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Speaker 1: Why are you doing this? This is a fun podcast.

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Speaker 1: Mandy be and I'm weasy, and we are here, and

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Speaker 1: We was cooler. But anyway, Um, you came to my

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Speaker 1: need to eat anymore? But yeah, so um, for any

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00:21:20,920 --> 00:21:23,440
Speaker 1: of you guys who are into cosplay, we would love

423
00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:26,400
Speaker 1: to hear any of your stories or what stuffed animals

424
00:21:26,440 --> 00:21:29,919
Speaker 1: you're attracted to. Fucking you think black Black Panther is

425
00:21:29,920 --> 00:21:33,600
Speaker 1: not really a costume it's what black turtleneck and a

426
00:21:33,640 --> 00:21:36,520
Speaker 1: bullet or whatever the ships is called? What black Panther

427
00:21:36,600 --> 00:21:39,640
Speaker 1: aske bootleg movie? Have you? I'm thinking of Black Panther is? Wait?

428
00:21:39,720 --> 00:21:42,560
Speaker 1: Is there a real panther and black panther? It's not

429
00:21:42,600 --> 00:21:49,800
Speaker 1: a let's go to the next topic. Wait, is there

430
00:21:49,840 --> 00:21:53,560
Speaker 1: really a black panther in this new Black Panther movie? Yeah? Oh,

431
00:21:53,600 --> 00:21:55,200
Speaker 1: I thought it was just like the Black Panther movie.

432
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Speaker 1: This is the girl that you just I mean, Michael B.

433
00:22:02,520 --> 00:22:06,280
Speaker 1: Jordan is. I thought it was just I'm gonna I'm

434
00:22:06,280 --> 00:22:08,480
Speaker 1: gonna go this girl. You're tripping the bunk out and

435
00:22:08,520 --> 00:22:12,359
Speaker 1: I'm the one on drugs. What the fuck? My bad?

436
00:22:12,600 --> 00:22:16,239
Speaker 1: You thought this was a Black Panther revolutionary did not

437
00:22:16,320 --> 00:22:23,040
Speaker 1: have a Black panther superhero? What is wrong? Oh my god,

438
00:22:23,320 --> 00:22:26,000
Speaker 1: damn you wouldn't, Oh ship, what's going on? You got

439
00:22:26,160 --> 00:22:28,320
Speaker 1: us all? Bro? You just went in on me for

440
00:22:28,400 --> 00:22:30,000
Speaker 1: not watching Love and Hip Hop because I don't know

441
00:22:30,080 --> 00:22:33,600
Speaker 1: black culture and you don't, and I know exactly black culture.

442
00:22:35,200 --> 00:22:39,240
Speaker 1: It is a fantasy. Look like, Oh, is that little

443
00:22:39,480 --> 00:22:43,000
Speaker 1: costume to you? Oh? Now it does. I just heard

444
00:22:43,040 --> 00:22:45,480
Speaker 1: Michael B. Jordan's I thought it was just gonna be

445
00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:49,160
Speaker 1: like they were gonna have some black turtlenecks. All. Oh,

446
00:22:49,200 --> 00:22:54,040
Speaker 1: we got our next guest coming in. Okay, okay, thanks, thanks,

447
00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:56,639
Speaker 1: thanks for shaving me. I didn't know that I was

448
00:22:56,680 --> 00:22:59,960
Speaker 1: gonna that looks like Batman with like some trible what's

449
00:23:00,000 --> 00:23:02,800
Speaker 1: some tribal teeth on it? Don't go through my pussy picks.

450
00:23:02,800 --> 00:23:04,880
Speaker 1: Just take the phone and do what you've got into.

451
00:23:05,680 --> 00:23:07,880
Speaker 1: Talk to her. I'm on drugs. Do not take advantage

452
00:23:07,880 --> 00:23:10,080
Speaker 1: of me. Not on the woman's some bootleg. Ask two

453
00:23:10,119 --> 00:23:12,480
Speaker 1: from the corner store. Take the phone that ship from

454
00:23:12,480 --> 00:23:14,320
Speaker 1: from the corner store. I don't know what it was,

455
00:23:14,760 --> 00:23:17,800
Speaker 1: but I'm scared. Damn. Okay, Well, Panther is a real

456
00:23:17,960 --> 00:23:21,119
Speaker 1: movie thing, my bad comic, I don't it's it's Marvel,

457
00:23:21,160 --> 00:23:23,960
Speaker 1: not d C Rights. And apparently I've heard some stats

458
00:23:23,960 --> 00:23:26,520
Speaker 1: about it being like the most popular, the most the

459
00:23:26,600 --> 00:23:32,119
Speaker 1: high I heard all of that. Panther know, the actual

460
00:23:32,200 --> 00:23:36,280
Speaker 1: like superhero anyway, don't laugh at me. We have people

461
00:23:37,320 --> 00:23:41,240
Speaker 1: a costume. It's like a turtleneck in an afrol Yeah,

462
00:23:41,320 --> 00:23:45,240
Speaker 1: like from the super Bowl. I would like thinking college

463
00:23:45,240 --> 00:23:56,119
Speaker 1: paper dick. Okay, fuck all of you in the ass

464
00:23:56,280 --> 00:23:59,240
Speaker 1: with no lube. While we have. Don't laugh at me.

465
00:23:59,280 --> 00:24:02,840
Speaker 1: I like laughing with y'all, not what y'all laugh at me? Yeah,

466
00:24:03,119 --> 00:24:05,520
Speaker 1: my eyes watering, but it's probably from the lash glue

467
00:24:05,520 --> 00:24:09,760
Speaker 1: because god damn. Anyways, guys, we're gonna coming in full

468
00:24:09,800 --> 00:24:13,200
Speaker 1: makeup to because we got cameras and ship Hey y'all,

469
00:24:14,080 --> 00:24:15,560
Speaker 1: and bitch, I might go on a date for a

470
00:24:15,600 --> 00:24:19,120
Speaker 1: smoothie after you know I can't eat it else. Um,

471
00:24:19,200 --> 00:24:22,280
Speaker 1: we're gonna go ahead and get into our horrible decision

472
00:24:22,320 --> 00:24:28,639
Speaker 1: this week online dating and apps. And look, bitch, we

473
00:24:28,720 --> 00:24:34,000
Speaker 1: talked about this, but it's crazy because it's funny because

474
00:24:34,040 --> 00:24:38,679
Speaker 1: so many people have been asking us about online dating apps. Clearly,

475
00:24:38,720 --> 00:24:41,800
Speaker 1: you guys have heard our stories. Um, that's where I

476
00:24:41,840 --> 00:24:44,480
Speaker 1: met fellon Bay was tender um. And then that's also

477
00:24:44,520 --> 00:24:46,360
Speaker 1: where I met the guy where his ex girlfriend showed

478
00:24:46,440 --> 00:24:48,439
Speaker 1: up on our date and completely ruined it and started

479
00:24:48,440 --> 00:24:51,440
Speaker 1: harassing my life. UM. So I haven't had great luck

480
00:24:51,480 --> 00:24:56,720
Speaker 1: with um online dating apps. I have, however, met some

481
00:24:56,840 --> 00:25:00,399
Speaker 1: quality penis from it. UM. I thought people gonna come on,

482
00:25:01,560 --> 00:25:04,639
Speaker 1: but I've had I've had maybe two that turned into

483
00:25:04,680 --> 00:25:09,280
Speaker 1: like what. Um. I decided to go back to seeking

484
00:25:09,359 --> 00:25:13,200
Speaker 1: arrangement because Bitch, Tender and Bubble was not working for me,

485
00:25:13,400 --> 00:25:14,879
Speaker 1: so I may as well just go and tell these

486
00:25:14,960 --> 00:25:16,639
Speaker 1: niggas I want their money. Let me say an interesting

487
00:25:16,680 --> 00:25:18,720
Speaker 1: app I've been on that I really wish people would

488
00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:21,119
Speaker 1: utilize more. Um, I'm not on it right now or anything,

489
00:25:21,160 --> 00:25:24,399
Speaker 1: but it's called Happen h A P P N. And

490
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,160
Speaker 1: it's an app kind of like so basically, the only

491
00:25:27,359 --> 00:25:29,160
Speaker 1: app I know where you can do people in proximity

492
00:25:29,200 --> 00:25:31,600
Speaker 1: is Brinder, but it's only for gay men. Happen shows

493
00:25:31,600 --> 00:25:33,080
Speaker 1: you people like that are next to you, a few

494
00:25:33,080 --> 00:25:35,600
Speaker 1: feet away, whatever and bitch. When I first moved to

495
00:25:35,600 --> 00:25:37,720
Speaker 1: New York, I was in so many free lunches. I

496
00:25:37,840 --> 00:25:41,400
Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, I'm in the neighborhood. But

497
00:25:41,560 --> 00:25:43,480
Speaker 1: I mean I worked Midtown and so this ship was

498
00:25:43,560 --> 00:25:46,840
Speaker 1: just loading up bit and um, yeah, it was really fun.

499
00:25:47,000 --> 00:25:49,680
Speaker 1: I never slept with anybody from Happen, but I did

500
00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,560
Speaker 1: have a good time on there, like meeting people instantly

501
00:25:51,560 --> 00:25:53,120
Speaker 1: and it felt like just a thing, like you're here,

502
00:25:53,160 --> 00:25:56,119
Speaker 1: I'm here, Like it was super cool. Another one that

503
00:25:56,160 --> 00:25:59,239
Speaker 1: I'm on right now, it's called Hinge. Have you heard

504
00:25:59,280 --> 00:26:03,680
Speaker 1: of it. It's people that somehow are attached to people

505
00:26:03,680 --> 00:26:07,600
Speaker 1: you know according to Facebook or LinkedIn. But um, that

506
00:26:07,640 --> 00:26:10,480
Speaker 1: sounds which is cool because like a common theme. Now

507
00:26:11,200 --> 00:26:13,639
Speaker 1: you obviously run out of people, so it's not all

508
00:26:13,680 --> 00:26:15,679
Speaker 1: like that, but it's pretty cool. Like it said, oh

509
00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:17,439
Speaker 1: common connection with you and this guy he was he

510
00:26:17,480 --> 00:26:20,119
Speaker 1: lived in Orlando at one point. To um, some of

511
00:26:20,160 --> 00:26:23,840
Speaker 1: the things ugly, but it's a cool app. The best

512
00:26:23,880 --> 00:26:26,000
Speaker 1: looking man I've ever seen in an app. We're Bumble,

513
00:26:26,200 --> 00:26:29,000
Speaker 1: We're bumble. And it's funny because I've heard the opposite

514
00:26:29,119 --> 00:26:31,040
Speaker 1: coming from men is that that's where they find a

515
00:26:31,040 --> 00:26:34,480
Speaker 1: lot more attractive females. Something that I wanted to talk

516
00:26:34,520 --> 00:26:37,280
Speaker 1: about because it's an app that I tried and I

517
00:26:37,320 --> 00:26:39,240
Speaker 1: want to let you guys know that I didn't too

518
00:26:39,320 --> 00:26:42,200
Speaker 1: much care for. It was pof plenty of fish. When

519
00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:44,440
Speaker 1: did you try that girl for three days? Cindy put

520
00:26:44,440 --> 00:26:46,879
Speaker 1: me on it? When, Um, this was probably when I

521
00:26:46,920 --> 00:26:50,600
Speaker 1: first moved to New York two thousand twelve. Okay, that

522
00:26:50,640 --> 00:26:53,520
Speaker 1: was okay, there, Well talk my first life. Well apparently

523
00:26:53,520 --> 00:26:57,199
Speaker 1: it's one of the still most leading dating sites. But

524
00:26:57,240 --> 00:27:00,679
Speaker 1: I wanted to let you guys know which is rash. No,

525
00:27:00,760 --> 00:27:02,560
Speaker 1: I don't think she's on it. Not mentioned plenty of it.

