yeah, yeah, oh, I guess that's the bank got sued,

673
00:33:39,920 --> 00:33:40,920
Speaker 4: not the police department.

674
00:33:41,040 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: Yeah, that was probably the bank, because I think the

675
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: bank called the police and was like, hey, this guy

676
00:33:46,000 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: is deposing a lot of money because he fucking directed

677
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:50,440
Speaker 1: the Marvel movie Black Panther.

678
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:52,920
Speaker 4: Come on. Ah.

679
00:33:52,960 --> 00:33:55,840
Speaker 2: And then I heard that he like was recreating it

680
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,400
Speaker 2: for television or something, or like he was like he

681
00:33:58,480 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 2: went to I heard he like basically it happened again

682
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:02,360
Speaker 2: like right after.

683
00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:07,000
Speaker 1: Oh my god, wow, I think I saw the I

684
00:34:07,080 --> 00:34:08,960
Speaker 1: watched the video of the original one.

685
00:34:08,800 --> 00:34:13,080
Speaker 2: And it was like so annoying. The migraines. Damn, dude,

686
00:34:13,120 --> 00:34:16,200
Speaker 2: that sucks. Yeah he is. He's basically like, I can't

687
00:34:16,239 --> 00:34:17,960
Speaker 2: sue a police department.

688
00:34:17,920 --> 00:34:22,520
Speaker 1: Maybe in his state ors according to Op's information. So

689
00:34:22,920 --> 00:34:25,279
Speaker 1: I've gone to the local press about this and was

690
00:34:25,320 --> 00:34:28,200
Speaker 1: told that what happened to me happens quite a bit.

691
00:34:28,560 --> 00:34:33,760
Speaker 4: My god, Oh someone's about to arrest us. Please don't

692
00:34:34,320 --> 00:34:35,320
Speaker 4: swat our place.

693
00:34:36,200 --> 00:34:38,799
Speaker 1: Don't do that. They took down my info but never

694
00:34:38,840 --> 00:34:42,400
Speaker 1: followed up. So what I did was I created a

695
00:34:42,400 --> 00:34:47,040
Speaker 1: website sharing my story, which is gene so smart.

696
00:34:46,600 --> 00:34:48,720
Speaker 4: And now we're trying to do our partment by sharing

697
00:34:48,800 --> 00:34:49,719
Speaker 4: this story with all of you.

698
00:34:50,000 --> 00:34:53,400
Speaker 1: I also uploaded the police support and some other documents

699
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:55,120
Speaker 1: from the discovery.

700
00:34:55,440 --> 00:34:55,760
Speaker 4: Nice.

701
00:34:56,080 --> 00:35:00,919
Speaker 1: Literally, the only reason I was arrested is because an

702
00:35:01,040 --> 00:35:03,480
Speaker 1: eyewitness said they saw me.

703
00:35:03,640 --> 00:35:06,920
Speaker 4: Did they say like, oh, that guy looks like Ope,

704
00:35:07,200 --> 00:35:09,520
Speaker 4: like like first name, last name, OPI, They said they

705
00:35:09,560 --> 00:35:09,880
Speaker 4: saw me.

706
00:35:10,000 --> 00:35:12,560
Speaker 2: So is it someone Opie knows? They said they saw me?

707
00:35:12,719 --> 00:35:14,840
Speaker 2: Is it someone Opie knows?

708
00:35:15,160 --> 00:35:19,279
Speaker 4: That would be like tattletale wrongfully, It's like, yo, I

709
00:35:19,320 --> 00:35:22,200
Speaker 4: saw John at the supermarket, Oh my god.

710
00:35:22,400 --> 00:35:23,000
Speaker 2: And maybe it was.

711
00:35:23,040 --> 00:35:25,040
Speaker 1: I don't know if they called called op by name

712
00:35:25,160 --> 00:35:28,279
Speaker 1: or what but okay, not full clarification, but if the

713
00:35:28,320 --> 00:35:31,120
Speaker 1: detective had done his job, he could have verified that

714
00:35:31,200 --> 00:35:34,319
Speaker 1: I wasn't even in town on the day that the

715
00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:35,440
Speaker 1: crime took place.

