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Speaker 1: every once in a while, we do a special segment

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Speaker 1: on this show called a second Date Update Update Yeah,

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Speaker 1: where we contact a couple who has appeared on the

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Speaker 1: show in the past to find out what's going on

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Speaker 1: with them now. Are they still together? Are they not together?

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Speaker 1: Are they hungry? I hope they're not hungry. I don't

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Speaker 1: know that we've ever updated on their hunger level. All

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Speaker 1: I know is if they are hungry or how many

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Speaker 1: I hope not too buddy, I think would be okay

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Speaker 1: in that category. I mean, unless they're hungry for love

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Speaker 1: nervous about it. You never know what could happen. But

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Speaker 1: people that we called a day had one of the

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Speaker 1: most touching stories from the past year, and we were

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Speaker 1: dying to find out what happened. We'll play the audio

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Speaker 1: for you and then talk to the couple immediately following

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Speaker 1: in your second Date up Date update right now, Rooking

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Speaker 1: Jubels Second Date Update, I'm honestly stumped as to why

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Speaker 1: the woman on the phone for a second date update

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Speaker 1: today isn't getting a call back. I mean usually when

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Speaker 1: you follow somebody across state lines, no big deal. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: they usually appreciate that when you just show up unannounced

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Speaker 1: somewhere right and now we're going to stock the guy again,

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Speaker 1: but yes we are second date. Her name is Abigail, Abigail.

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Speaker 1: What's up? Hi, guys. Okay, he's already made you sound

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Speaker 1: creepy right from the get go. I'm not a creepy

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Speaker 1: many times. You have a pretty interesting situation, Abigail. Why

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Speaker 1: don't you tell everybody? First of all, the guy that

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Speaker 1: how did you meet Brian? Well, you know, I'm a

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Speaker 1: little leary on going on online dates and meeting guys

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Speaker 1: on dating websites because they're usually either nuts, ugly, or

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Speaker 1: like so many great options. I don't know why you're

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Speaker 1: and I gotta tell you, like, we hit it off immediately.

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Speaker 1: It went from zero to sixty in virtually no time.

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Speaker 1: So you liked his aroma. He had a good roma.

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Speaker 1: I mean, for when I could smell over the phone,

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Speaker 1: he was great. Oh say, you're saying it from zero

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Speaker 1: I mean, it was instant attraction via conversation. His profile

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Speaker 1: really what he looks like. Uh huh, how did you

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Speaker 1: get his tax returns? It sounds like you put in

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Speaker 1: a lot of effort if I've done a little more digging, Needy, Yeah,

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Speaker 1: I mean that's a lot of pressure to put on

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Speaker 1: you worried about that? I was, and that's why I

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Speaker 1: I really wanted to see him, But the thing was

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Speaker 1: I showed up at the restaurant where the birthday party was. Whoa,

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Speaker 1: that's a very bold move. Well, because I didn't know

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Speaker 1: how is he introducing you to his friends? Well, he

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Speaker 1: Oh so I thought there was some hope there. No,

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Speaker 1: you know, maybe he really was busy the next day.

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Speaker 1: I don't know. You are so nice to this man.

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Speaker 1: Well he's something special. How many times have you tried

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Speaker 1: any other woman around. Okay, good, Okay, Well we'll play

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Speaker 1: that's just like what you said, ju, I mean, very similar.

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Speaker 1: I'm really not a stalker, I promise. Well. I have

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Speaker 1: a whole different scenario in my head. Abigail Abigail, You're

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Speaker 1: That could creep a guy out, but he was given

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Speaker 1: to him and get your second day out date. Okay, okay, okay, Hello, Hi,

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Speaker 1: can I speak to Brian please? This is Brian. Here's

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Speaker 1: this Hey, what's up? Man? How are you? This is

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Speaker 1: Jewil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Sorry you

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Speaker 1: Jewbil from Brook and Jewil in the Morning. Weird. I

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Speaker 1: know it sounds weird. Yeah, I don't. I don't know

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Speaker 1: Brook and Jewil in the Morning is a morning radio show. Okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: and that's the end of the I'm calling you because

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Speaker 1: to you. All right, sure you got the hype, Brian,

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Speaker 1: I'm I'm pretty sure I do. I'll check. Do you

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Speaker 1: know a girl named Abigail? Yeah? Okay, well we know

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Speaker 1: a girl named Abigail as well. And she's really confused

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Speaker 1: going to like any length possible to get some sort

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Speaker 1: got to be really confusing. Let me get this straight.

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Speaker 1: Then she had you guys to reach out to contact me.

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Speaker 1: That's what you're selling me, yes, because you won't really

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Speaker 1: This is crazy, man, It's not really that crazy. I mean,

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Speaker 1: she just wants an answer. I just can't believe that

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Speaker 1: she's doing all this just to get in touch with me. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: but you guys wish I'm like texting like five times

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Speaker 1: How about this? How about we send Abigail out to

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Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, Hey Brian and Abigail, how are you doing? Hey,

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