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Speaker 1: every once in a while, we do a special segment
Speaker 1: on this show called a second Date Update Update Yeah,
Speaker 1: where we contact a couple who has appeared on the
Speaker 1: show in the past to find out what's going on
Speaker 1: with them now. Are they still together? Are they not together?
Speaker 1: Are they hungry? I hope they're not hungry. I don't
Speaker 1: know that we've ever updated on their hunger level. All
Speaker 1: I know is if they are hungry or how many
Speaker 1: food for them? So I hope they're not hungry, okay.
Speaker 1: I hope not too buddy, I think would be okay
Speaker 1: in that category. I mean, unless they're hungry for love
Speaker 1: nervous about it. You never know what could happen. But
Speaker 1: people that we called a day had one of the
Speaker 1: most touching stories from the past year, and we were
Speaker 1: dying to find out what happened. We'll play the audio
Speaker 1: for you and then talk to the couple immediately following
Speaker 1: in your second Date up Date update right now, Rooking
Speaker 1: Jubels Second Date Update, I'm honestly stumped as to why
Speaker 1: the woman on the phone for a second date update
Speaker 1: today isn't getting a call back. I mean usually when
Speaker 1: you follow somebody across state lines, no big deal. Yeah,
Speaker 1: they usually appreciate that when you just show up unannounced
Speaker 1: somewhere right and now we're going to stock the guy again,
Speaker 1: but yes we are second date. Her name is Abigail, Abigail.
Speaker 1: What's up? Hi, guys. Okay, he's already made you sound
Speaker 1: creepy right from the get go. I'm not a creepy
Speaker 1: and just a bit confused. Okay, sometimes there's a thin
Speaker 1: line between creepy and I've been a victim of that
Speaker 1: many times. You have a pretty interesting situation, Abigail. Why
Speaker 1: don't you tell everybody? First of all, the guy that
Speaker 1: you want to call? What's his name? Brian? Brian? And
Speaker 1: how did you meet Brian? Well, you know, I'm a
Speaker 1: little leary on going on online dates and meeting guys
Speaker 1: on dating websites because they're usually either nuts, ugly, or
Speaker 1: or smelly or just not just not that it sounds
Speaker 1: like so many great options. I don't know why you're
Speaker 1: so upset about this, but you know I tried. I
Speaker 1: gave it a shot one more time, and I met Brian,
Speaker 1: and I gotta tell you, like, we hit it off immediately.
Speaker 1: It went from zero to sixty in virtually no time.
Speaker 1: So you liked his aroma. He had a good roma.
Speaker 1: I mean, for when I could smell over the phone,
Speaker 1: he was great. Oh say, you're saying it from zero
Speaker 1: to sixty before you guys even met in person, right,
Speaker 1: I mean, it was instant attraction via conversation. His profile
Speaker 1: picture looked great, and then I did a little more
Speaker 1: digging and found his Facebook profile and I realized it's
Speaker 1: really what he looks like. Uh huh, how did you
Speaker 1: get his tax returns? It sounds like you put in
Speaker 1: a lot of effort if I've done a little more digging, Needy, Yeah,
Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot of pressure to put on
Speaker 1: a date when you've been disappointed so many times. Were
Speaker 1: you worried about that? I was, and that's why I
Speaker 1: did my due diligence and we talked for hours. I
Speaker 1: mean there's nothing I couldn't discuss with him. We text
Speaker 1: me at least five times a day. How long was
Speaker 1: this going on before you guys actually decided to meet
Speaker 1: in person? Just about a month whoa, that's a long time.
