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Speaker 1: Today's daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: So here we go, we move on. Hey, you know what,

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Speaker 2: I know that. You know, you get these motivational memes

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Speaker 2: all the time, and it seems like one was written

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Speaker 2: years ago and now everyone else does their own version

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Speaker 2: of the same dialogue meaning my favorite and when it

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Speaker 2: pumps up, I read it every single time, and I

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Speaker 2: still am trying to better myself from the ideas from

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Speaker 2: the How To Stop Giving an F.

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Speaker 3: Oh yeah, that's good book.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, well it's a great book. But you know this,

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Speaker 2: these memes sort of edit it down to a few

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Speaker 2: short sentences. So today, once again, I must practice my

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Speaker 2: how to Stop Giving an F mantra. Okay, Number one,

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Speaker 2: Remember everything in life is temporary.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, absolutely, this too shall pass. Your best day or

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Speaker 3: your worst day. It's not gonna last forever.

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Speaker 2: Think about what you're going through right now. You're like,

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Speaker 2: oh God, in the middle of this dark, deep ditch. Well,

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Speaker 2: you know you're gonna come out of that ditch. Number two,

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Speaker 2: nobody actually gives an F about you like that. They

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Speaker 2: have their own lives. We were talking about that. I'm sorry,

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Speaker 2: I'm coughing. We were talking about that yesterday about how

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Speaker 2: we are just so so convinced that every little move

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Speaker 2: we make and every little dance we take, whatever people

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Speaker 2: are watching and caring, they're not. They really aren't scary.

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Speaker 1: Guilty.

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Speaker 2: Keep in mind, you're one out of eight billion people.

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Speaker 3: It's a lot.

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Speaker 2: You're a drop in the water. Don't take criticism from

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Speaker 2: someone you wouldn't take advice from. Who's guilty of that one?

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Speaker 2: All of us?

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Speaker 3: Yeah?

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Speaker 2: Absolutely, Yeah, there are people out there who you would

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Speaker 2: never take advice from them. Then why are you gonna

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Speaker 2: let their criticism shape you in some form of fashion.

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Speaker 2: Focus on yourself and goals. Once you do your opinions,

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Speaker 2: other opinions won't affect you. Just focus on what you

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Speaker 2: need to do, what if they think you need to do. Finally,

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Speaker 2: if you're not following what? Oh no, never mind?

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Speaker 1: Was that the last light?

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Speaker 3: If you're not following this.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, you're not following this, please subscribe, may not see

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Speaker 2: each other again? Yeah, okay, never mind, Okay, take that

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Speaker 2: one out. But it is good to stop down, maybe

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Speaker 2: every single day, maybe several times a day, and take

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Speaker 2: stalk in these things totally thoughts.

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Speaker 3: I think it's so important to the one that you said,

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Speaker 3: don't take criticism from people that you don't want to

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Speaker 3: take advice from is very important. We all get caught

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Speaker 3: up in it. I think the most important thing is,

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Speaker 3: if you're going to be in competition with somebody, it

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Speaker 3: should be yourself, the person that you were the day before.

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Speaker 3: You just want to be better than that, and that

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Speaker 3: is okay. You don't have to compete with the people

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Speaker 3: around you.

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Speaker 2: Competition interesting word. You know, years ago, when we were

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Speaker 2: starting in this business, we were saying, we were told, hey,

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Speaker 2: you need to keep a close eye on what's going

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Speaker 2: on across the street. Whoever you're competing against. You need

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Speaker 2: to counter that, you need to learn from their mistakes.

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Speaker 2: You need to learn from their And the answer is no.

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Speaker 2: Our biggest competitor on this show is ourselves. We compete

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Speaker 2: against ourselves. We're the ones who run people away listening

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Speaker 2: to our show. It's the same in life. You're not

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Speaker 2: out there competing with anyone else. You're competing with yourself,

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Speaker 2: right yep?

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Speaker 1: I feel like also like we always think like, oh,

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Speaker 1: life stops if something goes wrong in our lives whatever,

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Speaker 1: but life just continues to go on even if you die.

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Speaker 1: Maybe someone will mourn you a couple of days, and

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Speaker 1: then all of a sudden they just keep moving on.

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Speaker 2: Yep.

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Speaker 1: Someone was talking about this the other day, about someone

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Speaker 1: being sick and saying how people were visiting them in

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Speaker 1: the hospital, and then all of a sudden, people stopped

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Speaker 1: visiting and they just went on with their regular lives

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Speaker 1: and you kind of were just left in the dust

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Speaker 1: by yourself. It happens, what happens.

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Speaker 2: You know what interesting thought there, Danielle. How many times

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Speaker 2: have you had a really great friend that you know,

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Speaker 2: they quit their job and they're not hanging out with

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Speaker 2: you as much anymore, and then no one really contacts

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Speaker 2: them anymore because I guess they're not needed or something

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Speaker 2: so crazy. Well, you know, we're all in that position

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Speaker 2: now or will be one day. You find out who

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Speaker 2: your friends are. Remember those moments in your life when

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Speaker 2: you found out who your friends are. I've been through

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Speaker 2: those several times in my life with me and other friends.

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Speaker 2: Who knows feel it again.

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Speaker 1: You know, I feel like I did that when my

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Speaker 1: dad passed, Like I knew who was always around and

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Speaker 1: who was just there for a couple of days just

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Speaker 1: to say hello, and then they trickle away.

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Speaker 2: It is good. It's good to notice those things. That's

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Speaker 2: why you should always be aware of people like that

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Speaker 2: who come and go in your life. The ones that

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Speaker 2: stay are the ones that you should