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Speaker 1: Welcome back.

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Speaker 2: We're back appy, Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour. Thanks you

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Speaker 2: guys for tuning back in. We're so excited to be back.

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Speaker 1: We are so excited. Here's my question. If they are

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Speaker 1: tuning in, if people are listening to this podcast, surely

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Speaker 1: they know where to find us. So when I tell

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Speaker 1: people how to find us, I feel like, well, they

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Speaker 1: already did. But those of you who.

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Speaker 3: May not be, I'm going to give them stickam notes,

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Speaker 3: really stick them.

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Speaker 1: Here's where we are. We are under Bachelor Happy Hour

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Speaker 1: in the podcast app, and then just search for our

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Speaker 1: show Golden Hour, hit the follow button and you won't

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Speaker 1: miss one of these gems that Susan and I come.

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Speaker 2: Back exacuately that said, if you get lost, you're gonna

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Speaker 2: miss it. I mean seriously, you'll get notified every time

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Speaker 2: once you hit that follow button. But enough of that,

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Speaker 2: let's get into today. Can we please welcome wells atoms.

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Speaker 3: We're so happy to have you here.

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Speaker 4: Well, oh, ladies, so are we. Aside from the.

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Speaker 5: We're healing, the face lifts and the boob lifts and.

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Speaker 1: Where they're supposed to be. My skin has come back

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Speaker 1: to the normal size. Our ears are still hurting. A

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Speaker 1: little bit, but it's a good day in New York. Wells.

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Speaker 2: We've posted every day of our healing, except the girls

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Speaker 2: didn't get that recognition.

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Speaker 3: I don't want to flash the world.

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Speaker 5: Well, yeah, you put that on only fans. Come on, Susan,

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Speaker 5: we're smart about this. At least at least monetize this

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Speaker 5: somehow absolutely, su said, listen to me.

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Speaker 3: No, okay, it's to see you.

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Speaker 1: We want to get started here. We want to talk

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Speaker 1: about a lot of things. But the first thing I

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Speaker 1: want to ask, because it's all about me today, I

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Speaker 1: want to know, if there's a golden Bachelor in Paradise,

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Speaker 1: what do you think about hiring me as your assistant

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Speaker 1: bar keep, bar tender? Oh wow, girl with a frilly apron,

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Speaker 1: talk to us, well, talk to us.

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Speaker 5: Everything one, every one in Bachelor Nation is trying to

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Speaker 5: steal my job. It's a tale as old as time.

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Speaker 1: I get it. You know what.

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Speaker 5: Listen, First of all, we got to figure out a

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Speaker 5: way to have a golden bacheler at in Paradise.

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Speaker 4: Because I can.

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Speaker 1: Tell you how to figure it out. Air conditioning, no bugs.

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Speaker 1: That's a good start. And then and then I think,

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Speaker 1: here's my suggestion, and really We've talked about raids. We

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Speaker 1: need to bring. You need to bring some of the

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Speaker 1: Golden Bachelor guys, their brothers, their friends, like you need

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Speaker 1: to bring some new faces in there that we need,

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Speaker 1: some fresh just some surprise people, some randoms.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, but that's hard. The audience doesn't know those people,

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Speaker 5: so it takes a long time for them to That's

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Speaker 5: a lot of character development. So I don't know my dream.

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Speaker 5: I want us to do Paradise with both the young

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Speaker 5: dumb idiots and the old dumb idiots.

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Speaker 3: What I'm not hooking up with the thirty year old

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Speaker 3: or a twenty nine year old?

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Speaker 4: Why not?

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Speaker 1: Why not?

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Speaker 5: Think you just got all this work done, Susan, you

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Speaker 5: look like a dow a twenty eight year old. You

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Speaker 5: can definitely hook up with a young dumb personal trainer

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Speaker 5: named Brad on the beach.

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Speaker 1: I know. Hold on, this is why I want to

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Speaker 1: be at the bar bartending.

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Speaker 3: Kathyn't have a chance to date? Then you'll be yes, Yeah,

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Speaker 3: I will, of course I will.

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Speaker 1: Where do you meet guys in a bar? I'm spelled?

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Speaker 3: Can you date when you're doing the bartend?