526
00:27:02,640 --> 00:27:06,560
Speaker 1: Maybe maybe that's where she met her nigga. I don't know, um,

527
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:08,600
Speaker 1: but so the problem that I have with plenty of

528
00:27:08,600 --> 00:27:11,600
Speaker 1: fish and this will hopefully let's deter you if this

529
00:27:11,640 --> 00:27:14,560
Speaker 1: is what you're interested in. It's pretty much like a

530
00:27:14,800 --> 00:27:17,960
Speaker 1: tagged if you guys, remember that you have full access

531
00:27:18,000 --> 00:27:20,720
Speaker 1: but to everyone tagged as an old social media site,

532
00:27:20,720 --> 00:27:24,320
Speaker 1: but basically you could message anybody. Um and to me,

533
00:27:24,480 --> 00:27:26,240
Speaker 1: I didn't like it because bitch I was getting like

534
00:27:26,680 --> 00:27:30,760
Speaker 1: fifty messages. I remember I was one fifteen messages and

535
00:27:30,760 --> 00:27:32,959
Speaker 1: if someone sees your picture, they could just write you,

536
00:27:33,080 --> 00:27:35,280
Speaker 1: which is why I like the Tinder and the Bumble.

537
00:27:36,280 --> 00:27:38,520
Speaker 1: I like the Tinder and the Bumble because you have

538
00:27:38,600 --> 00:27:40,920
Speaker 1: to be a match before they can message you, just

539
00:27:41,000 --> 00:27:45,040
Speaker 1: like Instagram. On Twitter, premium now for ten bucks, where

540
00:27:45,280 --> 00:27:47,119
Speaker 1: so you know, most people know the premium is for

541
00:27:47,200 --> 00:27:49,960
Speaker 1: like um swiping in other cities, but there's a premium

542
00:27:49,960 --> 00:27:52,919
Speaker 1: where you can swipe someone first, like they can't see you,

543
00:27:53,040 --> 00:27:55,639
Speaker 1: only people you've swiped and seen you. Oh and I'm

544
00:27:55,680 --> 00:27:58,040
Speaker 1: actually paying for that right now. You're paying for a

545
00:27:58,119 --> 00:28:02,480
Speaker 1: dating app. It's ten bucks and I don't really want

546
00:28:02,560 --> 00:28:03,919
Speaker 1: I don't know, I'm running into like a lot of

547
00:28:03,960 --> 00:28:07,480
Speaker 1: colleagues that have Tender, and um, I kind of don't

548
00:28:07,640 --> 00:28:10,200
Speaker 1: really want people to like, like people have screenshot in

549
00:28:10,320 --> 00:28:12,200
Speaker 1: me and like, you know, my name is on there,

550
00:28:12,200 --> 00:28:14,359
Speaker 1: and like I've had people tag me on Instagram and

551
00:28:14,440 --> 00:28:16,359
Speaker 1: my tender profile and I'm just like, dude, okay, you

552
00:28:16,480 --> 00:28:18,800
Speaker 1: something whatever, And so I just kind of want to

553
00:28:18,800 --> 00:28:20,679
Speaker 1: eliminate that. And like my company name is on there,

554
00:28:20,680 --> 00:28:22,159
Speaker 1: and I didn't realize that. It's like it's hard to

555
00:28:22,160 --> 00:28:24,000
Speaker 1: take the option out. They could at least see the title.

556
00:28:24,080 --> 00:28:25,919
Speaker 1: So I took that out. Now I'm just paying the

557
00:28:25,960 --> 00:28:28,560
Speaker 1: ten dollarge just to basically swipe niggas and creed. When

558
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:32,080
Speaker 1: I lived in Asia, i paid I believe maybe and

559
00:28:32,119 --> 00:28:35,520
Speaker 1: that was that gave me more super likes and it's

560
00:28:35,560 --> 00:28:37,479
Speaker 1: ten dollars now. It was for it was night nine,

561
00:28:37,480 --> 00:28:39,520
Speaker 1: and it gave me the option to also go back

562
00:28:39,640 --> 00:28:43,440
Speaker 1: if I swiped someone bitch, I'd be wanting to swipe back,

563
00:28:43,480 --> 00:28:45,600
Speaker 1: like because I'd be like this for real, for real.

564
00:28:45,680 --> 00:28:48,880
Speaker 1: Like you have to do is shake it and you

565
00:28:48,440 --> 00:28:50,240
Speaker 1: get you get back. You know how you get more,

566
00:28:50,520 --> 00:28:52,040
Speaker 1: so you get three chain tries to do that in

567
00:28:52,120 --> 00:28:53,960
Speaker 1: one day. If you need it more than three times

568
00:28:54,000 --> 00:28:58,920
Speaker 1: you have to post about bumble on Facebook. So I

569
00:28:58,920 --> 00:29:01,480
Speaker 1: didn't want this song. This nigga was fine because my

570
00:29:01,640 --> 00:29:03,160
Speaker 1: left So I went on. I was like, hey, guys,

571
00:29:03,200 --> 00:29:04,440
Speaker 1: I think I met the love of my life and

572
00:29:04,480 --> 00:29:08,240
Speaker 1: I have to post this Bumble link just to but

573
00:29:08,320 --> 00:29:11,480
Speaker 1: I mean, I do want to say that Bumble. I

574
00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:14,560
Speaker 1: think UM has more. They have a verified thing now,

575
00:29:15,160 --> 00:29:18,120
Speaker 1: which I like. Um, there's a lot better looking black

576
00:29:18,120 --> 00:29:19,880
Speaker 1: man on there, because I think Tender just be a

577
00:29:19,880 --> 00:29:22,400
Speaker 1: bunch of niggas like you, maybe a whole bunch of

578
00:29:22,480 --> 00:29:24,440
Speaker 1: just not good. Look, let me show you a bit.

579
00:29:24,520 --> 00:29:26,120
Speaker 1: You know, I'm trying to go back to my root,

580
00:29:26,200 --> 00:29:28,200
Speaker 1: so what a little Let me just need this dude.

581
00:29:28,200 --> 00:29:30,120
Speaker 1: I feel like he might be a bum. I hope

582
00:29:30,120 --> 00:29:33,719
Speaker 1: it's not someone I matched with. Probably is. Remember so

583
00:29:33,840 --> 00:29:36,120
Speaker 1: our episode with XD and Jade. He goes, when you

584
00:29:36,120 --> 00:29:38,160
Speaker 1: go on Tender Bumble, you just gotta like swipe right

585
00:29:38,160 --> 00:29:41,120
Speaker 1: all the as how they look at I'm not gonna lie.

586
00:29:41,160 --> 00:29:42,840
Speaker 1: I'll be matching with some and then go back to

587
00:29:42,880 --> 00:29:48,640
Speaker 1: my messages and I'm like them. He told me he

588
00:29:48,680 --> 00:29:50,560
Speaker 1: was a vegan, and I was like, l well cool,

589
00:29:50,560 --> 00:29:52,360
Speaker 1: are you getting that from living in Murray Hill, and

590
00:29:52,520 --> 00:29:56,000
Speaker 1: I guess I got yeah that was that wasn't good.

591
00:29:56,040 --> 00:29:58,000
Speaker 1: I wanted to I would ask a black man and

592
00:29:58,240 --> 00:30:00,520
Speaker 1: we can't together and talking about white people done with you.

593
00:30:00,520 --> 00:30:03,360
Speaker 1: I wanted to share other dating sites that I found

594
00:30:03,360 --> 00:30:05,360
Speaker 1: that me and Wheezy probably are not on and we'll

595
00:30:05,360 --> 00:30:09,560
Speaker 1: ever get on. For one Christian mingle, Um, that one

596
00:30:09,640 --> 00:30:12,440
Speaker 1: is if you're really into your religion, Um, you can

597
00:30:12,440 --> 00:30:16,080
Speaker 1: meet people who share your value traditions. You're not fucking

598
00:30:16,200 --> 00:30:18,840
Speaker 1: Jesus on Christians. We don't get it. Jesus Dick is

599
00:30:18,880 --> 00:30:22,920
Speaker 1: not for fucking you think Christian or how Christian are they?

600
00:30:22,960 --> 00:30:24,440
Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. We're gonna go on this

601
00:30:24,480 --> 00:30:26,600
Speaker 1: religious website and talk about how good we are with

602
00:30:26,640 --> 00:30:27,880
Speaker 1: the Lord. And then it's like, oh no, but I'm

603
00:30:27,880 --> 00:30:29,640
Speaker 1: just want to get some pussy. We should do a

604
00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:34,320
Speaker 1: test and go on there. What don't we fun We

605
00:30:34,320 --> 00:30:36,520
Speaker 1: can see if we can get okay, So for research,

606
00:30:36,560 --> 00:30:38,200
Speaker 1: because yeah, I'm going to All Star Weekend, but it's

607
00:30:38,240 --> 00:30:41,640
Speaker 1: going to be for research, for research purpose match dot com.

608
00:30:41,680 --> 00:30:43,160
Speaker 1: It's supposed to be good, but I'm not mash that.

609
00:30:43,320 --> 00:30:45,680
Speaker 1: So these are the ones. Um black of course, if

610
00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,760
Speaker 1: you guys watch TV. These come up often. You have

611
00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:51,720
Speaker 1: black people meet, you have match dot Com and another

612
00:30:51,720 --> 00:30:53,640
Speaker 1: one that I see on here is called okay Cupid.

613
00:30:54,000 --> 00:30:58,240
Speaker 1: It's one of the first ones to come out. Um.

614
00:30:58,280 --> 00:30:59,960
Speaker 1: And then there's just a lot of different ones. There's

615
00:31:00,040 --> 00:31:02,480
Speaker 1: chemistry dot Com. This is another one that I found

616
00:31:02,520 --> 00:31:05,200
Speaker 1: caning um e Harmony is another one. Have you ever

617
00:31:05,280 --> 00:31:09,080
Speaker 1: done any Harmony? I've never made an account because I

618
00:31:09,280 --> 00:31:12,080
Speaker 1: get through the text because they synchronize, and I feel

619
00:31:12,080 --> 00:31:14,480
Speaker 1: like I'm an ugly person on the inside because the

620
00:31:14,520 --> 00:31:18,320
Speaker 1: next they gave me. This was the most interesting dating

621
00:31:18,320 --> 00:31:20,400
Speaker 1: site that I found, and we all know about it

622
00:31:20,440 --> 00:31:24,800
Speaker 1: because it was recently in the news. Um. But Ashley Madison, Yeah,

623
00:31:25,000 --> 00:31:28,360
Speaker 1: it's actually a dating site for cheatings for for cheaters.

624
00:31:28,760 --> 00:31:30,920
Speaker 1: So if you want to cheat on your bitch, your wife,

625
00:31:31,200 --> 00:31:34,400
Speaker 1: there's a dating app for that. Um it's called Ashley Madison.

626
00:31:34,560 --> 00:31:37,400
Speaker 1: And they just had a security breach, but hopefully they

627
00:31:37,440 --> 00:31:40,360
Speaker 1: don't anymore. Um. There's another good one, What's Your Price?

628
00:31:41,520 --> 00:31:44,960
Speaker 1: So we were we on that together, were like teenagers.

