WEBVTT - Ep10: Bi Love Featuring a Bi Couple 0:00:00.040 --> 0:00:02.720 Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Horrible Decisions. I'm 0:00:02.759 --> 0:00:04.600 wheezy and we just want to give a quick shout 0:00:04.600 --> 0:00:07.720 out to our best supporters, Jolie Beauty Bar the Bomb. 0:00:07.920 --> 0:00:10.320 They are so bomb, guys. They actually hooked up our 0:00:10.320 --> 0:00:12.920 faces for our cover art that you guys now see, 0:00:13.240 --> 0:00:15.640 and they did an amazing job on our hair and makeup. 0:00:15.720 --> 0:00:19.120 So chard A did our hair like slate it fucking 0:00:19.160 --> 0:00:21.640 Marcus in there. It made me feel so beautiful. 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My pussy is 0:01:37.240 --> 0:01:40.720 pretty and I've been told that quite often. It is cute. Right, 0:01:40.720 --> 0:01:44.480 I think I've sent you videos before. I love well 0:01:44.520 --> 0:01:48.440 I can show you right now. We'll save that a right, guys, 0:01:48.520 --> 0:01:52.840 Welcome to yet another episode of Horrible Decisions. The girl 0:01:53.680 --> 0:01:58.880 Mandy be and I'm sitting here with Wheezy Deputy and 0:01:59.040 --> 0:02:02.520 we are so glad to be here yet again. We 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:06.440 are rolling this motherfucking ship out. I'm really excited because 0:02:06.440 --> 0:02:08.640 I have so many things to tell you and I 0:02:08.680 --> 0:02:11.560 need so much advice on it from like everybody. Um, 0:02:11.639 --> 0:02:14.080 is that something like on the podcast, like I just 0:02:14.120 --> 0:02:16.040 like just talking about my week, Like I just I 0:02:16.080 --> 0:02:19.000 want people's feedback. It's so crazy, Like since we've started it, 0:02:19.120 --> 0:02:22.399 I've been getting hit up by tons of people. Actually, 0:02:22.680 --> 0:02:24.600 before we start, would you want do you want to 0:02:24.639 --> 0:02:29.160 read a fan mail or you have because I kind 0:02:29.160 --> 0:02:33.400 of want um our guests to join it on that one. Okay, Okay, yeah, 0:02:33.440 --> 0:02:35.000 we actually and I do want to let you guys 0:02:35.000 --> 0:02:37.079 know if you guys need advice, if you guys want 0:02:37.080 --> 0:02:39.480 to share your horrible decisions, any of that, you guys 0:02:39.520 --> 0:02:42.000 are more than welcome to hit us up on our Instagram. 0:02:42.040 --> 0:02:44.560 We do have an Instagram page for the podcast now, 0:02:44.800 --> 0:02:46.720 but you can also send us an email. You can 0:02:46.760 --> 0:02:49.560 be anonymous UM and send us an email at Horrible 0:02:49.560 --> 0:02:52.320 Decisions at gmail dot com UM and hit us up. 0:02:52.560 --> 0:02:56.240 So today, did you how do you want to roll 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:59.079 with this one? Now? You're taking the fucking whale take 0:02:59.120 --> 0:03:01.760 the wheel, baby, Oh my god. Okay, so I just 0:03:01.800 --> 0:03:06.240 have to think us happen. So you know, lover Boy's gone. Yes, 0:03:06.560 --> 0:03:08.000 I just thought it was gonna be totally dead it 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:10.119 and then it was like the second he fucking left, 0:03:10.160 --> 0:03:12.720 We've been texting like crazy pictures, crazy going on until right, 0:03:12.720 --> 0:03:14.160 you are just like I don't even want to talk. 0:03:14.639 --> 0:03:17.480 So next thing, you know, in four weeks, I'm going 0:03:17.480 --> 0:03:21.120 to Venice to see him. Oh that is nice. And 0:03:21.639 --> 0:03:27.000 I am losing it because I'm excited and I'm nervous 0:03:27.040 --> 0:03:29.200 because I just don't understand what is going on. And 0:03:29.280 --> 0:03:32.959 so we've kind of talked about this, who are we 0:03:33.000 --> 0:03:35.280 going to funk while each other's away? Thing? Right? Months 0:03:35.320 --> 0:03:37.000 and months he's gone, He's not coming back for a 0:03:37.040 --> 0:03:40.040 little other season. The weather is going to be cold 0:03:40.080 --> 0:03:42.800 again when he's back, So how is this gonna work? Right? 