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Speaker 2: She'saving soon.

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Speaker 3: Rough.

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Speaker 2: Tiffany is the greatest person ever because she Okay.

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Speaker 1: That story of this girl is kind of funny because

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Speaker 1: her husband and her have been together since high school.

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Speaker 1: She's also a real estate agent working at a high

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Speaker 1: not verbatim, but this is what she said. So, what's

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Speaker 1: the deal with y'all? Why hasn't he married you? It's

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Speaker 4: Wooo.

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Speaker 2: Those are fighting words.

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Speaker 1: Why are people like the meanest thing? It could also

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Speaker 2: We're gonna talk about that. Yes, I'm going to talk

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Speaker 3: I'll put a trigger warning on.

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Speaker 2: I'm going to start the story off and set the

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Speaker 1: We'll talk about it. Buddy, never tell abbing. I know

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Speaker 1: I afked up Riley. Okay, Anyway, she said, for years,

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Speaker 3: Whoa, it's like a fren of me situation ahead. This

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Speaker 1: She's gotten her entire body done, and now that she

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Speaker 1: be skinny too, Ironically enough, so I clapped back and said,

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Speaker 1: Because her husband has had a history of cheating. All right,

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Speaker 1: all right, so these aren't friends? Yeah, is the shot

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Speaker 3: Like cleared? Because no, no, why dude?

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Speaker 2: If she's calling you flat and being like nobody loves

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Speaker 2: God created you, you can clap back from I don't know,

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Speaker 1: just don't think it's it's good to clap back in general, Okay,

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Speaker 1: I feel like it it ends up creating more animosity,

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Speaker 3: They all called me a bit and kicked me out.

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Speaker 2: Oh damn. But you can create animosity if like they're

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Speaker 1: And there is an update. That's a childhood bully. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, oh sounds terrible. A lot of you ask why

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I think you won't think you over sometimes sometimes

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Speaker 3: No, no, no, like trying to get invited on.

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Speaker 1: Her on her basically being like instantly after talking to someone,

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Speaker 4: like here's kind of what happened, but like not.

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Speaker 3: I hate this guy. Yeah yeah, I don't know. I

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Speaker 1: Little little, little little maybe, I don't know, would that

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Speaker 3: To close this out. Colin or are you talking about gerbiling?

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Speaker 3: I was going for Colin. But where where are we going? Boys?

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Speaker 3: How about you tell your Tiffany story? Yeah? There we go.

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Speaker 2: So I met the best person ever in the world

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Speaker 1: He's done something improperly with one of his female friends,

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Speaker 3: Amazing?

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Speaker 1: Okay, sorry for the technical difficulties. This is Sam from

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Speaker 1: So we were just listening to your voicemail and you

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Speaker 5: We broke up, so that can be pretty much set up.

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Speaker 3: What happened? Like? What were the things that you caught

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Speaker 5: So she slept over at his house? And who lied

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so sketchy, dude, that's so sketchy.

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Speaker 5: So yeah, I was like, okay, well then you can

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Speaker 3: Wow? Did they end up together like as a couple?

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Speaker 1: Okay, well at least that is good. But yeah, how

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Speaker 5: Yeah, a little bit. One thing. So we broke yesterday.

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Speaker 1: Oh wow, okay, so this is all right, this is fresh, Sammy,

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Speaker 5: And my birthday is well Thursday, so I mean not

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Speaker 3: Happy early birthday. Oh my god.

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Speaker 1: The present of maybe ditching someone who's good for you

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Speaker 5: No, I know all my friends are like good he

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Speaker 3: Oh my god. Okay, all right, oh my goodness, this

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Speaker 3: And then I'm yeah, back and forth. What do you mean,

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Speaker 5: We were going to bring up, or like try to

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Speaker 1: I guess, Like, what have you learned from this whole situation?

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Speaker 5: Would ignore the red flags when.

