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Speaker 1: It's Friday. We got a brand new podcast for you.

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Speaker 2: Welcome to the Brick and Jeff for a Second Date

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Speaker 2: Update podcast. And I am just going to be floored flamoxed?

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Speaker 2: Is that fox?

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Speaker 1: Is that a word?

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Speaker 2: Not?

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Speaker 1: I don't think that's not a word? Is welmox? And

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Speaker 1: that's really flummoxed on this show.

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Speaker 2: If anyone agrees with this guy's lifestyle choice.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, if it wouldn't be a deal breaker for you,

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Speaker 3: because dude, or if anyone else does it, like that's true,

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Speaker 3: that would actually be even more rare.

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Speaker 1: In the comments plea.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, please let us know in the comments your thoughts

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Speaker 2: on this one because we love riadom.

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Speaker 1: It's one of our favorite things to do during the day.

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Speaker 1: And alexis, what are some of your favorites you're seeing?

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Speaker 4: I saw them from des He said, lots of love

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Speaker 4: from Tokyo.

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Speaker 3: You make my day every day since a fresh one

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Speaker 3: is always ready when I cycle to work.

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Speaker 5: Nice.

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Speaker 1: That's work? Wait, show off? Well you know I bet

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Speaker 1: you got great calves decks.

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Speaker 2: All right, here we go, let's get this Second Date

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Speaker 2: Update podcast started.

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Speaker 6: My dog loves it when I bring people home on

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Speaker 6: the first date. Does he gets all excited. His tail

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Speaker 6: sticks straight up and he runs into the other room

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Speaker 6: so he can watch us through the one way mirror

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Speaker 6: that we put in mirror just for your dog. So

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Speaker 6: Bagel has seen things that he will never forget. Wow,

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Speaker 6: he's just trained to go to the room and watch

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Speaker 6: have so many questions. He doesn't need it, but I'll

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Speaker 6: tell you he's never seen what happened in today's second

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Speaker 6: date update where a guy was invited back to hang

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Speaker 6: out at his dates place. They spent hours there and

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Speaker 6: what happened the entire room is still trying to process. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: in total disbelief. You have to hear it in your

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Speaker 6: brand new second date update.

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Speaker 1: He's so much like Bagel right now.

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Speaker 6: Honestly, Oh, you enjoy right after this second date update.

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Speaker 6: First impressions are everything.

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Speaker 1: They're pretty important.

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Speaker 6: Like, Brook, what did you think when you first met

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Speaker 6: me that very first day. I mean, I remember you

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Speaker 6: trying to put your hands all over me, But what

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Speaker 6: thoughts you were dancing around in your mind?

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Speaker 1: I think you were a promotion kid. I don't know

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Speaker 1: that you left a huge mark on me, Jeff, I

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Speaker 1: don't know.

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Speaker 6: She was leading the claw marks onto me. That was

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Speaker 6: the main thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think so.

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Speaker 6: She's been cruel for self preservation.

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Speaker 5: I guess. Well.

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Speaker 6: What I do know is first impressions can make or

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Speaker 6: break a romantic connection.

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Speaker 1: You were scared, That's what I remember.

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Speaker 6: That's just the look in Brook's eyes when she was

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Speaker 6: eyeing my entire body.

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Speaker 3: It was I was.

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Speaker 6: But with first impressions, sometimes it could be the smile

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Speaker 6: that stands out. It could be the outfit. It could

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Speaker 6: be something you didn't even expect, Like what's happening below the.

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Speaker 3: Ankles, below the ankles, some action, You got some planner

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Speaker 3: fascy items going on down there.

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Speaker 5: Girl.

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Speaker 6: It's working for me. And I'll just say our listener,

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Speaker 6: Derek had a very interesting first impression with his date.

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Speaker 6: So let's find out about it. Derek, welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Okay, thanks for having me on.

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Speaker 1: Please tell me it's above the ankles.

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Speaker 6: We'll find out. What's this girl's name that you met recently?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I recently met Julia on a dating app.

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Speaker 2: Okay, is that where you're talking about the first impression

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Speaker 2: or the first impression when you met in person.

