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Speaker 1: Hey, hey, hey, and we're back and we're black and

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Speaker 1: we're brown Brown Ambition.

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Speaker 2: As someone on Twitter or no Instagram, she was like,

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Speaker 2: excuse me, is it me? Or has there not been

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Speaker 2: a new episode of Brown Ambition since May twenty third?

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Speaker 1: Uh? You caught us, you got it.

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Speaker 2: It's my fault. Last week I lost my voice and

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Speaker 2: I was a hot mess and sick and we were

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Speaker 2: not able to tape a show. But we have like

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Speaker 2: double of the goodies to share with you guys tonight

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Speaker 2: because big things have been happening. Tiffany, you were in

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Speaker 2: Disney World.

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Speaker 1: Now, I was at Universal Studios. Pretty awesome.

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Speaker 2: That looked amazing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it was a lot of fun. I took Superman,

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Speaker 1: Supergirl and I we went. We surprised her. We told

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Speaker 1: but like twice in third grade, you know, she was

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Speaker 1: to reward her good grades, and so I said, let's

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Speaker 1: She started crying and screaming, and it was honestly so awesome.

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Speaker 1: I wanted to, but that was like, you know what,

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Speaker 1: So because there's like three I guess three kind of

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Speaker 1: this new like Volcano Bay, which we didn't do because

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it was awesome, although there was a little I'm

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Speaker 2: it just came. The day after that Manchester. Ariana Grande

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Speaker 2: So the fact that she went back and did it

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because like what because, like you said, what else

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Speaker 1: That was his statement. Of course, mister Koffe or whatever

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Speaker 1: Yeah, Philly to Dubai, hashtag twenty five thousand. A prom

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Speaker 1: I had to check myself. I said, you know what,

434
00:20:52,480 --> 00:20:55,960
Speaker 1: you're right, because I if like, if someone told me today, oh,

435
00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:59,040
Speaker 1: someone spent fifteen thousand dollars on their child's MIXVA, I wouldn't.

436
00:20:59,080 --> 00:21:00,760
Speaker 1: I'd be like, yeah, that's about like you know what

437
00:21:00,800 --> 00:21:03,960
Speaker 1: I've heard before. So then why not this coming of

438
00:21:04,000 --> 00:21:06,640
Speaker 1: age for her son? So would I spend the money

439
00:21:06,680 --> 00:21:10,120
Speaker 1: in that way? No? But I could also understand it's

440
00:21:10,160 --> 00:21:12,240
Speaker 1: basically to me, the prom this whole thing was a

441
00:21:12,280 --> 00:21:15,040
Speaker 1: celebration of life for her, and I feel like she's

442
00:21:15,080 --> 00:21:17,920
Speaker 1: you know, probably rolling in all his celebrations in one

443
00:21:18,240 --> 00:21:20,240
Speaker 1: because she said even in like one of the articles,

444
00:21:20,280 --> 00:21:22,560
Speaker 1: I felt so bad. She has lumps. She said in

445
00:21:22,600 --> 00:21:24,439
Speaker 1: the article, she hasn't even told her son that they

446
00:21:24,520 --> 00:21:26,639
Speaker 1: recently found some lumps in her mouth and she doesn't

447
00:21:26,680 --> 00:21:28,760
Speaker 1: know it's looking like the cancer might have come back.

448
00:21:28,880 --> 00:21:30,639
Speaker 2: I do have some advice for her to stop talking

449
00:21:30,640 --> 00:21:32,760
Speaker 2: to the media. Yeah, so I'm like, your son read

450
00:21:32,800 --> 00:21:35,320
Speaker 2: about your lumps in the media. Yeah, and anybody. I

451
00:21:35,320 --> 00:21:37,280
Speaker 2: don't see why people even tell the media how much

452
00:21:37,320 --> 00:21:38,920
Speaker 2: they spend on things. You know it's going to happen,

453
00:21:39,520 --> 00:21:41,200
Speaker 2: don't give it. Don't give us a number. We're just

454
00:21:41,240 --> 00:21:42,520
Speaker 2: going to take that number and put it in all

455
00:21:42,560 --> 00:21:45,440
Speaker 2: the headlines and that's all anybody's gonna read about, because

456
00:21:45,440 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 2: we all know no one reads past the first paragraph.

457
00:21:47,440 --> 00:21:49,520
Speaker 2: But I'm glad you did because that, Yeah, it gives

458
00:21:49,520 --> 00:21:51,680
Speaker 2: me a little bit additional perspective. I actually just read

459
00:21:51,720 --> 00:21:54,479
Speaker 2: another quick story about it, and it sounded like they

460
00:21:54,520 --> 00:21:56,359
Speaker 2: had like a family reunion, Like it was like a

461
00:21:56,359 --> 00:22:00,080
Speaker 2: block party and like family came over and.

462
00:21:58,840 --> 00:22:01,160
Speaker 1: Yep, she fed the whole and she kind of wanted

463
00:22:01,200 --> 00:22:05,320
Speaker 1: to share that experience with not just her son, but everyone.

464
00:22:05,400 --> 00:22:07,200
Speaker 1: It kind of was it was a party for like

465
00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:10,400
Speaker 1: North Philly, and but honestly, if you get a cheat

466
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,040
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna try to share it on our page.

467
00:22:12,240 --> 00:22:16,600
Speaker 1: There is this video of a woman from North Philly hilarious.

468
00:22:16,680 --> 00:22:19,240
Speaker 1: So she's doing a video reaction. She was like, oh,

469
00:22:19,640 --> 00:22:21,960
Speaker 1: so this lady thinks she won the prom. Oh, she

470
00:22:22,000 --> 00:22:24,879
Speaker 1: didn't win the prom. See, I got eighteen years until

471
00:22:24,880 --> 00:22:27,959
Speaker 1: I guess her daughter turns ready for the problem. When

472
00:22:28,000 --> 00:22:29,840
Speaker 1: she's ready for the prom, So I'm getting her a

473
00:22:29,960 --> 00:22:32,720
Speaker 1: unicorn and a dolphin. My daughter showing up in a

474
00:22:32,800 --> 00:22:35,800
Speaker 1: in a wet suit like it was like, honestly, it

475
00:22:36,000 --> 00:22:38,560
Speaker 1: was huh hilarious. I'm gonna share it on the page,

476
00:22:39,040 --> 00:22:42,399
Speaker 1: but yeah, I just it won It helped to check me,

477
00:22:42,480 --> 00:22:44,439
Speaker 1: because you know, my you need your reaction is to

478
00:22:44,440 --> 00:22:46,879
Speaker 1: be like, oh, how wasteful. But then I thought, you know,

479
00:22:47,040 --> 00:22:51,520
Speaker 1: well is it wasteful because because she's black, Like, why

480
00:22:51,600 --> 00:22:54,120
Speaker 1: can't she spend that amount of money when I know

481
00:22:54,240 --> 00:22:56,920
Speaker 1: that there are so many other cultures that spend similar

482
00:22:56,960 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: amounts of money for coming up age parties, for their

483
00:23:01,000 --> 00:23:02,959
Speaker 1: for their children. And I don't even blink an eye

484
00:23:03,000 --> 00:23:05,080
Speaker 1: when I hear about it. And so I had to

485
00:23:05,119 --> 00:23:06,880
Speaker 1: really like, you know, it's a nice little self check

486
00:23:06,920 --> 00:23:09,720
Speaker 1: to say, Okay, and even if she wasn't, you know,

487
00:23:10,520 --> 00:23:12,680
Speaker 1: cancer and all these other things, why should that still

488
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,760
Speaker 1: be something that she doesn't do you know, for her

489
00:23:14,800 --> 00:23:16,879
Speaker 1: son and that's what she wants to do, and you know,

490
00:23:17,160 --> 00:23:20,160
Speaker 1: like yeah, so I just thought like okay, like less

491
00:23:20,240 --> 00:23:23,280
Speaker 1: judgment and just like but honestly, the son told his

492
00:23:23,320 --> 00:23:25,679
Speaker 1: mother I think it's too much, and she was like,

493
00:23:25,680 --> 00:23:26,720
Speaker 1: you'd be quiet. This is for me.

494
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:30,080
Speaker 2: I mean as a as a person who just spent

495
00:23:30,240 --> 00:23:32,800
Speaker 2: tens of thousands of dollars on a wedding I can

496
00:23:32,840 --> 00:23:35,640
Speaker 2: and feeling like it was worth every penny. I never

497
00:23:35,640 --> 00:23:37,680
Speaker 2: thought I would get to that place. But to see

498
00:23:37,680 --> 00:23:40,760
Speaker 2: your family together and to celebrate it when you're doing

499
00:23:40,760 --> 00:23:42,800
Speaker 2: it for the right reasons and you're doing it exactly

500
00:23:42,840 --> 00:23:46,160
Speaker 2: how you want it, it's a beautiful thing and should

501
00:23:46,200 --> 00:23:49,399
Speaker 2: if you have the money, girls, spend your money. I

502
00:23:49,400 --> 00:23:52,560
Speaker 2: saw Jessica Simpson on Ellen talking about her daughter's eight

503
00:23:52,640 --> 00:23:55,480
Speaker 2: year birthday with like mermaids and crap. I'm sure like

504
00:23:55,520 --> 00:23:59,639
Speaker 2: one of those mermaids costs twenty five g's real. So anyway,

505
00:23:59,680 --> 00:24:02,639
Speaker 2: I will choose to take that with a positive spin,

506
00:24:03,520 --> 00:24:05,720
Speaker 2: although I still feel like prom is like the worst.

507
00:24:05,800 --> 00:24:07,399
Speaker 1: Now, yeah it is.

508
00:24:07,520 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 2: Everyone's got to break the internet with her prom dress

509
00:24:09,760 --> 00:24:13,640
Speaker 2: and stuff. Yes, everyone prom proposals.

510
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:16,520
Speaker 1: What it's like, She's sending your daughter off as a

511
00:24:16,520 --> 00:24:24,240
Speaker 1: girl come back as a woman, and then baby proms?

512
00:24:24,240 --> 00:24:28,240
Speaker 1: Have you seen this? Like my godson Gabe, you know

513
00:24:28,320 --> 00:24:31,200
Speaker 1: Drina my publicist, she's also my best friend. Her son

514
00:24:31,280 --> 00:24:34,359
Speaker 1: is my godson and he's like two and he had

515
00:24:34,359 --> 00:24:35,959
Speaker 1: a baby problem. It was so cute. So he had

516
00:24:35,960 --> 00:24:40,480
Speaker 1: his little church you know, church suit on and like cute.

517
00:24:41,119 --> 00:24:42,760
Speaker 2: Who hosted this baby prom?

518
00:24:42,920 --> 00:24:44,600
Speaker 1: So he goes to daycare and so they had it

519
00:24:44,600 --> 00:24:46,920
Speaker 1: a daycare. So everybody just dressed up in their little

520
00:24:46,960 --> 00:24:50,280
Speaker 1: church outfits and eight cookies like they normally do, and

521
00:24:50,320 --> 00:24:52,600
Speaker 1: played music and so parents can take pictures. So it

522
00:24:52,680 --> 00:24:54,919
Speaker 1: was cute. But then I saw I posted on the

523
00:24:55,119 --> 00:24:58,920
Speaker 1: facebook page on Brown Ambition there's some baby proms. I'm like, okay,

524
00:24:59,320 --> 00:25:02,320
Speaker 1: some of the girls her dress like at two and three,

525
00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:03,240
Speaker 1: really provocative.

526
00:25:03,280 --> 00:25:06,840
Speaker 2: Why are we putting our babies and they had so

527
00:25:06,960 --> 00:25:08,880
Speaker 2: much time before they have to be uncomfortable and worry

528
00:25:08,880 --> 00:25:11,359
Speaker 2: about their bodies and make it. Why are you putting

529
00:25:11,359 --> 00:25:12,600
Speaker 2: it on them? That's so young?

530
00:25:13,280 --> 00:25:15,520
Speaker 1: Yeah, I posted it's a little girl on a yellow.

531
00:25:16,280 --> 00:25:17,760
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, the Beauty and the Beast thing. Oh I

532
00:25:17,760 --> 00:25:19,199
Speaker 2: didn't know that was like a prom. I thought that

533
00:25:19,240 --> 00:25:20,000
Speaker 2: was like Halloween.

534
00:25:20,040 --> 00:25:21,800
Speaker 1: No, no, no, that wasn't. That wasn't. I don't think I

535
00:25:21,840 --> 00:25:23,440
Speaker 1: was beauty in the beast. It's she's next to this

536
00:25:23,480 --> 00:25:26,720
Speaker 1: little boy who's wearing this little white tuxiedough with yellow

537
00:25:27,720 --> 00:25:31,080
Speaker 1: I guess, like trim, and she herself was wearing like

538
00:25:31,119 --> 00:25:34,520
Speaker 1: this really skin tight yellow like velvet draw It was

539
00:25:34,680 --> 00:25:37,000
Speaker 1: a lot. I was like, oh, okay.

