WEBVTT - The Bad Proposals 0:00:00.680 --> 0:00:03.440 From Hollywood to you. Thank you for listening to us. 0:00:03.560 --> 0:00:11.040 Ryan Air with Ryan Seacrest, It's Sisney and e J. 0:00:11.600 --> 0:00:18.800 Good morning. How are you feeling? If you really feel? 0:00:18.880 --> 0:00:20.880 If I could put it into sounds, that's how. I 0:00:21.040 --> 0:00:23.320 don't know why it was so hard this morning. This 0:00:23.360 --> 0:00:26.239 morning was so hard, funny like Monday, I popped right 0:00:26.320 --> 0:00:28.600 up and I was like, let's do this, And today 0:00:28.600 --> 0:00:31.320 it was a struggle. And dare I say I felt 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.800 a chill this morning. I woke. When I was walking 0:00:33.840 --> 0:00:35.600 into the building, I was like, oh, I feel like 0:00:35.640 --> 0:00:38.080 a little cold. Yeah, it's a little chili. They were 0:00:38.080 --> 0:00:40.400 talking about that, not like little chili, but they were 0:00:40.440 --> 0:00:44.080 talking about how there was like some marine layer or 0:00:44.080 --> 0:00:45.800 something like that on the news this morning when I 0:00:45.880 --> 0:00:48.600 was when I was getting ready this morning, it's definitely 0:00:48.600 --> 0:00:49.839 a lot of cooler. Attemps are gonna be in the 0:00:49.880 --> 0:00:52.879 upper eighties, but to low hundreds Inland still, but low 0:00:53.000 --> 0:00:56.360 hundred for eighties. I'll take it. It's not bad. I 0:00:56.400 --> 0:00:58.400 love the humidity though. It just feels so good on 0:00:58.480 --> 0:01:01.680 my skin. And apparently today is National Fahita Day. It 0:01:02.440 --> 0:01:06.120 is after Oh my gosh, no, it'll be like ten 0:01:06.160 --> 0:01:10.480 in the morning. Tell you ten in the morning for 0:01:10.560 --> 0:01:13.600 us is literally like one o'clock for everybody else. I 0:01:13.640 --> 0:01:17.960 mean it's kind of true. Don Cuco's margarita, some fajitas, 0:01:18.440 --> 0:01:21.760 don't I have a workout at yes, if I eat 0:01:21.800 --> 0:01:24.679 fahitas and then, but you're supposed to have the protein 0:01:24.760 --> 0:01:27.200 before you work out, right, but not the beans and 0:01:27.280 --> 0:01:29.400 the rise in the tortillas. Don't have to eat all that, 0:01:29.600 --> 0:01:32.920 just like the protein and the vegetables. I'm trying. It's 0:01:32.920 --> 0:01:39.000 called balance, it's called being a bad We haven't awe 0:01:39.319 --> 0:01:42.120 Ryan's Roses for you today. Not get this and actually 0:01:42.160 --> 0:01:45.040 this actually makes sense with what we were talking about yesterday. Ruby, 0:01:45.440 --> 0:01:48.760 a friend of hers insists that she saw her husband 0:01:48.840 --> 0:01:53.280 with another woman. I guess it take Third Street Promenade 0:01:53.360 --> 0:01:56.360 or something like that. But they were actually holding hands, 0:01:57.080 --> 0:02:00.480 so there's a little bit of evidence there and now, 0:02:00.520 --> 0:02:02.520 but the wife so she went and she actually told 0:02:02.560 --> 0:02:05.000 the wife. So she tells the wife, and the wife 0:02:05.280 --> 0:02:07.760 wants us to make the call to shut the friend up. 0:02:09.960 --> 0:02:11.799 She believes her. Man, I let me tell you, I 0:02:11.919 --> 0:02:15.440 love he's Ryan Roses, so beige flags. I want to 0:02:15.440 --> 0:02:17.760 talk about him because we all know what red flags are. 0:02:18.040 --> 0:02:21.480 Those are obvious, someone who's maybe controlling, a narcissist, rude 0:02:21.480 --> 0:02:24.280 to waiters just overall in the mean person. I understand, 0:02:24.320 --> 0:02:26.560 how could you be rude to somebody that's bringing you 0:02:26.560 --> 0:02:29.919 your food. I know, it's not ridiculous, it's that ridiculous. 0:02:30.840 --> 0:02:33.080 And then we talked about pink flags before on on 0:02:33.120 --> 0:02:34.680 Here a few weeks ago. I don't know if you've 0:02:34.680 --> 0:02:38.120 heard of If you're price sleeping, probably I probably was 0:02:38.240 --> 0:02:40.040 knocked out when you guys were coming on the air. 0:02:40.240 --> 0:02:44.560 So pink flags um are someone that's like, it's more 0:02:44.600 --> 0:02:48.040 like annoying things, like they're into video games or there. 