1 00:00:00,920 --> 00:00:06,800 Speaker 1: It's time for the good news. Yeah, they want to 2 00:00:06,840 --> 00:00:09,119 Speaker 1: shift this segment just a little bit. I think I 3 00:00:09,160 --> 00:00:11,200 Speaker 1: want to. If you want to do tell me something good, 4 00:00:11,240 --> 00:00:12,560 Speaker 1: you can. But if you want to go tell me 5 00:00:12,600 --> 00:00:14,960 Speaker 1: something suck, you also can. Okay, So I'll go around 6 00:00:14,960 --> 00:00:16,040 Speaker 1: and be like, you have a good or a suck, 7 00:00:16,920 --> 00:00:19,599 Speaker 1: and you can share either one. I like it. We'll 8 00:00:19,680 --> 00:00:20,800 Speaker 1: just experiment for a little bit. 9 00:00:20,760 --> 00:00:23,000 Speaker 2: Because it's easier that way, because sometimes you have good 10 00:00:23,079 --> 00:00:24,600 Speaker 2: days and sometimes you have bad days. 11 00:00:24,640 --> 00:00:28,640 Speaker 1: Well, sometimes I'm going, what did I even do yesterday? 12 00:00:28,640 --> 00:00:30,360 Speaker 1: Because I think I can find something like let me 13 00:00:30,360 --> 00:00:35,120 Speaker 1: walk to my day yesterday. Okay, so up early, coming 14 00:00:35,159 --> 00:00:37,000 Speaker 1: to work. How long are we even here? I don't 15 00:00:37,000 --> 00:00:40,040 Speaker 1: even know we did yesterday, like we did the show? 16 00:00:40,400 --> 00:00:40,760 Speaker 1: Thank you? 17 00:00:41,560 --> 00:00:42,080 Speaker 2: Uh? 18 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:46,240 Speaker 1: What time did I leave here yesterday? Around noon? 19 00:00:48,560 --> 00:00:50,520 Speaker 2: Maybe a little after because I remember the door locking 20 00:00:52,360 --> 00:00:53,199 Speaker 2: a little afternoon. 21 00:00:53,960 --> 00:00:58,200 Speaker 1: Got home. The baby's got a little cough, so we've 22 00:00:58,200 --> 00:01:00,400 Speaker 1: been dealing with that. But I think that's getting pretty good. 23 00:01:00,840 --> 00:01:04,520 Speaker 1: All the days blur, I'm telling you it. Guess today's Thursday, right. 24 00:01:04,840 --> 00:01:06,399 Speaker 2: Did you do any podcast stuff yesterday? 25 00:01:06,640 --> 00:01:08,600 Speaker 3: H Yeah? You had a later one. 26 00:01:08,720 --> 00:01:14,120 Speaker 1: At four point thirty at Stella lefty and so that 27 00:01:14,319 --> 00:01:18,080 Speaker 1: was great, but I just remember thinking, I don't do him, 28 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:21,760 Speaker 1: just like I'm so tired. And sometimes Mike knows that, like, wait, 29 00:01:21,920 --> 00:01:23,560 Speaker 1: Mike and I definitely don't have to look at each other. 30 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:25,920 Speaker 1: We just know how each other's feeling. And I'm like, oh, 31 00:01:25,959 --> 00:01:27,600 Speaker 1: this is late. And I didn't say it just in 32 00:01:27,600 --> 00:01:29,119 Speaker 1: my head, and Mike's going, yeah, I feel you, dude, 33 00:01:29,160 --> 00:01:31,680 Speaker 1: and he's not saying it back to me, and we're like, okay, 34 00:01:31,720 --> 00:01:34,440 Speaker 1: we don't know her. And then hopefully this is even 35 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:35,880 Speaker 1: gonna be good. And I'm like, have you ever had 36 00:01:35,880 --> 00:01:37,399 Speaker 1: any food? And He's like, yeah, i'd a little bit 37 00:01:37,440 --> 00:01:38,840 Speaker 1: I brought out to work. But we've not said a 38 00:01:38,840 --> 00:01:41,600 Speaker 1: single word each other. We're just going thinking all this yeah, yeah, 39 00:01:41,640 --> 00:01:48,440 Speaker 1: full you know, telepathy. And then I finished its me 40 00:01:48,480 --> 00:01:50,520 Speaker 1: watching another episode of Widows Bay last night. 41 00:01:52,160 --> 00:01:53,840 Speaker 2: What you eat for dinner? 42 00:01:53,960 --> 00:01:59,400 Speaker 1: Great question? A hamburger and fries that I ordered from 43 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:02,920 Speaker 1: Rose Po. It's pretty good. I think they're putting a 44 00:02:02,960 --> 00:02:05,560 Speaker 1: little butter on their butt though. I think so. I 45 00:02:05,760 --> 00:02:11,040 Speaker 1: just shove all those pills in my mouth beforehand because 46 00:02:11,080 --> 00:02:13,240 Speaker 1: I'm not sure. Yeah, I'm not sure if they are. 47 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:17,239 Speaker 1: I got a suspicion that they are, and so I've 48 00:02:17,240 --> 00:02:19,120 Speaker 1: shoved a bunch of lactated in. I guess my positive 49 00:02:19,160 --> 00:02:21,000 Speaker 1: is that my stomach didn't hurt last night. 50 00:02:21,080 --> 00:02:21,480 Speaker 2: That's good. 51 00:02:21,560 --> 00:02:23,799 Speaker 1: And then we watched What was Sell. Lefty was great. 52 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:27,639 Speaker 1: She's really great, so so fun. Her dad started group on. 53 00:02:29,680 --> 00:02:33,080 Speaker 1: Really it's crazy, her dad's worth five billion dollars. 54 00:02:34,280 --> 00:02:36,239 Speaker 2: Yeah, but the internet too is like putting that when 55 00:02:36,280 --> 00:02:38,240 Speaker 2: they show a video. Sometimes I've seen it on TikTok 56 00:02:38,240 --> 00:02:41,359 Speaker 2: where they're like, look at this billionaire's daughter making music. 57 00:02:41,520 --> 00:02:42,200 Speaker 2: Have you seen those? 58 00:02:42,360 --> 00:02:44,079 Speaker 1: Nope, didn't even know that was the case. 59 00:02:44,120 --> 00:02:45,480 Speaker 3: Yeah, I had no idea. 60 00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:49,640 Speaker 1: That until yesterday Free right before it, I guess because 61 00:02:49,880 --> 00:02:52,760 Speaker 1: our phone looks at everything we do, and I'd been 62 00:02:53,360 --> 00:02:55,480 Speaker 1: like listening to a little bit of music, and so 63 00:02:55,520 --> 00:02:59,640 Speaker 1: it just feeds me, like in my algorithm stelling Lefty stuff. 64 00:02:59,639 --> 00:03:01,160 Speaker 1: And it was like he still left, his dad started 65 00:03:01,200 --> 00:03:05,600 Speaker 1: group on. It's worth five billion dollars. Wow, yeah, crazy, 66 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:12,600 Speaker 1: And yeah, her boyfriend is events at Mason is awesome, 67 00:03:12,760 --> 00:03:15,600 Speaker 1: Like his music is my faith probably for what I 68 00:03:15,639 --> 00:03:20,040 Speaker 1: listened to maybe my favorite type of country music. But 69 00:03:20,120 --> 00:03:22,320 Speaker 1: she was great. We talked about that later. But if 70 00:03:22,320 --> 00:03:27,240 Speaker 1: I had to pick one from last night. See, i'd struggle. 71 00:03:27,960 --> 00:03:28,800 Speaker 1: I can't remember the day. 72 00:03:28,840 --> 00:03:29,839 Speaker 2: Yes, did you sleep well? 73 00:03:30,400 --> 00:03:33,000 Speaker 1: No? God, all right, no, because bays me kind of 74 00:03:33,000 --> 00:03:34,840 Speaker 1: sicks and my wife is super anxious about it. So 75 00:03:35,080 --> 00:03:42,120 Speaker 1: and who knows? Tell me something good. I did not 76 00:03:42,160 --> 00:03:43,720 Speaker 1: get sick of my stomach last night after eating a 77 00:03:43,720 --> 00:03:44,400 Speaker 1: burger and fries. 