WEBVTT - Second Date Update: 1st Impressions Are Everything 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.480 It's Friday. We got a brand new podcast for you. 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:04.240 Welcome to the Brick and Jeff for a Second Date 0:00:04.360 --> 0:00:08.440 Update podcast. And I am just going to be floored flamoxed? 0:00:08.600 --> 0:00:09.440 Is that fox? 0:00:09.600 --> 0:00:10.080 Is that a word? 0:00:10.119 --> 0:00:10.239 Not? 0:00:10.440 --> 0:00:13.399 I don't think that's not a word? Is welmox? And 0:00:15.320 --> 0:00:18.799 that's really flummoxed on this show. 0:00:19.360 --> 0:00:23.080 If anyone agrees with this guy's lifestyle choice. 0:00:22.880 --> 0:00:24.800 Yeah, if it wouldn't be a deal breaker for you, 0:00:24.880 --> 0:00:28.520 because dude, or if anyone else does it, like that's true, 0:00:28.520 --> 0:00:30.040 that would actually be even more rare. 0:00:30.080 --> 0:00:31.000 In the comments plea. 0:00:30.920 --> 0:00:33.680 Yeah, please let us know in the comments your thoughts 0:00:33.680 --> 0:00:35.360 on this one because we love riadom. 0:00:35.400 --> 0:00:37.400 It's one of our favorite things to do during the day. 0:00:37.440 --> 0:00:39.720 And alexis, what are some of your favorites you're seeing? 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:41.559 I saw them from des He said, lots of love 0:00:41.600 --> 0:00:42.880 from Tokyo. 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:45.199 You make my day every day since a fresh one 0:00:45.240 --> 0:00:46.920 is always ready when I cycle to work. 0:00:47.120 --> 0:00:47.479 Nice. 0:00:47.680 --> 0:00:52.840 That's work? Wait, show off? Well you know I bet 0:00:52.840 --> 0:00:54.040 you got great calves decks. 0:00:54.760 --> 0:00:56.480 All right, here we go, let's get this Second Date 0:00:56.560 --> 0:00:57.680 Update podcast started. 0:00:59.160 --> 0:01:02.760 My dog loves it when I bring people home on 0:01:02.800 --> 0:01:07.600 the first date. Does he gets all excited. His tail 0:01:07.800 --> 0:01:10.960 sticks straight up and he runs into the other room 0:01:11.040 --> 0:01:13.240 so he can watch us through the one way mirror 0:01:13.240 --> 0:01:16.440 that we put in mirror just for your dog. So 0:01:16.640 --> 0:01:20.800 Bagel has seen things that he will never forget. Wow, 0:01:20.800 --> 0:01:22.800 he's just trained to go to the room and watch 0:01:25.240 --> 0:01:27.480 have so many questions. He doesn't need it, but I'll 0:01:27.480 --> 0:01:31.240 tell you he's never seen what happened in today's second 0:01:31.319 --> 0:01:34.680 date update where a guy was invited back to hang 0:01:34.720 --> 0:01:39.280 out at his dates place. They spent hours there and 0:01:39.360 --> 0:01:44.120 what happened the entire room is still trying to process. Yeah, 0:01:44.200 --> 0:01:47.119 in total disbelief. You have to hear it in your 0:01:47.200 --> 0:01:48.639 brand new second date update. 0:01:48.680 --> 0:01:50.000 He's so much like Bagel right now. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:55.840 Honestly, Oh, you enjoy right after this second date update. 0:01:57.360 --> 0:01:59.720 First impressions are everything. 0:02:00.200 --> 0:02:01.000 They're pretty important. 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:04.559 Like, Brook, what did you think when you first met 0:02:04.600 --> 0:02:07.920 me that very first day. I mean, I remember you 0:02:07.960 --> 0:02:09.840 trying to put your hands all over me, But what 0:02:10.480 --> 0:02:12.919 thoughts you were dancing around in your mind? 0:02:14.360 --> 0:02:17.160 I think you were a promotion kid. I don't know 0:02:17.200 --> 0:02:19.520 that you left a huge mark on me, Jeff, I 0:02:19.560 --> 0:02:19.920 don't know. 0:02:22.120 --> 0:02:24.920 She was leading the claw marks onto me. That was 0:02:24.919 --> 0:02:25.640 the main thing. 