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Speaker 1: think the more you understand that about yourself, I think

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Speaker 1: if you hate, hate gonna come your way. If you

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Speaker 1: You're always trying to change something. Just stupid on himself. Wow,

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Speaker 1: How are you the one that only killed you in

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Speaker 1: I don't like the way the Democrats look right now.

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Speaker 1: It's just not a it's not a winning. Look. We

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Speaker 1: that's what we got. Yeah. Ready to debate? Yeah, all right.

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Speaker 1: We're coming back at thirty two after the Hour with

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Speaker 1: Asked Steve. Steve right after this you're listening to show

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Speaker 1: is time for Steve's favorite segment. It's called Asked Steve,

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Speaker 1: where we do rapid fire questions. Are you ready, Steve? Yeah, surely,

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Speaker 1: life in one sentence? Sentence? It has been an amazing journey.

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Speaker 1: I like that. Okay, it has been an amazing journey.

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Speaker 1: I like it. Okay, okay, okay, I got one. What

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Speaker 1: it's something you want to tell your significant other, but

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Speaker 1: I know the answer to that. I'm saying that I don't.

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Speaker 1: h Hi. How are you giving you a call today? Ma'am?

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Speaker 1: Trying to get some updates from you. Your husband, mister

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Speaker 1: Could you could you give me an update on this January? Okay?

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Speaker 1: All right, here's what we're having. The problems that we're having.

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Speaker 1: I'm not gonna be working as a right now, underesting

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Speaker 1: where you work. I don't. I'm not gonna be working

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Speaker 1: I have my own, so how that's right? So somebody

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Speaker 1: Well that's fine, not you guys, because it's not my children.

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Speaker 1: all right, thank you? Hello, Okay, mister, yes, sir, all

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Speaker 1: hear me now, yes, I can. Can you hear me? Yes, ma'am,

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Speaker 1: What's your certain something? What's your name? Man? Who is

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Speaker 1: there someone else I need to speak with? No, we're

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Speaker 1: harever you got my novel? Holland's something say for your job?

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00:28:06,600 --> 00:28:10,199
Speaker 1: Who is this nephew? Timing from Steve Harvey morning. Yo, yo,

422
00:28:10,600 --> 00:28:34,240
Speaker 1: just got Frank Bob babyun pay for this? Yat calling

423
00:28:34,320 --> 00:28:40,600
Speaker 1: the foodie? Well you just found that finished? Give me

424
00:28:40,720 --> 00:28:47,000
Speaker 1: a black mouth all out. I gotta ask, I gotta

425
00:28:47,040 --> 00:28:50,360
Speaker 1: ask all y'all something. What is the baddest radio show

426
00:28:50,560 --> 00:28:58,200
Speaker 1: in the land? Home run third Base? What you think? Well,

427
00:28:58,240 --> 00:29:02,160
Speaker 1: I'm at COO, that's all I mean. As long as

428
00:29:02,160 --> 00:29:04,600
Speaker 1: I'm stupid, that's that's my job. It's just to be stupid.

429
00:29:05,720 --> 00:29:09,360
Speaker 1: Oh oh you're outstanding. You're CEO and president of that

430
00:29:10,640 --> 00:29:13,000
Speaker 1: coming up at the top of the hour. As we

431
00:29:13,200 --> 00:29:16,080
Speaker 1: move on, we're gonna have some fun, more fun with

432
00:29:16,280 --> 00:29:24,480
Speaker 1: earthquake in the building right after this. You're listening, ladies

433
00:29:24,600 --> 00:29:28,400
Speaker 1: and gentlemen, boys and girls. A matter of fact, just

434
00:29:28,640 --> 00:29:32,040
Speaker 1: ladies and gentlemen. Get the boys and girls out the room. Clear.

435
00:29:33,480 --> 00:29:39,760
Speaker 1: Let's move everybody out safety first. I'm about to introduce

436
00:29:39,840 --> 00:29:42,600
Speaker 1: a dude. Man that's just an old friend of mine.

437
00:29:43,520 --> 00:29:45,320
Speaker 1: You know what I mean. I mean, we go back,

438
00:29:45,720 --> 00:29:48,280
Speaker 1: way way back. I remember when he knocked on my

439
00:29:48,480 --> 00:29:51,320
Speaker 1: door at a hotel that had to do you know

440
00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:54,880
Speaker 1: how you had a door off the balcony. He knocked

441
00:29:55,200 --> 00:29:58,680
Speaker 1: on my door off the balcony. You know. I was

442
00:29:58,720 --> 00:30:00,560
Speaker 1: in one of them hotels where you could walk up

443
00:30:00,560 --> 00:30:02,400
Speaker 1: and see them. You could see your dough from the

444
00:30:02,520 --> 00:30:05,920
Speaker 1: parking lot. Yeah. Yeah, I've had them moments, don't y'all think?

445
00:30:06,080 --> 00:30:09,160
Speaker 1: Always been here, knocked on the dough. He introduced himself.

446
00:30:09,200 --> 00:30:11,520
Speaker 1: I invited him. He said, I'm earthquake man, I'm in

447
00:30:11,600 --> 00:30:15,400
Speaker 1: the Navy, and man, brother, I just admire you so much.

448
00:30:15,520 --> 00:30:18,240
Speaker 1: Can I ask you a couple of questions? Ladies and

449
00:30:18,360 --> 00:30:23,320
Speaker 1: gentlemen out, handyman. We've been friends ever since he's been

450
00:30:23,400 --> 00:30:26,680
Speaker 1: a defender of mind, a fighter of mine. But more

451
00:30:26,760 --> 00:30:30,120
Speaker 1: so than that, ladies and gentlemen, this dude right here

452
00:30:30,960 --> 00:30:35,720
Speaker 1: is one of the baddest damn stand ups. That grace

453
00:30:35,920 --> 00:30:39,840
Speaker 1: is the stage today. One of the few living that

454
00:30:40,040 --> 00:30:44,800
Speaker 1: can do ninety minutes straight, get a house laugh eighty

455
00:30:44,880 --> 00:30:48,760
Speaker 1: five percent of the rule every eighteen to twenty two seconds.

456
00:30:49,160 --> 00:30:51,920
Speaker 1: It ain't but a hand full of them. He is

457
00:30:52,040 --> 00:30:56,240
Speaker 1: one of them, Ladies and gentlemen, A stroke of genius,

458
00:30:57,040 --> 00:31:02,520
Speaker 1: a gut busting fool. Put your damn hands for my man.

459
00:31:03,360 --> 00:31:06,880
Speaker 1: The one and only. His name is synonymous with pain

460
00:31:07,040 --> 00:31:18,160
Speaker 1: and buildings, crumbling earth with an elf, earth quake, h intro.

461
00:31:18,840 --> 00:31:23,320
Speaker 1: That's right, Steve harding believer. That's right in the front line.

462
00:31:24,000 --> 00:31:27,840
Speaker 1: Where where on my chest and out my lips. That's it.

