WEBVTT - Second Date Update: High Stakes Higher Stacks

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<v Speaker 1>You found it the home of the Second Aid Update.

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<v Speaker 1>It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've got

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<v Speaker 1>a brand new.

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<v Speaker 2>One for you today.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, I'm just gonna give you a little tease because

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<v Speaker 1>there is one thing a guy can put in his

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<v Speaker 1>dating profile pick that can instantly up his chances.

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<v Speaker 2>Of getting a match by ninety percent, which is insane.

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<v Speaker 2>Let us know if you agree or not.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, for sure, And one of our listeners says it

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<v Speaker 1>definitely worked on her. So we're going to find out

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<v Speaker 1>what it is coming up here in a second right.

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<v Speaker 3>It's great and super cute links in the show notes

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<v Speaker 3>for that.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, do we got some fun comments? Yeah? I saw JC.

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<v Speaker 3>Commented and said, you guys go hand in hand with

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<v Speaker 3>my morning coffee and trying not to spit my coffee

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<v Speaker 3>out while cracking up.

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<v Speaker 2>So I want to know, Yeah, I want to know

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<v Speaker 2>you order JC. Let us know I need new coffee ideas. Okay. Interesting.

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<v Speaker 3>Professional helper said it was a little surreal to hear

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<v Speaker 3>you guys mention the videos where they use your posts

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<v Speaker 3>and put the leg games as Backgroundshy.

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<v Speaker 2>People still are old stuff all the time. I will

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<v Speaker 2>set a cussword there, but I didn't, I made it. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 2>that's fine. I mean, if it helps you find the og,

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<v Speaker 2>then thanks for being here. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Whatever works, whatever works all right, and what works right

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<v Speaker 1>now is getting the show started.

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<v Speaker 2>Let's go.

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<v Speaker 4>Second date update. Is it ever a good idea to

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<v Speaker 4>talk about your other dates while you're on a date? No?

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, I don't know.

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<v Speaker 1>If you like commiserating and sharing ten stories back and forth.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I would say the short answer is no. The

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<v Speaker 4>longer answer absolutely not. You plan to be on with

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<v Speaker 4>us because we love to hear the dirt And I'm

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<v Speaker 4>just thankful that Jennifer, our listener is on the phone

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<v Speaker 4>with us today because apparently she talked about her other

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<v Speaker 4>dates on her date. Jennifer, I disagree. I admire your class,

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<v Speaker 4>welcome to the show.

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<v Speaker 5>Thank you.

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<v Speaker 1>But it's not like she's talking about like her ex

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<v Speaker 1>boyfriend that she's still in love with, right Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 4>We don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>That's why I'm asking, right, Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 5>Right, we were just sharing like funny stories, right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, that's okay, Okay, Well who are you sharing these

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<v Speaker 4>stories with? What's this guy's name?

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<v Speaker 5>His name was Joshua?

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<v Speaker 4>Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>I met him on the coffee and bagel app.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh is that still around a while? A while?

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<v Speaker 4>I know about the Bengal and the candle app but

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<v Speaker 4>the coffee Bengal? Yeah, I like that one. Okay.

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<v Speaker 5>He just looked cute. He had like a dog with

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<v Speaker 5>him in his photo.

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<v Speaker 4>And okay, you know, actually I've heard that guys who

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<v Speaker 4>have dogs in their photos get ninety percent more matches.

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<v Speaker 2>Way, that makes sense.

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<v Speaker 4>Borrow your dog, bro.

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<v Speaker 1>The whole point is that you can actually keep something

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<v Speaker 1>alive and care for something outside of yourself.

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<v Speaker 2>The attractive point of it.

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<v Speaker 4>Men, women are not gonna be able to tell if

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<v Speaker 4>it's your dog and how well it's taken care of

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<v Speaker 4>as long as it's in the photo. Just photoshop one in.

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<v Speaker 2>You're gonna know after date one.

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<v Speaker 4>Or put a little neck brace on it. Like it

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<v Speaker 4>is we're trying to do, is accomplish sick dog?

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<v Speaker 2>Dog sick?

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<v Speaker 4>Could you determine his dog's health from the.

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<v Speaker 5>Photo Jennifer, it definitely looks like a healthy cute.

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<v Speaker 4>This is what you're talking about right here. I see

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<v Speaker 4>what you're saying. Okay, take us to the date with Joshua.

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<v Speaker 5>So I wanted to make the reservation. I said I

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<v Speaker 5>would make it.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there a reason for that?