78 00:03:45,480 --> 00:03:46,520 Speaker 3: Boom, you found it. 79 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:47,920 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I'm not gonna do a suck because it 80 00:03:47,920 --> 00:03:50,200 Speaker 1: didn't suck. It just I didn't remember much about yesterday. 81 00:03:50,600 --> 00:03:53,240 Speaker 1: I didn't work out yesterday because I did heavy leg 82 00:03:53,320 --> 00:03:57,560 Speaker 1: day on Tuesday and my legs hurt so bad even today. 83 00:03:58,760 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 1: I'm never just not gonna be or from doing like day. 84 00:04:00,880 --> 00:04:02,160 Speaker 1: It doesn't matter how many times I do it. I 85 00:04:02,240 --> 00:04:05,280 Speaker 1: just was miserable when I woke up this morning. Okay, 86 00:04:05,440 --> 00:04:08,920 Speaker 1: that's mine. I didn't know what that's. Tell me something 87 00:04:09,520 --> 00:04:12,240 Speaker 1: kind of good, kind of medium. Yeah, what do you have? 88 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:15,720 Speaker 3: Mine's to suck? Okay, I yelled at my son and 89 00:04:15,920 --> 00:04:18,400 Speaker 3: I've already apologized, but still I've played it over in 90 00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,400 Speaker 3: my head like five hundred times since last night when 91 00:04:21,400 --> 00:04:25,360 Speaker 3: it happened. So it just sucks as a parent. That's 92 00:04:25,400 --> 00:04:29,160 Speaker 3: not how I want to be. Was he frustrating. Absolutely, 93 00:04:30,600 --> 00:04:34,640 Speaker 3: did he need a little kick in the pants. Yeah, 94 00:04:34,839 --> 00:04:38,359 Speaker 3: but I didn't have to. It's almost like I felt 95 00:04:38,400 --> 00:04:40,599 Speaker 3: out of control, like I pulled over my car. 96 00:04:41,279 --> 00:04:42,000 Speaker 2: That's the best. 97 00:04:42,120 --> 00:04:43,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, oh what happened in the car? 98 00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:46,080 Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean it felt in control. Like There's been 99 00:04:46,120 --> 00:04:48,839 Speaker 3: times with my hormones where I felt out of whack, 100 00:04:49,080 --> 00:04:51,159 Speaker 3: but this I knew what I was doing, but it 101 00:04:51,200 --> 00:04:53,719 Speaker 3: was almost like I defaulted to the habit of like, Okay, 102 00:04:53,720 --> 00:04:57,719 Speaker 3: I've got to pull over and be like focus, and 103 00:04:57,800 --> 00:05:02,120 Speaker 3: I will say I recovered quickly, so that's good. I 104 00:05:02,200 --> 00:05:03,960 Speaker 3: just don't want to respond in that way. I want 105 00:05:03,960 --> 00:05:06,640 Speaker 3: to have more control because I want him to have control. 106 00:05:07,480 --> 00:05:11,560 Speaker 3: I just was so as parents, sometimes you just feel 107 00:05:11,600 --> 00:05:15,600 Speaker 3: so disrespected with like you're the little their little carpool driver, 108 00:05:15,800 --> 00:05:17,719 Speaker 3: and then they don't respect your time, and then they 109 00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:20,159 Speaker 3: take forever, and then they're slow and it's late and 110 00:05:20,200 --> 00:05:22,640 Speaker 3: it's nighttime. We want to get home. And yeah, I 111 00:05:22,640 --> 00:05:24,919 Speaker 3: was picking them up at church, so I probably should 112 00:05:24,920 --> 00:05:29,240 Speaker 3: have had a little more control, but I just yeah, 113 00:05:29,240 --> 00:05:31,960 Speaker 3: but it's it's impiling on because this is a thing. 114 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:34,560 Speaker 3: And then he and then he's like, well, then I 115 00:05:34,560 --> 00:05:38,040 Speaker 3: guess his default is okay, Like I'm just going to 116 00:05:38,120 --> 00:05:41,320 Speaker 3: give examples. These aren't exact, right, but it'll be like 117 00:05:41,360 --> 00:05:44,720 Speaker 3: if if he's not getting his shoes on in time 118 00:05:44,720 --> 00:05:46,680 Speaker 3: for cross country or this or that, he'd be like, well, 119 00:05:46,720 --> 00:05:48,440 Speaker 3: then I'm just not going to do a cross country anymore, 120 00:05:49,640 --> 00:05:52,880 Speaker 3: or or like he really wants to get his driver's license, 121 00:05:53,040 --> 00:05:55,760 Speaker 3: and then we're like, well we need more, let's work 122 00:05:55,800 --> 00:05:58,719 Speaker 3: on X y Z and he was like, well I 123 00:05:58,720 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 3: have If I have to do X y Z, then fine, 124 00:06:00,200 --> 00:06:00,920 Speaker 3: I don't want to drive. 125 00:06:01,040 --> 00:06:02,840 Speaker 1: My wife calls me all or nothing because I do that. 126 00:06:02,760 --> 00:06:05,640 Speaker 3: Correct right, And then this was then last night it 127 00:06:05,800 --> 00:06:08,840 Speaker 3: was well, then you just don't even have to take 128 00:06:08,839 --> 00:06:11,160 Speaker 3: me to Wednesday night church anymore. And I I mean 129 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,960 Speaker 3: when that came out of his mouth, I pulled over 130 00:06:14,000 --> 00:06:18,320 Speaker 3: because I'd already taken him, wanted to take him, love 131 00:06:18,360 --> 00:06:21,640 Speaker 3: that he wants to go, picked him up. It was 132 00:06:21,760 --> 00:06:24,200 Speaker 3: just the disrespect of like, I'm here to get you, 133 00:06:24,240 --> 00:06:26,839 Speaker 3: and you're not coming to the car. You're lingering with 134 00:06:26,920 --> 00:06:30,839 Speaker 3: your friends, and it's nighttime, we need to go. And 135 00:06:30,920 --> 00:06:32,600 Speaker 3: so I pull over and I'm like, and now you're 136 00:06:32,640 --> 00:06:34,240 Speaker 3: not going to go to church anymore. And now you're 137 00:06:34,279 --> 00:06:36,760 Speaker 3: curted cross country and now you don't want to drive, 138 00:06:36,960 --> 00:06:41,599 Speaker 3: and I'm like all this stuff, I was like, I'm 139 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:43,960 Speaker 3: so over it. I'm over you quitting every day lit 140 00:06:44,400 --> 00:06:44,680 Speaker 3: you know. 141 00:06:45,640 --> 00:06:47,120 Speaker 1: And all or nothing's kind of funny. 142 00:06:47,279 --> 00:06:50,720 Speaker 2: No, no, no, not actually not you guys. 143 00:06:51,320 --> 00:06:52,800 Speaker 1: I do it all the time, and I shouldn't. I'm 144 00:06:52,800 --> 00:06:54,560 Speaker 1: not saying like it's hilarious for me to do it, 145 00:06:54,600 --> 00:06:56,320 Speaker 1: but it's to hear you talk about it, because again, 146 00:06:56,360 --> 00:06:59,560 Speaker 1: my wife calls me all or nothing and it's exhausting. 