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Speaker 1: I listened to the Black Guy Who Tips podcast because

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Speaker 1: Rod and Karen are hot. Hey, welcome to the Blackout

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Speaker 1: to his podcast. I'm your host Rod, joined us always

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Speaker 1: by my co host Karen, and we're live on a

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Speaker 1: Saturday night, ready to do some podcasting. Of course, this

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Speaker 1: is kind of a weird episode because it's a feedback show.

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Speaker 1: But we didn't really do any episodes last week, so

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Speaker 1: it's like really more about you know, house cleeping type stuff.

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Speaker 1: But you know we did, uh, you know, want to

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Speaker 1: first of all, wish all happy holidays and stuff. Marry Christmas.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, today's the first day of KWANSA. We had talked

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Speaker 2: about doing a Christmas show, but we decided not to.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I decided I didn't feel like it. I was

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Speaker 1: But also just in general, I was tired. We had

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Speaker 1: unlike Thanksgiving, we didn't have as much stuff to give away,

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Speaker 1: so then it felt weird. It's like, we can't even

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Speaker 1: just take the time off and enjoy it. So that

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Speaker 1: was that was on me. Sorry about that? Well, no,

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Speaker 1: I'm not sorry. I deserve time off. I work hard.

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Speaker 1: I'm a black person in this world. We've been working. See.

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Speaker 3: I was trying to. I was trying to, you know,

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Speaker 1: But you know, I was standing it myself. I don't

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Speaker 1: need you. I don't want you to take none of

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Speaker 1: to deal with me. But we're still gonna do feedback.

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Speaker 1: Of course, we had people. I just realized I didn't

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Speaker 1: check the voicemails, but we had people that left us

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Speaker 1: comments on our website. As of course Skype past install again.

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Speaker 1: Maybe they're fixing that problem. But yeah, we have people

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Speaker 1: you know, some people like it kind of short. Who knows. Okay,

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Speaker 1: let's get into uh, of course, the place you can

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I'm trying to think what else you can do voicemails, emails.

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Speaker 1: Classic Goarna be lover says Hello Rider, Karen, Thank you

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Speaker 1: re listen to a section of your podcast what DJ

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Speaker 1: Ben I mean where you discuss music. I rewound that

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Speaker 1: I love Earth Gang. I have not stopped listening to

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Speaker 2: I love that dad Alvim goals all that shit goals

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Speaker 1: Catholic Church are people in African countries. The Catholic Church

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Speaker 3: No, you did?

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Speaker 3: You check you check out the boxes.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. I feel like that's how everybody is treating it

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Speaker 1: All right. We got no voicemails, but we did get

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Speaker 1: some emails. Let's see Chicken Shack, right, saying Chicken Shack Studios.

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Speaker 1: He says, Hey, Rod and Karen, I got turned onto

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Speaker 1: your podcast through Keith and the Girl, and man, I

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Speaker 1: love shout out to Keith and Himda Keith and the Girl.

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Speaker 1: I took the liberty of pumping out white people knew

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Speaker 1: I now resigned to Chicago and often yearned for Southern culture.

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Speaker 1: You'll show means the world to me already after listening

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Speaker 1: for a month. Here is a drive link to the

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Speaker 1: song just in Case Love Piece and Chicken Grease from

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Speaker 1: Chicken Shack Studios. PS. I choose egg salad as though,

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Speaker 1: Oh wait, let me play the song and then we'll

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Speaker 1: because we do need a white people news theme song.

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Speaker 1: Why that fact that sure don't have thrown fan kept

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Speaker 1: Baby, Oh my god, Yo, that is so dope, and

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Speaker 1: whitest male I can think of for the song. If

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Speaker 1: if I'm going to a barbecue, I'm bringing something with seasoning.

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Speaker 1: Egg salad is probably the whitest meal that is not

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Speaker 1: That is not a thing you see black people bring

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Speaker 1: to the to the cookout very often. Now you've talked,

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Speaker 1: now potato salad, potato salad, or deviled eggs, we will do.

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Speaker 3: We would do buff of those.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, but eggs, I mean, that's a pretty

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Speaker 1: good call there. That feels, you know, people raises it

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Speaker 1: At the egg salad because that's what the white folks do. Love.

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Speaker 1: Oh my god, that was so adorable. Love Yes White,

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Speaker 1: that was perfect. It's crazy man, y'all come up with

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Speaker 1: Like, there's literally no substitute for that. That was not

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Speaker 1: Thank you saving it. Can't wait to our girl, Lashawanda

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Speaker 1: the Doctor. She writes in feedback, and Merry Christmas. Merry Christmas,

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Speaker 1: right of Karen. I'm so proud of you, guys. I

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Speaker 1: know I say that every time I write in, But

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Speaker 1: y'all gonna get this positive reinforcement. I'm gonna take it

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Speaker 1: to Okay. Over the years, it will encouraged me, and

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Speaker 1: I'm feeling way more comfortableutting myself out there. Go ahead

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Speaker 1: to that end. I've attached to a Christmas gift from me.

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Speaker 1: At first, I was going to send you a quilt,

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Speaker 1: I'm sending a gift certificate and you can use it

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Speaker 1: I'm also really proud to announce that some of my

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Speaker 1: in real life? When you find people who want to

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Speaker 1: get into politics talk with you, people who that you

433
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Speaker 1: otherwise still want to maintain some sort of friendship with,

434
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Speaker 1: but you know that it will just be a waste

435
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Speaker 1: of time. I have several people who I work with

436
00:23:04,840 --> 00:23:07,400
Speaker 1: who I genuinely like, but I know that if politics

437
00:23:07,400 --> 00:23:09,600
Speaker 1: comes up, they will only ran about the DNC and

438
00:23:09,800 --> 00:23:12,240
Speaker 1: x Pelosi and Bernie was robbed et cetera. And I'm

439
00:23:12,280 --> 00:23:13,879
Speaker 1: not sure of a good way to tell them I

440
00:23:13,920 --> 00:23:16,240
Speaker 1: have zero interest in their thoughts and that I see

441
00:23:16,280 --> 00:23:20,159
Speaker 1: them as no better than Qanin and info War as followers. Anyway,

442
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Speaker 1: it's just curious. Congrats on another amazing year, Thanks for

443
00:23:22,880 --> 00:23:25,160
Speaker 1: all their enlightenment, and last they safe love to both

444
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Speaker 1: of you.

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Speaker 2: That's kind of difficult, particularly in the work, and particularly

446
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Speaker 2: if you go to work in the working environment. A

447
00:23:30,960 --> 00:23:33,359
Speaker 2: lot of times what I do is it A lot

448
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Speaker 2: of times I just I've gotten real good on learning

449
00:23:35,840 --> 00:23:38,639
Speaker 2: how to change the topic, like you know, because a

450
00:23:38,680 --> 00:23:40,240
Speaker 2: lot of times people just like to rant, people just

451
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Speaker 2: like to talk, and so a lot of times I

452
00:23:42,200 --> 00:23:44,360
Speaker 2: can change the topic in different directions, or you could say,

453
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Speaker 2: that's just be frank went that's something that I'd rather

454
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Speaker 2: not talk about. I mean, sometimes you have to be

455
00:23:49,960 --> 00:23:52,960
Speaker 2: that flat with people, be like, yo, let's talk about

456
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Speaker 2: something else.

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Speaker 1: Yeah. The thing for me is at work, I used

458
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Speaker 1: to really just not talk to people regardless they politics.

459
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Speaker 1: Like I like, I didn't mind lighthearted stuff like you

460
00:24:02,200 --> 00:24:04,280
Speaker 1: want to talk about the weather, the football game or

461
00:24:04,280 --> 00:24:07,400
Speaker 1: some bullshit, sure, but I didn't talk to anyone about

462
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Speaker 1: their politics. Even if they fucking agree with me, because

463
00:24:09,600 --> 00:24:13,720
Speaker 1: it was like that, to me, that's a luxury. Now

464
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Speaker 1: you may work I don't know. You may work in

465
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Speaker 1: a field where everyone's politically active and that's part of

466
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Speaker 1: the job, so that might be hard to avoid. But

467
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Speaker 1: the couple of things that work for me. One just

468
00:24:25,080 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: told people flat out this why stand and that one

469
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Speaker 1: goes against the opposite of what most people would think.

470
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Speaker 1: But I swear to God, too many good people look

471
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Speaker 1: at themselves as I'm the one who needs to shrink

472
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Speaker 1: for you, and sometimes it's like, nah, you shrink from

473
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Speaker 1: me then, cause guess what they gonna find out they

474
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Speaker 1: don't want to talk to your ass either, right, you

475
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Speaker 1: know what I mean? Like that was like, uh, that

476
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Speaker 1: was one of the things I realized too about like

477
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Speaker 1: my political opinions. It's like, okay, so if you don't

478
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Speaker 1: like my political opinions and that makes you decide you

479
00:25:00,040 --> 00:25:02,800
Speaker 1: don't want to talk to me, that's fine.

480
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Speaker 3: Yes it is. We don't have to talk.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's work, that's absolutely fine. I guess what you

482
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Speaker 1: didn't even know it. I didn't want to talk to you,

483
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean, Like, give me the gift

484
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Speaker 1: of disliking me.

485
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Speaker 3: Then yeah, you and you have to be comfortable in that.

486
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and that because that was very hard for a

487
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Speaker 2: lot of people to wrap their minds around. And when

488
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Speaker 2: it comes to work, the thing that's most frustrating about

489
00:25:25,760 --> 00:25:27,720
Speaker 2: work is that you always have.

490
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Speaker 3: HR and them go through these things.

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Speaker 2: And what's the number one thing they tell people talk

492
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Speaker 2: about not to talk about this fucking shit at work.

493
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Speaker 2: They tell people that, and they tell people that for

494
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Speaker 2: a reason, And what do motherfuckers do?

495
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Speaker 3: That's one of the first things they want to talk

496
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Speaker 3: about that shit at work.

497
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Speaker 2: And you're like, bitch, din you You was at the same

498
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Speaker 2: HR shit I was at. Why you just ignoring the fuck?

499
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Speaker 2: A lot of times white people too, you go, why

500
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Speaker 2: you knowing it out of the meeting we just had.

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Speaker 1: Also, I mean, if you listen to the show and

502
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Speaker 1: you listen to when we have guests, you've heard me

503
00:25:54,000 --> 00:25:56,840
Speaker 1: talk to people I don't agree with on everything. I

504
00:25:56,880 --> 00:25:59,400
Speaker 1: think it's kind of easy, you know what I mean? Like,

505
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Speaker 1: I just think the Internet makes people feel like it

506
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Speaker 1: has to be a confrontational thing, you know, Like we

507
00:26:07,600 --> 00:26:09,879
Speaker 1: had been a mean On the show, Ben was talking

508
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:13,200
Speaker 1: about the Boys last season and how he sees it

509
00:26:13,240 --> 00:26:15,679
Speaker 1: as like, I forget the exact words, but essentially like

510
00:26:15,760 --> 00:26:20,040
Speaker 1: white boy political shit where they you know, they they

511
00:26:20,560 --> 00:26:23,159
Speaker 1: don't like liberals or something like that. I watched that

512
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Speaker 1: same season. That's not the feeling I got. I also

513
00:26:26,760 --> 00:26:29,239
Speaker 1: don't really do a lot of community with people that

514
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:33,520
Speaker 1: kind of have those kind of conversations because I always

515
00:26:33,560 --> 00:26:39,120
Speaker 1: feel like if we start every conversation with our arms folded,

516
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:43,080
Speaker 1: and and and and like I'm gonna find the problems

517
00:26:43,080 --> 00:26:46,479
Speaker 1: in it, then you then that's where every conversation will end.

518
00:26:47,480 --> 00:26:50,280
Speaker 1: My arms are folded. And I found this to be problematic,

519
00:26:50,280 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: and so I try to go in with an open mind.

520
00:26:52,880 --> 00:26:55,560
Speaker 1: Sometimes it you know, sometimes I end up getting a

521
00:26:55,560 --> 00:26:58,280
Speaker 1: great new experience, and sometimes you end up going all right,

522
00:26:58,400 --> 00:27:00,720
Speaker 1: this was bad, or you know, I didn't like this

523
00:27:00,800 --> 00:27:04,160
Speaker 1: thing anyway. I like the season two. I like Season

524
00:27:04,240 --> 00:27:06,240
Speaker 1: two of The Boys. I didn't have a problem with

525
00:27:06,720 --> 00:27:09,919
Speaker 1: the villain, one of the villains and the characterization of

526
00:27:09,920 --> 00:27:14,160
Speaker 1: that character at all. Ben had a problem with it.

527
00:27:14,200 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: Did we have to stop the show? Did it become

528
00:27:16,800 --> 00:27:20,240
Speaker 1: like fuck that man, you gotta agree with me, you

529
00:27:20,280 --> 00:27:22,119
Speaker 1: don't know what you're talking about. I like this, So

530
00:27:22,240 --> 00:27:25,280
Speaker 1: now you need to like, no, it's cool. We just

531
00:27:25,320 --> 00:27:27,399
Speaker 1: watched wonder Woman. That was a person on my page.

