WEBVTT - Episode 106: Feat. Andra Fuller 0:00:03.840 --> 0:00:05.680 What it is time. You know what time it is. 0:00:05.680 --> 0:00:09.440 It's time for lip servants. Yes, and we got everybody here, 0:00:09.520 --> 0:00:12.719 Lor yeah, I was here, g g McGuire, Stephanie Santiago 0:00:12.760 --> 0:00:19.959 and our special guest and long long a Andre. So 0:00:20.000 --> 0:00:24.720 it's not pronounced, it spelled Andre, but it's pronounced so 0:00:24.840 --> 0:00:29.160 I was right. Yeah, we're not just with eye or ya. 0:00:29.440 --> 0:00:33.159 You know, we're trying something new, Andre and Fuller like 0:00:32.840 --> 0:00:35.400 that like that, all right, So usually we started with 0:00:35.440 --> 0:00:36.360 the tip of the Day. And just so you know, 0:00:36.400 --> 0:00:38.120 Andre Fuller is in that new movie too, to the 0:00:38.120 --> 0:00:40.800 game that everybody here is excited to see. We might 0:00:40.800 --> 0:00:42.640 have seen it by the time this comes out, right, 0:00:43.520 --> 0:00:47.839 it's our favorite book hopefully, But usually we started for 0:00:47.880 --> 0:00:50.120 the tip of the day. Now, how do you tell 0:00:50.600 --> 0:00:53.519 your ex's inside pieces that you're in a relationship when 0:00:53.560 --> 0:00:58.360 it's time or do you? Oh? I think I think 0:00:58.400 --> 0:01:02.200 for the dudes, man, the most consistent exit strategies you 0:01:02.280 --> 0:01:05.880 just kind of just you savorties. You just slowly stopped communicating. 0:01:06.760 --> 0:01:09.280 You don't tell them. It's hard to do the man, dudes, 0:01:09.360 --> 0:01:11.080 That's that's what we struggle with. That's why we get 0:01:11.080 --> 0:01:13.160 caught off all the time. Because we we don't like 0:01:13.200 --> 0:01:14.840 to tell them, you know what I'm saying, because we 0:01:14.880 --> 0:01:17.120 don't know. You know that that little relationship you so 0:01:17.560 --> 0:01:19.720 you're so eager about, might fall off in three weeks 0:01:19.760 --> 0:01:21.480 and you got to get that get back. You know 0:01:21.480 --> 0:01:26.120 what I'm saying. That's whack. Even somebody has like a 0:01:26.160 --> 0:01:31.640 backup plan basically kind of emergency glass breaking case of 0:01:31.680 --> 0:01:33.800 emergency in the cut is what we call it. You 0:01:33.880 --> 0:01:37.760 got to keep one in the cut awful. Yeah, I 0:01:37.800 --> 0:01:42.160 wasn't expecting that. I thought you get a text or something. 0:01:42.560 --> 0:01:45.600 Now what about you, Stephanie. I I go with his plan. 0:01:45.760 --> 0:01:49.520 I go with plan age just slowly stopped communicating, you 0:01:49.520 --> 0:01:52.600 know what I mean, like fade out, not answer a text, 0:01:53.200 --> 0:01:58.040 you know, stop answering cold, just fade out. I honestly 0:01:58.080 --> 0:02:00.360 don't feel like it's anybody's business when I'm doing for 0:02:00.400 --> 0:02:02.560 me to tell them tell my new thing about my 0:02:02.600 --> 0:02:04.800 old things, or my old things about what I got 0:02:04.880 --> 0:02:07.120 going on now, like you know, if it's time to 0:02:07.200 --> 0:02:10.000 move on. I'm definitely not the type of person who's 0:02:10.120 --> 0:02:12.440 just up front about it, like, hey I met somebody else. 0:02:13.760 --> 0:02:16.079 But what I mean, they're your side pieces and you're 0:02:16.400 --> 0:02:18.519 you know, it's not like it's somebody you were in 0:02:18.560 --> 0:02:23.600 a relationship with, you mean well and honestly, And the 0:02:23.800 --> 0:02:27.080 times that I am telling the like guy because I 0:02:27.080 --> 0:02:29.239 don't know what a side piece sounds like somebody you 0:02:29.360 --> 0:02:34.640 cheating all your boyfriend with benefits. Yeah, just somebody you 0:02:34.639 --> 0:02:37.600 were seeing. Somebody you were seeing you know, here and 0:02:37.639 --> 0:02:40.520 there and it didn't get serious, right, But do you 0:02:40.560 --> 0:02:42.080 like them enough that if they hit you up and 0:02:42.120 --> 0:02:44.440 they're like no, and it was good, like what happened 0:02:44.440 --> 0:02:47.080 when I happened. That's what I'm saying. Like at any time, 0:02:47.120 --> 0:02:49.800 there's been that time that somebody who I wasn't serious 0:02:49.840 --> 0:02:51.839 with it's like hitting me up and they're like, oh, 0:02:51.880 --> 0:02:53.880 you just disappear, blah blah blah, and I end up 0:02:53.919 --> 0:02:56.519 having to tell them like, oh, it's because I got 0:02:56.560 --> 0:03:00.720 somebody else. It's never in a nice way. It's always like, yeah, 0:03:00.800 --> 0:03:03.760 because I'm seeing somebody else, you know what I mean? 0:03:03.840 --> 0:03:08.760 And yeah, exactly. It's never like, oh no, I apologize 0:03:08.840 --> 0:03:11.880 the thing was so Yeah, I'm not a good person 0:03:11.919 --> 0:03:15.360 to ask for this advice. I go for the immature round. 0:03:15.360 --> 0:03:18.000 I go for the guy, where like Andrey, Yeah, I 0:03:18.040 --> 0:03:21.200 go for the the guy, what about. I've had a 0:03:21.200 --> 0:03:24.520 few fade to black moments myself, but I've also had 0:03:24.560 --> 0:03:27.640 a few moments where I was up front, what works better. 0:03:28.000 --> 0:03:34.359 I'm in something right now, so you know, literally, you know, 0:03:35.080 --> 0:03:40.360 not being you as much, but um, it works better 0:03:40.520 --> 0:03:44.360 to just fade to black because and you know, you 0:03:44.480 --> 0:03:47.840 kind of just they get the picture after a while, right, 0:03:47.920 --> 0:03:49.480 and then they get the picture when they see you 0:03:49.560 --> 0:03:52.680 on social media, they're like, I see the picture. Sometimes 0:03:53.040 --> 0:03:56.400 sometimes dudes don't get the picture. I had this problem 0:03:56.440 --> 0:03:58.360 with my ex girlfriend. She was trying to do the 0:03:58.360 --> 0:04:00.760 fade to black method and just slowly star communicating people. 0:04:00.840 --> 0:04:05.640 Dudes will hit you back nine months later. Hey you yeah, 0:04:05.760 --> 0:04:07.240 just trying to just trying to poke the best you 0:04:08.960 --> 0:04:10.920 might ask you to say. He used to tell me, like, listen, 0:04:10.920 --> 0:04:12.920 you gotta tell these guys stop hitting you up, because 0:04:12.960 --> 0:04:16.120 you got a man. They're never gonna stop. They're gonna 0:04:16.200 --> 0:04:18.279 keep trying. They're gonna keep trying to play the lotto 0:04:18.720 --> 0:04:23.840 until they win. Is that you them? I just feel like, 0:04:23.880 --> 0:04:26.520 you know what, if it gets that serious, just change 0:04:26.520 --> 0:04:33.840 your number. Damn you really not trying to tell my number? 0:04:34.480 --> 0:04:38.880 A couple of people, but I'm not telling. I mean, 0:04:40.080 --> 0:04:42.679 it's just I don't know. I changed my number before. 0:04:42.720 --> 0:04:45.840 That was a mistake, and yeah I have to and 0:04:45.880 --> 0:04:47.600 that's always a mistake. I don't think. I don't think 0:04:47.600 --> 0:04:50.200 you should ever change your number for somebody unless you 0:04:50.200 --> 0:04:53.080 guys are engaged. You're a boss to be married, you 0:04:53.120 --> 0:04:55.159 know what I mean. And that's your final stop. You 0:04:55.200 --> 0:04:57.560 know for sure that that's your final stop finally because 0:04:57.600 --> 0:05:00.920 you will regret it. Yeah, you over girth that maybe 0:05:00.960 --> 0:05:06.000 just to spend service. But but you were saying, like 0:05:06.040 --> 0:05:08.520 when I feel like when you tell them, it leaves 0:05:08.520 --> 0:05:10.800 a bad taste in their mouth, you know what I mean, 0:05:10.880 --> 0:05:13.320 Like when you tell somebody, oh, listen, I don't want 0:05:13.320 --> 0:05:16.919 to see you anymore, like that because I'm dealing with X, 0:05:17.040 --> 0:05:19.240 Y and Z, it leaves a bad taste in their mouth. 0:05:19.360 --> 0:05:22.159 Like but again, if it was just something casual and 0:05:22.160 --> 0:05:24.840 it wasn't a real n they should understand. They should 0:05:24.839 --> 0:05:26.880 be like, man, hit me when when he what if? 0:05:26.960 --> 0:05:31.599 What if? Okay, example, the person that you're seeing all 0:05:31.640 --> 0:05:33.359 of the all that they wanted and they were up 0:05:33.400 --> 0:05:34.680 front what you and told you like I don't want 0:05:34.680 --> 0:05:37.240 a relationship, you know, we can just do a casual thing, 0:05:37.400 --> 0:05:39.440 and then you find somebody that really wants a relationship. 0:05:39.560 --> 0:05:42.000 They can't be mad because somebody's offered them that offering 0:05:42.040 --> 0:05:44.120 you what they didn't want to give you. What do 0:05:44.120 --> 0:05:47.440 you say? I felt like if you tell somebody you're 0:05:47.440 --> 0:05:51.400 in a relationship, like they won't stop, like period, Like 0:05:51.480 --> 0:05:53.599 I've done that before. Like, let's I'm in a relationship. 0:05:53.600 --> 0:05:55.800 I gotta leave you alone. They do what just keep 0:05:55.800 --> 0:05:56.960 calling me and be like, Wow, I know you're in 0:05:57.000 --> 0:05:59.240 a relationship at all, but you want to go to 0:05:59.279 --> 0:06:02.080 dinner like I just told you. That was the problem 0:06:02.080 --> 0:06:04.640 I had with my extra. Would try to tell these 0:06:04.720 --> 0:06:06.960 dudes like, look, I gotta I gotta do now, Like 0:06:07.120 --> 0:06:09.120 you know what I'm saying, don't hit me up. Gotta 0:06:09.200 --> 0:06:11.760 and niggas is persistent. So I used to tell her 0:06:12.200 --> 0:06:14.599 that in order for you to get that dude to 0:06:14.640 --> 0:06:17.680 stop hitting you up, you gotta you gotta like low 0:06:17.760 --> 0:06:21.520 key embarrass him. Yeah, you gotta at that dude that's 0:06:21.560 --> 0:06:24.240 persisting like that. It just won't stop. You gotta be like, look, 0:06:24.600 --> 0:06:27.159 they ain't got nothing for you, like you whack like 0:06:27.240 --> 0:06:29.320 for hitting me up. Still, like you gotta say something. 