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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour's golden hour. Kathy, here

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Speaker 1: Kathy looks good, My picture looks bright. Me but who's

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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know what, we love hearing your updates,

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Speaker 2: so do that as well. All Right, we've got some

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Speaker 2: great questions that we're going to get into. But let's

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Speaker 2: go with our question of the day. What's your opinion

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Speaker 2: on open marriage essential, optional or outdated? Is there ever

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Speaker 2: a timer scenario in which it works? Has it ever

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Speaker 2: worked for someone you know?

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Speaker 1: So this is where you'll be surprised. Kathy is modern

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Speaker 1: as I am. My old school comes open. No, no, no, no,

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Speaker 1: can I add three people and no people that have

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Speaker 1: and a couple of them ended up in divorce, and

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Speaker 1: there's one still together. It's somebody's parents, which I was

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Speaker 1: so shocked.

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Speaker 2: Here's believe it.

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Speaker 1: Would be optional for some people. Essential definitely not outdated?

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Speaker 2: No never, Here's what I think. Here's what I don't get, Susan,

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Speaker 2: And I'm actually interested in your opinion. I'm with you. No, no, no,

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Speaker 2: not happening. But here's my here's my thing. I've known

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Speaker 2: a few people have had not not well. But someone

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Speaker 2: will say, you know, we're in an open marriage. But

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Speaker 2: to me, open marriage really is multiple sex partners. It's

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Speaker 2: not raising the kids together. That would be a cult, right.

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Speaker 2: So when you have an open marriage, why don't you

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Speaker 2: just say I have multiple sex partners because.

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Speaker 1: Everyone I know and around I can fuck anybody I want, right.

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Speaker 2: But that really that if that's not marriage, that's sex.

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Speaker 1: Right, So for me it could never work. I would

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Speaker 2: No, it couldn't work for me either. But don't see

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Speaker 2: what I'm saying. A marriage is so much more than sex. Yes,

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Speaker 2: So when people say I'm in an open marriage relationship,

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Speaker 2: I just want to I don't care what they use.

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Speaker 2: I want what I want to hear, what I would.

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Speaker 2: What I think it is is, hey, I'm not monogamous.

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Speaker 2: Marriage doesn't come into it. It's it's I'm just having

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Speaker 1: I mean, there are married couples that that's their lifestyle

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Speaker 2: They enjoy the sex.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Well that's what it is.

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Speaker 2: That's my pin has nothing to do with everything else

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Speaker 1: So some people believe that sex is nothing to do

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Speaker 1: We're more more intimate. Sex is important to me. It's

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Speaker 1: Girlfriend and her husband got rested soul. He had a

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Speaker 2: Okay, I'm going to make this really simple, Susan. I'm

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Speaker 2: going to make this really simple. I'm neither of us

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Speaker 2: Because it's absurd. It's absurd that that's.

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Speaker 1: I'd like to hear some young people's opinion on that.

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Speaker 1: You know, I wonder, I wonder school. We're all telling you,

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Speaker 1: all right, it's advice time, Kathy, and I'm I'm miss

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Speaker 1: from Las Vegas, Nevada, seventy eight years old. Yeah, good morning, ladies.

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Speaker 1: fashionable women. I am in my seventies and I have

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Speaker 1: clothes at other stores look like they are for thirty

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Speaker 1: you shopping. Iaty just tell them.

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Speaker 2: Kath got to say, well, this question is really for Susan,

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Speaker 2: But let me just say one thing Anonymous that I

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Speaker 2: can wear it? Right? Some some things you can wear

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Speaker 2: youthful clothing. You don't have to wear, you know, old

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Speaker 2: Susan calls the mama. You don't have to wear old

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Speaker 2: looking lady clothes. Mo mom, whatever, you don't have to

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Speaker 2: wear old looking clothes. You can go and shop in

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Speaker 2: stores that cater to young women. Fine, it's just picking

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Speaker 2: a fine pieces that make you feel good and that

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Speaker 2: But that doesn't mean that you can't wear clothes that

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Speaker 1: Absolutely, and you get it like a staple piece and

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Speaker 1: mix it up with a younger if you will. But

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Speaker 1: everything today is a crop top, like, come, we can't.

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Speaker 2: we're a blazer if you've got to tell me or something,

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Speaker 1: you can look at magazine Happy Happy to help you.

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Speaker 2: Just believe me. It's going to cost you money.

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Speaker 1: Just hear me, Anonymous, I do it for Kathy constantly. Well,

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Speaker 1: although I've created a monstering it, can I just say?

