1 00:00:00,320 --> 00:00:03,000 Speaker 1: Brought to you by the reinvented two thousand twelve Camray. 2 00:00:03,240 --> 00:00:09,959 Speaker 1: It's ready. Are you welcome to stop Mom? Never told you? 3 00:00:10,200 --> 00:00:17,880 Speaker 1: From housetop works dot Com. Hey there, and welcome to 4 00:00:17,920 --> 00:00:22,759 Speaker 1: the podcast. I'm Kristen and I'm Molly. Molly got a 5 00:00:22,800 --> 00:00:25,960 Speaker 1: little quiz for you. See see how much you've been 6 00:00:26,000 --> 00:00:30,400 Speaker 1: following the news? Can you tell me the first major 7 00:00:30,960 --> 00:00:35,760 Speaker 1: piece of legislation that Barack Obama signed? And I'll give 8 00:00:35,800 --> 00:00:39,280 Speaker 1: you a hint. It is not the Stimulus package. Wow. 9 00:00:39,520 --> 00:00:41,280 Speaker 1: I bet a lot of people think that it is. Yeah, 10 00:00:41,280 --> 00:00:45,360 Speaker 1: it is not Stimulus. Well, I actually know because I 11 00:00:45,400 --> 00:00:47,680 Speaker 1: know what we're going to talk about today. Um. It 12 00:00:47,800 --> 00:00:51,839 Speaker 1: was actually the Lily Leadbetter Fair Pay Act. Right on 13 00:00:51,920 --> 00:00:56,319 Speaker 1: January two thousand nine, President Obama made good on one 14 00:00:56,360 --> 00:01:01,480 Speaker 1: of his campaign promises to decrease the gender wage gap 15 00:01:01,520 --> 00:01:05,080 Speaker 1: in the workplace by signing the Lily lad Better Fair 16 00:01:05,080 --> 00:01:08,160 Speaker 1: Pay Act. So maybe we should talk about who Lily 17 00:01:08,200 --> 00:01:10,679 Speaker 1: Lidbetter is. Yeah. I think she's pretty fascinating. I think 18 00:01:10,680 --> 00:01:13,040 Speaker 1: she'll definitely be a female name that will go down 19 00:01:13,040 --> 00:01:16,840 Speaker 1: in history. Here's what happened. Philly led Better. She is 20 00:01:16,880 --> 00:01:19,319 Speaker 1: from Alabama and she worked for the good Year Tire 21 00:01:19,360 --> 00:01:22,600 Speaker 1: and Rubber Company from nineteen seventy nine. She put in 22 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:25,440 Speaker 1: a long time, she worked her ears, and but then 23 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,200 Speaker 1: she's gonna take early retirement. She was an area manager 24 00:01:28,880 --> 00:01:30,840 Speaker 1: and I guess what I read happened is that right 25 00:01:30,920 --> 00:01:32,760 Speaker 1: for she was going to retire, someone kind of slipped 26 00:01:32,760 --> 00:01:35,080 Speaker 1: her a little piece of paper that showed her what 27 00:01:35,160 --> 00:01:39,839 Speaker 1: everyone else in her position, who are male, made. Uh. 28 00:01:39,880 --> 00:01:42,319 Speaker 1: And she realized that all these years good Year had 29 00:01:42,360 --> 00:01:45,440 Speaker 1: been paying her far less than the other fifteen male 30 00:01:45,680 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: area managers fifteen and this, I mean, this is over 31 00:01:48,920 --> 00:01:52,440 Speaker 1: almost twenty years. Yeah, and so she as I think 32 00:01:52,440 --> 00:01:54,240 Speaker 1: she should have took good Year to court and said 33 00:01:54,720 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 1: this was wage discrimination. If all the males made this much, 34 00:01:57,560 --> 00:01:59,440 Speaker 1: I should have made this much too. She want to 35 00:01:59,440 --> 00:02:01,800 Speaker 1: be compense I did for all the money that she 36 00:02:01,920 --> 00:02:04,640 Speaker 1: wasn't that she was owed. She felt like she was 37 00:02:04,640 --> 00:02:07,640 Speaker 1: owed right, and the jury agreed with her. But as 38 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:10,080 Speaker 1: things happen, the case ended up in the Supreme Court, 39 00:02:10,800 --> 00:02:13,799 Speaker 1: and uh, you know, it's been sort of a controversial decision. 