WEBVTT - | Ep 42 | Marriage is Shady 0:00:00.720 --> 0:00:04.360 Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect 0:00:04.400 --> 0:00:21.680 Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. What's Up? It is 0:00:21.720 --> 0:00:26.239 another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up? 0:00:26.280 --> 0:00:28.720 What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you again 0:00:28.800 --> 0:00:31.280 for being here with us, all of you. Gosh, we 0:00:31.360 --> 0:00:33.720 love you guys. And guess what if you haven't gotten 0:00:33.720 --> 0:00:35.400 your ticket, you need to go and get that ticket. 0:00:35.520 --> 0:00:39.720 May eighteen, Reasonably Shady is going live. Honey. We are 0:00:39.840 --> 0:00:42.120 up close and personal with all of you in the 0:00:42.200 --> 0:00:43.879 d m V area, or you can fly in. Just 0:00:43.880 --> 0:00:45.640 do do what you want to do. But Robin and 0:00:45.720 --> 0:00:49.640 I are taking this podcast and we're transforming it into 0:00:49.680 --> 0:00:54.000 a live show. I am jumping into the crowd. I am, 0:00:54.040 --> 0:00:57.000 I am chatting with all of you, all your crowdsurfing. 0:00:57.040 --> 0:00:59.440 I'm gonna'm gonna I'm gonna crowdsurfing. Yes, we're gonna have 0:00:59.480 --> 0:01:01.240 a good old time. So you don't want to miss it. 0:01:01.320 --> 0:01:05.040 To definitely get your ticket at reasonably Shady Live dot 0:01:05.080 --> 0:01:09.240 event right dot com. We want to see you and 0:01:09.280 --> 0:01:12.639 hear you in person. Yes we do, Yes we do. Okay, 0:01:12.720 --> 0:01:15.759 So I have a reasonably Shady moment because I'm actually 0:01:15.800 --> 0:01:25.360 boiline piste off. Okay. So about a month ago, I 0:01:25.400 --> 0:01:30.080 have landscapers. I've been using them for maybe ten years, okay, 0:01:30.640 --> 0:01:32.480 and they were at my old house. Now they're at 0:01:32.520 --> 0:01:34.880 my new house. And the guy who owns the company, 0:01:34.880 --> 0:01:36.399 he came and he was like, all right, Jaselle, because 0:01:36.400 --> 0:01:37.840 you know, I told you all about the deer. Remember 0:01:37.840 --> 0:01:42.480 I told you all my folio, um and you guys, 0:01:42.520 --> 0:01:44.840 by the way, sent me all of these tips and 0:01:44.880 --> 0:01:47.080 tricks to get rid of the deer. And I'll go 0:01:47.120 --> 0:01:49.640 over those in a few minutes. But anyway, so he 0:01:49.720 --> 0:01:51.600 was like, all right, I'm gonna replant some other things 0:01:51.920 --> 0:01:54.120 that deer don't eat. So I was like, okay, cool. 0:01:54.200 --> 0:01:55.920 We went over all of that. He was like, we're 0:01:55.920 --> 0:01:59.280 gonna do a spring clean up. Yeah, nothing has happened. 0:01:59.680 --> 0:02:03.480 I have weeds growing that are like you do. Actually 0:02:03.520 --> 0:02:07.160 it's horrible. My house looks crazy. I look like I'm 0:02:07.240 --> 0:02:09.880 broke or something like I can't afford a freaking landscape 0:02:09.919 --> 0:02:12.360 or where are these people now? I understand that they 0:02:12.400 --> 0:02:14.880 are backed up because it has been raining, and I 0:02:14.919 --> 0:02:17.160 think they don't have any workers or something. I don't know. 0:02:17.680 --> 0:02:19.680 I don't care if ya don't come cut my grass. 0:02:20.600 --> 0:02:22.960 I can't even fire them because if I fire them, 0:02:23.000 --> 0:02:25.120 I can't get another landscaper because I think, I mean 0:02:25.200 --> 0:02:28.760 put back. I don't know. Michael might be available. Listen, listen. 0:02:29.200 --> 0:02:31.000 My people got five more minutes, and then I'm going 0:02:31.040 --> 0:02:33.440 with Robbin's people. Okay. So I put that out there, 0:02:34.440 --> 0:02:36.480 and I even text him and said, okay, when y'all coming, 0:02:37.040 --> 0:02:39.560 no response, Oh my gosh, yes, I don't like. That's 0:02:39.560 --> 0:02:42.640 frustrating because I was at your house the other day. 0:02:42.880 --> 0:02:44.800 It was a little like the wild Wild West. It was. 0:02:45.360 --> 0:02:47.720 It was I can't even admit I'm over here looking 0:02:47.800 --> 0:02:53.080 real crazy jankie in the streets. Um. Okay, So do 0:02:53.120 --> 0:02:56.240 you have a reason? So okay, I mean I was 0:02:56.280 --> 0:02:58.200 gonna say I don't because I can't even think straight. 