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Speaker 1: thank you so much for calling in, Sammy. You really

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Speaker 1: You're gonna get through this obviously, but I'm glad that

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Speaker 3: Yeah, thank you so much. All right, happy birthday.

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Speaker 4: Thanks, Wow, dude of birthday breakup, breakup but good, honestly,

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we can go out to the clubs and have

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Speaker 1: some fun, you know, Sam's writing. Well, Sammy, thank you

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Speaker 1: so much for calling it. We love talking. We love

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Speaker 4: Time for okop reward. I call the police on my fiance.

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Speaker 4: She's furious and now I think she's cheating on me.

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Speaker 1: Maybe she's mad because when the police officers came in,

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Speaker 3: I'm so sorry, officer. Don't don't do it. Please pie

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Speaker 3: me up against the bed, officer. Been a bad girl

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Speaker 4: My thirty five male fiance thirty eight female left in

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Speaker 1: How much time do you need to pick up someone?

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Speaker 1: How much time do you show me the distance? Show

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Speaker 1: me the Google maps? Yeah, there we go, give me

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Speaker 3: I want to see where it's located. I want to

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Speaker 4: So here's the thing. Ten to fifteen rolls around. She

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Speaker 3: It's not good. That's like many hours past.

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Speaker 4: Well, she was supposed to be home at nine, so

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Speaker 4: an hour an hour of fifteen, okay, an she left

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Speaker 4: Now, eleven forty five rolls around and she still hasn't

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Speaker 4: At this point I was getting very upset. Twelve thirty

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Speaker 3: My god.

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Speaker 4: From dropping a friend off, like and it's not like

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Speaker 1: Also, like give updates if you say you're going to

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Speaker 1: I mean, it's it's very easy to give updates unless

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Speaker 4: Using themhance for something else. Could you imagine if she

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Speaker 4: Yeah, she's just planning a Yeah. Twelve thirty rolls around

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Speaker 3: I'm angry. Won thirty rolls.

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Speaker 4: Around and my anger has completely transformed into worry. Not

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Speaker 3: Yeah, dude, would you're like, dude, is everything okay?

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Speaker 4: It's weird that, like, you know, four over four hours later,

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Speaker 4: In the night, in the night, around one forty five

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Speaker 1: The first twenty four So, but like, you can't actually

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Speaker 3: I twenty four is what I've heard. You can call

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Speaker 4: That's what I heard from the film Bridesmaids, which I

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Speaker 3: That may or may not be the most accurate information. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: Here it just said, wait a common a common misconception

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I called all the hospitals in the area to

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Speaker 3: The road for her car for three more hours. Good,

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Speaker 3: it's like three am.

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Speaker 1: Now, Yeah, literally, like three four am in the morning.

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Speaker 4: Partially because I didn't want the kids to hear me

445
00:19:45,200 --> 00:19:46,680
Speaker 4: on the phone with hospitals.

446
00:19:46,680 --> 00:19:50,040
Speaker 3: Oh they have kids. They That makes it a lot worse.

447
00:19:50,280 --> 00:19:52,920
Speaker 3: That makes it damn, bro.

448
00:19:53,520 --> 00:19:58,000
Speaker 4: And secondly because I was sick with worry. At seven

449
00:19:58,040 --> 00:20:03,760
Speaker 4: am in the more morning, after dropping off a friend

450
00:20:04,080 --> 00:20:08,080
Speaker 4: one down over at she left twelve hour It took

451
00:20:08,080 --> 00:20:12,720
Speaker 4: her twelve hours, Bro. She went across state lines to

452
00:20:12,840 --> 00:20:15,880
Speaker 4: deliver like the military must have caught like like Joe

453
00:20:15,920 --> 00:20:18,840
Speaker 4: Biden is like, ma'am, we need your son delivered to

454
00:20:18,880 --> 00:20:22,440
Speaker 4: this military base three two states over FRONTO.

