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Speaker 1: Welcome to Reasonably Shady, a production of the Black Effect

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Speaker 1: Podcast Network and I Heart Radio. What's Up? It is

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Speaker 1: another episode of Reasonably Shady. I am Gazelle Bryant. What's up?

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Speaker 1: What's up? Everyone? This is Robin Dixon. Thank you again

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Speaker 1: for being here with us, all of you. Gosh, we

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Speaker 1: love you guys. And guess what if you haven't gotten

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Speaker 1: your ticket, you need to go and get that ticket.

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Speaker 1: May eighteen, Reasonably Shady is going live. Honey. We are

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Speaker 1: up close and personal with all of you in the

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Speaker 1: d m V area, or you can fly in. Just

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Speaker 1: do do what you want to do. But Robin and

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Speaker 1: I are taking this podcast and we're transforming it into

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Speaker 1: a live show. I am jumping into the crowd. I am,

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Speaker 1: I am chatting with all of you, all your crowdsurfing.

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Speaker 1: I'm gonna'm gonna I'm gonna crowdsurfing. Yes, we're gonna have

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Speaker 1: a good old time. So you don't want to miss it.

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Speaker 1: To definitely get your ticket at reasonably Shady Live dot

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Speaker 1: event right dot com. We want to see you and

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Speaker 1: hear you in person. Yes we do, Yes we do. Okay,

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Speaker 1: So I have a reasonably Shady moment because I'm actually

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Speaker 1: boiline piste off. Okay. So about a month ago, I

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Speaker 1: have landscapers. I've been using them for maybe ten years, okay,

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Speaker 1: and they were at my old house. Now they're at

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Speaker 1: my new house. And the guy who owns the company,

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Speaker 1: he came and he was like, all right, Jaselle, because

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Speaker 1: you know, I told you all about the deer. Remember

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Speaker 1: I told you all my folio, um and you guys,

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Speaker 1: by the way, sent me all of these tips and

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Speaker 1: tricks to get rid of the deer. And I'll go

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Speaker 1: over those in a few minutes. But anyway, so he

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Speaker 1: was like, all right, I'm gonna replant some other things

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Speaker 1: that deer don't eat. So I was like, okay, cool.

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Speaker 1: We went over all of that. He was like, we're

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Speaker 1: gonna do a spring clean up. Yeah, nothing has happened.

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Speaker 1: I have weeds growing that are like you do. Actually

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Speaker 1: it's horrible. My house looks crazy. I look like I'm

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Speaker 1: broke or something like I can't afford a freaking landscape

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Speaker 1: or where are these people now? I understand that they

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Speaker 1: are backed up because it has been raining, and I

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Speaker 1: think they don't have any workers or something. I don't know.

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Speaker 1: I don't care if ya don't come cut my grass.

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Speaker 1: I can't even fire them because if I fire them,

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Speaker 1: I can't get another landscaper because I think, I mean

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Speaker 1: put back. I don't know. Michael might be available. Listen, listen.

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Speaker 1: My people got five more minutes, and then I'm going

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Speaker 1: with Robbin's people. Okay. So I put that out there,

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Speaker 1: and I even text him and said, okay, when y'all coming,

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Speaker 1: no response, Oh my gosh, yes, I don't like. That's

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Speaker 1: frustrating because I was at your house the other day.

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Speaker 1: It was a little like the wild Wild West. It was.

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Speaker 1: It was I can't even admit I'm over here looking

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Speaker 1: real crazy jankie in the streets. Um. Okay, So do

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Speaker 1: you have a reason? So okay, I mean I was

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Speaker 1: gonna say I don't because I can't even think straight.

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Speaker 1: I'm my reason with shady moment, is it? I'm so

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Speaker 1: freaking busy. I'm so busy and my head is about

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Speaker 1: to explode and pop off. So that's it, Okayorry, It's

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Speaker 1: all I got for you. Okay. So I want to

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Speaker 1: I want to um read something because you know, y'all

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Speaker 1: always send us a little like tip bits, and y'all

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Speaker 1: send the stuff, um and then sometimes y'll just send

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Speaker 1: me something. I laugh. Okay, so this is from Aaron

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Speaker 1: Plotty and she said, Um, you helped me smoke twenty

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Speaker 1: less cigarettes a week. Oh. I've been listening to your

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Speaker 1: podcast and you said something about not having to depend

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Speaker 1: on things and it got me to thinking, and I

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Speaker 1: want to say thank you. I don't remember saying that,

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Speaker 1: but if I can help you with your cigarette habit,

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Speaker 1: that is awesome. I did a good thing. So you know,

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Speaker 1: we're just gonna continue down this road because obviously we're

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Speaker 1: helping people out here and that's awesome also. Okay, so

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Speaker 1: now now that I'm gonna roll here, let me let's

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Speaker 1: get back to the deer. Okay, So y'all sent in.