0:02:58.280 --> 0:03:01.200 I'm my reason with shady moment, is it? I'm so 0:03:01.400 --> 0:03:04.920 freaking busy. I'm so busy and my head is about 0:03:04.960 --> 0:03:09.000 to explode and pop off. So that's it, Okayorry, It's 0:03:09.000 --> 0:03:10.720 all I got for you. Okay. So I want to 0:03:10.919 --> 0:03:15.079 I want to um read something because you know, y'all 0:03:15.080 --> 0:03:17.920 always send us a little like tip bits, and y'all 0:03:17.919 --> 0:03:20.880 send the stuff, um and then sometimes y'll just send 0:03:20.880 --> 0:03:22.960 me something. I laugh. Okay, so this is from Aaron 0:03:23.040 --> 0:03:28.080 Plotty and she said, Um, you helped me smoke twenty 0:03:28.160 --> 0:03:31.440 less cigarettes a week. Oh. I've been listening to your 0:03:31.480 --> 0:03:33.760 podcast and you said something about not having to depend 0:03:33.800 --> 0:03:37.040 on things and it got me to thinking, and I 0:03:37.080 --> 0:03:39.760 want to say thank you. I don't remember saying that, 0:03:40.400 --> 0:03:42.760 but if I can help you with your cigarette habit, 0:03:42.880 --> 0:03:45.800 that is awesome. I did a good thing. So you know, 0:03:45.840 --> 0:03:47.920 we're just gonna continue down this road because obviously we're 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:52.160 helping people out here and that's awesome also. Okay, so 0:03:52.200 --> 0:03:54.160 now now that I'm gonna roll here, let me let's 0:03:54.200 --> 0:03:56.400 get back to the deer. Okay, So y'all sent in. 0:03:56.560 --> 0:03:58.760 I said a couple about a month ago that my 0:03:58.800 --> 0:04:01.440 dear ate my tulips, was very upset. And then all 0:04:01.480 --> 0:04:04.240 of a sudden, y'all started, Um, deem me me like 0:04:04.360 --> 0:04:07.560 things to get rid of the deer. So one lady 0:04:07.560 --> 0:04:10.520 in Tyson says she owns a salon. She said, girl, 0:04:10.520 --> 0:04:12.920 all you need to do is like get human hair 0:04:13.440 --> 0:04:16.919 and like sprinkle it all over um your your flowers, 0:04:17.240 --> 0:04:19.280 and the deer won't eat it because it's human hair. 0:04:19.880 --> 0:04:21.480 She was like, I have a salon. You can come 0:04:21.520 --> 0:04:22.920 by and you can pick up a whole bunch of 0:04:23.000 --> 0:04:26.440 human hair and sprinkle it. And I was like, this 0:04:26.560 --> 0:04:32.160 sound crazy? Now that do sound crazy to me? I 0:04:32.240 --> 0:04:35.680 mean hair? Okay, I'm well see, I'm I'm curious to 0:04:35.680 --> 0:04:37.520 see if that works. Number one, but like, how long 0:04:37.600 --> 0:04:39.120 is that less? Because I would think if if the 0:04:39.160 --> 0:04:42.000 wind blows, maybe the hair will blow away, like or 0:04:42.000 --> 0:04:45.120 if it rains, it's something something's gonna happen. I don't know. 0:04:45.200 --> 0:04:49.200 It was really weird. Somebody else told me to sprinkle 0:04:49.279 --> 0:04:52.920 p around human p sound supposed to pee in a 0:04:52.960 --> 0:04:56.600 bucket and just get to sprinkle it. Is that what happens? Yeah, 0:04:56.600 --> 0:04:59.520 I can't do that. Okay, don't do that out? How 0:04:59.560 --> 0:05:02.479 about do do that? Like for what? But Carly shaking 0:05:02.800 --> 0:05:04.960 like it works? Carly says it works. But how long 0:05:05.000 --> 0:05:07.000 does that work for? It works until it rains? I 0:05:07.040 --> 0:05:10.760 guess okay, okay, I'm not doing that one either. So 0:05:11.120 --> 0:05:15.880 that's I'm still having deer issues. Bb gun. That's that's 0:05:15.880 --> 0:05:18.480 also want to say, dear, it's a product called deer off. 0:05:18.960 --> 0:05:22.279 There is so because so there's deer. It's kind of 0:05:22.279 --> 0:05:23.480 like