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Speaker 1: Good break it down. If you ever have feelings that

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Speaker 1: you just won'ts Amy and Cat gotcha covincking No, brother,

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Speaker 1: Ladies and felts. Do you just follow Anna spirit where

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Speaker 1: it's all the real stuff.

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Speaker 2: To the chill stuff and the.

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Speaker 1: M but Swayne, sometimes the best thing you can do it.

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Speaker 3: Jes stop you feel things.

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Speaker 1: This is feeling things with Amy and Cat.

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Speaker 2: Happy Tuesday. Welcome to feeling things. I'm Amy and I'm

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Speaker 2: Cat and I have feelings of the day. Okay, so multiple,

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Speaker 2: multiple feelings. You want them all, We'll just ruttle them off.

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Speaker 2: I feel fun, cool, vulnerable.

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Speaker 1: And glad. Okay, did something I can.

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Speaker 2: I can run through all the reasons why I feel

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Speaker 2: fun and cool because I went to hip hop dance

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Speaker 2: class last night with my daughter.

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Speaker 1: Like a workout class. Oh wait, one of those classes

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Speaker 1: where they teach you a dance and then you do

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Speaker 1: it for everybody.

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Speaker 3: Right, it's not.

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Speaker 2: It wasn't work out, although you do feel like it's

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Speaker 2: a workout, But it was straight at a hip hop

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Speaker 2: dance studio, and these girls teaching it they were so cool.

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Speaker 2: I want to be them. The class ranged from like age.

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Speaker 2: Ranges of people in class were six year olds to

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Speaker 1: Wait six, you said six.

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Speaker 3: Anybody could come.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's an open call beginner level class, but some

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Speaker 1: What did you wear?

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Speaker 2: I mean, it didn't really show my stomach, but kind

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Speaker 2: And I had a hat on because I had just

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Speaker 2: been following this journey years ago. I had my eyebrows

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Speaker 2: And I knew in that moment if you ever needed

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Speaker 2: whatever level it was on yesterday, it was so painful.

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Speaker 2: I knew that's how you get me if you need information.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well now we know. But you went from that

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Speaker 3: Well, this is why I feel fun and cool.

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Speaker 2: I didn't think I was going to go. I'd already

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Speaker 3: Lift and snatch is one of your best friends?

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Speaker 2: Do you want me? The dance?

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Speaker 1: Is that to night?

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Speaker 1: I wish I could dance. My god, you missed your calling.

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Speaker 2: Well. I think if maybe my mom had put me

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Speaker 1: Yeah, this is sure, you could still get good.

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Speaker 2: I could barely even perform in front of the cameras.

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Speaker 2: to study. Well, I think you have to pay extra

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Speaker 1: So, here's a question. If you could have like one

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Speaker 2: I feel like we've done this on The Bobby Bone

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Speaker 2: But being that I'm fresh off of a hip hop

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Speaker 2: Well, go to one hip hop class with me next

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Speaker 2: But that's what I think, Like, if you brush up

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Speaker 3: I don't practice.

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Speaker 2: And then I'm feeling glad because I hope I think

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Speaker 2: I guess I'm gonna wear glasses.

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Speaker 1: The hat that cover I think people do that. They

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Speaker 1: Would be weird. I just show up in like a gown.

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Speaker 2: I wear sunglasses the entire time, but my boyfriend knows them,

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Speaker 2: The only thing about this particular event, which happens to

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Speaker 2: he knows, and he's going to be introducing me. You

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Speaker 2: I just think I feel a little naked, vulnerable and

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Speaker 2: And what is it going to look like? We're in

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Speaker 3: Like it? It's not great?

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Speaker 1: So what's your solution.

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Speaker 3: I'll cross that.

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Speaker 2: Bridge when I get there tomorrow. But I think my

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Speaker 2: But like you, I know you feel this exact same

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Speaker 2: But I'm feeling vulnerable, and you know, you're meeting your

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Speaker 1: Send us fis. I want the video of you dancing,

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Speaker 2: Why are you wearing that ridiculous hat? And I'm like,

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Speaker 1: I'm not the expert on funerals. I feel like I

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel like if.

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Speaker 1: This is gonna be very interesting. You have some good options.

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Speaker 2: I know that I talked a little bit about Stashia

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Speaker 2: But I do have a Stevenson update for you that

445
00:19:38,720 --> 00:19:48,560
Speaker 2: I don't know if I've given it to you yet.

446
00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:55,440
Speaker 2: So for anybody listening, Stevens my son, so shares my daughter.

447
00:19:55,920 --> 00:19:59,040
Speaker 2: So she's into hip hop right now. I can tell

448
00:19:59,119 --> 00:20:01,159
Speaker 2: she got the bug. She already she said, if you

449
00:20:01,200 --> 00:20:02,320
Speaker 2: take privates, can I join?

450
00:20:02,560 --> 00:20:06,160
Speaker 1: Wait, you really talked about taking privates? Yes?

451
00:20:06,880 --> 00:20:08,240
Speaker 3: Yeah, why not?

452
00:20:09,520 --> 00:20:11,399
Speaker 1: I just love this for you know, I want you

453
00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:11,840
Speaker 1: to do it.

454
00:20:12,000 --> 00:20:15,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, okay, could be a thing. So Stevenson has a girlfriend.

455
00:20:16,680 --> 00:20:17,600
Speaker 2: It's kind of a big deal.

456
00:20:17,760 --> 00:20:18,400
Speaker 1: Heat what great?

457
00:20:18,760 --> 00:20:21,119
Speaker 3: How old is he He's going to be in eighth grade?

458
00:20:21,400 --> 00:20:22,240
Speaker 1: Okay, mm hmm.

459
00:20:23,000 --> 00:20:25,040
Speaker 2: And I have to tell you the cutah story. So

460
00:20:25,280 --> 00:20:28,320
Speaker 2: they went to the movies, so her mom dropped them off,

461
00:20:28,440 --> 00:20:31,040
Speaker 2: and I'm friends with her parents, so it's kind of fun.

462
00:20:31,160 --> 00:20:33,679
Speaker 2: We even had a group text with the mom and

463
00:20:33,720 --> 00:20:36,280
Speaker 2: the dad there, and then me and Ben like, the

464
00:20:36,359 --> 00:20:38,840
Speaker 2: mom said, hey, who knows if this is going to

465
00:20:38,960 --> 00:20:43,040
Speaker 2: last two weeks, two months, or two days, but this

466
00:20:43,200 --> 00:20:43,440
Speaker 2: is so.

467
00:20:43,520 --> 00:20:44,520
Speaker 3: Cool, how fun.

468
00:20:44,720 --> 00:20:47,840
Speaker 2: But also they have a son that our son is

469
00:20:47,880 --> 00:20:50,479
Speaker 2: friends with, and he would do sleepovers over there. And

470
00:20:50,520 --> 00:20:53,879
Speaker 2: she's like, well, now that he's dating his sister or

471
00:20:53,920 --> 00:20:56,880
Speaker 2: their boyfriend and girlfriend, no more sleepovers. Hope y'all are

472
00:20:57,040 --> 00:20:59,399
Speaker 2: on board with that, And I'm like, oh, yeah, well

473
00:20:59,400 --> 00:21:01,399
Speaker 2: I was going to say the same exact thing. So

474
00:21:01,960 --> 00:21:05,320
Speaker 2: glad we're on the same page. So we are friends

475
00:21:05,400 --> 00:21:08,160
Speaker 2: and that makes it fun. She picked them up, dropped

476
00:21:08,200 --> 00:21:09,840
Speaker 2: them off with movies, and I had to pick them up,

477
00:21:09,880 --> 00:21:12,040
Speaker 2: so I pick them up. And then after we dropped

478
00:21:12,040 --> 00:21:14,560
Speaker 2: her off at home, I was like, so, did you'll

479
00:21:14,560 --> 00:21:16,320
Speaker 2: sit by each other? And there was other people there too,

480
00:21:16,359 --> 00:21:18,359
Speaker 2: and he said, yeah, we sat by each other, but

481
00:21:18,440 --> 00:21:21,120
Speaker 2: we had our other friends around. And I said, well,

482
00:21:21,119 --> 00:21:24,480
Speaker 2: did you hold her hand? And he said, oh, not yet,

483
00:21:25,400 --> 00:21:28,159
Speaker 2: and I said, oh, okay, Well I was just curious.

484
00:21:28,240 --> 00:21:31,080
Speaker 2: He goes, I'm taking things slow, but I am going

485
00:21:31,160 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 2: to be smooth like melted butter.

486
00:21:35,240 --> 00:21:37,879
Speaker 3: And I was like, where did you even get this?

487
00:21:38,040 --> 00:21:39,679
Speaker 3: Saying like where did you hear that?

488
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,439
Speaker 2: And he's like, I made it up, but that's my vibe,

489
00:21:43,040 --> 00:21:44,200
Speaker 2: like melted butter.

490
00:21:45,160 --> 00:21:49,560
Speaker 1: Okay, So I have questions about this. If his friend

491
00:21:49,760 --> 00:21:51,120
Speaker 1: wants to sleep over here.

492
00:21:51,119 --> 00:21:52,919
Speaker 2: Yeah, his friend can sleep over here, it's just that

493
00:21:53,560 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 2: he can't sleep over there because she's there.

494
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:56,240
Speaker 3: That's his sister.

495
00:21:56,480 --> 00:21:57,640
Speaker 1: Is she older? Younger?

496
00:21:57,800 --> 00:21:58,920
Speaker 3: Saying no, they're the same age?

497
00:21:59,000 --> 00:22:02,879
Speaker 1: Okay, this kind of messy, like your friend is now

498
00:22:03,000 --> 00:22:03,840
Speaker 1: dating your sister.

499
00:22:04,720 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 2: I think they're at the age where the brother thinks

500
00:22:07,080 --> 00:22:07,640
Speaker 2: it's kind of cool.

501
00:22:07,640 --> 00:22:08,399
Speaker 3: He's like, i'll let you.

