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Speaker 1: All right, it's time for your brand new awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 1: phone call. Welcome to the Second Day and Update podcast

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Speaker 1: with Brooke and Jeffrey, of course, the home of the

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Speaker 1: Second Date Update. And I'm just saying you're in for

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Speaker 1: a treat because a bride is trying to stop a

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Speaker 1: best man speech.

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Speaker 2: Before it outs her ten year she's been keeping.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we're gonna get to that in just a second,

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Speaker 1: but first, BB wrote us Greetings from the UK. I'm

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Speaker 1: so obsessed with your show and got my best friend

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Speaker 1: hooked as well.

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Speaker 3: Oh.

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Speaker 1: I just think it's so cool how people all over

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Speaker 1: the world are into this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, seriously.

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Speaker 1: Marie Aristeed said this show is all I listened to

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Speaker 1: when coming home from work.

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Speaker 2: Greetings from Denmark.

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Speaker 5: Hey, I am a guy in my stream almost every

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Speaker 5: day now from Germany.

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Speaker 2: Oh really for you.

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Speaker 1: It's so good that the rest of the world can

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Speaker 1: speak multiple languages where we'll hear just be an idiot's yeah.

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Speaker 1: Another one from Korn wrote, I look forward to this

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Speaker 1: every day listening from South Africa.

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Speaker 2: Oh, thank you so much for being part of it.

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Speaker 5: We should shut it down America.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I say we just do all international.

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Speaker 2: What do you guys think that's not about idea.

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Speaker 1: Okay, listen, let's get into this brand new awkward Tuesday

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Speaker 1: phone call.

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Speaker 2: It starts right now.

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Speaker 6: When you think of best man's speeches, they're always so

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Speaker 6: well thought out, so sincere concise, never weird or inappropriate.

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Speaker 2: Are you kidding me? They don't even scribble down anything

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Speaker 2: on a napkin.

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Speaker 7: They're like, oh.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, I'll just I'll crack the whole place of maybe

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Speaker 5: so funny.

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Speaker 4: Yeah Shakespeare in bro Am.

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Speaker 6: I right, Yeah, that's why when one of our listeners

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Speaker 6: emailed us saying she has to stop her husband's best

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Speaker 6: man from giving a speech at all costs, I was like, what.

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Speaker 4: We talking about?

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Speaker 5: I am shocked.

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Speaker 6: Because apparently his speech could ruin not only her wedding,

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Speaker 6: but maybe out a big secret that she's been hiding

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Speaker 6: for the last ten years.

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Speaker 2: Wait what now, I'm like, what.

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Speaker 4: He is willing to.

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Speaker 6: Share in exchange for some help in your brand new

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Speaker 6: awkward Tuesday phone call coming up right after this?

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Speaker 4: It's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 6: It's awkward Tuesday phone call. Brooke, you got married once,

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Speaker 6: Yeah he did, And I'm curious how much of a

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Speaker 6: say did you have in picking Michael's Grimsman. Was that

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Speaker 6: one hundred percent your choice? Or did you give him

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Speaker 6: like five percent?

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Speaker 2: Say zero percent?

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Speaker 4: Zero?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 3: Zero?

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Speaker 2: No, No, I had zero percent.

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Speaker 6: Why are you putting up air quotes when you say

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Speaker 6: that it was all his choice?

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 4: You let him pick out his own grimsman.

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Speaker 2: Who doesn't do that giving.

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Speaker 4: Away all the power to the man? How nineteen forty?

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Speaker 6: But I only ask because one of our listeners is

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Speaker 6: recently engaged and she is having an issue with someone

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Speaker 6: selected for their wedding party.

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Speaker 4: Oh so let's talk to her about it. Maria, Welcome

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Speaker 4: to the show.

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Speaker 1: I think, oh you already sound a little annoying Maria.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well okay, so yeah, you teated up. My fiance

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Speaker 8: just told me who the best man is going to be,

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Speaker 8: and I instantly hated it.

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Speaker 7: I instantly hated it.

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Speaker 2: He's not even a him.

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Speaker 1: It's okay, isn't it obviously like his best friend or

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Speaker 1: his brothers?

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Speaker 2: Didn't you?

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Speaker 1: I mean you kind of just know who that person's

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Speaker 8: Mean we have a really large friend group, so honestly,

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Speaker 4: So was it at this point where.

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Speaker 5: You were like hoping it wasn't this one person like

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Speaker 8: I just really wish I would have been asked before

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Speaker 2: Why does it matter to you?

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Speaker 7: Well, here's the deal.

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Speaker 8: So my fiance doesn't notice. But I used to date

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Speaker 8: the best man whoa.

