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Speaker 1: Ever been left waiting by the phone. It's the Fred Shell.

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Speaker 1: Hey John, good morning, Hey, good morning, welcome to the program.

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Speaker 1: It's waiting by the phone. And you met a woman

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Speaker 1: named Isabelle. So what's going on with her? We need

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Speaker 1: to know how you met, about any dates that you

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Speaker 1: guys have been on, and then why do you think

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Speaker 1: you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 2: Yeah? Well I wanted to wave the story out there

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Speaker 2: and see what you guys thought. I met her on

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Speaker 2: Hinge and I liked one of her photos, you know,

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Speaker 2: classic hinge.

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Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, that's how it works. It's like, you know, yeah,

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Speaker 1: on hand, you hit a heart though for the people,

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Speaker 1: you know, for those who haven't been on the dating

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Speaker 1: aps in a while, you pick a picture. I think

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Speaker 1: that the actual strategies to pick a prompt I hear

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Speaker 1: it's better to pick one of the things that they

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Speaker 1: wrote on there, but you know, like with the needs

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Speaker 1: like letters and stuff. But anyway, and I also have

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Speaker 1: a theory about Hinde that we can get into later.

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Speaker 1: I wonder if women don't judge men on which picture

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Speaker 1: they choose, if they choose a picture, because sometimes there

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Speaker 1: are thirst traps on there. And what I wonder is

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Speaker 1: if you like like the bikini pick? Does that get

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Speaker 1: you less credit than if you like the one where

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Speaker 1: she's like helping the homeless or something. That's what I wonder.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, okay, so you guys matched on there and

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Speaker 1: then what Yeah?

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Speaker 2: I think it was a picture with her.

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Speaker 3: With her dog, So there you go, you know, pretty

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Speaker 3: game there. Yeah, we started talking, you know, started texting

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Speaker 3: the app. I saw that she was into football on

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Speaker 3: her profile. You know, I like, I like some of that,

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Speaker 3: So I invited her out to go to a bar

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Speaker 3: and just watch some of the games. You know, pretty

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Speaker 3: pretty casual date. And we actually had a lot of fun.

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Speaker 2: I'll just say it. We got pretty pretty soft and

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Speaker 2: one thing wanted to another. Oh yeah, came back to

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Speaker 2: my place.

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Speaker 1: So old as time, so old. Yeah. Okay, so some

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Speaker 1: things went down and uh and then what is good?

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Speaker 1: Where's the issue? Like, she hasn't talked two since exactly.

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Speaker 2: You know, I I liked her and I wanted to

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Speaker 2: see her again, but she hasn't responded to me.

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Speaker 1: So sure, what's up? All right, Well, this is our specialty.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna call Isabelle see if we can get her

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Speaker 1: on the phone. We're gonna ask some questions on your behalf,

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Speaker 1: and hopefully we can straighten things out and set you

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Speaker 1: guys up on another date that we hope is a success,

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Speaker 1: but this time we'll pay for it.

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Speaker 2: All right, Oh that be that would be fantastic.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Well hang on one second, John, and to

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Speaker 1: play one song. We'll come back. We'll call you isabel

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Speaker 1: and see what's going on. Good luck, my man. All right,

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Speaker 1: thank you. Let's see what happens next, Part two of

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Speaker 1: Waiting by the Phone after this song on the Frend Show.

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Speaker 1: Good morning, it's the Frend Show. Part two of Waiting

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Speaker 1: by the Phone. Hey John, Yes, all right, welcome back.

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Speaker 1: Let's call Isabelle. You met on Hinge, you matched, you

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Speaker 1: went out, you had what you thought was a really

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Speaker 1: successful date, really successful, including a you know a bit

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Speaker 1: of a body's colliding. Yeah, yeah, plants marching. I don't

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Speaker 1: know what body's colliding. Is that in the biblical Matthews

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Speaker 1: song's body is colliding and it's marching be crash. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: maybe that's what I meant. I don't know. It's surely

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Speaker 1: satellites crashing. I don't know whatever it is. Anyway, So

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Speaker 1: it went really well. But she has not contacted you

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Speaker 1: or responded to you. Since you feel like you're being ghosted?

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Speaker 1: Do you want to know why exactly? All right, let's

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Speaker 1: call her now. Good luck, John, Thank you. Hi, sus Isabelle.

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Speaker 1: It is Isabelle. Good morning. My name is Fred. I'm

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Speaker 1: calling from the Fred Show. The whole crew is here

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Speaker 1: the morning radio show. I have to tell you that

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Speaker 1: we are on the radio though, and I would need

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Speaker 1: your permission to continue with the calls, and okay if

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Speaker 1: we chat for a minute. Uh yeah, I guess so, okay, Yeah, Hi,

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Speaker 1: I know it's a little bit at little crazy get

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Speaker 1: a random call from the radio, but we're calling on

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Speaker 1: behalf of a dude named John, who I guess you

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Speaker 1: matched with on one of the dating apps and went

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Speaker 1: out with recently. Do you recall this guy? Yes? Yes,

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Speaker 1: I do you do? Okay, So what happened with him?