463
00:31:28,360 --> 00:31:31,200
Speaker 1: Doing nothing but number ones out here, Steve say, the

464
00:31:31,480 --> 00:31:34,680
Speaker 1: number ones is how you get it. Understand, you got

465
00:31:34,760 --> 00:31:37,240
Speaker 1: them twos and threes jokes, You ain't gonna get fed.

466
00:31:37,960 --> 00:31:41,040
Speaker 1: You got to put them wars in there. Oh you

467
00:31:41,160 --> 00:31:43,360
Speaker 1: got that had him wars. That's what he told me,

468
00:31:43,480 --> 00:31:48,000
Speaker 1: that the wars when you put them back to back ones, Yeah,

469
00:31:48,120 --> 00:31:51,600
Speaker 1: that's when that guarantee go high. In case y'all don't

470
00:31:51,680 --> 00:31:54,280
Speaker 1: understand what Kirk Quake is saying. I talked to Quake

471
00:31:54,880 --> 00:31:57,640
Speaker 1: my system. When I was developing us a stand up.

472
00:31:58,200 --> 00:32:00,920
Speaker 1: I grated my jokes on the scale of one to three.

473
00:32:01,520 --> 00:32:04,200
Speaker 1: If I if I did a joke that just was

474
00:32:04,320 --> 00:32:07,480
Speaker 1: to feel time to get me to a segue, that

475
00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:11,600
Speaker 1: was a three joke, it maybe got a lab probably didn't,

476
00:32:11,680 --> 00:32:14,600
Speaker 1: but it was okay, fulfill it. And then I had

477
00:32:14,640 --> 00:32:17,480
Speaker 1: a number graded a number two joke. Them jokes was

478
00:32:17,600 --> 00:32:21,000
Speaker 1: fifty to fifty. Sometimes they was funny, sometimes they didn't.

479
00:32:21,240 --> 00:32:23,400
Speaker 1: And then I had jokes that was a number one.

480
00:32:23,840 --> 00:32:26,080
Speaker 1: No matter when I told it, I high. I told

481
00:32:26,120 --> 00:32:29,920
Speaker 1: it that damn joke always mashed. Every time I wrote

482
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:32,720
Speaker 1: a two, I took one of the threes out. Every

483
00:32:32,800 --> 00:32:35,160
Speaker 1: time I wrote a one, I took a three out.

484
00:32:35,400 --> 00:32:37,680
Speaker 1: Every time I wrote a two, I took a three out.

485
00:32:37,960 --> 00:32:40,440
Speaker 1: To find out, I just had ones and twos. And

486
00:32:40,640 --> 00:32:42,400
Speaker 1: then I wrote my jokes. And every time I have

487
00:32:42,480 --> 00:32:45,760
Speaker 1: to rote a one joke a killer, I took another

488
00:32:45,840 --> 00:32:48,160
Speaker 1: two out that was a fifty to fifty yeah, and

489
00:32:48,320 --> 00:32:50,800
Speaker 1: I took a right another one. I replaced that two

490
00:32:50,880 --> 00:32:53,240
Speaker 1: out and to file out looked up and I had

491
00:32:53,440 --> 00:32:56,400
Speaker 1: thirty minutes or nothing but one. And then after that

492
00:32:56,840 --> 00:32:59,640
Speaker 1: that's all I wrote was ones. Baby. If I wrote

493
00:32:59,680 --> 00:33:02,760
Speaker 1: a two, I went back to the lab, came out

494
00:33:02,800 --> 00:33:06,080
Speaker 1: with the one and replace that. Steve HARVD two hours

495
00:33:06,160 --> 00:33:12,800
Speaker 1: of once once Once, I'm talking about once damn. Yeah,

496
00:33:12,960 --> 00:33:16,080
Speaker 1: I just learned a lot. Yes, that was a classroom

497
00:33:16,160 --> 00:33:24,640
Speaker 1: knocking you out like Anthony Joshua. Yeah out, Yeah, I

498
00:33:24,800 --> 00:33:27,520
Speaker 1: saw you when you get the once, I shout the

499
00:33:27,600 --> 00:33:30,480
Speaker 1: world calling sitting me a mem of that. That was

500
00:33:30,520 --> 00:33:36,680
Speaker 1: so damn funny. Yeah, knocked him on outside of knocked

501
00:33:36,760 --> 00:33:39,560
Speaker 1: him on the worst damn fight. I don't see you

502
00:33:39,640 --> 00:33:42,720
Speaker 1: never messed up all this money with your stupid No.

503
00:33:42,920 --> 00:33:45,080
Speaker 1: He made it good for fat people. I told you

504
00:33:45,160 --> 00:33:50,120
Speaker 1: you can be in fat and still being shape. Listen.

505
00:33:50,520 --> 00:33:58,000
Speaker 1: Oh yes he had alms, but that good took him out, understand. Yeah, Yeah,

506
00:33:58,680 --> 00:34:04,760
Speaker 1: high cholestero ken Win, Oh, y'all two percent body fair

507
00:34:05,360 --> 00:34:07,440
Speaker 1: out here and not eating a poke hop. Look at

508
00:34:07,480 --> 00:34:12,440
Speaker 1: the pochhop wing this weekend blood pressure? Yeah, look at

509
00:34:12,520 --> 00:34:17,200
Speaker 1: high blood pressure. Hypertension did well this year. That boy

510
00:34:17,320 --> 00:34:19,160
Speaker 1: was two per cent body fight, but he had a

511
00:34:19,400 --> 00:34:22,800
Speaker 1: real weak chir you understand, what no rims on that

512
00:34:22,960 --> 00:34:27,279
Speaker 1: chin was it popped the real hard. I don't see

513
00:34:27,320 --> 00:34:29,200
Speaker 1: how they speak to each other after the fight. You

514
00:34:29,280 --> 00:34:30,920
Speaker 1: just knocked me on. Ain't got nothing to say to you,

515
00:34:31,120 --> 00:34:34,759
Speaker 1: your mama, nobody else, interview. I ain't hugging you say

516
00:34:34,880 --> 00:34:38,759
Speaker 1: no good fight. We're the pistol at. We're a pistol at.

517
00:34:39,320 --> 00:34:41,840
Speaker 1: We're the pistol at. You understand you did this in

518
00:34:41,920 --> 00:34:44,720
Speaker 1: front of my mama, the whole country, my girl sitting

519
00:34:44,760 --> 00:34:48,280
Speaker 1: my girl out of blew fifty five like Steve, somebody

520
00:34:48,360 --> 00:34:53,320
Speaker 1: gotta die. Somebody died. Take these gloves off and bringing

521
00:34:53,400 --> 00:34:56,960
Speaker 1: this pistol about to be some real work, beating my

522
00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:01,680
Speaker 1: real band English Wilder. Just man, I don't know what now.

523
00:35:01,920 --> 00:35:03,839
Speaker 1: This man told us a girl to take that double

524
00:35:03,880 --> 00:35:08,760
Speaker 1: law back. We lost it. Take the double law back, didn't.

