1 00:00:01,160 --> 00:00:02,759 Speaker 1: Hope you're having a great summer. 2 00:00:02,920 --> 00:00:05,200 Speaker 2: Know that we're praying for you, and we know God 3 00:00:05,240 --> 00:00:06,960 Speaker 2: has awesome things in store. 4 00:00:07,280 --> 00:00:10,080 Speaker 1: So great having you with us. Enjoy the message today. 5 00:00:10,840 --> 00:00:12,760 Speaker 3: You know, as long as we live, we're going to 6 00:00:12,800 --> 00:00:17,520 Speaker 3: have to guard our hearts from taking in offense. You know, 7 00:00:17,720 --> 00:00:21,239 Speaker 3: all through our life, people are going to hurt us. 8 00:00:21,400 --> 00:00:25,840 Speaker 3: Unfair things are going to happen. We'll be disappointed, people 9 00:00:25,920 --> 00:00:29,560 Speaker 3: may say something that's not true. See, these are all 10 00:00:29,640 --> 00:00:33,800 Speaker 3: the types of offense that we can't allow to take 11 00:00:33,880 --> 00:00:37,440 Speaker 3: residency in our heart. See, we can't allow those things 12 00:00:37,479 --> 00:00:42,320 Speaker 3: to become part of our lives. I have seen people 13 00:00:42,640 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 3: who have gone through a difficult divorce. They have been hurt. 14 00:00:47,680 --> 00:00:51,040 Speaker 3: I've seen people who have been cheated and it was real. 15 00:00:51,960 --> 00:00:56,840 Speaker 3: But the difference is those people never let that situation go. 16 00:00:57,800 --> 00:01:02,480 Speaker 3: They always brought that situation back into their life. And 17 00:01:02,520 --> 00:01:05,520 Speaker 3: you know, these types of offenses, they don't do us 18 00:01:05,560 --> 00:01:14,440 Speaker 3: any good, you see, they only bring heartache, resentment, bitterness, unforgiveness. 19 00:01:14,680 --> 00:01:17,680 Speaker 3: See that's what offense does. When it gets into our heart, 20 00:01:18,080 --> 00:01:20,520 Speaker 3: it produces in our life. 21 00:01:21,360 --> 00:01:23,800 Speaker 1: That's why we have to make. 22 00:01:23,600 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 3: Sure that we don't allow what happens to us to 23 00:01:28,160 --> 00:01:29,440 Speaker 3: get in us. 24 00:01:30,640 --> 00:01:31,000 Speaker 1: You see. 25 00:01:31,040 --> 00:01:34,959 Speaker 3: I believe that God wants us to understand that we 26 00:01:35,720 --> 00:01:39,160 Speaker 3: are secure in him. You know, we talk about identity. 27 00:01:39,840 --> 00:01:42,959 Speaker 3: We talk about what we identify with. You see, if 28 00:01:42,959 --> 00:01:46,480 Speaker 3: you identify with your job and your job goes away, 29 00:01:47,080 --> 00:01:50,880 Speaker 3: then your identity has gone away. If you identify with 30 00:01:51,000 --> 00:01:55,840 Speaker 3: a person and they make you important, if that person 31 00:01:55,920 --> 00:01:59,120 Speaker 3: happens to leave, or that person happens to disappoint you 32 00:01:59,240 --> 00:02:02,600 Speaker 3: or say something to hurt you, guess what your identity 33 00:02:02,600 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 3: has been crushed. You see, we are to identify with 34 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:12,600 Speaker 3: Jesus Christ. We are to find our security in him. 35 00:02:14,080 --> 00:02:16,720 Speaker 1: We have to know that he is for us and he's. 36 00:02:16,520 --> 00:02:19,519 Speaker 3: Not against us. He's the one that's gonna take care 37 00:02:19,560 --> 00:02:22,720 Speaker 3: of us. When we identify with the wrong thing and 38 00:02:22,760 --> 00:02:25,400 Speaker 3: the wrong thing happens to us, then guess what we 39 00:02:25,440 --> 00:02:26,000 Speaker 3: feel wrong. 40 00:02:26,840 --> 00:02:30,680 Speaker 1: That's an offense. That's an offense. And I want to 41 00:02:30,800 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 1: encourage us all. 42 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:35,200 Speaker 3: If you've ever been hurt, if you've ever been left, 43 00:02:35,639 --> 00:02:38,520 Speaker 3: if you've ever been cheated, if you've ever been lied on, 44 00:02:39,160 --> 00:02:42,800 Speaker 3: they're real and it hurts. But can I encourage every 45 00:02:42,880 --> 00:02:46,560 Speaker 3: one of us today, Let it go, Let it go, 46 00:02:46,960 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 3: don't get. 47 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:49,720 Speaker 1: Stuck in that offense. 