WEBVTT - Second Date Update UPDATE PODCAST: Kidney Couple 0:00:00.360 --> 0:00:03.160 Need Lasic. Trust the experienced team at the Lasic Center 0:00:03.200 --> 0:00:06.600 at Evergreen Eye Center. No glasses, no contacts, no limits. 0:00:06.880 --> 0:00:10.000 What will you do Lasik at Evergreen dot com. And 0:00:10.240 --> 0:00:12.640 every once in a while, we do a special segment 0:00:12.680 --> 0:00:17.640 on this show called a second Date Update Update Yeah, 0:00:17.680 --> 0:00:20.400 where we contact a couple who has appeared on the 0:00:20.440 --> 0:00:22.440 show in the past to find out what's going on 0:00:22.480 --> 0:00:25.840 with them now. Are they still together? Are they not together? 0:00:26.200 --> 0:00:30.240 Are they hungry? I hope they're not hungry. I don't 0:00:30.320 --> 0:00:33.760 know that we've ever updated on their hunger level. All 0:00:33.760 --> 0:00:35.080 I know is if they are hungry or how many 0:00:35.080 --> 0:00:37.280 food for them? So I hope they're not hungry, okay. 0:00:37.280 --> 0:00:40.000 I hope not too buddy, I think would be okay 0:00:40.000 --> 0:00:43.360 in that category. I mean, unless they're hungry for love 0:00:44.000 --> 0:00:46.280 nervous about it. You never know what could happen. But 0:00:46.320 --> 0:00:48.320 people that we called a day had one of the 0:00:48.360 --> 0:00:51.400 most touching stories from the past year, and we were 0:00:51.560 --> 0:00:54.360 dying to find out what happened. We'll play the audio 0:00:54.440 --> 0:00:58.440 for you and then talk to the couple immediately following 0:00:58.880 --> 0:01:05.959 in your second Date up Date update right now, Rooking 0:01:06.040 --> 0:01:11.240 Jubels Second Date Update, I'm honestly stumped as to why 0:01:11.280 --> 0:01:13.080 the woman on the phone for a second date update 0:01:13.080 --> 0:01:15.480 today isn't getting a call back. I mean usually when 0:01:15.480 --> 0:01:19.520 you follow somebody across state lines, no big deal. Yeah, 0:01:19.560 --> 0:01:21.759 they usually appreciate that when you just show up unannounced 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:24.639 somewhere right and now we're going to stock the guy again, 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:28.720 but yes we are second date. Her name is Abigail, Abigail. 0:01:28.760 --> 0:01:31.960 What's up? Hi, guys. Okay, he's already made you sound 0:01:32.040 --> 0:01:34.959 creepy right from the get go. I'm not a creepy 0:01:35.040 --> 0:01:37.880 and just a bit confused. Okay, sometimes there's a thin 0:01:37.959 --> 0:01:40.560 line between creepy and I've been a victim of that 0:01:40.600 --> 0:01:44.680 many times. You have a pretty interesting situation, Abigail. Why 0:01:44.680 --> 0:01:46.480 don't you tell everybody? First of all, the guy that 0:01:46.480 --> 0:01:49.360 you want to call? What's his name? Brian? Brian? And 0:01:49.400 --> 0:01:51.680 how did you meet Brian? Well, you know, I'm a 0:01:51.720 --> 0:01:54.840 little leary on going on online dates and meeting guys 0:01:55.280 --> 0:02:00.160 on dating websites because they're usually either nuts, ugly, or 0:02:00.040 --> 0:02:03.800 or smelly or just not just not that it sounds 0:02:03.800 --> 0:02:05.600 like so many great options. I don't know why you're 0:02:05.640 --> 0:02:07.960 so upset about this, but you know I tried. I 0:02:08.000 --> 0:02:10.320 gave it a shot one more time, and I met Brian, 0:02:10.880 --> 0:02:14.040 and I gotta tell you, like, we hit it off immediately. 