0:02:48.760 --> 0:02:54.320 Whoa whoa, whoa, whoa whoa. I am not into video games, 0:02:54.320 --> 0:02:56.120 but I am here to defend all of the people 0:02:56.320 --> 0:02:58.440 that are into video games. I think it takes a 0:02:58.560 --> 0:03:03.480 special skill and as actual like you know, thin super 0:03:03.520 --> 0:03:07.400 analytical videos. Sure, but if it starts like overtaking into 0:03:07.440 --> 0:03:10.959 your relationship and taking time away from the relationship, that's 0:03:10.960 --> 0:03:14.480 when it becomes a pink flag. Or if they're close 0:03:14.560 --> 0:03:17.480 with their ex pink flag, it's like, okay, find your 0:03:17.520 --> 0:03:21.040 friendly fine. I'd rather that than have them hate their 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:25.840 x so um things like that. So now we have 0:03:25.840 --> 0:03:28.640 a whole new flag. It's the beige flag, and this 0:03:28.680 --> 0:03:32.880 is more dating apps specific, and it has to do 0:03:33.040 --> 0:03:35.960 with someone that kind of is not really putting in 0:03:36.000 --> 0:03:39.400 the effort into their dating profile. So it typically means 0:03:39.400 --> 0:03:42.040 that the conversation and then potentially the date that might 0:03:42.080 --> 0:03:47.360 follow could also kind of be dull and unsuccessful. So 0:03:47.440 --> 0:03:49.560 it is a beige flag. So when you're sitting there 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:52.440 swiping on dating apps and you see someone that kind 0:03:52.440 --> 0:03:55.200 of like maybe has a their their initial profile picture 0:03:55.280 --> 0:03:58.080 is a group picture, not a solo pick, that's kind 0:03:58.080 --> 0:04:02.160 of them just being like the worst? Is that the worst? 0:04:02.520 --> 0:04:05.560 What if it's somebody who's just not necessarily into technology, 0:04:05.600 --> 0:04:06.840 because I feel like that there are a lot of 0:04:06.840 --> 0:04:09.360 people like that that's out there. Well, I think so too. 0:04:09.440 --> 0:04:11.040 That might be the case that they're new to apps 0:04:11.040 --> 0:04:13.800 in general and they don't really know how to make it, 0:04:13.920 --> 0:04:15.880 how to fluff it up right, because I feel like 0:04:15.920 --> 0:04:17.560 a lot of people get in their head when they're 0:04:17.600 --> 0:04:20.479 trying to, you know, put themselves out there on a 0:04:20.560 --> 0:04:22.960 dating app. Well, there's a lot of examples here of 0:04:23.080 --> 0:04:25.320 beige flags, and some of these I was kind of 0:04:25.360 --> 0:04:29.400 surprised by because I'm like, that's not that bad. References 0:04:29.440 --> 0:04:31.520 to the Office, So if they know a lot of 0:04:31.600 --> 0:04:35.800 like one liners or like memes or I'm like, I 0:04:35.920 --> 0:04:38.279 like the Office. It's kind of funny. But I'm like, wow, 0:04:38.320 --> 0:04:41.000 maybe I'm a beige flag type of person. I'm probably 0:04:41.040 --> 0:04:43.279 the only person that's never seen that episode of the Office, 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:46.520 not one, not one. When people make references, I'm like, 0:04:47.360 --> 0:04:49.720 I don't. Honestly, I never watched it religiously, Like I 0:04:49.720 --> 0:04:51.919 don't know it as well as Friends, like I watched 0:04:51.920 --> 0:04:55.200 Friends like way more. But um but I watched episodes 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.479 from here and there, and it's funny, Like I have 0:04:57.520 --> 0:05:01.600 no idea what Steve Correll's character is, so we'll go 0:05:01.680 --> 0:05:06.600 pass that. So using dogs as a personality trait, so 0:05:06.720 --> 0:05:09.039 too many pigs of their dogs, that's a beige flag. 0:05:09.680 --> 0:05:13.400 Mentioning cryptocurrency, going on and