502
00:22:08,560 --> 00:22:10,960
Speaker 2: The brother was actually in the car when I picked

503
00:22:10,960 --> 00:22:12,600
Speaker 2: them up, too, and the brother got in the front

504
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:15,320
Speaker 2: seat with me, and then Steven said, and his girlfriend

505
00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 2: sat in the back, and Stephen said, oh, Eli, you're

506
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:21,080
Speaker 2: sitting up front, and he's like, I'll let you two

507
00:22:21,160 --> 00:22:23,640
Speaker 2: love birds sit in the back, like okay, you know.

508
00:22:23,760 --> 00:22:27,239
Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah sort of. That's so fun. Okay, so how

509
00:22:27,240 --> 00:22:27,879
Speaker 1: do you feel?

510
00:22:28,640 --> 00:22:29,600
Speaker 3: I feel good.

511
00:22:29,680 --> 00:22:32,440
Speaker 2: I'm glad he's having this experience. Kind of cute fun

512
00:22:32,480 --> 00:22:36,040
Speaker 2: watching them FaceTime, and I just hope, yeah, if it

513
00:22:36,080 --> 00:22:39,960
Speaker 2: doesn't work out that it doesn't impact any friendships.

514
00:22:39,400 --> 00:22:40,239
Speaker 3: Or anything that they have.

515
00:22:40,400 --> 00:22:42,760
Speaker 2: I'm like, we're too young for this, but it is

516
00:22:42,880 --> 00:22:46,399
Speaker 2: kind of sweet to see him like somebody, yeah, and

517
00:22:47,119 --> 00:22:48,240
Speaker 2: they're talking to each other.

518
00:22:48,920 --> 00:22:50,800
Speaker 1: I had a boyfriend in seventh grade for two weeks

519
00:22:50,840 --> 00:22:52,600
Speaker 1: and we didn't speak to each other for the two weeks.

520
00:22:53,040 --> 00:22:54,760
Speaker 1: I think he would like message me on aim, but

521
00:22:54,800 --> 00:22:56,240
Speaker 1: that's it. If we saw him each other at school,

522
00:22:56,240 --> 00:22:57,920
Speaker 1: we would walk the other way. Yeah.

523
00:22:57,920 --> 00:23:00,360
Speaker 2: When I had boyfriends in elementary school, we would talk

524
00:23:00,400 --> 00:23:02,479
Speaker 2: on the phone all the time, and then yeah, when

525
00:23:02,480 --> 00:23:05,480
Speaker 2: I would see him at school, we didn't speak at all.

526
00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:07,879
Speaker 2: But by junior high, if I had a boyfriend, we

527
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:08,880
Speaker 2: would talk about.

528
00:23:09,320 --> 00:23:12,520
Speaker 1: Oh well, I guess what's junior high to you? Middle school? Sixth, seventh, eighth,

529
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: Oh okay, you were more mature than me.

530
00:23:15,000 --> 00:23:15,520
Speaker 3: I can see that.

531
00:23:17,359 --> 00:23:19,119
Speaker 1: Just kidding. You know.

532
00:23:19,200 --> 00:23:21,560
Speaker 2: Something came up on the Bobby Bone Show about dating

533
00:23:21,800 --> 00:23:25,000
Speaker 2: and if you would take a million dollars to break

534
00:23:25,080 --> 00:23:28,119
Speaker 2: up with your partner, and we were all like, no,

535
00:23:28,560 --> 00:23:29,639
Speaker 2: what about five million?

536
00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:31,960
Speaker 3: And some people on the show.

537
00:23:31,800 --> 00:23:34,840
Speaker 2: Were like, oh, yeah, I'm out, like current, Yes, current,

538
00:23:34,880 --> 00:23:37,080
Speaker 2: I'm out, And I was saying no, and they're like

539
00:23:37,080 --> 00:23:39,040
Speaker 2: what you're in a new relationship. I said, well, we've

540
00:23:39,040 --> 00:23:41,920
Speaker 2: been dating eight months. And also I feel like I

541
00:23:41,920 --> 00:23:43,760
Speaker 2: wouldn't keep dating him if I didn't think we were

542
00:23:43,800 --> 00:23:48,360
Speaker 2: actually going somewhere, and the thought of going back into dating.

543
00:23:48,840 --> 00:23:52,320
Speaker 2: The only time I dated before this season obviously was

544
00:23:52,359 --> 00:23:55,879
Speaker 2: married for about seventeen years, but then dating back in

545
00:23:55,920 --> 00:23:59,119
Speaker 2: the day or gosh, we were just talking about elementary school,

546
00:23:59,200 --> 00:24:01,320
Speaker 2: junior highigh scho like those are the years where it's

547
00:24:01,320 --> 00:24:03,920
Speaker 2: real fun. In your forties and fifties, I'd have found

548
00:24:03,920 --> 00:24:09,639
Speaker 2: it to be like super fun, it's actually exhausting. And yeah,

549
00:24:09,680 --> 00:24:13,280
Speaker 2: it was just a lot and the type of men

550
00:24:13,520 --> 00:24:16,840
Speaker 2: that are available, at least, maybe I just hadn't met

551
00:24:16,960 --> 00:24:18,280
Speaker 2: the right ones my experience.

552
00:24:18,320 --> 00:24:20,120
Speaker 3: Now, I had some that are nice.

553
00:24:20,320 --> 00:24:22,800
Speaker 2: Yes I'm not saying a blanket statement that they're all bad,

554
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:26,639
Speaker 2: but it just wasn't super fun or it seemed like

555
00:24:26,720 --> 00:24:31,320
Speaker 2: there was a lot of available men that were fitting what.

556
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:32,240
Speaker 3: I was looking for.

557
00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:34,960
Speaker 2: So the fact that I found someone that I really

558
00:24:35,040 --> 00:24:37,480
Speaker 2: enjoy being with and vice versa, he enjoys being with me,

559
00:24:38,400 --> 00:24:40,600
Speaker 2: I don't want to throw that away. Yes, is that

560
00:24:40,680 --> 00:24:44,760
Speaker 2: a ton of money, Sure, but I'd rather have my

561
00:24:45,160 --> 00:24:48,280
Speaker 2: lifestyle the same and not have that money and not

562
00:24:48,400 --> 00:24:52,879
Speaker 2: be lonely. Anyway, the thought of dating just felt exhausting

563
00:24:52,920 --> 00:24:55,160
Speaker 2: to me. So I just didn't know if you would

564
00:24:55,200 --> 00:24:57,560
Speaker 2: take a million dollars and break up with a big.

565
00:24:57,440 --> 00:25:03,960
Speaker 1: P Even if I would, I would lie. I think, Okay,

566
00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:07,040
Speaker 1: I wouldn't. But like, I'm so the reason I'm saying this,

567
00:25:07,160 --> 00:25:10,399
Speaker 1: I'm shocked that anybody would admit that who has a

568
00:25:10,400 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 1: current partner that is just asking to be in a fight.

569
00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,680
Speaker 2: So like if you're like, oh my gosh, I'm glad

570
00:25:15,720 --> 00:25:17,320
Speaker 2: you're saying this. So I brought back to the guys.

571
00:25:17,320 --> 00:25:19,879
Speaker 2: I went and ask my boyfriend this, and I said

572
00:25:19,960 --> 00:25:21,520
Speaker 2: that he said the same thing as me, that he

573
00:25:21,560 --> 00:25:23,919
Speaker 2: wouldn't take it, And they all said that exact same thing.

574
00:25:23,920 --> 00:25:25,959
Speaker 3: If they're well, he's not going to tell you the truth,

575
00:25:26,440 --> 00:25:30,280
Speaker 3: like yeah, imagine, yes, then you're gonna want to break.

576
00:25:30,240 --> 00:25:32,320
Speaker 1: Up with it. When you're asking him that, you're just

577
00:25:32,359 --> 00:25:35,240
Speaker 1: like asking that for affirmation. I think really, like, see,

578
00:25:35,280 --> 00:25:37,600
Speaker 1: he wouldn't do it, but if you would do it,

579
00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:39,840
Speaker 1: it's it's a fake scenario, so like it's not like

580
00:25:40,080 --> 00:25:41,960
Speaker 1: if it's really happening, maybe they would do it, because

581
00:25:42,000 --> 00:25:44,320
Speaker 1: then they get the five million dollars. But if it's

582
00:25:44,359 --> 00:25:46,760
Speaker 1: a fake scenario, that's just asking for a fight. So

583
00:25:47,680 --> 00:25:52,520
Speaker 1: I don't trust anybody's answers. But I'm extra curious why

584
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:56,040
Speaker 1: somebody would admit that unless they're just trying to ruffle

585
00:25:56,080 --> 00:26:00,080
Speaker 1: some feathers, right, like, if you're in a happy marriage, Actually, no.

586
00:26:00,960 --> 00:26:03,000
Speaker 2: You're not in a happy marriage if you're saying yes

587
00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:04,639
Speaker 2: to that, because I would say, towards the end of

588
00:26:04,680 --> 00:26:06,640
Speaker 2: my marriage, if you were to be like, here's five million,

589
00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:09,200
Speaker 2: I'd be like, okay, but.

590
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:10,920
Speaker 3: That's horrible to say.

591
00:26:10,960 --> 00:26:12,919
Speaker 2: But when I ended up divorcing anyway, and I know

592
00:26:13,000 --> 00:26:15,480
Speaker 2: that I know that on the because I'm on the

593
00:26:15,480 --> 00:26:16,159
Speaker 2: other side of it.

594
00:26:16,320 --> 00:26:18,080
Speaker 3: Yeah, so I'm able to say.

595
00:26:17,880 --> 00:26:22,240
Speaker 2: That now and yes, yeah, but anyway, just the thought

596
00:26:22,240 --> 00:26:25,960
Speaker 2: of me dating now felt exhausting, So I didn't know

597
00:26:26,160 --> 00:26:29,679
Speaker 2: with you, like, if you were to somehow end up

598
00:26:29,680 --> 00:26:32,680
Speaker 2: in the dating pool, let's put this money hypothetical aside,

599
00:26:33,400 --> 00:26:35,960
Speaker 2: could you imagine dating again right now?