147 00:06:59,839 --> 00:07:02,160 Speaker 1: I just give you an example of something that is 148 00:07:02,200 --> 00:07:07,680 Speaker 1: that is not significant at all. So she's been holding 149 00:07:07,720 --> 00:07:10,800 Speaker 1: baby all day and her shoulder is tight. She's like, 150 00:07:10,800 --> 00:07:13,160 Speaker 1: we rub my shoulder and I'm like, yeah, I'm rubbing it. 151 00:07:13,160 --> 00:07:18,200 Speaker 1: She's like, okay, we rub it. I'm like, you know what, 152 00:07:18,240 --> 00:07:19,760 Speaker 1: do you not like it? Okay? Then no, if you 153 00:07:19,760 --> 00:07:23,720 Speaker 1: don't like how I'm doing it, there you go right 154 00:07:23,520 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: right and and then I do it for me stuffed, 155 00:07:28,360 --> 00:07:31,240 Speaker 1: I'm stupid, and I don't know if we're just I 156 00:07:31,320 --> 00:07:32,200 Speaker 1: don't know what that's from. 157 00:07:32,400 --> 00:07:32,880 Speaker 3: I don't know. 158 00:07:33,000 --> 00:07:36,280 Speaker 1: I mean, I mean, is trauma. Babed and my son. 159 00:07:36,200 --> 00:07:38,560 Speaker 3: Both have abandonment attachment issues. 160 00:07:38,640 --> 00:07:40,200 Speaker 2: It's got to be trauma based because I deal with 161 00:07:40,280 --> 00:07:41,560 Speaker 2: it too with one of my boys. 162 00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:49,120 Speaker 3: And it is maddening, and really the response should just 163 00:07:49,160 --> 00:07:51,680 Speaker 3: be hey, thanks for picking me up. I'll work on 164 00:07:51,920 --> 00:07:55,280 Speaker 3: getting to the car, like you're right, I should have 165 00:07:55,280 --> 00:07:57,920 Speaker 3: gotten to the car faster. But instead it's well, you 166 00:07:57,960 --> 00:07:59,480 Speaker 3: don't even have stign me to church anymore. 167 00:08:00,560 --> 00:08:03,200 Speaker 1: I think of how inadequate I am in that way. 168 00:08:03,360 --> 00:08:05,720 Speaker 1: And there would be times where if we're running a 169 00:08:05,760 --> 00:08:09,400 Speaker 1: little behind, not really since the baby, because we don't 170 00:08:09,440 --> 00:08:13,200 Speaker 1: go anywhere right now, but if you know, if she's 171 00:08:13,240 --> 00:08:15,960 Speaker 1: fifteen or twenty minutes behind schedule, I'm like, ah, let's 172 00:08:15,960 --> 00:08:16,600 Speaker 1: just not even go. 173 00:08:18,120 --> 00:08:20,120 Speaker 4: Oh man, yeah that's. 174 00:08:19,800 --> 00:08:22,000 Speaker 1: And yeah, She's like it doesn't have to be all 175 00:08:22,080 --> 00:08:24,560 Speaker 1: or nothing, like we could still go. What's the use 176 00:08:24,760 --> 00:08:28,960 Speaker 1: we're not gonna it's I do it a lot, I 177 00:08:28,960 --> 00:08:29,720 Speaker 1: don't think about it. 178 00:08:29,680 --> 00:08:31,440 Speaker 3: But I'm shocked right now you do it with her 179 00:08:31,600 --> 00:08:33,120 Speaker 3: just being like, hey, can you go a little bit 180 00:08:33,160 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 3: more to the right that guy that's where it hurts 181 00:08:34,960 --> 00:08:37,000 Speaker 3: in my shoulder, And you're like, okay, fine, I'm just 182 00:08:37,040 --> 00:08:37,599 Speaker 3: not even gonna do it. 183 00:08:37,640 --> 00:08:38,800 Speaker 1: I don't like it. If you don't like it, then Okay, 184 00:08:38,840 --> 00:08:39,240 Speaker 1: how do you like it? 185 00:08:39,240 --> 00:08:42,679 Speaker 3: No, she's trying to guide I know she's guiding it. 186 00:08:43,160 --> 00:08:45,920 Speaker 1: No, I'm I'm not standing up for me. I'm telling 187 00:08:45,960 --> 00:08:48,080 Speaker 1: you how ridiculous it is and that I do it 188 00:08:48,120 --> 00:08:50,760 Speaker 1: so much. She calls me all or nothing. She says, 189 00:08:50,760 --> 00:08:55,280 Speaker 1: that's something funny. Last night we were I think now 190 00:08:55,679 --> 00:08:57,520 Speaker 1: Billy is only four months old, so we don't know 191 00:08:57,520 --> 00:08:59,280 Speaker 1: if she's right or left handed at all. I'm really 192 00:08:59,360 --> 00:09:02,840 Speaker 1: rooting for left hand because Caitlyn's family is so athletic 193 00:09:03,280 --> 00:09:07,360 Speaker 1: that if she's left handed and she likes sports, ticket 194 00:09:07,800 --> 00:09:11,200 Speaker 1: whatever you wanna play, and so I'm really rooting for 195 00:09:11,280 --> 00:09:13,280 Speaker 1: to be left handed. And so she's doing stuff with 196 00:09:13,320 --> 00:09:15,680 Speaker 1: the right hand a little more. Oh, it's really disappointing me. 197 00:09:16,920 --> 00:09:19,319 Speaker 1: And so I'm like, I want her to be left handed. 198 00:09:19,320 --> 00:09:20,719 Speaker 1: And my wife's like, well, you act like being left 199 00:09:20,720 --> 00:09:22,880 Speaker 1: handed is so hard. I'm like, it is, but I 200 00:09:23,000 --> 00:09:25,680 Speaker 1: wasn't a great athlete. I was a good athlete that 201 00:09:25,679 --> 00:09:27,520 Speaker 1: played smart, so it made me better, but I wasn't 202 00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:29,439 Speaker 1: a great athlete. If you're a great athlete and you'd 203 00:09:29,480 --> 00:09:31,719 Speaker 1: be left handed, like, that's amazing, he said, Yeah, you 204 00:09:31,760 --> 00:09:33,280 Speaker 1: always complained about it because I have a theory that 205 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:34,520 Speaker 1: you were right handed when you start up, but you 206 00:09:34,559 --> 00:09:36,120 Speaker 1: just wanted something to complain about, so you made yourself 207 00:09:36,160 --> 00:09:36,600 Speaker 1: left handed. 208 00:09:37,480 --> 00:09:38,760 Speaker 2: Oh god, that's funny. 209 00:09:38,800 --> 00:09:40,559 Speaker 1: And I was like, what do you mean. She goes, 210 00:09:40,559 --> 00:09:41,840 Speaker 1: I don't know. You need you want to give us 211 00:09:41,840 --> 00:09:43,640 Speaker 1: a little adversity when you were young, So you made 212 00:09:43,679 --> 00:09:46,600 Speaker 1: yourself left handed. And I was like, yeah, that's pretty funny. 213 00:09:46,600 --> 00:09:50,720 Speaker 1: She goes, I bet you're right eye. It probably worked 214 00:09:50,720 --> 00:09:51,960 Speaker 1: for a while. You probably poked. 215 00:09:51,760 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 2: It, so it doesn't work anymore. 216 00:09:53,640 --> 00:09:55,200 Speaker 1: She goes, you need a little adversity. It's got eight 217 00:09:55,240 --> 00:09:58,160 Speaker 1: percent vision. I wonder what happened there. So she's convinced 218 00:09:58,440 --> 00:10:01,400 Speaker 1: it's a joke. But I know, yeah, it's funny that 219 00:10:01,480 --> 00:10:03,040 Speaker 1: all or nothing. Man, I do that all well? 220 00:10:03,240 --> 00:10:05,640 Speaker 3: You have the awareness though, like right now you're very 221 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:06,760 Speaker 3: aware you do it. 222 00:10:06,760 --> 00:10:08,440 Speaker 1: Like yeah, but it was kind of eureka a little 223 00:10:08,440 --> 00:10:09,760 Speaker 1: bit when you were talking about Stevenson. 224 00:10:10,080 --> 00:10:11,880 Speaker 3: I know, but when did you become aware? Because he's 225 00:10:11,920 --> 00:10:14,199 Speaker 3: not aware. I'll call him out on it. And then 226 00:10:14,320 --> 00:10:16,280 Speaker 3: and now we're in denial. We even do that, and 227 00:10:16,320 --> 00:10:17,040 Speaker 3: that's when and then. 228 00:10:17,080 --> 00:10:19,720 Speaker 1: Oh I'm not in denial all right, But he's. 229 00:10:19,360 --> 00:10:22,280 Speaker 3: Like, what I don't. He's like, that's not that's that's 230 00:10:22,320 --> 00:10:24,920 Speaker 3: not what I'm I'm doing. And I don't think he 231 00:10:25,120 --> 00:10:25,440 Speaker 3: I do. 232 00:10:25,679 --> 00:10:26,360 Speaker 2: Well, he's younger. 