455
00:20:22,640 --> 00:20:25,359
Speaker 3: She's like, I'm on it staff. You're the only one

456
00:20:25,640 --> 00:20:29,040
Speaker 3: she has. And yeah, it comes out of like a

457
00:20:29,080 --> 00:20:32,159
Speaker 3: secret closet. We need you right now. Yeah it's me

458
00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:32,960
Speaker 3: sleepy Joe.

459
00:20:34,240 --> 00:20:39,840
Speaker 4: But I'm awake tonight, ma'am. So at seven am she

460
00:20:39,880 --> 00:20:42,960
Speaker 4: comes home. She apologized for being out and said she

461
00:20:43,000 --> 00:20:43,840
Speaker 4: had no excuse.

462
00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:49,200
Speaker 3: Yeah you don't. You don't just say what happened.

463
00:20:49,400 --> 00:20:51,680
Speaker 1: Seriously, you don't have an excuse, but you gotta tell

464
00:20:51,720 --> 00:20:52,440
Speaker 1: me what happened.

465
00:20:52,800 --> 00:20:54,760
Speaker 4: She was driving home and she felt tired, as if

466
00:20:54,800 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 4: she was falling asleep at the wheel, so she said,

467
00:20:57,320 --> 00:20:59,400
Speaker 4: she pulled over to the side of the road to.

468
00:21:00,880 --> 00:21:03,200
Speaker 3: Is that all you're doing for a long ass sleep?

469
00:21:03,800 --> 00:21:06,440
Speaker 4: When she did that, she found that her brand new

470
00:21:06,520 --> 00:21:14,800
Speaker 4: phone had conveniently stopped working. Nice your face, Your face,

471
00:21:15,800 --> 00:21:17,840
Speaker 4: I also look that doesn't believe it.

472
00:21:17,880 --> 00:21:22,200
Speaker 1: He's like, brand new phone stop working? Yeah, she says.

473
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,440
Speaker 4: She napped anyway because it was a responsible thing to do,

474
00:21:25,920 --> 00:21:28,119
Speaker 4: and then came home at seven am to bring the

475
00:21:28,200 --> 00:21:31,760
Speaker 4: kids to school and then get to work on time. Huh,

476
00:21:31,840 --> 00:21:35,680
Speaker 4: why wouldn't she call him unless this brand new phone

477
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:37,119
Speaker 4: is so broken?

478
00:21:37,840 --> 00:21:38,760
Speaker 3: Baby? It was just dead.

479
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:41,280
Speaker 4: I immediately called the police and told them that she

480
00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,520
Speaker 4: had come home safely, and gave them the case number

481
00:21:43,640 --> 00:21:46,600
Speaker 4: and told them to stop searching, which they did. My

482
00:21:46,680 --> 00:21:49,120
Speaker 4: fiance brought the kids to school and left for work.

483
00:21:49,320 --> 00:21:52,360
Speaker 4: I set out to start cleaning. Clean distresses me sometimes,

484
00:21:52,760 --> 00:21:55,560
Speaker 4: and I got a call from the policeman asking where

485
00:21:55,600 --> 00:21:58,679
Speaker 4: she worked. I told him, and I asked why, and

486
00:21:58,760 --> 00:22:01,080
Speaker 4: I was informed that it was to check on the

487
00:22:01,119 --> 00:22:05,080
Speaker 4: person's wellness after a missing person is found. I asked

488
00:22:05,119 --> 00:22:07,040
Speaker 4: them not to go buy her work, but to give

489
00:22:07,040 --> 00:22:10,120
Speaker 4: her a call instead. He said he couldn't make any

490
00:22:10,160 --> 00:22:12,840
Speaker 4: promises really that.

491
00:22:13,080 --> 00:22:16,040
Speaker 3: Have to do that? Yeah, that sucks.

492
00:22:16,280 --> 00:22:18,400
Speaker 1: Why would you have to go to their place of work?

493
00:22:18,440 --> 00:22:20,639
Speaker 1: That seems like yeah, he disruptive.