0:02:25.919 --> 0:02:27.200 Yeah, I don't think so. 0:02:27.480 --> 0:02:29.120 She's been cruel for self preservation. 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:31.359 I guess. Well. 0:02:31.480 --> 0:02:34.120 What I do know is first impressions can make or 0:02:34.200 --> 0:02:35.880 break a romantic connection. 0:02:36.639 --> 0:02:38.560 You were scared, That's what I remember. 0:02:39.360 --> 0:02:41.640 That's just the look in Brook's eyes when she was 0:02:41.760 --> 0:02:43.280 eyeing my entire body. 0:02:43.360 --> 0:02:47.480 It was I was. 0:02:47.960 --> 0:02:50.960 But with first impressions, sometimes it could be the smile 0:02:51.040 --> 0:02:53.840 that stands out. It could be the outfit. It could 0:02:53.840 --> 0:02:57.240 be something you didn't even expect, Like what's happening below the. 0:02:57.200 --> 0:03:02.639 Ankles, below the ankles, some action, You got some planner 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:04.079 fascy items going on down there. 0:03:04.080 --> 0:03:04.320 Girl. 0:03:04.440 --> 0:03:06.800 It's working for me. And I'll just say our listener, 0:03:06.840 --> 0:03:10.520 Derek had a very interesting first impression with his date. 0:03:10.840 --> 0:03:13.120 So let's find out about it. Derek, welcome to the show. 0:03:13.600 --> 0:03:15.000 Okay, thanks for having me on. 0:03:15.480 --> 0:03:17.040 Please tell me it's above the ankles. 0:03:20.360 --> 0:03:22.840 We'll find out. What's this girl's name that you met recently? 0:03:23.400 --> 0:03:25.799 Yeah? I recently met Julia on a dating app. 0:03:26.080 --> 0:03:28.679 Okay, is that where you're talking about the first impression 0:03:28.760 --> 0:03:30.720 or the first impression when you met in person. 0:03:31.280 --> 0:03:33.760 No, it was when we met in person. And I 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:36.000 know this is going to sound kind of weird, but 0:03:36.440 --> 0:03:41.720 she was not quite as cute as her pictures. Okay, well, 0:03:42.200 --> 0:03:44.960 but here's the weird part. Not until later on in. 0:03:44.880 --> 0:03:46.480 The date, were you drinking? 0:03:50.120 --> 0:03:53.840 No, not exactly. The impression I got is that she 0:03:54.080 --> 0:03:56.720 kind of forgot about the date and she came in 0:03:57.000 --> 0:03:58.240 right from a workout. 0:03:58.520 --> 0:04:01.160 Oh that makes sense, so she wasn't all done up? 0:04:01.240 --> 0:04:02.440 I see right, right? 0:04:02.560 --> 0:04:02.680 Right? 0:04:03.720 --> 0:04:04.520 Did she get cuter? 0:04:04.640 --> 0:04:06.040 Like the more you got to know her, because I 0:04:06.080 --> 0:04:08.360 know some people that, Yeah, Like after you know him, 0:04:08.360 --> 0:04:09.880 you're like, oh my god, I could see why they're 0:04:09.880 --> 0:04:10.520 so attractive. 0:04:10.720 --> 0:04:15.240 Just talking about me again here we're talking to Derek 0:04:15.320 --> 0:04:16.680 about him and Julia. 0:04:17.520 --> 0:04:19.480 That was definitely part of it. But there were also 0:04:19.560 --> 0:04:23.120 like some circumstances like as the date progressed, oh. 