WEBVTT - Ep. 113 — Sooo... Should I File Bankruptcy or Nah? 

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<v Speaker 1>Hey, hey, hey, and we're back and we're black and

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<v Speaker 1>we're brown Brown Ambition.

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<v Speaker 2>As someone on Twitter or no Instagram, she was like,

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<v Speaker 2>excuse me, is it me? Or has there not been

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<v Speaker 2>a new episode of Brown Ambition since May twenty third?

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<v Speaker 1>Uh? You caught us, you got it.

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<v Speaker 2>It's my fault. Last week I lost my voice and

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<v Speaker 2>I was a hot mess and sick and we were

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<v Speaker 2>not able to tape a show. But we have like

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<v Speaker 2>double of the goodies to share with you guys tonight

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<v Speaker 2>because big things have been happening. Tiffany, you were in

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<v Speaker 2>Disney World.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, I was at Universal Studios. Pretty awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>That looked amazing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, no, it was a lot of fun. I took Superman,

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<v Speaker 1>Supergirl and I we went. We surprised her. We told

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<v Speaker 1>her like we had her wake up at four o'clock

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<v Speaker 1>in the morning. Her mom drove me in Superman to

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<v Speaker 1>the airport and we had her come. And she didn't

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<v Speaker 1>know that we were going because she, according to her,

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<v Speaker 1>has been on the Honorall for twenty two times consecutively.

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<v Speaker 1>Well with two honorable mentions, it would have been twenty four,

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<v Speaker 1>but like twice in third grade, you know, she was

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<v Speaker 1>an honorable mention and so we were like, we wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to reward her good grades, and so I said, let's

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<v Speaker 1>go to Universal Studios. And so we went to the

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<v Speaker 1>airport and we were like, oh, you know, we're going

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<v Speaker 1>to Universal Studios. She was like I want to go.

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<v Speaker 1>We're like, oh, I wanshould wed to know we would

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<v Speaker 1>have packed your bag and she was all hot and

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, well, help me with my bag. She's like,

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<v Speaker 1>help me with your bag. You are four o'clock in

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<v Speaker 1>the morning. She's r like, oh, she's helping with you

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<v Speaker 1>with my bag. And then we hand her hers and

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<v Speaker 1>she's like, why are you guys taking my bag with

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<v Speaker 1>you and we're like, it's not my bag, it's yours.

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<v Speaker 1>She started crying and screaming, and it was honestly so awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>She could not believe she was for me. I know

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<v Speaker 1>I wanted to, but that was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>everything's always for camera. I know, right, Oh for me?

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<v Speaker 1>Oh for me, there's no concept. You're not speaking. I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, oh, And throughout the whole trip you kept

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<v Speaker 1>saying I keep waiting for you to say, Oh, I

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<v Speaker 1>gotta go speak, I'll be right back. She's like, I

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<v Speaker 1>can't believe we just did this for me, I know.

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<v Speaker 1>I was like, yeah, So, yeah, it was a lot

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<v Speaker 1>of fun because Universal, honestly is just a good behind time.

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<v Speaker 1>So because there's like three I guess three kind of

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<v Speaker 1>like theme parks when it comes to Universal Studios, there's

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<v Speaker 1>actually Universal Studios, there's Islands of Adventure, and they have

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<v Speaker 1>this new like Volcano Bay, which we didn't do because

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<v Speaker 1>we were just there for the weekend, but we rode

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<v Speaker 1>basically every ride. And I went in my travel group

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<v Speaker 1>to ask, you know, kind of like what's the best

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<v Speaker 1>way to do Universal, and someone suggested to stay at

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<v Speaker 1>the one of the three main hotels that they own,

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<v Speaker 1>and they give you this free express pass, which normally

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<v Speaker 1>is like almost like up to like one hundred and

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<v Speaker 1>thirty something per person that we could just jump the

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<v Speaker 1>line and so we never waited more than five minutes

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<v Speaker 1>for a ride, which was awesome.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh that's huge. I remember I went there when I

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<v Speaker 2>was a kid, but I remember nothing except for like

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<v Speaker 2>the hot sun and like being three years old and

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<v Speaker 2>just standing in line and hating everything. So that's majing.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it was awesome, although there was a little I'm

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<v Speaker 1>gonna I'm gonna say this for brown Break, but yeah,

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<v Speaker 1>if I would say it was eighty five percent awesome,

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<v Speaker 1>and I'll share the fifteen percent later.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh suspense, Okay, well I thought it was. I thought

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<v Speaker 2>it was pretty meaningful or like what's the right word.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. But anyway, the last time we talked,

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<v Speaker 2>the night you guys heard it, that was a night

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<v Speaker 2>that there was that attack in Manchester, and like I

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<v Speaker 2>had just like the news was happening when we were

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<v Speaker 2>recording the podcast, and then now that we're recording another episode,

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<v Speaker 2>it just came. The day after that Manchester. Ariana Grande

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<v Speaker 2>did her Manchester United or Not United Manchester One Love

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<v Speaker 2>benefit concert and she went back, which I thought was

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<v Speaker 2>I thought it was amazing. I mean, I I mean,

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<v Speaker 2>I wasn't. I mean, I like arion as music, like

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<v Speaker 2>all jam too, but I wasn't like an are On

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<v Speaker 2>a fan. But I feel the need to be an

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<v Speaker 2>arion A fan now because I thought, for and she's young,

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<v Speaker 2>like to to be so close to a terrorist attack

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<v Speaker 2>at your own concert and then less than two weeks later,

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<v Speaker 2>turn right back around, come right back to the same city.

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<v Speaker 2>Not only that, but like bring all these other celebrities

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<v Speaker 2>organize this concert raise three million dollars. Visit all your

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<v Speaker 2>fans at the hospital who were injured. Yeah, I just

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<v Speaker 2>thought it was amazing, And I don't know, I kind

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<v Speaker 2>of just like, you know, you can kind of be

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<v Speaker 2>cynical and think, oh, it's just celebrities and it's just

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<v Speaker 2>music or whatever. But I let myself get all in

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<v Speaker 2>my feelings watching it. I watched it because you can

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<v Speaker 2>watch it like if you hadn't if you missed it.

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<v Speaker 2>They they streamed it live and you can watch it online. Now.

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<v Speaker 2>Coldplay performed and that was special.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I love Coldplay.

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<v Speaker 2>I love me some Chris Martin, always have, always will.

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<v Speaker 2>Even Katie Perry din't annoy me so much slightly less

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<v Speaker 2>than usual.

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<v Speaker 1>Are you annoyed by Katy Perry?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah you did?

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<v Speaker 2>You not see her SNL performance at least the video

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<v Speaker 2>at least.

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<v Speaker 1>I heard that it was ridiculous, and I was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm saving it for later when I need a little giggle.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I just and you know, I'm not I'm not

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<v Speaker 2>even down for this, like you know, team Katie, team

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<v Speaker 2>Tata thing. But the fact that she wrote such a

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<v Speaker 2>terrible song and then said it was like supposed to

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<v Speaker 2>be an answer to Taylor Swift's Bad Blood, Like the

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<v Speaker 2>song is awful anyway, whatever, I didn't mean to get

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<v Speaker 2>all negative, but anyway, she was there, you know, justin

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<v Speaker 2>Bieber wasn't as annoying as usual. I just thought it

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<v Speaker 2>was awesome.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's so it's been a crazy because, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>from Manchester to this recent attack on London Bridge. I'm like,

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<v Speaker 1>what's happening?

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I read It's not just that too, I mean

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<v Speaker 2>the London the London Bridge attack. That's another thing to

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<v Speaker 2>think about is that that happened like less than twenty

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<v Speaker 2>four hours before this benefit concert was supposed to go on.

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<v Speaker 2>So the fact that everyone still came out and had

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<v Speaker 2>such a beautiful concert. And there's some people who have

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<v Speaker 2>been talking about, you know, there's a huge bombing, huge

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<v Speaker 2>in Kabul, Afghanistan last week, like hundreds of people injured, died,

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<v Speaker 2>and you know, it didn't get as much. Obviously didn't

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<v Speaker 2>get as much. I think it was covered in mainstream media.

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<v Speaker 2>People always accused the media of not covering it, but

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<v Speaker 2>of course those attacks are covered. But it doesn't resonate,

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<v Speaker 2>doesn't strike the same chord because you know, it's not

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<v Speaker 2>a European ally country like the UK is or whatnot.

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<v Speaker 2>But I feel like, yeah, and they're like, well, why

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<v Speaker 2>didn't you do a benefit concert in these other countries,

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<v Speaker 2>in Syria or whatever. But I give her a break

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<v Speaker 2>for one thing, because it was her concert that was

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<v Speaker 2>there was an attack at Yeah, it was an attack

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<v Speaker 2>on her fans. It was an attack on music. You know,

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<v Speaker 2>I can't think of another time a young pop stars

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<v Speaker 2>concert has been targeted in a terrorist attack? Am I

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<v Speaker 2>missing something?

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<v Speaker 1>Like?

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<v Speaker 2>So the fact that she went back and did it

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<v Speaker 2>for her fans that was so. I don't think you

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<v Speaker 2>can fault her for doing that. I agree in the

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<v Speaker 2>message it felt. I mean, it was very Manchester focused,

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<v Speaker 2>but I don't know, I felt like it was it

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<v Speaker 2>was sort of for everyone. It was like sort of

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<v Speaker 2>just a message to the world that these attacks are

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<v Speaker 2>meant to They're meant to disrupt our lives, They're meant

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<v Speaker 2>to make us stop enjoying things that make us happy,

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<v Speaker 2>that music, love, friends, whatever, And it was just sort

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<v Speaker 2>of a statement to say that you can't stop us,

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<v Speaker 2>and you won't stop us. And honestly, if you're feeling

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<v Speaker 2>like what can I do all these terrible things are happening.

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<v Speaker 2>The only thing you can do sometimes is just keep

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<v Speaker 2>like the only way to like fight back is just

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<v Speaker 2>to keep living your life.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, because like what because, like you said, what else

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<v Speaker 1>can you do? I mean living your life and and

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<v Speaker 1>I can't I don't know, trying to be positive and

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<v Speaker 1>trying to do your part to make things better? Because

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<v Speaker 1>like other than that, what can you do?

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<v Speaker 2>Treat people nicely? You know, that's all you can try.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean I can't go I can't go to the UK.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean it's like we also put a lot of

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<v Speaker 2>I mean there's so much pressure on you know, elected

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<v Speaker 2>officials to like prevent terrorism. How are you going to

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<v Speaker 2>prevent someone from just like driving a van into a

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<v Speaker 2>crowd of people. I mean it's such a You can

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<v Speaker 2>prevent a lot of things, but I I mean we

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<v Speaker 2>have to like we have to I guess in living

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<v Speaker 2>in New York too, you have to like understand or

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<v Speaker 2>reconcile the fact that you're living in a certain amount

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<v Speaker 2>of danger. At any time. Things something can happen that

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<v Speaker 2>can't be prevented and accepted. I guess, you know, whatever

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<v Speaker 2>our commander in chief you know, likes to rant about

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<v Speaker 2>on Twitter.

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<v Speaker 1>Oh my gosh, let's talk about it. Honestly, for the

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<v Speaker 1>longest time, I didn't know what it was like because

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<v Speaker 1>I was away, So I'm like, what's going on with this?

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, oh my gosh, oh gosh, our commander

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<v Speaker 1>in chief, well not mine, y'all commanded somebody's wrote it

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<v Speaker 1>for him, right, I mean it just even recently, like

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<v Speaker 1>I actually just broke down and watched the news, which

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<v Speaker 1>I typically don't because it is nothing short of depressing.

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<v Speaker 1>And the Mayor of London issued a statement to say,

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<v Speaker 1>you know that to their you know, to London residents,

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<v Speaker 1>don't be alarmed, but you're going to see more police presence.

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<v Speaker 1>That was his statement. Of course, mister Koffe or whatever

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<v Speaker 1>the hell, however you say that word. He only heard

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<v Speaker 1>the mayor say don't be alarmed, so he pounced on

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<v Speaker 1>that on Twitter. It was like, how is he gonna

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<v Speaker 1>say don't be alarmed? That was a poor choice of word.

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<v Speaker 1>And I'm like, you didn't listen to the literally the

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<v Speaker 1>next not even a full sentence, you didn't listen to

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<v Speaker 1>and you're tweeting about it. He's just every kind of idiot.

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<v Speaker 2>How does he have this much free time? I am

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<v Speaker 2>so concerned.

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<v Speaker 1>Because I literally know people who are like I wish

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<v Speaker 1>I had the free time to the President of the

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<v Speaker 1>United States is not busy. There are moms who are

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<v Speaker 1>like what, I can't even watch my behind. I went

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<v Speaker 1>to go pick up my mail from my sister and

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<v Speaker 1>she had the baby and the one and a half

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<v Speaker 1>year old, and I was playing with him, and she

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<v Speaker 1>slipped off and took a shower. I said, what next,

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I hat the water runner. She was like,

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<v Speaker 1>I'll be on a minute. She never have time, But

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<v Speaker 1>how do you have time, sir?

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<v Speaker 2>He's it's like he's a He's literally just sitting on

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<v Speaker 2>a couch in his underpants, just tweeting and watching CNN,

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<v Speaker 2>and that's where he's getting his news. Like, don't doesn't

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<v Speaker 2>he like, why shouldn't he be waiting for all the

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<v Speaker 2>facts to come to get the full picture? He didn't.

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<v Speaker 1>At that point.

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<v Speaker 2>He didn't even know who the We didn't even know

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<v Speaker 2>who the attackers were, what their motives were, was it terrorism?

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<v Speaker 2>Were they even Muslim? And if they were, what the

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<v Speaker 2>hell does that even matter? And he's going on and

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<v Speaker 2>on on about a Muslim band, and I mean, it's

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<v Speaker 2>how freaking rageous, and I can't. I know, people are like, man,

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<v Speaker 2>they talk about Trump, it's like, come on, we get it,

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<v Speaker 2>but like, we can't let it become normal. We can't

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<v Speaker 2>let it become the kind of thing that we're like, oh,

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<v Speaker 2>it's just Trump being Trump. Like that's how we got

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<v Speaker 2>him in the White House exactly. People gave him a pass,

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<v Speaker 2>and like I refuse, refuse to let him get a

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<v Speaker 2>pass because you know, in the fact we did. He

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<v Speaker 2>said a lot happened last week. We pulled out, he announced,

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<v Speaker 2>he dangled, He dragged the media along, you know, teasing

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<v Speaker 2>that he was gonna make his announcement about the parents

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<v Speaker 2>the Paris Climate Deal, and finally did when we all

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<v Speaker 2>knew what he was going to do, which is, you know,

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<v Speaker 2>just undue decades and decades of work for an agreement

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<v Speaker 2>that was largely symbolic in and of itself, and and

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<v Speaker 2>and his reasoning for it was so bizarre and ridiculous.

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<v Speaker 2>The fact that he said that it was gonna hurt

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<v Speaker 2>the US economy, it was going to take away American jobs.

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<v Speaker 2>The actual agreement was like kumbaya. I mean, there were

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<v Speaker 2>a climate there were climate scientists who were annoyed that

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<v Speaker 2>the agreement didn't do more. But it basically said, hey, guys,

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<v Speaker 2>are you gonna like promise to do your best to

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<v Speaker 2>reduce your carbon footprint? You know, over the next couple

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<v Speaker 2>of decades, are you going to try promise? Okay, cool handshake.