494
00:22:20,800 --> 00:22:23,760
Speaker 4: I see, yeah, I see like a check in period

495
00:22:23,800 --> 00:22:25,639
Speaker 4: like okay, it's a good like standard Paul's like a

496
00:22:25,680 --> 00:22:29,280
Speaker 4: it's policy like it's good. Yeah, my fiance is relatively

497
00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:33,080
Speaker 4: new to her job. A police officer is really bad. Yeah,

498
00:22:34,320 --> 00:22:37,000
Speaker 4: a police officer showed up and asked.

499
00:22:36,840 --> 00:22:37,880
Speaker 3: To speak with her.

500
00:22:38,280 --> 00:22:43,040
Speaker 4: Really, excuse me, a little lady, come over here. I'm

501
00:22:43,080 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 4: looking for Darlene x YZ.

502
00:22:46,359 --> 00:22:50,040
Speaker 1: Like they must know how bad that looks for especially

503
00:22:50,040 --> 00:22:53,840
Speaker 1: for somebody to like like, is that is that true?

504
00:22:53,880 --> 00:22:57,560
Speaker 1: That's is that really what happens? I guess I don't know,

505
00:22:57,840 --> 00:22:59,439
Speaker 1: Like why can't they I guess they can't check up

506
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:02,320
Speaker 1: on home and case like you know, that's actually even

507
00:23:02,359 --> 00:23:04,360
Speaker 1: better then if there's.

508
00:23:04,160 --> 00:23:07,080
Speaker 3: Like domestic violence kind of thing. I don't know. Yeah,

509
00:23:07,160 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 3: that's that is because I do see a check in. Yeah,

510
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:10,960
Speaker 3: because the person.

511
00:23:11,160 --> 00:23:13,560
Speaker 1: Makes sense, but it could be I just it's just man,

512
00:23:13,640 --> 00:23:14,720
Speaker 1: that's really disruptive.

513
00:23:14,840 --> 00:23:18,960
Speaker 4: Yeah, she is now enraged at me for calling the

514
00:23:19,000 --> 00:23:22,520
Speaker 4: police and sending a cop to her work and making

515
00:23:22,560 --> 00:23:25,240
Speaker 4: her look bad she's I mean.

516
00:23:25,480 --> 00:23:27,919
Speaker 1: Like, all right, let's let's had it for a second

517
00:23:28,000 --> 00:23:33,159
Speaker 1: that she wasn't cheating and everything she said was true.

518
00:23:34,160 --> 00:23:38,600
Speaker 1: But like I would understand being mad like that would

519
00:23:38,600 --> 00:23:41,000
Speaker 1: make sense. I would probably be mad about that. Where

520
00:23:41,280 --> 00:23:43,240
Speaker 1: ye where it'd be like, bro, you said a cop

521
00:23:43,280 --> 00:23:45,200
Speaker 1: to my work. I just started this job. I'm trying

522
00:23:45,200 --> 00:23:49,199
Speaker 1: to like make a good impression on Joey the Boss

523
00:23:49,240 --> 00:23:51,840
Speaker 1: and and Jay and and all.

524
00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:54,960
Speaker 4: Maybe she's making too good of an impression on Joey

525
00:23:54,960 --> 00:23:55,359
Speaker 4: the Boss.

526
00:23:56,119 --> 00:23:58,159
Speaker 1: She's making the best of Maybe Joey the Boss is

527
00:23:58,200 --> 00:24:00,439
Speaker 1: making an impression in her Hmmm.

528
00:24:01,480 --> 00:24:06,440
Speaker 3: I would say it, but I won't.

529
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,280
Speaker 4: She is saying I overreacted and that she wasn't missing,

530
00:24:10,440 --> 00:24:13,160
Speaker 4: and I was punishing her for doing the responsible thing

531
00:24:13,480 --> 00:24:19,680
Speaker 4: and not driving wild drowsy. You know what's responsible, not

532
00:24:20,720 --> 00:24:24,520
Speaker 4: a stranger when your children are waiting at home. She

533
00:24:24,680 --> 00:24:26,720
Speaker 4: is saying that she's never going to leave the house

534
00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:30,119
Speaker 4: again ever, except for work, because she is so afraid

535
00:24:30,160 --> 00:24:30,919
Speaker 4: I'm going to call.