532
00:27:27,440 --> 00:27:29,800
Speaker 1: I didn't I didn't enjoy the latest wonder Woman. I

533
00:27:29,840 --> 00:27:32,480
Speaker 1: wish I had. I really liked the first one. I

534
00:27:32,520 --> 00:27:36,760
Speaker 1: didn't like the last one, and someone on my page

535
00:27:36,800 --> 00:27:38,560
Speaker 1: was like, I loved it. I said, you know, I

536
00:27:38,560 --> 00:27:40,720
Speaker 1: wish you would have enjoyed it, blah blah, and I said, dog,

537
00:27:40,880 --> 00:27:44,400
Speaker 1: I'm actually happy you enjoyed it too, because it don't

538
00:27:44,440 --> 00:27:47,320
Speaker 1: have nothing to do with me, Like I want to

539
00:27:47,320 --> 00:27:49,919
Speaker 1: live in a world where this movie was made and

540
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,639
Speaker 1: it found some people that fucked with it, Like, I

541
00:27:52,680 --> 00:27:55,480
Speaker 1: don't need everyone on the same page. I'm not doing

542
00:27:55,480 --> 00:27:57,600
Speaker 1: this the fine community with people that don't like it,

543
00:27:57,680 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 1: like totally totally cool, totally legit. You know how much

544
00:28:02,480 --> 00:28:05,200
Speaker 1: shit I like no other body nobody else likes. That's alone.

545
00:28:05,560 --> 00:28:08,360
Speaker 1: I don't that shit don't ever come into mind, like,

546
00:28:08,640 --> 00:28:11,480
Speaker 1: oh y'all don't like this? Wow, Like okay, well fuck

547
00:28:11,520 --> 00:28:14,320
Speaker 1: you like I like it, Like, leave me alone. So

548
00:28:14,640 --> 00:28:18,560
Speaker 1: I think walking forward with that type of attitude helped

549
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:22,400
Speaker 1: sometimes because it's not like it's not average serial right,

550
00:28:23,040 --> 00:28:26,359
Speaker 1: Like you're a warrior, but you're fighting just for your peace.

551
00:28:26,400 --> 00:28:30,720
Speaker 1: You're not attacking anyone else, You're not looking to start

552
00:28:30,800 --> 00:28:33,200
Speaker 1: some ship. And I think that's how I look at shit,

553
00:28:33,320 --> 00:28:35,320
Speaker 1: Like you gotta be a peaceful warrior. You gotta be

554
00:28:35,480 --> 00:28:39,760
Speaker 1: like this, you know, I feel this way about this,

555
00:28:40,360 --> 00:28:44,760
Speaker 1: uh like uh Medicare for all or something like that.

556
00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:49,480
Speaker 1: I you know, I think ilha Omar said she wants

557
00:28:49,480 --> 00:28:52,520
Speaker 1: to she's for that symbolic vote in the House where

558
00:28:52,520 --> 00:28:55,640
Speaker 1: they all vote for Medicare for all, and even though

559
00:28:55,680 --> 00:28:58,280
Speaker 1: it's impossible to fucking past without the center and ship,

560
00:28:58,400 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: just to just because Twitter is saying that's what they

561
00:29:00,800 --> 00:29:04,880
Speaker 1: need to do. That's what all the progressive podcasters on

562
00:29:05,160 --> 00:29:07,680
Speaker 1: the white ones anyway, well the white ones and the

563
00:29:07,720 --> 00:29:09,560
Speaker 1: black ones that you know cater to the white ones.

564
00:29:09,800 --> 00:29:12,400
Speaker 1: That's what they're all talking about right now, right And

565
00:29:12,480 --> 00:29:15,320
Speaker 1: so I saw on Twitter where somebody was, like a

566
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Speaker 1: few people, actually white people, was mad at her, being

567
00:29:17,800 --> 00:29:21,000
Speaker 1: like you, well, we want you to vote for Medicare

568
00:29:21,040 --> 00:29:23,120
Speaker 1: for all, but you gotta call it that. You can't

569
00:29:23,160 --> 00:29:26,000
Speaker 1: just vote for it and call it something else. It's

570
00:29:26,040 --> 00:29:29,920
Speaker 1: gotta you gotta say the Medicare for All bill. And

571
00:29:30,640 --> 00:29:35,000
Speaker 1: I was thinking to myself, like, this is what happens

572
00:29:35,040 --> 00:29:37,600
Speaker 1: when you cater to these like I need y'all to

573
00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:39,880
Speaker 1: like me tight, like I need y'all to like me.

574
00:29:39,920 --> 00:29:41,400
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna do the thing y'all want me to do.

575
00:29:41,600 --> 00:29:43,920
Speaker 1: You didn't do it exactly how because they're gonna always

576
00:29:43,960 --> 00:29:46,600
Speaker 1: move the bar. They don't care that you're trying to help,

577
00:29:46,640 --> 00:29:49,120
Speaker 1: they don't care that you met them. Well, you just

578
00:29:49,160 --> 00:29:51,000
Speaker 1: like we can. I'll just call it. I won't call

579
00:29:51,040 --> 00:29:53,400
Speaker 1: it defund the police, but i'll but I'll do it right.

580
00:29:53,440 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 2: So they know a lot of times those people don't

581
00:29:54,960 --> 00:29:57,680
Speaker 2: even care about what you're trying, what the accomplishment is.

582
00:29:57,680 --> 00:29:59,720
Speaker 2: You could be accomplishing shit and they were still complaining

583
00:29:59,720 --> 00:30:01,840
Speaker 2: about shit that you accomplished because you didn't do it

584
00:30:01,880 --> 00:30:03,640
Speaker 2: and call it what they wanted right.

585
00:30:03,760 --> 00:30:05,960
Speaker 1: And so the thing I look at it is like,

586
00:30:06,520 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: be that peaceful warrior. You know what you're trying to

587
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:14,360
Speaker 1: do is good. But the trick of the world is

588
00:30:14,360 --> 00:30:18,720
Speaker 1: that not everybody is going to give you that grace

589
00:30:18,840 --> 00:30:22,120
Speaker 1: of Okay, I see what you're doing, I see how

590
00:30:22,120 --> 00:30:25,240
Speaker 1: it's good. I see you're a good person. I see

591
00:30:25,480 --> 00:30:28,480
Speaker 1: that we may even arrive to different conclusions on something

592
00:30:28,520 --> 00:30:33,720
Speaker 1: and you're still good, but that's not the goal. Being

593
00:30:33,760 --> 00:30:37,680
Speaker 1: good is an eternal thing internal, right either you you

594
00:30:37,760 --> 00:30:40,200
Speaker 1: have that barometer you don't, but you can't always be

595
00:30:40,280 --> 00:30:42,120
Speaker 1: looking for other people to co sign it to patch

596
00:30:42,120 --> 00:30:43,880
Speaker 1: you on the back. There's a lot of shit that

597
00:30:44,440 --> 00:30:48,239
Speaker 1: we've done personally or done I've done on the show. Whatever. Well,

598
00:30:48,280 --> 00:30:50,760
Speaker 1: I had to be like, I hope motherfuckers understand that

599
00:30:50,880 --> 00:30:53,720
Speaker 1: this is what the best of intentions and all that shit.

600
00:30:53,800 --> 00:30:55,440
Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I can't let

601
00:30:55,520 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: them rob me of me where I'm sitting up here going,

602
00:30:58,520 --> 00:31:00,840
Speaker 1: let me second guess myself, let me I don't know

603
00:31:00,840 --> 00:31:04,920
Speaker 1: if this is right, you know, I can't let them

604
00:31:05,160 --> 00:31:07,600
Speaker 1: try to shame me for not being perfect. And I

605
00:31:07,640 --> 00:31:11,160
Speaker 1: think that's where we're at, and you just gotta shrug

606
00:31:11,200 --> 00:31:15,560
Speaker 1: it off, man, like you know. I mean, like I said,

607
00:31:15,840 --> 00:31:18,640
Speaker 1: there's people I used to play ball with. I remember

608
00:31:18,640 --> 00:31:21,320
Speaker 1: they would say stuff about like Cam Newton, and there

609
00:31:21,360 --> 00:31:22,960
Speaker 1: were these white dudes. I remember being like, yeah, I

610
00:31:23,080 --> 00:31:25,760
Speaker 1: just think it's a racial thing. Y'all have racial hang ups.

611
00:31:26,680 --> 00:31:28,440
Speaker 1: And it was like you could drop a fucking pin

612
00:31:28,520 --> 00:31:30,280
Speaker 1: in there because they didn't want to hear that they

613
00:31:30,320 --> 00:31:32,720
Speaker 1: had anything to do with being racist or feeling racial

614
00:31:32,800 --> 00:31:35,400
Speaker 1: or whatever. But at the end of the day, it's like, dude,

615
00:31:36,920 --> 00:31:38,880
Speaker 1: I don't know what to fucking tell you, just like

616
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:43,240
Speaker 1: you feel, you're saying a lot of dog whislee ass shit,

617
00:31:43,360 --> 00:31:45,840
Speaker 1: and it feels this way to me. I'm not saying

618
00:31:45,880 --> 00:31:47,440
Speaker 1: this to attack you. I'm not saying this because I

619
00:31:47,440 --> 00:31:50,479
Speaker 1: want to fight you. I'm saying this because if we

620
00:31:50,520 --> 00:31:53,760
Speaker 1: can't start the discussion here, we can't have a discussion,

621
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Speaker 1: you know what I mean. And you know, both those

622
00:31:56,480 --> 00:31:58,600
Speaker 1: dudes end up still talking to me, because in the

623
00:31:58,640 --> 00:32:03,680
Speaker 1: real world, you can fucking talk to somebody and disagree

624
00:32:03,920 --> 00:32:06,280
Speaker 1: and be and it still be okay, even with something

625
00:32:06,360 --> 00:32:08,920
Speaker 1: tough like that. That's it's a very fucking tough thing

626
00:32:08,960 --> 00:32:13,720
Speaker 1: to say to somebody and be like, uh now as now, now,

627
00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,200
Speaker 1: how are you gonna respond to that? You know? So

628
00:32:16,280 --> 00:32:19,080
Speaker 1: I think you know at work, you gotta you gotta

629
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Speaker 1: pick one of them pass.

630
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Speaker 2: Yeah, And like I said in the path, just depends

631
00:32:22,760 --> 00:32:26,120
Speaker 2: on your personality. I know when I did go into office,

632
00:32:26,640 --> 00:32:28,520
Speaker 2: particularly at my old job, I.

633
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Speaker 3: Just didn't talk.

634
00:32:29,200 --> 00:32:31,800
Speaker 2: I just didn't talk because I felt like I just

635
00:32:31,960 --> 00:32:33,560
Speaker 2: did not want to have the conversation.

636
00:32:34,080 --> 00:32:35,640
Speaker 3: I'm here to work. They pay me to work.

637
00:32:35,640 --> 00:32:37,320
Speaker 2: They don't pay me to talk to you about my

638
00:32:37,440 --> 00:32:41,880
Speaker 2: opinions about political shit because I am not sensitive, but

639
00:32:42,000 --> 00:32:45,120
Speaker 2: you are very sensitive. The person is probably coming at me,

640
00:32:45,440 --> 00:32:47,800
Speaker 2: You're gonna be fucking sensitive. And the second I say

641
00:32:47,880 --> 00:32:50,480
Speaker 2: something to offend you or make you upset or you

642
00:32:50,520 --> 00:32:52,960
Speaker 2: don't like instead of telling the truth that you fucking

643
00:32:52,960 --> 00:32:55,920
Speaker 2: started a conversation, particularly if I make you mad, you're

644
00:32:55,920 --> 00:32:57,920
Speaker 2: gonna run the HR like I offended you.

645
00:32:57,920 --> 00:32:59,800
Speaker 3: And I'm the problem. So just don't talk to me.

646
00:33:00,240 --> 00:33:02,800
Speaker 1: And the last thing I'll say is this a thing

647
00:33:02,840 --> 00:33:04,880
Speaker 1: that took a lot of weight off of me and

648
00:33:04,920 --> 00:33:08,120
Speaker 1: a wait off of even talking to people, because you know,

649
00:33:08,880 --> 00:33:14,240
Speaker 1: it was just me going we're just two people. We're

650
00:33:14,320 --> 00:33:17,760
Speaker 1: just two people. We may have different opinions or whatever,

651
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: but at the end of the day, at the end

652
00:33:20,640 --> 00:33:26,360
Speaker 1: of this discussion, we could fucking become enemies and it

653
00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:29,800
Speaker 1: wouldn't change anything in this world. We can become best friends,

654
00:33:29,840 --> 00:33:33,320
Speaker 1: it won't change. It's not gonna change the world, you know.

655
00:33:35,120 --> 00:33:38,000
Speaker 1: I just think it's an Internet thing that and maybe

656
00:33:38,000 --> 00:33:40,600
Speaker 1: the Internet has now worked this way and back outwards

657
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: in the regular culture, but I feel like it's an

658
00:33:43,040 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: internet thing where if you don't like Bernie Sanders, then

659
00:33:46,040 --> 00:33:49,200
Speaker 1: fuck you right like that, Like that's not a real

660
00:33:49,280 --> 00:33:52,600
Speaker 1: life position really, Like if you met someone like that

661
00:33:52,640 --> 00:33:55,160
Speaker 1: in real life, you'd be like, that person's the crazy person,

662
00:33:55,800 --> 00:33:59,560
Speaker 1: you know what I mean? Like that, I don't know.

663
00:33:59,680 --> 00:34:02,240
Speaker 1: I just think that's that's something that that is, Like

664
00:34:03,040 --> 00:34:05,120
Speaker 1: if someone is that deep into the well of the

665
00:34:05,160 --> 00:34:07,840
Speaker 1: internet or social media, you just got you just gotta

666
00:34:07,920 --> 00:34:10,400
Speaker 1: move on without them. Man. So I hope you find

667
00:34:10,480 --> 00:34:12,879
Speaker 1: us some piece in all that rambling we just did.