540
00:25:37,200 --> 00:25:40,720
Speaker 2: A deep cleavage with nothing. Yeah, that kind of disturbed

541
00:25:40,720 --> 00:25:43,200
Speaker 2: by it reminds me of the bell dress because it's

542
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:46,800
Speaker 2: so yellow. But yeah, yeah, he's not dressed. I was like, oh, okay, yeah,

543
00:25:46,800 --> 00:25:48,800
Speaker 2: I'm not down for baby proms. I mean, do don't

544
00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:51,000
Speaker 2: parents hate that shit? Like if you're a working mom

545
00:25:51,440 --> 00:25:53,480
Speaker 2: and your daycare is like, oh yeah, you need to

546
00:25:53,680 --> 00:25:55,600
Speaker 2: put your son in a three piece suit for the

547
00:25:55,600 --> 00:25:58,399
Speaker 2: baby prom, Like if you have stuff to do, like

548
00:25:58,400 --> 00:26:01,280
Speaker 2: my mom when she when she had four kids, single mom,

549
00:26:01,359 --> 00:26:03,800
Speaker 2: like she couldn't do all that stuff and like I

550
00:26:03,800 --> 00:26:06,800
Speaker 2: can only imagine like moms now or dads even like

551
00:26:06,840 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 2: when you have one more and like they have like

552
00:26:09,320 --> 00:26:11,480
Speaker 2: they have days where I think I read an article

553
00:26:11,480 --> 00:26:13,000
Speaker 2: there was like a New York Times column where a

554
00:26:13,080 --> 00:26:15,360
Speaker 2: mom said that she had to like her she had

555
00:26:15,560 --> 00:26:18,199
Speaker 2: a note from the teacher saying that it was unfortunate

556
00:26:18,200 --> 00:26:21,160
Speaker 2: that she didn't participate in Teacher's Favorite Color day where

557
00:26:21,200 --> 00:26:23,959
Speaker 2: the kids had to wear the teacher's favorite color, and

558
00:26:24,200 --> 00:26:26,159
Speaker 2: you know, her son was left out. And I'm like that,

559
00:26:26,680 --> 00:26:28,360
Speaker 2: I don't know. I mean, I kind of get why

560
00:26:28,400 --> 00:26:31,320
Speaker 2: schools need to to make things fun, but like, I

561
00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:34,320
Speaker 2: don't know, man, daycare spending like thousands of dollars to

562
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,080
Speaker 2: pay car your kid not cause more trouble for you exactly.

563
00:26:38,080 --> 00:26:40,600
Speaker 1: I will say this that like Drina's daycare, like she

564
00:26:40,760 --> 00:26:42,600
Speaker 1: just they just were like, if you want them to

565
00:26:42,680 --> 00:26:45,119
Speaker 1: wear you know, you know, wear a prom outfit, to

566
00:26:45,160 --> 00:26:46,680
Speaker 1: just send it to them to school, the teachers would

567
00:26:46,760 --> 00:26:50,040
Speaker 1: change them. I was like, what, because there's no way

568
00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,320
Speaker 1: when I talk preschool, I'm not changing nobody one.

569
00:26:52,240 --> 00:26:52,960
Speaker 2: For the teachers.

570
00:26:53,560 --> 00:26:57,359
Speaker 1: No, the teachers, why change them? I said, Drina, I

571
00:26:57,359 --> 00:26:59,200
Speaker 1: don't know what school. You said just so too, but

572
00:27:00,240 --> 00:27:03,359
Speaker 1: it must be awesome because there's no way that me

573
00:27:03,800 --> 00:27:08,399
Speaker 1: and one teacher's eight are changing fifteen kids into their Sunday's.

574
00:27:07,920 --> 00:27:10,040
Speaker 2: Best and for what reason.

575
00:27:11,359 --> 00:27:16,000
Speaker 1: Just to take pictures on a cray paper red carpet. Meanwhile,

576
00:27:16,040 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 1: all the pictures of her son. He's crying reaching for

577
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,560
Speaker 1: her like oh my God, like oh me, because now

578
00:27:22,560 --> 00:27:23,880
Speaker 1: that he's seen her, he was like, I don't care

579
00:27:23,880 --> 00:27:27,280
Speaker 1: about this prom business. I want to go home. Yeah. No,

580
00:27:27,520 --> 00:27:29,200
Speaker 1: it's just I just think that.

581
00:27:30,520 --> 00:27:33,560
Speaker 2: I'm gonna be a lama's parent. I'm like, well, my

582
00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:35,840
Speaker 2: mom didn't bring me cupcakes at school on my birthday,

583
00:27:35,960 --> 00:27:39,000
Speaker 2: so here's your money for some snacks.

584
00:27:40,200 --> 00:27:41,520
Speaker 1: I'm trying to think of her, like how what kind

585
00:27:41,520 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: of mom would I be? I feel like I'm gonna

586
00:27:43,000 --> 00:27:44,440
Speaker 1: be a tied mom, like I'm sad.

587
00:27:44,280 --> 00:27:46,440
Speaker 2: The kind of mom who takes her stepdaughter to freaking

588
00:27:46,560 --> 00:27:50,919
Speaker 2: Universal Studios on a whim. That stepmom ever will be

589
00:27:51,000 --> 00:27:51,680
Speaker 2: my stepmom.

590
00:27:53,119 --> 00:27:57,080
Speaker 1: You know supermoms, I mean super Supergirl's mom. I call

591
00:27:57,119 --> 00:27:59,359
Speaker 1: her supermom. She was like, because she's in school to

592
00:27:59,359 --> 00:28:01,560
Speaker 1: get her masters, and she was like, I got allays

593
00:28:01,600 --> 00:28:02,160
Speaker 1: a semester.

594
00:28:03,320 --> 00:28:05,000
Speaker 2: I know. I love how you guys made her drive

595
00:28:05,040 --> 00:28:09,760
Speaker 2: you to the airport. She's a shady she real you

596
00:28:09,800 --> 00:28:13,119
Speaker 2: guys have us a real have a real strong relationship.

597
00:28:12,880 --> 00:28:14,560
Speaker 1: Did she offered? She's like, you want me to take

598
00:28:14,560 --> 00:28:17,240
Speaker 1: you guys to the airport? Honestly, her mom supermom is

599
00:28:17,240 --> 00:28:19,760
Speaker 1: like the best mom. You know, she's just great. We

600
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,679
Speaker 1: have like the three of us have like I mean,

601
00:28:21,720 --> 00:28:22,800
Speaker 1: she's got a significant other.

602
00:28:22,840 --> 00:28:23,040
Speaker 2: Two.

603
00:28:23,560 --> 00:28:25,000
Speaker 1: I don't see him really, I don't think I've ever

604
00:28:25,040 --> 00:28:26,720
Speaker 1: met him, but the three of us have like a

605
00:28:26,760 --> 00:28:28,800
Speaker 1: really good solid relationship.

606
00:28:29,960 --> 00:28:32,359
Speaker 2: I can't even tell you how lucky Supergirl is because

607
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 2: that is everything and it's so hard to do. You know,

608
00:28:36,400 --> 00:28:38,280
Speaker 2: my parents had a messy divorce. I don't know. I'm

609
00:28:38,280 --> 00:28:41,200
Speaker 2: still like that. It affects you so much as a kid,

610
00:28:41,240 --> 00:28:43,200
Speaker 2: Like I can't even tell you in ways that you kids,

611
00:28:43,200 --> 00:28:46,320
Speaker 2: you never let you see either. So such a good

612
00:28:46,360 --> 00:28:50,120
Speaker 2: example for like co parenting is just warms my little

613
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:51,680
Speaker 2: divorced baby heart.

614
00:29:00,960 --> 00:29:03,960
Speaker 1: Brown break Brown boost. What you're gonna do? Are you

615
00:29:04,000 --> 00:29:07,640
Speaker 1: gonna break or boost? Choose to I don't know.

616
00:29:08,200 --> 00:29:11,520
Speaker 2: I'm gonna I'm gonna boost. Okay, I'm gonna boost, and

617
00:29:11,560 --> 00:29:15,120
Speaker 2: it's gonna I'm just gonna toot my own horn. Okay, two,

618
00:29:15,120 --> 00:29:19,520
Speaker 2: it away too too, sorry in advance, I want to

619
00:29:19,560 --> 00:29:26,080
Speaker 2: boost being a boss because it feels so good. Well,

620
00:29:26,120 --> 00:29:28,320
Speaker 2: it's hard. It's very hard work because I manage people

621
00:29:28,400 --> 00:29:30,000
Speaker 2: now and all that kind of stuff, and I've I'm

622
00:29:30,000 --> 00:29:31,960
Speaker 2: not perfect. I've had to learn, you know, I made

623
00:29:32,000 --> 00:29:35,760
Speaker 2: some hires, like brought on people that weren't so great,

624
00:29:36,000 --> 00:29:38,280
Speaker 2: and you know, and I've had to like learn from

625
00:29:38,280 --> 00:29:40,080
Speaker 2: those lessons and how to like find the right person

626
00:29:40,160 --> 00:29:43,800
Speaker 2: for the right role or whatever. But I have become

627
00:29:44,000 --> 00:29:48,680
Speaker 2: way more decisive when it comes to like like, uh,

628
00:29:48,840 --> 00:29:52,280
Speaker 2: managing a team and knowing when someone isn't working and

629
00:29:52,360 --> 00:29:55,720
Speaker 2: saying this is not working and here comes the acts

630
00:29:55,720 --> 00:29:58,320
Speaker 2: and it has to go, and not feeling bad about it.

631
00:29:59,280 --> 00:30:01,520
Speaker 2: And this happened recently where I had to let someone

632
00:30:01,600 --> 00:30:04,680
Speaker 2: go and not a full time person. You know. Not

633
00:30:04,720 --> 00:30:07,200
Speaker 2: a fan of the podcast hopefully, but I just and

634
00:30:07,240 --> 00:30:11,120
Speaker 2: I but I feel like when I first started, and

635
00:30:11,240 --> 00:30:13,320
Speaker 2: especially for like a boss who's coming in when a

636
00:30:13,320 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 2: team is already in place, it's really hard. I don't

637
00:30:15,240 --> 00:30:17,560
Speaker 2: know if you've ever been a manager anyone listening for

638
00:30:17,720 --> 00:30:19,960
Speaker 2: been a manager and you've sort of like taken over

639
00:30:20,000 --> 00:30:22,360
Speaker 2: someone's team and you come on and you may have

640
00:30:22,440 --> 00:30:24,840
Speaker 2: to you know, get rid of some people or bring

641
00:30:24,880 --> 00:30:27,080
Speaker 2: some new ones on. It's always you can feel kind

642
00:30:27,120 --> 00:30:30,960
Speaker 2: of like like an outsider coming in and changing things up.

643
00:30:31,440 --> 00:30:33,560
Speaker 2: But you know, I'm lucky to work where I am

644
00:30:33,600 --> 00:30:36,680
Speaker 2: because they've sort of given me the space to grow

645
00:30:36,720 --> 00:30:39,120
Speaker 2: the team from scratch that I'm growing, and to also

646
00:30:40,520 --> 00:30:42,640
Speaker 2: get rid of sort of things that aren't working and

647
00:30:42,680 --> 00:30:45,720
Speaker 2: bring into things that are working. And once I started

648
00:30:45,760 --> 00:30:48,280
Speaker 2: to own that and own the fact that, Okay, I

649
00:30:48,320 --> 00:30:51,440
Speaker 2: can make decisions. I can decide when something's not working.

650
00:30:51,800 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 2: I can't wait for someone else to decide that for me,

651
00:30:53,760 --> 00:30:56,880
Speaker 2: or do the dirty work, send the mean emails, send

652
00:30:56,920 --> 00:30:59,120
Speaker 2: the you know, be the tough editor, all that kind

653
00:30:59,160 --> 00:31:01,760
Speaker 2: of stuff. And I feel like the last year, it's

654
00:31:01,760 --> 00:31:04,280
Speaker 2: been a year since I left Yahoo and enjoying Magnify,

655
00:31:04,400 --> 00:31:09,000
Speaker 2: and so I've been reflecting on just the past year

656
00:31:09,160 --> 00:31:11,040
Speaker 2: and how I've grown and what I can do better,

657
00:31:11,360 --> 00:31:13,200
Speaker 2: And I have to say, like, I feel like it

658
00:31:13,240 --> 00:31:16,680
Speaker 2: has been the development and the growth of coming into

659
00:31:16,800 --> 00:31:20,960
Speaker 2: that sense of like leadership and that sense of yeah,

660
00:31:21,000 --> 00:31:22,680
Speaker 2: I do kind of I do know what I'm doing,

661
00:31:22,720 --> 00:31:24,240
Speaker 2: and I do have a sense of what I want,

662
00:31:24,280 --> 00:31:26,240
Speaker 2: and I do know when it's not working, and I can,

663
00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:29,760
Speaker 2: you know, and much more quickly make those decisions to

664
00:31:29,760 --> 00:31:31,680
Speaker 2: stop than when it's not working than before.