0:06:29.320 --> 0:06:32.120 I agree, And it's different kind of way though, because 0:06:32.160 --> 0:06:34.520 like when I want to like back away from somebody, 0:06:34.560 --> 0:06:36.560 I just started being really mean to them, and I 0:06:36.560 --> 0:06:39.240 could be extremely mean. So it gets to the point 0:06:39.240 --> 0:06:42.520 thoughts a New York thing. Yeah, I mean I'm the 0:06:42.520 --> 0:06:47.560 same way, like reason because I love that they work. 0:06:47.680 --> 0:06:50.480 It works again, stuff away from you, nonstime and work. 0:06:50.800 --> 0:06:53.280 Sometimes it depends on how mean you are, Like, I 0:06:53.320 --> 0:06:55.640 can be really nasty and you'll get to the point 0:06:55.640 --> 0:06:58.480 where you just don't like me. I can. I can 0:06:58.640 --> 0:07:00.800 if I don't like you, or if I like I 0:07:00.839 --> 0:07:02.880 could be really cool, really nice. But if I don't 0:07:02.880 --> 0:07:04.720 like you, oh no, no, no, just stay away from 0:07:04.720 --> 0:07:07.760 me because I'm going to embarrass. That's the that's what 0:07:08.160 --> 0:07:10.240 I would do that all right. Now, let's play a 0:07:10.280 --> 0:07:12.840 little game. It's called the number one, all right, and 0:07:12.840 --> 0:07:14.720 you're gonna give your number one reason not number one, 0:07:14.760 --> 0:07:18.600 two and three, but number one. Okay, number one? What's 0:07:18.600 --> 0:07:24.920 not what you're number one thing that men lie about? Uh? 0:07:25.000 --> 0:07:30.440 The number of sexual partners? Really? People asking yeah, immature 0:07:30.560 --> 0:07:33.040 chicks because I'm mature chick. No, she don't get the 0:07:33.040 --> 0:07:39.360 real number. No way, what's the number seven? To come 0:07:39.440 --> 0:07:43.480 up with? Thirty sevens? My story. I'm sticking to the 0:07:43.880 --> 0:07:50.080 number capital and Mike fell off and you're thirty eight. 0:07:50.120 --> 0:07:57.120 If you're lucky, play your cards right, you're lucky thirty eight? Yeah? 0:07:57.440 --> 0:08:00.360 All right? Uh now, what's the number one thing that 0:08:00.400 --> 0:08:03.640 women lie about? If you had to guess, and then 0:08:03.640 --> 0:08:08.680 we'll tell you the truth? Strike my answer, I'm gonna 0:08:08.680 --> 0:08:11.200 redo my answeres because the number one thing women lie 0:08:11.200 --> 0:08:14.960 about is the number niggers they fuck. Number one thing, 0:08:15.120 --> 0:08:17.680 hands down, all that I can count on one hand 0:08:17.760 --> 0:08:21.120 to hand, Yeah, times, yeah, whatever and over again. Yeah. 0:08:21.160 --> 0:08:23.280 But the number the number one thing that women lie 0:08:23.280 --> 0:08:25.920 about is their sexual partners. The number one thing that 0:08:26.080 --> 0:08:34.800 dudes lie about is um they hight really yeah yeah, 0:08:34.880 --> 0:08:41.120 I'm six one, five teen Si. Yeah, that's a random thing. Okay, Stephanie, 0:08:41.160 --> 0:08:42.520 what would you say is the number one thing that 0:08:42.640 --> 0:08:45.560 men lie about? Um? If you had to guess, the 0:08:45.679 --> 0:08:48.480 number one thing I think men live is their feelings, 0:08:48.520 --> 0:08:51.360 like their emotions. That okay, guys are never honest about 0:08:51.400 --> 0:08:54.360 their feelings and emotions. They'll they'll hold it in either 0:08:54.440 --> 0:08:57.320 it's much in or it's much out. It's knowing between 0:08:57.360 --> 0:09:00.959 who men. That's what I think. That's that makes right 0:09:01.920 --> 0:09:04.439 I think men do die. What do you say I 0:09:04.480 --> 0:09:12.880 would sleep from I would? I think that's number two. Right, 0:09:14.600 --> 0:09:18.720 everybody has a different I was sleeping, i'd be really 0:09:18.760 --> 0:09:25.839 sleep yeah, right, really be sleep though I was sleep, 0:09:25.880 --> 0:09:31.000 I was tired, had a long day. What do you 0:09:31.040 --> 0:09:35.040 think for men? I think men like the most about 0:09:35.040 --> 0:09:38.559 their relationship status. That's very true. Like we're going through 0:09:38.559 --> 0:09:41.000 a rough patch, is now working out? I'm not happy 0:09:41.000 --> 0:09:43.400 to me, Rather they're in a relationship or I'm single. 0:09:43.679 --> 0:09:50.680 I'm single, the whole relationship were separated. Yeah, you don't 0:09:50.720 --> 0:09:53.480 know it, but we are separated. Took your whole family 0:09:53.520 --> 0:09:57.360 to Disney World last weekend, took the family pictures with 0:09:57.400 --> 0:10:02.160 the Mickey mouse is we don't have X anymore? Oh god, 0:10:02.360 --> 0:10:05.800 that's the guy like, I don't use that. I don't. 0:10:05.920 --> 0:10:11.040 I don't sleep with my baby. Yeah alright. So as women, 0:10:11.080 --> 0:10:13.679 what's the nuber one thing that we like about age? 0:10:15.240 --> 0:10:21.080 I'm busy, I'm on my period period. What women do? 0:10:21.200 --> 0:10:23.240 That's you that you're born as soon as you get 0:10:23.280 --> 0:10:27.000 your period, that's your number one lie. That's you're born out. 0:10:26.679 --> 0:10:35.800 That that's your automatic set period. That's you're in the gym. 0:10:36.000 --> 0:10:37.400 I don't want to. I don't want to. I don't 0:10:37.400 --> 0:10:39.880 want to participate because I have my period. I hope 0:10:39.880 --> 0:10:43.400 put a whole tampon and I can't go swim today. Yes, 0:10:43.840 --> 0:10:47.040 I want to see you put it. Try tap tap 0:10:48.160 --> 0:10:51.640 to have a Yeah, I don't like a light one. 0:10:51.800 --> 0:10:54.840 I told you I empty it in the trash can 0:10:55.320 --> 0:10:57.199 just so he could see the rappers and stuff. And 0:10:57.240 --> 0:11:00.000 I'll purposely leave a tampon out like and I don't 0:11:00.040 --> 0:11:10.320 be having blood on it. That's that's your number one everyone. 0:11:10.800 --> 0:11:13.520 As soon as you get your period, that you gotta 0:11:13.600 --> 0:11:16.800 lie on your boom. I would say orgasm. Women at 0:11:16.840 --> 0:11:23.600 some point live about having an orgasm. I kid you, come, no, 0:11:24.280 --> 0:11:27.400 I ain't had that. I don't have that problem every 0:11:27.440 --> 0:11:31.320 single time I get to work another and I couldna lie. 0:11:31.320 --> 0:11:33.160 When I was younger, I used to fake it a lot. 0:11:33.280 --> 0:11:36.520 But in my in in the past couple of years, 0:11:36.679 --> 0:11:39.080 it's just not worth it. It's a waste of time 0:11:39.120 --> 0:11:41.240 to fake it. I think that sometimes you can have 0:11:41.240 --> 0:11:43.280 an orgasm like ninety percent at a time and a 0:11:43.320 --> 0:11:46.200 guy is so disappointed if, like once, it just doesn't happen. 0:11:46.600 --> 0:11:50.000 And sometimes it's just not gonna happen. So if they 0:11:50.080 --> 0:11:52.839 normally can make it happen, and it's one time, two 0:11:52.920 --> 0:11:56.080 times it doesn't happen, you know, yes, then they gotta 0:11:56.120 --> 0:11:58.160 eat it. Like I don't understand what we're talking about. 0:11:58.200 --> 0:12:00.040 Sometimes I don't even he come. But sometimes you do 0:12:00.120 --> 0:12:01.680 not even really feel like it, like you never have 0:12:01.760 --> 0:12:04.520 sex with somebody and you're not necessarily in the move, 0:12:04.600 --> 0:12:08.079 but you know they are all right. No even sometimes 0:12:08.200 --> 0:12:10.080 I'm not even in the moods to just later and 0:12:10.160 --> 0:12:12.959 get get my pussy eight. You know what I mean. Well, 0:12:12.960 --> 0:12:24.400 I can't never closing. That's you never felt like I 0:12:24.400 --> 0:12:30.600 don't like right now? Yeah? Yeah, yeah, why no, I'm 0:12:30.600 --> 0:12:32.160 first of all, I'm a night aul, right, so I 0:12:32.240 --> 0:12:34.400 go to sleep mad late. So when I go to sleep, 0:12:34.480 --> 0:12:36.080 like I'll be tired, you know what I'm saying. So 0:12:36.160 --> 0:12:38.760 sometimes if I go to sleep like five o'clock and more, 0:12:38.800 --> 0:12:40.960 you're trying to wake me to some head at like eight, 0:12:41.000 --> 0:12:43.240 and I just got in a good sleep, I might 0:12:43.240 --> 0:12:49.120 turn around. Yeah, you thinking they're doing something waking up 0:12:49.120 --> 0:12:51.000 a man with head. They don't even be in the 0:12:51.080 --> 0:12:55.920 mood for it, not all the time, mostly general state 0:12:56.040 --> 0:13:01.280 right time, that's great. You can't just give somebody head 0:13:01.320 --> 0:13:03.920 while they sleep. Well if they tell you I've had 0:13:03.960 --> 0:13:06.719 somebody stuff all right, what's the number one reason that 0:13:06.960 --> 0:13:09.040 people break up? And what would you say? It's a 0:13:09.120 --> 0:13:13.840 number one reason. Um, you want to do the answer 0:13:13.920 --> 0:13:19.440 the female answer. I want your answer. My answer is, uh, 0:13:20.040 --> 0:13:25.280 just um, somebody like the other person more than that 0:13:25.360 --> 0:13:29.240 person likes them. It's not balanced. Good answer, good answer 0:13:30.200 --> 0:13:32.480 if you get answer, get answer. It's hard to find 0:13:32.520 --> 0:13:35.480 somebody that you consider yourself equally, yoke. Have you ever 0:13:35.600 --> 0:13:40.439 liked somebody way more than they liked you? That's yeah, 0:13:40.520 --> 0:13:43.040 that's a bad feeling. So I'll be like I'll be 0:13:43.040 --> 0:13:45.040 feeling bad like when the chick like me more than 0:13:45.240 --> 0:13:48.160 like her because I didn't seen that she felt before. 0:13:48.200 --> 0:13:53.080 And it's oh cool, Um, so has that person called 0:13:53.120 --> 0:13:59.120 you now that the movie is coming out? You know? 0:13:59.320 --> 0:14:01.720 You know who I am man like real ship, I'm 0:14:01.720 --> 0:14:06.559 the I'm the precursor to marriage. You date men with me? 0:14:07.120 --> 0:14:08.880 The next one they're gonna be the one that you married. 0:14:09.360 --> 0:14:14.840 Why requisite the marriage prerequisite? Yeah, that's what the statue. 0:14:15.960 --> 0:14:28.400 I guess so because they end up marriage? Yeah? Does 0:14:28.440 --> 0:14:31.800 that make you feel away? I don't feel like the chicks? 0:14:31.840 --> 0:14:34.760 Why do you think that is? I don't know, man, 0:14:35.560 --> 0:14:37.840 she'd be like, I am never dating nobody that whack 0:14:41.200 --> 0:14:43.600 I'm gonna marry. I don't think. I don't think I 0:14:43.640 --> 0:14:46.880 cheat chicks like ship. I just um like what you 0:14:46.920 --> 0:14:50.080 said the balance like, I don't. I've I haven't met 0:14:50.080 --> 0:14:52.920 too many that I felt like we were like on 0:14:53.000 --> 0:14:56.880 that same that same wavelength. All right, Stephan, What's the 0:14:56.920 --> 0:15:02.280 number one reason that couple's break up? Trust? Trust issues. 