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Speaker 1: I said a couple about a month ago that my

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Speaker 1: dear ate my tulips, was very upset. And then all

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Speaker 1: of a sudden, y'all started, Um, deem me me like

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Speaker 1: things to get rid of the deer. So one lady

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Speaker 1: She was like, I have a salon. You can come

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Speaker 1: human hair and sprinkle it. And I was like, this

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Speaker 1: about do do that? Like for what? But Carly shaking

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Speaker 1: like it works? Carly says it works. But how long

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Speaker 1: also want to say, dear, it's a product called deer off.

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Speaker 1: There is so because so there's deer. It's kind of

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Speaker 1: like you put it in the dirt. So you put

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Speaker 1: No they don't. So anyway, I just want to thank

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Speaker 1: you all for sending me your tidbits. Not gonna use them.

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Speaker 1: I think you trying to hair the hair, but it's

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Speaker 1: supposed to go to the salon and type. Maybe. Okay,

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Speaker 1: next time I see Cal, I'll tell you just pull

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Speaker 1: one of your wigs apart. Okay, anyway, my wigs are expensive. Okay, anyway,

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Speaker 1: moving on, okay, robin um. Oh another thing. So I

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Speaker 1: post it about a month so ago that Grace Brian's

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Speaker 1: that would be my daughter, she got a driver's license

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Speaker 1: and she zoom zooming all around town. I want to

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Speaker 1: with the congratulations to Grace, maybe five people, and so

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Speaker 1: on the lookout for her. So if you see her

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Speaker 1: had my permission, Okay. Um, alright, so we rob we

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Speaker 1: gotta get into some hot topics. Alright, what are we talking?

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Speaker 1: So I kind of don't want to talk about this,

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Speaker 1: but I know it's near and dear to your heart?

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Speaker 1: Is it Jennifer and Benner engage? You know what I

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Speaker 1: think I'm like over it there because you because I

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Speaker 1: just like, we know how this story is going to end, right,

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Speaker 1: how is it gonna end? Are they getting married? They're

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Speaker 1: going to break up, They're gonna break up. They're going

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Speaker 1: a relationship two weeks later, No, I'm sorry, two days

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Speaker 1: later with Bradley Cooper, like it's just this not Bradley

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Speaker 1: I mean, I'm just saying, had Jennifer Lopez literally I

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Speaker 1: just like I don't care that they're engaged. I really don't, okay,

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Speaker 1: because I'm just like, this is a cycle. It's like

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Speaker 1: again with her. It's so weird, and it's so weird

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Speaker 1: that like she'll literally break up with someone and then

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Speaker 1: like it feels like five minutes later she's in a

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Speaker 1: full fledged relationship with someone else. Yes, seen from what

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Speaker 1: mean I know, I mean, yeah, we gotta go way back.

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Speaker 1: We gotta go Puffy, we gotta go before Puffy. That

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Speaker 1: the marriage the dancer guy right, Christian Christian? Okay, so

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Speaker 1: before Chris. It was the the marriage that from the waiter,

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Speaker 1: the waiter. Okay, so it's waiter, dancer, Puffy, the rapper,

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Speaker 1: to Ben and there and there probably with somebody in

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Speaker 1: between that we missed. Oh yeah, like that she doesn't

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Speaker 1: I should collect them Rang. She's been doing Boo, she's

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Speaker 1: been doing her but now we're over it. It was

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Speaker 1: like a green diamond or something. Oh it is, So

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Speaker 1: it's a green green diamond is a that's not that

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Speaker 1: It's an emerald. No, it's really light, it's pale. It's

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Speaker 1: a pale green. Oh it's tim ben do want you

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Speaker 1: do that and save your money? But you know, it's

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Speaker 1: like weird to me that, like Jennifer Lopez even cares

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Speaker 1: Maybe I'm spreading that room. He probably used that other

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Speaker 1: ring for Jennifer Garner's ring. Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, oh

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Speaker 1: no one. And Jennifer Garner has not We have not

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Speaker 1: I would like to talk about this Cam Newton situation. Yes,

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Speaker 1: from Yeah, so I you know, Cam is an interesting guy.

