1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:07,200 Speaker 1: Likewise, ye husbands dwell with them according to knowledge, giving 2 00:00:07,480 --> 00:00:11,680 Speaker 1: honor unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and 3 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:15,680 Speaker 1: as being heirs together of the grace of life. That 4 00:00:15,720 --> 00:00:22,840 Speaker 1: your prayers be not hindered first Peter three seven. Dear Lord, 5 00:00:23,760 --> 00:00:27,800 Speaker 1: we know you take the treatment of women very seriously, 6 00:00:28,960 --> 00:00:32,479 Speaker 1: so much so that you hinder the prayers of those 7 00:00:32,800 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: who are harsh to their wives. We pray that you 8 00:00:37,159 --> 00:00:42,560 Speaker 1: would give every husband a gentle touch and understanding heart, 9 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:47,320 Speaker 1: so they might be a shining example of your love. 10 00:00:48,200 --> 00:00:52,879 Speaker 1: Give them the wisdom and strength to carry humility and 11 00:00:53,200 --> 00:00:57,920 Speaker 1: power hand in hand. We pray for anyone caught in 12 00:00:57,960 --> 00:01:04,840 Speaker 1: a cycle of harshness or abuse. We pray for healing, intervention, 13 00:01:05,880 --> 00:01:13,440 Speaker 1: and restoration in Jesus' name. Amen, Thank you for joining 14 00:01:13,480 --> 00:01:17,280 Speaker 1: me in prayer. Stay tuned for today's free podcast Meditative 15 00:01:17,319 --> 00:01:20,679 Speaker 1: Prayers with Zach Clinton, where you can draw close to 16 00:01:20,760 --> 00:01:25,200 Speaker 1: God and find strength in him. 17 00:01:25,440 --> 00:01:28,240 Speaker 2: My friends, welcome to your meditative prayer on creating a 18 00:01:28,280 --> 00:01:31,160 Speaker 2: better marriage. To get the most out of your spiritual journey, 19 00:01:31,200 --> 00:01:34,920 Speaker 2: uspray dot com every day and make prayer a priority 20 00:01:34,959 --> 00:01:38,000 Speaker 2: in your life. Again. Our goal for today's meditative prayer 21 00:01:38,040 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 2: is all about creating a better marriage. So right now, 22 00:01:42,200 --> 00:01:45,800 Speaker 2: just take a second to rest, maybe sit in your 23 00:01:45,800 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 2: favorite spot on your bed or wherever you feel the 24 00:01:49,120 --> 00:01:54,720 Speaker 2: most of these, close your eyes and take a couple 25 00:01:54,760 --> 00:02:00,280 Speaker 2: of deep and steadying breaths. Once you feel yourself start 26 00:02:00,320 --> 00:02:04,120 Speaker 2: to relax, turn your thoughts toward the teaching God has 27 00:02:04,160 --> 00:02:08,760 Speaker 2: for you today, and prepare to receive from the Holy Spirit. 28 00:02:10,440 --> 00:02:14,160 Speaker 2: Today we'll be meditating on First Peter chapter three, verse seven, 29 00:02:14,200 --> 00:02:19,320 Speaker 2: from the King James version. Likewise, ye husbands dwell with 30 00:02:19,360 --> 00:02:23,239 Speaker 2: them according to knowledge, giving honor unto the wife, as 31 00:02:23,360 --> 00:02:26,760 Speaker 2: unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirrs together of 32 00:02:26,800 --> 00:02:30,760 Speaker 2: the grace of life. That your prayers be not hindered, 33 00:02:32,680 --> 00:02:34,560 Speaker 2: my friends, take a moment just to pour out your 34 00:02:34,600 --> 00:02:35,600 Speaker 2: adoration to God. 35 00:02:36,880 --> 00:02:37,120 Speaker 1: God. 36 00:02:37,120 --> 00:02:41,840 Speaker 2: I worship you for who you are. To you belongs 37 00:02:41,919 --> 00:02:47,320 Speaker 2: all honor, glory, power, and praise. Jesus. You watched me 38 00:02:47,400 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 2: clean of my sins and humbled yourself for my sake. 39 00:02:52,320 --> 00:02:55,600 Speaker 2: You became a man, though you were God to bring 40 00:02:55,639 --> 00:02:59,920 Speaker 2: redemption to my soul. So I exalt you, for you 41 00:03:00,160 --> 00:03:04,080 Speaker 2: are my beloved, and I am yours. 42 00:03:05,800 --> 00:03:06,200 Speaker 1: Honor. 43 00:03:06,440 --> 00:03:10,560 Speaker 2: In relationship, the husband is to love the wife as 44 00:03:10,680 --> 00:03:14,440 Speaker 2: Christ loves the church, and Christ never mistreated the church. 45 00:03:15,360 --> 00:03:18,560 Speaker 2: He fervently prayed that the church would experience the unity 46 00:03:18,639 --> 00:03:21,200 Speaker 2: he had with the Father, and that the Church would 47 00:03:21,200 --> 00:03:25,600 Speaker 2: be a beacon of love and unity. Jesus envisioned the 48 00:03:25,680 --> 00:03:30,160 Speaker 2: church as a beautiful, spotless bride. He humbled himself to 49 00:03:30,320 --> 00:03:33,120 Speaker 2: wash the feet of the disciples and allow John to 50 00:03:33,200 --> 00:03:36,760 Speaker 2: baptize him. Although these were honors he could have taken 51 00:03:36,800 --> 00:03:40,320 Speaker 2: for himself, he allowed himself to be whipped and scourged 52 00:03:40,400 --> 00:03:44,240 Speaker 2: to remove our sin before being humiliated and hanging on 53 00:03:44,320 --> 00:03:47,760 Speaker 2: a cursed cross for our sakes. In the same manner 54 00:03:47,760 --> 00:03:51,520 Speaker 2: as Christ, the husband is to love and treat his wife, 55 00:03:52,280 --> 00:03:56,880 Speaker 2: for women are still entitled to the same inheritance as men. Together, 56 00:03:57,600 --> 00:04:01,320 Speaker 2: husband and wife are heirs in Christ. As such, men 57 00:04:01,360 --> 00:04:04,640 Speaker 2: cannot use their authority to treat their wives in any 58 00:04:04,680 --> 00:04:07,960 Speaker 2: way other than how Christ would have treated the Church. 