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:26.400 It started raining and and so then she was twirling 0:04:26.440 --> 0:04:28.560 in the rain. 0:04:30.240 --> 0:04:34.000 That would be interesting. Basically, the best part was is 0:04:34.040 --> 0:04:36.839 that even though she looked a little like frazzled, I 0:04:36.880 --> 0:04:38.560 could tell that she had like a cool vibe. I 0:04:38.560 --> 0:04:40.520 could tell she was really stylish. I could tell she 0:04:40.600 --> 0:04:44.320 was confident, and like the conversation was really flowing. We 0:04:44.320 --> 0:04:46.840 were talking about like travel. I had just gone to 0:04:46.960 --> 0:04:49.640 London last year, and she went to Paris two years ago. 0:04:49.760 --> 0:04:51.440 We were sharing stories about that. 0:04:51.640 --> 0:04:53.880 Can I ask, do we know where you are? Like 0:04:53.920 --> 0:04:54.680 what did you guys do? 0:04:55.279 --> 0:04:57.560 Oh? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We met at this like rooftop bar. 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.640 It was great. We met for drinks and we were 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.800 like we got a little food and we were like 0:05:02.839 --> 0:05:08.400 eating off each other's plate. Whoa yeah, And honestly, you 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.920 kind of got like messy would be the way I 0:05:10.920 --> 0:05:11.880 would describe it. 0:05:11.760 --> 0:05:14.039 Like, yes, let's talk about this, Let's get into the 0:05:14.120 --> 0:05:17.000 messy stuff. Messy on a rooftop or how messy did 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:17.720 we get? 0:05:17.880 --> 0:05:19.840 I would say it was like a date brought to 0:05:19.880 --> 0:05:20.920 you by ty Togo. 0:05:22.200 --> 0:05:22.680 Spilled. 0:05:22.880 --> 0:05:26.200 Oh yeah, I did. I did a couple things. She 0:05:26.360 --> 0:05:28.719 made a mess on the cloth napkins and she like 0:05:28.800 --> 0:05:30.880 spilled salsa, but it made it look like they were 0:05:30.880 --> 0:05:34.880 like bloody napkins. And we were laughing about it. It 0:05:34.960 --> 0:05:37.280 was like part of the fun of the day. And 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.640 I like, that's something that ran through my mind, is 0:05:39.680 --> 0:05:41.359 like I hope she doesn't just think I'm this like 0:05:41.520 --> 0:05:43.679 swab of a guy. But she was just as messy 0:05:43.680 --> 0:05:45.360 as me, So I don't think that was it. 0:05:45.520 --> 0:05:48.640 Yeah, I mean, who cares if you inconvenienced everybody in 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:50.800 the bar and all the employees there. As long as 0:05:50.800 --> 0:05:53.320 the two of you were vibing, really, that's all that 0:05:53.360 --> 0:05:54.520 matters in this scenario. 0:05:54.960 --> 0:05:57.440 And the fair, fair, fair. 0:05:57.400 --> 0:05:59.160 That's good. So how did that night end? 0:05:59.800 --> 0:06:02.080 Well, so this is where I'm like pretty sure that 0:06:02.160 --> 0:06:05.920 I didn't read the vibes wrong. Right. So at the end, 0:06:06.160 --> 0:06:08.520 she was like, I'm sorry, you know what, I feel 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:11.320 really gross, like I didn't get a chance to like 0:06:11.440 --> 0:06:13.560 clean up, And she was like, do you want to 0:06:13.600 --> 0:06:16.719 come over and I'll like clean up? And I don't 0:06:16.720 --> 0:06:18.840 think she would have like asked me over if she 0:06:18.920 --> 0:06:20.960 wasn't into the date and wasn't feeling it. 0:06:21.360 --> 0:06:24.200 No, I had this guy texting her friends, I'm just 0:06:24.200 --> 0:06:25.640 gonna invite him over for a couple hours. 