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Speaker 5: No, it was when we met in person. And I

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Speaker 5: know this is going to sound kind of weird, but

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Speaker 5: she was not quite as cute as her pictures. Okay, well,

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Speaker 5: but here's the weird part. Not until later on in.

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Speaker 1: The date, were you drinking?

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Speaker 5: No, not exactly. The impression I got is that she

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Speaker 5: kind of forgot about the date and she came in

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Speaker 1: Oh that makes sense, so she wasn't all done up?

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Speaker 1: I see right, right?

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Speaker 6: Right?

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Speaker 1: Did she get cuter?

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Speaker 2: Like the more you got to know her, because I

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Speaker 6: Just talking about me again here we're talking to Derek

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Speaker 6: about him and Julia.

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Speaker 5: That was definitely part of it. But there were also

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Speaker 5: like some circumstances like as the date progressed, oh.

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Speaker 6: It started raining and and so then she was twirling

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Speaker 5: That would be interesting. Basically, the best part was is

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Speaker 5: that even though she looked a little like frazzled, I

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Speaker 5: could tell that she had like a cool vibe. I

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Speaker 5: could tell she was really stylish. I could tell she

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Speaker 5: were talking about like travel. I had just gone to

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Speaker 5: We were sharing stories about that.

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Speaker 1: Can I ask, do we know where you are? Like

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Speaker 1: what did you guys do?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, yeah, yeah. We met at this like rooftop bar.

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Speaker 5: It was great. We met for drinks and we were

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Speaker 5: like we got a little food and we were like

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Speaker 5: eating off each other's plate. Whoa yeah, And honestly, you

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Speaker 5: kind of got like messy would be the way I

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Speaker 6: Like, yes, let's talk about this, Let's get into the

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Speaker 6: messy stuff. Messy on a rooftop or how messy did

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Speaker 5: I would say it was like a date brought to

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Speaker 5: you by ty Togo.

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Speaker 6: Spilled.

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Speaker 5: Oh yeah, I did. I did a couple things. She

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Speaker 5: made a mess on the cloth napkins and she like

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Speaker 5: spilled salsa, but it made it look like they were

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Speaker 5: like bloody napkins. And we were laughing about it. It

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Speaker 5: I like, that's something that ran through my mind, is

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Speaker 5: like I hope she doesn't just think I'm this like

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Speaker 5: swab of a guy. But she was just as messy

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, who cares if you inconvenienced everybody in

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Speaker 6: the bar and all the employees there. As long as

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Speaker 6: the two of you were vibing, really, that's all that

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Speaker 5: And the fair, fair, fair.

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Speaker 6: That's good. So how did that night end?

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Speaker 5: Well, so this is where I'm like pretty sure that

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Speaker 5: think she would have like asked me over if she

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Speaker 5: wasn't into the date and wasn't feeling it.

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Speaker 6: No, I had this guy texting her friends, I'm just

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, Well maybe she wanted him to clean her up,

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Speaker 6: like she needed an assistant to help them do it, like.

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Speaker 1: A pair of monkeys picking bugs out of each.

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Speaker 6: Other's hairs done it before.

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Speaker 2: No, that is definitely a green flag. I don't know

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Speaker 2: if it's a green flag that she wants a relationship

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Speaker 6: Yeah, I mean, did you say yes to that invite?

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Speaker 5: Oh? Yeah, we hung out for like several hours and

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Speaker 5: it was getting late. We were in bed. We didn't

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Speaker 5: get into the details of that, but I didn't say

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Speaker 5: be in my space, you know. And I left really

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Speaker 5: I just hope, I don't know, I hope I didn't

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Speaker 6: It's possible.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, maybe do you believe a guy who says I

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Speaker 6: Yeah, people work on the weekends too.

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Speaker 1: I mean, I could just see where she may be like,

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Speaker 1: oh man, he didn't like me.

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Speaker 5: I think.

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Speaker 7: I like the question though, did you tell her that, like,

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Speaker 5: Or oh? Yeah? The first text that I sent to

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Speaker 1: Did she respond to that text?

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Speaker 5: So that's just it. It's been seven or eight days.

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Speaker 5: I have texted her a few times to like check in.

