WEBVTT - Danielle’s Diary (A Year in the Life: Winter) 0:00:00.760 --> 0:00:03.120 I am all in. 0:00:04.840 --> 0:00:14.520 Oh that's you. 0:00:17.000 --> 0:00:20.640 I am all in with Scott Patterson and iHeartRadio Podcast. 0:00:20.840 --> 0:00:23.880 All right, everybody, this is Danielle and Tar Productions and 0:00:24.040 --> 0:00:27.880 I Art Radio Production and we are here with another episode. 0:00:28.480 --> 0:00:29.160 I am all in. 0:00:30.600 --> 0:00:32.080 Good job, thank you. 0:00:32.920 --> 0:00:36.240 It's weird about Scott and Amy and Suzanne. 0:00:36.320 --> 0:00:39.360 Yeah, I mean Scott introducing it exactly. 0:00:39.560 --> 0:00:42.479 So if you guys are wondering what the heck is happening, 0:00:43.280 --> 0:00:47.159 Tara and I had a little bit of fomo and 0:00:48.120 --> 0:00:50.519 we felt that we're gonna jump in and do our 0:00:50.560 --> 0:00:55.040 own little mini mini mini recap. Obviously you heard Susanne, 0:00:55.400 --> 0:00:59.560 Amy and Scott do their thing the other day, but 0:01:00.040 --> 0:01:04.080 we were on vacation when unfortunately they recorded. So we have 0:01:04.120 --> 0:01:06.480 a lot of thoughts and we wanted to give them 0:01:06.480 --> 0:01:06.720 to you. 0:01:07.400 --> 0:01:07.680 Yep. 0:01:08.680 --> 0:01:11.720 So with that being said, we're not going to go 0:01:11.760 --> 0:01:15.240 into a full recap, but we're we're going to talk 0:01:15.280 --> 0:01:20.360 about the big four storylines of this episode, which is 0:01:20.400 --> 0:01:25.480 obviously Winter, and just dive into our thoughts on those. 0:01:25.560 --> 0:01:29.679 So just to kind of give you a glimpse as 0:01:29.680 --> 0:01:32.880 to what's to come, We're gonna talk about Rory and 0:01:32.959 --> 0:01:35.399 Lane in Paris. We're gonna talk about Laura and Luke, 0:01:35.600 --> 0:01:39.600 Emily and Laura Lai and then Rory and Logan, in 0:01:39.640 --> 0:01:41.679 which I have a lot of thoughts about. 0:01:41.840 --> 0:01:44.360 Yeah, question, I had like one note for you. 0:01:44.600 --> 0:01:47.920 Okay, all right, well let's we'll save that one. I 0:01:47.960 --> 0:01:51.200 first want to talk about Rory and Lane slash Paris. 0:01:53.160 --> 0:01:57.920 Obviously those were her BFFs from the series. Was it 0:01:58.200 --> 0:02:05.320 just me that, like it was so weak, weird having 0:02:06.520 --> 0:02:10.160 Rory just run into Paris and run into Lane and 0:02:10.240 --> 0:02:12.400 just be like, hey, what's up, Oh, you're in town, 0:02:12.919 --> 0:02:16.680 and just like I don't know, I felt like they 0:02:16.680 --> 0:02:19.280 were not friends anymore yet at the end of the episode, 0:02:19.280 --> 0:02:21.640 she was like, it's okay, I'll just crash at Lane's 0:02:21.720 --> 0:02:23.200 or I'll just crash at Paris's. 0:02:23.240 --> 0:02:25.080 And it's like, the one line that threw me off 0:02:25.160 --> 0:02:28.280 was wait, do you remember Paris? Right? I'm like, all 0:02:28.320 --> 0:02:31.640 these years, how can I literally rewound it? Because I 0:02:31.680 --> 0:02:33.640 was like, there's no way she just said that, like 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:37.919 Paris was there since what episode or when she goes 0:02:37.960 --> 0:02:40.440 to Chilton all the way until the end, and how 0:02:40.440 --> 0:02:44.880 would Lane forget Paris? Okay, anyone forget Paris? 0:02:45.200 --> 0:02:48.160 And even I think it was Paris. That was telling. 