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Speaker 1: He seemed like, I mean, he's not in the league anymore. Right,

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Speaker 1: think he still wants to play. But he's not he's unsigned.

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Speaker 1: He's unsigned. Okay, So so tell me what happen around

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Speaker 1: because I'm I don't I'm not him, Okay, So um,

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Speaker 1: this this is what happened. He went on a podcast

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Speaker 1: and he was speaking freely. These podcasts get people in trouble,

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Speaker 1: Yes they do, because they're speaking freely about their opinions

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Speaker 1: or about their life and their experience. And then you know,

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Speaker 1: all the social media gets all, you know, up in

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Speaker 1: arms over what they said. So he says he made

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Speaker 1: some comments about women. He was saying something like, you know,

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Speaker 1: bad you know, they call himself a boss bitch, a

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Speaker 1: bad bit he said. But he said, now, a woman

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Speaker 1: a boss, bitch, I'm this, I'm that He's like, no, baby,

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Speaker 1: but you can't cook. You don't you can't cook. You

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Speaker 1: to allow a man to lead. So these are his comments.

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Speaker 1: just walked right down to the because Gucci knew who

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Speaker 1: you were, and they said, move over, here comes Robin

420
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Speaker 1: and the boys. No. I mean, I ain't buying nothing,

421
00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:38,639
Speaker 1: but okay, okay, alright, really quick, y'all, and this is

422
00:22:38,920 --> 00:22:41,879
Speaker 1: this is going to be our first and reasonably shady history.

423
00:22:42,200 --> 00:22:44,959
Speaker 1: I have another appointment. I need to get to so

424
00:22:45,040 --> 00:22:48,280
Speaker 1: I'm going to hand my mic over to Carly. Yes, okay,

425
00:22:48,320 --> 00:22:50,679
Speaker 1: so Carly is gonna take my place. But but I

426
00:22:50,720 --> 00:22:52,320
Speaker 1: really wanted to be here for this topic. So we

427
00:22:52,359 --> 00:22:55,040
Speaker 1: have a really cool topic to talk about. Um, it

428
00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:56,960
Speaker 1: came from a busfeed article and I think this is

429
00:22:57,000 --> 00:22:59,520
Speaker 1: a good discussion for people to have. So the topic

430
00:22:59,720 --> 00:23:05,000
Speaker 1: is married people are sharing the brutally real things unmarried

431
00:23:05,040 --> 00:23:08,800
Speaker 1: couples need to know before taking that step. This is

432
00:23:08,840 --> 00:23:10,720
Speaker 1: gonna be good. And I just think, you know, we

433
00:23:10,840 --> 00:23:12,679
Speaker 1: just talked about Cam Newton and what he wants in

434
00:23:12,680 --> 00:23:14,920
Speaker 1: a woman, so we know you know the truth about

435
00:23:14,960 --> 00:23:17,560
Speaker 1: Cam Newton. So if you don't like that, don't marry him. Right,

436
00:23:17,720 --> 00:23:19,680
Speaker 1: But anyway, so this is a really good topic. So

437
00:23:19,720 --> 00:23:21,840
Speaker 1: they have a whole bunch of topics you can go over.

438
00:23:21,960 --> 00:23:26,679
Speaker 1: So Carly. Everyone give a warm welcome round of applause

439
00:23:26,760 --> 00:23:29,240
Speaker 1: with Carly because Robin gotta hop off and go do

440
00:23:29,400 --> 00:23:35,160
Speaker 1: something else. Yes, okay, so here comes Carlie. All right, So, um,

441
00:23:35,240 --> 00:23:37,320
Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this whope this one thing. Okay, So

442
00:23:37,440 --> 00:23:42,080
Speaker 1: marriage is rarely marriage is rarely too strong people, Right,

443
00:23:42,400 --> 00:23:44,879
Speaker 1: in a marriage, you have like maybe one strong person

444
00:23:44,960 --> 00:23:46,960
Speaker 1: the other one is not so strong, like somebody always

445
00:23:46,960 --> 00:23:49,920
Speaker 1: has to take the lead. And a relationship, Um, it's

446
00:23:49,920 --> 00:23:53,719
Speaker 1: about taking turns, about being strong for each other, all right.

447
00:23:54,000 --> 00:23:56,359
Speaker 1: So that's kind of like the premise. Okay. So the

448
00:23:56,400 --> 00:24:01,720
Speaker 1: most valuable piece of advice that was received from a

449
00:24:01,840 --> 00:24:06,159
Speaker 1: married couple in advance was you're vowing to stay together.

