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Dear 19 00:01:08,240 --> 00:01:11,360 Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley, my husband and I were on vacation and 20 00:01:11,520 --> 00:01:14,840 Speaker 1: strolling along the beach one night and discovered a portion 21 00:01:14,920 --> 00:01:17,880 Speaker 1: of the beach that was for nudice. My husband thought 22 00:01:17,880 --> 00:01:20,760 Speaker 1: it would be fun to experience it, so we walked 23 00:01:20,800 --> 00:01:23,480 Speaker 1: over to a cabana like entrance. There was a greeter 24 00:01:23,640 --> 00:01:26,000 Speaker 1: that told us to take our clothes off and placed 25 00:01:26,080 --> 00:01:29,720 Speaker 1: them in the cubby holes along the walls. I was reluctant, 26 00:01:29,800 --> 00:01:33,200 Speaker 1: but my husband was eager to experience it. We walked 27 00:01:33,200 --> 00:01:36,440 Speaker 1: through the cabana area and on and out onto the 28 00:01:36,480 --> 00:01:40,360 Speaker 1: beach filled with other naked people, mostly couples. A nice 29 00:01:40,440 --> 00:01:43,240 Speaker 1: looking younger couple came over to us and said they 30 00:01:43,240 --> 00:01:46,399 Speaker 1: had a lounge area in the distance and we were 31 00:01:46,480 --> 00:01:49,320 Speaker 1: welcome to join them. We didn't have our own chairs 32 00:01:49,440 --> 00:01:51,880 Speaker 1: or towels to sit on, so we went with them. 33 00:01:52,240 --> 00:01:57,080 Speaker 1: We relaxed, had some wine, and enjoyed the breeze, but 34 00:01:57,280 --> 00:02:01,440 Speaker 1: it was a weird vibe for me. Then the man 35 00:02:01,760 --> 00:02:05,600 Speaker 1: said his wife wanted to pleasure my husband. I stepped 36 00:02:05,640 --> 00:02:08,360 Speaker 1: in and before I cursed the guy out, I asked 37 00:02:08,360 --> 00:02:11,400 Speaker 1: how she planned to do it. He explained that she 38 00:02:11,480 --> 00:02:14,040 Speaker 1: has a way of working with her hands to bring 39 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:19,800 Speaker 1: arousal and satisfaction without touching him. I knew then that 40 00:02:19,880 --> 00:02:23,240 Speaker 1: they were weirdos, but of course my husband wanted to 41 00:02:23,280 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 1: try it. I let him try it, and I watched 42 00:02:26,040 --> 00:02:28,519 Speaker 1: for about five minutes while the woman put some kind 43 00:02:28,560 --> 00:02:31,760 Speaker 1: of spell on his private parts and he lost control. 44 00:02:32,800 --> 00:02:37,520 Speaker 1: He was so relaxed after it he fell asleep. The 45 00:02:37,600 --> 00:02:39,760 Speaker 1: guy offered to show me how it was done, and 46 00:02:39,919 --> 00:02:43,000 Speaker 1: just as I laid back to do it, my husband 47 00:02:43,960 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 1: rose up and had a fit. He said there is 48 00:02:47,040 --> 00:02:49,799 Speaker 1: no way I'm doing it, and we had to leave. 49 00:02:50,280 --> 00:02:52,200 Speaker 1: He said it would be too much for me, so 50 00:02:52,520 --> 00:02:55,920 Speaker 1: he didn't want me to try it. What does she 51 00:02:56,000 --> 00:02:59,519 Speaker 1: do to him? What does she do to him? Why 52 00:02:59,600 --> 00:03:01,640 Speaker 1: is it that he can do it but I can't? 53 00:03:01,919 --> 00:03:09,840 Speaker 1: Please advise? Wow, what a wild story that was? What 54 00:03:10,240 --> 00:03:13,720 Speaker 1: a wild story. I'm sure a lot of people are thinking, 55 00:03:13,800 --> 00:03:16,840 Speaker 1: where is this naked vacation getaway? I must have had 56 00:03:16,880 --> 00:03:19,959 Speaker 1: you in mind, Tommy, and I think this story is 57 00:03:20,280 --> 00:03:22,360 Speaker 1: very telling about the both of you. I mean, I 58 00:03:22,400 --> 00:03:24,880 Speaker 1: think your husband wants his cake