536
00:24:30,800 --> 00:24:31,879
Speaker 3: The cops on her again.

537
00:24:32,760 --> 00:24:36,880
Speaker 4: So good outcome now she has, Yeah, there's no choice.

538
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:40,360
Speaker 4: So did I overreact? She should I have waited two

539
00:24:40,440 --> 00:24:42,000
Speaker 4: days like she suggested.

540
00:24:42,160 --> 00:24:45,400
Speaker 3: I mean two days is a long time. Yeah, I think.

541
00:24:45,560 --> 00:24:49,280
Speaker 4: I think also because it's I mean any any period

542
00:24:49,320 --> 00:24:52,200
Speaker 4: of but especially nighttime like going on, and.

543
00:24:52,160 --> 00:24:55,720
Speaker 1: I like I'm thinking like, for example, like if Christian

544
00:24:56,760 --> 00:24:58,160
Speaker 1: you know, said like, hey, I'm going to be back

545
00:24:58,160 --> 00:25:01,919
Speaker 1: at like this time, and he wasn't back until like

546
00:25:01,960 --> 00:25:05,760
Speaker 1: the next morning, right, fir, since my roommate, you would celebrate,

547
00:25:06,040 --> 00:25:09,760
Speaker 1: I would celebrate. I like, I definitely I wouldn't call

548
00:25:09,760 --> 00:25:11,560
Speaker 1: the police until like probably like two days.

549
00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:14,000
Speaker 3: Yeah, I would. I would assume like he got caught up.

550
00:25:14,000 --> 00:25:16,360
Speaker 4: But also it's different because it's like, oh maybe he

551
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,480
Speaker 4: It's it's like this is your friend, so it's like,

552
00:25:18,480 --> 00:25:21,720
Speaker 4: oh maybe he went and did something, yeah, versus like

553
00:25:21,920 --> 00:25:23,600
Speaker 4: the your wife.

554
00:25:23,960 --> 00:25:24,320
Speaker 3: I don't know.

555
00:25:24,359 --> 00:25:27,359
Speaker 4: It's just like strange dropping off like a it was

556
00:25:27,400 --> 00:25:28,639
Speaker 4: a friend's kid, I believe.

557
00:25:28,880 --> 00:25:31,920
Speaker 3: Yeah, So it's like I just I would have.

558
00:25:32,040 --> 00:25:33,760
Speaker 1: Like I would have been a little worried or something,

559
00:25:34,000 --> 00:25:35,520
Speaker 1: but like I would have just would have called the police.

560
00:25:35,520 --> 00:25:37,160
Speaker 1: I wouldn't call the police, but I would have been

561
00:25:37,240 --> 00:25:40,280
Speaker 1: like heylake, like I would probably texted him a couple

562
00:25:40,320 --> 00:25:43,000
Speaker 1: of times and then maybe that following night then I

563
00:25:43,000 --> 00:25:44,240
Speaker 1: would be probably pretty.

564
00:25:43,960 --> 00:25:45,800
Speaker 4: Well yeah, yeah, the fall. Yeah, once it reaches the

565
00:25:45,800 --> 00:25:47,359
Speaker 4: next night, I would give a bunch of calls.

566
00:25:47,560 --> 00:25:47,760
Speaker 3: Uh.

567
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:52,840
Speaker 4: But there's a very interesting comment. Oh yeah, someone someone dropt.

568
00:25:53,200 --> 00:25:53,520
Speaker 5: Uh.