40 00:02:14,400 --> 00:02:17,240 Speaker 1: But the Supreme Court ruled again fully led Better, saying 41 00:02:17,280 --> 00:02:19,720 Speaker 1: that she should have filed her claim within an eight 42 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:25,000 Speaker 1: days of when the alleged pay discrepancy started. So basically 43 00:02:25,000 --> 00:02:27,560 Speaker 1: that gives her going back to like let's say nineteen 44 00:02:27,560 --> 00:02:29,840 Speaker 1: seventy nine, when she first gets hired. That gives her 45 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:32,000 Speaker 1: six months to figure out what everyone else is making 46 00:02:32,240 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 1: and to figure out if there's a gender wage gap there. 47 00:02:34,720 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 1: And if we're talking about fifteen other area managers, that 48 00:02:38,280 --> 00:02:40,520 Speaker 1: would be a pretty it would be a hard thing 49 00:02:40,560 --> 00:02:42,360 Speaker 1: to find out. I mean, I have no idea what 50 00:02:42,400 --> 00:02:44,080 Speaker 1: you make, Molly, and honestly I don't want to know 51 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:47,000 Speaker 1: freedom and I've been working here for a year exactly. 52 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:50,079 Speaker 1: There's it just seems really hard illogical that you could 53 00:02:50,080 --> 00:02:52,560 Speaker 1: expect someone to find out within six months of their 54 00:02:52,800 --> 00:02:56,080 Speaker 1: starting pay how much everyone else is making and whether 55 00:02:56,160 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 1: any discrepancy is in fact even due to your gender. Right, 56 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,880 Speaker 1: So the Supreme Court or had to toss out the case. 57 00:03:02,160 --> 00:03:07,680 Speaker 1: Lily Ledbetter decided to keep fighting against gender wage discrimination, 58 00:03:07,800 --> 00:03:09,400 Speaker 1: even though she mean, she's never going to get this 59 00:03:09,400 --> 00:03:12,880 Speaker 1: money back from good Year, but thanks to her work, 60 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: she has paved the way for a lot of other 61 00:03:15,880 --> 00:03:19,760 Speaker 1: people to get there do wages right. Here's what happened. So, 62 00:03:19,800 --> 00:03:21,920 Speaker 1: after all her campaigning, and she did make a lot 63 00:03:21,960 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: of campaign stops for Barack Obama when he was campaign 64 00:03:24,919 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: for president. On January nine, she was there when he 65 00:03:28,919 --> 00:03:32,400 Speaker 1: signed into law this Pay Act, which basically expans the 66 00:03:32,440 --> 00:03:36,080 Speaker 1: statue of limitations for lawsuits. So basically you can discover, 67 00:03:36,320 --> 00:03:38,120 Speaker 1: you know a little bit, you don't have just six 68 00:03:38,160 --> 00:03:40,120 Speaker 1: months to figure out if you're being paid less. Now, 69 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:41,920 Speaker 1: people on the other side say this is just gonna 70 00:03:41,960 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 1: encourage lawsuits, that women are gonna start coming forward and 71 00:03:44,280 --> 00:03:46,200 Speaker 1: claiming that they'll do all this money. And it's not 72 00:03:46,280 --> 00:03:48,200 Speaker 1: just women, it can be it can be men as well, 73 00:03:48,880 --> 00:03:51,800 Speaker 1: but sort of wage discrimination. But what Lily Liberter has 74 00:03:51,800 --> 00:03:54,200 Speaker 1: really become a symbol of is sort of the female 75 00:03:54,240 --> 00:03:57,440 Speaker 1: side in this gender wage gap. But then you've got 76 00:03:57,440 --> 00:04:00,240 Speaker 1: people saying that there's not a gender wage gap. Right, 77 00:04:00,320 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 1: What's going on with that? Kristen? Now, my I think 78 00:04:02,400 --> 00:04:06,120 Speaker 1: we need to clarify. When people here gender wage gap, 79 00:04:06,760 --> 00:04:10,720 Speaker 1: you immediately think of maybe National Women's organization, people picketing outside, 80 00:04:10,880 --> 00:04:14,560 Speaker 1: you know, for feminist causes. It definitely is the feminist platform. 