on about cryptocurrency and their 0:05:13.440 --> 0:05:17.080 dating profile, and I mean, what if that's just something 0:05:17.120 --> 0:05:20.240 that they're into. It is kind of annoying. I've been 0:05:20.240 --> 0:05:22.360 in conversations with people go on and on about crypto 0:05:22.400 --> 0:05:30.039 and I'm just like, our meeting, like that's dog going 0:05:30.080 --> 0:05:35.159 was hot? Okay. They complain about being on dating apps 0:05:35.240 --> 0:05:37.120 in their profile it's like, well, then why are you here? 0:05:38.240 --> 0:05:40.240 And then they don't answer any of the prompts because 0:05:40.240 --> 0:05:41.560 some of the dating apps don't. They give you like 0:05:41.560 --> 0:05:44.479 specific questions that you're supposed to answer released like a question, 0:05:44.560 --> 0:05:46.880 and then you answer it and you're just like not answering, 0:05:47.040 --> 0:05:49.000 so you just people leave him blak or what I 0:05:49.040 --> 0:05:51.840 think you just don't answer directly. Oh so you answer 0:05:51.920 --> 0:05:55.360 with your own like sarcastic yeah answer. Oh that's annoying. 0:05:55.760 --> 0:05:57.520 And then this one kind of surprised me. But it's 0:05:57.520 --> 0:06:01.760 a beige flag. Jim selfies you this. Let me tell 0:06:01.880 --> 0:06:05.640 you something, Guys in this room. I sometimes when you're 0:06:05.680 --> 0:06:08.440 at the gym, you just had like a dope workout 0:06:08.560 --> 0:06:10.800 and you look in that mirror and you see yourself, 0:06:10.880 --> 0:06:14.520 you just gotta snap a pick. Never never, I never 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:17.159 feel no one's ever done that. I mean, I guess 0:06:17.160 --> 0:06:19.680 I feel great, like endorphin wise after a workout, but 0:06:19.720 --> 0:06:21.960 not enough for me to look take a picture. Let 0:06:22.000 --> 0:06:24.599 me tell you, I'll be like, oh okay, and I'll 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:30.320 have the Hucci Daddy's on. I'm like, yeah, you're I 0:06:30.360 --> 0:06:36.160 feel like it's like J d J d J e J. 0:06:36.279 --> 0:06:38.080 What's going on with you in this tie restaurant. What happened? 0:06:38.160 --> 0:06:41.120 So I was at this tie restaurant and I was 0:06:41.240 --> 0:06:43.880 so hungry. So I feel like you've been out with me. 0:06:44.000 --> 0:06:45.760 I'd like to order a lot of things. So I 0:06:45.839 --> 0:06:48.320 go in there, I sit down, I look at the 0:06:48.400 --> 0:06:50.520 menu and I'm like, I want this, I want that, 0:06:50.640 --> 0:06:52.600 i want this, so literally eating with my eyes. You 0:06:52.640 --> 0:06:54.880 ever go into a restaurant and you're literally your eyes 0:06:54.920 --> 0:06:56.840 are bigger than your stomach for me? And then I 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.680 never finished everything. That was the case with me. So 0:06:59.839 --> 0:07:02.800 I ordered, you know, just probably like just a couple 0:07:02.839 --> 0:07:04.440 of things off of the menu. And as I was 0:07:04.640 --> 0:07:08.200 ordering it, the waitress goes, that's a lot of food. 0:07:08.240 --> 0:07:10.480 Are you sure you want all of that? And I'm like, um, 0:07:11.920 --> 0:07:14.040 you're like this like a sit down, I'm sitting down, 0:07:14.120 --> 0:07:18.560 and she's literally done, you don't order this, judging me 0:07:18.800 --> 0:07:20.800 as I'm ordering all of this food, and she's like, 0:07:20.880 --> 0:07:22.760 that's a lot of food. You sure you want all 0:07:22.760 --> 0:07:25.240 of that? And I'm like, lady, I can put a 0:07:25.360 --> 0:07:28.240 lot of food away. Why would you discourage me from 0:07:28.360 --> 0:07:31.280 ordering all of this food? I know? And she doesn't know. 0:07:31.360 --> 0:07:33.440 If you like leftover and you want to take it home, 0:07:33.480 --> 0:07:35.840 probably like leftover Thai food is I feel like it 0:07:35.880 --> 0:07:38.120 tastes better than when you reheat it because all of 0:07:38.200 --> 0:07:40.640 the seasoning is probably like soaked in, you know, when 0:07:40.800 --> 0:07:43.360 you put it into the refrigerator. But I was so 0:07:43.560 --> 0:07:46.800 taken back by her saying that to me. So then 0:07:46.840 --> 0:07:49.680 what happened. I ruined your home. It ruined my whole experience. 