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<v Speaker 2>That was literally that's what the Paris Climate Agreement is about.

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<v Speaker 2>But you know, the art of the deal. The master

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<v Speaker 2>negotiator and his big fat ego could not stand that

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<v Speaker 2>it was a deal that Obama put together, not put together,

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<v Speaker 2>but that Obama was a part of. And because I

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<v Speaker 2>think at the end of the day, he's he with

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<v Speaker 2>like tunnel vision, is still pandering to his base, and

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<v Speaker 2>he knows that they think, you know, just the fact

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<v Speaker 2>that he went and said, you know, I represent Pittsburgh,

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<v Speaker 2>not Paris. He's making Paris who the Paris Climate Agreement

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<v Speaker 2>just happened to be signed in Paris. It wasn't like Paris.

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<v Speaker 2>There's one hundred and you know, over one hundred something countries,

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<v Speaker 2>you know, basically every country except for United States, Syria,

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<v Speaker 2>and Nicaragua, who are a part of it. But he

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<v Speaker 2>makes he's so good at pandering to people who are

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<v Speaker 2>afraid of the other. The elite, you know, and what

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<v Speaker 2>sounds more other than elite than France, you know.

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<v Speaker 1>And meanwhile, I'm sure he has a home in France.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm sure he is. I mean, he is their enemy,

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<v Speaker 2>but they don't see it. I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>I don't understand either, Honestly, it's crazy. I don't understand.

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<v Speaker 1>And then but like, first of all, I've been living

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<v Speaker 1>for Milania's open shade. She's like, I can't even pretend anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>She does not even try.

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<v Speaker 1>Yo. When she swatted his hand, like, let's be clear,

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<v Speaker 1>that's not part of the contract. You will not touch

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<v Speaker 1>my hand. I was rolling. I was like, wait, did

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<v Speaker 1>she did? She just wat his hand where everyone can see.

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<v Speaker 1>He reached his little, small baby hand back, and she

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<v Speaker 1>was like, not today, not tomorrow, and not any other day.

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<v Speaker 2>Really, I can't wait for her. I can't wait for her.

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<v Speaker 1>Tell all, what, yeah, I mean, you know, I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>I don't know, you know how true this is whatever?

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<v Speaker 1>But I saw it on Lovey's blogs. How you know,

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<v Speaker 1>supposedly she's having an affair with like the head security

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<v Speaker 1>of Tiffany's in the Trump Tower. That was I mean,

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<v Speaker 1>it was just a hilarious funny shady article. But I

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<v Speaker 1>was like, I mean, whether that's true or not, me,

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<v Speaker 1>I doubt it because I feel like that just would

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<v Speaker 1>be so easy to prove and see. But I just

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<v Speaker 1>it's just so clear she's not here for the Donalds.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I feel like there was like rumors that

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<v Speaker 2>she had wanted to leave him before the election and

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<v Speaker 2>kind of got swept up in it. I mean, what,

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<v Speaker 2>she's a grown ass woman like she you know, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't think she's like being held hostage, but I do

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<v Speaker 2>appreciate that she's not gonna play the blushing bride like

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<v Speaker 2>doting first lady. If she's you know, she's.

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<v Speaker 1>Like, yeah, I'm over it. She's like And then there

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<v Speaker 1>was one she gave him that, you know, like someone

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<v Speaker 1>tried to hold your hand and she put her hand

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<v Speaker 1>up to her hair like not today, like the fonns.

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<v Speaker 1>She gave him the fonds, the fawns fake out.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what protesting for all of us.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, remember people are like Blania, blink twice if you

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<v Speaker 1>need help. Ah co.

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<v Speaker 2>That's a good co word for him. Now we don't

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<v Speaker 2>have just say bold order.

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<v Speaker 1>Yes, I feel like I'm saying wrong, but that's what

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna call it.

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<v Speaker 2>Did you really post a clip on man bun video

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<v Speaker 2>on our Sacred Brown Ambition Facebook page? Is that what

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<v Speaker 2>I'm seeing right now?

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<v Speaker 1>If you guys are not following us on Facebook, you

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<v Speaker 1>are missing out because we have everything from political, silly, foolish,

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<v Speaker 1>black girl magic, brown girl magic. It's just a mix

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<v Speaker 1>of awesomeness. And I saw this, Yeah, I saw this

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<v Speaker 1>awesome ad for man Buns, and I said, I have

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<v Speaker 1>to share some Brown Ambition because it reminded me of

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<v Speaker 1>like the little buns that like, you know, like I

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<v Speaker 1>used to put on like or me and my friends

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<v Speaker 1>used to do to extend like our hair, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>and just to look like you had a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more hair. And now they're giving it from me, and

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<v Speaker 1>it looks so fake, like the coloring is off. It's

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<v Speaker 1>just hilarious. So I said, let me put this up

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<v Speaker 1>here just for a little giggle.

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<v Speaker 2>I feel like one strong breeze and nothing that's flying

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<v Speaker 2>off that does not look secure.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just but why, sir, why this is like the

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<v Speaker 1>this is.

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<v Speaker 2>Like the male roy.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm so glad the whole romper talk has died down.

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<v Speaker 1>Speaking of which, of like random talk. Uh so this

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<v Speaker 1>what do you think about this twenty five thousands doll

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<v Speaker 1>a prom. I know you've seen it, the story.

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<v Speaker 2>What why?

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, so let me bring it down.

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<v Speaker 2>Reading too much Trump news, not enough real news.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah. So okay, there's this woman, she from North Philly.

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<v Speaker 1>She threw like a prom send offs. So you know,

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<v Speaker 1>remember back in the day when we said prom send

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<v Speaker 1>offs and it was just like you and your friends

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<v Speaker 1>at the park taking pictures, right, or maybe sometimes there

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<v Speaker 1>would be a place like there might be like the

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<v Speaker 1>school parking lot whereverybody would meet before they go to

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<v Speaker 1>the prom, right, and you know, and then like you know,

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<v Speaker 1>at most who had the nicest limousine and that was

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<v Speaker 1>the big thing. And then it got a little bit

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<v Speaker 1>more big, and you know, like more and more proms

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<v Speaker 1>becoming a bigger.

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<v Speaker 2>And big social media is like, I don't I'm glad,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not going to prom this this dand age.

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<v Speaker 1>First of all, I looked at hot Mess and I think,

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<v Speaker 1>like we drove my dad to like ten year old Mercedes. Okay,

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<v Speaker 1>I thought we was doing it. And I remember I

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<v Speaker 1>got my dress from Lord and Taylor. I was like, yes,

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<v Speaker 1>get into this Lord and Tailor drag. But so this

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<v Speaker 1>mom decided to go all out for her son's prom

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<v Speaker 1>and had been planning it for I think it was

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<v Speaker 1>either four years or two years. I mean Mandy. So

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<v Speaker 1>it was called like you have to look up the

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<v Speaker 1>hashtag Philly Philly to Dubai.

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<v Speaker 2>I am researching this immediately.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, Philly to Dubai, hashtag twenty five thousand. A prom

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<v Speaker 1>she's been saving for years. She had a camel, she

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<v Speaker 1>had three tons of sand shipped in. She she had

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<v Speaker 1>he had three different three different types of cars, three.

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<v Speaker 2>Dates like yeah, three dates like girls.

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<v Speaker 1>Two of them were models, and then he had to

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<v Speaker 1>see it because he had two outfit changes.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my god.

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<v Speaker 1>And then the last date was actual.

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<v Speaker 2>Wait, so this was the problem. She held the prom

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<v Speaker 2>for the school.

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<v Speaker 1>No, so that's just the sendoff, Like that's wait, this

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<v Speaker 1>is like what yes, the party like this is basically

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<v Speaker 1>like the party, like you know how normally the sendoff

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<v Speaker 1>is where kids take pictures with their friends and this.

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<v Speaker 2>Camel.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, well it was supposed to be a Philly to Dubai.

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<v Speaker 1>She was like she was going to for graduating because

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<v Speaker 1>he's like he's a straight A student and he got

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<v Speaker 1>a full scholarship. I think he plays like basketball or

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<v Speaker 1>something like that, got a full scholarship to whatever school

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<v Speaker 1>he's going to go to. So to celebrate him, she

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<v Speaker 1>was going to send him to Dubai, but decided instead

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<v Speaker 1>to bring Dubai to Philly. So I think she's a caterer.

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<v Speaker 1>I think that's what she does for like a living.

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<v Speaker 1>And at first, I'm not gonna lie. I was judging

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<v Speaker 1>and I was like, what, this is crazy, this is

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<v Speaker 1>so wasteful. But then when you read her story, you

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<v Speaker 1>kind of understand, and you're like, I understand because so

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<v Speaker 1>apparently this is a mother who I think three or

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<v Speaker 1>four years ago she was that with cancer and was

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<v Speaker 1>basically dying. They were like, you're not gonna make it,

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<v Speaker 1>and she was just thinking of all the things that

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<v Speaker 1>she was going to miss, and she was like, well,

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<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna miss my baby's prom. I'm gonna just miss everything,

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<v Speaker 1>and so they she was diagnosed with cancer, and then

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<v Speaker 1>she was diagnosed with something else again where she couldn't walk,

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<v Speaker 1>and he took care of her, and she told herself

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<v Speaker 1>that if I lived to see him, she really didn't

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<v Speaker 1>think she was going to live past graduation for him,

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<v Speaker 1>if I lived to see him like graduating high school

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<v Speaker 1>and go to prom. I don't care what it takes.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm going to go all out because I don't know

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<v Speaker 1>if I'm going to make it much further past that.

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<v Speaker 1>You know. So she started saving back then when she

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<v Speaker 1>was sick, and she has an affairly I guess a

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<v Speaker 1>successful like catering business, and that's why. And so I

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<v Speaker 1>kind of understood, you know. One I tried because I

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<v Speaker 1>you know, like I had to check myself because so

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<v Speaker 1>many people were like, you know, it's so quick to

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<v Speaker 1>easily judge and be like, well with a waste what

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<v Speaker 1>a this? People were saying stuff like I hope she's

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<v Speaker 1>saved for I'm like, well, he has full scholarship. And

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<v Speaker 1>and two somebody made no. And this is true because

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<v Speaker 1>I went to I lived in Westfield, which is a

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<v Speaker 1>largely Jewish population. I remember like one of my friends

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<v Speaker 1>had her bomb Mitzvah like rented like a cruise ship

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<v Speaker 1>and like it was huge, and we all got like

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<v Speaker 1>these gift baskets that were like hundreds. I mean it

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<v Speaker 1>was crazy.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's in New Jersey.

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<v Speaker 1>I would say that, yes, And so I I estimate

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<v Speaker 1>her parents her parents probably spent just as much and

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<v Speaker 1>someone said that. They were like, you know, no one

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<v Speaker 1>says anything when people spend that amount of money for

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<v Speaker 1>Bob mitzvahs, then why can't Why can't we celebrate because anytime,

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<v Speaker 1>it seems like anytime people of color, you know, put

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<v Speaker 1>on get a Gucci bell, get a nice car or whatever,

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<v Speaker 1>everyone's like, oh, this is what's wrong with black people?

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<v Speaker 1>They probably yes, And so I was like, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>I had to check myself. I said, you know what,

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<v Speaker 1>you're right, because I if like, if someone told me today, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>someone spent fifteen thousand dollars on their child's MIXVA, I wouldn't.

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<v Speaker 1>I'd be like, yeah, that's about like you know what

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<v Speaker 1>I've heard before. So then why not this coming of

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<v Speaker 1>age for her son? So would I spend the money

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<v Speaker 1>in that way? No? But I could also understand it's

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<v Speaker 1>basically to me, the prom this whole thing was a

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<v Speaker 1>celebration of life for her, and I feel like she's

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<v Speaker 1>you know, probably rolling in all his celebrations in one

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<v Speaker 1>because she said even in like one of the articles,

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<v Speaker 1>I felt so bad. She has lumps. She said in

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<v Speaker 1>the article, she hasn't even told her son that they

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<v Speaker 1>recently found some lumps in her mouth and she doesn't

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<v Speaker 1>know it's looking like the cancer might have come back.

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<v Speaker 2>I do have some advice for her to stop talking

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<v Speaker 2>to the media. Yeah, so I'm like, your son read

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<v Speaker 2>about your lumps in the media. Yeah, and anybody. I

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<v Speaker 2>don't see why people even tell the media how much

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<v Speaker 2>they spend on things. You know it's going to happen,

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<v Speaker 2>don't give it. Don't give us a number. We're just

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<v Speaker 2>going to take that number and put it in all

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<v Speaker 2>the headlines and that's all anybody's gonna read about, because

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<v Speaker 2>we all know no one reads past the first paragraph.

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<v Speaker 2>But I'm glad you did because that, Yeah, it gives

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<v Speaker 2>me a little bit additional perspective. I actually just read

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<v Speaker 2>another quick story about it, and it sounded like they

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<v Speaker 2>had like a family reunion, Like it was like a

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<v Speaker 2>block party and like family came over and.

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<v Speaker 1>Yep, she fed the whole and she kind of wanted

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<v Speaker 1>to share that experience with not just her son, but everyone.

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<v Speaker 1>It kind of was it was a party for like

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<v Speaker 1>North Philly, and but honestly, if you get a cheat

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<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna try to share it on our page.

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<v Speaker 1>There is this video of a woman from North Philly hilarious.

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<v Speaker 1>So she's doing a video reaction. She was like, oh,

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<v Speaker 1>so this lady thinks she won the prom. Oh, she

0:22:22.000 --> 0:22:24.879
<v Speaker 1>didn't win the prom. See, I got eighteen years until

0:22:24.880 --> 0:22:27.959
<v Speaker 1>I guess her daughter turns ready for the problem. When

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<v Speaker 1>she's ready for the prom, So I'm getting her a

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<v Speaker 1>unicorn and a dolphin. My daughter showing up in a

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<v Speaker 1>in a wet suit like it was like, honestly, it

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<v Speaker 1>was huh hilarious. I'm gonna share it on the page,

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<v Speaker 1>but yeah, I just it won It helped to check me,

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<v Speaker 1>because you know, my you need your reaction is to

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<v Speaker 1>be like, oh, how wasteful. But then I thought, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>well is it wasteful because because she's black, Like, why

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<v Speaker 1>can't she spend that amount of money when I know

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<v Speaker 1>that there are so many other cultures that spend similar

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<v Speaker 1>amounts of money for coming up age parties, for their

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<v Speaker 1>for their children. And I don't even blink an eye

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<v Speaker 1>when I hear about it. And so I had to

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<v Speaker 1>really like, you know, it's a nice little self check

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<v Speaker 1>to say, Okay, and even if she wasn't, you know,

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<v Speaker 1>cancer and all these other things, why should that still

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<v Speaker 1>be something that she doesn't do you know, for her

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<v Speaker 1>son and that's what she wants to do, and you know,

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<v Speaker 1>like yeah, so I just thought like okay, like less

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<v Speaker 1>judgment and just like but honestly, the son told his

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<v Speaker 1>mother I think it's too much, and she was like,

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<v Speaker 1>you'd be quiet. This is for me.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean as a as a person who just spent

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<v Speaker 2>tens of thousands of dollars on a wedding I can

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<v Speaker 2>and feeling like it was worth every penny. I never

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<v Speaker 2>thought I would get to that place. But to see

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<v Speaker 2>your family together and to celebrate it when you're doing

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<v Speaker 2>it for the right reasons and you're doing it exactly

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<v Speaker 2>how you want it, it's a beautiful thing and should

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<v Speaker 2>if you have the money, girls, spend your money. I

0:23:49.400 --> 0:23:52.560
<v Speaker 2>saw Jessica Simpson on Ellen talking about her daughter's eight

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<v Speaker 2>year birthday with like mermaids and crap. I'm sure like

0:23:55.520 --> 0:23:59.639
<v Speaker 2>one of those mermaids costs twenty five g's real. So anyway,

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<v Speaker 2>I will choose to take that with a positive spin,

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<v Speaker 2>although I still feel like prom is like the worst.