233 00:10:26,600 --> 00:10:29,360 Speaker 3: He's younger, so I do think he struggles with grasping 234 00:10:29,360 --> 00:10:31,440 Speaker 3: that that's his default and that's what he goes to. 235 00:10:31,840 --> 00:10:35,520 Speaker 3: So I don't think he's he's lying. He just is 236 00:10:35,559 --> 00:10:38,080 Speaker 3: not putting two and two together that that is his default. 237 00:10:38,440 --> 00:10:40,120 Speaker 1: I don't know that there was my that I knew 238 00:10:40,120 --> 00:10:40,959 Speaker 1: that till my wife. 239 00:10:41,960 --> 00:10:45,600 Speaker 3: I think I took you till you were yeah forty. 240 00:10:45,400 --> 00:10:47,040 Speaker 1: Yeah, because I would just not do it. Who I 241 00:10:47,080 --> 00:10:49,319 Speaker 1: didn't have made a report to or share with or 242 00:10:49,400 --> 00:10:51,160 Speaker 1: he was like, okay, not gonna be this way. I 243 00:10:51,200 --> 00:10:53,719 Speaker 1: don't want to do that. I'm out. It's a control thing. 244 00:10:53,720 --> 00:10:56,520 Speaker 1: I'm sure a bit, but there are three things all 245 00:10:56,559 --> 00:10:59,040 Speaker 1: or nothing. These are my things. Well like that way, 246 00:10:59,080 --> 00:11:00,760 Speaker 1: let's just not do it at all. Number one. Number two, 247 00:11:00,760 --> 00:11:02,240 Speaker 1: I'm already under the covers. I don't want to get 248 00:11:02,320 --> 00:11:05,080 Speaker 1: up That drives were crazy. 249 00:11:04,840 --> 00:11:05,680 Speaker 2: Like can you go get me? 250 00:11:05,960 --> 00:11:07,840 Speaker 1: Yeah, if it's anything, and I'm like I could have, 251 00:11:08,000 --> 00:11:11,400 Speaker 1: but now I'm all the way under the covers and 252 00:11:11,400 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 1: I don't like getting up on them all the way 253 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:13,920 Speaker 1: under the covers. That's my thing. And she's like, that's 254 00:11:13,920 --> 00:11:16,440 Speaker 1: everybody's thing. I'm like, no, no, no, but especially me. I 255 00:11:16,520 --> 00:11:18,520 Speaker 1: hate getting up when I'm all the way under the covers. 256 00:11:18,800 --> 00:11:20,000 Speaker 3: But you'll get up. 257 00:11:20,679 --> 00:11:22,320 Speaker 1: Yeah, but I don't like it. It's my thing, okay. 258 00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:24,480 Speaker 1: And then number three is I hate plugging in things 259 00:11:24,520 --> 00:11:32,880 Speaker 1: behind the nightstand. Hate. It drives me insane. Like we 260 00:11:32,920 --> 00:11:34,920 Speaker 1: have baby monitor and I left the charger in the 261 00:11:35,000 --> 00:11:38,120 Speaker 1: kitchen last night and she's like, hey, uh, don't forget 262 00:11:38,160 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 1: to get the charger and plug it back in because 263 00:11:40,160 --> 00:11:41,679 Speaker 1: we'll need it at some point. And I'm like, okay, 264 00:11:41,720 --> 00:11:42,760 Speaker 1: I'll bring it, but I don't want to plug it 265 00:11:42,800 --> 00:11:43,600 Speaker 1: in behind the nightstand. 266 00:11:44,160 --> 00:11:44,800 Speaker 3: What's so hard. 267 00:11:44,880 --> 00:11:46,800 Speaker 1: She's like, why not? That's my thing. I don't like 268 00:11:46,840 --> 00:11:48,680 Speaker 1: plugging stuff in behind the nightstand because then you gotta 269 00:11:48,720 --> 00:11:50,360 Speaker 1: move it. Then you gotta plug it in, you gotta 270 00:11:50,400 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 1: move it back, and it's got to be the right angle. 271 00:11:51,960 --> 00:11:55,200 Speaker 1: That's a thing. I don't like that. Those are the things. 272 00:11:55,600 --> 00:11:57,480 Speaker 1: Imagine being married to me. What the crap? 273 00:11:58,640 --> 00:12:00,880 Speaker 3: Honestly, and you got lunchbucks ever here being like yeah, yeah, 274 00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,240 Speaker 3: that's what's up. 275 00:12:04,920 --> 00:12:05,920 Speaker 1: I'm sorry that happened. 276 00:12:06,480 --> 00:12:10,640 Speaker 3: Well, I'm just I'm thankful I recovered and I apologized. 277 00:12:10,679 --> 00:12:12,920 Speaker 3: I'm sure it will take a little bit of time. 278 00:12:13,160 --> 00:12:15,480 Speaker 3: I just as parents, you don't want. 279 00:12:15,320 --> 00:12:18,000 Speaker 2: To get to that point, get to that point. 280 00:12:18,080 --> 00:12:21,720 Speaker 3: And I've been so I mean, there was this season 281 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,079 Speaker 3: where I yelled a lot because a lot of things 282 00:12:24,080 --> 00:12:27,320 Speaker 3: were just so frustrating and beyond I didn't have the tools. 283 00:12:27,320 --> 00:12:29,160 Speaker 3: And now I have the tools and I have the awareness, 284 00:12:29,200 --> 00:12:32,000 Speaker 3: and I'm like, gosh, darn it, you know, but oh well, 285 00:12:32,120 --> 00:12:35,480 Speaker 3: I think you're coarious. I have awareness. Recovery and owning 286 00:12:35,520 --> 00:12:39,040 Speaker 3: it and apologizing is the best thing because likely Stevenson 287 00:12:39,040 --> 00:12:40,800 Speaker 3: will grow up and lose it sometimes and if he 288 00:12:41,160 --> 00:12:43,880 Speaker 3: is modeled awareness and recovery. 289 00:12:43,480 --> 00:12:48,080 Speaker 1: Then can't fix it if you're not aware of it, right, 290 00:12:48,559 --> 00:12:57,520 Speaker 1: So I think that's right. Yeah, Eddie, tell me some good, 291 00:12:57,520 --> 00:12:58,480 Speaker 1: tell me some suck. What you got? 292 00:12:58,520 --> 00:13:00,240 Speaker 2: I got it good, I think, but I need you 293 00:13:00,320 --> 00:13:04,280 Speaker 2: alls help with it. So my son, he's twelve years old, 294 00:13:04,520 --> 00:13:07,600 Speaker 2: he's played he's played football, he plays basketball, that's kind 295 00:13:07,600 --> 00:13:09,719 Speaker 2: of his number one sport. But he quit football. He's 296 00:13:09,760 --> 00:13:11,320 Speaker 2: not going to do it. So he started talking about 297 00:13:11,360 --> 00:13:13,760 Speaker 2: cross country, and I'm like, well, you know what, Amy 298 00:13:13,880 --> 00:13:19,320 Speaker 2: Stevenson runs cross country. So he ran two miles. I 299 00:13:19,400 --> 00:13:22,680 Speaker 2: clocked him and it was thirteen minutes for two miles. 300 00:13:23,480 --> 00:13:24,360 Speaker 2: Is that good? 301 00:13:24,559 --> 00:13:26,959 Speaker 1: How old is he? Yeah? But he's twelve, he answers yes, anyway, 302 00:13:27,040 --> 00:13:29,240 Speaker 1: especially if that's like his first running. It's his first 303 00:13:29,280 --> 00:13:32,360 Speaker 1: time six and a half minute miles cross country. Yeah. 304 00:13:31,880 --> 00:13:35,000 Speaker 2: Yeah, So how long is a cross country race? 305 00:13:35,400 --> 00:13:37,640 Speaker 3: If you're in middle school, it's two miles. If you're 306 00:13:37,640 --> 00:13:38,800 Speaker 3: in high school, it's three miles. 