1 00:00:07,320 --> 00:00:11,320 Speaker 1: Welcome back everybody to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks 2 00:00:11,320 --> 00:00:13,960 Speaker 1: so much for coming back and joining Kathy and I today. 3 00:00:14,000 --> 00:00:15,400 Speaker 2: We're really excited to be here. 4 00:00:15,840 --> 00:00:19,120 Speaker 3: We are always excited to get together and share our 5 00:00:19,160 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 3: thoughts with you guys, and our and our lives and 6 00:00:22,480 --> 00:00:28,400 Speaker 3: everything else. So always always some advice and also tell 7 00:00:28,440 --> 00:00:31,720 Speaker 3: stories about ourselves that we know no one's listening to, 8 00:00:31,880 --> 00:00:35,839 Speaker 3: right just you and me. But today we're going to 9 00:00:35,920 --> 00:00:39,360 Speaker 3: answer more of your fan questions. And we've said it 10 00:00:39,400 --> 00:00:41,800 Speaker 3: a million times, but we really mean it. 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Don't be so hasty, 27 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:43,200 Speaker 1: and whenever you see a red flag is a red flag, 28 00:01:43,360 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 1: even if you want to make it not sop. 29 00:01:46,440 --> 00:01:48,240 Speaker 3: And I'm going to say, Susan, I'm going to give 30 00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,240 Speaker 3: you some credit here. I've you know, Susan and I 31 00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:53,960 Speaker 3: are quite good friends, and I know about her dating life. 32 00:01:54,600 --> 00:01:57,520 Speaker 3: You have done a good job. I'm gonna get I'm 33 00:01:57,520 --> 00:02:02,520 Speaker 3: clapping for you. Good job, a good job inside joke, folks, 34 00:02:03,360 --> 00:02:06,200 Speaker 3: you have done a good job of Yes, she's laughing 35 00:02:06,240 --> 00:02:09,440 Speaker 3: hard here. You have done a good job of really 36 00:02:09,480 --> 00:02:13,400 Speaker 3: figuring out when it's time to say goodbye. 37 00:02:13,760 --> 00:02:16,200 Speaker 2: Yeah, it takes me long still, but you're doing better. 38 00:02:16,720 --> 00:02:20,040 Speaker 1: It comes quicker now, Thank you, Kathy. 39 00:02:21,000 --> 00:02:23,080 Speaker 3: And how does my hair look today, Susan, I'm not 40 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:23,720 Speaker 3: even nice? 41 00:02:23,880 --> 00:02:24,440 Speaker 2: Excellent? 42 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:27,080 Speaker 3: Can I just tell everybody I know the question of 43 00:02:27,080 --> 00:02:28,959 Speaker 3: the day is what did you live for your last relationship? 44 00:02:29,000 --> 00:02:31,840 Speaker 3: It has been so long since I've had a relationship, 45 00:02:32,280 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 3: I can't remember. So that's so now I'm going to 46 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:38,080 Speaker 3: talk about my hair because that I remember, Susane. 47 00:02:37,680 --> 00:02:40,360 Speaker 1: It's like what you learned about yourself even in your 48 00:02:40,440 --> 00:02:42,960 Speaker 1: last relationship, you know what I mean? Like, you know 49 00:02:43,040 --> 00:02:46,280 Speaker 1: what I always got married at twelve and was married 50 00:02:46,360 --> 00:02:51,760 Speaker 1: for one hundred and five years and he passed unfortunately, and. 51 00:02:50,760 --> 00:02:55,639 Speaker 3: It is unfortunate really, but let me just say I 52 00:02:55,800 --> 00:03:00,000 Speaker 3: what I know about myself is and you know, no tears, 53 00:03:00,200 --> 00:03:03,440 Speaker 3: but sometimes I do cry thinking about this. I am enough. 54 00:03:04,000 --> 00:03:05,920 Speaker 3: I don't always feel like I'm enough. See I am 55 00:03:05,919 --> 00:03:08,639 Speaker 3: gonna start to cry, but I am enough. And I'm 56 00:03:08,680 --> 00:03:13,080 Speaker 3: just waiting for the guy to come along who sees 57 00:03:13,120 --> 00:03:15,560 Speaker 3: that I'm enough and is excited to have me in 58 00:03:15,600 --> 00:03:17,680 Speaker 3: his life, and me be excited to have him in 59 00:03:17,720 --> 00:03:20,520 Speaker 3: my life. But until that happens, I'm going to talk 60 00:03:20,520 --> 00:03:26,240 Speaker 3: about my hair. So here's my question about my hair. Susanka, 61 00:03:26,440 --> 00:03:31,000 Speaker 3: you did a bad thing by breaking your wrist because 62 00:03:31,240 --> 00:03:35,760 Speaker 3: you can't cut my hair. My hair is getting too long. 63 00:03:35,880 --> 00:03:38,720 Speaker 3: I need my haircut. Can you speed up the healing 64 00:03:38,800 --> 00:03:39,800 Speaker 3: of your wrist please? 65 00:03:41,400 --> 00:03:45,200 Speaker 1: Well, we have to see each other, so no, I 66 00:03:45,200 --> 00:03:46,360 Speaker 1: can definitely do it. 67 00:03:46,640 --> 00:03:49,720 Speaker 3: Oh in a couple of weeks. Yeah, can I just 68 00:03:49,760 --> 00:03:54,360 Speaker 3: say no? They don't understand Susan's hair is really short. 69 00:03:54,120 --> 00:03:56,160 Speaker 2: And to me I need a haircut desperately. 70 00:03:56,160 --> 00:04:00,120 Speaker 1: And all you people out there, everybody one that does 71 00:04:00,160 --> 00:04:04,360 Speaker 1: not have this short of hair, they do not understand. 