WEBVTT - Awkward Tuesday: Worst Best Man 0:00:00.080 --> 0:00:02.560 All right, it's time for your brand new awkward Tuesday 0:00:02.600 --> 0:00:05.439 phone call. Welcome to the Second Day and Update podcast 0:00:05.440 --> 0:00:07.200 with Brooke and Jeffrey, of course, the home of the 0:00:07.200 --> 0:00:09.560 Second Date Update. And I'm just saying you're in for 0:00:09.640 --> 0:00:11.880 a treat because a bride is trying to stop a 0:00:11.960 --> 0:00:13.240 best man speech. 0:00:12.960 --> 0:00:17.200 Before it outs her ten year she's been keeping. 0:00:17.360 --> 0:00:19.680 Yeah, we're gonna get to that in just a second, 0:00:19.760 --> 0:00:22.520 but first, BB wrote us Greetings from the UK. I'm 0:00:22.600 --> 0:00:24.439 so obsessed with your show and got my best friend 0:00:24.480 --> 0:00:25.160 hooked as well. 0:00:25.280 --> 0:00:25.440 Oh. 0:00:26.760 --> 0:00:28.640 I just think it's so cool how people all over 0:00:28.640 --> 0:00:29.560 the world are into this. 0:00:29.840 --> 0:00:30.800 Yeah, seriously. 0:00:31.040 --> 0:00:33.720 Marie Aristeed said this show is all I listened to 0:00:33.800 --> 0:00:34.800 when coming home from work. 0:00:34.880 --> 0:00:36.240 Greetings from Denmark. 0:00:36.479 --> 0:00:38.720 Hey, I am a guy in my stream almost every 0:00:38.800 --> 0:00:39.839 day now from Germany. 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:42.199 Oh really for you. 0:00:43.000 --> 0:00:44.639 It's so good that the rest of the world can 0:00:44.640 --> 0:00:50.800 speak multiple languages where we'll hear just be an idiot's yeah. 0:00:50.840 --> 0:00:54.000 Another one from Korn wrote, I look forward to this 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:55.720 every day listening from South Africa. 0:00:56.040 --> 0:00:58.960 Oh, thank you so much for being part of it. 0:00:59.080 --> 0:01:00.480 We should shut it down America. 0:01:00.840 --> 0:01:02.920 Yeah, I say we just do all international. 0:01:02.960 --> 0:01:05.480 What do you guys think that's not about idea. 0:01:06.200 --> 0:01:09.400 Okay, listen, let's get into this brand new awkward Tuesday 0:01:09.440 --> 0:01:09.800 phone call. 0:01:09.840 --> 0:01:10.680 It starts right now. 0:01:12.200 --> 0:01:16.200 When you think of best man's speeches, they're always so 0:01:16.560 --> 0:01:23.840 well thought out, so sincere concise, never weird or inappropriate. 0:01:24.440 --> 0:01:26.759 Are you kidding me? They don't even scribble down anything 0:01:26.760 --> 0:01:27.319 on a napkin. 0:01:27.360 --> 0:01:27.920 They're like, oh. 0:01:28.600 --> 0:01:32.240 Yeah, I'll just I'll crack the whole place of maybe 0:01:32.440 --> 0:01:33.120 so funny. 0:01:33.400 --> 0:01:35.840 Yeah Shakespeare in bro Am. 0:01:35.840 --> 0:01:38.839 I right, Yeah, that's why when one of our listeners 0:01:38.880 --> 0:01:41.840 emailed us saying she has to stop her husband's best 0:01:41.880 --> 0:01:46.280 man from giving a speech at all costs, I was like, what. 0:01:47.920 --> 0:01:48.960 We talking about? 0:01:49.040 --> 0:01:50.320 I am shocked. 0:01:50.000 --> 0:01:53.160 Because apparently his speech could ruin not only her wedding, 0:01:53.320 --> 0:01:56.200 but maybe out a big secret that she's been hiding 0:01:56.200 --> 0:01:57.640 for the last ten years. 