307 00:13:38,800 --> 00:13:40,840 Speaker 1: Okay, he's in middle school, but that's just a baseline 308 00:13:40,880 --> 00:13:44,240 Speaker 1: to start from. Yeah, without any knowledge or training of 309 00:13:44,280 --> 00:13:44,760 Speaker 1: it whatsoever. 310 00:13:44,880 --> 00:13:47,600 Speaker 2: Because his cousin is really really good, like down in Texas, 311 00:13:47,679 --> 00:13:49,960 Speaker 2: he breaks records, like really really good. And I think 312 00:13:50,120 --> 00:13:52,840 Speaker 2: every time they go down there for the summer, they're like, wow, 313 00:13:52,880 --> 00:13:54,480 Speaker 2: cross country, Like I want to try that, but they 314 00:13:54,480 --> 00:13:56,000 Speaker 2: never do it. And now my son's like, I want 315 00:13:56,000 --> 00:13:56,640 Speaker 2: to give this shot. 316 00:13:56,800 --> 00:13:58,000 Speaker 1: Does he like running in general? 317 00:13:58,120 --> 00:13:59,760 Speaker 2: No, nobody likes running. 318 00:13:59,640 --> 00:14:03,880 Speaker 1: But ide like running twenty miles a week weekend on 319 00:14:03,920 --> 00:14:04,520 Speaker 1: a single run. 320 00:14:04,640 --> 00:14:04,840 Speaker 3: Yeah. 321 00:14:04,840 --> 00:14:05,440 Speaker 1: I love running. 322 00:14:05,440 --> 00:14:06,520 Speaker 2: What do you like about it? 323 00:14:06,559 --> 00:14:08,160 Speaker 1: You clear your mind, You don't think about anything when 324 00:14:08,160 --> 00:14:09,280 Speaker 1: you're running, Like peaceful. 325 00:14:09,320 --> 00:14:10,480 Speaker 4: I'm there, but I'm not there. 326 00:14:10,920 --> 00:14:12,280 Speaker 1: You know, I think about I hate this, I hate this, 327 00:14:12,320 --> 00:14:14,080 Speaker 1: I hate I hate I hate this. I hate this. 328 00:14:14,200 --> 00:14:14,720 Speaker 2: I want to stop. 329 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:17,400 Speaker 1: I want Mike's Instagram story pops up and he's throwing 330 00:14:17,440 --> 00:14:19,080 Speaker 1: his hat at his phone and he's like, just finished 331 00:14:19,080 --> 00:14:23,160 Speaker 1: twenty five miles. That's crazy on a Saturday. How long 332 00:14:23,200 --> 00:14:24,920 Speaker 1: does it take? It takes about three hours? 333 00:14:25,240 --> 00:14:25,680 Speaker 4: Three teen? 334 00:14:26,160 --> 00:14:27,160 Speaker 1: Ray are you still running? 335 00:14:28,000 --> 00:14:30,520 Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm at point five. I just run the neighborhood 336 00:14:30,520 --> 00:14:32,040 Speaker 5: and I'm out, so like four minutes. 337 00:14:32,080 --> 00:14:33,240 Speaker 2: Did you see him running in Vegas? 338 00:14:33,360 --> 00:14:35,200 Speaker 1: Yes, that's why reminded me of running. 339 00:14:35,360 --> 00:14:37,360 Speaker 5: Yeah, I had the time there, so I did three miles. 340 00:14:37,400 --> 00:14:40,000 Speaker 5: I was kind of crazy. I was motivated, motivated by 341 00:14:40,000 --> 00:14:42,680 Speaker 5: the lights and the gambling and people still being awake. 342 00:14:42,800 --> 00:14:44,920 Speaker 5: But in my neighborhood, the max I can do is 343 00:14:44,960 --> 00:14:48,040 Speaker 5: point five because I hate it so bad, and it's 344 00:14:48,080 --> 00:14:48,600 Speaker 5: just one loop. 345 00:14:48,640 --> 00:14:51,400 Speaker 1: That's how I know it's exactly what. It's better than nothing. Yeah, 346 00:14:51,560 --> 00:14:54,080 Speaker 1: at ninety eight percent of people aren't doing point five. 347 00:14:54,200 --> 00:14:54,440 Speaker 4: That's what. 348 00:14:54,640 --> 00:14:56,560 Speaker 5: And the times I do it, I'm like, I think 349 00:14:56,560 --> 00:14:58,840 Speaker 5: the exact same thing. Oh that guy's sitting on his patio, 350 00:14:58,920 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 5: he's not running. Look me point five. Baby, Do you 351 00:15:02,120 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 5: use that as a warm up for a workout? No, No, 352 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:06,000 Speaker 5: that's my workout, the run. 353 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:11,000 Speaker 1: We're the what ninety percent of people aren't doing that? Yep, yep. 354 00:15:11,360 --> 00:15:14,280 Speaker 1: And then my wife motivated her so she started doing it. 355 00:15:14,360 --> 00:15:15,520 Speaker 4: Oh, she's point five in it. 356 00:15:15,760 --> 00:15:18,920 Speaker 1: No, she's now walking while she works. So she does 357 00:15:19,000 --> 00:15:20,120 Speaker 1: six miles. 358 00:15:19,800 --> 00:15:22,200 Speaker 2: Walking like she's on the phone, walking. 359 00:15:22,280 --> 00:15:24,520 Speaker 1: On the computer and phone. Yeah. Oh, well she have 360 00:15:24,840 --> 00:15:25,720 Speaker 1: one of walking mats. 361 00:15:25,800 --> 00:15:28,160 Speaker 2: Yep, I see, I have one of those. But it's dangerous. 362 00:15:28,160 --> 00:15:31,560 Speaker 1: Man, if you look up to say, I have a treadmill, 363 00:15:31,800 --> 00:15:33,600 Speaker 1: and if I'm like dicking out of my phone, or 364 00:15:33,880 --> 00:15:35,360 Speaker 1: I have a TV in there and it's not right 365 00:15:35,360 --> 00:15:37,680 Speaker 1: in the middle, I'm just doing like tumble over to 366 00:15:37,720 --> 00:15:38,160 Speaker 1: the side. 367 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,040 Speaker 2: I tried doing it when I'm watching sports and I 368 00:15:40,400 --> 00:15:41,680 Speaker 2: fall at least three times. 369 00:15:41,920 --> 00:15:45,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, it's it's more dangerous than it is like beneficial. 370 00:15:45,200 --> 00:15:47,440 Speaker 2: And we're not we're not going slow like I have 371 00:15:47,520 --> 00:15:48,400 Speaker 2: it at full speeder. 372 00:15:48,800 --> 00:15:50,880 Speaker 3: Oh well that's why if I'm doing other things that 373 00:15:51,000 --> 00:15:54,000 Speaker 3: you can the walking pad or the treadmill. If you're working, 374 00:15:54,080 --> 00:15:56,800 Speaker 3: you walk slow. It's just that your legs are moving 375 00:15:57,040 --> 00:16:00,680 Speaker 3: while you're you don't have to go powerwalk. 376 00:16:01,280 --> 00:16:03,040 Speaker 1: No, yeah, you have, then why do it if you're 377 00:16:03,080 --> 00:16:03,640 Speaker 1: not gonna do it hard? 378 00:16:03,760 --> 00:16:03,840 Speaker 5: Right? 379 00:16:05,320 --> 00:16:08,440 Speaker 2: I want to sweat if I'm doing it, I want 380 00:16:08,440 --> 00:16:09,000 Speaker 2: to sweat. 381 00:16:09,360 --> 00:16:14,680 Speaker 1: I hear you. Uh keep it up, Ray, Yeah, thank you, lunchbox. 