0:15:02.920 --> 0:15:07.360 That's the number one reason because even even if you know, UM, 0:15:07.400 --> 0:15:12.600 a lot of people they stayed together after cheating, and 0:15:12.720 --> 0:15:16.840 you just have that trust problem and just you can't 0:15:16.880 --> 0:15:20.080 have a relationship without trust. That's that's the fact. And 0:15:20.080 --> 0:15:22.760 now I'm always questioning you. You're always bad because I'm 0:15:22.840 --> 0:15:25.080 questioning you. Now. We just can't get along. I'm always 0:15:25.080 --> 0:15:30.840 explaining myself, all right. Number one reason couples break up infidelity, 0:15:31.160 --> 0:15:34.400 The same thing. This is the woman answered, by the way, 0:15:34.440 --> 0:15:38.760 just so you girls, because y'all do be cheating, Like 0:15:42.280 --> 0:15:54.920 excuse me, Mr Jim, and I right about your all right, Laura. 0:15:55.040 --> 0:16:00.440 Number one reason the couple's break up. Arguing arguments that cheating, 0:16:00.800 --> 0:16:03.440 I mean I could just be from anything. It could 0:16:03.440 --> 0:16:05.360 be like you think they might be, not even that 0:16:05.440 --> 0:16:07.120 they have to be cheating, like I guess that you 0:16:07.240 --> 0:16:09.640 says you go with it too, but just anything like 0:16:10.080 --> 0:16:12.800 I like, I felt like I argued a lot in 0:16:12.880 --> 0:16:15.000 my last relationship and it was I could co sign 0:16:15.040 --> 0:16:19.440 that shut up. It was. So it does get annoying, 0:16:19.520 --> 0:16:21.240 even if you're the one that kind of starts it 0:16:21.280 --> 0:16:24.040 because you have problems with certain things. Because like, I'm 0:16:24.080 --> 0:16:26.600 the kind of person, I'm outspoken, so I'm gonna say, 0:16:26.680 --> 0:16:29.720 like this bothers me and that bothers me. It doesn't 0:16:30.000 --> 0:16:32.000 I don't feel like you always have to respond with 0:16:32.040 --> 0:16:34.960 the argument. It could just be something that I'm telling you, like, 0:16:35.040 --> 0:16:36.680 you know, I want you to understand that this makes 0:16:36.680 --> 0:16:39.240 me feel away, But sometimes people take it a different 0:16:39.240 --> 0:16:41.960 way and they're like, well this, well you do this 0:16:42.080 --> 0:16:43.880 that makes me feel away, Like that's not what I 0:16:43.960 --> 0:16:46.600 was coming to do, you know what I mean? Communication, 0:16:46.640 --> 0:16:50.320 there was what you just said. Because you ask most dudes, 0:16:50.400 --> 0:16:55.440 most dudes problems, you gotta address every little thing. You 0:16:56.720 --> 0:17:03.680 didn't put your I'm not that patty, not that yeah, 0:17:03.680 --> 0:17:06.720 but I felt like guys are so used to saying 0:17:06.760 --> 0:17:09.679 that with females like oh, she's nagging. She's nagging that 0:17:09.800 --> 0:17:12.000 you're not even really listening no more, because what if 0:17:12.000 --> 0:17:15.000 it really is a problem, Like I would never be like, oh, 0:17:15.000 --> 0:17:16.959 I'm so mad because you put your clothes on the floor. 0:17:17.080 --> 0:17:19.040 I'll pick it up. Like, but sometimes when you're not 0:17:19.040 --> 0:17:22.159 getting along, all those little things, yeah, it seems like 0:17:22.320 --> 0:17:25.200 it turns into like a bigger issue. But that's like communication. 0:17:25.240 --> 0:17:28.800 I'll change my hand. That's what I was gonna say. Communication. 0:17:29.080 --> 0:17:31.719 It's how we talk to each other, alright. Number One 0:17:31.720 --> 0:17:34.719 the reason that men propose. You probably don't know that 0:17:34.760 --> 0:17:46.920 I should because they dated let them get me here whatever. Okay. 0:17:48.880 --> 0:17:52.000 The number one reason is um because y'all hear us 0:17:52.000 --> 0:17:56.879 with that ul tomato? Is that damn you can't be 0:17:56.960 --> 0:18:03.040 a good lord. The number one, Yeah, they marry me 0:18:03.200 --> 0:18:06.000 or I'm out. Yeah, get off the pot. You think 0:18:06.040 --> 0:18:08.639 that's the number one. Man wanted to get married just 0:18:08.680 --> 0:18:11.920 as much as as women do. No, No, I don't 0:18:11.920 --> 0:18:14.359 think no, dudes, we we got this. We got this 0:18:15.400 --> 0:18:17.840 this internal fear like we're gonna miss I don't seem 0:18:18.040 --> 0:18:19.879 like Beyonce all of a sudden leave j and be 0:18:19.960 --> 0:18:27.960 like we'll andre like we feel like we always got 0:18:28.000 --> 0:18:30.280 that shot with that, you know, that that unicorn. So 0:18:30.359 --> 0:18:35.080 we're trying to keep Yeah, I'm holding out for Beyonce. 0:18:35.520 --> 0:18:38.400 Do you have you ever proposed to anyone? Ever thought 0:18:38.400 --> 0:18:40.760 about it? Yeah? I thought about it. Did you have 0:18:40.800 --> 0:18:45.240 an ultimatum? That's why something like that. That's the only 0:18:45.359 --> 0:18:47.240 thing that made you think about it? With do to 0:18:47.320 --> 0:18:50.000 man something? Uh not? Not really, I was trying to do. 0:18:50.080 --> 0:18:51.919 I was trying to be trying to be a good 0:18:52.000 --> 0:18:53.840 negul do the right thing, you know my son mom. 0:18:54.119 --> 0:18:55.760 So I was like, you see, I always felt like 0:18:55.920 --> 0:18:58.880 that was the number one reason because you had a child. Yeah, yeah, 0:18:59.200 --> 0:19:02.920 that's up there. It's up there. But you know I 0:19:02.920 --> 0:19:04.440 would have been doing it for the wrong reasons and 0:19:04.440 --> 0:19:08.439 ship would have went bad song all right. Number one 0:19:08.480 --> 0:19:14.360 reason that men proposed m M. I think that men 0:19:14.520 --> 0:19:18.239 proposed when they're tired of being holes. Okay, that might 0:19:18.280 --> 0:19:21.359 not happen to their like sixty, when they just tired 0:19:21.440 --> 0:19:24.119 of you know, when they finally realized that they just 0:19:25.119 --> 0:19:27.840 need to settle down, then they just go ahead and 0:19:28.000 --> 0:19:30.800 do it. But why they still feel like they got 0:19:30.920 --> 0:19:33.000 something to prove where they're waiting up, you know, for 0:19:33.160 --> 0:19:36.040 that magical unicorn then they still want to keep the 0:19:36.080 --> 0:19:38.400 options open and do their thing. But I think eventually 0:19:38.440 --> 0:19:40.280 they get tired of that and then they decided to 0:19:40.359 --> 0:19:43.159 just go ahead. And yeah, that's the fact I remember 0:19:43.200 --> 0:19:45.320 shooting me. He was laying out past that on the 0:19:45.359 --> 0:19:47.800 floor in the breakfast club though he was gonna die. 0:19:48.119 --> 0:19:50.000 He was dehydrated, and he was like, I gotta get 0:19:50.480 --> 0:19:59.320 my mother. There's no one cared died. He was out 0:19:59.359 --> 0:20:00.560 of work for like four it days, but like you 0:20:00.600 --> 0:20:04.560 think it's coming back, Oh my god, Lurry. Number one 0:20:04.560 --> 0:20:07.440 reason then proposed because they fucked up. That's what I 0:20:07.880 --> 0:20:10.000 That's what I'm saying, because they don't want to lose 0:20:10.080 --> 0:20:12.120 you because they know they don't messed up. The last 0:20:12.200 --> 0:20:15.959 resort is I got to propose. That's it. I'm sucked up. 0:20:15.960 --> 0:20:18.439 Then you're getting that ring like just don't answer your 0:20:18.480 --> 0:20:21.040 phone for a few days. You might get something nice, 0:20:21.240 --> 0:20:22.960 you know. All right now, I know this is going 0:20:23.000 --> 0:20:26.080 to be different for men and women. Number one andre 0:20:26.320 --> 0:20:43.920 best sex position. I think the average dude boomerang. So 0:20:44.440 --> 0:20:47.359 I think the number one asked for dudes probably Okay, 0:20:47.440 --> 0:20:51.360 So for you number one, it's me, I'm I'm I'm 0:20:51.440 --> 0:20:54.639 old school missionaries. Cock them legs open, let me go 0:20:54.720 --> 0:21:01.080 to work. We didn't work, all right, Stephanie never went 0:21:01.200 --> 0:21:04.200 best sex position in my opinion or what I think 0:21:04.280 --> 0:21:08.399 other people would thinks number For me, I like, um, 0:21:09.080 --> 0:21:13.040 I like reverse the reverse call girl, but I like 0:21:13.200 --> 0:21:16.040 for the guy to like be um like sitting like 0:21:16.200 --> 0:21:18.560 maybe a pillow behind his back, like you know, to 0:21:18.880 --> 0:21:21.920 be sitting up and then like the ready knees and 0:21:22.000 --> 0:21:25.320 you know, like my feet are together like sitting like 0:21:25.440 --> 0:21:34.560 She's very specific. That's my that's my favorite. And you 0:21:34.640 --> 0:21:36.960 know the girl is and I'm like in a real 0:21:37.160 --> 0:21:39.840 like doggy style from position, you know what I mean, 0:21:39.920 --> 0:21:44.480 my feater together and it's like bouncing. She's do you 0:21:44.520 --> 0:21:48.320 know what I'm talking about? G and G added something 0:21:48.400 --> 0:21:53.639 to it, which makes it G added something when you 0:21:53.840 --> 0:21:56.040 like go when you're in that position and you go 0:21:56.280 --> 0:22:00.440 down and grab the guy's balls, it's like it's a 0:22:00.560 --> 0:22:04.600 really nice moment. You guys like contortion is It's like no, 0:22:04.800 --> 0:22:07.159 but you know what I'm talking about, right, you know, 0:22:07.840 --> 0:22:09.920 because she's the one you told me about this, I 0:22:10.160 --> 0:22:13.280 have been meaning yeah, actually I haven't meaning to tell 0:22:13.320 --> 0:22:16.560 you that I tried it. And it's like the new 0:22:16.640 --> 0:22:22.840 go to. It's that bad girl. Yeah, but I like 0:22:23.040 --> 0:22:25.159 I like missionary too. I like I like, I like 0:22:25.320 --> 0:22:27.640 to feel like being I like that feeling of being 0:22:27.760 --> 0:22:32.200 like in love, yeah, and love and being dominated exactly. 0:22:32.320 --> 0:22:35.640 That's exactly what I was looking for, alright, so lurry Yeah, 0:22:35.920 --> 0:22:38.280 number one best sex position. I mean I'm the opposite. 