81 00:04:14,800 --> 00:04:17,360 Speaker 1: But the fact of the matter is the gender wage 82 00:04:17,400 --> 00:04:21,360 Speaker 1: gap exists. I mean, it's not feminism, it's math, lays 83 00:04:21,440 --> 00:04:24,839 Speaker 1: and statistics. Um. Alright, Molly, here we go according to 84 00:04:24,960 --> 00:04:27,360 Speaker 1: the beera of labor statistics. Can we really argue with 85 00:04:27,400 --> 00:04:31,159 Speaker 1: them or no? No, The meeting wage in two thousand 86 00:04:31,279 --> 00:04:36,279 Speaker 1: seven for women was eight of that for men. So 87 00:04:36,320 --> 00:04:38,400 Speaker 1: if you went to the dollar store, yep, you can 88 00:04:38,440 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 1: only have eighty cents. Yes, exactly, Well, perfect perfect analogy. 89 00:04:44,400 --> 00:04:48,280 Speaker 1: Percent means now, some people argue that we've made a 90 00:04:48,320 --> 00:04:52,160 Speaker 1: lot of progress. The gender wage gap has definitely narrowed 91 00:04:52,240 --> 00:04:58,159 Speaker 1: since nineteen nine when the BLS started recording wage data, 92 00:04:58,480 --> 00:05:03,159 Speaker 1: and at that time, women made sixt of what men made, 93 00:05:03,200 --> 00:05:09,559 Speaker 1: So we've gone from six from nine two seven. That's okay, 94 00:05:09,560 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 1: that's that's a lot. But Molly, really is it a lot? 95 00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,599 Speaker 1: I mean that's like twenty years, that's one percent a year. Yeah, 96 00:05:14,600 --> 00:05:18,520 Speaker 1: we're kind of kind of just inching forward. So let's 97 00:05:18,520 --> 00:05:21,000 Speaker 1: break this sun a little bit to understand maybe why 98 00:05:21,080 --> 00:05:24,039 Speaker 1: the gender wage geap exists. Because it is illegal for 99 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:30,320 Speaker 1: businesses to pay men and women different amounts for the 100 00:05:30,400 --> 00:05:33,240 Speaker 1: same work. That went that came into law long time 101 00:05:33,279 --> 00:05:37,400 Speaker 1: ago nineteen sixty three with the Equal Pay Act, So 102 00:05:37,480 --> 00:05:40,320 Speaker 1: what's going on here? Well, Kristen, that was six three, 103 00:05:40,360 --> 00:05:42,440 Speaker 1: which makes me think that maybe there weren't that many 104 00:05:42,520 --> 00:05:44,760 Speaker 1: women in the workplace, So that might have been how 105 00:05:44,800 --> 00:05:47,000 Speaker 1: the gender wage gaps started, was just there weren't that 106 00:05:47,000 --> 00:05:50,280 Speaker 1: many women, you know, in positions of that were similar 107 00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:53,680 Speaker 1: to men. Basically, right, that could be. But also if 108 00:05:53,720 --> 00:05:58,360 Speaker 1: we look at education for instance, now women and men 109 00:05:58,520 --> 00:06:01,880 Speaker 1: both get about the same amount of bachelor's degrees, but 110 00:06:01,920 --> 00:06:06,440 Speaker 1: according to the US Census Bureau, men with degrees make 111 00:06:06,520 --> 00:06:11,280 Speaker 1: an average of twenty six thousand dollars more every year 112 00:06:11,680 --> 00:06:15,200 Speaker 1: than a degree holding woman. So the same level of education, 113 00:06:15,279 --> 00:06:18,559 Speaker 1: they're still making more. So something is still off. So 114 00:06:19,800 --> 00:06:21,559 Speaker 1: maybe it has to do with the jobs that we're picking. 115 00:06:21,640 --> 00:06:24,000 Speaker 1: Maybe we're just going into the wrong things. We need 116 00:06:24,000 --> 00:06:27,320 Speaker 1: to start becoming hedge fund managers or something. It's possible 117 00:06:27,400 --> 00:06:30,240 Speaker 1: because the fields that do attract the most women, like 118 00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:34,560 Speaker 1: education healthcare, just pay less um. So basically you do 119 00:06:34,640 --> 00:06:36,880 Speaker 1: kind of fault yourself on what you pick. I mean, 120 00:06:36,880 --> 00:06:39,599 Speaker 1: that sounds awful, but then it becomes a trade off 121 00:06:39,640 --> 00:06:41,799 Speaker 1: on do you want a job you love that pays 122 00:06:41,920 --> 00:06:45,040 Speaker 1: less center. But even in these female dominated fields, I 123 00:06:45,080 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 1: guess what I'm concerned about is women sell to work 124 00:06:47,800 --> 00:06:50,480 Speaker 1: harder to make the same and to get the same promotions. 