525
00:35:08,760 --> 00:35:10,799
Speaker 1: You can see him getting knocked out. His gone gotta

526
00:35:10,840 --> 00:35:14,960
Speaker 1: gotta go blew it. I swear it was terrible, but

527
00:35:15,040 --> 00:35:20,759
Speaker 1: he hit him so hard my TV moved. Yeah. I

528
00:35:20,880 --> 00:35:23,640
Speaker 1: wanted to call the police. I am witnessed and murder

529
00:35:24,239 --> 00:35:29,680
Speaker 1: right now on this illegal cable. I got TV s

530
00:35:30,120 --> 00:35:33,480
Speaker 1: it sleeve came off the hinges. It was just that bad.

531
00:35:33,880 --> 00:35:37,000
Speaker 1: You so quick. We gotta find out what brings you here? Yeah,

532
00:35:37,200 --> 00:35:39,480
Speaker 1: tell us about your concert dates? Coming up? Well, I

533
00:35:39,600 --> 00:35:41,399
Speaker 1: come here all the time because I gotta hang around

534
00:35:41,440 --> 00:35:47,960
Speaker 1: a better shade of people. Yeah, I'm serious, man, My

535
00:35:48,080 --> 00:35:50,719
Speaker 1: money got to break up with my friends. I gotta

536
00:35:50,760 --> 00:35:55,040
Speaker 1: gonna hang with other people. Stay right there, all right,

537
00:35:55,200 --> 00:35:59,319
Speaker 1: Please give me some advice. My friends gotta break over

538
00:35:59,360 --> 00:36:04,120
Speaker 1: with my money. Coming up more with Earthquake at twenty

539
00:36:04,160 --> 00:36:09,680
Speaker 1: minutes after the hour you're listening Steve Harvey Morning Show. Hey,

540
00:36:09,760 --> 00:36:13,200
Speaker 1: we're back with the one and only earthquake Quack. Yeah,

541
00:36:13,239 --> 00:36:15,279
Speaker 1: where you at? Man? What you got going you? Listen?

542
00:36:15,440 --> 00:36:18,680
Speaker 1: Dates where you performed? Listen man. Um. This weekend, I'm

543
00:36:18,680 --> 00:36:21,520
Speaker 1: gonna be in Jacksonville the du Vall Company Zone. Uh

544
00:36:21,880 --> 00:36:25,520
Speaker 1: make sure that's tomorrow Thursday. Yeah, that's right. They treat

545
00:36:25,560 --> 00:36:28,759
Speaker 1: me well. Then Thursday, Friday, Saturday. But next weekend it's

546
00:36:28,760 --> 00:36:32,560
Speaker 1: a big weekend New York City. My fifth annual Father's Day.

547
00:36:32,800 --> 00:36:34,880
Speaker 1: Got one of your partners in crime. We're gonna be

548
00:36:34,960 --> 00:36:38,160
Speaker 1: the Kingstand on Friday, I mean, on Saturday and Sunday

549
00:36:38,200 --> 00:36:40,040
Speaker 1: Father's Day, We're gonna be in j Pack. I got

550
00:36:40,120 --> 00:36:41,680
Speaker 1: the one and only one of the Kings, you know,

551
00:36:42,080 --> 00:36:50,160
Speaker 1: set you the entertainment. Yeah, cod gonna be there. Okay, yeah, yeah,

552
00:36:50,440 --> 00:36:52,479
Speaker 1: we're gonna sit there. I gotta listen to knowing, Bubba,

553
00:36:52,560 --> 00:36:55,640
Speaker 1: those are the two, including yourself, yours truly gonna be

554
00:36:55,719 --> 00:36:58,680
Speaker 1: there for the fathers, the forgotten soldiers, the one that

555
00:36:58,800 --> 00:37:02,040
Speaker 1: gets no shoutouts, know nothing, you know, because you know

556
00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:06,720
Speaker 1: bather's day. Can't get a reservation in a in a dinner,

557
00:37:06,960 --> 00:37:09,000
Speaker 1: you can't do it in no restaurants. But father there,

558
00:37:09,080 --> 00:37:11,520
Speaker 1: you're gonna walk in. Ain't nobody in there. They don't

559
00:37:11,560 --> 00:37:15,080
Speaker 1: care about the father. They only bring father. Yeah, when

560
00:37:15,120 --> 00:37:17,560
Speaker 1: the baby do run when the father, you don't him

561
00:37:17,600 --> 00:37:21,759
Speaker 1: nothing about the father till the baby do something wrong. Yeah,

562
00:37:21,920 --> 00:37:24,719
Speaker 1: just you're just walking there. Ain't no buffet, ain't no

563
00:37:25,000 --> 00:37:29,320
Speaker 1: ain't nothing, no runch. I ain't gonna father that runch.

564
00:37:29,920 --> 00:37:34,120
Speaker 1: Ain't no fatherday special. Daddy's don't get nothing but child support.

565
00:37:34,360 --> 00:37:39,120
Speaker 1: And my daddy don't love me. That's all you my daddy.

566
00:37:39,120 --> 00:37:42,400
Speaker 1: Another long's wrong? Must they had no daddy love? Every time?

567
00:37:42,440 --> 00:37:44,040
Speaker 1: If I go to snip club and hear the same thing,

568
00:37:44,239 --> 00:37:46,560
Speaker 1: must didn't have no daddy love. I'm just telling you

569
00:37:48,920 --> 00:37:51,520
Speaker 1: I had to make it that good fathers like my

570
00:37:51,640 --> 00:37:54,640
Speaker 1: boy Steve, he's a grandfather. He's being fathers to other

571
00:37:54,760 --> 00:37:57,839
Speaker 1: fathers that ain't fathers. They need to get some acculations

572
00:37:58,080 --> 00:38:01,480
Speaker 1: and some appreciation. So this is my fifth annual show.

573
00:38:01,680 --> 00:38:04,239
Speaker 1: This is the fifth annual in New York, and I'm

574
00:38:04,280 --> 00:38:06,000
Speaker 1: bringing it. I wanted to ask Steve and I couldn't

575
00:38:06,000 --> 00:38:11,400
Speaker 1: catch it with him. Yeah, oh you can't catch him.

576
00:38:11,400 --> 00:38:12,840
Speaker 1: You got a better chance hitting a lot of it.

577
00:38:15,760 --> 00:38:17,800
Speaker 1: So I just hang around them. You drop them jewels.

578
00:38:17,840 --> 00:38:23,239
Speaker 1: I picked him up. I'll take that. I'll take that. Yes,

579
00:38:24,160 --> 00:38:27,520
Speaker 1: five years in the row. Ain't pay me. I took something.

580
00:38:28,360 --> 00:38:32,920
Speaker 1: They don't. They don't kill Father's nothing, man, no nothing?

581
00:38:33,080 --> 00:38:36,120
Speaker 1: What's your worst gift or your best gift? How about that?