72 00:04:05,080 --> 00:04:09,080 Speaker 1: Within four weeks this stuff has grown out. It's hard 73 00:04:09,120 --> 00:04:11,120 Speaker 1: to style. But you guys always say, oh my god, 74 00:04:11,120 --> 00:04:11,640 Speaker 1: it's so short. 75 00:04:11,680 --> 00:04:12,800 Speaker 2: It looks great. It looks great. 76 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:15,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, and let me just say I'm crying for you. 77 00:04:16,000 --> 00:04:18,760 Speaker 3: First of all, I need to put twenty products in 78 00:04:18,839 --> 00:04:21,840 Speaker 3: my hair to help with the frizz, the curlies, the 79 00:04:22,120 --> 00:04:25,400 Speaker 3: all of it. Susan says, hold on, I'll be ready 80 00:04:25,440 --> 00:04:29,720 Speaker 3: in five minutes, because she gets the minute hair. Two minutes. Oh, 81 00:04:29,760 --> 00:04:31,919 Speaker 3: come on, thirty seconds. We'll talk on the phone and 82 00:04:31,960 --> 00:04:34,040 Speaker 3: she'll say, hold on, I just got to dry. I'm 83 00:04:34,080 --> 00:04:36,080 Speaker 3: not this is the truth. Hold On, Kady, I just 84 00:04:36,120 --> 00:04:38,560 Speaker 3: got to dry my hair and literally thirty Okay, my 85 00:04:38,600 --> 00:04:40,919 Speaker 3: hair's t ry, and I'm like, oh dear God, I 86 00:04:41,000 --> 00:04:43,880 Speaker 3: have to dry my hair with a round brush. I 87 00:04:43,920 --> 00:04:45,320 Speaker 3: have to put products in it. Then I have to 88 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,599 Speaker 3: use a straightener, and I still don't get it right. 89 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:51,960 Speaker 1: Okay, but there's a b Yeah, what the bud is? 90 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:57,479 Speaker 1: Kathy can go four days with that hairdo. Susan sometimes 91 00:04:57,480 --> 00:05:00,120 Speaker 1: twice a day has to wash hair and blow it dry. 92 00:05:00,240 --> 00:05:03,000 Speaker 3: Okay, Susan, enough about my hair and hair talk and 93 00:05:03,040 --> 00:05:07,640 Speaker 3: all things hair. We're moving on to our fan questions. 94 00:05:07,760 --> 00:05:09,320 Speaker 2: But I do promise I will do it. 95 00:05:09,839 --> 00:05:11,400 Speaker 3: Oh, you'll do me hair? All right? Perfect? That's all 96 00:05:11,400 --> 00:05:12,880 Speaker 3: I need to get, all right, I'm gonna read the 97 00:05:12,880 --> 00:05:17,000 Speaker 3: first one here we got. Question one is from anonymous. Hi, ladies, 98 00:05:17,640 --> 00:05:20,200 Speaker 3: I really need your help. How do I get my 99 00:05:20,279 --> 00:05:24,159 Speaker 3: family to stop comparing my sister and me? We're five 100 00:05:24,279 --> 00:05:28,359 Speaker 3: years apart, in completely different fields, and are both living 101 00:05:28,400 --> 00:05:31,719 Speaker 3: our lives. We are two completely different people, and yet 102 00:05:31,720 --> 00:05:35,360 Speaker 3: we're still constantly compared by our whole family. They've put 103 00:05:35,400 --> 00:05:38,839 Speaker 3: us into categories our whole lives, the pretty one, the 104 00:05:38,920 --> 00:05:41,760 Speaker 3: smart one, et cetera. It's gotten to the point where 105 00:05:41,760 --> 00:05:45,200 Speaker 3: my sister and I don't talk. She harbors a lot 106 00:05:45,240 --> 00:05:48,880 Speaker 3: of resentment towards me and always has What do you 107 00:05:48,960 --> 00:05:51,680 Speaker 3: suggest I do? Susan weigh in on this, because we. 108 00:05:51,680 --> 00:05:56,880 Speaker 1: Both guessing she's the pretty one. Because you know, when 109 00:05:56,920 --> 00:05:59,080 Speaker 1: I see like a set of twins and one has 110 00:05:59,160 --> 00:06:01,599 Speaker 1: so much views and the other one's kind of do 111 00:06:01,760 --> 00:06:04,000 Speaker 1: I always my heart bleeds. 112 00:06:03,560 --> 00:06:06,120 Speaker 2: For that twin. But these aren't even twins. They're five 113 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:06,880 Speaker 2: years apart. 114 00:06:08,160 --> 00:06:12,080 Speaker 3: Well, I can say to you, I have a sister 115 00:06:12,120 --> 00:06:14,480 Speaker 3: who I'm very close with, and her name is Susan. 116 00:06:14,720 --> 00:06:17,240 Speaker 3: Just like you. I love women who have the name Susan. 117 00:06:17,640 --> 00:06:21,359 Speaker 3: She is eleven months Yeah, welcome friend. She is eleven 118 00:06:21,360 --> 00:06:23,880 Speaker 3: months older than I am. Where Irish twins, I think 119 00:06:23,880 --> 00:06:25,760 Speaker 3: it is what they call We almost shared a womb. 120 00:06:25,800 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 3: There's all these things and I'm just stay with me. 121 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:38,080 Speaker 3: Don't tell me I'm wrong. My sister was a absolute showstopper, gorgeous, 122 00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:45,200 Speaker 3: blonde hair, blue eye, bikini clad, gorgeous girl. And I 123 00:06:45,360 --> 00:06:50,400 Speaker 3: was a chubby, fat brunette. Well, my sister was smart too, 124 00:06:50,839 --> 00:06:55,640 Speaker 3: but that's where I succeeded. I I wasn't pretty, and 125 00:06:55,720 --> 00:06:57,880 Speaker 3: I wasn't petite, and I didn't have a good figure. 