0:02:48.520 --> 0:02:51.200 When Lorelai and Luke, which we'll get into it, went 0:02:51.240 --> 0:02:55.480 to her office and they were talking about how Paris 0:02:55.520 --> 0:02:59.040 said something along the lines of, oh, you know that Rory, 0:02:59.080 --> 0:03:02.600 it's hard to get hold of her touch or something 0:03:02.639 --> 0:03:05.639 like that, and it just kind of made me really sad. 0:03:05.760 --> 0:03:08.040 It just you know, you want it. You want them 0:03:08.320 --> 0:03:12.000 to be such close friends and stay close friends. And 0:03:12.360 --> 0:03:16.440 I mean, if you think about it, my best friend 0:03:16.440 --> 0:03:18.440 from high school we keep in touch every once in 0:03:18.480 --> 0:03:21.680 a while, but if I ran into her at a 0:03:21.760 --> 0:03:24.600 market at home, I would be screaming. 0:03:24.600 --> 0:03:27.920 I'm like, oh my god, you know no, I'm the 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:30.160 same way. I have like my three really good friends 0:03:30.160 --> 0:03:33.440 from high school and we talk like very couple months. 0:03:33.440 --> 0:03:35.760 But like you pick back up. It's not like you're like, 0:03:36.640 --> 0:03:38.040 I don't know, you know what I mean, like those 0:03:38.080 --> 0:03:41.320 old friends where there's it's like time doesn't matter. 0:03:41.920 --> 0:03:50.280 Yeah, it just felt really disingenuous, I get or disingenuine. Yeah, 0:03:50.520 --> 0:03:53.760 But I I want to talk about Lane, and I 0:03:53.760 --> 0:03:56.800 also want to talk about Paris and what your initial 0:03:56.840 --> 0:03:59.320 thoughts are. How did you feel about Lane and where 0:03:59.320 --> 0:04:00.000 she's at right now. 0:04:00.400 --> 0:04:03.600 I wasn't really surprised. I feel like her storyline. I 0:04:03.680 --> 0:04:06.520 just felt like the way the series ended, I didn't 0:04:06.560 --> 0:04:11.600 know if Laane would have like more of a career 0:04:11.720 --> 0:04:14.720 than than what she had and having her kids. So 0:04:15.360 --> 0:04:18.200 I think Lane eight years later still like the boys 0:04:18.200 --> 0:04:21.000 grew up, Like it just made sense to me. I 0:04:21.000 --> 0:04:23.520 didn't really think, but I like that the bands came back, 0:04:23.560 --> 0:04:25.200 Like I thought that was cool, and the boys like 0:04:25.279 --> 0:04:27.800 helping like around the house and setting up the equipment 0:04:27.839 --> 0:04:28.280 and stuff. 0:04:29.160 --> 0:04:32.279 Yeah, I agree with you, I kind of. I mean 0:04:32.400 --> 0:04:35.479 it was to be expected, idn't YEH didn't like, Yeah, 0:04:35.520 --> 0:04:39.560 that's where Laane's at, That's what's going on. I did 0:04:39.600 --> 0:04:42.200 like the band getting back together. I thought that was 0:04:42.400 --> 0:04:43.000 that was cool. 0:04:43.520 --> 0:04:45.200 Did you think that she would have had a different 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:49.360 career or had had a different life eight years later? 0:04:50.240 --> 0:04:52.440 No, this was like that was where I thought she 0:04:52.520 --> 0:04:57.680 was going to be. Yeah, Paris, I I always knew 0:04:57.680 --> 0:04:59.600 she was going to be a doctor. You know obviously 0:04:59.680 --> 0:05:02.560 from this series that tracked really well from me. But 0:05:03.480 --> 0:05:05.000 did we all did you know she would get into 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:05.680 like fertility? 0:05:06.640 --> 0:05:06.919 Well? 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:11.880 I know, but I think, like this is twenty sixteen, 0:05:11.960 --> 0:05:16.880 so I feel like talking about fertility became more a 0:05:16.920 --> 0:05:19.039 little bit more of a norm and I think, like 0:05:19.480 --> 0:05:21.520 I don't know, like I don't really know before that 0:05:21.680 --> 0:05:26.839 how much research was done with fertility and how much 0:05:27.040 --> 0:05:29.040 you know, know what I mean, Like, I don't know, yeah, 0:05:29.080 --> 0:05:31.800 the progress of it. But she always seemed like someone 0:05:31.839 --> 0:05:34.800 whould be like into like the new medicine. So I 0:05:34.880 --> 0:05:35.760 wasn't that shocked. 