716
00:35:35,680 --> 00:35:36,160
Speaker 2: Wow.

717
00:35:36,400 --> 00:35:39,319
Speaker 1: Wow, this is what pisces me off the most. My

718
00:35:39,480 --> 00:35:43,239
Speaker 1: life was ruined because of a lazy employee, which is

719
00:35:43,280 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: a hilarious way to say, like lazy employee, Like this

720
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:50,040
Speaker 1: is a detective who's holding people's fates like op's in

721
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:50,720
Speaker 1: their hands.

722
00:35:50,920 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 4: I know. It's so crazy that people like that have

723
00:35:53,800 --> 00:35:55,520
Speaker 4: like power over your life.

724
00:35:55,400 --> 00:35:58,080
Speaker 1: Just like you up and you're just and you're helpless,

725
00:35:58,239 --> 00:35:59,279
Speaker 1: you're just filling up your gas.

726
00:35:59,480 --> 00:36:02,720
Speaker 4: Yeah. I mean not to praise Elon Musk or anything,

727
00:36:02,760 --> 00:36:06,080
Speaker 4: but I once heard an interview where he's like, a

728
00:36:06,200 --> 00:36:10,840
Speaker 4: country is a corporation with absolute control of violence.

729
00:36:11,080 --> 00:36:14,640
Speaker 2: That is the bar, right, Yeah that rings. Now.

730
00:36:14,760 --> 00:36:18,120
Speaker 1: I'm writing this because my website is now ranked number

731
00:36:18,160 --> 00:36:21,399
Speaker 1: two on the first page search results when you type

732
00:36:21,440 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 1: in my town's name. Let's go down good. How can

733
00:36:26,960 --> 00:36:29,479
Speaker 1: you not sue the police? I'm still I'm still stuck

734
00:36:29,520 --> 00:36:29,719
Speaker 1: on that.

735
00:36:30,080 --> 00:36:30,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.

736
00:36:30,800 --> 00:36:32,840
Speaker 1: Maybe it's a state law that's this should this should

737
00:36:32,840 --> 00:36:35,520
Speaker 1: go into legal advice. Honestly, Now, I live in a

738
00:36:35,560 --> 00:36:38,480
Speaker 1: touristy town and we attract a lot of visitors. Over

739
00:36:38,520 --> 00:36:42,600
Speaker 1: the summer, my web traffic has more than quadrupled, and

740
00:36:42,680 --> 00:36:46,000
Speaker 1: apparently it's gotten someone highes up attention.

741
00:36:46,520 --> 00:36:49,800
Speaker 4: Okay, So the reason that you can't sue the police

742
00:36:49,960 --> 00:36:53,080
Speaker 4: is the state asserts sovereign immunity. In other words, you

743
00:36:53,120 --> 00:36:55,960
Speaker 4: can't sue the king or the king's agents unless the

744
00:36:56,040 --> 00:36:58,239
Speaker 4: king agrees to let you. We don't have a king,

745
00:36:58,280 --> 00:37:01,960
Speaker 4: but our government retains saw immunity. There are many times

746
00:37:01,960 --> 00:37:04,839
Speaker 4: you can sue the state even when it doesn't want

747
00:37:04,880 --> 00:37:07,880
Speaker 4: to let you. Exceptions to sovereign immunity have been carved

748
00:37:07,920 --> 00:37:10,880
Speaker 4: out of many laws in our commonplace. But one place

749
00:37:10,920 --> 00:37:13,880
Speaker 4: it is not is in the exercise of police power.