0:02:14.320 --> 0:02:17.640 It went from zero to sixty in virtually no time. 0:02:17.760 --> 0:02:19.640 So you liked his aroma. He had a good roma. 0:02:20.280 --> 0:02:22.519 I mean, for when I could smell over the phone, 0:02:22.560 --> 0:02:25.440 he was great. Oh say, you're saying it from zero 0:02:25.480 --> 0:02:28.400 to sixty before you guys even met in person, right, 0:02:28.720 --> 0:02:33.760 I mean, it was instant attraction via conversation. His profile 0:02:33.760 --> 0:02:36.320 picture looked great, and then I did a little more 0:02:36.360 --> 0:02:39.280 digging and found his Facebook profile and I realized it's 0:02:39.320 --> 0:02:41.280 really what he looks like. Uh huh, how did you 0:02:41.280 --> 0:02:43.320 get his tax returns? It sounds like you put in 0:02:43.400 --> 0:02:47.920 a lot of effort if I've done a little more digging, Needy, Yeah, 0:02:48.000 --> 0:02:49.560 I mean that's a lot of pressure to put on 0:02:49.600 --> 0:02:52.600 a date when you've been disappointed so many times. Were 0:02:52.600 --> 0:02:55.200 you worried about that? I was, and that's why I 0:02:55.240 --> 0:02:59.200 did my due diligence and we talked for hours. I 0:02:59.280 --> 0:03:02.600 mean there's nothing I couldn't discuss with him. We text 0:03:02.680 --> 0:03:06.080 me at least five times a day. How long was 0:03:06.120 --> 0:03:09.079 this going on before you guys actually decided to meet 0:03:09.120 --> 0:03:12.320 in person? Just about a month whoa, that's a long time. 0:03:13.240 --> 0:03:15.120 I really wanted to see him, But the thing was 0:03:15.400 --> 0:03:19.240 he lived two states away. Oh, so the whole logistics 0:03:19.280 --> 0:03:22.920 of meeting each other was really difficult. I see. I 0:03:22.960 --> 0:03:25.040 was going to say, like, what took so long? Did 0:03:25.040 --> 0:03:27.880 that makes sense? But I thought we had kicked it 0:03:27.919 --> 0:03:30.760 off so well. I wanted to do a grand gesture 0:03:30.800 --> 0:03:33.160 of romance. And one night when we were chit chatting, 0:03:33.200 --> 0:03:35.840 he was telling me his best friend's birthday was that 0:03:35.920 --> 0:03:38.560 weekend and where they were going to be and what 0:03:38.640 --> 0:03:42.000 the plans were, And I thought, wouldn't it be cool 0:03:42.160 --> 0:03:45.720 if I flew down and surprised him, who for your 0:03:45.720 --> 0:03:49.360 first meeting? I mean, we had chatted for so long, 0:03:49.720 --> 0:03:51.480 this was inevitable that one of us was going to 0:03:51.520 --> 0:03:54.240 fly in to meet the other. But a surprise and 0:03:54.400 --> 0:03:56.800 just showing up as a whole different ball game if 0:03:56.800 --> 0:03:58.800 you don't know him that well yet. But it could 0:03:58.840 --> 0:04:00.720 I mean I could see where it could pay off, 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:03.600 Like it could be an amazing thing, or it could 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:05.960 be really bad. So how was it when you saw 0:04:06.040 --> 0:04:08.520 him for the first time? I just started drooling. He 0:04:08.640 --> 0:04:11.920 was so gorgeous. Oh my god. Wow. Well, maybe that's 0:04:11.960 --> 0:04:13.560 why he's not calling you back. You just showed up 0:04:13.640 --> 0:04:18.000 randomly out of the blue with drool all over. It's 0:04:18.040 --> 0:04:20.359 a good boy. And how did he react? Was he 0:04:20.440 --> 0:04:23.159 drooling as well? Was it just a big spitfest? He 0:04:23.400 --> 0:04:26.599 was kind of taken aback. I basically came up behind 0:04:26.680 --> 0:04:28.880 him and tapped his shoulder, and he turned around and 0:04:29.040 --> 0:04:32.839 he got white as a ghost. He was shocked. Okay, 0:04:32.880 --> 0:04:34.880 wait set the scene. Where were you guys when you 0:04:34.920 --> 0:04:37.839 tapped him on the shoulder? Were you at the birthday party? Yeah? 0:04:38.000 --> 0:04:41.599 I showed up at the restaurant where the birthday party was. Whoa, 0:04:43.120 --> 0:04:45.560 that's a very bold move. Well, because I didn't know 0:04:45.600 --> 0:04:47.200 where he lives, so this is the only way I 0:04:47.200 --> 0:04:49.680 could get in contact. So what did he do? I mean, 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:52.440 after he recovered from the initial shock, did he hug you? 0:04:52.480 --> 0:04:54.520 Did he kiss you? I mean the first thing he 0:04:54.600 --> 0:04:57.359 did was say, what are you doing here? And I 0:04:57.440 --> 0:04:59.400 told him I thought it'd be a really cool surprise 0:04:59.480 --> 0:05:02.159 to don't shock you and be here, and thought it'd 0:05:02.160 --> 0:05:05.440 be really