0:07:49.760 --> 0:07:51.280 So you know what's interesting, I feel like I cut 0:07:51.360 --> 0:07:53.760 my visit short just because she said that. So I 0:07:53.840 --> 0:07:56.240 literally took a couple of bites of everything, and I 0:07:56.320 --> 0:07:58.040 was like, can we wrap this up? I mean, I 0:07:58.120 --> 0:08:00.240 mean I need to go. It was like all ready, 0:08:00.240 --> 0:08:02.320 and I was like yes, because this is too much food. 0:08:02.800 --> 0:08:05.480 That is so I don't understand people to have no filter, 0:08:05.640 --> 0:08:07.840 and like, how do you not realize when you're being 0:08:07.920 --> 0:08:12.160 rude rich, especially in a restaurant when you want me 0:08:12.360 --> 0:08:14.840 to run up, run up my bills so you can 0:08:14.880 --> 0:08:16.680 get that good tip. And I still tipped her well, 0:08:16.760 --> 0:08:18.920 because you know, I know it's a struggle for for 0:08:19.040 --> 0:08:21.960 people out there. But I'm saying though, I I felt 0:08:22.000 --> 0:08:24.680 a certain type of way when she said that to me. Yeah, 0:08:24.760 --> 0:08:28.160 it's crazy, like one comment from somebody can just completely 0:08:28.240 --> 0:08:31.080 like derail the whole experience of whatever it may be. 0:08:31.400 --> 0:08:33.160 What did you order, by the way, I ordered some 0:08:33.800 --> 0:08:37.839 drunken noodles, the chicken skewers, you know what I'm talking about, 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:43.000 some spring rolls, um vegetable egg rolls, and uh, some 0:08:43.520 --> 0:08:53.520 basil fried rice. I mean, you know, but I had 0:08:53.600 --> 0:08:56.000 it the next day. It's so funny when when Michael 0:08:56.000 --> 0:08:58.199 and I ordered take out, or we do Postmates or something, 0:08:58.920 --> 0:09:01.880 you can always tell how much like they think people 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:06.240 are eating because the sun like six pairs of chopsticks 0:09:07.520 --> 0:09:12.319 or six or seven for it's just us too, it's 0:09:12.360 --> 0:09:18.559 definitely not. But we like having a bunch of different 0:09:18.600 --> 0:09:23.000 flavors exactly and options. I wanted to have some dinner 0:09:23.120 --> 0:09:25.000 for the next night and some lunch, you know what 0:09:25.080 --> 0:09:27.360 I mean, that's the way to do it. I love 0:09:27.440 --> 0:09:29.360 that kind. I believe she said that to me, though, 0:09:29.400 --> 0:09:32.040 Are you going to go back there? Though? No, see 0:09:32.160 --> 0:09:35.240 that's it for you, oh man, And the food wasn't 0:09:35.280 --> 0:09:38.079 that great? So well, that makes a difference. Sn I'm 0:09:38.120 --> 0:09:39.760 the same way though someone rubs you the wrong way 0:09:39.880 --> 0:09:42.680 at a business, I'm done. You're done. You can't swim 0:09:42.760 --> 0:09:45.160 me back. I'm done. So is it. Sometimes whenever I 0:09:45.240 --> 0:09:47.199 walk into a store and they don't say hello to me, 0:09:47.320 --> 0:09:52.480 I'll turn around and be like that petty, actually prefer 0:09:52.640 --> 0:09:57.839 that you talk to me. I'm like shopping but saying, 0:09:57.880 --> 0:10:00.440 but I want the hello or you know, come into 0:10:00.480 --> 0:10:03.400 our I love that, but after that, don't talk to 0:10:03.480 --> 0:10:06.880 me like I'm good, you know. And it's always interesting 0:10:06.880 --> 0:10:08.600 when they're like, did you find everything that you need? 0:10:08.679 --> 0:10:12.920 I was like I needed none of this. I don't know. Yeah, 0:10:12.920 --> 0:10:15.079 I know. I stopped going to this nail salon that 0:10:15.080 --> 0:10:17.280 I had been going to for gosh over ten years 0:10:18.600 --> 0:10:21.959 because I had