629
00:31:45,000 --> 00:31:46,840
Speaker 1: So I'm gonna I'm gonna share y'all. We ain't gonna

630
00:31:46,840 --> 00:31:48,720
Speaker 1: get into the seeking arrangement. Well, actually, I'll talk about

631
00:31:48,720 --> 00:31:50,680
Speaker 1: seek arrangement later because that's what me and my friends

632
00:31:50,680 --> 00:31:52,920
Speaker 1: are all currently on. But they don't know what your

633
00:31:52,920 --> 00:31:55,400
Speaker 1: price da, so have I, and so has my friend.

634
00:31:55,440 --> 00:31:57,280
Speaker 1: And bitch, this guy gave her two hundred dollar bills

635
00:31:57,280 --> 00:31:59,880
Speaker 1: and one was fake. Bitch, she came back mad a book.

636
00:32:00,160 --> 00:32:01,840
Speaker 1: So let me tell you, guys about what's your price?

637
00:32:02,080 --> 00:32:05,400
Speaker 1: If you're literally looking just to go on dates, Um,

638
00:32:05,480 --> 00:32:07,520
Speaker 1: what's your price? You want to eat? But if you

639
00:32:07,520 --> 00:32:10,280
Speaker 1: want to eat, basically you're getting paid to eat with

640
00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:13,680
Speaker 1: a guy, So you name your price. Um, my friend,

641
00:32:13,720 --> 00:32:16,160
Speaker 1: you can name like bid and like counter off. You

642
00:32:16,160 --> 00:32:18,320
Speaker 1: can counter offer and all of that. So I based

643
00:32:18,360 --> 00:32:20,640
Speaker 1: you feel like a terrible person. But it's so like

644
00:32:20,680 --> 00:32:22,800
Speaker 1: I've been on a date. I think I went on one.

645
00:32:22,840 --> 00:32:24,440
Speaker 1: I only went on one because to me it was weird.

646
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:27,680
Speaker 1: But it was for a hundred dollars and um, he

647
00:32:27,680 --> 00:32:30,200
Speaker 1: took me to a thie restaurant and so not only

648
00:32:30,240 --> 00:32:33,280
Speaker 1: did he pay for everything on the date, at the

649
00:32:33,360 --> 00:32:35,520
Speaker 1: end of the day, he gave me a hundred for

650
00:32:35,560 --> 00:32:37,400
Speaker 1: going on the date with like no double dutching, like

651
00:32:37,400 --> 00:32:38,720
Speaker 1: to the men, like you can't just pay for the

652
00:32:38,800 --> 00:32:41,000
Speaker 1: day and then like not pay for the right. I

653
00:32:41,000 --> 00:32:42,600
Speaker 1: had a nigger not give me the cash. I'll tell

654
00:32:42,640 --> 00:32:45,200
Speaker 1: you about that. Wait what? So I went on three

655
00:32:45,240 --> 00:32:47,920
Speaker 1: what's your price dates one man who's been nears. I

656
00:32:47,960 --> 00:32:49,680
Speaker 1: thought we're going to fall out. I was so scared.

657
00:32:50,680 --> 00:32:53,360
Speaker 1: This is the first time where I was like, how

658
00:32:53,360 --> 00:32:55,000
Speaker 1: old I think I was eighteen? I did it here

659
00:32:55,000 --> 00:32:57,520
Speaker 1: in New York did yeah, that's the Thai restaurant. And

660
00:32:57,520 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: he ended up liking me and wanted to do Korean barbecue.

661
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:01,840
Speaker 1: And I was like, oh no, this is it. That

662
00:33:01,880 --> 00:33:04,320
Speaker 1: was my price. I was like, how do you have

663
00:33:04,440 --> 00:33:06,440
Speaker 1: to pay for them? Not ask me for alcohol? I

664
00:33:06,480 --> 00:33:08,800
Speaker 1: don't know. Um, I want to know when we your

665
00:33:08,800 --> 00:33:10,200
Speaker 1: price day with the old white guy and like I

666
00:33:10,280 --> 00:33:12,040
Speaker 1: hate how like old white man always call you like

667
00:33:12,080 --> 00:33:15,640
Speaker 1: baby and sweetie and oh honey deer, and like I

668
00:33:15,680 --> 00:33:17,920
Speaker 1: remember this woman came and she was like, um, oh,

669
00:33:17,960 --> 00:33:19,360
Speaker 1: do you know what you want to drink? And he goes, yes,

670
00:33:19,440 --> 00:33:21,560
Speaker 1: my young lady friend with like a martini And I

671
00:33:21,600 --> 00:33:23,480
Speaker 1: was like what And I was so scared they were

672
00:33:23,480 --> 00:33:25,240
Speaker 1: gonna ask for my I d So anyway, we went on.

673
00:33:25,360 --> 00:33:27,800
Speaker 1: This was before you were even was eighteen years old.

674
00:33:28,040 --> 00:33:30,200
Speaker 1: He gave me two underug. He was a whole early.

675
00:33:31,800 --> 00:33:35,480
Speaker 1: This is why I'm I'm a reformed. Hey. So when

676
00:33:35,480 --> 00:33:38,120
Speaker 1: on the date got that cash, then UM went on

677
00:33:38,160 --> 00:33:40,520
Speaker 1: a date with and I thought like, Okay, this guy

678
00:33:40,600 --> 00:33:43,040
Speaker 1: is young and he's black and he's cute. It is

679
00:33:43,080 --> 00:33:44,440
Speaker 1: gonna work. At this time, I've never been on a

680
00:33:44,440 --> 00:33:45,920
Speaker 1: white man in my life. I went on a date

681
00:33:45,920 --> 00:33:49,160
Speaker 1: with this dude, even for sushi Sushi Katana in Orlando,

682
00:33:49,800 --> 00:33:52,880
Speaker 1: and we left and he drove me home, and I

683
00:33:52,920 --> 00:33:54,480
Speaker 1: was like kind of like waiting for it to happen,

684
00:33:55,240 --> 00:33:57,320
Speaker 1: and I was scared because I was just like I

685
00:33:57,400 --> 00:33:58,920
Speaker 1: know what to say or what to do. So I

686
00:33:58,960 --> 00:34:01,240
Speaker 1: just took the free food and I was broke anyway.

687
00:34:01,440 --> 00:34:04,520
Speaker 1: And then the third date really funny. It was for

688
00:34:04,800 --> 00:34:08,600
Speaker 1: six hundred dollars, oh ship, and he told me he

689
00:34:08,600 --> 00:34:10,160
Speaker 1: was gonna take me to eat at Norman's at the

690
00:34:10,200 --> 00:34:12,279
Speaker 1: Ritz in Orlando, which is a great restaurant. If you've

691
00:34:12,320 --> 00:34:16,520
Speaker 1: never been there, it's amazing. And so I honestly just

692
00:34:16,520 --> 00:34:18,400
Speaker 1: thought I hit the jackpot. And it was six hundred

693
00:34:18,400 --> 00:34:22,840
Speaker 1: alls for food and it was not. Wait so you

694
00:34:22,840 --> 00:34:25,720
Speaker 1: ain't get money twice then? Wait? So okay, go ahead,

695
00:34:25,840 --> 00:34:28,920
Speaker 1: I'm listening so we get up. He's like, oh, do

696
00:34:28,960 --> 00:34:32,359
Speaker 1: you want to have a nightcap with me? And I

697
00:34:32,400 --> 00:34:35,960
Speaker 1: was like okay, well, and I'm dumb bitch. I'm like,

698
00:34:36,080 --> 00:34:37,319
Speaker 1: I guess I got to go up there to get

699
00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:40,520
Speaker 1: the cash. So I got up there and um, he

700
00:34:40,640 --> 00:34:42,920
Speaker 1: had like some panties or lingerie and I was like, oh,

701
00:34:42,920 --> 00:34:44,719
Speaker 1: Like I was really nervous, and I was like I'm

702
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:46,480
Speaker 1: really sorry. And I was like grabbing my purse to

703
00:34:46,520 --> 00:34:48,640
Speaker 1: leave and he's like, oh, I'm sorry, Like maybe it's

704
00:34:48,640 --> 00:34:51,399
Speaker 1: my fault. I should have been more clear with absolutely,

705
00:34:51,640 --> 00:34:54,160
Speaker 1: and um, He's like, don't worry about it. Maybe can

706
00:34:54,200 --> 00:34:56,640
Speaker 1: I see you tomorrow? And I was like he was

707
00:34:56,680 --> 00:34:59,000
Speaker 1: like pushing the cash towards me by the way, and

708
00:34:59,040 --> 00:35:00,759
Speaker 1: he was like, no, take it, Like let's try again.

709
00:35:00,760 --> 00:35:02,319
Speaker 1: I'm here for another three days. Can I see tomorrow?

710
00:35:02,320 --> 00:35:03,920
Speaker 1: I was like, yeah, of course took that money. Ram

711
00:35:03,960 --> 00:35:06,319
Speaker 1: bitch paid my rent. I was so happy. I thought

712
00:35:06,320 --> 00:35:10,040
Speaker 1: my rent was only four and all. That's crazy. I

713
00:35:10,080 --> 00:35:11,520
Speaker 1: mean that, I'm sure it was like a once in

714
00:35:11,520 --> 00:35:13,680
Speaker 1: a lifetime that like someone's gonna be that nice to

715
00:35:13,680 --> 00:35:16,279
Speaker 1: give you money without sucking them. But he was he

716
00:35:16,360 --> 00:35:18,880
Speaker 1: saw how like I was visibly nervous, right, And I

717
00:35:18,880 --> 00:35:21,759
Speaker 1: think that's the thing with the whole Z story, which

718
00:35:21,760 --> 00:35:23,680
Speaker 1: obviously we talked about or we're going to talk about

719
00:35:23,719 --> 00:35:27,920
Speaker 1: with um our next guest. But that girl just didn't

720
00:35:27,920 --> 00:35:31,680
Speaker 1: really understand like what fucking on the first date was,

721
00:35:32,120 --> 00:35:34,560
Speaker 1: you know, like I think me and you have experienced that.

722
00:35:34,600 --> 00:35:36,960
Speaker 1: We've had many do that. Let's not talking because even

723
00:35:37,000 --> 00:35:38,719
Speaker 1: what you just said right now, bitch, I don't agree that.

724
00:35:38,800 --> 00:35:41,040
Speaker 1: I think she knew she just wanted to be a girlfriend,

725
00:35:41,280 --> 00:35:43,359
Speaker 1: and she she really realized she was Just a lot

726
00:35:43,400 --> 00:35:45,560
Speaker 1: of women have never had that experience with a man

727
00:35:45,640 --> 00:35:47,520
Speaker 1: that's used to fucking on the first night or can

728
00:35:47,600 --> 00:35:49,080
Speaker 1: funk on the first night. I'm sorry, I don't agree

729
00:35:49,120 --> 00:35:50,560
Speaker 1: with you. There's a lot of women who have never

730
00:35:50,600 --> 00:35:53,360
Speaker 1: been through that. Me and you've been around the block, bitch, Okay,

731
00:35:53,480 --> 00:35:55,279
Speaker 1: I mean, but I've also had guys that thought they

732
00:35:55,320 --> 00:35:57,040
Speaker 1: were going to suck on the first night, and we

733
00:35:57,120 --> 00:35:59,200
Speaker 1: don't get into that because they've been there. But what

734
00:35:59,239 --> 00:36:01,960
Speaker 1: if you never had been there? This is not telling.