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Speaker 1: Because he called us and said he liked you a

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Speaker 1: lot and felt like your date went really well and

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Speaker 1: kind of expected that you as would go on another

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Speaker 1: date and that you'd respond to him and and all

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Speaker 1: of that. But he says he hasn't heard from you

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Speaker 1: that you're ghosting him. He thinks is that true?

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Speaker 2: Yes?

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Speaker 1: Oh okay, why is that.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, well, you know, we did have a lot of

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Speaker 4: fun on the date like that. That was good, and

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Speaker 4: you know, I thought the situation was pretty promising ununtil

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Speaker 4: we actually because we we hooked up, you know, so

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Speaker 4: he did.

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Speaker 1: Mention that that, you know, that happened.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, so what I mean, first date, that's always little

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Speaker 4: weird whatever, But it was it was good.

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Speaker 2: Everything was fine.

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Speaker 4: But you know, we first started making out and then

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Speaker 4: I thought I heard him say something about a baby

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Speaker 4: or something like something weird, and I just figured I

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Speaker 4: misheard him, and so things like continued and we went

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Speaker 4: a little farther and then he started saying like I'm

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Speaker 4: going to put a baby in you.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, no, no, no, no, no.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, like more than once and I you and yeah.

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Speaker 4: So when it was finished, I just like could not

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Speaker 4: get out.

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Speaker 1: Of there fast enough. It was so weird on the earth. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I feel like ninety nine percent of men on a

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Speaker 1: first date, and like I'm trying my best not to

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Speaker 1: put it, like, I'm doing everything in my power not

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Speaker 1: for that not to happen. How sexy The guy wanted

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Speaker 1: to make a baby with you on the first day?

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Speaker 1: What a guy? Yes, no, gros and.

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Speaker 4: I mean like we were you know, we were saying

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Speaker 4: we were using protection and everything, but like it was

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Speaker 4: just so weird.

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Speaker 2: Who doesn't first date?

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Speaker 1: He didn't even know my last name. Well, hold on,

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Speaker 1: I forgot to mention it is about the Jonas here.

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Speaker 1: I'm so forgetful. I forget that part. So you it

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Speaker 1: was like, you're telling her that you want to do this.

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Speaker 1: Is it some kind of weird fantasy? Because you also

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Speaker 1: apparently weren't incapable in that moment of doing that. So

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Speaker 1: is this that turned you on somehow to like think

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Speaker 1: about procreation or what's going on?

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Speaker 3: Good?

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Speaker 2: Uh?

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Speaker 1: Sorry, She's like, okay, I don't okay, I don't remember

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Speaker 1: that that well.

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Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean, you know, you're in the middle

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Speaker 2: of stuff and I don't I thought it was hot.

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Speaker 1: I don't know, you thought that was hot. All of

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Speaker 1: all the things that a virtual stranger could say to you.

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Speaker 5: What I mean, when you got that good, you don't

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Speaker 5: know what he might say.

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Speaker 1: That's what you know, you know, man, he just got excited,

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Speaker 1: like and shut down.

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Speaker 5: Yeah they're not they're strangers, but they're together with their

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Speaker 5: clothes off, so it ain't too strange.

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Speaker 1: We say crazy stuff. We do too, But I don't

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Speaker 1: want a baby, so I'd be like, hey, I'm gonna

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Speaker 1: put it. And that's the other thing that it's like

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Speaker 1: a dog humping, like it's not gonna work. That's how

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Speaker 1: you know it's good. I'd be like, logistically, I'm a

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Speaker 1: smart ass. I'd be like, that's not possible right now.

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Speaker 1: So I don't want a baby either. Oh yeah, that's

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Speaker 1: how you know it's good. I want to impregnate that.

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Speaker 1: As to a person you just met, you, well, you're

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Speaker 1: doing other things to a person you just met, Okay, yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's when I'm not I can't get on board with

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Speaker 1: you there. I can't. I can't ride with you. Kick

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Speaker 1: you on that one. All right. Look, so he said

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Speaker 1: something crazy. You know, maybe he regrets it. Maybe he does,

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Speaker 1: and I don't know. He's in the moment. People do

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Speaker 1: say things in the moment, and usually it's like affectionate stuff.

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Speaker 1: But anyway, that's affection.

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Speaker 3: That's affection.

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Speaker 5: That's a love, Paulina, Come on now.

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Speaker 1: It's all fun and games until it actually right. That's

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Speaker 1: a whole different conversation. Yeah, isn't. Will you give this

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, no, it was so weird.

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Speaker 1: I can't wow. All I got is well on this one.

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Speaker 1: I mean, okay, John, looks you seem like a good

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Speaker 1: enough guy, but I don't think it's gonna work out. Isabel.

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Speaker 1: Thank you for your time. That's the block to both

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Speaker 1: of you. Oh John, you want him to put a baby?

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Speaker 5: No, no, no, no, I don't want no. I'm a

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Speaker 5: single relationship woman.

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Speaker 1: Yes, oh, now you are. By the way, now we

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Speaker 1: know what Tim is saying. It prove it