0:05:36.000 --> 0:05:40.600 Yeah, no, it's it's it's perfect for her. And and 0:05:40.640 --> 0:05:43.880 even just how she was talking about fertility, being like 0:05:44.000 --> 0:05:46.039 here are the candidate, you know, like she was just 0:05:46.600 --> 0:05:51.040 so pierised. Yeah, And it was probably the one character 0:05:52.760 --> 0:05:56.400 of this first installment of the movies that was so 0:05:58.000 --> 0:06:01.080 like when I when I was watching, She'm like, ah, 0:06:01.160 --> 0:06:03.560 there she is. There, she is, like, we're good, Paris 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:06.320 is back. You know. It's the one character character for 0:06:06.440 --> 0:06:12.039 me that made sense this this movie. I felt like 0:06:12.080 --> 0:06:17.320 everyone else was just off, Like Rory was off with 0:06:17.560 --> 0:06:21.479 the whole logan stuff. Luke and Lorelai were weird, and 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:24.280 also like we'll get into their storyline in a little bit, 0:06:24.360 --> 0:06:27.880 Emily was wearing jeans, and we didn't even have Richard 0:06:28.200 --> 0:06:31.120 obviously he passed away, which is the saddest thing ever, 0:06:31.800 --> 0:06:36.760 Like in real life he passed away, which was, yeah, 0:06:37.440 --> 0:06:40.000 watching it now is so so. 0:06:40.120 --> 0:06:42.520 Yeah, it was you took you kind of took it 0:06:42.560 --> 0:06:45.560 personally those scenes, Yeah, totally. 0:06:45.600 --> 0:06:48.000 We'll get into that in a little bit. But but 0:06:48.640 --> 0:06:51.279 really Paris was kind of the only character for me 0:06:51.400 --> 0:06:53.480 that tracked, and. 0:06:53.480 --> 0:06:56.920 I think, yeah, I think with Paris, like I didn't 0:06:56.920 --> 0:06:59.600 really need a history of what she did over the 0:06:59.680 --> 0:07:02.359 last years. Like I kind of like that you just 0:07:02.360 --> 0:07:04.000 were like, all right, well, this is her job, and 0:07:04.560 --> 0:07:06.279 god knows what she did in between those years. But 0:07:06.320 --> 0:07:09.960 here we are. When I feel like for Lorelei and 0:07:10.080 --> 0:07:14.520 Luke specifically, and also Rory's life, it was kind of 0:07:14.560 --> 0:07:18.040 like you're trying to fill in the gaps, do you 0:07:18.040 --> 0:07:23.160 get what I'm saying? And Paris's role just like nailed it, Like, Okay, 0:07:23.160 --> 0:07:23.680 here she is. 0:07:24.360 --> 0:07:27.360 Yeah, let's move on to Laura, Li and Luke though, 0:07:27.360 --> 0:07:30.960 because there's a lot of too unpack there with you know, 0:07:31.040 --> 0:07:33.520 the whole storyline. The one thing I will just to 0:07:33.520 --> 0:07:39.120 start off this conversation just point out I thought that 0:07:39.760 --> 0:07:44.640 what Emily said that basically their whole relationship was on 0:07:44.720 --> 0:07:50.200 lauralized terms, and I wants in a Lorelai it's Lorelei's show. 0:07:50.320 --> 0:07:51.440 Right. 0:07:53.000 --> 0:07:55.960 I thought that was really impactful because there's a lot 0:07:55.960 --> 0:07:58.960 of truth behind that. It is laurel I's show. It 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:03.760 is the world does revolve around her, and especially in 0:08:03.800 --> 0:08:08.600 that relationship. So Emily kind of confronting Laurelai with that 0:08:08.960 --> 0:08:12.080 tidbit I thought when I when she said it, I 0:08:12.120 --> 0:08:16.000 was like, oh, man, that is like a gebel but 0:08:16.120 --> 0:08:17.640 you're one hundred percent right. 