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Speaker 1: Welcome back to Good Mom's Bad Choices.

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Speaker 3: I'm Erica and I'm Mila and it's Wednesday.

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Speaker 1: What did it do?

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Speaker 4: Favorite day of the week?

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Speaker 1: Why is it your favorite day of the week? Here?

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Speaker 2: Because this is the day we get to, you know,

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Speaker 2: chat and sit down with the people's and talk our shit,

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Speaker 2: talk our shit and do you know, do our thing.

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Speaker 1: This is true.

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Speaker 2: Wednesday is my favorite day too. When I was a kid,

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Speaker 2: it was because it was almost Friday. But now that

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Speaker 2: I'm an adult, every day is a school day.

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Speaker 1: I work every day, I do shit every day. I

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Speaker 2: I'm like, I can still can't believe it dropping my

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Speaker 1: The shit is crazy. How does it feel to.

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Speaker 3: Be almost mid thirties? I mean, wow, you really just

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Speaker 3: rubbing it in deep, aren't you?

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Speaker 4: Bitch? You know what?

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Speaker 3: This is the first year that I've like, don't have

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Speaker 3: if it's because I'm like avoiding it a little bit,

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Speaker 4: I know who I am and.

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Speaker 3: Or I'm discovering a lot more about who I am,

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Speaker 3: and I feel like I look.

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Speaker 4: Better than ever.

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Speaker 3: I just feel empowered. Really, you can't tell me shit, did.

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Speaker 4: You pull a card today?

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Speaker 1: I did? I did.

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Speaker 2: Today's card is a Queen of Machetes, which is the

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Speaker 2: Queen of Swords in most decks. This one's really interesting

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Speaker 2: because it actually because I'm a witch, and so this

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Speaker 2: the Queen of Swords is a woman obviously holding a sword,

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Speaker 2: but she's independent, unbiased judgment, clear boundaries, and direct communication.

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Speaker 2: This episode is actually a lot about having direct communication.

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Speaker 2: The Queen of Swords combines the mental clarity and intellectual

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Speaker 2: able to use your intellect and unbiased judgment while also

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Speaker 2: As you lead from the head and not the heart,

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Speaker 2: you are better able to discern situations without the influence

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Speaker 2: Know the how, what, why, where, when, and who of

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Speaker 1: The Queen of Swords notes that you are a truth seeker.

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Speaker 2: You're open to hearing the thoughts and opinions of others,

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Speaker 2: I love this one because I feel like bitches, me

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Speaker 1: We do this right, Like, oh they're so nice. Oh

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Speaker 4: I can't keep the facts away. The words of Sebastian.

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Speaker 2: The words of Sebastian make I can't keep the facts away. Okay,

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Speaker 3: Right, and fluff doesn't mean that you can't be gentle

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Speaker 3: And that leads me to today's affirmation. Today's affirmation is

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Speaker 2: My sexual pleasure is a mother fucking priority.

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Speaker 3: And I say this because I think that as women

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Speaker 4: She was good with the fact that she had already like.

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Speaker 3: She'd experienced everything she needed and this man provided a

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Speaker 4: She's not so good.

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Speaker 3: She's not so good because guess what, guys, sex fucking matters.

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Speaker 4: It just does. We are sexual.

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Speaker 1: It's definitely a priority.

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Speaker 2: And because it's a priority, that brings us to today's topic,

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Speaker 4: Amen, Okay, that's it.

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Speaker 1: That's my fucking apps. The best sex of my life

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Speaker 2: Boom and so and so it is. We have a

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Speaker 2: We talk a lot of shit. We talk about all

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Speaker 2: But if it's terrible, she's probably also telling a friend.

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Speaker 4: It's so true.

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Speaker 3: So you are not safe. They're not safe. Just accept it.

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Speaker 2: So all the men who listen to our show, I

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Speaker 3: Or it worked on one woman, so it must work

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Speaker 2: All women are not the same. We all need different shit,

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Speaker 2: we all have different vaginas. They're set up differently.

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Speaker 4: I just had a.

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Speaker 3: Vision of like someone's setting up like a computer, something like.

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Speaker 1: Your downloads go over here, transferred files here.

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Speaker 3: My desktop is actually the bottom and.

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Speaker 2: My mouse is up here. Okay, Erica doesn't have a

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Speaker 4: I love that analogy.

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Speaker 3: It's true though, it's true, and I think I think

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Speaker 2: That our value is in our sexual pleasure. You know,

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Speaker 1: And you're like, okay, do the tricks. Okay, swallow, it

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Speaker 2: Jacket shut the hair, look sexy.

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Speaker 4: Look oh you're writing like look beautiful, ben.

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Speaker 2: Ben arch the back arcs, the back, arch, the back,

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Speaker 1: We're too bit. He's looking sexy.

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Speaker 4: The fuck hearts back. Call daddy, don't call hi, daddy.

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Speaker 4: Don't like me called daddy.

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Speaker 2: Oh, don't do this position. Your boobs look like little utters.

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Speaker 2: Sit up, go down. Fuck be skinny, be fat, be sick.

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Speaker 2: If you're not thick, it's not gonna be good, not back. God, damn,

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Speaker 1: Don't spank him, spank him. I'm sure.

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Speaker 4: Wow.

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Speaker 3: Literally saw the faces of like twenty lovers right now.

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Speaker 5: Right.

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Speaker 4: It's like he liked that. He didn't like that. He

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Speaker 1: He said he said, right, Oh my god, Wow, focus

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Speaker 4: He doesn't like his dick sicked.

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Speaker 1: Don't touch his asshole, touch his asshole.

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Speaker 2: Oh my god, it's true. Wow, you know, I'll be honest.

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Speaker 2: Once a nigga told me I gave what did he say?

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Speaker 4: High?

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Speaker 2: High on the mediocre scale of bead. I was offended,

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Speaker 2: I guess I didn't put in that much effort that day.

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Speaker 4: Didn't make you feel insecure? Did you argue with.

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Speaker 2: I was like, what the fuck are you talking about?

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Speaker 2: None no niggas ever complained to pay.

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Speaker 4: But you did exactly what we just said.

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Speaker 1: Do I know? But you know what, may it's true

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Speaker 1: I did do that. I don't. Maybe my head's not

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Speaker 3: Well, did you just think he was just trying to

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Speaker 1: He has a very sick penis. My mouth is probably stuffed.

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Speaker 2: I just gotta I gotta do more mouth stretches. That day,

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Speaker 4: Who was the bigger mouth?

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Speaker 2: Guys a longer Wait, who's a longer tongue? David's like,

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Speaker 1: May said me? I have the longer tongue.

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Speaker 4: Does that mean it's better? For some reason?

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Speaker 1: I no longer have a long tongue, So I need

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Speaker 3: I think longer tongue just makes better, like photo ops

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Speaker 3: Immediately like you see it, You're like, whoa like you

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Speaker 1: You know what it is? We all have teeth.

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Speaker 2: The teeth is just like if you have a really

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Speaker 4: Want for me? Teeys?

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Speaker 3: What happens when you get like all these people are

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Speaker 4: You know what process it.

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Speaker 2: Has to be. I got in a car accident, I

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Speaker 2: giving for months. It did you get a whold set

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Speaker 2: of new teeth? I don't, Wow, I'm never getting vinears.

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Speaker 2: If I'm already on the high the high scale of mediocre.

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Speaker 1: I can't.

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Speaker 2: You know, I'm don't have to try that again. I'm

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but you know what we did. You know what

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Speaker 3: We went into sexual essentials class and we we tapped

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Speaker 4: Need to do that.

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Speaker 1: I think it's true. I think, and it's okay, don't

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Speaker 4: I do, I do do.

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Speaker 3: But some people are just are just scared. They're scared

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Speaker 2: Frankly, they're just honestly, hey, this person told me this

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Speaker 1: I refuse. I don't know if I ever said it

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Speaker 2: I was like, you're not going to label me. I'm

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Speaker 2: not going to publicly label myself high on mediocre, not publicly.