582
00:38:36,560 --> 00:38:39,440
Speaker 1: The worst ever? My son barred money for me to

583
00:38:39,520 --> 00:38:46,200
Speaker 1: buy me something. Yeah that was the best one. Here

584
00:38:46,280 --> 00:38:47,600
Speaker 1: you go, man, I need some money, so I don't

585
00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:52,839
Speaker 1: gonna get you something. Father. And it was Monday, Yeah

586
00:38:54,160 --> 00:38:56,480
Speaker 1: it was Monday. Well, I said, let me go get

587
00:38:56,520 --> 00:39:02,919
Speaker 1: you tested. I have naked thirty four after the Hour

588
00:39:03,200 --> 00:39:09,000
Speaker 1: more with the highly energetic earthquake. He's so funny, and

589
00:39:09,520 --> 00:39:11,920
Speaker 1: that's gonna be in thirty four after the hour you're

590
00:39:12,000 --> 00:39:17,040
Speaker 1: listening String show. Hi, Chay, we're back with my buddy,

591
00:39:17,200 --> 00:39:21,440
Speaker 1: longtime friend Legend. Oh, the One and Only Earthquake got

592
00:39:21,480 --> 00:39:24,839
Speaker 1: the Big Father's Days show where we had again quake. Oh.

593
00:39:24,920 --> 00:39:27,520
Speaker 1: We're in MJ pack on Father's Day and we at

594
00:39:27,560 --> 00:39:31,400
Speaker 1: the King's Theater on Saturday. That's what's happening on here.

595
00:39:31,400 --> 00:39:33,720
Speaker 1: We're gonna do it for father Day next weekend because

596
00:39:33,800 --> 00:39:36,440
Speaker 1: Father's is special. I don't care how you bring these

597
00:39:36,520 --> 00:39:39,080
Speaker 1: kids in the world. Brother, you need to be respected

598
00:39:39,320 --> 00:39:42,359
Speaker 1: and appreciated for what you did to having this child.

599
00:39:42,680 --> 00:39:44,719
Speaker 1: Tell you just like that as a father, I know it.

600
00:39:45,000 --> 00:39:47,439
Speaker 1: I got four of ain't having no more. A woman

601
00:39:47,480 --> 00:39:50,000
Speaker 1: comes say she's pregnant, down with one of mine. Faking

602
00:39:50,080 --> 00:39:54,719
Speaker 1: my death. Oh no, faking my death. That's it. That's it.

603
00:39:54,920 --> 00:39:59,839
Speaker 1: Quake Day, Quake Day, that's it. Tommy says that all

604
00:39:59,880 --> 00:40:02,640
Speaker 1: the time about faking, and I'm gonna face that's it.

605
00:40:03,080 --> 00:40:07,120
Speaker 1: It's I'm just going there. Nathaniel strong Man, Is that

606
00:40:07,200 --> 00:40:10,919
Speaker 1: a thing new? Yeah, I'm out of here. I can't

607
00:40:10,960 --> 00:40:14,880
Speaker 1: do another time. It's one of positive tests for me

608
00:40:15,000 --> 00:40:21,160
Speaker 1: saying this head one positive. I'm tapping out on life,

609
00:40:24,000 --> 00:40:27,279
Speaker 1: taking all the money I got, Stephen, I'm gone somewhere. Yeah,

610
00:40:27,520 --> 00:40:31,120
Speaker 1: you hear me, somewhere. Just be run on the run

611
00:40:31,360 --> 00:40:36,320
Speaker 1: like a monster. Nothing but cash where I live, paying everything,

612
00:40:36,480 --> 00:40:45,000
Speaker 1: stay cash on, no no credit on nothing. Short yeah yeah,

613
00:40:45,239 --> 00:40:47,320
Speaker 1: burn the form and everything. I'm living on the ladder.

614
00:40:51,440 --> 00:40:54,040
Speaker 1: I'm gonna my kid catch up with me, gonna leave me,

615
00:40:54,640 --> 00:40:59,719
Speaker 1: write a book. My father here, it's your motivation. I'm

616
00:40:59,719 --> 00:41:02,719
Speaker 1: gonna head. Might as well get out your life now.

617
00:41:02,760 --> 00:41:05,040
Speaker 1: I'm fifty six, Bam, you get old enough. I ain't

618
00:41:05,040 --> 00:41:07,600
Speaker 1: gonna bay to play with you. Come on, tell you

619
00:41:09,040 --> 00:41:11,840
Speaker 1: I aint gonna be a play with when we break up. Now,

620
00:41:12,320 --> 00:41:14,600
Speaker 1: ain't no six of having a relationship. Ain't gonna last.

621
00:41:17,360 --> 00:41:19,600
Speaker 1: Come on, he gonna be. I ain't gonna beat to

622
00:41:19,640 --> 00:41:22,440
Speaker 1: play with you. I'm sitting out here and wheel try

623
00:41:22,560 --> 00:41:26,040
Speaker 1: throwing you the ball, Tell about to get it back. No, sir, No, sir,

624
00:41:26,760 --> 00:41:32,320
Speaker 1: No sir, No, sir. Man how your grandson doing, No,

625
00:41:32,440 --> 00:41:35,839
Speaker 1: that's my son, No, sir, I'm not in my last

626
00:41:35,920 --> 00:41:38,200
Speaker 1: days like that. I tell them when I walk in

627
00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:42,200
Speaker 1: there ain't happening that I ain't happening. You come here

628
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Speaker 1: if you want to with a positive test. It's over.

629
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Speaker 1: You're gonna kill a black man's career. Just letting you know.

630
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Speaker 1: M J. Pat come on the Father's Day, come see me.

631
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Speaker 1: Bring the kids. If you got kids, ben't bring your father.

632
00:41:57,440 --> 00:41:59,800
Speaker 1: Do something for your father. It's in now with New Jersey.

633
00:42:00,200 --> 00:42:03,560
Speaker 1: Keen Stead is in Brooklyn. That's what we're getting down injured.

634
00:42:03,680 --> 00:42:07,600
Speaker 1: I mean, um, doctor Ville this weekend, beautiful hum Day Wednesday,

635
00:42:07,640 --> 00:42:09,600
Speaker 1: and you got to be with quake. That's what it is.

636
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Speaker 1: Follow me on Instagram at the real Earthquake and see

637
00:42:12,760 --> 00:42:18,680
Speaker 1: what I'm doing. We love it and you can following.

638
00:42:20,840 --> 00:42:26,919
Speaker 1: That's most embarrassing. Damn. I'm so shame of my buddy, Quake.

639
00:42:28,400 --> 00:42:31,239
Speaker 1: It's your fause. Steve. You said, God already know why

640
00:42:31,280 --> 00:42:33,959
Speaker 1: should I can't? With everybody else think he knows my heart.

641
00:42:35,480 --> 00:42:40,800
Speaker 1: I'm out here. Follow me on the Instagram as the

642
00:42:40,880 --> 00:42:44,320
Speaker 1: real Earthquake. I love Steve Harvey Morning Show. This is

643
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Speaker 1: the family. I drove by. Say hello to you. Got

644
00:42:47,360 --> 00:42:49,000
Speaker 1: to see my uncle. I got me a little bit

645
00:42:49,040 --> 00:42:51,000
Speaker 1: more money. Now I gotta hang around better people so

646
00:42:51,040 --> 00:42:53,320
Speaker 1: I can get some advice. Because I don't want no unsong.