0:01:57.720 --> 0:01:59.360 Wait what now, I'm like, what. 0:02:00.800 --> 0:02:01.600 He is willing to. 0:02:01.560 --> 0:02:04.520 Share in exchange for some help in your brand new 0:02:04.560 --> 0:02:06.960 awkward Tuesday phone call coming up right after this? 0:02:08.520 --> 0:02:09.320 It's awkward. 0:02:09.560 --> 0:02:10.359 It's Tuesday. 0:02:11.240 --> 0:02:16.080 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Brooke, you got married once, 0:02:16.440 --> 0:02:18.760 Yeah he did, And I'm curious how much of a 0:02:18.880 --> 0:02:22.640 say did you have in picking Michael's Grimsman. Was that 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:25.120 one hundred percent your choice? Or did you give him 0:02:25.120 --> 0:02:26.040 like five percent? 0:02:26.160 --> 0:02:27.640 Say zero percent? 0:02:28.639 --> 0:02:28.919 Zero? 0:02:29.120 --> 0:02:29.520 Yeah? 0:02:29.840 --> 0:02:30.080 Zero? 0:02:30.360 --> 0:02:31.720 No, No, I had zero percent. 0:02:31.880 --> 0:02:35.480 Why are you putting up air quotes when you say 0:02:35.520 --> 0:02:37.359 that it was all his choice? 0:02:37.400 --> 0:02:37.800 I don't know. 0:02:38.040 --> 0:02:40.920 You let him pick out his own grimsman. 0:02:41.440 --> 0:02:43.239 Who doesn't do that giving. 0:02:43.000 --> 0:02:45.120 Away all the power to the man? How nineteen forty? 0:02:46.040 --> 0:02:49.680 But I only ask because one of our listeners is 0:02:49.760 --> 0:02:53.040 recently engaged and she is having an issue with someone 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:54.600 selected for their wedding party. 0:02:54.800 --> 0:02:57.760 Oh so let's talk to her about it. Maria, Welcome 0:02:57.760 --> 0:02:58.240 to the show. 0:02:59.040 --> 0:03:02.480 I think, oh you already sound a little annoying Maria. 0:03:03.560 --> 0:03:07.360 Yeah, well okay, so yeah, you teated up. My fiance 0:03:08.000 --> 0:03:11.160 just told me who the best man is going to be, 0:03:12.240 --> 0:03:14.919 and I instantly hated it. 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:16.320 I instantly hated it. 0:03:16.880 --> 0:03:17.639 He's not even a him. 0:03:17.639 --> 0:03:21.000 It's okay, isn't it obviously like his best friend or 0:03:21.040 --> 0:03:21.639 his brothers? 0:03:21.720 --> 0:03:22.040 Didn't you? 0:03:22.480 --> 0:03:25.040 I mean you kind of just know who that person's 0:03:25.080 --> 0:03:27.600 person is, right it might be yeah, I. 0:03:27.560 --> 0:03:31.040 Mean we have a really large friend group, so honestly, 0:03:31.080 --> 0:03:32.760 it could have been two or three different people. 0:03:34.240 --> 0:03:36.119 So was it at this point where. 0:03:35.880 --> 0:03:38.320 You were like hoping it wasn't this one person like 0:03:38.440 --> 0:03:39.960 anyone but them kind of thing. 0:03:40.920 --> 0:03:43.360 I just really wish I would have been asked before 0:03:43.400 --> 0:03:46.480 picking this guy to help guide the selection. 0:03:46.720 --> 0:03:48.040 Why does it matter to you? 0:03:48.800 --> 0:03:49.600 Well, here's the deal. 0:03:49.760 --> 0:03:53.920 So my fiance doesn't notice. But I used to date 0:03:53.960 --> 0:03:55.440 the best man whoa. 0:03:57.400 --> 0:03:58.840 You never told what? 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:02.360 No, and it's not his brother though, No, it's not 0:04:02.440 --> 0:04:03.160 a family member. 0:04:03.280 --> 0:04:05.120 Okay, okay, because that would be more of a red 0:04:05.120 --> 0:04:05.600 flag to me. 0:04:08.760 --> 0:04:13.080 Yeah, that's the red flag talking about. 