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Speaker 4: Well, I guess it is public now. You just made

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Speaker 4: it public news.

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Speaker 3: Good less niggas breaking news. Jamila is mediocre at giving.

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Speaker 1: Hot I'm fine.

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Speaker 2: No, now you know I'm not mediocre. That nigga is confused. However,

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Speaker 2: maybe they'll help. Don't put it in my mouth. I'm

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Speaker 2: cool with that. Don't try and don't try and has

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Speaker 2: I've never smacked you with the penis on your cheet.

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Speaker 1: It's so funny.

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Speaker 4: I love it.

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Speaker 1: It's kind of funny.

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Speaker 4: I like it. I kind of like it.

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Speaker 1: Only if it's like a heavy one.

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Speaker 4: And that's the sub in me.

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Speaker 2: I like, I'm such a fucking sub. I'm I'm a sub.

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Speaker 2: I'm in a relationship that I'm the sub, and I'm like,

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Speaker 2: this is sick. I should not like it here so much?

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Speaker 2: Why I don't know, because I'm just such a little

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Speaker 4: So what's the number one on this list?

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Speaker 1: Okay?

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Speaker 2: Number one on this list is prioritize your pleasure in

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Speaker 2: all things and express it. So you don't just show

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Speaker 2: up one day saying, hey, you're not eating my pussy

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Speaker 2: right or enough?

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Speaker 1: Let me show you what to do.

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Speaker 2: You need to practice having that conversation and how.

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Speaker 1: Do you practice?

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Speaker 2: Hey, this water was has ice in it. I don't

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Speaker 2: really like ice in my water. Can you fix it,

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Speaker 2: you know, like, no, I can't do that today because

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Speaker 2: it doesn't make me feel good, not like oh okay, I'll

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Speaker 2: do it because you want me to know I'm not Yeah, I.

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Speaker 3: Mean, I mean, I totally agree with this with this

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Speaker 3: because I think if you can't exercise practicing you know

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Speaker 3: is going to go really bad. It's gonna go fucking bad.

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Speaker 3: It's gonna be uncomfortable. Baby steps are asking for ice

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Speaker 3: in your water versus.

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Speaker 4: You suck at looking at my pussy.

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Speaker 2: I remember, like I have a hard time, Like I'll

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Speaker 2: I eat a lot. I would like leave the last

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Speaker 2: slice of pizza for my baby daddy, like I will

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Speaker 2: let you eat the last, but like it's my baby, Like.

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Speaker 1: I must starve so you can eat. What the fuck

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Speaker 1: is wrong with you? Know, nigga? I want that wing?

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Speaker 2: You know, in fact, I'm the woman give me everything last,

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Speaker 2: give me their last of everything, including your money.

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Speaker 1: But it's like that it's the little things, and you

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Speaker 2: You're even doing it because I would do it so

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Speaker 2: often I didn't even really realize that I was like

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Speaker 2: like starving my that wasn't starving, but just like starving

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Speaker 2: my own needs to accommodate somebody else's because it just

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Speaker 2: seemed like the nice thing to do, right, It made

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Speaker 2: you look like the better person. It made you feel

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Speaker 2: like the better person even though you were starving. Yeah

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Speaker 2: it was starving, but yeah, I just think you have

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Speaker 2: to even saying no, you know, not with your friends,

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Speaker 2: with whoever. Like it's just I notice when people are

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Speaker 2: there's so many things that I do. My Dad's that

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Speaker 2: way though. If we can do it, we'll do it.

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Speaker 2: If I can swing it, I'm gonna, I'm gonna. And

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Speaker 2: it's there's a difference, Like I'm the type of person

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Speaker 2: if you really need me and I can do it.

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Speaker 2: If maybe make maybe it makes me a little bit uncomfortable,

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Speaker 2: maybe it changes my schedule a little bit. I'm gonna

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Speaker 2: if I know it's something you really need of me,

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Speaker 2: I'm gonna make it happen. I'm gonna make it work,

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Speaker 2: even if it does get on my nerves a little bit.

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Speaker 2: But like it's just really deciphering when it's really gonna

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Speaker 2: fuck up your whole schedule. Just like Sandra said on

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Speaker 2: Personality Type that last month she did this whole fucking

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Speaker 2: expressing your needs in life in general. Amen, And that's

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Speaker 2: even asking for help, you know, if it may, even

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Speaker 2: if it does make someone else's day a little bit altered. Hey,

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Speaker 2: I really need you. Can you please do this for me?

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Speaker 2: I think people don't express that enough. And if you don't,

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Speaker 2: if your partner is not used to even hearing you

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Speaker 2: prioritize yourself, then they'll be.

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Speaker 3: Like, when this conversation is going to be a shocker.

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Speaker 3: You know, I agree. That's great advice, my love.

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Speaker 4: Thanks. I really like that. You're smart.

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Speaker 1: Thanks, write it down. Maybe i'll make a quote two.

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Speaker 2: Another thing before you start going into what they're not

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Speaker 2: doing good enough, practice telling them what they do good good.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Like I have a hard time with that too.

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Speaker 1: I talk a lot.

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Speaker 2: I don't know how I talk this much, and I'm

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Speaker 2: still not good at expressing my feelings. I'll think great

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Speaker 2: things about people and I won't say them. And it's

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Speaker 2: just like getting comfortable saying you know why, because I

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Speaker 2: didn't get a lot of affirmations from my parents growing up.

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Speaker 2: Even though I talked to my dad, I'm like, can

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Speaker 2: you please stop talking shit to me for once in

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Speaker 2: five minutes? Jesus fucking Christ. All you do is criticize me.

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Speaker 2: But like I wasn't used to that so ape sometimes

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Speaker 2: it makes me uncomfortable when other people do that a

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Speaker 2: lot to other people, And I'm not good at expressing

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Speaker 2: affirmations like oh my god, that you did a really

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Speaker 2: good job doing that, or I really appreciate that, and wow,

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Speaker 2: I really love you because blah blah blah blah blah.

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Speaker 1: Even start practicing those things too.

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Speaker 3: Practice those things with your friends, practice those things with

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Speaker 3: your lover. They will appreciate you can only that's you

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Speaker 3: can't go wrong with that.

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Speaker 1: The craziest thing is I love verbal affirmations.

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Speaker 4: I love that, like receiving them.

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Speaker 2: I do tell me I'm great, but like I forget

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Speaker 2: to give it because it's not that comfortable for me.

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Speaker 2: So I have to like remember even with my kids,

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Speaker 2: you know, like I have to remember, like, oh my god,

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Speaker 2: you did do a great job. I'm like, on like

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Speaker 2: four hundred and fifties, Cartwheel was amazing. It was beautiful, baby,

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Speaker 2: you're gonna be a fucking gymnastics superstar, just like getting

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Speaker 2: comfortable pumping someone up, because so when you do give

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Speaker 2: them constructive criticism, they're not like, damn, you didn't say

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Speaker 2: anything good about me this week, but this is what

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Speaker 2: you have to talk.

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Speaker 4: About, right, No, that's so true.

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Speaker 3: I think like being able to do that well hopefully too,

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Speaker 3: like be practice of them doing it for you too.

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Speaker 3: Like it's just it's overall going to help build your

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Speaker 3: I mean, because that even that's intimate is expressing affirmations

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Speaker 3: to your partner and stuff like I think that you help.

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Speaker 4: It's kind of almost like four play it is.

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Speaker 2: I when I got somebody who was like, I'm so

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Speaker 2: pray for you, and like, oh, like is this manipulation?

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Speaker 3: I love it because you might even you might even

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Speaker 3: be surprised how you might not even have to have

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Speaker 3: good because you've done so much affirming before that that

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Speaker 3: now they're ready to the now they really want to

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Speaker 3: know how they can please you, you know what I mean,

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Speaker 3: Like they might just show up for you and things

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Speaker 2: It kind of is like pouring fuel on your own relationship,

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Speaker 2: you know, like firing it up, like you're giving what

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Speaker 2: you want back and like because even when I when

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Speaker 2: I have a partner that's like that, then it kind

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Speaker 2: of reminds me to also be that way, you know.