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Speaker 1: He's married? I just married?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, No, I've never I've never come. They wanted me

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Speaker 5: to leave the bar for a lady, but it never happened. Yeah, listen, Kathy,

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Speaker 5: I will. You're welcome to be the bartender. I just

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Speaker 5: don't think you understand. No one understands what the job

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Speaker 5: is because they think it's TV and like there's some

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Speaker 5: dumb asshole in the back, like actually making the drinks

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Speaker 5: and serving everybody, and the set is so small that

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Speaker 5: that doesn't exist. Like I am literally making all the drinks. Okay, listen,

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Speaker 5: hold on, I'm not done. I'm not done. I'm just

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Speaker 5: gonna I have to wash all the cups.

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Speaker 4: I have to go.

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Speaker 5: I'm the only one who can walk on set and

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Speaker 5: I have to get all the champagne flutes ready for

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Speaker 5: the stupid toast after the rose ceremony. I have to

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Speaker 4: You have no idea that the butt it is.

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Speaker 5: And everyone that comes to Paradise, they'll sit down at

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Speaker 5: the bar and they go, oh my god, you do

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Speaker 5: all this stuff, and it's like yeah, it's.

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Speaker 1: You know what, it sounds like being overworked. Wait, it

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Speaker 1: sounds like, wells is being overworked and you need an

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Speaker 1: assistant and I'm talking.

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Speaker 5: So we we did the bar back thing once. We

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Speaker 5: had this girl named Yuki from uh she was from

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Speaker 5: Bachelor or Japan and then she also was on Winter

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Speaker 5: Games and she was amazing, but she didn't speak a

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Speaker 5: lick English. So it was me trying to explain, I

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Speaker 5: need simple syrup and I need you know bitters, and

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Speaker 5: she was just like, I have no idea.

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Speaker 4: So she was amazing.

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Speaker 3: How was she amazing if she didn't understand you?

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Speaker 1: Uh, I don't get more. Yeah, I mean I'm thinking

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Speaker 1: this is an executive producer nightmare that like they didn't

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Speaker 1: think that went through.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, that wasn't the best. I mean it was funny.

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Speaker 5: It was funny because it.

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Speaker 4: Was me having I was able to explain to her

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Speaker 4: what was happening, because a lot of my role on

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Speaker 4: that show is really narrating, right, Like it's like me

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Speaker 4: trying to explain what's going on to everybody.

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Speaker 3: That's why everybody loves you.

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Speaker 5: So I had to pivot over to explaining to Yuki

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Speaker 5: what was going on. Who didn't understand English. So yeah,

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Speaker 5: if you want to be my bar back, if you

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Speaker 5: want to do the job, go do it.

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Speaker 4: I don't care. It's a bits of pain in the butke.

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Speaker 1: I just figure I'm there, I can. I got access

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Speaker 1: to all the guys.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, but the three of us should run the show.

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Speaker 2: Yeah yeah, yeah that would that not be amazing.

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Speaker 5: But here's the thing, like I I think that like

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Speaker 5: for me, it's easy to be the bartender because no

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Speaker 5: one wants me to find love because I've already found it.

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Speaker 4: I'm married, you know.

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Speaker 1: And do you ever break Sarah with you to the

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Speaker 1: two Paradise? Yeah?

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Speaker 4: She was, she came, well, she came the last season

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Speaker 4: we did the show. She was there. But I just can't.

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Speaker 4: No one, but no one wants.

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Speaker 5: No one wants me to leave the bar because they

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Speaker 5: all are happy that I'm in love. But you can't

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Speaker 5: come to the bar, ladies and be the bartender, because

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Speaker 5: they would want you to leave. They would want you

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Speaker 5: to find love, Right, That's what I'm saying.

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Speaker 1: Why can't you? Is there a broken record? You're can't

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Speaker 1: you find love at the bar?

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Speaker 4: Yeah?

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Speaker 1: Because because really, really, well, when I'm saying I'm going

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Speaker 1: to be your assistant. Really, I'm just going to stand

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Speaker 1: there and look pretty and let you do all the work.

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Speaker 1: Let's be clear.

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Speaker 5: Okay, but let's okay, let's let's break this down. So

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Speaker 5: let's say a hot, young gentleman named Edgar comes to

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Speaker 5: the bar and he his name is Edgar.

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Speaker 6: It's you know, okay, go ahead, what okay?

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Speaker 4: What name do you like? We like Bradley Bradley? Okay,

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Speaker 4: So Bradley Cooper comes to the bar and.

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Speaker 5: Kathy and I'm stronger, and he's chatting you up, Kathy,

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Speaker 5: and he's like, hey, you know, can I pull you

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Speaker 5: over to a day bed over here? Maybe we can

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Speaker 5: have some champagne or something. And you are so smitten

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Speaker 5: with Bradley Cooper and his hair in his eyes, and

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Speaker 5: you so desperately want to go.