Speaker 1: I really wanted to see him, But the thing was
Speaker 1: he lived two states away. Oh, so the whole logistics
Speaker 1: of meeting each other was really difficult. I see. I
Speaker 1: was going to say, like, what took so long? Did
Speaker 1: that makes sense? But I thought we had kicked it
Speaker 1: off so well. I wanted to do a grand gesture
Speaker 1: of romance. And one night when we were chit chatting,
Speaker 1: he was telling me his best friend's birthday was that
Speaker 1: weekend and where they were going to be and what
Speaker 1: the plans were, And I thought, wouldn't it be cool
Speaker 1: if I flew down and surprised him, who for your
Speaker 1: first meeting? I mean, we had chatted for so long,
Speaker 1: this was inevitable that one of us was going to
Speaker 1: fly in to meet the other. But a surprise and
Speaker 1: just showing up as a whole different ball game if
Speaker 1: you don't know him that well yet. But it could
Speaker 1: I mean I could see where it could pay off,
Speaker 1: Like it could be an amazing thing, or it could
Speaker 1: be really bad. So how was it when you saw
Speaker 1: him for the first time? I just started drooling. He
Speaker 1: was so gorgeous. Oh my god. Wow. Well, maybe that's
Speaker 1: why he's not calling you back. You just showed up
Speaker 1: randomly out of the blue with drool all over. It's
Speaker 1: a good boy. And how did he react? Was he
Speaker 1: drooling as well? Was it just a big spitfest? He
Speaker 1: was kind of taken aback. I basically came up behind
Speaker 1: him and tapped his shoulder, and he turned around and
Speaker 1: he got white as a ghost. He was shocked. Okay,
Speaker 1: wait set the scene. Where were you guys when you
Speaker 1: tapped him on the shoulder? Were you at the birthday party? Yeah?
Speaker 1: I showed up at the restaurant where the birthday party was. Whoa,
Speaker 1: that's a very bold move. Well, because I didn't know
Speaker 1: where he lives, so this is the only way I
Speaker 1: could get in contact. So what did he do? I mean,
Speaker 1: after he recovered from the initial shock, did he hug you?
Speaker 1: Did he kiss you? I mean the first thing he
Speaker 1: did was say, what are you doing here? And I
Speaker 1: told him I thought it'd be a really cool surprise
Speaker 1: to don't shock you and be here, and thought it'd
Speaker 1: be really romantic. And then for most of the night
Speaker 1: I ended up speaking to his friends and not much
Speaker 1: to him. But you got to understand, I mean, I
Speaker 1: knew he had to speak to other people. Who was
Speaker 1: his best friend's birthday. So I let it go. I figured, hey,
Speaker 1: that's what he has to do. So wait, hold on, like,
Speaker 1: how is he introducing you to his friends? Well, he
Speaker 1: really wasn't. I mean one or two times that I'd
Speaker 1: bump into him, somebody would come up to him and say, oh,
Speaker 1: and you are, and he would say, oh, this is
Speaker 1: a friend of mine. Okay, okay, oh, And I thought, well,
Speaker 1: you know, it is really new. We haven't really told
Speaker 1: people about us. So I get it he wanted to
Speaker 1: keep it on the down low. I get that. I'm
Speaker 1: starting to worry about you. I mean after the birthday party,
Speaker 1: what happened, Well, when we got to the end of
Speaker 1: the night, people started leaving and it was basically he
Speaker 1: and I and his best friend, and I started talking
Speaker 1: to him and I said, well, I'm here now, and
Speaker 1: he said how long are you here for? And I
Speaker 1: thought that was odd that he would ask me when
Speaker 1: I'm leaving when we were just met. What I said
Speaker 1: to him, I'm here till tomorrow evening. Maybe we can
Speaker 1: have lunch or brunch tomorrow, and or maybe even right now,
Speaker 1: let's go for another drink or a cup of coffee,
Speaker 1: and he said he was really busy. He had a
Speaker 1: lot of commitments the next day, but I was like, okay,
Speaker 1: maybe you can spare an hour. I did fly all
Speaker 1: the way out here. He said, you know what, we'll
Speaker 1: set up date for when I can either fly out
Speaker 1: to you. Were you to fly out here again? Were
Speaker 1: you crushed? I was crushed until he said, let's see
Speaker 1: we can figure out a time to meet up again.
Speaker 1: Oh so I thought there was some hope there. No,
Speaker 1: you know, maybe he really was busy the next day.
Speaker 1: I don't know. You are so nice to this man.