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:22.680 Mm hmm, Yeah, I mean she kind of steers that ship. 0:08:23.480 --> 0:08:26.200 Yeah. So, I mean Emily was not wrong and what 0:08:26.240 --> 0:08:30.720 she had to say, but I did find it kind 0:08:30.720 --> 0:08:35.640 of interesting that that made Laura Lie spin into this hole. 0:08:35.840 --> 0:08:40.800 Oh well, I gotta give Luke a biological child that 0:08:41.080 --> 0:08:48.600 he that he has had since birth, which does look 0:08:48.760 --> 0:08:52.640 do I get it that she I think she was 0:08:52.679 --> 0:08:55.360 doing it more for her to say, I don't want 0:08:55.360 --> 0:08:57.760 to hold you back from doing this, so like I 0:08:57.760 --> 0:09:00.400 don't want to tell my conscious that you don't. Yeah, 0:09:00.400 --> 0:09:02.160 I don't want to have it on my conscious that 0:09:02.640 --> 0:09:07.080 you don't have a biological child from you know, birth 0:09:07.240 --> 0:09:09.800 because of me. I think it was more of there 0:09:09.840 --> 0:09:14.600 was a little self serving like motives behind that. 0:09:14.760 --> 0:09:19.120 Yeah, do you think that also with seeing and this 0:09:19.240 --> 0:09:21.079 is kind of a stretch, but I just thought of 0:09:21.120 --> 0:09:25.280 it with you know, Rory's out of the house, and 0:09:25.360 --> 0:09:28.439 if you think about for Emily, like she's now alone alone, 0:09:28.840 --> 0:09:32.760 do you think this was laurlized thinking of if God 0:09:32.800 --> 0:09:36.880 forbid something happens to Luke, Rory's gone, I have someone else, 0:09:37.120 --> 0:09:40.280 like kind of like empty nester. But she's probably thinking 0:09:40.280 --> 0:09:42.280 of like like, I don't know. 0:09:42.280 --> 0:09:45.880 It's probably a stretch, but I don't think so. I 0:09:45.920 --> 0:09:48.199 don't think so. I just to be completely honest with 0:09:48.280 --> 0:09:51.560 you and with this whole Lorlied Luke storyline, I did 0:09:52.000 --> 0:09:56.640 really feel for Luke a lot. And the reason being 0:09:56.720 --> 0:10:01.000 is Lorelai came to him with this right, which, look, 0:10:01.040 --> 0:10:03.080 I get it, like if somebody told me that I 0:10:03.120 --> 0:10:05.360 was holding my husband back from certain things, it would 0:10:05.360 --> 0:10:07.880 make me really reevaluate a lot of things that I 0:10:07.960 --> 0:10:12.000 was doing, and you know I would, I would want 0:10:12.280 --> 0:10:16.400 better for him and us. And so I understand her 0:10:16.440 --> 0:10:20.040 going to Luke and saying, hey, like, are you sure 0:10:20.080 --> 0:10:25.560 you don't want a kid? Like Luke's response back, in 0:10:25.679 --> 0:10:28.559 my opinion, should have been enough for her. He does 0:10:28.679 --> 0:10:32.600 have a biological child, April is his biological child. Granted, yes, 0:10:33.600 --> 0:10:38.400 she did not come into his life for the baby years, right, 0:10:38.559 --> 0:10:41.640 But he has a really strong connection with her now 0:10:42.040 --> 0:10:48.280 and is really fostering that relationship and is her dad, right, 0:10:48.720 --> 0:10:52.280 So like he sees that as his kid. He also 0:10:52.280 --> 0:10:54.560 sees Rory as his kid, and he said that, and 0:10:54.600 --> 0:10:57.440 he's been there for Rory for all those years. And 0:10:57.480 --> 0:11:02.600 I know it's different when you know you're actually their 0:11:02.679 --> 0:11:07.640 parent or their step parent. At the time, he wasn't that, right, 0:11:07.679 --> 0:11:10.000 he was a Louralave's friend or you know, part of 0:11:10.040 --> 0:11:13.480 the town that saw her grow up. But in he 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:17.560 said he considers her his kid too. So it's like 0:11:18.080 --> 0:11:22.319 he's not childless. He has two children, and he's happy 0:11:22.360 --> 0:11:27.040 with that and he loves them and he's fulfilled by that. Now. Granted, 0:11:27.160 --> 0:11:29.680 like I'm sure would he have wanted a kid, of 0:11:29.760 --> 0:11:32.760 course maybe he you know, he did say that, right, 0:11:32.840 --> 0:11:37.360 But it's he's saying he's happy with what he has. 0:11:37.520 --> 0:11:40.720 And I wish she kind of listened to that instead 0:11:40.760 --> 0:11:41.720 of like trying to. 0:11:42.120 --> 0:11:43.320 Just push it on him. 0:11:43.840 --> 0:11:47.199 This whole storyline about him having a page. 0:11:47.280 --> 0:11:50.600 You did it shock you that they weren't married? But 0:11:50.640 --> 0:11:51.320 they're not married. 