382 00:16:15,200 --> 00:16:18,960 Speaker 6: Yeah, last night had a soccer game and we won 383 00:16:19,160 --> 00:16:21,840 Speaker 6: our first game in the season. We are now one 384 00:16:21,960 --> 00:16:24,600 Speaker 6: in three on the year. Just felt good to get 385 00:16:24,600 --> 00:16:26,880 Speaker 6: that monkey off our back, get the win. So that's 386 00:16:26,960 --> 00:16:27,880 Speaker 6: my tell me something good? 387 00:16:27,880 --> 00:16:28,840 Speaker 1: Are you guys not good? 388 00:16:29,880 --> 00:16:31,160 Speaker 4: No, it's not that we're not good. 389 00:16:31,200 --> 00:16:33,760 Speaker 6: We've lost a couple of nail biers, you know, three two, 390 00:16:33,840 --> 00:16:35,600 Speaker 6: four to two, you give up a goal in the 391 00:16:35,680 --> 00:16:38,800 Speaker 6: last minute, you know, And so this would have just 392 00:16:38,800 --> 00:16:40,760 Speaker 6: felt good to get over the hump and win one. 393 00:16:41,040 --> 00:16:43,040 Speaker 4: And yeah, so that was my tell me something good. 394 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:44,000 Speaker 1: Are you getting to play a lot? 395 00:16:44,800 --> 00:16:46,360 Speaker 4: Yeah? Last night I had to. 396 00:16:46,760 --> 00:16:50,800 Speaker 6: I did have to designate myself to goalie second half 397 00:16:50,800 --> 00:16:52,960 Speaker 6: because I couldn't really run. I was like, ah, guys, 398 00:16:53,040 --> 00:16:56,280 Speaker 6: I'm well, yeah, whatever is in hurting here, can't do it. 399 00:16:56,680 --> 00:16:57,720 Speaker 4: And so why do you. 400 00:16:57,760 --> 00:17:02,480 Speaker 1: Keep playing if it's hurt? Well, I understand loving playing. 401 00:17:02,640 --> 00:17:05,440 Speaker 6: No, No, I stopped for a few months, but it didn't 402 00:17:05,480 --> 00:17:09,160 Speaker 6: change anything, like, it didn't do anything different like I didn't. 403 00:17:09,160 --> 00:17:11,480 Speaker 1: Then you haven't found the right thing to do, is 404 00:17:11,480 --> 00:17:13,720 Speaker 1: what I would say back to that, because it can 405 00:17:13,800 --> 00:17:16,560 Speaker 1: be fixed, you just haven't found yet how to fix. 406 00:17:16,400 --> 00:17:19,240 Speaker 6: It correct if something is wrong, and something will fix 407 00:17:19,280 --> 00:17:22,919 Speaker 6: it eventually been about six thousand doctors at this point. 408 00:17:23,720 --> 00:17:25,360 Speaker 1: Still have to let me see it though, like you're 409 00:17:25,359 --> 00:17:27,120 Speaker 1: not letting us see it to see if we haven't. 410 00:17:27,200 --> 00:17:28,800 Speaker 1: And Bobby's a doctor opinion. 411 00:17:28,600 --> 00:17:33,399 Speaker 6: Right, but it's not always the left guy, it's you know, 412 00:17:33,520 --> 00:17:36,480 Speaker 6: right here in the mids. No, no, no, I'm saying it's 413 00:17:36,520 --> 00:17:38,280 Speaker 6: right here in the mid section, like it's. 414 00:17:38,160 --> 00:17:39,720 Speaker 1: Just like that's where it's starting. 415 00:17:40,000 --> 00:17:42,920 Speaker 6: Yes, And it's just like, oh my gosh, Like last night, 416 00:17:42,960 --> 00:17:45,359 Speaker 6: the left side right there at the belt line was 417 00:17:45,400 --> 00:17:47,639 Speaker 6: just so tight and just like felt weird and I 418 00:17:47,720 --> 00:17:49,560 Speaker 6: just couldn't couldn't sprint. 419 00:17:49,640 --> 00:17:51,600 Speaker 4: It was kind of like, h it's like a struggle. 420 00:17:52,160 --> 00:17:56,080 Speaker 1: Have you done the non doctor things like Cryoh? And 421 00:17:56,080 --> 00:17:59,360 Speaker 1: I'm not saying that it'll help, but whenever something's hard 422 00:17:59,400 --> 00:18:00,960 Speaker 1: on me, I try every like have you done cry 423 00:18:00,960 --> 00:18:01,240 Speaker 1: at all? 424 00:18:01,400 --> 00:18:02,480 Speaker 4: Is that the cold thing? 425 00:18:02,920 --> 00:18:03,000 Speaker 5: No? 426 00:18:03,080 --> 00:18:04,000 Speaker 4: I haven't done that. 427 00:18:03,880 --> 00:18:07,600 Speaker 1: In one session won't heal it. But obviously something is 428 00:18:07,720 --> 00:18:11,240 Speaker 1: very inflamed inside of you, something or even strained. Right, 429 00:18:11,280 --> 00:18:13,760 Speaker 1: it could be even worse than inflamed cryal's great or 430 00:18:13,960 --> 00:18:17,600 Speaker 1: like red light therapy bed, not not just the red light. 431 00:18:17,880 --> 00:18:20,080 Speaker 1: You can get like a like a mask like the 432 00:18:20,200 --> 00:18:21,200 Speaker 1: red light therapy bed. 433 00:18:21,520 --> 00:18:23,000 Speaker 2: Could you put the mask on your junk? 434 00:18:23,119 --> 00:18:25,479 Speaker 1: No, because that's not as strong. The red light's not 435 00:18:25,520 --> 00:18:27,600 Speaker 1: the same. You could go to those. 436 00:18:28,240 --> 00:18:30,320 Speaker 4: Had to look that up. I don't even know what 437 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:30,760 Speaker 4: that is. 438 00:18:30,800 --> 00:18:32,000 Speaker 2: Just google red light therapy. 439 00:18:32,040 --> 00:18:33,800 Speaker 3: It looks like a tanning bed, but it's red light 440 00:18:34,560 --> 00:18:35,359 Speaker 3: like Bobo. 441 00:18:35,440 --> 00:18:37,320 Speaker 1: Our friend has a place called Rita and he has 442 00:18:37,960 --> 00:18:41,320 Speaker 1: those beds there. And again, it's not a fix, but 443 00:18:41,400 --> 00:18:43,119 Speaker 1: you can there are certain things you can do to 444 00:18:43,480 --> 00:18:46,800 Speaker 1: possibly promote the healing. 445 00:18:47,119 --> 00:18:50,240 Speaker 6: Yeah, like, but none of the doctors have said that, like, 446 00:18:50,280 --> 00:18:52,360 Speaker 6: hey man, maybe you should try a red light Like 447 00:18:52,560 --> 00:18:54,160 Speaker 6: no doctor has said that, So I mean maybe that's 448 00:18:54,160 --> 00:18:55,760 Speaker 6: why I've never thought about it or heard about it. 449 00:18:56,400 --> 00:18:59,080 Speaker 6: But I mean, I just can't figure it out. And 450 00:18:59,119 --> 00:19:01,840 Speaker 6: it is so oh frustrate. 451 00:19:02,000 --> 00:19:04,720 Speaker 2: I thought the titans doctors. 452 00:19:04,000 --> 00:19:06,560 Speaker 4: Working on me, but right now it's not working. 453 00:19:06,840 --> 00:19:10,000 Speaker 1: Even specific peptides when I tore my shoulder. That's what 454 00:19:10,080 --> 00:19:11,680 Speaker 1: I did. Shut myself up. 455 00:19:11,800 --> 00:19:13,919 Speaker 3: How many sessions are you into whatever you're doing with 456 00:19:15,359 --> 00:19:18,520 Speaker 3: You've done three and that's all he required. 457 00:19:18,640 --> 00:19:21,600 Speaker 6: Right, yeah, that's what he thought. So we got another 458 00:19:21,640 --> 00:19:23,199 Speaker 6: appointment in thirty days, see how it is. 459 00:19:23,240 --> 00:19:25,439 Speaker 1: And but if you're playing soccer, should you be playing soccer? 460 00:19:25,440 --> 00:19:27,199 Speaker 4: He tells me to. He says, look, man, we are 461 00:19:27,280 --> 00:19:29,120 Speaker 4: three sessions in. You should be able to let it rip. 462 00:19:29,800 --> 00:19:31,879 Speaker 3: Okay, but have you told him you're still in pain there? 463 00:19:31,960 --> 00:19:35,080 Speaker 1: Yeah, and you're letting it rip, but it still hurts. 464 00:19:35,200 --> 00:19:37,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah, yeah. 465 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:40,600 Speaker 2: Do you think the doctor would treat cam Ward like 466 00:19:40,640 --> 00:19:42,800 Speaker 2: this like a star Titans player. 