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Speaker 2: Or if I'm around Eric and I hear her giving

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Speaker 2: like you need to also do this, Like there are

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Speaker 2: relationship by reverse psychology.

442
00:20:16,400 --> 00:20:18,320
Speaker 4: True, it's all a manipulation.

443
00:20:20,000 --> 00:20:21,480
Speaker 1: Oh I'm too high. I don't say it's like is

444
00:20:21,520 --> 00:20:24,760
Speaker 1: life all a manipulation? It's all about is it a game?

445
00:20:24,800 --> 00:20:26,639
Speaker 4: But they get to call it the game of life?

446
00:20:28,200 --> 00:20:29,760
Speaker 1: But I want to play games. I'm an adult.

447
00:20:31,200 --> 00:20:32,359
Speaker 4: You kind of like to play games.

448
00:20:33,920 --> 00:20:36,600
Speaker 1: Now you trying to call me out on the podcast pitch.

449
00:20:36,600 --> 00:20:39,439
Speaker 4: You love a game a little bit? A little bit?

450
00:20:41,080 --> 00:20:41,879
Speaker 1: What do you mean by that?

451
00:20:42,440 --> 00:20:46,000
Speaker 4: Want? Are you getting sensitive?

452
00:20:46,160 --> 00:20:49,280
Speaker 2: No, I'm just trying to evaluate in my mind, if

453
00:20:49,320 --> 00:20:51,120
Speaker 2: I love a game, I think we all do.

454
00:20:51,280 --> 00:20:51,840
Speaker 1: I like to win.

455
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Speaker 4: It's not about winning.

456
00:20:53,280 --> 00:20:56,080
Speaker 3: I think it's like I think we all like if

457
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Speaker 3: everything was just laid out perfectly and beautifully, it would

458
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Speaker 3: be fucking boring.

459
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Speaker 1: True.

460
00:21:00,080 --> 00:21:02,800
Speaker 3: I mean, like you like a little game trying to

461
00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,960
Speaker 3: solve someone and figure someone out. I do too.

462
00:21:05,000 --> 00:21:06,560
Speaker 4: In some in ways it's just all different.

463
00:21:06,640 --> 00:21:08,119
Speaker 2: I know, I say, I don't like, just tell me

464
00:21:08,160 --> 00:21:10,680
Speaker 2: who you are, but also don't because I'll probably get bored.

465
00:21:10,720 --> 00:21:11,400
Speaker 4: Really you will?

466
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Speaker 1: You do? You did? Shut up?

467
00:21:14,160 --> 00:21:15,520
Speaker 4: What was his name by.

468
00:21:17,160 --> 00:21:17,719
Speaker 1: Adventure Bay?

469
00:21:17,760 --> 00:21:20,480
Speaker 4: Adventure Bay. Yeah, I know.

470
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Speaker 3: He really laid it out and it was boring.

471
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Speaker 4: I get it. It was boring, you know.

472
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Speaker 2: I remember him asking me in the beginning of the relationship,

473
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474
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531
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Speaker 2: But now that that was a relationship where I started empowered,

532
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Speaker 2: I started saying, I'm not really I feel like we're

533
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Speaker 2: not having sex enough. I am not really sexually satisfied.

534
00:24:38,240 --> 00:24:42,040
Speaker 2: I started the relationship there trying to be like being honest,

535
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Speaker 2: and he did step up his game. He did really

536
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537
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Speaker 2: Break because I'm sure he's somewhere rocking another bitches world

538
00:24:49,720 --> 00:24:53,600
Speaker 2: because of my advice, because he wasn't very sexually driven

539
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Speaker 2: and he hadn't had those conversations.

540
00:24:55,320 --> 00:24:57,280
Speaker 1: But I remember starting there.

541
00:24:57,359 --> 00:24:59,520
Speaker 2: But even if you're already relationship and you haven't started there,

542
00:24:59,560 --> 00:25:00,560
Speaker 2: it's never too late.

543
00:25:00,720 --> 00:25:03,719
Speaker 4: No, it's not. It's not. I feel like you can still.

544
00:25:03,840 --> 00:25:06,679
Speaker 3: People have the ability, especially when it's met with like

545
00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:11,080
Speaker 3: affirmations and positivity, like to open up. You have to

546
00:25:11,119 --> 00:25:14,400
Speaker 3: create a space of safety for those conversations I feel

547
00:25:14,400 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 3: like to go well because I've been on the other

548
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Speaker 3: end of them not going.

549
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Speaker 4: Well and it's not great.

550
00:25:20,760 --> 00:25:26,159
Speaker 2: Niggas are sensitive, Okay, bitches are sensitive too. Number three, Uh,

551
00:25:26,400 --> 00:25:29,879
Speaker 2: when you are about to hurl out some advice about

552
00:25:29,920 --> 00:25:33,000
Speaker 2: where they could up their pleasure, expect they're going to

553
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:36,320
Speaker 2: have some feedback for you. So be sure that you've

554
00:25:36,320 --> 00:25:38,399
Speaker 2: prepared yourself for the feedback. If someone tells you give

555
00:25:38,760 --> 00:25:42,840
Speaker 2: mediocre high end on the mediocre scale, just take it.

556
00:25:45,400 --> 00:25:48,640
Speaker 2: And also even before then, maybe ask what you could

557
00:25:48,640 --> 00:25:50,640
Speaker 2: be doing better? Is there something I'm not doing? Where's

558
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Speaker 2: your spot? What's your favorite.

559
00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:53,159
Speaker 1: Thing that you like that I do to you?

560
00:25:53,560 --> 00:25:58,280
Speaker 3: Having sexy conversations is a good way to open that conversation.

561
00:25:58,440 --> 00:26:02,840
Speaker 3: But like you said, I think be open to someone

562
00:26:02,960 --> 00:26:06,880
Speaker 3: having an opinion about you being able to decipher whether

563
00:26:06,960 --> 00:26:10,600
Speaker 3: it's an emotional response or if it is actually true,

564
00:26:10,720 --> 00:26:14,600
Speaker 3: because there's a difference. But just you know, I feel

565
00:26:14,600 --> 00:26:16,480
Speaker 3: like it could be hard to kind of decipher.

566
00:26:16,560 --> 00:26:16,879
Speaker 1: You know what.

567
00:26:16,960 --> 00:26:20,160
Speaker 2: I think overall this is not easy. I think women

568
00:26:20,280 --> 00:26:22,800
Speaker 2: haven't really been empowered in this space. We haven't been

569
00:26:22,800 --> 00:26:26,040
Speaker 2: taught that like to prioritize I pleasure. We're not taught

570
00:26:26,080 --> 00:26:28,840
Speaker 2: that early on. And honestly, I'm realizing as I beget

571
00:26:29,240 --> 00:26:32,919
Speaker 2: fucking almost thirty four that I now I feel more

572
00:26:32,960 --> 00:26:35,959
Speaker 2: empowered but before I did it, and I would just

573
00:26:36,080 --> 00:26:38,520
Speaker 2: take sex, just take it how it was given to me,

574
00:26:38,920 --> 00:26:41,159
Speaker 2: and keep doing it. Just take it, you know, And

575
00:26:41,240 --> 00:26:43,280
Speaker 2: sometimes it was good. Most of the time it was not.

576
00:26:43,520 --> 00:26:46,359
Speaker 2: But like that person always got off. I was probably

577
00:26:46,359 --> 00:26:49,359
Speaker 2: not orgasming, like eighty to ninety percent of the time

578
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:50,639
Speaker 2: I was having sex when I was having a lot

579
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:52,840
Speaker 2: of sex. And this is just in my lifetime being

580
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,760
Speaker 2: young and dumb and just fucking. But like now, I

581
00:26:55,840 --> 00:26:57,080
Speaker 2: just think, even for women who.

582
00:26:56,960 --> 00:26:58,600
Speaker 1: Are listeners, who are younger.