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Speaker 5: You never told what?

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Speaker 8: No, and it's not his brother though, No, it's not

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Speaker 4: Okay, okay, because that would be more of a red

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Speaker 2: Yeah, that's the red flag talking about.

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Speaker 8: No, I didn't want it to get messy or weird.

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Speaker 4: Hi, it's messy now.

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Speaker 2: I know how long ago are we talking.

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Speaker 7: We're talking like ten years. This is like back in

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Speaker 7: high school.

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Speaker 2: Back in high school.

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Speaker 7: Feel better.

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Speaker 2: It feels a little more innocent, right.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, well, I didn't know that the guy that I'm

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Speaker 4: Yeah.

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Speaker 1: So were you all high school friends?

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Speaker 7: Yeah?

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Speaker 8: Some of us were friends since high school. Others came

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Speaker 8: around in college. I didn't think that this friend from

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Speaker 8: high school was necessarily going to stick around.

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Speaker 6: Oh yeah, okay, So but he's made his choice, Like,

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Speaker 6: what are you want to do?

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Speaker 5: Now?

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Speaker 8: Here's the deal. Like this guy that's going to be

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Speaker 8: the best man, he really liked me, like he was

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Speaker 8: super into me, and I broke.

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Speaker 2: It off in high school his heart.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, and now so the same person's going to be

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Speaker 8: making a best man speech at my wedding with a

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Speaker 7: Couple of breaks.

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Speaker 8: But it flipped that we dated and I could just

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Speaker 8: I could just see him doing that.

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Speaker 2: That's interesting.

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Speaker 1: So you're actually worried about him outing you for being

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Speaker 1: a liar?

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Speaker 2: About you look bad too, right?

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Speaker 1: I mean yeah, yeah, but sometimes drunk guys don't think

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Speaker 5: But it makes her I don't know, You're right, it

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Speaker 5: made them both look bad?

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Speaker 2: Does it make me look worse?

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Speaker 8: Just so you know, Like I never lied to my

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Speaker 8: every year, every maybe six months, like I'll tell him

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Speaker 8: now and then just now here we.

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Speaker 4: Are, or like it'll naturally come up. Yeah, like on

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Speaker 4: his deathbed, I was in love with Evan.

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Speaker 2: You think it's too late to tell your fiance now?

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Speaker 8: God, yes, I think it's gonna be too much.

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Speaker 6: Okay, you don't think he would laugh if it came

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Speaker 2: Wedding No, that's not the timing. No exactly, it might

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Speaker 6: No, this is good because I clearly need to adjust

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Speaker 6: my wedding speech that.

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Speaker 4: I'm learning your exit.

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Speaker 6: Yeah, so wait, you don't want us to call your

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Speaker 8: No, we're gonna call a guy I used to date.

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Speaker 4: We're calling the best man.

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Speaker 8: Yeah, you know, I know it's awkward Tuesday.

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Speaker 7: I've heard you guys help other people.

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Speaker 5: This is perfectly.

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Speaker 1: I have a question, how close are you friendship wise

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Speaker 1: saw him?

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Speaker 8: I mean I see him all the time. We're out

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Speaker 8: in a group, but it's not like we're spending one

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Speaker 6: Yeah, okay, like Texas friends or you're familiar with each

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Speaker 6: other obviously, so well in the group chat.

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Speaker 4: What advice do you want? Like, what do you want

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Speaker 8: I don't know, maybe what exactly to say tell him

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Speaker 8: in a nice way.

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Speaker 7: To what.

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Speaker 8: I don't know? I just maybe don't be the best man?

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Speaker 4: What quit his best man job?

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Speaker 2: You can't do that to your fiance.

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Speaker 5: Crushed.

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Speaker 1: This is going to be coming out of the blue

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Speaker 1: to this guy, Like, don't you think this guy is

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Speaker 1: going to be like, what.

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Speaker 2: Are you talking about? We did it in high school?

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Speaker 2: Who cares?

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Speaker 8: I don't know. I think he might still have feelings.

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Speaker 8: That's why I want to get ahead of it.

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Speaker 1: That's a difference situation that truth is coming out slowly.

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Speaker 4: About asking him to completely bow out.

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Speaker 1: Wait a minute, has he like hit on you or

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Speaker 1: has there been a moment or something?

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Speaker 2: Why do you think he has feelings?

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Speaker 8: I mean, I have felt like there's been some tension.

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Speaker 1: Well, I mean it is kind of like you're both

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Speaker 1: in on a little lie because you're not telling you.

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Speaker 6: I mean, Brooke, think of the vibe when you hang

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Speaker 6: out with me. It's kind of like that same thing.

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Speaker 4: You guy's got the secret, you know, I see the look.