an appointment and I showed up, but 0:10:22.040 --> 0:10:24.240 they basically couldn't see me at my time that I 0:10:24.320 --> 0:10:26.319 had my appointment, and like I was like on a 0:10:26.400 --> 0:10:28.839 time crunch and that was it. And I just got 0:10:28.880 --> 0:10:30.839 so mad that day and I never went back. I 0:10:31.000 --> 0:10:34.080 never went back, you know what it was. They didn't 0:10:34.080 --> 0:10:36.560 seem so sorry, right, They were just like being rude 0:10:36.559 --> 0:10:37.719 about it. They were like we just have to wait, 0:10:37.800 --> 0:10:40.839 and I was like no, Like I was done. I 0:10:40.920 --> 0:10:42.760 was like, I've been a customer for you guys for 0:10:42.920 --> 0:10:45.600 so many years, Like this is it. I never want 0:10:45.600 --> 0:10:46.679 to tell you about the time I went to the 0:10:46.720 --> 0:10:50.120 barbershop and he told me to come there was like 0:10:50.640 --> 0:10:52.720 thirty or something like that. I get there, there's someone 0:10:52.800 --> 0:10:59.240 else in the chair, and so I actually waited and 0:10:59.360 --> 0:11:01.679 I got up. It walked out when when he was 0:11:01.760 --> 0:11:04.199 done right, because I was supposed to be there in 0:11:04.280 --> 0:11:06.959 the chair thirty minutes prior. So I am that guy. 0:11:07.160 --> 0:11:10.559 Petty petty, petty, petty, petty. It is time for the 0:11:10.679 --> 0:11:13.320 six fifty shout out eight hundred five to oh one 0:11:13.440 --> 0:11:15.440 or two seven. Who would you like to shout out 0:11:15.559 --> 0:11:18.400 this morning? Anybody in your life? A lot of schools 0:11:18.640 --> 0:11:21.440 going back this week, by the way, a Zooza unified 0:11:21.520 --> 0:11:24.599 Baldwin Park. So shout out to you guys. Time for 0:11:24.679 --> 0:11:30.080 your six fifty shoutouts. Let's go to Pomona. Hello, William, 0:11:30.480 --> 0:11:33.920 shout it out. Hey, good morning guys. I wanted to 0:11:33.960 --> 0:11:36.920 shout out my little sister in Naomi still to Biorita 0:11:37.040 --> 0:11:39.839 was starting her first day of high school. However, I 0:11:40.000 --> 0:11:46.120 honestly she's not going to be there today. Look at her. 0:11:46.200 --> 0:11:50.360 Just yeah. My mom decided to take her on vacations, 0:11:50.760 --> 0:11:52.760 her vacation. It's the first day. I was excited, and 0:11:52.840 --> 0:11:55.360 she's not gonna make it today or tomorrow. So she 0:11:55.480 --> 0:12:04.000 starts Monday. Ninth grade should be fine. I thought that 0:12:04.120 --> 0:12:06.480 was ironic right here, these shout outs, and I'm like, well, 0:12:06.520 --> 0:12:08.079 I want to shout out a listener, but she's not 0:12:08.120 --> 0:12:11.679 gonna make it. She starts today. That's cute. Thank you 0:12:11.800 --> 0:12:16.319 for calling? All right, Rosa in Rosemont. Who do you 0:12:16.360 --> 0:12:20.840 want to shout out this morning? I'm sorry, I want 0:12:20.880 --> 0:12:26.680 to shout out to my twin grandkids. You. What are 0:12:26.720 --> 0:12:31.480 the names? We m and Leilani? Okay? And how old 0:12:31.520 --> 0:12:36.240 are they? Therefore? They just turned for July second? Oh 0:12:36.320 --> 0:12:38.480 my god, they're like my twins. They just turned for 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:43.000 May second. I'm following. Yeah, I've been following you guys forever. 0:12:43.160 --> 0:12:45.000 And I'm I'm like, oh my god, I don't like 0:12:45.080 --> 0:12:47.960 my grandkids stage. I think it can be your grandkids too. 0:12:48.400 --> 0:12:49.840 Let me know when you're when you want to watch 0:12:49.880 --> 0:12:55.760 they Thank you for calling. Enjoy the rest of your Thursday. Okay, 0:12:56.600 --> 0:12:58.920 thank you you as well. Huh? And is it Alicia 0:13:00.240 --> 0:13:04.199 Alexia like elected car Alessia like Alesia Carra? Yes? And 0:13:04.240 --> 0:13:08.600 are you calling from Canada? I am? Yeah? That was that? Okay, 0:13:08.640 --> 0:13:11.920 Who do you want to shout out? This morning. Yeah, 0:13:11.960 --> 0:13:14.439 this is Ssaney. Hi. I know, and I said, I 0:13:14.600 --> 0:13:20.640 love winning with Tany. I appreciate that. I'm gonna have 0:13:20.679 --> 0:13:25.400 a new episode for you today. I know it's exciting. 