735
00:36:02,080 --> 00:36:03,879
Speaker 1: On that date I went on, I was innocent enough

736
00:36:03,920 --> 00:36:06,920
Speaker 1: to really think six hundreds was for food I had

737
00:36:07,000 --> 00:36:09,279
Speaker 1: never known, and maybe that bits just didn't know you

738
00:36:09,320 --> 00:36:11,879
Speaker 1: can't negate someone's experience as their life. I'm telling you.

739
00:36:11,960 --> 00:36:13,680
Speaker 1: So what I want to do next, guys, is talk

740
00:36:13,719 --> 00:36:18,880
Speaker 1: about online dating tips. Um. I'm on drafts Okay, I

741
00:36:19,040 --> 00:36:20,640
Speaker 1: ate this week. I didn't blame it on me today.

742
00:36:20,640 --> 00:36:23,160
Speaker 1: It's just K two from the corner store. Shut up. UM,

743
00:36:23,400 --> 00:36:27,040
Speaker 1: So this could be an you know it probably is.

744
00:36:27,440 --> 00:36:30,960
Speaker 1: It's probably fucking um baking soda. I thought I thought

745
00:36:30,960 --> 00:36:32,520
Speaker 1: I was gonna go away by the time we got here.

746
00:36:32,680 --> 00:36:34,719
Speaker 1: I'm done with you. Anyways. What I wanted to do

747
00:36:34,840 --> 00:36:38,400
Speaker 1: is kind of talk about online dating tips briefly, um,

748
00:36:38,440 --> 00:36:42,840
Speaker 1: and I wanted to kind of me and Wheezy have

749
00:36:42,920 --> 00:36:45,200
Speaker 1: both been on quite a bit of dating um apps,

750
00:36:45,239 --> 00:36:46,919
Speaker 1: and so I wanted to give tips to the people

751
00:36:46,960 --> 00:36:50,640
Speaker 1: who are considering making ones or people who have dating

752
00:36:50,640 --> 00:36:53,319
Speaker 1: apps and need to revamp. There's the number one thing

753
00:36:53,360 --> 00:36:56,520
Speaker 1: that I dislike on dating apps, and I'm gonna tell y'all,

754
00:36:56,520 --> 00:37:01,520
Speaker 1: motherfucker's now stop putting the pictures of groups on the

755
00:37:01,760 --> 00:37:04,440
Speaker 1: because it's always the fine nigga that I ain't swipe it.

756
00:37:05,480 --> 00:37:08,640
Speaker 1: I just I don't like group pictures you're dating, like

757
00:37:08,680 --> 00:37:11,000
Speaker 1: blur out their faces or something, because then you'd look

758
00:37:11,080 --> 00:37:13,399
Speaker 1: uglier next to your finer friend, and then I might

759
00:37:13,400 --> 00:37:16,560
Speaker 1: swipe because I'm gonna have your friend. I have a

760
00:37:16,600 --> 00:37:21,560
Speaker 1: lot you have. You have group pictures, but show your personnelity.

761
00:37:21,560 --> 00:37:23,680
Speaker 1: Do you have group pictures with with men or women? Here?

762
00:37:24,040 --> 00:37:26,759
Speaker 1: All right? Uh huh, I'm looking first. I'm looking first.

763
00:37:26,760 --> 00:37:31,799
Speaker 1: Pick go ahead and wrestlers. That doesn't constituated, grown girl?

764
00:37:33,440 --> 00:37:35,680
Speaker 1: Why can you this is on video? Because I want

765
00:37:35,680 --> 00:37:37,640
Speaker 1: to say, what's the problem. You're clearly the hotter one

766
00:37:37,680 --> 00:37:41,720
Speaker 1: on that picture, like that makes sense, but you're clearly

767
00:37:43,160 --> 00:37:45,480
Speaker 1: you're showing your skin. They're gonna hope that's you, and

768
00:37:46,120 --> 00:37:50,719
Speaker 1: then your titties out and then you want the bed um. No,

769
00:37:50,960 --> 00:37:53,360
Speaker 1: I mean I think group pictures. I enjoy group pictures

770
00:37:53,400 --> 00:37:55,840
Speaker 1: of people because you kind of see I don't what

771
00:37:55,960 --> 00:37:57,920
Speaker 1: their friends look like, like where they're at, like shows

772
00:37:57,920 --> 00:37:59,600
Speaker 1: you active. I can't agree with you on that one.

773
00:38:00,520 --> 00:38:02,759
Speaker 1: Your first picture shouldn't be a group picture, which which

774
00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:04,919
Speaker 1: is kind of I guess I'll say that that because

775
00:38:05,520 --> 00:38:06,840
Speaker 1: a lot of people say, Okay, I'm the one in

776
00:38:06,880 --> 00:38:08,640
Speaker 1: the green, I'm the one on the left. Like group pictures,

777
00:38:09,160 --> 00:38:11,440
Speaker 1: I've been swiping a whole lot these things don't even

778
00:38:11,480 --> 00:38:14,160
Speaker 1: write on their bio. More have four group pictures than

779
00:38:14,280 --> 00:38:17,440
Speaker 1: four selfies. I would rather have to figure out who

780
00:38:17,440 --> 00:38:19,400
Speaker 1: you are. I'm sorry. I think it's that's dene to

781
00:38:19,440 --> 00:38:22,200
Speaker 1: think that someone's going to have like no friend pictures

782
00:38:22,280 --> 00:38:25,400
Speaker 1: like BLUs. If you don't save that for Instagram and Facebook,

783
00:38:25,800 --> 00:38:29,719
Speaker 1: not for dating apps, I go your hand. If group

784
00:38:29,760 --> 00:38:34,279
Speaker 1: pictures suck the whole room, thank you, thank you, bitch.

785
00:38:34,640 --> 00:38:37,960
Speaker 1: Save save group pictures for because then most of the

786
00:38:38,040 --> 00:38:43,759
Speaker 1: time they asked, do you have an Instagram? Right, goddamn you, No, bitch,

787
00:38:43,760 --> 00:38:45,040
Speaker 1: I don't want to see your friend when I'm trying

788
00:38:45,040 --> 00:38:46,880
Speaker 1: to date you because I don't want to see I

789
00:38:46,960 --> 00:38:49,040
Speaker 1: just like to see people acting. Now, then go to

790
00:38:49,120 --> 00:38:54,960
Speaker 1: their Instagram, asked for their Facebook, become Facebook friends. Yeah, exactly, exactly,

791
00:38:55,080 --> 00:38:57,520
Speaker 1: So that's where I'm going with that. Um. I guess

792
00:38:57,560 --> 00:39:01,320
Speaker 1: another thing that I which I've seen on Tinder, and

793
00:39:01,400 --> 00:39:04,640
Speaker 1: it's quite funny there they won't have a bio at all.

794
00:39:04,719 --> 00:39:09,600
Speaker 1: They'll just have their height, So alright with that be too.

795
00:39:09,880 --> 00:39:12,439
Speaker 1: So I've I was talking to this guy and girl.

796
00:39:12,520 --> 00:39:14,680
Speaker 1: He was fine, and he he had kind of a

797
00:39:14,800 --> 00:39:17,800
Speaker 1: larger head, so I thought his body would be larger.

798
00:39:19,120 --> 00:39:23,600
Speaker 1: It's because like tall niggas got different size heads. Yeah,

799
00:39:24,120 --> 00:39:27,080
Speaker 1: so we're talking and he cute, and finally I asked,

800
00:39:27,080 --> 00:39:29,120
Speaker 1: because I'm a shallow bitch, so how tall are you?

801
00:39:30,880 --> 00:39:33,040
Speaker 1: Five seven? And I then I felt bad because it's

802
00:39:33,040 --> 00:39:34,960
Speaker 1: just like we were really having a conversation. And then

803
00:39:35,000 --> 00:39:37,880
Speaker 1: it just stopped because I asked someone of their height

804
00:39:38,000 --> 00:39:39,520
Speaker 1: ones and he didn't. He skipped over it, and then

805
00:39:39,520 --> 00:39:41,759
Speaker 1: I asked it again and he wrote me back. I

806
00:39:41,840 --> 00:39:45,360
Speaker 1: swear to god, it was the longest text message, and

807
00:39:45,520 --> 00:39:48,880
Speaker 1: it said we've been talking so long. My personality should

808
00:39:48,880 --> 00:39:51,920
Speaker 1: overcompensate anything that you think my height should be. So

809
00:39:52,320 --> 00:39:53,799
Speaker 1: I didn't even read the whole thing. I skimmed through

810
00:39:53,800 --> 00:39:55,080
Speaker 1: a skim through a look for the numbers. He was

811
00:39:55,120 --> 00:39:57,680
Speaker 1: five five. Oh no, that that's just too short. I

812
00:39:57,719 --> 00:39:59,400
Speaker 1: had to block him because I was scared. I know

813
00:39:59,480 --> 00:40:02,120
Speaker 1: I'd be un match in five seven unmatched. Honestly, just

814
00:40:02,200 --> 00:40:03,960
Speaker 1: kind of got turned off at how long he took

815
00:40:04,000 --> 00:40:08,680
Speaker 1: to tell me right. Another thing that I guess. I

816
00:40:08,760 --> 00:40:12,439
Speaker 1: think it's it's a good thing to do. I guess

817
00:40:12,840 --> 00:40:15,200
Speaker 1: so something that I've been asking a lot of the

818
00:40:15,239 --> 00:40:16,880
Speaker 1: men that I meet as soon as we match and

819
00:40:16,880 --> 00:40:19,240
Speaker 1: as soon as we start talking, is what is your intent?

820
00:40:19,360 --> 00:40:22,480
Speaker 1: Why are you on this website? Because even so seeking

821
00:40:22,560 --> 00:40:24,840
Speaker 1: arrangement is a website, we're clearly women are looking to

822
00:40:24,880 --> 00:40:26,759
Speaker 1: be compensated for the time that they spend with you.

823
00:40:27,080 --> 00:40:29,200
Speaker 1: Most of the guys know that. However, now it's turning

824
00:40:29,200 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 1: into they're really looking for love or they're looking for

825
00:40:31,160 --> 00:40:33,279
Speaker 1: a relationship or looking for someone to just kick it

826
00:40:33,520 --> 00:40:36,080
Speaker 1: on tender. It's more so I'm just looking for fun.

827
00:40:36,520 --> 00:40:38,239
Speaker 1: So I don't know how to answer that question. I do.

828
00:40:38,360 --> 00:40:40,440
Speaker 1: I mean, I don't know what I want with that person,

829
00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:46,800
Speaker 1: but I want just what are you on? What is

830
00:40:46,840 --> 00:40:49,920
Speaker 1: your purpose for swiping right now? Yes, I like, I

831
00:40:50,000 --> 00:40:52,239
Speaker 1: just want to go on dates right now. Okay, So

832
00:40:52,400 --> 00:40:55,520
Speaker 1: you can tell somebody that and their intention maybe well,

833
00:40:56,040 --> 00:40:58,920
Speaker 1: I'm just trying to Netflix and chill nips it in

834
00:40:58,960 --> 00:41:01,759
Speaker 1: the butt reel or right and so like for me,

835
00:41:01,960 --> 00:41:04,239
Speaker 1: especially on Tinder, a lot of people are saying, I

836
00:41:04,360 --> 00:41:07,080
Speaker 1: just I'm just looking to have fun. To me translation,

837
00:41:07,200 --> 00:41:10,520
Speaker 1: it's millennial generation. I'm looking for somebody to fun and

838
00:41:10,719 --> 00:41:12,560
Speaker 1: right now I'm genuinely not looking for that. Bitch. I

839
00:41:12,600 --> 00:41:16,239
Speaker 1: got seven like bitch, we hint like it's really good.