romantic. And then for most of the night 0:05:05.880 --> 0:05:08.520 I ended up speaking to his friends and not much 0:05:08.560 --> 0:05:11.960 to him. But you got to understand, I mean, I 0:05:12.040 --> 0:05:13.520 knew he had to speak to other people. Who was 0:05:13.520 --> 0:05:16.760 his best friend's birthday. So I let it go. I figured, hey, 0:05:16.800 --> 0:05:19.440 that's what he has to do. So wait, hold on, like, 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:21.760 how is he introducing you to his friends? Well, he 0:05:21.800 --> 0:05:24.800 really wasn't. I mean one or two times that I'd 0:05:24.800 --> 0:05:27.400 bump into him, somebody would come up to him and say, oh, 0:05:27.440 --> 0:05:29.800 and you are, and he would say, oh, this is 0:05:29.839 --> 0:05:34.520 a friend of mine. Okay, okay, oh, And I thought, well, 0:05:34.520 --> 0:05:36.640 you know, it is really new. We haven't really told 0:05:36.680 --> 0:05:38.720 people about us. So I get it he wanted to 0:05:38.800 --> 0:05:41.159 keep it on the down low. I get that. I'm 0:05:41.200 --> 0:05:44.240 starting to worry about you. I mean after the birthday party, 0:05:44.279 --> 0:05:46.000 what happened, Well, when we got to the end of 0:05:46.040 --> 0:05:48.640 the night, people started leaving and it was basically he 0:05:48.680 --> 0:05:51.360 and I and his best friend, and I started talking 0:05:51.400 --> 0:05:53.680 to him and I said, well, I'm here now, and 0:05:53.720 --> 0:05:55.880 he said how long are you here for? And I 0:05:55.880 --> 0:05:57.680 thought that was odd that he would ask me when 0:05:57.680 --> 0:06:00.599 I'm leaving when we were just met. What I said 0:06:00.640 --> 0:06:03.320 to him, I'm here till tomorrow evening. Maybe we can 0:06:03.360 --> 0:06:06.120 have lunch or brunch tomorrow, and or maybe even right now, 0:06:06.200 --> 0:06:08.480 let's go for another drink or a cup of coffee, 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:10.640 and he said he was really busy. He had a 0:06:10.640 --> 0:06:14.640 lot of commitments the next day, but I was like, okay, 0:06:14.680 --> 0:06:17.240 maybe you can spare an hour. I did fly all 0:06:17.240 --> 0:06:20.640 the way out here. He said, you know what, we'll 0:06:20.640 --> 0:06:22.880 set up date for when I can either fly out 0:06:22.920 --> 0:06:25.200 to you. Were you to fly out here again? Were 0:06:25.200 --> 0:06:29.039 you crushed? I was crushed until he said, let's see 0:06:29.160 --> 0:06:31.080 we can figure out a time to meet up again. 0:06:31.520 --> 0:06:33.839 Oh so I thought there was some hope there. No, 0:06:34.600 --> 0:06:36.720 you know, maybe he really was busy the next day. 0:06:36.760 --> 0:06:40.360 I don't know. You are so nice to this man. 0:06:40.640 --> 0:06:48.240 Well he's something special. How many times have you tried 0:06:48.240 --> 0:06:50.400 to get a hold of him since that weekend? It's 0:06:50.400 --> 0:06:52.280 been a week so far and I only heard from 0:06:52.320 --> 0:06:54.920 him once, and that also through texts, So it's not 0:06:54.960 --> 0:06:57.880 like it was before. Oh my gosh. And you're sure 0:06:57.920 --> 0:07:00.600 he's single? Right from what I understand, Dan, I didn't 0:07:00.600 --> 0:07:02.440 see any rings on his finger, and I didn't see 0:07:02.480 --> 0:07:05.240 any other woman around. Okay, good, Okay, Well we'll play 0:07:05.279 --> 0:07:07.880 a song, come back call him, and then get your 0:07:07.920 --> 0:07:15.080 second date update. Okay, okay, all right, looking jubil in 0:07:15.120 --> 0:07:18.880 the morning. Second if you're just tuning in for today's 0:07:19.000 --> 0:07:22.040 second date update. It's the kind of thing that movies 0:07:22.080 --> 0:07:27.240 are made about. Abigail's on the phone and Abigail met 0:07:27.280 --> 0:07:30.720 the man of her dreams online and they chatted back 0:07:30.760 --> 0:07:35.720 and forth every single day, every single night for weeks, 0:07:36.520 --> 0:07:44.760 until Abigail decided to show up unannounced at a birthday party. 