and to eat it too. 59 00:03:25,200 --> 00:03:27,440 Speaker 1: He sounds like a swinger or something. He might have 60 00:03:27,520 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: some of those tendencies. He wants an open marriage of So, 61 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:33,320 Speaker 1: I don't know something's going on with your man. You 62 00:03:33,320 --> 00:03:36,000 Speaker 1: you were down with all of it, not at first, 63 00:03:36,120 --> 00:03:39,520 Speaker 1: but you got into it, you know, you let your 64 00:03:39,600 --> 00:03:41,960 Speaker 1: husband try it, and then you watched, and then you 65 00:03:42,040 --> 00:03:44,760 Speaker 1: wanted to try it too. So you might be a 66 00:03:44,760 --> 00:03:47,440 Speaker 1: closet swinger or a wife swapper or something too. You 67 00:03:47,560 --> 00:03:50,560 Speaker 1: never know, but you did forget this one thing that 68 00:03:50,640 --> 00:03:54,760 Speaker 1: there is a double standard and your husband will share himself, 69 00:03:54,840 --> 00:03:57,280 Speaker 1: but he does not want to share you. What did 70 00:03:57,320 --> 00:04:01,240 Speaker 1: he say? It might be it would be too much 71 00:04:01,280 --> 00:04:03,160 Speaker 1: for you, so he didn't want you to try it, 72 00:04:03,320 --> 00:04:06,560 Speaker 1: but it was okay for him. Okay, that's what a 73 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:10,080 Speaker 1: double standard is. I think you all should have discussed 74 00:04:10,080 --> 00:04:12,960 Speaker 1: this as soon as he decided that going over there 75 00:04:12,960 --> 00:04:16,320 Speaker 1: with the nudist would be fun, because you just kind 76 00:04:16,320 --> 00:04:19,440 Speaker 1: of reluctantly went along. I don't think either of you 77 00:04:19,720 --> 00:04:23,479 Speaker 1: needs to do anything like this with anyone, with anyone 78 00:04:23,520 --> 00:04:26,960 Speaker 1: else but each other, because your husband is territorial, as 79 00:04:27,000 --> 00:04:29,840 Speaker 1: you found out, and obviously can't handle you being with 80 00:04:29,880 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 1: another man, even if there's no touching involved. So I 81 00:04:34,720 --> 00:04:36,800 Speaker 1: just think you need to you two need to go 82 00:04:36,839 --> 00:04:40,360 Speaker 1: on a regular vacation, keep your clothes on, especially when 83 00:04:40,400 --> 00:04:46,200 Speaker 1: you're around other people. Period. That's it, Steve, Oh, this 84 00:04:46,440 --> 00:04:52,320 Speaker 1: letter is complete, damn ignis Yes, you and your homes 85 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:57,679 Speaker 1: on a vacation y'all walking one night and a portion 86 00:04:57,720 --> 00:05:02,320 Speaker 1: of the beach was for nudis. And only place I 87 00:05:02,480 --> 00:05:06,880 Speaker 1: know this, only place I know this that's like that 88 00:05:06,960 --> 00:05:15,680 Speaker 1: Proce Jamaica got some pieces. But Anguilla they have a 89 00:05:15,720 --> 00:05:20,600 Speaker 1: couple of new nudis beach spots. So now I don't 90 00:05:20,600 --> 00:05:26,200 Speaker 1: know where you was, but anyway, y'all walked over to 91 00:05:26,279 --> 00:05:34,160 Speaker 1: this naked section and y'all walk into this cabana, and 92 00:05:34,240 --> 00:05:36,480 Speaker 1: that was a greeder that told y'all take your clothes 93 00:05:36,520 --> 00:05:39,440 Speaker 1: off and put them in these cubby holes on the 94 00:05:39,480 --> 00:05:45,599 Speaker 1: wall where my number at, where my locker where Keith, 95 00:05:46,960 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 1: I'm just too hood for it. Who watching these curvet holes? 