0:11:51.760 --> 0:11:55.120 I didn't even think that. Yeah, I literally didn't even 0:11:55.160 --> 0:11:56.920 think about that in my head they're married. They're not married. 0:11:57.000 --> 0:11:59.839 No, they're not married. I completely forgot actually yes and no. 0:12:00.080 --> 0:12:03.000 It's been a long time since I've seen these, but like, yeah, 0:12:03.520 --> 0:12:04.800 did you think they would be married? 0:12:05.280 --> 0:12:08.320 I don't know why, And I like, maybe this is 0:12:08.480 --> 0:12:11.000 I just totally missed it. I thought they were married, 0:12:12.120 --> 0:12:12.560 but they're not. 0:12:13.000 --> 0:12:13.439 No, they're not. 0:12:14.080 --> 0:12:15.160 Oh, oh my goodness. 0:12:15.200 --> 0:12:17.840 That is hilarious. So they were just I think they've 0:12:17.840 --> 0:12:20.400 been together for eight years and yeah, basically married, but 0:12:20.440 --> 0:12:24.559 they're not legally married. But I wonder if that's also 0:12:24.600 --> 0:12:31.080 with Loralai dealing with the divorce, you know, and Luke 0:12:31.160 --> 0:12:33.559 dealing with his divorce. Like, I get it. There's a 0:12:33.600 --> 0:12:36.559 lot of times when people don't like they've been through 0:12:36.640 --> 0:12:37.680 their marriage and they're. 0:12:37.440 --> 0:12:40.880 Like, we're just happy together. Yeah, it's happy together. We 0:12:40.880 --> 0:12:43.560 don't need the paperwork. Yeah. But yeah, it was kind 0:12:43.559 --> 0:12:47.080 of you know, it was very sweet to see Luke 0:12:47.280 --> 0:12:50.679 so like, it's so happy to be where he is. 0:12:50.800 --> 0:12:54.280 He has his girl, right, he has Lauraai. He's with 0:12:54.400 --> 0:12:58.319 Laura LIAI happy about that. And he has his quote 0:12:58.360 --> 0:13:00.240 unquote two children that. 0:13:01.360 --> 0:13:03.880 Yeah, and he has a diner. Everything's going well and 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:05.240 he loves that town, so. 0:13:05.360 --> 0:13:09.320 He loves he is so happy where everything's looking up 0:13:09.360 --> 0:13:09.800 for Luke. 0:13:10.400 --> 0:13:12.280 I love the bit where he just kept giving people 0:13:12.320 --> 0:13:13.520 the wrong WiFi password. 0:13:14.400 --> 0:13:16.959 I know it's so good. It's so good. 0:13:17.000 --> 0:13:18.600 Omen's like capital B like. 0:13:18.480 --> 0:13:22.560 What but but yeah, So, I mean I hated this 0:13:22.679 --> 0:13:27.000 whole kids storyline thing, and because it's it's pushing something. 0:13:28.200 --> 0:13:33.120 It's like Emily told Laura li I, like, don't stop 0:13:33.440 --> 0:13:35.719 Luke or you know, you're you stop Luke from doing 0:13:35.720 --> 0:13:38.440 all the things he's whatever. Yeah, yeah, and then she 0:13:38.520 --> 0:13:41.240 took that Obviously personally. 0:13:41.160 --> 0:13:43.360 It's kind of always been LAURAAI though. 