600
00:26:36,440 --> 00:26:39,399
Speaker 1: So that's a mixed question for me because it doesn't

601
00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:41,879
Speaker 1: feel that long ago to me. I've been with Patrick

602
00:26:41,920 --> 00:26:45,800
Speaker 1: for three and a half years, but I did a

603
00:26:45,840 --> 00:26:49,520
Speaker 1: lot of dating all through my twenties and early thirties,

604
00:26:49,560 --> 00:26:52,560
Speaker 1: so I was very used to that where you weren't

605
00:26:52,640 --> 00:26:54,760
Speaker 1: used to it. Now. Do I want to jump back

606
00:26:54,760 --> 00:26:57,439
Speaker 1: into that? No, And I'm glad that you said this.

607
00:26:57,600 --> 00:27:01,959
Speaker 1: The pool is different, like post thirty because of the

608
00:27:01,960 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: way that our society does get in the times that

609
00:27:05,280 --> 00:27:09,479
Speaker 1: people get married, people are usually either in relationships or

610
00:27:10,160 --> 00:27:12,840
Speaker 1: there can be some other stuff going on. And I'm

611
00:27:12,840 --> 00:27:15,000
Speaker 1: trying to say this not to like make myself look bad,

612
00:27:15,520 --> 00:27:19,640
Speaker 1: Like the availability of healthy people gets lower and lower

613
00:27:19,680 --> 00:27:22,080
Speaker 1: as we get older. So no, I don't want to

614
00:27:22,160 --> 00:27:24,520
Speaker 1: be in that again. But also a lot of my

615
00:27:24,600 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 1: friends are in it, so I wouldn't be alone.

616
00:27:28,320 --> 00:27:29,640
Speaker 3: That's true. That's true.

617
00:27:29,680 --> 00:27:31,520
Speaker 2: I don't want to make it also seem so miserable

618
00:27:31,560 --> 00:27:34,919
Speaker 2: for those that might be in it or entering it, Like, yeah,

619
00:27:34,960 --> 00:27:37,640
Speaker 2: there can be a lot of fun that comes.

620
00:27:37,359 --> 00:27:38,400
Speaker 3: From it and growth.

621
00:27:39,119 --> 00:27:40,880
Speaker 1: I have some good times, yeah.

622
00:27:40,680 --> 00:27:43,240
Speaker 3: Like you have good times, you have bad times.

623
00:27:43,520 --> 00:27:47,679
Speaker 1: I am really grateful for my experience because I learned

624
00:27:47,680 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: a lot through my dating experience. Do I want to

625
00:27:50,600 --> 00:27:52,760
Speaker 1: go on these bad dates again or like have the

626
00:27:52,800 --> 00:27:57,760
Speaker 1: experiences where like my feelings were really hurt. No, but

627
00:27:58,000 --> 00:28:00,400
Speaker 1: some of the stories are really funny. I'm like, well

628
00:28:00,440 --> 00:28:02,800
Speaker 1: that that was exciting.

629
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:05,119
Speaker 3: You know, yeah, and you have those stories you can

630
00:28:05,160 --> 00:28:05,680
Speaker 3: bust out.

631
00:28:06,240 --> 00:28:08,119
Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm time to time my date jar that we

632
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,320
Speaker 1: put them all in. So what actually that should be

633
00:28:10,359 --> 00:28:12,040
Speaker 1: a show we do one day is I bring the

634
00:28:12,119 --> 00:28:13,120
Speaker 1: date jar and we read them.

635
00:28:14,359 --> 00:28:16,360
Speaker 2: You must bring the date jar and we just pull

636
00:28:16,400 --> 00:28:21,800
Speaker 2: it out and read them. Read all right, date jar episode?

637
00:28:21,880 --> 00:28:26,920
Speaker 1: Okay. Also speaking of exhausted, I was on Instagram when

638
00:28:26,920 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 1: I saw this post from doctor Amy Shaw and she

639
00:28:30,720 --> 00:28:34,200
Speaker 1: had like a definition of a word which was this

640
00:28:34,280 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: would be hard for me to say. I read it

641
00:28:35,840 --> 00:28:37,879
Speaker 1: and it worked, but saying out loud, IM need some

642
00:28:37,920 --> 00:28:43,760
Speaker 1: help exhaustor wellmulated, Oh that wasn't so bad. Exhaust realmulated.

643
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:46,080
Speaker 2: I'm going to try to put in put together all

644
00:28:46,080 --> 00:28:47,600
Speaker 2: the words I think those are. So is it a

645
00:28:47,640 --> 00:28:53,200
Speaker 2: combination of exhausted, overwhelmed, and overstimulated?

646
00:28:53,440 --> 00:28:58,400
Speaker 1: Yes, huh, all at once. And I clocked it because

647
00:28:58,440 --> 00:29:01,160
Speaker 1: I've been feeling not in the data world in my relationship,

648
00:29:01,200 --> 00:29:04,160
Speaker 1: but I've been feeling, you know this, like crazy. I

649
00:29:04,160 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: think every day I probably texted you being like I

650
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:09,000
Speaker 1: feel crazy today because I have a lot going on,

651
00:29:09,720 --> 00:29:14,320
Speaker 1: and it felt chaotic, and I think I was telling

652
00:29:14,320 --> 00:29:17,440
Speaker 1: myself a story that it was bad. I'm so busy,

653
00:29:17,480 --> 00:29:19,760
Speaker 1: I have so much to do that this is bad.

654
00:29:19,840 --> 00:29:21,720
Speaker 1: It was like I think the behind the scenes, like

655
00:29:21,760 --> 00:29:23,480
Speaker 1: there was this message of like this is not good.

656
00:29:24,200 --> 00:29:26,479
Speaker 1: And then I was talking to my therapist about it.

657
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:29,480
Speaker 1: Because one thing that I do know about myself is

658
00:29:29,680 --> 00:29:33,280
Speaker 1: I am impulsive. So I do a lot of like

659
00:29:33,440 --> 00:29:37,400
Speaker 1: how you would start individual private dance lessons from taking

660
00:29:37,480 --> 00:29:39,720
Speaker 1: one dance class, Like that's something I would do. I

661
00:29:39,760 --> 00:29:41,840
Speaker 1: get an idea in my head and I just do it.

662
00:29:42,760 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: And two things came out of that conversation. One she

663
00:29:45,760 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: was like, well, was that gotten you in trouble? Like

664
00:29:49,080 --> 00:29:52,000
Speaker 1: how you function that way? And I said no, Actually

665
00:29:52,680 --> 00:29:55,479
Speaker 1: that has been what has gotten me most of the

666
00:29:55,520 --> 00:29:58,360
Speaker 1: things that I really love in my life. Like I

667
00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: don't think too much about things. I want to start

668
00:30:00,600 --> 00:30:02,600
Speaker 1: a podcast, I just start a podcast. Yeah, I want

669
00:30:02,640 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: to open a practice. I just opened a practice. I

670
00:30:05,960 --> 00:30:10,600
Speaker 1: wanted to be a cycling instructor. I had no experience

671
00:30:10,640 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 1: of teaching fitness or riding bikes indoors. I did that.

672
00:30:15,800 --> 00:30:18,480
Speaker 1: I wanted to go. I go want get asked on

673
00:30:18,560 --> 00:30:20,240
Speaker 1: a date, I go on the date, Like, I don't

674
00:30:20,760 --> 00:30:23,520
Speaker 1: think too much about that kind of stuff, big things,

675
00:30:24,120 --> 00:30:26,320
Speaker 1: and I think if I thought too much about them,

676
00:30:26,320 --> 00:30:29,280
Speaker 1: I want to do them. You know, I would analyze them,

677
00:30:29,560 --> 00:30:31,200
Speaker 1: Like with the cycling, I'd be like, oh would I

678
00:30:31,280 --> 00:30:33,440
Speaker 1: be good at that? Would that be embarrassing? How would

679
00:30:33,440 --> 00:30:35,160
Speaker 1: I feel? What would my friends think? Like, I didn't

680
00:30:35,200 --> 00:30:37,520
Speaker 1: think if any of that is did it? So she

681
00:30:37,600 --> 00:30:40,160
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, well maybe this is one of this

682
00:30:40,200 --> 00:30:42,400
Speaker 1: could be one of those things with the stuff that

683
00:30:42,880 --> 00:30:47,520
Speaker 1: I was taking on. And then we kept talking and

684
00:30:47,560 --> 00:30:53,000
Speaker 1: I realized the anxiety that I felt is more I'm excited,

685
00:30:53,880 --> 00:30:57,760
Speaker 1: like I'm taking on this stuff. We're trying to move.

686
00:30:58,000 --> 00:30:59,520
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm trying to keep that a secret.

687
00:30:59,720 --> 00:31:01,960
Speaker 2: It's well, I think you have other things going on too, though,

688
00:31:02,040 --> 00:31:05,600
Speaker 2: oh yeah yeah yeah, Like to me, the moving is

689
00:31:05,640 --> 00:31:07,160
Speaker 2: like a small part of it.

690
00:31:07,280 --> 00:31:09,400
Speaker 3: Yeah, I get that that moving is a huge deal.

691
00:31:09,400 --> 00:31:12,120
Speaker 2: I mean, they say top five things that can add

692
00:31:12,120 --> 00:31:14,320
Speaker 2: stress to your life, moving is one of them.

693
00:31:14,600 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 3: Yeah, so there is a lot going.

694
00:31:16,520 --> 00:31:18,760
Speaker 2: On, but I think you have other factors that are

695
00:31:19,320 --> 00:31:22,880
Speaker 2: feeding into that, which you know you may talk about

696
00:31:22,920 --> 00:31:25,920
Speaker 2: one day you maybe won't. But it's funny about yourself

697
00:31:26,120 --> 00:31:29,120
Speaker 2: can race that because don't you think yes?

698
00:31:29,240 --> 00:31:32,200
Speaker 1: But also with that too, there's no question in my

699
00:31:32,400 --> 00:31:35,280
Speaker 1: mind about that part of what you're talking about.

700
00:31:35,360 --> 00:31:37,680
Speaker 3: I guess it can just like magify.

701
00:31:38,120 --> 00:31:38,320
Speaker 2: Yeah.