you put it in the dirt. So you put 0:05:23.520 --> 0:05:25.680 it in the soil, and then the plant grows and 0:05:25.680 --> 0:05:28.320 it grows, and deers don't like it. Right done, that 0:05:28.400 --> 0:05:31.040 doesn't work, and then the deer off is just like 0:05:31.240 --> 0:05:33.520 the p the sprinkling the p like once it rains, 0:05:33.520 --> 0:05:35.719 you gotta do it again. No one has time for that, 0:05:36.520 --> 0:05:38.520 No they don't. So anyway, I just want to thank 0:05:38.560 --> 0:05:41.360 you all for sending me your tidbits. Not gonna use them. 0:05:41.400 --> 0:05:45.440 I think you trying to hair the hair, but it's 0:05:45.560 --> 0:05:47.320 supposed to go to the salon and type. Maybe. Okay, 0:05:47.360 --> 0:05:49.080 next time I see Cal, I'll tell you just pull 0:05:49.080 --> 0:05:55.080 one of your wigs apart. Okay, anyway, my wigs are expensive. Okay, anyway, 0:05:55.200 --> 0:05:59.520 moving on, okay, robin um. Oh another thing. So I 0:05:59.640 --> 0:06:03.400 post it about a month so ago that Grace Brian's 0:06:03.640 --> 0:06:06.320 that would be my daughter, she got a driver's license 0:06:06.800 --> 0:06:09.880 and she zoom zooming all around town. I want to 0:06:09.920 --> 0:06:14.200 tell you all you that was so many people responded 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:18.599 with the congratulations to Grace, maybe five people, and so 0:06:18.640 --> 0:06:20.320 I just want to say thank you, and I just 0:06:20.400 --> 0:06:22.760 want to thank you obviously because you you guys are 0:06:22.800 --> 0:06:24.560 on the lookout for her. So if you see her 0:06:24.560 --> 0:06:27.039 on the road driving fast, tell her slow down. You 0:06:27.120 --> 0:06:31.400 had my permission, Okay. Um, alright, so we rob we 0:06:31.400 --> 0:06:34.520 gotta get into some hot topics. Alright, what are we talking? 0:06:34.640 --> 0:06:37.960 So I kind of don't want to talk about this, 0:06:38.000 --> 0:06:39.680 but I know it's near and dear to your heart? 0:06:40.520 --> 0:06:45.680 Is it Jennifer and Benner engage? You know what I 0:06:45.680 --> 0:06:49.440 had to say? I had the same response. Actually, I 0:06:49.520 --> 0:06:52.800 think I'm like over it there because you because I 0:06:52.880 --> 0:06:55.320 was excited that they were back together. But now I'm 0:06:55.320 --> 0:06:58.320 just like, we know how this story is going to end, right, 0:06:58.320 --> 0:07:00.200 how is it gonna end? Are they getting married? They're 0:07:00.200 --> 0:07:02.760 going to break up, They're gonna break up. They're going 0:07:02.800 --> 0:07:04.839 to break up, and then she's going to be in 0:07:04.880 --> 0:07:08.239 a relationship two weeks later, No, I'm sorry, two days 0:07:08.320 --> 0:07:12.960 later with Bradley Cooper, like it's just this not Bradley 0:07:13.000 --> 0:07:15.280 Cooper child. Like Bradley Cooper said, leave him out of it. 0:07:15.440 --> 0:07:18.520 I mean, I'm just saying, had Jennifer Lopez literally I 0:07:18.560 --> 0:07:20.800 don't know what. I had an epiphany and I was 0:07:20.840 --> 0:07:25.440 just like I don't care that they're engaged. I really don't, okay, 0:07:25.840 --> 0:07:29.680 because I'm just like, this is a cycle. It's like 0:07:29.720 --> 0:07:32.040 a story that happens like over and over and over 0:07:32.080 --> 0:07:34.680 again with her. It's so weird, and it's so weird 0:07:34.720 --> 0:07:37.480 that like she'll literally break up with someone and then 0:07:37.560 --> 0:07:42.480 like it feels like five minutes later she's in a 0:07:42.520 --> 0:07:46.800 full fledged relationship with someone else. Yes, seen from what 0:07:46.880 --> 0:07:50.400 was it? From Mark Anthony to back up up, I 0:07:50.400 --> 0:07:51.880 mean I know, I mean, yeah, we gotta go way back. 0:07:51.880 --> 0:07:55.280 We gotta go Puffy, we gotta go before Puffy. That 0:07:55.480 --> 0:07:59.000 the marriage the dancer guy right, Christian Christian? Okay, so 0:07:59.040 --> 0:08:02.239 before Chris. It was the the