0:13:43.480 --> 0:13:46.560 Yeah, it's she's very self serving in this. She wants 0:13:46.720 --> 0:13:48.720 to give wants to do this whole kid thing so 0:13:48.720 --> 0:13:50.560 she doesn't feel bad about herself for not giving him 0:13:50.559 --> 0:13:52.760 a kid. That's like literally what I took from it. 0:13:53.800 --> 0:13:55.640 I know that's like really dark of me, but it's 0:13:55.720 --> 0:13:58.560 kind of like and maybe she's just doing another goodness 0:13:58.559 --> 0:14:00.880 of her heart to make sure or that Luke doesn't 0:14:00.880 --> 0:14:03.120 have regrets. But I think a little bit of it 0:14:03.160 --> 0:14:06.959 has to do with her feeling guilty, yeah, not giving 0:14:06.960 --> 0:14:08.240 that to him, and she doesn't want to feel that 0:14:08.280 --> 0:14:09.480 guilt yeah. 0:14:09.520 --> 0:14:11.720 I mean, as much as I don't like that storyline, 0:14:11.760 --> 0:14:13.680 I kind of liked that we got Paris in that. 0:14:13.679 --> 0:14:16.760 That's the only thing I liked from it. Yeah, so 0:14:16.880 --> 0:14:19.840 it kind of balanced out for me, like I got 0:14:19.880 --> 0:14:23.600 Paris's wackiness out of it because it kind of shut 0:14:23.640 --> 0:14:25.440 down the idea pretty quickly too. 0:14:25.800 --> 0:14:41.360 Yeah. Can we talk about their red silk sheets? Lorele 0:14:41.520 --> 0:14:44.760 and Luke have red silk sheets. I would have never 0:14:46.040 --> 0:14:49.520 I cannot get that picture out of my head again, 0:14:50.520 --> 0:14:55.840 like dogs pagallas sheets. Oh my god. 0:14:56.840 --> 0:14:59.880 Yeah, I wonder who decided on that, Like I don't 0:15:00.280 --> 0:15:01.320 but that is like I. 0:15:01.200 --> 0:15:07.320 Feel like sad sheets. I don't know, like the red silk. 0:15:07.960 --> 0:15:10.400 That's more Laura I and Luke's more of the plaid 0:15:10.400 --> 0:15:11.360 sheet person. 0:15:12.040 --> 0:15:16.280 Maybe it's just it was just weird. 0:15:17.000 --> 0:15:19.040 This is so weird. But speaking this is a little 0:15:19.040 --> 0:15:22.680 off topic, but speaking of like noticing things, did you 0:15:22.800 --> 0:15:25.360 notice when Rory goes to the grocery store, there's an 0:15:25.520 --> 0:15:30.000 entire like freezer of pizza bytes, like top to bottom, 0:15:30.080 --> 0:15:34.080 it's just it's all. It's like, there's nothing else in 0:15:34.120 --> 0:15:36.080 that freezer but pizza bytes. And then to the right 0:15:36.160 --> 0:15:37.240 is all dryers ice cream. 0:15:37.520 --> 0:15:39.000 I mean, that's my type of store. 0:15:39.480 --> 0:15:41.240 I looked over and I was like, pizza, bye pizza, 0:15:41.280 --> 0:15:43.600 and like all sizes. It was really funny. I don't 0:15:43.600 --> 0:15:44.320 know why I caught my eye. 0:15:44.400 --> 0:15:47.080 That's hilarious. You're gonna we have to screenshot that toast 0:15:47.160 --> 0:15:51.520 it funny. All right, Well, I mean, let's move on 0:15:51.560 --> 0:15:53.040 to Lorlai. 0:15:54.200 --> 0:15:56.800 What did you think of? Okay, I'm gonna ask you, 0:15:56.840 --> 0:16:02.479 what did you think of what happened at the funeral? Oh? 0:16:02.880 --> 0:16:03.680 Good lord? 0:16:04.840 --> 0:16:10.360 I mean Lorli I just like she'll never so bad. 0:16:10.680 --> 0:16:15.240 That was so bad, like so bad. 0:16:15.240 --> 0:16:17.440 And I don't think like what bugged me about it 0:16:17.600 --> 0:16:20.720 was that she took being drunk as an excuse, like 0:16:21.040 --> 0:16:23.560 you couldn't just say like like like Emily said, my 0:16:23.640 --> 0:16:25.880 dad bought me a doll and it made me happy, 0:16:25.920 --> 0:16:26.600 like just make up. 0:16:27.040 --> 0:16:30.600 Yeah, I do think it was so bad, and like, yeah, 0:16:30.640 --> 0:16:33.120 we can all just sit here and speculate like why 0:16:33.200 --> 0:16:36.920 didn't she just say, oh I love my dad, you know, 0:16:37.040 --> 0:16:39.200 or whatever, like why didn't she do the right thing? 