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Speaker 1: You found it the home of the Second Aid Update.

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Speaker 1: It's Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning, and we've got

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Speaker 1: a brand new.

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Speaker 2: One for you today.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm just gonna give you a little tease because

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Speaker 1: there is one thing a guy can put in his

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Speaker 1: dating profile pick that can instantly up his chances.

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Speaker 2: Of getting a match by ninety percent, which is insane.

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Speaker 2: Let us know if you agree or not.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure, And one of our listeners says it

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Speaker 1: definitely worked on her. So we're going to find out

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Speaker 1: what it is coming up here in a second right.

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Speaker 1: But and don't forget, we've got the second Date Update

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Speaker 3: It's great and super cute links in the show notes

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Speaker 3: for that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, do we got some fun comments? Yeah? I saw JC.

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Speaker 3: Commented and said, you guys go hand in hand with

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Speaker 3: my morning coffee and trying not to spit my coffee

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Speaker 2: So I want to know, Yeah, I want to know

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Speaker 2: you order JC. Let us know I need new coffee ideas. Okay. Interesting.

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Speaker 3: Professional helper said it was a little surreal to hear

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Speaker 3: you guys mention the videos where they use your posts

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Speaker 3: and put the leg games as Backgroundshy.

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Speaker 2: People still are old stuff all the time. I will

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Speaker 2: set a cussword there, but I didn't, I made it. Yeah,

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Speaker 2: then thanks for being here. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: Whatever works, whatever works all right, and what works right

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Speaker 1: now is getting the show started.

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Speaker 2: Let's go.

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Speaker 4: Second date update. Is it ever a good idea to

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Speaker 4: talk about your other dates while you're on a date? No?

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Speaker 2: I mean, I don't know.

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Speaker 1: If you like commiserating and sharing ten stories back and forth.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I would say the short answer is no. The

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Speaker 4: longer answer absolutely not. You plan to be on with

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Speaker 4: us because we love to hear the dirt And I'm

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Speaker 4: with us today because apparently she talked about her other

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Speaker 4: dates on her date. Jennifer, I disagree. I admire your class,

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Speaker 4: welcome to the show.

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Speaker 5: Thank you.

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Speaker 1: But it's not like she's talking about like her ex

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Speaker 4: We don't know.

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Speaker 2: That's why I'm asking, right, Jennifer.

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Speaker 5: Right, we were just sharing like funny stories, right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, that's okay, Okay, Well who are you sharing these

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Speaker 5: His name was Joshua?

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Speaker 5: I met him on the coffee and bagel app.

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Speaker 2: Oh is that still around a while? A while?

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Speaker 5: He just looked cute. He had like a dog with

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Speaker 4: And okay, you know, actually I've heard that guys who

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Speaker 2: Way, that makes sense.

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Speaker 4: Borrow your dog, bro.

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Speaker 1: The whole point is that you can actually keep something

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Speaker 2: The attractive point of it.

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Speaker 4: Men, women are not gonna be able to tell if

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Speaker 4: as long as it's in the photo. Just photoshop one in.

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Speaker 2: You're gonna know after date one.

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Speaker 4: Or put a little neck brace on it. Like it

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Speaker 4: is we're trying to do, is accomplish sick dog?

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Speaker 5: Photo Jennifer, it definitely looks like a healthy cute.

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Speaker 4: This is what you're talking about right here. I see

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Speaker 5: So I wanted to make the reservation. I said I

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Speaker 5: I just in particular, like I love food. I love.

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Speaker 4: That, and you're like, I have my favorites.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, so I called and made a reservation. But when

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Speaker 5: So I guess I should have made it online.

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Speaker 5: I wasn't upset. Like they apologized, but they were just

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Speaker 2: Oh no, that it sounds.

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Speaker 4: Like it's a popular restaurant.

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Speaker 2: I know there's only two of you.

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Speaker 1: It's like, can you squeeze us in somewhere? We'll sit

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Speaker 2: They'll big deal, literally make a table.

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Speaker 4: Yes, we eat in the alley back behind the restaurant.

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Speaker 2: If I get the good food. Jeff, absolutely, totally.

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Speaker 5: It totally turned out to be a good thing because

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Speaker 4: Wait, you lumped this experience as to one of the

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Speaker 5: No, this was just like a little bump in the

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Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, Venmo requested you. Wow, Yeah, I was.

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Speaker 1: Okay, okay, So you shared stories like that with him?

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Speaker 2: Did he share stories back with you? Joshua did so.

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Speaker 5: He said he had like a date who brought her

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Speaker 4: Honey, I actually think that's some nice feedback. On the

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Speaker 4: this is a way to be like, you're actually way

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Speaker 4: It's supposed to make him feel good.

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Speaker 5: Yes, Like we were having a great time, just like

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Speaker 1: And anytime you have like a shared experience, whether it's

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Speaker 1: closer to somebody, but this wasn't Yeah no, I know,

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Speaker 4: Okay, gotcha? So how long did this go on?

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Speaker 5: Like a couple hours and neither of us had like

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Speaker 4: Or it was just like you expected the day to

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Speaker 1: Did you want him to invite you back to his place?