marriage that from the waiter, 0:08:02.440 --> 0:08:06.840 the waiter. Okay, so it's waiter, dancer, Puffy, the rapper, 0:08:07.720 --> 0:08:14.520 m Ben, Ben, Mark Anthony, Mark Anthony, the now back 0:08:14.520 --> 0:08:18.200 to Ben and there and there probably with somebody in 0:08:18.240 --> 0:08:21.520 between that we missed. Oh yeah, like that she doesn't 0:08:21.520 --> 0:08:26.280 talk about. Listen, listen, Jennifer, get yours? Do you Boo? 0:08:26.360 --> 0:08:29.240 I should collect them Rang. She's been doing Boo, she's 0:08:29.240 --> 0:08:31.240 been doing her but now we're over it. It was 0:08:31.840 --> 0:08:36.200 like a green diamond or something. Oh it is, So 0:08:36.240 --> 0:08:38.480 it's a green green diamond is a that's not that 0:08:38.600 --> 0:08:40.079 I don't know. That was the thing I don't think 0:08:40.080 --> 0:08:42.319 that's a thing. So it's just like really an emerald. 0:08:42.559 --> 0:08:45.080 It's an emerald. No, it's really light, it's pale. It's 0:08:45.080 --> 0:08:48.800 a pale green. Oh it's tim ben do want you 0:08:48.880 --> 0:08:51.640 do that and save your money? But you know, it's 0:08:51.640 --> 0:08:54.880 like weird to me that, like Jennifer Lopez even cares 0:08:54.920 --> 0:08:57.600 about having a ten million dollar ring. You've had fifty, 0:08:57.600 --> 0:09:01.199 You've had so many of them. Like, girl, what happened 0:09:01.240 --> 0:09:02.719 to the ring he gave her before? Did she give 0:09:02.720 --> 0:09:05.680 it back? I don't know, because that one was a 0:09:05.760 --> 0:09:12.800 pink diamond, right or yellow? That one was something different too. Yeah, 0:09:12.920 --> 0:09:14.640 I don't know. Okay, listen, I want him to have 0:09:14.679 --> 0:09:17.600 taken the first ring and gone to the jeweler and said, okay, 0:09:17.679 --> 0:09:20.120 I'm giving you this, put this down on it, and 0:09:20.960 --> 0:09:24.120 so it's really not ten, it's really like five. There. 0:09:24.280 --> 0:09:27.959 Maybe I'm spreading that room. He probably used that other 0:09:28.040 --> 0:09:31.120 ring for Jennifer Garner's ring. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, oh 0:09:31.480 --> 0:09:33.640 no one. And Jennifer Garner has not We have not 0:09:33.720 --> 0:09:37.520 gotten a comment from her at all. Jennifer Garners her old, 0:09:37.520 --> 0:09:50.040 happy jolly self. She fine. We love Jennifer Garner, so 0:09:50.679 --> 0:09:53.520 I would like to talk about this Cam Newton situation. Yes, 0:09:53.840 --> 0:10:01.439 from Yeah, so I you know, Cam is an interesting guy. 0:10:02.640 --> 0:10:06.640 He seemed like, I mean, he's not in the league anymore. Right, 0:10:07.040 --> 0:10:09.520 he's a free agent. He's a free agent, and after this, 0:10:09.559 --> 0:10:11.600 he's probably never gone back. Probably, I don't know, I mean, 0:10:11.720 --> 0:10:14.360 unless somebody signs him, you know who knows. But I 0:10:14.400 --> 0:10:17.360 think he still wants to play. But he's not he's unsigned. 0:10:17.400 --> 0:10:19.680 He's unsigned. Okay, So so tell me what happen around 0:10:19.679 --> 0:10:23.920 because I'm I don't I'm not him, Okay, So um, 0:10:23.960 --> 0:10:26.400 this this is what happened. He went on a podcast 0:10:26.920 --> 0:10:29.760 and he was speaking freely. These podcasts get people in trouble, 0:10:29.880 --> 0:10:34.600 Yes they do, because they're speaking freely about their opinions 0:10:34.720 --> 0:10:38.079 or about their life and their experience. And then you know, 0:10:38.240 --> 0:10:40.400 all the social media gets all, you know, up in 0:10:40.520 --> 0:10:43.839 arms over what they said. So he says he made 0:10:43.880 --> 0:10:46.600 some comments about women. He was saying something like, you know, 0:10:46.600 --> 0:10:48.240 you got all these women out here who are like 0:10:48.400 --> 0:10:50.360 bad you know, they call himself a boss bitch, a 0:10:50.400 --> 0:10:52.960 bad bit he said. But he said, now, a woman 0:10:53.040 --> 0:10:56.640 for me is handling your own but knowing how to 0:10:56.679 --> 0:10:59.760 cater to a man's needs, he said, And I think 0:10:59.800 --> 0:11:02.120 of times when you get that aesthetic of like, I'm 0:11:02.160 --> 0:11:05.000 a boss, bitch, I'm this, I'm that He's like, no, baby, 0:11:05.040 --> 0:11:09.560 but you can't cook. You don't you can't cook. You 0:11:09.600 --> 0:11:11.839 don't know when to be quiet, You don't know how 0:11:11.920 --> 0:11:15.199 to allow a man to lead. So these are his comments. 