0:04:13.680 --> 0:04:16.040 No, I didn't want it to get messy or weird. 0:04:16.839 --> 0:04:18.000 Hi, it's messy now. 0:04:19.000 --> 0:04:21.440 I know how long ago are we talking. 0:04:21.920 --> 0:04:24.480 We're talking like ten years. This is like back in 0:04:24.560 --> 0:04:25.160 high school. 0:04:25.320 --> 0:04:26.119 Back in high school. 0:04:27.640 --> 0:04:28.080 Feel better. 0:04:28.120 --> 0:04:29.720 It feels a little more innocent, right. 0:04:30.120 --> 0:04:32.120 Yeah, well, I didn't know that the guy that I'm 0:04:32.200 --> 0:04:34.680 dating now now is my fiance is gonna be my 0:04:34.760 --> 0:04:35.560 fiance either. 0:04:35.760 --> 0:04:36.760 Yeah. 0:04:36.800 --> 0:04:38.920 So were you all high school friends? 0:04:39.240 --> 0:04:39.560 Yeah? 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:42.800 Some of us were friends since high school. Others came 0:04:42.839 --> 0:04:46.400 around in college. I didn't think that this friend from 0:04:46.440 --> 0:04:49.239 high school was necessarily going to stick around. 0:04:49.600 --> 0:04:53.480 Oh yeah, okay, So but he's made his choice, Like, 0:04:53.560 --> 0:04:54.840 what are you want to do? 0:04:54.960 --> 0:04:55.159 Now? 0:04:55.520 --> 0:04:58.120 Here's the deal. Like this guy that's going to be 0:04:58.160 --> 0:05:00.440 the best man, he really liked me, like he was 0:05:00.560 --> 0:05:02.279 super into me, and I broke. 0:05:02.120 --> 0:05:04.520 It off in high school his heart. 0:05:05.200 --> 0:05:08.400 Yeah, and now so the same person's going to be 0:05:08.600 --> 0:05:11.640 making a best man speech at my wedding with a 0:05:11.720 --> 0:05:14.360 microphone and a. 0:05:14.279 --> 0:05:14.880 Couple of breaks. 0:05:14.920 --> 0:05:17.320 But it flipped that we dated and I could just 0:05:17.440 --> 0:05:18.760 I could just see him doing that. 0:05:18.760 --> 0:05:19.520 That's interesting. 0:05:19.560 --> 0:05:22.480 So you're actually worried about him outing you for being 0:05:22.480 --> 0:05:23.039 a liar? 0:05:23.400 --> 0:05:25.360 About you look bad too, right? 0:05:25.600 --> 0:05:28.240 I mean yeah, yeah, but sometimes drunk guys don't think 0:05:28.240 --> 0:05:28.960 they'll Yeah. 0:05:30.160 --> 0:05:31.760 But it makes her I don't know, You're right, it 0:05:31.800 --> 0:05:32.760 made them both look bad? 0:05:32.760 --> 0:05:33.839 Does it make me look worse? 0:05:34.480 --> 0:05:37.120 Just so you know, Like I never lied to my 0:05:37.200 --> 0:05:41.040 fiance age it never came up, Like I kept thinking 0:05:41.080 --> 0:05:44.400 every year, every maybe six months, like I'll tell him 0:05:44.440 --> 0:05:46.520 now and then just now here we. 0:05:46.520 --> 0:05:48.919 Are, or like it'll naturally come up. Yeah, like on 0:05:48.960 --> 0:05:54.159 his deathbed, I was in love with Evan. 0:05:57.680 --> 0:05:59.800 You think it's too late to tell your fiance now? 0:06:00.520 --> 0:06:03.880 God, yes, I think it's gonna be too much. 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:06.200 Okay, you don't think he would laugh if it came 0:06:06.279 --> 0:06:07.160 up in the speech at the. 0:06:07.080 --> 0:06:11.160 Wedding No, that's not the timing. No exactly, it might 0:06:11.200 --> 0:06:12.159 be funny and a difference. 