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Speaker 1: She was like, I can't pick out things. I feel

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Speaker 1: That's so me and Kathy start our journey about a

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Speaker 1: year ago. Right, What is it like now every time

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Speaker 2: I know? That's true, very truth.

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Speaker 1: This one's mine.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it's very true. And she's got dressed more youthfully.

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Speaker 2: And now I said, to be honest, though, Susan, you

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Speaker 2: know this, I still don't like shopping, Anonymous. It's true.

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Speaker 2: I don't. If I could get Susan to go shopping

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Speaker 2: it on, I'd be so happy. And Susan, some people

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Speaker 1: I do. I love it.

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Speaker 2: I love people all y'all.

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Speaker 1: Like making people beautiful. That was my whole life. I

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Speaker 1: mean being well, it was hair, not clear and make up,

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Speaker 1: their hair is what the fashion dictates, like you know

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Speaker 1: how everything's two seasons ahead right now. They're probably on fall,

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Speaker 1: the hair, what changes in hair, everything is related fashion wise.

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Speaker 1: So when fashion came out and there was layers of clothes, right,

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Speaker 1: remember we would layer all kinds, so is hair. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: when the clean sleek lines came out, that's right.

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Speaker 2: So what are we in now?

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Speaker 1: Blant cut com Well, now anything goes it's beachy waves,

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Speaker 2: And Susan, by the way, it's going to cut my bangs.

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Speaker 2: She's got what are you going to give me? Curtain bangs?

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Speaker 2: So let me just say that. Do you understand how

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Speaker 2: excited Susan gets about this shopping? Just for those of

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Speaker 2: walk six miles clean windows, just about anything other than

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Speaker 1: New pair of shoes, Oh my god.

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Speaker 2: A new pair of shoes today. Hey, Susan, you bought

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Speaker 2: a new pair of shoes yesterday, black and white polka

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Speaker 2: dot little little Bow. You bought them yesterday?

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Speaker 2: Wait a minute, you bought black and white shoes last week.

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Speaker 1: Twelve?

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Speaker 2: And she bought twelve.

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Speaker 1: And I'm bringing them up to the place, the Green

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Speaker 1: Place up here to give them a wig. So next

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Speaker 1: is Debbie.

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Speaker 2: All right, we're going with Debbie. I still want to

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Speaker 2: talk about Susan and shopping, but apparently I might have.

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Speaker 1: To move again. Do a whole episode on that.

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Speaker 2: We really should, Okay. Debbie is sixty five from White Plains,

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Speaker 2: New York. Hi, girls, I'm writing in asking for some advice.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting a bit of plasts ooh, a bit of

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Speaker 2: a plastic surgery makeover coming up that I'm really excited about.

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Speaker 2: I'm getting a minor facelift and my neck done. Sound familiar, Susan, Yes,

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Speaker 2: this is something I've wanted for a long time, and

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Speaker 2: I'm going to a doctor who keeps his patience looking

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Speaker 2: that the surgery is next week, he keeps taking photos

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Speaker 2: of me non stop, saying he wants to remember my face.

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Speaker 2: He's even asked if we can go outside a few

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Speaker 2: times for him to get photos of me and better

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Speaker 2: I keep saying no because I'm insecure about my face

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Speaker 2: and neck. Hence while I'm getting them done. Do you

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Speaker 2: think I should just let him take some photos of me?

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Speaker 2: Or should I just tell him to trust me that

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Speaker 2: he can take as many photos of me as he wants.

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Speaker 2: Let me know what you think. I think, lad babe.

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Speaker 1: Take a billion of them. The morning I left for surgery,

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Speaker 1: No, but absolutely let him take him because you see

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Speaker 1: And I'd say, honey, you can come outside and take

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Speaker 2: Now. Oh no, but first of all, her husband may

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Speaker 2: be fooling or and he may have something planned. All right,

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Speaker 1: I like how you think. Here's the deal. My husband

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Speaker 1: He just didn't have it in them. My fortieth birthday

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Speaker 1: I absolutely did. It was black tie optional, and people

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Speaker 1: leaving that party said, Susan, this was better than any

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Speaker 2: I think I think that's I think that's sound advice.

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Speaker 2: I also think there's other things you can do. If

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Speaker 1: You know you could do that any day. This is

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Speaker 1: to her, this is like a milestone for her. She's

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Speaker 2: Forty.

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Speaker 1: Trust me, I trade places anytime.