0:11:15.600 --> 0:11:19.520 So of course people don't like this comment, right, do 0:11:19.600 --> 0:11:24.320 you see? You gotta understand his perspective, what perspective. He 0:11:24.480 --> 0:11:28.360 is a highly paid athlete who is used to having 0:11:28.480 --> 0:11:33.719 to being catered to his entire life. So if what 0:11:33.840 --> 0:11:36.360 he needs and he's like, he don't need a bad 0:11:36.400 --> 0:11:41.200 bitch that is has a career of business that's contributing 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:44.439 financially to the home. He wants and needs a woman 0:11:44.679 --> 0:11:46.760 that's going to cater to him. He wants a woman 0:11:47.000 --> 0:11:50.800 that's going to cook, that's going to you know, just 0:11:51.120 --> 0:11:55.240 provide what he needs from her. Now he's going to 0:11:55.400 --> 0:11:59.600 realize one day, uh, that that ship is temporary, right, 0:11:59.800 --> 0:12:03.680 but but he's still this the whole I'm him being 0:12:03.720 --> 0:12:06.319 the athlete and him being with a woman that is 0:12:06.360 --> 0:12:09.720 catering to his needs. Okay, he's going to realize his 0:12:09.760 --> 0:12:12.760 career is over and he's gonna have to He's going 0:12:12.800 --> 0:12:14.480 to have to bring something to the table to other 0:12:14.480 --> 0:12:17.160 than money, right And okay, And if you're in a 0:12:17.200 --> 0:12:18.920 long term relationship with a woman like that and you 0:12:18.960 --> 0:12:22.280 start off that way, women evolved, So she might have 0:12:22.360 --> 0:12:25.559 started off that way, but he should expect that woman 0:12:25.600 --> 0:12:29.200 to evolve eventually and want to do something for herself. 0:12:29.320 --> 0:12:33.320 So I just think he's still in that spoiled cater 0:12:33.480 --> 0:12:35.920 to athlete mode because he probably still wants to play 0:12:35.920 --> 0:12:38.760 in the NFL. He's very highly paid. But right now, 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:41.440 could he rest on his money? Like, can he retire 0:12:41.480 --> 0:12:45.160 on his money? Yeah? Absolutely, okay, absolutely, So he might 0:12:45.200 --> 0:12:48.120 actually never change that perspective. He might always want a 0:12:48.160 --> 0:12:50.199 woman that's going to cater to him. And what's wrong 0:12:50.240 --> 0:12:52.920 with that? What is wrong with that? If? No, no, no, 0:12:53.360 --> 0:12:56.840 what is wrong with that? If Cam Newton wants his 0:12:57.040 --> 0:13:01.120 woman to cater to him, that's nothing wrong. So that's 0:13:01.160 --> 0:13:04.280 the problem when people get so upset with people's comments. 0:13:04.360 --> 0:13:07.760 He's speaking from his perspective. He's speaking what works for him. 0:13:08.120 --> 0:13:11.240 He's not, but he put it out there broadly, like 0:13:11.360 --> 0:13:13.960 y'all women don't know when to stop talking. Yeah, But 0:13:13.960 --> 0:13:16.480 he's only speaking from his own experience, you know what 0:13:16.520 --> 0:13:19.720 I'm saying. So it's like, what is wrong with him saying? Yeah, 0:13:19.760 --> 0:13:22.280 you might be this, that and the other, but but 0:13:22.400 --> 0:13:24.280 can you cook? About it? They just want you to 0:13:24.360 --> 0:13:29.880 cook the skyle, Yes, open your legs. It cater to 0:13:29.920 --> 0:13:32.679 them like And if that's what he wants, then that's 0:13:32.720 --> 0:13:37.000 what he has because I have some wants to write exactly. Okay, 0:13:37.440 --> 0:13:40.720 So so I just I just have a daughter. He 0:13:40.840 --> 0:13:43.920 got like seven kids, right, So so is this what 0:13:43.960 --> 0:13:46.840 he is? This what he wants for his daughter to um, 0:13:46.880 --> 0:13:49.000 just cook for a man and have sex with them 0:13:49.080 --> 0:13:52.280 and shut the up like that's horrible it I mean 0:13:52.320 --> 0:13:54.600 it is, but I'm I'm just saying that's his perspective. 