125 00:06:50,960 --> 00:06:54,279 Speaker 1: I found this really interesting statistic from the National Center 126 00:06:54,279 --> 00:06:57,960 Speaker 1: for Education Statistics that said that women who are teachers 127 00:06:58,360 --> 00:07:01,000 Speaker 1: have to work three years longer as it teacher than 128 00:07:01,040 --> 00:07:03,760 Speaker 1: a male in terms of getting to the promotion of 129 00:07:03,839 --> 00:07:09,440 Speaker 1: principle right, and in sectors such as education and healthcare 130 00:07:09,720 --> 00:07:13,080 Speaker 1: that attract about a third of all female employees, men 131 00:07:13,200 --> 00:07:16,920 Speaker 1: still make more money on average than women in those 132 00:07:16,920 --> 00:07:20,840 Speaker 1: female dominated sectors. And as you move up the ladder 133 00:07:21,160 --> 00:07:23,880 Speaker 1: from you know, move up the pay scale, the gap 134 00:07:23,920 --> 00:07:26,400 Speaker 1: only widens, which surprised me because you would think the 135 00:07:26,440 --> 00:07:28,600 Speaker 1: more money that you start making, the higher that you're 136 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,400 Speaker 1: moving up in the world, the more that's going to close. 137 00:07:33,040 --> 00:07:36,120 Speaker 1: But it doesn't. The exact opposite happens, and only in 138 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:42,200 Speaker 1: the bottom of earning levels do women outnumber men. But Kristen, 139 00:07:42,280 --> 00:07:44,320 Speaker 1: let me play devil's advocate. I don't want to sound 140 00:07:44,320 --> 00:07:46,520 Speaker 1: like we're just a bunch of winy females. I mean, 141 00:07:46,560 --> 00:07:50,320 Speaker 1: I don't think that they're it's specifically a sexist discrimination thing, 142 00:07:50,360 --> 00:07:52,600 Speaker 1: do you know. I don't think that it is. For 143 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:55,880 Speaker 1: the very fact that all these statistics are coming from 144 00:07:56,160 --> 00:07:59,360 Speaker 1: US Census Bureau beer of Labor Statistics. I mean, they're 145 00:07:59,400 --> 00:08:02,800 Speaker 1: they're not. You know, acknowledge that it exists, and it 146 00:08:02,840 --> 00:08:06,440 Speaker 1: also holds up among different races, and so it's not 147 00:08:06,520 --> 00:08:10,320 Speaker 1: just a problem for women, but for people of other races. Right. 148 00:08:10,400 --> 00:08:14,239 Speaker 1: The gender wage gap is actually the narrowest in between 149 00:08:14,440 --> 00:08:18,920 Speaker 1: minority men and women. But that's because black and Hispanic 150 00:08:18,960 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 1: workers are making the least amount of money. So that's 151 00:08:22,760 --> 00:08:27,560 Speaker 1: where and when I talked about that bottom incomes, that's 152 00:08:27,600 --> 00:08:31,880 Speaker 1: where a lot of those employees are falling. Okay, so 153 00:08:32,000 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: now I'll play devil's advocate again. Okay, are these men 154 00:08:34,600 --> 00:08:37,120 Speaker 1: just working harder? Are they just doing a better job? 155 00:08:37,240 --> 00:08:40,400 Speaker 1: Are we really just maybe not very good employees? Well, Molly, 156 00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,760 Speaker 1: I don't think that you can necessarily judge on quality 157 00:08:43,800 --> 00:08:46,880 Speaker 1: of work, but the time on the clock does make 158 00:08:46,920 --> 00:08:53,760 Speaker 1: a difference. And statistically, men work more, and by work, 159 