702
00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:40,280
Speaker 1: With the movie and I'm like, is this the right time?

703
00:31:40,400 --> 00:31:40,560
Speaker 1: Is this?

704
00:31:40,640 --> 00:31:40,720
Speaker 2: So?

705
00:31:40,840 --> 00:31:42,800
Speaker 1: Like? Am I just doing this because I'm impulsive? Am

706
00:31:42,840 --> 00:31:45,000
Speaker 1: I? I was like questioning it, and I'm like, wait a second,

707
00:31:45,560 --> 00:31:49,920
Speaker 1: I have to remember that when I don't question myself, Yes,

708
00:31:49,960 --> 00:31:51,680
Speaker 1: there are times you should think through things, and I'm

709
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,000
Speaker 1: not just like, oh, I like this house. I don't

710
00:31:54,000 --> 00:31:55,600
Speaker 1: know how much money I have, I'm gonna buy it.

711
00:31:55,640 --> 00:31:58,239
Speaker 1: Like I know that there's certain things that you have

712
00:31:58,320 --> 00:32:01,480
Speaker 1: to think about when you're buying a house moving. But

713
00:32:01,600 --> 00:32:05,840
Speaker 1: when I don't overanalyze things and I trust myself and

714
00:32:05,920 --> 00:32:11,680
Speaker 1: allow myself to like lead myself, things have worked for me.

715
00:32:12,160 --> 00:32:15,400
Speaker 1: And now those roads weren't perfect, Like with the cycling intructing,

716
00:32:15,680 --> 00:32:18,800
Speaker 1: the first audition I did, I didn't make it. It was

717
00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,280
Speaker 1: actually quite embarrassing.

718
00:32:21,640 --> 00:32:23,760
Speaker 2: Wait, you didn't make it, like at a studio, like

719
00:32:23,800 --> 00:32:25,720
Speaker 2: you were auditioning to become an instructor and they didn't

720
00:32:25,760 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 2: hire you.

721
00:32:26,200 --> 00:32:28,440
Speaker 1: They didn't hire me. Oh no, And then the second

722
00:32:28,760 --> 00:32:32,360
Speaker 1: place that I auditioned. What's funny as I interviewed, I

723
00:32:32,520 --> 00:32:34,560
Speaker 1: reached out to them because I wanted to just manage

724
00:32:34,600 --> 00:32:36,480
Speaker 1: the studio. I was having a crisis and I was like,

725
00:32:36,640 --> 00:32:39,160
Speaker 1: I shouldn't be a therapist anymore. I'm going to manage

726
00:32:39,160 --> 00:32:39,560
Speaker 1: a gym.

727
00:32:39,840 --> 00:32:42,240
Speaker 3: I know.

728
00:32:42,440 --> 00:32:45,480
Speaker 2: She was like, keep your job, like you can still

729
00:32:45,520 --> 00:32:47,760
Speaker 2: be a therapist, but you need to go see a therapist.

730
00:32:48,880 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: She keep your job, but you might like what if

731
00:32:50,840 --> 00:32:53,200
Speaker 1: you auditioned to be an instructor? And I was like, oh,

732
00:32:53,280 --> 00:32:56,000
Speaker 1: I've done that once and they said no. So I

733
00:32:56,040 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 1: was like, okay, sure in that audition. It's funny because

734
00:32:59,840 --> 00:33:02,400
Speaker 1: the trainer would joke about it later. But she was

735
00:33:02,400 --> 00:33:04,600
Speaker 1: like you were really bad and I had to like

736
00:33:04,640 --> 00:33:06,400
Speaker 1: stop you and like change some things. But she was like,

737
00:33:06,440 --> 00:33:10,239
Speaker 1: I saw that you're trainable and teachable, and so I

738
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:11,800
Speaker 1: took that like idea of potential.

739
00:33:12,400 --> 00:33:14,520
Speaker 3: I need to know, like what your bad class was.

740
00:33:14,600 --> 00:33:16,000
Speaker 3: I need to know like what.

741
00:33:15,640 --> 00:33:18,120
Speaker 2: What made it bad? I mean you just like turn

742
00:33:18,160 --> 00:33:20,440
Speaker 2: the knob up, like how could you know? I mean,

743
00:33:20,480 --> 00:33:22,680
Speaker 2: you gotta have good music, and they're just like, yell,

744
00:33:22,800 --> 00:33:24,560
Speaker 2: it's some encouraging things.

745
00:33:24,640 --> 00:33:28,680
Speaker 1: So an audition, though, isn't a full class. It's just well, okay,

746
00:33:28,840 --> 00:33:30,560
Speaker 1: do you want to know about the two auditions? Is

747
00:33:30,600 --> 00:33:31,600
Speaker 1: this okay?

748
00:33:31,640 --> 00:33:33,680
Speaker 3: I mean I guess yes, now I'm invested.

749
00:33:33,760 --> 00:33:37,880
Speaker 2: I'm just curious, Like, you need to be inspirational, you

750
00:33:37,960 --> 00:33:41,400
Speaker 2: need good music, and you gotta do some hills and

751
00:33:41,440 --> 00:33:42,080
Speaker 2: some sprints.

752
00:33:42,600 --> 00:33:46,240
Speaker 1: So the first place that I auditioned, it wasn't open yet,

753
00:33:46,760 --> 00:33:49,320
Speaker 1: so we send a video in and answer some questions. I

754
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:53,160
Speaker 1: invited us back, and then they did individual little auditions

755
00:33:53,160 --> 00:33:55,920
Speaker 1: in this like apartment complex where they just had this

756
00:33:55,960 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: one bike in the corner, and they played music off

757
00:33:58,640 --> 00:34:01,680
Speaker 1: of a fun and they said, we can teach you

758
00:34:01,720 --> 00:34:03,160
Speaker 1: how to be an instructor. We just want to make

759
00:34:03,160 --> 00:34:07,280
Speaker 1: sure that you have rhythm. Oh yeah, So I couldn't

760
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: really hear the music, so I guess maybe I didn't

761
00:34:10,400 --> 00:34:12,920
Speaker 1: have rhythm. I remember they played like a Taylor Swift song,

762
00:34:13,000 --> 00:34:14,520
Speaker 1: and what they did was they kept like changing the

763
00:34:14,560 --> 00:34:16,440
Speaker 1: music so you would have to find the beat really fast.

764
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:20,200
Speaker 1: So I guess maybe they were like, she doesn't have rhythm.

765
00:34:20,680 --> 00:34:22,759
Speaker 1: Never heard from the man. The other one, which is

766
00:34:22,880 --> 00:34:26,439
Speaker 1: usually what it's like to audition, is you go into

767
00:34:26,480 --> 00:34:29,840
Speaker 1: a room of nobody, like two people that are judging you,

768
00:34:30,040 --> 00:34:33,640
Speaker 1: and you just teach to fake people. And we did

769
00:34:33,719 --> 00:34:37,400
Speaker 1: like thirty seconds of two songs. So I guess my

770
00:34:37,440 --> 00:34:40,200
Speaker 1: thirty seconds of two songs of my fake teaching was

771
00:34:40,440 --> 00:34:40,919
Speaker 1: not great.

772
00:34:41,800 --> 00:34:43,960
Speaker 2: Like give me an example, Like what'd you say, like, hey,

773
00:34:44,239 --> 00:34:46,399
Speaker 2: welcome to class, Like I don't know.

774
00:34:46,320 --> 00:34:48,880
Speaker 1: What I said, but I know one of my songs

775
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:54,080
Speaker 1: was Hailey Steinfeld Starving and the justin Timberlake Trolls song.

776
00:34:54,560 --> 00:34:58,080
Speaker 1: I got this feeling in some messle I would never

777
00:34:58,160 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: play either of those songs nowa but they, oh, they

778
00:35:01,760 --> 00:35:03,000
Speaker 1: chose me. But then you had to go through a

779
00:35:03,000 --> 00:35:05,960
Speaker 1: boot camp, so they molded you, and then you could

780
00:35:06,000 --> 00:35:07,719
Speaker 1: get cut every day of the boot camp and you

781
00:35:07,800 --> 00:35:12,480
Speaker 1: survived somehow, Like I honestly am like why eventually I

782
00:35:12,520 --> 00:35:15,200
Speaker 1: got good after doing it for I got decent after

783
00:35:15,200 --> 00:35:18,160
Speaker 1: doing it for years. But in the beginning, I would

784
00:35:18,200 --> 00:35:20,680
Speaker 1: love to know what people thought about, like truly thought

785
00:35:20,680 --> 00:35:21,520
Speaker 1: about my classes.

786
00:35:22,360 --> 00:35:22,640
Speaker 3: I can't.

787
00:35:22,640 --> 00:35:24,640
Speaker 1: I'm glad I don't have those videos.

788
00:35:24,320 --> 00:35:24,919
Speaker 3: I never came.

789
00:35:25,040 --> 00:35:27,359
Speaker 2: Yeah, it was like, speaking of videos, we need to know,

790
00:35:27,600 --> 00:35:29,799
Speaker 2: especially that one of you where they're just filming you

791
00:35:30,040 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 2: alone on a bike in the corner of an apartment

792
00:35:32,520 --> 00:35:32,879
Speaker 2: I'm like.

793
00:35:32,840 --> 00:35:34,600
Speaker 3: Are you sure you were at an autition?

794
00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 1: Like, but also I was nervous, so I'm like, I

795
00:35:37,880 --> 00:35:40,120
Speaker 1: bet they could like hear me like breathing over the

796
00:35:40,239 --> 00:35:42,319
Speaker 1: like low music, you know what I mean? Like, Yeah,

797
00:35:42,320 --> 00:35:44,800
Speaker 1: that's bad. When things are quiet, it's so much easier

798
00:35:44,800 --> 00:35:46,160
Speaker 1: to be confident in loud.

799
00:35:45,880 --> 00:35:49,160
Speaker 2: Spaces, Like at the hip hop class when I showed

800
00:35:49,200 --> 00:35:51,680
Speaker 2: up and there was more people and it was dark and.

801
00:35:51,760 --> 00:35:53,680
Speaker 3: Loud, I let loose.