126 00:06:57,920 --> 00:06:59,720 Speaker 3: So what did I do. I made myself smart. I 127 00:07:00,040 --> 00:07:03,440 Speaker 3: made straight a's in school. That's what I did. But 128 00:07:04,040 --> 00:07:06,080 Speaker 3: my sister and I are very close. I come from 129 00:07:06,120 --> 00:07:09,200 Speaker 3: a family of seven and she's my you know, we 130 00:07:09,240 --> 00:07:14,040 Speaker 3: talk almost every day. So I don't understand. That's where 131 00:07:14,040 --> 00:07:17,200 Speaker 3: I was going. You have sisters, and you talk with 132 00:07:17,240 --> 00:07:21,280 Speaker 3: your sisters, and I've met your sisters. You don't look 133 00:07:21,320 --> 00:07:22,160 Speaker 3: anything like them. 134 00:07:22,680 --> 00:07:24,920 Speaker 1: No, you know what, My sisters would complain, not about 135 00:07:24,960 --> 00:07:27,880 Speaker 1: my parents, but about the teachers at school when they 136 00:07:27,920 --> 00:07:30,440 Speaker 1: would get into the grade that I already had that teacher, 137 00:07:30,520 --> 00:07:34,560 Speaker 1: that another chatty bacola. 138 00:07:34,640 --> 00:07:38,080 Speaker 2: And they're like, mom, mom, because there weren't like me. 139 00:07:38,480 --> 00:07:40,640 Speaker 3: Well, and that's so funny you say that, because I 140 00:07:40,800 --> 00:07:43,360 Speaker 3: was except for my half brother, I was the last 141 00:07:43,400 --> 00:07:47,880 Speaker 3: one of all the girls and I when I got there, 142 00:07:47,920 --> 00:07:51,400 Speaker 3: they said, no, this was cruel. They'd say to me, 143 00:07:52,280 --> 00:07:55,760 Speaker 3: you're a block. My mid name is Block. You're a 144 00:07:55,840 --> 00:08:01,120 Speaker 3: block girl because they were blonde and petite. And then 145 00:08:01,680 --> 00:08:04,240 Speaker 3: I'm telling you, it's one of those things that happens 146 00:08:04,240 --> 00:08:07,960 Speaker 3: in your life that's hard to get over. I don't 147 00:08:08,480 --> 00:08:13,400 Speaker 3: know why, Anonymous, you're not speaking to her. I think 148 00:08:13,480 --> 00:08:17,600 Speaker 3: families do that. I think they just put people in categories. 149 00:08:17,840 --> 00:08:20,200 Speaker 3: We all do it, you know, I do it with 150 00:08:20,240 --> 00:08:21,120 Speaker 3: my three kids. 151 00:08:21,840 --> 00:08:24,400 Speaker 2: It's not you know, Kathy, what you're saying right now. 152 00:08:24,560 --> 00:08:26,800 Speaker 2: It sounds like the parent issue. 153 00:08:27,080 --> 00:08:30,240 Speaker 1: And why have neither one of them gone to the 154 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:33,719 Speaker 1: parent and said, mom, you're closing friction? And why on 155 00:08:33,760 --> 00:08:35,079 Speaker 1: earth are they not speaking? 156 00:08:35,200 --> 00:08:39,199 Speaker 3: That's my question? Why are why whatever the parents say 157 00:08:39,559 --> 00:08:43,320 Speaker 3: why aren't the kids the two sisters clothes. I don't 158 00:08:43,360 --> 00:08:45,160 Speaker 3: get it. I don't know. I don't have an answer 159 00:08:45,160 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 3: for that. I think and I. 160 00:08:46,440 --> 00:08:48,280 Speaker 1: Feel for you, baby, I really do. And I would 161 00:08:48,320 --> 00:08:52,000 Speaker 1: go to my sister probably first. And we're agreeing again, 162 00:08:52,040 --> 00:08:52,400 Speaker 1: aren't we. 163 00:08:52,440 --> 00:08:54,320 Speaker 2: Capitul Right now? 164 00:08:55,640 --> 00:08:56,680 Speaker 3: We're agreeing again. 165 00:08:57,080 --> 00:09:01,040 Speaker 4: Talk to your Yes, go talk to your sister, your blooded, 166 00:09:01,160 --> 00:09:05,120 Speaker 4: your sister. You got to make make it well and 167 00:09:05,240 --> 00:09:07,760 Speaker 4: share how you felt over the years, whether you were 168 00:09:07,760 --> 00:09:10,400 Speaker 4: the smart one or the pretty one, whatever the case 169 00:09:10,480 --> 00:09:10,920 Speaker 4: may be. 170 00:09:11,440 --> 00:09:15,920 Speaker 2: But go share and say you want this to be. 171 00:09:16,240 --> 00:09:18,240 Speaker 3: I was about to say, I agree with you, Susan. 172 00:09:18,360 --> 00:09:23,320 Speaker 3: I was about to ask maybe maybe Anonymous doesn't want 173 00:09:23,360 --> 00:09:25,560 Speaker 3: to be close to her sister, but I think she does. 174 00:09:26,320 --> 00:09:29,600 Speaker 2: I hope she does, and we're thinking about you. Thanks 175 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:30,160 Speaker 2: for sharing. 176 00:09:30,280 --> 00:09:32,640 Speaker 3: Yeah, let us know and you know what family is 177 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:34,320 Speaker 3: really important. 178 00:09:33,840 --> 00:09:36,080 Speaker 2: So we don't do what you have to do to 179 00:09:36,120 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 2: make it work. Yeah, and thank you for sharing with 180 00:09:39,400 --> 00:09:40,320 Speaker 2: not just what you need. 181 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:43,079 Speaker 3: To make it work, build a relationship with your sister, 182 00:09:43,320 --> 00:09:46,319 Speaker 3: because you know what your family is. Always. I tell 183 00:09:46,360 --> 00:09:48,840 Speaker 3: my kids this all the time. Your family will be 184 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:52,640 Speaker 3: there for you, ups and downs, no matter what. Not 185 00:09:52,679 --> 00:09:54,439 Speaker 3: in this case so far, but well you want to 186 00:09:54,480 --> 00:09:56,920 Speaker 3: make it exactly. Good luck Anonymous. 