750
00:37:14,160 --> 00:37:16,319
Speaker 4: It makes good sense for this to be so, or

751
00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 4: everyone who was arrested would sue and the police force

752
00:37:18,719 --> 00:37:21,960
Speaker 4: would be unable to operate. Typically, the redress for issues

753
00:37:22,000 --> 00:37:24,840
Speaker 4: of police misbehavior is through the ballot box, not the

754
00:37:24,920 --> 00:37:29,160
Speaker 4: court system. The police are accountable to elected authorities who can,

755
00:37:29,719 --> 00:37:33,040
Speaker 4: who can, will and do force them to alter the behavior.

756
00:37:33,080 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 4: In some cases wave immunity, so a lawsuit against truly

757
00:37:36,040 --> 00:37:40,320
Speaker 4: egregious behavior can go forward. So essentially are the only

758
00:37:40,440 --> 00:37:43,000
Speaker 4: thing that can happen. So if you want to sue

759
00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,360
Speaker 4: the police, the only way that it can go through

760
00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:47,800
Speaker 4: is if someone lets you sue the police.

761
00:37:48,000 --> 00:37:52,960
Speaker 2: Jeez, police, will you kindly let me sue you? Noay?

762
00:37:53,360 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 4: Wow, that sucks. Yeah, that's I guess like America's flawed.

763
00:37:58,920 --> 00:38:01,560
Speaker 2: Wow. Who would have thunked that.

764
00:38:02,560 --> 00:38:05,880
Speaker 1: I recently received a cease and desist letter, which I

765
00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:08,680
Speaker 1: showed to my attorney. He said that sharing my experience

766
00:38:08,760 --> 00:38:12,279
Speaker 1: online isn't illegal, and that everything I've stated was a

767
00:38:12,360 --> 00:38:15,840
Speaker 1: fact or my own opinion, protecting me from a defamation lawsuit.

768
00:38:15,920 --> 00:38:19,759
Speaker 4: Let's go good god, Oh he should use this to

769
00:38:19,760 --> 00:38:23,040
Speaker 4: get fucking bag Like, hey, like the city wants you

770
00:38:23,080 --> 00:38:24,640
Speaker 4: to take it down, pee me five million.

771
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:29,200
Speaker 1: Just keep keep freaking pumping it the beast. They might

772
00:38:29,360 --> 00:38:32,960
Speaker 1: arrest you again though true. Speaking of which, yesterday I

773
00:38:33,000 --> 00:38:36,879
Speaker 1: received a visit from two officers and the detective who

774
00:38:36,960 --> 00:38:37,520
Speaker 1: arrested me.

775
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:40,920
Speaker 4: No way that decides to show his face again.

776
00:38:41,080 --> 00:38:41,720
Speaker 2: He's back.

777
00:38:41,800 --> 00:38:48,520
Speaker 4: He's back, and he's like, I'm sorry.

778
00:38:49,400 --> 00:38:51,440
Speaker 1: We you know what, you know what he should have

779
00:38:51,480 --> 00:38:53,080
Speaker 1: to do. He should have to go to jail for

780
00:38:53,080 --> 00:38:57,319
Speaker 1: fifty four years. The thing is that's fired, and.

781
00:38:56,560 --> 00:38:59,239
Speaker 4: There we go. There go, yeah, yeah, there we go.

782
00:38:59,360 --> 00:39:04,759
Speaker 1: That's what we would be awesome, He apologized, stating mistakes happened.

783
00:39:05,239 --> 00:39:08,520
Speaker 2: You know, yeah, I'll be lost his job, his kid

784
00:39:08,600 --> 00:39:12,560
Speaker 2: in his house. Bro, Like, mistakes can happen. Sure it

785
00:39:12,600 --> 00:39:14,880
Speaker 2: is a mistakes. Okay, yeah, I agree mistakes.

786
00:39:14,880 --> 00:39:19,160
Speaker 1: Mistakes can rectify the mistake literally, yeah, like get it,

787
00:39:19,480 --> 00:39:20,359
Speaker 1: get him out of jail.

788
00:39:20,480 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 2: The biggest so the eyewitness.

789
00:39:22,800 --> 00:39:25,279
Speaker 1: You know, you can't you can't help an eyewitness from

790
00:39:25,480 --> 00:39:28,799
Speaker 1: falsely accusing you of something, but you can literally do

791
00:39:28,920 --> 00:39:29,879
Speaker 1: your job, Like.