668
00:34:13,040 --> 00:34:17,680
Speaker 1: But yeah, I mostly just wouldn't give people like that

669
00:34:17,800 --> 00:34:21,680
Speaker 1: too much of a you know, just give them too

670
00:34:21,760 --> 00:34:23,920
Speaker 1: much of a of a of a what do you

671
00:34:23,960 --> 00:34:26,560
Speaker 1: call it? Don't give them too much space in your brain.

672
00:34:28,400 --> 00:34:30,520
Speaker 1: You know, motherfucker don't like you, It'll be all right.

673
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:32,280
Speaker 3: You will be just fine.

674
00:34:32,320 --> 00:34:34,279
Speaker 2: They won't be the promise you live long enough, they

675
00:34:34,280 --> 00:34:36,120
Speaker 2: won't be the last person that don't like your ass.

676
00:34:36,160 --> 00:34:38,200
Speaker 1: It reminds me of jay Z's line and Ain't No

677
00:34:38,320 --> 00:34:42,600
Speaker 1: Love in the Artist City, when he said, you don't

678
00:34:42,719 --> 00:34:46,680
Speaker 1: like me, fine it costs you nothing, pay me no mind.

679
00:34:46,880 --> 00:34:49,440
Speaker 1: I'm on my grind cousin, ain't got time for front

680
00:34:49,440 --> 00:34:52,600
Speaker 1: and sensitive thud, I all need hugs. That's how I

681
00:34:52,640 --> 00:34:57,359
Speaker 1: look at it. Like you don't like me, cool like

682
00:34:57,480 --> 00:34:59,440
Speaker 1: I because I literally am not trying to do nothing

683
00:34:59,480 --> 00:35:01,880
Speaker 1: to hurt nobody. So if you found, if you really

684
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:04,759
Speaker 1: found it in your heart to come up with some

685
00:35:04,840 --> 00:35:07,640
Speaker 1: creative way to dislike me, then you probably ain't got

686
00:35:07,680 --> 00:35:09,279
Speaker 1: no real problems.

687
00:35:09,920 --> 00:35:11,719
Speaker 2: Because I know I can't speak for nobody else but

688
00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:15,320
Speaker 2: my black ass, my my own eye, my my motherfucking business.

689
00:35:15,480 --> 00:35:18,000
Speaker 1: But I don't got no power. I don't got no

690
00:35:18,640 --> 00:35:21,319
Speaker 1: you know, like, I'm not out here hurting nobody. So

691
00:35:21,400 --> 00:35:24,240
Speaker 1: if you really, if I made your list of enemies

692
00:35:24,440 --> 00:35:27,360
Speaker 1: or whatever, the fuck, like, you probably got a list

693
00:35:27,400 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 1: a mile long, because it's because it's gotta be a

694
00:35:30,600 --> 00:35:32,960
Speaker 1: whole lot more people on that list than me if

695
00:35:33,000 --> 00:35:35,120
Speaker 1: I'm on that bitch, because I definitely don't give a

696
00:35:35,200 --> 00:35:37,799
Speaker 1: fuck to be out here trying to start no ship.

697
00:35:38,239 --> 00:35:41,640
Speaker 1: So all right, I think that's it for the emails.

698
00:35:41,760 --> 00:35:44,960
Speaker 1: Oh wait, I did want to say to Kanye sent

699
00:35:45,160 --> 00:35:50,000
Speaker 1: us a nice e card. It's an electronic card, which

700
00:35:50,120 --> 00:35:53,239
Speaker 1: was dope. I didn't know you could do these. I'm

701
00:35:53,280 --> 00:35:55,160
Speaker 1: trying to show it to y'all, But I mean I

702
00:35:55,239 --> 00:35:58,279
Speaker 1: knew you could do electronic cards, but but I didn't

703
00:35:58,320 --> 00:36:02,520
Speaker 1: know you could do them like this. Oh that's Karen,

704
00:36:03,200 --> 00:36:12,080
Speaker 1: I guess, Karen is so like it's slowly illuminating the

705
00:36:12,200 --> 00:36:15,840
Speaker 1: elements of the card, like flowers and birds. That's pretty.

706
00:36:15,880 --> 00:36:16,600
Speaker 3: That's why I said that.

707
00:36:17,120 --> 00:36:21,120
Speaker 1: Mm hmmm mm hmmm. Karen was just oh, a picture,

708
00:36:21,560 --> 00:36:24,439
Speaker 1: but it's actually if you have if you hit play,

709
00:36:24,480 --> 00:36:26,160
Speaker 1: it's a movie even better.

710
00:36:26,840 --> 00:36:28,839
Speaker 3: So you I liked it. I would have been fine

711
00:36:28,880 --> 00:36:29,360
Speaker 3: with the picture.

712
00:36:29,920 --> 00:36:33,719
Speaker 1: Yep, I know that's what I'm saying. But uh yeah,

713
00:36:34,040 --> 00:36:36,520
Speaker 1: I just think that was. That was cute, and then

714
00:36:36,560 --> 00:36:38,839
Speaker 1: you get all the way to the end and it's

715
00:36:38,960 --> 00:36:42,719
Speaker 1: Happy Holidays, Roder Karen, thank you for creating such a funny, insightful,

716
00:36:43,120 --> 00:36:46,280
Speaker 1: stimulating podcast. May your new year be full of many blessings,

717
00:36:46,320 --> 00:36:49,360
Speaker 1: include the friendship, health, and happiness. You guys sent me.

718
00:36:49,760 --> 00:36:52,080
Speaker 1: H well, I don't need the friendship, okay, now no

719
00:36:52,200 --> 00:36:56,399
Speaker 1: new friends. You guys sit sent me a Christmas card

720
00:36:56,480 --> 00:36:58,960
Speaker 1: last year and it made me so happy. I hope

721
00:36:58,960 --> 00:37:03,879
Speaker 1: you received lots of love of this year return. So yeah,

722
00:37:04,000 --> 00:37:08,080
Speaker 1: that was I thought that was cute, all right, and

723
00:37:08,200 --> 00:37:10,560
Speaker 1: then uh, I guess finally we need to get some

724
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,320
Speaker 1: stuff in the mail, which is really the main reason

725
00:37:13,360 --> 00:37:16,000
Speaker 1: we recorded today. Okay, we knew it would be short,

726
00:37:16,040 --> 00:37:18,000
Speaker 1: but it was like, listen, I can't have all this

727
00:37:18,040 --> 00:37:19,520
Speaker 1: stuff sitting in my house for another week.

728
00:37:20,520 --> 00:37:20,759
Speaker 3: Let's go.

729
00:37:20,840 --> 00:37:24,560
Speaker 1: Let's go, like I would like to open all this stuff.

730
00:37:24,520 --> 00:37:26,040
Speaker 3: I'm going through, Like some of this stuff I would

731
00:37:26,080 --> 00:37:26,920
Speaker 3: like to put my hands on.

732
00:37:27,560 --> 00:37:31,400
Speaker 1: All right, So my man branding from Black Beer Travelers

733
00:37:31,640 --> 00:37:35,960
Speaker 1: sent us some beers okay, and some like little swag.

734
00:37:37,239 --> 00:37:39,319
Speaker 1: Let me see if I can turn my light down

735
00:37:39,520 --> 00:37:44,200
Speaker 1: just a little bit here. But yeah, it says diversify

736
00:37:44,280 --> 00:37:48,840
Speaker 1: your palette is a pen they sent. And then in

737
00:37:48,960 --> 00:37:53,840
Speaker 1: this bag we got a couple more things another diverse

738
00:37:53,920 --> 00:37:58,040
Speaker 1: FI your pallette pin. We got some stickers here for

739
00:37:58,200 --> 00:38:05,960
Speaker 1: Black Beer Travelers. Ah, we got this note here, oh,

740
00:38:06,080 --> 00:38:11,760
Speaker 1: in diverse FI your palate stickers, It says Karen and Rod,

741
00:38:12,719 --> 00:38:14,719
Speaker 1: thank you, Thank you for he wrote it just like that.

742
00:38:16,120 --> 00:38:18,879
Speaker 1: Thank you for having me on. I've been a fan,

743
00:38:19,000 --> 00:38:22,000
Speaker 1: but never saw myself being on. Please enjoy these beers

744
00:38:22,040 --> 00:38:27,640
Speaker 1: from black owned Breweries Bemont hashtag black Beer Travelers. Thank

745
00:38:27,719 --> 00:38:30,520
Speaker 1: you so much. And then I have the beers here too,

746
00:38:32,320 --> 00:38:37,640
Speaker 1: I can reach on Things Happen is one of the beers.

747
00:38:39,640 --> 00:38:40,520
Speaker 3: They look like a stout.

748
00:38:42,000 --> 00:38:45,719
Speaker 1: We got this one that says hashtag beer tainment and

749
00:38:46,640 --> 00:38:51,080
Speaker 1: it's a full Circle Brewing cole hip Hop Pury series.

750
00:38:52,000 --> 00:38:55,279
Speaker 1: Pot of the Tiger is what it says, Apricot Pie

751
00:38:55,520 --> 00:39:02,800
Speaker 1: site sour uh so even heard of that combination. We

752
00:39:02,920 --> 00:39:07,920
Speaker 1: got this one Crown and Hops Hazy pale air Uh

753
00:39:08,360 --> 00:39:13,440
Speaker 1: Indiana pale Al Hazy I p a so Crown and

754
00:39:13,520 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 1: Hops Brewing Hazy Indiana pal Okay. Of course black is beautiful.

755
00:39:20,000 --> 00:39:20,920
Speaker 1: We talked about this one on.

756
00:39:20,920 --> 00:39:23,480
Speaker 3: The air when we had them absolutely delicious.

757
00:39:24,200 --> 00:39:28,759
Speaker 1: And this is stout. And the last one is from

758
00:39:28,800 --> 00:39:33,360
Speaker 1: the Urban Roots uh Strata Tactics double I p A

759
00:39:33,719 --> 00:39:39,120
Speaker 1: eight point Hello. Uh it's hella unfiltered shout out to

760
00:39:39,160 --> 00:39:42,440
Speaker 1: the Bay Area like that fro okay.

761
00:39:42,520 --> 00:39:42,600
Speaker 2: So.

762
00:39:44,280 --> 00:39:48,040
Speaker 1: Thank you very much, Brandon. Uh my parents sent us

763
00:39:48,120 --> 00:39:52,880
Speaker 1: a bunch of shit, which let me get over here

764
00:39:52,960 --> 00:39:53,360
Speaker 1: and get.

765
00:39:53,320 --> 00:40:00,400
Speaker 3: Some so yeah that got yeah. I mixed in, Matt, So,

766
00:40:00,640 --> 00:40:01,440
Speaker 3: I don't know what's what.

767
00:40:02,239 --> 00:40:05,560
Speaker 1: The Indian healing clay healing clay is this from them?

768
00:40:05,760 --> 00:40:06,160
Speaker 1: I don't know.

769
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:07,960
Speaker 3: I put I put out a paper together.

770
00:40:08,719 --> 00:40:13,120
Speaker 1: Okay, all right, I believe this one is from them.

771
00:40:14,080 --> 00:40:16,280
Speaker 1: I believe all the stuff I put in the pants

772
00:40:16,320 --> 00:40:19,120
Speaker 1: from them. And then they also send us a Bluetooth

773
00:40:19,160 --> 00:40:20,600
Speaker 1: transmitter adapted for the switch.

774
00:40:20,960 --> 00:40:21,320
Speaker 3: That's me.

775
00:40:21,800 --> 00:40:26,319
Speaker 1: So can you finally use our bluetooth headphones with them? Uh,

776
00:40:27,000 --> 00:40:31,839
Speaker 1: let's see a dental calculus calculus remover? That's me, all right,

777
00:40:32,080 --> 00:40:36,680
Speaker 1: So Karen, you know she got the braces. She's taking

778
00:40:36,719 --> 00:40:42,719
Speaker 1: care of the pearly whites. Uh, they got we got

779
00:40:42,840 --> 00:40:43,560
Speaker 1: baking pans.

780
00:40:44,760 --> 00:40:45,160
Speaker 2: Mm hmm.

781
00:40:46,560 --> 00:40:48,440
Speaker 1: You know, use this for when I baked some of

782
00:40:48,520 --> 00:40:53,160
Speaker 1: my smaller things. But it's a quarter sheet path. It's

783
00:40:53,239 --> 00:40:57,359
Speaker 1: heavy duty. I love that because I got I got

784
00:40:57,520 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 1: like a couple of flat ones. But I'm not a

785
00:40:59,040 --> 00:41:01,200
Speaker 1: big fan of the flat hookie sheet ones that I got.

786
00:41:01,800 --> 00:41:03,759
Speaker 2: Yeah, they don't. They don't for some reason. They don't

787
00:41:03,880 --> 00:41:05,200
Speaker 2: like the ones we got didn't last.

788
00:41:05,480 --> 00:41:08,279
Speaker 1: No, they last. That's not my problem. My problem is

789
00:41:08,440 --> 00:41:10,560
Speaker 1: just I don't like she'd be sliding.

790
00:41:10,239 --> 00:41:12,600
Speaker 3: Off of their make for cookies yet.

791
00:41:12,680 --> 00:41:14,759
Speaker 1: Okay, I just like edges on mine. I don't know,

792
00:41:15,280 --> 00:41:16,839
Speaker 1: you know anyway, it's no big deal.

793
00:41:16,920 --> 00:41:18,480
Speaker 3: Yeah like no edges.

794
00:41:18,560 --> 00:41:22,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, there's more stuff that from them too, particularly, but

795
00:41:23,600 --> 00:41:25,720
Speaker 1: let me see we'll get back to them in a second.

