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Speaker 1: Today's Daily Highlight from Elvis Duran in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 2: This Dan in the Morning Show.

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Speaker 3: We have such a great time last night all together,

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Speaker 3: well most of us. Scotty Bee couldn't make it, Froggy

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Speaker 3: wasn't there, Deanna wasn't there all the rest of the show.

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Speaker 3: I mean, there were twenty of us at the Chef's

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Speaker 3: for Kids Cancer dinner where every table has its own chef.

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Speaker 3: We had our friend Peter Boutros from Staten Island the best,

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Speaker 3: and there are a lot of great chefs there. I mean,

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Speaker 3: it was just, of course, you know this organization, it's

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Speaker 3: originally you know, Cookies for Kids Cancer, and now in

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Speaker 3: the chef world, the chefs want to do these dinners,

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Speaker 3: and it was this incredible yeah. But I get such

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Speaker 3: a kick in the head looking down the table. We

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Speaker 3: had twenty of us at our big table, and everyone

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Speaker 3: I work with in love is just talking with each

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Speaker 3: other and having fun and laughing. And you're meeting my

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Speaker 3: friends from the you know, the chef world and whatever,

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Speaker 3: and now you're friends with them. I love that.

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Speaker 4: It's awesome. It is nice. It's nice when we have

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Speaker 4: a work event and we're all going to be together

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Speaker 4: and I'm not like, oh man, I have to hang

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Speaker 4: out with my coworkers. I love it.

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Speaker 3: Now. We had a lot of fun, raise a lot

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Speaker 3: of money kids cancer research. Seriously, but you know it's

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Speaker 3: kind of funny. Where and scary brought us up years ago.

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Speaker 3: Don't you get a little, a little upset when you

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Speaker 3: see one of your friends poach another one of your

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Speaker 3: friends and they become friends. Now's poaching. We're all friends.

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Speaker 3: Who cares?

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Speaker 1: If I'm friends with you and I introduce you to Gandhi?

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Speaker 1: You can never be closer to Gandhi than I am

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Speaker 1: with God.

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Speaker 3: Well, yes I can.

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Speaker 2: Sounds like good.

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Speaker 3: This is the world, This is the world works. You

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Speaker 3: can never have more joy than I can have never and.

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Speaker 1: You certainly cannot hang out with Gandhi behind my back.

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Speaker 1: You always have to invite me if I introduce you

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Speaker 1: to Gandhi.

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Speaker 3: No, No, If I introduce Gandhi to anyone and from

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Speaker 3: another a friend of thee and they become friends and

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Speaker 3: they start going out with each other having dinners, and

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Speaker 3: I'm not invited. Okay, you don't get no, I don't.

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Speaker 5: I think maybe in the beginning, like the first time

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Speaker 5: or maybe the second time you hang out. Maybe you

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Speaker 5: should just like invite the person just to be nice

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Speaker 5: and see if they want to hang out, but not

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Speaker 5: forever scared. You can't like go all of them. No, wait,

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Speaker 5: even years ago they invited us. I see what you're saying, Frog,

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Speaker 5: but you can't always do it.

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Speaker 3: Sometimes. Whatever I'd love for you guys to get to

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Speaker 3: know each other behind my.

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Speaker 4: Back, friends of friends is usually the best way to go.

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Speaker 4: Because your friend that you like and you trust and

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Speaker 4: you know you get along with, has already vetted that person,

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Speaker 4: so you know, like, Okay, they got something something good

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Speaker 4: going on over there.

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Speaker 3: Let it go. Here we go.

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Speaker 2: I can understand why he'd be a little incent.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't see. This is the thing. If you

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Speaker 3: don't have any crap talking going on, then you have

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Speaker 3: nothing to worry about. Go ahead, Daniel, what are you saying?

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Speaker 6: I just I mean, because I've seen it happen before,

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Speaker 6: and I've seen people get hurt by it where they

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Speaker 6: were really close to someone and then this other person's

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Speaker 6: introduced and then that person kind of gets out and

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Speaker 6: I can see feelings getting hurt.

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Speaker 2: Maybe you don't do it on purpose, but.

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Speaker 6: I can totally see feelings getting hurt. You know, especially

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Speaker 6: you know everyone's talking about scary, so you know there

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Speaker 6: is that crap talking.

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Speaker 3: I mean, so if I introduce a friend aid or

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Speaker 3: friend being and they go out and hang out, as

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Speaker 3: long as there's nothing some animosity going on or some

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Speaker 3: underlying conditions, yeah, then we're fine. I don't care. I

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Speaker 3: love it. I actually get joy out of it. I'm like,

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Speaker 3: look what I did. I brought these people to get

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Speaker 3: another having fun.

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Speaker 4: You do, and you also don't really care too much

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Speaker 4: about mixing your friend groups. You'll everyone come have a party.

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Speaker 3: Oh absolutely. And you know me, I'd rather stay home

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Speaker 3: if you guys want to go out there, it's one

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Speaker 3: lesson dinner I have to go to. I'll stay home

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Speaker 3: and pet the dog. And I'm being serious, you know

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Speaker 3: I'm being serious. Are the fear of going out? Fogo?