792
00:39:29,880 --> 00:39:32,840
Speaker 4: How are eyewitness reports still taken seriously?

793
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 1: Like any old person sometimes it's all you have, but

794
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:37,120
Speaker 1: it's true, it's true.

795
00:39:37,200 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 2: Any person on the street could just be like I

796
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:40,000
Speaker 2: saw John do it.

797
00:39:40,239 --> 00:39:42,800
Speaker 4: Yeah boom, Like like what if you're out of crime

798
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:46,040
Speaker 4: and someone ran like literally it was Brad Pit. I

799
00:39:46,080 --> 00:39:49,080
Speaker 4: saw Brad Pit kill that guy. He has no alibi.

800
00:39:49,320 --> 00:39:49,920
Speaker 4: I saw him.

801
00:39:49,960 --> 00:39:52,560
Speaker 1: There should we should we do a whole series, uh,

802
00:39:52,840 --> 00:39:57,200
Speaker 1: like accusing celebrities. Excusing celebrities as an expose of the

803
00:39:57,880 --> 00:40:00,800
Speaker 1: horrendous laws around the judicial system.

804
00:40:00,880 --> 00:40:04,759
Speaker 4: We literally lock up every Academy Award nominee and then

805
00:40:04,920 --> 00:40:08,000
Speaker 4: we get the Academy Award in their stad Bam, Sam

806
00:40:08,000 --> 00:40:09,560
Speaker 4: and John take the Academy award.

807
00:40:09,400 --> 00:40:13,320
Speaker 2: That actually does sound fire. Yeah soon.

808
00:40:13,520 --> 00:40:16,640
Speaker 1: They then talked to me about my website and asked

809
00:40:16,640 --> 00:40:18,759
Speaker 1: if I could perhaps remove it.

810
00:40:19,200 --> 00:40:21,520
Speaker 4: But Chance, can you remove the website?

811
00:40:21,880 --> 00:40:26,880
Speaker 2: But Chance, could you stop saying the truth? So truth?

812
00:40:27,120 --> 00:40:30,560
Speaker 4: I know we completely fucked over your life, but you

813
00:40:31,239 --> 00:40:35,080
Speaker 4: kind of inconveniencing us, so it would be a doll

814
00:40:35,280 --> 00:40:36,880
Speaker 4: and just forget about it.

815
00:40:37,000 --> 00:40:40,040
Speaker 1: Sam, I know I took this chainsaw and I chopped

816
00:40:40,080 --> 00:40:42,000
Speaker 1: your legs off, but could you give me your car

817
00:40:42,040 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: for no reason?

818
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,080
Speaker 2: Yes?

819
00:40:43,520 --> 00:40:46,439
Speaker 4: Wow, I can't use it anyway. I can't even reach

820
00:40:46,480 --> 00:40:48,200
Speaker 4: the pedals with these freaking stumps.

821
00:40:48,400 --> 00:40:52,160
Speaker 1: I said I would delete it on the condition that

822
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:56,800
Speaker 1: the detective leave his job and never do police work again.

823
00:40:57,400 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 2: Nice Honestly, my drop, I.

824
00:40:59,680 --> 00:41:02,600
Speaker 1: Keep keep going jail for fifty four days. I want

825
00:41:02,680 --> 00:41:05,440
Speaker 1: him to literally do the exact same. I. I just

826
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,640
Speaker 1: want Op to get his life back. I want Op tohru.

827
00:41:08,880 --> 00:41:10,360
Speaker 1: That's the bad payout, Like.

828
00:41:10,480 --> 00:41:13,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, maybe you know there could be a

829
00:41:13,440 --> 00:41:15,560
Speaker 4: little bit of revenge, but I want I want to

830
00:41:15,600 --> 00:41:16,319
Speaker 4: payout for Op.