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Speaker 2: We never dated love.

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Speaker 4: I know you want to, but I'm not going to

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Speaker 4: let it happen.

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Speaker 1: I think you miss you're misremembering that segment.

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Speaker 2: Feel that I feel like Jeff is her in the situation.

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Speaker 4: It's all coming from over on that side of the room.

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Speaker 6: And I need to cut this off because we have

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Speaker 6: an important thing to do here.

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Speaker 2: Bro I don't have to call my husband awkward.

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Speaker 4: I know you never want to call him. Look, let's

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Speaker 4: just you take some time to think some of quality.

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Speaker 6: Advice to give to Maria here, so we can come

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Speaker 6: back dial this best man and politely let him know

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Speaker 6: that he needs to either bow out of the wedding

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Speaker 6: or at least not bring up their past relationship during

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Speaker 6: the speech.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, all right, easy for you. So let's do it

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Speaker 4: with your opportunity state phone call right after this hold on,

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Speaker 4: it's awkward.

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Speaker 2: It's Tuesday.

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Speaker 4: It's awkward Tuesday phone call.

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Speaker 6: Weddings are supposed to be one of the most joyous,

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Speaker 6: fun times of your life. Yes, we have a bride

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Speaker 6: to be who is stressed out, and not for the

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Speaker 6: normal wedding reasons. It's because her fiance picked out his

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Speaker 6: best man and he doesn't know this, but she used

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Speaker 6: to date that guy back in high school.

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Speaker 5: Dude, how awkward.

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Speaker 4: She'll always know this and.

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Speaker 2: They've been keeping the secret, her and the guy for

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Speaker 2: like ten years.

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Speaker 6: The worst part, though, is she feels like the guy

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Speaker 6: still might even like her.

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Speaker 4: So it all comes it comes down to this. She's

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Is that right, Maria?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, that's right.

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Speaker 2: Okay, So like I'm even more stressful.

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Speaker 4: I know I can sense that you're nervous. So let's

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Speaker 8: Brook.

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Speaker 4: What you got first?

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Speaker 1: Okay, First, do not tell him to not be the

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Speaker 1: I would say, ask him nicely to not bring it

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Speaker 2: And if you have.

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Speaker 1: To play a little dirty okay, it's just like you've

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Speaker 1: known this guy for over ten years. You've got to

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Speaker 2: How information? Okay, just a little threatening?

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Speaker 4: How do you feel about threatening the best man before

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Speaker 2: You made your bed? I agree with the high school relationships.

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Speaker 2: There's got to be something cringey you have of thank you.

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Speaker 7: That's fair, that's fair.

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Speaker 8: I mean it'd be like a last resort.

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Speaker 2: I'd want to say, absolutely, I agree.

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Speaker 4: So idle threats are on the table. What do you

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Speaker 5: Look, because of our history. My request to you is

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Speaker 5: anything about us dating, and that I will consider your

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Speaker 2: Oh anything. I kind of like it, Jose, Yeah, I would.

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Speaker 1: Say what any bride wanted me to gift.

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Speaker 8: What do you think about that, Sad, I didn't even

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Speaker 5: I think that's actually really I'm smart everything tell me.

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Speaker 2: I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't know who this guy was, but was he

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Speaker 1: know at least half of my husband's groomsmans did not

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Speaker 6: Like, wow, yeah, Brooks almost threatening her husband's groomsman's now

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Speaker 6: so taking her own advice threatener. Yes, so we will

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Speaker 7: That you want.

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Speaker 6: But I don't think you're gonna need that. But I'm

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Speaker 4: Okay, Okay, what is his name, by the way, Oh yeah.

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Speaker 6: Brad Brad. Okay, so Brad Brad is not going to

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Speaker 6: see this coming. But I'm DA's number right now here

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Speaker 3: Hello, hoy Brad, it's me.

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Speaker 7: Who Maria?

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Speaker 8: You know?

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Speaker 7: Oh okay, Hey, yeah, I didn't have your number saved

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Speaker 8: Yeah no, I was just looking to see if you

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Speaker 7: Yeah. Sure, is everything okay? What's going on? Yeah?

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Speaker 8: No, everything's fine. You know.

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Speaker 7: You sure you're getting married?

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Speaker 2: Excited?

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Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's just uh yeah, well you know,

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Speaker 7: You know, what do you mean, something wrong with like

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Speaker 8: No, No, you're fine. It's it's just like with us,

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Speaker 7: I mean, if you even want to call it that,

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Speaker 7: I didn't even think about it, like what about it?