569
00:25:53,640 --> 00:25:57,800
Speaker 4: No, her whole story is a big bat lie. She

570
00:25:57,880 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 4: told you she would be home by nine, but some

571
00:26:00,000 --> 00:26:02,760
Speaker 4: somehow was wrong about where the kid lived. Did she

572
00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:06,080
Speaker 4: not know the town beforehand? Did she start driving thirty

573
00:26:06,119 --> 00:26:08,800
Speaker 4: minutes in and then the kid goes, oh, no, way,

574
00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,639
Speaker 4: I live here, not there. That part of the story

575
00:26:11,720 --> 00:26:14,520
Speaker 4: doesn't even make any sense. So she ended up changing

576
00:26:14,560 --> 00:26:17,879
Speaker 4: the time. Then she got tired and pulled over to

577
00:26:18,000 --> 00:26:20,600
Speaker 4: nap on the side of the road. And this is interesting.

578
00:26:20,880 --> 00:26:24,320
Speaker 4: You do realize that if the police were sent to

579
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:28,119
Speaker 4: her route looking for her on the roads she claimed

580
00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:30,560
Speaker 4: she would be on, then she would be napping in

581
00:26:30,600 --> 00:26:32,800
Speaker 4: her car on the side of that road and they

582
00:26:32,840 --> 00:26:35,600
Speaker 4: would have found her right Like they had the description

583
00:26:35,680 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 4: of the of her car because he mentioned it for

584
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,119
Speaker 4: the accidents and the exact roads.

585
00:26:40,440 --> 00:26:41,959
Speaker 3: That's they went to the roads.

586
00:26:42,000 --> 00:26:46,920
Speaker 1: So the first point in the case, like I actually feasible,

587
00:26:47,240 --> 00:26:49,400
Speaker 1: I mean I don't like, I mean, I don't necessarily

588
00:26:49,400 --> 00:26:52,200
Speaker 1: agree with where it's like like like you know, i've

589
00:26:53,400 --> 00:26:57,479
Speaker 1: yesterday my friend was picking up some audio equipment and

590
00:26:57,560 --> 00:27:00,159
Speaker 1: he accidentally drove to a different address and went he

591
00:27:00,200 --> 00:27:02,119
Speaker 1: got there, he realized it wasn't the address, and like,

592
00:27:02,119 --> 00:27:05,280
Speaker 1: oh dude, I'm gonna be late. You know that that happens.

593
00:27:05,440 --> 00:27:08,960
Speaker 1: I find that fairly believable. The pulling to the side

594
00:27:09,000 --> 00:27:14,480
Speaker 1: of the road thing for like hours hours, like fucking

595
00:27:14,520 --> 00:27:16,600
Speaker 1: buy a red bull, bro like, come on.

596
00:27:16,600 --> 00:27:18,359
Speaker 4: Buy a red bull, or like I could see it,

597
00:27:18,400 --> 00:27:22,399
Speaker 4: but like even if my phone is acting funky, I

598
00:27:22,400 --> 00:27:27,080
Speaker 4: would call my partner and be like, yo, I am

599
00:27:27,160 --> 00:27:32,720
Speaker 4: literally like call call someone something, do something like yeah,

600
00:27:32,760 --> 00:27:34,560
Speaker 4: you don't you're not just like ah, I'm just gonna

601
00:27:34,560 --> 00:27:36,000
Speaker 4: camp here for six hours.

602
00:27:36,400 --> 00:27:41,680
Speaker 1: Yeah, like a pretty messed up. Yeah, that's a really

603
00:27:41,720 --> 00:27:42,960
Speaker 1: good point about the cops though.

604
00:27:43,040 --> 00:27:44,280
Speaker 3: Yeah.