665
00:31:32,080 --> 00:31:35,000
Speaker 1: When you're kind of like that's being a boss is

666
00:31:35,040 --> 00:31:37,960
Speaker 1: not easy, but you're right though, learning as you go

667
00:31:38,160 --> 00:31:40,040
Speaker 1: and accepting the fact that you're not gonna be perfect,

668
00:31:40,080 --> 00:31:42,200
Speaker 1: but you're definitely gonna get better. That's awesome.

669
00:31:43,280 --> 00:31:44,600
Speaker 2: I try.

670
00:31:45,080 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: Ah, well, mine is a little shady. I'm taking a

671
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,719
Speaker 1: brown break, and it's gonna seem odd since I told

672
00:31:54,760 --> 00:31:56,760
Speaker 1: you I had a good time, which I did on vacation,

673
00:31:56,880 --> 00:32:02,240
Speaker 1: but I'm taking a brown break from fan vacations. Shah.

674
00:32:02,560 --> 00:32:04,960
Speaker 1: I was like, wait a minute. This made me think

675
00:32:05,000 --> 00:32:06,680
Speaker 1: to my parents and like, maybe want to call my

676
00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:08,720
Speaker 1: parents and say I'm so sorry, because I'm sure I

677
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,840
Speaker 1: was terrible, especially with five kids. Well at LISTA it

678
00:32:11,880 --> 00:32:15,320
Speaker 1: was a baby, so four kids on family vacation, so

679
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,960
Speaker 1: eighty five percent of the time it was awesome. But

680
00:32:19,080 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: the fifteen percent that I was I said, what's happening?

681
00:32:21,880 --> 00:32:24,239
Speaker 1: Is this how children act? Well, I mean like, it's

682
00:32:24,280 --> 00:32:26,160
Speaker 1: not like I haven't been around kids. I'll give you

683
00:32:26,160 --> 00:32:26,760
Speaker 1: an example.

684
00:32:27,080 --> 00:32:29,120
Speaker 2: So other people's children are supergirl.

685
00:32:29,400 --> 00:32:32,240
Speaker 1: Supergirl, I mean other people. I like, once the last day,

686
00:32:32,320 --> 00:32:34,840
Speaker 1: I kind of took a step outside of our little

687
00:32:34,880 --> 00:32:37,160
Speaker 1: group and I realized that every parent was losing their mind.

688
00:32:37,200 --> 00:32:42,280
Speaker 1: I was like, oh, okay, they had one what And

689
00:32:42,320 --> 00:32:45,400
Speaker 1: I saw it like Manuel, I've never heard more annunciation

690
00:32:46,200 --> 00:32:52,400
Speaker 1: like tom nevva lissa, but every parent was trying so

691
00:32:52,640 --> 00:32:55,600
Speaker 1: hard not to snatch their little kid up in front

692
00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:59,480
Speaker 1: of company. Let me tell you, like, I'll give you

693
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: an example. So it was like, I guess it's just

694
00:33:02,760 --> 00:33:05,440
Speaker 1: that time of season where in Florida it rains, like

695
00:33:05,640 --> 00:33:08,080
Speaker 1: after like five o'clock it starts to like rain. So

696
00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:11,040
Speaker 1: we'd gone and we had an awesome day at Universal

697
00:33:11,080 --> 00:33:13,440
Speaker 1: in the morning and the afternoon, and then afterwards, I

698
00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,000
Speaker 1: was like, Okay, we can go to the pool, but

699
00:33:15,040 --> 00:33:17,880
Speaker 1: the pool is outside, so we go, even though it's

700
00:33:17,920 --> 00:33:20,560
Speaker 1: it was drizzling a little, and honestly I kind of

701
00:33:20,600 --> 00:33:22,120
Speaker 1: didn't want to go, but I was like, I know

702
00:33:22,200 --> 00:33:24,800
Speaker 1: she really wants to go, so fine, we'll go. Nobody

703
00:33:24,920 --> 00:33:28,600
Speaker 1: was in the pool, and then the the lifeguard came

704
00:33:28,640 --> 00:33:30,760
Speaker 1: up to us and said, oh, there's lightning in the area,

705
00:33:31,160 --> 00:33:34,880
Speaker 1: so that's why the pool is closed. So I tell her, Supergirl,

706
00:33:34,880 --> 00:33:36,760
Speaker 1: you know, we have to go because the pool is closed,

707
00:33:36,800 --> 00:33:38,440
Speaker 1: and she was like why. I was like, there's lightning

708
00:33:38,480 --> 00:33:40,640
Speaker 1: and she was like okay, and I'm like, well, you know,

709
00:33:40,680 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: if lightning hits the water, you know, then you could

710
00:33:43,680 --> 00:33:47,400
Speaker 1: get electrocuted. She was like okay. I said, super Girl,

711
00:33:47,400 --> 00:33:48,680
Speaker 1: you have to get out of the pool, but I

712
00:33:48,720 --> 00:33:49,520
Speaker 1: want to swim.

713
00:33:49,360 --> 00:33:50,280
Speaker 2: But she's in the water.

714
00:33:50,280 --> 00:33:53,640
Speaker 1: While this happened, I'm like, so now I'm like at

715
00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,960
Speaker 1: a loss. I'm like, so what I'm like? But I said,

716
00:33:57,080 --> 00:33:59,360
Speaker 1: water is a conductor and I went to explain. She said,

717
00:33:59,360 --> 00:34:02,960
Speaker 1: I know what it can risks the sad. He proceeded

718
00:34:03,000 --> 00:34:07,200
Speaker 1: to give me a science lesson breaking down the conductivity

719
00:34:07,320 --> 00:34:10,839
Speaker 1: of water and electricity, and I was like, where's your

720
00:34:10,840 --> 00:34:13,560
Speaker 1: father because I was like, I don't know what to do.

721
00:34:13,840 --> 00:34:15,440
Speaker 1: If I was supposed to haul you out of the pool.

722
00:34:15,480 --> 00:34:16,960
Speaker 1: I was like, you have to get at the pool.

723
00:34:17,760 --> 00:34:19,560
Speaker 1: So then finally he came and she got out and

724
00:34:19,640 --> 00:34:21,920
Speaker 1: just give me the side, like I'm willing to take

725
00:34:21,960 --> 00:34:25,640
Speaker 1: the risk basically, And I was like, what is happening?

726
00:34:25,880 --> 00:34:28,640
Speaker 1: And at one point, Superman we went on the ride

727
00:34:28,640 --> 00:34:30,480
Speaker 1: and it made him like he wasn't feeling well. I

728
00:34:30,480 --> 00:34:32,440
Speaker 1: guess it just made him really dizzy, and you know,

729
00:34:32,640 --> 00:34:35,200
Speaker 1: like maybe like two years ago he had aneurysm surgery

730
00:34:35,640 --> 00:34:37,399
Speaker 1: and so I was worried because he didn't look good

731
00:34:37,400 --> 00:34:39,319
Speaker 1: and I was like, okay, So I told her we

732
00:34:39,360 --> 00:34:40,839
Speaker 1: had one more ride to go on that we didn't

733
00:34:40,880 --> 00:34:43,239
Speaker 1: go on yet, the Shrek ride. And I was like,

734
00:34:43,280 --> 00:34:46,120
Speaker 1: you know, Supergirl, just give your father a minute. I

735
00:34:46,120 --> 00:34:49,000
Speaker 1: don't I don't think he's feeling well. And she said, oh,

736
00:34:49,000 --> 00:34:50,600
Speaker 1: he's okay, he just needs to go to the bathroom.

737
00:34:50,840 --> 00:34:53,160
Speaker 1: And I just looked at her, like, just give us

738
00:34:53,200 --> 00:34:55,920
Speaker 1: a minute, like and I said, well, I told her,

739
00:34:55,960 --> 00:34:58,000
Speaker 1: I said, you know, Supergirl, you know we have to

740
00:34:58,040 --> 00:35:00,400
Speaker 1: be kind because you know, if you're I was not

741
00:35:00,440 --> 00:35:03,120
Speaker 1: feeling well, then that's more important than riding the ride.

742
00:35:03,160 --> 00:35:07,480
Speaker 1: She looked at me like two and it had the

743
00:35:07,560 --> 00:35:11,800
Speaker 1: attitude of our lifetime. And I was like, what's happening?

744
00:35:11,920 --> 00:35:13,239
Speaker 1: And I was like, she was like, I want to

745
00:35:13,320 --> 00:35:16,960
Speaker 1: ride this ride. Damn if he's dying. I was like,

746
00:35:17,239 --> 00:35:19,160
Speaker 1: And the thing that like the straw that broke the

747
00:35:19,200 --> 00:35:21,160
Speaker 1: camel's back. We went to eat eat that shake shack

748
00:35:21,840 --> 00:35:25,360
Speaker 1: and I look over it. Yeah, they did it and

749
00:35:25,400 --> 00:35:26,879
Speaker 1: it was so good. It was my first time ever

750
00:35:26,920 --> 00:35:27,600
Speaker 1: having shakeshack.

751
00:35:27,640 --> 00:35:30,480
Speaker 2: I never would Okay.

752
00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:31,840
Speaker 1: And so we're like we're like eating, We're having a

753
00:35:31,840 --> 00:35:35,920
Speaker 1: good time. And she was like, Tippy, look at look

754
00:35:35,960 --> 00:35:38,320
Speaker 1: at my carving. This girl took She was wearing a

755
00:35:38,320 --> 00:35:40,640
Speaker 1: sweatshirt and it was like I had little metal tips

756
00:35:41,000 --> 00:35:43,400
Speaker 1: on the on the little draw stowing part of the

757
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,920
Speaker 1: sweatshirt used the metal tip to carve her name into

758
00:35:46,000 --> 00:35:49,320
Speaker 1: the shake shack of table. Mandy.

759
00:35:49,480 --> 00:35:52,000
Speaker 2: I was like, what is that?

760
00:35:52,120 --> 00:35:55,960
Speaker 1: She was like my carving. Meanwhile, she's not fine, she's dead.

761
00:35:56,520 --> 00:35:57,880
Speaker 2: I was like, so that's graffiti.

762
00:35:58,360 --> 00:36:01,320
Speaker 1: Yes. I was like she had the nerve to be mad.

763
00:36:01,800 --> 00:36:02,960
Speaker 1: I was like, you can't do that. She was like,

764
00:36:03,000 --> 00:36:05,239
Speaker 1: it's not a big deal. It wipes away. I said,

765
00:36:05,280 --> 00:36:08,040
Speaker 1: carvings don't wipe away. I thought Superman was gonna fly

766
00:36:08,120 --> 00:36:11,200
Speaker 1: over that table. He was like, you're not supposed to

767
00:36:11,280 --> 00:36:13,600
Speaker 1: do that. And she was literally angry at us for

768
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:16,000
Speaker 1: like how dare you check me? I mean like attitude

769
00:36:16,080 --> 00:36:18,480
Speaker 1: going to the car, attitude in the in the in

770
00:36:18,520 --> 00:36:21,000
Speaker 1: the elevator, like it's not a big deal. It was

771
00:36:21,080 --> 00:36:23,520
Speaker 1: just my name and they can wipe away. And I

772
00:36:23,600 --> 00:36:26,879
Speaker 1: was like what I know. So I had to text

773
00:36:26,880 --> 00:36:28,799
Speaker 1: her mother because that is the one person that could

774
00:36:28,800 --> 00:36:30,719
Speaker 1: get her all the way together. So I secretly text

775
00:36:30,719 --> 00:36:33,120
Speaker 1: her mother, was like, super Supermom, I need you to

776
00:36:33,120 --> 00:36:35,359
Speaker 1: call your daughter and get her together. And I told

777
00:36:35,400 --> 00:36:37,600
Speaker 1: her some of her Shenanigans, and before I knew it

778
00:36:37,600 --> 00:36:43,200
Speaker 1: that that phone was ringing on video call Ah, she

779
00:36:43,280 --> 00:36:44,800
Speaker 1: took it off to the side, like I need to

780
00:36:44,800 --> 00:36:51,280
Speaker 1: take this privately. Came back with a new attitude, happy girl, lucky,

781
00:36:51,440 --> 00:36:55,799
Speaker 1: Hi dies. I said, sometimes that's what you need, supermom,

782
00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:58,120
Speaker 1: to just get yourself together. And it was just like

783
00:36:58,719 --> 00:37:01,839
Speaker 1: so who it was just a lot like other than

784
00:37:01,880 --> 00:37:03,600
Speaker 1: like I said, it was fun. The park and everything

785
00:37:03,680 --> 00:37:06,680
Speaker 1: was fun. I use groupon as your friend because in

786
00:37:06,719 --> 00:37:08,360
Speaker 1: the evening, since we couldn't do anything because it was

787
00:37:08,440 --> 00:37:10,640
Speaker 1: raining so bad, I just used groupon to find like

788
00:37:10,680 --> 00:37:13,319
Speaker 1: fun activities, Like we did like this trampoline place where

789
00:37:13,320 --> 00:37:14,880
Speaker 1: you could like jump all around, So we did that

790
00:37:14,920 --> 00:37:17,200
Speaker 1: one night for like ten bucks apiece. And then we

791
00:37:17,239 --> 00:37:20,600
Speaker 1: did like these video game thing where you like immersed

792
00:37:20,600 --> 00:37:23,319
Speaker 1: yourself and like sat in a special chair and wore

793
00:37:23,360 --> 00:37:25,160
Speaker 1: these special glasses to play this video games so you

794
00:37:25,160 --> 00:37:26,880
Speaker 1: felt like you were actually in the game. We did

795
00:37:26,920 --> 00:37:29,000
Speaker 1: that for like fifteen bucks one night. So you know,

796
00:37:29,040 --> 00:37:30,799
Speaker 1: I made sure that we had fun. And like I said,

797
00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:33,760
Speaker 1: eighty five percent of it was great, but that fifteen percent,

798
00:37:33,840 --> 00:37:36,600
Speaker 1: I said, Lord, I know, I said, I want kids,

799
00:37:36,640 --> 00:37:37,960
Speaker 1: but lord, I was just.