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Speaker 2: That's what I have too. I have the fear of

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Speaker 2: being invited?

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Speaker 3: What is that almost has? Homo? The happiness of the

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Speaker 3: happiness of missing out. I'm joining you there, are join

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Speaker 3: me in the world of homo. I'm as homo as

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Speaker 3: Homo gets.

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Speaker 2: They always go, aren't you upset? You're not going?

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Speaker 3: Like no, no, no, it's no no, Homo happiness of

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Speaker 3: missing out. Our friend Shelley Flash. You know, two girls

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Speaker 3: cookshop her Jamaican tacos that won at the be It

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Speaker 3: was in a Taco and Tequila Knight at the Wine

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Speaker 3: Food Festival. She's coming in really, Yes, she's bringing the

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Speaker 3: taco Oh my god, I love her. Also, Oh, we

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Speaker 3: have a guest today, yes, Oh, a Sherry Shepherd. Love

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Speaker 3: Sherry Sheppard. Her show yesterday was great. She was talking

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Speaker 3: about confidence and how she you know, she's known for

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Speaker 3: many things, not only hosting The Sherry Shepherd Show, but

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Speaker 3: she stands up comic as well, and she talked about

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Speaker 3: how she kind of gave it up for a while

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Speaker 3: and then when she had to go back on stage

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Speaker 3: to do stand up comedy, she lost she lost her

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Speaker 3: confidence and she had a really good segment about that.

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Speaker 3: Let's talk about that with her today. Oh we're talking

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Speaker 3: about friend poaching. Ronnie texted and good morning.

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Speaker 7: Good morning.

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Speaker 6: How are you.

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Speaker 3: We're doing well? So you wanted to say something about

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Speaker 3: friend poaching in your life? What happened?

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Speaker 7: Yes? So it was during my wedding. I only had

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Speaker 7: two bridesmaids. They're both my friends since high school, but

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Speaker 7: they weren't necessarily friends in high school, and so you know,

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Speaker 7: they got together to do bridesmaids things, no worries, everything

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Speaker 7: was fine. But then after my wedding, they just didn't

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Speaker 7: really text me back really a lot, and so I

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Speaker 7: just kept reaching out, kept reaching out, and they just

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Speaker 7: ghosted me. And now I see on social media that

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Speaker 7: they are best friends and they hang out and do

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Speaker 7: everything together, and yeah, I never got any idea why.

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Speaker 3: So was there an underlying issue with one or both

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Speaker 3: of them, or I.

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Speaker 7: Mean one of them was also planning her own wedding

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Speaker 7: at the same time, and so sometimes that would be

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Speaker 7: conflicting and I would get, you know, a little upset,

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Speaker 7: But there was really nothing more than that.

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Speaker 4: Wow, have you ever reached out to them to say, hey, guys,

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Speaker 4: what's going on? Remember me bride?

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Speaker 2: I did.

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Speaker 7: I reached out a lot to them, just wondering why,

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Speaker 7: and they literally won't say anything.

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Speaker 2: That's their number, We'll.

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Speaker 3: Text them, yeah, we'll call them. Yeah, that's weird.

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Speaker 7: One of the reasons may have been because the one

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Speaker 7: that was getting married said that if I was trying

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Speaker 7: to start a family, she didn't want me in her wedding.

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Speaker 6: Because you would have been pregnant when maybe the pictures. Yeah,

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Speaker 6: you know what, good riddance.

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Speaker 3: Yes, sometimes things happen for a reason.

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Speaker 2: Let the other lady have them have her care.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. See, it's kind of weird how people see different

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Speaker 3: sides to a story. Someone would say, well, I don't

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Speaker 3: know I want I don't want her in my wedding

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Speaker 3: because she's starting a family. Another friend would say, I'm

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Speaker 3: so excited she's starting a family. I mean, I don't exactly. Yeah,

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Speaker 3: And it's such a simple decision to make to be

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Speaker 3: happy for someone.

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Speaker 2: Gosh, so stupid. I don't like her. You don't, You're

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Speaker 2: better off.

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Speaker 3: I don't like her at all. Oh yeah, I Sometimes

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Speaker 3: these things in life they happen for a reason, you know.

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Speaker 3: Good for you. All right, go find some friends. You

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Speaker 3: don't need her, all right. Hey, it's good talking to you.

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Speaker 3: Thanks for listening to us. Have a great day.

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Speaker 2: Okay, thank you, bye bye.

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Speaker 3: It's not only National Taco Day, it's also National cinnamon

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Speaker 3: roll Day and National Vodka Day. Can we combine the three?

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Speaker 3: Is there a way?

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Speaker 2: Why not?

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Speaker 3: Vodka and cinnamon rolls and tacos? I don't know. We'll

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Speaker 3: give it a try. What time Sherry Shepherd and a Half.

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Speaker 3: I can't wait, it's the weekend. Hey, this is Miley Cyrus.

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Speaker 3: What office the Black Eyed Peace?

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Speaker 5: Hey, this is.

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