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Speaker 4: But I say, Kathy, we have to stalk the bar.

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Speaker 1: And you know what I say to you, I quit.

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Speaker 1: That sounds like a personal problem. Get after.

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Speaker 2: It is going to be one element, okay, what I

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Speaker 2: can't understand you U young and old?

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Speaker 3: In one show. I just I'll be a counselor the

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Speaker 3: whole time.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, well you know what the listen what they're doing.

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Speaker 1: This is what will happening. Susan and I'll be sharing

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Speaker 1: a room and little Chrissy Pooh is going to come

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Speaker 1: in wailing that Edgar left her and was kissing another

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Speaker 1: woman and she was sure they have the best connection.

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Speaker 1: And Susan I going to look at each other and say,

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Speaker 1: give me, then sit out, let's have a chat.

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Speaker 2: That's what's going to Maybe that's what they want, maybe,

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Speaker 2: but that's what the show is.

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Speaker 3: But I want to find forgetting, I find fine love.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we want, we want because you're yeah, you're married,

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Speaker 1: you found, you have a beautiful wife, and you have

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Speaker 1: a great life. And I want to ask though, getting

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Speaker 1: off of Paradise because it is going to happen, and

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Speaker 1: I'm going to be with Bradley on the love seat

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Speaker 1: drinking champagne.

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Speaker 3: I want to leave it near Bradley, you hear me?

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Speaker 5: Yeah, okay, question. The show is already running itself. You

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Speaker 5: guys are going to be in a few together.

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Speaker 1: Is gonna be very busy. Susan's got to do my

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Speaker 1: hair and makeup. It's just, you know, it's just it's

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Speaker 5: She's going to do it poorly because she's gonna want Bradley,

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Speaker 5: Bradley loves me.

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Speaker 1: I want to know, do you travel a lot, well

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Speaker 1: seriously for work?

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Speaker 4: Yes?

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Speaker 1: How do you? And Sarah? And I mean now I'm

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Speaker 1: switching over to being serious, Like you both have these

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Speaker 1: big careers. How do you do it? How do you

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Speaker 1: manage it and keep you know, keep everything copathetic.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, it's I mean, it is tough. We pick and

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Speaker 5: choose so our schedules somewhat line up. But like so

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Speaker 5: this past summer, Sarah was doing a run on Broadway,

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Speaker 5: so effectively she was living in New York. So yeah,

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Speaker 5: like I didn't do a couple gigs because I just

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Speaker 5: went and stayed with her and got to spend time

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Speaker 5: with her. So there is a little bit of like

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Speaker 5: give and take when it comes to stuff like that.

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Speaker 5: We made a rule that we we try not to

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Speaker 5: do more than three weeks apart, which is tough. So

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Speaker 5: you just end up spending a lot of money.

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Speaker 2: But absence makes the heart grow fondly in love. It

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Speaker 2: does you miss each other to death. You can't wait

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Speaker 2: to see each other.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and then we do a lot of like

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Speaker 5: face timing and stuff, you know, and try to make

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Speaker 5: sure that each other are priorities in each other's lives.

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Speaker 2: Well, I have a question you. It says that you

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Speaker 2: and Sarah met through DMS?

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Speaker 4: Is that true?

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Speaker 3: So who asked too? Like who reached out to who?

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Speaker 1: Yeah?

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Speaker 5: So I mean, okay, So what happened was I I

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Speaker 5: was on like a mentel all and I referenced, like,

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Speaker 5: I made a reference to a bunch of different books,

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Speaker 1: I don't know how long have you been married?

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Speaker 1: Couldn't you have married? Couldn't you have married yourself. Is

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Speaker 3: Yes, it is. You can't know what fun is that?

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Speaker 1: You know?

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Speaker 4: Yeah? I don't, and am I like jumping back and

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Speaker 1: It would have been a one of a kind wedding.

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Speaker 4: Yeah yeah, yeah, See it's too much, Kathy.

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Speaker 1: Oh no, it'll be. Wells, could you get Bradley and

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Speaker 3: You need right now with the Bradley thing.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, Edgar, Edgar and I are going hot and heavy.