48 00:02:50,600 --> 00:02:53,160 Speaker 3: Don't hold onto it, don't let it be a part 49 00:02:53,160 --> 00:02:59,040 Speaker 3: of your identity. Listen, people can't define your life unless 50 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:02,360 Speaker 3: you allow them to. You See, when you hold on 51 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:05,280 Speaker 3: to those situations and those offense, you know what you're doing. 52 00:03:05,760 --> 00:03:10,880 Speaker 3: You're allowing those situations, those unfair things to continue. 53 00:03:10,400 --> 00:03:11,320 Speaker 1: To hurt you. 54 00:03:11,320 --> 00:03:13,160 Speaker 3: You might not be able to change the situation. It 55 00:03:13,280 --> 00:03:17,120 Speaker 3: happened the person what they said, Yep, they said it. 56 00:03:18,760 --> 00:03:21,240 Speaker 1: But you know what, if you hold on to it, 57 00:03:21,560 --> 00:03:22,720 Speaker 1: then the hurt continues. 58 00:03:23,680 --> 00:03:27,720 Speaker 3: Let it go. Get good at letting it go. In fact, 59 00:03:27,720 --> 00:03:30,040 Speaker 3: what I want to say to us today is we're 60 00:03:30,040 --> 00:03:35,040 Speaker 3: gonna have to get good at forgiving and covering their offenses. 61 00:03:36,240 --> 00:03:40,440 Speaker 3: All right, their offenses. See, let's look at it this 62 00:03:40,520 --> 00:03:44,840 Speaker 3: way today. The offense is not yours unless you take it. 63 00:03:46,040 --> 00:03:50,920 Speaker 3: The offense originated from them. So you can either take 64 00:03:50,960 --> 00:03:54,880 Speaker 3: that offense or you can drop that offense. And you 65 00:03:54,920 --> 00:03:58,280 Speaker 3: can say, no, I'm going to forgive them. I'm going 66 00:03:58,360 --> 00:04:01,880 Speaker 3: to cover this offense. Listen to what it says in 67 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:03,320 Speaker 3: Proverbs seventeen nine. 68 00:04:03,800 --> 00:04:04,760 Speaker 1: It says he who. 69 00:04:04,640 --> 00:04:11,440 Speaker 3: Covers and forgives an offense seeks love. You see, it's 70 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:15,400 Speaker 3: an offense. Didn't say it wasn't gonna come. It is 71 00:04:15,400 --> 00:04:16,000 Speaker 3: an offense. 72 00:04:16,440 --> 00:04:20,080 Speaker 1: What are you gonna do with it? The choice is ours. 73 00:04:20,920 --> 00:04:25,320 Speaker 3: We can seek to go after love and say, Ah, 74 00:04:25,480 --> 00:04:27,680 Speaker 3: forgiveness is powerful. 75 00:04:27,560 --> 00:04:29,200 Speaker 1: And God's love is more than enough. 76 00:04:29,279 --> 00:04:31,920 Speaker 3: Even when I don't feel like I can love, God 77 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:32,600 Speaker 3: has got. 78 00:04:32,440 --> 00:04:38,200 Speaker 1: More love than I could ever use up. Or we 79 00:04:38,240 --> 00:04:39,400 Speaker 1: can seek the offense. 80 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,800 Speaker 3: We can talk about it, tell our friends about it, 81 00:04:44,360 --> 00:04:51,120 Speaker 3: dwell on it, get frustrated, lose sleep, coddle. 82 00:04:50,760 --> 00:04:58,800 Speaker 1: It, snuggle it. This is my offense, you see. That's 83 00:04:58,839 --> 00:04:59,800 Speaker 1: how you draw that in. 84 00:05:00,920 --> 00:05:03,479 Speaker 3: That's how you make it become a part of who 85 00:05:03,560 --> 00:05:07,080 Speaker 3: you are and your identity. 