0:22:38.320 --> 0:22:41.000 I like to be on top and well that is 0:22:41.040 --> 0:22:43.879 some typestail cowgirl is, yeah, but not reversing all that 0:22:44.000 --> 0:22:48.120 kind of face. Yeah, I gotta see what I'm doing, 0:22:49.320 --> 0:22:51.680 you know what I mean? Like that is just better 0:22:51.840 --> 0:22:54.280 to me. That's like my favorite. That's the easiest way 0:22:54.320 --> 0:22:57.240 to come. Well maybe that's always come. Like I never 0:22:57.320 --> 0:22:59.560 have a problem with like can you come in any 0:22:59.600 --> 0:23:02.399 position though? Or that one? Like I always come, like 0:23:02.520 --> 0:23:04.080 even if the ship is kind of whacked, like I 0:23:04.200 --> 0:23:06.200 came at least once, good for you girls, but while 0:23:06.240 --> 0:23:08.600 you're on top? Or can you come in missionary? And everything? 0:23:08.640 --> 0:23:11.240 I could come in almost pretty much any position. I 0:23:11.320 --> 0:23:13.480 can't even remember a time where I didn't really come 0:23:13.560 --> 0:23:16.880 at all, like nice, that's the thing, Like I get 0:23:17.000 --> 0:23:20.280 multiple or a gather. So it's like if you if 0:23:20.320 --> 0:23:23.320 it was good, it's because like I came like six times, 0:23:23.320 --> 0:23:25.600 because you won't be thinking about grocery lists and walking 0:23:25.600 --> 0:23:27.240 the dog and ship while you haven't said now, I'll 0:23:27.280 --> 0:23:30.399 be thinking about sex like I'm nanty like you know. 0:23:30.520 --> 0:23:33.240 It's because if I'm working with whoever, I'm I be nasty, 0:23:33.400 --> 0:23:36.360 Like you can't just be nasty with anybody. But yeah, 0:23:37.320 --> 0:23:41.240 I shouldn't go. I'm gonna come. That's the goal. I'm 0:23:41.280 --> 0:23:42.840 not having sex just to make sure he comes. I 0:23:42.880 --> 0:23:44.440 want to make sure I come. Like what if he 0:23:44.520 --> 0:23:46.920 comes too fast? My mom? That then he has to 0:23:46.960 --> 0:23:50.399 eat me out. That's a fair echange. I get it 0:23:50.440 --> 0:23:54.840 out with robbery, remembriend fair exchange is no robbery, my friend. 0:23:56.480 --> 0:23:58.680 Either way, I gotta come. That's the that's the moral, 0:23:59.000 --> 0:24:03.040 all right, that's tomorrow. That's a Number one best sex 0:24:03.080 --> 0:24:07.080 position me personally. I like the lay flat on my 0:24:07.160 --> 0:24:10.720 stomach with my legs crossing my ass hooted up. I 0:24:10.800 --> 0:24:12.440 always say that, and I like to throw it back 0:24:12.520 --> 0:24:15.400 that way. Yeah yeah, And not only do it feel good, 0:24:15.400 --> 0:24:22.359 but they love that ship Always say that you got that, alright? 0:24:22.560 --> 0:24:28.520 Number one turn off angela same question like this, people 0:24:28.560 --> 0:24:34.040 plays right, she got a different right through I got 0:24:34.880 --> 0:24:38.040 being on top women on top. It's my favorite position. Yeah, 0:24:38.400 --> 0:24:40.880 so I think that is the best to be married 0:24:40.960 --> 0:24:45.880 or something. You got some conservative ass answers, but yeah, 0:24:46.080 --> 0:24:49.760 she gave us some sort detail. She's talking about spitting 0:24:49.840 --> 0:24:53.600 on it and slapping it and breaking yourself aded to it, 0:24:54.160 --> 0:24:58.880 talking about she like best that. Yeah, I'm a gym. 0:24:59.320 --> 0:25:05.320 What we do between and it's pretty much what I'm 0:25:05.320 --> 0:25:09.560 saying you're giving us, Like the button up car now 0:25:09.640 --> 0:25:12.000 I do. It's an easy per way to come. Really, 0:25:12.160 --> 0:25:14.000 it's like women on top and they said that's because 0:25:14.000 --> 0:25:16.200 of the positioning of the penis and all of that. 0:25:16.680 --> 0:25:18.760 That's just my favorite position because I always come that way. 0:25:20.080 --> 0:25:23.080 I can't always come from missionary and then g JS 0:25:23.200 --> 0:25:25.200 is probably I can come from that to you sometimes, 0:25:25.520 --> 0:25:28.199 but bouncing is too much work for me. Like how 0:25:28.280 --> 0:25:30.080 you said, like like if a dude is sitting in 0:25:30.160 --> 0:25:32.680 a chair and I well, actually, you know, I don't 0:25:32.720 --> 0:25:36.359 mind if you and you can like um um, stand 0:25:36.440 --> 0:25:38.879 up like kind of on your feet, yeah and do 0:25:39.000 --> 0:25:42.600 squat that I'm not doing froggy style. I love froggy style. 0:25:42.760 --> 0:25:46.720 Froggy style is great, but wait, so when you're on top, 0:25:46.800 --> 0:25:48.400 what are you doing it? If you're not if you're 0:25:48.440 --> 0:25:53.040 not bouncing like that, you grinding bouncing that way. I'm yeah, 0:25:53.320 --> 0:25:58.480 you grinding grind, by the way, By the way, that's 0:25:58.520 --> 0:26:01.600 how penises get fraction. Guys don't really like when you 0:26:01.720 --> 0:26:04.320 be grinding all on their dick, like like they like 0:26:04.480 --> 0:26:08.480 when I do it. He likes. She looking like you 0:26:08.560 --> 0:26:10.800 gotta set you up. You can't just do it the 0:26:10.840 --> 0:26:13.840 way if you're on the couch like this. And then 0:26:13.920 --> 0:26:16.080 she reversed and she do like the little squad like 0:26:16.119 --> 0:26:17.639 you said, like you back up and you sit on 0:26:17.760 --> 0:26:22.480 it grinding. But you have to be careful because that's 0:26:22.480 --> 0:26:24.840 how penises get factored. That's the number one. I think 0:26:24.920 --> 0:26:31.359 bout you down grinding like you know, like and like 0:26:31.520 --> 0:26:38.520 you're grinding. Okay, she's doing the lights. The girls gotta 0:26:38.560 --> 0:26:43.920 get the turn. She she gotta drunk grind to do 0:26:44.080 --> 0:26:48.280 something we did. Has to grind bout okay, yeah, you 0:26:50.359 --> 0:26:55.400 don't let me stand up on the seat alright, feed 0:26:55.440 --> 0:26:57.680 on the seat right all right. Number one thing that 0:26:57.800 --> 0:27:01.760 turns you on other than sex, Andre, we always put 0:27:01.800 --> 0:27:04.320 you in the hot seat first. It's a good um. 0:27:05.160 --> 0:27:17.640 Number one. The number one thing, the number about sex 0:27:17.760 --> 0:27:20.400 or besides besides sex. Other than sex, what's the number 0:27:20.400 --> 0:27:23.920 one thing that turns you on? Um, could be kissing. 0:27:24.600 --> 0:27:29.960 You like to kiss. It's cool, it's damn it, it's cool. 0:27:29.960 --> 0:27:33.720 It's you can't kiss everybody. You can't kiss everybody, but 0:27:33.800 --> 0:27:40.359 you can't just kiss him topic right there. It was 0:27:40.440 --> 0:27:44.000 like that. No, I'm saying, you know sometimes you've had 0:27:44.040 --> 0:27:52.119 sex people and don't kiss them. Yeah, I probably, but 0:27:52.320 --> 0:28:01.000 damn I right the game not even a peck fourhead everybody, everybody, 0:28:01.320 --> 0:28:05.840 you know, everybody got that kissable mouth, that special mouth 0:28:05.920 --> 0:28:10.440 isn't kissable if she ever face the face straight, body straight, 0:28:11.119 --> 0:28:13.119 but the teeth like you been chewing on hot bricks then, 0:28:13.320 --> 0:28:17.040 like your face can't really be straight if your teeth 0:28:17.040 --> 0:28:20.920 sucked up. Though, it's a major seen a pretty girl 0:28:20.960 --> 0:28:23.800 who just needs embraces. Okay, but you in the movies, 0:28:23.840 --> 0:28:28.880 now you can help us get something airs Yeah, he said, yeah, 0:28:28.960 --> 0:28:33.200 that's what stup. There's like sixty tho allars right, No, 0:28:37.359 --> 0:28:40.280 get it for the lower in l A too, what's 0:28:40.400 --> 0:28:43.840 them get? You? Probably you probably get like ten you 0:28:43.920 --> 0:28:48.120 probably get you could get you could get the little 0:28:48.240 --> 0:28:51.520 the little Columbia, the Dominican doctor on the lower time 0:28:51.560 --> 0:28:55.680 in the High the three bands. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, 0:28:55.880 --> 0:28:59.040 for three bands. I mean I would have I would 0:28:59.080 --> 0:29:01.000 have tucked that swim the if I if I would 0:29:01.040 --> 0:29:02.720 have know about it now they don't put you to sleep, 0:29:03.000 --> 0:29:06.720 I would have sucked that. But I didn't mind. I 0:29:06.840 --> 0:29:09.560 didn't mind. They're expensive. I only got eight veneers and 0:29:10.000 --> 0:29:13.560 it was twenty bands. It was that's expensive. Yeah, I 0:29:13.640 --> 0:29:16.760 didn't them in Jersey. Alright, So so it's not kissing 0:29:16.800 --> 0:29:19.400 for you, clearly, Um with number one turn on, that's 0:29:19.440 --> 0:29:22.720 not sexy, not sexually related. It could be sexually related, 0:29:22.760 --> 0:29:27.840 but it's not intercourse. Okay, all right, Um, I like 0:29:28.000 --> 0:29:31.080 that filthy talk? Okay you like dirty talk? Yeah, you 0:29:31.160 --> 0:29:32.600 tell me what you're gonna do to me and then 0:29:32.720 --> 0:29:37.640 back that ship up literally and figuratively. Okay. It just 0:29:37.800 --> 0:29:39.720 ever felt a little goofy sometimes, like if they say 0:29:39.760 --> 0:29:43.360 something weird and you're like, I don't know, make you 0:29:43.400 --> 0:29:46.080 look at them different, like I'm gonna stick my nippling 0:29:46.160 --> 0:29:56.000 here here my ear. But yeah, too fine, I ain't really, 0:29:56.040 --> 0:30:04.120 I ain't really came across nobody was if. All right, 0:30:04.160 --> 0:30:08.160 you like dirty talk? Are you ladies? Dirty talkers? I'm 0:30:08.200 --> 0:30:11.280 a dirty talker During the act. I hate when guys 0:30:11.360 --> 0:30:13.200 like they're like, oh, tell me what you're gonna do 0:30:13.280 --> 0:30:16.720 to me, like before it happens. It's like, let's just 0:30:16.840 --> 0:30:18.400 do it and see what happens. But if you're on 0:30:18.480 --> 0:30:20.080 the phone though, and she's not there, you know you're 0:30:20.080 --> 0:30:24.920 not there. I could um, yeah, I mean I've done 0:30:24.960 --> 0:30:27.000 a faith I could be nasty on the faith some 0:30:27.200 --> 0:30:29.520 But it's not a lot of talking like we're like 0:30:29.680 --> 0:30:34.200 showing each other, you know what I mean on face time. Yeah, 0:30:34.600 --> 0:30:36.760 that's different. I was referred to do an act to 0:30:37.040 --> 0:30:40.400 yeah only during the actor said, but I don't mean 0:30:40.680 --> 0:30:43.560 it's not the not the actual physical contact that in 0:30:43.640 --> 0:30:45.960 the course, you know, when you whispering your in the ear, 0:30:46.280 --> 0:30:49.320 you know, Oh yeah, I can't. Sometimes you gotta be 0:30:49.440 --> 0:30:54.080 like sometimes you know, like yeah, like come on staff 0:30:55.480 --> 0:31:06.040 somebody else here and you keep talking. Yeah no, but yeah, okay, 0:31:06.120 --> 0:31:08.280 what about you stuff? Other than sex? What turns you 0:31:08.360 --> 0:31:10.160 One of the most number one thing what turns me 0:31:10.240 --> 0:31:12.960 on about a guy the most other than sex is 0:31:13.000 --> 0:31:16.080 being able to learn from him. When a guy could 0:31:16.440 --> 0:31:18.960 teach me things without making me feel stupid about it, 0:31:19.560 --> 0:31:23.480 you know, like, um, correct me, but make it feel helpful. 