0:03:42.840 --> 0:03:45.960 So well, good bitch, he's coming back right in time 0:03:46.000 --> 0:03:51.839 for cuffing season. Because then, motherfucking how thank you? I thought? 0:03:53.480 --> 0:03:57.800 So he was saying to me like, okay, so I'm 0:03:57.840 --> 0:03:59.520 saying him in a month, right, And it's like, you 0:03:59.560 --> 0:04:02.600 know me, I'm the type of person I don't believe 0:04:02.600 --> 0:04:04.200 that if you stick to dick in a bit, you're 0:04:04.240 --> 0:04:07.400 in love with her. So we've been talking about sucking 0:04:07.440 --> 0:04:10.320 other people. And yesterday he went on a date and 0:04:10.360 --> 0:04:14.120 so did I. Now the girl that he went on 0:04:14.160 --> 0:04:16.520 a date with, he sent me and she was hot, guys, 0:04:16.640 --> 0:04:20.200 she was I'm not gonna lie. I sat there, I 0:04:20.240 --> 0:04:22.559 was like, she was like those those are the fucking 0:04:22.600 --> 0:04:27.080 Russian eyebrows. She was, but bro, she was hot and 0:04:27.080 --> 0:04:29.080 I was like, bitch, I don't know what a Russian 0:04:29.080 --> 0:04:34.000 eyebrows is. But she was cute and I was like, 0:04:34.160 --> 0:04:40.000 it's so um. But that's the thing, right, What do 0:04:40.040 --> 0:04:42.159 I want him to do this girl and pretend that yeah, 0:04:42.160 --> 0:04:45.360 like he's going to bed so no. So he we've 0:04:45.360 --> 0:04:47.479 been talking about it and he was like telling me 0:04:47.520 --> 0:04:49.920 these girls and I said, let me approve. And I 0:04:49.920 --> 0:04:52.120 don't want to ugly bitches around because I just feel 0:04:52.160 --> 0:04:54.080 like that's corny. Like I know, bitches want their man 0:04:54.120 --> 0:04:56.800 to somebody that's not as cute as them. But I 0:04:56.839 --> 0:05:00.320 don't really think it matters. I think that U I 0:05:00.320 --> 0:05:01.960 don't know. I want him to be around some bad bitches. 0:05:01.960 --> 0:05:03.320 I don't want to ugly. I was talking to say 0:05:04.560 --> 0:05:06.919 so anyway, he sends me a picture and I'm like, okay, 0:05:06.960 --> 0:05:09.120 she's pretty. Do you like her? And he's like no, 0:05:09.279 --> 0:05:11.000 Like I like, you know, I like her enough to 0:05:11.040 --> 0:05:12.640 funk her. I'm like okay, then fine, go out with 0:05:12.680 --> 0:05:15.800 the bitch. So they're out and he sends me a text, 0:05:15.839 --> 0:05:17.160 and this made me feel good because I thought I 0:05:17.160 --> 0:05:18.760 wasn't gonna hear from him all night. And it's like, 0:05:18.920 --> 0:05:21.640 I'm talking about you to her, and she told her 0:05:21.640 --> 0:05:23.240 I like you, and she's telling me that she likes 0:05:23.279 --> 0:05:25.040 girls too, and blah blah blah. I'm like, okay, we'll 0:05:25.040 --> 0:05:27.400 tell her, I said hi. And then he sends me 0:05:27.480 --> 0:05:33.720 this a picture of them together. Yeah. Look, and she's cute, 0:05:33.720 --> 0:05:36.240 but I'm not even look. I know she's trying to 0:05:36.240 --> 0:05:42.159 cover his face. I was trying to zoom in on 0:05:42.160 --> 0:05:45.719 this fucking cunt. The point is, I don't really know 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:49.040 what to when she when they sent the picture, right, 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:50.880 I'm just like, oh my god, there's money. Of course, 0:05:50.920 --> 0:05:54.120 the whole time he's like, wheezy, I've been talking to 0:05:54.200 --> 0:05:58.039 her about you though this whole time. I believe