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Speaker 5: I don't know about that. It's just like the vibe

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Speaker 3: Else, Okay, as a bar or something.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe it's just plain it cool, you know, like

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Speaker 2: A high note. Yeah, it obviously leaves you want anymore.

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Speaker 2: So he did something right.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's playing it so cool that he's not even

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Speaker 2: So I guess that is planet cool is really we're crazy.

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Speaker 4: We're beyond the cool apart. We just want to help

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Speaker 4: you figure out what happened. Okay, Jennifer, maybe the burger

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Speaker 4: was bad that he ate It wasn't all it was

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Speaker 4: date update. Our listener, Jennifer is the perfect example of

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Speaker 4: when life gives you lemons, turn them into lemon drops.

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Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I don't think they. I mean or burgers.

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Speaker 4: Well yeah, yeah, yeah, whatever it is. Because her dinner

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Speaker 4: And her date, Joshua, shared his worst dates too, so

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Speaker 4: it really actually bonded them together. But Jennifer, how long

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Speaker 1: Yeah, it's been like a week okay, and you haven't

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Speaker 5: No, And I've sent like some text messages and nothing

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Speaker 2: Okay, so you're definitely being ignored.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, have you tried sending him a photo? Because if

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Speaker 4: What jock of anything?

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Speaker 2: You don't do that, don't know that, don't listen to

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Speaker 4: You could send him a photo of me. No, if

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Speaker 2: I think he's mad that she.

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Speaker 4: Was talking about other dates.

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Speaker 2: Now you want her sending pictures of other guys to him, Jeff.

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Speaker 4: I'm just saying, if she does and he doesn't respond,

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Speaker 2: Think she knows before the picture Jeff. Okay, she's not an.

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Speaker 4: Idiot, Brooks saying, we're not at rock bottom yet. Let's

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Speaker 4: wait till this call happens and see where we end up.

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Speaker 2: Today.

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Speaker 4: Jennifer, any last words before I dial these numbers or.

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Speaker 1: Any last pictures of Jeff that you want to send

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Speaker 1: either way, I just can't believe I have to do this.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, I have to do this. We call us the

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Speaker 4: last resort for people. That being said, with Jeff being

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Speaker 4: This may not be a good call.

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Speaker 5: Well, we'll see, we'll find out.

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Speaker 6: We're here.

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Speaker 4: Let's just go through with it. How bad could it get?

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Speaker 4: All right, let's do it. You tell us, I'll tell

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Speaker 4: you about some of the worst second date updates we've

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Speaker 4: Hold on, just okay, here we go.

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Speaker 6: Hello.

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Speaker 4: Hey, is this Joshua?

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Speaker 6: Yeah?

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Speaker 4: Hey man, this is a whole radio show is calling

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Speaker 4: you right now. We're called Brook and Jeffrey in the Morning.

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Speaker 2: Good morning, Hot there, josh how are you doing.

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Speaker 6: It's Joshua.

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Speaker 2: Sorry. Sorry, I'm married to Michael who hates Mike.

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Speaker 4: I get it.

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Speaker 2: I apologize.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry that my host is trying to make this

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Speaker 2: But I understand.

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Speaker 4: Okay, we get it. The real thing that we're interested in, though, Joshua,

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Speaker 4: other night with one of our listeners named Jennifer. Okay, yeah,

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Speaker 4: do you remember her? You know what I'm talking about?

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Speaker 6: Yeah? I remember her. Yeah.

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Speaker 2: It sounds like you guys had a really fun night together.

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Speaker 6: Why do you know that?

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Speaker 2: Great question?

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Speaker 4: second Date Update. And we spoke to her about your

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Speaker 6: Really, but yeah she said that, yeah.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, she said that she had a great time with you.

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Speaker 1: It sounds like you guys laughed together a lot.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, is that not accurate?

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Speaker 6: No, it's accurate. She's like a really nice person, she's

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Speaker 4: Your words are saying nice things, but your tone is

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Speaker 6: I don't I don't think I know how to say this,

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Speaker 1: You know, we don't know because she I mean, you

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Speaker 1: don't get to decide that, right, That's what she gets

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Speaker 4: Choose who You don't get a choice.

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Speaker 1: That's her choice, right, And she obviously thinks that there's

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Speaker 1: definitely something in between you two if she's calling.

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Speaker 6: Us, Yeah, definitely her choice.

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Speaker 4: Okay, song is going on, like, can we get your

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Speaker 4: take on the date? Did you feel a connection with her?

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Speaker 6: I don't know, man, Like we're we're wanting different things.

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Speaker 6: I don't know if you know what she's she's like

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Speaker 1: Stacking, like the cups thing where you do it in competition.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, the Anna Kendrick song. Yeah, no, okay, so we

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Speaker 4: don't know what that is. Yeah, what is stacking?

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Speaker 6: She said she used to stack, which means like have

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Speaker 2: That sounds exhaust yea.