0:13:54.640 --> 0:13:56.880 And so if he's if he if his daughter is like, daddy, 0:13:56.920 --> 0:14:01.240 I want to marry an NFL quarterback, well he might be, well, daughter, 0:14:02.760 --> 0:14:04.960 you better learn how to you better learn how to 0:14:05.000 --> 0:14:07.040 cook and cater to that man's niece because that's what 0:14:07.160 --> 0:14:10.880 this highly paid NFL quarterback is going to want his 0:14:11.040 --> 0:14:15.600 woman to do. With that perspective, Robin, Um, fine, right, 0:14:15.679 --> 0:14:18.400 that's what he wants. But but but he has you 0:14:18.440 --> 0:14:20.880 got to realize he's out of touch he's so out 0:14:20.920 --> 0:14:24.000 of touch. So like him him commenting on anything about 0:14:24.280 --> 0:14:26.640 you know, relationships or what he wants in a woman. 0:14:26.680 --> 0:14:29.040 It's out of touch. And so people are getting all 0:14:29.160 --> 0:14:31.000 upset with him about his perspective. But we got to 0:14:31.000 --> 0:14:32.840 realize he's so out of touch. He does not live 0:14:32.880 --> 0:14:36.320 in reality, has not lived in reality probably since he 0:14:36.400 --> 0:14:38.760 was like a twelve year old kid, and you know, 0:14:38.800 --> 0:14:44.640 watching his mother, he married or got a significant other. No, 0:14:44.840 --> 0:14:47.080 he's not, he's not married. I know he had a 0:14:47.120 --> 0:14:49.720 long time, a long time girlfriend that he had a 0:14:49.720 --> 0:14:53.040 bunch of kids with and then yeah, and then I 0:14:53.080 --> 0:14:56.280 don't know, I don't because she talked No, you know why. 0:14:56.400 --> 0:14:58.200 They probably didn't work out because she had all these 0:14:58.240 --> 0:14:59.880 kids and she had to cater to the kids and 0:15:00.040 --> 0:15:01.880 wasn't catering at him no more, right, and then all 0:15:01.920 --> 0:15:04.080 of a sudden she had an opinion, So I had 0:15:04.080 --> 0:15:06.440 out opinion. So so this is thing, Okay, like cam Newton, 0:15:06.440 --> 0:15:09.200 if that's what you want, then just just be prepared 0:15:09.640 --> 0:15:11.720 for what you're going to receive. You're probably not going 0:15:11.760 --> 0:15:14.600 to have a woman that's well rounded, no, or that 0:15:14.760 --> 0:15:17.960 is ambitious or motivated, or that's going to bring anything 0:15:17.960 --> 0:15:21.480 to the table, but cooking for you and having sex 0:15:21.600 --> 0:15:23.800 and making sure you're okay. Like that's so if that's 0:15:23.840 --> 0:15:25.600 what he wants, that's what he wants. I think. I 0:15:25.640 --> 0:15:29.880 think that's what I want. I don't think I've decided 0:15:30.400 --> 0:15:32.960 I don't need all your back talk, right, I don't 0:15:32.960 --> 0:15:35.960 need all this. Oh we gotta talk about how we feel? No, 0:15:36.640 --> 0:15:39.240 we don't, but you know, I mean it's like I 0:15:39.280 --> 0:15:41.640 just hate when you know, it's just like people just 0:15:41.680 --> 0:15:44.200 get so up in arms and oh they want to 0:15:44.280 --> 0:15:46.680 drag people through the mudd on Twitter and do all this, 0:15:46.720 --> 0:15:48.920 and it's like, no, just step back and realize, like 0:15:49.320 --> 0:15:51.600 his perspective where he's coming from. I get it where 0:15:51.600 --> 0:15:53.560 he's coming from, and it's different. So it's like, ladies, 0:15:53.600 --> 0:15:57.520 if if you want to marry or date an NFL quarterback, 0:15:57.840 --> 0:16:00.240 then that's what you got in Cam Newton's talent. That's 0:16:00.280 --> 0:16:02.040 what you got to bring to the table. He don't 0:16:02.120 --> 0:16:05.040 care if you own a business, he don't want that. 0:16:05.520 --> 