0:06:12.320 --> 0:06:14.279 No, this is good because I clearly need to adjust 0:06:14.320 --> 0:06:15.080 my wedding speech that. 0:06:16.839 --> 0:06:19.040 I'm learning your exit. 0:06:19.160 --> 0:06:21.400 Yeah, so wait, you don't want us to call your 0:06:21.440 --> 0:06:22.440 fiance about this? 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:24.880 No, we're gonna call a guy I used to date. 0:06:26.040 --> 0:06:27.120 We're calling the best man. 0:06:28.160 --> 0:06:30.000 Yeah, you know, I know it's awkward Tuesday. 0:06:30.200 --> 0:06:31.760 I've heard you guys help other people. 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:33.080 This is perfectly. 0:06:33.160 --> 0:06:36.279 I have a question, how close are you friendship wise 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:37.960 with this guy? Like when was the last time you 0:06:38.040 --> 0:06:38.479 saw him? 0:06:38.920 --> 0:06:40.960 I mean I see him all the time. We're out 0:06:40.960 --> 0:06:43.640 in a group, but it's not like we're spending one 0:06:43.680 --> 0:06:44.560 on one time together. 0:06:44.680 --> 0:06:47.920 Yeah, okay, like Texas friends or you're familiar with each 0:06:47.920 --> 0:06:49.640 other obviously, so well in the group chat. 0:06:49.760 --> 0:06:51.360 What advice do you want? Like, what do you want 0:06:51.360 --> 0:06:52.080 to say to this guy? 0:06:52.960 --> 0:06:57.200 I don't know, maybe what exactly to say tell him 0:06:57.240 --> 0:06:58.159 in a nice way. 0:07:00.560 --> 0:07:01.000 To what. 0:07:02.600 --> 0:07:06.080 I don't know? I just maybe don't be the best man? 0:07:06.400 --> 0:07:09.520 What quit his best man job? 0:07:10.400 --> 0:07:11.720 You can't do that to your fiance. 0:07:13.880 --> 0:07:14.240 Crushed. 0:07:15.680 --> 0:07:17.400 This is going to be coming out of the blue 0:07:17.800 --> 0:07:20.040 to this guy, Like, don't you think this guy is 0:07:20.040 --> 0:07:20.760 going to be like, what. 0:07:20.680 --> 0:07:23.000 Are you talking about? We did it in high school? 0:07:23.000 --> 0:07:23.679 Who cares? 0:07:24.080 --> 0:07:26.480 I don't know. I think he might still have feelings. 0:07:26.520 --> 0:07:27.680 That's why I want to get ahead of it. 0:07:29.320 --> 0:07:33.560 That's a difference situation that truth is coming out slowly. 0:07:33.840 --> 0:07:36.240 About asking him to completely bow out. 0:07:36.560 --> 0:07:38.400 Wait a minute, has he like hit on you or 0:07:38.440 --> 0:07:39.880 has there been a moment or something? 0:07:39.880 --> 0:07:41.320 Why do you think he has feelings? 0:07:42.000 --> 0:07:44.800 I mean, I have felt like there's been some tension. 0:07:46.200 --> 0:07:47.960 Well, I mean it is kind of like you're both 0:07:48.000 --> 0:07:50.160 in on a little lie because you're not telling you. 0:07:50.600 --> 0:07:52.280 I mean, Brooke, think of the vibe when you hang 0:07:52.320 --> 0:07:54.440 out with me. It's kind of like that same thing. 0:07:54.480 --> 0:07:57.960 You guy's got the secret, you know, I see the look. 0:07:58.560 --> 0:07:59.720 We never dated love. 0:08:01.160 --> 0:08:02.720 I know you want to, but I'm not going to 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:03.280 let it happen. 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:06.720 I think you miss you're misremembering that segment. 0:08:08.920 --> 0:08:11.400 Feel that I feel like Jeff is her in the situation. 