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Speaker 4: Is it back to back to back to back or

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Speaker 6: I don't think it was like at the same We

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Speaker 6: to me, and I just think it's kind of rude

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Speaker 4: Oh she says she misses it.

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Speaker 1: So I mean I could see, like I would interpret

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Speaker 2: Were out with someone else right after me. That was

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Speaker 6: Why I took her to her car when we finished

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Speaker 2: Is there any way kind of like misunderstood her.

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Speaker 6: No, I don't think I did. She was like looking

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Speaker 2: Okay, I can understand that she's doing anything wrong, but

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Speaker 2: it doesn't seem like she likes you a lot.

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Speaker 4: We kind of all see where you're coming from. I

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Speaker 4: wonder if Jennifer sees it the same way, because she

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Speaker 1: I'm to be mad, that's just right after us good

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Speaker 5: Hey, Joshua, I don't think you would be so offended.

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Speaker 6: By what I said. So you like you said this

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I was so confused. I was like, I

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Speaker 5: it's because I said I missed stacking, which I was

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Speaker 5: just I mean, that was just a fun time in

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Speaker 5: want the same thing you want, which is a relationship.

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Speaker 5: It was fun, it was a fun time.

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Speaker 1: It just feels like maybe that's a conversation you have

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, that sounds like someone who's never stacked before.

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Speaker 4: Thing, Because how.

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Speaker 1: Could you ever like be invested enough to find out

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Speaker 5: I hear you guys talk about this all the time

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Speaker 5: and book you said it's okay to date multiple people

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Speaker 5: to find out who you like.

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Speaker 2: It that's true.

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Speaker 4: That's contradictory to what your advice always is. You said,

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Speaker 4: get it in as many times as possible before it's

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Speaker 2: But I think dating lots of people is great.

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Speaker 1: It's just like if you're gonna ask someone to give

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Speaker 4: Well said, you should have brought her presence, Dude.

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Speaker 5: I gave every guy I was with an hour and

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Speaker 5: I was not thinking about the next guy. I gave

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Speaker 2: I almost missed my next I mean it worked for her.

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Speaker 2: She had a boyfriend after that for years.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, okay, I mean that's how you see a Jennifer.

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Speaker 4: But clearly Joshua sees it a different way, right, Joshua,

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Speaker 6: I see it like that's your default setting. I think

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Speaker 5: We're looking for the same things. That's what I want.

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Speaker 5: That's just something that's in the past. And by no

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Speaker 2: God, because she did not makes me think she did.

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Speaker 4: Yes, exactly, not that night, but the next five nights.

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Speaker 2: That's different.

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Speaker 5: You're supposed to be on my side.

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Speaker 2: You said dumb things on the date. I don't know.

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Speaker 2: I mean, the thing is.

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Speaker 1: The thing is, Joshua, she's on the phone with us.

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Speaker 1: She's put in a lot of effort.

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Speaker 2: To see you again. So I mean, maybe that's proof

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Speaker 4: And that's why I would like to ask you, Joshua,

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Speaker 4: if you'd be willing to meet up with Jen for

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Speaker 4: one more time, and we would pay for it, and

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Speaker 4: the next date, and the next date and all the

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Speaker 4: stack dates after that we forgot just you though, No,

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Speaker 4: I got the ick.

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Speaker 6: I'm sorry, Ma sad?

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Speaker 5: Oh no, okay, josh do you realize no one says

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Speaker 1: Me's Oh god, that's not true anymore.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's fine, it's his choice whatever. I'll just keep stacking.

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Speaker 5: Wait back this weekend.

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Speaker 4: He said you didn't want to do that anymore?

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Speaker 5: All right, Well it makes me happy. It's fun. I'm

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Speaker 4: Back to back to back to feed.

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Speaker 6: Ye.

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Speaker 4: Yes, that's where true happiness comes from. Rook Jeffrey in

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Speaker 4: the morning. All right, So no second date there. Jennifer

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Speaker 4: But Jennifer, if you're listening out there, I just want

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Speaker 4: on this show who didn't support you, but the rest

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Speaker 4: of us here have your back.

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Speaker 2: You're looking at me, jeff.

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Speaker 6: Fault.

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Speaker 1: She's like, I just really miss dating lots of men

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Speaker 1: at the same night.

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Speaker 2: I mean, no one would feel special that to that.

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Speaker 4: But you understand where she's coming from, right, Brooks.

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Speaker 2: I have never had multiple dates in one night. Wow,

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Speaker 2: I could not pull that off.

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Speaker 4: Remember a liar, she was, brook Unstackable is the definition

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Speaker 4: at a time fo goodness is We've got dozens of

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Speaker 4: guys on the textboard who are DT yes and down

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Speaker 4: to stack whenever. So Jennifer, you stay positive. Yeah, yeah,

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Speaker 4: we don't know. That means that's weird. It don't happen

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Speaker 4: for you, Jen And if you're into stacking videos, you

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Speaker 4: can always watch a bunch of ours on YouTube. Got

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Speaker 4: all of our second date updates on there. You can like,

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Speaker 4: share and subscribe all that. And Atbrook and Jeffrey