59 00:04:08,920 --> 00:04:12,680 Speaker 2: When power is twisted or abused, the prayers of the husband, 60 00:04:12,920 --> 00:04:15,960 Speaker 2: who is the spiritual authority of the marriage, are hindered. 61 00:04:17,120 --> 00:04:20,560 Speaker 2: Wielding control as a weapon hurts not only the wife 62 00:04:21,000 --> 00:04:24,640 Speaker 2: but the husband as well, for neither part of the 63 00:04:24,680 --> 00:04:28,960 Speaker 2: whole can flourish if they are cut off from God. However, 64 00:04:29,480 --> 00:04:33,080 Speaker 2: nourishing one another and honoring one another opens the door 65 00:04:33,160 --> 00:04:37,800 Speaker 2: to blessing and abundance in your lives together. Christ's love 66 00:04:37,839 --> 00:04:41,240 Speaker 2: for the Church is a high standard to meet, so 67 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 2: it can only be reached through the power of the 68 00:04:43,960 --> 00:04:48,600 Speaker 2: Holy Spirit. Perhaps your relationship with the Holy Spirit has 69 00:04:48,640 --> 00:04:52,760 Speaker 2: been lacking or non existent. Perhaps you have broken the 70 00:04:52,800 --> 00:04:55,120 Speaker 2: trust God placed upon you to love and care for 71 00:04:55,160 --> 00:04:59,840 Speaker 2: your wife. Regardless of your circumstance, this is your chance 72 00:04:59,880 --> 00:05:04,240 Speaker 2: for change and improvement. Come before the throne of Grace. 73 00:05:05,480 --> 00:05:08,520 Speaker 2: Lay down anything that is impeding your relationship with God, 74 00:05:09,680 --> 00:05:12,760 Speaker 2: and right now confess your sins to God and ask 75 00:05:12,839 --> 00:05:15,800 Speaker 2: for Him to restore your communion with Him and with 76 00:05:15,880 --> 00:05:21,839 Speaker 2: your spouse. Now, as we transition, let's think for a 77 00:05:21,880 --> 00:05:25,360 Speaker 2: minute in all the times God has honored you. Times 78 00:05:25,360 --> 00:05:28,320 Speaker 2: when you failed and floundered, but God held you up 79 00:05:28,320 --> 00:05:31,600 Speaker 2: till the end, Times when you gave up and gave in, 80 00:05:31,680 --> 00:05:34,080 Speaker 2: but God still allowed you to enjoy the fruit of 81 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:39,040 Speaker 2: your labor. Thank Him for all past instances when God's 82 00:05:39,080 --> 00:05:43,320 Speaker 2: grace was manifested in your life. Now think of your 83 00:05:43,320 --> 00:05:46,839 Speaker 2: imperfections and thank God for giving you what you lacked. 84 00:05:47,960 --> 00:05:53,440 Speaker 2: Thank him for his everlasting faithfulness. God is present and 85 00:05:53,520 --> 00:05:57,839 Speaker 2: he is listening to you. Never forget in Jesus our 86 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:01,600 Speaker 2: sins are washed away. He will give you the ability 87 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,160 Speaker 2: to be humble and selfless. So reach out to God 88 00:06:05,200 --> 00:06:09,200 Speaker 2: for his mercy and his grace. Ask the Holy Spirit 89 00:06:09,240 --> 00:06:11,640 Speaker 2: to help you be aware of God's honor in your life, 90 00:06:12,520 --> 00:06:15,040 Speaker 2: and ask him to help you seek and receive God's 91 00:06:15,080 --> 00:06:21,360 Speaker 2: presence and his sacrificial love. Remember, husbands should honor their 92 00:06:21,400 --> 00:06:24,680 Speaker 2: wives not based on their strength, but based on the 93 00:06:24,680 --> 00:06:28,080 Speaker 2: inheritance they share in Christ, so that nothing will stop 94 00:06:28,120 --> 00:06:32,120 Speaker 2: their prayers from reaching God. No matter what, the Holy 95 00:06:32,160 --> 00:06:34,920 Speaker 2: Spirit will help you be who you need to be, 96 00:06:35,400 --> 00:06:41,120 Speaker 2: So be encouraged because you are never alone. My friends, 97 00:06:41,160 --> 00:06:44,440 Speaker 2: thank you for completing today's meditative prayer on pray dot com. 98 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:47,760 Speaker 2: By incorporating this healthy habit as a daily practice, I 99 00:06:47,760 --> 00:06:50,760 Speaker 2: believe you're not only making prayer priority, but I also 100 00:06:50,800 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 2: believe that your strengthening your walk with God. As always. 101 00:06:54,520 --> 00:06:57,159 Speaker 2: My name is Zach Clinton, Vice President of the American 102 00:06:57,200 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 2: Association of Christian Counselors, and we love being a part 103 00:07:00,400 --> 00:07:03,600 Speaker 2: of your life. Hey to find more help, hope, information 104 00:07:03,720 --> 00:07:06,800 Speaker 2: and inspiration, I would encourage you go visit our website 105 00:07:07,000 --> 00:07:12,040 Speaker 2: at AACC dot net. Again, that is AACC dot net