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Speaker 8: I mean, like we we went out, what are you

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Speaker 7: I mean I wouldn't even call that a relationship, like

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Speaker 8: So I mean when we went out, were it's like

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Speaker 7: If it was good for you, that's awesome and stuff,

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Speaker 7: But like I never thought we were like I don't

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Speaker 8: You're joking, right, it was a real thing, I guess.

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Speaker 8: Said, Okay, well it was real, but listen, we just

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Speaker 7: Okay, I didn't plan on it because nothing even happened.

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Speaker 8: Oh did you get hit in the head? Like, are

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Speaker 7: Were in love with me? I don't remember it like that.

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Speaker 7: I'm pretty sure you were obsessed with me.

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Speaker 8: Okay, listen, I had to break up with you.

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Speaker 7: Why are we even talking about this. That was a

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Speaker 8: Yeah, it was a long time ago, but it was

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Speaker 8: a real relationship. You were really into me, and I'm

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Speaker 8: now worried you're going to ruin my wedding, you know,

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Speaker 8: just say something stupid again. My fiance doesn't know.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, and I planned on keeping it that way because

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Speaker 7: I didn't think anything happened. Like, if you want to

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Speaker 2: Wow, okay, growth, Oh this is embarrassing.

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Speaker 4: Oh my okay, oh what was that?

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Speaker 7: What's going on?

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Speaker 6: You know what's going on, Brad is you're on the

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Speaker 6: radio right now with a really fun show called Brook

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Speaker 6: and Jeffrey in the Morning. Yeah, Brad, seriously, this is

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Speaker 6: a segment that we do.

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Speaker 4: It's called awkward Tuesday phone Call.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it should be embarrassing Tuesday folks all today, Yeah.

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Speaker 8: Right now, yeaharrassing for him?

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Speaker 2: Yes, to go with that because you are our listener.

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Speaker 6: The whole thing, Brad is that Maria was really worried

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Speaker 2: So she didn't know how to bring it up. She

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Speaker 5: She just wants no drama.

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Speaker 7: That is literally the dumbest thing I've ever heard. Like

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Speaker 7: I haven't even thought about her in like ten years.

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Speaker 3: WHOA, Okay, you don't have to be.

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Speaker 4: Rid, don't you guys hang out?

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Speaker 7: Yeah? But like she's like the little sister. I don't

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Speaker 4: You dated this woman. She can't be your sister.

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Speaker 1: Yeah.

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Speaker 4: I meant sister's hot. It's clueless.

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Speaker 7: I mean I don't hate her or anything. She's just there.

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Speaker 7: She's my buddy's fiance. Like, I don't think about her

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Speaker 4: That's good.

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Speaker 6: That's what you want to hear, am I right, yeah,

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Speaker 6: this should be refreshing, right Maria?

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Speaker 7: Yeah, Cash, I.

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Speaker 1: Know that was probably a lot to hear because yeah,

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Speaker 2: I mean, is there like.

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Speaker 1: A small chance that maybe it was you that had

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Speaker 2: Still?

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Speaker 8: No way. I don't know why he's down playing.

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Speaker 7: It, but like, Brod, you were in love with me? Like,

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Speaker 7: I still have the poem that you wrote?

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Speaker 4: Really you can't you still have it?

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Speaker 7: You still have that dumb poem that I wrote?

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Speaker 8: I mean it seemed really hard.

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Speaker 2: So okay, I feel like Brad gave that to more

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Speaker 6: Copy paste action, So okay, this is like, this is hard.

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Speaker 7: Yeah.

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Speaker 6: I know it's probably a little bit of an ego

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Speaker 2: But you're getting married.

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Speaker 1: I mean, yeah, that's what you need to concentrate.

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 6: And maybe a good exercise is to take that poem

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Speaker 4: I don't take the first step.

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Speaker 1: Okay, I think it would be fine if you told

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Speaker 2: Happened.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, why why.

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Speaker 7: Would you do that? Like we literally just messed around

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Speaker 3: That okay, all right, maybe don't bring it up.

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Speaker 6: It should be refreshing to know that your past relationship,

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Speaker 6: or I guess Brad would say, your your non relationship

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Speaker 2: Past hookup.

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Speaker 7: Yes, yes, well thanks.

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Speaker 8: Hermina didn't play out like I thought I would.

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Speaker 5: But at least you know when he's looking at you now,

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Speaker 5: he's not flirting with you.

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Speaker 4: That's right.

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Speaker 7: Oh my god, she said. The retention.

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Speaker 2: Help me.

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Speaker 4: That's actually cheered me up today. So Brad, thanks for

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Speaker 4: your time one of the wedding guys.

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Speaker 7: Yeah, I can bring up this phone call, that's for sure.

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Speaker 4: This is the one time we're asking people not to

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