796
00:41:26,880 --> 00:41:32,200
Speaker 1: Inspirational coloring books. It was just from Oh, Lakita got

797
00:41:32,280 --> 00:41:35,560
Speaker 1: these and she said they were I think one of

798
00:41:35,600 --> 00:41:38,359
Speaker 1: the notes even said there was specifically for Karen. Yeah,

799
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:44,200
Speaker 1: because there was this, there was this one, and then

800
00:41:44,239 --> 00:41:47,680
Speaker 1: there's this one she says for Karen, which is, uh,

801
00:41:47,880 --> 00:41:50,240
Speaker 1: the one for black women. Says dope black women.

802
00:41:51,160 --> 00:41:53,479
Speaker 3: Yeah, you guys, Roger got the whole thing of color

803
00:41:53,520 --> 00:41:54,080
Speaker 3: and pencils in.

804
00:41:54,120 --> 00:41:56,600
Speaker 1: There, unapologetically dope black Women's what it says.

805
00:41:57,040 --> 00:41:57,239
Speaker 2: You know.

806
00:41:57,400 --> 00:41:59,200
Speaker 1: Now, I hate to break your heart, Laquida, because I

807
00:41:59,320 --> 00:42:00,279
Speaker 1: will be colored in this.

808
00:42:01,960 --> 00:42:02,200
Speaker 3: Yeah.

809
00:42:02,360 --> 00:42:05,439
Speaker 1: If it was only inspirational black women too, So yeah,

810
00:42:05,640 --> 00:42:07,440
Speaker 1: I mean, you know I support black women more than

811
00:42:07,480 --> 00:42:08,120
Speaker 1: Karen anyway.

812
00:42:08,400 --> 00:42:12,279
Speaker 3: So you did stop watching Insecure before me, So yeah,

813
00:42:12,320 --> 00:42:12,720
Speaker 3: I get.

814
00:42:12,840 --> 00:42:16,759
Speaker 1: Many other black women things. But okay, she says, this

815
00:42:16,920 --> 00:42:19,080
Speaker 1: is for Karen, but a happy Cara makes a happy ride. Right,

816
00:42:19,160 --> 00:42:21,719
Speaker 1: please keep us giving us the best damn podcast that

817
00:42:21,960 --> 00:42:24,880
Speaker 1: is love you guys. From Lakita, I'm like, oh, that's beautiful.

818
00:42:24,920 --> 00:42:29,280
Speaker 1: I can't wait to drawing these and color in them. Alright,

819
00:42:29,440 --> 00:42:31,080
Speaker 1: let's see that's more cards.

820
00:42:32,440 --> 00:42:33,440
Speaker 3: More cards.

821
00:42:34,680 --> 00:42:34,799
Speaker 2: Uh.

822
00:42:35,200 --> 00:42:44,040
Speaker 1: This one is a box from oh let me see. Okay,

823
00:42:44,120 --> 00:42:47,040
Speaker 1: we got stuff in here, a lot of wrapping, got

824
00:42:47,080 --> 00:42:51,040
Speaker 1: a card in here, got some bright candy cane colored

825
00:42:51,200 --> 00:42:56,680
Speaker 1: wrapping paper. Y'all see this? It says, uh, not was

826
00:42:56,719 --> 00:43:01,480
Speaker 1: it's not hairs just oh so it's like Harry's dot

827
00:43:01,600 --> 00:43:06,360
Speaker 1: com box. It says not, Harry's just reusing the box inside.

828
00:43:06,680 --> 00:43:08,160
Speaker 3: Come on, recycle, reuse.

829
00:43:08,480 --> 00:43:12,160
Speaker 1: Okay, we are recycled. We believe in recycling on this podcast. Okay,

830
00:43:13,600 --> 00:43:15,919
Speaker 1: So I open up the car before the gift, because

831
00:43:15,960 --> 00:43:17,719
Speaker 1: I think that's the classy way to do it, right.

832
00:43:19,719 --> 00:43:25,719
Speaker 1: So inside is uh is this is the car. It

833
00:43:25,760 --> 00:43:28,239
Speaker 1: looks like a tree or some vines or something.

834
00:43:29,960 --> 00:43:30,160
Speaker 2: Like this.

835
00:43:30,480 --> 00:43:31,800
Speaker 1: I think this is the right way to hold it.

836
00:43:31,920 --> 00:43:36,440
Speaker 1: Can y'all see that? All right? It says Rod and Karen,

837
00:43:36,800 --> 00:43:38,799
Speaker 1: thank you for all the joy and laughter you gave

838
00:43:38,960 --> 00:43:42,360
Speaker 1: us this year. I hope this this next year shoots

839
00:43:42,400 --> 00:43:45,600
Speaker 1: you past the moon with your success. I hope you

840
00:43:45,760 --> 00:43:51,280
Speaker 1: enjoyed the ornament I made for you. Let's see, Holly

841
00:43:51,440 --> 00:43:55,520
Speaker 1: is always so festive. Merry Christmas to you and yours

842
00:43:55,600 --> 00:44:04,760
Speaker 1: love Rebecca, Ron, Rod, Ronda and Karen. Wow wowy Christmas,

843
00:44:04,800 --> 00:44:08,200
Speaker 1: Happy New Year. Rebecca, Thank you made the beauty of

844
00:44:08,320 --> 00:44:10,239
Speaker 1: the season, fail your home with your and pieces. What

845
00:44:10,360 --> 00:44:13,359
Speaker 1: it says inside, thank you baby. Now to look at

846
00:44:14,160 --> 00:44:18,319
Speaker 1: this ornament. Okay, we love. We only have a very

847
00:44:18,360 --> 00:44:21,399
Speaker 1: small tree, but every ornament we have on the tree

848
00:44:21,600 --> 00:44:24,400
Speaker 1: is either something from fans or something we bought like special.

849
00:44:24,560 --> 00:44:28,200
Speaker 1: We don't have any just you know, basic ass ornaments. Okay,

850
00:44:28,360 --> 00:44:33,600
Speaker 1: so to ooh this is nice. Oh you know, Rebecca's

851
00:44:33,640 --> 00:44:37,239
Speaker 1: the person that made the flower thing for us. That's

852
00:44:37,280 --> 00:44:37,680
Speaker 1: what it is.

853
00:44:38,200 --> 00:44:38,640
Speaker 3: That thing.

854
00:44:39,040 --> 00:44:40,280
Speaker 1: Yeah, you're so talented.

855
00:44:40,480 --> 00:44:44,000
Speaker 3: Watch it every day. Baby. That's your gift.

856
00:44:44,440 --> 00:44:45,480
Speaker 1: This is beautiful. Man.

857
00:44:45,800 --> 00:44:47,560
Speaker 3: We so we're gonna put it on a tree with

858
00:44:47,600 --> 00:44:48,920
Speaker 3: the rest of the stuff. Baby. I don't know if

859
00:44:48,960 --> 00:44:50,880
Speaker 3: you say that, but hone it. That's that's your gift.

860
00:44:51,080 --> 00:44:54,279
Speaker 1: I can't wait to hang that up. Okay, all right,

861
00:44:54,400 --> 00:45:00,360
Speaker 1: let's see we got uh let me open this up,

862
00:45:00,400 --> 00:45:08,200
Speaker 1: I should say. Okay, let's say, dude, okay, oh okay,

863
00:45:08,280 --> 00:45:13,600
Speaker 1: I think this goes with this. I think hope I

864
00:45:13,680 --> 00:45:17,759
Speaker 1: got this right. All right, So we got this one.

865
00:45:18,040 --> 00:45:23,880
Speaker 1: Let me look on the outside. The card says happy holidays,

866
00:45:23,960 --> 00:45:25,920
Speaker 1: right and Karen, I've been a fan for years. I'm

867
00:45:25,960 --> 00:45:28,000
Speaker 1: so happy to finally be able to spread the holiday

868
00:45:28,040 --> 00:45:30,719
Speaker 1: spirit down to you two. Love you guys, and hope

869
00:45:30,760 --> 00:45:36,040
Speaker 1: you enjoy. From Tiana and Dominic Bravera, we know them.

870
00:45:37,040 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 3: Thank you baby.

871
00:45:38,719 --> 00:45:42,759
Speaker 1: Oh okay, because it's a boat you gotta untied. That

872
00:45:42,800 --> 00:45:44,280
Speaker 1: would that would make a lot of sense.

873
00:45:45,040 --> 00:45:47,479
Speaker 3: Rod, You know me. I like a good Amazon bag

874
00:45:47,719 --> 00:45:51,600
Speaker 3: to reuse, uh.

875
00:45:52,080 --> 00:45:55,040
Speaker 1: And I'm opening it up and it's wrapped up in

876
00:45:55,600 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: another layers of paper. Ship all, ship, it's the child

877
00:46:05,400 --> 00:46:12,520
Speaker 1: from the Mandalorian, y'all. This is the way. This is

878
00:46:12,680 --> 00:46:15,000
Speaker 1: the way I'm gonna put this. I'm gonna keep him

879
00:46:15,040 --> 00:46:15,840
Speaker 1: far from the food.

880
00:46:16,960 --> 00:46:18,640
Speaker 3: Yeah, far from the eggs.

881
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:21,320
Speaker 1: Because he loves he loves a delicious meal. You know

882
00:46:21,360 --> 00:46:39,040
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. He will. Let's see. We got this

883
00:46:39,360 --> 00:46:43,920
Speaker 1: one from Sarah, which is a book. It's Maria W.

884
00:46:44,160 --> 00:46:49,480
Speaker 1: Stewart's America's first Black Maria W. Stewart, America's first Black

885
00:46:49,520 --> 00:46:54,560
Speaker 1: woman political writer, Essays and speeches, edited and introduced by

886
00:46:54,640 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: Marilyn Richardson. It was on my Amazon wish list. Yay,

887
00:46:59,760 --> 00:47:03,440
Speaker 1: it's says I read, Conflict Is Not Abuse and your suggestion.

888
00:47:03,600 --> 00:47:06,520
Speaker 1: The cover was weirdly generic. I'm basic, but that book

889
00:47:06,600 --> 00:47:10,240
Speaker 1: is incredible. I tried to follow her advice with others,

890
00:47:10,320 --> 00:47:14,160
Speaker 1: often reflectively. Hope you enjoy from Sarah. Thank you Sarah.

891
00:47:15,320 --> 00:47:19,279
Speaker 1: And uh yeah, I look that book put a lot

892
00:47:19,320 --> 00:47:20,400
Speaker 1: of stuff in perspective for me.

893
00:47:20,560 --> 00:47:22,279
Speaker 3: Yeah. I could tell after you read that.

894
00:47:22,600 --> 00:47:26,320
Speaker 2: I really you started implementing it and things started change,

895
00:47:26,360 --> 00:47:26,920
Speaker 2: And yeah.

896
00:47:26,960 --> 00:47:29,880
Speaker 1: It definitely sent me on a journey. Now, this is

897
00:47:29,920 --> 00:47:30,600
Speaker 1: from my parents.

898
00:47:31,760 --> 00:47:32,120
Speaker 2: It is.

899
00:47:34,200 --> 00:47:39,440
Speaker 1: A multi purpose roll up dish drying rack. So we

900
00:47:39,520 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 1: don't have a disk driving rack in our house.

901
00:47:42,560 --> 00:47:44,719
Speaker 2: So when you wash dishes, you can roll it over

902
00:47:44,800 --> 00:47:48,000
Speaker 2: the sink. For certain things, if you hand washed something

903
00:47:48,040 --> 00:47:50,040
Speaker 2: over just one of the two items, I can wash

904
00:47:50,040 --> 00:47:52,000
Speaker 2: it and roll it over the sink and keep it pushing.

905
00:47:52,760 --> 00:47:58,719
Speaker 1: Yeah, let me see. All right, let me open this

906
00:47:58,920 --> 00:48:06,480
Speaker 1: one up. I need some scissors for this one. This

907
00:48:06,640 --> 00:48:12,440
Speaker 1: is like our Christmas here, y'alls on Quansas. This kwonsas quasa.

908
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:14,719
Speaker 1: I'm not trying to dispec QUANSI y'all, that's just a joke.

909
00:48:14,800 --> 00:48:19,520
Speaker 1: Do write in please don't please don't Jesus Christ. Oh

910
00:48:19,840 --> 00:48:26,160
Speaker 1: another fun copop. This is iron Man Tony start. Okay,

911
00:48:26,320 --> 00:48:27,120
Speaker 1: and who's this from?

912
00:48:27,239 --> 00:48:28,239
Speaker 3: I thought I saw on the.

913
00:48:29,760 --> 00:48:34,279
Speaker 1: Phil Hang. I don't know if that's the person that's

914
00:48:34,320 --> 00:48:36,000
Speaker 1: just shot for toys. So I don't know if that's

915
00:48:36,040 --> 00:48:37,719
Speaker 1: the person who sentatoris or the shop.

916
00:48:38,080 --> 00:48:38,640
Speaker 3: Yeah that this.

917
00:48:40,440 --> 00:48:42,920
Speaker 1: Because it didn't so if you said this on Amazon,

918
00:48:43,080 --> 00:48:48,320
Speaker 1: didn't come with a note, which I'm so sorry. So

919
00:48:48,840 --> 00:48:52,959
Speaker 1: this is from anonymous, I guess, thank you, but yeah,

920
00:48:53,160 --> 00:48:58,719
Speaker 1: absolutely listen okay, Tony Stark, he is iron man and

921
00:48:58,840 --> 00:49:02,799
Speaker 1: he died for using come on, okay, without his sacrifice.

922
00:49:05,600 --> 00:49:08,720
Speaker 3: Somebody chat room said it was from them, who can.