831
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:19,400
Speaker 2: That's the true best scenario. You're right, I don't know

832
00:41:19,400 --> 00:41:19,960
Speaker 2: if you heard that.

833
00:41:20,000 --> 00:41:22,880
Speaker 4: There was this guy that was like wrongfully imprisoned and

834
00:41:23,000 --> 00:41:26,399
Speaker 4: was on death row for like fifty years. My god,

835
00:41:26,400 --> 00:41:30,040
Speaker 4: and the got eventually released because he didn't do anything wrong,

836
00:41:30,320 --> 00:41:33,760
Speaker 4: and uh, they paid him like four million dollars or something.

837
00:41:33,840 --> 00:41:36,919
Speaker 4: But like four million dollars for fifty years of your life,

838
00:41:37,000 --> 00:41:38,440
Speaker 4: that's nothing, not even close.

839
00:41:38,640 --> 00:41:42,239
Speaker 2: Like you you basically probably making like a minimum wage

840
00:41:42,239 --> 00:41:43,000
Speaker 2: would happened.

841
00:41:42,719 --> 00:41:45,400
Speaker 1: A regular maybe not minimum wage, but like working like

842
00:41:45,400 --> 00:41:48,840
Speaker 1: a median income job, like over fifty years.

843
00:41:48,880 --> 00:41:51,440
Speaker 2: Well, well, let's see, let's see minimum wage. Let's say

844
00:41:51,520 --> 00:41:54,279
Speaker 2: you start at fifteen k. Well, what would minimum wage

845
00:41:54,320 --> 00:41:56,480
Speaker 2: be fifteen twenty k, thirty grand a year? Okay, let's

846
00:41:56,480 --> 00:41:57,880
Speaker 2: say you're making thirty grand a year.

847
00:41:57,760 --> 00:41:59,640
Speaker 4: Which would not be minimum wage like forty years ago,

848
00:41:59,680 --> 00:42:02,319
Speaker 4: but let's just let's yah, Yeah, this would pretend, all right,

849
00:42:02,480 --> 00:42:05,400
Speaker 4: thirty years So time is forty one point two million,

850
00:42:05,520 --> 00:42:07,640
Speaker 4: all right, But then you invest in the stock market

851
00:42:07,760 --> 00:42:12,080
Speaker 4: at one point you're getting seven percent return yep, so

852
00:42:12,160 --> 00:42:16,440
Speaker 4: one point seven so one point seven to the power

853
00:42:16,560 --> 00:42:20,200
Speaker 4: of fifty, which would be twenty nine. So time is

854
00:42:20,239 --> 00:42:24,040
Speaker 4: one point two thirty five million at least at least

855
00:42:24,160 --> 00:42:26,759
Speaker 4: at least. God, you love that math.

856
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:29,479
Speaker 2: Yeah, now, God, I want to get a minimum wage

857
00:42:29,560 --> 00:42:30,080
Speaker 2: job now.

858
00:42:30,560 --> 00:42:33,080
Speaker 4: But that's if you spend none of it, right, Yeah,

859
00:42:33,120 --> 00:42:34,560
Speaker 4: and invest all of all.

860
00:42:34,280 --> 00:42:36,880
Speaker 2: Literally, invest every penny you have for fifty years and

861
00:42:36,920 --> 00:42:39,600
Speaker 2: get seven percent return a year. That's a realistic plan

862
00:42:39,760 --> 00:42:40,120
Speaker 2: right there.

863
00:42:40,520 --> 00:42:43,680
Speaker 4: Yo, Bro, prison is just sounding better and better. You

864
00:42:43,800 --> 00:42:47,880
Speaker 4: got free equinox. You don't have to pay for food

865
00:42:47,960 --> 00:42:48,520
Speaker 4: or housing.

866
00:42:48,680 --> 00:42:51,799
Speaker 1: It's great, I'm telling you. Next YouTube video, Next YouTube video, John,

867
00:42:51,840 --> 00:42:54,439
Speaker 1: go to prison. You wear your same jacket and your

868
00:42:54,520 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 1: your iFIT right, and you're great to go.