0:31:23.720 --> 0:31:26.360 Like it's just so sexy to me, Like that's amazing, 0:31:26.480 --> 0:31:29.160 like putting you on, yeah, putting like yeah, And I'm 0:31:29.200 --> 0:31:31.800 not talking about worldly things. I'm talking about things from 0:31:31.840 --> 0:31:34.960 my mind, you know what I mean that for me, 0:31:35.440 --> 0:31:37.000 I know that was a born, that was a history. 0:31:39.440 --> 0:31:42.240 Maybe teach you how to invest and even that, teach me, 0:31:42.520 --> 0:31:47.200 just teach me things. That's that's so that's sexy. Teach 0:31:47.240 --> 0:31:54.440 me things. What about I think personality, Like I'm really 0:31:54.680 --> 0:31:58.280 attracted to personality, Like if I look at like my 0:31:58.440 --> 0:32:00.800 ex boyfriends, none of them really look the same, like 0:32:00.920 --> 0:32:03.760 they're all like man, but they I could see like 0:32:03.840 --> 0:32:07.080 a similar trait in their personality, like whether they're funny, 0:32:07.360 --> 0:32:11.360 fun cool like people. Person Like that's so attractive to me, 0:32:12.040 --> 0:32:15.200 Like just how like people view you and not that 0:32:15.320 --> 0:32:17.600 other people opinion matter, but you know what I mean 0:32:17.680 --> 0:32:19.840 as far as just like how you act and treat 0:32:19.880 --> 0:32:26.600 other people and stuff like that, that's really sexy to me. Authority, Yeah, 0:32:26.600 --> 0:32:30.520 I like that power. Power. Yeah. I don't like the 0:32:31.320 --> 0:32:33.360 I like somebody that's gonna go after what they want 0:32:33.400 --> 0:32:36.000 and it's gonna be straightforward, Like I don't want somebody 0:32:36.000 --> 0:32:38.400 that's always ex in your opinion or excellent, what you 0:32:38.560 --> 0:32:41.040 think or X and what you know? What you want 0:32:41.040 --> 0:32:42.640 to do? I want you to call me like, all right, 0:32:42.640 --> 0:32:44.080 get dressed one the way. That's what we want to 0:32:44.120 --> 0:32:46.320 do that you know what I'm saying, Like I don't 0:32:46.360 --> 0:32:47.800 want to hear what do you feel like doing to 0:32:49.600 --> 0:32:52.840 the situation? Boss? Up? They takes you to McDonald's, then 0:32:52.840 --> 0:32:55.560 I'm gonna sleep the ship out like McDonald's in five years. 0:32:56.200 --> 0:33:00.320 I like McDonald's. I like McDonald's. If the eyes and 0:33:00.400 --> 0:33:03.240 hot anything can happen. Oh my god, I haven't five 0:33:03.360 --> 0:33:07.120 years ago. I am not loving it. You know the 0:33:07.200 --> 0:33:15.680 commercial changed my answer? You yeah, but everybody else telling 0:33:18.320 --> 0:33:24.840 personality character you don't care about that, clearly, I think 0:33:24.960 --> 0:33:30.440 I think personality wise, um talking my list. Sense of humor, okay, 0:33:31.280 --> 0:33:33.400 I'm I'm a goofy dude. So if you can't laugh 0:33:33.480 --> 0:33:35.360 at me, like I ain't got nothing for you, Like 0:33:35.480 --> 0:33:37.080 I'll be saying some funny ship and then you just 0:33:37.080 --> 0:33:39.520 send up there with a stone face, then that sucks. 0:33:39.520 --> 0:33:46.520 How do you think you say some funny ship? That's 0:33:46.520 --> 0:33:48.240 the worst. Man. If you're trying to joke around with 0:33:48.320 --> 0:33:52.920 somebody and they don't have a sense dry, hate have personality. 0:33:53.600 --> 0:33:58.280 I'd be joking around about everything, everything, everything, and if 0:33:58.320 --> 0:34:01.160 you can't take that, just never not. People do get 0:34:01.200 --> 0:34:03.680 super sensitive. Like I've had people say stuff to me 0:34:04.120 --> 0:34:06.440 about like me and and and they just I'll be 0:34:06.520 --> 0:34:09.719 going too far, like they always say that. They're like, yo, 0:34:09.800 --> 0:34:12.640 ya'll be doing too much. I'm lucky, y'all lucky. Somebody 0:34:12.640 --> 0:34:15.000 ain't coming puss you out like a guy though yet, 0:34:15.200 --> 0:34:17.960 because we get on a roll and we'll started sayings 0:34:17.960 --> 0:34:21.920 all kinds of stuff like now that's you more what 0:34:22.320 --> 0:34:26.239 you get in trouble for that. It'll just be like, oh, 0:34:26.320 --> 0:34:29.360 it's okay. And just called me and when I say it, 0:34:29.440 --> 0:34:34.319 it's like Lorio, it's totally different, some more harsh. Yeah. 0:34:34.440 --> 0:34:38.520 Probably they hurt people's feelings. She roast people, you know, 0:34:38.719 --> 0:34:43.120 roast people. He would never roast your girl. No, not 0:34:43.239 --> 0:34:45.160 a girl. Now. I don't know when it stopped. Females. 0:34:45.280 --> 0:34:47.680 I mean, like, you can't play with females like that 0:34:47.760 --> 0:34:56.319 because yeah, sleeping on the couch, yeah, pussy ugly hell 0:34:58.280 --> 0:35:01.400 breaking up, we're breaking off, are breaking up. There's no 0:35:01.560 --> 0:35:06.759 turning back from that. No, there's no turning back from now. 0:35:06.840 --> 0:35:09.440 That's not really a jew that's like fighting word. And 0:35:09.520 --> 0:35:11.480 then I'm just kidding. I'm just kidding. You ever say 0:35:11.520 --> 0:35:14.160 something you didn't mean in an argument? Yes, and then 0:35:14.160 --> 0:35:16.839 I couldn't take it back. I think everybody. I think 0:35:16.920 --> 0:35:20.399 girls take it further than men. Man. I think they're 0:35:20.440 --> 0:35:23.600 more careful and they know that girls are fragile, and 0:35:23.719 --> 0:35:26.600 they're more careful about what they say. I feel like 0:35:27.120 --> 0:35:31.879 I've said the most horrible things and arguments, like things 0:35:32.000 --> 0:35:34.680 that I can't even believe God would I would even 0:35:35.719 --> 0:35:39.040 like I wouldn't ask. I still ask God to forgive me. 0:35:42.080 --> 0:35:48.880 I like, you know, no, I don't give us an example. 0:35:48.920 --> 0:35:51.880 I can't because you know those things you pray and 0:35:52.080 --> 0:35:58.440 you a God to forgive. But I've been awful. I've 0:35:58.440 --> 0:36:02.160 said I can't even little dick like I've said that 0:36:02.480 --> 0:36:07.280 with your evil. No, that's evil, broke, bumb little dick, bitch, nigga. 0:36:07.640 --> 0:36:11.400 I hope your mother dies. Your mother, your mother should 0:36:11.400 --> 0:36:18.960 have killed herself when from you that I just I'm 0:36:19.000 --> 0:36:26.480 not even this type of person because she got pregnant 0:36:26.480 --> 0:36:31.800 with you. I'm telling you your mother, your mother hates 0:36:31.840 --> 0:36:35.520 her life because you were worn Jesus like that. Damn, 0:36:35.680 --> 0:36:41.560 that's that is around evil. That's what I'm saying. God 0:36:41.640 --> 0:36:48.400 forgive me for repeating these things. I'm not gonna and 0:36:48.560 --> 0:36:51.959 guys and guys and guys are real careful. Even after 0:36:52.040 --> 0:36:54.920 I've said things like that and it's still wonna take it. 0:36:55.320 --> 0:36:57.759 Guys still won't take it too far because I feel 0:36:57.760 --> 0:37:00.440 like they know women are fragile. I feel like they 0:37:00.480 --> 0:37:04.360 could take it like they like become like Superman. And 0:37:07.520 --> 0:37:09.960 that's why I was saying this earlier, like I'm the 0:37:10.040 --> 0:37:13.000 guys really don't take it that far with me. Like 0:37:13.360 --> 0:37:15.720 if a guy calls me a bit while we're arguing, 0:37:15.960 --> 0:37:19.239 I'm going off, like I'm going off. You call me 0:37:19.400 --> 0:37:23.480 one bit after the three thousand dickheads I just called you, 0:37:23.600 --> 0:37:26.839 But you go off on you because you just called 0:37:26.840 --> 0:37:30.239 yourself fragile But you just said you, but you said 0:37:30.280 --> 0:37:32.920 you wish his mother would have killed herself. That's why. 0:37:33.239 --> 0:37:35.400 That's why she said stuff like that, because she's fragile 0:37:36.640 --> 0:37:39.839 mechanism and you hurt somebody, they're gonna hurt people, hurt people. 0:37:40.600 --> 0:37:44.120 I agree, I agree with that that. I agree with that, 0:37:44.480 --> 0:37:48.520 But I said that about insecure and how he called East, 0:37:48.920 --> 0:37:52.640 how Lawrence called her home after they got into that argument. 0:37:52.640 --> 0:37:55.040 I said, he was like, you a hope. I've never 0:37:55.160 --> 0:37:57.480 had a guy called me home. For a guy to 0:37:57.600 --> 0:38:00.160 call a woman, I've never I've never had a god 0:38:00.200 --> 0:38:01.799 called me that in an argument. I've had a guy 0:38:01.920 --> 0:38:05.439 called me a thought. That's the same thing. Okay, that's 0:38:05.480 --> 0:38:12.319 the same thing, but I think, do you know over there? 