0:07:45.000 --> 0:07:48.760 She flew all the way there to surprise him, tapped 0:07:48.840 --> 0:07:51.160 him on the shoulder, and he turned around and she said, 0:07:51.480 --> 0:08:00.640 Abigail's home. Abigail, I think I've seen that movie before, Scaring, 0:08:01.040 --> 0:08:04.320 but I don't think that's what happened. That is sort 0:08:04.360 --> 0:08:06.600 of what happened. Abigail did surprise this dude that she'd 0:08:06.640 --> 0:08:08.520 been talking to online. They live in different states, and 0:08:08.520 --> 0:08:10.120 she actually showed up to a birthday party that he 0:08:10.200 --> 0:08:13.360 was at unannounced and was hoping that everything would go great. 0:08:13.720 --> 0:08:15.720 But when she got there and surprised him, he was 0:08:15.800 --> 0:08:17.520 kind of weird and sort of ignored her the rest 0:08:17.560 --> 0:08:21.200 of the night, and they haven't really talked since. Abigail, Hi, 0:08:22.640 --> 0:08:25.720 that's just like what you said, ju, I mean, very similar. 0:08:26.840 --> 0:08:30.200 I'm really not a stalker, I promise. Well. I have 0:08:30.200 --> 0:08:34.040 a whole different scenario in my head. Abigail Abigail, You're 0:08:34.080 --> 0:08:36.440 so sweet. It just makes me so angry because it 0:08:36.520 --> 0:08:38.760 sounds like you guys really connected him, he really led 0:08:38.800 --> 0:08:41.640 you down this path and he's just a jerk. I 0:08:41.679 --> 0:08:44.120 don't know how else to say it. She didn't show 0:08:44.200 --> 0:08:48.440 up out of the blue, unannounced, like from states away. 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:50.439 That could creep a guy out, but he was given 0:08:50.440 --> 0:08:53.640 her the wrong signals. Man. I really got the feeling 0:08:53.679 --> 0:08:56.959 that we had the connection and he would have loved 0:08:57.000 --> 0:08:59.400 this romantic gesture. All right, well we'll find out. I'm 0:08:59.400 --> 0:09:01.800 gonna him right now and see if we can talk 0:09:01.840 --> 0:09:14.640 to him and get your second day out date. Okay, okay, okay, Hello, Hi, 0:09:14.720 --> 0:09:17.080 can I speak to Brian please? This is Brian. Here's 0:09:17.120 --> 0:09:18.880 this Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is 0:09:18.960 --> 0:09:22.080 Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sorry you 0:09:23.080 --> 0:09:26.440 Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Weird. I 0:09:26.480 --> 0:09:30.240 know it sounds weird. Yeah, I don't. I don't know 0:09:30.280 --> 0:09:33.040 what you're talking about, man, I figured you wouldn't. That's fine. 0:09:33.400 --> 0:09:38.959 Brook and Jewil in the Morning is a morning radio show. Okay, okay, 0:09:38.960 --> 0:09:43.000 and that's the end of the I'm calling you because 0:09:43.000 --> 0:09:45.559 one of our listeners actually asked us to reach out 0:09:45.600 --> 0:09:48.720 to you. All right, sure you got the hype, Brian, 0:09:49.559 --> 0:09:51.880 I'm I'm pretty sure I do. I'll check. Do you 0:09:51.880 --> 0:09:56.320 know a girl named Abigail? Yeah? Okay, well we know 0:09:56.480 --> 0:09:59.520 a girl named Abigail as well. And she's really confused 0:09:59.559 --> 0:10:02.359 because she I thought you guys had a great relationship 0:10:02.440 --> 0:10:05.040 for a few weeks until she decided to just fly 0:10:05.160 --> 0:10:07.640 into town and surprise you. And she said you seem 0:10:07.720 --> 0:10:08.920 kind of cold to her, and now you haven't really 0:10:08.920 --> 0:10:13.120 talked to her since you can understand why that She's 0:10:13.160 --> 0:10:15.640 going to like any length possible to get some sort 0:10:15.679 --> 0:10:17.960 of answer, Like if you put that much energy into 0:10:17.960 --> 0:10:22.040 seeing someone and then they suddenly shut down, Like, that's 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.800 got to be really confusing. Let me get this straight. 0:10:24.840 --> 0:10:27.960 Then she had you guys to reach out to contact me. 0:10:28.080 --> 0:10:30.720 That's what you're selling me, yes, because you won't really 0:10:30.720 --> 0:10:32.400 give her an answer and you're kind of being cold. 