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<v Speaker 5>I just in particular, like I love food. I love.

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<v Speaker 4>That, and you're like, I have my favorites.

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<v Speaker 2>Let me pick the like certain tables, you like all

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<v Speaker 2>the things.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, so I called and made a reservation. But when

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<v Speaker 5>we got there, they had lost our reservation.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, yeah.

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<v Speaker 5>So I guess I should have made it online.

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<v Speaker 2>Did that like throw the night off? Did it make

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<v Speaker 2>you upset?

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<v Speaker 5>I wasn't upset. Like they apologized, but they were just

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<v Speaker 5>like over books.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh no, that it sounds.

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<v Speaker 4>Like it's a popular restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>I know there's only two of you.

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<v Speaker 1>It's like, can you squeeze us in somewhere? We'll sit

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<v Speaker 1>at the end of somebody else's table.

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<v Speaker 2>They'll big deal, literally make a table.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, we eat in the alley back behind the restaurant.

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<v Speaker 2>If I get the good food. Jeff, absolutely, totally.

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<v Speaker 5>It totally turned out to be a good thing because

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<v Speaker 5>we ended up just wandering around the city, and like

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<v Speaker 5>we ended up getting burgers at a takeout place and

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<v Speaker 5>just talking about our bad date experiences.

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<v Speaker 4>Wait, you lumped this experience as to one of the

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<v Speaker 4>many bad date experiences that you've gone on.

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<v Speaker 5>No, this was just like a little bump in the

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<v Speaker 5>road compared to like one time this guy venmoed me

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<v Speaker 5>like two dollars and forty seven cents for half of

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<v Speaker 5>his appetizer.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh my gosh, Venmo requested you. Wow, Yeah, I was.

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<v Speaker 1>Okay, okay, So you shared stories like that with him?

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<v Speaker 2>Did he share stories back with you? Joshua did so.

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<v Speaker 5>He said he had like a date who brought her

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<v Speaker 5>mom and the mom was like critiquing his posture on the.

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<v Speaker 2>Straight.

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<v Speaker 4>Honey, I actually think that's some nice feedback. On the

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<v Speaker 4>date told me you're slouching a little, so okay, Now

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<v Speaker 4>this is a way to be like, you're actually way

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<v Speaker 4>better than a lot of the dates that I go on.

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<v Speaker 4>It's supposed to make him feel good.

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<v Speaker 5>Yes, Like we were having a great time, just like

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<v Speaker 5>laughing a lot, and it was just like fun.

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<v Speaker 1>And anytime you have like a shared experience, whether it's

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<v Speaker 1>like a bad date or anything, it can bring you

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<v Speaker 1>closer to somebody, but this wasn't Yeah no, I know,

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<v Speaker 1>but they're both commiserating over the same thing.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, gotcha? So how long did this go on?

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<v Speaker 6>For?

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<v Speaker 5>Like a couple hours and neither of us had like

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<v Speaker 5>planned anything after, so he just like walked me back

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<v Speaker 5>to my car. And I'm not used to like a

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<v Speaker 5>short date like that.

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<v Speaker 4>Or it was just like you expected the day to

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<v Speaker 4>go on longer, like.

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<v Speaker 1>Did you want him to invite you back to his place?

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<v Speaker 1>Like what are your expectations there?

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<v Speaker 5>I don't know about that. It's just like the vibe

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<v Speaker 5>was so good he just didn't even attempt to do anything.

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<v Speaker 3>Else, Okay, as a bar or something.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, maybe it's just plain it cool, you know, like

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<v Speaker 1>sometimes if you go out on top, you end it on.

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<v Speaker 2>A high note. Yeah, it obviously leaves you want anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So he did something right.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, he's playing it so cool that he's not even

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<v Speaker 4>calling her back anymore.

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<v Speaker 2>So I guess that is planet cool is really we're crazy.

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<v Speaker 4>We're beyond the cool apart. We just want to help

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<v Speaker 4>you figure out what happened. Okay, Jennifer, maybe the burger

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<v Speaker 4>was bad that he ate It wasn't all it was

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<v Speaker 4>a street burger, so you listen to I know that. Yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>but it is risky. So let's just call him and

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<v Speaker 4>we'll get your second date update right after this second

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<v Speaker 4>date update. Our listener, Jennifer is the perfect example of

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<v Speaker 4>when life gives you lemons, turn them into lemon drops.