0:38:12.400 --> 0:38:16.120 So that's I just felt like that is more funny, 0:38:16.239 --> 0:38:20.279 like like mad, are you mad? Are you mad? Or 0:38:20.480 --> 0:38:22.359 are you a little mad? Or are you big mad? 0:38:23.480 --> 0:38:25.200 Because maybe, like you know, I'm just gonna go down. 0:38:25.320 --> 0:38:28.279 But he called me home. If my man calls me 0:38:28.360 --> 0:38:32.440 a hole, I would argue, I'm a cry. I do 0:38:32.600 --> 0:38:37.120 this especially thought of me things. Now. I don't know 0:38:37.160 --> 0:38:40.600 if you could that all of that I said about 0:38:40.640 --> 0:38:43.399 his mother, like everything else said about your mother, it's 0:38:43.480 --> 0:38:47.040 just bad. But you called me over because I feel 0:38:47.120 --> 0:38:49.200 like the mother thing is the go too, because I 0:38:49.280 --> 0:38:51.360 feel like the worst thing I've ever said to my 0:38:51.480 --> 0:38:53.600 ex had to do with his mother too. Damn y'all 0:38:53.640 --> 0:38:55.279 just talk about that. I was like, that's why your 0:38:55.320 --> 0:38:59.440 mother crackhead? But you see that was ye know when 0:38:59.480 --> 0:39:10.879 I look that be once it was awful for you too, girl, 0:39:10.960 --> 0:39:14.359 we're praying for you. When I said it, I was like, oh, 0:39:14.600 --> 0:39:16.840 like you know, often something comes out your mouth. You're like, 0:39:17.480 --> 0:39:20.319 can I suck that back in? Yeah? Like it wasn't enough. 0:39:20.440 --> 0:39:23.000 I ain't gonna lie. It wasn't no coming shaking her 0:39:23.040 --> 0:39:27.920 Damn head line that's out. That's bad. Like that's just 0:39:28.080 --> 0:39:31.600 something I think. It was going all for me, Like 0:39:32.000 --> 0:39:35.520 you causes that guy wasn't crackhead. A crackhead, that's all. 0:39:35.600 --> 0:39:38.360 She was recovering one. So like that was the worst 0:39:38.480 --> 0:39:40.600 you know what I mean, she wasn't even fully recovered. No, 0:39:40.840 --> 0:39:45.399 like she damn you didn't wait, she wasn't. I should 0:39:45.440 --> 0:39:48.680 have just stayed quiet. And then that I'm being too 0:39:48.800 --> 0:39:53.680 open with lip service. This is closed lip service from 0:39:53.719 --> 0:39:55.640 now one coming from me. What's the worst thing you 0:39:55.719 --> 0:40:01.000 said if you could talk this. I don't know what 0:40:01.080 --> 0:40:04.880 could be worse than any of this. No, Yeah, I 0:40:04.960 --> 0:40:07.520 mean I wish death on somebody before that was bad, 0:40:08.080 --> 0:40:16.560 which persons on him almost every time I argue, I'm like, 0:40:16.719 --> 0:40:22.080 die slowly, and then I go back to Jesus, you 0:40:22.160 --> 0:40:25.359 know quick. I feel bad they're even repeating this because 0:40:25.400 --> 0:40:28.799 of that, I know, but I'm working on it. I'm 0:40:28.840 --> 0:40:30.920 not arguing with nobody. I'm at a point in my 0:40:31.040 --> 0:40:33.719 life where I feel like things can be settled through 0:40:33.840 --> 0:40:38.160 talking and normal tones of voices, and if not, you 0:40:38.160 --> 0:40:41.000 don't move forward like nobody stuck together. There's billions of 0:40:41.040 --> 0:40:43.600 people on the planet. So you say your worst was 0:40:43.640 --> 0:40:46.520 just wishing death on that act, you know, being as 0:40:46.560 --> 0:40:48.040 though what just happened to me? But I'm going through 0:40:48.080 --> 0:40:50.520 personally right now. You know, I don't even really want 0:40:50.560 --> 0:40:53.320 to get into it. But his uncle was about to 0:40:53.360 --> 0:40:55.520 pass away from cancer, and I just told him that 0:40:55.560 --> 0:41:00.560 I hope that he died instead of is the evil? 0:41:01.719 --> 0:41:05.959 That was evil too? That's your t as the Lord 0:41:06.080 --> 0:41:10.279 every single time I forgot, I said my forgiveness too, 0:41:10.360 --> 0:41:15.239 and the Lord every day every day. But y'all be 0:41:15.360 --> 0:41:22.760 all let you change, yeah, right, but I mean people change, 0:41:22.920 --> 0:41:25.319 like right, That's what I'm saying. I don't. I used 0:41:25.320 --> 0:41:27.920 to be a real argument of person in relationship that 0:41:28.280 --> 0:41:31.160 he said. Now you know you don't like none of us? 0:41:35.760 --> 0:41:40.960 What about you? One an argument and arguments for woman's man. 0:41:41.040 --> 0:41:46.200 It's not gonna call you woman. I know better you 0:41:46.239 --> 0:41:50.319 play them games because yeah, men don't take it as 0:41:50.560 --> 0:41:53.440 it's coming back from never said no, no, like you 0:41:53.520 --> 0:41:55.440 ever called a woman a whole and an argument, even 0:41:55.480 --> 0:41:57.160 if you felt like she was never called a woman 0:41:57.200 --> 0:42:01.239 a bitch. See, I'm calling the hole. And I had 0:42:01.360 --> 0:42:03.160 done all of that, So I think what I said 0:42:03.239 --> 0:42:06.320 was okay. They have alluded to it before, alluded to it. 0:42:06.719 --> 0:42:09.880 You participated in question. I might have questioned her her 0:42:09.920 --> 0:42:14.520 whole facts like Carfax, I ain't never called Hi about 0:42:14.600 --> 0:42:22.160 no bit ship. Don't call me you no more that 0:42:24.760 --> 0:42:30.319 I stopped digging your mouth. I got, I got one, 0:42:30.440 --> 0:42:33.920 I got Yeah, it's one. Chick was on some bullshit. 0:42:34.480 --> 0:42:37.600 She's on some bullshit. And then I and then I 0:42:37.719 --> 0:42:41.719 booked my first major, my first major job, and I 0:42:41.800 --> 0:42:44.080 had to I was working in Canada for like three months, 0:42:44.760 --> 0:42:47.400 and she was on the bullshit. Before that, it was 0:42:47.440 --> 0:42:49.719 a show called l A Complex I Want to see 0:42:49.840 --> 0:42:51.759 w So then I was in Canada and all of 0:42:51.760 --> 0:42:53.200 a sudden, You're gonna slide in my d M s. 0:42:53.239 --> 0:42:55.000 And I wouldn't. I wouldn't, I wouldn't answer her. So 0:42:55.080 --> 0:42:56.759 she started sending the messages to a home girl I 0:42:56.800 --> 0:42:59.480 went to school with, and I related the message. I 0:42:59.560 --> 0:43:02.120 made sure relate the message to her home girl. To 0:43:02.200 --> 0:43:04.239 kind of put up business on blast. I was, you know, 0:43:04.400 --> 0:43:10.319 just some basic sh just next time. She swallow it all. 0:43:10.560 --> 0:43:18.520 You know, that's not bad. I don't really see mean things. 0:43:18.840 --> 0:43:20.600 I'm gonna tell you to choose, Like I can't even 0:43:20.680 --> 0:43:22.880 picture you if you know me in an argument, I 0:43:23.040 --> 0:43:25.759 just be mad quiet because I'm so conscious. Even if 0:43:25.800 --> 0:43:28.239 you say something really fucked or something happens, and this 0:43:28.400 --> 0:43:31.120 goes for men and just even people in general, I'll 0:43:31.160 --> 0:43:33.440 get real quiet because I know I have the most 0:43:33.520 --> 0:43:35.120 fucked up thoughts and I don't never want to have 0:43:35.200 --> 0:43:37.279 to say him because I know I can say something 0:43:37.320 --> 0:43:39.759 that could crush somebody's whole life, and I don't like 0:43:40.040 --> 0:43:42.719 that exactly, and I'm like, I'm not gonna do it. 0:43:42.920 --> 0:43:44.799 I'm not gonna do it. Probably the most fucked up 0:43:44.800 --> 0:43:46.400 thing I ever said to a guy was like, by 0:43:46.560 --> 0:43:49.719 calling him broke or something like that. But that's pretty mean, 0:43:50.040 --> 0:43:55.439 that's pretty that's well, you know what, but probably cheap. 0:43:56.000 --> 0:43:58.239 I don't even think broke. I might have said cheap 0:43:58.360 --> 0:44:00.560 or something like that, but it wasn't really it was true. 0:44:00.960 --> 0:44:02.680 It was cheap it out. Yeah. I just thought of 0:44:02.719 --> 0:44:08.880 another one, This one chick she had this uh she 0:44:09.040 --> 0:44:17.000 had this uh haara dessert problem. I reminded her that 0:44:17.239 --> 0:44:19.759 she was. You know what I would have said if 0:44:19.800 --> 0:44:21.719 I was her, I would have said, you wouldn't doing 0:44:21.760 --> 0:44:32.440 your job. But that's went for everybody else. But that's 0:44:32.480 --> 0:44:35.000 about it. That's about it. As effective as you called 0:44:35.120 --> 0:44:37.040 the dude, because y'all all got that same go to 0:44:37.120 --> 0:44:38.920 move with nigga makes you mad enough, like with your 0:44:38.960 --> 0:44:41.239 little dick ass and then be will you push you 0:44:41.320 --> 0:44:44.239 just big? You know that's just it. Don't not It's 0:44:44.239 --> 0:44:53.040 not effective, you know, don't she blamed it. Don't she 0:44:53.120 --> 0:44:55.200 blamed it on this type of birth control she was taking. 0:44:55.640 --> 0:44:57.640 Maybe who knows. I don't know. That's how you knew, 0:44:57.800 --> 0:45:04.160 that's how that's how you used. Just their kids just 0:45:04.200 --> 0:45:12.160 study these shows with whatever everything. I think, Um, guys, 0:45:12.400 --> 0:45:15.120 when you say that they have a little dick or something, 0:45:15.200 --> 0:45:17.840 they always be so offended that they don't have a comeback. 0:45:18.160 --> 0:45:20.040 Because any time I have said I saw you had 0:45:20.080 --> 0:45:22.560 dick small and I wasn't even whatever whatever, they'd be like. 0:45:24.040 --> 0:45:25.759 I didn't say that to somebody because I just be 0:45:25.840 --> 0:45:28.880 playing myself. I never say that. This time I'm working 0:45:28.920 --> 0:45:31.399 with this, I'm little dick. A lot of women stay 0:45:31.440 --> 0:45:34.239 with guys that don't please them. I just feel like, um, 0:45:35.040 --> 0:45:37.359 you know, when you when you're working with somebody who 0:45:37.400 --> 0:45:39.120 has a little dick, you know they have a little dick. 0:45:39.160 --> 0:45:41.600 Your friends probably know because you tell them, you know 0:45:41.719 --> 0:45:43.920 what I mean. So when it's over you being like 0:45:44.040 --> 0:45:47.440 a little dick, you're just like, it's man, so we know. 0:45:47.760 --> 0:45:51.640 And you were sucking that dick, you tell your friends 0:45:51.760 --> 0:46:00.759 nothing like that, like crazy girl. But he got has 0:46:00.840 --> 0:46:04.239 been my good friend for a minute, you know. You 0:46:04.400 --> 0:46:06.759 And when a guy got a little bick dude, and 0:46:06.880 --> 0:46:09.280 I was like, I love him, but he's a little 0:46:09.360 --> 0:46:15.319 small that moth, that mouth goes, that moth. Know if 0:46:15.400 --> 0:46:17.720 that that's gonna be your man, and you might see different. 