0:06:25.839 --> 0:06:26.039 Yeah. 0:06:27.200 --> 0:06:32.160 Yeah, Well maybe she wanted him to clean her up, 0:06:32.240 --> 0:06:35.000 like she needed an assistant to help them do it, like. 0:06:34.960 --> 0:06:37.240 A pair of monkeys picking bugs out of each. 0:06:37.120 --> 0:06:39.280 Other's hairs done it before. 0:06:40.839 --> 0:06:43.560 No, that is definitely a green flag. I don't know 0:06:43.600 --> 0:06:45.560 if it's a green flag that she wants a relationship 0:06:45.560 --> 0:06:47.280 with you, but it definitely means that she likes you. 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:49.760 Yeah, I mean, did you say yes to that invite? 0:06:50.200 --> 0:06:53.280 Oh? Yeah, we hung out for like several hours and 0:06:53.560 --> 0:06:58.039 it was getting late. We were in bed. We didn't 0:06:58.080 --> 0:07:00.080 like go all the way. I'm not gonna really to 0:07:00.120 --> 0:07:03.880 get into the details of that, but I didn't say 0:07:03.880 --> 0:07:05.800 the whole night because I was like, I actually do 0:07:05.920 --> 0:07:07.919 have to work the next day, so I needed to 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:11.000 be in my space, you know. And I left really 0:07:11.080 --> 0:07:13.760 late and we had like been in bed together, and 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:16.320 I just hope, I don't know, I hope I didn't 0:07:16.320 --> 0:07:19.440 make her feel bad about leaving. 0:07:20.200 --> 0:07:20.920 It's possible. 0:07:21.240 --> 0:07:23.560 Yeah, maybe do you believe a guy who says I 0:07:23.560 --> 0:07:25.360 have work in the morning and I have to go day. 0:07:26.160 --> 0:07:28.560 Yeah, people work on the weekends too. 0:07:30.120 --> 0:07:32.200 I mean, I could just see where she may be like, 0:07:32.280 --> 0:07:33.720 oh man, he didn't like me. 0:07:33.960 --> 0:07:34.200 I think. 0:07:34.200 --> 0:07:36.840 I like the question though, did you tell her that, like, 0:07:36.920 --> 0:07:38.480 did you explain anything the next day? 0:07:38.600 --> 0:07:41.120 Or oh? Yeah? The first text that I sent to 0:07:41.160 --> 0:07:43.520 her was on my way to work, that was like, 0:07:43.840 --> 0:07:46.040 hope you slept well and last night was great and 0:07:46.080 --> 0:07:46.800 we'll talk soon. 0:07:47.080 --> 0:07:48.600 Did she respond to that text? 0:07:49.000 --> 0:07:51.560 So that's just it. It's been seven or eight days. 0:07:51.800 --> 0:07:54.960 I have texted her a few times to like check in. 0:07:55.400 --> 0:07:58.000 I haven't been completely ghosted, but I just am not 0:07:58.080 --> 0:08:00.600 getting back a lot. Like in the big I got 0:08:00.640 --> 0:08:03.320 like one word answers and now it's kind of like 0:08:03.440 --> 0:08:05.680 trailed off. 0:08:05.800 --> 0:08:08.920 She's like, yeah, well, hopefully we get more than one 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:11.440 word answers. We have to leave a good first impression 0:08:11.440 --> 0:08:13.600 with her. Old things about first impression. 0:08:14.240 --> 0:08:16.160 Her first impression was she wasn't that cute, So we're 0:08:16.200 --> 0:08:16.560 good at that. 0:08:19.600 --> 0:08:21.800 We'll just try and do it the normal way when 0:08:21.840 --> 0:08:23.920 we come back, call Julia and get you your second 0:08:23.960 --> 0:08:28.720 date update. Right after this hold on second date update, 0:08:29.760 --> 0:08:32.080 I'm going to do a quick recap here on the 0:08:32.160 --> 0:08:35.920 second date update if you're just joining us listener. Derek 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:40.559 met Julia at a rooftop bar for drinks and super 0:08:40.720 --> 0:08:45.240 messy food. She had apparently comes straight from a workout, 0:08:45.400 --> 0:08:48.600 so at the end of the date, she invited Derek 0:08:48.679 --> 0:08:52.400 to come back to her place because she wanted to freshen. 