800
00:37:37,960 --> 00:37:40,879
Speaker 2: A preview of teenage years. I know only go didn't

801
00:37:40,880 --> 00:37:41,160
Speaker 2: get work.

802
00:37:41,560 --> 00:37:43,440
Speaker 1: I would do that, I said, my god, So where

803
00:37:43,480 --> 00:37:43,680
Speaker 1: do we.

804
00:37:43,680 --> 00:37:45,880
Speaker 2: Traw the line between letting them feel themselves but feel

805
00:37:45,920 --> 00:37:48,560
Speaker 2: themselves too much? Get it hard?

806
00:37:49,040 --> 00:37:51,440
Speaker 1: Because it's not like like for me, I'm I'm always

807
00:37:51,480 --> 00:37:55,120
Speaker 1: really mindful that this is not my child, you know,

808
00:37:55,360 --> 00:37:58,400
Speaker 1: because I don't want to, you know, because it's not

809
00:37:58,440 --> 00:38:01,040
Speaker 1: like she has an absentee parent. She's got two really

810
00:38:01,080 --> 00:38:05,239
Speaker 1: great parents. So I'm always very hesitant about how, you know,

811
00:38:05,760 --> 00:38:08,600
Speaker 1: how much to say because I feel like it's not

812
00:38:08,680 --> 00:38:10,759
Speaker 1: my place. I don't know, honestly, it's hard. Like her

813
00:38:10,760 --> 00:38:14,080
Speaker 1: mother always tells me, no, Tiffany, like you know, you're

814
00:38:14,200 --> 00:38:17,239
Speaker 1: marrying superman, like she's yours now too, and I'm like yeah,

815
00:38:17,239 --> 00:38:19,279
Speaker 1: and yeah, I'm not a yeller honestly, I'm not a

816
00:38:19,400 --> 00:38:21,600
Speaker 1: like you know, so that doesn't happen. Like she doesn't

817
00:38:21,600 --> 00:38:24,759
Speaker 1: really get spankings. I mean maybe on occasion her mother might,

818
00:38:24,840 --> 00:38:27,360
Speaker 1: but that's not really she doesn't really need it, and

819
00:38:27,480 --> 00:38:30,160
Speaker 1: so you know, and that's like my nature is not

820
00:38:30,320 --> 00:38:33,080
Speaker 1: yelling and screaming anything anyway. But I always feel weird

821
00:38:33,160 --> 00:38:37,200
Speaker 1: because you know, I just don't want to push her

822
00:38:37,239 --> 00:38:40,040
Speaker 1: away because it's not like like I'm not mommy, I'm

823
00:38:40,080 --> 00:38:42,040
Speaker 1: not daddy, you know what I mean. So it's always

824
00:38:42,120 --> 00:38:44,160
Speaker 1: just this weird space where I'm like, let me just

825
00:38:44,200 --> 00:38:48,240
Speaker 1: call your mom real quick. So that's been like my backup,

826
00:38:48,480 --> 00:38:50,799
Speaker 1: like let me text your mama real quick.

827
00:38:51,080 --> 00:38:52,840
Speaker 2: She can handles like a perfect way. I think you

828
00:38:52,880 --> 00:38:54,920
Speaker 2: guys found your way to handle it. So you know,

829
00:38:55,719 --> 00:38:59,279
Speaker 2: when it's like level ten, you know, behavior issues, you

830
00:38:59,320 --> 00:39:02,080
Speaker 2: contact mom and then you handle like levels one through three.

831
00:39:02,480 --> 00:39:07,520
Speaker 2: You know, like levels three through seven are Superman seven

832
00:39:07,600 --> 00:39:10,480
Speaker 2: through ten, that's mom my territory like and like it

833
00:39:10,560 --> 00:39:11,680
Speaker 2: was different for everybody.

834
00:39:12,200 --> 00:39:16,920
Speaker 1: Like graffiti level ten, I was like, oh, they.

835
00:39:16,800 --> 00:39:19,920
Speaker 2: Don't want my name on this table, but one day

836
00:39:19,960 --> 00:39:22,960
Speaker 2: I'll probably be famous. So oh my.

837
00:39:23,000 --> 00:39:25,239
Speaker 1: God, I was like what I was like, I can't

838
00:39:25,239 --> 00:39:25,960
Speaker 1: wait to go back home.

839
00:39:27,200 --> 00:39:32,880
Speaker 2: As one reformed brat to one budding bat. I acknowledge you.

840
00:39:33,080 --> 00:39:36,000
Speaker 2: I see you, Supercurl. It's gonna be a rocky year

841
00:39:36,040 --> 00:39:38,880
Speaker 2: for you, to rocky next eight years for you.

842
00:39:38,760 --> 00:39:42,680
Speaker 1: Guys, Oh my god, huh yeah, just pray for me.

843
00:39:42,840 --> 00:39:43,560
Speaker 1: Be a family.

844
00:39:45,600 --> 00:39:47,160
Speaker 2: You're you're in our thoughts and prayers.

845
00:39:48,719 --> 00:39:50,879
Speaker 1: Well, let's take care of their issues now, any any

846
00:39:50,920 --> 00:39:53,400
Speaker 1: good questions in our in our inbox.

847
00:39:53,719 --> 00:39:56,840
Speaker 2: Yes, we have a good question from l she'd like

848
00:39:56,880 --> 00:40:00,319
Speaker 2: to remain anonymous. Insult and it's no miss lu. Miss

849
00:40:00,400 --> 00:40:03,560
Speaker 2: Elle says, I'm a realtor, but wasn't working my business

850
00:40:03,640 --> 00:40:06,360
Speaker 2: for a while, and now I'm in debt. I'm sixty

851
00:40:06,400 --> 00:40:09,760
Speaker 2: three thousand dollars behind on my mortgage. I'm being sued

852
00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:13,680
Speaker 2: for two accidents and in another twenty thousand dollars in debt,

853
00:40:13,760 --> 00:40:15,840
Speaker 2: and right now I'm also about to send two of

854
00:40:15,840 --> 00:40:19,359
Speaker 2: my kids off to college. One's going in, one's going

855
00:40:19,400 --> 00:40:21,359
Speaker 2: in a year, and the other's going to go next year.

856
00:40:21,840 --> 00:40:24,239
Speaker 2: I revamped my business, but I have no savings and

857
00:40:24,320 --> 00:40:28,120
Speaker 2: no money in the bank. Is bankruptcy Chapter seven right

858
00:40:28,480 --> 00:40:32,799
Speaker 2: for me? Mis Elda? What do you think she means

859
00:40:32,840 --> 00:40:36,239
Speaker 2: I'm sixty to sixty thousand dollars behind in my mortgage.

860
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:39,000
Speaker 1: Meaning that she probably has not paid her mortgage and

861
00:40:39,040 --> 00:40:42,680
Speaker 1: she owes it's probably over a year. Yeah, probably, I mean,

862
00:40:42,719 --> 00:40:44,120
Speaker 1: depending what kind of how she has. YEP.

863
00:40:45,520 --> 00:40:49,080
Speaker 2: I know bankruptcy sounds dra drastic and people are afraid

864
00:40:49,120 --> 00:40:52,360
Speaker 2: of it, and it is something too. It is something

865
00:40:52,360 --> 00:40:54,920
Speaker 2: to approach with caution. Obviously. I mean that takes what

866
00:40:55,000 --> 00:40:59,000
Speaker 2: a decade for you to recover from a bankruptcy. I

867
00:40:59,000 --> 00:41:01,880
Speaker 2: mean your credit is going to be crap for a while.

868
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:06,200
Speaker 2: But I feel like, yes, I feel yeah, sixty thousand dollars,

869
00:41:06,239 --> 00:41:09,520
Speaker 2: you can't make your mortgage payments, you weren't bringing any

870
00:41:09,600 --> 00:41:12,240
Speaker 2: money from your business, You have twenty thousand dollars in debt,

871
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:17,560
Speaker 2: two kids going off to college soon. I mean, obviously,

872
00:41:17,600 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 2: I feel like you should, you know, reach out to

873
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,839
Speaker 2: someone you know who can maybe give you some more

874
00:41:22,840 --> 00:41:26,239
Speaker 2: specific advice because maybe you have something else, you have

875
00:41:26,280 --> 00:41:29,040
Speaker 2: other things going on, But I mean, I don't know

876
00:41:29,080 --> 00:41:34,240
Speaker 2: what that amount of debt. Yeah, my my my instinct

877
00:41:34,280 --> 00:41:36,520
Speaker 2: is to say, I think you should at least consider it. Yeah,

878
00:41:36,560 --> 00:41:37,759
Speaker 2: you're right to be considering it.

879
00:41:38,680 --> 00:41:42,640
Speaker 1: And also too, I mean when you're are your kids,

880
00:41:43,160 --> 00:41:45,759
Speaker 1: like how is college going to be paid for? Like

881
00:41:45,840 --> 00:41:47,760
Speaker 1: are they taking out student loans?

882
00:41:48,000 --> 00:41:50,759
Speaker 2: Doesn't sound like she can afford to help them?

883
00:41:51,040 --> 00:41:55,920
Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean honestly, I would highly consider like like

884
00:41:56,000 --> 00:41:58,359
Speaker 1: having your child really think about maybe spending the first

885
00:41:58,400 --> 00:42:02,160
Speaker 1: two years at a community college. And this is what

886
00:42:02,280 --> 00:42:05,080
Speaker 1: so a friend of mine did this. She went to

887
00:42:05,120 --> 00:42:08,160
Speaker 1: community college, got straight a's and there's a college a

888
00:42:08,200 --> 00:42:12,239
Speaker 1: community I don't know if it's Essex County, but oftentimes

889
00:42:12,280 --> 00:42:16,560
Speaker 1: community colleges will partner with for your schools. So for example,

890
00:42:16,719 --> 00:42:19,800
Speaker 1: Essex County partners with Rutgers where and I don't know

891
00:42:19,800 --> 00:42:22,080
Speaker 1: if they still do this, but at the time, if

892
00:42:22,120 --> 00:42:24,920
Speaker 1: you got straight days at Essex County College, you got

893
00:42:24,960 --> 00:42:28,120
Speaker 1: a full scholarship to Rutgers, so, you know, so just

894
00:42:28,200 --> 00:42:30,120
Speaker 1: looking at it differently, so at the end, you know,

895
00:42:30,160 --> 00:42:33,400
Speaker 1: and then too, because it partnered, those were partner schools,

896
00:42:33,719 --> 00:42:36,080
Speaker 1: they accepted those credits, so it wasn't like you were

897
00:42:36,080 --> 00:42:38,359
Speaker 1: starting all over. Oftentimes, if you go from school to school,

898
00:42:38,480 --> 00:42:40,279
Speaker 1: they don't take all your credits because they want their money,

899
00:42:40,320 --> 00:42:43,000
Speaker 1: you know. But with you know, with Essex County, it's

900
00:42:43,040 --> 00:42:46,239
Speaker 1: like Rutgers Newark is in Essex County and so they

901
00:42:46,239 --> 00:42:48,280
Speaker 1: took those credits till you started off as a junior

902
00:42:48,360 --> 00:42:50,560
Speaker 1: and now you have, you know, the next two years

903
00:42:50,560 --> 00:42:54,800
Speaker 1: are free. And so really considering alternative ways of having

904
00:42:54,840 --> 00:42:58,399
Speaker 1: your child go to school, it's gonna help tremendously. But yeah,

905
00:42:58,400 --> 00:43:01,279
Speaker 1: I probably honestly would think about bankruptcy. But you want

906
00:43:01,320 --> 00:43:05,200
Speaker 1: to get clear on what the ramifications of bankruptcy are.

907
00:43:05,719 --> 00:43:08,560
Speaker 2: Let's talk about that. So I feel like people think

908
00:43:08,560 --> 00:43:11,040
Speaker 2: about bankruptcy and they're just like, oh, that sounds terrifying.