840
00:41:16,280 --> 00:41:20,120
Speaker 1: I'm getting like multiple times a week. I'm happy. Fuck you. So,

841
00:41:20,320 --> 00:41:22,360
Speaker 1: like when someone's telling me they're looking for fun, I

842
00:41:22,480 --> 00:41:24,400
Speaker 1: can't give them that. Like, I want someone I can

843
00:41:24,520 --> 00:41:26,520
Speaker 1: catch a vibe with. I want someone that I can

844
00:41:26,560 --> 00:41:28,439
Speaker 1: genuinely like, I can do stuff with. I still haven't

845
00:41:28,440 --> 00:41:30,719
Speaker 1: been ice skating. I need a nigga who want to

846
00:41:30,760 --> 00:41:36,080
Speaker 1: ice skate? It's frozen water, nigga. You. I know niggas

847
00:41:36,080 --> 00:41:38,520
Speaker 1: don't like water, but when it's frozen, niggas like water,

848
00:41:38,840 --> 00:41:41,840
Speaker 1: like frozen ice, like ice skating. Niggas. Who did you

849
00:41:41,880 --> 00:41:44,479
Speaker 1: see the black chick that was doing the ice slight

850
00:41:44,560 --> 00:41:48,400
Speaker 1: and whatever? What's it called? Like the first she's she's American.

851
00:41:48,800 --> 00:41:51,640
Speaker 1: She's the first black person to do um like skiing

852
00:41:51,960 --> 00:41:54,560
Speaker 1: or like like in the Olympics. She started like six

853
00:41:54,640 --> 00:41:57,719
Speaker 1: months ago. Well, I know niggas don't like swimming, so

854
00:41:58,280 --> 00:42:01,480
Speaker 1: I figured if it was frozen, we could be all top. No,

855
00:42:01,680 --> 00:42:05,000
Speaker 1: skating isn't an thing either. You didn't see that's cute.

856
00:42:08,600 --> 00:42:14,960
Speaker 1: I don't know I'm talking about what? Okay, okay, do

857
00:42:15,040 --> 00:42:18,759
Speaker 1: you have any tips for anyone looking to build a

858
00:42:18,920 --> 00:42:22,319
Speaker 1: dating app? I think the best tip I could give

859
00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:27,640
Speaker 1: is to um lower your expectations a lot and you

860
00:42:27,760 --> 00:42:32,239
Speaker 1: almost have zero yeah, like like really really trying hard.

861
00:42:32,360 --> 00:42:34,480
Speaker 1: I feel like that's when it's just like more overwhelming

862
00:42:34,480 --> 00:42:37,000
Speaker 1: and you keep finding people that don't equate with what

863
00:42:37,080 --> 00:42:38,759
Speaker 1: you have going on in your head, Like have low

864
00:42:38,840 --> 00:42:42,600
Speaker 1: expectations and you won't be disappointed. UM. Something women that

865
00:42:42,680 --> 00:42:44,719
Speaker 1: I think you shouldn't do on dating apps, like the

866
00:42:44,880 --> 00:42:47,480
Speaker 1: filter on the Snapchat thing. It's just like kind of weird.

867
00:42:47,560 --> 00:42:49,400
Speaker 1: I hate it, and it gives people the impression that

868
00:42:49,440 --> 00:42:52,000
Speaker 1: you're less attractive than you really are, especially for men.

869
00:42:52,080 --> 00:42:53,960
Speaker 1: I don't want to see you in doggy ears or

870
00:42:54,080 --> 00:42:57,080
Speaker 1: flower crown because they also really don't like men with

871
00:42:57,200 --> 00:43:01,000
Speaker 1: the bios. I feel like it's kind of cheesy how

872
00:43:01,040 --> 00:43:02,960
Speaker 1: they like tell you their activities they like to do

873
00:43:03,040 --> 00:43:07,360
Speaker 1: through emotion emojis, just like very very characters, thank you,

874
00:43:07,960 --> 00:43:13,000
Speaker 1: actual letters, letting English alphabet. UM. I like people that

875
00:43:13,080 --> 00:43:15,200
Speaker 1: are doing something in their picture that they like to do,

876
00:43:15,440 --> 00:43:21,480
Speaker 1: like UM, traveling. I love seeing Yeah, I have pictures

877
00:43:21,520 --> 00:43:23,160
Speaker 1: with food because I want them to know this is

878
00:43:23,200 --> 00:43:26,759
Speaker 1: important to me. UM eat NATO's come over the style

879
00:43:26,800 --> 00:43:28,920
Speaker 1: cream dripping down. It looks like come but I need

880
00:43:29,040 --> 00:43:30,879
Speaker 1: them to know that I need to be fit, fed

881
00:43:30,960 --> 00:43:33,439
Speaker 1: and finance. So you'll see the travel pictures. You see

882
00:43:33,480 --> 00:43:35,640
Speaker 1: these cities, and you see the food, fun me, feed me,

883
00:43:35,719 --> 00:43:38,080
Speaker 1: finance me. That's what I'm looking for. It was implied

884
00:43:38,160 --> 00:43:44,200
Speaker 1: the whole time. Um, that's what That's what do Z thought?

885
00:43:44,280 --> 00:43:52,120
Speaker 1: You know? Bio implication implication, All right, here's mine? Wait

886
00:43:52,200 --> 00:43:54,640
Speaker 1: what are you pulling on? Um? Your bio it just says, oh,

887
00:43:54,800 --> 00:43:57,879
Speaker 1: I'm gonna pull up my cinder bio. I have black

888
00:43:57,920 --> 00:44:00,960
Speaker 1: and Israeli living in l e s. I like Kanye Museum,

889
00:44:01,000 --> 00:44:04,040
Speaker 1: smart people, long dinner, swapping stories, talking about Trump and

890
00:44:04,120 --> 00:44:06,480
Speaker 1: anything Game of Thrones related. I just want to find

891
00:44:06,560 --> 00:44:08,120
Speaker 1: a new best friend to send memes all day too.

892
00:44:08,520 --> 00:44:11,480
Speaker 1: That's cute, right, It's like, I'm not gonna lie. I

893
00:44:11,560 --> 00:44:13,359
Speaker 1: feel kind of the shape because now that I'm looking

894
00:44:13,400 --> 00:44:15,160
Speaker 1: at what my bio says. But I got emojis a

895
00:44:15,200 --> 00:44:19,840
Speaker 1: little bit, But so mine says World Traveler Students Slash

896
00:44:19,880 --> 00:44:24,880
Speaker 1: Sports Junk World Traveler, bitch. I've been on continent, so

897
00:44:25,920 --> 00:44:28,719
Speaker 1: almost all of you've been name all the continents. No,

898
00:44:28,840 --> 00:44:32,719
Speaker 1: because you're gonna try me so Asia, Africa. I haven't

899
00:44:32,760 --> 00:44:36,319
Speaker 1: done Europe yet. I've done, North America, name all of them? There? Seven?

900
00:44:36,960 --> 00:44:48,840
Speaker 1: Um Antarctica? And isn't India a continent? No? Australia and

901
00:44:48,920 --> 00:44:52,239
Speaker 1: what else that's six? Is there six or seven? I'm

902
00:44:52,239 --> 00:44:53,960
Speaker 1: gonna give you a pass. And you didn't say South America.

903
00:44:54,000 --> 00:44:57,200
Speaker 1: I said South America and North America. Yeah, maybe your

904
00:44:57,280 --> 00:44:59,520
Speaker 1: numbers are off. We know numbers aren't truthful. I know India,

905
00:44:59,520 --> 00:45:01,919
Speaker 1: ain't it? Well, bitch, fuck you, I know it's big.

906
00:45:02,120 --> 00:45:04,840
Speaker 1: I got that, bitch, I know it's in Asia. I

907
00:45:04,880 --> 00:45:09,359
Speaker 1: said Africa. Bitch, I've been to Africa. Did I say

908
00:45:10,080 --> 00:45:12,040
Speaker 1: North America and South? Okay? My bad? Well I ain't

909
00:45:12,040 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: been to South America either. So anyways, mine also says

910
00:45:15,640 --> 00:45:18,080
Speaker 1: so it says work, work in finance, looking for more

911
00:45:18,120 --> 00:45:20,800
Speaker 1: than just fun and quotes. Um I put that I

912
00:45:20,960 --> 00:45:23,839
Speaker 1: was by because I swiped both men and women. Why

913
00:45:23,920 --> 00:45:26,839
Speaker 1: would you put that because I have wenten like as

914
00:45:26,920 --> 00:45:31,320
Speaker 1: I'm putting, there's no known finish fish no, no, no.

915
00:45:31,480 --> 00:45:34,560
Speaker 1: And I do this because, like I've said, but said,

916
00:45:34,719 --> 00:45:37,319
Speaker 1: it sounded it sounded very gender neutral. It is take

917
00:45:37,400 --> 00:45:39,040
Speaker 1: bye out and then maybe you'll have men that think

918
00:45:39,040 --> 00:45:41,399
Speaker 1: you're not looking for but I'm not. But I'm saying

919
00:45:41,480 --> 00:45:44,640
Speaker 1: by because I don't like I'm looking for women as well,

920
00:45:45,640 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: and because following that is that I say I don't

921
00:45:51,239 --> 00:45:54,360
Speaker 1: want to join you and your boyfriend. I put that

922
00:45:54,440 --> 00:45:56,439
Speaker 1: because a lot of couples like it'll be a girl

923
00:45:56,520 --> 00:45:58,760
Speaker 1: that matches me, and then when we get into talking

924
00:45:58,880 --> 00:46:01,080
Speaker 1: she sends me stuff, I want you to join me

925
00:46:01,120 --> 00:46:02,960
Speaker 1: and my boy Here's the thing, I've had a lot

926
00:46:03,000 --> 00:46:04,560
Speaker 1: of that. I've had a ton of that, which is

927
00:46:04,600 --> 00:46:06,040
Speaker 1: why put that. Let me finish my god damn bio.

928
00:46:06,960 --> 00:46:12,040
Speaker 1: So then then I witch I got my third paragraph

929
00:46:12,200 --> 00:46:16,160
Speaker 1: says in a generation where everyone just wants a hook up,

930
00:46:16,160 --> 00:46:17,880
Speaker 1: where do I find someone who wants to invest in

931
00:46:17,880 --> 00:46:20,160
Speaker 1: getting to know someone? First? Make an effort to see

932
00:46:20,200 --> 00:46:23,800
Speaker 1: someone the simple things, because that, I feel like is

933
00:46:24,239 --> 00:46:26,759
Speaker 1: what people aren't looking to get to do. So I

934
00:46:27,360 --> 00:46:28,960
Speaker 1: give you this one piece of advice, and this is

935
00:46:29,120 --> 00:46:31,120
Speaker 1: take out by with the girly emoji. I'm gonna tell

936
00:46:31,120 --> 00:46:36,000
Speaker 1: you why, because I think your sexuality should remain a

937
00:46:36,120 --> 00:46:38,279
Speaker 1: little bit outside of Twitter. If you're really looking for more,

938
00:46:38,440 --> 00:46:41,080
Speaker 1: it's not their business. Yet. They don't know you yet,

939
00:46:41,520 --> 00:46:43,480
Speaker 1: so you don't need to tell them your sexuality yet.