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Speaker 2: But well, she didn't say forty. It could be fifty.

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Speaker 1: She's thirty nine. Oh sorry, you're right, she did she Hello, Okay,

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Speaker 1: So yeah, it is a big birthday, but it is

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Speaker 2: Two things I never believed in big birthdays. To me,

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Speaker 2: just really didn't care about those quote unquote milestone birthdays.

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Speaker 2: did plan some surprise parties for me for birthdays and

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Speaker 1: That's why I played it myself. I would blow it.

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Speaker 2: He told me everyone that was like really now. He

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Speaker 2: told me about my surprise baby shower. Oh no, everyone,

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Speaker 1: I have in my life been surprised. Nobody can do it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, is this a challenge seas and to take that.

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Speaker 1: One state in effect? That's all stating effect.

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Speaker 2: Never you've never been surprised with a party or with anything.

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Speaker 2: Okay, Vachel Nation, I'm gonna work on this. I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: And you know what else, if you're feeling weird about

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Speaker 1: to do something coming up for everybody listening. I know

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Speaker 1: it's not set yet. But a neighbor of mine, I

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Speaker 1: would you guys be interested in going on a cruise

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Speaker 1: I'll go forty with people. Let us do it and

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Speaker 2: There you go, ya, come on a cruise with us.

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Speaker 2: We'll have a blast. All right. We are going to

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Speaker 1: Here we go again, grabbed people. Do you notice every

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Speaker 2: Games are fun? All right? So here we go. Well,

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Speaker 2: Guessing it was your fortieth? Yeah, the one you I

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Speaker 1: Now, what would you do different?

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Speaker 2: Well, first of all, I would not have worn the

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Speaker 2: Oh? My dress was ugly. But you know what, I

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Speaker 1: Opening you pick out this dress yourself, or I did that.

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Speaker 2: I was very heavy at that time.

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Speaker 1: I was, you know, one hundred and seventy big beautiful brides.

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Speaker 1: Okay, the next question, I think we could probably even

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Speaker 2: Really, I'd go for either. I don't have a preference

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Speaker 1: If you'd rather never have to cook again or never

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Speaker 2: Let's for me.

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Speaker 1: You know, because she does not cook. You can't ask

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Speaker 2: But I love to clean.

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Speaker 1: You do clean, but you got to clean a lady.

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Speaker 2: Wait, but I excuse me, she doesn't. She comes once

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Speaker 1: And I have two cats, and people you never know

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Speaker 2: What?

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Speaker 1: Now? If you had to pick one? Would you rather

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Speaker 2: Again, never have to believe it, or not never have

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Speaker 2: Would you rather have all the wisdom you have now

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Speaker 1: What is it?

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Speaker 1: But would we have paid attention to it? Well?

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Speaker 2: If you have the wisdom you got, that's true, because

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Speaker 2: I know. But if you have the experience and the

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Speaker 1: Yes, But the people in the world wouldn't have that

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Speaker 2: Oh gosh, you know you bubble hair. Yeah, all right,

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Speaker 2: we're just gonna we're gonna be dumb in our twenties

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Speaker 1: Would you rather have unlimited energy to stay busy or

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Speaker 2: the cap. Yeah. Yeah, I don't like resting, all right?

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Speaker 2: Would you rather have I have her? I don't even

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Speaker 2: have to read this question. Would you rather have a

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Speaker 2: personal stylist or a personal massuse for the rest of

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Speaker 2: your life? I'm going to do a Susan here both.

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Speaker 1: Like both too. I think I would rather have the Messus.

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Speaker 2: I think I'd rather have the Messius too, because I

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Speaker 2: already have the personal style. I already have the person

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Speaker 2: that's right exactly. Oh are you kidding? A good massage

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Speaker 2: makes you feel great?

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Speaker 1: Oh God, I love it, you know. Yesterday I went

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Speaker 1: and for those of you listening that, especially the ones

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Speaker 1: that have upcoming surgeries, I learned something new. Kathy and

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Speaker 1: I both did that there's a lymphotic massage to help

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Speaker 1: take the water weight or the swelling. This thing she

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Speaker 1: barely touches you like taps, little tiny you don't even know.

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Speaker 1: I snore through the whole thing. This is my third one,

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Speaker 1: and I slept again. It is so relaxing, and this

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Speaker 1: morning when I got up, unbelievable difference, because after surgery

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Speaker 1: you'll swell in the mornings and then again by the

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Speaker 1: end of the day. It's like three to six months.

