1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,599 Speaker 1: Is my husband cheating on me? I keep finding long 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:04,200 Speaker 1: hairs that aren't mine or his. 3 00:00:04,600 --> 00:00:08,080 Speaker 2: He's bald, OKAYOPI he's bald. 4 00:00:08,360 --> 00:00:12,680 Speaker 1: My guy has a shiny god round nugget bolished. 5 00:00:13,600 --> 00:00:15,480 Speaker 2: So this started a few weeks ago. 6 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:18,439 Speaker 1: While cleaning the bathroom, I found a number of long 7 00:00:18,520 --> 00:00:21,439 Speaker 1: hair strands over my bathroom wall by the shower. This 8 00:00:21,520 --> 00:00:23,840 Speaker 1: struck me as very odd because not only does my 9 00:00:24,040 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 1: husband not have hair. 10 00:00:25,360 --> 00:00:27,400 Speaker 2: He's bald bald. 11 00:00:27,680 --> 00:00:31,400 Speaker 1: I also have a very cropped, short hairstyle, so it's 12 00:00:31,480 --> 00:00:34,479 Speaker 1: not possible that the strands I found were mine or 13 00:00:34,520 --> 00:00:37,080 Speaker 1: my husband's. Confused, I washed them the way, but I 14 00:00:37,200 --> 00:00:38,879 Speaker 1: just couldn't stop thinking about it. 15 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:39,040 Speaker 2: Oh. 16 00:00:39,040 --> 00:00:41,240 Speaker 1: I decided not to mention it, but I kept looking 17 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:43,080 Speaker 1: out for them. There seems to be a pattern that 18 00:00:43,120 --> 00:00:46,479 Speaker 1: there's hairs appearing if I'm at work or out for 19 00:00:46,520 --> 00:00:49,760 Speaker 1: a longer period. So she keeps seeing these hairs. Read 20 00:00:49,920 --> 00:00:52,320 Speaker 1: here bruh fire marked, broh. 21 00:00:52,159 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, bruh bruh. 22 00:00:53,680 --> 00:00:55,480 Speaker 1: By it, I feel like I'm going crazy, and I 23 00:00:55,520 --> 00:00:58,640 Speaker 1: feel like I just shouldn't immediately jump to the conclusion 24 00:00:58,760 --> 00:01:00,680 Speaker 1: that my husband is cheating on me with a longer 25 00:01:00,720 --> 00:01:03,920 Speaker 1: haired woman. I asked my husband about it, and at 26 00:01:03,920 --> 00:01:07,319 Speaker 1: first he just shrug already a little suspicious, suspicious, A 27 00:01:07,360 --> 00:01:10,319 Speaker 1: suspicious shrug, A suspicious shrug. 28 00:01:10,319 --> 00:01:11,679 Speaker 2: Say that time five times fast. 29 00:01:11,800 --> 00:01:14,800 Speaker 1: Now this made me paranoid, as surely this is something 30 00:01:14,840 --> 00:01:17,800 Speaker 1: that's so strange he wouldn't be so blase about. I'm 31 00:01:17,800 --> 00:01:20,040 Speaker 1: starting to think that he's playing it down and he's 32 00:01:20,200 --> 00:01:22,080 Speaker 1: trying to stop me from finding out the truth. 33 00:01:22,200 --> 00:01:25,400 Speaker 2: Oh God. Then it happened again two days ago. 34 00:01:25,480 --> 00:01:28,000 Speaker 1: I asked my husband again and he dismissed it, but 35 00:01:28,080 --> 00:01:30,839 Speaker 1: this time he did admit that it's strange, but told 36 00:01:30,880 --> 00:01:33,720 Speaker 1: me the only explanation was that it must be my hairs. 37 00:01:34,080 --> 00:01:35,680 Speaker 2: Oh but she has short hair. 38 00:01:35,800 --> 00:01:38,200 Speaker 1: Yeah, Opie says, they're not, and that he's going to 39 00:01:38,319 --> 00:01:40,560 Speaker 1: keep ignoring it the more she brings it up. Opie says, 40 00:01:40,600 --> 00:01:42,480 Speaker 1: I don't want to assume my husband is cheating on 41 00:01:42,560 --> 00:01:45,840 Speaker 1: me and accuse him over something so seemingly ridiculous. But 42 00:01:45,880 --> 00:01:48,760 Speaker 1: I'm driving myself into the ground trying to work out 43 00:01:48,840 --> 00:01:52,000 Speaker 1: how the hairs got there without my husband dismissing it 44 00:01:52,080 --> 00:01:54,559 Speaker 1: as nothing. And this is during lockdown, so we haven't 45 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,200 Speaker 1: had any visitors of any kind that we know of, 46 00:01:57,320 --> 00:01:58,720 Speaker 1: and I could rule out his sister. 