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<v Speaker 1>Now, yeah it is.

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<v Speaker 2>Everyone's got to break the internet with her prom dress

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<v Speaker 2>and stuff. Yes, everyone prom proposals.

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<v Speaker 1>What it's like, She's sending your daughter off as a

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<v Speaker 1>girl come back as a woman, and then baby proms?

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<v Speaker 1>Have you seen this? Like my godson Gabe, you know

0:24:28.320 --> 0:24:31.200
<v Speaker 1>Drina my publicist, she's also my best friend. Her son

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<v Speaker 1>is my godson and he's like two and he had

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<v Speaker 1>a baby problem. It was so cute. So he had

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<v Speaker 1>his little church you know, church suit on and like cute.

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<v Speaker 2>Who hosted this baby prom?

0:24:42.920 --> 0:24:44.600
<v Speaker 1>So he goes to daycare and so they had it

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<v Speaker 1>a daycare. So everybody just dressed up in their little

0:24:46.960 --> 0:24:50.280
<v Speaker 1>church outfits and eight cookies like they normally do, and

0:24:50.320 --> 0:24:52.600
<v Speaker 1>played music and so parents can take pictures. So it

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<v Speaker 1>was cute. But then I saw I posted on the

0:24:55.119 --> 0:24:58.920
<v Speaker 1>facebook page on Brown Ambition there's some baby proms. I'm like, okay,

0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:02.320
<v Speaker 1>some of the girls her dress like at two and three,

0:25:02.480 --> 0:25:03.240
<v Speaker 1>really provocative.

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<v Speaker 2>Why are we putting our babies and they had so

0:25:06.960 --> 0:25:08.880
<v Speaker 2>much time before they have to be uncomfortable and worry

0:25:08.880 --> 0:25:11.359
<v Speaker 2>about their bodies and make it. Why are you putting

0:25:11.359 --> 0:25:12.600
<v Speaker 2>it on them? That's so young?

0:25:13.280 --> 0:25:15.520
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I posted it's a little girl on a yellow.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, the Beauty and the Beast thing. Oh I

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<v Speaker 2>didn't know that was like a prom. I thought that

0:25:19.240 --> 0:25:20.000
<v Speaker 2>was like Halloween.

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<v Speaker 1>No, no, no, that wasn't. That wasn't. I don't think I

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<v Speaker 1>was beauty in the beast. It's she's next to this

0:25:23.480 --> 0:25:26.720
<v Speaker 1>little boy who's wearing this little white tuxiedough with yellow

0:25:27.720 --> 0:25:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I guess, like trim, and she herself was wearing like

0:25:31.119 --> 0:25:34.520
<v Speaker 1>this really skin tight yellow like velvet draw It was

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<v Speaker 1>a lot. I was like, oh, okay.

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<v Speaker 2>A deep cleavage with nothing. Yeah, that kind of disturbed

0:25:40.720 --> 0:25:43.200
<v Speaker 2>by it reminds me of the bell dress because it's

0:25:43.200 --> 0:25:46.800
<v Speaker 2>so yellow. But yeah, yeah, he's not dressed. I was like, oh, okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>I'm not down for baby proms. I mean, do don't

0:25:48.840 --> 0:25:51.000
<v Speaker 2>parents hate that shit? Like if you're a working mom

0:25:51.440 --> 0:25:53.480
<v Speaker 2>and your daycare is like, oh yeah, you need to

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<v Speaker 2>put your son in a three piece suit for the

0:25:55.600 --> 0:25:58.399
<v Speaker 2>baby prom, Like if you have stuff to do, like

0:25:58.400 --> 0:26:01.280
<v Speaker 2>my mom when she when she had four kids, single mom,

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<v Speaker 2>like she couldn't do all that stuff and like I

0:26:03.800 --> 0:26:06.800
<v Speaker 2>can only imagine like moms now or dads even like

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<v Speaker 2>when you have one more and like they have like

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<v Speaker 2>they have days where I think I read an article

0:26:11.480 --> 0:26:13.000
<v Speaker 2>there was like a New York Times column where a

0:26:13.080 --> 0:26:15.360
<v Speaker 2>mom said that she had to like her she had

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<v Speaker 2>a note from the teacher saying that it was unfortunate

0:26:18.200 --> 0:26:21.160
<v Speaker 2>that she didn't participate in Teacher's Favorite Color day where

0:26:21.200 --> 0:26:23.959
<v Speaker 2>the kids had to wear the teacher's favorite color, and

0:26:24.200 --> 0:26:26.159
<v Speaker 2>you know, her son was left out. And I'm like that,

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<v Speaker 2>I don't know. I mean, I kind of get why

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<v Speaker 2>schools need to to make things fun, but like, I

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<v Speaker 2>don't know, man, daycare spending like thousands of dollars to

0:26:34.880 --> 0:26:38.080
<v Speaker 2>pay car your kid not cause more trouble for you exactly.

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<v Speaker 1>I will say this that like Drina's daycare, like she

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<v Speaker 1>just they just were like, if you want them to

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<v Speaker 1>wear you know, you know, wear a prom outfit, to

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<v Speaker 1>just send it to them to school, the teachers would

0:26:46.760 --> 0:26:50.040
<v Speaker 1>change them. I was like, what, because there's no way

0:26:50.080 --> 0:26:52.320
<v Speaker 1>when I talk preschool, I'm not changing nobody one.

0:26:52.240 --> 0:26:52.960
<v Speaker 2>For the teachers.

0:26:53.560 --> 0:26:57.359
<v Speaker 1>No, the teachers, why change them? I said, Drina, I

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<v Speaker 1>don't know what school. You said just so too, but

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<v Speaker 1>it must be awesome because there's no way that me

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<v Speaker 1>and one teacher's eight are changing fifteen kids into their Sunday's.

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<v Speaker 2>Best and for what reason.

0:27:11.359 --> 0:27:16.000
<v Speaker 1>Just to take pictures on a cray paper red carpet. Meanwhile,

0:27:16.040 --> 0:27:18.359
<v Speaker 1>all the pictures of her son. He's crying reaching for

0:27:18.400 --> 0:27:22.560
<v Speaker 1>her like oh my God, like oh me, because now

0:27:22.560 --> 0:27:23.880
<v Speaker 1>that he's seen her, he was like, I don't care

0:27:23.880 --> 0:27:27.280
<v Speaker 1>about this prom business. I want to go home. Yeah. No,

0:27:27.520 --> 0:27:29.200
<v Speaker 1>it's just I just think that.

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<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna be a lama's parent. I'm like, well, my

0:27:33.600 --> 0:27:35.840
<v Speaker 2>mom didn't bring me cupcakes at school on my birthday,

0:27:35.960 --> 0:27:39.000
<v Speaker 2>so here's your money for some snacks.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm trying to think of her, like how what kind

0:27:41.520 --> 0:27:42.960
<v Speaker 1>of mom would I be? I feel like I'm gonna

0:27:43.000 --> 0:27:44.440
<v Speaker 1>be a tied mom, like I'm sad.

0:27:44.280 --> 0:27:46.440
<v Speaker 2>The kind of mom who takes her stepdaughter to freaking

0:27:46.560 --> 0:27:50.919
<v Speaker 2>Universal Studios on a whim. That stepmom ever will be

0:27:51.000 --> 0:27:51.680
<v Speaker 2>my stepmom.

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<v Speaker 1>You know supermoms, I mean super Supergirl's mom. I call

0:27:57.119 --> 0:27:59.359
<v Speaker 1>her supermom. She was like, because she's in school to

0:27:59.359 --> 0:28:01.560
<v Speaker 1>get her masters, and she was like, I got allays

0:28:01.600 --> 0:28:02.160
<v Speaker 1>a semester.

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<v Speaker 2>I know. I love how you guys made her drive

0:28:05.040 --> 0:28:09.760
<v Speaker 2>you to the airport. She's a shady she real you

0:28:09.800 --> 0:28:13.119
<v Speaker 2>guys have us a real have a real strong relationship.

0:28:12.880 --> 0:28:14.560
<v Speaker 1>Did she offered? She's like, you want me to take

0:28:14.560 --> 0:28:17.240
<v Speaker 1>you guys to the airport? Honestly, her mom supermom is

0:28:17.240 --> 0:28:19.760
<v Speaker 1>like the best mom. You know, she's just great. We

0:28:20.080 --> 0:28:21.679
<v Speaker 1>have like the three of us have like I mean,

0:28:21.720 --> 0:28:22.800
<v Speaker 1>she's got a significant other.

0:28:22.840 --> 0:28:23.040
<v Speaker 2>Two.

0:28:23.560 --> 0:28:25.000
<v Speaker 1>I don't see him really, I don't think I've ever

0:28:25.040 --> 0:28:26.720
<v Speaker 1>met him, but the three of us have like a

0:28:26.760 --> 0:28:28.800
<v Speaker 1>really good solid relationship.

0:28:29.960 --> 0:28:32.359
<v Speaker 2>I can't even tell you how lucky Supergirl is because

0:28:32.359 --> 0:28:35.800
<v Speaker 2>that is everything and it's so hard to do. You know,

0:28:36.400 --> 0:28:38.280
<v Speaker 2>my parents had a messy divorce. I don't know. I'm

0:28:38.280 --> 0:28:41.200
<v Speaker 2>still like that. It affects you so much as a kid,

0:28:41.240 --> 0:28:43.200
<v Speaker 2>Like I can't even tell you in ways that you kids,

0:28:43.200 --> 0:28:46.320
<v Speaker 2>you never let you see either. So such a good

0:28:46.360 --> 0:28:50.120
<v Speaker 2>example for like co parenting is just warms my little

0:28:50.560 --> 0:28:51.680
<v Speaker 2>divorced baby heart.

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<v Speaker 1>Brown break Brown boost. What you're gonna do? Are you

0:29:04.000 --> 0:29:07.640
<v Speaker 1>gonna break or boost? Choose to I don't know.

0:29:08.200 --> 0:29:11.520
<v Speaker 2>I'm gonna I'm gonna boost. Okay, I'm gonna boost, and

0:29:11.560 --> 0:29:15.120
<v Speaker 2>it's gonna I'm just gonna toot my own horn. Okay, two,

0:29:15.120 --> 0:29:19.520
<v Speaker 2>it away too too, sorry in advance, I want to

0:29:19.560 --> 0:29:26.080
<v Speaker 2>boost being a boss because it feels so good. Well,

0:29:26.120 --> 0:29:28.320
<v Speaker 2>it's hard. It's very hard work because I manage people

0:29:28.400 --> 0:29:30.000
<v Speaker 2>now and all that kind of stuff, and I've I'm

0:29:30.000 --> 0:29:31.960
<v Speaker 2>not perfect. I've had to learn, you know, I made

0:29:32.000 --> 0:29:35.760
<v Speaker 2>some hires, like brought on people that weren't so great,

0:29:36.000 --> 0:29:38.280
<v Speaker 2>and you know, and I've had to like learn from

0:29:38.280 --> 0:29:40.080
<v Speaker 2>those lessons and how to like find the right person

0:29:40.160 --> 0:29:43.800
<v Speaker 2>for the right role or whatever. But I have become

0:29:44.000 --> 0:29:48.680
<v Speaker 2>way more decisive when it comes to like like, uh,

0:29:48.840 --> 0:29:52.280
<v Speaker 2>managing a team and knowing when someone isn't working and

0:29:52.360 --> 0:29:55.720
<v Speaker 2>saying this is not working and here comes the acts

0:29:55.720 --> 0:29:58.320
<v Speaker 2>and it has to go, and not feeling bad about it.

0:29:59.280 --> 0:30:01.520
<v Speaker 2>And this happened recently where I had to let someone

0:30:01.600 --> 0:30:04.680
<v Speaker 2>go and not a full time person. You know. Not

0:30:04.720 --> 0:30:07.200
<v Speaker 2>a fan of the podcast hopefully, but I just and

0:30:07.240 --> 0:30:11.120
<v Speaker 2>I but I feel like when I first started, and

0:30:11.240 --> 0:30:13.320
<v Speaker 2>especially for like a boss who's coming in when a

0:30:13.320 --> 0:30:15.240
<v Speaker 2>team is already in place, it's really hard. I don't

0:30:15.240 --> 0:30:17.560
<v Speaker 2>know if you've ever been a manager anyone listening for

0:30:17.720 --> 0:30:19.960
<v Speaker 2>been a manager and you've sort of like taken over

0:30:20.000 --> 0:30:22.360
<v Speaker 2>someone's team and you come on and you may have

0:30:22.440 --> 0:30:24.840
<v Speaker 2>to you know, get rid of some people or bring

0:30:24.880 --> 0:30:27.080
<v Speaker 2>some new ones on. It's always you can feel kind

0:30:27.120 --> 0:30:30.960
<v Speaker 2>of like like an outsider coming in and changing things up.

0:30:31.440 --> 0:30:33.560
<v Speaker 2>But you know, I'm lucky to work where I am

0:30:33.600 --> 0:30:36.680
<v Speaker 2>because they've sort of given me the space to grow

0:30:36.720 --> 0:30:39.120
<v Speaker 2>the team from scratch that I'm growing, and to also

0:30:40.520 --> 0:30:42.640
<v Speaker 2>get rid of sort of things that aren't working and

0:30:42.680 --> 0:30:45.720
<v Speaker 2>bring into things that are working. And once I started

0:30:45.760 --> 0:30:48.280
<v Speaker 2>to own that and own the fact that, Okay, I

0:30:48.320 --> 0:30:51.440
<v Speaker 2>can make decisions. I can decide when something's not working.

0:30:51.800 --> 0:30:53.640
<v Speaker 2>I can't wait for someone else to decide that for me,

0:30:53.760 --> 0:30:56.880
<v Speaker 2>or do the dirty work, send the mean emails, send

0:30:56.920 --> 0:30:59.120
<v Speaker 2>the you know, be the tough editor, all that kind

0:30:59.160 --> 0:31:01.760
<v Speaker 2>of stuff. And I feel like the last year, it's

0:31:01.760 --> 0:31:04.280
<v Speaker 2>been a year since I left Yahoo and enjoying Magnify,

0:31:04.400 --> 0:31:09.000
<v Speaker 2>and so I've been reflecting on just the past year

0:31:09.160 --> 0:31:11.040
<v Speaker 2>and how I've grown and what I can do better,

0:31:11.360 --> 0:31:13.200
<v Speaker 2>And I have to say, like, I feel like it

0:31:13.240 --> 0:31:16.680
<v Speaker 2>has been the development and the growth of coming into

0:31:16.800 --> 0:31:20.960
<v Speaker 2>that sense of like leadership and that sense of yeah,

0:31:21.000 --> 0:31:22.680
<v Speaker 2>I do kind of I do know what I'm doing,

0:31:22.720 --> 0:31:24.240
<v Speaker 2>and I do have a sense of what I want,

0:31:24.280 --> 0:31:26.240
<v Speaker 2>and I do know when it's not working, and I can,

0:31:26.640 --> 0:31:29.760
<v Speaker 2>you know, and much more quickly make those decisions to

0:31:29.760 --> 0:31:31.680
<v Speaker 2>stop than when it's not working than before.