923
00:49:09,520 --> 00:49:14,160
Speaker 1: Oh, yapa, thank y'afa, thank you, And I cannot wait

924
00:49:14,200 --> 00:49:17,240
Speaker 1: to place this on the mantle. Never moved from box.

925
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:20,319
Speaker 3: Yes, we had some. We're gonna put it up there

926
00:49:20,360 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 3: with the other.

927
00:49:20,760 --> 00:49:26,319
Speaker 1: Ones running our space. All right, here's another one. Let

928
00:49:26,400 --> 00:49:35,080
Speaker 1: me get some scissors out, open up this envelope. We

929
00:49:35,200 --> 00:49:36,000
Speaker 1: are so spoiled.

930
00:49:36,120 --> 00:49:42,560
Speaker 3: Okay, y'all spoil us, Thank you very much. Okay, y'all

931
00:49:42,640 --> 00:49:44,600
Speaker 3: The reason why we had to take a tub and

932
00:49:44,680 --> 00:49:47,120
Speaker 3: they was like, oh, y'all got lost, y'all got lost stuff.

933
00:49:49,080 --> 00:49:52,560
Speaker 1: Sure, let's not add any more details of that. A

934
00:49:52,719 --> 00:49:56,759
Speaker 1: mail tub from the post office store. They basically gave

935
00:49:56,880 --> 00:49:59,920
Speaker 1: us the mail tub to say, hey, we know you

936
00:50:00,080 --> 00:50:02,840
Speaker 1: can't carry this on your own, so they gave us

937
00:50:02,880 --> 00:50:08,360
Speaker 1: something to carry it with. There you go, Oh this

938
00:50:08,520 --> 00:50:13,480
Speaker 1: is on my list. Uh so this yeah, this must

939
00:50:13,520 --> 00:50:15,680
Speaker 1: have came straight from the what you call an Amazon

940
00:50:15,760 --> 00:50:18,440
Speaker 1: wich list. Doesn't say who gave it to us though, okay,

941
00:50:18,520 --> 00:50:22,400
Speaker 1: let me see this, say damn it, don't say who

942
00:50:22,480 --> 00:50:28,520
Speaker 1: gave it to us. Anyway. I love these fucking air fresheners,

943
00:50:29,120 --> 00:50:34,600
Speaker 1: fresh and white. So it's these air fresheners that you

944
00:50:34,719 --> 00:50:38,000
Speaker 1: hang in your car, except that shape like either like

945
00:50:38,160 --> 00:50:43,600
Speaker 1: shoe like basketball shoes, basketball jerseys. Here's one for Kobe,

946
00:50:43,880 --> 00:50:48,440
Speaker 1: it says legend. So I fucking love these things and

947
00:50:48,600 --> 00:50:50,960
Speaker 1: I put them on the list because I ran out.

948
00:50:51,520 --> 00:50:54,960
Speaker 1: So thank you to whoever sent this, because maybe this

949
00:50:55,160 --> 00:50:59,719
Speaker 1: is all. No, they did not say who sent it, y'all,

950
00:50:59,840 --> 00:51:04,239
Speaker 1: so uh I hate when they do that unless you're

951
00:51:04,280 --> 00:51:06,680
Speaker 1: meant to send an anonymous unless or unless it was

952
00:51:06,760 --> 00:51:09,319
Speaker 1: my parents, because my parents in a lot of shit

953
00:51:09,440 --> 00:51:11,200
Speaker 1: and I can't even keep track of everything they sense,

954
00:51:11,280 --> 00:51:13,520
Speaker 1: so it could be my parents, it could be anonymous.

955
00:51:14,200 --> 00:51:15,920
Speaker 1: Whoever it is, just know that I'm.

956
00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,960
Speaker 3: Thankful, Yes we are. We are very thankful. We're very blessed,

957
00:51:19,719 --> 00:51:20,520
Speaker 3: and it will.

958
00:51:20,400 --> 00:51:23,040
Speaker 1: Be going in my car. We put it to good

959
00:51:23,160 --> 00:51:25,480
Speaker 1: use it better than that black ice. Okay, it's black

960
00:51:25,520 --> 00:51:29,040
Speaker 1: and in black ice. Honestly it is these little blackest

961
00:51:29,080 --> 00:51:33,640
Speaker 1: ass air freshness going. All right, I think we got

962
00:51:35,239 --> 00:51:40,440
Speaker 1: got one more boxing in the cars. Oh shit, this

963
00:51:40,520 --> 00:51:45,680
Speaker 1: one's big? All right? What is in here?

964
00:51:51,719 --> 00:51:51,919
Speaker 3: Three?

965
00:51:57,960 --> 00:52:00,879
Speaker 1: And of course there's another box in the box.

966
00:52:01,000 --> 00:52:05,759
Speaker 3: All right, in the box, all right, gonna make it

967
00:52:05,840 --> 00:52:06,480
Speaker 3: work for that one.

968
00:52:07,160 --> 00:52:15,760
Speaker 1: Move my mic out the way. Let's see here, okay.

969
00:52:16,280 --> 00:52:18,560
Speaker 3: And like we are going to protect whatever's in here

970
00:52:20,239 --> 00:52:21,520
Speaker 3: this Christmas?

971
00:52:23,239 --> 00:52:32,319
Speaker 1: Alright, then listen, all right?

972
00:52:33,160 --> 00:52:33,600
Speaker 2: Is that right?

973
00:52:33,680 --> 00:52:33,960
Speaker 1: Okay?

974
00:52:34,200 --> 00:52:37,360
Speaker 3: I don't know. Do you need help? I got it?

975
00:52:37,520 --> 00:52:51,439
Speaker 1: Okay, Okay, yeah I did. It's making great podcasts. Great

976
00:52:51,520 --> 00:52:54,040
Speaker 1: podcast don't worry about caring. She won't vamp or anything. No,

977
00:52:54,120 --> 00:52:56,280
Speaker 1: I won't build a time Nope.

978
00:52:57,760 --> 00:52:57,960
Speaker 2: For what?

979
00:52:58,760 --> 00:53:03,479
Speaker 1: All right? So it is oh art in creativity would

980
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:08,800
Speaker 1: art set. It includes sixty Crans, twenty four oil pastor

981
00:53:08,880 --> 00:53:12,080
Speaker 1: else twenty four premium core colored pencils. Why they gotta

982
00:53:12,120 --> 00:53:16,120
Speaker 1: be colored? So because they're not. They don't fit your

983
00:53:16,239 --> 00:53:21,839
Speaker 1: white supremacist stereotypes. They got to be colored pencils, I'll see,

984
00:53:24,960 --> 00:53:28,759
Speaker 1: and a bonus learning color God also twenty four water

985
00:53:29,080 --> 00:53:32,680
Speaker 1: watercolor cakes, three mixing palace, and a rap Jesus Christ

986
00:53:33,440 --> 00:53:35,520
Speaker 1: were about to be motherfucking Bob Ross in this bit.

987
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:40,160
Speaker 3: Yes, were about to color up your coloring books, baby man.

988
00:53:41,400 --> 00:53:43,680
Speaker 1: I will say, though, man, that stuff is good for

989
00:53:43,760 --> 00:53:45,960
Speaker 1: your like distressing.

990
00:53:45,480 --> 00:53:49,880
Speaker 3: And shit, particularly do with the COVID and stuff.

991
00:53:50,480 --> 00:53:52,720
Speaker 2: I haven't done it in a while, but like adult

992
00:53:52,840 --> 00:53:54,960
Speaker 2: coloring book for those of you get into that like

993
00:53:55,120 --> 00:53:56,880
Speaker 2: it will relieve.

994
00:53:57,080 --> 00:53:59,320
Speaker 3: Just getting that don't matter color in the lines, outside

995
00:53:59,320 --> 00:54:01,640
Speaker 3: of lines matter, you will feel better.

996
00:54:01,960 --> 00:54:03,840
Speaker 1: So this is from Sarah, who says I wanted to

997
00:54:03,840 --> 00:54:05,480
Speaker 1: get a book and wasn't show what else to get.

998
00:54:05,800 --> 00:54:07,680
Speaker 1: This reminds me of a giant art kid I got

999
00:54:07,719 --> 00:54:10,560
Speaker 1: as a kid, and the and the immediate dopamine rush

1000
00:54:10,600 --> 00:54:13,960
Speaker 1: of happiness. The one that was that that would have

1001
00:54:14,120 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 1: some nineties plastic though this looks lejet enjoy. Thank you, Sarah,

1002
00:54:18,239 --> 00:54:18,560
Speaker 1: thank you.

1003
00:54:18,760 --> 00:54:21,600
Speaker 3: We're gonna have a good time painting and coloring, all right.

1004
00:54:21,719 --> 00:54:23,680
Speaker 1: It's gonna be motherfucking arts and crafts up there.

1005
00:54:24,719 --> 00:54:27,040
Speaker 3: Like, excuse me, are the two ten year olds in here?

1006
00:54:27,320 --> 00:54:32,240
Speaker 1: Someone also got finally because I've never seen it before.

1007
00:54:33,120 --> 00:54:35,600
Speaker 1: Candy Man on Blu Ray I only.

1008
00:54:35,440 --> 00:54:37,800
Speaker 3: Said, oh movie, how old that moves later the nineties.

1009
00:54:38,040 --> 00:54:40,200
Speaker 1: Can't wait to throw this in the Xbox Series X

1010
00:54:40,320 --> 00:54:43,520
Speaker 1: and finally complete my blackness because it's been a hole

1011
00:54:43,600 --> 00:54:48,120
Speaker 1: missing in my blackness for a while. So let me see,

1012
00:54:48,600 --> 00:54:50,759
Speaker 1: uh if I can see what my parents got us,

1013
00:54:50,760 --> 00:54:52,800
Speaker 1: because like I said, they got us a lot of stuff,

1014
00:54:53,520 --> 00:54:58,160
Speaker 1: and I'm trying to see that is enjoying man, Okay,

1015
00:55:00,520 --> 00:55:03,080
Speaker 1: not that. Oh wait, okay, so you they got us

1016
00:55:03,120 --> 00:55:07,759
Speaker 1: the bake wear sheet pan, Okay, that's for them. They

1017
00:55:07,840 --> 00:55:13,720
Speaker 1: got us the dental calculus thing, the as tach secret

1018
00:55:13,760 --> 00:55:19,120
Speaker 1: Indian healing clay that we open up first. I think

1019
00:55:19,200 --> 00:55:25,800
Speaker 1: they got us the blue tooth for the switch, and

1020
00:55:25,920 --> 00:55:30,520
Speaker 1: the and the and the multi purpose uh, the the

1021
00:55:31,280 --> 00:55:34,839
Speaker 1: disk drying thing. And I think I want to say

1022
00:55:34,840 --> 00:55:40,560
Speaker 1: that's it. If I'm giving somebody else credit for somebody's stuff,

1023
00:55:40,600 --> 00:55:42,160
Speaker 1: my bad, but I think.

1024
00:55:42,080 --> 00:55:44,480
Speaker 3: That's I can't wait for some of this stuff to use.

1025
00:55:44,560 --> 00:55:44,840
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1026
00:55:45,160 --> 00:55:46,839
Speaker 1: I think that's it. So I still don't know who

1027
00:55:46,880 --> 00:55:49,120
Speaker 1: got us candy Man, because it didn't tell us. You know,

1028
00:55:49,200 --> 00:55:50,440
Speaker 1: if you want to tell us, that's fine. If you

1029
00:55:50,480 --> 00:55:54,239
Speaker 1: want to say anonymous, Anon, anonymous, that's that's good. As well,

1030
00:55:55,960 --> 00:55:59,360
Speaker 1: so you know, I appreciate that, and then we have

1031
00:55:59,480 --> 00:56:04,359
Speaker 1: a bunch of yay. I'm glad we didn't wait till

1032
00:56:04,400 --> 00:56:06,400
Speaker 1: next week. It would have taken forever to do this

1033
00:56:06,600 --> 00:56:11,759
Speaker 1: and then recap five episodes. So let me see here.

1034
00:56:13,040 --> 00:56:14,920
Speaker 1: Make sure I don't hear that too bad?

1035
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:15,279
Speaker 3: All right?

1036
00:56:15,640 --> 00:56:18,680
Speaker 1: So the first card, well literally like the second or

1037
00:56:18,719 --> 00:56:21,279
Speaker 1: third car, but uh, this one says wishing you a

1038
00:56:21,320 --> 00:56:24,799
Speaker 1: Merry Christmas with Christmas tree on it. I don't even

1039
00:56:24,920 --> 00:56:28,439
Speaker 1: understand how to write an American street address. This from

1040
00:56:28,920 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 1: Mike in London, who says at a magical New York.

1041
00:56:31,680 --> 00:56:34,359
Speaker 3: Thank you, Mike, thank you. Yeah we're different over here.

1042
00:56:35,000 --> 00:56:36,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, well you know what. I'm looking at it. And

1043
00:56:36,600 --> 00:56:38,719
Speaker 1: you did it right, so I mean it got to us.

1044
00:56:38,760 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 3: You got to us, so you did it right, baby,

1045
00:56:40,760 --> 00:56:42,560
Speaker 3: you know, I mean she did.