802
00:35:53,840 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 2: Yeah, Like, if there had only been ten people in

803
00:35:56,000 --> 00:35:58,160
Speaker 2: this massive room, I don't think I would have been

804
00:35:58,200 --> 00:36:00,560
Speaker 2: able to shake it off because I had to really

805
00:36:01,320 --> 00:36:02,240
Speaker 2: see more intimate.

806
00:36:02,920 --> 00:36:05,399
Speaker 1: I feel like when I'm talking in front of people,

807
00:36:05,400 --> 00:36:07,759
Speaker 1: if I have a microphone, I feel more confident, but

808
00:36:07,840 --> 00:36:10,200
Speaker 1: if I have to project my own voice, there's like

809
00:36:10,239 --> 00:36:13,359
Speaker 1: a vulnerability in that. Anyway, I didn't mean to really

810
00:36:13,400 --> 00:36:15,480
Speaker 1: talk about that. I really was bringing that up because

811
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,200
Speaker 1: I thought it was interesting that I had this experience

812
00:36:18,200 --> 00:36:20,439
Speaker 1: where I'm like, this is bad that you feel this way,

813
00:36:20,960 --> 00:36:25,160
Speaker 1: and my anxiety was actually excitement and I didn't allow

814
00:36:25,200 --> 00:36:27,560
Speaker 1: my Well, I eventually did, but for a period of

815
00:36:27,640 --> 00:36:31,319
Speaker 1: time I wasn't allowing myself to listen to that, and I

816
00:36:31,280 --> 00:36:34,280
Speaker 1: was making assumptions about my feelings versus really really listening

817
00:36:34,320 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: to them.

818
00:36:35,280 --> 00:36:36,399
Speaker 3: So how are you supposed to know?

819
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,560
Speaker 2: I mean, this is good, especially since there's a feeling

820
00:36:38,560 --> 00:36:41,399
Speaker 2: things podcasts about our feelings, Like what if somebody else

821
00:36:41,440 --> 00:36:44,520
Speaker 2: listening right now, it's like I've been feeling some anxiety

822
00:36:44,560 --> 00:36:47,960
Speaker 2: around XYZ in my life and now they're wondering.

823
00:36:47,640 --> 00:36:51,200
Speaker 3: Hmm, what if it's actually excitement.

824
00:37:02,960 --> 00:37:05,879
Speaker 1: I think talking to people about it because I think

825
00:37:06,120 --> 00:37:08,839
Speaker 1: I was having this looping conversation in my head. And

826
00:37:09,200 --> 00:37:11,800
Speaker 1: that's why therapists need to go to therapy, because I

827
00:37:11,880 --> 00:37:15,360
Speaker 1: cannot be non judgmental towards myself. I have all my

828
00:37:15,480 --> 00:37:18,880
Speaker 1: bias inside of me pointing back at me. So the

829
00:37:18,960 --> 00:37:22,319
Speaker 1: questions that I'm asking myself can be very different than

830
00:37:22,320 --> 00:37:24,239
Speaker 1: the questions that somebody else would ask me. And one

831
00:37:24,239 --> 00:37:27,640
Speaker 1: of the things she asked me was what are you

832
00:37:27,680 --> 00:37:30,360
Speaker 1: looking for when you're talking to other people about these things?

833
00:37:30,440 --> 00:37:32,479
Speaker 1: Because I at one point I was like, nobody's telling

834
00:37:32,520 --> 00:37:34,920
Speaker 1: me what to do. Nobody that I was talking to

835
00:37:34,960 --> 00:37:37,239
Speaker 1: about these decisions I was making was telling me what

836
00:37:37,280 --> 00:37:39,239
Speaker 1: to do. They were all saying, you have to make

837
00:37:39,280 --> 00:37:42,879
Speaker 1: this decision, and I was like, I was just want

838
00:37:42,960 --> 00:37:45,000
Speaker 1: I was like, even you, like, you're not telling me

839
00:37:45,040 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 1: what to do, like I want somebody to tell me

840
00:37:46,800 --> 00:37:49,120
Speaker 1: what to do. And she's like, are you sure? Because

841
00:37:49,160 --> 00:37:51,920
Speaker 1: what if I said do this? Because then she's like,

842
00:37:51,960 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: how do you show up when people tell you what

843
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:56,160
Speaker 1: to do? And I go, actually, I hate when people

844
00:37:56,239 --> 00:37:57,080
Speaker 1: tell me what to do.

845
00:37:58,160 --> 00:37:58,960
Speaker 3: You hate it.

846
00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:00,719
Speaker 2: It's almost like you're like, I want somebody to tell

847
00:38:00,760 --> 00:38:03,000
Speaker 2: me what to do. But also I hate when people

848
00:38:03,080 --> 00:38:04,160
Speaker 2: tell me what to do.

849
00:38:04,719 --> 00:38:06,920
Speaker 1: So she was like, okay, so maybe you're not looking

850
00:38:06,960 --> 00:38:08,879
Speaker 1: for that, and I said, you know what I'm looking

851
00:38:08,880 --> 00:38:11,040
Speaker 1: I'm just looking for people to affirm what I already

852
00:38:11,040 --> 00:38:14,800
Speaker 1: know that I want. That's what I want, but people

853
00:38:14,840 --> 00:38:18,480
Speaker 1: can't affirm what I want. That I might have to

854
00:38:18,480 --> 00:38:22,319
Speaker 1: affirm myself. But also people can't affirm this unless I'm

855
00:38:22,360 --> 00:38:24,080
Speaker 1: sharing it with them too. Some of the stuff I

856
00:38:24,120 --> 00:38:25,160
Speaker 1: wasn't sharing with people.

857
00:38:25,280 --> 00:38:33,280
Speaker 2: So because you were overwhelmulated, Yeah, you couldn't identify the excitement? Yes, yeah, overwhelmulated.

858
00:38:33,280 --> 00:38:35,480
Speaker 2: Do you think that'll make the dictionary?

859
00:38:36,040 --> 00:38:38,920
Speaker 1: Why wouldn't it? That is so helpful. We don't have

860
00:38:38,960 --> 00:38:41,040
Speaker 1: to say three words, we say one and we can

861
00:38:41,120 --> 00:38:41,879
Speaker 1: understand what I mean.

862
00:38:42,960 --> 00:38:44,240
Speaker 3: I'm just overwhelmulated.

863
00:38:44,360 --> 00:38:47,440
Speaker 1: Okay, okay, back off, Yeah and affirm me.

864
00:38:47,800 --> 00:38:51,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, do you even know what overwhelmulated means?

865
00:38:51,640 --> 00:38:54,399
Speaker 1: I do, Yeah, I don't think my therapist did.

866
00:38:54,760 --> 00:38:57,880
Speaker 2: And if you say that to somebody, they're gonna be like,

867
00:38:57,960 --> 00:39:00,640
Speaker 2: you're what the you're over well mulated?

868
00:39:00,760 --> 00:39:01,960
Speaker 3: Yeah, think about it.

869
00:39:02,280 --> 00:39:03,960
Speaker 1: Like that's not even real word. And you're gonna say,

870
00:39:03,960 --> 00:39:05,520
Speaker 1: look it up in the dictionary, and they're going to

871
00:39:05,560 --> 00:39:07,279
Speaker 1: say it's not in there, is it.

872
00:39:07,440 --> 00:39:14,000
Speaker 2: No, it's not even overwelmulated, isn't it. Hold on, exhaustor wellulated.

873
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:18,520
Speaker 1: Overwomulated is too easy of a word, exhaust womulated exhauster,

874
00:39:18,800 --> 00:39:24,520
Speaker 1: and we could add exhaust or overwelmulated exhaust emulated. Anyway,

875
00:39:24,840 --> 00:39:25,440
Speaker 1: Well I love that.

876
00:39:25,640 --> 00:39:27,760
Speaker 3: Ye, now we know exhaustor well mulated.

877
00:39:27,840 --> 00:39:30,480
Speaker 1: Yeah. I went through a whole journey this week of

878
00:39:30,800 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 1: feeling like ooh, this is bad to like, wait a second,

879
00:39:34,520 --> 00:39:37,160
Speaker 1: this is very exciting. This is a very exciting time.

880
00:39:37,320 --> 00:39:40,239
Speaker 2: M hmm it is. I had to listen to my

881
00:39:40,280 --> 00:39:45,480
Speaker 2: gut this week too. On my emergency contact. I'm gonna

882
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,520
Speaker 2: have to get a new passport because mine expires at

883
00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 2: the end of the year, so I'm just trying to

884
00:39:50,040 --> 00:39:52,439
Speaker 2: do all the paperwork, so it's filling everything out, took

885
00:39:52,480 --> 00:39:56,279
Speaker 2: my new photo, submitting it all online, and I had

886
00:39:56,320 --> 00:39:58,360
Speaker 2: to enter my emergency contact. Well, the last time I

887
00:39:58,360 --> 00:40:00,880
Speaker 2: did my passport to my emergency cont textist my husband

888
00:40:00,920 --> 00:40:03,480
Speaker 2: at the time, and I thought, well, who's going to

889
00:40:03,520 --> 00:40:07,080
Speaker 2: be my new emergency contact. I can't put my boyfriend

890
00:40:07,120 --> 00:40:09,200
Speaker 2: because well, what if we break up.

891
00:40:09,280 --> 00:40:12,200
Speaker 1: Because this is like the next ten years, yes.

892
00:40:12,360 --> 00:40:14,840
Speaker 2: The next ten years, which I don't think we're going

893
00:40:14,920 --> 00:40:17,560
Speaker 2: to break up. He says that I say that a lot,

894
00:40:17,680 --> 00:40:19,840
Speaker 2: like I'll be like, what if we break up? Or

895
00:40:19,880 --> 00:40:21,200
Speaker 2: you should just go ahead and break up with me.

896
00:40:22,280 --> 00:40:22,759
Speaker 3: I don't know.

897
00:40:23,040 --> 00:40:24,359
Speaker 2: I think I'll just try to get ahead of it,

898
00:40:24,480 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 2: just in case it's not healthy.