647
00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:58,840
Speaker 1: I ain't gonna have you, ain't gonna have me. Misher

648
00:42:58,920 --> 00:43:02,200
Speaker 1: me around talking he was hot. No, you can keep that.

649
00:43:02,640 --> 00:43:05,680
Speaker 1: I'm always I got money right here and a can

650
00:43:05,840 --> 00:43:11,879
Speaker 1: patch it right now. My disaplity, my disability insurance guy

651
00:43:12,239 --> 00:43:15,319
Speaker 1: can't give it any three dollars a dank somebody pushed

652
00:43:15,360 --> 00:43:16,759
Speaker 1: me around. Put me in the front of the TV

653
00:43:16,840 --> 00:43:23,200
Speaker 1: and watch Judge Judy. Me said, I'm living in my

654
00:43:23,320 --> 00:43:25,759
Speaker 1: old mother house and people day when they ain't got me,

655
00:43:26,239 --> 00:43:30,279
Speaker 1: go fund me page. No, sir, he used to be hot,

656
00:43:30,640 --> 00:43:33,040
Speaker 1: he was funny. Steve Harvey said he was running the

657
00:43:33,080 --> 00:43:37,400
Speaker 1: great But where is he now? You won't get that.

658
00:43:38,239 --> 00:43:42,480
Speaker 1: I'm not here, sir. No, sir, You're gonna see a

659
00:43:42,560 --> 00:43:45,440
Speaker 1: white woman pushing me around. I'm eating more of your cookies,

660
00:43:46,960 --> 00:43:50,600
Speaker 1: all right, Quick, you know I love you too, Thank

661
00:43:50,640 --> 00:43:55,279
Speaker 1: you Steve for the opportunity. I love y'all. I love

662
00:43:55,400 --> 00:44:01,239
Speaker 1: y'all here like last hit, right, thank you? Quick has

663
00:44:01,400 --> 00:44:05,200
Speaker 1: always coming up another one the nephew in the building

664
00:44:05,239 --> 00:44:08,560
Speaker 1: with today's prank phone call. Right after this, you're listening

665
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Speaker 1: to the Steve Harvey Morning Show coming up at the

666
00:44:12,560 --> 00:44:15,120
Speaker 1: top of the hour. Right around in four minutes after

667
00:44:15,239 --> 00:44:18,720
Speaker 1: it's my strawberry letter for today's subject. The second child

668
00:44:19,120 --> 00:44:26,160
Speaker 1: could ruin my relationship. All right, yeah, what's baby numbers? Yeah,

669
00:44:26,880 --> 00:44:31,879
Speaker 1: Alwa was that middle child. But the second child could

670
00:44:31,960 --> 00:44:34,759
Speaker 1: ruin my relationship is the subject of today's strawberry letter.

671
00:44:34,840 --> 00:44:37,320
Speaker 1: But right now the nephew in the building with today's

672
00:44:37,600 --> 00:44:39,960
Speaker 1: frank phone call what you got for us? Now we're

673
00:44:40,000 --> 00:44:44,240
Speaker 1: talking about my first child, your son and my daughter.

674
00:44:46,080 --> 00:44:55,640
Speaker 1: Your son and my daughter. Craf yo say your sick,

675
00:44:56,920 --> 00:45:10,799
Speaker 1: my daughter, I know the whimpering cry right and my daughter.

676
00:45:10,920 --> 00:45:15,600
Speaker 1: Let's run it. Hello, Hello, I'm trying to reach Darren's

677
00:45:16,000 --> 00:45:21,120
Speaker 1: Darren's Father's this Darren's father. Yes, it's Darren saying listen,

678
00:45:22,200 --> 00:45:25,680
Speaker 1: I'm calling you. Lashawanda is my daughter. She goes to

679
00:45:26,080 --> 00:45:31,200
Speaker 1: college up there with your sow uh And I'm getting

680
00:45:31,800 --> 00:45:34,200
Speaker 1: the word I got a few minutes ago, was that

681
00:45:34,560 --> 00:45:37,040
Speaker 1: the two of them then run off and then got

682
00:45:37,200 --> 00:45:40,719
Speaker 1: married together. I don't know what what what what make

683
00:45:40,800 --> 00:45:43,279
Speaker 1: them run off and get married? Like wait, wait, wait,

684
00:45:43,360 --> 00:45:46,600
Speaker 1: wait wait where did you hear this from? I just

685
00:45:46,800 --> 00:45:48,799
Speaker 1: got a phone call from one of the kids at

686
00:45:48,840 --> 00:45:51,200
Speaker 1: the school saying that they didn't that this. The girl

687
00:45:51,600 --> 00:45:53,400
Speaker 1: grew up with and went to grew up with an

688
00:45:53,440 --> 00:45:56,320
Speaker 1: all too grade school. She called it said Lashawanda and

689
00:45:56,560 --> 00:46:00,719
Speaker 1: Darren then the run off and got married together. They

690
00:46:00,840 --> 00:46:07,680
Speaker 1: done say that done yesterday. But my father ain't my father,

691
00:46:07,719 --> 00:46:11,200
Speaker 1: ain't I talked to him my three days ago here.

692
00:46:11,360 --> 00:46:14,960
Speaker 1: He ain't nothing like that. I know, ain't it yesterday.

693
00:46:15,600 --> 00:46:18,959
Speaker 1: I've been calling, shying and call it. Ain't nobody picking

694
00:46:19,080 --> 00:46:21,880
Speaker 1: up and I'm calling the boys. Didn't give me the

695
00:46:21,960 --> 00:46:24,439
Speaker 1: boy phone number. I call him and ain't nobody picking

696
00:46:24,560 --> 00:46:28,160
Speaker 1: up in the airs or nothing. It ain't like my

697
00:46:28,280 --> 00:46:31,160
Speaker 1: baby girl to do like nothing like this here. But

698
00:46:31,280 --> 00:46:33,440
Speaker 1: it's not like my father do nothing like that without

699
00:46:33,520 --> 00:46:36,120
Speaker 1: talking to me first. So let me call down there

700
00:46:36,520 --> 00:46:39,400
Speaker 1: and talked to Darren and uh, I can't give me

701
00:46:39,480 --> 00:46:42,440
Speaker 1: your number. I'll call you back. I'm going down there

702
00:46:42,480 --> 00:46:46,200
Speaker 1: to that school myself. I'm gonna find both of them now.

703
00:46:46,239 --> 00:46:48,880
Speaker 1: I'm gonna call you to let you know his Now.

704
00:46:48,960 --> 00:46:52,480
Speaker 1: If I'm find out my baby girl and then ran

705
00:46:52,560 --> 00:46:56,080
Speaker 1: off and got married because she didn't got pregnant, I

706
00:46:56,880 --> 00:46:59,120
Speaker 1: promise you I'm gonna do something that boy. Ye, if

707
00:46:59,120 --> 00:47:01,960
Speaker 1: you got my baby pregnant, you wait a minute, now,

708
00:47:02,080 --> 00:47:04,680
Speaker 1: wait a minute. Now, he doesn't do nothing to my son.