00:08:53,840 --> 00:08:57,120 Speaker 1: I mean work for wages more than women, right, And 160 00:08:57,160 --> 00:08:59,200 Speaker 1: studies have shown that the more you work, the more 161 00:08:59,200 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: you're gonna make. So if you're working, you know, a 162 00:09:01,520 --> 00:09:04,240 Speaker 1: week with let's say ten hours overtime, you're gonna make more. 163 00:09:04,840 --> 00:09:07,520 Speaker 1: But women may not have a luxury to do that 164 00:09:07,600 --> 00:09:12,120 Speaker 1: because of motherhood. Right, the family gap. This has sometimes 165 00:09:12,120 --> 00:09:16,360 Speaker 1: been referred to as family gap. And basically that means 166 00:09:16,400 --> 00:09:19,000 Speaker 1: that it's not like you're working less. You basically have 167 00:09:19,040 --> 00:09:20,600 Speaker 1: a four Uh. I was about to say a forty 168 00:09:20,600 --> 00:09:22,520 Speaker 1: hour day, but there's not forty hours in a day, 169 00:09:22,559 --> 00:09:24,640 Speaker 1: no matter how much we might like it, a twenty 170 00:09:24,640 --> 00:09:26,480 Speaker 1: four hour day, because you go to work nine to 171 00:09:26,600 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 1: five and then you go home and you've got kids, 172 00:09:29,679 --> 00:09:31,880 Speaker 1: take care of dinner, to make, et cetera. And it's 173 00:09:31,920 --> 00:09:35,680 Speaker 1: all this unpaid work that women are racking up in right, 174 00:09:35,720 --> 00:09:38,599 Speaker 1: and that unpaid work has been referred to as the 175 00:09:38,679 --> 00:09:42,800 Speaker 1: second shift. So maybe the reason why not as many 176 00:09:42,840 --> 00:09:46,480 Speaker 1: women are working full time or over time is because 177 00:09:47,559 --> 00:09:49,520 Speaker 1: they you know, they can't stay at the office because 178 00:09:49,520 --> 00:09:52,439 Speaker 1: they gotta go pick up little Johnny and Susie and 179 00:09:52,520 --> 00:09:55,040 Speaker 1: take them home and put their dinners in the microwave. 180 00:09:55,840 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: And you know, it's not just Johnnie and Susie's dinner 181 00:09:58,160 --> 00:10:00,640 Speaker 1: she's gonna making. She might be making Mom and Pops 182 00:10:00,640 --> 00:10:04,079 Speaker 1: dinner too. Because I was reading, uh something from the 183 00:10:04,080 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 1: Bureau of Labor Statistics that said that with the aging 184 00:10:07,040 --> 00:10:11,480 Speaker 1: baby boomer population coming up, American women, about of them 185 00:10:11,480 --> 00:10:13,600 Speaker 1: are going to have one parent living with them as 186 00:10:13,640 --> 00:10:15,960 Speaker 1: well as one child at least one child aunder age 187 00:10:15,960 --> 00:10:19,199 Speaker 1: of twenty one, So all of us is adding up 188 00:10:19,200 --> 00:10:24,880 Speaker 1: to smaller and smaller paycheck um. For another dismal statistic 189 00:10:24,960 --> 00:10:29,280 Speaker 1: to add to this lovely stew um, a study in 190 00:10:29,600 --> 00:10:35,280 Speaker 1: from the American Sociological Review calculated that American women experience 191 00:10:35,360 --> 00:10:39,480 Speaker 1: a seven percent wage penalty per child. So you're just 192 00:10:39,520 --> 00:10:41,640 Speaker 1: getting dinged if you just want to put a guilt 193 00:10:41,679 --> 00:10:45,920 Speaker 1: trip on your child, Yeah, show them your paycheck, Johnny. 194 00:10:46,920 --> 00:10:50,559 Speaker 1: So you better take care of me when I'm old, exactly. 