1046
00:56:43,200 --> 00:56:45,880
Speaker 1: I'll be seeing these. You can see the emails we

1047
00:56:45,960 --> 00:56:48,600
Speaker 1: get with these mailing addresses. I mean one line, people

1048
00:56:48,719 --> 00:56:52,240
Speaker 1: leaving out names because I mean, like it's a miracle

1049
00:56:52,239 --> 00:56:55,200
Speaker 1: people get cards in any year. It was like when

1050
00:56:55,200 --> 00:56:58,040
Speaker 1: we seeing these cars out, we got another one. This

1051
00:56:58,160 --> 00:57:04,080
Speaker 1: one says happy holiday, sitting in warm holiday wishes, wishing

1052
00:57:04,160 --> 00:57:07,759
Speaker 1: you both good health, wealth and happiness from Ria, Thank you, real,

1053
00:57:08,080 --> 00:57:11,799
Speaker 1: thank you. We appreciate you. It's dope when we see

1054
00:57:11,840 --> 00:57:14,360
Speaker 1: the faces of the people that you know, some of

1055
00:57:14,400 --> 00:57:16,800
Speaker 1: the people in the chat, some people on social media

1056
00:57:17,680 --> 00:57:19,640
Speaker 1: that we get to know. Over the time, everybody was

1057
00:57:19,720 --> 00:57:22,560
Speaker 1: posting beautiful pictures of their families on Christmas, hitting.

1058
00:57:22,480 --> 00:57:29,160
Speaker 2: Beautiful, look at this one, adorable They three little black angels.

1059
00:57:29,640 --> 00:57:31,120
Speaker 3: Look ever got afro puff?

1060
00:57:31,520 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: Faith, hope and love is what it says under knee,

1061
00:57:34,560 --> 00:57:38,400
Speaker 1: Rod and Karen, Let's see you so inside the car

1062
00:57:38,480 --> 00:57:41,120
Speaker 1: says wishing you on yours all the greatest gifts the Christmas.

1063
00:57:41,240 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: And then it says Rod and Karen, it says something something.

1064
00:57:47,360 --> 00:57:50,440
Speaker 1: Of the joys of twenty twenty has been oh one.

1065
00:57:50,800 --> 00:57:52,479
Speaker 1: One of the joys of twenty twenty has been listening

1066
00:57:52,560 --> 00:57:56,040
Speaker 1: to you all have a wonderful and happy holiday season.

1067
00:57:56,280 --> 00:57:58,640
Speaker 1: From Mary, Thank you, Mary, Thank you.

1068
00:57:59,120 --> 00:58:01,720
Speaker 3: We all be fine. Out the mahogany cars. Where are

1069
00:58:01,960 --> 00:58:03,560
Speaker 3: getting them from? I'll be like, I didn't even know.

1070
00:58:04,160 --> 00:58:05,520
Speaker 1: Where'd you even find the time?

1071
00:58:06,040 --> 00:58:06,200
Speaker 2: Right?

1072
00:58:07,120 --> 00:58:09,560
Speaker 1: Like I feel like shopping for a black holiday card

1073
00:58:09,680 --> 00:58:10,240
Speaker 1: is difficult.

1074
00:58:10,760 --> 00:58:12,640
Speaker 3: They'd be like, We're gonna find a black.

1075
00:58:12,480 --> 00:58:14,160
Speaker 1: One, especially if you want one that's like a little

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00:58:14,200 --> 00:58:16,640
Speaker 1: off the beaten path, you know what I mean. It's

1077
00:58:16,680 --> 00:58:19,720
Speaker 1: like I don't want know. Uh, It's like here's a

1078
00:58:19,800 --> 00:58:21,840
Speaker 1: Father's Day card with no datty on it, and like

1079
00:58:22,000 --> 00:58:26,720
Speaker 1: this is just racist, right, we got this one. Christmas

1080
00:58:26,760 --> 00:58:29,640
Speaker 1: wish is from Mike, Tiffany and Madison. Look at this

1081
00:58:29,760 --> 00:58:37,360
Speaker 1: beautiful black family, Oh adorable. Wishing you and your family peace, love,

1082
00:58:37,480 --> 00:58:39,640
Speaker 1: enjoyed this holiday season from the Todds. And then on

1083
00:58:39,720 --> 00:58:42,560
Speaker 1: the back is the more from the beautiful photo shoot.

1084
00:58:43,000 --> 00:58:45,880
Speaker 1: Oh ain't that dope?

1085
00:58:46,720 --> 00:58:48,560
Speaker 3: Oh durable.

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00:58:49,360 --> 00:58:51,800
Speaker 1: Happy holidays to you guys. We love the show. Thank

1087
00:58:51,840 --> 00:58:53,800
Speaker 1: you for everything you do. We hope for much more,

1088
00:58:54,320 --> 00:58:57,200
Speaker 1: much more success on Spotify. Many more awards in the

1089
00:58:57,280 --> 00:59:00,840
Speaker 1: coming new year from Mike tiff and at damn We Grown.

1090
00:59:01,320 --> 00:59:04,440
Speaker 1: Oh yeah I heard that podcast. Ps. Thanks for allowing

1091
00:59:04,480 --> 00:59:07,040
Speaker 1: me to do the music for the lgbt Q segment. No,

1092
00:59:07,320 --> 00:59:09,040
Speaker 1: thank you for doing it.

1093
00:59:09,200 --> 00:59:09,520
Speaker 3: Thank you.

1094
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:13,360
Speaker 1: Okay, that ship is a bop? Come on what you

1095
00:59:13,400 --> 00:59:19,720
Speaker 1: want this? That's that's the ship. Just move your Oh

1096
00:59:21,200 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 1: oh man, this is you know, I almost didn't do

1097
00:59:24,360 --> 00:59:27,800
Speaker 1: this today, but it's made it's I feel so love.

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Speaker 1: Thank y'all right, and lastly, we got this one. Look

1099
00:59:33,160 --> 00:59:37,360
Speaker 1: at this beautiful car and it sparkles a little more sparkle,

1100
00:59:37,440 --> 00:59:40,080
Speaker 1: a little more joy, a little more so at the

1101
00:59:40,160 --> 00:59:43,920
Speaker 1: holidays and always. And this is from Lailo says, made

1102
00:59:43,920 --> 00:59:46,040
Speaker 1: the Christmas season be full of light, love and laughter

1103
00:59:46,200 --> 00:59:51,000
Speaker 1: for my two favorite podcasters and family. Uh and Merry

1104
00:59:51,120 --> 00:59:55,160
Speaker 1: Christmas from Kamala k and Layla.

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00:59:55,520 --> 00:59:56,800
Speaker 3: Thank you, thank you.

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00:59:57,640 --> 01:00:00,280
Speaker 1: We man listen, y'all did that.

1107
01:00:00,720 --> 01:00:01,920
Speaker 3: Y'all are the best?

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Speaker 1: Okay, so yeah, thank you. You know, definitely makes us

1109
01:00:06,600 --> 01:00:10,560
Speaker 1: feel love, definitely. You know, it's a tough year. I

1110
01:00:10,640 --> 01:00:15,440
Speaker 1: think what people just I think people don't realize just

1111
01:00:15,480 --> 01:00:19,080
Speaker 1: because they're listening, and you know, we choose what we share.

1112
01:00:19,840 --> 01:00:24,640
Speaker 1: We're on here all this time, we're consistent. I think

1113
01:00:24,760 --> 01:00:27,640
Speaker 1: people just think like, oh, yeah, this shit is easy,

1114
01:00:28,120 --> 01:00:32,600
Speaker 1: or everything's going great in your lives, nothing's happening. But

1115
01:00:32,840 --> 01:00:36,960
Speaker 1: it's a fucking pandemic. It's twenty twenty. Bad shit is

1116
01:00:37,000 --> 01:00:40,840
Speaker 1: happening to everybody, you know what I mean, Like, there's

1117
01:00:40,960 --> 01:00:45,400
Speaker 1: no one really exempt from this shit. So you know,

1118
01:00:46,360 --> 01:00:50,080
Speaker 1: we've persevered, we worked hard, we've we we you know,

1119
01:00:50,400 --> 01:00:53,480
Speaker 1: we've said yes to so many things this year. We've

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01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:57,560
Speaker 1: you know, we've we've done a lot, you know, and

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01:00:57,880 --> 01:01:00,160
Speaker 1: all of it still with our fans in mind, our

1122
01:01:00,200 --> 01:01:05,040
Speaker 1: show in mind, and you know, a lot of stuff

1123
01:01:05,160 --> 01:01:08,880
Speaker 1: is has really uh you know, I had an aunt

1124
01:01:09,000 --> 01:01:12,960
Speaker 1: died this year, Karen's mother passed. Uh you know, she

1125
01:01:13,200 --> 01:01:17,480
Speaker 1: just had an uncle passed. Everybody's been getting through this

1126
01:01:18,240 --> 01:01:22,160
Speaker 1: as best they can, you know what I mean. And

1127
01:01:22,560 --> 01:01:26,160
Speaker 1: I think, uh, in a in a way like this

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01:01:26,360 --> 01:01:28,520
Speaker 1: connection that we had with each other through the show,

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01:01:29,800 --> 01:01:33,520
Speaker 1: with the fans, Uh, it's really been a lifesaver.

1130
01:01:33,720 --> 01:01:33,880
Speaker 2: Man.

1131
01:01:34,120 --> 01:01:37,040
Speaker 1: It's really been something that it's like, Okay, this is

1132
01:01:37,040 --> 01:01:38,760
Speaker 1: a place to go. This is an oasis in a

1133
01:01:38,840 --> 01:01:41,800
Speaker 1: shitty year, uh, time where I don't have to think

1134
01:01:41,800 --> 01:01:46,200
Speaker 1: about this bullsh bullshit for a little bit, sir, you know,

1135
01:01:46,400 --> 01:01:49,760
Speaker 1: time to give our thoughts, to stand up for what

1136
01:01:49,840 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: we believe in. I mean, we had a fucking tough

1137
01:01:52,200 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 1: ass election this year. You know, we've had people, uh

1138
01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:59,480
Speaker 1: you know, you fall off with people, you fall out

1139
01:01:59,520 --> 01:02:03,680
Speaker 1: with people, you become friends with other folks, and it's

1140
01:02:03,680 --> 01:02:05,480
Speaker 1: all happened while we haven't really been able to go

1141
01:02:05,600 --> 01:02:10,080
Speaker 1: outside so much. Our communication is online, Like you know,

1142
01:02:10,400 --> 01:02:12,400
Speaker 1: like I said, with the even with the show stuff,

1143
01:02:13,360 --> 01:02:16,720
Speaker 1: people I think people see the show and they go, oh,

1144
01:02:16,800 --> 01:02:19,800
Speaker 1: it's still here, Everything's fine. It's like, listen, people lose

1145
01:02:19,840 --> 01:02:22,400
Speaker 1: eight fucking jobs every day. You think they're not gonna

1146
01:02:22,440 --> 01:02:26,000
Speaker 1: stop doing like I would be like, Okay, well I

1147
01:02:26,040 --> 01:02:29,080
Speaker 1: guess I can't really support this show anymore. I guess

1148
01:02:29,240 --> 01:02:31,360
Speaker 1: you know, Okay, I get the donation's got to stop.

1149
01:02:31,480 --> 01:02:34,520
Speaker 1: Totally understand. Never gonna complain about that, not talking bad

1150
01:02:34,560 --> 01:02:37,560
Speaker 1: about nobody. I think everyone should do what is best

1151
01:02:37,600 --> 01:02:40,880
Speaker 1: for them. But sir, you know, like that stuff, all

1152
01:02:41,000 --> 01:02:43,640
Speaker 1: that stuff affects us. But it's just what do you

1153
01:02:43,720 --> 01:02:46,040
Speaker 1: choose to focus on? What do you choose to get up?

1154
01:02:46,080 --> 01:02:47,760
Speaker 1: You could give in the rage. You could be on

1155
01:02:47,840 --> 01:02:50,600
Speaker 1: Twitter banging on people every day, talking down to folks.

1156
01:02:51,040 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 1: It might make you feel a little bit better temporarily,

1157
01:02:54,120 --> 01:02:57,120
Speaker 1: but it wouldn't solve the problem. It doesn't change anything.

1158
01:02:57,320 --> 01:02:59,760
Speaker 1: And so to be a place where we can say,

1159
01:03:00,480 --> 01:03:03,640
Speaker 1: at least for us, this isn't for anyone else. They

1160
01:03:03,720 --> 01:03:05,440
Speaker 1: can do whatever they want to with their shows and

1161
01:03:05,440 --> 01:03:07,640
Speaker 1: their platforms. But for us to be able to say, like,

1162
01:03:08,560 --> 01:03:11,880
Speaker 1: let's find the joy, let's find the positivity, let's find

1163
01:03:11,960 --> 01:03:16,600
Speaker 1: the humanity's line a lining, Yeah, we're not running from anything.

1164
01:03:16,640 --> 01:03:19,360
Speaker 1: We're not pretending shit is all good or whatever. If

1165
01:03:19,400 --> 01:03:21,640
Speaker 1: there's something on our nerves, we talk about it. Something

1166
01:03:21,680 --> 01:03:24,360
Speaker 1: sad happens, we talk about that too, but we just

1167
01:03:24,440 --> 01:03:26,880
Speaker 1: don't want that to be all there is to our

1168
01:03:27,000 --> 01:03:31,240
Speaker 1: lives or your lives. And we hope when people hear

1169
01:03:31,320 --> 01:03:34,960
Speaker 1: the show, they hear that. And I think, you know,

1170
01:03:35,240 --> 01:03:38,760
Speaker 1: even in this shitty, shitty twenty twenty man, where I

1171
01:03:38,840 --> 01:03:40,920
Speaker 1: have not seen my parents, I haven't seen my family

1172
01:03:41,000 --> 01:03:43,800
Speaker 1: since March, you know what I mean, Like I see nobody.