909
00:43:11,400 --> 00:43:14,120
Speaker 2: Well I've been in it. I haven't been at bankruptcy,

910
00:43:14,160 --> 00:43:17,960
Speaker 2: but I've had family members who followed bankruptcy, so I

911
00:43:17,960 --> 00:43:20,680
Speaker 2: don't mind talking about it. So there are two types

912
00:43:20,760 --> 00:43:24,120
Speaker 2: of bankruptcy, and I am referring to Magnify money. We

913
00:43:24,200 --> 00:43:27,840
Speaker 2: have this awesome free Get out of Debt Forever guide online,

914
00:43:27,880 --> 00:43:29,799
Speaker 2: so I am just cheating my way by reading our

915
00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:33,239
Speaker 2: bankruptcy section to refresh my own memory. But there's two

916
00:43:33,239 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 2: types of bankruptcy. Of chapter seven, which Miss l is

917
00:43:35,680 --> 00:43:39,120
Speaker 2: talking about in chapter thirteen. The only the difference between

918
00:43:39,120 --> 00:43:41,880
Speaker 2: the two is how how they treat your debt. So

919
00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:45,520
Speaker 2: with chapter seven, you completely discharge your debt except for

920
00:43:45,560 --> 00:43:49,000
Speaker 2: some things like student loans obviously and maybe child support.

921
00:43:49,440 --> 00:43:53,200
Speaker 2: Chapter thirteen is completely different. It's when you actually repay

922
00:43:53,239 --> 00:43:55,719
Speaker 2: your debt, but you come up with like a repayment

923
00:43:55,760 --> 00:43:58,040
Speaker 2: plan for all your different debts and you have three

924
00:43:58,040 --> 00:44:00,839
Speaker 2: to five years to basically pay them off, so you're

925
00:44:00,880 --> 00:44:03,439
Speaker 2: not discharging your debt, You're going to pay them off

926
00:44:03,520 --> 00:44:04,719
Speaker 2: over a certain amount of time.

927
00:44:06,239 --> 00:44:08,919
Speaker 1: Is it doesn't like I think at chapter seven, don't

928
00:44:09,000 --> 00:44:11,320
Speaker 1: you you might have to even liquidate some of your assets.

929
00:44:11,480 --> 00:44:14,080
Speaker 2: Yes, Chapter seven. Yeah, so you may have to liquidate

930
00:44:14,760 --> 00:44:16,880
Speaker 2: like your home or any property that you have, or

931
00:44:16,880 --> 00:44:19,760
Speaker 2: a car. Even I know someone in Knew who filed

932
00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:23,360
Speaker 2: Chapter seven bankruptcy had to get rid of their car.

933
00:44:24,960 --> 00:44:27,319
Speaker 2: They didn't have to leave their home. I don't know.

934
00:44:27,960 --> 00:44:30,239
Speaker 2: I don't know what. It depends on how much debt

935
00:44:30,280 --> 00:44:32,839
Speaker 2: you have and how much you're in the in the red,

936
00:44:33,239 --> 00:44:34,960
Speaker 2: whether or not you have to sell off your assets

937
00:44:35,000 --> 00:44:37,440
Speaker 2: to be able to settle, because sometimes when they say,

938
00:44:37,520 --> 00:44:40,720
Speaker 2: you know, Chapter seven allows you to discharge your debts,

939
00:44:41,120 --> 00:44:43,920
Speaker 2: your creditors will probably petition the court and say, well,

940
00:44:43,920 --> 00:44:46,200
Speaker 2: we don't want nothing, we want at least get something,

941
00:44:47,480 --> 00:44:49,520
Speaker 2: and the court is going to decide who gets what.

942
00:44:49,680 --> 00:44:51,520
Speaker 2: And the court may say, well, you know, you have

943
00:44:51,600 --> 00:44:53,880
Speaker 2: a home with like fifty thousand dollars worth of equity,

944
00:44:54,280 --> 00:44:55,839
Speaker 2: so you go ahead and sell that off and then

945
00:44:55,880 --> 00:44:58,840
Speaker 2: give that fifty grand to I don't know, these credit

946
00:44:58,840 --> 00:45:03,600
Speaker 2: card companies or this lender here or there. So every

947
00:45:03,680 --> 00:45:07,239
Speaker 2: case is different and it can be nasty, like I

948
00:45:07,400 --> 00:45:11,319
Speaker 2: and especially after the recession, of course, a lot more

949
00:45:11,360 --> 00:45:14,600
Speaker 2: people than usual or filing bankruptcy, and the people a

950
00:45:14,600 --> 00:45:16,440
Speaker 2: couple of people I know who file bankruptcy here on

951
00:45:16,520 --> 00:45:19,959
Speaker 2: that time had had a really rough time in court

952
00:45:20,000 --> 00:45:23,680
Speaker 2: because the judges were being super tough on them about

953
00:45:23,680 --> 00:45:27,440
Speaker 2: what they owed and not being you knows as lax

954
00:45:27,480 --> 00:45:29,879
Speaker 2: about letting certain debts be discharged.

955
00:45:31,360 --> 00:45:33,880
Speaker 1: So you just want to be mindful that filing for

956
00:45:33,960 --> 00:45:38,040
Speaker 1: bankruptcy is not like it's like, you know, years ago,

957
00:45:38,080 --> 00:45:40,720
Speaker 1: it was an easy like kind of like clean slate.

958
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,440
Speaker 1: But that's not necessarily what it's going to be now,

959
00:45:45,160 --> 00:45:49,520
Speaker 1: and and it might not be a bankruptcy thing, right

960
00:45:49,640 --> 00:45:54,080
Speaker 1: because well because like for example, like I owed, I

961
00:45:54,120 --> 00:45:55,840
Speaker 1: don't even know how much I owed a ton of

962
00:45:55,880 --> 00:45:59,880
Speaker 1: money on my home, and so I didn't file bankruptcy.

963
00:45:59,880 --> 00:46:02,439
Speaker 1: I you know, I don't I guess you don't file

964
00:46:02,480 --> 00:46:05,319
Speaker 1: for foreclosure. I just you know, went through foreclosure. So

965
00:46:05,560 --> 00:46:08,360
Speaker 1: although it's equally it's damaging to your credit report, I

966
00:46:08,400 --> 00:46:10,680
Speaker 1: didn't file for bankruptcy. They just ended up taking the house,

967
00:46:11,560 --> 00:46:13,279
Speaker 1: which obviously you have kids, so you don't want that

968
00:46:13,320 --> 00:46:16,520
Speaker 1: to necessarily happen, but you might lose the house anyway.

969
00:46:16,719 --> 00:46:18,400
Speaker 2: Get me a lot When people are like don't follow

970
00:46:18,400 --> 00:46:20,360
Speaker 2: a bankruptcy. It's going to ruin your credit. I'm like,

971
00:46:20,360 --> 00:46:23,919
Speaker 2: but if you're considering bankruptcy, chances are your credit you're.

972
00:46:23,600 --> 00:46:26,600
Speaker 1: Here now exactly because if you're owing that much money

973
00:46:26,640 --> 00:46:29,080
Speaker 1: on your mortgage, so you probably already your credit is

974
00:46:29,080 --> 00:46:32,160
Speaker 1: already there. So just thinking about alternative ways if that

975
00:46:33,040 --> 00:46:35,960
Speaker 1: not for the like the credit issue, but just making

976
00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:39,279
Speaker 1: sure you're what's going to be least disruptive. Is it foreclosure,

977
00:46:39,400 --> 00:46:41,560
Speaker 1: is it bankruptcy? Something is going to have to happen,

978
00:46:41,800 --> 00:46:44,120
Speaker 1: but what's going to be least disruptive to your life?

979
00:46:44,280 --> 00:46:47,279
Speaker 1: And meeting with someone A lot of times, like I think,

980
00:46:47,360 --> 00:46:49,399
Speaker 1: like the United Way Here in New where I live,

981
00:46:49,680 --> 00:46:53,640
Speaker 1: they have financial classes, but looking for nonprofit agencies that

982
00:46:53,680 --> 00:46:57,120
Speaker 1: can kind of help you walk through your different options

983
00:46:57,200 --> 00:46:59,359
Speaker 1: so you can make the best option, choose the best

984
00:46:59,400 --> 00:47:01,840
Speaker 1: option for you, you and your family, and you're not

985
00:47:01,920 --> 00:47:04,600
Speaker 1: choosing it just based upon the rest you know, and

986
00:47:04,600 --> 00:47:06,600
Speaker 1: you're not choosing it based upon some company trying to

987
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:07,799
Speaker 1: sell you something you don't.

988
00:47:07,800 --> 00:47:09,920
Speaker 2: Don't be sitting and watching TV at two am and

989
00:47:09,960 --> 00:47:13,720
Speaker 2: call the infomercial hotline one eight hundred bankruptcy or whatever,

990
00:47:13,800 --> 00:47:15,840
Speaker 2: because those places are going to ask you for like

991
00:47:15,920 --> 00:47:18,800
Speaker 2: money upfront and all kinds of crazy stuff. We always

992
00:47:18,840 --> 00:47:23,600
Speaker 2: referred people to the National Foundation for Credit Counseling, which

993
00:47:23,719 --> 00:47:26,359
Speaker 2: can get you in touch with actual credit counselors, your

994
00:47:26,400 --> 00:47:27,719
Speaker 2: nonprofit and won't charge you.

995
00:47:29,440 --> 00:47:33,600
Speaker 1: I was just an FCC dot org, n SCC dot org,

996
00:47:34,120 --> 00:47:39,400
Speaker 1: and that's f as in Frank, Frank, thanks for that.

997
00:47:39,560 --> 00:47:43,520
Speaker 2: I was like, let's start with F and I wanted

998
00:47:43,560 --> 00:47:45,200
Speaker 2: to go back because I know I jumped right in

999
00:47:45,200 --> 00:47:48,279
Speaker 2: and I was like, yeah, consider a bankruptcy. But she

1000
00:47:48,360 --> 00:47:51,080
Speaker 2: mentioned her mortgage and being sixty thousand dollars in debt,

1001
00:47:51,239 --> 00:47:53,680
Speaker 2: so I don't she doesn't mention who her lender is.

1002
00:47:53,719 --> 00:47:57,120
Speaker 2: But lenders have gotten a little bit better. They should

1003
00:47:57,160 --> 00:47:59,520
Speaker 2: be a lot better, but have gotten better about working

1004
00:47:59,560 --> 00:48:03,480
Speaker 2: with homeowners who are in tour, who are having trouble

1005
00:48:03,520 --> 00:48:06,319
Speaker 2: paying off or paying their mortgage on time. And when

1006
00:48:06,360 --> 00:48:08,359
Speaker 2: you're that far delinquent, I think it's been at least

1007
00:48:08,360 --> 00:48:10,320
Speaker 2: I don't know, assuming your mortgage is like I don't know,

1008
00:48:10,320 --> 00:48:12,560
Speaker 2: a little less than two thousands, maybe a year or two.

1009
00:48:12,760 --> 00:48:16,040
Speaker 2: You've been missing your payments. This is the time when

1010
00:48:16,120 --> 00:48:18,400
Speaker 2: you have some I think a little bit of leverage,

1011
00:48:18,440 --> 00:48:21,000
Speaker 2: and you can contact your lender if you haven't already

1012
00:48:21,040 --> 00:48:24,080
Speaker 2: and asked them did they have can they help you

1013
00:48:24,120 --> 00:48:26,800
Speaker 2: with to negotiate a lower payment or or work something

1014
00:48:26,840 --> 00:48:28,960
Speaker 2: out like a loan, get you in a loan modification

1015
00:48:29,120 --> 00:48:32,320
Speaker 2: program so that maybe you can save your house and

1016
00:48:32,360 --> 00:48:35,719
Speaker 2: maybe even get you affordable payments or reduce your your

1017
00:48:35,760 --> 00:48:37,080
Speaker 2: interest rate or something.

1018
00:48:38,280 --> 00:48:40,040
Speaker 1: I was gonna say that, like, I mean, it depends

1019
00:48:40,080 --> 00:48:42,800
Speaker 1: what your bank is, because my bank, who was terrible.

1020
00:48:43,120 --> 00:48:45,480
Speaker 1: I applied for modification like three times and was denied

1021
00:48:45,480 --> 00:48:50,200
Speaker 1: just because they're the devil. But you know, modification can

1022
00:48:50,239 --> 00:48:52,759
Speaker 1: definitely be something that's helpful because usually they set up

1023
00:48:52,760 --> 00:48:55,160
Speaker 1: some sort of payment plan for you, and if your

1024
00:48:55,200 --> 00:48:57,160
Speaker 1: mortgage is a place where you have like the most

1025
00:48:57,200 --> 00:49:00,640
Speaker 1: amount of debt, you might not need bankruptcy. Like if

1026
00:49:00,680 --> 00:49:02,440
Speaker 1: your debt is not so bad in other places and

1027
00:49:02,480 --> 00:49:05,080
Speaker 1: it's really just your mortgage, then you can be like, Okay,

1028
00:49:05,200 --> 00:49:08,120
Speaker 1: let's let me work directly with my mortgage lender to

1029
00:49:08,200 --> 00:49:10,840
Speaker 1: try to work something out, because you already had the

1030
00:49:10,880 --> 00:49:14,480
Speaker 1: first part of modification is not paying, So you got

1031
00:49:14,480 --> 00:49:14,879
Speaker 1: that down.