0:08:52.120 --> 0:08:56.200 Up and put on something more comfortable. I mean, honestly, 0:08:56.440 --> 0:08:58.000 is there a better question? 0:08:58.240 --> 0:09:01.560 Yeah, to ask, we know what that usually means. 0:09:01.679 --> 0:09:04.000 Yeah, that felt good, and it did lead to them 0:09:04.040 --> 0:09:04.920 in bed. 0:09:05.000 --> 0:09:07.280 They did lie in the same bed at some point 0:09:07.480 --> 0:09:10.400 because Derek stayed He said half the night or a 0:09:10.520 --> 0:09:12.560 quarter of the night. Yeah, I'm not really sure how 0:09:12.600 --> 0:09:15.160 to explain it, but yeah, didn't stay the whole night. 0:09:15.400 --> 0:09:18.320 But now he is not getting a callback and isn't 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:22.720 sure why, and that brings us to this moment right here. 0:09:22.760 --> 0:09:25.440 And remember he said he's not fully being ghosted. But 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.240 it's like little short answers. 0:09:27.280 --> 0:09:27.880 Something's off. 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:31.000 It's weird that there's such a turn, such a turn 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:32.280 in that energy from her. 0:09:32.480 --> 0:09:34.680 Derek, did we miss anything that you did wrong or 0:09:34.720 --> 0:09:35.400 that you could have done? 0:09:35.960 --> 0:09:39.000 Yeah? I don't think so. Like I said, I just 0:09:39.080 --> 0:09:41.319 I don't know what's going on. I really like this girl. 0:09:41.440 --> 0:09:44.520 I've heard you guys help people before. I've heard people 0:09:44.600 --> 0:09:47.240 like try to help people. Yeah, but like you get 0:09:47.280 --> 0:09:49.560 to the bottom of a misunderstanding, and like I've heard 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:52.640 people have a second date and get past the problem. 0:09:52.720 --> 0:09:55.280 So I'd like to just know what the problem is 0:09:55.320 --> 0:09:56.240 so I can fix it. 0:09:57.400 --> 0:09:59.200 That's emotional maturity, will you. 0:09:59.320 --> 0:10:00.920 Yeah, we don't know what I like that here, but 0:10:01.080 --> 0:10:03.600 that's fine, we'll work with it. Let's call Julia. We'll 0:10:03.600 --> 0:10:05.880 see if she picks up and get those answers you want. 0:10:05.880 --> 0:10:06.280 Here we go. 0:10:06.480 --> 0:10:07.240 I appreciate that. 0:10:07.320 --> 0:10:10.120 Thank you, really stop being so nice. It's irritating where 0:10:10.160 --> 0:10:10.360 we go. 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:23.360 She's obviously the problem. Hello, Hi, we're gonna speak with Julia. 0:10:24.640 --> 0:10:25.280 It's a ship. 0:10:26.360 --> 0:10:30.400 Hey Julia, thanks for picking up Julia, I said, we 0:10:30.600 --> 0:10:32.640 because you're on a radio show right now called Brooke 0:10:32.640 --> 0:10:34.640 and Jeffrey in the Morning. Good morning. 0:10:36.160 --> 0:10:39.640 Oh oh yeah. 0:10:39.640 --> 0:10:42.240 It doesn't happen very often, I'm sure, mostly because there's 0:10:42.240 --> 0:10:43.560 not very many radio shows left. 0:10:44.400 --> 0:10:48.040 That's part of it. And this is a segment that 0:10:48.080 --> 0:10:50.400 we do on our show called a second date update. 