0:13:26.920 --> 0:13:29.280 Who do you want to shut out this morning? My 0:13:29.480 --> 0:13:34.120 little cousin who was starting grade one? Okay, oh my gosh, 0:13:34.120 --> 0:13:37.240 so just finis kindergarten? First grade? Now moving on up. 0:13:38.280 --> 0:13:42.959 I know they grow so fast. No one aged you 0:13:43.080 --> 0:13:46.480 like kids. I know they grow so fast. I was 0:13:46.520 --> 0:13:51.679 saying to say, kids forever. Thank you so much for 0:13:51.840 --> 0:13:55.719 calling night. And today's quote posted at Kiss fm dot com. 0:13:55.840 --> 0:13:59.400 Keyword Ryan. The trouble with not having a goal is 0:13:59.480 --> 0:14:02.480 that you you can spend your life running up and 0:14:02.720 --> 0:14:08.000 down the field and never score. On air with Ryan Secrets. 0:14:10.000 --> 0:14:12.120 First day of school for a lot of schools and 0:14:12.240 --> 0:14:16.679 a lot of districts this morning. Culver City Unified, Garvy Unified, Glendale, 0:14:16.760 --> 0:14:19.680 Santa Monica, Malibu Unified, West Covina, just to name a few. 0:14:20.040 --> 0:14:23.720 Welcome back. I'm so excited school is back. You know, honestly, 0:14:23.760 --> 0:14:25.760 they might still be sleeping because the start time now 0:14:25.880 --> 0:14:29.800 is like eight thirties. Literally, I feel like in a 0:14:29.840 --> 0:14:31.280 couple of years they're gonna put you back to like 0:14:31.360 --> 0:14:38.280 even like, can we can start night school? Go to 0:14:38.320 --> 0:14:40.240 school all night? Well, that's what I loved about college 0:14:40.280 --> 0:14:41.800 is that you can make your own schedule. And so 0:14:41.920 --> 0:14:43.520 I tried to make it so that my Mondays and 0:14:43.560 --> 0:14:45.640 my Fridays were really light and I would shaml my 0:14:45.720 --> 0:14:50.560 classes in Tuesday Wednesday. It's really nice, like having a 0:14:50.600 --> 0:14:54.160 four day weekend every every week. I remember moving into 0:14:54.200 --> 0:14:56.440 the dorms like it was yesterday. It was the most 0:14:56.560 --> 0:15:00.360 exciting feeling that after like our parents moved me and 0:15:00.440 --> 0:15:02.440 I met my roommate there, like we got we got 0:15:02.480 --> 0:15:05.160 matched by the university. I didn't know her. She came 0:15:05.200 --> 0:15:08.400 from Davis. Her name is Heather, and um we met 0:15:08.480 --> 0:15:10.560 that day and still to this day we we end 0:15:10.640 --> 0:15:13.200 up being roommates the entire time we were in state. Yeah, 0:15:13.360 --> 0:15:16.440 like we like loved each other and um, our parents left, 0:15:16.520 --> 0:15:19.240 so we got all moved in. Our parents left. We 0:15:19.320 --> 0:15:20.920 both sat there on our beds and looked at each 0:15:20.920 --> 0:15:23.600 other and just grinned, like we just smiled. We're just like, 0:15:23.960 --> 0:15:29.720 what is so exciting? So tomorrow I'm doing that with 0:15:29.920 --> 0:15:32.960 my nephew, Riley. He is going to San Diego State. 0:15:33.000 --> 0:15:35.360 So my Alma mater. It's just like my proud da. 0:15:35.920 --> 0:15:37.880 I can't be more proud. At this moment, I was 0:15:37.880 --> 0:15:39.400 about to say, are you and your fields right now 0:15:39.680 --> 0:15:42.400 beyond yeah, I really am. My brother is a single dad. 0:15:42.440 --> 0:15:44.400 He's got three boys, and so my sister and I 0:15:44.520 --> 0:15:46.720 kind of like really help him in this aspect of 0:15:46.800 --> 0:15:49.080 like I feel like this is the stuff that like, guys. 0:15:49.160 --> 0:15:51.160 I'm not saying that my brother would wouldn't think about 0:15:51.440 --> 0:15:53.400 getting all this stuff for his son, but like I 0:15:53.520 --> 0:15:56.600 feel about it. And then when I asked her, I'm like, 0:15:56.680 --> 0:15:58.400 what do you need? And he was like he literally 0:15:58.480 --> 0:16:00.400 just sent me a link of like what the school 0:16:00.480 --> 0:16:03.480 set and I was like, okay, so this is interesting. 