47 00:01:58,880 --> 00:02:01,960 Speaker 2: Now there is an updates. Oh God, what are we 48 00:02:02,000 --> 00:02:02,640 Speaker 2: going to see? 49 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:06,360 Speaker 1: Here we go? I promise this isn't the ending that 50 00:02:06,400 --> 00:02:07,200 Speaker 1: you think it'll have. 51 00:02:07,400 --> 00:02:10,359 Speaker 2: Okay. I ultimately decided this part's great. 52 00:02:10,520 --> 00:02:13,880 Speaker 1: I ultimately decided against getting a secret camera for the 53 00:02:13,880 --> 00:02:16,960 Speaker 1: bathroom because, ironically enough, I didn't want to betray my 54 00:02:17,000 --> 00:02:19,360 Speaker 1: partner's trust, though part of me did want to just 55 00:02:19,400 --> 00:02:22,320 Speaker 1: squash any worries of someone living in my walls, as 56 00:02:22,360 --> 00:02:23,440 Speaker 1: some of the comments said. 57 00:02:25,360 --> 00:02:28,520 Speaker 2: I thought someone was living in the walls. No, just 58 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:29,880 Speaker 2: someone like being in the wall. 59 00:02:29,880 --> 00:02:31,799 Speaker 1: Oh I guess yeah, you're right, someone thought someone was 60 00:02:31,840 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 1: living in the walls. God, these renditors thet think of 61 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,480 Speaker 1: everything now. I did make a plan, though, to leave 62 00:02:37,520 --> 00:02:39,880 Speaker 1: week early, which is something that I've never done before. 63 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:42,160 Speaker 1: My boss allowed me to leave after a half day. 64 00:02:42,320 --> 00:02:45,760 Speaker 1: Upon returning home, something seemed to miss. I was expecting 65 00:02:45,880 --> 00:02:49,040 Speaker 1: another car on the driveway or parked outside the street. 66 00:02:49,440 --> 00:02:54,120 Speaker 1: There was another car that I did not recognize. Quietly 67 00:02:54,200 --> 00:02:57,760 Speaker 1: letting myself in, I was immediately confused. In the hallway, 68 00:02:57,840 --> 00:02:59,880 Speaker 1: there are a pair of shoes that I didn't wreck. 69 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:04,519 Speaker 1: Oh God, And not only that, they looked to be 70 00:03:04,960 --> 00:03:08,519 Speaker 1: men's shoes. Wait what yep? Here we go to buckle 71 00:03:08,560 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 1: and buckle. Standing in the hallway trying to work out 72 00:03:10,919 --> 00:03:13,040 Speaker 1: what to do, if I should sneak around or make 73 00:03:13,080 --> 00:03:15,880 Speaker 1: my presence known. But before I could decide, my husband 74 00:03:15,919 --> 00:03:19,280 Speaker 1: walked out into the kitchen with two cups of. 75 00:03:19,240 --> 00:03:20,480 Speaker 2: Tea in his hands. 76 00:03:20,680 --> 00:03:24,240 Speaker 1: Oh God, by my husband's face, it was obvious he 77 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:25,240 Speaker 1: was surprised to see me. 78 00:03:25,320 --> 00:03:29,240 Speaker 2: I'm on my thoes. We like this is this is 79 00:03:29,480 --> 00:03:31,560 Speaker 2: some spooky crap coming up. 80 00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:34,800 Speaker 1: Playing along with the naivete I asked my husband how 81 00:03:34,840 --> 00:03:37,000 Speaker 1: he could have known I was coming home early to 82 00:03:37,080 --> 00:03:40,160 Speaker 1: make me tea. Expecting my husband to lie. He surprised 83 00:03:40,200 --> 00:03:44,280 Speaker 1: me by sitting me down and explaining everything. 84 00:03:44,480 --> 00:03:47,120 Speaker 2: Oh no, what's everything? What's everything? John. 85 00:03:47,280 --> 00:03:50,480 Speaker 1: At the beginning of Lockdown, his friend, someone I'm not 86 00:03:50,560 --> 00:03:53,360 Speaker 1: at all close with because we only met once, was evicted. 