187 00:09:56,960 --> 00:10:08,640 Speaker 1: Absolutely we have another Anonymous today, Kathy. Hi Kathy and Susan. 188 00:10:08,760 --> 00:10:12,640 Speaker 1: I love your podcast and tune in every week. Well thanks, 189 00:10:13,240 --> 00:10:17,280 Speaker 1: you always give thoughtful advice and feedback. I have a 190 00:10:17,320 --> 00:10:21,720 Speaker 1: few questions and hopefully they make sense together. But my 191 00:10:21,920 --> 00:10:27,320 Speaker 1: first question is do you know anyone who decided not 192 00:10:27,559 --> 00:10:32,040 Speaker 1: to have kids for whatever reason and regretted it later 193 00:10:32,120 --> 00:10:36,800 Speaker 1: in life? First question, second question, For a little background, 194 00:10:37,360 --> 00:10:41,000 Speaker 1: I'm thirty two. I've been married for about five years. 195 00:10:41,160 --> 00:10:44,840 Speaker 1: I've never really had a strong desire to be a 196 00:10:44,880 --> 00:10:49,280 Speaker 1: mom and have kids, but something happened when I turn thirty. 197 00:10:49,720 --> 00:10:52,960 Speaker 1: I feel like there's so much societal pressure to have kids, 198 00:10:53,160 --> 00:10:56,880 Speaker 1: and it's almost frowned upon to be married and not 199 00:10:57,040 --> 00:11:00,320 Speaker 1: have any. My mom also passed away about a year ago, 200 00:11:00,520 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 1: a year and a half ago with breast cancer, and 201 00:11:03,200 --> 00:11:06,040 Speaker 1: we were so close. Part of me feels like it's 202 00:11:06,160 --> 00:11:10,120 Speaker 1: almost my grief that is wanting to fill a missing 203 00:11:10,200 --> 00:11:13,400 Speaker 1: void in my life. Not having my mom around is 204 00:11:13,480 --> 00:11:16,400 Speaker 1: really hard because she would always put my mind at 205 00:11:16,480 --> 00:11:19,400 Speaker 1: ease about these things. If I have a child to 206 00:11:19,480 --> 00:11:23,440 Speaker 1: fill a void left by my mom, is that a 207 00:11:23,600 --> 00:11:29,120 Speaker 1: bad reason? It feels like an impossible decision. Grateful for 208 00:11:29,200 --> 00:11:32,679 Speaker 1: any advice, and I am like both of you when 209 00:11:32,760 --> 00:11:37,120 Speaker 1: it comes to packing my suitcase. I try everything on 210 00:11:37,360 --> 00:11:41,320 Speaker 1: and packed too much. Thanks again, love you both. Hope 211 00:11:41,320 --> 00:11:42,440 Speaker 1: to see you on the beach. 212 00:11:42,640 --> 00:11:44,680 Speaker 2: Oh yeah, we did that a lot. 213 00:11:46,520 --> 00:11:49,200 Speaker 3: I don't even have an answer for this question. 214 00:11:49,600 --> 00:11:53,040 Speaker 1: I mean, I do know people that decided not to 215 00:11:53,080 --> 00:11:56,880 Speaker 1: have children, so do I, and they're perfectly content. Nobody 216 00:11:57,160 --> 00:12:01,760 Speaker 1: has ever really regretted it. Maybe as they got they've spoken. 217 00:12:02,320 --> 00:12:04,960 Speaker 1: You know, if I had kids, maybe I have some 218 00:12:05,160 --> 00:12:07,560 Speaker 1: help or you know, But that's the. 219 00:12:07,760 --> 00:12:08,920 Speaker 2: Choice that only you. 220 00:12:09,840 --> 00:12:13,560 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I think there's anything wrong with it with 221 00:12:13,720 --> 00:12:14,600 Speaker 3: not having children. 222 00:12:14,720 --> 00:12:17,640 Speaker 2: No, that's something that they're not for you. Then it's not. 223 00:12:18,120 --> 00:12:21,960 Speaker 3: Well, here's the thing, you know this this is a 224 00:12:22,000 --> 00:12:24,520 Speaker 3: tough question because there's like a lot of pieces in it. 225 00:12:24,640 --> 00:12:28,600 Speaker 3: But anonymous, she says, if you if you are having 226 00:12:28,840 --> 00:12:32,360 Speaker 3: if you are only having a child to fill the 227 00:12:32,440 --> 00:12:35,760 Speaker 3: void left by the death of your mom. There, I 228 00:12:35,960 --> 00:12:40,679 Speaker 3: you know. I'm not God, I'm not a therapist, I'm nobody. 229 00:12:41,360 --> 00:12:43,960 Speaker 3: Is it a bad reason to have kids? I can't 230 00:12:43,960 --> 00:12:46,160 Speaker 3: tell if it's a good or bad reason. I have kids. 231 00:12:46,240 --> 00:12:48,679 Speaker 3: All I can say to you as a mom of three, 232 00:12:49,160 --> 00:12:52,440 Speaker 3: and Susan is also a mom of three that children 233 00:12:53,000 --> 00:13:00,319 Speaker 3: take a lot of care, love, nurturing, time, energy, and responsibility. 234 00:13:00,640 --> 00:13:02,880 Speaker 3: So if you're not up for that. 235 00:13:03,200 --> 00:13:09,880 Speaker 5: And it won't replace tim exactly exactly, So, don't have 236 00:13:09,920 --> 00:13:13,360 Speaker 5: a child to replace the void because guess what, it won't. 237 00:13:13,679 --> 00:13:16,520 Speaker 1: Do you agree with that, Susan, happy in your life 238 00:13:16,559 --> 00:13:19,920 Speaker 1: the way it is, You don't the peer pressure because 239 00:13:19,920 --> 00:13:23,520 Speaker 1: of all your friends and the social everybody's having kids 240 00:13:23,559 --> 00:13:27,559 Speaker 1: around this time. It's okay, do you do what makes 241 00:13:27,679 --> 00:13:28,400 Speaker 1: you happy? 