0:10:52.080 --> 0:10:54.400 Oh gosh, Okay, okay. 0:10:54.720 --> 0:10:57.040 I think I think this one's gonna be good. Honestly, 0:10:57.080 --> 0:10:58.480 I think you're going to be excited about that. 0:10:58.840 --> 0:11:00.880 I got a good guy, and I hope this doesn't 0:11:00.880 --> 0:11:03.080 sound weird. But we heard you went out with a 0:11:03.080 --> 0:11:04.400 guy named Derek recently. 0:11:05.920 --> 0:11:07.160 Oh no, what. 0:11:11.120 --> 0:11:12.680 It sounded like you were into Derek. 0:11:13.000 --> 0:11:14.800 Maybe it could just be that she's like nervous on 0:11:14.840 --> 0:11:19.520 the radio. Tell her again and you can react again. Yeah, 0:11:19.559 --> 0:11:20.000 here we go. 0:11:20.160 --> 0:11:23.080 No, I've definitely not been on the radio. But I 0:11:23.080 --> 0:11:25.520 don't really want to talk about Derek either. 0:11:28.520 --> 0:11:31.280 Well, Derek told us about the hangout you two had 0:11:31.280 --> 0:11:34.520 the other night, and it sounded really fun. The way 0:11:34.559 --> 0:11:36.360 he described it. 0:11:36.360 --> 0:11:37.280 It was fun. 0:11:39.280 --> 0:11:41.360 I mean you got to understand how he's confused. You 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:43.760 invited him to like hang out at your place and 0:11:43.800 --> 0:11:44.680 now nothing. 0:11:45.640 --> 0:11:49.040 Yeah. Well so I did invite him over and we 0:11:49.040 --> 0:11:54.080 were having a great time. But he was over for 0:11:54.160 --> 0:11:57.920 quite a while and he never took his shoes off 0:11:59.280 --> 0:11:59.760 in your. 0:11:59.640 --> 0:12:00.960 House or in your apartment? 0:12:01.080 --> 0:12:02.640 Is that a rule that you have, like you take 0:12:02.640 --> 0:12:03.720 your shoes off when you come in. 0:12:03.840 --> 0:12:05.880 I mean there's always two types of places, right, the 0:12:05.960 --> 0:12:07.680 shoes on or shoes offu. 0:12:07.800 --> 0:12:09.920 Plaes are encouraged get. 0:12:09.679 --> 0:12:11.680 Everything out of with Then I have friends who even 0:12:11.679 --> 0:12:12.680 for parties shoes off. 0:12:15.280 --> 0:12:16.199 Did you tell him that? 0:12:16.920 --> 0:12:20.319 Well, so, yes, I definitely I am a shoe kind 0:12:20.400 --> 0:12:22.920 of off person. But it was our first date. But 0:12:23.040 --> 0:12:24.920 we're just sitting on the couch, It's okay. Was it 0:12:25.160 --> 0:12:26.880 completely walking around my apartment? 0:12:27.120 --> 0:12:29.640 And and it can really ruin your outfit, like you're 0:12:29.679 --> 0:12:30.360 on a first date. 0:12:30.480 --> 0:12:32.600 You play on the look like who knows what kind 0:12:32.600 --> 0:12:34.320 of socks he had on? Maybe that was the issue. 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:37.520 Yeah, yeah, if you think about that, take them off, 0:12:37.840 --> 0:12:39.920 skirt and you're in socks. 0:12:40.120 --> 0:12:45.240 You guys know exactly how men think? So true, they. 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:47.240 Meant there's a lot of shoeheads out there that love 0:12:47.320 --> 0:12:47.880 their shoes. 0:12:48.559 --> 0:12:49.439 How you go together? 0:12:49.559 --> 0:12:52.200 Okay, did you consider that? Julia? 0:12:53.000 --> 0:12:56.160 Sure? And I didn't want to be rude either, and 0:12:56.240 --> 0:12:59.079 so that's why later when we were watching TV and 0:12:59.440 --> 0:13:02.800 getting kind of comfortable with each other and everything, I 0:13:02.880 --> 0:13:04.719 was like, do you want to get comfortable and take 0:13:04.720 --> 0:13:07.040 your shoes off? And he was like no, oh, and 0:13:07.080 --> 0:13:07.480 that was. 0:13:07.480 --> 0:13:08.120 Part of weird. 