0:31:32.080 --> 0:31:35.000
<v Speaker 1>When you're kind of like that's being a boss is

0:31:35.040 --> 0:31:37.960
<v Speaker 1>not easy, but you're right though, learning as you go

0:31:38.160 --> 0:31:40.040
<v Speaker 1>and accepting the fact that you're not gonna be perfect,

0:31:40.080 --> 0:31:42.200
<v Speaker 1>but you're definitely gonna get better. That's awesome.

0:31:43.280 --> 0:31:44.600
<v Speaker 2>I try.

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<v Speaker 1>Ah, well, mine is a little shady. I'm taking a

0:31:51.680 --> 0:31:54.719
<v Speaker 1>brown break, and it's gonna seem odd since I told

0:31:54.760 --> 0:31:56.760
<v Speaker 1>you I had a good time, which I did on vacation,

0:31:56.880 --> 0:32:02.240
<v Speaker 1>but I'm taking a brown break from fan vacations. Shah.

0:32:02.560 --> 0:32:04.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like, wait a minute. This made me think

0:32:05.000 --> 0:32:06.680
<v Speaker 1>to my parents and like, maybe want to call my

0:32:06.720 --> 0:32:08.720
<v Speaker 1>parents and say I'm so sorry, because I'm sure I

0:32:08.800 --> 0:32:11.840
<v Speaker 1>was terrible, especially with five kids. Well at LISTA it

0:32:11.880 --> 0:32:15.320
<v Speaker 1>was a baby, so four kids on family vacation, so

0:32:16.160 --> 0:32:18.960
<v Speaker 1>eighty five percent of the time it was awesome. But

0:32:19.080 --> 0:32:21.600
<v Speaker 1>the fifteen percent that I was I said, what's happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Is this how children act? Well, I mean like, it's

0:32:24.280 --> 0:32:26.160
<v Speaker 1>not like I haven't been around kids. I'll give you

0:32:26.160 --> 0:32:26.760
<v Speaker 1>an example.

0:32:27.080 --> 0:32:29.120
<v Speaker 2>So other people's children are supergirl.

0:32:29.400 --> 0:32:32.240
<v Speaker 1>Supergirl, I mean other people. I like, once the last day,

0:32:32.320 --> 0:32:34.840
<v Speaker 1>I kind of took a step outside of our little

0:32:34.880 --> 0:32:37.160
<v Speaker 1>group and I realized that every parent was losing their mind.

0:32:37.200 --> 0:32:42.280
<v Speaker 1>I was like, oh, okay, they had one what And

0:32:42.320 --> 0:32:45.400
<v Speaker 1>I saw it like Manuel, I've never heard more annunciation

0:32:46.200 --> 0:32:52.400
<v Speaker 1>like tom nevva lissa, but every parent was trying so

0:32:52.640 --> 0:32:55.600
<v Speaker 1>hard not to snatch their little kid up in front

0:32:55.640 --> 0:32:59.480
<v Speaker 1>of company. Let me tell you, like, I'll give you

0:32:59.480 --> 0:33:02.760
<v Speaker 1>an example. So it was like, I guess it's just

0:33:02.760 --> 0:33:05.440
<v Speaker 1>that time of season where in Florida it rains, like

0:33:05.640 --> 0:33:08.080
<v Speaker 1>after like five o'clock it starts to like rain. So

0:33:08.120 --> 0:33:11.040
<v Speaker 1>we'd gone and we had an awesome day at Universal

0:33:11.080 --> 0:33:13.440
<v Speaker 1>in the morning and the afternoon, and then afterwards, I

0:33:13.520 --> 0:33:15.000
<v Speaker 1>was like, Okay, we can go to the pool, but

0:33:15.040 --> 0:33:17.880
<v Speaker 1>the pool is outside, so we go, even though it's

0:33:17.920 --> 0:33:20.560
<v Speaker 1>it was drizzling a little, and honestly I kind of

0:33:20.600 --> 0:33:22.120
<v Speaker 1>didn't want to go, but I was like, I know

0:33:22.200 --> 0:33:24.800
<v Speaker 1>she really wants to go, so fine, we'll go. Nobody

0:33:24.920 --> 0:33:28.600
<v Speaker 1>was in the pool, and then the the lifeguard came

0:33:28.640 --> 0:33:30.760
<v Speaker 1>up to us and said, oh, there's lightning in the area,

0:33:31.160 --> 0:33:34.880
<v Speaker 1>so that's why the pool is closed. So I tell her, Supergirl,

0:33:34.880 --> 0:33:36.760
<v Speaker 1>you know, we have to go because the pool is closed,

0:33:36.800 --> 0:33:38.440
<v Speaker 1>and she was like why. I was like, there's lightning

0:33:38.480 --> 0:33:40.640
<v Speaker 1>and she was like okay, and I'm like, well, you know,

0:33:40.680 --> 0:33:43.680
<v Speaker 1>if lightning hits the water, you know, then you could

0:33:43.680 --> 0:33:47.400
<v Speaker 1>get electrocuted. She was like okay. I said, super Girl,

0:33:47.400 --> 0:33:48.680
<v Speaker 1>you have to get out of the pool, but I

0:33:48.720 --> 0:33:49.520
<v Speaker 1>want to swim.

0:33:49.360 --> 0:33:50.280
<v Speaker 2>But she's in the water.

0:33:50.280 --> 0:33:53.640
<v Speaker 1>While this happened, I'm like, so now I'm like at

0:33:53.680 --> 0:33:56.960
<v Speaker 1>a loss. I'm like, so what I'm like? But I said,

0:33:57.080 --> 0:33:59.360
<v Speaker 1>water is a conductor and I went to explain. She said,

0:33:59.360 --> 0:34:02.960
<v Speaker 1>I know what it can risks the sad. He proceeded

0:34:03.000 --> 0:34:07.200
<v Speaker 1>to give me a science lesson breaking down the conductivity

0:34:07.320 --> 0:34:10.839
<v Speaker 1>of water and electricity, and I was like, where's your

0:34:10.840 --> 0:34:13.560
<v Speaker 1>father because I was like, I don't know what to do.

0:34:13.840 --> 0:34:15.440
<v Speaker 1>If I was supposed to haul you out of the pool.

0:34:15.480 --> 0:34:16.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you have to get at the pool.

0:34:17.760 --> 0:34:19.560
<v Speaker 1>So then finally he came and she got out and

0:34:19.640 --> 0:34:21.920
<v Speaker 1>just give me the side, like I'm willing to take

0:34:21.960 --> 0:34:25.640
<v Speaker 1>the risk basically, And I was like, what is happening?

0:34:25.880 --> 0:34:28.640
<v Speaker 1>And at one point, Superman we went on the ride

0:34:28.640 --> 0:34:30.480
<v Speaker 1>and it made him like he wasn't feeling well. I

0:34:30.480 --> 0:34:32.440
<v Speaker 1>guess it just made him really dizzy, and you know,

0:34:32.640 --> 0:34:35.200
<v Speaker 1>like maybe like two years ago he had aneurysm surgery

0:34:35.640 --> 0:34:37.399
<v Speaker 1>and so I was worried because he didn't look good

0:34:37.400 --> 0:34:39.319
<v Speaker 1>and I was like, okay, So I told her we

0:34:39.360 --> 0:34:40.839
<v Speaker 1>had one more ride to go on that we didn't

0:34:40.880 --> 0:34:43.239
<v Speaker 1>go on yet, the Shrek ride. And I was like,

0:34:43.280 --> 0:34:46.120
<v Speaker 1>you know, Supergirl, just give your father a minute. I

0:34:46.120 --> 0:34:49.000
<v Speaker 1>don't I don't think he's feeling well. And she said, oh,

0:34:49.000 --> 0:34:50.600
<v Speaker 1>he's okay, he just needs to go to the bathroom.

0:34:50.840 --> 0:34:53.160
<v Speaker 1>And I just looked at her, like, just give us

0:34:53.200 --> 0:34:55.920
<v Speaker 1>a minute, like and I said, well, I told her,

0:34:55.960 --> 0:34:58.000
<v Speaker 1>I said, you know, Supergirl, you know we have to

0:34:58.040 --> 0:35:00.400
<v Speaker 1>be kind because you know, if you're I was not

0:35:00.440 --> 0:35:03.120
<v Speaker 1>feeling well, then that's more important than riding the ride.

0:35:03.160 --> 0:35:07.480
<v Speaker 1>She looked at me like two and it had the

0:35:07.560 --> 0:35:11.800
<v Speaker 1>attitude of our lifetime. And I was like, what's happening?

0:35:11.920 --> 0:35:13.239
<v Speaker 1>And I was like, she was like, I want to

0:35:13.320 --> 0:35:16.960
<v Speaker 1>ride this ride. Damn if he's dying. I was like,

0:35:17.239 --> 0:35:19.160
<v Speaker 1>And the thing that like the straw that broke the

0:35:19.200 --> 0:35:21.160
<v Speaker 1>camel's back. We went to eat eat that shake shack

0:35:21.840 --> 0:35:25.360
<v Speaker 1>and I look over it. Yeah, they did it and

0:35:25.400 --> 0:35:26.879
<v Speaker 1>it was so good. It was my first time ever

0:35:26.920 --> 0:35:27.600
<v Speaker 1>having shakeshack.

0:35:27.640 --> 0:35:30.480
<v Speaker 2>I never would Okay.

0:35:29.960 --> 0:35:31.840
<v Speaker 1>And so we're like we're like eating, We're having a

0:35:31.840 --> 0:35:35.920
<v Speaker 1>good time. And she was like, Tippy, look at look

0:35:35.960 --> 0:35:38.320
<v Speaker 1>at my carving. This girl took She was wearing a

0:35:38.320 --> 0:35:40.640
<v Speaker 1>sweatshirt and it was like I had little metal tips

0:35:41.000 --> 0:35:43.400
<v Speaker 1>on the on the little draw stowing part of the

0:35:43.400 --> 0:35:45.920
<v Speaker 1>sweatshirt used the metal tip to carve her name into

0:35:46.000 --> 0:35:49.320
<v Speaker 1>the shake shack of table. Mandy.

0:35:49.480 --> 0:35:52.000
<v Speaker 2>I was like, what is that?

0:35:52.120 --> 0:35:55.960
<v Speaker 1>She was like my carving. Meanwhile, she's not fine, she's dead.

0:35:56.520 --> 0:35:57.880
<v Speaker 2>I was like, so that's graffiti.

0:35:58.360 --> 0:36:01.320
<v Speaker 1>Yes. I was like she had the nerve to be mad.

0:36:01.800 --> 0:36:02.960
<v Speaker 1>I was like, you can't do that. She was like,

0:36:03.000 --> 0:36:05.239
<v Speaker 1>it's not a big deal. It wipes away. I said,

0:36:05.280 --> 0:36:08.040
<v Speaker 1>carvings don't wipe away. I thought Superman was gonna fly

0:36:08.120 --> 0:36:11.200
<v Speaker 1>over that table. He was like, you're not supposed to

0:36:11.280 --> 0:36:13.600
<v Speaker 1>do that. And she was literally angry at us for

0:36:13.719 --> 0:36:16.000
<v Speaker 1>like how dare you check me? I mean like attitude

0:36:16.080 --> 0:36:18.480
<v Speaker 1>going to the car, attitude in the in the in

0:36:18.520 --> 0:36:21.000
<v Speaker 1>the elevator, like it's not a big deal. It was

0:36:21.080 --> 0:36:23.520
<v Speaker 1>just my name and they can wipe away. And I

0:36:23.600 --> 0:36:26.879
<v Speaker 1>was like what I know. So I had to text

0:36:26.880 --> 0:36:28.799
<v Speaker 1>her mother because that is the one person that could

0:36:28.800 --> 0:36:30.719
<v Speaker 1>get her all the way together. So I secretly text

0:36:30.719 --> 0:36:33.120
<v Speaker 1>her mother, was like, super Supermom, I need you to

0:36:33.120 --> 0:36:35.359
<v Speaker 1>call your daughter and get her together. And I told

0:36:35.400 --> 0:36:37.600
<v Speaker 1>her some of her Shenanigans, and before I knew it

0:36:37.600 --> 0:36:43.200
<v Speaker 1>that that phone was ringing on video call Ah, she

0:36:43.280 --> 0:36:44.800
<v Speaker 1>took it off to the side, like I need to

0:36:44.800 --> 0:36:51.280
<v Speaker 1>take this privately. Came back with a new attitude, happy girl, lucky,

0:36:51.440 --> 0:36:55.799
<v Speaker 1>Hi dies. I said, sometimes that's what you need, supermom,

0:36:55.920 --> 0:36:58.120
<v Speaker 1>to just get yourself together. And it was just like

0:36:58.719 --> 0:37:01.839
<v Speaker 1>so who it was just a lot like other than

0:37:01.880 --> 0:37:03.600
<v Speaker 1>like I said, it was fun. The park and everything

0:37:03.680 --> 0:37:06.680
<v Speaker 1>was fun. I use groupon as your friend because in

0:37:06.719 --> 0:37:08.360
<v Speaker 1>the evening, since we couldn't do anything because it was

0:37:08.440 --> 0:37:10.640
<v Speaker 1>raining so bad, I just used groupon to find like

0:37:10.680 --> 0:37:13.319
<v Speaker 1>fun activities, Like we did like this trampoline place where

0:37:13.320 --> 0:37:14.880
<v Speaker 1>you could like jump all around, So we did that

0:37:14.920 --> 0:37:17.200
<v Speaker 1>one night for like ten bucks apiece. And then we

0:37:17.239 --> 0:37:20.600
<v Speaker 1>did like these video game thing where you like immersed

0:37:20.600 --> 0:37:23.319
<v Speaker 1>yourself and like sat in a special chair and wore

0:37:23.360 --> 0:37:25.160
<v Speaker 1>these special glasses to play this video games so you

0:37:25.160 --> 0:37:26.880
<v Speaker 1>felt like you were actually in the game. We did

0:37:26.920 --> 0:37:29.000
<v Speaker 1>that for like fifteen bucks one night. So you know,

0:37:29.040 --> 0:37:30.799
<v Speaker 1>I made sure that we had fun. And like I said,

0:37:30.800 --> 0:37:33.760
<v Speaker 1>eighty five percent of it was great, but that fifteen percent,

0:37:33.840 --> 0:37:36.600
<v Speaker 1>I said, Lord, I know, I said, I want kids,

0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:37.960
<v Speaker 1>but lord, I was just.

0:37:37.960 --> 0:37:40.879
<v Speaker 2>A preview of teenage years. I know only go didn't

0:37:40.880 --> 0:37:41.160
<v Speaker 2>get work.