1173
01:03:44,480 --> 01:03:49,080
Speaker 1: This shit is a lot on everyone, and the only

1174
01:03:49,160 --> 01:03:51,080
Speaker 1: thing we really have is that we are going through

1175
01:03:51,120 --> 01:03:53,840
Speaker 1: it together, agreed. Even if some of us is going

1176
01:03:53,920 --> 01:03:55,960
Speaker 1: through it dumber than others, We're at least going through

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01:03:56,000 --> 01:03:59,880
Speaker 1: it together. And so I hope that people hear it,

1178
01:04:00,440 --> 01:04:02,680
Speaker 1: and I hope people honor that, and I hope people

1179
01:04:03,520 --> 01:04:06,440
Speaker 1: have that understanding that you know, I would like to

1180
01:04:06,480 --> 01:04:08,000
Speaker 1: be able to give other folks. I hope they have

1181
01:04:08,120 --> 01:04:08,480
Speaker 1: it for us.

1182
01:04:09,360 --> 01:04:09,760
Speaker 3: Agreed.

1183
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:13,720
Speaker 1: All Right, Well, that's it for the show. Thank y'all

1184
01:04:13,760 --> 01:04:15,400
Speaker 1: for listening. Like I said, we'll be back to our

1185
01:04:15,440 --> 01:04:19,760
Speaker 1: regular schedule tomorrow. Should get you know, five episodes and

1186
01:04:19,840 --> 01:04:23,720
Speaker 1: all that good stuff. And if you're premium man, we've

1187
01:04:23,720 --> 01:04:28,240
Speaker 1: been doing movie reviews. Yeah, so there's still stuff out

1188
01:04:28,280 --> 01:04:32,439
Speaker 1: there to go listen to. You know, people out asked

1189
01:04:32,520 --> 01:04:34,640
Speaker 1: us to review stuff. There's you know, people talking about

1190
01:04:34,640 --> 01:04:37,360
Speaker 1: Wonder Woman all this shit. We we reviewed those movies

1191
01:04:37,440 --> 01:04:40,000
Speaker 1: and all that stuff. So we're still grinding, still working.

1192
01:04:40,120 --> 01:04:43,920
Speaker 1: And for those that only listen on Spotify stuff, hey,

1193
01:04:44,040 --> 01:04:46,360
Speaker 1: you'll look at your feet. You're gonna start seeing more

1194
01:04:46,360 --> 01:04:49,440
Speaker 1: and more stuff and do what's a favor man, If

1195
01:04:49,480 --> 01:04:52,320
Speaker 1: you didn't do it in twenty twenty doing in twenty

1196
01:04:52,400 --> 01:04:55,160
Speaker 1: twenty one, share our show. You know, go on your Facebook,

1197
01:04:55,240 --> 01:04:58,880
Speaker 1: your Twitter, tell people at your job or whatever. You know,

1198
01:04:59,680 --> 01:05:01,920
Speaker 1: this what I listen to. You know, you you know

1199
01:05:02,040 --> 01:05:04,200
Speaker 1: the family and friends that were like this shit, you know,

1200
01:05:04,440 --> 01:05:07,080
Speaker 1: let them know we out here doing this shit and

1201
01:05:07,360 --> 01:05:09,560
Speaker 1: trying to, uh, you know, just trying to have a

1202
01:05:09,600 --> 01:05:12,560
Speaker 1: good twenty twenty one. All right, y'all, we'll be back tomorrow.

1203
01:05:12,720 --> 01:05:15,200
Speaker 1: Until then. Oh and one more thing I wanted to

1204
01:05:15,240 --> 01:05:19,120
Speaker 1: say too that you specifically Caren, Yes, sir, you you

1205
01:05:19,280 --> 01:05:22,520
Speaker 1: have been such a good partner through all this because

1206
01:05:22,640 --> 01:05:26,120
Speaker 1: it's very it's like this year has been fucked up

1207
01:05:26,840 --> 01:05:30,000
Speaker 1: you know, it's no good way to put it. And

1208
01:05:30,400 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: I mean, we've done so much shit together because it's

1209
01:05:33,480 --> 01:05:36,840
Speaker 1: just us in here, like you know, we watch our shit.

1210
01:05:37,400 --> 01:05:39,520
Speaker 1: Every day. We cover some new couple that's like and

1211
01:05:39,680 --> 01:05:43,800
Speaker 1: then that's when she finally killed his ass. And you know,

1212
01:05:44,000 --> 01:05:46,600
Speaker 1: we're going through every level of human emotion. You know,

1213
01:05:46,840 --> 01:05:48,880
Speaker 1: there's in days or it's just sad. Those the days

1214
01:05:48,960 --> 01:05:52,880
Speaker 1: you're happy. There's in days you're up, you're down, whatever,

1215
01:05:54,000 --> 01:05:56,360
Speaker 1: And this shit just feels like almost like a prison

1216
01:05:56,440 --> 01:05:59,280
Speaker 1: senate sometimes or's just like when the fuck can we

1217
01:05:59,400 --> 01:06:04,880
Speaker 1: get And you know you have never made it worse,

1218
01:06:04,960 --> 01:06:06,000
Speaker 1: You always made it better.

1219
01:06:06,640 --> 01:06:09,120
Speaker 3: I try. I try my best because the things you

1220
01:06:09,200 --> 01:06:11,280
Speaker 3: succeed at it, oh thank you.

1221
01:06:11,520 --> 01:06:16,480
Speaker 2: I try my best because I realized that it's difficult

1222
01:06:16,520 --> 01:06:20,080
Speaker 2: for everybody, and so through it all, I try to

1223
01:06:20,240 --> 01:06:26,680
Speaker 2: be as positive as I possibly can. I allow everybody

1224
01:06:26,800 --> 01:06:28,440
Speaker 2: their space, you know, because it's me and you, but

1225
01:06:28,560 --> 01:06:32,320
Speaker 2: we also have space, and so you actually need space

1226
01:06:32,480 --> 01:06:34,680
Speaker 2: because I think what people miss the most it's just

1227
01:06:34,760 --> 01:06:38,080
Speaker 2: there alone time, their space. For a lot of people,

1228
01:06:38,200 --> 01:06:40,680
Speaker 2: that was going to work. For some people, that was

1229
01:06:41,040 --> 01:06:43,439
Speaker 2: you know, going out with their girlfriends. For some people,

1230
01:06:43,480 --> 01:06:46,280
Speaker 2: that was going shopping alone or to them all alone,

1231
01:06:46,400 --> 01:06:47,800
Speaker 2: just taking a break from people.

1232
01:06:48,400 --> 01:06:49,760
Speaker 3: But when you're around people all the.

1233
01:06:49,840 --> 01:06:53,080
Speaker 2: Time, no matter how much you love them, it can

1234
01:06:53,120 --> 01:06:55,600
Speaker 2: be a lot. So I think for me, I try

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01:06:55,640 --> 01:06:59,400
Speaker 2: to be conscious of that and I try my best

1236
01:06:59,560 --> 01:07:03,720
Speaker 2: to keep mine. I'm not gonna say emotions under check,

1237
01:07:03,840 --> 01:07:07,720
Speaker 2: but try to. I know it's very difficult for people

1238
01:07:07,720 --> 01:07:10,160
Speaker 2: to tap into their emotions, So I make myself aware

1239
01:07:10,240 --> 01:07:12,560
Speaker 2: of how I feel, and I don't run from my

1240
01:07:12,680 --> 01:07:18,160
Speaker 2: emotions because I know, yesterday what's kind of tough, and

1241
01:07:18,320 --> 01:07:22,720
Speaker 2: so for me, because this is my first Christmas without

1242
01:07:22,760 --> 01:07:25,800
Speaker 2: my mama, and so for me, I started kind of

1243
01:07:26,080 --> 01:07:29,160
Speaker 2: going through my thought process and I got a little sad.

1244
01:07:30,080 --> 01:07:31,560
Speaker 2: So I got up and I was like, you know what,

1245
01:07:31,640 --> 01:07:33,160
Speaker 2: let me go in here and talk to Rod about it,

1246
01:07:33,200 --> 01:07:36,800
Speaker 2: because that's the thing. It's okay to fill all these emotions, y'all,

1247
01:07:37,200 --> 01:07:39,520
Speaker 2: but you have to acknowledge you cannot run away from it.

1248
01:07:39,600 --> 01:07:42,680
Speaker 2: So many people are running away from their feelings and

1249
01:07:42,720 --> 01:07:45,040
Speaker 2: they're running to social media and they running to these

1250
01:07:45,080 --> 01:07:48,440
Speaker 2: other platforms, and these emotions come out a lot of

1251
01:07:48,480 --> 01:07:52,320
Speaker 2: times in anger, and so because of that, it's not healthy.

1252
01:07:52,400 --> 01:07:55,440
Speaker 2: And all the side you're talking to people that actually

1253
01:07:55,720 --> 01:07:57,919
Speaker 2: not trund funny as a whole. Most of the people

1254
01:07:58,000 --> 01:08:01,360
Speaker 2: on social media, particularly if they don't know you, really

1255
01:08:01,440 --> 01:08:03,400
Speaker 2: don't care about your well being or health. I'm just

1256
01:08:03,400 --> 01:08:06,160
Speaker 2: gonna keep that real that they don't actually care. So

1257
01:08:06,600 --> 01:08:08,760
Speaker 2: I actually was like, well, let me talk to Roger

1258
01:08:08,920 --> 01:08:10,960
Speaker 2: and be like, look, this is how I'm feeling. I'm

1259
01:08:11,000 --> 01:08:15,080
Speaker 2: acknowledging these things. I'm not running away from them. I'm

1260
01:08:15,240 --> 01:08:18,840
Speaker 2: accepting these things and realizing that it is okay for

1261
01:08:19,000 --> 01:08:21,960
Speaker 2: me to feel this way, versus pushing them away and

1262
01:08:22,120 --> 01:08:23,639
Speaker 2: not acknowledging.

1263
01:08:23,080 --> 01:08:25,599
Speaker 3: Them and realizing that it's okay.

1264
01:08:26,080 --> 01:08:29,800
Speaker 2: I'm okay, I'm gonna make it through this, and this

1265
01:08:29,960 --> 01:08:32,240
Speaker 2: is a normal process, you know, because for me, this

1266
01:08:32,360 --> 01:08:34,120
Speaker 2: is my first time kind of going through this, and

1267
01:08:34,200 --> 01:08:36,320
Speaker 2: I know there are people that have lost family members

1268
01:08:36,720 --> 01:08:39,639
Speaker 2: all across the board, particularly family members that are precious

1269
01:08:39,680 --> 01:08:42,880
Speaker 2: to you, and so for me, it's just been kind

1270
01:08:42,920 --> 01:08:45,960
Speaker 2: of You're okay today, You're not okay tomorrow. So I'm

1271
01:08:46,000 --> 01:08:49,439
Speaker 2: allowing myself that that freedom, and I thank you for

1272
01:08:49,640 --> 01:08:53,640
Speaker 2: allowing me to go through that emotional roller coaster and

1273
01:08:53,760 --> 01:08:56,400
Speaker 2: let me know that it's okay to go through the

1274
01:08:56,600 --> 01:08:59,760
Speaker 2: emotional roller coaster and learning how to not beat myself

1275
01:08:59,880 --> 01:09:02,120
Speaker 2: up up and learning how to forgive myself, you know,

1276
01:09:02,240 --> 01:09:04,080
Speaker 2: because sometimes you can get in your mind, would it,

1277
01:09:04,120 --> 01:09:04,360
Speaker 2: could have?

1278
01:09:04,360 --> 01:09:04,720
Speaker 1: Shoot it?

1279
01:09:05,400 --> 01:09:07,320
Speaker 3: But what could have? Should have? Don't solve nothing.

1280
01:09:08,000 --> 01:09:13,679
Speaker 1: First of all, you're welcome, okay, because I normally don't

1281
01:09:13,680 --> 01:09:15,240
Speaker 1: allow people to have emotions around me.

1282
01:09:15,400 --> 01:09:16,439
Speaker 3: So I know you don't.

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01:09:16,479 --> 01:09:20,160
Speaker 1: You welcome. I know you don't forget that I allowed

1284
01:09:20,200 --> 01:09:21,840
Speaker 1: you to have them emotions and don't do that.

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Speaker 3: You don't because you're heartless.

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01:09:24,560 --> 01:09:28,640
Speaker 1: Ice coat. But uh nah, no, I totally understand. I mean,

1287
01:09:28,640 --> 01:09:31,559
Speaker 1: there's nothing you can there's nothing you really can do about.

1288
01:09:31,600 --> 01:09:34,040
Speaker 1: I think people think about marriage and partnership and shit,

1289
01:09:34,040 --> 01:09:36,960
Speaker 1: and it's all just like you know, the wedding day

1290
01:09:37,280 --> 01:09:40,240
Speaker 1: and the fucking the baby and we bought the house

1291
01:09:40,360 --> 01:09:43,519
Speaker 1: and all the winds. But you know, it's also you're

1292
01:09:43,520 --> 01:09:46,560
Speaker 1: getting older, you're losing people, You're losing people around you,

1293
01:09:46,760 --> 01:09:50,439
Speaker 1: you're losing you're changing in your life. You have to

1294
01:09:50,520 --> 01:09:53,280
Speaker 1: constantly be reconnecting with each other. And I think twenty

1295
01:09:53,360 --> 01:09:55,200
Speaker 1: twenty has put a lot of shit to the test,

1296
01:09:55,320 --> 01:09:57,600
Speaker 1: you know, And that's not it's not a failure for

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01:09:57,680 --> 01:10:00,120
Speaker 1: your relationship not to survive twenty twenty or whatever. But

1298
01:10:00,720 --> 01:10:02,880
Speaker 1: a lot of people are finding out, like, yo, I

1299
01:10:03,040 --> 01:10:05,320
Speaker 1: can't do this with you, you know what I mean?