that part. 0:05:58.440 --> 0:06:02.560 But he made you sing that that was very that 0:06:02.600 --> 0:06:03.920 was nice of it. I don't gonna tell you what. 0:06:04.000 --> 0:06:05.960 When the picture came through, right immediately, I'm laughing at 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:09.360 my mom. I'm like, ma, it's not like to send 0:06:09.400 --> 0:06:10.800 me picture him and his gud damn vision of bar. 0:06:11.560 --> 0:06:14.880 So she's laughing, just like send it to me. She's like, 0:06:16.400 --> 0:06:23.120 fucking Russian horror, so they do apparently have the best prostitutes. 0:06:23.160 --> 0:06:25.880 Though the girl is beautiful and I'm not gonna say right, 0:06:25.920 --> 0:06:27.480 but this is the thing. My mom was like, how 0:06:27.480 --> 0:06:30.599 are you feeling? I'm like, honestly, like a part of 0:06:30.640 --> 0:06:32.400 me is really jealous, but then this other part of 0:06:32.440 --> 0:06:35.080 me is like, what could be better? Like, you're out 0:06:35.120 --> 0:06:36.840 with another girl. You just took a picture with her, 0:06:36.920 --> 0:06:39.120 she knows you're sending it to me, You're talking about me, Like, 0:06:39.520 --> 0:06:42.640 I feel good, you know, unless the whole time he 0:06:42.680 --> 0:06:47.440 was saying you're his cousin, so I doubt that they're 0:06:47.480 --> 0:06:51.120 kind of but no, and it's and I like the 0:06:51.160 --> 0:06:54.360 openness and like the involvedment, Like I almost felt like 0:06:54.400 --> 0:06:55.880 I was like it felt good, Like yeah, I know 0:06:55.880 --> 0:06:59.480 you're gonna go, but that you're super into open relationships 0:06:59.480 --> 0:07:01.600 in general. I think this helps to this is how 0:07:01.640 --> 0:07:04.799 you're building This is this is this has never happened. 0:07:05.000 --> 0:07:08.360 I've always been more like I want to have threesomes 0:07:08.400 --> 0:07:11.320 together and relationships together. This like you're going out with 0:07:11.320 --> 0:07:13.480 another girl, I get to see her. I'm not gonna 0:07:13.480 --> 0:07:16.160 lie though, like am I not going to expect him 0:07:16.160 --> 0:07:19.120 to get fucked while he's going. However, let me ask 0:07:19.160 --> 0:07:22.000 you this, because I think we've talked about it and 0:07:22.040 --> 0:07:25.320 you're into this relationship thing. However, you didn't caught feelings 0:07:25.320 --> 0:07:26.960 for this nigga so much. You don't really want to 0:07:26.960 --> 0:07:29.240 bring a bit in bed with y'all. Okay, wait, are 0:07:29.240 --> 0:07:32.960 you lying? Hold on? Yes, I do, but I'm dying 0:07:32.960 --> 0:07:36.000 to see him somebody and me being there. But is 0:07:36.040 --> 0:07:38.720 it but I want to bring your girlfriend though? Right? Yeah, 0:07:38.920 --> 0:07:41.480 she doesn't want to bring her girlfriend to this guy. 0:07:41.640 --> 0:07:44.800 She wants a random stranger and a girlfriend who because 0:07:45.040 --> 0:07:48.720 I don't like there's predominant feelings in here with the 0:07:48.720 --> 0:07:51.000 two of them. And I felt like before her I 0:07:51.040 --> 0:07:53.920 was a level playing field with her, and then with 0:07:53.960 --> 0:07:56.360 her and the other guys, all these fucking names. She 0:07:56.480 --> 0:07:59.360 just loves for you guys to hear the boo. I'm sorry, 0:07:59.680 --> 0:08:04.040 it's just easier. Don't have to we are not okay, 0:08:04.200 --> 0:08:06.760 And so like with them, I felt the same way. Now. 0:08:06.880 --> 0:08:08.800 I don't know, I don't know, and like I just 0:08:08.800 --> 0:08:11.480 don't know, but I get it. Well, I don't know. 0:08:11.640 --> 0:08:13.600 But when I was on my day and I was 0:08:13.680 --> 0:08:14.880 kind of like, did he want me to go? And 0:08:15.000 --> 0:08:17.640 somebody post