0:16:09.840 And everybody to to get out here what you want now. Now, 0:16:09.840 --> 0:16:13.920 if it was Joe Joe Schmo collecting you know on 0:16:14.040 --> 0:16:19.360 the trash truck, he tripping, Okay, you're tripping tripping dude. 0:16:19.360 --> 0:16:21.840 All right, you know what I say, Joe Schmoe, I 0:16:21.880 --> 0:16:24.560 got something. I got some back talk for you. Or 0:16:24.600 --> 0:16:28.800 even if rightly it's twelve o two, you're not home 0:16:29.040 --> 0:16:34.040 right out of here, right, but imagine like, okay, if 0:16:34.080 --> 0:16:36.640 Barack Obama said that, yeah, we got a problem saying 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:42.000 because he's speaking for he's representing the masses, he's you know, influential. 0:16:42.040 --> 0:16:43.840 But Cam Newton a quarter ba. But let's look at 0:16:43.880 --> 0:16:46.680 Tom Brady. You know he has Giselle and she was 0:16:47.200 --> 0:16:49.720 obviously well, first of all, we know Jase got a mouth, 0:16:49.800 --> 0:16:55.800 okay because she didn't share that um. And we know 0:16:55.880 --> 0:16:58.800 that she's like no wall flowers. She's not like I mean, 0:16:58.840 --> 0:17:03.480 she she wasn't home making having babies, but I could. 0:17:03.640 --> 0:17:06.240 I don't I see her being more of a partner 0:17:06.520 --> 0:17:09.000 for him, right, probably so, But that's what works for 0:17:09.040 --> 0:17:11.800 Tom Brady. True, you know what I'm saying, Like I 0:17:11.840 --> 0:17:14.679 think you know and and and I think it's different 0:17:14.720 --> 0:17:19.480 Tom Brady he got with supermodel Jell And what I'm saying, 0:17:19.560 --> 0:17:22.920 so his perspective, he's going to come into that relationship little, 0:17:23.240 --> 0:17:27.760 He's going to be the the one catering too her, right, 0:17:28.119 --> 0:17:30.840 and him like just called Uber eats Cam. I mean 0:17:31.080 --> 0:17:35.280 that serious? Is that serious? I know? But you gotta 0:17:35.359 --> 0:17:38.199 understand they're used to not just their women cater to them, 0:17:38.280 --> 0:17:42.000 it's their coaches and the trainers and the parents and 0:17:42.040 --> 0:17:46.400 the fans and the like. They're they're used to everybody 0:17:46.440 --> 0:17:49.040 around them catering to them and making stuff happen. They 0:17:49.040 --> 0:17:50.879 don't even know how it happens. They don't even they 0:17:50.920 --> 0:17:53.600 don't know what goes into it. So it's just like, yeah, 0:17:53.680 --> 0:17:56.320 so like like why like y'all leave him alone? Okay, 0:17:56.400 --> 0:17:58.760 we're moving on from camp. Okay, now I do want 0:17:58.760 --> 0:18:02.000 to talk about there was a Russian influencer, right that 0:18:02.160 --> 0:18:04.920 cut up a bunch of Chanell bags. It's a bunch 0:18:04.960 --> 0:18:08.040 of It was like a little movement apparently on Instagram, right. 0:18:08.119 --> 0:18:10.160 I don't I don't really know much of this. So 0:18:10.160 --> 0:18:12.600 so Chanel, you know, with this whole and can you 0:18:12.640 --> 0:18:15.840 believe that this Russian Russia and Ukraine war is still 0:18:15.880 --> 0:18:21.520 going on? Which is better? No? I mean it's it's horrible. 0:18:21.600 --> 0:18:23.400 Like I mean, we could go, we could, we could 0:18:23.400 --> 0:18:25.919 talk for hours about the atrocities of this war. But 0:18:26.160 --> 0:18:31.200 so apparently the Chanel stores in other parts of Europe 0:18:31.400 --> 0:18:37.080 were denying Russian people um the ability or privileged to 0:18:37.119 --> 0:18:42.680 buy their Mergerise listen Chanelle's gang stuff. Chanel has taken 0:18:42.680 --> 0:18:45.080 a stand. I'm not mad at it, and I'm not 0:18:45.119 --> 0:18:46.800 sure if it was like one country or a bunch 0:18:46.800 --> 0:18:51.680 of countries, but somewhere a Chanel store said you Russian, 0:18:51.720 --> 0:18:54.879 you ain't buy. No, you're not buying ourself. So the 0:18:54.960 --> 0:18:59.720 Russian influencers got mad and we're literally on Instagram cutting 