242 00:13:28,840 --> 00:13:29,120 Speaker 3: Yeah? 243 00:13:29,360 --> 00:13:31,920 Speaker 1: And I know that's thirty mark kath because I used 244 00:13:31,920 --> 00:13:35,160 Speaker 1: to say, if I don't have a child by thirty, oh. 245 00:13:35,040 --> 00:13:39,920 Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I have known women who have 246 00:13:40,080 --> 00:13:44,920 Speaker 3: changed their mind, not at thirty butes, and they've had 247 00:13:44,920 --> 00:13:47,319 Speaker 3: a child and they've been glad they did, but they 248 00:13:47,400 --> 00:13:50,800 Speaker 3: had made the decision that they wanted a child. They 249 00:13:50,880 --> 00:13:53,880 Speaker 3: didn't make the decision of a child because they wanted 250 00:13:53,920 --> 00:13:58,240 Speaker 3: to fill a void left by a mother, a sister, whatever. 251 00:13:58,760 --> 00:14:02,120 Speaker 2: So as as well as how does your husband feel that? 252 00:14:03,200 --> 00:14:03,760 Speaker 3: Yeah? 253 00:14:04,000 --> 00:14:06,640 Speaker 2: Right? I mean what do you two want together? 254 00:14:07,200 --> 00:14:09,560 Speaker 3: Yeah? And I think that Susan, that is a brilliant 255 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:14,319 Speaker 3: That is absolutely uh you really, Anonymous. That's a conversation 256 00:14:14,400 --> 00:14:18,840 Speaker 3: for you to have with your partner, your spouse, whoever, because. 257 00:14:18,559 --> 00:14:21,800 Speaker 2: When it comes to packing, you could call us definitely. 258 00:14:21,560 --> 00:14:24,400 Speaker 3: When it comes to packing, call Susan. No, actually, I'm 259 00:14:24,400 --> 00:14:27,720 Speaker 3: a great packer, you're a great picker outer. Anyway, forget 260 00:14:27,920 --> 00:14:32,360 Speaker 3: things stop. I'm just we're going to have hair talk again. 261 00:14:32,400 --> 00:14:36,640 Speaker 3: If you don't stop, let us know. And it's a 262 00:14:36,680 --> 00:14:41,760 Speaker 3: tough decision, Anonymous, let us know. We really hope that 263 00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:45,720 Speaker 3: you make the decision that's right for you and your partner. 264 00:14:45,920 --> 00:14:47,240 Speaker 3: That's the bottom line. 265 00:14:47,480 --> 00:14:48,880 Speaker 2: Let us know the beach. 266 00:14:49,360 --> 00:14:54,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, Okay, we are going to play a fabulous game today, Susan. 267 00:14:54,320 --> 00:14:57,280 Speaker 3: We've done it before. We call it icky're picky, but 268 00:14:57,360 --> 00:15:00,480 Speaker 3: you and I added the third term E, who is like, 269 00:15:00,600 --> 00:15:02,640 Speaker 3: get rid of it as fast as you can, ikey, 270 00:15:02,800 --> 00:15:05,800 Speaker 3: picky or ew. We're just gonna read. We're going to 271 00:15:05,840 --> 00:15:09,040 Speaker 3: switch off. We're gonna read hypotheticals and you and I 272 00:15:09,040 --> 00:15:11,760 Speaker 3: are going to say whether we think it's icky or 273 00:15:11,880 --> 00:15:13,520 Speaker 3: just being picky. And I'm going to get us go 274 00:15:13,560 --> 00:15:16,640 Speaker 3: in here with the first one. Okay, Okay, they tell 275 00:15:16,680 --> 00:15:20,640 Speaker 3: you they've never read a book in their life and 276 00:15:20,720 --> 00:15:22,800 Speaker 3: are proud of it. 277 00:15:22,800 --> 00:15:25,240 Speaker 2: It say they were lying because you have to read 278 00:15:25,280 --> 00:15:25,960 Speaker 2: them in school. 279 00:15:27,080 --> 00:15:31,120 Speaker 3: So you know I love to read. What I say, Oh, 280 00:15:31,160 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 3: I'm going to go further than that. E wait, can 281 00:15:36,080 --> 00:15:36,960 Speaker 3: I just tell you I wonder? 282 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:37,560 Speaker 2: Why? 283 00:15:37,760 --> 00:15:39,480 Speaker 3: Wait? I just have to tell you a little short 284 00:15:39,480 --> 00:15:41,760 Speaker 3: story here. This is the fun of this podcast. We 285 00:15:41,840 --> 00:15:46,200 Speaker 3: get to throw in our So. I was talking with 286 00:15:46,240 --> 00:15:48,160 Speaker 3: one of the guys on Jones season who is a 287 00:15:48,280 --> 00:15:51,600 Speaker 3: very nice guy. And I read a lot of books 288 00:15:51,600 --> 00:15:54,760 Speaker 3: on my kindle. And when you read on your kindle, 289 00:15:55,920 --> 00:15:57,960 Speaker 3: at least when I read on my kindle, I don't 290 00:15:58,000 --> 00:15:59,720 Speaker 3: always remember the name of the book. I get so 291 00:15:59,840 --> 00:16:04,880 Speaker 3: involve you. Okay, So this guy, who's a super nice 292 00:16:04,880 --> 00:16:07,480 Speaker 3: guy and reads a lot himself, said to me, Kathy, 293 00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:11,360 Speaker 3: what's on your nightstand? Meaning what book you read? I 294 00:16:12,720 --> 00:16:18,240 Speaker 3: literally couldn't remember. And I said I read. And I 295 00:16:18,240 --> 00:16:20,360 Speaker 3: said I can go get I said exactly, I said, 296 00:16:20,480 --> 00:16:22,680 Speaker 3: I can go get my kendle. He goes, never mind, 297 00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:25,320 Speaker 3: It's okay. But I thought he must think I don't read. 298 00:16:25,640 --> 00:16:28,880 Speaker 3: You know, I'm a veracious reader. I love to read. 299 00:16:29,040 --> 00:16:31,800 Speaker 3: But it was just so embarrassing. What's the. 300 00:16:33,280 --> 00:16:35,520 Speaker 1: Oh, thank god, I've done the book and I can 301 00:16:35,560 --> 00:16:36,400 Speaker 1: tell you what it's about. 