0:16:39.560 --> 0:16:42.560 But I also think there is a lot and I'm 0:16:42.560 --> 0:16:45.760 not giving her an excuse at all, because was she 0:16:45.920 --> 0:16:48.800 I thought it was so bad, But I think it 0:16:49.040 --> 0:16:54.000 just Richard was the one thing that held the entire 0:16:54.200 --> 0:16:57.040 family together, like truly, he was the one thing that 0:16:57.400 --> 0:17:01.000 he was the bad black pone of the family. And 0:17:01.920 --> 0:17:05.440 I think a big reason as to why even Richard 0:17:05.640 --> 0:17:10.920 and Emily came back into Laurli's life was not only 0:17:10.960 --> 0:17:14.639 because of Rory, but also because of Richard. And I 0:17:14.680 --> 0:17:18.040 don't think without Richard, even with Rory, I don't think 0:17:18.560 --> 0:17:21.760 that Emily and Laura I would have a relationship right now. 0:17:22.680 --> 0:17:25.480 So I think a lot of it. And we all 0:17:25.520 --> 0:17:28.920 know how much Laura I loves her dad. We know that, Yeah, 0:17:29.160 --> 0:17:33.760 and she had a really special bond with him, so 0:17:33.920 --> 0:17:37.200 we all know that she has so much love for him. 0:17:37.359 --> 0:17:41.600 I think in that moment, all of this bubbled up, 0:17:43.359 --> 0:17:48.600 like complexity she had in her childhood and like all 0:17:48.640 --> 0:17:54.000 this trauma and you know, negative association she had of 0:17:54.000 --> 0:17:57.840 her parents just got the best of her and resurfaced 0:17:58.160 --> 0:18:02.560 during this like traumatic time in her life. I don't know, 0:18:03.160 --> 0:18:06.399 I don't know. I can't believe she did that and 0:18:06.440 --> 0:18:11.840 it was so bad, But I also think that is 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:17.359 a person who is hurting really badly, like reliving some 0:18:18.200 --> 0:18:19.520 trauma that she had. 0:18:19.720 --> 0:18:23.439 Yeah, the line where I think it's when they're arguing 0:18:23.440 --> 0:18:26.399 in the kitchen and she's like, I just lost my 0:18:26.480 --> 0:18:28.680 husband and she's like, well, I just lost my dad. 0:18:28.720 --> 0:18:31.040 I was like, ooh, that's like I think that's when 0:18:31.080 --> 0:18:35.280 it all kind of came around of yes, Emily's hurting, 0:18:35.320 --> 0:18:38.280 but like Laura doesn't really show she's always hurting. Like 0:18:38.680 --> 0:18:41.399 she walked around the party talking to like Jason styles, like, 0:18:41.440 --> 0:18:43.120 you know, she kind of held it together, made sure 0:18:43.160 --> 0:18:45.159 that Rory was home. She told Luke She'll say, you 0:18:45.200 --> 0:18:46.959 know what I mean, Like she tried to keep it together. 0:18:47.119 --> 0:18:49.600 And I think in that moment, that conversation when she 0:18:49.600 --> 0:18:52.399 said I lost my dad, I was like, yeah, she 0:18:52.400 --> 0:18:59.000 she just fell apart during that that during that that 0:18:59.240 --> 0:19:01.479 end of the night with the other guys and Emily. 0:19:02.040 --> 0:19:06.600 Yeah. And I also do think that mine is very 0:19:06.640 --> 0:19:10.480 easy to talk about how crazy her parents are, right, 0:19:10.520 --> 0:19:12.960 and like, oh, yeah, of course they're going to manipulate 0:19:13.000 --> 0:19:15.160 you to do this. Of course they're going to manipulate 0:19:15.160 --> 0:19:18.000 you to do that. Of course they're going to pay 0:19:18.000 --> 0:19:20.200 for your tuition so that you can do Friday night dinner. 0:19:20.280 --> 0:19:22.439 Like she is the first one to point out their 0:19:22.480 --> 0:19:25.760 flaws and also the first one to point out how 0:19:25.920 --> 0:19:32.640 manipula manipulative they can be. And and you know of 0:19:32.720 --> 0:19:36.400 the Gilmore you know, holding the Gilmore name up and 0:19:36.440 --> 0:19:40.120 all the negative things that come along with it. And 0:19:40.160 --> 0:19:44.760 so but she's but she's not quick to say I 0:19:44.840 --> 0:19:46.880 love my mom because of this, I love my dad 0:19:46.920 --> 0:19:49.400 because of this. Like that that does not come naturally 0:19:49.440 --> 0:19:53.399 to her. No, So I think her first like gut 0:19:53.480 --> 0:19:56.360 instinct is to go for negative. Yeah, right, Like those 0:19:56.400 --> 0:19:59.520 are the stories she talks about often and can talk 0:19:59.520 --> 0:20:02.119 about off didn't and has no problem bringing up. That 0:20:02.320 --> 0:20:05.840 is how she talks about her parents is all the crazy. 