709
00:47:06,640 --> 00:47:10,040
Speaker 1: I understand about your daughter that's my son. Now you're

710
00:47:10,239 --> 00:47:12,640
Speaker 1: going down and put your hands on my son. If

711
00:47:13,560 --> 00:47:18,040
Speaker 1: you got if you come my only baby, I got, well,

712
00:47:18,360 --> 00:47:20,680
Speaker 1: I understand that's your only baby, because that's that's my

713
00:47:20,800 --> 00:47:22,839
Speaker 1: only son. If you tell me I was gonna put

714
00:47:22,880 --> 00:47:25,480
Speaker 1: your ass on, You're gonna have a problem. If you

715
00:47:25,680 --> 00:47:30,839
Speaker 1: got my baby pregnant, your son, Derek go, I'm gonna

716
00:47:30,840 --> 00:47:36,000
Speaker 1: beat it. I mean, what's your name again? What's your name?

717
00:47:36,120 --> 00:47:42,399
Speaker 1: It doing? My name is my baby? Wish? What's your name?

718
00:47:42,520 --> 00:47:47,480
Speaker 1: What's yourn? Do it? I know? How do you tell

719
00:47:47,480 --> 00:47:50,480
Speaker 1: your damn that? Look at mister don Uh, you're not

720
00:47:50,600 --> 00:47:55,840
Speaker 1: gonna put your ass on my son. Help. And there's

721
00:47:55,840 --> 00:47:58,040
Speaker 1: the only reason I didn't see her doing something like

722
00:47:58,120 --> 00:48:00,560
Speaker 1: that because I'm talling you. I'm taller you. Isn't year

723
00:48:00,640 --> 00:48:03,719
Speaker 1: the year you don't make no baby. You don't make

724
00:48:03,800 --> 00:48:06,440
Speaker 1: no baby, not be married, you don't do it? He

725
00:48:08,000 --> 00:48:09,920
Speaker 1: went on. For God, man, that means you're trying to

726
00:48:10,000 --> 00:48:13,480
Speaker 1: make it right that wish you did, mister Dillon. Mister Dillon,

727
00:48:13,680 --> 00:48:18,600
Speaker 1: misten to me. Now, I understand that's your daughter, she's

728
00:48:18,640 --> 00:48:20,759
Speaker 1: playing or whatever, but let me talk to my son

729
00:48:21,120 --> 00:48:24,600
Speaker 1: before you go down there to try to do something crazy. Okay,

730
00:48:24,719 --> 00:48:29,160
Speaker 1: let me tell you something. Your son didn't curse my

731
00:48:29,320 --> 00:48:31,799
Speaker 1: baby girl and be getting married and he didn't gotta

732
00:48:31,920 --> 00:48:34,360
Speaker 1: bring it. I know what's going on. I know what

733
00:48:34,480 --> 00:48:39,000
Speaker 1: it is. My son ain't done nothing to your daughter.

734
00:48:39,480 --> 00:48:42,040
Speaker 1: Let me call down there and talk to him before

735
00:48:42,120 --> 00:48:45,200
Speaker 1: you talk about going down and putting your hands on somebody.

736
00:48:45,719 --> 00:48:49,479
Speaker 1: I told my maby the little dog, he ain't number

737
00:48:49,560 --> 00:48:53,719
Speaker 1: the dog? Who? Who? Who? Who? But don't be a

738
00:48:53,840 --> 00:48:56,879
Speaker 1: choosing my son of being no damn third. Now, Well

739
00:48:56,920 --> 00:48:59,560
Speaker 1: what kind of man we wrong? Getting mad? Of the

740
00:48:59,600 --> 00:49:02,120
Speaker 1: agent twenty? It ain't talking to the parts and nobody

741
00:49:02,160 --> 00:49:05,920
Speaker 1: wouldn't make them do something like that. Well, you're talking

742
00:49:05,920 --> 00:49:08,680
Speaker 1: about my tody. My son ain't done nothing because as

743
00:49:08,719 --> 00:49:11,040
Speaker 1: you're raising him, who did you raising? You? Ever done it?

744
00:49:11,080 --> 00:49:13,840
Speaker 1: You're raising him? Right? Wait a minute, now are you

745
00:49:13,960 --> 00:49:17,480
Speaker 1: talking to I'm talking my baby bringing I'm gonna beat

746
00:49:17,560 --> 00:49:21,360
Speaker 1: your boy. If you do, you're gonna get your on

747
00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:25,440
Speaker 1: my hold who you think you're talking? I'm talking to you.

748
00:49:26,480 --> 00:49:29,000
Speaker 1: I'm talking to your whole home. Man. Don't put your

749
00:49:29,640 --> 00:49:32,800
Speaker 1: hands on nobody. You put your hands on what? So

750
00:49:33,080 --> 00:49:40,480
Speaker 1: you know what? You understand me? That's my shown about

751
00:49:40,480 --> 00:49:47,279
Speaker 1: your daughter. But that's woman baby. Hey man, hey, I hey,

752
00:49:47,680 --> 00:49:49,800
Speaker 1: that's my shoe. You're talking about footing your hands on

753
00:49:50,120 --> 00:49:52,400
Speaker 1: You don't have a problem with me if my baby

754
00:49:52,480 --> 00:49:55,160
Speaker 1: bringing out promises, you ain't gonna never knowing that because

755
00:49:55,160 --> 00:49:57,839
Speaker 1: I'm gonna do something that bore you. Every man. That's

756
00:49:57,840 --> 00:50:00,439
Speaker 1: the last time on here. You gonna tell them my shore.

757
00:50:00,600 --> 00:50:04,400
Speaker 1: Now now you gonna shot down Gatty your show and

758
00:50:04,520 --> 00:50:07,160
Speaker 1: they and I relaxed for a minute. Let me call

759
00:50:07,280 --> 00:50:10,680
Speaker 1: my friend. I could dock to you, because that's I

760
00:50:10,800 --> 00:50:13,440
Speaker 1: need to tell you. We're heying. Man, what you got?

761
00:50:13,480 --> 00:50:15,960
Speaker 1: I got some other father in a school to get

762
00:50:16,000 --> 00:50:18,399
Speaker 1: the woman I want you to know one day. Get

763
00:50:18,440 --> 00:50:22,640
Speaker 1: off this phone. What is it? Man? Yeah, I'm listening.

764
00:50:25,440 --> 00:50:28,160
Speaker 1: His nephew caught me from the Steve Harvey Morning Show.

765
00:50:28,320 --> 00:50:33,240
Speaker 1: Mister Darren, you just got break by your son, Darren Junior.

766
00:50:34,520 --> 00:50:42,640
Speaker 1: Oh that boy boy got better sense. No, I gotta

767
00:50:42,640 --> 00:50:52,040
Speaker 1: have blood pressure. What I call his MoMA done my time? Me.