302 00:16:36,480 --> 00:16:37,280 Speaker 2: Still don't remember. 303 00:16:38,560 --> 00:16:40,400 Speaker 3: Okay, I'm not going to say the guy's name, but 304 00:16:40,520 --> 00:16:42,880 Speaker 3: if you're listening to this podcast, know that I do 305 00:16:43,080 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 3: love to read and I was really embarrassed. 306 00:16:45,800 --> 00:16:48,880 Speaker 2: This is a good one. They correct your grammar and 307 00:16:49,120 --> 00:16:50,400 Speaker 2: casual conversation. 308 00:16:50,600 --> 00:16:51,360 Speaker 3: Hello, Kathy? 309 00:16:51,760 --> 00:16:56,880 Speaker 2: Is that Kathy? 310 00:16:57,280 --> 00:17:02,600 Speaker 3: That is? Can I just tell you I am in me? Listen? 311 00:17:02,760 --> 00:17:05,320 Speaker 3: Can I tell you how bad I am? Bachslor nation people? 312 00:17:05,840 --> 00:17:08,720 Speaker 3: When we get questions and I'm reading them, I will 313 00:17:08,760 --> 00:17:12,199 Speaker 3: correct it. If it says I, I will correct it. 314 00:17:12,240 --> 00:17:16,040 Speaker 3: And just I was an English teacher. It's grammar. I'm sorry, 315 00:17:16,280 --> 00:17:16,840 Speaker 3: and I just. 316 00:17:16,840 --> 00:17:19,720 Speaker 2: Always was told no, you say I, not me, and 317 00:17:19,800 --> 00:17:20,960 Speaker 2: Dathy's like, no, it's me. 318 00:17:21,359 --> 00:17:25,160 Speaker 3: Because it's it gets into compound sub subjects and object 319 00:17:25,240 --> 00:17:27,680 Speaker 3: of the preposition and object. 320 00:17:27,320 --> 00:17:33,280 Speaker 2: Of the sister. She's the brain and you're very good 321 00:17:33,320 --> 00:17:35,080 Speaker 2: at it. And I come to you for advice when 322 00:17:35,080 --> 00:17:35,520 Speaker 2: I'm writing. 323 00:17:36,000 --> 00:17:38,439 Speaker 3: I'm sorry. I don't mean to be icky or picky, 324 00:17:38,600 --> 00:17:40,440 Speaker 3: and that's probably an OO for a lot of people, 325 00:17:40,480 --> 00:17:50,840 Speaker 3: So I apologize. All right, here's the next one. Yeah, 326 00:17:52,000 --> 00:17:55,879 Speaker 3: could you they talking? A baby? Boy? Is that, and 327 00:17:55,920 --> 00:18:00,520 Speaker 3: they do it a lot. Is that icky? Picky? It's 328 00:18:00,560 --> 00:18:01,359 Speaker 3: so icky. 329 00:18:03,160 --> 00:18:07,280 Speaker 1: They still call their mom mommy or their dad daddy 330 00:18:07,400 --> 00:18:11,640 Speaker 1: as an adult whatever, kiky, I mean. 331 00:18:11,640 --> 00:18:15,480 Speaker 3: That's picky. It's not Yeah, that's picky, all right. They 332 00:18:15,520 --> 00:18:20,800 Speaker 3: get Oh lord, I got more stories. They get road 333 00:18:20,920 --> 00:18:25,600 Speaker 3: rage and scream at other drivers ikey. Can I tell you? 334 00:18:25,880 --> 00:18:31,040 Speaker 3: My husband did this all the time. Oh my god. 335 00:18:31,200 --> 00:18:35,480 Speaker 3: And I used to say, Darryl, please get shot. I know. 336 00:18:35,560 --> 00:18:39,480 Speaker 3: I used to say stop. They can't hear you. Only 337 00:18:39,600 --> 00:18:42,000 Speaker 3: I can hear you, and it's driving me up. They 338 00:18:42,000 --> 00:18:45,199 Speaker 3: don't hear you screaming. I do. And he would constantly 339 00:18:45,280 --> 00:18:47,840 Speaker 3: do it. So one time we were driving on the Interstate, 340 00:18:48,600 --> 00:18:52,280 Speaker 3: going you know, cross country, and he was railing about 341 00:18:52,520 --> 00:18:55,320 Speaker 3: somebody driving and he was screaming at them, and I 342 00:18:55,359 --> 00:18:59,160 Speaker 3: had warned him. I said, if you don't stop, I'm 343 00:18:59,240 --> 00:19:00,920 Speaker 3: going to turn the car off. 344 00:19:02,160 --> 00:19:04,199 Speaker 2: What why you drive me? 345 00:19:04,359 --> 00:19:07,520 Speaker 3: I did, Kathy, What is with you? 346 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:09,600 Speaker 2: Because right there. 347 00:19:10,720 --> 00:19:13,280 Speaker 3: I just I couldn't stand the screaming. And so I 348 00:19:13,320 --> 00:19:15,040 Speaker 3: was in the car with my daughter the other day. 349 00:19:15,520 --> 00:19:17,520 Speaker 3: I'll be damned, I said, oh my god, you're just 350 00:19:17,600 --> 00:19:20,160 Speaker 3: like your father, because she was she goes these people 351 00:19:20,160 --> 00:19:23,320 Speaker 3: are She started rolling. I said, oh, dear god, your 352 00:19:23,440 --> 00:19:26,520 Speaker 3: dad is watching down from heaven. Stop doing it. And 353 00:19:26,560 --> 00:19:28,280 Speaker 3: she looked at me and she goes, I just can't 354 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:30,800 Speaker 3: take bad drivers. I said, you know, the car off 355 00:19:31,040 --> 00:19:31,480 Speaker 3: like she. 356 00:19:31,520 --> 00:19:34,160 Speaker 2: Was screaming at the people. She just voicing. 