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.640 It's all coming from over on that side of the room. 0:08:14.760 --> 0:08:16.520 And I need to cut this off because we have 0:08:16.560 --> 0:08:17.800 an important thing to do here. 0:08:17.840 --> 0:08:22.040 Bro I don't have to call my husband awkward. 0:08:22.600 --> 0:08:26.360 I know you never want to call him. Look, let's 0:08:26.440 --> 0:08:29.600 just you take some time to think some of quality. 0:08:29.200 --> 0:08:31.800 Advice to give to Maria here, so we can come 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:36.560 back dial this best man and politely let him know 0:08:36.640 --> 0:08:39.760 that he needs to either bow out of the wedding 0:08:39.920 --> 0:08:42.320 or at least not bring up their past relationship during 0:08:42.320 --> 0:08:42.760 the speech. 0:08:43.080 --> 0:08:46.640 Yeah, all right, easy for you. So let's do it 0:08:46.640 --> 0:08:48.840 with your opportunity state phone call right after this hold on, 0:08:50.160 --> 0:08:50.960 it's awkward. 0:08:51.200 --> 0:08:52.240 It's Tuesday. 0:08:52.920 --> 0:08:54.920 It's awkward Tuesday phone call. 0:08:55.880 --> 0:08:58.520 Weddings are supposed to be one of the most joyous, 0:08:58.760 --> 0:09:03.000 fun times of your life. Yes, we have a bride 0:09:03.040 --> 0:09:06.040 to be who is stressed out, and not for the 0:09:06.120 --> 0:09:09.200 normal wedding reasons. It's because her fiance picked out his 0:09:09.280 --> 0:09:12.480 best man and he doesn't know this, but she used 0:09:12.520 --> 0:09:14.400 to date that guy back in high school. 0:09:14.880 --> 0:09:16.040 Dude, how awkward. 0:09:16.640 --> 0:09:18.280 She'll always know this and. 0:09:18.440 --> 0:09:21.439 They've been keeping the secret, her and the guy for 0:09:21.480 --> 0:09:22.440 like ten years. 0:09:22.600 --> 0:09:25.520 The worst part, though, is she feels like the guy 0:09:25.640 --> 0:09:27.079 still might even like her. 0:09:28.200 --> 0:09:30.280 So it all comes it comes down to this. She's 0:09:30.320 --> 0:09:30.920 asked us to. 0:09:30.840 --> 0:09:34.360 Give her advice about do you ask him to not 0:09:34.520 --> 0:09:37.040 come to the wedding at all and relieve himself of 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:39.920 his best man duties, Oh my god? Or can we 0:09:39.960 --> 0:09:41.840 ask him to go through with it and just keep 0:09:41.880 --> 0:09:45.200 his mouth shut and don't say a word, especially with 0:09:45.280 --> 0:09:46.440 a microphone in his hand. 0:09:46.840 --> 0:09:47.200 Yeah? 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:48.120 Is that right, Maria? 0:09:48.640 --> 0:09:49.520 Yeah, that's right. 0:09:49.600 --> 0:09:51.680 Okay, So like I'm even more stressful. 0:09:51.720 --> 0:09:53.480 I know I can sense that you're nervous. So let's 0:09:53.480 --> 0:09:54.240 get you some advice. 0:09:54.240 --> 0:09:54.480 Brook. 0:09:54.520 --> 0:09:55.240 What you got first? 0:09:55.240 --> 0:09:58.720 Okay, First, do not tell him to not be the 0:09:58.720 --> 0:10:00.520 best man. I'm going to tell you that is just 0:10:00.520 --> 0:10:06.880 going to create so much drama your husband. No, no, 0:10:07.000 --> 0:10:09.560 I would say, ask him nicely to not bring it 0:10:09.640 --> 0:10:10.320 up in the speech. 