583
00:26:59,000 --> 00:27:02,439
Speaker 2: Do you just get comfortable having these uncomfortable conversations because

584
00:27:02,880 --> 00:27:06,400
Speaker 2: you kind of like cut through the weeds quickly if

585
00:27:06,400 --> 00:27:08,159
Speaker 2: people are nothing, if you're not open to having the

586
00:27:08,160 --> 00:27:09,439
Speaker 2: conversation like what are we doing here?

587
00:27:09,480 --> 00:27:11,840
Speaker 1: Because this is sex is for you too.

588
00:27:12,600 --> 00:27:15,160
Speaker 3: And also short, life is short. Have the best sex

589
00:27:15,200 --> 00:27:17,840
Speaker 3: you can have while you're here. Have these conversations young

590
00:27:17,840 --> 00:27:20,600
Speaker 3: if you're twenty three listening, to do it now, don't

591
00:27:20,640 --> 00:27:21,960
Speaker 3: wait till you're thirty four.

592
00:27:21,920 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 2: To feel comfortable with Oh my god, please God, I

593
00:27:24,320 --> 00:27:24,720
Speaker 2: would help it.

594
00:27:24,800 --> 00:27:25,520
Speaker 4: How are yes?

595
00:27:25,840 --> 00:27:26,720
Speaker 1: Please? Please?

596
00:27:27,359 --> 00:27:27,639
Speaker 4: Yeah?

597
00:27:28,080 --> 00:27:30,480
Speaker 1: The other day I was having sex with someone.

598
00:27:31,240 --> 00:27:35,880
Speaker 2: It was great sex and he finished and I did

599
00:27:35,920 --> 00:27:39,040
Speaker 2: it and he came and I like wiped it off

600
00:27:39,560 --> 00:27:43,280
Speaker 2: and I put it back inside me and he's like, oh, okay, yeah,

601
00:27:43,280 --> 00:27:45,399
Speaker 2: and then I was like, actually, I let me ride you.

602
00:27:45,440 --> 00:27:48,880
Speaker 2: I didn't come like that. Probably was my first time

603
00:27:49,240 --> 00:27:52,159
Speaker 2: ever saying that to anyone. I didn't come. Hold on,

604
00:27:53,480 --> 00:27:55,280
Speaker 2: I've and I was like, I can't believe my first

605
00:27:55,320 --> 00:27:56,120
Speaker 2: time ever saying this.

606
00:27:56,119 --> 00:27:58,280
Speaker 3: This is cras women have never said that.

607
00:27:58,320 --> 00:28:00,480
Speaker 1: I've never se said that.

608
00:28:00,560 --> 00:28:02,960
Speaker 3: The amount of times I've said I have, Wow.

609
00:28:02,720 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: Well did you come yeah?

610
00:28:04,080 --> 00:28:06,720
Speaker 2: Yeah, and You're like annoyed.

611
00:28:07,880 --> 00:28:07,960
Speaker 5: No.

612
00:28:08,200 --> 00:28:10,560
Speaker 4: I was like, I'm not even annoyed. Just this is

613
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:11,360
Speaker 4: how good.

614
00:28:11,359 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 1: This is life. This is how this is life.

615
00:28:13,240 --> 00:28:14,360
Speaker 4: This is how good I come.

616
00:28:14,400 --> 00:28:17,320
Speaker 2: I guess I did next time. But you get you

617
00:28:17,400 --> 00:28:21,480
Speaker 2: every time, right or that's what says it's done. So yeah,

618
00:28:21,520 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: that was like a moment for me.

619
00:28:23,200 --> 00:28:27,119
Speaker 1: I was like, actually, turn over, hold up.

620
00:28:27,240 --> 00:28:31,960
Speaker 2: As a matter of fact, shut up too, and I'm

621
00:28:32,000 --> 00:28:34,560
Speaker 2: just kidding, get into it.

622
00:28:34,600 --> 00:28:37,240
Speaker 1: I know you can't get into it so I can get.

623
00:28:37,160 --> 00:28:40,000
Speaker 3: Prioritized my sexual pleasure, motherfucker.

624
00:28:40,520 --> 00:28:42,719
Speaker 1: But you know what, pardon me. I know that that

625
00:28:42,760 --> 00:28:45,040
Speaker 1: person my pleasure is a priority.

626
00:28:45,080 --> 00:28:47,640
Speaker 2: I know that, So it made it easy for me

627
00:28:47,680 --> 00:28:49,680
Speaker 2: to say that, to say that, because I knew it

628
00:28:49,720 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 2: wasn't going to be like a thing, you know, So

629
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:54,280
Speaker 2: I'm just yeah, please God, if you're anywhere and you're

630
00:28:54,400 --> 00:28:56,640
Speaker 2: under the age of thirty or whatever fucking age you're at,

631
00:28:57,160 --> 00:28:59,360
Speaker 2: just start and it's not going to be And even

632
00:28:59,440 --> 00:29:01,360
Speaker 2: that person, for a minute we were having sex and

633
00:29:01,360 --> 00:29:04,360
Speaker 2: he wasn't eating my pissy, and I was like, that's

634
00:29:04,360 --> 00:29:06,640
Speaker 2: one thing I'm gonna say. I don't give a fuck,

635
00:29:06,680 --> 00:29:08,720
Speaker 2: Like that's one thing. I'm like, so I haven't noticed you.

636
00:29:08,760 --> 00:29:10,840
Speaker 2: I've never should have eaten my pissy. Are you like,

637
00:29:10,920 --> 00:29:11,960
Speaker 2: do you're not eating pissies?

638
00:29:12,080 --> 00:29:17,640
Speaker 1: Or is your mouth closed for the week? I just

639
00:29:17,960 --> 00:29:18,640
Speaker 1: what's usually your.

640
00:29:18,600 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 2: Time period around the pussy eating. I heard some of

641
00:29:22,400 --> 00:29:24,040
Speaker 2: your rap songs. I heard a lot of pussy in it,

642
00:29:24,160 --> 00:29:26,920
Speaker 2: so I just want to know my pussy or like

643
00:29:26,920 --> 00:29:28,520
Speaker 2: he was telling a story about eating one spissy, like

644
00:29:28,560 --> 00:29:34,680
Speaker 2: that's so funny, you ate her pissy? Anyway, it was

645
00:29:34,720 --> 00:29:37,000
Speaker 2: a lot of me hinting and him like not saying much.

646
00:29:37,040 --> 00:29:39,480
Speaker 2: And then like one time I was sending him something

647
00:29:39,480 --> 00:29:41,600
Speaker 2: and I wrote on it was nothing else in the box.

648
00:29:42,400 --> 00:29:44,880
Speaker 2: I sent some pre rolls and I was like if

649
00:29:44,880 --> 00:29:48,080
Speaker 2: you don't eat my pussy soon, it's over. Put it

650
00:29:48,120 --> 00:29:51,640
Speaker 2: on the top love Mila sends it off, guess why

651
00:29:51,640 --> 00:29:54,640
Speaker 2: I got a pussy, But like I was willing to

652
00:29:54,640 --> 00:29:57,360
Speaker 2: be vocal about it where you know, sometimes as those

653
00:29:57,400 --> 00:29:58,720
Speaker 2: women were like, oh no, you're the bomb.

654
00:29:58,760 --> 00:30:00,760
Speaker 1: It was so good, daddy.

655
00:30:01,480 --> 00:30:03,720
Speaker 4: Letters could be good too. That's a good tool.

656
00:30:04,240 --> 00:30:07,120
Speaker 3: I feel like it's a sexy tool, a sexy good

657
00:30:07,120 --> 00:30:10,520
Speaker 3: tool to like write your lover some love letters and

658
00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:15,120
Speaker 3: then maybe even casually write out exactly the.

659
00:30:15,080 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 4: Experience you need to have.

660
00:30:17,480 --> 00:30:23,240
Speaker 1: Right. Yeah, I had a fantasy today and number four

661
00:30:23,320 --> 00:30:24,800
Speaker 1: which rolls right into number four.

