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Speaker 1: Hello, everyone, it's your girl Cheeky's and you've reached the

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Speaker 1: voicemail box for Dear Cheeky's. I'm here to give you

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Speaker 1: whatever the cases, I want to hear from you. Remember

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Speaker 1: these are my thoughts and opinions, and if you're suffering

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Speaker 1: from an issue or hardship, you should seek help from

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Speaker 1: a qualified professional. All right, Now, go ahead and leave

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Speaker 2: Hey, Cheeky's, My question to you is what would you

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Speaker 2: So I hate my job. I literally cry every day.

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Speaker 2: It's not ideal, but I don't know. Girl, what do

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Speaker 2: hope you have a good day. Thank you, tek.

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Speaker 1: Ease, Melanie. Okay, let me start by saying I admire

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Speaker 1: Because I do suggest that you line something up before

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Speaker 4: Just wanted to hop on here and let you know

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Speaker 4: that your podcast is amazing. I listened to it every Monday.

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Speaker 4: Mondays are my deep clean days, so I zone out

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Speaker 4: listening to your podcast and it's just a great way

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, Mario, You're so wonderful. Okay, So that's crazy.

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Speaker 1: regards to Plantita's the hair care, yes, your daughter can

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Speaker 1: So definitely it is something that I recommend. And you

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Speaker 1: So I highly recommend. Did it smell so good? All

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Speaker 1: Of Cheeky's and Chill in My podcasts. Okay veso, okay.

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Speaker 1: So our last question comes from annabel Or Annabelle.

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Speaker 4: Hey, Cheeky's. Just wanted to say that I love your podcast.

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Speaker 4: I've just learned so much finding my schedule with stay

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Speaker 4: at home mom, so working out, journaling and all the

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Speaker 4: like breathing, breatheouts that you give to us. So thank you,

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Speaker 4: love you, see you later.

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Speaker 2: Can't wait to hear you.

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Speaker 1: Annabelle, thank you so much. I love that you guys

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Speaker 1: So that's a little tip for you, Annabelle. So thanks

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