940
00:46:43,640 --> 00:46:45,239
Speaker 1: Women can see you on there and the men can

941
00:46:45,280 --> 00:46:47,239
Speaker 1: see you on I think that a lot of men,

942
00:46:47,400 --> 00:46:49,200
Speaker 1: which is why I like to keep it private, because

943
00:46:49,200 --> 00:46:53,160
Speaker 1: they assume when you say by like, I feel like

944
00:46:53,239 --> 00:46:55,319
Speaker 1: when you put it on the forefront, you give someone

945
00:46:55,480 --> 00:46:57,960
Speaker 1: the room to like then start to just think that

946
00:46:58,160 --> 00:47:00,719
Speaker 1: you're easier or ready for some right when you're not.

947
00:47:01,440 --> 00:47:03,880
Speaker 1: The girls can see you already, right. So a lot

948
00:47:03,920 --> 00:47:06,080
Speaker 1: of the girls that I'm getting just trying to get

949
00:47:06,120 --> 00:47:10,320
Speaker 1: me put couples, right. Okay, that can change that, I

950
00:47:10,360 --> 00:47:12,319
Speaker 1: can change it. But if you take that out, then

951
00:47:12,440 --> 00:47:16,239
Speaker 1: you'll probably have less men things like oh do that again,

952
00:47:19,000 --> 00:47:25,080
Speaker 1: I lowest from family guy. Okay, and that makes sense,

953
00:47:25,239 --> 00:47:28,440
Speaker 1: that makes sense. Okay, it's just kind of like I'll

954
00:47:28,440 --> 00:47:31,839
Speaker 1: tell you, right. I get that from when we interviewed um.

955
00:47:32,000 --> 00:47:35,040
Speaker 1: I think it was episode thirty seven, The trans Dude. Right.

956
00:47:35,320 --> 00:47:37,560
Speaker 1: He talked about it really not being someone's business yet,

957
00:47:37,600 --> 00:47:39,000
Speaker 1: and it's true, like you might not know if you

958
00:47:39,040 --> 00:47:40,319
Speaker 1: even give a funk to telling to give you buy.

959
00:47:40,320 --> 00:47:41,680
Speaker 1: Imagine if you go on the first day and he's like,

960
00:47:41,719 --> 00:47:44,840
Speaker 1: oh so you dude, No, you're right, you're right. And

961
00:47:44,880 --> 00:47:47,239
Speaker 1: that has been a question. I'm sure it has. I

962
00:47:47,280 --> 00:47:50,080
Speaker 1: think I've had it on my bike before too, and

963
00:47:50,160 --> 00:47:53,759
Speaker 1: I realized that that was a mistake. Okay, so that's like,

964
00:47:53,840 --> 00:47:56,240
Speaker 1: could you give us some good advice that I actually

965
00:47:56,400 --> 00:47:59,080
Speaker 1: listening to? Okay, all right, because most of the ships

966
00:47:59,120 --> 00:48:02,960
Speaker 1: you say and one of out or out of it. Um.

967
00:48:03,719 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: So what I wanted to do now is um, and

968
00:48:06,480 --> 00:48:08,960
Speaker 1: I'm gonna end up anyways. I don't need to let

969
00:48:09,000 --> 00:48:10,360
Speaker 1: y'all know what I do on the back end, but

970
00:48:10,480 --> 00:48:15,200
Speaker 1: I'm gonna go ahead and play homemail UM for for

971
00:48:15,360 --> 00:48:19,000
Speaker 1: the oh you heard it. I thought he was from Louisiana.

972
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:26,879
Speaker 1: He said, man, deezy and weezy, what differun? It was great?

973
00:48:26,920 --> 00:48:30,080
Speaker 1: It was great. So UM, basically, guys, if you don't know,

974
00:48:30,440 --> 00:48:33,520
Speaker 1: we are now accepting voicemails from you, guys, we do.

975
00:48:33,560 --> 00:48:35,000
Speaker 1: You have the number real quick to pull up so

976
00:48:35,080 --> 00:48:39,320
Speaker 1: that you can say it or now. Okay, So so

977
00:48:39,520 --> 00:48:41,680
Speaker 1: what we're allowing you guys to do now is send

978
00:48:41,760 --> 00:48:45,080
Speaker 1: us voicemails UM, and you can ask us your homemail

979
00:48:45,680 --> 00:48:48,960
Speaker 1: or even better, you can let us know how great

980
00:48:49,000 --> 00:48:51,200
Speaker 1: we're doing. If you fucking hate an episode and want

981
00:48:51,239 --> 00:48:53,279
Speaker 1: to get something off your motherfucking give us a read,

982
00:48:54,200 --> 00:48:58,960
Speaker 1: give the sound off on voice so yeah, alright, there

983
00:48:59,440 --> 00:49:04,759
Speaker 1: is for five four one nine zero nine, and UM

984
00:49:04,800 --> 00:49:07,080
Speaker 1: it's a Google Voice number that UM you can't call

985
00:49:07,239 --> 00:49:09,360
Speaker 1: and have us answer, but you can leave the voicemail

986
00:49:09,400 --> 00:49:10,759
Speaker 1: and we won't read your number if you don't have

987
00:49:10,800 --> 00:49:12,719
Speaker 1: to tell your name. Now we listen to him. Um,

988
00:49:12,840 --> 00:49:15,239
Speaker 1: if you guys want to just find a way to

989
00:49:15,320 --> 00:49:18,040
Speaker 1: click that number, you can go to our Instagram page

990
00:49:18,160 --> 00:49:20,880
Speaker 1: at Horrible Underscore Decisions, or you can go to my

991
00:49:21,000 --> 00:49:23,279
Speaker 1: personal page at full Court Pumps. And I have the

992
00:49:23,400 --> 00:49:25,560
Speaker 1: call button under my bio as well, So I'm gonna

993
00:49:25,600 --> 00:49:29,359
Speaker 1: go ahead and play, um this whole mail for this week, UM,

994
00:49:29,400 --> 00:49:31,239
Speaker 1: shout out to him. And it's a really good question too,

995
00:49:31,280 --> 00:49:33,600
Speaker 1: so I wanted to go ahead and put this. So

996
00:49:33,880 --> 00:49:39,480
Speaker 1: here we go. Hey, what's going on y'all? Listen, I'm

997
00:49:39,600 --> 00:49:42,839
Speaker 1: calling because I want to ask y'all some All right,

998
00:49:43,719 --> 00:49:45,840
Speaker 1: I've been with my lady for a minute. You know

999
00:49:45,840 --> 00:49:48,480
Speaker 1: what I'm saying. I'm much such it's surious, man, So

1000
00:49:48,600 --> 00:49:52,719
Speaker 1: I get forward easy, y'all feel about Well, how y'all

1001
00:49:52,800 --> 00:49:56,400
Speaker 1: think I should come off on asking my lady to

1002
00:49:56,560 --> 00:49:59,680
Speaker 1: get into the swing of life? You know what I'm saying, Like,

1003
00:50:00,000 --> 00:50:03,320
Speaker 1: ain't ain't afraid for, you know, my lady to be

1004
00:50:03,920 --> 00:50:06,360
Speaker 1: sexually interinet with nothing man because I don't get that

1005
00:50:06,560 --> 00:50:09,279
Speaker 1: things pretty much if he's done to a positive but

1006
00:50:09,360 --> 00:50:12,319
Speaker 1: so you know, no incommindation what I'm saying nigga might

1007
00:50:12,360 --> 00:50:15,160
Speaker 1: be bigger, but any standing that. So we're just trying

1008
00:50:15,200 --> 00:50:17,800
Speaker 1: to figure out. I mean, y'all give me some advice.

1009
00:50:17,960 --> 00:50:20,160
Speaker 1: I am my file for thinking like that one to

1010
00:50:20,280 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: be in the swing of relationship. I mean, I love

1011
00:50:22,680 --> 00:50:24,400
Speaker 1: it his delf. Don't want to leave her none of

1012
00:50:24,480 --> 00:50:28,000
Speaker 1: that ship. It's just that I'm courage sexually active. I

1013
00:50:28,120 --> 00:50:30,839
Speaker 1: like different women. I love different women. I just want

1014
00:50:30,880 --> 00:50:33,359
Speaker 1: to enjoy that ship without there being no secret ship.

1015
00:50:33,480 --> 00:50:35,759
Speaker 1: So I'll give me some game. I ain't how I

1016
00:50:35,880 --> 00:50:40,640
Speaker 1: let me go. Can I just give him kudos for

1017
00:50:40,880 --> 00:50:44,080
Speaker 1: um acknowledging that he wants to other women but not

1018
00:50:44,200 --> 00:50:45,960
Speaker 1: trying to be one sided about it. I loved it.

1019
00:50:46,239 --> 00:50:49,120
Speaker 1: I loved it Um not only that he was into

1020
00:50:49,160 --> 00:50:52,320
Speaker 1: the swinging lifestyle. In fully, he didn't say he was

1021
00:50:52,320 --> 00:50:56,160
Speaker 1: going to be UM inclusive and actually she can only

1022
00:50:56,200 --> 00:50:58,799
Speaker 1: be with girls. He even said I would allow her

1023
00:50:58,840 --> 00:51:00,799
Speaker 1: to be with other men. I'm something like that's something

1024
00:51:00,800 --> 00:51:02,719
Speaker 1: funny that he said, he goes, I already did everything

1025
00:51:02,719 --> 00:51:07,080
Speaker 1: I could do to her, so right, so I whatever,

1026
00:51:08,120 --> 00:51:16,000
Speaker 1: I'm sorry. I really like he said he loved her,

1027
00:51:16,080 --> 00:51:18,600
Speaker 1: and this isn't something he just said he wants other pussy.

1028
00:51:18,680 --> 00:51:20,719
Speaker 1: And I want a lot of our listeners to know

1029
00:51:20,760 --> 00:51:23,880
Speaker 1: because we talked about this, especially talking about non monogamy

1030
00:51:23,880 --> 00:51:26,680
Speaker 1: a lot of times. There are ways to have sexual

1031
00:51:27,080 --> 00:51:30,400
Speaker 1: relationships without being emotionally attached, and this is something i

1032
00:51:30,440 --> 00:51:32,160
Speaker 1: can speak on because it's something that I'm looking for

1033
00:51:32,320 --> 00:51:34,840
Speaker 1: in a partner. I would enjoy the swinging lifestyle, and

1034
00:51:34,920 --> 00:51:37,480
Speaker 1: it's because I'm fine with my man going to fun

1035
00:51:37,600 --> 00:51:40,000
Speaker 1: someone else. But decide that you're okay with the whole

1036
00:51:40,040 --> 00:51:42,240
Speaker 1: taking bitches on dates and getting to know them, Nabra,

1037
00:51:42,480 --> 00:51:44,719
Speaker 1: cut the ship, fucker pussy and leave it go like

1038
00:51:45,320 --> 00:51:47,680
Speaker 1: like this is strictly, Uh, what he's talking about is

1039
00:51:47,719 --> 00:51:50,480
Speaker 1: strictly a swinger thing. There are different type of non

1040
00:51:50,520 --> 00:51:52,840
Speaker 1: monogamy relationships, and so the reason that I'm okay with

1041
00:51:52,920 --> 00:51:55,279
Speaker 1: that is because I don't want to just suck them, dude,

1042
00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:56,839
Speaker 1: like I want to be taken out right. I want

1043
00:51:56,880 --> 00:51:58,760
Speaker 1: those things, so I have to be fair in that aspect.

1044
00:51:58,840 --> 00:52:02,759
Speaker 1: But UM, I don't know. This is the thing. I

1045
00:52:03,520 --> 00:52:07,040
Speaker 1: can't speak for your girl, a friend that you're with, UM,

1046
00:52:07,480 --> 00:52:11,680
Speaker 1: but I don't know how comfortable other women are with that. UM.