195 00:10:50,600 --> 00:10:53,480 Speaker 1: But Molly, on the upside, there are two things that 196 00:10:53,559 --> 00:10:58,800 Speaker 1: might help us. Name them college education, okay, and waiting 197 00:10:58,840 --> 00:11:01,720 Speaker 1: to have a little Johnny. Really, yes, A study in 198 00:11:01,840 --> 00:11:04,760 Speaker 1: the Review of the Economics of the Household found that 199 00:11:04,960 --> 00:11:07,760 Speaker 1: college educated women who waited in to have children until 200 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,840 Speaker 1: after thirty did not experience a wage penalty. But you 201 00:11:11,840 --> 00:11:14,120 Speaker 1: know that's only one study. But still, but Christie, I 202 00:11:14,160 --> 00:11:16,840 Speaker 1: just find that really frustrating that the only glimmer of 203 00:11:16,880 --> 00:11:19,280 Speaker 1: hope you have offered me this entire podcast is that 204 00:11:19,360 --> 00:11:22,120 Speaker 1: I just shouldn't have children to thirty. That is just 205 00:11:22,760 --> 00:11:25,240 Speaker 1: that's just wrong. I think I think that it should 206 00:11:25,240 --> 00:11:28,440 Speaker 1: just be more equitable. Well, Molly, let's you know, let's 207 00:11:28,440 --> 00:11:30,320 Speaker 1: just break it down. You know, we have we have 208 00:11:30,400 --> 00:11:32,760 Speaker 1: three things to think about when you're entering into the workforce, 209 00:11:33,120 --> 00:11:35,600 Speaker 1: your job choice, how much time you're going to spend 210 00:11:35,600 --> 00:11:37,760 Speaker 1: on the clock, and when you're gonna have kids. I mean, 211 00:11:38,080 --> 00:11:40,600 Speaker 1: if you could just solve those problems, then you know 212 00:11:40,720 --> 00:11:43,000 Speaker 1: you don't have to worry about the wage gap. Oh, Kristen, 213 00:11:43,240 --> 00:11:45,760 Speaker 1: I went for tips from our real financial advisor just 214 00:11:45,800 --> 00:11:48,760 Speaker 1: because you're so doom and gloom today. Okay, these are 215 00:11:48,800 --> 00:11:53,160 Speaker 1: from CBS Early Show financial advisor Ray Martin. A man man, 216 00:11:53,320 --> 00:11:55,480 Speaker 1: all right, Molly, but a man have to say about this. 217 00:11:56,080 --> 00:11:57,959 Speaker 1: These are his stance for how women can address the 218 00:11:58,000 --> 00:12:00,400 Speaker 1: wage gap. But one of these you did I pick 219 00:12:00,480 --> 00:12:02,640 Speaker 1: up on? You need to seek career counseling while you're 220 00:12:02,679 --> 00:12:05,079 Speaker 1: in college so that if you are an education major, 221 00:12:05,240 --> 00:12:07,880 Speaker 1: you kind of understand what you're yourself into. If you're 222 00:12:07,880 --> 00:12:10,280 Speaker 1: an English major, you have to kind of understanding yourself into. 223 00:12:10,480 --> 00:12:13,840 Speaker 1: In journalism classes, they told us pretty much hourly that 224 00:12:13,840 --> 00:12:16,160 Speaker 1: we weren't going to make more than twenty dollars a year. 225 00:12:16,200 --> 00:12:19,160 Speaker 1: So so if your pity, if your priority is money, 226 00:12:19,200 --> 00:12:23,920 Speaker 1: then you know, start taking math and science classes. Um My, 227 00:12:24,000 --> 00:12:26,840 Speaker 1: next tip from Ray Martin was too if you do 228 00:12:27,000 --> 00:12:30,440 Speaker 1: choose a company, to look at how female friendly it is, 229 00:12:30,520 --> 00:12:33,319 Speaker 1: and you can do this by going to UH ratings 230 00:12:33,400 --> 00:12:37,000 Speaker 1: like the Working Mothers one hundred Best Companies lists and 231 00:12:37,040 --> 00:12:39,319 Speaker 1: see how they value time off. Because, as we heard, 232 00:12:39,320 --> 00:12:42,280 Speaker 1: if you're getting this seven percent dan with your children, 233 00:12:42,320 --> 00:12:43,760 Speaker 1: you need to work at a company that's going to 234 00:12:43,840 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 1: support you when you have these children, so you don't 235 00:12:46,200 --> 00:12:48,120 Speaker 1: have to wait to have all Johnny and Susie, whose 236 00:12:48,120 --> 00:12:52,160 Speaker 1: sounds absolutely adorable by the way, Yeah all right, um, 237 00:12:52,240 --> 00:12:53,800 Speaker 1: you guys can't see if it. Christen just made an 238 00:12:53,800 --> 00:12:57,080 Speaker 1: awful face when I talked about Johnny and Susie. But Kristin, 239 00:12:57,120 --> 00:12:59,040 Speaker 1: how about this. We've talked about this before. When you 240 00:12:59,080 --> 00:13:01,920 Speaker 1: get that first job off, what should you do negotiate 241 00:13:02,240 --> 00:13:05,160 Speaker 1: your