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<v Speaker 2>Oh yeah, I don't think they. I mean or burgers.

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<v Speaker 4>Well yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever it is. Because her dinner

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<v Speaker 4>reservation fell through the restaurant over books, so she took

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<v Speaker 4>that and turned it into a fun night of wandering

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<v Speaker 4>the city, searching for street burgers and talking about previous

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<v Speaker 4>bad dates that went even worse than this one did.

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<v Speaker 4>And her date, Joshua, shared his worst dates too, so

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<v Speaker 4>it really actually bonded them together. But Jennifer, how long

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<v Speaker 4>has it been since that night?

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, it's been like a week okay, and you haven't

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<v Speaker 1>heard anything.

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<v Speaker 5>No, And I've sent like some text messages and nothing

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<v Speaker 5>radio silence.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, so you're definitely being ignored.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, have you tried sending him a photo? Because if

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<v Speaker 4>he doesn't respond to that, then you know you're in trouble.

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<v Speaker 4>What jock of anything?

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<v Speaker 2>You don't do that, don't know that, don't listen to

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<v Speaker 2>their advice.

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<v Speaker 4>You could send him a photo of me. No, if

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<v Speaker 4>he's a fan of our show, he would definitely respond

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<v Speaker 4>to that.

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<v Speaker 2>I think he's mad that she.

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<v Speaker 4>Was talking about other dates.

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<v Speaker 2>Now you want her sending pictures of other guys to him, Jeff.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm just saying, if she does and he doesn't respond,

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<v Speaker 4>then you really know something, so that I.

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<v Speaker 2>Think she knows before the picture Jeff. Okay, she's not an.

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<v Speaker 4>Idiot, Brooks saying, we're not at rock bottom yet. Let's

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<v Speaker 4>wait till this call happens and see where we end up.

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<v Speaker 2>Today.

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<v Speaker 4>Jennifer, any last words before I dial these numbers or.

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<v Speaker 1>Any last pictures of Jeff that you want to send

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<v Speaker 1>either way, I just can't believe I have to do this.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, I have to do this. We call us the

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<v Speaker 4>last resort for people. That being said, with Jeff being

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<v Speaker 4>in a weird mood, you want to call back tomorrow.

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<v Speaker 4>This may not be a good call.

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<v Speaker 5>Well, we'll see, we'll find out.

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<v Speaker 6>We're here.

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<v Speaker 4>Let's just go through with it. How bad could it get?

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<v Speaker 4>All right, let's do it. You tell us, I'll tell

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<v Speaker 4>you about some of the worst second date updates we've

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<v Speaker 4>ever done, and that'll make you feel better about it.

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<v Speaker 4>Hold on, just okay, here we go.

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<v Speaker 6>Hello.

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<v Speaker 4>Hey, is this Joshua?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah?

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<v Speaker 4>Hey man, this is a whole radio show is calling

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<v Speaker 4>you right now. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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<v Speaker 2>Good morning, Hot there, josh how are you doing.

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<v Speaker 6>It's Joshua.

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<v Speaker 2>Sorry. Sorry, I'm married to Michael who hates Mike.

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<v Speaker 4>I get it.

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<v Speaker 2>I apologize.

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<v Speaker 4>I'm sorry that my host is trying to make this

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<v Speaker 4>segment all about her in her marriage.

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<v Speaker 2>But I understand.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, we get it. The real thing that we're interested in, though, Joshua,

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<v Speaker 4>is you and the date that you went on the

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<v Speaker 4>other night with one of our listeners named Jennifer. Okay, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>do you remember her? You know what I'm talking about?

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah? I remember her. Yeah.

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<v Speaker 2>It sounds like you guys had a really fun night together.

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<v Speaker 6>Why do you know that?

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<v Speaker 2>Great question?

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<v Speaker 4>Oh yeah, because that's how this segment works. It's called

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<v Speaker 4>second Date Update. And we spoke to her about your

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<v Speaker 4>date and she's a little bit confused about why she's

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<v Speaker 4>not getting a callback for a second meet up.

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<v Speaker 6>Really, but yeah she said that, yeah.

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<v Speaker 1>Yeah, she said that she had a great time with you.

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<v Speaker 1>It sounds like you guys laughed together a lot.

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<v Speaker 2>Yeah, is that not accurate?

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<v Speaker 6>No, it's accurate. She's like a really nice person, she's

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<v Speaker 6>cute and everything, but you're Yeah.