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:36.800 This is crazy, man, It's not really that crazy. I mean, 0:10:36.880 --> 0:10:40.439 she just wants an answer. I just can't believe that 0:10:40.480 --> 0:10:43.240 she's doing all this just to get in touch with me. Yeah, 0:10:43.240 --> 0:10:45.800 but you guys wish I'm like texting like five times 0:10:45.800 --> 0:10:48.920 a day for a whole month to nothing. Yeah, and 0:10:48.960 --> 0:10:51.360 she liked you a lot, Brian, and talking to you 0:10:51.440 --> 0:10:53.040 right now, I can understand why you seem like a 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:59.040 sweet dude. Yeah, I normally am, but not when like 0:10:59.160 --> 0:11:03.840 radio shows call me to get my personal life. We 0:11:03.960 --> 0:11:06.679 get that, we do. Can you just tell us anything 0:11:06.880 --> 0:11:08.640 at least we can talk to her and be like, oh, 0:11:08.720 --> 0:11:10.480 he just wasn't really feeling you when he saw you 0:11:10.520 --> 0:11:12.800 in person or something like that. Well, don't tell her that, 0:11:12.840 --> 0:11:18.000 because I mean that's not true. Um really yeah, no, yeah, 0:11:17.559 --> 0:11:21.920 I actually I really do like her a lot. There's 0:11:21.920 --> 0:11:23.920 this stuff going on, and I just don't want to 0:11:23.920 --> 0:11:26.840 get into Oh, you're in a relationship. I knew it. 0:11:27.040 --> 0:11:29.360 I told her that. I told her that you're She 0:11:29.559 --> 0:11:32.480 swore she thought you were single. Yeah, I know, I'm 0:11:32.520 --> 0:11:36.000 definitely single. That's not it really. It's just I thought 0:11:36.440 --> 0:11:38.760 what we had going on was good. I mean, I 0:11:38.840 --> 0:11:41.559 kind of like, I guess the distance aspect of it. 0:11:41.640 --> 0:11:43.440 And then for her to just randomly show up at 0:11:43.440 --> 0:11:46.679 a friend's birthday party, I'm not really expecting it at all. 0:11:46.920 --> 0:11:49.400 But why did you spend all night avoiding her? I mean, 0:11:49.440 --> 0:11:51.839 at some point, if you say that you really like her, yeah, 0:11:51.880 --> 0:11:55.760 well I guess I just got too real for me 0:11:56.080 --> 0:11:58.840 having her right there, too real, Like you like talking 0:11:58.880 --> 0:12:00.959 to her online and on the phone, but to realize 0:12:01.000 --> 0:12:05.120 you could actually touch a person strange. No, I mean, 0:12:05.160 --> 0:12:08.840 it's not necessarily that. It's just there's other stuff. But 0:12:09.280 --> 0:12:12.160 I understand there's other stuff. But right now, all I 0:12:12.280 --> 0:12:15.280 understand is you like her a lot. It shocks you 0:12:15.320 --> 0:12:18.400 that she showed up, And then there's stuff like how 0:12:18.679 --> 0:12:20.320 is that a message to give to her to help 0:12:20.320 --> 0:12:24.400 her understand why you're not talking to her anymore? You 0:12:24.440 --> 0:12:27.880 know what? Whatever, I don't I don't care anymore. I 0:12:28.040 --> 0:12:35.839 just I need a kidney transplant. Who yeah, Oh that's serious. Yeah, 0:12:35.960 --> 0:12:39.719 way to take things down, Brian. You guys asked for it. 0:12:41.400 --> 0:12:43.480 Usually these things end up like oh I thought they 0:12:43.520 --> 0:12:45.839 smelled funny or they puked in my back seat. Man, 0:12:45.880 --> 0:12:49.319 I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah. Yeah. So is it 0:12:49.360 --> 0:12:51.120 just that you don't want to get involved in a 0:12:51.160 --> 0:12:55.280 relationship because you obviously have some serious health stuff that 0:12:55.320 --> 0:12:58.120 you need to concentrate on pretty much, you know, I 0:12:58.200 --> 0:13:00.720 just I don't want to drag her into this, you 0:13:00.720 --> 0:13:01.840 know what I mean? I feel like this is kind 0:13:01.880 --> 0:13:04.680 of my battle right now. By her showing up, I realized, 0:13:04.760 --> 0:13:06.880 you know, that she really does like me a lot, 0:13:07.440 --> 0:13:10.679 and I'm just not wanting her to be that