899
00:40:26,800 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: Are you saying that when you're in conflict.

900
00:40:28,760 --> 00:40:29,960
Speaker 3: I'm exhaustor welmulated.

901
00:40:30,000 --> 00:40:35,279
Speaker 2: Okay, no, not when we're in conflict. More like, I

902
00:40:35,320 --> 00:40:39,360
Speaker 2: say it totally jokingly. It's in a very light moment,

903
00:40:39,600 --> 00:40:44,480
Speaker 2: but I'm maybe admitting something about myself where I'm just like, okay, fine,

904
00:40:44,480 --> 00:40:46,080
Speaker 2: if you're just gonna break up with me, she'd probably

905
00:40:46,280 --> 00:40:49,640
Speaker 2: do it now. But it's like, is there a hidden

906
00:40:49,800 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 2: thing underneath? And like why I keep doing that? And

907
00:40:52,239 --> 00:40:55,160
Speaker 2: he's like, you've been saying that a lot lately, and

908
00:40:55,200 --> 00:40:58,200
Speaker 2: I said, I have, Okay, I'll work on that because

909
00:40:58,239 --> 00:40:59,880
Speaker 2: I don't want to Also, I don't want to manifest

910
00:40:59,880 --> 00:41:00,399
Speaker 2: that either.

911
00:41:00,640 --> 00:41:02,879
Speaker 1: That feels like a yeah, defense mechanism. We're like, I'm

912
00:41:02,920 --> 00:41:04,799
Speaker 1: just going to call this. It's like image management when

913
00:41:04,840 --> 00:41:07,279
Speaker 1: I like call something out about myself before somebody else

914
00:41:07,280 --> 00:41:08,799
Speaker 1: can notice it so I can get ahead of it.

915
00:41:08,800 --> 00:41:10,879
Speaker 1: It's like, we'll just break up with me. So then

916
00:41:11,239 --> 00:41:13,080
Speaker 1: what you also probably want him to say is why

917
00:41:13,080 --> 00:41:13,680
Speaker 1: would I do that?

918
00:41:14,440 --> 00:41:18,000
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know when I'm fishing for a fight, right,

919
00:41:18,120 --> 00:41:20,680
Speaker 2: and I do something, And I totally do that, But

920
00:41:20,719 --> 00:41:22,400
Speaker 2: I don't mean I'm fishing for him to be like,

921
00:41:22,880 --> 00:41:24,360
Speaker 2: I'm not going to break up with you, because I

922
00:41:24,400 --> 00:41:26,799
Speaker 2: do think I'm saying it in lighter moments, I'm not

923
00:41:26,840 --> 00:41:30,080
Speaker 2: actually expecting a response, but I didn't realize how much

924
00:41:30,120 --> 00:41:32,920
Speaker 2: I was doing it. Yeah, so SOMs could be on

925
00:41:33,000 --> 00:41:37,239
Speaker 2: a subconscious level. It's lingering back there. So maybe I

926
00:41:37,280 --> 00:41:40,800
Speaker 2: need to listen to subliminals that are like, you're secure

927
00:41:40,800 --> 00:41:43,600
Speaker 2: in your relationship, have no fear, you are fine, And

928
00:41:43,920 --> 00:41:45,520
Speaker 2: he does not want to break up with you.

929
00:41:45,320 --> 00:41:46,880
Speaker 1: You can put him as your emergency contact.

930
00:41:46,920 --> 00:41:49,560
Speaker 2: Yeah, well I don't know that far that far, but

931
00:41:49,719 --> 00:41:52,520
Speaker 2: I did have to. I like, I was checking in.

932
00:41:52,560 --> 00:41:53,640
Speaker 2: I was like, what do I I was like, I

933
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:57,320
Speaker 2: could keep being and honestly beIN and ie co parenting

934
00:41:57,400 --> 00:42:01,799
Speaker 2: and friendship relationship is the best it's been right now. Yeah,

935
00:42:01,800 --> 00:42:05,920
Speaker 2: And I'm so proud of us. It hasn't always been

936
00:42:05,960 --> 00:42:09,240
Speaker 2: this great. It's been good, and then it's had rocky

937
00:42:09,280 --> 00:42:13,640
Speaker 2: moments for sure that were sort of circumstantial, and now

938
00:42:13,680 --> 00:42:17,839
Speaker 2: it's just really seems healthy and good and I'm very

939
00:42:17,960 --> 00:42:19,960
Speaker 2: very very very thankful for that.

940
00:42:20,560 --> 00:42:23,360
Speaker 3: We're even working on a charity event together.

941
00:42:24,400 --> 00:42:27,080
Speaker 1: Wait, but how would Alex feel if you put your

942
00:42:27,080 --> 00:42:28,600
Speaker 1: ex husband as your emergency contact.

943
00:42:28,640 --> 00:42:30,000
Speaker 2: Well, it wouldn't be that I was putting. It would

944
00:42:30,000 --> 00:42:33,839
Speaker 2: be that I would just leave him. Okay, I know,

945
00:42:33,920 --> 00:42:35,279
Speaker 2: I know, I know, but I.

946
00:42:35,120 --> 00:42:36,759
Speaker 1: Yeah, like, whoops, I didn't know that I had to

947
00:42:36,760 --> 00:42:37,239
Speaker 1: redo that.

948
00:42:37,440 --> 00:42:39,080
Speaker 2: Yeah, well, I'm saying I had to listen to my gut.

949
00:42:39,120 --> 00:42:42,040
Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, this doesn't this would not even be right.

950
00:42:42,200 --> 00:42:45,560
Speaker 2: But it just seemed like I think I just felt

951
00:42:45,640 --> 00:42:49,840
Speaker 2: a little like there's parts of me, like my younger

952
00:42:49,840 --> 00:42:52,279
Speaker 2: part of me that never saw myself getting divorced, and

953
00:42:52,360 --> 00:42:54,880
Speaker 2: so this was a moment where I'm having to face

954
00:42:55,000 --> 00:42:56,040
Speaker 2: a decision that.

955
00:42:56,120 --> 00:42:59,080
Speaker 3: Equals that I got divorced. Does that make sense?

956
00:42:59,160 --> 00:43:02,640
Speaker 2: Yeah, It's ber than just the It's like Ben's always

957
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:04,440
Speaker 2: going to be in my life because we have kids together,

958
00:43:04,920 --> 00:43:06,960
Speaker 2: and what if I'm on a trip with my kids,

959
00:43:07,480 --> 00:43:09,800
Speaker 2: it makes sense that Ben would be the emergency contact,

960
00:43:10,200 --> 00:43:12,200
Speaker 2: you know, Like I just left the country with the

961
00:43:12,280 --> 00:43:13,840
Speaker 2: kids a couple of weeks ago.

962
00:43:14,280 --> 00:43:17,480
Speaker 3: And Ben would be who we would need.

963
00:43:17,360 --> 00:43:19,880
Speaker 2: To contact because he's the father of my kids. So

964
00:43:20,360 --> 00:43:23,439
Speaker 2: I didn't think it was that far fetched. But then

965
00:43:24,280 --> 00:43:27,200
Speaker 2: it'll listen to my gut. My gut was like find

966
00:43:27,200 --> 00:43:30,799
Speaker 2: somebody else. But then parts of me that were had

967
00:43:30,840 --> 00:43:32,680
Speaker 2: a little bit of shame of like, uh, well, you

968
00:43:32,680 --> 00:43:34,759
Speaker 2: wouldn't even be in this situation if you had just

969
00:43:35,120 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 2: figured out your marriage and then you never got divorced,

970
00:43:37,560 --> 00:43:40,080
Speaker 2: you know. And then I was like, stop, We're not

971
00:43:40,120 --> 00:43:43,080
Speaker 2: doing that. Stop I'm not going to do that. So

972
00:43:43,160 --> 00:43:47,560
Speaker 2: this was a big internal conversation with myself. Yes, So

973
00:43:47,760 --> 00:43:55,960
Speaker 2: then ultimately, drum roll, I decided on my sister, which.

974
00:43:55,920 --> 00:43:58,680
Speaker 3: Sound I mean that might be obvious to some people.

975
00:43:58,719 --> 00:44:00,439
Speaker 2: Like, oh, just pick your sister. But for what reason

976
00:44:00,480 --> 00:44:02,160
Speaker 2: she wasn't popping into my head right away? And then

977
00:44:02,200 --> 00:44:04,320
Speaker 2: I was like, well, then I was like, don't have mom,

978
00:44:04,960 --> 00:44:09,200
Speaker 2: don't have a dad, don't have a husband, you know something.

979
00:44:09,239 --> 00:44:12,000
Speaker 2: I was like, Oh, yeah, I do have a sister,

980
00:44:12,400 --> 00:44:13,880
Speaker 2: and gosh, darnett, she loves me.

981
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:17,400
Speaker 1: Gosh darnett, she would love to be your emergency contact.

982
00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:17,960
Speaker 3: Right.

983
00:44:18,320 --> 00:44:20,520
Speaker 2: Yeah, And then of course I know I have friends

984
00:44:20,520 --> 00:44:24,160
Speaker 2: that I could sign up for that position too, And honestly,

985
00:44:24,360 --> 00:44:27,920
Speaker 2: let's just hope I'm never in a situation where I

986
00:44:28,000 --> 00:44:31,400
Speaker 2: have my passport, because that would mean I'm likely in

987
00:44:31,440 --> 00:44:34,800
Speaker 2: another country and we have to contact in emergency contact.

988
00:44:34,920 --> 00:44:38,240
Speaker 2: That just seems freaky to me. I don't want anything

989
00:44:38,239 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 2: that ever happened to me in a foreign country.

990
00:44:40,239 --> 00:44:42,600
Speaker 1: Yeah, but that's a big deal. And I like your

991
00:44:42,760 --> 00:44:46,600
Speaker 1: like road that you went down on to get there.