869
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:56,719
Speaker 2: You're ready to go.

870
00:42:56,880 --> 00:42:58,880
Speaker 1: I said I would delete it on the condition that

871
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,280
Speaker 1: a detective leave is job and never do police work again.

872
00:43:02,520 --> 00:43:02,800
Speaker 2: Nice.

873
00:43:02,920 --> 00:43:06,719
Speaker 1: Suffice to say it ain't happening, Grail. I hope you

874
00:43:06,840 --> 00:43:09,480
Speaker 1: to get a bag God. After the visit I received,

875
00:43:09,600 --> 00:43:12,719
Speaker 1: I am more pissed off that the only reason the

876
00:43:12,760 --> 00:43:15,480
Speaker 1: detective apologized to me was to get me to take

877
00:43:15,560 --> 00:43:18,440
Speaker 1: down my website. I don't plan to, and the only

878
00:43:18,520 --> 00:43:21,719
Speaker 1: one supporting this is my girlfriend. Gotta collect myself before

879
00:43:21,719 --> 00:43:24,719
Speaker 1: this next sentence. My friends think I'm being spiteful and

880
00:43:24,840 --> 00:43:27,719
Speaker 1: have suggested that I just deleted am I the a

881
00:43:27,800 --> 00:43:29,120
Speaker 1: hole for keeping the website up.

882
00:43:29,320 --> 00:43:32,600
Speaker 2: No, bro, his whole life was ruis frightful.

883
00:43:33,000 --> 00:43:35,359
Speaker 1: Go in jail for fifty four days, have your child

884
00:43:35,440 --> 00:43:38,040
Speaker 1: taken away, get evicted, and lose your job, then you

885
00:43:38,040 --> 00:43:38,640
Speaker 1: can talk to me.

886
00:43:38,719 --> 00:43:40,440
Speaker 4: Yeah, then you can say you can talk to me.

887
00:43:40,760 --> 00:43:42,880
Speaker 4: I'm not going to be spiteful too. Like of course,

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Speaker 4: that man got his entire life ruined. He has every

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Speaker 4: right to ask for some justice, every single right, like

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Speaker 4: a tad bit of justice, because the justice system there

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Speaker 4: seems to be no justice for him.

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Speaker 1: But sam Oh bud Yohn, there's an update. Really, yes,

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Speaker 1: there is Juicy's story, just a couple of things I

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Speaker 1: want to address in my update. Some people are saying

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Speaker 1: I left out details. My original post was much longer,

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Speaker 1: but there's a three thousand character limit imposed here. I

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Speaker 1: had to delete a lot of things in my initial draft,

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Speaker 1: so I apologize if it looks like details have been

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Speaker 1: left out. I did try to make sure everything relevant

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Speaker 1: was kept. Lastly, my son is now back with me.

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Speaker 1: There was a lot of paperwork and even a court hearing,

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Speaker 1: but we're together now and that's what counts.

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Speaker 2: Sorry.

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Speaker 1: If I didn't respond to your common or private message,

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Speaker 1: still going through everything unread. Truly thankful from the bottom

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Speaker 1: of my heart for your support, words of encouragement and

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Speaker 1: advice that you have sent. I can't even begin to

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Speaker 1: put in towards how grateful I am. Again, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for all the kind strangers who went out

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Speaker 1: of their way to help.

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Speaker 2: At least he got his kid back. At least he

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Speaker 2: got his kid back, and.

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Speaker 4: So much more was taken from him, so so much much.

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Speaker 1: You can't even imagine being in this scenario, but man,

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Speaker 1: what a crazy story.

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Speaker 2: It's like freaking rough. You can't you can't even imagine it.

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Speaker 2: But you know what else you can't imagine? What could

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Speaker 2: I possibly not imagine?

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Speaker 4: You can't imagine the amazing stories that people submit on

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Speaker 4: our slash Okop show.

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Speaker 1: Absolutely so, if you have a story, sent them in,

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Speaker 1: we'll read them on the show.