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<v Speaker 4>Your words are saying nice things, but your tone is

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<v Speaker 4>saying something else. Yeah, it's like it wasn't very good.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't I don't think I know how to say this,

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<v Speaker 6>but I just don't think I'm the right person for her.

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<v Speaker 1>You know, we don't know because she I mean, you

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<v Speaker 1>don't get to decide that, right, That's what she gets

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<v Speaker 1>to decide, gets to.

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<v Speaker 4>Choose who You don't get a choice.

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<v Speaker 1>That's her choice, right, And she obviously thinks that there's

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<v Speaker 1>definitely something in between you two if she's calling.

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<v Speaker 6>Us, Yeah, definitely her choice.

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<v Speaker 4>Okay, song is going on, like, can we get your

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<v Speaker 4>take on the date? Did you feel a connection with her?

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know, man, Like we're we're wanting different things.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't know if you know what she's she's like

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<v Speaker 6>into what's called stacking.

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<v Speaker 1>Stacking, like the cups thing where you do it in competition.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, the Anna Kendrick song. Yeah, no, okay, so we

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<v Speaker 4>don't know what that is. Yeah, what is stacking?

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<v Speaker 6>She said she used to stack, which means like have

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<v Speaker 6>three to four days tonight.

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<v Speaker 2>That sounds exhaust yea.

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<v Speaker 4>Is it back to back to back to back or

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<v Speaker 4>all at the same time.

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<v Speaker 6>I don't think it was like at the same We

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<v Speaker 6>didn't really get into it, but like I don't know

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<v Speaker 6>to me, and I just think it's kind of rude

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<v Speaker 6>to say, like I'm miss stacking.

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<v Speaker 4>Oh she says she misses it.

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<v Speaker 6>Yeah, she literally said she misses it.

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<v Speaker 1>So I mean I could see, like I would interpret

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<v Speaker 1>that as, oh, you you wish that you.

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<v Speaker 2>Were out with someone else right after me. That was

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<v Speaker 2>good to hear. I could understand that, and that's.

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<v Speaker 6>Why I took her to her car when we finished

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<v Speaker 6>her burgers.

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<v Speaker 2>Is there any way kind of like misunderstood her.

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<v Speaker 6>No, I don't think I did. She was like looking

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<v Speaker 6>back at it fondly, and it was very real to her,

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<v Speaker 6>and she was she very you could tell.

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<v Speaker 2>Okay, I can understand that she's doing anything wrong, but

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<v Speaker 2>it doesn't seem like she likes you a lot.

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<v Speaker 4>We kind of all see where you're coming from. I

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<v Speaker 4>wonder if Jennifer sees it the same way, because she

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<v Speaker 4>is on the other line listening to this right now.

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<v Speaker 1>I'm to be mad, that's just right after us good

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<v Speaker 1>at timing.

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<v Speaker 5>Hey, Joshua, I don't think you would be so offended.

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<v Speaker 6>By what I said. So you like you said this

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<v Speaker 6>whole thing up, like you're on the phone here and

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<v Speaker 6>you called him.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, because I was so confused. I was like, I

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<v Speaker 5>thought we had such a good time. But I guess

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<v Speaker 5>it's because I said I missed stacking, which I was

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<v Speaker 5>just I mean, that was just a fun time in

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<v Speaker 5>my life. Like, it's not something I do anymore. I

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<v Speaker 5>want the same thing you want, which is a relationship.

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<v Speaker 5>It was fun, it was a fun time.

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<v Speaker 1>It just feels like maybe that's a conversation you have

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<v Speaker 1>with your like best friends.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, yeah, that sounds like someone who's never stacked before.

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<v Speaker 4>Thing, Because how.

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<v Speaker 1>Could you ever like be invested enough to find out

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<v Speaker 1>if you were interested in someone, if you were just

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<v Speaker 1>constantly thinking of the next person you were gonna see.

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<v Speaker 5>I hear you guys talk about this all the time

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<v Speaker 5>and book you said it's okay to date multiple people

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<v Speaker 5>to find out who you like.

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<v Speaker 2>It that's true.

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<v Speaker 4>That's contradictory to what your advice always is. You said,

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<v Speaker 4>get it in as many times as possible before it's

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<v Speaker 4>gone forever what I said.

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<v Speaker 2>But I think dating lots of people is great.

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<v Speaker 1>It's just like if you're gonna ask someone to give

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<v Speaker 1>you their evening, you also have to invest not just

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<v Speaker 1>being there, but like your presence, Like how can you

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<v Speaker 1>be present?