0:13:08.840 --> 0:13:11.160 That's really funny because it's hard to snuggle with shoes on. 0:13:11.400 --> 0:13:13.400 You means it right, It means that your feet are 0:13:13.400 --> 0:13:14.280 always on the ground. 0:13:14.679 --> 0:13:17.439 But it gets worse, you guys, it gets worse. 0:13:17.600 --> 0:13:18.439 How does it get worse? 0:13:19.360 --> 0:13:19.680 Well? 0:13:20.120 --> 0:13:22.040 I don't. I mean maybe he didn't tell you, but 0:13:22.160 --> 0:13:24.920 we did end up in my bed. Yeah, weird with 0:13:25.240 --> 0:13:26.720 his shoes still on. 0:13:27.120 --> 0:13:30.000 What okay, he got me? 0:13:30.480 --> 0:13:32.800 He got into your bed with his shoes on. Ew, 0:13:33.240 --> 0:13:35.239 that would be uncomfortable and disgusting. 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:35.920 Yeah. 0:13:36.200 --> 0:13:37.679 How did you react when he did that? 0:13:38.080 --> 0:13:40.480 I was appalled and I'm like, what are you doing? 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:43.520 Get your shoes off of my bed? And He's like, 0:13:44.360 --> 0:13:46.920 this is my thing. I don't take my shoes off, 0:13:47.040 --> 0:13:50.120 And I'm like, wow, am I in the Twilight Zone? 0:13:50.160 --> 0:13:53.120 Are you insane? You know, I didn't say anything. I 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:56.480 think I just kind of freaked out and faithfully he 0:13:56.559 --> 0:13:58.720 left like twenty thirty minutes later. 0:13:59.240 --> 0:14:01.320 I think that like the clothes that you wore for 0:14:01.400 --> 0:14:04.160 the day, or gross in your bed, like the things 0:14:04.160 --> 0:14:06.840 you sit on and touch and move around, like the 0:14:06.840 --> 0:14:08.760 bottom of your shoes are all over everything. 0:14:09.000 --> 0:14:10.719 Because I'm not I did not. 0:14:11.200 --> 0:14:13.080 I'm sorry. I did not expect it to be an 0:14:13.120 --> 0:14:14.520 issue that I keep my shoes on. 0:14:14.880 --> 0:14:19.160 That's really shoe boys on the phone, Yeah, Julia, that's Derek. 0:14:19.240 --> 0:14:21.720 He's been listening this entire time on the other line. 0:14:21.920 --> 0:14:24.440 Really, it's not really Derek, is it. 0:14:25.120 --> 0:14:25.880 Yes, it's me. 0:14:26.160 --> 0:14:26.680 How's it going? 0:14:27.960 --> 0:14:29.240 Yeah? 0:14:29.680 --> 0:14:32.040 Yeah, I can't really believe that that's the reason you're 0:14:32.040 --> 0:14:33.720 not like returning my decks. 0:14:33.760 --> 0:14:36.560 Well, what, you've never heard that complaint before? 0:14:36.960 --> 0:14:40.040 You don't know anything. No, do you know anyone else 0:14:40.040 --> 0:14:42.160 who wears their shoes as much as you do? 0:14:43.000 --> 0:14:45.320 I've been doing this, like a really long time. This 0:14:45.360 --> 0:14:47.520 has been kind of my thing for like fifteen years. 0:14:47.560 --> 0:14:49.680 I wear shoes twenty three and a half hours a day. 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.200 Maybe what's break for it? 0:14:52.320 --> 0:14:53.680 Like a shower hopefully? 0:14:53.880 --> 0:14:55.840 Yeah, Basically when I shower. 0:14:55.560 --> 0:14:58.440 I take the shoes like a comfort, like a security 0:14:58.480 --> 0:14:59.560 blanket type of thing. 0:14:59.600 --> 0:15:01.680 Do you have feet or is it the fashion thing 0:15:01.720 --> 0:15:02.680 that the girls were saying. 0:15:03.160 --> 0:15:04.520 I don't know. I mean the best thing I can 0:15:04.560 --> 0:15:07.640 describe it. Like, I am definitely as a person an extrovert, 0:15:07.680 --> 0:15:09.359 but my feet are introverted. 