0:10:11.120 --> 0:10:12.680 And if you have. 0:10:12.600 --> 0:10:16.520 To play a little dirty okay, it's just like you've 0:10:16.559 --> 0:10:18.400 known this guy for over ten years. You've got to 0:10:18.440 --> 0:10:20.839 have some like something you can blackmail him with. 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:26.040 How information? Okay, just a little threatening? 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:28.600 How do you feel about threatening the best man before 0:10:28.640 --> 0:10:29.040 the wedding? 0:10:31.920 --> 0:10:34.200 You made your bed? I agree with the high school relationships. 0:10:34.200 --> 0:10:36.240 There's got to be something cringey you have of thank you. 0:10:36.679 --> 0:10:37.839 That's fair, that's fair. 0:10:37.960 --> 0:10:39.760 I mean it'd be like a last resort. 0:10:39.760 --> 0:10:41.720 I'd want to say, absolutely, I agree. 0:10:41.840 --> 0:10:44.480 So idle threats are on the table. What do you 0:10:44.520 --> 0:10:46.080 think you should just say? 0:10:46.120 --> 0:10:49.000 Look, because of our history. My request to you is 0:10:49.000 --> 0:10:52.080 you show up, but you shut up. Okay, don't say 0:10:52.120 --> 0:10:56.160 anything about us dating, and that I will consider your 0:10:56.160 --> 0:10:57.719 official wedding gift to us. 0:10:58.040 --> 0:11:04.040 Oh anything. I kind of like it, Jose, Yeah, I would. 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:07.880 Say what any bride wanted me to gift. 0:11:08.320 --> 0:11:10.160 What do you think about that, Sad, I didn't even 0:11:10.200 --> 0:11:11.840 think about the trade off of the wedding gift. 0:11:12.360 --> 0:11:15.600 I think that's actually really I'm smart everything tell me. 0:11:15.679 --> 0:11:16.080 I don't know. 0:11:16.160 --> 0:11:17.679 I don't know who this guy was, but was he 0:11:17.760 --> 0:11:21.480 plunning on buying a gift? Anyway, I'm gonna let you 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.520 know at least half of my husband's groomsmans did not 0:11:24.640 --> 0:11:26.360 get us anything you tell him, He's. 0:11:26.160 --> 0:11:30.920 Like, wow, yeah, Brooks almost threatening her husband's groomsman's now 0:11:31.000 --> 0:11:35.760 so taking her own advice threatener. Yes, so we will 0:11:35.760 --> 0:11:38.560 have Brooke on deck to pass out all the threats. 0:11:38.200 --> 0:11:38.880 That you want. 0:11:38.920 --> 0:11:41.439 But I don't think you're gonna need that. But I'm 0:11:41.440 --> 0:11:44.360 gonna dial this best man and let you talk to him. 0:11:44.400 --> 0:11:47.439 Okay, Okay, what is his name, by the way, Oh yeah. 0:11:47.840 --> 0:11:53.800 Brad Brad. Okay, so Brad Brad is not going to 0:11:53.840 --> 0:11:55.719 see this coming. But I'm DA's number right now here 0:11:55.760 --> 0:11:56.000 we go. 0:12:05.000 --> 0:12:09.280 Hello, hoy Brad, it's me. 0:12:11.120 --> 0:12:13.240 Who Maria? 0:12:13.520 --> 0:12:13.720 You know? 0:12:15.360 --> 0:12:19.360 Oh okay, Hey, yeah, I didn't have your number saved 0:12:19.440 --> 0:12:21.120 or something. I didn't recognize that. What's up? 0:12:22.520 --> 0:12:25.360 Yeah no, I was just looking to see if you 0:12:25.440 --> 0:12:31.040 had like some time to talk. 0:12:31.240 --> 0:12:34.080 Yeah. Sure, is everything okay? What's going on? Yeah? 0:12:34.120 --> 0:12:37.400 No, everything's fine. You know. 0:12:39.440 --> 0:12:41.760 You sure you're getting married? 0:12:42.040 --> 0:12:42.559 Excited? 