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Speaker 1: Kathy. I'm doing a lot of work and you're not

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Speaker 2: But well, the reason I brought up the d ms

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we have not Susan than my DMS. But we

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Speaker 5: Okay, So I think your guys' biggest superpower is your personality, right,

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Speaker 5: Any man worth your time will see that, like your

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Speaker 5: I also think that I do this too in my

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Speaker 5: it's almost like a defense mechanism. When I think things

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Speaker 6: You guys do, and talking about I never make any jokes,

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Speaker 5: I was always making jokes. But you have to fight

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Speaker 5: that urge, especially when you feel something real. So those

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Speaker 3: You, impersonal in front of the person. Is that what you're.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, I didn't follow the last bit of advice.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, because I think that when things get probably let's

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Speaker 5: and you know, you guys are doing the waka waka

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Speaker 5: but I want to know the real you. I think

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Speaker 5: that's a good time for you would think that that's

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Speaker 5: that that's the time that you need to lean into,

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Speaker 5: like not being the comedy but being the sincere person

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Speaker 5: and showing showing all of yourself that you and Bradley Cooper.

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Speaker 3: Wow, hello, stay away.

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Speaker 5: Kathy impressed. I see how close you are to him.

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Speaker 5: Were you did you have a did you have a

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Speaker 4: No?

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Speaker 3: You know what it was funny.

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Speaker 2: I was doing a thing in Vegas with QBC and

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Speaker 2: and he's.

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Speaker 3: A big Bachelor fan, and he's pointing, Oh my god,

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Speaker 3: you're my favorite.

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Speaker 2: That he brings me back and brings me on the

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Speaker 2: greasy truck. He says, I have so many questions.

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Speaker 3: I said, call any time.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, he's just the door.

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Speaker 1: You got the guy who likes Philly cheese takes. I'm

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Speaker 1: going to find the guy who likes Boston baked pans.

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Speaker 1: We're going to be you go. Actually, that is actually,

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Speaker 1: well's really good advice. Actually, I think you need to

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Speaker 1: give up the bartending and become a relationship counselor or

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Speaker 1: just add that to your list.

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Speaker 3: I'm speaking of relationships.

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Speaker 4: That's kind of what the job is.

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Speaker 1: Oh, it is.

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Speaker 2: Well, what's the most surprising relationship advice you received?

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Speaker 1: I would ask that he's given.

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Speaker 3: Well, I want to know if you received.

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Speaker 1: Okay, like, stay married. Here's my advice to you. Well,

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Speaker 4: Yeah, and she's rich.

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Speaker 1: You want to share? Wait, Sarah, do you want to share?

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Speaker 1: I can give you my bank routing number.

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Speaker 2: I always find the guys that can't afford vacation. I

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Speaker 2: want to on taking people. I find the guys that

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Speaker 2: want to split. I swear to god, they want to

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Speaker 2: split an appetizer at happy hour.

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Speaker 1: It's painful.

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Speaker 4: Okay, Yeah, we gotta.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, we need help.

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Speaker 4: I thinks are good. I think it's a good opportunity

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Speaker 4: to It's the cast a wider net for sure.

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Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah, but we go back when you get to

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Speaker 4: Though. It's not so fun Yeah.

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Speaker 5: I mean it's funny because I never was able to

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Speaker 5: they became popular. And why he likes.

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Speaker 1: He's never been on just saying.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, but I know a million stories of people who

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Speaker 4: it's worked for.

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Speaker 2: You know, I've married lots of people that yeah dating, Yeah, I.

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Speaker 5: Just so, yeah, I don't know. I think it's okay.

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Speaker 5: I think you just gotta really vet these people. You

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Speaker 5: like do the social media stocking of these people for

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Speaker 3: Well, I just call Kathy, She does a background check.

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Speaker 1: She does. There you go, I have I have a source,

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Speaker 1: wells and my source can look up anybody where they've worked,

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Speaker 1: my You know, you got to know what you're getting.

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Speaker 4: Into, right, that's yeah, that's great, I think.

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Speaker 2: But also anything exciting right now, like what are you

445
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Speaker 2: doing beside Paradise?

446
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Speaker 1: Are you working anything? Great? Uh?

447
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Speaker 4: I filmed.

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Speaker 5: I did Traders this past summer, which was very cool

449
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Speaker 5: and very fun and kind of a different speed for

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Speaker 5: me because I'm used to kind of you know, like

451
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Speaker 5: hosting or doing the bartender thing, and then this was

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Speaker 5: like getting thrown back into a fun game.

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Speaker 3: But so you were aunt, you were a player, Yeah.