0:19:00.160 --> 0:19:03.119 their channel bags. What how were they cutting them? Not 0:19:03.160 --> 0:19:05.720 just like regular senses that you buy a CVS. What 0:19:05.760 --> 0:19:09.679 were they using these bags? Because I got plenty and 0:19:09.720 --> 0:19:13.200 then you can't cut them? How you could? You could 0:19:13.320 --> 0:19:16.160 get it? They probably had knives and they were getting 0:19:16.160 --> 0:19:19.440 in there and cutting those bags, And I'm like, damn it, y'all, 0:19:19.600 --> 0:19:21.920 why didn't y'all just like you could have just sent them, 0:19:23.000 --> 0:19:26.720 sent them the ribbing. You know, you don't have to 0:19:26.760 --> 0:19:28.920 cut them. I mean, because let's couldn't they could have 0:19:28.960 --> 0:19:32.399 taken video of them packaging their channel bags, putting it 0:19:32.400 --> 0:19:35.119 in a box and putting a shipping label on it 0:19:35.400 --> 0:19:37.760 and dropping it off at ups. That would have made 0:19:37.760 --> 0:19:39.439 a stake, That would have made a statement because we 0:19:39.520 --> 0:19:45.119 all know channel bags are like, um, they don't depreciate, 0:19:45.160 --> 0:19:48.160 they appreciate, so you can sell your bag and get 0:19:48.200 --> 0:19:50.639 more money. But I guess those girls were like, you 0:19:50.680 --> 0:19:53.520 know what, we don't need your damn bags, and we're 0:19:53.520 --> 0:19:55.680 gonna cut this ship up because money ain't a thing, 0:19:56.520 --> 0:19:59.280 but it is. You're just a Russian influencer. Yeah, I 0:19:59.320 --> 0:20:01.600 mean you need Yeah, that's what you do for a living. 0:20:01.880 --> 0:20:05.560 Like I mean, did they get plenty of hits? Did 0:20:05.560 --> 0:20:08.080 they what did they get to an Oligard? Okay, the 0:20:08.560 --> 0:20:12.440 yacht with their oldergarden. I've been looking for a Oligard. 0:20:12.560 --> 0:20:15.280 I'm just kidding, Okay, And you're going to be catering 0:20:15.280 --> 0:20:17.439 to that man and show I know, I know, shutting 0:20:17.480 --> 0:20:19.480 the hell up and me and all of his eight 0:20:19.520 --> 0:20:24.120 hundred girlfriends like hell no, Um, listen, that's why you know, 0:20:24.600 --> 0:20:26.400 not being in a relationship is a good thing because 0:20:26.400 --> 0:20:32.399 then you can tell other people shut the funk up. Okay, yeah, yeah, exactly. Um, Okay, 0:20:32.440 --> 0:20:34.920 so that is insane. But I'm not mad at you 0:20:35.040 --> 0:20:39.679 now for that. But but I ben't gonna stop the war. 0:20:39.760 --> 0:20:42.320 But but what it does do is it reminds me 0:20:42.400 --> 0:20:44.440 a little bit because it's like where do you draw 0:20:44.440 --> 0:20:46.840 the line right? In all series? Because remember when Oprah 0:20:46.880 --> 0:20:49.560 couldn't go into Herman's like she got she they wouldn't 0:20:49.600 --> 0:20:50.840 let her in. She I think she was in London. 0:20:50.920 --> 0:20:52.879 She tells a story like she tried to get in 0:20:53.280 --> 0:20:55.760 and they kind of like it was like late, like 0:20:55.800 --> 0:20:57.639 it was the store was getting ready to close, and 0:20:57.680 --> 0:21:00.879 they're happening to me and Louis Vuitton and Florida that 0:21:01.080 --> 0:21:03.560 last week. They're like, do you have an appointment? I 0:21:03.680 --> 0:21:06.119 was like no, We're like, well, you can't come in. 0:21:06.960 --> 0:21:11.639 Robert Dixon was Black Hall from Louis Vadon. What happened? Robert? 0:21:11.680 --> 0:21:13.480 Why you this is your shady moment of the week. 0:21:13.840 --> 0:21:15.200 But that was like a few weeks. That was when 0:21:15.280 --> 0:21:17.639 that was. That was when we were on break. Okay, 0:21:17.880 --> 0:21:20.520 so they didn't let you in. No, they're literally at 0:21:20.520 --> 0:21:24.359 the door. It was the mall um in Florida. So no, 0:21:24.840 --> 0:21:27.320 what's it called? Not sorry, what's the Evan torm all 0:21:27.480 --> 0:21:30.639 in Florida? Okay? And I went my kids and we 0:21:30.720 --> 0:21:33.040