close 0:13:10.760 --> 0:13:13.839 to being around all this like stuff going on. Oh, 0:13:13.880 --> 0:13:17.120 I feel so horrible. I thought these awful things about you, 0:13:17.320 --> 0:13:20.360 and now look at you. Brook. It's seriously, dude, I 0:13:20.360 --> 0:13:23.839 am sorry. It's all good. It's it's not a big deal. 0:13:23.880 --> 0:13:27.000 I guess. So did you not tell her about your 0:13:27.040 --> 0:13:29.720 situation when you guys were chatting online and on the 0:13:29.720 --> 0:13:32.439 phone and stuff. No, you know, I didn't want to 0:13:32.480 --> 0:13:33.960 tell her this, you know what I mean, Like that's 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:35.760 like we kept it from a distance, so you know, 0:13:35.800 --> 0:13:37.600 we can keep it upbeat and I have to kind 0:13:37.600 --> 0:13:39.920 of like talk about all this stuff. Yeah, you know, 0:13:40.000 --> 0:13:43.920 I just I really just enjoyed her conversation. And sometimes, 0:13:43.920 --> 0:13:46.040 you know, when there's a lot of bad stuff going 0:13:46.080 --> 0:13:48.360 on in your life, to have somebody there to kind 0:13:48.360 --> 0:13:50.199 of just talk to you and you know, just kind 0:13:50.200 --> 0:13:51.920 of laugh with and stuff like that, it kind of 0:13:51.960 --> 0:13:53.400 brings you up. So I didn't want to like kind 0:13:53.400 --> 0:13:56.120 of bring her down by the transplant. Yeah, and you're 0:13:56.160 --> 0:13:59.280 able to escape your own stuff too, you know, Brian, 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.160 You're kind of make this difficult on me because this 0:14:01.160 --> 0:14:03.640 would normally be the point where I'd try to deliver 0:14:03.960 --> 0:14:06.000 a witty line and then tell you that the person 0:14:06.120 --> 0:14:08.320 is on the other line listening to the conversation. But 0:14:08.400 --> 0:14:09.880 I don't have any witty lines, so I'm just going 0:14:09.920 --> 0:14:12.600 to connect you too so you can talk. Okay, wait 0:14:13.840 --> 0:14:15.920 on another line now? Or what do you mean by 0:14:16.120 --> 0:14:18.679 connect us? Yeah, she's listening to this phone call and 0:14:18.720 --> 0:14:20.840 wants to talk to you. Oh my god, man, are 0:14:20.880 --> 0:14:22.760 you kidding it? Like I just said, I didn't even 0:14:22.760 --> 0:14:26.720 want her to know. Yes, unfortunately she does know now, Abigail, 0:14:26.760 --> 0:14:30.280 are you there? Hi? Brian? Hey, Sorry, I didn't really 0:14:30.320 --> 0:14:33.120 want you didn't find out this way? No, I'm sorry. 0:14:34.160 --> 0:14:36.520 I don't even know what to say. I'm sorry. I'm 0:14:36.560 --> 0:14:38.680 sure you don't. You don't have to say anything. I 0:14:38.760 --> 0:14:41.120 mean I know that I didn't tell you, so there's 0:14:41.120 --> 0:14:43.280 no way you could have known. It's just I don't know. 0:14:43.320 --> 0:14:45.800 I didn't know how connected I was going to get 0:14:45.880 --> 0:14:48.280 with you, and I just I guess I got worried 0:14:48.280 --> 0:14:51.200 about actually telling you. So. But I want you to 0:14:51.280 --> 0:14:53.880 know something. I care about you more than you can imagine. 0:14:54.240 --> 0:14:56.360 I'm here if you want to talk I'm here. If 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:58.800 you mean to make you laugh, I'm there for you. 0:15:00.000 --> 0:15:02.400 I really appreciate that, because, I mean, I don't know, 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:04.960 I got scared once you got down there and you know, 0:15:05.040 --> 0:15:07.320 actually seeing you, and it made it seem too real, 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:09.160 and I just, I guess I pushed you away a 0:15:09.200 --> 0:15:12.800 little bit and didn't want to, you know, get too close. Listen, 0:15:13.600 --> 0:15:16.920 get close if you need me to do anything or 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:19.040 help you, or just put a smile on your face 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:22.800 whenever you need me. Yeah, I