662
00:30:24,920 --> 00:30:29,120
Speaker 2: I think sometimes it's better to do it during sex,

663
00:30:30,520 --> 00:30:33,240
Speaker 2: do it while you're doing getting the job done, because.

664
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Speaker 3: You can marry all the things you've been working on,

665
00:30:34,720 --> 00:30:39,320
Speaker 3: the empowerment, the communication, you know that your partner being

666
00:30:39,400 --> 00:30:43,760
Speaker 3: open to just and excited to please you, and you

667
00:30:43,840 --> 00:30:46,920
Speaker 3: being able to give him a reward for your pleasure,

668
00:30:47,240 --> 00:30:49,160
Speaker 3: because at the end of the day, let's be honest,

669
00:30:49,400 --> 00:30:51,600
Speaker 3: that's what they want and that's what we want. We

670
00:30:51,640 --> 00:30:53,280
Speaker 3: all want to be rewarded, we all want to have

671
00:30:53,320 --> 00:30:55,400
Speaker 3: a good experience, we all want to have great sex.

672
00:30:57,440 --> 00:30:59,800
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just how do you make that happen? And

673
00:31:00,120 --> 00:31:02,600
Speaker 2: also like read the room. You know your audience, know

674
00:31:02,680 --> 00:31:06,040
Speaker 2: who you're giving, Like do they not take constructive criticism

675
00:31:06,200 --> 00:31:09,560
Speaker 2: very well? Should you like be a little more gentle

676
00:31:09,600 --> 00:31:11,560
Speaker 2: but them maybe during the in the bedroom isn't good

677
00:31:11,600 --> 00:31:13,800
Speaker 2: for your person, But like know how to read the room?

678
00:31:13,840 --> 00:31:17,120
Speaker 2: How do they take constructive criticism in other areas? You know,

679
00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:19,600
Speaker 2: like you gotta like finish your man to take it,

680
00:31:19,720 --> 00:31:21,680
Speaker 2: taking out the trash every day, Like, oh my god,

681
00:31:21,800 --> 00:31:24,080
Speaker 2: the house is so clean. I love that you did that. Also,

682
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,480
Speaker 2: you know, like you know, you know how to do

683
00:31:26,520 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 2: things to get what you want in a way that's

684
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:29,280
Speaker 2: not going to trigger them.

685
00:31:29,560 --> 00:31:33,320
Speaker 3: Apply that shit, yeah, because eventually you're going to be

686
00:31:33,320 --> 00:31:34,840
Speaker 3: passive aggressive and it's not gonna go.

687
00:31:34,880 --> 00:31:36,320
Speaker 4: Well, that's not what's gonna work.

688
00:31:36,440 --> 00:31:38,280
Speaker 2: I mean, if you don't say shit, you're just gonna

689
00:31:38,280 --> 00:31:41,760
Speaker 2: be so annoyed and then you're gonna break up because

690
00:31:41,800 --> 00:31:43,960
Speaker 2: you haven't really expressed what the fuck you need.

691
00:31:44,920 --> 00:31:48,200
Speaker 3: Yeah, And I think a lot of relationships, like relationships

692
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:51,120
Speaker 3: that were destined to be this was something that really

693
00:31:51,200 --> 00:31:53,960
Speaker 3: was something that could have easily been fixed or solved

694
00:31:53,960 --> 00:31:56,840
Speaker 3: in the relationship, but it was just such an uncomfortable conversation.

695
00:31:56,920 --> 00:32:00,640
Speaker 4: It was avoided, it's never had. Yeah, and I think that.

696
00:32:00,600 --> 00:32:04,040
Speaker 3: A lot of relationships end that maybe shouldn't have if

697
00:32:04,080 --> 00:32:07,560
Speaker 3: they could only just feel less shame around expressing their

698
00:32:07,600 --> 00:32:11,400
Speaker 3: needs and their pleasures and learning one another. I mean,

699
00:32:11,480 --> 00:32:13,200
Speaker 3: we're spending if you're going to be in a relationship,

700
00:32:13,200 --> 00:32:15,560
Speaker 3: we're spending so much time with someone. You're going to

701
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:18,080
Speaker 3: decide to build a life with someone, have a baby,

702
00:32:18,200 --> 00:32:23,000
Speaker 3: share bank accounts, you know, like have unprotected sex all

703
00:32:23,040 --> 00:32:26,440
Speaker 3: the time. Like we should be able to have this

704
00:32:26,600 --> 00:32:29,040
Speaker 3: one conversation. Well, actually it's not one. It's probably an

705
00:32:29,080 --> 00:32:34,240
Speaker 3: ongoing conversation about pleasure, because that's what this life is about.

706
00:32:34,280 --> 00:32:38,000
Speaker 3: It's about pleasure, it's about joy, it's about connection. We

707
00:32:38,080 --> 00:32:42,360
Speaker 3: are built for connection. Humans are built for connection. It's like,

708
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,800
Speaker 3: let's flex all these tools we have then, you know.

709
00:32:45,960 --> 00:32:49,400
Speaker 2: And do it all the ways different ways, satisfy each

710
00:32:49,400 --> 00:32:53,880
Speaker 2: other in every single possible way, in every single place possible.

711
00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:57,400
Speaker 4: Yeah, but you gotta have a conversation.

712
00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:58,720
Speaker 1: Which brings us to number five.

713
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Speaker 4: I love number five.

714
00:33:02,120 --> 00:33:03,960
Speaker 1: Five. You gotta really listen to number five.

715
00:33:04,080 --> 00:33:08,200
Speaker 2: It's really important if you vocalize, if you go through

716
00:33:08,200 --> 00:33:10,360
Speaker 2: these steps, and you vocalize your needs for pleasure and

717
00:33:10,440 --> 00:33:13,000
Speaker 2: your needs in the bedroom in general. Wait, okay, before

718
00:33:13,000 --> 00:33:14,640
Speaker 2: we get to number five, I want to say one thing.

719
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:19,200
Speaker 2: If you have just regular issues in the relationship and

720
00:33:19,240 --> 00:33:22,040
Speaker 2: then you're looking to find pleasure in the bedroom, you

721
00:33:22,080 --> 00:33:26,760
Speaker 2: gotta first fix the regular issues in the relationship. If

722
00:33:26,800 --> 00:33:29,880
Speaker 2: you have some real fucking issues, you guys just don't

723
00:33:29,880 --> 00:33:32,239
Speaker 2: get along. There are things that sex is not going

724
00:33:32,320 --> 00:33:34,840
Speaker 2: to fix it. Nothing will fix it. I've had the

725
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:37,480
Speaker 2: best sex of my life, but we couldn't get along

726
00:33:37,520 --> 00:33:39,480
Speaker 2: and it started to make the best sex the worst

727
00:33:39,520 --> 00:33:42,120
Speaker 2: sex of my life. And like, having issues in the

728
00:33:42,120 --> 00:33:44,080
Speaker 2: relationship that are not resolved will do that.

729
00:33:44,920 --> 00:33:49,640
Speaker 1: Anyway, back to number five, Number five, very important. Number

730
00:33:49,640 --> 00:33:51,800
Speaker 1: five is if you.

731
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Speaker 2: Practice all of these tools and all these steps of

732
00:33:54,920 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 2: empowerment and using your voice or letter during sex, not

733
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:03,200
Speaker 2: during sex, and your partner doesn't want to receive what

734
00:34:03,200 --> 00:34:05,720
Speaker 2: you're saying and is not receptive, does not try to

735
00:34:05,840 --> 00:34:12,680
Speaker 2: implement any of these things to prioritize your pleasure, leave them.

736
00:34:12,840 --> 00:34:15,359
Speaker 3: It's time to go, honey, It's time to go.

737
00:34:15,960 --> 00:34:17,839
Speaker 1: Your pleasure is important, it.

738
00:34:17,840 --> 00:34:20,480
Speaker 3: Really is, and it starts to bleed, and it's already bled.

739
00:34:20,600 --> 00:34:22,440
Speaker 3: It's already bleeding into your relationship.