96 00:05:53,160 --> 00:05:55,480 Speaker 1: Can I give you a little extra to keep mind 97 00:05:55,520 --> 00:05:58,159 Speaker 1: at the front where you can see it all the time? 98 00:05:59,240 --> 00:06:01,920 Speaker 1: Who was the whole those clothes was in the cuby hold? 99 00:06:02,520 --> 00:06:05,200 Speaker 1: It's just too much for me. And then the greeda 100 00:06:05,279 --> 00:06:07,359 Speaker 1: told us take your clothes off and put them in 101 00:06:07,360 --> 00:06:11,960 Speaker 1: the cubby hole. I was reluctant, but my husband was 102 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:16,279 Speaker 1: eager to experience. So y'all walk through the cabana. I 103 00:06:16,360 --> 00:06:19,839 Speaker 1: got out on the beach fill with other naked people, 104 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:24,520 Speaker 1: mostly couples. A nice looking younger couple came up and 105 00:06:24,600 --> 00:06:27,200 Speaker 1: said they had a lounge area in the distance and 106 00:06:27,279 --> 00:06:32,360 Speaker 1: we was welcome to join them. Hold up, what you ain't? 107 00:06:32,480 --> 00:06:37,119 Speaker 1: What you over here? Fault? All right? Hold on, Steve, 108 00:06:37,160 --> 00:06:40,159 Speaker 1: hold it right there? Okay, we're gonna have yeah, hold 109 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 1: it right there? What else? We'll have Part two of 110 00:06:44,040 --> 00:06:46,960 Speaker 1: Steve's response coming up at twenty three minutes after the hour, 111 00:06:47,080 --> 00:06:50,440 Speaker 1: subjects he can do it, but I can't. We'll get 112 00:06:50,480 --> 00:06:55,240 Speaker 1: back into it right after this. You're listening to show, 113 00:06:55,960 --> 00:06:59,000 Speaker 1: all right, Steve, Come on, let's recap today's strawberry letter, 114 00:06:59,080 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: the subject you can do it, but I can't. Couple 115 00:07:02,440 --> 00:07:04,559 Speaker 1: of it. On the vacation, they're walking on the beach 116 00:07:04,600 --> 00:07:08,920 Speaker 1: one night and then notice a newdest section A husband 117 00:07:08,960 --> 00:07:11,960 Speaker 1: wanted to try. So they go in this cabano, roll 118 00:07:12,040 --> 00:07:15,880 Speaker 1: their clothes up and put it in a cubbyhole. Oh 119 00:07:15,960 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: this is ending right here. I don't know we have 120 00:07:18,840 --> 00:07:22,400 Speaker 1: who in charge of my clothes. But when I take 121 00:07:22,480 --> 00:07:25,960 Speaker 1: my damn clothes off to go on this beach, when 122 00:07:25,960 --> 00:07:27,920 Speaker 1: it's time for me to go back to the boat 123 00:07:28,480 --> 00:07:33,880 Speaker 1: on my hotel, where's my damn clothes? And see it's 124 00:07:33,960 --> 00:07:37,160 Speaker 1: too much? Can I have a bag? A shopping bag 125 00:07:37,280 --> 00:07:40,440 Speaker 1: or something. We're the black people on the beach. We 126 00:07:40,520 --> 00:07:44,120 Speaker 1: don't have our stuff in a sack. Give up some 127 00:07:44,240 --> 00:07:47,720 Speaker 1: plastic bags they have like the grocery store. But I 128 00:07:47,800 --> 00:07:50,120 Speaker 1: got to keep my damn clothes with me case. We 129 00:07:50,200 --> 00:07:53,440 Speaker 1: got to get the hell out of him. And y'all 130 00:07:53,440 --> 00:07:55,640 Speaker 1: walk out on the beach and everything, and a nice 131 00:07:55,680 --> 00:07:58,560 Speaker 1: looking couple came over to him and said they had 132 00:07:58,600 --> 00:08:01,760 Speaker 1: a lounge area in the distance and we was welcome 133 00:08:01,800 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 1: to join them. That ain't sound strange to you all 134 00:08:08,960 --> 00:08:12,800 Speaker 1: of a sudden, you asked, niket, here comes two more 135 00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:17,240 Speaker 1: ass nicket people and invite y'all on the other side 136 00:08:17,320 --> 00:08:21,840 Speaker 1: where they got a lounge. Jack, y'all dumb ass gold there. 