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:52.480 Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's just uh yeah, well you know, 0:12:52.679 --> 0:12:55.920 it's just a little awkward of everything. 0:12:56.360 --> 0:13:00.400 You know, what do you mean, something wrong with like 0:13:00.400 --> 0:13:01.440 the venue or something. 0:13:01.760 --> 0:13:07.959 No, No, you're fine. It's it's just like with us, 0:13:08.000 --> 0:13:14.400 with our history, right, like our relationships. 0:13:16.240 --> 0:13:18.080 I mean, if you even want to call it that, 0:13:18.280 --> 0:13:21.920 I didn't even think about it, like what about it? 0:13:22.240 --> 0:13:26.280 I mean, like we we went out, what are you 0:13:26.320 --> 0:13:29.400 talking about? Like it was like seven or eight months. 0:13:30.080 --> 0:13:33.200 I mean I wouldn't even call that a relationship, like 0:13:33.880 --> 0:13:36.360 almost a joke. And it was a long time ago. 0:13:36.520 --> 0:13:40.280 So I mean when we went out, were it's like 0:13:40.480 --> 0:13:42.679 the longest relationship that I had had in all of 0:13:42.760 --> 0:13:43.280 high school. 0:13:44.280 --> 0:13:46.160 If it was good for you, that's awesome and stuff, 0:13:46.160 --> 0:13:48.000 But like I never thought we were like I don't 0:13:48.040 --> 0:13:50.160 know official or anything. I thought we just hung out 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:50.840 a few times. 0:13:52.679 --> 0:13:59.040 You're joking, right, it was a real thing, I guess. 0:13:58.640 --> 0:14:00.640 To you, maybe, but I know I thought we were 0:14:00.679 --> 0:14:01.600 like official, like I. 0:14:01.559 --> 0:14:06.520 Said, Okay, well it was real, but listen, we just 0:14:06.720 --> 0:14:08.280 easy to not bring it up at the wedding. 0:14:08.600 --> 0:14:12.480 Okay, I didn't plan on it because nothing even happened. 0:14:12.800 --> 0:14:15.559 Oh did you get hit in the head? Like, are 0:14:15.600 --> 0:14:16.920 you forgetting you. 0:14:16.840 --> 0:14:20.960 Were in love with me? I don't remember it like that. 0:14:21.000 --> 0:14:22.640 I'm pretty sure you were obsessed with me. 0:14:23.600 --> 0:14:26.000 Okay, listen, I had to break up with you. 0:14:27.360 --> 0:14:29.280 Why are we even talking about this. That was a 0:14:29.320 --> 0:14:31.920 long time ago. It was high school? Like who cares? 0:14:32.520 --> 0:14:34.880 Yeah, it was a long time ago, but it was 0:14:35.000 --> 0:14:38.560 a real relationship. You were really into me, and I'm 0:14:38.720 --> 0:14:41.200 now worried you're going to ruin my wedding, you know, 0:14:41.320 --> 0:14:44.400 just say something stupid again. My fiance doesn't know. 0:14:45.040 --> 0:14:47.080 Yeah, and I planned on keeping it that way because 0:14:47.080 --> 0:14:49.240 I didn't think anything happened. Like, if you want to 0:14:49.240 --> 0:14:51.200 say you broke up with me, I kind of just 0:14:51.600 --> 0:14:54.160 led you to do that because I was just not 0:14:54.280 --> 0:14:56.680 showing any interest because I didn't even know if I 0:14:56.720 --> 0:14:58.280 was into you. So I just kind of made you 0:14:58.280 --> 0:14:58.920 break up with me. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:05.160 Wow, okay, growth, Oh this is embarrassing. 