so that he could get the leverage to 0:08:17.680 --> 0:08:19.840 be like, Okay, well, he definitely told you he doesn't 0:08:19.880 --> 0:08:22.720 want you fucking any other dick. So and there's that 0:08:22.800 --> 0:08:25.720 double standard. There is a double standard. You're supposed to 0:08:25.760 --> 0:08:28.120 be okay with him going on a date and potentially 0:08:28.160 --> 0:08:30.440 possibly sucking this girl, and you can't be cool. And 0:08:30.520 --> 0:08:34.240 I'm sure he did. He's I'm already know, Mitch, he 0:08:34.280 --> 0:08:36.760 ain't got a damny. So we talked this morning and 0:08:37.800 --> 0:08:40.040 but yeah, at the same time, he's telling you, I 0:08:40.120 --> 0:08:41.800 like you and I don't want you to know other dick. 0:08:41.960 --> 0:08:43.840 So if you do, I don't like, you know, but 0:08:43.880 --> 0:08:46.040 don't want the other day, I don't like, I know 0:08:46.200 --> 0:08:48.160 he's joking with me or it's gonna be a conversation 0:08:48.280 --> 0:08:50.600 or what. But so this morning I wake up, right 0:08:50.679 --> 0:08:53.400 it's like four am. I'm like, I feel like you're 0:08:53.400 --> 0:08:56.200 cuddling and I'm jealous, and I'm gonna go to bed, 0:08:56.679 --> 0:08:59.200 That's all I said. So in the morning he calls 0:08:59.240 --> 0:09:01.240 me and he's laughed, thinking I'm like, it's it funny that, 0:09:01.360 --> 0:09:03.720 like your dick is deep down in some pussy, And 0:09:03.720 --> 0:09:06.520 I'm like, don't cuddle that bitch. I don't give a 0:09:06.640 --> 0:09:10.200 fun what you do. Don't cuddle that home. And I 0:09:10.200 --> 0:09:11.920 say that all the time. I would be super into 0:09:12.000 --> 0:09:14.600 this type of relationship. And I literally tell my guys 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:17.000 when we have this conversation, I'm like, listen, if you 0:09:17.000 --> 0:09:18.920 want to go another bitch, fucker, but I don't need 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:20.439 you taking her on dates. I don't want you to 0:09:20.440 --> 0:09:22.160 be a nice to her. Don't show her any type 0:09:22.200 --> 0:09:24.440 of love to wear. She might potentially start liking you. 0:09:24.559 --> 0:09:28.600 But I didn't think, no, bitch, it's not niggas don't 0:09:28.600 --> 0:09:31.040 take bitches on dates anymore. Maybe white guys do, but 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:34.120 it's niggas don't. There's Netflix and Chill all motherfucking day long. 0:09:34.160 --> 0:09:35.559 So if they're taking you out of public and spend 0:09:35.600 --> 0:09:36.840 the time with you and spending some money on you, 0:09:37.320 --> 0:09:39.600 bitch is gonna fall in love with that. Because bitches 0:09:39.640 --> 0:09:41.640 all in love for face times and she eats funny 0:09:41.679 --> 0:09:43.600 to where you cried, the bitch is in love already. 0:09:44.520 --> 0:09:48.320 Um yeah. So well, I'm interested to see how this 0:09:48.320 --> 0:09:50.560 plays out. And I'm glad that it was weird because 0:09:50.559 --> 0:09:52.000 we were on the phone, like, and he was talking 0:09:52.000 --> 0:09:54.000 about it. He was trying to downplay it so much 0:09:54.040 --> 0:09:56.240 because I could tell he was scared I was gonna 0:09:56.240 --> 0:09:59.320 be uncomfortable, but I wasn't because I know that you know, 0:09:59.400 --> 0:10:01.360 I'm waking up for work at this time. You're calling me. 0:10:01.440 --> 0:10:03.280 You're telling me about this bit. You ain't there now, 0:10:03.400 --> 0:10:05.400 Like I was really cool about it. And not only that, 0:10:05.480 --> 0:10:07.760 he's fucking let me tell you how his mom line though. 