0:16:03.560 --> 0:16:05.280 Like it was like a nice little list at the 0:16:05.320 --> 0:16:07.800 school provided of like what to bring, a first year 0:16:07.960 --> 0:16:12.320 checklist essentially, so like stuff that maybe you wouldn't think 0:16:12.320 --> 0:16:15.120 about to bring, like a power stripe. I wouldn't have thought. 0:16:15.360 --> 0:16:17.480 I wouldn't have thought honestly, probably want have thought about 0:16:17.480 --> 0:16:19.360 that either until you get there and then you're like, man, 0:16:19.440 --> 0:16:21.440 now we got to go to the target in San 0:16:21.440 --> 0:16:24.600 Diego where it's wiped clean, probably because everybody he's probably 0:16:24.680 --> 0:16:27.280 getting everything there. Um, so That was one thing that 0:16:27.320 --> 0:16:30.240 I got him. I got him hangers, a laundry hamper. 0:16:30.480 --> 0:16:35.200 I would, yeah, well he has a tiny closet, but yeah, 0:16:35.280 --> 0:16:38.240 he's gonna need hangars. Um. I actually got him something 0:16:38.280 --> 0:16:40.080 that I don't know if he's ever even used in 0:16:40.160 --> 0:16:41.680 his life yet, but I'm going to teach him how 0:16:41.720 --> 0:16:45.480 to use it. It's a handheld steamer. I've never used steamer. 0:16:46.000 --> 0:16:50.160 You've never never Well, he's going to rush a fraternity, 0:16:50.600 --> 0:16:52.280 and I know that they're going to have to dress 0:16:52.440 --> 0:16:54.280 up in like formal wear every now and then for 0:16:54.360 --> 0:16:55.920 their meetings or whatever they do. I don't know. I 0:16:55.920 --> 0:16:57.720 didn't do a sorority, but I know that they dress up, 0:16:57.760 --> 0:17:00.960 and so having an iron board or anything like that 0:17:01.120 --> 0:17:02.840 is like too much. This way he can steam his 0:17:02.920 --> 0:17:05.560 shirts and look sharp and you know, look nice for 0:17:05.600 --> 0:17:08.720 the ladies with the spray and like what hanging up 0:17:08.760 --> 0:17:10.920 in the shower and you know what I do, and 0:17:11.000 --> 0:17:13.280 it's so bad. I I will hit it with him 0:17:13.760 --> 0:17:15.920 for breeze and then throw it in a dryer, which 0:17:16.040 --> 0:17:20.080 is so gosh. But there were some interesting things on 0:17:20.160 --> 0:17:22.000 this list that kind of were like why this is 0:17:22.040 --> 0:17:24.359 San Diego, Like why would they need an umbrella. But 0:17:25.080 --> 0:17:28.800 maybe I guess they do need an umbrella, not just so. 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:30.960 I don't think that that's random. But I am like 0:17:31.040 --> 0:17:33.159 a hoodie guy just throwing a hoodie and walked through 0:17:33.200 --> 0:17:37.399 the rain. Got time carry that umbrella everywhere. I'm not 0:17:37.480 --> 0:17:40.159 trying to babysit an umbrella. The as Sissy got him 0:17:40.200 --> 0:17:44.159 a very compact umbrella that can go quickly. I mean, 0:17:44.200 --> 0:17:47.160 I'm assuming he'll carry a backpack. I don't know, we'll see, 0:17:47.240 --> 0:17:49.119 But I got him a I got him a shower caddy, 0:17:49.160 --> 0:17:51.359 and that I really went back and forth from because 0:17:51.680 --> 0:17:55.080 I kind of see what so the dorms that he's in, 0:17:55.200 --> 0:17:57.400 he doesn't have his own bathroom. He has to walk 0:17:57.440 --> 0:17:59.520 down the hall and then there's a boy's bathroom and 0:17:59.560 --> 0:18:02.359 then a girl about them and he um. When I 0:18:02.520 --> 0:18:04.280 was there, it was the same thing. And I had 0:18:04.320 --> 0:18:06.639 this little like almost you know, it was almost like 0:18:06.640 --> 0:18:09.840 a caboodle type shower caddy that I had my shampoo 0:18:09.880 --> 0:18:13.719 and my little stuff in, And so I didn't want 0:18:13.760 --> 0:18:16.479 it to be like two frufy. I don't know if 0:18:16.480 --> 0:18:18.000 he was like going to carry that around with his 0:18:18.080 --> 0:18:20.960 flip flops and like, so I literally found blogs I 0:18:21.080 --> 0:18:23.680 was like shower caddies for dudes in college. I was 0:18:23.720 --> 0:18:25.600 trying to like be cool, and I got him one, 0:18:25.640 --> 0:18:27.880 and I think he's gonna like and hopefully he will. 0:18:28.440 --> 0:18:31.840 But long story short, I'm I'm hoping I didn't forget anything. 