450
00:24:06,760 --> 00:24:10,520
Speaker 1: You are not vowing to stay the same people. Oh,

451
00:24:10,600 --> 00:24:13,600
Speaker 1: that's very important. That is extremely important. By the way,

452
00:24:13,640 --> 00:24:16,240
Speaker 1: this is Carly, dump dump dumb. It's not Robin's voice anymore.

453
00:24:16,240 --> 00:24:19,960
Speaker 1: It's Carla. Okay. So somebody told me that when I

454
00:24:19,960 --> 00:24:22,480
Speaker 1: first got married, they were like the person the people

455
00:24:22,480 --> 00:24:24,359
Speaker 1: that you are now. As a matter of fact, Jamal

456
00:24:24,359 --> 00:24:27,680
Speaker 1: and I went to marriage counseling, right, A lot of

457
00:24:27,680 --> 00:24:29,680
Speaker 1: people don't do that. People don't do that. I think

458
00:24:29,680 --> 00:24:34,159
Speaker 1: it's very important. Um. So the counselor was like, um,

459
00:24:34,200 --> 00:24:36,720
Speaker 1: you know, the person that you're married now will not

460
00:24:36,800 --> 00:24:40,359
Speaker 1: be that person you know down the road because you

461
00:24:40,359 --> 00:24:43,200
Speaker 1: want the person. And it's a it's a strange concept

462
00:24:43,240 --> 00:24:47,399
Speaker 1: because it's like you're marrying the person in the moment, yes,

463
00:24:47,520 --> 00:24:50,119
Speaker 1: and then you realize that person is not even that

464
00:24:50,200 --> 00:24:53,120
Speaker 1: same person a year later, Yes, a year later, six

465
00:24:53,160 --> 00:24:59,120
Speaker 1: months later, ship thirty days, damn it not so so

466
00:24:59,160 --> 00:25:00,879
Speaker 1: the person says, yes, I really hit home and they

467
00:25:00,880 --> 00:25:03,120
Speaker 1: found out that information. And honestly, the more I thought

468
00:25:03,160 --> 00:25:06,080
Speaker 1: about it, the more comfortable I have been through all

469
00:25:06,160 --> 00:25:08,560
Speaker 1: the changes. My husband and I are not the same

470
00:25:08,600 --> 00:25:12,280
Speaker 1: people we were thirteen years ago, but it's been wonderful

471
00:25:12,320 --> 00:25:15,640
Speaker 1: growing with him. Now that's a good news story. Okay,

472
00:25:15,840 --> 00:25:18,520
Speaker 1: let's talk about the bad because you know, let me

473
00:25:18,560 --> 00:25:21,680
Speaker 1: just say this, Gezelle is not the same person that

474
00:25:21,800 --> 00:25:27,960
Speaker 1: she was m M five years ago, five years ago. Like,

475
00:25:28,080 --> 00:25:33,280
Speaker 1: I really like when I'm home and I'm alone. I

476
00:25:33,359 --> 00:25:36,680
Speaker 1: really like when I don't have anything to do, um,

477
00:25:36,720 --> 00:25:39,520
Speaker 1: because you're always so busy, right, so I think. But

478
00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:43,080
Speaker 1: I think if I was married to that same person, right,

479
00:25:43,200 --> 00:25:45,040
Speaker 1: because Jamal likes to be out and about, he's all

480
00:25:45,040 --> 00:25:47,639
Speaker 1: over the place, right, I would not be together because

481
00:25:47,800 --> 00:25:51,359
Speaker 1: I truly like to be home and doing nothing. Like

482
00:25:51,359 --> 00:25:52,560
Speaker 1: when I get up in the morning, I'm trying to

483
00:25:52,560 --> 00:25:54,000
Speaker 1: figure out how many more days I have to do

484
00:25:54,040 --> 00:25:59,879
Speaker 1: this before I can do nothing. So yeah, that's that's like,

485
00:26:01,119 --> 00:26:04,920
Speaker 1: you need to know how the other person is growing, right,

486
00:26:05,600 --> 00:26:09,000
Speaker 1: and whether you're going to like that person. I also

487
00:26:09,080 --> 00:26:12,440
Speaker 1: think that as women, we do a better job at

488
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:18,040
Speaker 1: being accommodating and understanding how they're changing where I think

489
00:26:18,080 --> 00:26:20,320
Speaker 1: men got to get stuck in their ways because they

490
00:26:20,359 --> 00:26:22,159
Speaker 1: married us for who we were at the time that