0:15:12.520 --> 0:15:13.320 Yeah. 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.200 And plus, if you think about it, it is a 0:15:16.240 --> 0:15:18.880 lot more efficient. It saves me like two to three 0:15:18.920 --> 0:15:21.760 minutes in the morning. That really adds up. That's a 0:15:21.800 --> 0:15:23.120 couple extra hours a month. 0:15:24.920 --> 0:15:29.680 I don't right your shoes off to put your pants 0:15:29.680 --> 0:15:30.600 on and then put. 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:33.280 Them back on. Who's taking their pants off? I'm not 0:15:33.320 --> 0:15:35.960 taking my pants off with her. 0:15:36.080 --> 0:15:39.480 Both women to take your pants off kind of skill. 0:15:40.080 --> 0:15:42.040 Wait, wait, if you take tear away pants, then you 0:15:42.080 --> 0:15:45.480 don't have to take them off over your shoes. They're 0:15:45.560 --> 0:15:46.160 very useful. 0:15:46.240 --> 0:15:48.440 I actually think there could be a solution to all 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:48.680 of this. 0:15:48.920 --> 0:15:51.840 Like I hear you you got your shoe saying whatever 0:15:51.920 --> 0:15:54.120 that's you man? Is there a way you could get 0:15:54.160 --> 0:15:57.400 like house slippers where you could like at least switch. 0:15:57.160 --> 0:16:04.000 From definitely not Look, I live a no barefoot decisions lifestyle. 0:16:04.240 --> 0:16:06.400 If I want to be ready, I want to stay 0:16:06.440 --> 0:16:09.040 ready right now. 0:16:10.320 --> 0:16:11.040 That's a point. 0:16:11.600 --> 0:16:12.760 It's not a good point, Jeff. 0:16:13.280 --> 0:16:15.280 It is if there's a fire, he is going to 0:16:15.320 --> 0:16:18.560 be the first one out, run out barefoot, but not 0:16:18.720 --> 0:16:20.480 as quickly. 0:16:20.680 --> 0:16:22.600 I think you would run equally as fast as. 0:16:22.480 --> 0:16:25.320 It's like you with your glasses. If you take your 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:28.240 glasses off, you're lost in this year handicap. You can't 0:16:28.280 --> 0:16:28.920 get out the door. 0:16:29.160 --> 0:16:30.960 That's because I can't see it, Jeff. 0:16:31.040 --> 0:16:35.280 It's because your glasses are introverts. Yeah, they're shy. They 0:16:35.360 --> 0:16:37.000 need to be on your face if feel comfortable. 0:16:37.360 --> 0:16:39.760 It would make my eyes introverts, not my glasses. 0:16:39.800 --> 0:16:42.960 Your whole body's weird, weird. We have no confidence. I 0:16:43.000 --> 0:16:44.920 feel like we're come into common ground here. 0:16:45.480 --> 0:16:47.720 So really he said, notice slippers. 0:16:48.000 --> 0:16:50.320 Well, yeah, ground that the shoes stand on. So let's 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:52.840 offer to send you guys out on another date. We 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:56.120 would pay for it. Julia, what do you think give 0:16:56.160 --> 0:16:56.960 him one more chance? 0:16:57.640 --> 0:16:57.840 Care? 0:16:58.080 --> 0:17:02.520 I honestly can't. It's so strengh No, I don't think 0:17:02.560 --> 0:17:06.000 I can adapt. Oh, he's not willing to adapt. Why 0:17:06.000 --> 0:17:07.760 should I. 0:17:07.040 --> 0:17:09.040 I think that this is I know you said that 0:17:09.080 --> 0:17:11.199 you've never heard this as a problem before, but this 0:17:11.280 --> 0:17:13.800 has got to be part of an issue with every 0:17:13.840 --> 0:17:17.520 woman you've ever been with. Yeah, there's like even socks 0:17:17.560 --> 0:17:19.880 on in bed are an issue for most women. 0:17:19.680 --> 0:17:20.280