0:15:05.320 --> 0:15:10.400 Oh my okay, oh what was that? 0:15:10.480 --> 0:15:11.320 What's going on? 0:15:11.960 --> 0:15:14.200 You know what's going on, Brad is you're on the 0:15:14.280 --> 0:15:16.960 radio right now with a really fun show called Brook 0:15:16.960 --> 0:15:22.680 and Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah, Brad, seriously, this is 0:15:22.680 --> 0:15:23.320 a segment that we do. 0:15:23.400 --> 0:15:25.040 It's called awkward Tuesday phone Call. 0:15:25.160 --> 0:15:28.400 Oh, it should be embarrassing Tuesday folks all today, Yeah. 0:15:29.640 --> 0:15:31.280 Right now, yeaharrassing for him? 0:15:34.200 --> 0:15:37.080 Yes, to go with that because you are our listener. 0:15:37.640 --> 0:15:40.040 The whole thing, Brad is that Maria was really worried 0:15:40.040 --> 0:15:42.480 that because of the past, it might come up like 0:15:42.520 --> 0:15:45.560 at the wedding and make things awkward for her fiance 0:15:45.720 --> 0:15:46.360 and the family. 0:15:46.480 --> 0:15:48.240 So she didn't know how to bring it up. She 0:15:48.280 --> 0:15:49.120 asked for help. 0:15:49.440 --> 0:15:50.680 She just wants no drama. 0:15:50.840 --> 0:15:53.760 That is literally the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Like 0:15:54.600 --> 0:15:57.160 I haven't even thought about her in like ten years. 0:15:57.760 --> 0:15:59.280 WHOA, Okay, you don't have to be. 0:15:59.280 --> 0:16:00.600 Rid, don't you guys hang out? 0:16:01.000 --> 0:16:03.800 Yeah? But like she's like the little sister. I don't 0:16:03.840 --> 0:16:04.480 even like. 0:16:07.280 --> 0:16:09.480 You dated this woman. She can't be your sister. 0:16:10.640 --> 0:16:10.920 Yeah. 0:16:11.080 --> 0:16:17.040 I meant sister's hot. It's clueless. 0:16:18.600 --> 0:16:21.520 I mean I don't hate her or anything. She's just there. 0:16:21.720 --> 0:16:24.880 She's my buddy's fiance. Like, I don't think about her 0:16:25.000 --> 0:16:26.040 like that. 0:16:25.960 --> 0:16:26.360 That's good. 0:16:26.400 --> 0:16:28.240 That's what you want to hear, am I right, yeah, 0:16:28.240 --> 0:16:30.080 this should be refreshing, right Maria? 0:16:30.280 --> 0:16:32.480 Yeah, Cash, I. 0:16:32.400 --> 0:16:37.040 Know that was probably a lot to hear because yeah, 0:16:37.200 --> 0:16:38.040 you expected. 0:16:38.160 --> 0:16:39.960 I mean, is there like. 0:16:40.000 --> 0:16:43.440 A small chance that maybe it was you that had 0:16:43.480 --> 0:16:44.239 the feelings? 0:16:44.320 --> 0:16:44.560 Still? 0:16:45.640 --> 0:16:49.880 No way. I don't know why he's down playing. 0:16:49.520 --> 0:16:52.600 It, but like, Brod, you were in love with me? Like, 0:16:52.680 --> 0:16:54.600 I still have the poem that you wrote? 0:16:55.440 --> 0:16:57.600 Really you can't you still have it? 0:16:58.560 --> 0:17:00.760 You still have that dumb poem that I wrote? 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:05.080 I mean it seemed really hard. 0:17:05.160 --> 0:17:07.679 So okay, I feel like Brad gave that to more 0:17:07.720 --> 0:17:08.360 than one girl. 0:17:12.440 --> 0:17:18.120 Copy paste action, So okay, this is like, this is hard. 0:17:18.160 --> 0:17:18.360 Yeah. 0:17:18.680 --> 0:17:20.080 I know it's probably a little bit of an ego 0:17:20.119 --> 0:17:21.879 blow to be hearing all this from Brad. 0:17:21.920 --> 0:17:23.040 But you're getting married. 0:17:23.200 --> 0:17:26.280 I mean, yeah, that's what you need to concentrate. 0:17:26.359 --> 0:17:26.760 That's right. 0:17:26.800 --> 0:17:29.760