0:37:41.560 --> 0:37:43.440
<v Speaker 1>I would do that, I said, my god, So where

0:37:43.480 --> 0:37:43.680
<v Speaker 1>do we.

0:37:43.680 --> 0:37:45.880
<v Speaker 2>Traw the line between letting them feel themselves but feel

0:37:45.920 --> 0:37:48.560
<v Speaker 2>themselves too much? Get it hard?

0:37:49.040 --> 0:37:51.440
<v Speaker 1>Because it's not like like for me, I'm I'm always

0:37:51.480 --> 0:37:55.120
<v Speaker 1>really mindful that this is not my child, you know,

0:37:55.360 --> 0:37:58.400
<v Speaker 1>because I don't want to, you know, because it's not

0:37:58.440 --> 0:38:01.040
<v Speaker 1>like she has an absentee parent. She's got two really

0:38:01.080 --> 0:38:05.239
<v Speaker 1>great parents. So I'm always very hesitant about how, you know,

0:38:05.760 --> 0:38:08.600
<v Speaker 1>how much to say because I feel like it's not

0:38:08.680 --> 0:38:10.759
<v Speaker 1>my place. I don't know, honestly, it's hard. Like her

0:38:10.760 --> 0:38:14.080
<v Speaker 1>mother always tells me, no, Tiffany, like you know, you're

0:38:14.200 --> 0:38:17.239
<v Speaker 1>marrying superman, like she's yours now too, and I'm like yeah,

0:38:17.239 --> 0:38:19.279
<v Speaker 1>and yeah, I'm not a yeller honestly, I'm not a

0:38:19.400 --> 0:38:21.600
<v Speaker 1>like you know, so that doesn't happen. Like she doesn't

0:38:21.600 --> 0:38:24.759
<v Speaker 1>really get spankings. I mean maybe on occasion her mother might,

0:38:24.840 --> 0:38:27.360
<v Speaker 1>but that's not really she doesn't really need it, and

0:38:27.480 --> 0:38:30.160
<v Speaker 1>so you know, and that's like my nature is not

0:38:30.320 --> 0:38:33.080
<v Speaker 1>yelling and screaming anything anyway. But I always feel weird

0:38:33.160 --> 0:38:37.200
<v Speaker 1>because you know, I just don't want to push her

0:38:37.239 --> 0:38:40.040
<v Speaker 1>away because it's not like like I'm not mommy, I'm

0:38:40.080 --> 0:38:42.040
<v Speaker 1>not daddy, you know what I mean. So it's always

0:38:42.120 --> 0:38:44.160
<v Speaker 1>just this weird space where I'm like, let me just

0:38:44.200 --> 0:38:48.240
<v Speaker 1>call your mom real quick. So that's been like my backup,

0:38:48.480 --> 0:38:50.799
<v Speaker 1>like let me text your mama real quick.

0:38:51.080 --> 0:38:52.840
<v Speaker 2>She can handles like a perfect way. I think you

0:38:52.880 --> 0:38:54.920
<v Speaker 2>guys found your way to handle it. So you know,

0:38:55.719 --> 0:38:59.279
<v Speaker 2>when it's like level ten, you know, behavior issues, you

0:38:59.320 --> 0:39:02.080
<v Speaker 2>contact mom and then you handle like levels one through three.

0:39:02.480 --> 0:39:07.520
<v Speaker 2>You know, like levels three through seven are Superman seven

0:39:07.600 --> 0:39:10.480
<v Speaker 2>through ten, that's mom my territory like and like it

0:39:10.560 --> 0:39:11.680
<v Speaker 2>was different for everybody.

0:39:12.200 --> 0:39:16.920
<v Speaker 1>Like graffiti level ten, I was like, oh, they.

0:39:16.800 --> 0:39:19.920
<v Speaker 2>Don't want my name on this table, but one day

0:39:19.960 --> 0:39:22.960
<v Speaker 2>I'll probably be famous. So oh my.

0:39:23.000 --> 0:39:25.239
<v Speaker 1>God, I was like what I was like, I can't

0:39:25.239 --> 0:39:25.960
<v Speaker 1>wait to go back home.

0:39:27.200 --> 0:39:32.880
<v Speaker 2>As one reformed brat to one budding bat. I acknowledge you.

0:39:33.080 --> 0:39:36.000
<v Speaker 2>I see you, Supercurl. It's gonna be a rocky year

0:39:36.040 --> 0:39:38.880
<v Speaker 2>for you, to rocky next eight years for you.

0:39:38.760 --> 0:39:42.680
<v Speaker 1>Guys, Oh my god, huh yeah, just pray for me.

0:39:42.840 --> 0:39:43.560
<v Speaker 1>Be a family.

0:39:45.600 --> 0:39:47.160
<v Speaker 2>You're you're in our thoughts and prayers.

0:39:48.719 --> 0:39:50.879
<v Speaker 1>Well, let's take care of their issues now, any any

0:39:50.920 --> 0:39:53.400
<v Speaker 1>good questions in our in our inbox.

0:39:53.719 --> 0:39:56.840
<v Speaker 2>Yes, we have a good question from l she'd like

0:39:56.880 --> 0:40:00.319
<v Speaker 2>to remain anonymous. Insult and it's no miss lu. Miss

0:40:00.400 --> 0:40:03.560
<v Speaker 2>Elle says, I'm a realtor, but wasn't working my business

0:40:03.640 --> 0:40:06.360
<v Speaker 2>for a while, and now I'm in debt. I'm sixty

0:40:06.400 --> 0:40:09.760
<v Speaker 2>three thousand dollars behind on my mortgage. I'm being sued

0:40:09.800 --> 0:40:13.680
<v Speaker 2>for two accidents and in another twenty thousand dollars in debt,

0:40:13.760 --> 0:40:15.840
<v Speaker 2>and right now I'm also about to send two of

0:40:15.840 --> 0:40:19.359
<v Speaker 2>my kids off to college. One's going in, one's going

0:40:19.400 --> 0:40:21.359
<v Speaker 2>in a year, and the other's going to go next year.

0:40:21.840 --> 0:40:24.239
<v Speaker 2>I revamped my business, but I have no savings and

0:40:24.320 --> 0:40:28.120
<v Speaker 2>no money in the bank. Is bankruptcy Chapter seven right

0:40:28.480 --> 0:40:32.799
<v Speaker 2>for me? Mis Elda? What do you think she means

0:40:32.840 --> 0:40:36.239
<v Speaker 2>I'm sixty to sixty thousand dollars behind in my mortgage.

0:40:36.520 --> 0:40:39.000
<v Speaker 1>Meaning that she probably has not paid her mortgage and

0:40:39.040 --> 0:40:42.680
<v Speaker 1>she owes it's probably over a year. Yeah, probably, I mean,

0:40:42.719 --> 0:40:44.120
<v Speaker 1>depending what kind of how she has. YEP.

0:40:45.520 --> 0:40:49.080
<v Speaker 2>I know bankruptcy sounds dra drastic and people are afraid

0:40:49.120 --> 0:40:52.360
<v Speaker 2>of it, and it is something too. It is something

0:40:52.360 --> 0:40:54.920
<v Speaker 2>to approach with caution. Obviously. I mean that takes what

0:40:55.000 --> 0:40:59.000
<v Speaker 2>a decade for you to recover from a bankruptcy. I

0:40:59.000 --> 0:41:01.880
<v Speaker 2>mean your credit is going to be crap for a while.

0:41:01.960 --> 0:41:06.200
<v Speaker 2>But I feel like, yes, I feel yeah, sixty thousand dollars,

0:41:06.239 --> 0:41:09.520
<v Speaker 2>you can't make your mortgage payments, you weren't bringing any

0:41:09.600 --> 0:41:12.240
<v Speaker 2>money from your business, You have twenty thousand dollars in debt,

0:41:12.600 --> 0:41:17.560
<v Speaker 2>two kids going off to college soon. I mean, obviously,

0:41:17.600 --> 0:41:19.600
<v Speaker 2>I feel like you should, you know, reach out to

0:41:19.640 --> 0:41:22.839
<v Speaker 2>someone you know who can maybe give you some more

0:41:22.840 --> 0:41:26.239
<v Speaker 2>specific advice because maybe you have something else, you have

0:41:26.280 --> 0:41:29.040
<v Speaker 2>other things going on, But I mean, I don't know

0:41:29.080 --> 0:41:34.240
<v Speaker 2>what that amount of debt. Yeah, my my my instinct

0:41:34.280 --> 0:41:36.520
<v Speaker 2>is to say, I think you should at least consider it. Yeah,

0:41:36.560 --> 0:41:37.759
<v Speaker 2>you're right to be considering it.

0:41:38.680 --> 0:41:42.640
<v Speaker 1>And also too, I mean when you're are your kids,

0:41:43.160 --> 0:41:45.759
<v Speaker 1>like how is college going to be paid for? Like

0:41:45.840 --> 0:41:47.760
<v Speaker 1>are they taking out student loans?

0:41:48.000 --> 0:41:50.759
<v Speaker 2>Doesn't sound like she can afford to help them?

0:41:51.040 --> 0:41:55.920
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I mean honestly, I would highly consider like like

0:41:56.000 --> 0:41:58.359
<v Speaker 1>having your child really think about maybe spending the first

0:41:58.400 --> 0:42:02.160
<v Speaker 1>two years at a community college. And this is what

0:42:02.280 --> 0:42:05.080
<v Speaker 1>so a friend of mine did this. She went to

0:42:05.120 --> 0:42:08.160
<v Speaker 1>community college, got straight a's and there's a college a

0:42:08.200 --> 0:42:12.239
<v Speaker 1>community I don't know if it's Essex County, but oftentimes

0:42:12.280 --> 0:42:16.560
<v Speaker 1>community colleges will partner with for your schools. So for example,

0:42:16.719 --> 0:42:19.800
<v Speaker 1>Essex County partners with Rutgers where and I don't know

0:42:19.800 --> 0:42:22.080
<v Speaker 1>if they still do this, but at the time, if

0:42:22.120 --> 0:42:24.920
<v Speaker 1>you got straight days at Essex County College, you got

0:42:24.960 --> 0:42:28.120
<v Speaker 1>a full scholarship to Rutgers, so, you know, so just

0:42:28.200 --> 0:42:30.120
<v Speaker 1>looking at it differently, so at the end, you know,

0:42:30.160 --> 0:42:33.400
<v Speaker 1>and then too, because it partnered, those were partner schools,

0:42:33.719 --> 0:42:36.080
<v Speaker 1>they accepted those credits, so it wasn't like you were

0:42:36.080 --> 0:42:38.359
<v Speaker 1>starting all over. Oftentimes, if you go from school to school,

0:42:38.480 --> 0:42:40.279
<v Speaker 1>they don't take all your credits because they want their money,

0:42:40.320 --> 0:42:43.000
<v Speaker 1>you know. But with you know, with Essex County, it's

0:42:43.040 --> 0:42:46.239
<v Speaker 1>like Rutgers Newark is in Essex County and so they

0:42:46.239 --> 0:42:48.280
<v Speaker 1>took those credits till you started off as a junior

0:42:48.360 --> 0:42:50.560
<v Speaker 1>and now you have, you know, the next two years

0:42:50.560 --> 0:42:54.800
<v Speaker 1>are free. And so really considering alternative ways of having

0:42:54.840 --> 0:42:58.399
<v Speaker 1>your child go to school, it's gonna help tremendously. But yeah,

0:42:58.400 --> 0:43:01.279
<v Speaker 1>I probably honestly would think about bankruptcy. But you want

0:43:01.320 --> 0:43:05.200
<v Speaker 1>to get clear on what the ramifications of bankruptcy are.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's talk about that. So I feel like people think

0:43:08.560 --> 0:43:11.040
<v Speaker 2>about bankruptcy and they're just like, oh, that sounds terrifying.

0:43:11.400 --> 0:43:14.120
<v Speaker 2>Well I've been in it. I haven't been at bankruptcy,

0:43:14.160 --> 0:43:17.960
<v Speaker 2>but I've had family members who followed bankruptcy, so I

0:43:17.960 --> 0:43:20.680
<v Speaker 2>don't mind talking about it. So there are two types

0:43:20.760 --> 0:43:24.120
<v Speaker 2>of bankruptcy, and I am referring to Magnify money. We

0:43:24.200 --> 0:43:27.840
<v Speaker 2>have this awesome free Get out of Debt Forever guide online,

0:43:27.880 --> 0:43:29.799
<v Speaker 2>so I am just cheating my way by reading our

0:43:29.840 --> 0:43:33.239
<v Speaker 2>bankruptcy section to refresh my own memory. But there's two

0:43:33.239 --> 0:43:35.640
<v Speaker 2>types of bankruptcy. Of chapter seven, which Miss l is

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<v Speaker 2>talking about in chapter thirteen. The only the difference between

0:43:39.120 --> 0:43:41.880
<v Speaker 2>the two is how how they treat your debt. So

0:43:41.920 --> 0:43:45.520
<v Speaker 2>with chapter seven, you completely discharge your debt except for

0:43:45.560 --> 0:43:49.000
<v Speaker 2>some things like student loans obviously and maybe child support.

0:43:49.440 --> 0:43:53.200
<v Speaker 2>Chapter thirteen is completely different. It's when you actually repay

0:43:53.239 --> 0:43:55.719
<v Speaker 2>your debt, but you come up with like a repayment

0:43:55.760 --> 0:43:58.040
<v Speaker 2>plan for all your different debts and you have three

0:43:58.040 --> 0:44:00.839
<v Speaker 2>to five years to basically pay them off, so you're

0:44:00.880 --> 0:44:03.439
<v Speaker 2>not discharging your debt, You're going to pay them off

0:44:03.520 --> 0:44:04.719
<v Speaker 2>over a certain amount of time.

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<v Speaker 1>Is it doesn't like I think at chapter seven, don't

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<v Speaker 1>you you might have to even liquidate some of your assets.

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<v Speaker 2>Yes, Chapter seven. Yeah, so you may have to liquidate

0:44:14.760 --> 0:44:16.880
<v Speaker 2>like your home or any property that you have, or

0:44:16.880 --> 0:44:19.760
<v Speaker 2>a car. Even I know someone in Knew who filed

0:44:20.000 --> 0:44:23.360
<v Speaker 2>Chapter seven bankruptcy had to get rid of their car.

0:44:24.960 --> 0:44:27.319
<v Speaker 2>They didn't have to leave their home. I don't know.

0:44:27.960 --> 0:44:30.239
<v Speaker 2>I don't know what. It depends on how much debt

0:44:30.280 --> 0:44:32.839
<v Speaker 2>you have and how much you're in the in the red,

0:44:33.239 --> 0:44:34.960
<v Speaker 2>whether or not you have to sell off your assets

0:44:35.000 --> 0:44:37.440
<v Speaker 2>to be able to settle, because sometimes when they say,

0:44:37.520 --> 0:44:40.720
<v Speaker 2>you know, Chapter seven allows you to discharge your debts,

0:44:41.120 --> 0:44:43.920
<v Speaker 2>your creditors will probably petition the court and say, well,

0:44:43.920 --> 0:44:46.200
<v Speaker 2>we don't want nothing, we want at least get something,

0:44:47.480 --> 0:44:49.520
<v Speaker 2>and the court is going to decide who gets what.