Speaker 1: Well he's something special. How many times have you tried
Speaker 1: to get a hold of him since that weekend? It's
Speaker 1: been a week so far and I only heard from
Speaker 1: him once, and that also through texts, So it's not
Speaker 1: like it was before. Oh my gosh. And you're sure
Speaker 1: he's single? Right from what I understand, Dan, I didn't
Speaker 1: see any rings on his finger, and I didn't see
Speaker 1: any other woman around. Okay, good, Okay, Well we'll play
Speaker 1: a song, come back call him, and then get your
Speaker 1: second date update. Okay, okay, all right, looking jubil in
Speaker 1: the morning. Second if you're just tuning in for today's
Speaker 1: second date update. It's the kind of thing that movies
Speaker 1: are made about. Abigail's on the phone and Abigail met
Speaker 1: the man of her dreams online and they chatted back
Speaker 1: and forth every single day, every single night for weeks,
Speaker 1: until Abigail decided to show up unannounced at a birthday party.
Speaker 1: She flew all the way there to surprise him, tapped
Speaker 1: him on the shoulder, and he turned around and she said,
Speaker 1: Abigail's home. Abigail, I think I've seen that movie before, Scaring,
Speaker 1: but I don't think that's what happened. That is sort
Speaker 1: of what happened. Abigail did surprise this dude that she'd
Speaker 1: been talking to online. They live in different states, and
Speaker 1: she actually showed up to a birthday party that he
Speaker 1: was at unannounced and was hoping that everything would go great.
Speaker 1: But when she got there and surprised him, he was
Speaker 1: kind of weird and sort of ignored her the rest
Speaker 1: of the night, and they haven't really talked since. Abigail, Hi,
Speaker 1: that's just like what you said, ju, I mean, very similar.
Speaker 1: I'm really not a stalker, I promise. Well. I have
Speaker 1: a whole different scenario in my head. Abigail Abigail, You're
Speaker 1: so sweet. It just makes me so angry because it
Speaker 1: sounds like you guys really connected him, he really led
Speaker 1: you down this path and he's just a jerk. I
Speaker 1: don't know how else to say it. She didn't show
Speaker 1: up out of the blue, unannounced, like from states away.
Speaker 1: That could creep a guy out, but he was given
Speaker 1: her the wrong signals. Man. I really got the feeling
Speaker 1: that we had the connection and he would have loved
Speaker 1: this romantic gesture. All right, well we'll find out. I'm
Speaker 1: gonna him right now and see if we can talk
Speaker 1: to him and get your second day out date. Okay, okay, okay, Hello, Hi,
Speaker 1: can I speak to Brian please? This is Brian. Here's
Speaker 1: this Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is
Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sorry you
Speaker 1: Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Weird. I
Speaker 1: know it sounds weird. Yeah, I don't. I don't know
Speaker 1: what you're talking about, man, I figured you wouldn't. That's fine.
Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning is a morning radio show. Okay, okay,
Speaker 1: and that's the end of the I'm calling you because
Speaker 1: one of our listeners actually asked us to reach out
Speaker 1: to you. All right, sure you got the hype, Brian,
Speaker 1: I'm I'm pretty sure I do. I'll check. Do you
Speaker 1: know a girl named Abigail? Yeah? Okay, well we know
Speaker 1: a girl named Abigail as well. And she's really confused
Speaker 1: because she I thought you guys had a great relationship
Speaker 1: for a few weeks until she decided to just fly
Speaker 1: into town and surprise you. And she said you seem
Speaker 1: kind of cold to her, and now you haven't really
Speaker 1: talked to her since you can understand why that She's
Speaker 1: going to like any length possible to get some sort
Speaker 1: of answer, Like if you put that much energy into
Speaker 1: seeing someone and then they suddenly shut down, Like, that's
Speaker 1: got to be really confusing. Let me get this straight.
Speaker 1: Then she had you guys to reach out to contact me.
Speaker 1: That's what you're selling me, yes, because you won't really
Speaker 1: give her an answer and you're kind of being cold.