0:46:17.920 --> 0:46:20.520 And then yeah, and then we're looking at you said 0:46:20.560 --> 0:46:22.879 it's hell for you, like damn, I know. And then 0:46:22.960 --> 0:46:25.600 I'm embarrassed. And I told one of my ex boyfriends, 0:46:25.840 --> 0:46:28.080 I called him a little dick. I called him a 0:46:28.160 --> 0:46:32.120 little dick, and he, um, you know, he didn't have 0:46:32.200 --> 0:46:35.919 a little dick. That guy's like an average, a normal one, 0:46:36.200 --> 0:46:39.640 you know, like a normal one. And I said that 0:46:39.760 --> 0:46:42.160 to him, and forget it. He never got over it. 0:46:42.320 --> 0:46:45.000 He we were in a long term relationship too. He 0:46:45.200 --> 0:46:49.640 never he always kept bringing it out. Maybe you didn't 0:46:49.680 --> 0:46:53.439 come this time because I got a little dick. I'm like, oh, 0:46:59.120 --> 0:47:01.879 like I I'm like, yo, I'm like, dude, like you're 0:47:02.000 --> 0:47:03.879 you're a little gay because you know you've been looking 0:47:03.920 --> 0:47:06.000 at porn and you knew the whole time you thought 0:47:06.040 --> 0:47:07.880 in your head that your dick was little because you 0:47:08.000 --> 0:47:10.000 was looking at other guys. Say that, how do you 0:47:10.080 --> 0:47:11.840 know your dick is a little You're come caring it 0:47:12.160 --> 0:47:15.040 because it's his What's it's a normal size? I swear 0:47:15.560 --> 0:47:18.520 it's a it's not even regular. It's bigger than regular. 0:47:19.040 --> 0:47:22.160 It's a nice not it's bigger than regular. It's a 0:47:22.280 --> 0:47:24.560 it's a I mean, it's not a monster dick. You 0:47:24.680 --> 0:47:30.800 know it's not. It's not. It's not huge. It's not. 0:47:31.120 --> 0:47:34.200 But I'm just saying it is. It's not. It's not 0:47:34.239 --> 0:47:36.960 a little. It's bigger than average. It's bigger than average. 0:47:37.280 --> 0:47:39.080 And forget that. He never let me live that down 0:47:39.160 --> 0:47:43.320 for years, for years, even after we broke up. The 0:47:43.880 --> 0:47:49.520 average dicks aren't bad, not, but he has and it's like, 0:47:49.600 --> 0:47:52.000 you know what, you're Patty, You're you're you're you're weird 0:47:52.120 --> 0:47:54.520 for this. This is weird. Like, let's stop. I already 0:47:54.560 --> 0:47:56.640 told you that I was just bad a hundred times. 0:47:56.840 --> 0:47:59.520 You're gonna keep on said that to get you right? 0:48:00.920 --> 0:48:02.640 All right, here's the last one, the number one reason 0:48:02.719 --> 0:48:07.880 that you won't go on that second date. Um, what 0:48:08.000 --> 0:48:14.719 could somebody do wrong? Just just whack ass combo like 0:48:14.920 --> 0:48:18.799 chickspea chickspea like forgetting like y'all gotta y'all can bring 0:48:18.840 --> 0:48:20.480 some ship to the table too. It's not a one 0:48:20.480 --> 0:48:23.880 way street. Yeah, we ain't just just there for your entertainment. 0:48:24.120 --> 0:48:30.400 I'm not doing up. Got you gotta have some convo 0:48:30.560 --> 0:48:33.640 to man. I mean, you know, um, what if she's like, 0:48:33.760 --> 0:48:36.719 so do you want to get married? And one day 0:48:36.800 --> 0:48:38.719 can you ask? That's and that's trick. Yeah you can 0:48:38.760 --> 0:48:40.840 ask it. But here's the thing though, Like when you 0:48:41.120 --> 0:48:43.560 especially on the first date, when you're going out with somebody, man, 0:48:43.600 --> 0:48:45.919 you gotta make sure this ship is conversational. You can't 0:48:46.000 --> 0:48:48.399 beat on some my enterview type ship. Like I said, 0:48:48.400 --> 0:48:51.759 you want kids, you want to be married by with age? Like, no, 0:48:51.960 --> 0:48:58.720 that's true. You gotta let the conversation yet to be conversational. Alright, 0:48:58.760 --> 0:49:01.000 so you're saying that they have have a good conversation. 0:49:01.520 --> 0:49:04.560 If not, but maybe they're just nervous. But you can 0:49:04.600 --> 0:49:07.200 you can tell, you can tell nervous and somebody who 0:49:09.480 --> 0:49:17.600 you can tell different. I have somebody right the birth control. 0:49:17.640 --> 0:49:23.799 You can tell it birth control. Now you can tell 0:49:23.800 --> 0:49:26.040 you though, you can tell somebody. I mean, at least 0:49:26.080 --> 0:49:28.800 if you're nervous, if if it's just like a you know, 0:49:28.920 --> 0:49:33.279 you're nervous situation, they're at least, you know, have like 0:49:33.640 --> 0:49:36.480 some glimpse of some humor and some some some signs 0:49:36.520 --> 0:49:39.799 of intelligence and can hold the conversation. You ain't gotta 0:49:40.000 --> 0:49:42.200 gotta lead the conversation. No, the man should be able 0:49:42.200 --> 0:49:46.920 to carry it, but be responsive. It's on capacity. G 0:49:47.440 --> 0:49:50.719 W would make you not go on that second date. Man, 0:49:50.840 --> 0:49:54.040 just lameness. I got can spot to lame a mile away. 0:49:54.920 --> 0:49:57.279 And it don't matter what your position is in life 0:49:57.320 --> 0:50:00.640 as far as your occupation or your financial status. Lane 0:50:00.719 --> 0:50:03.960 don't go away with money. Money don't make lame go away, 0:50:04.440 --> 0:50:08.680 and neither does you know success, You know, Lane is 0:50:08.719 --> 0:50:10.759 just something that's in you and you can't shake it. 0:50:11.400 --> 0:50:18.319 And Lane, and sure for Lane, you don't penicilli you take, 0:50:20.680 --> 0:50:23.359 and yeah, I don't like. I just have been trying 0:50:23.400 --> 0:50:27.840 to find a cure for Lane. And the crazy thing 0:50:27.880 --> 0:50:30.600 about it is people think that people know that they lame, 0:50:30.760 --> 0:50:32.839 and then they think that because they might have gotten 0:50:32.920 --> 0:50:36.759 some type of like contract or big check, that that 0:50:37.160 --> 0:50:40.720 they automatically not Lane no more. And it's just like dude, sorry, 0:50:40.880 --> 0:50:45.560 but yeah, you're still lame and I'm good on you next. Alright, 0:50:45.600 --> 0:50:47.319 Stephan would make you not go on that second date 0:50:49.320 --> 0:50:52.840 if he mentions his acts or any past relationship. I 0:50:53.000 --> 0:50:55.640 just I can't. I can't first date and we're already 0:50:55.680 --> 0:50:58.479 talking about your acts like I can't. I can't. That's 0:50:58.840 --> 0:51:01.560 for me. That's a number one thing, Like I can't 0:51:01.640 --> 0:51:04.439 this guy's Lane. He was there talking about the next bitch, 0:51:04.520 --> 0:51:11.239 anything about another bitch. It's just I'm not doing it. Yeah, 0:51:12.160 --> 0:51:15.560 that's another thing for me. It's like one and done 0:51:15.640 --> 0:51:18.719 dates or my specialty, you know what I mean. Like 0:51:19.560 --> 0:51:21.919 a lot most guys don't make it past the first 0:51:22.000 --> 0:51:24.520 date because I'll be so like I will see at 0:51:24.560 --> 0:51:27.000 dinner with a guy and be looking at him in 0:51:27.040 --> 0:51:29.600 the middle of the conversation and be telling myself I 0:51:29.719 --> 0:51:32.839 am never gonna see this guy again. Look, I would 0:51:32.840 --> 0:51:35.640 the guy have been left then if you're doing all that, know, 0:51:35.760 --> 0:51:39.319 because I just you know, like I'm I'm I'm I'm 0:51:39.400 --> 0:51:42.719 definitely about vibes, you know what I mean, Like if 0:51:42.840 --> 0:51:45.080 if you can't if I can't get a good vibe 0:51:45.120 --> 0:51:48.200 from somebody that first time, Like sometimes you hang out 0:51:48.280 --> 0:51:50.640 with somebody for the first time and you're just like, whatever, 0:51:50.719 --> 0:51:52.920 it's gonna be a regular, regular time. We're gonna go 0:51:52.960 --> 0:51:54.920 out for a drink, go have some food, and you 0:51:55.080 --> 0:51:58.080 have such an amazing time with this person. You just 0:51:58.400 --> 0:52:02.040 you're not doing too much. You enjoying each other, good conversation. 0:52:02.560 --> 0:52:04.560 You know that that's the kind of thing that I'm 0:52:04.640 --> 0:52:06.919 looking for. If I can't get that from you, there's 0:52:06.920 --> 0:52:10.919 no way we're gonna go on a second date. Yeah, 0:52:11.920 --> 0:52:15.440 but whatever, I spent a lot of my time at 0:52:15.480 --> 0:52:20.000 home alone. I mean, I'm not, I'm not. I don't 0:52:20.040 --> 0:52:22.960 feel like I'm single though I'm not single. But you know, 0:52:23.080 --> 0:52:25.520 maybe I could have been married now if I wasn't 0:52:25.560 --> 0:52:28.640 doing all the ones and done all my life. You 0:52:28.800 --> 0:52:31.640 never know, you gotta remember this though, you gotta remember this. 0:52:32.560 --> 0:52:36.640 Everybody got red flags talking to that dude, and you 0:52:36.680 --> 0:52:41.680 ain't got some red flags? Of course flag, He's like, 0:52:42.000 --> 0:52:44.520 why is she staring at me? Like, I mean, right now, 0:52:44.960 --> 0:52:48.000 right now, I just quit smoking, So like I'm high emotional. 0:52:48.080 --> 0:52:49.759 So we might be at dinner and we'll just be 0:52:49.880 --> 0:52:53.000 talking about things and I'll start talking about Jesus. I'll 0:52:53.000 --> 0:52:55.759 start talking about Jesus and then you know, to save 0:52:55.840 --> 0:53:00.759 the children and and start crying automatically that flag you 0:53:00.920 --> 0:53:05.600 just named, like seven red flags. Not a good time 0:53:05.680 --> 0:53:11.040 to date with me crying, smoking cigarettes, talking about Jesus. 