992
00:44:46,719 --> 00:44:49,480
Speaker 1: I like the internal dialogue you had, and I think

993
00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:51,680
Speaker 1: this also is like probably a big deal for other

994
00:44:51,680 --> 00:44:55,399
Speaker 1: people too, to submerge on emergency contacts there, whether they

995
00:44:55,520 --> 00:44:59,040
Speaker 1: have never been married before, or they're going through something

996
00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:00,640
Speaker 1: like you where they got divorced and now they're getting

997
00:45:00,640 --> 00:45:02,480
Speaker 1: a new document, or they have to answer this question

998
00:45:02,520 --> 00:45:04,560
Speaker 1: for the first time. Like, I think that can be

999
00:45:04,640 --> 00:45:07,440
Speaker 1: a it's a realization of what happened, Like what you.

1000
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:09,880
Speaker 2: Said speaking of the charity event that Ben and I

1001
00:45:09,880 --> 00:45:12,759
Speaker 2: are doing, I just realized that I've sort of had

1002
00:45:12,760 --> 00:45:15,520
Speaker 2: some internal dialogue and made up this whole thing, and you.

1003
00:45:15,520 --> 00:45:17,840
Speaker 3: Would be involved in it a little bit too, So

1004
00:45:17,920 --> 00:45:18,400
Speaker 3: I kind.

1005
00:45:18,239 --> 00:45:21,600
Speaker 2: Of need to go over it with you after this. Wait,

1006
00:45:21,880 --> 00:45:23,520
Speaker 2: I know you don't like being told what to do,

1007
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:24,879
Speaker 2: but this is for foster kids.

1008
00:45:26,760 --> 00:45:29,840
Speaker 1: So you mean after we're done recording, Well.

1009
00:45:29,800 --> 00:45:31,279
Speaker 3: We just need it in the next week or so.

1010
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,920
Speaker 2: I need to update you with some decisions that I

1011
00:45:34,960 --> 00:45:38,120
Speaker 2: have mine agreed to do on behalf of foster Children,

1012
00:45:39,239 --> 00:45:41,160
Speaker 2: and it'll involve our listeners too.

1013
00:45:41,200 --> 00:45:42,640
Speaker 3: I think it's gonna be fun. I think you're gonna

1014
00:45:42,640 --> 00:45:42,840
Speaker 3: love it.

1015
00:45:42,880 --> 00:45:45,000
Speaker 2: And Big P can be there, okay, and then my

1016
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:46,720
Speaker 2: boyfriend can be there, and then my ex.

1017
00:45:46,560 --> 00:45:47,359
Speaker 1: Husband will be there.

1018
00:45:47,600 --> 00:45:53,160
Speaker 3: Good times, my former emergency contact and your future emergency.

1019
00:45:52,440 --> 00:45:57,240
Speaker 2: Potential emergency emergency contact will be all hanging out together.

1020
00:45:57,400 --> 00:45:58,600
Speaker 3: Do you like you like top cough?

1021
00:45:59,480 --> 00:46:00,920
Speaker 1: I love top golf.

1022
00:46:00,920 --> 00:46:02,799
Speaker 3: Well, guess what it's gonna be a top golf.

1023
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:03,960
Speaker 1: You know the last time I did a charity at

1024
00:46:03,960 --> 00:46:08,080
Speaker 1: Top Golf, I won. Shut up, Yeah, I won a

1025
00:46:08,120 --> 00:46:11,520
Speaker 1: six month membership to Top Golf. However, I didn't know

1026
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: that it started effective immediately, so I waited six months

1027
00:46:15,000 --> 00:46:17,479
Speaker 1: to activate it and then it was expired. So I'd

1028
00:46:17,480 --> 00:46:18,479
Speaker 1: love to win another one.

1029
00:46:18,680 --> 00:46:20,920
Speaker 2: Well, I had no idea I might have the winner

1030
00:46:20,960 --> 00:46:23,840
Speaker 2: on my team like me, because you would be on

1031
00:46:23,840 --> 00:46:24,320
Speaker 2: my team.

1032
00:46:24,480 --> 00:46:26,560
Speaker 1: I think my team carried me, though I don't know

1033
00:46:26,560 --> 00:46:28,239
Speaker 1: that it was me. My team won.

1034
00:46:28,360 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 2: Sorry, that was as advertising, one hundred percent false advertising.

1035
00:46:32,160 --> 00:46:34,200
Speaker 2: You said, did you know I won?

1036
00:46:35,320 --> 00:46:38,200
Speaker 1: I didn't win. I did win. I was on the

1037
00:46:38,200 --> 00:46:41,200
Speaker 1: winning team, so therefore I won and I was the

1038
00:46:41,480 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: head of the team, so I got to have the membership.

1039
00:46:44,560 --> 00:46:47,359
Speaker 2: Okay, Well, well we can talk offline about this little

1040
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,640
Speaker 2: bit since I dropped like a hint. We will have

1041
00:46:49,719 --> 00:46:53,120
Speaker 2: listeners that are gonna pretty much just be able to

1042
00:46:53,120 --> 00:46:55,640
Speaker 2: come be a part of this, and they won't have

1043
00:46:55,680 --> 00:46:59,040
Speaker 2: to pay anything because we have a sponsor that is covering,

1044
00:46:59,480 --> 00:47:02,680
Speaker 2: like an under riding the entire event, so that part's

1045
00:47:02,680 --> 00:47:03,160
Speaker 2: paid for it.

1046
00:47:03,160 --> 00:47:04,880
Speaker 3: There are other people. There are other.

1047
00:47:05,239 --> 00:47:08,319
Speaker 2: Sponsorship opportunities for different bays where companies could bring a

1048
00:47:08,320 --> 00:47:10,359
Speaker 2: team if they want to, or families could come and

1049
00:47:10,880 --> 00:47:13,360
Speaker 2: build it. But since we had the underwriter, which is

1050
00:47:13,440 --> 00:47:16,760
Speaker 2: Taylor Farms shout out everything with Top Golf, the fees

1051
00:47:16,800 --> 00:47:20,640
Speaker 2: for that is covered. So whatever money comes in for

1052
00:47:20,719 --> 00:47:23,720
Speaker 2: the event, one hundred percent will go to the foster.

1053
00:47:24,040 --> 00:47:26,480
Speaker 1: That's amazing, So and Patrick will love that too.

1054
00:47:26,640 --> 00:47:29,160
Speaker 2: Yeah, and what it's gonna be fun for us since

1055
00:47:29,320 --> 00:47:33,360
Speaker 2: Taylor Farms paid for several bays for us, We're just

1056
00:47:33,360 --> 00:47:35,120
Speaker 2: going to get to invite listeners and they get to

1057
00:47:35,120 --> 00:47:38,360
Speaker 2: bring a guest and it'll be like a fun outing.

1058
00:47:38,480 --> 00:47:41,040
Speaker 2: And it's for Isaiah one seventeen house. If anybody's familiar,

1059
00:47:41,080 --> 00:47:44,000
Speaker 2: there a nationwide organization, but we're been and I go

1060
00:47:44,080 --> 00:47:44,359
Speaker 2: to church.

1061
00:47:44,400 --> 00:47:45,439
Speaker 3: We still go to the same church.

1062
00:47:46,560 --> 00:47:49,040
Speaker 2: They're very involved with that and Ben has gotten involved

1063
00:47:49,080 --> 00:47:51,040
Speaker 2: in it, and we wanted the kids to be involved.

1064
00:47:51,120 --> 00:47:54,360
Speaker 2: And then as part of our healthy co parenting, we're like, well,

1065
00:47:54,600 --> 00:47:56,600
Speaker 2: it might be good if our kids see us giving

1066
00:47:56,640 --> 00:47:57,800
Speaker 2: back to something together.

1067
00:47:58,320 --> 00:47:59,759
Speaker 3: And so I'm gonna need to.

1068
00:47:59,680 --> 00:48:00,359
Speaker 1: Give you the date.

1069
00:48:00,840 --> 00:48:02,640
Speaker 2: We'll share all the details on the podcast later, but

1070
00:48:02,680 --> 00:48:04,839
Speaker 2: it'll probably be a giveaway that we'll do on our

1071
00:48:04,880 --> 00:48:09,160
Speaker 2: Instagram to listeners. So we'll give you all the information here,

1072
00:48:09,200 --> 00:48:12,040
Speaker 2: but then y'all need to follow us Feeling Things podcast

1073
00:48:12,160 --> 00:48:15,719
Speaker 2: and it'll be something really easy, basically like comments wipe here,

1074
00:48:15,800 --> 00:48:20,000
Speaker 2: comment here, and we'll just select somebody and then you'll

1075
00:48:20,000 --> 00:48:21,799
Speaker 2: get to come with a guest to Top Golf for

1076
00:48:21,840 --> 00:48:25,360
Speaker 2: an evening there and it includes like a FETA buffet

1077
00:48:25,520 --> 00:48:29,279
Speaker 2: and Top Golf Top Contender prizes.

1078
00:48:29,200 --> 00:48:31,160
Speaker 1: And maybe I'll want another membership and I'll use it

1079
00:48:31,160 --> 00:48:32,040
Speaker 1: this day.

1080
00:48:31,719 --> 00:48:32,839
Speaker 3: And I'll actually use it.

1081
00:48:33,320 --> 00:48:35,080
Speaker 2: Sorry, I hadn't shared any of that with you yet,

1082
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:36,839
Speaker 2: but I was like, Kat will be totally.

1083
00:48:36,480 --> 00:48:39,720
Speaker 1: Into this if I was like, I'm not doing that. Also,

1084
00:48:39,960 --> 00:48:42,440
Speaker 1: I just don't think that our.

1085
00:48:42,400 --> 00:48:45,000
Speaker 2: Friendship wouldn't really work out if you were into that,

1086
00:48:45,040 --> 00:48:47,480
Speaker 2: because it's not like I'm signing up for something like horrible.