740
00:34:22,719 --> 00:34:25,160
Speaker 2: And yeah, because you're annoyed because you haven't really come.

741
00:34:25,960 --> 00:34:30,640
Speaker 2: Everybody knows angry people haven't had a really good fucking.

742
00:34:30,800 --> 00:34:32,640
Speaker 1: They haven't got fucked lately.

743
00:34:32,719 --> 00:34:35,720
Speaker 2: Everybody knows that the bitch at the post office, the DMV,

744
00:34:36,320 --> 00:34:38,280
Speaker 2: the mom who just tried to fight us at soccer,

745
00:34:39,520 --> 00:34:45,640
Speaker 2: they haven't gotten any good D, none or P. And

746
00:34:45,840 --> 00:34:48,560
Speaker 2: so it's just gonna bleed into every single thing else

747
00:34:48,600 --> 00:34:52,000
Speaker 2: you have to. If sex is important to you and

748
00:34:52,040 --> 00:34:54,120
Speaker 2: not important to your partner, it's not your partner.

749
00:34:55,800 --> 00:34:56,120
Speaker 4: Amen.

750
00:34:57,200 --> 00:35:01,640
Speaker 3: Well, that concludes our list on how to talk or

751
00:35:01,680 --> 00:35:02,720
Speaker 3: break up with your partner.

752
00:35:04,360 --> 00:35:08,239
Speaker 2: No, we advocate for communication first, they don't listen, break

753
00:35:08,280 --> 00:35:08,800
Speaker 2: up second.

754
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Speaker 4: Oh my god, I love this episode. This was fun.

755
00:35:15,800 --> 00:35:16,319
Speaker 1: I did too.

756
00:35:16,440 --> 00:35:18,960
Speaker 2: I mean, it's always important to talk about prioritizing your

757
00:35:19,000 --> 00:35:22,279
Speaker 2: pleasure and then realizing how far you've come and like

758
00:35:22,520 --> 00:35:25,279
Speaker 2: how good it feels, you know, just to even if

759
00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:27,080
Speaker 2: it's a little bit here, one relationship here.

760
00:35:27,080 --> 00:35:27,680
Speaker 1: Even though I.

761
00:35:27,680 --> 00:35:32,160
Speaker 2: Did cheat on that adventure Bay, he didn't listen. I

762
00:35:32,160 --> 00:35:34,640
Speaker 2: should have broke up with him first, but I needed

763
00:35:34,640 --> 00:35:37,880
Speaker 2: to use my communication on that part too. I'm not satisfied,

764
00:35:38,000 --> 00:35:42,839
Speaker 2: and I'm leaving and I'm not satisfied, and we'll work

765
00:35:42,880 --> 00:35:47,440
Speaker 2: on it. Yeah yeah, but yeah, thank you guys for

766
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Speaker 2: coming to our ted Talk.

767
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Speaker 1: Please rate and review this episode. Leave us a rate

768
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Speaker 1: and review. It's very important in the podcast world.

769
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Speaker 3: Yeah, go on Apple Podcast and leave that review. Make

770
00:36:00,000 --> 00:36:02,640
Speaker 3: sure you go check out our Patreon. We have a

771
00:36:02,640 --> 00:36:06,840
Speaker 3: lot of extra content there, blog posts, our community on

772
00:36:06,920 --> 00:36:11,080
Speaker 3: Slack where we have hundreds of moms there talking, sharing,

773
00:36:11,719 --> 00:36:14,399
Speaker 3: talking shit, sharing horries. Actually, I have a horri share

774
00:36:14,440 --> 00:36:18,560
Speaker 3: read it really quickly. Yeah, yeah, I have a horry

775
00:36:18,600 --> 00:36:23,480
Speaker 3: from the slack. Actually, here is this horry? What horror

776
00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:28,600
Speaker 3: story time? My favorite time. Horris feel so appropriate for

777
00:36:28,640 --> 00:36:32,720
Speaker 3: October feels a witchy sex is witchy sex is witchy

778
00:36:33,160 --> 00:36:34,200
Speaker 3: sex spells?

779
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Speaker 4: Okay, hor stories.

780
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Speaker 3: The booty scrunch guy from the Top of the Summer

781
00:36:44,880 --> 00:36:46,759
Speaker 3: asked me if I would be down for a threesome.

782
00:36:47,280 --> 00:36:48,600
Speaker 3: If you're in the slack group, then you know who

783
00:36:48,600 --> 00:36:51,400
Speaker 3: the booty scrunch guy is. I said sure, seeing that

784
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:53,360
Speaker 3: we had one before in college, but I never ate

785
00:36:53,400 --> 00:36:55,759
Speaker 3: any pussy. This time I was ready to try it.

786
00:36:56,080 --> 00:36:58,399
Speaker 3: He showed me the girl and their videos. This guy

787
00:36:58,480 --> 00:37:00,560
Speaker 3: is so corny, but I was still down for the experience.

788
00:37:00,880 --> 00:37:02,840
Speaker 3: She had never been with a woman. Her and I

789
00:37:02,880 --> 00:37:05,640
Speaker 3: started talking without him, and she's thick as fuck, just

790
00:37:05,680 --> 00:37:07,000
Speaker 3: how I imagined i'd like women.

791
00:37:07,440 --> 00:37:09,040
Speaker 4: Lol. I told her we.

792
00:37:09,000 --> 00:37:10,839
Speaker 3: Should hang out and that I couldn't wait to eat

793
00:37:10,840 --> 00:37:13,439
Speaker 3: her pussy. So this Saturday we went on a little date.

794
00:37:13,760 --> 00:37:16,280
Speaker 3: I was so high off shrooms. I was ready for whatever.

795
00:37:16,560 --> 00:37:18,680
Speaker 3: We met at the Atlanta belt Line. We went to

796
00:37:18,760 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 3: a brewery and then we went to the skatepark and

797
00:37:20,760 --> 00:37:22,799
Speaker 3: I laid on the grass. I could tell she wanted

798
00:37:22,800 --> 00:37:25,400
Speaker 3: me to dominate her, but I'm not necessarily a dominator.

799
00:37:25,520 --> 00:37:27,520
Speaker 3: So we laid on a blanket and looked at the sky.

800
00:37:28,200 --> 00:37:30,520
Speaker 3: She smoked weed. I'm on a detox, so I took

801
00:37:30,560 --> 00:37:34,319
Speaker 3: one puff and passed. We decided to call Buddy. I

802
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:36,719
Speaker 3: wanted to get a hotel room. She was opening up

803
00:37:36,760 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 3: her legs and stuff, and I was like, Okay, time

804
00:37:39,160 --> 00:37:42,280
Speaker 3: to go. I called him and told him he needed

805
00:37:42,280 --> 00:37:43,960
Speaker 3: to send at least one hundred dollars to get a

806
00:37:44,000 --> 00:37:46,759
Speaker 3: hotel for us. He lives in New Orleans, by the way.

807
00:37:47,480 --> 00:37:50,120
Speaker 3: After some persuasion, he decided to send it. He's cheap

808
00:37:50,160 --> 00:37:53,960
Speaker 3: as fuck right, but we told him he could watch us.

809
00:37:54,480 --> 00:37:55,920
Speaker 4: Fast forward. We get to the hotel.

810
00:37:56,280 --> 00:37:58,280
Speaker 3: It had a jacuzzi, so we hop in the shower.

811
00:37:58,320 --> 00:38:00,680
Speaker 3: Because I'd been out all day high on rooms, ruamming

812
00:38:00,680 --> 00:38:03,480
Speaker 3: through nature. I started to rub her ass was soap,

813
00:38:03,520 --> 00:38:06,200
Speaker 3: her ass was so soft. I could tell she was

814
00:38:06,280 --> 00:38:08,200
Speaker 3: nervous but was ready for me to dominate. So I

815
00:38:08,200 --> 00:38:10,800
Speaker 3: pulled her in and we started making out, going crazy,

816
00:38:11,239 --> 00:38:15,080
Speaker 3: titty sucking, neck clicking, et cetera. Then I decided to

817
00:38:15,120 --> 00:38:17,759
Speaker 3: eat it. I would like to say that I'm a

818
00:38:17,760 --> 00:38:18,640
Speaker 3: fucking natural.

