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Speaker 1: Kaitlin A lot of Kaylin go Kaylen.

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Speaker 2: Kaylin, Kaylen, kaln helenk too much killin.

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Speaker 4: I'm like okay, shabby, So.

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Speaker 3: Dear Blug, I told you guys, or asked you guys

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Speaker 3: if you wanted to hear about this off the air,

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Speaker 3: and I was a little bit sad about it, but

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Speaker 3: Kiki was excited, So I'm loving.

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Speaker 2: I'm excited to hear your spin.

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Speaker 3: But and I know Jason and I have had conversations

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Speaker 3: off the air about this, the stress of it all.

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Speaker 3: But I am now officially all three of my parents'

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Speaker 3: power of attorney.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, because your mom's in a threatle. So a lot

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Speaker 1: of people don't know is in a threatle. A lot

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Speaker 1: of people don't know that two husbands for that lady.

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Speaker 3: No, my mom's ex husband, my dad, and my mom's

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Speaker 3: current husband.

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Speaker 2: That's how you get three.

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Speaker 3: I got a stepdad, a mom, and a dad, and

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Speaker 3: you know, on my dad's side, it is just me.

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Speaker 3: I'm the only child. And so it's something that Jason's

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Speaker 3: an only child as well. It's something that we've talked

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Speaker 3: a lot about because you know, I often think about, Okay,

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Speaker 3: if something happens like this is really all on me.

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Speaker 1: Now.

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Speaker 3: I know I have like amazing people in my life

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Speaker 3: and support systems, but it just seems a little daunting. Well,

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Speaker 3: I got a conversation and he's talks to me about

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Speaker 3: it incessantly, and I don't know if this is a

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Speaker 3: thing that anyone else is parents do to them, but

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Speaker 3: like talking about their death kind of becomes really casual,

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Speaker 3: and I'm like, shut the hell up.

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Speaker 2: I don't want to talk about this. But he's always like,

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Speaker 2: you know, here's where this is hidden.

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Speaker 1: This, this is.

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Speaker 2: This pat I'm like, get me a packet and let's

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Speaker 2: not talk about it. Just set it up, you know, right.

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Speaker 3: So yesterday I get a call from my mom and

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Speaker 3: she's like, hey, you know, we got to redo our stuff.

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Speaker 2: And I'm like, why are we talking about this now?

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Speaker 3: And she's like, well, you know, the last time we

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Speaker 3: did it, it was a while ago. You were young,

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Speaker 3: and so this is who was going to do it,

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Speaker 3: and she goes, but he's old too, so what if

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Speaker 3: he croaks too?

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Speaker 2: You know, it's our family friend. And I'm like, I

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Speaker 2: guess that's a good.

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Speaker 3: Point, mom, And so she's like, are you okay with

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Speaker 3: doing this? You know? And I'm like, yeah, I mean

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Speaker 3: I don't see who else it would be. Of course,

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Speaker 3: I would, you know, consult with my sister on anything

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Speaker 3: involving her dad, my stepdad and let her make that choice.

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Speaker 3: But legally it's me, and just the weight of being

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Speaker 3: that for all of them. Now just means I'm like

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Speaker 3: getting older and they're getting older, and it feels a

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Speaker 3: little bit heavy, just because it used to be like

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Speaker 3: my aunt or you know, an adult, and so it's

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Speaker 3: kind of wild. But when I told Kiki, I was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: it's I don't love talking about it. She was like, yeah,

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Speaker 3: so girl, hell yeah, so what are we excited about you?

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Speaker 4: You are the chosen one for even your stepdad, like

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Speaker 4: Bella don't even.

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Speaker 5: Have a chance. You aren't that girl in the family.

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Speaker 4: You know all the secrets, you got all the past

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Speaker 4: called you get all the money.

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Speaker 1: Okay, well no, works wind up getting she don't wind

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Speaker 1: up getting half of it. But she's gonna have all

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Speaker 5: She's the power of attorney.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, so I that means I have to make medical decisions.

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Speaker 2: Okay, I do have the gabble. I don't want. I mean,

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Speaker 2: I have to make medical decisions.

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Speaker 3: But also yeah, like they will allocate things to developed.

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Speaker 3: My sister's thirteen years younger, so like her frontal lobe

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Speaker 3: isn't form.

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Speaker 2: She can't really handle this right now. So that's the

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Speaker 2: only reason I'm his.

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Speaker 3: But you know, I don't get all the money, like

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Speaker 3: they're gonna say, hey, this goes here, this goes here,

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Speaker 3: but trust me, it's not how it works.

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Speaker 5: But they're gone right everything, But like, you're in charge.

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Speaker 4: To me, it would be an honor because see, my sister,

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Speaker 4: she has her stuff set up and she's been sneaking

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Speaker 4: around with my brother, and I feel like he's so sneaky.

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Speaker 4: It's very sneaky. I feel like he's in charge.

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Speaker 1: You know.

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Speaker 4: She doesn't want to hurt my feelings and tell me that.