1032
00:49:15,280 --> 00:49:16,839
Speaker 2: That's what I was thinking. Yeah, I mean, you're kind

1033
00:49:16,840 --> 00:49:18,920
Speaker 2: of about that. They say, like, don't pay for a year, right,

1034
00:49:19,000 --> 00:49:20,680
Speaker 2: and then mm hmm, or.

1035
00:49:20,640 --> 00:49:22,880
Speaker 1: Like sometimes it's like three months, six months. Basically you

1036
00:49:22,920 --> 00:49:24,640
Speaker 1: have to prove that you need it. And so a

1037
00:49:24,640 --> 00:49:27,640
Speaker 1: lot of people are struggling but they still have managed

1038
00:49:27,680 --> 00:49:29,640
Speaker 1: to make payments, so they basically tell them to stop.

1039
00:49:29,840 --> 00:49:32,279
Speaker 1: But if you've not made payments and you stopped and

1040
00:49:32,320 --> 00:49:35,120
Speaker 1: you're that far in the hole, then working on a modification.

1041
00:49:35,239 --> 00:49:37,759
Speaker 1: I would try that first, you know, like call your

1042
00:49:37,760 --> 00:49:40,000
Speaker 1: bank and say, hey, I want to be considered for

1043
00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:42,760
Speaker 1: a modification. What are the next steps? But then also

1044
00:49:42,800 --> 00:49:45,640
Speaker 1: reach out to the NFCC dot org to get help

1045
00:49:45,680 --> 00:49:49,400
Speaker 1: on the credit end as well. Yeah, like bankruptcy is

1046
00:49:49,760 --> 00:49:51,160
Speaker 1: don't you don't have to throw it out the window,

1047
00:49:51,400 --> 00:49:53,080
Speaker 1: but it should not be the first thing you grab

1048
00:49:53,160 --> 00:49:55,360
Speaker 1: at because you still have options.

1049
00:49:55,239 --> 00:49:58,000
Speaker 2: And absolutely no matter what you do, something is going

1050
00:49:58,320 --> 00:50:01,600
Speaker 2: horribly wrong here with I mean, she mentions, you know,

1051
00:50:01,800 --> 00:50:03,920
Speaker 2: another twenty thousand dollars in debt, which could have been

1052
00:50:03,960 --> 00:50:06,560
Speaker 2: just you know, from when her business she started struggling,

1053
00:50:06,640 --> 00:50:09,480
Speaker 2: you know, being a realtor or whatnot, but she mentioned

1054
00:50:09,480 --> 00:50:13,399
Speaker 2: those two she's being sued for two separate incidences. Doesn't

1055
00:50:13,440 --> 00:50:16,879
Speaker 2: go into detail, but it sounds like the point when

1056
00:50:17,120 --> 00:50:18,920
Speaker 2: bankruptcy would be an option. You just sort of have

1057
00:50:19,080 --> 00:50:23,960
Speaker 2: all these different sort of debts and financial obligations sort

1058
00:50:23,960 --> 00:50:25,520
Speaker 2: of coming at you all at once, and you can't

1059
00:50:25,560 --> 00:50:27,880
Speaker 2: manage it all. And I don't know, it sounds like

1060
00:50:28,440 --> 00:50:31,680
Speaker 2: I understand why she's she's coming to this, but really

1061
00:50:31,800 --> 00:50:34,440
Speaker 2: encourage you to try. Try reaching out to the NFCC,

1062
00:50:34,640 --> 00:50:39,360
Speaker 2: try calling your bank, try calling your mortgage company, and

1063
00:50:39,480 --> 00:50:42,440
Speaker 2: just so that when you make this decision, you'd absolutely

1064
00:50:42,520 --> 00:50:43,560
Speaker 2: know that there was no other way.

1065
00:50:44,120 --> 00:50:44,480
Speaker 1: This was.

1066
00:50:44,920 --> 00:50:48,080
Speaker 2: This was you know, what had to be done. Yeah,

1067
00:50:48,880 --> 00:50:51,440
Speaker 2: and good luck to you and for anybody who's followed bankruptcy.

1068
00:50:51,480 --> 00:50:52,840
Speaker 2: I hope that we I mean, like, you don't have

1069
00:50:52,880 --> 00:50:55,839
Speaker 2: to feel bad about it. There is a path after bankruptcy. Yeah,

1070
00:50:55,920 --> 00:50:58,480
Speaker 2: your life does not have to be over. In fact,

1071
00:50:58,520 --> 00:51:02,600
Speaker 2: do you know the banks actually they market to people

1072
00:51:02,600 --> 00:51:04,320
Speaker 2: who have bankruptcies on their records.

1073
00:51:04,719 --> 00:51:07,359
Speaker 1: Yeah, they do. They market to them, Like what as look,

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00:51:07,360 --> 00:51:08,960
Speaker 1: as you follow bankruptcy and you're gonna start to get

1075
00:51:09,000 --> 00:51:10,920
Speaker 1: so many credit card solicitations.

1076
00:51:10,960 --> 00:51:14,239
Speaker 2: They're like, so you're irresponsible debt and you pay.

1077
00:51:14,280 --> 00:51:16,160
Speaker 1: They're like, what you don't already wear credit card debt?

1078
00:51:16,160 --> 00:51:17,800
Speaker 1: That means you have plenty of space.

1079
00:51:19,320 --> 00:51:22,520
Speaker 2: It's pretty disgusting. Yeah, So that's why you know, when

1080
00:51:22,520 --> 00:51:24,319
Speaker 2: you after you follow bankruptcy, you've got to like get

1081
00:51:24,400 --> 00:51:26,200
Speaker 2: to the core issue of what's really going on? How

1082
00:51:26,200 --> 00:51:28,560
Speaker 2: did you get there and fix it or try to

1083
00:51:28,600 --> 00:51:30,480
Speaker 2: fix it so you don't end up. It's not a

1084
00:51:30,520 --> 00:51:32,239
Speaker 2: band aid. You know, you can't treat it like that.

1085
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,719
Speaker 2: It's a big deal. And if you don't fix the

1086
00:51:34,760 --> 00:51:39,080
Speaker 2: underlying issues, whatever they may be, you may just find

1087
00:51:39,120 --> 00:51:42,520
Speaker 2: yourself winding up filing again down the road.

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00:51:42,520 --> 00:51:45,320
Speaker 1: Exactly, exactly suctly.

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00:51:46,000 --> 00:51:48,280
Speaker 2: Well, thanks for your question, Elle. If you guys have questions,

1090
00:51:48,400 --> 00:51:53,080
Speaker 2: hit us up at Brand Ambition podcast dot com. Thank you,

1091
00:51:53,080 --> 00:51:57,080
Speaker 2: ma'am to ask us anything tab or you can shoot

1092
00:51:57,120 --> 00:52:00,600
Speaker 2: us a note directly at Brown Ambition Podcast all dot com.

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00:52:05,960 --> 00:52:09,640
Speaker 1: No, I don't know you're ready. I was taking a

1094
00:52:09,680 --> 00:52:20,399
Speaker 1: sweet of my lemon water bom all right, So it's

1095
00:52:20,400 --> 00:52:22,880
Speaker 1: time for all we do is when when win? No

1096
00:52:23,040 --> 00:52:27,920
Speaker 1: matter what you know, Brown Ambition is the best I need. Honestly,

1097
00:52:27,960 --> 00:52:29,640
Speaker 1: I'm gonna write a rap one day, even though I

1098
00:52:29,640 --> 00:52:31,000
Speaker 1: say that every time.

1099
00:52:31,600 --> 00:52:32,920
Speaker 2: But stick with the heads.

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00:52:35,400 --> 00:52:38,359
Speaker 1: Keep I know, but I always feel like the last

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00:52:38,400 --> 00:52:39,920
Speaker 1: line I don't I need to figure out what that

1102
00:52:40,000 --> 00:52:42,520
Speaker 1: closing line is for, just like you know, it's just

1103
00:52:42,920 --> 00:52:50,040
Speaker 1: it's a little pie hands go right and that. You know,

1104
00:52:50,120 --> 00:52:53,319
Speaker 1: we should have a we should have a you know how,

1105
00:52:53,320 --> 00:52:55,160
Speaker 1: like we have the segment like where I was singing

1106
00:52:55,320 --> 00:52:57,399
Speaker 1: uh s w V but it was supposed to be.

1107
00:52:58,120 --> 00:53:03,520
Speaker 2: Like, yes, we should have listeners the tickles. I'm funny,

1108
00:53:03,520 --> 00:53:04,200
Speaker 2: people know.

1109
00:53:04,239 --> 00:53:07,080
Speaker 1: So many people tweet they were like Tiffany, please return

1110
00:53:07,120 --> 00:53:11,080
Speaker 1: your black card. I'm like, no, I want it, but

1111
00:53:11,160 --> 00:53:12,680
Speaker 1: like we should, you know how, like you never like

1112
00:53:12,760 --> 00:53:14,920
Speaker 1: usually it's me that knows, like all the like the

1113
00:53:14,920 --> 00:53:17,280
Speaker 1: pop references. I feel like we should have a segment

1114
00:53:17,320 --> 00:53:19,480
Speaker 1: like let's see what Manny knows the pop persons when

1115
00:53:19,520 --> 00:53:22,759
Speaker 1: I'm like, what about you know whatever? Like I don't

1116
00:53:22,800 --> 00:53:24,000
Speaker 1: know hip hop?

1117
00:53:24,320 --> 00:53:26,880
Speaker 2: Or just want to embarrass me that now.

1118
00:53:26,680 --> 00:53:28,520
Speaker 1: I love to see it, Like does Manny know about

1119
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:30,720
Speaker 1: what happened on Love and Hip Hop this week?

1120
00:53:31,560 --> 00:53:32,080
Speaker 2: He doesn't know.

1121
00:53:32,719 --> 00:53:35,080
Speaker 1: I know, I know what we're gonna, Larry, I'm gonna

1122
00:53:35,080 --> 00:53:35,720
Speaker 1: think of something.

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00:53:36,000 --> 00:53:39,320
Speaker 2: Mandy rewatched season three of America's I Mean Great British

1124
00:53:39,320 --> 00:53:44,520
Speaker 2: Bake Off, so rewatched it, watched it once, and watched

1125
00:53:44,520 --> 00:53:46,960
Speaker 2: it again and cried like I did the first time.

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00:53:47,440 --> 00:53:50,400
Speaker 2: It's a beautiful ending, Nadia one. Sorry spoiler alert.

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00:53:50,880 --> 00:53:55,839
Speaker 1: I guess all right, so it's time for wins. I'm

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00:53:55,880 --> 00:54:00,759
Speaker 1: going to hmm, I think I'm gonna do my win

1129
00:54:01,200 --> 00:54:04,560
Speaker 1: is that I This is week five for me at

1130
00:54:04,560 --> 00:54:07,919
Speaker 1: the gym consistently, like you know, like back to back.

1131
00:54:08,160 --> 00:54:09,759
Speaker 1: I've been going five days a week, which I can't

1132
00:54:09,800 --> 00:54:12,680
Speaker 1: even believe. I'm like, who who am I I'm not

1133
00:54:12,680 --> 00:54:14,200
Speaker 1: gonna lie though. I stuck up the scale today and

1134
00:54:14,239 --> 00:54:16,720
Speaker 1: it raised by two pounds. I was like, what the hell?

1135
00:54:17,200 --> 00:54:21,120
Speaker 1: But whatever I say, I know, but also too, I

1136
00:54:21,120 --> 00:54:25,520
Speaker 1: think I'm like loaded. Sorry Jamal, so yes, but you know,

1137
00:54:25,760 --> 00:54:29,399
Speaker 1: I told myself that that working out I really wanted

1138
00:54:29,440 --> 00:54:32,200
Speaker 1: to be a lifestyle and so like you know, I

1139
00:54:32,239 --> 00:54:34,000
Speaker 1: really took to heart, like when we had our last

1140
00:54:34,000 --> 00:54:37,080
Speaker 1: talk about working out, and I've been adding little goals

1141
00:54:37,200 --> 00:54:39,279
Speaker 1: every week. Like week one, it was like just go,

1142
00:54:39,800 --> 00:54:41,560
Speaker 1: you know, get your twenty minutes of cardio, don't worry

1143
00:54:41,560 --> 00:54:43,480
Speaker 1: about anything else. Week two, I added a little something

1144
00:54:43,520 --> 00:54:45,759
Speaker 1: extra week three, So now I'm up to like a

1145
00:54:45,800 --> 00:54:47,759
Speaker 1: full workout now that it's week five, and I'm up

1146
00:54:47,840 --> 00:54:52,319
Speaker 1: to a change in my diet, like I'm but like

1147
00:54:52,440 --> 00:54:54,719
Speaker 1: real change, not like a diet. You know, like I

1148
00:54:54,719 --> 00:54:56,799
Speaker 1: always liked smoothies, but I was lazy about making them.