0:53:13.640 --> 0:53:16.000 So I just quit. I just quit. I've been I've 0:53:16.040 --> 0:53:18.600 been three weeks without smoking, and you know, so I'm 0:53:18.680 --> 0:53:21.600 high emotional right now. I think I would throw a 0:53:21.680 --> 0:53:23.879 lot of red flags at a guy. On the first day. 0:53:24.280 --> 0:53:27.400 I wouldn't even go out the first day, I wouldn't 0:53:27.400 --> 0:53:30.120 even go out. The first might be missing that dude, 0:53:30.360 --> 0:53:32.320 Like you could be like that dude for real, and 0:53:32.440 --> 0:53:36.360 you're sitting up here talking about some He mentioned that 0:53:36.400 --> 0:53:38.640 he had an ex girlfriend. No, no, no, no, not 0:53:38.760 --> 0:53:40.920 that I never had. But you know, when you're you know, 0:53:40.960 --> 0:53:43.160 when you're sitting with somebody, You know, when you're sitting 0:53:43.200 --> 0:53:46.520 with somebody and they they consistently talk about their past 0:53:46.600 --> 0:53:49.400 relationships like oh, I I was with this person, and 0:53:50.000 --> 0:53:51.880 even if they don't mention the who the person is, 0:53:52.760 --> 0:53:54.879 back when I was with this person or oh yeah 0:53:55.080 --> 0:53:58.520 I remember, Oh that reminded me of this. Imagine imagine 0:53:58.520 --> 0:54:00.920 trying to imagine trying to date in l a in 0:54:01.000 --> 0:54:06.399 the chicks that do that, because when I was stating 0:54:06.440 --> 0:54:10.200 Kobe Bryant, I was stating with Yoba, and then I 0:54:10.320 --> 0:54:15.120 was stating and it just makes you sound me for women, 0:54:15.160 --> 0:54:16.640 It just makes you sound like a whole when you 0:54:16.840 --> 0:54:18.719 when your name dropping on right, like when I did 0:54:18.760 --> 0:54:26.400 it exactly. Oh sorry, I should have have her, Bees 0:54:26.920 --> 0:54:29.680 asked me, because I have a good one. Oh I 0:54:29.840 --> 0:54:35.839 was like, wait, they to you the last one. I'm 0:54:35.920 --> 0:54:39.480 round it off. So basically, one thing that will cancel 0:54:39.560 --> 0:54:41.280 a second date out for me is something that happened 0:54:41.320 --> 0:54:43.520 to me. And that's if you don't know how to 0:54:43.640 --> 0:54:46.840 handle your liquor on that date. So I went on 0:54:47.120 --> 0:54:49.680 a date with somebody and he started drinking. When I 0:54:49.760 --> 0:54:52.600 tell you, he started getting loud talking to let me 0:54:52.680 --> 0:54:59.719 introduce you to my boy. I'm like, Daniel, it was 0:55:00.040 --> 0:55:04.600 in my area. I was, so you know, when I 0:55:04.760 --> 0:55:08.120 tell you I blocked this name, like I never wanted 0:55:08.160 --> 0:55:10.399 to hear from him again. Like I was embarrassed seeing 0:55:10.400 --> 0:55:12.719 you were sitting with him, like I'm never gonna see 0:55:12.800 --> 0:55:15.120 him again. No, no, no, no, he's seen it on 0:55:15.239 --> 0:55:18.040 my face. I said it to him. We're talking about 0:55:18.080 --> 0:55:19.880 me here. I was like, what is wrong with you? 0:55:20.000 --> 0:55:22.760 Did you drink too much? Like I said the Semnth 0:55:23.000 --> 0:55:25.160 like it was a secret. I'm like, you're embarrassing. That 0:55:25.280 --> 0:55:26.680 is embarrassing to go out on the first date with 0:55:26.760 --> 0:55:28.400 somebody and they drink too much. I don't even know you. 0:55:28.760 --> 0:55:30.520 That'll make you never go out with him again. However, 0:55:30.719 --> 0:55:34.320 happened to me once the guy started crying. You've said this, 0:55:34.480 --> 0:55:37.920 I've heard the story. What was he crying for? Well, 0:55:38.000 --> 0:55:39.560 he had like a death in the a friend of 0:55:39.640 --> 0:55:42.120 his head past. But that's not fair. And that's just 0:55:42.200 --> 0:55:49.000 the first date. And he probably just quite smoking with Stephanie. 0:55:49.120 --> 0:55:53.520 But I told them he could still be friends. Yeah, 0:55:54.200 --> 0:56:01.640 you know like my pictures. Okay, you know it, Little servers, 0:56:06.320 --> 0:56:07.919 j tell us a little bit about your character, because 0:56:07.920 --> 0:56:09.600 I know you gotta go from two to the game, 0:56:09.680 --> 0:56:11.719 just so we can know what to look for. Because 0:56:11.760 --> 0:56:13.799 we haven't seen the movie yet, but where it's pretty 0:56:13.800 --> 0:56:18.560 excited for it. Um. I play a character named Drell Jackson, 0:56:19.320 --> 0:56:25.560 who's the young upcoming street gunner that's that's has his 0:56:25.680 --> 0:56:29.319 eyes on taking over m Quadir's empire. Right, So you're 0:56:29.480 --> 0:56:32.120 columb Short is the boss and you're trying to I'm 0:56:32.160 --> 0:56:34.680 trying to beat the Boss, and I'm adamant that I'm 0:56:34.719 --> 0:56:37.799 gonna take his ship by enemies necessary. So I'm coming 0:56:37.840 --> 0:56:39.759 from him. At first, I come at him with a 0:56:39.840 --> 0:56:42.960 cordial olive branch. You know, I'm trying to like, yo, 0:56:43.040 --> 0:56:44.560 we can get down together. You know, I'm trying to 0:56:44.600 --> 0:56:47.920 convince somebody. At every turn, he keeps mushing me. You 0:56:47.960 --> 0:56:49.800 know what I'm saying, give me to stiff on. And 0:56:49.840 --> 0:56:52.040 then finally I start, you know, coming up my little 0:56:52.040 --> 0:56:54.359 plan to take him over. I mean, we've all read 0:56:54.400 --> 0:56:56.279 the books, so, but I just for people listening that 0:56:56.440 --> 0:57:00.640 might not have how did you get into character? Did 0:57:00.719 --> 0:57:02.640 you have to study anybody? Like? What made you know? 0:57:02.880 --> 0:57:06.080 I'm like, man, I'm from Houston. I want to raise so, 0:57:06.840 --> 0:57:10.000 uh the hood part. You know, every city got hood 0:57:10.040 --> 0:57:12.640 parts or whatever. So my hood like these dudes. I 0:57:12.680 --> 0:57:15.560 went to school with these dudes, you know, dudes like Darelle. 0:57:16.080 --> 0:57:18.360 I got these kind of dudes in my family, cousins, 0:57:18.800 --> 0:57:22.640 you know, best friends who um grew up in the 0:57:22.680 --> 0:57:26.600 streets and was persistent, you know, with overtaking people and 0:57:26.760 --> 0:57:29.960 you know, being cut throat and just malicious and when 0:57:30.000 --> 0:57:32.320 they were the way they care theirselves. All right, so 0:57:32.440 --> 0:57:35.320 you already had life experience and had to do that. 0:57:35.560 --> 0:57:37.920 Yeah all right, Well, we appreciate you so much for 0:57:38.000 --> 0:57:39.480 coming through and having fun with us and answering some 0:57:39.560 --> 0:57:42.880 of these questions and congratulations. I know you've done some 0:57:43.000 --> 0:57:46.439 big things, but this is you know, this is huge. Yeah. Yeah, 0:57:46.480 --> 0:57:49.280 this's my first, uh, it's my first film that's going 0:57:49.520 --> 0:57:53.680 to theaters. So I'm excited about that. You've done television, 0:57:53.760 --> 0:57:56.440 which is you know, yeah, I've done television. I actually uh, 0:57:57.120 --> 0:58:04.479 I've actually done uh four movies that have been on TV. 0:58:04.600 --> 0:58:06.400 I did a movie was Making Good early this year 0:58:06.480 --> 0:58:10.360 that was on Lifetime. I played her boyfriend. UM. I 0:58:10.440 --> 0:58:13.840 did a movie that was on um Netflix with Lorenz 0:58:13.880 --> 0:58:17.040 Tate and lands Cross and Making Good in Bro Timmy 0:58:17.080 --> 0:58:18.840 and all those guys. So this is the first one. 0:58:18.920 --> 0:58:23.440 That's what was I think I saw that movie. We 0:58:23.560 --> 0:58:25.720 went to the We went to that premiere and mare, 0:58:26.360 --> 0:58:29.080 that's what I was a little punk as detective. But 0:58:29.280 --> 0:58:34.440 you can have things to change, even black Jesus, Oh 0:58:34.520 --> 0:58:37.120 my god, that's how you're on there. To my neighbor, 0:58:37.560 --> 0:58:40.120 what happened? I thought you weren't filming for now they are? 0:58:40.320 --> 0:58:42.640 They are? They I'm not, Oh, you're not gonna be 0:58:42.720 --> 0:58:44.720 in that doing it no more? But did you like 0:58:44.880 --> 0:58:49.080 that doing that? Oh my god, so funny. Cops. That's 0:58:49.120 --> 0:58:51.760 not his name, John was the spoon Charlie Murphy, Cory 0:58:51.800 --> 0:58:55.520 Hoping for Hoping because yall know stupidest I love. I 0:58:55.680 --> 0:58:59.280 used to watch that show faithfully. Do you like would 0:58:59.320 --> 0:59:02.560 you better play to ative for the bad guy? Bad 0:59:02.640 --> 0:59:05.720 guy bad I'm gonna tell you why the response that 0:59:05.760 --> 0:59:08.760 I keep getting people watch you to the game. They 0:59:08.800 --> 0:59:11.200 walk up to me and they say, man, I hate 0:59:11.200 --> 0:59:12.919 you so much right now, but you did a really 0:59:12.960 --> 0:59:16.840 good job. Like people that watch Deuces, they'd be like, oh, 0:59:16.920 --> 0:59:19.080 they're the bitch ass nigger, and they think I'm a 0:59:19.120 --> 0:59:22.760 bitch ass nigg in real life. You did a good job, 0:59:23.080 --> 0:59:25.240 like you even want to set it was? It was 0:59:25.240 --> 0:59:28.320 crazy because even want to because uh la la Anthony 0:59:28.480 --> 0:59:30.640 was my partner. You know, she was a detective to 0:59:30.920 --> 0:59:33.240 lands Gross was undercover detective on them on the movie. 0:59:33.920 --> 0:59:36.840 So even on set like like Lorens and like ro 0:59:37.000 --> 0:59:39.960 Timmy inside and all of them like they wouldn't funk 0:59:40.000 --> 0:59:41.919 with me, like that would be a lunch and they'd 0:59:41.920 --> 0:59:43.880 be like talking to each other and I'll be right here, 0:59:43.960 --> 0:59:47.040 but they still looking at me like detective Solid. And 0:59:47.080 --> 0:59:48.479 then they were like, oh man, I gotta I gotta 0:59:48.480 --> 0:59:51.080 remind myself that you're not him because the movie we 0:59:51.160 --> 1:00:00.360 don't like him. You know, that's before them trying to 1:00:01.400 --> 1:00:06.440 before the movie. No excuses. You gotta start looking at stamp. 1:00:07.400 --> 1:00:10.120 You gotta look it before you stick. Plus and plus 1:00:10.240 --> 1:00:15.840 you know even don't that's come on, do we even 1:00:15.840 --> 1:00:18.960 gotta Yeah, that's a prerequid. We already know that. But 1:00:19.480 --> 1:00:23.480 besides that, though, uh, the detectives like you know corny dudes, 1:00:23.560 --> 1:00:27.040 traight lece or whatever. But Darrell, even though he's a 1:00:27.080 --> 1:00:31.440 bad guy, like and y'all watch, he is sexy nigger. 1:00:31.680 --> 1:00:33.360 You know what I'm saying. You got the he got 1:00:33.400 --> 1:00:35.800 the bitches, got the shirt off tattoo showing you know, 1:00:35.840 --> 1:00:45.280 I get swag it up. Yeah, nice, perfect, perfect, matt 1:00:47.320 --> 1:00:51.600 Ain't saying if y'all all that, but if y'all say, 1:00:53.520 --> 1:00:54.840 thank you so much. We really had a good time 1:00:54.880 --> 1:00:59.920 and toole shout out to Houston. Yeah, absolutely shot. Houston's 1:01:00.000 --> 1:01:00.480 are disting.