1047
00:52:12,360 --> 00:52:14,080
Speaker 1: It's it's scary because she's gonna be like, damn, you

1048
00:52:14,160 --> 00:52:15,440
Speaker 1: do you want me to another man? Is I mean

1049
00:52:15,520 --> 00:52:17,520
Speaker 1: you don't care about me? Like? And that could be

1050
00:52:17,719 --> 00:52:20,880
Speaker 1: that That actually is a lot of the things, um,

1051
00:52:21,000 --> 00:52:23,840
Speaker 1: that women feel when maybe their man wants them. Of

1052
00:52:23,920 --> 00:52:26,520
Speaker 1: course we call it a train but a man mm

1053
00:52:26,680 --> 00:52:31,080
Speaker 1: f threesome. A lot of women feel less loved or

1054
00:52:31,560 --> 00:52:34,399
Speaker 1: less special because they feel like, damn, you really want

1055
00:52:34,400 --> 00:52:37,800
Speaker 1: to share my pussy with the next nigga? UM. To

1056
00:52:37,960 --> 00:52:41,680
Speaker 1: bring this up to her, UM, I would maybe let

1057
00:52:41,719 --> 00:52:45,400
Speaker 1: her listen to this episode. UM, but no, UM, honestly,

1058
00:52:46,000 --> 00:52:47,960
Speaker 1: it would be something that I would start off small with.

1059
00:52:48,200 --> 00:52:50,320
Speaker 1: I would start off seeing if she would be okay

1060
00:52:50,400 --> 00:52:53,440
Speaker 1: with bringing anyone into the bedroom at all. UM, also

1061
00:52:53,600 --> 00:52:55,959
Speaker 1: let her good idea. I think it would be that's

1062
00:52:56,000 --> 00:52:57,919
Speaker 1: like a baby step to get into if she's okay

1063
00:52:57,960 --> 00:53:02,000
Speaker 1: with swinging. Also maybe a tiny bit bigger stuff than that,

1064
00:53:02,320 --> 00:53:05,640
Speaker 1: seeing if she's even interested in going to a sex club. Um,

1065
00:53:05,880 --> 00:53:08,680
Speaker 1: there's sex clubs all over, there's you know, even if

1066
00:53:08,719 --> 00:53:11,239
Speaker 1: that's a baby step to the sex club is strip club,

1067
00:53:14,000 --> 00:53:16,400
Speaker 1: don't You're right? I don't know how early on this

1068
00:53:16,600 --> 00:53:19,040
Speaker 1: idea is so like, here's the thing. The good thing

1069
00:53:19,120 --> 00:53:21,560
Speaker 1: with the strip club is you finding out if she's

1070
00:53:21,640 --> 00:53:24,360
Speaker 1: interested in women or enjoys watching women touch you and stuff.

1071
00:53:24,400 --> 00:53:26,360
Speaker 1: And strippers are usually good at want to get that

1072
00:53:26,480 --> 00:53:28,719
Speaker 1: check so they know it's like they do, wow, you're

1073
00:53:28,760 --> 00:53:30,799
Speaker 1: so hot, you could probably work it. They always tell

1074
00:53:30,840 --> 00:53:33,839
Speaker 1: that lat and then like, you know, they're just very

1075
00:53:33,920 --> 00:53:35,800
Speaker 1: cautious of the woman most of the time, and I

1076
00:53:35,920 --> 00:53:37,799
Speaker 1: think that would be good. And then what's great about

1077
00:53:37,840 --> 00:53:40,200
Speaker 1: doing the strip club first is like when you go

1078
00:53:40,320 --> 00:53:41,800
Speaker 1: home and be like did you like that? Did you

1079
00:53:41,880 --> 00:53:45,239
Speaker 1: like like you was your favorite? Then you because this

1080
00:53:45,400 --> 00:53:47,840
Speaker 1: is gonna be impossible. We talked about it earlier in

1081
00:53:47,920 --> 00:53:52,359
Speaker 1: this um in this episode, jealousy is real, and if

1082
00:53:52,440 --> 00:53:56,320
Speaker 1: you have someone who is super possessive or get super jealous,

1083
00:53:56,600 --> 00:53:58,600
Speaker 1: that might not be even be an option. But I

1084
00:53:58,719 --> 00:54:00,680
Speaker 1: also think it's very important for you to tell her.

1085
00:54:00,719 --> 00:54:02,680
Speaker 1: What you told us is that you love her, you

1086
00:54:02,719 --> 00:54:04,760
Speaker 1: don't want to leave her, and this is just something

1087
00:54:05,040 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: that you've been interested in Um, I've said it a

1088
00:54:07,480 --> 00:54:09,600
Speaker 1: lot on the episode. This could be with any type

1089
00:54:09,600 --> 00:54:12,200
Speaker 1: of kink. Um. You don't ever want your partner to

1090
00:54:12,320 --> 00:54:14,640
Speaker 1: go out and find it somewhere else. So even if

1091
00:54:14,680 --> 00:54:16,319
Speaker 1: this is something maybe you can try and you can

1092
00:54:16,400 --> 00:54:18,040
Speaker 1: let her know, Baby, can you try this with me?

1093
00:54:18,400 --> 00:54:20,600
Speaker 1: If you don't like it, we'll think of something else.

1094
00:54:20,760 --> 00:54:22,880
Speaker 1: But most women are very emotional and they would like

1095
00:54:23,040 --> 00:54:24,719
Speaker 1: to hear that like the love is just for me

1096
00:54:24,880 --> 00:54:27,000
Speaker 1: and the dick is for someone else. Yeah. Agree. I

1097
00:54:27,080 --> 00:54:30,040
Speaker 1: also think I'm kind of confused, so swinging, to me

1098
00:54:30,680 --> 00:54:33,719
Speaker 1: not what I'm assuming. Swinging, Yeah, is exchanging partners, like

1099
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,279
Speaker 1: at a party and you can exchange the couple or

1100
00:54:36,480 --> 00:54:38,400
Speaker 1: in the sex clube. I think he would also need

1101
00:54:38,440 --> 00:54:41,400
Speaker 1: to figure out if he wants to do it like that,

1102
00:54:42,080 --> 00:54:44,320
Speaker 1: or if he wants on his own and she on

1103
00:54:44,320 --> 00:54:47,000
Speaker 1: her own. Well, no, that's not swinging, I know, but

1104
00:54:47,520 --> 00:54:49,680
Speaker 1: so so that would be if you're at a sex club.

1105
00:54:50,040 --> 00:54:52,480
Speaker 1: But I just wasn't sure if he wants if you

1106
00:54:52,520 --> 00:54:55,920
Speaker 1: want to watch a wall she's getting, I think that

1107
00:54:56,000 --> 00:54:57,880
Speaker 1: that would be something else you would need to discuss

1108
00:54:57,920 --> 00:55:00,560
Speaker 1: with her once such strip club, say happened to that

1109
00:55:00,680 --> 00:55:04,000
Speaker 1: first starter, baby step to whatever. Like once that conversation

1110
00:55:04,080 --> 00:55:06,319
Speaker 1: is going, then you start talking about boundaries like Okay,

1111
00:55:06,320 --> 00:55:09,000
Speaker 1: I couldn't handle that, I can handle this, blah blah blah.

1112
00:55:09,160 --> 00:55:11,879
Speaker 1: I mean yeah, but yeah that you're right, Yeah, that's

1113
00:55:11,880 --> 00:55:13,239
Speaker 1: a good idea. And so I think that it's just

1114
00:55:13,440 --> 00:55:15,560
Speaker 1: like I said, start off small, see if she would

1115
00:55:15,600 --> 00:55:17,880
Speaker 1: even like anyone else in the bedroom. Then I like

1116
00:55:18,040 --> 00:55:20,080
Speaker 1: the strip club. That was a very good tip. I

1117
00:55:20,120 --> 00:55:22,400
Speaker 1: would definitely take her to the strip club, see her

1118
00:55:22,400 --> 00:55:25,560
Speaker 1: comfortability with you being around other women and seeing how

1119
00:55:25,760 --> 00:55:28,160
Speaker 1: she reacts to that, and then having a conversation after that,

1120
00:55:28,560 --> 00:55:31,120
Speaker 1: and then maybe doing your own research on sex clubs

1121
00:55:31,440 --> 00:55:33,399
Speaker 1: and maybe seeing if she would be interested in going there.

1122
00:55:33,520 --> 00:55:36,319
Speaker 1: And then because being a part of the swinging life

1123
00:55:36,360 --> 00:55:39,000
Speaker 1: can cost a lot of money. They they're swinger communities

1124
00:55:39,040 --> 00:55:41,239
Speaker 1: and swinger groups that go on vacations and literally just

1125
00:55:41,400 --> 00:55:44,600
Speaker 1: do this thing, do this stuff at resorts. Hedonism um

1126
00:55:44,680 --> 00:55:47,160
Speaker 1: in Jamaica is one where a lot of couples go

1127
00:55:47,280 --> 00:55:50,160
Speaker 1: and swaps. So there's it is. It can be an

1128
00:55:50,200 --> 00:55:53,600
Speaker 1: expensive lifestyle. Um. So again this is something that I

1129
00:55:53,680 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: think you should just be single. So you want some

1130
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:58,279
Speaker 1: new pussy, you gotta pay for it. You wouldn't have

1131
00:55:58,280 --> 00:55:59,839
Speaker 1: to take the bestag dinner. So you pay two fift

1132
00:56:00,040 --> 00:56:02,560
Speaker 1: get it. You're right? There you go, there you go. So, UM,

1133
00:56:02,640 --> 00:56:05,360
Speaker 1: I hope this helps. Please give us an update on

1134
00:56:05,440 --> 00:56:07,560
Speaker 1: how that goes with you guys. Hopefully it works out.

1135
00:56:07,600 --> 00:56:13,759
Speaker 1: And y'all what, I no new underwear, bitch. They might

1136
00:56:13,840 --> 00:56:16,960
Speaker 1: be from China. They're from China. I'm washing them. I'm

1137
00:56:17,000 --> 00:56:18,759
Speaker 1: washing them first. I don't know if you know this

1138
00:56:18,920 --> 00:56:23,920
Speaker 1: is not touching my bear vagina. You're probably right. You're

1139
00:56:23,920 --> 00:56:26,080
Speaker 1: probably right. I ain't even go hold you probably right. Um.

1140
00:56:26,320 --> 00:56:28,560
Speaker 1: So for the second one real quick before we wrap up,

1141
00:56:28,719 --> 00:56:30,600
Speaker 1: we actually have a wholemail update and this was a

1142
00:56:30,680 --> 00:56:35,320
Speaker 1: recent one. Um. This is from the episode with this

1143
00:56:35,480 --> 00:56:39,320
Speaker 1: is the one. Yeah. So it says, Hi, Mandy and wheezy.

1144
00:56:39,480 --> 00:56:41,600
Speaker 1: I just listened to the episode where you read my

1145
00:56:41,680 --> 00:56:44,920
Speaker 1: homemail and I'm fan girling. I can't believe you actually

1146
00:56:44,960 --> 00:56:47,080
Speaker 1: read mine on the show. Y'all. We really be trying

1147
00:56:47,080 --> 00:56:50,440
Speaker 1: to get y'all, y'all really got to start submitted some

1148
00:56:50,480 --> 00:56:53,480
Speaker 1: stuff that I can read, though, but not only that,

1149
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:55,840
Speaker 1: can I read it? And y'all can't be making this

1150
00:56:55,880 --> 00:56:59,719
Speaker 1: ship six paragraphs. We ain't got all that time. It

1151
00:56:59,760 --> 00:57:02,320
Speaker 1: feel like a therapy sash and I totally fails you.