1149
00:54:56,840 --> 00:54:58,880
Speaker 1: So now I make my green smoothie in the morning

1150
00:54:58,920 --> 00:55:01,960
Speaker 1: for breakfast. I tell myself, like, I eat way more

1151
00:55:02,000 --> 00:55:05,520
Speaker 1: fruits and vegetables, especially vegetables, which I like anyway, but

1152
00:55:05,680 --> 00:55:08,880
Speaker 1: being more conscious of that, I switched out. I wasn't

1153
00:55:08,920 --> 00:55:12,640
Speaker 1: really big on like bread anyway, so I was just like,

1154
00:55:12,680 --> 00:55:14,680
Speaker 1: I just took that out because bread is not that's

1155
00:55:14,719 --> 00:55:17,040
Speaker 1: not huge for me, but rice certainly was. I'm African,

1156
00:55:17,080 --> 00:55:18,719
Speaker 1: so you know me, we love some rice. So I

1157
00:55:18,760 --> 00:55:23,680
Speaker 1: switched out quiwa for rice, and so just like really

1158
00:55:23,719 --> 00:55:28,239
Speaker 1: making changes to my diet that are sustainable. So I'm like,

1159
00:55:28,280 --> 00:55:29,560
Speaker 1: and I'm gonna take that as a win because I'm

1160
00:55:29,560 --> 00:55:32,239
Speaker 1: like five weeks, five times a week, even though like

1161
00:55:32,280 --> 00:55:33,960
Speaker 1: I will say, like I definitely feel like I've lost

1162
00:55:34,040 --> 00:55:35,719
Speaker 1: inches and well except for today because I was like,

1163
00:55:35,760 --> 00:55:38,440
Speaker 1: what is the stomach? But whatever? This is like I

1164
00:55:38,440 --> 00:55:41,839
Speaker 1: said the blotation, but I feel good though. That's real.

1165
00:55:42,280 --> 00:55:44,400
Speaker 1: I know what I'm like. Literally, I woke up and

1166
00:55:44,440 --> 00:55:46,640
Speaker 1: I'm like, is there is there a person in here?

1167
00:55:48,840 --> 00:55:51,160
Speaker 1: Like alien? Like the movie or like the alien comes down.

1168
00:55:51,200 --> 00:55:58,239
Speaker 1: It's like, oh, I was like, oh my gosh, come back, Tom,

1169
00:55:58,480 --> 00:56:02,520
Speaker 1: come back. Maybe Mandy Wind won't be as crazy. No,

1170
00:56:02,600 --> 00:56:05,560
Speaker 1: but honestly, yeah, just for I really have to commend

1171
00:56:05,600 --> 00:56:09,239
Speaker 1: you guys that work out regularly and stick to it,

1172
00:56:09,280 --> 00:56:13,279
Speaker 1: because I'm not gonna lie like like I hate it

1173
00:56:13,320 --> 00:56:14,919
Speaker 1: every morning, you know, so people like, oh, you get

1174
00:56:14,960 --> 00:56:17,920
Speaker 1: used to it. Yeah, I'm still waiting every morning. I cuss,

1175
00:56:18,000 --> 00:56:20,319
Speaker 1: I fuss, I say, I'm not going as I'm putting

1176
00:56:20,320 --> 00:56:22,120
Speaker 1: on my socks on my sneakers. I lay out my clothes,

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00:56:22,160 --> 00:56:23,280
Speaker 1: thank goodness the night before.

1178
00:56:23,719 --> 00:56:26,960
Speaker 2: That's the key, Yeah, making it, removing all the barriers.

1179
00:56:27,840 --> 00:56:31,719
Speaker 2: Clean socks can't go right. That's me every all the

1180
00:56:31,760 --> 00:56:32,840
Speaker 2: time because.

1181
00:56:32,640 --> 00:56:34,919
Speaker 1: I put by literally my sneakers, like even now I'm looking,

1182
00:56:34,960 --> 00:56:37,880
Speaker 1: my socks are inside my sneakers. My headphones are charged,

1183
00:56:38,000 --> 00:56:40,600
Speaker 1: my phone is charged, my keys are downstairs. I mean

1184
00:56:40,680 --> 00:56:43,080
Speaker 1: like literally I put everything because I know me, I

1185
00:56:43,080 --> 00:56:44,520
Speaker 1: I can't find my key. I'm just gonna lay on

1186
00:56:44,520 --> 00:56:47,520
Speaker 1: the couch. And so it's just been it's not been easy.

1187
00:56:47,560 --> 00:56:51,160
Speaker 1: But I'm like, you know what, I'm really determined to

1188
00:56:51,480 --> 00:56:53,640
Speaker 1: transition into a healthier lifestyle, and I don't know that

1189
00:56:53,680 --> 00:56:55,799
Speaker 1: I'll keep up five days a week. I probably will

1190
00:56:55,840 --> 00:56:58,640
Speaker 1: peter off till three days, but for now because I'm

1191
00:56:58,680 --> 00:57:01,000
Speaker 1: really trying to like, you know, jumpstart my metabolism and

1192
00:57:01,080 --> 00:57:03,319
Speaker 1: blah blah blah that you know, probably for the next

1193
00:57:03,320 --> 00:57:05,640
Speaker 1: couple of months, I'll still do five days as much

1194
00:57:05,640 --> 00:57:08,160
Speaker 1: as possible, but eventually I want to get to a

1195
00:57:08,200 --> 00:57:10,560
Speaker 1: space where, you know, I'm doing just three days a

1196
00:57:10,600 --> 00:57:12,560
Speaker 1: week and that's just life. Like my sister Tracy is

1197
00:57:12,600 --> 00:57:15,000
Speaker 1: like that. She's never not worked out, you know, She's

1198
00:57:15,040 --> 00:57:18,320
Speaker 1: always maintained just like her Her basic weight has been

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00:57:18,320 --> 00:57:20,920
Speaker 1: the same since college. She doesn't like eat like you know,

1200
00:57:21,000 --> 00:57:23,640
Speaker 1: she's not a vegan or whatever. It's just that she's

1201
00:57:23,720 --> 00:57:27,439
Speaker 1: never swayed too left or too right. She's always worked out,

1202
00:57:27,440 --> 00:57:28,880
Speaker 1: like you know, three days a week. Same thing with

1203
00:57:28,880 --> 00:57:31,040
Speaker 1: my dad. And so I'm like, I want to get

1204
00:57:31,040 --> 00:57:33,720
Speaker 1: to that space where I'm not trying so hard. It's

1205
00:57:33,800 --> 00:57:36,200
Speaker 1: just part of life. So that's my win, you know,

1206
00:57:36,320 --> 00:57:38,880
Speaker 1: keeping up with this damn exercise good.

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00:57:39,640 --> 00:57:43,360
Speaker 2: Yeah, five weeks is amazing, so I have respect. I

1208
00:57:43,840 --> 00:57:48,000
Speaker 2: know how hard it is, so good for you. Thank Yeah,

1209
00:57:48,440 --> 00:57:50,640
Speaker 2: I'm not on that level yet, but my win is

1210
00:57:50,680 --> 00:57:52,800
Speaker 2: also fitness related because I don't know if you guys

1211
00:57:52,840 --> 00:57:55,760
Speaker 2: know this, but I have a past. Before I was

1212
00:57:55,880 --> 00:57:58,200
Speaker 2: half of Brown Ambition, I used to have a bike blog,

1213
00:58:00,160 --> 00:58:02,480
Speaker 2: Yes I used to. It was called The Bike Rider

1214
00:58:03,000 --> 00:58:09,280
Speaker 2: wri I T. And I was sort of a semi

1215
00:58:09,360 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 2: biking celebrity in New York City because when I first

1216
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,640
Speaker 2: moved here in twenty ten, New York City wasn't as

1217
00:58:14,720 --> 00:58:16,920
Speaker 2: bike friendly as it is now, Like there weren't bike

1218
00:58:17,000 --> 00:58:17,720
Speaker 2: lanes everywhere.

1219
00:58:17,840 --> 00:58:18,040
Speaker 1: You know.

1220
00:58:18,080 --> 00:58:20,960
Speaker 2: I used to be out in those mean streets, you know,

1221
00:58:21,240 --> 00:58:24,080
Speaker 2: in all the honking cars, like fighting for my territory.

1222
00:58:24,920 --> 00:58:27,320
Speaker 2: And I used to do like one hundred mile bike tours,

1223
00:58:27,480 --> 00:58:30,360
Speaker 2: and you know, I did a ride to Montak where

1224
00:58:30,360 --> 00:58:32,640
Speaker 2: you ride all the way across Long Island to the

1225
00:58:32,800 --> 00:58:35,080
Speaker 2: end and all this stuff, and I was like really

1226
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,560
Speaker 2: really into it and it was awesome because well, the

1227
00:58:37,560 --> 00:58:39,400
Speaker 2: reason I got into biking one I moved here and

1228
00:58:39,440 --> 00:58:42,040
Speaker 2: I had like no money, and I remember I had

1229
00:58:42,080 --> 00:58:45,360
Speaker 2: to pay for a monthly subway pass and a monthly

1230
00:58:45,400 --> 00:58:48,960
Speaker 2: Metro North pass, which was like three hundred dollars plus

1231
00:58:48,960 --> 00:58:52,520
Speaker 2: the hundred bucks for the Metro the subway pass, and

1232
00:58:52,560 --> 00:58:54,920
Speaker 2: I couldn't afford both because at the time I was

1233
00:58:54,960 --> 00:58:58,720
Speaker 2: working upstate in Westchester. So I was like, well, how

1234
00:58:58,720 --> 00:59:00,320
Speaker 2: can I save money, I'm going to buy Like I

1235
00:59:00,360 --> 00:59:04,520
Speaker 2: bought like an eighty dollars steel cruiser on Craigslist. And

1236
00:59:04,560 --> 00:59:07,600
Speaker 2: then instead of taking the subway, I biked everywhere. So

1237
00:59:07,680 --> 00:59:09,880
Speaker 2: I biked a Grand Central station, parked my bike there,

1238
00:59:09,920 --> 00:59:12,320
Speaker 2: and then took the train to work in the morning.

1239
00:59:12,840 --> 00:59:15,320
Speaker 2: And biking was like my cheap way of getting around

1240
00:59:15,320 --> 00:59:17,600
Speaker 2: New York is how I like didn't take the subway

1241
00:59:17,600 --> 00:59:22,040
Speaker 2: ever when I first moved here now anyway, So but

1242
00:59:22,120 --> 00:59:24,280
Speaker 2: in the past couple of years, I just in the

1243
00:59:24,320 --> 00:59:27,160
Speaker 2: past year, especially when we moved to Inwood, you know,

1244
00:59:27,200 --> 00:59:30,320
Speaker 2: my bike was like all dusty and like I'd never

1245
00:59:30,360 --> 00:59:32,480
Speaker 2: really used it because I had to like go five

1246
00:59:32,520 --> 00:59:34,320
Speaker 2: flights of stairs to work every day and I was

1247
00:59:34,360 --> 00:59:37,880
Speaker 2: like twelve miles from the office now. But anyway, I went,

1248
00:59:38,000 --> 00:59:41,160
Speaker 2: we went. I live in Jersey City now, and we went.

1249
00:59:41,240 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 2: I picked up my bike from my in laws apartment,

1250
00:59:43,640 --> 00:59:47,720
Speaker 2: brought it home, and I participated in a fifteen mile

1251
00:59:48,400 --> 00:59:51,240
Speaker 2: like bike tour and in Jersey City that there's like

1252
00:59:51,280 --> 00:59:53,960
Speaker 2: a biking community here and they put it on once

1253
00:59:53,960 --> 00:59:55,840
Speaker 2: a year and I just like luckily happened to see

1254
00:59:55,840 --> 00:59:58,440
Speaker 2: a flyer and it was the best stay ever and

1255
00:59:58,480 --> 01:00:00,600
Speaker 2: I felt so good. I felt like my self again.

1256
01:00:00,680 --> 01:00:01,960
Speaker 2: I was like, I saw.

1257
01:00:01,760 --> 01:00:05,000
Speaker 1: You with the bike. I was like, look at the Indy.

1258
01:00:05,440 --> 01:00:05,840
Speaker 1: That's me.

1259
01:00:06,040 --> 01:00:08,439
Speaker 2: That's like old Mandy, that's the MANDI you never knew.

1260
01:00:08,840 --> 01:00:10,360
Speaker 1: Yeah, I was like I thought, I'm like, who are you?

1261
01:00:10,440 --> 01:00:14,040
Speaker 1: I don't even anymore. No, that's awesome the bike rider.

1262
01:00:14,680 --> 01:00:15,200
Speaker 1: I love that.