357 00:19:34,320 --> 00:19:37,160 Speaker 3: Oh no, she's screaming. Oh, Susan, let me demo for you. 358 00:19:37,320 --> 00:19:40,439 Speaker 3: What's the hell's wrong with you? Put your blinker on 359 00:19:40,520 --> 00:19:42,520 Speaker 3: if you're gonna take are Do you think they're hearing that? 360 00:19:42,680 --> 00:19:42,840 Speaker 3: You know? 361 00:19:42,880 --> 00:19:45,040 Speaker 2: When you drive with me? Why are you in this lane? 362 00:19:45,240 --> 00:19:46,800 Speaker 2: Why are you in this lane? 363 00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:50,159 Speaker 3: This is the fast lane? Yeah that Susan. Yes, But Susan, 364 00:19:50,440 --> 00:19:52,920 Speaker 3: do you think the person in that lane hears you? 365 00:19:53,560 --> 00:19:56,719 Speaker 3: Who's hearing you? Do you think I like hearing them? 366 00:19:57,600 --> 00:19:58,520 Speaker 3: What you say? 367 00:19:58,840 --> 00:19:59,600 Speaker 2: My passenger? 368 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:04,480 Speaker 3: Thank you? Passenger wants a pass on the screaming note 369 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,680 Speaker 3: to Susan. All right, go on, all right. 370 00:20:07,040 --> 00:20:14,600 Speaker 1: They post inspirational quotes on their Instagram every single day. 371 00:20:14,560 --> 00:20:17,359 Speaker 3: Yeah, I think it's I think that's picky. I think 372 00:20:17,400 --> 00:20:24,720 Speaker 3: that's swinging wrong. Okay. They refer to them. They refer 373 00:20:24,760 --> 00:20:27,320 Speaker 3: to themselves as an alpha male. 374 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,640 Speaker 2: Like I say, I'm a type personality. 375 00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,840 Speaker 3: No alpha male means not only am I a male, 376 00:20:33,280 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 3: not only am I superior to you, but I'm an 377 00:20:35,880 --> 00:20:42,720 Speaker 3: alpha male. It's redundant. Yeah, please, I think it's picky. 378 00:20:43,160 --> 00:20:44,240 Speaker 3: I do it's picky. 379 00:20:44,640 --> 00:20:45,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, Okay. 380 00:20:46,280 --> 00:20:51,879 Speaker 1: They walk really really slowly in public and don't. 381 00:20:51,400 --> 00:20:53,040 Speaker 2: Notice your head. 382 00:20:53,240 --> 00:20:54,760 Speaker 3: Hell, I don't care. As long as I'm getting my 383 00:20:54,760 --> 00:20:59,560 Speaker 3: steps in, I don't care. That's picky, all right. They 384 00:20:59,680 --> 00:21:03,160 Speaker 3: drink milk with dinner as an adult. The hell's wrong 385 00:21:03,200 --> 00:21:04,080 Speaker 3: with that? 386 00:21:04,119 --> 00:21:05,119 Speaker 2: What is wrong? Picky? 387 00:21:05,480 --> 00:21:10,440 Speaker 3: Picky? Susan, Susan. We are agreen on all of these just. 388 00:21:10,400 --> 00:21:13,080 Speaker 1: About that kind of a day, I'm telling you. They 389 00:21:13,200 --> 00:21:16,520 Speaker 1: FaceTime people in public without those. 390 00:21:17,600 --> 00:21:23,440 Speaker 3: That well, that's not icky, that's irritating. That's you. That's 391 00:21:23,480 --> 00:21:25,840 Speaker 3: what you say. It's yeah. 392 00:21:25,880 --> 00:21:28,080 Speaker 2: We're in the nail salon. 393 00:21:28,359 --> 00:21:30,480 Speaker 1: Okay, I'm sitting there and I got to hear this 394 00:21:30,520 --> 00:21:32,600 Speaker 1: girl's conversation and they're allowed. 395 00:21:32,960 --> 00:21:35,680 Speaker 2: I can't even think. This is my zen time. Will 396 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:40,480 Speaker 2: you be quiet? I'm getting. 397 00:21:41,640 --> 00:21:46,480 Speaker 3: This is Susan's world, having a manicure and pedicure. Okay, 398 00:21:46,760 --> 00:21:53,760 Speaker 3: they still this. I'm just gonna say, there's icky, picky oo, 399 00:21:54,240 --> 00:21:57,000 Speaker 3: and get the hell out of my life. This would 400 00:21:57,040 --> 00:22:00,240 Speaker 3: be this one they still follow and like all of 401 00:22:00,280 --> 00:22:08,400 Speaker 3: their exes posts bye bye, so long farewell. I mean 402 00:22:08,480 --> 00:22:11,440 Speaker 3: no way? Uh uh? I mean seriously, is that it keeps. 403 00:22:11,560 --> 00:22:13,480 Speaker 2: Like my ex doesn't post? Really? 404 00:22:13,520 --> 00:22:15,359 Speaker 1: But if you put something out there, my kids are 405 00:22:15,359 --> 00:22:18,880 Speaker 1: and of course I like it. But no, no, that's 406 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:22,879 Speaker 1: just weird. Move on, get a life, go buy a life. 407 00:22:24,000 --> 00:22:27,840 Speaker 3: Okay. They clap when the plane lands. 408 00:22:29,080 --> 00:22:30,760 Speaker 2: There are people that are really scared. 409 00:22:31,000 --> 00:22:33,960 Speaker 3: Yeah, and I got to tell you. I fly with 410 00:22:34,040 --> 00:22:36,520 Speaker 3: my granddaughters and we all clap when the plane lands 411 00:22:36,520 --> 00:22:38,000 Speaker 3: because I think it's what we do. 412 00:22:37,920 --> 00:22:41,880 Speaker 2: Our cruise in June. Yeah, we're going to Greece. 