just you're such a 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:24.960 sweet person. I don't want you to get all caught 0:15:25.000 --> 0:15:26.840 up in this and then something good wrong. Right now, 0:15:26.880 --> 0:15:28.760 I'm on a waiting list. I'm not you know, there's 0:15:28.760 --> 0:15:30.600 no guarantee of when I'm going to be able to 0:15:30.640 --> 0:15:35.560 give the transplant. And honestly, Abigail, I really care about 0:15:35.640 --> 0:15:38.200 you and I really want to, you know, keep you 0:15:38.280 --> 0:15:40.240 in my life. And at the same time, because I 0:15:40.320 --> 0:15:42.480 care about you so much, I feel like I can't. 0:15:42.640 --> 0:15:45.400 I don't know. I'm just really torn right now. I mean, 0:15:45.640 --> 0:15:47.520 I'm willing to take a blood chest. Is there any 0:15:47.520 --> 0:15:51.960 way maybe I'm compatible in some way? You know, I 0:15:52.000 --> 0:15:54.400 don't want you to do that happy' I really listen, 0:15:54.480 --> 0:15:58.600 This is about kindness. This is the reason why I 0:15:58.840 --> 0:16:02.560 was put in your life. The chances chances are so 0:16:02.800 --> 0:16:05.760 slim that that's even possible. I don't have to go 0:16:05.880 --> 0:16:09.160 through with that, But Brian, there's always a chance. It 0:16:09.280 --> 0:16:12.240 may be slim, but it's still there. Yeah, but it's 0:16:12.280 --> 0:16:16.200 just I can't. I can't think about you actually giving 0:16:16.280 --> 0:16:18.080 up your kidney for me. I can't think about you 0:16:18.160 --> 0:16:20.840 doing that. I don't. I don't want it to happen. Well, 0:16:20.880 --> 0:16:27.720 I got too, so I get one up. It's like 0:16:27.800 --> 0:16:34.680 a spare time. Wow. I don't even know what to say. 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.480 At least give me the chance or the opportunity to 0:16:38.720 --> 0:16:42.120 look into this. Consider it. You have to consider it, Brian. 0:16:42.160 --> 0:16:45.400 How about this? How about we send Abigail out to 0:16:45.520 --> 0:16:48.080 you and you guys can spend the weekend together. You 0:16:48.160 --> 0:16:49.560 can hang out, you can go on a few dates, 0:16:49.640 --> 0:16:55.080 and you can even discuss a possible kidney transplant in 0:16:55.080 --> 0:16:56.800 the second date update before. But I'm saying it so 0:16:57.680 --> 0:17:00.280 I can't believe it's actually happen any right now. Oh 0:17:00.440 --> 0:17:02.880 my god, would you be interesting that, Brian? Just checking 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:06.879 things out? Um, I don't know about the whole kidding. 0:17:06.920 --> 0:17:09.280 Transplanted by the date would be awesome. I would I 0:17:09.280 --> 0:17:12.680 would love to go on a date. Yes, okay, so 0:17:12.840 --> 0:17:19.520 that's yes, Yeah, definitely. Yeah, I'm happy to Oh me too. 0:17:21.119 --> 0:17:24.320 I'm really excited that I'll actually be seeing you. This 0:17:24.440 --> 0:17:26.760 has been a really weird second date update. Normally it's 0:17:26.840 --> 0:17:28.680 the dude who's begging to put his organ in a 0:17:28.760 --> 0:17:35.560 woman you had to get into. I couldn't help it. 0:17:39.920 --> 0:17:42.000 In the morning. That was a second day update from 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:44.240 six months ago. And we're on the phone with Brian 0:17:44.280 --> 0:17:47.640 and Abigail for a second date update update right now. 0:17:47.760 --> 0:17:50.960 Oh my gosh, Hey Brian and Abigail, how are you doing? Hey, 0:17:51.240 --> 0:17:53.439 how are you doing? Oh my god, I've never been 0:17:53.480 --> 0:17:56.040 so excited to get an update. Update. Yeah, what's the 0:17:56.119 --> 0:17:59.040 update on your story? I can't thank you guys enough, 0:18:00.359 --> 0:18:03.480 you know, bringing us together, flying me out to see Brian. 