491
00:26:22,200 --> 00:26:24,480
Speaker 1: they married us. They want us to look the same,

492
00:26:24,520 --> 00:26:26,280
Speaker 1: They want us to act the same. They don't want

493
00:26:26,359 --> 00:26:29,680
Speaker 1: us to be any different talk than who we were

494
00:26:30,359 --> 00:26:34,240
Speaker 1: day one. Listen and I'm gonna change. Okay, I'm gonna

495
00:26:34,240 --> 00:26:37,600
Speaker 1: do something called change. Now. Treat your spouse better than

496
00:26:37,640 --> 00:26:40,919
Speaker 1: you treat strangers. We are friends who were polite to

497
00:26:41,040 --> 00:26:44,560
Speaker 1: service people and distant acquaintances, but skip the manners with

498
00:26:44,600 --> 00:26:48,120
Speaker 1: their spouse. Please and thank you. You guys show some appreciation. Now,

499
00:26:48,520 --> 00:26:54,040
Speaker 1: that is very true. But that's even true with family, right, So, like,

500
00:26:54,200 --> 00:26:56,520
Speaker 1: you know, you might treat your mom or dad, or

501
00:26:56,560 --> 00:26:59,640
Speaker 1: your sisters or brothers kind of like you take them

502
00:26:59,640 --> 00:27:02,280
Speaker 1: for grant it, and you can't do that. Like the

503
00:27:02,560 --> 00:27:05,359
Speaker 1: pleasing thank you. It's a small thing, but it makes

504
00:27:05,400 --> 00:27:09,640
Speaker 1: such a difference to make you feel appreciated and wanted

505
00:27:10,000 --> 00:27:12,960
Speaker 1: and desired. All of those things are super important, and

506
00:27:13,040 --> 00:27:15,280
Speaker 1: we totally lose that. They'd be like do this, do that,

507
00:27:16,000 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 1: and they'll be like please, you'd be like no now, okay,

508
00:27:19,720 --> 00:27:23,399
Speaker 1: no anybody talking to me like that. But um, I

509
00:27:23,440 --> 00:27:26,399
Speaker 1: get it, Like people just get comfortable. Don't be getting

510
00:27:26,400 --> 00:27:28,960
Speaker 1: comfortable with your spouse that you can't say thank you.

511
00:27:29,359 --> 00:27:31,160
Speaker 1: I mean, even in the bad room. If he does

512
00:27:31,200 --> 00:27:33,680
Speaker 1: a trick or two that's new, say thank you baby.

513
00:27:33,720 --> 00:27:37,320
Speaker 1: That was good job, good job that you you flipped

514
00:27:37,320 --> 00:27:41,240
Speaker 1: me over and you did the special trick. Yes, good job.

515
00:27:41,880 --> 00:27:44,040
Speaker 1: Let me tell you something that's very important, all right,

516
00:27:44,080 --> 00:27:46,000
Speaker 1: So you gotta pick and choose your battles. You gotta

517
00:27:46,080 --> 00:27:48,400
Speaker 1: learn to let no some This was advice I did get.

518
00:27:48,720 --> 00:27:50,560
Speaker 1: You have to pick a matter of fact, my mother

519
00:27:50,560 --> 00:27:54,040
Speaker 1: gave me this advice. Did you implement it? Okay? So

520
00:27:54,359 --> 00:27:58,879
Speaker 1: the advice is to to learn to let some stuff go. There.

521
00:27:58,920 --> 00:28:01,199
Speaker 1: There will be points you are going to want to

522
00:28:01,280 --> 00:28:04,320
Speaker 1: kill each other, but you will figure out, figure it out,

523
00:28:04,320 --> 00:28:06,960
Speaker 1: and move on. So don't stay mad forever about something

524
00:28:07,000 --> 00:28:09,600
Speaker 1: that probably isn't that big of a deal in the

525
00:28:09,640 --> 00:28:11,720
Speaker 1: grand scheme of things. So, in other words, you gotta

526
00:28:11,720 --> 00:28:14,639
Speaker 1: pick and choose your battles. Um did I implement it

527
00:28:14,680 --> 00:28:17,600
Speaker 1: in the beginning years. Absolutely, not like I was mad

528
00:28:17,600 --> 00:28:22,280
Speaker 1: about everything. But but where do you draw the line?

529
00:28:22,480 --> 00:28:24,840
Speaker 1: I don't know where do you draw the line where

530
00:28:24,880 --> 00:28:29,679
Speaker 1: you're not now sacrificing yourself right in your happiness and

531
00:28:29,720 --> 00:28:33,360
Speaker 1: your peace. So you have to figure out what battles are.