768
00:50:52,920 --> 00:50:55,160
Speaker 1: I gotta ask you, man, what is what is the

769
00:50:55,280 --> 00:50:58,319
Speaker 1: baddest I'm talking about the baddest radio show in the land,

770
00:50:58,680 --> 00:51:03,760
Speaker 1: Steve Harvey Morning. They do people? Still? Is that still

771
00:51:04,200 --> 00:51:07,880
Speaker 1: like they still they do. I don't know, but but

772
00:51:08,000 --> 00:51:10,480
Speaker 1: they don't do it like they know, like they did

773
00:51:10,640 --> 00:51:14,160
Speaker 1: and in the movies and stuff in the movie Anywhere

774
00:51:14,239 --> 00:51:19,719
Speaker 1: who just went on always passionate when they said, yeah, yeah,

775
00:51:19,840 --> 00:51:22,239
Speaker 1: they just run away and get married and come back

776
00:51:22,320 --> 00:51:25,160
Speaker 1: and yeah, that's pretty much how it is. I think

777
00:51:25,160 --> 00:51:28,040
Speaker 1: you're right, Carla. The Daisy Lopeman is they just go

778
00:51:28,160 --> 00:51:31,040
Speaker 1: to Vegas and get married, you know, so they just

779
00:51:31,200 --> 00:51:34,120
Speaker 1: text each other and say, hey, get married in Vegas.

780
00:51:35,600 --> 00:51:37,399
Speaker 1: Meet me and Vegas. I just see you there. Don't

781
00:51:37,440 --> 00:51:41,400
Speaker 1: kle me though. I might go to Vegas for my

782
00:51:41,480 --> 00:51:46,759
Speaker 1: anniversary this year. Yeah, okay, what year is it? Oh? Wow,

783
00:51:47,040 --> 00:51:51,279
Speaker 1: go here, cool, gotta go somewhere good? Yeah, what do Yeah?

784
00:51:51,520 --> 00:51:54,760
Speaker 1: Vegas is a good place. Who what happens to Vegas?

785
00:51:56,880 --> 00:52:02,480
Speaker 1: Get pregnant? But but but do couples do anything different

786
00:52:02,560 --> 00:52:07,360
Speaker 1: when they get to Vegas. It's the lovely dub the

787
00:52:07,520 --> 00:52:09,200
Speaker 1: same as it is at the house. Or is it

788
00:52:09,320 --> 00:52:14,239
Speaker 1: different in Vegas? Come on, come here, come here, come on,

789
00:52:14,520 --> 00:52:18,480
Speaker 1: put me up on this bath from counter top, Tommy,

790
00:52:18,920 --> 00:52:21,840
Speaker 1: not to put your business in the streets, Like, but

791
00:52:21,960 --> 00:52:24,080
Speaker 1: didn't you just come back from Vegas? You tell us

792
00:52:24,760 --> 00:52:31,239
Speaker 1: an Okay, they need a new in that room I

793
00:52:31,360 --> 00:52:35,600
Speaker 1: was in. Didn't he send us some pictures with Jackie

794
00:52:35,640 --> 00:52:39,000
Speaker 1: on his back in the pool? You know they don't

795
00:52:39,040 --> 00:52:42,759
Speaker 1: do that at home. Wow? Stuff, got ain't got a

796
00:52:42,840 --> 00:52:46,120
Speaker 1: pench nerve right now, keep your behind in this dresser.

797
00:52:46,239 --> 00:52:51,479
Speaker 1: Come on, it's running from my neck down my own nerve.

798
00:52:54,400 --> 00:52:59,959
Speaker 1: It was fun. It was Vegas, Vegas. Pinch nerve. Didn't

799
00:53:00,200 --> 00:53:02,560
Speaker 1: stay in Vegas. That happened in Vegas. They didn't stay.

800
00:53:03,680 --> 00:53:09,480
Speaker 1: We brought that back. Yeah wow, all right, well, thank you, Matthew,

801
00:53:10,880 --> 00:53:13,680
Speaker 1: and you play too much. I didn't forget. Yeah yeah.

802
00:53:15,640 --> 00:53:19,320
Speaker 1: Up next, it is the Strawberry Letter subject this second

803
00:53:19,400 --> 00:53:24,759
Speaker 1: child could ruin my relationship? Oh lord, what have I

804
00:53:24,840 --> 00:53:27,880
Speaker 1: gotten myself into. We'll get into that right after this.

805
00:53:28,520 --> 00:53:33,360
Speaker 1: You're listening to the Steven Show. Time now for today's

806
00:53:33,400 --> 00:53:38,000
Speaker 1: Strawberry Letter. And if you need advice on relationships, dating, work, sex, parenting,

807
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Speaker 1: and more. Please submit your Strawberry Letter to Steve Harvey

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00:53:41,239 --> 00:53:44,359
Speaker 1: FM and click submit Strawberry Letter. We could be reading

809
00:53:44,400 --> 00:53:46,680
Speaker 1: your letter live on the air, just like we're gonna

810
00:53:46,719 --> 00:53:50,399
Speaker 1: read this one right now. Buckle up, hold on tight,

811
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Speaker 1: We got it for you here. It is the Strawberry

812
00:53:52,800 --> 00:53:57,960
Speaker 1: letter subject the second child could ruin my relationship. Dear

813
00:53:58,040 --> 00:54:01,520
Speaker 1: Stephen Shirley. I am twenty two years old and I

814
00:54:01,680 --> 00:54:04,680
Speaker 1: have a three year old daughter with my boyfriend. We've

815
00:54:04,719 --> 00:54:07,360
Speaker 1: been together for six years, but we've been off and

816
00:54:07,560 --> 00:54:11,080
Speaker 1: on the whole time. One night, when we were not together,

817
00:54:11,440 --> 00:54:13,799
Speaker 1: I went out and got really drunk with a guy

818
00:54:14,520 --> 00:54:17,200
Speaker 1: that has been liking me for a long time. I

819
00:54:17,320 --> 00:54:20,200
Speaker 1: got so drunk that I passed out, and the next

820
00:54:20,320 --> 00:54:23,839
Speaker 1: morning I woke up at the guy's apartment and realized

821
00:54:24,360 --> 00:54:27,320
Speaker 1: that we had had sex. We went to the store

822
00:54:27,480 --> 00:54:30,160
Speaker 1: and got a Plan B pill so I would not

823
00:54:30,320 --> 00:54:33,680
Speaker 1: get pregnant. Well, the Plan B didn't work and I

824
00:54:33,920 --> 00:54:36,840
Speaker 1: ended up pregnant, and I knew it was this guy's

825
00:54:36,920 --> 00:54:39,440
Speaker 1: baby because I had not had sex with my boyfriend

826
00:54:39,600 --> 00:54:42,680
Speaker 1: before or after that night. When I found out I

827
00:54:42,840 --> 00:54:45,600
Speaker 1: was pregnant, I got back with my boyfriend and we

828
00:54:45,760 --> 00:54:48,160
Speaker 1: had a lot of sex, so when I told him

829
00:54:48,200 --> 00:54:50,640
Speaker 1: I was pregnant again, he had no reason to think

830
00:54:50,719 --> 00:54:53,640
Speaker 1: it was not his baby. We got back together, I

831
00:54:53,760 --> 00:54:56,080
Speaker 1: had the baby, and everything has been great with my

832
00:54:56,200 --> 00:54:59,320
Speaker 1: boyfriend and I. We have not had any problems and

833
00:54:59,400 --> 00:55:01,880
Speaker 1: he has taken in good care of me. And the kids.