1087
00:48:47,520 --> 00:48:50,000
Speaker 2: It's actually something good and then also something fun because

1088
00:48:50,000 --> 00:48:51,799
Speaker 2: we have been looking for a way to connect with

1089
00:48:51,880 --> 00:48:54,960
Speaker 2: listeners and listen like our tell me no, I just

1090
00:48:54,960 --> 00:48:57,600
Speaker 2: get forgetting, I think is well, he I've known you

1091
00:48:57,680 --> 00:48:59,880
Speaker 2: had a lot going on, so it's like between your

1092
00:49:00,040 --> 00:49:02,400
Speaker 2: stuff going on, and then I had my kids this

1093
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:04,640
Speaker 2: week and it sort of finalized this week Ben and

1094
00:49:04,640 --> 00:49:07,640
Speaker 2: I had a call and so you could see where

1095
00:49:07,680 --> 00:49:09,440
Speaker 2: this week it just hadn't come up yet.

1096
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:11,320
Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if you felt like I was

1097
00:49:11,360 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: being SIB lately.

1098
00:49:12,480 --> 00:49:14,000
Speaker 3: But I was SIB this week too.

1099
00:49:15,440 --> 00:49:17,919
Speaker 2: And if y'all are now to listening, SIB is when

1100
00:49:17,920 --> 00:49:19,920
Speaker 2: you're talking to your friend, you can just use that

1101
00:49:19,960 --> 00:49:24,040
Speaker 2: acronym and be like SIB, which means sorry, a bitchy.

1102
00:49:25,160 --> 00:49:27,720
Speaker 3: And it helps lighten the mood. But Kat was SIV

1103
00:49:27,840 --> 00:49:29,399
Speaker 3: this week. I was SIV this week.

1104
00:49:29,440 --> 00:49:31,960
Speaker 2: So do you see how with our sib nois, I

1105
00:49:31,960 --> 00:49:35,440
Speaker 2: didn't have time to talk to you about how I

1106
00:49:35,480 --> 00:49:36,440
Speaker 2: was signing you up?

1107
00:49:36,640 --> 00:49:37,279
Speaker 3: Oh joined me?

1108
00:49:37,640 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: I would fully throw us over the edge.

1109
00:49:40,120 --> 00:49:42,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, but I think it'd be a fun night. Yeah,

1110
00:49:42,520 --> 00:49:44,000
Speaker 3: and it's I know.

1111
00:49:44,080 --> 00:49:47,759
Speaker 2: iHeart Festival is the weekend of the twentieth of September

1112
00:49:47,800 --> 00:49:49,760
Speaker 2: and this weekend after that, So probably like the twenty

1113
00:49:49,840 --> 00:49:53,120
Speaker 2: sixth or something that Friday, tell me you're not gonna

1114
00:49:53,120 --> 00:49:54,280
Speaker 2: be in like Vermont?

1115
00:49:54,480 --> 00:49:55,040
Speaker 3: Are you here?

1116
00:49:55,280 --> 00:49:57,800
Speaker 4: Was going to be in Vermont on September twenty sixth.

1117
00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:00,520
Speaker 4: That was the date it was I meant to be

1118
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:02,440
Speaker 4: that that gout cancel. We might in a week before that,

1119
00:50:02,560 --> 00:50:04,920
Speaker 4: but we were looking at that. I don't remember what day,

1120
00:50:04,960 --> 00:50:06,239
Speaker 4: it doesn't matter because I canceled it.

1121
00:50:06,960 --> 00:50:09,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, that's that's crazy serendipitous.

1122
00:50:09,760 --> 00:50:12,040
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know you're pretty bummed about having to cancel

1123
00:50:12,120 --> 00:50:13,399
Speaker 2: that trip, but see how it worked out.

1124
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,520
Speaker 1: Now you get to I really want isn't that bummed

1125
00:50:16,080 --> 00:50:18,120
Speaker 1: thought about it? That's another one of those things, is

1126
00:50:18,160 --> 00:50:21,080
Speaker 1: like I should I thought that, Like you should be

1127
00:50:21,239 --> 00:50:24,200
Speaker 1: sad about this, but I am actually more excited about

1128
00:50:24,200 --> 00:50:26,600
Speaker 1: why I had to cancel that. I canceled it for

1129
00:50:26,680 --> 00:50:27,719
Speaker 1: top golf. I just didn't know.

1130
00:50:27,920 --> 00:50:32,799
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, see, yeah everything works out sometimes some thus

1131
00:50:32,840 --> 00:50:33,240
Speaker 2: it doesn't.

1132
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:34,480
Speaker 1: Yeah.

1133
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:35,799
Speaker 3: I just don't like that saying. You know how some

1134
00:50:35,840 --> 00:50:36,480
Speaker 3: people say it.

1135
00:50:36,440 --> 00:50:38,400
Speaker 1: Like it'll all work out in the end. If it

1136
00:50:38,520 --> 00:50:40,080
Speaker 1: hasn't worked out yet, then it's not the end.

1137
00:50:40,080 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 3: Everything always works out for me. That's like the sublements

1138
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:43,080
Speaker 3: that I listened to.

1139
00:50:43,480 --> 00:50:44,680
Speaker 1: I don't like girl syndrome.

1140
00:50:44,760 --> 00:50:48,120
Speaker 2: I don't mind programming my subconscious mind to think that way, though,

1141
00:50:48,320 --> 00:50:50,560
Speaker 2: but I don't want to outwardly just be that way.

1142
00:50:50,640 --> 00:50:53,080
Speaker 1: Well, the whole lucky girl syndrome thing. Mm hmm.

1143
00:50:54,040 --> 00:50:56,200
Speaker 3: So oh, we could do a lucky girl syndrome deep dive.

1144
00:50:56,640 --> 00:51:00,680
Speaker 1: We could. There's something recently that went viral on the

1145
00:51:00,680 --> 00:51:04,520
Speaker 1: internet about somebody saying that like when they wanted to

1146
00:51:04,520 --> 00:51:06,880
Speaker 1: get pregnant, they just were like, I am manifesting that

1147
00:51:06,920 --> 00:51:09,080
Speaker 1: I have a healthy uterus and that I will get pregnant.

1148
00:51:09,400 --> 00:51:11,920
Speaker 1: And then she said every time she tried, she got pregnant.

1149
00:51:12,120 --> 00:51:13,239
Speaker 1: And I'm like, if it was.

1150
00:51:13,239 --> 00:51:16,560
Speaker 3: That easy, then I would have gotten pregnant.

1151
00:51:16,840 --> 00:51:20,319
Speaker 1: And guess months ago, I.

1152
00:51:19,560 --> 00:51:22,960
Speaker 2: Have like a bajillion negative pregnancy test that I can

1153
00:51:23,000 --> 00:51:27,200
Speaker 2: show you from about twenty eleven that are proved that that.

1154
00:51:27,440 --> 00:51:30,360
Speaker 2: But you know what, Kat, when I was trying to

1155
00:51:30,360 --> 00:51:32,600
Speaker 2: get pregnant, I didn't do that. I didn't say.

1156
00:51:32,480 --> 00:51:35,719
Speaker 1: Okay, saw That's why. That is why it's toxic, because

1157
00:51:35,760 --> 00:51:37,600
Speaker 1: then people are like, well, if I would have done that,

1158
00:51:37,640 --> 00:51:39,640
Speaker 1: then I wouldn't have I wouldn't have done this or

1159
00:51:39,760 --> 00:51:42,040
Speaker 1: this or that, or like, come on, Yes, I think

1160
00:51:42,120 --> 00:51:46,560
Speaker 1: believing positive thoughts, having positive thoughts cannot hurt you, and

1161
00:51:46,600 --> 00:51:49,560
Speaker 1: it probably will help you. It is not a guarantee

1162
00:51:49,560 --> 00:51:50,840
Speaker 1: to make it or break it.

1163
00:51:51,000 --> 00:51:53,799
Speaker 2: Yes, I agree, but you know, even when my mom

1164
00:51:53,880 --> 00:51:57,239
Speaker 2: was sick, her doctors said through and through they see

1165
00:51:57,280 --> 00:52:00,319
Speaker 2: it with patients all over. The more positive you are,

1166
00:52:00,440 --> 00:52:03,080
Speaker 2: the better experience you have. But none of them are saying,

1167
00:52:03,360 --> 00:52:05,839
Speaker 2: it means you're going to survive this and you're going

1168
00:52:05,880 --> 00:52:09,719
Speaker 2: to beat cancer, but your experience is going to be

1169
00:52:09,840 --> 00:52:13,839
Speaker 2: night and day. Yes, so I but that is what

1170
00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:16,680
Speaker 2: I'm saying is I never even gave myself that chance.

1171
00:52:16,960 --> 00:52:21,360
Speaker 2: I never I never said, uterus, you are strong, you

1172
00:52:21,440 --> 00:52:25,200
Speaker 2: are healthy, you are kind, you are to carry a baby.

1173
00:52:25,719 --> 00:52:29,320
Speaker 3: You can do this. You are a baby magnet.

1174
00:52:31,520 --> 00:52:33,719
Speaker 1: Okay. To be honest, I haven't done that either, but

1175
00:52:33,920 --> 00:52:37,719
Speaker 1: I haven't had a very positive attitude in my head.

1176
00:52:37,719 --> 00:52:39,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, I will get pregnant, I just don't know when.

1177
00:52:40,200 --> 00:52:46,000
Speaker 1: But that hasn't gotten me pregnant. So I think that

1178
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:51,839
Speaker 1: that type of content or those kinds of stories, if

1179
00:52:51,840 --> 00:52:54,799
Speaker 1: that worked for her, great, But I also think she

1180
00:52:54,880 --> 00:52:58,600
Speaker 1: didn't get pregnant because she said that, right, She just

1181
00:52:58,840 --> 00:53:01,880
Speaker 1: said that, and she also got pregnant. You see what

1182
00:53:01,920 --> 00:53:02,400
Speaker 1: I'm saying.

1183
00:53:02,800 --> 00:53:04,680
Speaker 3: I know, but she has the lucky girl syndrome.

1184
00:53:05,400 --> 00:53:07,000
Speaker 1: Okay, so we're gonna do a deep dive on that.

1185
00:53:07,320 --> 00:53:08,000
Speaker 1: I would love to.

1186
00:53:08,320 --> 00:53:11,120
Speaker 3: Okay, all right, well, we hope y'all have.

1187
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:12,160
Speaker 1: The day you need to have.

1188
00:53:12,440 --> 00:53:15,800
Speaker 3: Bye bye,