0:10:08.040 --> 0:10:10.080 Talking about I'm like, oh was it good? Like did 0:10:10.120 --> 0:10:13.400 she do this? Did she do that? Like? So when 0:10:13.400 --> 0:10:17.480 you came, where'd you come? He's like, oh I didn't come. Well, 0:10:17.480 --> 0:10:21.360 that so nice for you. That was really just gave 0:10:21.480 --> 0:10:24.000 the most safe we all just like, so you ain't 0:10:24.040 --> 0:10:26.080 come over real? So you just sucked this hot at 0:10:26.160 --> 0:10:33.160 here on your income. He's like it was did she 0:10:33.200 --> 0:10:34.880 suck your dick? Yeah, babe, but it didn't feel like 0:10:34.960 --> 0:10:39.600 your mouth that's lying off. So then I'm like, no, 0:10:39.720 --> 0:10:43.120 we goddamn well got Like so did you make her come? 0:10:43.160 --> 0:10:44.560 He's like yeah, of course, I'm like I know you did. 0:10:44.600 --> 0:10:46.199 I'm like, because you really good pussy. He's like, oh no, 0:10:46.240 --> 0:10:49.120 I didn't need your pussy. I still hold on broch y'all. 0:10:49.240 --> 0:10:51.720 That's all. He is the man that I literally really 0:10:51.760 --> 0:10:54.079 in my heart believe the host Town Halls on How 0:10:54.120 --> 0:10:56.920 to Eat Pussy because it's that good. Okay, So I 0:10:57.000 --> 0:10:59.480 just want to know why you lying anyways, you want 0:10:59.480 --> 0:11:01.600 to go ahead. I super excited for this show again 0:11:01.640 --> 0:11:03.800 because normally, I know you guys are sick of hearing 0:11:03.800 --> 0:11:06.599 our whole stories, and we decided, bitch, we're going to 0:11:06.679 --> 0:11:08.360 run out of story soon, we should probably get sm 0:11:08.360 --> 0:11:11.280 other people out. I will suck for this is my job, 0:11:11.400 --> 0:11:13.880 she literally says every week when I'm on Tinder and 0:11:13.880 --> 0:11:17.080 I'm like broad on, bro, research it's for research. Think 0:11:17.080 --> 0:11:20.480 of the podcast, and I'll never forget it. That was 0:11:20.520 --> 0:11:22.600 my favorite show growing up, with sex and you know, 0:11:22.640 --> 0:11:27.520 I never day she would it's research, it's research, bro. 0:11:27.600 --> 0:11:30.640 We would literally sit in her house eating fucking raised nets. 0:11:30.679 --> 0:11:32.400 That is our ship, raised nets and popcorn. If you 0:11:32.440 --> 0:11:34.319 sauce I a g live, you know that's what we do. 0:11:35.080 --> 0:11:37.040 And she was like fucking rich. So she had a 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:39.600 whole movie theater growing up, and we would literally watch 0:11:39.679 --> 0:11:42.160 fucking we would watch Sex in the City and then 0:11:42.160 --> 0:11:44.000 be like, hey, let's run the movie. We'd runt a 0:11:44.040 --> 0:11:47.040 movie and she literally we first seen her future. This 0:11:47.120 --> 0:11:50.480 is crazy, but she's literally is that how weird? York. 0:11:51.520 --> 0:11:53.360 We would literally watch Sex in the City and we 0:11:53.360 --> 0:11:56.720 were like fifteen sixteen, um, and then yeah, after watching 0:11:56.720 --> 0:11:58.720 Sex in the City, we would run movies and she'd 0:11:58.760 --> 0:12:02.080 be like, it's okay, bro, I'm gonna call the the 0:12:02.120 --> 0:12:04.320 cable company right after and say didn't show or something. 0:12:04.360 --> 0:12:06.640 We're get our money right back. My mom's not gonna 0:12:06.640 --> 0:12:10.880 be mad about the ten dollars. Damn. I was dude, 0:12:10.920 --> 0:12:16.479 you see hustling. If you want to go ahead and introduce, 0:12:18.280 --> 0:12:21.840 I'm trying to get my mind together. I was like this, 0:12:22.800 --> 0:12:26.800 um yeah, I uh yeah. So we have a guest 0:12:26.960 --> 0:12:30.920 that um contacted us about being or not really contacted us, 0:12:30.920 --> 0:12:32.920 but like listen to our show. So this is kind 0:12:32.920 --> 0:12:35.320 of the first guest we've had listened to everything. So 0:12:35.360 --> 