532
00:28:33,800 --> 00:28:35,560
Speaker 1: Like when I said it was mad about everything, I'm

533
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:39,800
Speaker 1: going to put this in perspective. Please, Why are your

534
00:28:39,880 --> 00:28:43,800
Speaker 1: socks over there in the corner when they should be

535
00:28:44,240 --> 00:28:48,720
Speaker 1: in like the hamper? But it's not really about the socks, Yeah,

536
00:28:48,720 --> 00:28:53,000
Speaker 1: because I don't want to sock there, No, But I

537
00:28:53,080 --> 00:28:56,000
Speaker 1: really think there was a bigger issue. Socks is just

538
00:28:56,120 --> 00:28:59,840
Speaker 1: like the straw. Okay, So why is there toothpaste in

539
00:28:59,840 --> 00:29:02,880
Speaker 1: the sink? Like you couldn't have like washed that down?

540
00:29:02,960 --> 00:29:06,080
Speaker 1: So was he doing that day one though? Probably was

541
00:29:06,080 --> 00:29:08,800
Speaker 1: he doing that when y'all were dating? Okay? So why

542
00:29:09,080 --> 00:29:12,280
Speaker 1: is there like hair everywhere? Like it's just ridiculous, Like

543
00:29:12,680 --> 00:29:14,600
Speaker 1: it's just so much. So you get mad at all

544
00:29:14,600 --> 00:29:16,200
Speaker 1: these things, right, and then all of a sudden one

545
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:19,000
Speaker 1: day you just go to hell off right because you've

546
00:29:19,040 --> 00:29:20,880
Speaker 1: kept it in all this time you should not have.

547
00:29:22,200 --> 00:29:23,720
Speaker 1: So you gotta pick it to your battles. You gotta

548
00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,440
Speaker 1: figure out what's important and what's not, and you have

549
00:29:25,480 --> 00:29:32,680
Speaker 1: to figure out what is going to progress the relationship. Yes,

550
00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:39,560
Speaker 1: but what's important to you may not be important to him, clearly, like,

551
00:29:39,680 --> 00:29:42,760
Speaker 1: and that's most most maps. I think that's most men.

552
00:29:42,920 --> 00:29:45,440
Speaker 1: Like they're like, what's the big deal? Like, is it

553
00:29:45,480 --> 00:29:48,800
Speaker 1: really bothering you? Yes, it's bothering me. Pick up your

554
00:29:48,880 --> 00:29:51,760
Speaker 1: damn stinky socks. But I'm sure there are things that

555
00:29:51,840 --> 00:29:54,960
Speaker 1: bothered him about you. Did he bring it to your attention?

556
00:29:56,440 --> 00:30:00,640
Speaker 1: And how often? Um, that's that's true. I won't say

557
00:30:00,640 --> 00:30:03,320
Speaker 1: what those things are, but that is very true. Because

558
00:30:03,400 --> 00:30:06,360
Speaker 1: what tell you have flaws? I mean occasionally every now

559
00:30:06,400 --> 00:30:10,280
Speaker 1: and again on Thursdays. I have flaws, yes, but I'm

560
00:30:10,320 --> 00:30:13,280
Speaker 1: down with, like you telling me what was the issue

561
00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:15,240
Speaker 1: or like what you would like to see change. I

562
00:30:15,320 --> 00:30:16,840
Speaker 1: might not change it, but you could just tell me

563
00:30:16,840 --> 00:30:19,200
Speaker 1: in a nice way, but you have no intentions of

564
00:30:19,280 --> 00:30:25,440
Speaker 1: changing it. Let me And how did that work out?

565
00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:30,000
Speaker 1: So clearly everybody knows I'm divorced. But he had a problem.

566
00:30:30,040 --> 00:30:31,880
Speaker 1: I can say this he had a problem with because

567
00:30:32,720 --> 00:30:36,320
Speaker 1: my kids were very young. I was having babies, and

568
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:39,720
Speaker 1: you know, I decided I was no longer getting my

569
00:30:39,800 --> 00:30:43,120
Speaker 1: nails done. I just decided I'm done with that. Was

570
00:30:43,160 --> 00:30:46,200
Speaker 1: that something he really wanted? You to do. Yeah, he

571
00:30:46,320 --> 00:30:48,080
Speaker 1: hated the fact that I didn't get my nails done.