87 00:03:53,440 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: He lost his job, and ever since then he had 88 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: been CouchSurfing. So for some days over the past couple 89 00:03:59,000 --> 00:04:02,040 Speaker 1: of weeks, this guy has been traveling to our house and, 90 00:04:02,200 --> 00:04:05,160 Speaker 1: with the acceptance of my husband, using our bathroom to 91 00:04:05,200 --> 00:04:07,880 Speaker 1: freshen up to attend to interviews. He was also borrowing 92 00:04:07,920 --> 00:04:10,560 Speaker 1: shirts and suits from my husband. As it turns out 93 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:15,000 Speaker 1: my husband's friend has long hair and beard. Oh wow, wait, 94 00:04:15,080 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: this is a this is a way of more wholesome 95 00:04:17,360 --> 00:04:21,320 Speaker 1: ending like keeps saying like, Okay, this is gonna be terrible, terrible, terrible. 96 00:04:21,360 --> 00:04:25,680 Speaker 1: I'm like, oh wait, this is like wondrously wholesome. So 97 00:04:25,960 --> 00:04:28,200 Speaker 1: it turns out my husband isn't cheating on me, but 98 00:04:28,320 --> 00:04:30,960 Speaker 1: was hiding the fact that his long haired male friend 99 00:04:31,160 --> 00:04:32,640 Speaker 1: was coming over to use a shower. 100 00:04:32,920 --> 00:04:34,880 Speaker 2: So basically, your husband's a saint. 101 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: Yes, imagine if Op had gotten the camera in the bathroom. 102 00:04:40,560 --> 00:04:43,599 Speaker 1: Oh god, and then he found out, and then he 103 00:04:43,720 --> 00:04:46,280 Speaker 1: revealed that is actually happening. 104 00:04:46,600 --> 00:04:48,520 Speaker 2: We'll be right back after the break. 105 00:04:48,920 --> 00:04:51,360 Speaker 1: So Sam and I recently converted this podcast to anchor, 106 00:04:51,400 --> 00:04:53,560 Speaker 1: and it was so easy. I mean, Sam, I wish 107 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:55,880 Speaker 1: all conversions were this easy, even spiritual ones. 108 00:04:55,920 --> 00:04:58,320 Speaker 2: Sir John, I actually called up the Church of Scientology 109 00:04:58,360 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 2: and asked. 110 00:04:59,040 --> 00:05:02,479 Speaker 1: How can I convert Iientology Information Center, How can I 111 00:05:02,520 --> 00:05:02,880 Speaker 1: help you? 112 00:05:03,120 --> 00:05:05,400 Speaker 3: Hello? I saw one of your pamphlets and I was 113 00:05:05,440 --> 00:05:09,359 Speaker 3: wondering if I could get more information about like like 114 00:05:09,480 --> 00:05:11,840 Speaker 3: doing some kind of like converting or joining the group. 115 00:05:12,040 --> 00:05:13,680 Speaker 2: Okay, how do you check out our website. 116 00:05:14,200 --> 00:05:18,080 Speaker 3: Yes, I have, and I was wondering, like, how how 117 00:05:18,120 --> 00:05:21,479 Speaker 3: easy is it to like attend one of these events. 118 00:05:21,720 --> 00:05:22,280 Speaker 1: I mean, at this. 119 00:05:22,320 --> 00:05:25,480 Speaker 2: Point you should read a book or something like that 120 00:05:25,600 --> 00:05:26,760 Speaker 2: you can find out what it is. 121 00:05:27,000 --> 00:05:29,359 Speaker 3: That sounds like a little difficult. I wish it was 122 00:05:29,400 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 3: like kind of easier, like converting to Anchor. It's free 123 00:05:32,000 --> 00:05:33,520 Speaker 3: and you can use it from your phone or computer, 124 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:34,479 Speaker 3: and it's the easiest way to. 125 00:05:34,480 --> 00:05:35,120 Speaker 2: Make a podcast. 126 00:05:35,640 --> 00:05:38,800 Speaker 1: Yeah, do you have a lot of time to wait? 127 00:05:40,600 --> 00:05:40,760 Speaker 2: No? 128 00:05:41,000 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 3: Actually, but it's creation tools allow you to record and 129 00:05:44,080 --> 00:05:46,400 Speaker 3: edit your podcast, so it sounds great, and they'll distribute 130 00:05:46,440 --> 00:05:47,840 Speaker 3: it everywhere that podcast can be heard. 