0:18:31.960 --> 0:18:34.000 So if you've done this before, if you've been through 0:18:34.040 --> 0:18:37.200 this as a student or a parent, what am I missing? 0:18:37.280 --> 0:18:41.560 What are some dorm must have that I'm not thinking of? 0:18:42.160 --> 0:18:44.119 And speaking of back to school, We're gonna come back 0:18:44.160 --> 0:18:46.240 with a chrome book laptop for you in one minute. 0:18:46.280 --> 0:18:49.280 But what are some like I One thing I did 0:18:49.359 --> 0:18:52.520 get him was a fridge stand. So he has this 0:18:52.640 --> 0:18:55.440 little tiny mini fridge with a microwave of top, okay, 0:18:55.880 --> 0:18:57.800 and I got him this fridge stand that he's gonna 0:18:58.119 --> 0:19:01.560 that basically raises the fridge because they're tall, and then 0:19:01.680 --> 0:19:03.720 and underneath that he can put like shells and they 0:19:03.760 --> 0:19:06.320 can store dry food. Basically. I think that's interesting because 0:19:06.359 --> 0:19:08.919 I didn't realize how like small these dorm rooms are, 0:19:09.119 --> 0:19:11.879 and how you know, space is limited, So having extra 0:19:11.960 --> 0:19:15.600 space underneath the refrigerator is exactly instead of having to 0:19:15.680 --> 0:19:20.240 have like a shelf next to it up exactly eight 0:19:20.320 --> 0:19:23.600 hundred five to O one O two seven? What else 0:19:23.640 --> 0:19:26.960 do I need to bring moving in my nephew into 0:19:27.200 --> 0:19:30.080 his dorm? Alright, so what was your suggestion? Because I'm 0:19:30.119 --> 0:19:33.000 moving my nephew in to San Diego State tomorrow. I 0:19:33.119 --> 0:19:35.040 am so excited. I'm driving down there as soon as 0:19:35.040 --> 0:19:37.280 we're done with the show. And uh, you know, I'm 0:19:37.280 --> 0:19:39.960 talking about all the things that I've been buying. Michael's like, 0:19:40.000 --> 0:19:42.720 can you stop buying stuff on Amazon? I can't? So, 0:19:43.320 --> 0:19:46.400 so what am I missing? A rice cooker? Because why 0:19:47.800 --> 0:19:51.480 he's not going to use what can you use it for? 0:19:52.840 --> 0:19:55.160 You can make soups in there. They can even cook 0:19:55.240 --> 0:20:02.680 chicken slowly. It's basically like a slow cooker. Sounds like 0:20:03.880 --> 0:20:06.200 you know, Okay, I feel I feel you, Stephanie, but 0:20:06.280 --> 0:20:09.840 I feel like year two for that, because you're one. 0:20:10.080 --> 0:20:11.800 He's in the dorm and he's got like the meal 0:20:11.880 --> 0:20:13.600 plan and I know that, like he's going to be 0:20:13.640 --> 0:20:16.439 going down to the different restaurants in cafeteria that they 0:20:16.480 --> 0:20:22.520 have for all that food. But I would enjoy a 0:20:22.640 --> 0:20:24.400 rice cooker, like if I won that in a White 0:20:24.440 --> 0:20:31.920 Elephant gift exchange, I would be excited about that. Okay, 0:20:32.000 --> 0:20:36.679 So maybe a MS al Right, well, hey, you hang 0:20:36.760 --> 0:20:38.320 on one second. We gotta get your info for that 0:20:38.440 --> 0:20:42.159 Chrome book laptop that you went. Okay, thank you, all right, 0:20:42.240 --> 0:20:45.080 hang on one second there, and Alicia in l A, 0:20:45.320 --> 0:20:48.120 what am I forgetting for my nephew's dorm. You're gonna 0:20:48.160 --> 0:20:54.200 you're forgetting the Britta water. That's a good you see, 0:20:54.200 --> 0:20:57.240 I didn't even think of a Britta a box fan. 0:20:57.359 --> 0:21:00.520 Those dormons get really hot. Oh was you know? I 0:21:00.680 --> 0:21:02.720 was thinking about a fan too, and I didn't. I 0:21:02.760 --> 0:21:05.520