0:12:38.440 I'm really excited because I need some feedback about this leveraboy. Shit. 0:12:38.480 --> 0:12:40.760 Am I stupid for letting him fun? This model girl? 0:12:40.800 --> 0:12:43.040 Help me? God? Yeah, We're totally gonna keep giving her 0:12:43.040 --> 0:12:45.760 advice to two main points. First of all, he definitely came. 0:12:47.960 --> 0:12:53.120 That's like like everybody was just like please, it was cute. 0:12:53.160 --> 0:12:54.679 It was cute. I love the idea of his whole 0:12:54.720 --> 0:12:56.800 family listened to the podcast because then it's like his 0:12:56.880 --> 0:13:02.280 mom sitting somewhere in other country, like that's my baby. 0:13:04.600 --> 0:13:09.559 I don't know it's the mom yet, but oh god, 0:13:11.120 --> 0:13:13.200 so I guess go ahead, and if you want to 0:13:13.240 --> 0:13:16.520 introduce kind of maybe what you do um and why 0:13:16.600 --> 0:13:18.640 you're not even maybe not even that, I don't know 0:13:18.720 --> 0:13:23.080 what you could be very vague with. My name today 0:13:23.120 --> 0:13:27.760 is David, and I own a small business. I have 0:13:27.880 --> 0:13:31.800 masters in business and and I'm must relatively successful guy. 0:13:31.800 --> 0:13:33.079 I think I do all right to have a cool 0:13:33.160 --> 0:13:36.800 life that Insteah, it's a lot of planes, like I 0:13:36.800 --> 0:13:38.920 don't know where you live, just because they're always on vacation. 0:13:40.720 --> 0:13:42.640 Where was the last place you? I just got back 0:13:42.640 --> 0:13:46.320 from Hong Kong and Sydney. I did like five days 0:13:46.320 --> 0:13:48.400 in Hong Kong five days in Sydney, which was not planning. 0:13:48.400 --> 0:13:49.960 It was all planning, like like a couple of days 0:13:49.960 --> 0:13:52.360 before and while we were in Hong Kong we decided 0:13:52.360 --> 0:13:54.400 to go to Sydney. And then she was working in 0:13:54.480 --> 0:13:56.680 d C. Who's next to me, the next to me, 0:13:56.720 --> 0:13:59.960 and the young lady next to you is my girlfriend. Yeah, 0:14:00.040 --> 0:14:06.599 so we had here. She's super cute. It's like me 0:14:06.760 --> 0:14:16.760 right over you get a mask. He looks safe to 0:14:16.920 --> 0:14:19.680 You're like, you look just saying though, I'm so excited 0:14:19.720 --> 0:14:21.840 to have this conversation because if I ran into in 0:14:21.880 --> 0:14:24.440 the supermarket, you would look like a virgin to me, 0:14:25.440 --> 0:14:29.560 like resting, nice face, yeahs face. Like people think that 0:14:29.600 --> 0:14:31.240 they can walk up to me, especially white people, like 0:14:31.240 --> 0:14:32.560 they just walk up to me and start saying things 0:14:32.640 --> 0:14:34.880 they probably shouldn't say because they don't know that I'm militant, 0:14:34.920 --> 0:14:37.280 and then it's not gonna go well, it's gonna go 0:14:37.400 --> 0:14:40.320 south really quickly. What what about this face made you 0:14:40.360 --> 0:14:43.320 think you could just start speaking right? You just look 0:14:43.440 --> 0:14:46.240 very friendly. It's your team. I'm a happy person. I'm 0:14:46.280 --> 0:14:49.720 happy and I'm not gonna lie the energy because then 0:14:49.760 --> 0:14:51.960 I'm not gonna lie. You was walking next to your girlfriends, 0:14:52.080 --> 0:14:53.560 I know they would be like, we're not gonna walk 0:14:53.640 --> 0:14:55.280 up to this couple right now because she looks like 0:14:55.320 --> 0:14:59.960 she just looks down, which actually is really sweet. But 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.240 before we got you know, started recording, my hair was 0:15:02.240 --> 0:15:04.200 sucked up. It's been raining all day New York, and 0:15:04.280 --> 0:15:06.640 she was just like, I'm I'm gonna help you with 0:15:06.640 --> 0:15:09.560 your