131 00:05:47,920 --> 00:05:50,760 Speaker 1: Okay, so I'm thinking that you have a lot of 132 00:05:50,760 --> 00:05:53,280 Speaker 1: time on your hands and you can make money from 133 00:05:53,320 --> 00:05:53,560 Speaker 1: it too. 134 00:05:55,000 --> 00:05:55,360 Speaker 2: Thank you. 135 00:05:55,760 --> 00:05:58,960 Speaker 1: But honestly, she didn't seem too thrilled with my line 136 00:05:58,960 --> 00:05:59,560 Speaker 1: of questioning. 137 00:05:59,680 --> 00:06:02,000 Speaker 2: But you know what should get you thrilled. The Anchor app. 138 00:06:02,120 --> 00:06:04,440 Speaker 1: You can download the Anchor up or visit anchor dot 139 00:06:04,600 --> 00:06:08,320 Speaker 1: fm to get started. Now back to the podcast them. 140 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,839 Speaker 1: That is, uh, what a turn of events. I would 141 00:06:11,839 --> 00:06:14,280 Speaker 1: not have expected that, But I feel like I feel 142 00:06:14,320 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 1: like he should have told his wife about it totally, 143 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:20,600 Speaker 1: like because it's like, Hey, my friend who has been evicted, 144 00:06:20,680 --> 00:06:22,320 Speaker 1: like just wants to come over during the day to 145 00:06:22,360 --> 00:06:25,240 Speaker 1: take a shower, Like that you're his long haired friend 146 00:06:25,279 --> 00:06:27,640 Speaker 1: to come over right when he knew she was going 147 00:06:27,720 --> 00:06:30,640 Speaker 1: to come back, Like he was hiding something and really 148 00:06:30,640 --> 00:06:33,640 Speaker 1: it's a long haired girl that he's been seeing and 149 00:06:33,680 --> 00:06:36,480 Speaker 1: this is the cover up. If if that is true, 150 00:06:36,720 --> 00:06:39,920 Speaker 1: that is, without a doubt, the greatest cheater that has. 151 00:06:39,880 --> 00:06:42,120 Speaker 2: Ever exist deserves it. 152 00:06:42,400 --> 00:06:44,400 Speaker 1: After a shower, I ended up meeting Dave and he 153 00:06:44,440 --> 00:06:46,760 Speaker 1: turned out to be a very nice bloke, just down 154 00:06:46,800 --> 00:06:48,599 Speaker 1: on his luck. I wish him the very best for 155 00:06:48,640 --> 00:06:50,800 Speaker 1: a socially distanced interview, and he went on his way. 156 00:06:50,880 --> 00:06:53,000 Speaker 1: I asked my husband why he didn't just tell me, 157 00:06:53,040 --> 00:06:55,160 Speaker 1: as I wouldn't have had a problem with problem with it. 158 00:06:55,160 --> 00:06:57,680 Speaker 1: Turns out he was worried about my reaction of me 159 00:06:57,880 --> 00:07:00,479 Speaker 1: not liking or proving these of the situation. He also 160 00:07:00,520 --> 00:07:03,320 Speaker 1: told me Dave was very embarrassed about the whole thing 161 00:07:03,600 --> 00:07:05,599 Speaker 1: and didn't want people to know what he was having 162 00:07:05,640 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: to do. I told my husband I was starting to 163 00:07:07,680 --> 00:07:10,280 Speaker 1: believe that he was cheating, and he was shocked hearing that, 164 00:07:10,400 --> 00:07:13,560 Speaker 1: having not even considered the implications. While attempting to cover 165 00:07:13,680 --> 00:07:15,240 Speaker 1: up for his friend. I told him the whole thing 166 00:07:15,320 --> 00:07:18,160 Speaker 1: was ridiculous and even suggested his friend live with us 167 00:07:18,280 --> 00:07:20,480 Speaker 1: until he's back on his feet. We love a happy 168 00:07:20,560 --> 00:07:23,320 Speaker 1: ending on OKOP. We don't get many of those. We don't, 169 00:07:23,360 --> 00:07:25,040 Speaker 1: so don't It's beautiful when they happen. 170 00:07:25,360 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 2: And if you want to hear the full story, go 171 00:07:26,720 --> 00:07:29,160 Speaker 2: check us out on Spotify. We'll see you next time. 172 00:07:29,240 --> 00:07:29,760 Speaker 2: See you soon.