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Speaker 4: So it's kind of like, oh, everything's don't worry, I

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Speaker 4: got everything set up if something ever happens. And I'm

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Speaker 4: just like looking at him kind of side because I

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Speaker 1: He is the key.

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Speaker 2: He's you.

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Speaker 4: Is he the oldest, No, he's the baby boy who

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Speaker 4: everybody loves, and he's the most he is the most

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Speaker 4: responsible one. However, you know he's the chosen one. So

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Speaker 4: I feel like it's an honor because they trust you.

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Speaker 4: They know that you're going to do right by everyone

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Speaker 4: in the family. They know that you're responsible and they

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Speaker 4: feel like you can handle it.

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Speaker 2: It's giving. They don't have anybody else and I'm the

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Speaker 2: best option. However, However, yeah, I.

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Speaker 1: Think that's why I'm in this position.

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Speaker 3: I'm also the eldest, but yeah, I do think it's

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Speaker 3: interesting though, when people don't automatically choose the eldest. Like

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Speaker 3: for my grandparents, there's three girls, and I think they

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Speaker 3: picked the baby of the family, my aunt Cindy, and

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Speaker 3: so maybe maybe the middlestar. Either way, it's just interesting

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Speaker 3: because if it's not the oldest, then you got to

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Speaker 3: start to wonder like, okay, like why are you getting

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Speaker 2: And it does cause fights. I mean, my sister and

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Speaker 2: I will be good, but.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's like it's an honor.

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Speaker 4: But you know, it is stressful, I'm sure because you know,

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Speaker 4: when they're all God for being whenever it happens, the

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Speaker 4: everybody's gonna look to you for all the answers, and

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Speaker 4: you know, so that's I kind of hope it's my brother,

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Speaker 4: because yeah, it's his problem.

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Speaker 2: Right, I would love to look to someone for all.

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Speaker 5: If you put me in charge and the money comes

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Speaker 5: and I'm like, hey, you know.

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Speaker 1: You only look at this cermer standpoint of money, but

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Speaker 1: I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I don't also pulling the plug, I would have to.

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Speaker 4: Be like, all right, you know what happens when they

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Speaker 4: have specific rules though, because like, well, like the DNR.

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Speaker 5: Yes, yeah, so I'm going through that. I will fight

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Speaker 5: a nurse or a doctor to not because I'm like, no,

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Speaker 2: But it has one.

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Speaker 1: But that's what some people want, so that you have

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Speaker 3: I fought my grandma and now I was like, we're

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Speaker 3: not doing DNR. She's like, my bones will break. I'm

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Speaker 3: like two pounds. I'm like, no, we we're not doing that.

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Speaker 1: It's so hard.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, so different.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't know, but but good luck because I'm

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Speaker 1: a little bit older than you, and I stand no

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Speaker 1: chance with my parents. They there's a lot of love.

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Speaker 1: We love each other. I love them, but they don't

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Speaker 1: look at me like anything other than their little boy.

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Speaker 1: And they don't care what I have to say about anything.

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Speaker 1: And so good luck, because I don't know. I think

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Speaker 1: it's going to be a rough go as we get

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Speaker 1: a little bit older, and you know, decisions have to

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Speaker 1: be made and things have to be done, and they

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Speaker 1: forget that they had to do it for their parents

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Speaker 1: and they didn't like it much either. But you know,

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Speaker 1: talking to my parents, you know, like we're equals is

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Speaker 1: not a thing. It's tricky because we're not because they're

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Speaker 1: my parents. But still it's like sometimes I can you know,

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Speaker 1: I'm old enough to see stuff now and be like,

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Speaker 1: well that's not going to work, but they don't care.

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Speaker 2: I had a lot of that with my grandparents, so

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Speaker 2: I went through that.

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Speaker 3: But I will say I'm grateful that my parents love

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Speaker 3: me enough to make it super specific, because I think

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Speaker 3: that if people don't do that, And this is a

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Speaker 3: message for everyone, like have everything set up so your

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Speaker 3: loved ones are not cleaning out all your tupperware, carry

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Speaker 3: out tupperware like I was doing for my grandma, Like

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Speaker 3: why'd you save all these bags?

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Speaker 2: Like I don't want to have to get rid of this, So.

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Speaker 3: Just be as specific as possible so your loved ones

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Speaker 3: can grieve and just like you know, have it.

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Speaker 1: I agree, taking care of eighty percent of everything goes

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Speaker 1: to me because I have to put up you know

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Speaker 1: I have for me because we have to carry the weight.

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Speaker 1: The weight is of this responsibility and you're going to

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Speaker 1: have to pay for that. Yes, my sister will gets

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Speaker 1: far less and that's just you know, that's just the

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Speaker 1: way it goes. I'm sorry. You could have been born

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Speaker 1: in the other order and you would have had this problem. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: you're gonna be broken. I'm gonna be rich. It's fun,

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Speaker 1: and maybe I'll give some to my nieces because you know,

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Speaker 1: why not