819
00:38:19,480 --> 00:38:21,719
Speaker 1: Ohait, this is our first time? Yes, oh shit.

820
00:38:23,040 --> 00:38:25,480
Speaker 3: We were taking turns eating each other out in the shower.

821
00:38:26,400 --> 00:38:27,440
Speaker 3: She's a fucking natural.

822
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:27,920
Speaker 4: You hear me?

823
00:38:28,000 --> 00:38:30,200
Speaker 1: Same? I think I'm a nat I'm too, Yeah, yeah,

824
00:38:30,200 --> 00:38:32,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, just how I gotta do this? Well, don't

825
00:38:32,960 --> 00:38:33,600
Speaker 1: just stick their nation.

826
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,400
Speaker 4: We're all naturals, We're all created everything.

827
00:38:37,680 --> 00:38:39,920
Speaker 3: Not you though, all you men, listen to this list.

828
00:38:40,280 --> 00:38:44,960
Speaker 3: We're perfect, okay, j Mila's not mediocre? Dare you talk

829
00:38:44,960 --> 00:38:48,160
Speaker 3: about my friend like this? We got out and said,

830
00:38:48,719 --> 00:38:51,560
Speaker 3: do we want to call this nigga? I finally decided yes,

831
00:38:51,719 --> 00:38:53,680
Speaker 3: so we propped the phone up on the outside of

832
00:38:53,719 --> 00:38:56,800
Speaker 3: the jacuzzie, and she bent over and ate over the

833
00:38:56,920 --> 00:39:00,279
Speaker 3: edge of the jacuzi and I started eating everything ass

834
00:39:00,800 --> 00:39:02,759
Speaker 3: He watched, and I told him I wanted him to come,

835
00:39:02,840 --> 00:39:05,000
Speaker 3: so he started massaging his dick as I went down.

836
00:39:05,920 --> 00:39:06,520
Speaker 4: Sounds great.

837
00:39:06,760 --> 00:39:08,920
Speaker 1: Wow, this is like a three way virtual.

838
00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 3: I could feel her come all over my face and

839
00:39:11,920 --> 00:39:15,600
Speaker 3: it was very satisfying, wet, warm, and sticky me. However,

840
00:39:15,719 --> 00:39:18,000
Speaker 3: I'm not easy to please. She didn't know what she

841
00:39:18,040 --> 00:39:22,719
Speaker 3: was doing. Fuck fuck, I understand because I don't know how.

842
00:39:22,760 --> 00:39:30,960
Speaker 4: I knew so rational, true, just a natural.

843
00:39:32,000 --> 00:39:33,880
Speaker 3: I was just eating, like how I wanted my pussy

844
00:39:33,920 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 3: to be eaten. Duh, I can't fake it. So I

845
00:39:36,480 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 3: was looking that old dude check off. We got out

846
00:39:39,080 --> 00:39:41,480
Speaker 3: of the jacuzzi and took it to bed. We sixty

847
00:39:41,600 --> 00:39:43,840
Speaker 3: nine and I started going even harder with the pussy eating.

848
00:39:44,160 --> 00:39:47,320
Speaker 3: But then I suddenly decided, hmmm, I don't like women.

849
00:39:49,000 --> 00:39:51,880
Speaker 4: I don't like women like that. I love eating pussy though.

850
00:39:52,120 --> 00:39:55,600
Speaker 3: Even oh my god, I had the same fucking realization.

851
00:39:56,160 --> 00:39:59,000
Speaker 2: Really, yes, you like eating pussy, but you don't like women.

852
00:40:00,080 --> 00:40:04,480
Speaker 2: It made you just don't like you don't like them romantically.

853
00:40:04,320 --> 00:40:07,279
Speaker 3: Because it's no use to me after that, like, I

854
00:40:07,320 --> 00:40:09,120
Speaker 3: can't I need a dick.

855
00:40:09,320 --> 00:40:11,319
Speaker 1: Well, it's an appetizer, but that's why.

856
00:40:11,360 --> 00:40:14,000
Speaker 4: But I know I'm gonna need pussy, and I like pleasing.

857
00:40:14,640 --> 00:40:16,839
Speaker 3: But then after that, and after our pussies are eaten,

858
00:40:16,920 --> 00:40:20,120
Speaker 3: then what after we've eaten all the pussy dick even

859
00:40:20,200 --> 00:40:23,400
Speaker 3: with the strap on, Now you don't give you know

860
00:40:23,400 --> 00:40:25,960
Speaker 3: what I have? I need to give it another, a

861
00:40:25,960 --> 00:40:26,600
Speaker 3: smaller one.

862
00:40:26,680 --> 00:40:33,239
Speaker 2: Yeah, even though nothing's like a real pulsing, warm, fleshy dick.

863
00:40:33,320 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 3: No, no, there's nothing like it. No, okay, So I

864
00:40:36,680 --> 00:40:39,480
Speaker 3: don't like women like that. I love eating pussy. Though

865
00:40:39,520 --> 00:40:41,560
Speaker 3: eventually I got tired. I knew I wasn't coming, so

866
00:40:41,640 --> 00:40:43,759
Speaker 3: I made sure she did again and again.

867
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Speaker 1: Even after you discovered you don't like women.

868
00:40:47,239 --> 00:40:52,880
Speaker 3: Yeah, she wanted to cuddle and I did not emoji

869
00:40:52,920 --> 00:40:54,719
Speaker 3: face one that looks like you got punched in the face.

870
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:59,480
Speaker 3: I was just having fun. The next day, the guy

871
00:40:59,520 --> 00:41:02,799
Speaker 3: said us recording of us, and I was pissed. I

872
00:41:02,840 --> 00:41:05,960
Speaker 3: felt so violated because I didn't consent to him doing that,

873
00:41:06,040 --> 00:41:09,239
Speaker 3: and he swears I did what blind that.

874
00:41:09,640 --> 00:41:11,240
Speaker 1: Lying niggasud be lying.

875
00:41:12,719 --> 00:41:14,880
Speaker 3: I asked him to delete it, and he was pissed.

876
00:41:15,080 --> 00:41:16,400
Speaker 4: What how you gonna be pissed?

877
00:41:16,800 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 3: I told him that he's not loyal to me, so

878
00:41:18,520 --> 00:41:20,200
Speaker 3: why would I allow him to record it.

879
00:41:20,480 --> 00:41:23,600
Speaker 4: He demanded his money back, not the.

880
00:41:23,640 --> 00:41:25,719
Speaker 1: Nigga, wanting a refund for one hundred.

881
00:41:25,560 --> 00:41:28,760
Speaker 3: Oh fuck, you got all this in real time niggas,

882
00:41:28,760 --> 00:41:29,200
Speaker 3: and I have.

883
00:41:29,200 --> 00:41:30,839
Speaker 1: To trust that you actually deleted it.

884
00:41:31,800 --> 00:41:34,919
Speaker 3: And I told him absolutely the fuck not. You got

885
00:41:34,920 --> 00:41:36,960
Speaker 3: to watch and I have no idea if you deleted

886
00:41:36,960 --> 00:41:39,160
Speaker 3: the video, so we're both gonna have to charge it

887
00:41:39,200 --> 00:41:42,359
Speaker 3: to the game. He now has me blocked on ig

888
00:41:42,760 --> 00:41:46,080
Speaker 3: So no more threesomes with that cheap ass nigga. Cheap No,

889
00:41:46,120 --> 00:41:47,279
Speaker 3: but I'll be seeing her again.

890
00:41:47,440 --> 00:41:47,840
Speaker 1: Lol.

891
00:41:49,680 --> 00:41:53,279
Speaker 3: First of all, you don't, Oh my god.