Speaker 1: This is crazy, man, It's not really that crazy. I mean,
Speaker 1: she just wants an answer. I just can't believe that
Speaker 1: she's doing all this just to get in touch with me. Yeah,
Speaker 1: but you guys wish I'm like texting like five times
Speaker 1: a day for a whole month to nothing. Yeah, and
Speaker 1: she liked you a lot, Brian, and talking to you
Speaker 1: right now, I can understand why you seem like a
Speaker 1: sweet dude. Yeah, I normally am, but not when like
Speaker 1: radio shows call me to get my personal life. We
Speaker 1: get that, we do. Can you just tell us anything
Speaker 1: at least we can talk to her and be like, oh,
Speaker 1: he just wasn't really feeling you when he saw you
Speaker 1: in person or something like that. Well, don't tell her that,
Speaker 1: because I mean that's not true. Um really yeah, no, yeah,
Speaker 1: I actually I really do like her a lot. There's
Speaker 1: this stuff going on, and I just don't want to
Speaker 1: get into Oh, you're in a relationship. I knew it.
Speaker 1: I told her that. I told her that you're She
Speaker 1: swore she thought you were single. Yeah, I know, I'm
Speaker 1: definitely single. That's not it really. It's just I thought
Speaker 1: what we had going on was good. I mean, I
Speaker 1: kind of like, I guess the distance aspect of it.
Speaker 1: And then for her to just randomly show up at
Speaker 1: a friend's birthday party, I'm not really expecting it at all.
Speaker 1: But why did you spend all night avoiding her? I mean,
Speaker 1: at some point, if you say that you really like her, yeah,
Speaker 1: well I guess I just got too real for me
Speaker 1: having her right there, too real, Like you like talking
Speaker 1: to her online and on the phone, but to realize
Speaker 1: you could actually touch a person strange. No, I mean,
Speaker 1: it's not necessarily that. It's just there's other stuff. But
Speaker 1: I understand there's other stuff. But right now, all I
Speaker 1: understand is you like her a lot. It shocks you
Speaker 1: that she showed up, And then there's stuff like how
Speaker 1: is that a message to give to her to help
Speaker 1: her understand why you're not talking to her anymore? You
Speaker 1: know what? Whatever, I don't I don't care anymore. I
Speaker 1: just I need a kidney transplant. Who yeah, Oh that's serious. Yeah,
Speaker 1: way to take things down, Brian. You guys asked for it.
Speaker 1: Usually these things end up like oh I thought they
Speaker 1: smelled funny or they puked in my back seat. Man,
Speaker 1: I'm sorry to hear that. Yeah. Yeah. So is it
Speaker 1: just that you don't want to get involved in a
Speaker 1: relationship because you obviously have some serious health stuff that
Speaker 1: you need to concentrate on pretty much, you know, I
Speaker 1: just I don't want to drag her into this, you
Speaker 1: know what I mean? I feel like this is kind
Speaker 1: of my battle right now. By her showing up, I realized,
Speaker 1: you know, that she really does like me a lot,
Speaker 1: and I'm just not wanting her to be that close
Speaker 1: to being around all this like stuff going on. Oh,
Speaker 1: I feel so horrible. I thought these awful things about you,
Speaker 1: and now look at you. Brook. It's seriously, dude, I
Speaker 1: am sorry. It's all good. It's it's not a big deal.
Speaker 1: I guess. So did you not tell her about your
Speaker 1: situation when you guys were chatting online and on the
Speaker 1: phone and stuff. No, you know, I didn't want to
Speaker 1: tell her this, you know what I mean, Like that's
Speaker 1: like we kept it from a distance, so you know,
Speaker 1: we can keep it upbeat and I have to kind
Speaker 1: of like talk about all this stuff. Yeah, you know,
Speaker 1: I just I really just enjoyed her conversation. And sometimes,
Speaker 1: you know, when there's a lot of bad stuff going
Speaker 1: on in your life, to have somebody there to kind
Speaker 1: of just talk to you and you know, just kind
Speaker 1: of laugh with and stuff like that, it kind of
Speaker 1: brings you up. So I didn't want to like kind
Speaker 1: of bring her down by the transplant. Yeah, and you're
Speaker 1: able to escape your own stuff too, you know, Brian,
Speaker 1: You're kind of make this difficult on me because this
Speaker 1: would normally be the point where I'd try to deliver
Speaker 1: a witty line and then tell you that the person
Speaker 1: is on the other line listening to the conversation. But
Speaker 1: I don't have any witty lines, so I'm just going
Speaker 1: to connect you too so you can talk. Okay, wait
Speaker 1: on another line now? Or what do you mean by
Speaker 1: connect us? Yeah, she's listening to this phone call and
Speaker 1: wants to talk to you. Oh my god, man, are
Speaker 1: you kidding it? Like I just said, I didn't even
Speaker 1: want her to know. Yes, unfortunately she does know now, Abigail,
Speaker 1: are you there? Hi? Brian? Hey, Sorry, I didn't really
Speaker 1: want you didn't find out this way? No, I'm sorry.