572
00:30:49,000 --> 00:30:51,640
Speaker 1: That's because you had small children, has small Children'm gonna

573
00:30:51,680 --> 00:30:54,120
Speaker 1: have babies. And I just was like always washing dishes,

574
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:58,760
Speaker 1: washing their bottles, you know, handling them. And I just

575
00:30:58,800 --> 00:31:01,040
Speaker 1: didn't want these long nails. I just there was just

576
00:31:01,080 --> 00:31:03,040
Speaker 1: something I had to let go. But where your nails

577
00:31:03,040 --> 00:31:05,680
Speaker 1: looking raggedy. My nails was looking raggedy, like you were

578
00:31:05,720 --> 00:31:11,760
Speaker 1: scraping them against concrete, scraping them against concrete on this one. Sorry,

579
00:31:12,200 --> 00:31:14,600
Speaker 1: but I just was like I've I've had, you know,

580
00:31:15,120 --> 00:31:18,200
Speaker 1: when when it comes to female maintenance, right, we've got

581
00:31:18,200 --> 00:31:22,120
Speaker 1: our eyelashes. We've got I mean, everybody's different, everybody's different,

582
00:31:22,160 --> 00:31:26,360
Speaker 1: but for me, so there's hay most of us hair eyelashes.

583
00:31:26,800 --> 00:31:28,760
Speaker 1: You know, you have to you know, every now and again,

584
00:31:29,080 --> 00:31:31,320
Speaker 1: not as regularly. You know, you got to get your

585
00:31:31,760 --> 00:31:34,239
Speaker 1: maybe go to your institution, get your face hooked up.

586
00:31:34,400 --> 00:31:37,280
Speaker 1: I thought you were going somewhere else with that waxing

587
00:31:37,280 --> 00:31:40,520
Speaker 1: you got. Yes, okay, so there's look like shirt was forest,

588
00:31:42,280 --> 00:31:47,320
Speaker 1: no forests over here, and then toes. Yeah, so that's

589
00:31:47,800 --> 00:31:49,680
Speaker 1: and then and then nails on top of that, nails

590
00:31:49,680 --> 00:31:52,080
Speaker 1: and feet. Okay, so I just decided to let one

591
00:31:52,120 --> 00:31:55,680
Speaker 1: thing go. I couldn't do it anymore while the babies

592
00:31:55,720 --> 00:31:58,480
Speaker 1: were small. But that that was for you know that

593
00:31:58,480 --> 00:32:00,880
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Yes, And he didn't get that. No,

594
00:32:01,000 --> 00:32:02,880
Speaker 1: he didn't get they didn't really care. Was he helping

595
00:32:02,920 --> 00:32:06,160
Speaker 1: you with the baby? No? I mean okay, not like that. Okay,

596
00:32:06,280 --> 00:32:08,760
Speaker 1: he was traveling and you know he was doing his

597
00:32:08,800 --> 00:32:11,320
Speaker 1: man thing, going his past the thing. Yeah. So and

598
00:32:11,360 --> 00:32:13,400
Speaker 1: that was totally fine. Like you know, I was definitely

599
00:32:13,560 --> 00:32:16,760
Speaker 1: let's get let's we're gonna circle this back to cam Newton, okay, okay,

600
00:32:16,800 --> 00:32:19,440
Speaker 1: because when I first got married, I was all about

601
00:32:19,480 --> 00:32:21,600
Speaker 1: like catering to him and making sure he was good

602
00:32:21,720 --> 00:32:25,400
Speaker 1: and definitely not like not saying any not she just

603
00:32:25,440 --> 00:32:27,480
Speaker 1: shut up. No, that was never me. You know. I

604
00:32:27,560 --> 00:32:31,160
Speaker 1: was always giving my opinion as I should, but very

605
00:32:31,240 --> 00:32:34,520
Speaker 1: much into making sure he was catered to. Right. Is

606
00:32:34,520 --> 00:32:37,280
Speaker 1: that because you felt taken care of? Like? Is that

607
00:32:37,320 --> 00:32:40,120
Speaker 1: all you had to do? Did you have any other

608
00:32:40,160 --> 00:32:44,200
Speaker 1: responsibilities before you had children? But to cater to him?