86 00:05:07,279 --> 00:05:09,359 Speaker 1: But what we have to do is we have to 87 00:05:09,360 --> 00:05:09,719 Speaker 1: do this. 88 00:05:10,560 --> 00:05:14,039 Speaker 3: We have to push that offense away from us. 89 00:05:14,680 --> 00:05:17,040 Speaker 1: We have to say no, it's not my offense to take. 90 00:05:17,680 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: I'm God's. 91 00:05:19,680 --> 00:05:22,120 Speaker 3: I've got the power in my life through the spirit 92 00:05:22,160 --> 00:05:25,880 Speaker 3: of God to forgive. And I can do that because 93 00:05:25,920 --> 00:05:27,520 Speaker 3: you know what, I know who I am in Christ, 94 00:05:28,480 --> 00:05:30,640 Speaker 3: and I know that God's going to help me do this. 95 00:05:31,440 --> 00:05:33,480 Speaker 3: Ever since I can remember, my family's been in the 96 00:05:33,560 --> 00:05:37,640 Speaker 3: jelry business, and I've always learned about precious metals and 97 00:05:38,560 --> 00:05:40,159 Speaker 3: gemstones where they came from. 98 00:05:40,960 --> 00:05:43,960 Speaker 1: But the story of the pearl is very fascinating. 99 00:05:44,839 --> 00:05:48,120 Speaker 3: Most of you know that a pearl comes from an oyster, 100 00:05:49,080 --> 00:05:52,760 Speaker 3: and you see that oyster goes through a tremendous process 101 00:05:52,880 --> 00:05:55,800 Speaker 3: to create and form that pearl. Funny thing is is 102 00:05:55,800 --> 00:06:00,200 Speaker 3: that oyster is not trained to create a pearl. What 103 00:06:00,240 --> 00:06:04,240 Speaker 3: that oyster is doing is trying to protect itself from 104 00:06:04,240 --> 00:06:09,400 Speaker 3: the irritants, the particles, these splinter like things that tries 105 00:06:09,440 --> 00:06:12,560 Speaker 3: to make its way into its shell from the ocean waters, 106 00:06:13,360 --> 00:06:16,839 Speaker 3: get into its shell and try to embed itself in 107 00:06:16,880 --> 00:06:21,520 Speaker 3: the tiny mollusk of the oyster. So the oyster has 108 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 3: something called nacre. It's a substance that comes naturally to 109 00:06:26,520 --> 00:06:30,800 Speaker 3: the oyster when an invader comes in that it secretes 110 00:06:31,080 --> 00:06:36,080 Speaker 3: and it pushes that irritant away from it. So it 111 00:06:36,200 --> 00:06:41,160 Speaker 3: pushes and works to secrete the nacre to keep distance 112 00:06:41,320 --> 00:06:45,279 Speaker 3: between what's trying to harm it. And as a result 113 00:06:45,320 --> 00:06:48,400 Speaker 3: of it working and secreting and covering it with nacre, 114 00:06:49,279 --> 00:06:54,720 Speaker 3: it forms a precious and beautiful pearl. You know, offenses 115 00:06:54,839 --> 00:06:57,919 Speaker 3: in our life are a lot like that irritant in 116 00:06:57,960 --> 00:07:03,960 Speaker 3: the life of an oyster. Words come, actions come their irritants. 117 00:07:05,160 --> 00:07:09,400 Speaker 3: They can become offenses. See we have got to push 118 00:07:09,480 --> 00:07:13,840 Speaker 3: those out of our heart and into the hands of God. See, 119 00:07:13,880 --> 00:07:18,120 Speaker 3: God has given us a way to insulate ourself, to 120 00:07:18,200 --> 00:07:22,280 Speaker 3: put distance between what wants to harm us. And it's 121 00:07:22,440 --> 00:07:25,160 Speaker 3: the fact that we can decide what we do with it. 122 00:07:25,840 --> 00:07:29,080 Speaker 3: We can either push it and release the hurts, release 123 00:07:29,120 --> 00:07:32,120 Speaker 3: the wrongs, or we can bring them into our life. 124 00:07:32,160 --> 00:07:34,440 Speaker 3: And I just want to encourage every one of us 125 00:07:34,760 --> 00:07:39,480 Speaker 3: to get good at pushing out, pushing out what would 126 00:07:39,520 --> 00:07:40,280 Speaker 3: try to harm us. 127 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:42,000 Speaker 1: Now, the Bible says this. 128 00:07:42,320 --> 00:07:45,560 Speaker 3: It says that we are to forgive those who have 129 00:07:45,640 --> 00:07:46,400 Speaker 3: wronged us. 130 00:07:46,720 --> 00:07:48,040 Speaker 1: We are to forgive. 131 00:07:47,680 --> 00:07:51,280 Speaker 3: Those who persecute us. We are to forgive and pray 132 00:07:51,320 --> 00:07:52,160 Speaker 3: for those people. 