Speaker 1: I don't even know what to say. I'm sorry. I'm
Speaker 1: sure you don't. You don't have to say anything. I
Speaker 1: mean I know that I didn't tell you, so there's
Speaker 1: no way you could have known. It's just I don't know.
Speaker 1: I didn't know how connected I was going to get
Speaker 1: with you, and I just I guess I got worried
Speaker 1: about actually telling you. So. But I want you to
Speaker 1: know something. I care about you more than you can imagine.
Speaker 1: I'm here if you want to talk I'm here. If
Speaker 1: you mean to make you laugh, I'm there for you.
Speaker 1: I really appreciate that, because, I mean, I don't know,
Speaker 1: I got scared once you got down there and you know,
Speaker 1: actually seeing you, and it made it seem too real,
Speaker 1: and I just, I guess I pushed you away a
Speaker 1: little bit and didn't want to, you know, get too close. Listen,
Speaker 1: get close if you need me to do anything or
Speaker 1: help you, or just put a smile on your face
Speaker 1: whenever you need me. Yeah, I just you're such a
Speaker 1: sweet person. I don't want you to get all caught
Speaker 1: up in this and then something good wrong. Right now,
Speaker 1: I'm on a waiting list. I'm not you know, there's
Speaker 1: no guarantee of when I'm going to be able to
Speaker 1: give the transplant. And honestly, Abigail, I really care about
Speaker 1: you and I really want to, you know, keep you
Speaker 1: in my life. And at the same time, because I
Speaker 1: care about you so much, I feel like I can't.
Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm just really torn right now. I mean,
Speaker 1: I'm willing to take a blood chest. Is there any
Speaker 1: way maybe I'm compatible in some way? You know, I
Speaker 1: don't want you to do that happy' I really listen,
Speaker 1: This is about kindness. This is the reason why I
Speaker 1: was put in your life. The chances chances are so
Speaker 1: slim that that's even possible. I don't have to go
Speaker 1: through with that, But Brian, there's always a chance. It
Speaker 1: may be slim, but it's still there. Yeah, but it's
Speaker 1: just I can't. I can't think about you actually giving
Speaker 1: up your kidney for me. I can't think about you
Speaker 1: doing that. I don't. I don't want it to happen. Well,
Speaker 1: I got too, so I get one up. It's like
Speaker 1: a spare time. Wow. I don't even know what to say.
Speaker 1: At least give me the chance or the opportunity to
Speaker 1: look into this. Consider it. You have to consider it, Brian.
Speaker 1: How about this? How about we send Abigail out to
Speaker 1: you and you guys can spend the weekend together. You
Speaker 1: can hang out, you can go on a few dates,
Speaker 1: and you can even discuss a possible kidney transplant in
Speaker 1: the second date update before. But I'm saying it so
Speaker 1: I can't believe it's actually happen any right now. Oh
Speaker 1: my god, would you be interesting that, Brian? Just checking
Speaker 1: things out? Um, I don't know about the whole kidding.
Speaker 1: Transplanted by the date would be awesome. I would I
Speaker 1: would love to go on a date. Yes, okay, so
Speaker 1: that's yes, Yeah, definitely. Yeah, I'm happy to Oh me too.
Speaker 1: I'm really excited that I'll actually be seeing you. This
Speaker 1: has been a really weird second date update. Normally it's
Speaker 1: the dude who's begging to put his organ in a
Speaker 1: woman you had to get into. I couldn't help it.