609
00:32:44,240 --> 00:32:46,520
Speaker 1: Well no, I was like helping him with the growing

610
00:32:46,520 --> 00:32:48,880
Speaker 1: of his church and all that. So that but in essence,

611
00:32:48,920 --> 00:32:51,520
Speaker 1: that was still catering to him, okay, but that was fine,

612
00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:54,520
Speaker 1: It was fine with that. But I'm there's no way

613
00:32:54,960 --> 00:32:58,320
Speaker 1: I could be that person today. Oh no, no, no,

614
00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:04,200
Speaker 1: So them people do evolve and grow and they become

615
00:33:04,280 --> 00:33:07,520
Speaker 1: better versions of themselves as they should be. But like

616
00:33:07,600 --> 00:33:11,600
Speaker 1: Robin said, that's why you find that person that they

617
00:33:11,600 --> 00:33:15,960
Speaker 1: are perfectly happy with doing that. Like, if all I

618
00:33:16,080 --> 00:33:19,960
Speaker 1: have to do is that, I'm okay with that. If

619
00:33:20,000 --> 00:33:21,720
Speaker 1: that's all I have to do, just I don't have

620
00:33:21,720 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: to worry about nothing else all this and not talk.

621
00:33:28,440 --> 00:33:30,600
Speaker 1: Well he did? He really? When I think he said

622
00:33:30,680 --> 00:33:33,760
Speaker 1: when he meant be quiet, I don't think he meant like,

623
00:33:34,120 --> 00:33:37,320
Speaker 1: we can't have a conversation. We can't you can't have

624
00:33:37,320 --> 00:33:43,680
Speaker 1: an opinion. I think he meant that all of that exactly.

625
00:33:44,320 --> 00:33:47,360
Speaker 1: He don't want to hear all that. And I'm paying

626
00:33:47,480 --> 00:33:50,560
Speaker 1: for everything, and you don't have anything else to do.

627
00:33:50,680 --> 00:33:54,320
Speaker 1: What are you nagging me about? What are you complaining about? So, Carl,

628
00:33:54,600 --> 00:33:58,600
Speaker 1: you could do that? I think I could what okay?

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Speaker 1: But so so what about your aspirations, your businesses, whatever

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Speaker 1: is you want to do again? I don't think he

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Speaker 1: said that you can't do that. I just think he

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Speaker 1: meant to say that that's not what he necessarily needs.

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Speaker 1: I don't think he thinks that his woman should not

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Speaker 1: have any aspirations. I mean he could. I can't beat that. Well,

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Speaker 1: he was like, y'all talking about y'all bitches. That's having

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Speaker 1: aspirations and getting out there. And I think it's how

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Speaker 1: it's presented. I could still have my business, I could

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Speaker 1: still have aspirations, but I'm not bringing it to you

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Speaker 1: like I'm better than you, or that I'm competing with you.

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Speaker 1: Compete exactly. You can't compete with Cam. And I think

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Speaker 1: that's what he was saying. I think Cam' is whack whatever.

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Speaker 1: All right, this is last, but not least. Do not

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Speaker 1: get married during the honeymoon phase. Okay, wait until it's

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Speaker 1: been at least two or three years and you've seen

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Speaker 1: them happy, sad, glad, angry. You gotta see all all

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Speaker 1: of those emotions. Yes, happy, glad, sad, angry. Listen, angry

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Speaker 1: will make you break up, but you need to see that.

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Speaker 1: You need to see how that person is going to

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Speaker 1: handle anger and how does it affect you. How are

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Speaker 1: you handling anger with that person. It's very necessary, like

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Speaker 1: you can't just oh, he's always happy, there's nothing wrong.

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Speaker 1: You know, you have to know how these people are

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Speaker 1: going to deal with serious situations, you know, um downfalls,

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Speaker 1: Like what if he lost all his money? How is

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Speaker 1: he gonna rebound from that? I hate it for him

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Speaker 1: because my money is my money, and whatever is that

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Speaker 1: you've got going on, you're not gonna help him yourself? Child, Please,

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Speaker 1: but you know what I'm saying. I'm saying old you.

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Speaker 1: I don't know you might be like if you don't

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Speaker 1: come correct and already have your ducks in order, I

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Speaker 1: can't fool with you. I can't fool with you. I'm sorry.

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Speaker 1: That's that's most of us at this age. Yeah, Like

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Speaker 1: I need you to have your ship together. Yeah, I

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Speaker 1: got people I need to have to take care of

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Speaker 1: their called children. And that's the only people you should

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Speaker 1: have to take care of besides yourself and right, so,

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Speaker 1: and I'm going to be rocking out doing me for

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Speaker 1: a very long time. I love that. Yes anyway, all right,

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Speaker 1: we've got to get out of here. So I just

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Speaker 1: need for y'all to understand that you've got to live

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