0:18:03.800 --> 0:18:06.720 It was great. He showed me around the city, We 0:18:06.840 --> 0:18:10.720 got to know each other better. It was awesome. Oh yeah. 0:18:10.960 --> 0:18:13.840 Even he even made a shirt and wore it. They said, 0:18:13.880 --> 0:18:16.000 this guy needs a kidney with like an arrow pointy two. 0:18:18.560 --> 0:18:21.480 It's pretty good. That's kind of cute. So the spark 0:18:21.600 --> 0:18:24.600 is still there for me. There's more than a spark 0:18:26.000 --> 0:18:27.680 for you, Brian, or are you Brian? You're like, oh 0:18:27.760 --> 0:18:31.760 my god, dude, she would not go away the whole week. No, 0:18:32.040 --> 0:18:34.960 it's it's uh, it's definitely. It's been great. I really 0:18:35.080 --> 0:18:37.600 appreciate you guys doing this for us. It's just we, 0:18:37.840 --> 0:18:40.080 you know, trying to still take it a little bit 0:18:40.160 --> 0:18:42.680 slow with everything that's going on. You know. Yeah, but 0:18:42.760 --> 0:18:45.080 you're talking in us and that it means you're in 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:50.560 a relationship. Well we're not. We're not quite calling it 0:18:50.880 --> 0:18:55.200 a relationship right now. Okay, okay, so what are you then? 0:18:55.680 --> 0:18:58.399 I mean, we're we're definitely really good friends. I mean, 0:18:58.680 --> 0:19:01.119 I think we're definitely really really good friends right now 0:19:01.200 --> 0:19:03.680 and just kind to see where it goes. Good friends 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:05.960 who do it. I like that those are the best 0:19:06.040 --> 0:19:10.639 kind of friends. Are you kidding me? Well, here's a 0:19:10.720 --> 0:19:14.320 situation that we're dealing with. To be totally honest, okay, Um, 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:18.880 you know, I went through extensive testing and I found 0:19:18.920 --> 0:19:21.520 out that I am a match, Like it's a match, 0:19:22.119 --> 0:19:29.520 what yeah, a match for a kidney And in six 0:19:29.640 --> 0:19:36.440 weeks we have the operation scheduled. Oh that makes me serious? 0:19:36.800 --> 0:19:40.840 I know. Yeah, you know, it's scary and exciting all 0:19:40.840 --> 0:19:42.760 at the same time. But yeah, we are scheduled for 0:19:42.800 --> 0:19:44.640 the operation, you're gonna give him a kidney, and you're 0:19:44.680 --> 0:19:51.040 in the friend zone. I have a feeling, Brian, you're 0:19:51.080 --> 0:19:54.400 okay with that, right? Yeah? No, no, Like I said, 0:19:54.440 --> 0:19:57.000 it's just I don't know. We didn't want to get 0:19:57.000 --> 0:20:00.399 in like too serious before the transplant and everything, you know. 0:20:00.880 --> 0:20:02.879 I mean, it's kind of an emotional decision, you know, 0:20:03.080 --> 0:20:05.359 and she's doing this for me and it's great, but 0:20:05.520 --> 0:20:07.040 like I don't want her to be like holding my 0:20:07.160 --> 0:20:14.000 kidney hostage or something if we get into argument hard guy. Yeah. Yeah, Well, 0:20:14.040 --> 0:20:17.240 it's definitely still going great. Yeah, no, once the surgery 0:20:17.320 --> 0:20:19.359 is done and everything is successful, maybe we'll see how 0:20:19.400 --> 0:20:25.040 it goes after Great, that's good. Yeah, pretty excited and scared. 0:20:25.840 --> 0:20:28.840 Definitely really great. Like, I really appreciate you guys helping 0:20:28.920 --> 0:20:30.320 us with this whole thing, because I don't know that 0:20:30.440 --> 0:20:33.200 we'd be, you know, going through with this and being 0:20:33.240 --> 0:20:35.080 so close that we are now if it wasn't for 0:20:35.119 --> 0:20:37.639 you guys helping us out. Sure, well, I'm glad you 0:20:37.720 --> 0:20:40.480 found a match and hopefully you guys can turn it 0:20:40.520 --> 0:20:44.720 into something even better than just a really good friendship. Yeah, yeah, definitely. 0:20:44.960 --> 0:20:47.679 And no pressure though, Like, even if the relationship thing 0:20:47.760 --> 0:20:49.920 doesn't work out, like you have to have such a 0:20:50.040 --> 0:20:53.040 bond together that you really will be tied together in 0:20:53.200 --> 0:20:55.280 some way for the rest of your lives. Well, he'll 0:20:55.320 --> 0:21:00.320 technically have a piece of me. Yeah. If you ghost 0:21:00.359 --> 0:21:02.680