1263
01:00:15,560 --> 01:00:17,840
Speaker 2: Yeah, I know. And it was such a fun tour

1264
01:00:17,880 --> 01:00:20,240
Speaker 2: I didn't. I just love Jersey City because like it's

1265
01:00:20,280 --> 01:00:22,840
Speaker 2: so diverse. Man, I've never I don't know, it's just

1266
01:00:22,960 --> 01:00:25,120
Speaker 2: and you take it for granted living in Jersey and

1267
01:00:25,160 --> 01:00:27,000
Speaker 2: living in New York. But just it was beautiful to

1268
01:00:27,000 --> 01:00:31,840
Speaker 2: see like so many different people, some ages, races, ethnicities,

1269
01:00:32,000 --> 01:00:33,959
Speaker 2: just out there just biking and just having a damn

1270
01:00:33,960 --> 01:00:36,360
Speaker 2: good day. And like all we were just all around

1271
01:00:36,440 --> 01:00:38,320
Speaker 2: Jersey City and everyone came out of their houses and

1272
01:00:38,440 --> 01:00:40,600
Speaker 2: was waving and it was like it was just such

1273
01:00:40,640 --> 01:00:44,800
Speaker 2: a positive, fun way to spend afternoon. And I'm into it.

1274
01:00:44,880 --> 01:00:47,400
Speaker 2: So no, of course I have to take zero to

1275
01:00:47,440 --> 01:00:49,000
Speaker 2: like one hundred. So I went and signed up for

1276
01:00:49,040 --> 01:00:52,640
Speaker 2: one hundred mile bike tour for September. Oh, so excited

1277
01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:55,320
Speaker 2: the New York City. This is a New York City

1278
01:00:55,440 --> 01:00:57,960
Speaker 2: Century tour, which I'd done twice, but I haven't done

1279
01:00:57,960 --> 01:01:01,960
Speaker 2: it in like three, three or four years. Say, it's

1280
01:01:02,000 --> 01:01:06,240
Speaker 2: one hundred miles and it's epic, and it's like a

1281
01:01:06,320 --> 01:01:10,600
Speaker 2: ten twelve hour day biking NonStop, and you will literally

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Speaker 2: have to sit on a pillow for like a week after.

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Speaker 1: I was gonna ask that, how is your bottom?

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Speaker 2: Well, I mean, my my bottom hurts bad today because

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01:01:17,760 --> 01:01:19,760
Speaker 2: i haven't biked in so long, so I'm not conditioned.

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Speaker 2: But like if you actually bike every day, So I

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01:01:21,880 --> 01:01:24,120
Speaker 2: decided I've been using it. I've been saying, oh, I

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01:01:24,120 --> 01:01:26,040
Speaker 2: can't bike to work because I live in Jersey City.

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Speaker 2: Now there's an entire river between me and there's no bridge.

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Speaker 2: There's no bridge down where I am in southern New

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01:01:31,280 --> 01:01:34,360
Speaker 2: Jersey to get to Is this a southern New Jersey,

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01:01:35,000 --> 01:01:38,720
Speaker 2: southern Southerner than up by Bergen like where the George

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Speaker 2: Washington bridges.

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Speaker 1: I guess, no, you this is North Jersey.

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Speaker 2: Well, I'm southern. I'm south of the GW Bridge. It

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01:01:46,040 --> 01:01:48,360
Speaker 2: would make no sense for me to bike all the

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01:01:48,360 --> 01:01:51,720
Speaker 2: way to that bridge to go eleven miles down Manhattan anyway,

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01:01:52,040 --> 01:01:54,560
Speaker 2: but there's a ferry. So I'm gonna start biking and

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Speaker 2: taking the ferry across town, across the river to Lower

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01:01:57,160 --> 01:01:59,440
Speaker 2: Manhattan and just biking to work from there because I

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01:01:59,480 --> 01:02:01,240
Speaker 2: want to get back on the bike. I don't want

1302
01:02:01,240 --> 01:02:03,880
Speaker 2: to because right now my commute is almost too easy.

1303
01:02:03,960 --> 01:02:06,479
Speaker 2: I have like four stops and I'm on the train

1304
01:02:06,520 --> 01:02:08,360
Speaker 2: and I'm like off, and I don't really walk as

1305
01:02:08,440 --> 01:02:11,760
Speaker 2: much anymore, and I feel like I don't know, but

1306
01:02:12,000 --> 01:02:14,479
Speaker 2: I'm now at summertime and I'm just gonna I'm gonna

1307
01:02:14,480 --> 01:02:16,480
Speaker 2: try it out and then that'll be my built in

1308
01:02:17,600 --> 01:02:19,480
Speaker 2: That'll be my built in workout in the morning.

1309
01:02:19,520 --> 01:02:21,320
Speaker 1: Now. I know, like there used to be like a

1310
01:02:21,360 --> 01:02:23,640
Speaker 1: Newark bike club where they just used to like bike around.

1311
01:02:23,640 --> 01:02:25,600
Speaker 1: And I told myself I was good because I honestly

1312
01:02:25,680 --> 01:02:28,200
Speaker 1: I was never like a biker biker, but I mean

1313
01:02:28,240 --> 01:02:29,800
Speaker 1: I like to ride my bike. And I was like,

1314
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Speaker 1: I don't know how it is.

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Speaker 2: I don't have any fancy equipment. You know, there's a

1316
01:02:33,960 --> 01:02:35,680
Speaker 2: scary bikers. We're not. You don't have to be a

1317
01:02:35,720 --> 01:02:40,280
Speaker 2: scary biker. Yeah, But like I did it in address

1318
01:02:40,320 --> 01:02:42,640
Speaker 2: one year, Like, that's what that was the That was

1319
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Speaker 2: the reason I started my blog because I wanted to

1320
01:02:44,680 --> 01:02:46,800
Speaker 2: show that you don't have to be like in the

1321
01:02:46,880 --> 01:02:49,640
Speaker 2: tight shorts and get the fancy shoes and get like

1322
01:02:49,680 --> 01:02:52,520
Speaker 2: the helmet with the rear view mirror attached to it.

1323
01:02:52,640 --> 01:02:54,000
Speaker 2: Like you don't need all that crap. You just seed

1324
01:02:54,040 --> 01:02:57,400
Speaker 2: a bike and your legs and that's it.

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Speaker 1: There used to be a bike shop at Newark that

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01:02:59,920 --> 01:03:02,040
Speaker 1: you used to actually like take old bike tree fird,

1327
01:03:02,040 --> 01:03:03,600
Speaker 1: but she gives them to kids. I wonder if it's

1328
01:03:03,600 --> 01:03:04,120
Speaker 1: still around.

1329
01:03:05,080 --> 01:03:06,600
Speaker 2: Cute bikes.

1330
01:03:06,680 --> 01:03:07,920
Speaker 1: Oh you know what, you're gonna have any one to

1331
01:03:07,920 --> 01:03:09,600
Speaker 1: get on because I used to roll a blade.

1332
01:03:09,480 --> 01:03:12,720
Speaker 2: And we should do a We should do a bike ride.

1333
01:03:12,720 --> 01:03:15,280
Speaker 2: Oh it'd be so much fun. Get Supergirl, get Superman,

1334
01:03:15,800 --> 01:03:16,200
Speaker 2: come on.

1335
01:03:17,680 --> 01:03:23,280
Speaker 1: Yeah she's no, she's not. I'm just saying, like in

1336
01:03:23,320 --> 01:03:28,840
Speaker 1: my mom I'm like, yeah, Supergirl a break, yo. We

1337
01:03:28,840 --> 01:03:31,960
Speaker 1: got out the car, like I was like Superman told Supergirl, yeah,

1338
01:03:31,960 --> 01:03:33,120
Speaker 1: you don't have to actually get out of the car.

1339
01:03:33,600 --> 01:03:35,040
Speaker 1: She's like, Daddy, don't give you a kids. She was like,

1340
01:03:35,080 --> 01:03:37,040
Speaker 1: just throw it through the window. So she threw she

1341
01:03:37,080 --> 01:03:38,360
Speaker 1: blew a kiss and he caught it. In the air.

1342
01:03:38,400 --> 01:03:41,640
Speaker 1: It was like seeing a borrow. I was so fluid,

1343
01:03:42,000 --> 01:03:44,600
Speaker 1: and he ran into the house and threw himself into

1344
01:03:44,640 --> 01:03:48,720
Speaker 1: the bed and try to sweep. I know, no, but honestly,

1345
01:03:48,760 --> 01:03:52,760
Speaker 1: I think that biking sounds like fun. I I yeah,

1346
01:03:52,760 --> 01:03:54,400
Speaker 1: I would actually like the bike. I think it's a

1347
01:03:54,400 --> 01:03:56,400
Speaker 1: great form of exercise. And actually it's a lot of fun.

1348
01:03:56,960 --> 01:03:58,560
Speaker 2: And you get to see the city. I saw parts

1349
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:02,040
Speaker 2: of Jersey I never knew existed. So that's a last

1350
01:04:02,080 --> 01:04:03,760
Speaker 2: way to explort. And if you're new to a town

1351
01:04:03,880 --> 01:04:05,520
Speaker 2: like I wasn't moving to New York, It's like, I

1352
01:04:05,560 --> 01:04:07,040
Speaker 2: can't think of a better way to get to know

1353
01:04:07,120 --> 01:04:10,080
Speaker 2: your way around, and and and and get in shape

1354
01:04:10,080 --> 01:04:14,640
Speaker 2: in the process. Okay, biker's beauty, as a biker's booty

1355
01:04:14,720 --> 01:04:15,280
Speaker 2: is a real thing.

1356
01:04:15,800 --> 01:04:17,880
Speaker 1: Well, I have enough booty for everybody, so.

1357
01:04:18,560 --> 01:04:19,800
Speaker 2: That just means to be good at it.

1358
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Speaker 1: All right, all this Patty Jamala is like, all right,

1359
01:04:25,960 --> 01:04:30,080
Speaker 1: I can't all right, y'all brown ambition. It's been awesome

1360
01:04:30,160 --> 01:04:31,040
Speaker 1: as per usual.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, we'll see you guys next week. And we have

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Speaker 2: a turning guest. Our Fairy Money Godmother is back on

1363
01:04:38,160 --> 01:04:40,600
Speaker 2: the show next week. Miss Lenette Califani Cox. So you

1364
01:04:40,680 --> 01:04:44,160
Speaker 2: do not that. I'm really excited.

1365
01:04:43,920 --> 01:04:45,720
Speaker 1: About the guests coming up too after that? Right?

1366
01:04:46,440 --> 01:04:48,400
Speaker 2: Oh yeah, are we confirmed? Is it happening?

1367
01:04:50,080 --> 01:04:53,040
Speaker 1: Yes? If you're a No Madness fan. If you don't

1368
01:04:53,040 --> 01:04:55,280
Speaker 1: know what No Madness is, you'll find out soon enough.

1369
01:04:56,840 --> 01:05:01,439
Speaker 2: You with these caesers tonight thought I think right, people

1370
01:05:01,480 --> 01:05:02,720
Speaker 2: are like girl, I could just google it.

1371
01:05:02,760 --> 01:05:05,880
Speaker 1: You could, but I'm just saying that's happening too. I know,

1372
01:05:06,000 --> 01:05:08,360
Speaker 1: write two guests back to back. That's like so unlike us,

1373
01:05:08,400 --> 01:05:10,080
Speaker 1: look at us being social.

1374
01:05:11,080 --> 01:05:13,800
Speaker 2: So hopefully forgive us or forgive me for having to

1375
01:05:14,120 --> 01:05:17,000
Speaker 2: poll last last week's show. But we are not slowing

1376
01:05:17,040 --> 01:05:20,600
Speaker 2: down for the summer. We'll be here every week. Yes,

1377
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Speaker 2: we will tell a friend.

1378
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,080
Speaker 1: And then tell a friend and also leave a review.

1379
01:05:26,440 --> 01:05:28,560
Speaker 2: Oh yes, please leave reviews. You guys have We have

1380
01:05:28,600 --> 01:05:32,800
Speaker 2: over two hundred reviews. Keep them coming. Yeah, and never enough.

1381
01:05:33,280 --> 01:05:35,080
Speaker 2: The more reviews we have, the more people can find

1382
01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:38,040
Speaker 2: our show, the more cool guests we can have, and

1383
01:05:38,080 --> 01:05:40,480
Speaker 2: it's just great to spread the brown ambition love.

1384
01:05:41,320 --> 01:05:43,120
Speaker 1: And don't forget we have a Facebook page, so you

1385
01:05:43,200 --> 01:05:46,520
Speaker 1: know you can fend all of our random, random shenanigans

1386
01:05:46,560 --> 01:05:50,120
Speaker 1: things that we find interesting brand ambition stuff on our

1387
01:05:50,160 --> 01:05:52,720
Speaker 1: Facebook page, like we always are, picking like really fun,

1388
01:05:53,320 --> 01:05:58,720
Speaker 1: serious and in between posts and articles and stuff that's

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Speaker 1: mine

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Speaker 2: Until next week.