133 00:07:52,640 --> 00:07:54,640 Speaker 1: You see, one way to do it is to pray. 134 00:07:55,800 --> 00:07:59,760 Speaker 3: One way to insulate yourself from that irritant, that offense 135 00:08:00,120 --> 00:08:01,680 Speaker 3: that's trying to embed itself in. 136 00:08:01,640 --> 00:08:03,080 Speaker 1: Your heart is to pray. 137 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:07,680 Speaker 3: And every time you pray and you declare, God, I 138 00:08:07,720 --> 00:08:10,520 Speaker 3: forgive that person in the name of Jesus. 139 00:08:11,360 --> 00:08:12,120 Speaker 1: You know what you're doing. 140 00:08:12,280 --> 00:08:17,520 Speaker 3: You're secreting thencre of God's love around that offense. Every 141 00:08:17,680 --> 00:08:22,560 Speaker 3: time you release that wrong into God's hands, You're secreting 142 00:08:23,040 --> 00:08:26,960 Speaker 3: more of the macre of love around that offense. You see, 143 00:08:26,960 --> 00:08:30,600 Speaker 3: we've got to keep that distance between that offense and 144 00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:31,120 Speaker 3: our heart. 145 00:08:32,160 --> 00:08:34,480 Speaker 1: We cannot hold on to a fence. 146 00:08:34,280 --> 00:08:37,760 Speaker 3: Because God wants to get all these good things to us. 147 00:08:38,160 --> 00:08:40,600 Speaker 3: And if we're holding on to the wrong, we can't 148 00:08:40,640 --> 00:08:42,240 Speaker 3: make room for the right. 149 00:08:42,960 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 1: We can't make room for what God wants to do 150 00:08:45,280 --> 00:08:45,880 Speaker 1: in our heart. 151 00:08:46,280 --> 00:08:51,280 Speaker 3: So we must choose love. We must choose what we're 152 00:08:51,280 --> 00:08:52,440 Speaker 3: going to do with that offense. 153 00:08:53,000 --> 00:08:54,760 Speaker 1: Listen to what it says in Luke six'. 154 00:08:54,920 --> 00:08:59,440 Speaker 3: Four it says a good man brings forth good things 155 00:08:59,640 --> 00:09:02,479 Speaker 3: out of it's a good treasure stored. 156 00:09:02,280 --> 00:09:02,560 Speaker 1: Up in his. 157 00:09:02,600 --> 00:09:05,880 Speaker 3: Heart, see that is saying That god wants you to 158 00:09:05,920 --> 00:09:09,439 Speaker 3: store up the good treasure in your. Heart he's, saying 159 00:09:10,080 --> 00:09:17,360 Speaker 3: don't give offense valuable space because it's, bitterness its, resentment it's. 160 00:09:17,760 --> 00:09:21,679 Speaker 3: Pollutants it is things that will pollute your. Life and 161 00:09:21,760 --> 00:09:26,240 Speaker 3: nobody wants those. Things because the truth is what is 162 00:09:26,280 --> 00:09:30,520 Speaker 3: in our heart will come out into our, life and 163 00:09:30,559 --> 00:09:34,160 Speaker 3: many times the things that we have started in our heart. 164 00:09:34,240 --> 00:09:38,040 Speaker 3: Burst so we've got to guard our. Heart that is 165 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:42,440 Speaker 3: What i'm saying, today especially in these times when people 166 00:09:42,480 --> 00:09:46,240 Speaker 3: can say what they want whenever they want about what 167 00:09:46,280 --> 00:09:48,880 Speaker 3: they want and it doesn't even have to be. 168 00:09:49,000 --> 00:09:53,559 Speaker 1: True what makes it true is, this if it has 169 00:09:53,720 --> 00:09:54,360 Speaker 1: power over. 170 00:09:54,400 --> 00:09:57,360 Speaker 3: You you, see it doesn't have to be, true but 171 00:09:57,400 --> 00:09:59,440 Speaker 3: if you give that power over, you it. 172 00:09:59,480 --> 00:10:00,200 Speaker 1: Might as well be. 173 00:10:00,240 --> 00:10:05,600 Speaker 3: Truth so, LISTEN i encourage every one of US, ah 174 00:10:05,640 --> 00:10:08,319 Speaker 3: be aware of what's trying to get itself in your. 175 00:10:08,400 --> 00:10:12,560 Speaker 3: Heart push out that offense and cover it with thencre 176 00:10:12,679 --> 00:10:13,120 Speaker 3: Of god's. 177 00:10:13,200 --> 00:10:15,480 Speaker 1: Love AND i believe AND. 178 00:10:15,520 --> 00:10:20,320 Speaker 3: I declare that you will see pearls of, wisdom pearls of, 179 00:10:20,480 --> 00:10:25,080 Speaker 3: freedom and pearls of abundance being formed in your. 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