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Speaker 5: I haven't been completely ghosted, but I just am not

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Speaker 5: getting back a lot. Like in the big I got

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Speaker 6: She's like, yeah, well, hopefully we get more than one

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Speaker 6: word answers. We have to leave a good first impression

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Speaker 6: with her. Old things about first impression.

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Speaker 1: Her first impression was she wasn't that cute, So we're

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Speaker 6: We'll just try and do it the normal way when

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Speaker 6: we come back, call Julia and get you your second

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Speaker 6: date update. Right after this hold on second date update,

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Speaker 6: I'm going to do a quick recap here on the

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Speaker 6: second date update if you're just joining us listener. Derek

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Speaker 6: met Julia at a rooftop bar for drinks and super

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Speaker 6: messy food. She had apparently comes straight from a workout,

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Speaker 6: so at the end of the date, she invited Derek

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Speaker 1: Up and put on something more comfortable. I mean, honestly,

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Speaker 1: is there a better question?

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Speaker 6: Yeah, to ask, we know what that usually means.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that felt good, and it did lead to them

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Speaker 6: They did lie in the same bed at some point

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Speaker 6: because Derek stayed He said half the night or a

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Speaker 6: quarter of the night. Yeah, I'm not really sure how

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Speaker 6: to explain it, but yeah, didn't stay the whole night.

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Speaker 6: But now he is not getting a callback and isn't

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Speaker 6: sure why, and that brings us to this moment right here.

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Speaker 6: And remember he said he's not fully being ghosted. But

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Speaker 6: it's like little short answers.

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Speaker 4: Something's off.

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Speaker 2: It's weird that there's such a turn, such a turn

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Speaker 6: Derek, did we miss anything that you did wrong or

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Speaker 6: that you could have done?

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Speaker 5: Yeah? I don't think so. Like I said, I just

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Speaker 5: I don't know what's going on. I really like this girl.

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Speaker 5: I've heard you guys help people before. I've heard people

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Speaker 5: like try to help people. Yeah, but like you get

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Speaker 5: to the bottom of a misunderstanding, and like I've heard

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Speaker 5: people have a second date and get past the problem.

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Speaker 5: So I'd like to just know what the problem is

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Speaker 5: so I can fix it.

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Speaker 1: That's emotional maturity, will you.

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Speaker 5: I appreciate that.

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Speaker 6: Thank you, really stop being so nice. It's irritating where

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Speaker 7: She's obviously the problem. Hello, Hi, we're gonna speak with Julia.

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Speaker 6: Hey Julia, thanks for picking up Julia, I said, we

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Speaker 2: It doesn't happen very often, I'm sure, mostly because there's

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Speaker 5: Oh gosh, Okay, okay.

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Speaker 2: I think I think this one's gonna be good. Honestly,

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Speaker 6: I got a good guy, and I hope this doesn't

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Speaker 4: Oh no, what.

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Speaker 1: It sounded like you were into Derek.

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Speaker 4: No, I've definitely not been on the radio. But I

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Speaker 6: Well, Derek told us about the hangout you two had

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Speaker 4: It was fun.

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Speaker 2: I mean you got to understand how he's confused. You

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Speaker 6: Is that a rule that you have, like you take

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Speaker 4: Well, so, yes, I definitely I am a shoe kind

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Speaker 1: You play on the look like who knows what kind

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Speaker 6: You guys know exactly how men think? So true, they.

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Speaker 2: Meant there's a lot of shoeheads out there that love

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Speaker 1: How you go together?

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Speaker 6: Okay, did you consider that? Julia?

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Speaker 4: Sure? And I didn't want to be rude either, and

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Speaker 1: That's really funny because it's hard to snuggle with shoes on.

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Speaker 4: But it gets worse, you guys, it gets worse.

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Speaker 6: How does it get worse?

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Speaker 2: Well?

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Speaker 4: I don't. I mean maybe he didn't tell you, but

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Speaker 6: What okay, he got me?

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Speaker 1: He got into your bed with his shoes on. Ew,

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Speaker 1: that would be uncomfortable and disgusting.

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Speaker 5: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: How did you react when he did that?

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Speaker 4: I was appalled and I'm like, what are you doing?