Speaker 1: In the morning. That was a second day update from
Speaker 1: six months ago. And we're on the phone with Brian
Speaker 1: and Abigail for a second date update update right now.
Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Hey Brian and Abigail, how are you doing? Hey,
Speaker 1: how are you doing? Oh my god, I've never been
Speaker 1: so excited to get an update. Update. Yeah, what's the
Speaker 1: update on your story? I can't thank you guys enough,
Speaker 1: you know, bringing us together, flying me out to see Brian.
Speaker 1: It was great. He showed me around the city, We
Speaker 1: got to know each other better. It was awesome. Oh yeah.
Speaker 1: Even he even made a shirt and wore it. They said,
Speaker 1: this guy needs a kidney with like an arrow pointy two.
Speaker 1: It's pretty good. That's kind of cute. So the spark
Speaker 1: is still there for me. There's more than a spark
Speaker 1: for you, Brian, or are you Brian? You're like, oh
Speaker 1: my god, dude, she would not go away the whole week. No,
Speaker 1: it's it's uh, it's definitely. It's been great. I really
Speaker 1: appreciate you guys doing this for us. It's just we,
Speaker 1: you know, trying to still take it a little bit
Speaker 1: slow with everything that's going on. You know. Yeah, but
Speaker 1: you're talking in us and that it means you're in
Speaker 1: a relationship. Well we're not. We're not quite calling it
Speaker 1: a relationship right now. Okay, okay, so what are you then?
Speaker 1: I mean, we're we're definitely really good friends. I mean,
Speaker 1: I think we're definitely really really good friends right now
Speaker 1: and just kind to see where it goes. Good friends
Speaker 1: who do it. I like that those are the best
Speaker 1: kind of friends. Are you kidding me? Well, here's a
Speaker 1: situation that we're dealing with. To be totally honest, okay, Um,
Speaker 1: you know, I went through extensive testing and I found
Speaker 1: out that I am a match, Like it's a match,
Speaker 1: what yeah, a match for a kidney And in six
Speaker 1: weeks we have the operation scheduled. Oh that makes me serious?
Speaker 1: I know. Yeah, you know, it's scary and exciting all
Speaker 1: at the same time. But yeah, we are scheduled for
Speaker 1: the operation, you're gonna give him a kidney, and you're
Speaker 1: in the friend zone. I have a feeling, Brian, you're
Speaker 1: okay with that, right? Yeah? No, no, Like I said,
Speaker 1: it's just I don't know. We didn't want to get
Speaker 1: in like too serious before the transplant and everything, you know.
Speaker 1: I mean, it's kind of an emotional decision, you know,
Speaker 1: and she's doing this for me and it's great, but
Speaker 1: like I don't want her to be like holding my
Speaker 1: kidney hostage or something if we get into argument hard guy. Yeah. Yeah, Well,
Speaker 1: it's definitely still going great. Yeah, no, once the surgery
Speaker 1: is done and everything is successful, maybe we'll see how
Speaker 1: it goes after Great, that's good. Yeah, pretty excited and scared.
Speaker 1: Definitely really great. Like, I really appreciate you guys helping
Speaker 1: us with this whole thing, because I don't know that
Speaker 1: we'd be, you know, going through with this and being
Speaker 1: so close that we are now if it wasn't for
Speaker 1: you guys helping us out. Sure, well, I'm glad you
Speaker 1: found a match and hopefully you guys can turn it
Speaker 1: into something even better than just a really good friendship. Yeah, yeah, definitely.
Speaker 1: And no pressure though, Like, even if the relationship thing
Speaker 1: doesn't work out, like you have to have such a
Speaker 1: bond together that you really will be tied together in
Speaker 1: some way for the rest of your lives. Well, he'll
Speaker 1: technically have a piece of me. Yeah. If you ghost
Speaker 1: her after she gives you a kidney, you are officially
Speaker 1: the worst person. You know. It's not gonna be it's
Speaker 1: not gonna be like that. Okay, that's awesome. Congratulations both
Speaker 1: of you. Thanks, thank you for everything. Broken Jupil in
Speaker 1: the morning,