467 00:19:45,040 --> 00:19:48,159 Speaker 1: I think they might go in someone like that, like 468 00:19:48,359 --> 00:19:51,399 Speaker 1: let's fix this today, like am I if it's something 469 00:19:51,440 --> 00:19:54,719 Speaker 1: that is constant, it might go in to look at it. 470 00:19:54,880 --> 00:19:57,560 Speaker 1: He's a surgeon like cut in, oh, cut to look 471 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:58,200 Speaker 1: and see. 472 00:19:58,000 --> 00:20:01,200 Speaker 6: If Lunchbox let him cut, dude, just let them get Yeah, 473 00:20:01,480 --> 00:20:03,600 Speaker 6: I'll let someone cut like if they if they think 474 00:20:03,640 --> 00:20:05,000 Speaker 6: that's what, I will let them cut. 475 00:20:05,040 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 2: Can we start with just letting Bobby watch or look, 476 00:20:09,119 --> 00:20:10,280 Speaker 2: just look just he wants to look at it. 477 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:13,600 Speaker 4: No, I'm telling you right now, it's normal size. 478 00:20:15,040 --> 00:20:18,320 Speaker 6: It's fine right now, Okay, it's right here, like right 479 00:20:18,359 --> 00:20:19,040 Speaker 6: at the belt line. 480 00:20:19,080 --> 00:20:21,639 Speaker 2: It's just like, gosh, so is this tell me something good? 481 00:20:21,720 --> 00:20:22,239 Speaker 4: Or suck for you? 482 00:20:22,840 --> 00:20:24,080 Speaker 1: One? But then I had a lot of questions. 483 00:20:24,119 --> 00:20:27,240 Speaker 4: Yes, it was uh it turned into can you. 484 00:20:27,200 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 1: Play goalie though effectively with hurt stomach? 485 00:20:30,760 --> 00:20:35,120 Speaker 6: I mean really, the team we played wasn't that threatening. 486 00:20:35,440 --> 00:20:37,119 Speaker 6: I did give up one goal on one shot. 487 00:20:37,280 --> 00:20:37,680 Speaker 2: I want. 488 00:20:37,680 --> 00:20:39,280 Speaker 6: I faced one shot and I gave up a goal 489 00:20:39,680 --> 00:20:41,119 Speaker 6: and the guy was coming. I said, this is my 490 00:20:41,280 --> 00:20:43,280 Speaker 6: time for shine out loud, and then he kicked. 491 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:44,520 Speaker 4: It right by me. I was like, oh my bad. 492 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:46,520 Speaker 1: Do you guys do penalty kicks in your league? Yeah, 493 00:20:46,640 --> 00:20:48,360 Speaker 1: that's fine. That seems hard. 494 00:20:48,440 --> 00:20:50,359 Speaker 2: You're not worried that like it's going to hit your 495 00:20:50,880 --> 00:20:52,320 Speaker 2: your nut while you're goaling? 496 00:20:52,680 --> 00:20:55,200 Speaker 6: Well, I mean it could hit my but that that's 497 00:20:55,240 --> 00:20:58,480 Speaker 6: just normal. Getting racked. I mean that happens. 498 00:20:59,040 --> 00:21:01,760 Speaker 1: What if you rack yourself and it solves it? You 499 00:21:01,760 --> 00:21:02,840 Speaker 1: don't know because you haven't tried that. 500 00:21:02,920 --> 00:21:04,439 Speaker 4: No, No, I have My kids punched me there all 501 00:21:04,440 --> 00:21:04,680 Speaker 4: the time. 502 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:07,240 Speaker 1: It's not like I right out of you. 503 00:21:07,280 --> 00:21:09,240 Speaker 2: I mean, you know my seven year old does that? 504 00:21:09,320 --> 00:21:11,480 Speaker 4: Accidental hands they're they're right at the right height, and 505 00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:11,840 Speaker 4: they just. 506 00:21:11,960 --> 00:21:14,160 Speaker 2: Oh it's funny to them for some reason. 507 00:21:15,840 --> 00:21:19,760 Speaker 1: Oh, frustrating, very frustrating. I just take a year off. 508 00:21:21,840 --> 00:21:24,080 Speaker 4: No, I can't take a year off. I mean you could, 509 00:21:24,440 --> 00:21:25,200 Speaker 4: I mean I could. 510 00:21:25,240 --> 00:21:26,879 Speaker 6: But like I said, I took two two and a 511 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:29,280 Speaker 6: half months off and nothing. 512 00:21:29,640 --> 00:21:31,600 Speaker 4: It didn't change it, like it didn't like. 513 00:21:31,359 --> 00:21:33,960 Speaker 1: Like you have shin splints of the testicles. What would 514 00:21:33,960 --> 00:21:35,080 Speaker 1: you do if you had shin splints? 515 00:21:35,280 --> 00:21:35,560 Speaker 2: I don't know. 516 00:21:35,600 --> 00:21:36,320 Speaker 4: I've never had them. 517 00:21:36,960 --> 00:21:39,680 Speaker 1: With all your running, you never had luckier you. 518 00:21:39,680 --> 00:21:40,640 Speaker 4: Yeah, never had them. 519 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:43,639 Speaker 6: People tell me how like painful they are, but I 520 00:21:43,760 --> 00:21:44,920 Speaker 6: never experienced that pain. 521 00:21:45,080 --> 00:21:46,840 Speaker 1: I've had them, and I don't even run like I have 522 00:21:46,880 --> 00:21:50,119 Speaker 1: the little seasons of where I run as part of 523 00:21:50,160 --> 00:21:51,920 Speaker 1: workouts and I've had them. 524 00:21:51,960 --> 00:21:54,720 Speaker 4: All right, Well, sorry dude, Yeah, thanks man. 525 00:21:54,760 --> 00:21:58,520 Speaker 1: Cong on your win though. Yeah, thanks guys, Ray all 526 00:21:58,560 --> 00:22:00,680 Speaker 1: your boys from basketball hitting you up. I saw one 527 00:22:00,720 --> 00:22:03,640 Speaker 1: posting tag me in a Instagram story yesterday, the. 528 00:22:03,640 --> 00:22:08,520 Speaker 5: Three big Dogs, Capudo, Nicky Buckets and then Murph. 529 00:22:08,880 --> 00:22:09,280 Speaker 1: All of them. 530 00:22:09,359 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 5: Yeah, they dm me and they're all following the show 531 00:22:11,480 --> 00:22:13,320 Speaker 5: and they all listen to the show, so they knew 532 00:22:13,320 --> 00:22:13,560 Speaker 5: of you. 533 00:22:13,840 --> 00:22:14,600 Speaker 1: Murph the Champ. 534 00:22:14,920 --> 00:22:16,840 Speaker 5: Yeah, they knew you, they just didn't know me, and 535 00:22:16,920 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 5: so then they finally put it together. 536 00:22:18,200 --> 00:22:19,040 Speaker 1: But yeah, they DM me. 537 00:22:19,080 --> 00:22:22,000 Speaker 5: It was pretty cool and they said, hey, man, mad respect, 538 00:22:22,240 --> 00:22:24,919 Speaker 5: you showed up and like you showed out, So to 539 00:22:24,960 --> 00:22:27,240 Speaker 5: get those messages from those legends was pretty cool. 540 00:22:27,440 --> 00:22:29,199 Speaker 1: I actually got excited about some DMS. 541 00:22:29,240 --> 00:22:32,040 Speaker 5: I was like, that's sometimes why you go into the DMS, 542 00:22:32,040 --> 00:22:33,360 Speaker 5: because there's good stuff like that. 543 00:22:33,560 --> 00:22:35,800 Speaker 1: Pop a shot, Murph the Champ. 544 00:22:36,240 --> 00:22:38,360 Speaker 5: Oh, and he even said he's like, yep, collared shirt guy, 545 00:22:38,440 --> 00:22:39,760 Speaker 5: drinking the bud lights, the. 546 00:22:39,760 --> 00:22:41,160 Speaker 1: Common Man's champion. 547 00:22:41,320 --> 00:22:45,040 Speaker 5: MURFH Like, who shows up to a widely known as 548 00:22:45,080 --> 00:22:47,320 Speaker 5: a basketball tournament. You're gonna be playing basketball for two 549 00:22:47,400 --> 00:22:50,680 Speaker 5: straight hours. He's in a collared shirt and golf shorts. 