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Speaker 2: I think that like the clothes that you wore for

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Speaker 6: Because I'm not I did not.

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Speaker 5: I'm sorry. I did not expect it to be an

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Speaker 6: That's really shoe boys on the phone, Yeah, Julia, that's Derek.

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Speaker 6: He's been listening this entire time on the other line.

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Speaker 4: Really, it's not really Derek, is it.

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Speaker 5: Yes, it's me.

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Speaker 6: How's it going?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I can't really believe that that's the reason you're

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Speaker 1: Well, what, you've never heard that complaint before?

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Speaker 4: You don't know anything. No, do you know anyone else

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Speaker 5: I've been doing this, like a really long time. This

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Speaker 5: I wear shoes twenty three and a half hours a day.

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Speaker 1: Maybe what's break for it?

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Speaker 6: Like a shower hopefully?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, Basically when I shower.

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Speaker 2: I take the shoes like a comfort, like a security

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Speaker 6: Do you have feet or is it the fashion thing

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Speaker 5: I don't know. I mean the best thing I can

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Speaker 5: And plus, if you think about it, it is a

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Speaker 4: I don't right your shoes off to put your pants

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Speaker 5: Them back on. Who's taking their pants off? I'm not

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Speaker 5: taking my pants off with her.

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Speaker 1: Both women to take your pants off kind of skill.

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Speaker 6: Wait, wait, if you take tear away pants, then you

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Speaker 6: don't have to take them off over your shoes. They're

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Speaker 1: I actually think there could be a solution to all

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Speaker 2: Like I hear you you got your shoe saying whatever

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Speaker 2: that's you man? Is there a way you could get

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Speaker 5: From definitely not Look, I live a no barefoot decisions lifestyle.

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Speaker 5: If I want to be ready, I want to stay

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Speaker 6: That's a point.

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Speaker 1: It's not a good point, Jeff.

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Speaker 6: It is if there's a fire, he is going to

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Speaker 1: I think you would run equally as fast as.

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Speaker 6: It's like you with your glasses. If you take your

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Speaker 1: That's because I can't see it, Jeff.

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Speaker 6: It's because your glasses are introverts. Yeah, they're shy. They

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Speaker 1: It would make my eyes introverts, not my glasses.

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Speaker 6: Your whole body's weird, weird. We have no confidence. I

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Speaker 1: So really he said, notice slippers.

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Speaker 6: Well, yeah, ground that the shoes stand on. So let's

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Speaker 2: Care?

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Speaker 4: I honestly can't. It's so strengh No, I don't think

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Speaker 3: I think that this is I know you said that

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Speaker 4: That's true.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's never really come up. But also I haven't

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Speaker 6: Think, Julie, you've.

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Speaker 4: Heard of a farmer's can I can't imagine his shoe tan.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I just say you need to work through it.

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Speaker 5: I mean to me, it's not a problem, it's a strength.

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Speaker 4: Okay, I'll be mature. I don't so you deserve to

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Speaker 6: A woman out there who has her shoes on all

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Speaker 1: How much you want to bet his soul may works

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, man, you tried.

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Speaker 5: What can I say?

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Speaker 6: We're sorry, Yeah, but we'll be here for you if

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that was so weird. Yeah, I was trying to

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Speaker 2: He's got his shoe anxiety or something like feed anxiety.

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Speaker 1: I don't know what's going on.

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Speaker 6: I was trying to think it would be worse if

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Speaker 1: I would take no shoes ye, more normal, like when you.

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Speaker 6: Go to a wedding, he's gonna be shoeless.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, but I would take that over the shoes.

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Speaker 6: I mean, I am kind of surprised that nobody in

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Speaker 1: Some people just get it from being single for a

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Speaker 6: Because they keep their shoes on for twenty three and

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Speaker 2: I mean there were so many more questions that I

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Speaker 6: Yeah that's true. Well, we'll definitely have him back on

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Speaker 6: get the exclusive. But if you want help with your

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Speaker 6: dating life, we can help you with that. Email the show,

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Speaker 6: available online wherever you get your podcasts at Brooke and Jeffrey,

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Speaker 6: Brooke

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Speaker 1: And Jeffrey in the Morning,