0:44:49.680 --> 0:44:51.520
<v Speaker 2>And the court may say, well, you know, you have

0:44:51.600 --> 0:44:53.880
<v Speaker 2>a home with like fifty thousand dollars worth of equity,

0:44:54.280 --> 0:44:55.839
<v Speaker 2>so you go ahead and sell that off and then

0:44:55.880 --> 0:44:58.840
<v Speaker 2>give that fifty grand to I don't know, these credit

0:44:58.840 --> 0:45:03.600
<v Speaker 2>card companies or this lender here or there. So every

0:45:03.680 --> 0:45:07.239
<v Speaker 2>case is different and it can be nasty, like I

0:45:07.400 --> 0:45:11.319
<v Speaker 2>and especially after the recession, of course, a lot more

0:45:11.360 --> 0:45:14.600
<v Speaker 2>people than usual or filing bankruptcy, and the people a

0:45:14.600 --> 0:45:16.440
<v Speaker 2>couple of people I know who file bankruptcy here on

0:45:16.520 --> 0:45:19.959
<v Speaker 2>that time had had a really rough time in court

0:45:20.000 --> 0:45:23.680
<v Speaker 2>because the judges were being super tough on them about

0:45:23.680 --> 0:45:27.440
<v Speaker 2>what they owed and not being you knows as lax

0:45:27.480 --> 0:45:29.879
<v Speaker 2>about letting certain debts be discharged.

0:45:31.360 --> 0:45:33.880
<v Speaker 1>So you just want to be mindful that filing for

0:45:33.960 --> 0:45:38.040
<v Speaker 1>bankruptcy is not like it's like, you know, years ago,

0:45:38.080 --> 0:45:40.720
<v Speaker 1>it was an easy like kind of like clean slate.

0:45:40.800 --> 0:45:43.440
<v Speaker 1>But that's not necessarily what it's going to be now,

0:45:45.160 --> 0:45:49.520
<v Speaker 1>and and it might not be a bankruptcy thing, right

0:45:49.640 --> 0:45:54.080
<v Speaker 1>because well because like for example, like I owed, I

0:45:54.120 --> 0:45:55.840
<v Speaker 1>don't even know how much I owed a ton of

0:45:55.880 --> 0:45:59.880
<v Speaker 1>money on my home, and so I didn't file bankruptcy.

0:45:59.880 --> 0:46:02.439
<v Speaker 1>I you know, I don't I guess you don't file

0:46:02.480 --> 0:46:05.319
<v Speaker 1>for foreclosure. I just you know, went through foreclosure. So

0:46:05.560 --> 0:46:08.360
<v Speaker 1>although it's equally it's damaging to your credit report, I

0:46:08.400 --> 0:46:10.680
<v Speaker 1>didn't file for bankruptcy. They just ended up taking the house,

0:46:11.560 --> 0:46:13.279
<v Speaker 1>which obviously you have kids, so you don't want that

0:46:13.320 --> 0:46:16.520
<v Speaker 1>to necessarily happen, but you might lose the house anyway.

0:46:16.719 --> 0:46:18.400
<v Speaker 2>Get me a lot When people are like don't follow

0:46:18.400 --> 0:46:20.360
<v Speaker 2>a bankruptcy. It's going to ruin your credit. I'm like,

0:46:20.360 --> 0:46:23.919
<v Speaker 2>but if you're considering bankruptcy, chances are your credit you're.

0:46:23.600 --> 0:46:26.600
<v Speaker 1>Here now exactly because if you're owing that much money

0:46:26.640 --> 0:46:29.080
<v Speaker 1>on your mortgage, so you probably already your credit is

0:46:29.080 --> 0:46:32.160
<v Speaker 1>already there. So just thinking about alternative ways if that

0:46:33.040 --> 0:46:35.960
<v Speaker 1>not for the like the credit issue, but just making

0:46:36.000 --> 0:46:39.279
<v Speaker 1>sure you're what's going to be least disruptive. Is it foreclosure,

0:46:39.400 --> 0:46:41.560
<v Speaker 1>is it bankruptcy? Something is going to have to happen,

0:46:41.800 --> 0:46:44.120
<v Speaker 1>but what's going to be least disruptive to your life?

0:46:44.280 --> 0:46:47.279
<v Speaker 1>And meeting with someone A lot of times, like I think,

0:46:47.360 --> 0:46:49.399
<v Speaker 1>like the United Way Here in New where I live,

0:46:49.680 --> 0:46:53.640
<v Speaker 1>they have financial classes, but looking for nonprofit agencies that

0:46:53.680 --> 0:46:57.120
<v Speaker 1>can kind of help you walk through your different options

0:46:57.200 --> 0:46:59.359
<v Speaker 1>so you can make the best option, choose the best

0:46:59.400 --> 0:47:01.840
<v Speaker 1>option for you, you and your family, and you're not

0:47:01.920 --> 0:47:04.600
<v Speaker 1>choosing it just based upon the rest you know, and

0:47:04.600 --> 0:47:06.600
<v Speaker 1>you're not choosing it based upon some company trying to

0:47:06.640 --> 0:47:07.799
<v Speaker 1>sell you something you don't.

0:47:07.800 --> 0:47:09.920
<v Speaker 2>Don't be sitting and watching TV at two am and

0:47:09.960 --> 0:47:13.720
<v Speaker 2>call the infomercial hotline one eight hundred bankruptcy or whatever,

0:47:13.800 --> 0:47:15.840
<v Speaker 2>because those places are going to ask you for like

0:47:15.920 --> 0:47:18.800
<v Speaker 2>money upfront and all kinds of crazy stuff. We always

0:47:18.840 --> 0:47:23.600
<v Speaker 2>referred people to the National Foundation for Credit Counseling, which

0:47:23.719 --> 0:47:26.359
<v Speaker 2>can get you in touch with actual credit counselors, your

0:47:26.400 --> 0:47:27.719
<v Speaker 2>nonprofit and won't charge you.

0:47:29.440 --> 0:47:33.600
<v Speaker 1>I was just an FCC dot org, n SCC dot org,

0:47:34.120 --> 0:47:39.400
<v Speaker 1>and that's f as in Frank, Frank, thanks for that.

0:47:39.560 --> 0:47:43.520
<v Speaker 2>I was like, let's start with F and I wanted

0:47:43.560 --> 0:47:45.200
<v Speaker 2>to go back because I know I jumped right in

0:47:45.200 --> 0:47:48.279
<v Speaker 2>and I was like, yeah, consider a bankruptcy. But she

0:47:48.360 --> 0:47:51.080
<v Speaker 2>mentioned her mortgage and being sixty thousand dollars in debt,

0:47:51.239 --> 0:47:53.680
<v Speaker 2>so I don't she doesn't mention who her lender is.

0:47:53.719 --> 0:47:57.120
<v Speaker 2>But lenders have gotten a little bit better. They should

0:47:57.160 --> 0:47:59.520
<v Speaker 2>be a lot better, but have gotten better about working

0:47:59.560 --> 0:48:03.480
<v Speaker 2>with homeowners who are in tour, who are having trouble

0:48:03.520 --> 0:48:06.319
<v Speaker 2>paying off or paying their mortgage on time. And when

0:48:06.360 --> 0:48:08.359
<v Speaker 2>you're that far delinquent, I think it's been at least

0:48:08.360 --> 0:48:10.320
<v Speaker 2>I don't know, assuming your mortgage is like I don't know,

0:48:10.320 --> 0:48:12.560
<v Speaker 2>a little less than two thousands, maybe a year or two.

0:48:12.760 --> 0:48:16.040
<v Speaker 2>You've been missing your payments. This is the time when

0:48:16.120 --> 0:48:18.400
<v Speaker 2>you have some I think a little bit of leverage,

0:48:18.440 --> 0:48:21.000
<v Speaker 2>and you can contact your lender if you haven't already

0:48:21.040 --> 0:48:24.080
<v Speaker 2>and asked them did they have can they help you

0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:26.800
<v Speaker 2>with to negotiate a lower payment or or work something

0:48:26.840 --> 0:48:28.960
<v Speaker 2>out like a loan, get you in a loan modification

0:48:29.120 --> 0:48:32.320
<v Speaker 2>program so that maybe you can save your house and

0:48:32.360 --> 0:48:35.719
<v Speaker 2>maybe even get you affordable payments or reduce your your

0:48:35.760 --> 0:48:37.080
<v Speaker 2>interest rate or something.

0:48:38.280 --> 0:48:40.040
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna say that, like, I mean, it depends

0:48:40.080 --> 0:48:42.800
<v Speaker 1>what your bank is, because my bank, who was terrible.

0:48:43.120 --> 0:48:45.480
<v Speaker 1>I applied for modification like three times and was denied

0:48:45.480 --> 0:48:50.200
<v Speaker 1>just because they're the devil. But you know, modification can

0:48:50.239 --> 0:48:52.759
<v Speaker 1>definitely be something that's helpful because usually they set up

0:48:52.760 --> 0:48:55.160
<v Speaker 1>some sort of payment plan for you, and if your

0:48:55.200 --> 0:48:57.160
<v Speaker 1>mortgage is a place where you have like the most

0:48:57.200 --> 0:49:00.640
<v Speaker 1>amount of debt, you might not need bankruptcy. Like if

0:49:00.680 --> 0:49:02.440
<v Speaker 1>your debt is not so bad in other places and

0:49:02.480 --> 0:49:05.080
<v Speaker 1>it's really just your mortgage, then you can be like, Okay,

0:49:05.200 --> 0:49:08.120
<v Speaker 1>let's let me work directly with my mortgage lender to

0:49:08.200 --> 0:49:10.840
<v Speaker 1>try to work something out, because you already had the

0:49:10.880 --> 0:49:14.480
<v Speaker 1>first part of modification is not paying, So you got

0:49:14.480 --> 0:49:14.879
<v Speaker 1>that down.

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<v Speaker 2>That's what I was thinking. Yeah, I mean, you're kind

0:49:16.840 --> 0:49:18.920
<v Speaker 2>of about that. They say, like, don't pay for a year, right,

0:49:19.000 --> 0:49:20.680
<v Speaker 2>and then mm hmm, or.

0:49:20.640 --> 0:49:22.880
<v Speaker 1>Like sometimes it's like three months, six months. Basically you

0:49:22.920 --> 0:49:24.640
<v Speaker 1>have to prove that you need it. And so a

0:49:24.640 --> 0:49:27.640
<v Speaker 1>lot of people are struggling but they still have managed

0:49:27.680 --> 0:49:29.640
<v Speaker 1>to make payments, so they basically tell them to stop.

0:49:29.840 --> 0:49:32.279
<v Speaker 1>But if you've not made payments and you stopped and

0:49:32.320 --> 0:49:35.120
<v Speaker 1>you're that far in the hole, then working on a modification.

0:49:35.239 --> 0:49:37.759
<v Speaker 1>I would try that first, you know, like call your

0:49:37.760 --> 0:49:40.000
<v Speaker 1>bank and say, hey, I want to be considered for

0:49:40.000 --> 0:49:42.760
<v Speaker 1>a modification. What are the next steps? But then also

0:49:42.800 --> 0:49:45.640
<v Speaker 1>reach out to the NFCC dot org to get help

0:49:45.680 --> 0:49:49.400
<v Speaker 1>on the credit end as well. Yeah, like bankruptcy is

0:49:49.760 --> 0:49:51.160
<v Speaker 1>don't you don't have to throw it out the window,

0:49:51.400 --> 0:49:53.080
<v Speaker 1>but it should not be the first thing you grab

0:49:53.160 --> 0:49:55.360
<v Speaker 1>at because you still have options.

0:49:55.239 --> 0:49:58.000
<v Speaker 2>And absolutely no matter what you do, something is going

0:49:58.320 --> 0:50:01.600
<v Speaker 2>horribly wrong here with I mean, she mentions, you know,

0:50:01.800 --> 0:50:03.920
<v Speaker 2>another twenty thousand dollars in debt, which could have been

0:50:03.960 --> 0:50:06.560
<v Speaker 2>just you know, from when her business she started struggling,

0:50:06.640 --> 0:50:09.480
<v Speaker 2>you know, being a realtor or whatnot, but she mentioned

0:50:09.480 --> 0:50:13.399
<v Speaker 2>those two she's being sued for two separate incidences. Doesn't

0:50:13.440 --> 0:50:16.879
<v Speaker 2>go into detail, but it sounds like the point when

0:50:17.120 --> 0:50:18.920
<v Speaker 2>bankruptcy would be an option. You just sort of have

0:50:19.080 --> 0:50:23.960
<v Speaker 2>all these different sort of debts and financial obligations sort

0:50:23.960 --> 0:50:25.520
<v Speaker 2>of coming at you all at once, and you can't

0:50:25.560 --> 0:50:27.880
<v Speaker 2>manage it all. And I don't know, it sounds like

0:50:28.440 --> 0:50:31.680
<v Speaker 2>I understand why she's she's coming to this, but really

0:50:31.800 --> 0:50:34.440
<v Speaker 2>encourage you to try. Try reaching out to the NFCC,

0:50:34.640 --> 0:50:39.360
<v Speaker 2>try calling your bank, try calling your mortgage company, and

0:50:39.480 --> 0:50:42.440
<v Speaker 2>just so that when you make this decision, you'd absolutely

0:50:42.520 --> 0:50:43.560
<v Speaker 2>know that there was no other way.

0:50:44.120 --> 0:50:44.480
<v Speaker 1>This was.

0:50:44.920 --> 0:50:48.080
<v Speaker 2>This was you know, what had to be done. Yeah,

0:50:48.880 --> 0:50:51.440
<v Speaker 2>and good luck to you and for anybody who's followed bankruptcy.

0:50:51.480 --> 0:50:52.840
<v Speaker 2>I hope that we I mean, like, you don't have

0:50:52.880 --> 0:50:55.839
<v Speaker 2>to feel bad about it. There is a path after bankruptcy. Yeah,

0:50:55.920 --> 0:50:58.480
<v Speaker 2>your life does not have to be over. In fact,

0:50:58.520 --> 0:51:02.600
<v Speaker 2>do you know the banks actually they market to people

0:51:02.600 --> 0:51:04.320
<v Speaker 2>who have bankruptcies on their records.

0:51:04.719 --> 0:51:07.359
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, they do. They market to them, Like what as look,

0:51:07.360 --> 0:51:08.960
<v Speaker 1>as you follow bankruptcy and you're gonna start to get

0:51:09.000 --> 0:51:10.920
<v Speaker 1>so many credit card solicitations.

0:51:10.960 --> 0:51:14.239
<v Speaker 2>They're like, so you're irresponsible debt and you pay.

0:51:14.280 --> 0:51:16.160
<v Speaker 1>They're like, what you don't already wear credit card debt?

0:51:16.160 --> 0:51:17.800
<v Speaker 1>That means you have plenty of space.

0:51:19.320 --> 0:51:22.520
<v Speaker 2>It's pretty disgusting. Yeah, So that's why you know, when

0:51:22.520 --> 0:51:24.319
<v Speaker 2>you after you follow bankruptcy, you've got to like get

0:51:24.400 --> 0:51:26.200
<v Speaker 2>to the core issue of what's really going on? How

0:51:26.200 --> 0:51:28.560
<v Speaker 2>did you get there and fix it or try to

0:51:28.600 --> 0:51:30.480
<v Speaker 2>fix it so you don't end up. It's not a

0:51:30.520 --> 0:51:32.239
<v Speaker 2>band aid. You know, you can't treat it like that.