137 00:08:23,400 --> 00:08:26,080 Speaker 1: We didn't have our own chairs of tiels to sit on. 138 00:08:26,720 --> 00:08:29,040 Speaker 1: Didn't had that and it come dounded next to the 139 00:08:29,120 --> 00:08:34,640 Speaker 1: coming holes. See you got all these covering holes in 140 00:08:34,760 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 1: my clothes. The way we're gonna sit or when y'all 141 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:39,120 Speaker 1: just walking, because the day right now, you can't sit 142 00:08:39,160 --> 00:08:44,720 Speaker 1: your ass nicket in the saint Why I ain't gonna 143 00:08:44,760 --> 00:08:47,320 Speaker 1: understand that you're gonna be washing sand out of cracks 144 00:08:47,559 --> 00:08:51,400 Speaker 1: you didn't know you had for weeks. That's saying, wash 145 00:08:51,559 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 1: up on you getting them quiet places. So we relaxed, 146 00:08:58,200 --> 00:09:01,480 Speaker 1: had some wine, enjoyed the You know, it's it's always 147 00:09:01,480 --> 00:09:05,760 Speaker 1: windy when your naked, even if it's stifling ass high 148 00:09:05,880 --> 00:09:09,000 Speaker 1: because you having areas exposed that ain't used to as. 149 00:09:11,360 --> 00:09:15,240 Speaker 1: It was a weird vibe for me. Oh really, yeah, 150 00:09:15,040 --> 00:09:18,640 Speaker 1: you think you know walking on this dogheads beach naked, 151 00:09:19,080 --> 00:09:22,040 Speaker 1: that wasn't weird. And then the two people came up 152 00:09:22,080 --> 00:09:26,600 Speaker 1: to you. Still wasn't weird, but it was a weird 153 00:09:26,679 --> 00:09:30,560 Speaker 1: vibe for me. Then the man said that his wife 154 00:09:30,880 --> 00:09:35,080 Speaker 1: wanted to pleasure my husband. I stepped in before I 155 00:09:35,200 --> 00:09:37,560 Speaker 1: cut the guy out, and I asked, well, how she 156 00:09:37,679 --> 00:09:40,600 Speaker 1: playing on doing that. He explained that she has a 157 00:09:40,679 --> 00:09:43,920 Speaker 1: way of working with her hands to bring arousal and 158 00:09:44,040 --> 00:09:50,600 Speaker 1: satisfaction without touching him. I knew then they was weird old, 159 00:09:51,559 --> 00:09:54,080 Speaker 1: but because my husband wanted to try, because you know, 160 00:09:54,440 --> 00:09:58,840 Speaker 1: he hood, Oh, so you're gonna arouse me, but you 161 00:09:58,880 --> 00:10:02,920 Speaker 1: ain't gonna touch me. Well, then I know, I'll tell 162 00:10:02,920 --> 00:10:06,559 Speaker 1: you whatever she got in his ear, she said something. 163 00:10:07,320 --> 00:10:11,000 Speaker 1: She was putting his hand on his neck and his chest, 164 00:10:12,160 --> 00:10:14,800 Speaker 1: and she was drawing the line with her finger nail 165 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:20,360 Speaker 1: down his side. That's it. Wait, wait one more time. 166 00:10:20,520 --> 00:10:24,720 Speaker 1: She was doing hawking in his ear, rubbing his neck, 167 00:10:26,240 --> 00:10:29,400 Speaker 1: took her finger, rending it down his side, down the 168 00:10:29,440 --> 00:10:34,520 Speaker 1: middle of his stomach, down there towards or the promises. Yeah, 169 00:10:34,679 --> 00:10:39,559 Speaker 1: but that that's light touching, she said. She meant she 170 00:10:39,679 --> 00:10:43,960 Speaker 1: wasn't gonna, you know, use her hands physically. But she 171 00:10:44,080 --> 00:10:48,439 Speaker 1: was in his ear, though, she said, and and it 172 00:10:48,480 --> 00:10:52,040 Speaker 1: got the best of him. And then this is how 173 00:10:52,080 --> 00:10:55,640 Speaker 1: she put him out. My husband wanted to try. I 174 00:10:55,720 --> 00:10:58,080 Speaker 1: let him try, and I watched for about five minutes. 