1152
00:57:02,680 --> 00:57:05,840
Speaker 1: But like bitch, you know we got an hour in

1153
00:57:05,880 --> 00:57:07,799
Speaker 1: the moment, you know, so, I says, I just wanted

1154
00:57:07,800 --> 00:57:09,759
Speaker 1: to thank you guys and tie on me for the

1155
00:57:09,840 --> 00:57:12,879
Speaker 1: awesome advice. I agreed with everything you all said. As

1156
00:57:12,920 --> 00:57:17,080
Speaker 1: an update, my situation ship actually turned into a real relationship.

1157
00:57:17,400 --> 00:57:19,920
Speaker 1: A few days after I sent my homemail, he asked

1158
00:57:19,960 --> 00:57:23,120
Speaker 1: me to be his official monogamous girlfriend on New Year's Day.

1159
00:57:23,520 --> 00:57:26,640
Speaker 1: After it finally happened, it felt like nothing changed. Tyaomi

1160
00:57:26,760 --> 00:57:28,720
Speaker 1: was right. It should have been more about the love

1161
00:57:28,800 --> 00:57:31,000
Speaker 1: all along and less about a title. You were all

1162
00:57:31,080 --> 00:57:32,920
Speaker 1: correct when you assumed that it was more about my

1163
00:57:33,040 --> 00:57:35,880
Speaker 1: friends and societal norms that really pressured me to feel

1164
00:57:35,920 --> 00:57:38,640
Speaker 1: like I needed a title so badly. Looking back, it

1165
00:57:38,680 --> 00:57:40,640
Speaker 1: would have been so much less stressful for me to

1166
00:57:40,680 --> 00:57:43,440
Speaker 1: be less focused on being his girlfriend and more focused

1167
00:57:43,480 --> 00:57:45,200
Speaker 1: on just being happy with him the way we were.

1168
00:57:45,640 --> 00:57:47,240
Speaker 1: I do want to let you all know that I

1169
00:57:47,280 --> 00:57:49,120
Speaker 1: am not just a lie down and to take it

1170
00:57:49,200 --> 00:57:51,400
Speaker 1: kind of girl. I did ask him to be my

1171
00:57:51,480 --> 00:57:54,120
Speaker 1: boyfriend most of the times over the past two years,

1172
00:57:54,360 --> 00:57:58,040
Speaker 1: and he said no every time. Insert rolling eyes emoji.

1173
00:57:58,520 --> 00:58:00,960
Speaker 1: I should have included that in my no homemail. I

1174
00:58:01,040 --> 00:58:03,360
Speaker 1: can't lie though, since I've gotten the title of girlfriend.

1175
00:58:03,720 --> 00:58:06,520
Speaker 1: Even though things don't feel exactly different between him and I,

1176
00:58:06,840 --> 00:58:09,200
Speaker 1: I do feel a lot more secure and less crazy.

1177
00:58:09,480 --> 00:58:12,000
Speaker 1: And Taomi was also right when she said that when

1178
00:58:12,080 --> 00:58:14,520
Speaker 1: he did finally choose to be with me, it would

1179
00:58:14,520 --> 00:58:16,960
Speaker 1: feel like a gift. It really does. I feel like

1180
00:58:17,040 --> 00:58:19,080
Speaker 1: I have put in so much work the last two

1181
00:58:19,160 --> 00:58:21,720
Speaker 1: years and have finally been rewarded. I feel kind of

1182
00:58:21,760 --> 00:58:24,160
Speaker 1: silly after listening to you guys that a title should

1183
00:58:24,200 --> 00:58:26,080
Speaker 1: mean so much to me, but I guess it does.

1184
00:58:26,280 --> 00:58:28,920
Speaker 1: Since I feel such a feeling of relief now, I

1185
00:58:29,040 --> 00:58:30,960
Speaker 1: just wanted to thank you guys, give you an update,

1186
00:58:31,160 --> 00:58:35,040
Speaker 1: and keep doing great things. Finally, sincerely, finally got white.

1187
00:58:35,080 --> 00:58:37,400
Speaker 1: You know what this is really is? This is ho hope.

1188
00:58:38,720 --> 00:58:40,320
Speaker 1: This is hope for all the holes just lingering in

1189
00:58:40,360 --> 00:58:42,760
Speaker 1: a situation. But you know why I like that email too,

1190
00:58:42,840 --> 00:58:46,480
Speaker 1: because like a lot of times, um people will try

1191
00:58:46,520 --> 00:58:48,160
Speaker 1: to like tell you like it's never gonna have to

1192
00:58:48,840 --> 00:58:53,160
Speaker 1: he doesn't and like, um, actually you know what they're

1193
00:58:53,160 --> 00:58:54,840
Speaker 1: gonna know what I'm talking about. I'm not gonna say

1194
00:58:55,600 --> 00:58:57,960
Speaker 1: pause I had someone give me some advice and I thought,

1195
00:58:58,040 --> 00:59:01,640
Speaker 1: was like, super rude, Um, not you. When we got

1196
00:59:01,680 --> 00:59:04,560
Speaker 1: in that argument, because I give you a lot of advice.

1197
00:59:04,640 --> 00:59:06,640
Speaker 1: This girl was just like, oh, like, if you were

1198
00:59:06,680 --> 00:59:08,480
Speaker 1: the one, then this would happen or this and this

1199
00:59:08,640 --> 00:59:11,000
Speaker 1: and this, and it's just like, girl, how do you

1200
00:59:11,080 --> 00:59:14,120
Speaker 1: know that? Right? And I think people move in different ways,

1201
00:59:14,160 --> 00:59:17,160
Speaker 1: and which is why a lot of the books, even

1202
00:59:17,240 --> 00:59:19,200
Speaker 1: on on dating, like how to Think Like a Man

1203
00:59:19,280 --> 00:59:21,480
Speaker 1: in the thirty Day Rule on dates, you could suck

1204
00:59:21,520 --> 00:59:23,600
Speaker 1: someone on the first night and become a girlfriend, or

1205
00:59:23,600 --> 00:59:26,080
Speaker 1: you could suck someone you know down the line. I

1206
00:59:27,120 --> 00:59:29,720
Speaker 1: slept with like I think on our second straight out

1207
00:59:29,760 --> 00:59:36,000
Speaker 1: the club, and you still that shot. Really, Matt didn't

1208
00:59:36,040 --> 00:59:41,480
Speaker 1: lupy say my first boyfriend his brother first, So that

1209
00:59:41,760 --> 00:59:44,640
Speaker 1: was hortal decisions. Thank you so much for listening and

1210
00:59:44,680 --> 00:59:49,120
Speaker 1: tuning out. If you're new and you I don't know

1211
00:59:49,240 --> 00:59:54,720
Speaker 1: with Mandy's fucked a brother, but yeah, no, I I

1212
00:59:54,960 --> 00:59:57,200
Speaker 1: totally loved her letter and I'm glad that they got together,

1213
00:59:57,280 --> 00:59:59,800
Speaker 1: and I love that we brought in the idea that

1214
01:00:00,360 --> 01:00:03,200
Speaker 1: you can be content with what you have with someone

1215
01:00:03,560 --> 01:00:06,720
Speaker 1: and right and like I said, um me and probably

1216
01:00:06,720 --> 01:00:09,919
Speaker 1: sat and talked for an hour, and we both knew

1217
01:00:10,000 --> 01:00:12,480
Speaker 1: we were exactly on the same page to like where

1218
01:00:12,560 --> 01:00:14,240
Speaker 1: he was like, he caught me a rare Berry girl.

1219
01:00:14,240 --> 01:00:17,200
Speaker 1: I take that, And I saw him nickname in his phone,

1220
01:00:17,240 --> 01:00:21,480
Speaker 1: but I gotta ask him what it means. But we've

1221
01:00:21,520 --> 01:00:23,840
Speaker 1: only had anal like twice. It's a little too big

1222
01:00:24,000 --> 01:00:26,920
Speaker 1: and it just gets and I can't smoke right now,

1223
01:00:26,960 --> 01:00:28,600
Speaker 1: so I can't get all the way relaxed, so my

1224
01:00:28,680 --> 01:00:31,080
Speaker 1: ass muscles be tight, and when he'd be trying to,

1225
01:00:31,080 --> 01:00:35,080
Speaker 1: I'd be like today not today, No, But then well

1226
01:00:35,120 --> 01:00:37,080
Speaker 1: now I probably could since I'm not eating, I don't

1227
01:00:37,120 --> 01:00:39,160
Speaker 1: really have ship in my canal to be worried about.

1228
01:00:39,280 --> 01:00:41,520
Speaker 1: You know some poppers for those of users who don't

1229
01:00:41,520 --> 01:00:43,080
Speaker 1: know what it is. We've discussed it on some other episodes,

1230
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:44,880
Speaker 1: but if you want to ever find it, it's called

1231
01:00:45,040 --> 01:00:49,080
Speaker 1: leather Cleaner. It's not legal. Um, just you pretty much

1232
01:00:49,160 --> 01:00:51,600
Speaker 1: sniff it and it just gives you this really warm

1233
01:00:52,120 --> 01:00:54,600
Speaker 1: head rush. But um, it's for gay men. Use it

1234
01:00:54,680 --> 01:00:58,439
Speaker 1: for anal sex and it really opens your booty hole up. Yeah,

1235
01:00:59,680 --> 01:01:03,080
Speaker 1: so yeah, thanks thanks for the tip on on me.

1236
01:01:03,440 --> 01:01:05,439
Speaker 1: I don't want to I wish that was the drug

1237
01:01:05,480 --> 01:01:09,880
Speaker 1: I did today. But fortunately also, guys, I want to

1238
01:01:09,960 --> 01:01:13,560
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1239
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1240
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1241
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1242
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1243
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1244
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1247
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Speaker 1: thoughts of mine, do you know what I'm saying. I

1248
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Speaker 1: appreciate uh. And we definitely have um our fifteen dollar

1249
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Speaker 1: um patrons too, and we'll go we'll be giving them

1250
01:01:47,520 --> 01:01:49,120
Speaker 1: a shout out. I just want to make sure we're

1251
01:01:49,120 --> 01:01:51,760
Speaker 1: allowed to say their names on air first. UM. But yeah,

1252
01:01:51,840 --> 01:01:54,880
Speaker 1: thank you guys so very much again, keep giving us feedback.

1253
01:01:54,920 --> 01:01:57,320
Speaker 1: We're trying to get better. I love this episode. I

1254
01:01:57,400 --> 01:02:00,240
Speaker 1: hope you all do too, because we're getting a long

1255
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Speaker 1: because you're high. Maybe you need to be high more

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Speaker 1: often because you're not in the won't do my hair

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Speaker 1: unless I've smelled like the our live show day. She

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Speaker 1: was like, wheezy, go out a different person, bro Like like,

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Speaker 1: maybe this is helping. She's been drawing dicks the whole time.

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Speaker 1: I think she she drew it squirting out some I

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Speaker 1: guess it's amitting for Lisa. I guess the therapy to

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Speaker 1: draw dicks now my therapist with my hands. I'm like,

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Speaker 1: besides masturbating. But thank you guys. This has been yet

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Speaker 1: another episode of horrible decisions. Bye. Please leave a message

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Speaker 1: after the tone. Yo, I just want to say, yalla dope,

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Speaker 1: Like Mandy, You're so fucking sexy, it's unbelievable. Keep doing

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Speaker 1: your thing. Eighteen bless up horrible Decisions