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Speaker 5: Yeah, yeah, and that comes out some sometime next early

455
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Speaker 5: next year. I want season four of it. So that

456
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Speaker 5: was really fun. I got to go to Scotland and

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Speaker 5: film that I enjoyed.

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Speaker 1: I lived in Scotland where I lived in Danoon, near Glasgow,

459
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Speaker 1: across the Birth of Clyde. My husband was a naval officer.

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Speaker 1: They had a nuclear submarine base there. Where did they go?

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Speaker 1: Where did you film?

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Speaker 4: We were up in Inverness, so real, beautiful, really northeast.

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Speaker 4: I guess it was beautiful. It was supposed to be

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Speaker 4: like the kind of rainy season, but it was. We

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Speaker 4: had really good weather the entire time. And uh, the

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Speaker 4: only thing that's weird is you're so far north that

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Speaker 4: it's light a lot. Like during the summer. It was

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Speaker 4: like light all day.

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Speaker 1: It's when we well it is usually like during the day.

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Speaker 1: I think you made it was late at night.

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Speaker 5: Well, like we didn't get the more day, like all

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Speaker 5: twenty four hours of the day. So yeah, it didn't

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Speaker 5: get dark until like eleven forty five, and then it

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Speaker 5: got light at like four and we had to shoot

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Speaker 5: a lot of stuff that was like nighttime stuff and.

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Speaker 1: We got time. Okay, did you get to do any

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Speaker 1: touring at all?

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Speaker 5: I mean a little bit, you know, when you go

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Speaker 5: do missions and stuff, Yeah, and you get it's kind

480
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Speaker 5: of similar to doing The Bachelor or The Batcher. You're

481
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Speaker 5: kind of stuck in the place and you're waiting for

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Speaker 5: a problem.

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Speaker 1: It's my favorite place. All right, So we're gonna give

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Speaker 1: this question. We're gonna we've got this question, and you're

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Speaker 1: gonna help weigh in on it. Okay, okay, all right.

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Speaker 1: So Lily asks, Hi, Kathy and Susan, I could really

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Speaker 1: use your advice right now. I've been with my boyfriend

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Speaker 1: for four years now and we've lived together for three years.

489
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Speaker 1: Like our relationship is in a bit of a run.

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Speaker 1: I just feel like we're missing that spark. This year

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Speaker 1: has been really tough for both of us. I've been

492
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Speaker 1: really going through it in a lot of areas of life,

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Speaker 1: and he's had a ton of work stress this year.

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Speaker 1: What do you think we could do to get some

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Speaker 1: excitement back into our relationship. I feel like we just

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Speaker 1: do and talk about the same old stuff and things

497
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Speaker 1: are starting to feel like routines. How can we shake

498
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Speaker 1: it up? Thank you go to a bar? What do

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Speaker 1: you think?

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Speaker 5: Wells, Yeah, I think this is not a unique issue

501
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Speaker 5: with people who have been in long relationships. The secret

502
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Speaker 5: to successful relationships in the long run is to never

503
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Speaker 5: stop dating. So always, you know, yeah, always, you know,

504
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Speaker 5: act like you're still courting and dating the person.

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Speaker 4: So make like little date nights.

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Speaker 5: So like I will, I'm like a great cook and

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Speaker 5: I like to cook a lot, but that means Sarah

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Speaker 5: doesn't do much. So then I'm usually like, you will

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Speaker 5: come into the kitchen, let's cook together, make a date night.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, yeah.

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Speaker 6: Yeah.

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Speaker 5: The other thing, the other thing that I was talking

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Speaker 5: about this on my podcast, that is very very important.

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Speaker 5: When you are in a relationship with someone for a

515
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Speaker 5: very long time, french kissing almost becomes more intimate than sex.

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Speaker 5: You just don't very rarely french kiss, and I have

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Speaker 5: been saying this, it's very important to continue since you.

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Speaker 1: Don't french kiss. Well, where do you get this one from?

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Speaker 3: He's watching Jones season.

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Speaker 4: I'm sorry, Well, yeah, they're just pecking minute.

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Speaker 3: Maybe she doesn't know how to kiss until Chuck came.