0:20:05.440 --> 0:20:07.520 Shit that they do and looking at them. 0:20:07.520 --> 0:20:11.919 And yeah, and also like how awful they are, you know, 0:20:12.000 --> 0:20:14.520 Like that's her first thing that she can that she 0:20:14.560 --> 0:20:16.720 resorts to. So I think when she was put on 0:20:16.760 --> 0:20:22.840 the spot she's not good at like showing her emotions 0:20:23.200 --> 0:20:29.480 and like showing her love, especially for her parents, that 0:20:29.760 --> 0:20:37.359 she resorted to her humor yeah, quote unquote to deflect 0:20:37.560 --> 0:20:39.960 from her actual hurt. Does that make sense? 0:20:40.119 --> 0:20:44.720 Yeah? And I when she was bugging Emily about the portrait, 0:20:45.119 --> 0:20:48.320 I was like, just leave her alone, like it's okay 0:20:48.320 --> 0:20:50.280 if she messed up the side. It was like a 0:20:50.320 --> 0:20:53.879 great bit because that was a giant portrait, but it 0:20:54.760 --> 0:20:57.600 was like, stop, stop taking it out on her, like 0:20:57.800 --> 0:21:00.760 she's clearly going through it. But then we needed that 0:21:00.880 --> 0:21:03.120 to get the history of what happened at the funeral. 0:21:03.760 --> 0:21:06.960 I will say I did feel for the real life 0:21:07.119 --> 0:21:11.680 Lauren Kelly and Alexis during those scenes like that cannot 0:21:12.040 --> 0:21:16.399 That must have been so hard to do those scenes 0:21:16.440 --> 0:21:20.320 and know that you're cast me is no longer there, 0:21:20.400 --> 0:21:24.240 but you're and you are acknowledging that they're no longer there, 0:21:24.440 --> 0:21:28.600 but it's still not Yeah, I'm sure that was not easy. 0:21:28.760 --> 0:21:28.960 Yeah. 0:21:29.000 --> 0:21:30.760 I mean all the way down to the dinner table 0:21:30.800 --> 0:21:34.439 and no one can sit in Richard's seat, and I 0:21:34.520 --> 0:21:36.879 understand that that was always his seat, the head of 0:21:36.880 --> 0:21:38.600 the other the other end of the table. 0:21:39.480 --> 0:21:43.640 What did you think when Luke tried to sit there 0:21:43.720 --> 0:21:47.639 and then obviously realized that's the wrong seat but was 0:21:47.720 --> 0:21:48.520 just standing in. 0:21:48.480 --> 0:21:53.480 The Yeah, Like I think the kirkbit was was funny, 0:21:53.560 --> 0:21:56.320 but I was like, she literally had no. 0:21:56.280 --> 0:21:59.080 Idea who Kirk was, you know, like, but you're talking 0:21:59.080 --> 0:22:01.520 about Emily, and but she still let him sit there. 0:22:01.880 --> 0:22:04.280 Yeah, And it's just like just someone to pull up 0:22:04.320 --> 0:22:05.720 a chair and like have him. 0:22:05.840 --> 0:22:08.680 It was just that was louralize that like, Lordal, I 0:22:08.720 --> 0:22:10.639 don't know that's true. She needs to stand up and 0:22:10.680 --> 0:22:12.240 be like Kirk, get the hell out of here. My 0:22:12.320 --> 0:22:15.240 husband's not husband. My boyfriend's sitting down at the table. 0:22:15.640 --> 0:22:18.959 Or if she's gonna let him sit there, be like babe, 0:22:19.000 --> 0:22:21.040 sit here, I'll sit on your lap, like you know 0:22:21.080 --> 0:22:24.159 what I mean. Don't let your husband stand over there 0:22:24.160 --> 0:22:27.040 in the corner and humiliation with not having it. I 0:22:27.119 --> 0:22:29.919 keep calling him her husband and he's not her husband. 0:22:30.000 --> 0:22:33.399 Sorry guys, but her don't you know, let Luke just 0:22:33.440 --> 0:22:35.200