550 00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:55,120 Speaker 5: I'm like, Murphe, that's freaking Murph. Murph has all my respect. 551 00:22:55,200 --> 00:22:56,879 Speaker 5: And he shows up and wins the thing and had 552 00:22:56,920 --> 00:22:58,880 Speaker 5: a bucket of bud lights the entire time. 553 00:22:58,720 --> 00:23:00,760 Speaker 1: He's up against like a nineteen. You're all doing double 554 00:23:00,800 --> 00:23:04,439 Speaker 1: hand throws and Murphy's just solid one boom, not missing, 555 00:23:04,520 --> 00:23:05,520 Speaker 1: boom boom. 556 00:23:05,760 --> 00:23:05,879 Speaker 5: Uh. 557 00:23:05,960 --> 00:23:09,520 Speaker 1: Okay, there you go. That's what it's all about. It's 558 00:23:09,600 --> 00:23:16,359 Speaker 1: time for the good News Bobby Boom. Last week, a 559 00:23:16,600 --> 00:23:19,879 Speaker 1: Washington man used his own car to safely stop and 560 00:23:19,920 --> 00:23:23,199 Speaker 1: out of control suv after seeing it weave across I 561 00:23:23,359 --> 00:23:27,800 Speaker 1: five near Tacoma. Paul reconized something was wrong because the 562 00:23:27,880 --> 00:23:30,320 Speaker 1: driver appeared to be having a medical emergency in the car, 563 00:23:30,400 --> 00:23:31,520 Speaker 1: was going all over the place, and there was a 564 00:23:31,600 --> 00:23:34,480 Speaker 1: kid in the car. So he positioned his car alongside 565 00:23:34,480 --> 00:23:36,560 Speaker 1: the suv and just kind of guided it, pushed it 566 00:23:37,200 --> 00:23:40,320 Speaker 1: into the concrete barrier slowly until both vehicles came to 567 00:23:40,359 --> 00:23:40,800 Speaker 1: a stop. 568 00:23:41,000 --> 00:23:41,400 Speaker 2: Wow. 569 00:23:42,119 --> 00:23:44,240 Speaker 1: He then put the suv in park, helped the kid 570 00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:49,360 Speaker 1: get out, stayed with the driver, called first responders, came, man, 571 00:23:49,440 --> 00:23:52,440 Speaker 1: that's like, I forgot what they called those when cops 572 00:23:52,480 --> 00:23:55,439 Speaker 1: get in front and they do those tactical maneuvers, but 573 00:23:55,480 --> 00:23:58,000 Speaker 1: they say something and they have the way to pull 574 00:23:58,000 --> 00:23:58,480 Speaker 1: people over. 575 00:23:58,600 --> 00:24:00,200 Speaker 3: Oh, they said, what do they say? They say out 576 00:24:00,200 --> 00:24:00,760 Speaker 3: of their allowed to. 577 00:24:02,160 --> 00:24:04,840 Speaker 1: Well, yeah, it's something it's called like tactical maneuver. It's 578 00:24:04,840 --> 00:24:07,760 Speaker 1: not called tactical maneuver. I haven't been a police officer long, 579 00:24:08,040 --> 00:24:11,159 Speaker 1: but they say say something like they just pit maneuver. 580 00:24:11,760 --> 00:24:15,479 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's like a pit that's what they say, puver maneuver. 581 00:24:15,560 --> 00:24:18,640 Speaker 1: Pit maneuver sounds like, yeah, pig maneuver, but. 582 00:24:18,640 --> 00:24:20,200 Speaker 2: Like the cops don't care about their car. 583 00:24:20,400 --> 00:24:22,239 Speaker 1: I know this guy, you got to commit because you're 584 00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:27,520 Speaker 1: damaging your car. Yeah, so one. 585 00:24:27,760 --> 00:24:31,120 Speaker 2: He heard his car, but two it worked amazing and. 586 00:24:31,080 --> 00:24:32,800 Speaker 1: It didn't like kill because you're putting your own life 587 00:24:32,840 --> 00:24:36,960 Speaker 1: at risk whenever you're pushing your car up against another car. So, uh, 588 00:24:37,119 --> 00:24:41,280 Speaker 1: the successful pit maneuver from Paul Jackson. That's from Sunny Skies. 589 00:24:41,359 --> 00:24:43,240 Speaker 1: That is a great story. That is what it's all about. 590 00:24:47,160 --> 00:24:49,159 Speaker 3: So a seven year old girl was having a birthday 591 00:24:49,160 --> 00:24:52,440 Speaker 3: party and everyone she invited they had to cancel, so 592 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:53,600 Speaker 3: nobody was coming. 593 00:24:53,760 --> 00:24:54,240 Speaker 1: Everyone. 594 00:24:54,920 --> 00:24:59,000 Speaker 3: Yeah, So her mom, Melanie, shared their situation on social media. 595 00:24:59,400 --> 00:25:03,200 Speaker 3: More than a hundred and fifty people responded. Within minutes, 596 00:25:03,240 --> 00:25:06,000 Speaker 3: in several families headed to the party at a local 597 00:25:06,000 --> 00:25:09,000 Speaker 3: pizza restaurant. Many of the families arrived with birthday gifts, 598 00:25:09,040 --> 00:25:11,880 Speaker 3: and one young boy even brought one of his own 599 00:25:11,960 --> 00:25:15,639 Speaker 3: toys for Chloe to have. All the kids started playing 600 00:25:15,680 --> 00:25:17,600 Speaker 3: together and it was just a really special moment where 601 00:25:17,600 --> 00:25:21,040 Speaker 3: a community definitely rallied. One hundred and fifty people. 602 00:25:21,680 --> 00:25:23,600 Speaker 1: That's crazy. Don't have enough cake. First of all, so 603 00:25:23,720 --> 00:25:29,480 Speaker 1: I think two, everyone canceled bad weather? Why does everyone? 604 00:25:29,960 --> 00:25:31,840 Speaker 3: I don't have the details on that. It just says 605 00:25:31,880 --> 00:25:35,160 Speaker 3: every invited guest had to cancel, and who knows, maybe 606 00:25:35,200 --> 00:25:36,480 Speaker 3: they only invited a few people. 607 00:25:37,600 --> 00:25:40,000 Speaker 1: You know the story I've told I rented out the 608 00:25:40,040 --> 00:25:41,840 Speaker 1: old gym in Mountain Pine when I was a kid 609 00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:44,600 Speaker 1: twenty five bucks. It was a really old basketball gym 610 00:25:44,640 --> 00:25:47,000 Speaker 1: they had in the fifties, and I invited that they 611 00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:48,920 Speaker 1: had roller skates in there already where we're going to 612 00:25:48,960 --> 00:25:51,600 Speaker 1: play broom hockey and basketball. And nobody came. 613 00:25:52,000 --> 00:25:54,000 Speaker 2: And you paid the twenty five bucks, like out of 614 00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:54,640 Speaker 2: your pocket? 615 00:25:54,680 --> 00:25:57,520 Speaker 1: Well yeah, because I ran the gym. Yeah no, and 616 00:25:57,560 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 1: nobody came. And you know what, you know who didn't 617 00:25:59,040 --> 00:26:00,560 Speaker 1: show up that town. 618 00:26:01,680 --> 00:26:02,880 Speaker 2: Well they didn't know about it, I. 619 00:26:02,840 --> 00:26:04,640 Speaker 3: Know, But we didn't have social media then. 620 00:26:04,840 --> 00:26:07,080 Speaker 1: I know, I should have the town crier go out 621 00:26:07,080 --> 00:26:10,160 Speaker 1: there and do some crying good story. I'm glad everybody 622 00:26:10,200 --> 00:26:12,520 Speaker 1: showed up and made her feel special. That is what 623 00:26:12,560 --> 00:26:13,160 Speaker 1: it's all about. 624 00:26:13,920 --> 00:26:15,440 Speaker 4: That was telling me something good.