hair. See what a nice fucking way to say 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:12.800 your hair look like shit. I just like to play 0:15:12.840 --> 0:15:16.560 with hair, like, Okay, well I can see yours is 0:15:16.640 --> 0:15:20.520 beautifully flowing like you just wanted it and you really 0:15:20.600 --> 0:15:24.240 like to believe it looks beautiful. I don't know why 0:15:24.280 --> 0:15:26.320 you would do that with New York rain, but you 0:15:26.360 --> 0:15:32.600 know me, I was like, but why it's raining? I 0:15:32.680 --> 0:15:35.160 know that's so you get dressed up in nice and 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:37.480 to be his arm candy. I know that's right. I 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.400 feel like I've just seen the same hairstyle for a 0:15:39.440 --> 0:15:42.960 while now. For a while. For a while, I was 0:15:43.000 --> 0:15:44.800 just like, wow. I was like, can we just maybe 0:15:44.960 --> 0:15:48.480 like you know, we're here, it's a special occasion like it. Now? 0:15:48.480 --> 0:15:51.400 Do you two live in the same city? We do 0:15:51.960 --> 0:15:55.520 together immensely. Okay, No, we don't live together. You guys 0:15:55.520 --> 0:15:58.240 don't live to together. How long have you guys been together? Um? 0:15:58.280 --> 0:16:03.400 This madness started about a year ago? Ok yeah, yeah, 0:16:04.360 --> 0:16:07.000 things and there was definitely a smooth couple of months 0:16:07.040 --> 0:16:10.360 where we didn't speak at all and then but it's 0:16:10.400 --> 0:16:17.920 been do you can't like hear to me? Oh my god, listen, listen, 0:16:18.000 --> 0:16:21.400 no heard sense of time. Wheezy and lover boy, we're 0:16:21.400 --> 0:16:23.360 talking for all of two weeks and out of nowhere, 0:16:23.400 --> 0:16:25.280 She's like, bitchy, All I've been working for the last 0:16:25.320 --> 0:16:27.520 two months. Girl, you just met him ten days ago. 0:16:29.240 --> 0:16:32.680 We felt connected, hard connection with time and so off. 0:16:33.120 --> 0:16:39.560 I don't even remember any other you. You would swear 0:16:41.520 --> 0:16:45.880 you had a wipe in New York. We got three kids, 0:16:46.840 --> 0:16:49.000 So if you want to bring up kind of UM, 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:50.640 so I want to go ahead and share with the 0:16:50.680 --> 0:16:52.880 listeners before we get into this what we kind of 0:16:52.880 --> 0:16:55.680 would love to start doing. And um, because weezy and 0:16:55.760 --> 0:16:57.680 I figured we would probably run out of our fucking 0:16:57.720 --> 0:17:00.920 horror stories soon. Um. We've been getting so many emails 0:17:00.920 --> 0:17:04.080 and so many um even just advice and topics and 0:17:04.200 --> 0:17:07.120 combo starters from our listeners, UM, wanting to bring up 0:17:07.119 --> 0:17:10.680 these taboo situations or or things that they're not comfortable 0:17:10.720 --> 0:17:13.320 with sharing with their friends. And of course they can 0:17:13.400 --> 0:17:15.240 clearly tell that we don't give a funk about life, 0:17:15.480 --> 0:17:18.159 so they openly share with us. And so what we 0:17:18.200 --> 0:17:20.119 wanted to start doing was bringing on more people to 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:22.440 share their stories, because at the end of the day, 0:17:22.760 --> 0:17:24.199 I can put a strap on all I want. I 0:17:24.200 --> 0:17:26.120 don't have a dick. I don't know how men feel. 0:17:26.160 --> 0:17:28.280 I don't know about relationships because I'm single as funk 0:17:28.280 --> 0:17:30.560 out here. So we wanted to start kind of bringing 0:17:30.560 --> 0:17:33.719 in more more people who are in tune with their 0:17:33.760 --> 0:17:37.119 sexuality and kind of just enjoy talking about it because 0:17:37.119 --> 0:17:39.840 this is definitely something that not a lot of people do, 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:42.080 not a lot of people are comfortable with, And we 0:17:42.160 --> 0:17:44.679 want you guys to listen in and know that this 0:17:44.720 --> 0:17:49.160 ship is okay and and normal. Well is it normal? 