175 00:10:58,320 --> 00:11:02,320 Speaker 1: Five minutes. You're sitting there, you know, your husband, you 176 00:11:02,480 --> 00:11:05,880 Speaker 1: seeing what's going on while the woman put some kind 177 00:11:05,920 --> 00:11:09,160 Speaker 1: of spell on his private part. There wasn't no damn spell. 178 00:11:09,440 --> 00:11:16,959 Speaker 1: Thank you. Somebody said you were concerned about like she 179 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:24,040 Speaker 1: over there doing this here O course, po, that ain't 180 00:11:24,080 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 1: what she was doing. She was in his ill, saying 181 00:11:28,080 --> 00:11:35,080 Speaker 1: some things to him that got him exciting. And then 182 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: she said, and he lost control. Oh so now your 183 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:46,720 Speaker 1: man is said, have been here, just why y'all naked 184 00:11:47,360 --> 00:11:52,439 Speaker 1: at these other people's cabana? Crazy? And he didn't lost control. 185 00:11:52,559 --> 00:11:56,640 Speaker 1: Now his stupid ass is asleep over some people. He 186 00:11:56,720 --> 00:11:58,599 Speaker 1: don't know if he get chopped up and put in 187 00:11:58,720 --> 00:12:01,800 Speaker 1: some bang dog out in that damn motion with this 188 00:12:01,880 --> 00:12:07,679 Speaker 1: is wild. Oh gosh. Then the guy offered to show 189 00:12:07,720 --> 00:12:09,960 Speaker 1: me how it was done, and Jesse I laid back 190 00:12:10,000 --> 00:12:12,280 Speaker 1: to do it both, y'all stupid? Now you feel to 191 00:12:12,280 --> 00:12:15,440 Speaker 1: get your ass knocked out, both of y'all for dinner. 192 00:12:16,360 --> 00:12:19,840 Speaker 1: Y'all gonna be on the naked menu tomorrow night. Asked 193 00:12:19,880 --> 00:12:25,400 Speaker 1: for Titus and all of this. Husband jumped up, saying, 194 00:12:25,440 --> 00:12:28,240 Speaker 1: it ain't no way I'm doing it. We got to leave. 195 00:12:28,480 --> 00:12:30,080 Speaker 1: He said it would be too much for me, so 196 00:12:30,160 --> 00:12:32,160 Speaker 1: he didn't want me to try. He would it would 197 00:12:32,160 --> 00:12:35,400 Speaker 1: be too much for him. If if he watched this 198 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 1: happened to you by this other man, he know he 199 00:12:37,320 --> 00:12:39,880 Speaker 1: can't do that. When y'all get right, so, ain't no 200 00:12:40,000 --> 00:12:42,599 Speaker 1: need to you learn in this hill? Oh why is 201 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:45,360 Speaker 1: it that he can do it? What did she do 202 00:12:45,480 --> 00:12:48,520 Speaker 1: to him? You was down to hell? You mean, what 203 00:12:48,600 --> 00:12:52,640 Speaker 1: did she do to him? You wasn't watching, all right, 204 00:12:52,960 --> 00:12:54,800 Speaker 1: We gotta get a good hair away or what she 205 00:12:54,920 --> 00:12:56,920 Speaker 1: did to him? And you don't know how to do it. 206 00:12:57,960 --> 00:13:00,640 Speaker 1: They just need to keep their clothes on. Post your 207 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:03,440 Speaker 1: comments on today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, on 208 00:13:03,520 --> 00:13:06,240 Speaker 1: Instagram and Facebook. Please don't forget to check out the 209 00:13:06,280 --> 00:13:09,600 Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter podcast on demand now coming up at forty 210 00:13:09,679 --> 00:13:12,040 Speaker 1: six minutes after the hour, Pimpin will be in the 211 00:13:12,160 --> 00:13:15,959 Speaker 1: building with his NFL picks. That's coming up right after this. 212 00:13:16,600 --> 00:13:19,360 Speaker 1: You're listening to the Stave Harvey Morning Show.