0:51:32.320 --> 0:51:34.719
<v Speaker 2>It's a big deal. And if you don't fix the

0:51:34.760 --> 0:51:39.080
<v Speaker 2>underlying issues, whatever they may be, you may just find

0:51:39.120 --> 0:51:42.520
<v Speaker 2>yourself winding up filing again down the road.

0:51:42.520 --> 0:51:45.320
<v Speaker 1>Exactly, exactly suctly.

0:51:46.000 --> 0:51:48.280
<v Speaker 2>Well, thanks for your question, Elle. If you guys have questions,

0:51:48.400 --> 0:51:53.080
<v Speaker 2>hit us up at Brand Ambition podcast dot com. Thank you,

0:51:53.080 --> 0:51:57.080
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0:51:57.120 --> 0:52:00.600
<v Speaker 2>us a note directly at Brown Ambition Podcast all dot com.

0:52:05.960 --> 0:52:09.640
<v Speaker 1>No, I don't know you're ready. I was taking a

0:52:09.680 --> 0:52:20.399
<v Speaker 1>sweet of my lemon water bom all right, So it's

0:52:20.400 --> 0:52:22.880
<v Speaker 1>time for all we do is when when win? No

0:52:23.040 --> 0:52:27.920
<v Speaker 1>matter what you know, Brown Ambition is the best I need. Honestly,

0:52:27.960 --> 0:52:29.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm gonna write a rap one day, even though I

0:52:29.640 --> 0:52:31.000
<v Speaker 1>say that every time.

0:52:31.600 --> 0:52:32.920
<v Speaker 2>But stick with the heads.

0:52:35.400 --> 0:52:38.359
<v Speaker 1>Keep I know, but I always feel like the last

0:52:38.400 --> 0:52:39.920
<v Speaker 1>line I don't I need to figure out what that

0:52:40.000 --> 0:52:42.520
<v Speaker 1>closing line is for, just like you know, it's just

0:52:42.920 --> 0:52:50.040
<v Speaker 1>it's a little pie hands go right and that. You know,

0:52:50.120 --> 0:52:53.319
<v Speaker 1>we should have a we should have a you know how,

0:52:53.320 --> 0:52:55.160
<v Speaker 1>like we have the segment like where I was singing

0:52:55.320 --> 0:52:57.399
<v Speaker 1>uh s w V but it was supposed to be.

0:52:58.120 --> 0:53:03.520
<v Speaker 2>Like, yes, we should have listeners the tickles. I'm funny,

0:53:03.520 --> 0:53:04.200
<v Speaker 2>people know.

0:53:04.239 --> 0:53:07.080
<v Speaker 1>So many people tweet they were like Tiffany, please return

0:53:07.120 --> 0:53:11.080
<v Speaker 1>your black card. I'm like, no, I want it, but

0:53:11.160 --> 0:53:12.680
<v Speaker 1>like we should, you know how, like you never like

0:53:12.760 --> 0:53:14.920
<v Speaker 1>usually it's me that knows, like all the like the

0:53:14.920 --> 0:53:17.280
<v Speaker 1>pop references. I feel like we should have a segment

0:53:17.320 --> 0:53:19.480
<v Speaker 1>like let's see what Manny knows the pop persons when

0:53:19.520 --> 0:53:22.759
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, what about you know whatever? Like I don't

0:53:22.800 --> 0:53:24.000
<v Speaker 1>know hip hop?

0:53:24.320 --> 0:53:26.880
<v Speaker 2>Or just want to embarrass me that now.

0:53:26.680 --> 0:53:28.520
<v Speaker 1>I love to see it, Like does Manny know about

0:53:28.520 --> 0:53:30.720
<v Speaker 1>what happened on Love and Hip Hop this week?

0:53:31.560 --> 0:53:32.080
<v Speaker 2>He doesn't know.

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<v Speaker 1>I know, I know what we're gonna, Larry, I'm gonna

0:53:35.080 --> 0:53:35.720
<v Speaker 1>think of something.

0:53:36.000 --> 0:53:39.320
<v Speaker 2>Mandy rewatched season three of America's I Mean Great British

0:53:39.320 --> 0:53:44.520
<v Speaker 2>Bake Off, so rewatched it, watched it once, and watched

0:53:44.520 --> 0:53:46.960
<v Speaker 2>it again and cried like I did the first time.

0:53:47.440 --> 0:53:50.400
<v Speaker 2>It's a beautiful ending, Nadia one. Sorry spoiler alert.

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<v Speaker 1>I guess all right, so it's time for wins. I'm

0:53:55.880 --> 0:54:00.759
<v Speaker 1>going to hmm, I think I'm gonna do my win

0:54:01.200 --> 0:54:04.560
<v Speaker 1>is that I This is week five for me at

0:54:04.560 --> 0:54:07.919
<v Speaker 1>the gym consistently, like you know, like back to back.

0:54:08.160 --> 0:54:09.759
<v Speaker 1>I've been going five days a week, which I can't

0:54:09.800 --> 0:54:12.680
<v Speaker 1>even believe. I'm like, who who am I I'm not

0:54:12.680 --> 0:54:14.200
<v Speaker 1>gonna lie though. I stuck up the scale today and

0:54:14.239 --> 0:54:16.720
<v Speaker 1>it raised by two pounds. I was like, what the hell?

0:54:17.200 --> 0:54:21.120
<v Speaker 1>But whatever I say, I know, but also too, I

0:54:21.120 --> 0:54:25.520
<v Speaker 1>think I'm like loaded. Sorry Jamal, so yes, but you know,

0:54:25.760 --> 0:54:29.399
<v Speaker 1>I told myself that that working out I really wanted

0:54:29.440 --> 0:54:32.200
<v Speaker 1>to be a lifestyle and so like you know, I

0:54:32.239 --> 0:54:34.000
<v Speaker 1>really took to heart, like when we had our last

0:54:34.000 --> 0:54:37.080
<v Speaker 1>talk about working out, and I've been adding little goals

0:54:37.200 --> 0:54:39.279
<v Speaker 1>every week. Like week one, it was like just go,

0:54:39.800 --> 0:54:41.560
<v Speaker 1>you know, get your twenty minutes of cardio, don't worry

0:54:41.560 --> 0:54:43.480
<v Speaker 1>about anything else. Week two, I added a little something

0:54:43.520 --> 0:54:45.759
<v Speaker 1>extra week three, So now I'm up to like a

0:54:45.800 --> 0:54:47.759
<v Speaker 1>full workout now that it's week five, and I'm up

0:54:47.840 --> 0:54:52.319
<v Speaker 1>to a change in my diet, like I'm but like

0:54:52.440 --> 0:54:54.719
<v Speaker 1>real change, not like a diet. You know, like I

0:54:54.719 --> 0:54:56.799
<v Speaker 1>always liked smoothies, but I was lazy about making them.

0:54:56.840 --> 0:54:58.880
<v Speaker 1>So now I make my green smoothie in the morning

0:54:58.920 --> 0:55:01.960
<v Speaker 1>for breakfast. I tell myself, like, I eat way more

0:55:02.000 --> 0:55:05.520
<v Speaker 1>fruits and vegetables, especially vegetables, which I like anyway, but

0:55:05.680 --> 0:55:08.880
<v Speaker 1>being more conscious of that, I switched out. I wasn't

0:55:08.920 --> 0:55:12.640
<v Speaker 1>really big on like bread anyway, so I was just like,

0:55:12.680 --> 0:55:14.680
<v Speaker 1>I just took that out because bread is not that's

0:55:14.719 --> 0:55:17.040
<v Speaker 1>not huge for me, but rice certainly was. I'm African,

0:55:17.080 --> 0:55:18.719
<v Speaker 1>so you know me, we love some rice. So I

0:55:18.760 --> 0:55:23.680
<v Speaker 1>switched out quiwa for rice, and so just like really

0:55:23.719 --> 0:55:28.239
<v Speaker 1>making changes to my diet that are sustainable. So I'm like,

0:55:28.280 --> 0:55:29.560
<v Speaker 1>and I'm gonna take that as a win because I'm

0:55:29.560 --> 0:55:32.239
<v Speaker 1>like five weeks, five times a week, even though like

0:55:32.280 --> 0:55:33.960
<v Speaker 1>I will say, like I definitely feel like I've lost

0:55:34.040 --> 0:55:35.719
<v Speaker 1>inches and well except for today because I was like,

0:55:35.760 --> 0:55:38.440
<v Speaker 1>what is the stomach? But whatever? This is like I

0:55:38.440 --> 0:55:41.839
<v Speaker 1>said the blotation, but I feel good though. That's real.

0:55:42.280 --> 0:55:44.400
<v Speaker 1>I know what I'm like. Literally, I woke up and

0:55:44.440 --> 0:55:46.640
<v Speaker 1>I'm like, is there is there a person in here?

0:55:48.840 --> 0:55:51.160
<v Speaker 1>Like alien? Like the movie or like the alien comes down.

0:55:51.200 --> 0:55:58.239
<v Speaker 1>It's like, oh, I was like, oh my gosh, come back, Tom,

0:55:58.480 --> 0:56:02.520
<v Speaker 1>come back. Maybe Mandy Wind won't be as crazy. No,

0:56:02.600 --> 0:56:05.560
<v Speaker 1>but honestly, yeah, just for I really have to commend

0:56:05.600 --> 0:56:09.239
<v Speaker 1>you guys that work out regularly and stick to it,

0:56:09.280 --> 0:56:13.279
<v Speaker 1>because I'm not gonna lie like like I hate it

0:56:13.320 --> 0:56:14.919
<v Speaker 1>every morning, you know, so people like, oh, you get

0:56:14.960 --> 0:56:17.920
<v Speaker 1>used to it. Yeah, I'm still waiting every morning. I cuss,

0:56:18.000 --> 0:56:20.319
<v Speaker 1>I fuss, I say, I'm not going as I'm putting

0:56:20.320 --> 0:56:22.120
<v Speaker 1>on my socks on my sneakers. I lay out my clothes,

0:56:22.160 --> 0:56:23.280
<v Speaker 1>thank goodness the night before.

0:56:23.719 --> 0:56:26.960
<v Speaker 2>That's the key, Yeah, making it, removing all the barriers.

0:56:27.840 --> 0:56:31.719
<v Speaker 2>Clean socks can't go right. That's me every all the

0:56:31.760 --> 0:56:32.840
<v Speaker 2>time because.

0:56:32.640 --> 0:56:34.919
<v Speaker 1>I put by literally my sneakers, like even now I'm looking,

0:56:34.960 --> 0:56:37.880
<v Speaker 1>my socks are inside my sneakers. My headphones are charged,

0:56:38.000 --> 0:56:40.600
<v Speaker 1>my phone is charged, my keys are downstairs. I mean

0:56:40.680 --> 0:56:43.080
<v Speaker 1>like literally I put everything because I know me, I

0:56:43.080 --> 0:56:44.520
<v Speaker 1>I can't find my key. I'm just gonna lay on

0:56:44.520 --> 0:56:47.520
<v Speaker 1>the couch. And so it's just been it's not been easy.

0:56:47.560 --> 0:56:51.160
<v Speaker 1>But I'm like, you know what, I'm really determined to

0:56:51.480 --> 0:56:53.640
<v Speaker 1>transition into a healthier lifestyle, and I don't know that

0:56:53.680 --> 0:56:55.799
<v Speaker 1>I'll keep up five days a week. I probably will

0:56:55.840 --> 0:56:58.640
<v Speaker 1>peter off till three days, but for now because I'm

0:56:58.680 --> 0:57:01.000
<v Speaker 1>really trying to like, you know, jumpstart my metabolism and

0:57:01.080 --> 0:57:03.319
<v Speaker 1>blah blah blah that you know, probably for the next

0:57:03.320 --> 0:57:05.640
<v Speaker 1>couple of months, I'll still do five days as much

0:57:05.640 --> 0:57:08.160
<v Speaker 1>as possible, but eventually I want to get to a

0:57:08.200 --> 0:57:10.560
<v Speaker 1>space where, you know, I'm doing just three days a

0:57:10.600 --> 0:57:12.560
<v Speaker 1>week and that's just life. Like my sister Tracy is

0:57:12.600 --> 0:57:15.000
<v Speaker 1>like that. She's never not worked out, you know, She's

0:57:15.040 --> 0:57:18.320
<v Speaker 1>always maintained just like her Her basic weight has been

0:57:18.320 --> 0:57:20.920
<v Speaker 1>the same since college. She doesn't like eat like you know,

0:57:21.000 --> 0:57:23.640
<v Speaker 1>she's not a vegan or whatever. It's just that she's

0:57:23.720 --> 0:57:27.439
<v Speaker 1>never swayed too left or too right. She's always worked out,

0:57:27.440 --> 0:57:28.880
<v Speaker 1>like you know, three days a week. Same thing with

0:57:28.880 --> 0:57:31.040
<v Speaker 1>my dad. And so I'm like, I want to get

0:57:31.040 --> 0:57:33.720
<v Speaker 1>to that space where I'm not trying so hard. It's

0:57:33.800 --> 0:57:36.200
<v Speaker 1>just part of life. So that's my win, you know,

0:57:36.320 --> 0:57:38.880
<v Speaker 1>keeping up with this damn exercise good.

0:57:39.640 --> 0:57:43.360
<v Speaker 2>Yeah, five weeks is amazing, so I have respect. I

0:57:43.840 --> 0:57:48.000
<v Speaker 2>know how hard it is, so good for you. Thank Yeah,

0:57:48.440 --> 0:57:50.640
<v Speaker 2>I'm not on that level yet, but my win is

0:57:50.680 --> 0:57:52.800
<v Speaker 2>also fitness related because I don't know if you guys

0:57:52.840 --> 0:57:55.760
<v Speaker 2>know this, but I have a past. Before I was

0:57:55.880 --> 0:57:58.200
<v Speaker 2>half of Brown Ambition, I used to have a bike blog,

0:58:00.160 --> 0:58:02.480
<v Speaker 2>Yes I used to. It was called The Bike Rider

0:58:03.000 --> 0:58:09.280
<v Speaker 2>wri I T. And I was sort of a semi

0:58:09.360 --> 0:58:12.000
<v Speaker 2>biking celebrity in New York City because when I first

0:58:12.080 --> 0:58:14.640
<v Speaker 2>moved here in twenty ten, New York City wasn't as

0:58:14.720 --> 0:58:16.920
<v Speaker 2>bike friendly as it is now, Like there weren't bike

0:58:17.000 --> 0:58:17.720
<v Speaker 2>lanes everywhere.

0:58:17.840 --> 0:58:18.040
<v Speaker 1>You know.

0:58:18.080 --> 0:58:20.960
<v Speaker 2>I used to be out in those mean streets, you know,

0:58:21.240 --> 0:58:24.080
<v Speaker 2>in all the honking cars, like fighting for my territory.