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<v Speaker 4>Well said, you should have brought her presence, Dude.

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<v Speaker 5>I gave every guy I was with an hour and

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<v Speaker 5>a half. I was fully present in the moment, and

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<v Speaker 5>I was not thinking about the next guy. I gave

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<v Speaker 5>him that time fully.

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<v Speaker 2>I almost missed my next I mean it worked for her.

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<v Speaker 2>She had a boyfriend after that for years.

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<v Speaker 4>Yeah, okay, I mean that's how you see a Jennifer.

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<v Speaker 4>But clearly Joshua sees it a different way, right, Joshua,

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<v Speaker 4>I don't want to mess that up.

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<v Speaker 6>I see it like that's your default setting. I think

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<v Speaker 6>the anomaly is you having a long term relationship, and

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<v Speaker 6>that's what I'm looking for.

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<v Speaker 5>We're looking for the same things. That's what I want.

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<v Speaker 5>That's just something that's in the past. And by no

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<v Speaker 5>means did I stack that night when you took me

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<v Speaker 5>to my car. I was not seeing another person after

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<v Speaker 5>the book.

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<v Speaker 2>God, because she did not makes me think she did.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, exactly, not that night, but the next five nights.

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<v Speaker 2>That's different.

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<v Speaker 5>You're supposed to be on my side.

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<v Speaker 2>You said dumb things on the date. I don't know.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, the thing is.

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<v Speaker 1>The thing is, Joshua, she's on the phone with us.

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<v Speaker 1>She's put in a lot of effort.

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<v Speaker 2>To see you again. So I mean, maybe that's proof

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<v Speaker 2>enough that she's over her old ways.

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<v Speaker 4>And that's why I would like to ask you, Joshua,

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<v Speaker 4>if you'd be willing to meet up with Jen for

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<v Speaker 4>one more time, and we would pay for it, and

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<v Speaker 4>the next date, and the next date and all the

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<v Speaker 4>stack dates after that we forgot just you though, No,

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<v Speaker 4>I got the ick.

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<v Speaker 6>I'm sorry, Ma sad?

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<v Speaker 5>Oh no, okay, josh do you realize no one says

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<v Speaker 5>no to.

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<v Speaker 1>Me's Oh god, that's not true anymore.

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<v Speaker 5>Yeah, it's fine, it's his choice whatever. I'll just keep stacking.

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<v Speaker 5>Wait back this weekend.

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<v Speaker 4>He said you didn't want to do that anymore?

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<v Speaker 5>All right, Well it makes me happy. It's fun. I'm

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<v Speaker 5>feeling sad. Now he's gonna get me out of up funk.

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<v Speaker 4>Back to back to back to feed.

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<v Speaker 6>Ye.

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<v Speaker 4>Yes, that's where true happiness comes from. Rook Jeffrey in

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<v Speaker 4>the morning. All right, So no second date there. Jennifer

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<v Speaker 4>has hung up. She's not on the line with us anymore.

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<v Speaker 4>But Jennifer, if you're listening out there, I just want

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<v Speaker 4>to say, I know you're probably disappointed with one person

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<v Speaker 4>on this show who didn't support you, but the rest

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<v Speaker 4>of us here have your back.

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<v Speaker 2>You're looking at me, jeff.

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<v Speaker 6>Fault.

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<v Speaker 1>She's like, I just really miss dating lots of men

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<v Speaker 1>at the same night.

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<v Speaker 2>I mean, no one would feel special that to that.

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<v Speaker 4>But you understand where she's coming from, right, Brooks.

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<v Speaker 2>I have never had multiple dates in one night. Wow,

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<v Speaker 2>I could not pull that off.

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<v Speaker 4>Remember a liar, she was, brook Unstackable is the definition

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<v Speaker 4>at a time fo goodness is We've got dozens of

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<v Speaker 4>guys on the textboard who are DT yes and down

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<v Speaker 4>to stack whenever. So Jennifer, you stay positive. Yeah, yeah,

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<v Speaker 4>we don't know. That means that's weird. It don't happen

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<v Speaker 4>for you, Jen And if you're into stacking videos, you

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<v Speaker 4>can always watch a bunch of ours on YouTube. Got

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<v Speaker 4>all of our second date updates on there. You can like,

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<v Speaker 4>share and subscribe all that. And Atbrook and Jeffrey