right because a lot of this wage gap might 242 00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:07,400 Speaker 1: be just women not starting off on the same footing 243 00:13:07,400 --> 00:13:09,960 Speaker 1: as men. That's a very good point, Molly, thank you, 244 00:13:10,600 --> 00:13:13,280 Speaker 1: and so I will make another one. Another tip from 245 00:13:13,360 --> 00:13:16,280 Speaker 1: Raymartin is to join organizations that will help you as 246 00:13:16,280 --> 00:13:18,199 Speaker 1: a woman. So if you're in a particular field, let's 247 00:13:18,200 --> 00:13:21,120 Speaker 1: say engineering, there are tons of like women in engineering 248 00:13:21,120 --> 00:13:23,240 Speaker 1: groups that can help you figure out how to succeed. 249 00:13:23,280 --> 00:13:25,720 Speaker 1: They'll promote you, you can get involved and just really 250 00:13:25,760 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: pat up that resume. And then Raymartin's last tip kind 251 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:31,040 Speaker 1: of disappointed me. It was sort of like an if 252 00:13:31,080 --> 00:13:33,760 Speaker 1: all else fails kind of thing. He says, if all 253 00:13:33,760 --> 00:13:36,520 Speaker 1: else fails, just save more, because you're not making us much. 254 00:13:37,160 --> 00:13:40,640 Speaker 1: Burn Burn. It's harsh, Molly, with all of this talk 255 00:13:40,720 --> 00:13:43,160 Speaker 1: about money, might be a good time to switch gears 256 00:13:43,200 --> 00:13:46,960 Speaker 1: for a second and think our sponsor, audible dot com. 257 00:13:47,160 --> 00:13:52,560 Speaker 1: You can't get one free download by going to www 258 00:13:52,600 --> 00:13:58,200 Speaker 1: dot audible podcast dot com slash mom and signing up. 259 00:13:58,240 --> 00:13:59,840 Speaker 1: And if you want to sign up and do that, 260 00:14:00,040 --> 00:14:03,199 Speaker 1: I have a recommendation for you. It's called Women in 261 00:14:03,280 --> 00:14:06,240 Speaker 1: a Labyrinth of Leadership is an article from the Harvard 262 00:14:06,240 --> 00:14:10,240 Speaker 1: Business Review. And while I always trust Kristen's recommendations, I 263 00:14:10,280 --> 00:14:13,520 Speaker 1: have one too. It's nice Girls Don't Get the Corner 264 00:14:13,600 --> 00:14:17,160 Speaker 1: Office and Nice Girls Don't Get Rich by Lows p. Frankel. 265 00:14:17,280 --> 00:14:19,880 Speaker 1: And these books are conveniently available in a box set 266 00:14:20,200 --> 00:14:22,520 Speaker 1: at Audible. So again, if you want to check these out, 267 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:27,040 Speaker 1: the u r L is www Dot Audible podcast dot com, 268 00:14:27,120 --> 00:14:29,480 Speaker 1: slash mom, and you get your first download for free, 269 00:14:29,520 --> 00:14:31,960 Speaker 1: and since one of those tips we just gave was 270 00:14:32,000 --> 00:14:35,480 Speaker 1: to save more, I think free downloads will definitely help. Well. 271 00:14:35,560 --> 00:14:38,040 Speaker 1: It's nice to know that we have these free downloads 272 00:14:38,080 --> 00:14:41,360 Speaker 1: and some support from the Oval Office with the Lily 273 00:14:41,440 --> 00:14:43,880 Speaker 1: Led Butteract. And I think the most important thing, Christen, 274 00:14:43,960 --> 00:14:45,520 Speaker 1: is just to be aware of it. Don't let someone 275 00:14:45,560 --> 00:14:47,800 Speaker 1: tell you know that the gender wage gap doesn't exist, 276 00:14:47,840 --> 00:14:51,120 Speaker 1: because clearly you have enough studies. If anyone asks you 277 00:14:51,160 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 1: if a gender wage gap exists, just tell them. Kristen 278 00:14:53,480 --> 00:14:55,920 Speaker 1: from stuff mom never told you gave you about a 279 00:14:56,000 --> 00:14:59,200 Speaker 1: hundred statistics that proved it from the government, all right, 280 00:14:59,320 --> 00:15:01,720 Speaker 1: mollly from the government. I didn't make these up. I 281 00:15:01,800 --> 00:15:03,760 Speaker 1: know you didn't, Kristen. 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