1300
01:10:05,400 --> 01:10:09,000
Speaker 1: And I think, at least for us and for me, uh,

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01:10:09,479 --> 01:10:11,840
Speaker 1: you know, it's never felt like that. And you've been

1302
01:10:11,960 --> 01:10:15,720
Speaker 1: so you know, and and I think it's easy when

1303
01:10:15,760 --> 01:10:19,400
Speaker 1: shit is going good, but for for for this year,

1304
01:10:19,479 --> 01:10:22,320
Speaker 1: shit is kind of going bad for everybody. So you're

1305
01:10:22,360 --> 01:10:25,479
Speaker 1: finding out, like, can we do this when everything's not

1306
01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:29,360
Speaker 1: just all just right? And so we've been able to

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01:10:29,840 --> 01:10:31,960
Speaker 1: do that, And like I just wanted, like I said,

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01:10:32,160 --> 01:10:34,759
Speaker 1: I wanted to let you know, you know, I appreciate

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01:10:34,840 --> 01:10:38,120
Speaker 1: it because it's not just this like we work together,

1310
01:10:38,200 --> 01:10:40,840
Speaker 1: we do the show together. You work from home. Now

1311
01:10:42,320 --> 01:10:47,800
Speaker 1: you know, you're we can't do little things we used

1312
01:10:47,800 --> 01:10:50,000
Speaker 1: to do to unwind, like go out to eat and

1313
01:10:50,680 --> 01:10:54,120
Speaker 1: would take a vacation or a trip somewhere or whatever,

1314
01:10:54,320 --> 01:10:57,599
Speaker 1: even if just to get away. Yeah, and despite all

1315
01:10:57,640 --> 01:11:00,439
Speaker 1: of that stuff, you still make, you know, taking up

1316
01:11:00,439 --> 01:11:06,200
Speaker 1: every day and being here a joy and a prosy and.

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01:11:06,560 --> 01:11:09,000
Speaker 2: Right back at you is one of the things where

1318
01:11:09,760 --> 01:11:12,720
Speaker 2: I am very thankful and I am very blessed that

1319
01:11:13,760 --> 01:11:17,160
Speaker 2: my goal is this and I and even before the pandemic,

1320
01:11:17,240 --> 01:11:19,320
Speaker 2: I've always felt like this, and this is something that

1321
01:11:19,400 --> 01:11:22,519
Speaker 2: I take the heart. When I walk out my door

1322
01:11:22,600 --> 01:11:25,920
Speaker 2: every day, it's a fight. Like it's literally a fight.

1323
01:11:26,000 --> 01:11:28,479
Speaker 2: It's a fight in traffic to get to work. It's

1324
01:11:28,560 --> 01:11:31,440
Speaker 2: a fight dealing with racism, it's a fight dealing with coworkers.

1325
01:11:31,560 --> 01:11:35,480
Speaker 2: Everything outside of your home sometimes can feel like a battleground.

1326
01:11:35,960 --> 01:11:38,760
Speaker 3: And that's fine because I'm equipped for that.

1327
01:11:38,920 --> 01:11:42,320
Speaker 2: You know, you're being black, whatever your sexuality is, you

1328
01:11:42,760 --> 01:11:45,880
Speaker 2: have to wear these labels and every time you walk

1329
01:11:45,920 --> 01:11:46,639
Speaker 2: outside your door.

1330
01:11:47,400 --> 01:11:49,880
Speaker 3: But when I come home, my.

1331
01:11:50,040 --> 01:11:54,479
Speaker 2: House, where I live, where I lay my head, has

1332
01:11:54,560 --> 01:11:58,520
Speaker 2: to be peaceful. I was like, my home is my sanctuary.

1333
01:11:59,120 --> 01:12:03,320
Speaker 2: I refuse to fight and argue and bicker in the

1334
01:12:03,479 --> 01:12:06,000
Speaker 2: one place that I could get away from the rest

1335
01:12:06,040 --> 01:12:08,640
Speaker 2: of the world. And I've always meant that, and so

1336
01:12:08,840 --> 01:12:11,080
Speaker 2: that that's one thing that that means the world to me.

1337
01:12:11,439 --> 01:12:13,560
Speaker 2: I'm not gonna fight outside and then come home and

1338
01:12:13,640 --> 01:12:14,479
Speaker 2: have to fight you too.

1339
01:12:14,920 --> 01:12:15,599
Speaker 3: I refuse.

1340
01:12:15,720 --> 01:12:18,200
Speaker 1: I'd rather be by myself. But for me, it's not

1341
01:12:18,439 --> 01:12:20,439
Speaker 1: just I'm not just saying, oh, I'm glad I don't

1342
01:12:20,479 --> 01:12:22,479
Speaker 1: have to fight in my house. I'm saying, you make

1343
01:12:22,520 --> 01:12:25,240
Speaker 1: it a pleasure to be here. It's a happy we're

1344
01:12:25,560 --> 01:12:29,080
Speaker 1: have a happy home, and that's something that is not

1345
01:12:29,439 --> 01:12:32,280
Speaker 1: a guarantee, you know what I mean. Like it's a

1346
01:12:32,360 --> 01:12:36,640
Speaker 1: lot of people with just you know, a lot of unhappiness.

1347
01:12:36,720 --> 01:12:36,920
Speaker 2: Man.

1348
01:12:37,120 --> 01:12:39,040
Speaker 1: And then you know, I think people look at it

1349
01:12:39,160 --> 01:12:42,439
Speaker 1: like everybody, you're lucky, you got somebody with you. Everyone

1350
01:12:42,720 --> 01:12:44,639
Speaker 1: grass is green. On the other side, there's other people

1351
01:12:44,680 --> 01:12:46,799
Speaker 1: on the other side going, I'm stuck in this motherfucker

1352
01:12:46,800 --> 01:12:50,400
Speaker 1: with my kids. Every goddamn day. I wish I was alone.

1353
01:12:50,840 --> 01:12:53,760
Speaker 1: I wish I was coming home to an empty house

1354
01:12:53,840 --> 01:12:56,360
Speaker 1: that the only mess was shit I made. So like

1355
01:12:57,200 --> 01:13:00,439
Speaker 1: everybody got some different shit to go through they did.

1356
01:13:00,600 --> 01:13:04,479
Speaker 1: I think, you know, being appreciative and grateful is something

1357
01:13:04,560 --> 01:13:08,559
Speaker 1: that it doesn't cost you anything, but it does take

1358
01:13:08,680 --> 01:13:12,559
Speaker 1: a lot to have that for certain people. And that's

1359
01:13:12,600 --> 01:13:16,480
Speaker 1: something that I've never really struggle with, being grateful and appreciative.

1360
01:13:17,120 --> 01:13:19,240
Speaker 1: But you know, it's also because I have a lot

1361
01:13:19,320 --> 01:13:21,680
Speaker 1: to be grateful for and I just wanted you to

1362
01:13:21,800 --> 01:13:26,360
Speaker 1: know that I appreciate you and Merry Christmas, and it's.

1363
01:13:26,280 --> 01:13:28,360
Speaker 3: Oh, thank you, Like that means the world to me.

1364
01:13:28,479 --> 01:13:32,040
Speaker 3: Because also before we go and the same with you.

1365
01:13:32,240 --> 01:13:35,519
Speaker 3: You make it effortless, you know. And the reason why

1366
01:13:35,520 --> 01:13:38,240
Speaker 3: I say you make it effortless is because.

1367
01:13:38,800 --> 01:13:42,799
Speaker 1: You because of the sex. I know, and listen what I've.

1368
01:13:42,680 --> 01:13:45,120
Speaker 3: Heard that a lot because of the sex.

1369
01:13:45,840 --> 01:13:47,560
Speaker 1: You don't have to I mean, you don't. You know

1370
01:13:47,800 --> 01:13:49,639
Speaker 1: what's understood, don't need to be said. That's my bad,

1371
01:13:49,680 --> 01:13:52,200
Speaker 1: go ahead, continue you my bad, that's my bad.

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01:13:52,600 --> 01:13:54,760
Speaker 3: I mean, I was trying to praise something other than

1373
01:13:54,840 --> 01:13:57,200
Speaker 3: your penis. I mean, but you took it down.

1374
01:13:57,520 --> 01:13:59,920
Speaker 1: No, I'm just joking. I'm just I was just playing.

1375
01:14:02,560 --> 01:14:04,400
Speaker 3: I kinda show you some love.

1376
01:14:05,080 --> 01:14:08,320
Speaker 2: I want you to know that I love you and

1377
01:14:08,439 --> 01:14:11,040
Speaker 2: I appreciate you, and and right back at at you.

1378
01:14:11,160 --> 01:14:14,960
Speaker 2: You make it easy, You make it effortless, you make

1379
01:14:15,360 --> 01:14:17,880
Speaker 2: you make it a breeze, you know. You make it

1380
01:14:17,920 --> 01:14:21,000
Speaker 2: where it's not stressful, you know, and actually you put

1381
01:14:21,080 --> 01:14:21,519
Speaker 2: up with me.

1382
01:14:22,240 --> 01:14:22,479
Speaker 1: You know.

1383
01:14:22,840 --> 01:14:25,520
Speaker 3: I tried not to be a very difficult person.

1384
01:14:25,479 --> 01:14:27,040
Speaker 1: And you aren't. And I don't want you to think

1385
01:14:27,080 --> 01:14:30,519
Speaker 1: that either. I think like, I just want you to

1386
01:14:30,640 --> 01:14:32,479
Speaker 1: know you a good partner, because I think sometimes you

1387
01:14:32,520 --> 01:14:35,080
Speaker 1: get in your head that is do whatever, but that's

1388
01:14:35,160 --> 01:14:38,840
Speaker 1: not true. And you know you haven't put that TV together.

1389
01:14:39,080 --> 01:14:44,639
Speaker 1: That was very difficult, but you know, it worked it out.

1390
01:14:44,760 --> 01:14:47,439
Speaker 1: You know, you're doing a lot of stuff with the

1391
01:14:47,520 --> 01:14:51,000
Speaker 1: social media for our podcast, you know what I mean,

1392
01:14:52,120 --> 01:14:55,280
Speaker 1: stuff that either I don't feel like doing or don't

1393
01:14:55,320 --> 01:14:58,760
Speaker 1: know how to do, you know something. You know, just

1394
01:14:58,960 --> 01:15:02,920
Speaker 1: you're always thinking, always helping you, always doing stuff. And

1395
01:15:03,640 --> 01:15:07,120
Speaker 1: you know the same way that I want you to

1396
01:15:07,240 --> 01:15:09,720
Speaker 1: know that it's appreciated all but not just telling you,

1397
01:15:09,880 --> 01:15:11,360
Speaker 1: but you know, I'll try to show you to and

1398
01:15:12,520 --> 01:15:15,519
Speaker 1: you know, cook clean and do all the ship around here,

1399
01:15:15,600 --> 01:15:17,200
Speaker 1: take care of these bills and all that type of

1400
01:15:17,240 --> 01:15:20,200
Speaker 1: ship too, to make sure that that you that you

1401
01:15:20,360 --> 01:15:22,920
Speaker 1: feel I do want it to feel easy. I do

1402
01:15:23,040 --> 01:15:25,080
Speaker 1: want it to feel like, you know, you just got

1403
01:15:25,200 --> 01:15:27,120
Speaker 1: to show up and be yourself. But we've taken on

1404
01:15:27,200 --> 01:15:29,760
Speaker 1: a lot this year and we I mean, you know,

1405
01:15:30,160 --> 01:15:31,760
Speaker 1: I think for people in front of the scenes, they

1406
01:15:31,840 --> 01:15:34,800
Speaker 1: just see a show came out. But for us, and

1407
01:15:34,880 --> 01:15:37,400
Speaker 1: we had this meeting with this person, and we fucking

1408
01:15:37,479 --> 01:15:39,280
Speaker 1: had to do training with this and we had to

1409
01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:42,200
Speaker 1: learn this thing, and we we got this guest appearance,

1410
01:15:42,280 --> 01:15:45,360
Speaker 1: and we got this con and we got like all.

1411
01:15:45,280 --> 01:15:48,000
Speaker 2: This other ship that we do talking behind the scenes,

1412
01:15:48,600 --> 01:15:50,320
Speaker 2: trying to figure out, you know, what we're gonna do

1413
01:15:50,360 --> 01:15:51,320
Speaker 2: it this, what we're gonna do with that.

1414
01:15:51,400 --> 01:15:52,400
Speaker 3: And we still.

1415
01:15:53,640 --> 01:15:56,519
Speaker 2: Uh find a way to do guest spots because Rich

1416
01:15:56,600 --> 01:15:58,680
Speaker 2: his own three guys on we did me and you

1417
01:15:58,880 --> 01:16:02,599
Speaker 2: did me being popcorn, you know, so we still find

1418
01:16:02,640 --> 01:16:05,640
Speaker 2: a way to do a lot of other things. But

1419
01:16:06,040 --> 01:16:08,599
Speaker 2: you just make it so easy, and it feels good

1420
01:16:08,640 --> 01:16:11,280
Speaker 2: to be appreciated, and I thank you and I want

1421
01:16:11,360 --> 01:16:13,160
Speaker 2: you to know it's the same to you, baby.

1422
01:16:13,360 --> 01:16:16,160
Speaker 1: All Right, Well that's it, y'all. That was sappy enough, man.

1423
01:16:17,280 --> 01:16:22,000
Speaker 1: We'll talk to y'all tomorrow. Until then, I love you.

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01:16:22,240 --> 01:16:22,760
Speaker 3: I love you too,