413 00:22:42,040 --> 00:22:44,160 Speaker 1: I'm getting clap from that baby hits the ground because 414 00:22:44,240 --> 00:22:46,000 Speaker 1: we have to be on there so damn long. 415 00:22:46,160 --> 00:22:48,680 Speaker 3: Wait, can I just say I'm flying from Texas. It's 416 00:22:48,720 --> 00:22:52,640 Speaker 3: frigging fourteen hours. That's why God made first class four 417 00:22:52,720 --> 00:22:53,840 Speaker 3: eighteen hours? 418 00:22:54,200 --> 00:22:54,560 Speaker 2: All right. 419 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:59,040 Speaker 1: They won't kiss you if you have lip bomb on 420 00:22:59,200 --> 00:23:02,119 Speaker 1: because they don't like the texture. 421 00:23:03,240 --> 00:23:06,440 Speaker 2: That's who kisses on the lips like that? Friends, I mean, 422 00:23:06,560 --> 00:23:08,720 Speaker 2: I do, not one on each side. 423 00:23:09,480 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 3: Well wait a minute, you've been in you've been in 424 00:23:12,200 --> 00:23:15,200 Speaker 3: the French West Indies. Two long, girlfriend, if you're dating 425 00:23:15,200 --> 00:23:17,879 Speaker 3: a guy and he says he won't kiss you because 426 00:23:17,880 --> 00:23:21,040 Speaker 3: he doesn't like to text you. That's you and Ikey. 427 00:23:21,320 --> 00:23:21,960 Speaker 2: I agree. 428 00:23:22,840 --> 00:23:26,040 Speaker 3: I mean, just get over yourself really, all right? They 429 00:23:26,080 --> 00:23:30,080 Speaker 3: refer to your relationship as hanging out even after months 430 00:23:30,119 --> 00:23:35,119 Speaker 3: of dating. Ew, that's here's the door, what you know, 431 00:23:35,119 --> 00:23:36,680 Speaker 3: don't hit your ass on the way out. 432 00:23:37,600 --> 00:23:42,439 Speaker 1: I mean seriously about marriage on the second date, Well, 433 00:23:42,880 --> 00:23:45,840 Speaker 1: depends how you feel about him. 434 00:23:45,880 --> 00:23:47,000 Speaker 2: That's the picky. 435 00:23:47,800 --> 00:23:51,000 Speaker 3: I mean, I think of yours into him as he 436 00:23:51,119 --> 00:23:54,240 Speaker 3: is into you. Then you might think it's picky, But 437 00:23:54,480 --> 00:23:57,360 Speaker 3: in general, I would say that's Ikey for the most part. 438 00:23:57,440 --> 00:23:58,520 Speaker 3: In general, I would say. 439 00:23:58,400 --> 00:23:59,880 Speaker 2: That's Ikey on the second date. 440 00:24:00,080 --> 00:24:03,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, it's in general. I'm not saying but they were. 441 00:24:03,440 --> 00:24:05,880 Speaker 2: Not talking about you two get married. They're just talking 442 00:24:05,920 --> 00:24:06,680 Speaker 2: about being. 443 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,080 Speaker 3: What they're talking about their marriage to their first wife. 444 00:24:09,119 --> 00:24:11,320 Speaker 2: That's it broad and big. 445 00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:16,160 Speaker 3: Let me just say, Kamy, if you. 446 00:24:16,080 --> 00:24:18,000 Speaker 1: Find a man and you really like him, and it's 447 00:24:18,000 --> 00:24:20,359 Speaker 1: the second date and he says, would you ever get 448 00:24:20,359 --> 00:24:21,119 Speaker 1: married again? 449 00:24:21,240 --> 00:24:22,760 Speaker 2: Would you would you like to. 450 00:24:22,680 --> 00:24:26,879 Speaker 3: Get it could be like okay, that would be okay. 451 00:24:27,240 --> 00:24:30,520 Speaker 3: But I thought I took this to mean, yeah, it's 452 00:24:30,600 --> 00:24:32,520 Speaker 3: just you know, Kathy will you marry me? 453 00:24:34,480 --> 00:24:35,960 Speaker 2: Could you sign this first piece? 454 00:24:36,359 --> 00:24:39,679 Speaker 3: Could you sign this? Could you sign the pre pape? 455 00:24:40,040 --> 00:24:40,720 Speaker 2: The papers? 456 00:24:41,000 --> 00:24:43,040 Speaker 3: I don't know we have covered? Wait, do you have 457 00:24:43,040 --> 00:24:45,359 Speaker 3: any I need one more good story for you before 458 00:24:45,359 --> 00:24:47,280 Speaker 3: we wrap. Come on, give me something that's going on 459 00:24:47,280 --> 00:24:49,040 Speaker 3: in your life. Some good finales? 460 00:24:49,200 --> 00:24:53,879 Speaker 2: Cruise in my arm anymore? Kathy? Can you see the 461 00:24:54,040 --> 00:24:56,880 Speaker 2: bruising that goes all the way up my arm? 462 00:24:57,040 --> 00:25:02,160 Speaker 3: I mean again again, Bachelor. I'm going to remind Susan 463 00:25:02,480 --> 00:25:06,800 Speaker 3: because I am her good friend. When you follow the doctors' 464 00:25:07,040 --> 00:25:12,600 Speaker 3: it's ew because you're not following the doctor's orders. All right, 465 00:25:12,920 --> 00:25:15,640 Speaker 3: till we get to grease, till this wrist heels, If 466 00:25:15,640 --> 00:25:18,480 Speaker 3: this wrist will ever heal, that is going to be 467 00:25:19,520 --> 00:25:22,360 Speaker 3: it for today. We want to thank our list how 468 00:25:22,400 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 3: it always does. 469 00:25:23,520 --> 00:25:27,560 Speaker 2: I think maybe we need two hours. We have a 470 00:25:27,560 --> 00:25:28,320 Speaker 2: lot to say. 471 00:25:29,680 --> 00:25:32,840 Speaker 3: The listeners are either going to go icky, picky or ooh, 472 00:25:32,960 --> 00:25:36,560 Speaker 3: are one, But thank you to our listeners for joining us. 473 00:25:36,560 --> 00:25:38,760 Speaker 3: Without you, we would not have a podcast. 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