605
00:27:44,320 --> 00:27:46,800
Speaker 4: And then her new phone just happened to be not working,

606
00:27:47,080 --> 00:27:49,640
Speaker 4: despite the fact that simply does not happen, and even

607
00:27:49,680 --> 00:27:52,800
Speaker 4: if it was working properly, she still could have called

608
00:27:52,960 --> 00:27:54,840
Speaker 4: nine one one. I don't know why she would call

609
00:27:54,960 --> 00:27:57,920
Speaker 4: nine one one, But that's not even mentioning the fact

610
00:27:57,960 --> 00:28:00,199
Speaker 4: that I don't know a single woman myself included, who

611
00:28:00,200 --> 00:28:02,040
Speaker 4: would pull over on the side of the rope and

612
00:28:02,119 --> 00:28:06,359
Speaker 4: just sleep in her car with no phone another good true.

613
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,639
Speaker 1: Also, like how is she getting directions back? Maybe it's

614
00:28:10,680 --> 00:28:13,360
Speaker 1: an easy maybe maybe she's not direction maybe she knows

615
00:28:14,080 --> 00:28:18,720
Speaker 1: where it is. That's showing my my youth. I can't

616
00:28:18,720 --> 00:28:20,200
Speaker 1: get anywhere with that Google map.

617
00:28:20,080 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 3: Same, I think.

618
00:28:21,119 --> 00:28:24,280
Speaker 4: Yeah, the fact that because he had told the police

619
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:28,040
Speaker 4: what the car was for the accident accident, and he

620
00:28:28,080 --> 00:28:30,520
Speaker 4: told them the updated route of where she was on

621
00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:31,800
Speaker 4: and they allegedly went there.

622
00:28:32,359 --> 00:28:35,800
Speaker 1: So it seems a little suspect, Like what do you

623
00:28:35,800 --> 00:28:37,280
Speaker 1: guys think, Like it seems.

624
00:28:36,960 --> 00:28:38,640
Speaker 3: To let us know what? Yeah, I don't know.

625
00:28:38,880 --> 00:28:44,360
Speaker 1: I'm like, I'm inclined to think it's suspicious. The seven

626
00:28:44,440 --> 00:28:47,240
Speaker 1: hour thing. Yeah, the initial like I went to the

627
00:28:47,280 --> 00:28:50,040
Speaker 1: wrong place. I think that's fine. Seven hours pulled on

628
00:28:50,080 --> 00:28:53,360
Speaker 1: the side of the road. A little suspicious, Yeah, a

629
00:28:53,360 --> 00:28:55,800
Speaker 1: little suspicious. But it's like also has this kind of

630
00:28:56,000 --> 00:28:59,680
Speaker 1: like has this happened before? You know, like you get

631
00:29:00,240 --> 00:29:02,680
Speaker 1: like a couple, like you know, out of weird case

632
00:29:02,760 --> 00:29:06,840
Speaker 1: satably with weird things happened sometimes. But you know, is

633
00:29:06,880 --> 00:29:09,479
Speaker 1: she does she start like leaving more often?

634
00:29:09,760 --> 00:29:13,360
Speaker 3: Yeah? Does she start spending nights other places? I also,

635
00:29:13,360 --> 00:29:14,520
Speaker 3: I want to do the math real quick.

636
00:29:14,560 --> 00:29:17,040
Speaker 4: So it took her an hour fifteen and it was

637
00:29:17,080 --> 00:29:19,720
Speaker 4: an extra thirty minutes, so actually, okay, that is kind

638
00:29:19,720 --> 00:29:21,120
Speaker 4: of oh no, no, no.

639
00:29:21,120 --> 00:29:22,000
Speaker 3: She said she'd get.

640
00:29:21,880 --> 00:29:25,600
Speaker 4: Back at nine, So the trip was originally forty five minutes,

641
00:29:25,960 --> 00:29:28,760
Speaker 4: and she just added an extra forty five minutes each

642
00:29:28,880 --> 00:29:31,880
Speaker 4: each way, and then she added another thirty minutes, So

643
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:34,600
Speaker 4: either way, either way, that's she's spending like at least

644
00:29:34,640 --> 00:29:36,360
Speaker 4: five hours just sleeping in her car.

645
00:29:36,960 --> 00:29:37,880
Speaker 3: Strange, strange,