892
00:41:53,560 --> 00:41:56,360
Speaker 1: That was a good one. He's very cheap. Would do

893
00:41:56,360 --> 00:41:58,560
Speaker 1: you like to cuttle after? Like would you cuddle after

894
00:41:58,600 --> 00:42:01,000
Speaker 1: a threesome? Or would you cuddle? Just a girl?

895
00:42:01,880 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 4: Would I cuddle? I have cuddled.

896
00:42:03,880 --> 00:42:05,880
Speaker 1: I like to cuddle. But you know what the next

897
00:42:06,000 --> 00:42:10,680
Speaker 1: day now like we're friends, I don't like, we're not girlfriends.

898
00:42:11,440 --> 00:42:13,400
Speaker 4: I cuddled, I cuddled. It was cool.

899
00:42:13,560 --> 00:42:15,880
Speaker 3: I mean it's not this not like it's not like

900
00:42:15,880 --> 00:42:17,680
Speaker 3: a cuddle with a man. It's not like I want

901
00:42:17,680 --> 00:42:19,640
Speaker 3: to be there and spend the night all night. It's

902
00:42:19,680 --> 00:42:20,560
Speaker 3: like I want to cuddle.

903
00:42:21,120 --> 00:42:23,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go home and use it and get to

904
00:42:24,000 --> 00:42:24,600
Speaker 1: find a fetale.

905
00:42:24,600 --> 00:42:25,920
Speaker 3: And that's kind of when I realized I don't really

906
00:42:25,920 --> 00:42:28,040
Speaker 3: I don't know, I'm not like, I'm not really into women.

907
00:42:28,040 --> 00:42:28,160
Speaker 4: Oh.

908
00:42:28,239 --> 00:42:30,919
Speaker 3: Someone said, so what coach eating techniques? Did you use

909
00:42:30,960 --> 00:42:33,840
Speaker 3: friend and good job for your first time champ?

910
00:42:34,520 --> 00:42:35,719
Speaker 4: And there's seven replies.

911
00:42:35,800 --> 00:42:38,600
Speaker 3: Wow, a lot of people are oh, oh, I took

912
00:42:38,600 --> 00:42:39,560
Speaker 3: tips from Taste Feta.

913
00:42:39,600 --> 00:42:39,799
Speaker 4: Ig.

914
00:42:40,560 --> 00:42:45,120
Speaker 3: Main thing is finding the clip and beginning gentle but passionate. Okay,

915
00:42:45,160 --> 00:42:47,560
Speaker 3: I'm so glad you guys are tapping.

916
00:42:47,200 --> 00:42:52,640
Speaker 4: Into our resources. Taste Feta Okay, I feel like you have.

917
00:42:52,719 --> 00:42:53,080
Speaker 4: Oh we have.

918
00:42:53,520 --> 00:42:56,640
Speaker 3: One of our fellow lesbian moms replied, and she has

919
00:42:56,680 --> 00:42:59,239
Speaker 3: some advice. Use lots of lips as well as tongue,

920
00:42:59,280 --> 00:43:01,040
Speaker 3: and apply good a mound to pressure circles.

921
00:43:01,080 --> 00:43:02,680
Speaker 4: Always remember circles.

922
00:43:03,280 --> 00:43:05,240
Speaker 1: I would say, just do it like you like you're kissing.

923
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:07,399
Speaker 4: Yeah, kiss and suck the end.

924
00:43:09,680 --> 00:43:13,560
Speaker 1: Anyway. You know, every week you guys come here and

925
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:14,920
Speaker 1: get so much education.

926
00:43:16,040 --> 00:43:20,480
Speaker 2: You're welcome, We're so smart. I just had to pat

927
00:43:20,520 --> 00:43:21,319
Speaker 2: myself on the back.

928
00:43:22,560 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 4: You're so smart.

929
00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:27,240
Speaker 1: Thank you, you're so smart. Because we're so smart.

930
00:43:27,239 --> 00:43:30,600
Speaker 2: Don't forget to read and review this episode. And if

931
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,960
Speaker 2: you haven't already, check us out on ig we're kind

932
00:43:33,960 --> 00:43:37,520
Speaker 2: of cute, y'all good Mom's underscore bad choices. I know

933
00:43:37,600 --> 00:43:39,840
Speaker 2: we saw someone at a party and they're like, you know,

934
00:43:39,880 --> 00:43:41,440
Speaker 2: I'd listened to you, but I didn't really know what

935
00:43:41,480 --> 00:43:41,960
Speaker 2: you look.

936
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Speaker 1: Like, but I knew it was you. Guys.

937
00:43:43,560 --> 00:43:46,920
Speaker 2: I'm like, huh, we do have We're like radio, you know,

938
00:43:47,120 --> 00:43:48,640
Speaker 2: sometimes you can listen to someone your whole life, Like,

939
00:43:48,680 --> 00:43:49,919
Speaker 2: what the fuck did they look like? When I saw

940
00:43:49,920 --> 00:43:51,600
Speaker 2: Howard Stern when I got older, I was like, what

941
00:43:51,640 --> 00:43:52,040
Speaker 2: the fuck?

942
00:43:53,040 --> 00:43:55,799
Speaker 3: I was always so like, I'm still attracted. I was

943
00:43:55,800 --> 00:43:57,839
Speaker 3: into Howard Stern. Oh my god, I fucking loved him.

944
00:43:58,080 --> 00:44:00,640
Speaker 2: My dad's a huge Howard Stern fan, so I was

945
00:44:00,920 --> 00:44:01,920
Speaker 2: mandated to be no.

946
00:44:02,040 --> 00:44:03,759
Speaker 3: But I mean, like, I was sexually attracted to ours.

947
00:44:03,880 --> 00:44:05,160
Speaker 3: That's gross.

948
00:44:05,480 --> 00:44:06,600
Speaker 1: What you don't even like white man?

949
00:44:06,640 --> 00:44:07,960
Speaker 4: He looks like it's a big dick. I don't know.

950
00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:08,839
Speaker 4: There's something about him.

951
00:44:08,960 --> 00:44:11,120
Speaker 1: Okay, all the white men you could love.

952
00:44:11,280 --> 00:44:14,480
Speaker 3: Yeah, he kind of has that swag. He's just about

953
00:44:14,520 --> 00:44:15,040
Speaker 3: it about it.

954
00:44:15,080 --> 00:44:15,960
Speaker 1: He's about it, about it.

955
00:44:16,000 --> 00:44:18,239
Speaker 3: I don't and he's just like, will like sit back

956
00:44:18,280 --> 00:44:20,440
Speaker 3: and just watch it, and just.

957
00:44:19,600 --> 00:44:22,720
Speaker 2: He's like a dirty like a like a dirty drug

958
00:44:23,280 --> 00:44:24,120
Speaker 2: alcohol night.

959
00:44:25,440 --> 00:44:26,560
Speaker 4: Yeah, he could be my husband.

960
00:44:26,920 --> 00:44:27,799
Speaker 1: Okay, I don't know about that.

961
00:44:28,120 --> 00:44:31,520
Speaker 3: Look at it, like look at his look at those curls,

962
00:44:32,160 --> 00:44:33,719
Speaker 3: those fucking curls. Oh.

963
00:44:33,760 --> 00:44:35,400
Speaker 4: You know what it is is Adam's apple sexy.

964
00:44:35,560 --> 00:44:38,520
Speaker 3: Okay, because Adam's ending this episode on the second.

965
00:44:39,760 --> 00:44:40,840
Speaker 4: Anyway, we love you.

966
00:44:40,960 --> 00:44:43,320
Speaker 3: Make sure you follow us on Instagram and on Twitter.

967
00:44:43,480 --> 00:44:46,319
Speaker 3: Good Mom, underscore, bad Girl, and we'll see you next week.

968
00:44:46,440 --> 00:45:00,879
Speaker 5: Bye soloella recorder. Let's says runs remember the saw him

969
00:45:01,040 --> 00:45:04,440
Speaker 5: the sister Millers and in course

970
00:45:13,520 --> 00:45:13,919
Speaker 3: Mm hmm