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Speaker 4: But no, but hear me out, hear me out. When

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Speaker 4: you're firstating somebody, even if sex isn't even on the table,

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Speaker 4: you will french kiss with people, right like you'll stop

525
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Speaker 4: in the middle, Like, wherever you are, you're in a

526
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Speaker 4: romantic place, you do that, and then when you get married,

527
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Speaker 4: you're in a long relationship, you get really comfortable with

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Speaker 4: somebody and then it's just like, God, so good to

529
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Speaker 4: see you, or what ever. You got to keep on

530
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Speaker 4: French kissing even when sex is on the table. I'm

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Speaker 4: telling you I couldn't agree with you more.

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Speaker 1: Hey, well agree with this is great, super great advice.

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Speaker 3: We need somebody to kiss that.

534
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Speaker 1: What you know, what do you want me to do?

535
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Speaker 1: Suck on a straw?

536
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Speaker 2: I mean, are you making out with tongue or not?

537
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Speaker 2: I mean you got to bring that.

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Speaker 3: Back and maybe buy some sexy lingerie and run a room.

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Speaker 2: Sprise him. She should surprise him. She could do part

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Speaker 2: of it too. It doesn't always have to be the

541
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Speaker 2: dude right and.

542
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Speaker 3: Do something little, you know.

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Speaker 4: Yeah, guys do like to feel wanted and sexy.

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Speaker 5: And I think that's another thing that happens a lot,

545
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Speaker 5: is that women kind of just assume that the guy

546
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Speaker 5: is the one that's like the testosterone is so horny,

547
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Speaker 5: he's always gonna come on to me. But sometimes it's

548
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Speaker 5: a big turn on for woman a guy to be you. Yeah,

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Speaker 5: that'd be great.

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Speaker 4: See you guys know all this stuff. I need to

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Speaker 4: be here, thank you.

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Speaker 1: Really, all I know is I'm gonna be French kissing

553
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Speaker 1: behind the bar. I can hardly wait.

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Speaker 2: Not with you, with me, you know, within the first

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00:27:16,160 --> 00:27:19,439
Speaker 2: touch of lip, if there's chemistry, if that kiss is

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Speaker 2: going to be good like you just that man kiss?

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Speaker 2: Oh god, Well that does it for today's episode of

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Speaker 2: Bachelor Happy Hours Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: You know what, I gotta go, Susan, I gotta go.

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Speaker 1: I gotta go French kiss. I gotta go find some

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Speaker 1: of the French kiss.

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Speaker 2: Well, so you got to come back because this is

563
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Speaker 2: not long enough. Okay, we need part two. Yeah, anytime

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Speaker 2: you guys need to be I'm hanging. We love chatting

565
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Speaker 2: with Welcome to yours. We could talk about making out,

566
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Speaker 2: I mean easy.

567
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Speaker 1: Or cooking, or you could make us a man. You

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Speaker 1: know what? Could we come on your show and you

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Speaker 1: have Manhattan's first, because that's also one of my favorite drinks.

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Speaker 4: That's my dad's ever drinks I make. Are no, he's not.

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Speaker 2: Unfortunately, I just saw polish up on the vodka martini's

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Speaker 2: or you know, are you dirty? I can make a

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Speaker 2: great martini that's a dirty martini.

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Speaker 1: Girl.

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Speaker 5: I do like a Martini, but I'm a gin guy.

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Speaker 5: Did you know fun fact about Martini's The amount of

577
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Speaker 5: olives that you have in your dirty Martini is the

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Speaker 5: amount of SIPs you're supposed to take in said martini.

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Speaker 4: What what I know is that crazy. Give me three.

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Speaker 1: We're gonna goustle of Martini.

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Speaker 4: And if you've got three olives on it, the drink

582
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Speaker 4: should be three SIPs and be old.

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Speaker 3: I would be laying on the bar. I know, especially

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Speaker 3: stuff you only get two.

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Speaker 5: I know.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, all right, here's the deal. We are, we gotta go.

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Speaker 1: We are. We are gonna go make Manhattan's. We're gonna

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Speaker 1: go down Martini's. We're gonna go find some of the

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Speaker 1: French kiss. You gotta listen to Bachelor Happy Hours Golden

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Speaker 1: Hour on the iHeart Radio app or podcast.

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Speaker 3: People are going to want to question this episode today

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Speaker 3: and you know how to do that.

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Speaker 2: It's called Bachelor Nation dot com slash Golden Hour.

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Speaker 1: Well, thanks for joining us, ladies.

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Speaker 5: Good to see you guys, and don't forget everyone out there.

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Speaker 5: You got to kiss with tongue.

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Speaker 1: That's her kiss with tongue and drinking a Martine, have

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Speaker 1: a great week. Everybody