0:17:49.680 --> 0:17:53.320 I don't know for normal yet, And we ask that normal, 0:17:55.359 --> 0:17:58.200 like normal relative girl we had, you know, it was 0:17:58.520 --> 0:18:02.919 to her, I don't know, and she seemed very normal. 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:08.800 She definitely had a job, So the definition of normal 0:18:08.920 --> 0:18:12.679 is having a job. Do you do you get off 0:18:12.680 --> 0:18:17.240 the club? Oh yeah, okay, um yeah. So we asked 0:18:17.280 --> 0:18:21.000 him to be on because he is bisexual and his 0:18:21.119 --> 0:18:25.719 girlfriend is here and the hot gorgeous not weird hot. 0:18:25.840 --> 0:18:27.440 I'm not gonna lie. She was over in the corner, 0:18:27.440 --> 0:18:28.920 wasn't paying no titch and now that the light is 0:18:28.960 --> 0:18:32.720 shine and I'm like, and she like, yeah, this is 0:18:32.720 --> 0:18:36.200 not a thing for weirdos. Like she seem pretty normal too, 0:18:36.280 --> 0:18:39.000 And so I definitely wanted to bring this topic up 0:18:39.400 --> 0:18:42.199 because we have had a conversation I don't know if 0:18:42.240 --> 0:18:44.320 you guys listened. I believe this was maybe episode one 0:18:44.400 --> 0:18:46.879 or two UM where I brought up Moonlight and we 0:18:46.960 --> 0:18:50.000 had the conversation of bisexual men. So I do want 0:18:50.000 --> 0:18:52.400 to ask this on air, what is your ethnicity, because 0:18:52.400 --> 0:18:55.000 I think that that kind of plays into this just 0:18:55.040 --> 0:18:59.800 a bit. I'm biracial, father's Caribbean um of Curban immigrant. 0:18:59.800 --> 0:19:06.040 My mother there's like regular white and so he bled okay. 0:19:06.760 --> 0:19:08.800 So it's an interesting dynamic because I was I was 0:19:08.880 --> 0:19:12.920 raised by both my parents until eighteen or so when 0:19:12.960 --> 0:19:15.359 my parents went up. But my father is an immigrant 0:19:15.359 --> 0:19:19.400 from Jamaica and my mother Jamaica, and I'm Jamaican and white, 0:19:19.400 --> 0:19:23.280 so we're actually the same. But my grandfather, my mother's father, 0:19:23.359 --> 0:19:25.720 was in the KKK. So the first time I heard 0:19:25.800 --> 0:19:27.639 the N word, I was three years old and it 0:19:27.680 --> 0:19:30.680 was directed from my grandfather to my father, and so 0:19:30.800 --> 0:19:33.440 I my original memories of like race, It's like, oh, 0:19:33.440 --> 0:19:35.280 the skin color is going to be a thing that 0:19:35.280 --> 0:19:38.239 I'm gonna have to deal with my entire life. Right 0:19:38.560 --> 0:19:40.800 of people who are supposed to be in a position 0:19:40.800 --> 0:19:43.320 to love me because you're my grandfather, but you don't 0:19:43.760 --> 0:19:45.679 because of the color of myself, which is so funny. 0:19:45.720 --> 0:19:49.359 My entire my mom's side of my family. I know 0:19:50.560 --> 0:19:54.240 my grandmother made my great grandparents passed, but her whole 0:19:54.280 --> 0:19:57.080 side of the family did not talk to us because 0:19:57.119 --> 0:20:00.560 we're black. Um. So yeah, which is why all of 0:20:00.560 --> 0:20:03.200 my family in California, San Diego all of that, I'm 0:20:03.240 --> 0:20:05.119 not familiar with much of my mom's side of the 0:20:05.119 --> 0:20:12.040 family because we're black. Listen, me and my sisters, Me 0:20:12.119 --> 0:20:14.840 and my the middle sister where I'm Jamaican and white, 0:20:15.080 --> 0:20:16.960