0:58:24.920 --> 0:58:27.320
<v Speaker 2>And I used to do like one hundred mile bike tours,

0:58:27.480 --> 0:58:30.360
<v Speaker 2>and you know, I did a ride to Montak where

0:58:30.360 --> 0:58:32.640
<v Speaker 2>you ride all the way across Long Island to the

0:58:32.800 --> 0:58:35.080
<v Speaker 2>end and all this stuff, and I was like really

0:58:35.080 --> 0:58:37.560
<v Speaker 2>really into it and it was awesome because well, the

0:58:37.560 --> 0:58:39.400
<v Speaker 2>reason I got into biking one I moved here and

0:58:39.440 --> 0:58:42.040
<v Speaker 2>I had like no money, and I remember I had

0:58:42.080 --> 0:58:45.360
<v Speaker 2>to pay for a monthly subway pass and a monthly

0:58:45.400 --> 0:58:48.960
<v Speaker 2>Metro North pass, which was like three hundred dollars plus

0:58:48.960 --> 0:58:52.520
<v Speaker 2>the hundred bucks for the Metro the subway pass, and

0:58:52.560 --> 0:58:54.920
<v Speaker 2>I couldn't afford both because at the time I was

0:58:54.960 --> 0:58:58.720
<v Speaker 2>working upstate in Westchester. So I was like, well, how

0:58:58.720 --> 0:59:00.320
<v Speaker 2>can I save money, I'm going to buy Like I

0:59:00.360 --> 0:59:04.520
<v Speaker 2>bought like an eighty dollars steel cruiser on Craigslist. And

0:59:04.560 --> 0:59:07.600
<v Speaker 2>then instead of taking the subway, I biked everywhere. So

0:59:07.680 --> 0:59:09.880
<v Speaker 2>I biked a Grand Central station, parked my bike there,

0:59:09.920 --> 0:59:12.320
<v Speaker 2>and then took the train to work in the morning.

0:59:12.840 --> 0:59:15.320
<v Speaker 2>And biking was like my cheap way of getting around

0:59:15.320 --> 0:59:17.600
<v Speaker 2>New York is how I like didn't take the subway

0:59:17.600 --> 0:59:22.040
<v Speaker 2>ever when I first moved here now anyway, So but

0:59:22.120 --> 0:59:24.280
<v Speaker 2>in the past couple of years, I just in the

0:59:24.320 --> 0:59:27.160
<v Speaker 2>past year, especially when we moved to Inwood, you know,

0:59:27.200 --> 0:59:30.320
<v Speaker 2>my bike was like all dusty and like I'd never

0:59:30.360 --> 0:59:32.480
<v Speaker 2>really used it because I had to like go five

0:59:32.520 --> 0:59:34.320
<v Speaker 2>flights of stairs to work every day and I was

0:59:34.360 --> 0:59:37.880
<v Speaker 2>like twelve miles from the office now. But anyway, I went,

0:59:38.000 --> 0:59:41.160
<v Speaker 2>we went. I live in Jersey City now, and we went.

0:59:41.240 --> 0:59:43.160
<v Speaker 2>I picked up my bike from my in laws apartment,

0:59:43.640 --> 0:59:47.720
<v Speaker 2>brought it home, and I participated in a fifteen mile

0:59:48.400 --> 0:59:51.240
<v Speaker 2>like bike tour and in Jersey City that there's like

0:59:51.280 --> 0:59:53.960
<v Speaker 2>a biking community here and they put it on once

0:59:53.960 --> 0:59:55.840
<v Speaker 2>a year and I just like luckily happened to see

0:59:55.840 --> 0:59:58.440
<v Speaker 2>a flyer and it was the best stay ever and

0:59:58.480 --> 1:00:00.600
<v Speaker 2>I felt so good. I felt like my self again.

1:00:00.680 --> 1:00:01.960
<v Speaker 2>I was like, I saw.

1:00:01.760 --> 1:00:05.000
<v Speaker 1>You with the bike. I was like, look at the Indy.

1:00:05.440 --> 1:00:05.840
<v Speaker 1>That's me.

1:00:06.040 --> 1:00:08.439
<v Speaker 2>That's like old Mandy, that's the MANDI you never knew.

1:00:08.840 --> 1:00:10.360
<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I was like I thought, I'm like, who are you?

1:00:10.440 --> 1:00:14.040
<v Speaker 1>I don't even anymore. No, that's awesome the bike rider.

1:00:14.680 --> 1:00:15.200
<v Speaker 1>I love that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, I know. And it was such a fun tour

1:00:17.880 --> 1:00:20.240
<v Speaker 2>I didn't. I just love Jersey City because like it's

1:00:20.280 --> 1:00:22.840
<v Speaker 2>so diverse. Man, I've never I don't know, it's just

1:00:22.960 --> 1:00:25.120
<v Speaker 2>and you take it for granted living in Jersey and

1:00:25.160 --> 1:00:27.000
<v Speaker 2>living in New York. But just it was beautiful to

1:00:27.000 --> 1:00:31.840
<v Speaker 2>see like so many different people, some ages, races, ethnicities,

1:00:32.000 --> 1:00:33.959
<v Speaker 2>just out there just biking and just having a damn

1:00:33.960 --> 1:00:36.360
<v Speaker 2>good day. And like all we were just all around

1:00:36.440 --> 1:00:38.320
<v Speaker 2>Jersey City and everyone came out of their houses and

1:00:38.440 --> 1:00:40.600
<v Speaker 2>was waving and it was like it was just such

1:00:40.640 --> 1:00:44.800
<v Speaker 2>a positive, fun way to spend afternoon. And I'm into it.

1:00:44.880 --> 1:00:47.400
<v Speaker 2>So no, of course I have to take zero to

1:00:47.440 --> 1:00:49.000
<v Speaker 2>like one hundred. So I went and signed up for

1:00:49.040 --> 1:00:52.640
<v Speaker 2>one hundred mile bike tour for September. Oh, so excited

1:00:53.520 --> 1:00:55.320
<v Speaker 2>the New York City. This is a New York City

1:00:55.440 --> 1:00:57.960
<v Speaker 2>Century tour, which I'd done twice, but I haven't done

1:00:57.960 --> 1:01:01.960
<v Speaker 2>it in like three, three or four years. Say, it's

1:01:02.000 --> 1:01:06.240
<v Speaker 2>one hundred miles and it's epic, and it's like a

1:01:06.320 --> 1:01:10.600
<v Speaker 2>ten twelve hour day biking NonStop, and you will literally

1:01:10.600 --> 1:01:12.400
<v Speaker 2>have to sit on a pillow for like a week after.

1:01:12.600 --> 1:01:14.520
<v Speaker 1>I was gonna ask that, how is your bottom?

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I mean, my my bottom hurts bad today because

1:01:17.760 --> 1:01:19.760
<v Speaker 2>i haven't biked in so long, so I'm not conditioned.

1:01:19.760 --> 1:01:21.800
<v Speaker 2>But like if you actually bike every day, So I

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<v Speaker 2>decided I've been using it. I've been saying, oh, I

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<v Speaker 2>can't bike to work because I live in Jersey City.

1:01:26.080 --> 1:01:28.520
<v Speaker 2>Now there's an entire river between me and there's no bridge.

1:01:28.840 --> 1:01:31.200
<v Speaker 2>There's no bridge down where I am in southern New

1:01:31.280 --> 1:01:34.360
<v Speaker 2>Jersey to get to Is this a southern New Jersey,

1:01:35.000 --> 1:01:38.720
<v Speaker 2>southern Southerner than up by Bergen like where the George

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<v Speaker 2>Washington bridges.

1:01:39.520 --> 1:01:42.320
<v Speaker 1>I guess, no, you this is North Jersey.

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<v Speaker 2>Well, I'm southern. I'm south of the GW Bridge. It

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<v Speaker 2>would make no sense for me to bike all the

1:01:48.360 --> 1:01:51.720
<v Speaker 2>way to that bridge to go eleven miles down Manhattan anyway,

1:01:52.040 --> 1:01:54.560
<v Speaker 2>but there's a ferry. So I'm gonna start biking and

1:01:54.600 --> 1:01:57.160
<v Speaker 2>taking the ferry across town, across the river to Lower

1:01:57.160 --> 1:01:59.440
<v Speaker 2>Manhattan and just biking to work from there because I

1:01:59.480 --> 1:02:01.240
<v Speaker 2>want to get back on the bike. I don't want

1:02:01.240 --> 1:02:03.880
<v Speaker 2>to because right now my commute is almost too easy.

1:02:03.960 --> 1:02:06.479
<v Speaker 2>I have like four stops and I'm on the train

1:02:06.520 --> 1:02:08.360
<v Speaker 2>and I'm like off, and I don't really walk as

1:02:08.440 --> 1:02:11.760
<v Speaker 2>much anymore, and I feel like I don't know, but

1:02:12.000 --> 1:02:14.479
<v Speaker 2>I'm now at summertime and I'm just gonna I'm gonna

1:02:14.480 --> 1:02:16.480
<v Speaker 2>try it out and then that'll be my built in

1:02:17.600 --> 1:02:19.480
<v Speaker 2>That'll be my built in workout in the morning.

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<v Speaker 1>Now. I know, like there used to be like a

1:02:21.360 --> 1:02:23.640
<v Speaker 1>Newark bike club where they just used to like bike around.

1:02:23.640 --> 1:02:25.600
<v Speaker 1>And I told myself I was good because I honestly

1:02:25.680 --> 1:02:28.200
<v Speaker 1>I was never like a biker biker, but I mean

1:02:28.240 --> 1:02:29.800
<v Speaker 1>I like to ride my bike. And I was like,

1:02:30.040 --> 1:02:31.080
<v Speaker 1>I don't know how it is.

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<v Speaker 2>I don't have any fancy equipment. You know, there's a

1:02:33.960 --> 1:02:35.680
<v Speaker 2>scary bikers. We're not. You don't have to be a

1:02:35.720 --> 1:02:40.280
<v Speaker 2>scary biker. Yeah, But like I did it in address

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<v Speaker 2>one year, Like, that's what that was the That was

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<v Speaker 2>the reason I started my blog because I wanted to

1:02:44.680 --> 1:02:46.800
<v Speaker 2>show that you don't have to be like in the

1:02:46.880 --> 1:02:49.640
<v Speaker 2>tight shorts and get the fancy shoes and get like

1:02:49.680 --> 1:02:52.520
<v Speaker 2>the helmet with the rear view mirror attached to it.

1:02:52.640 --> 1:02:54.000
<v Speaker 2>Like you don't need all that crap. You just seed

1:02:54.040 --> 1:02:57.400
<v Speaker 2>a bike and your legs and that's it.

1:02:58.600 --> 1:02:59.920
<v Speaker 1>There used to be a bike shop at Newark that

1:02:59.920 --> 1:03:02.040
<v Speaker 1>you used to actually like take old bike tree fird,

1:03:02.040 --> 1:03:03.600
<v Speaker 1>but she gives them to kids. I wonder if it's

1:03:03.600 --> 1:03:04.120
<v Speaker 1>still around.

1:03:05.080 --> 1:03:06.600
<v Speaker 2>Cute bikes.

1:03:06.680 --> 1:03:07.920
<v Speaker 1>Oh you know what, you're gonna have any one to

1:03:07.920 --> 1:03:09.600
<v Speaker 1>get on because I used to roll a blade.

1:03:09.480 --> 1:03:12.720
<v Speaker 2>And we should do a We should do a bike ride.

1:03:12.720 --> 1:03:15.280
<v Speaker 2>Oh it'd be so much fun. Get Supergirl, get Superman,

1:03:15.800 --> 1:03:16.200
<v Speaker 2>come on.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah she's no, she's not. I'm just saying, like in

1:03:23.320 --> 1:03:28.840
<v Speaker 1>my mom I'm like, yeah, Supergirl a break, yo. We

1:03:28.840 --> 1:03:31.960
<v Speaker 1>got out the car, like I was like Superman told Supergirl, yeah,

1:03:31.960 --> 1:03:33.120
<v Speaker 1>you don't have to actually get out of the car.

1:03:33.600 --> 1:03:35.040
<v Speaker 1>She's like, Daddy, don't give you a kids. She was like,

1:03:35.080 --> 1:03:37.040
<v Speaker 1>just throw it through the window. So she threw she

1:03:37.080 --> 1:03:38.360
<v Speaker 1>blew a kiss and he caught it. In the air.

1:03:38.400 --> 1:03:41.640
<v Speaker 1>It was like seeing a borrow. I was so fluid,

1:03:42.000 --> 1:03:44.600
<v Speaker 1>and he ran into the house and threw himself into

1:03:44.640 --> 1:03:48.720
<v Speaker 1>the bed and try to sweep. I know, no, but honestly,

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<v Speaker 1>I think that biking sounds like fun. I I yeah,

1:03:52.760 --> 1:03:54.400
<v Speaker 1>I would actually like the bike. I think it's a

1:03:54.400 --> 1:03:56.400
<v Speaker 1>great form of exercise. And actually it's a lot of fun.

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<v Speaker 2>And you get to see the city. I saw parts

1:03:58.560 --> 1:04:02.040
<v Speaker 2>of Jersey I never knew existed. So that's a last

1:04:02.080 --> 1:04:03.760
<v Speaker 2>way to explort. And if you're new to a town

1:04:03.880 --> 1:04:05.520
<v Speaker 2>like I wasn't moving to New York, It's like, I

1:04:05.560 --> 1:04:07.040
<v Speaker 2>can't think of a better way to get to know

1:04:07.120 --> 1:04:10.080
<v Speaker 2>your way around, and and and and get in shape

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<v Speaker 2>in the process. Okay, biker's beauty, as a biker's booty

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<v Speaker 2>is a real thing.

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<v Speaker 1>Well, I have enough booty for everybody, so.

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<v Speaker 2>That just means to be good at it.

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<v Speaker 1>All right, all this Patty Jamala is like, all right,

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<v Speaker 1>I can't all right, y'all brown ambition. It's been awesome

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<v Speaker 1>as per usual.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, we'll see you guys next week. And we have

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<v Speaker 2>a turning guest. Our Fairy Money Godmother is back on

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<v Speaker 2>the show next week. Miss Lenette Califani Cox. So you

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<v Speaker 2>do not that. I'm really excited.

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<v Speaker 1>About the guests coming up too after that? Right?

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, are we confirmed? Is it happening?

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<v Speaker 1>Yes? If you're a No Madness fan. If you don't

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<v Speaker 1>know what No Madness is, you'll find out soon enough.

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<v Speaker 2>You with these caesers tonight thought I think right, people

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<v Speaker 2>are like girl, I could just google it.

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<v Speaker 1>You could, but I'm just saying that's happening too. I know,

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<v Speaker 1>write two guests back to back. That's like so unlike us,

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<v Speaker 1>look at us being social.

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<v Speaker 2>So hopefully forgive us or forgive me for having to

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<v Speaker 2>poll last last week's show. But we are not slowing

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<v Speaker 2>down for the summer. We'll be here every week. Yes,

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<v Speaker 2>we will tell a friend.

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<v Speaker 1>And then tell a friend and also leave a review.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yes, please leave reviews. You guys have We have

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<v Speaker 2>over two hundred reviews. Keep them coming. Yeah, and never enough.

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<v Speaker 2>The more reviews we have, the more people can find

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<v Speaker 2>our show, the more cool guests we can have, and

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<v Speaker 2>it's just great to spread the brown ambition love.

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<v Speaker 1>And don't forget we have a Facebook page, so you

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<v Speaker 1>know you can fend all of our random, random shenanigans

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<v Speaker 1>things that we find interesting brand ambition stuff on our

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<v Speaker 1>Facebook page, like we always are, picking like really fun,

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<v Speaker 1>serious and in between posts and articles and stuff that's

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<v Speaker 1>mine

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<v Speaker 2>Until next week.