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Speaker 2: And I've had it. We both had it done when

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Speaker 2: we had our facelifts, and it really does feel like

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Speaker 2: just your friend Lottie said, it's like a penny or

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Speaker 2: a nickel and just happy your skin.

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Speaker 1: It's unbelievable how much it takes I guess you wouldn't

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Speaker 1: know until you need it, right.

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Speaker 2: Well, no, somebody was talking that woman that did it,

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Speaker 2: said it's really people should do it as a regular

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Speaker 2: course of habit for good health.

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Speaker 1: Well I asked her yesterday, do most of your clients

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Speaker 1: clientele have you know, surgery and she said fifty percent.

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Speaker 1: The other fifty percent have issues in life, Like it's

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Speaker 1: not something that you just go. Do they have a

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Speaker 1: disease or a condition that they have to Yeah.

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Speaker 2: So so all right, here's one of my favorite ones.

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Speaker 2: Susan massage, an emphatic massage. We're all gonna go get one.

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Speaker 2: Would you rather have a private yacht for a week

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Speaker 2: or a personal jet to fight anywhere for a month?

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Speaker 1: Again, I want both. I guess a jet.

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Speaker 2: I was gonna say the jet sounds nice, but well

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Speaker 2: here's the thing, a personal jet and planning her for

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Speaker 2: a month. When you get there, you gotta.

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Speaker 1: Pay you but you can go anywhere, I know, but

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Speaker 1: you have to pay for it anywhere, and it's just yours.

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Speaker 1: You could take whoever you want want it.

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Speaker 2: Oh, Susan, then you gotta pay for those people too,

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Speaker 2: I mean a product. Yeah, I probably do the I

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Speaker 2: would probably do the jet, but I don't know a

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Speaker 2: yacht sounds now I'm getting into the super both.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather find perfect parking any time you drive

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Speaker 1: or never have to go through airport security? Again?

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Speaker 2: No brainer? Which for you're gonna laugh security?

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Speaker 1: So even with TSA, and I've felt clear in TSA.

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Speaker 2: So I fly through the airport, You're gonna laugh. My

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Speaker 2: kids if they were here, I and my husband used

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Speaker 2: to say it too. I have the most incredible parking karma.

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Speaker 2: I pull in to the busiest parking lot and someone

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Speaker 2: pulls out of the front row and I slide in.

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Speaker 2: Every time I'm not called.

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Speaker 1: I should take you to the casino.

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Speaker 2: We went, but I took my really, we took my daughter.

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Speaker 2: I took my daughter and my son in law and

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Speaker 2: my granddaughter. We went to this a few weeks ago.

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Speaker 2: Went to a pumpkin patch and there was I saw

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Speaker 2: cars lining up to get in because it was no parking.

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Speaker 2: And I looked to the right and I said, I

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Speaker 2: took a heart right and parked and there was one

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Speaker 2: spot there. And my daughter looked at me, she goes,

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Speaker 2: you really do have parking karma.

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Speaker 1: So Kathy's gonna pick.

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Speaker 2: Kathy's gonna pick perfect parking. Well, I already have perfect

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Speaker 2: park it perfect party, So I'm going to go. I'm

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Speaker 2: gonna go through the airport, no security, perfect.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather relive your favorite first date you've had

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Speaker 1: or your most fun night out with friends?

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Speaker 2: I love you, Susan, and I want the first date again.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm trying to remember what was my favorite first day. No,

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Speaker 1: I've had a few good first dates. Okay, go ahead, Katy,

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Speaker 1: all right.

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Speaker 2: Would you rather never experience a bad hair day again?

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Speaker 2: Or never feel pain in heels? You know what I'm

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Speaker 2: going to answer, heels hair? You have great hair. That's

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Speaker 2: why you're gonna say.

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Speaker 1: Would you rather spend the day with it's your favorite

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Speaker 1: celebrity or reconnect with an old friend?

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Speaker 2: Oh?

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Speaker 1: I want a celebrity do Yeah, the hell with the friends.

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Speaker 1: You can see them anytime. I love you, Susan, but

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Speaker 1: I'm going for the celebrity absolute resolutely. Oh god, this

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Speaker 1: was so much fun.

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Speaker 2: All right?

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Speaker 1: Well this does it for another episode of Bachelor Happy

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Speaker 1: Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 2: This is so much fun. We love answering your questions,

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Speaker 2: we love just getting to share some of your day

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Speaker 2: I'm always fun, always fun with you, Susan.

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