834
00:55:02,520 --> 00:55:06,120
Speaker 1: But I have a big problem. I posted a picture

835
00:55:06,160 --> 00:55:08,920
Speaker 1: of my six month old daughter on Facebook, and her

836
00:55:09,000 --> 00:55:11,920
Speaker 1: daddy and his family saw the picture, and now they

837
00:55:12,040 --> 00:55:15,200
Speaker 1: want to be included in my child's life. There is

838
00:55:15,360 --> 00:55:18,720
Speaker 1: no way for me to deny that she's his daughter,

839
00:55:19,080 --> 00:55:23,120
Speaker 1: but my boyfriend has no idea. I honestly wish my

840
00:55:23,280 --> 00:55:26,360
Speaker 1: daughter's dad was like most of the other dudes that

841
00:55:26,560 --> 00:55:31,040
Speaker 1: don't care about their kids, but he's not. He has

842
00:55:31,080 --> 00:55:33,840
Speaker 1: been asking to spend time with her. I want to

843
00:55:33,920 --> 00:55:37,359
Speaker 1: tell my boyfriends so badly, but I know it will

844
00:55:37,400 --> 00:55:39,680
Speaker 1: be the end of us for good. I will be

845
00:55:40,480 --> 00:55:45,560
Speaker 1: alone without a father for either of my kids. I

846
00:55:45,719 --> 00:55:48,160
Speaker 1: can't help but think that this is my karma for

847
00:55:48,280 --> 00:55:51,439
Speaker 1: getting drunk and having sex. What should I do? Should

848
00:55:51,480 --> 00:55:56,080
Speaker 1: I secretly let my daughter see her dad? Please help? Well,

849
00:55:56,120 --> 00:55:59,240
Speaker 1: I don't know about karma for getting drunk and having sex,

850
00:55:59,400 --> 00:56:02,840
Speaker 1: but you certainly got drunk and didn't have any protection

851
00:56:02,920 --> 00:56:06,200
Speaker 1: and had sex. And I cannot be a party to

852
00:56:06,320 --> 00:56:08,759
Speaker 1: you lying to your baby daddy. I cannot do that.

853
00:56:08,960 --> 00:56:11,560
Speaker 1: This is a whole mess right here. You're in all

854
00:56:11,640 --> 00:56:14,840
Speaker 1: because you got drunk and, like I said, didn't use protection.

855
00:56:16,040 --> 00:56:19,680
Speaker 1: That was not smart. Now, all these lies you've told,

856
00:56:20,000 --> 00:56:23,160
Speaker 1: they can mess up everyone's life if you tell the truth.

857
00:56:23,440 --> 00:56:26,480
Speaker 1: And because your daughter's father and his family want to

858
00:56:26,560 --> 00:56:29,680
Speaker 1: be a part of her life, and rightfully so, why

859
00:56:29,760 --> 00:56:32,879
Speaker 1: wouldn't he. You know, a lot of guys don't want

860
00:56:32,920 --> 00:56:34,920
Speaker 1: to be a part of their kid's life, but you're right,

861
00:56:35,719 --> 00:56:38,279
Speaker 1: this guy does. He's not one of those ones that

862
00:56:38,400 --> 00:56:40,359
Speaker 1: don't want to be a part of his child's life.

863
00:56:40,800 --> 00:56:44,200
Speaker 1: So no, you should not do it secretly, not let

864
00:56:44,280 --> 00:56:48,200
Speaker 1: her see him secretly, because that's just more lies on

865
00:56:48,320 --> 00:56:50,840
Speaker 1: top of more lies and lies and lies and lies.

866
00:56:51,239 --> 00:56:53,520
Speaker 1: I mean, don't you think you've had enough secrets and

867
00:56:53,719 --> 00:56:57,279
Speaker 1: enough lies? Don't you think that? And I'll say this,

868
00:56:57,680 --> 00:56:59,880
Speaker 1: I mean some things I do believe you should take

869
00:57:00,040 --> 00:57:02,560
Speaker 1: to your grave, but this is certainly not one of them.

870
00:57:02,719 --> 00:57:05,040
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to come clean. You have to come

871
00:57:05,120 --> 00:57:08,239
Speaker 1: clean because the pictures out there now you've posted it

872
00:57:08,400 --> 00:57:10,800
Speaker 1: on the internet. You do not want your man to

873
00:57:10,920 --> 00:57:13,239
Speaker 1: find out on the internet, and you don't want him

874
00:57:13,280 --> 00:57:16,560
Speaker 1: to find out from your daughter's real dad. You just

875
00:57:16,680 --> 00:57:18,360
Speaker 1: don't want to do that. It's not a good look.

876
00:57:18,400 --> 00:57:20,800
Speaker 1: You're gonna have to face the music. You did this

877
00:57:20,920 --> 00:57:24,439
Speaker 1: to yourself unfortunately, but you know, you have your child

878
00:57:24,520 --> 00:57:28,000
Speaker 1: to think of now, and you have to You're gonna

879
00:57:28,000 --> 00:57:30,120
Speaker 1: have to come clean and do the right thing. Stie,

880
00:57:30,320 --> 00:57:33,240
Speaker 1: how drunk you is, you're gonna have it? Yeah, you

881
00:57:33,320 --> 00:57:35,360
Speaker 1: know so, man, I don't care how drunk you is.

882
00:57:35,880 --> 00:57:40,160
Speaker 1: I don't understand that. I woke up, yeah, and realized

883
00:57:40,240 --> 00:57:44,200
Speaker 1: I had six Of course, I could be speaking from

884
00:57:44,280 --> 00:57:48,560
Speaker 1: lack of experience, so let me just preempty by saying that, Yeah,

885
00:57:48,680 --> 00:57:51,200
Speaker 1: I'm not judging her, but I don't know nobody that

886
00:57:51,320 --> 00:57:54,560
Speaker 1: can really really clean. I was drunk. I woke up

887
00:57:54,600 --> 00:57:56,560
Speaker 1: and I didn't realize it, but I had had sex.

888
00:57:58,120 --> 00:58:00,360
Speaker 1: I don't know a person as that. I'm I saying

889
00:58:00,400 --> 00:58:07,880
Speaker 1: it's not possible. But it doesn't matter. It doesn't matter

890
00:58:08,960 --> 00:58:12,560
Speaker 1: that you got drunk with a guy that was liking

891
00:58:12,640 --> 00:58:15,360
Speaker 1: you for a long time, and you got so drunk

892
00:58:15,440 --> 00:58:17,480
Speaker 1: that I passed out. In the next morning, I woke

893
00:58:17,560 --> 00:58:19,200
Speaker 1: up back to the guy's department and realize that we

894
00:58:19,280 --> 00:58:21,880
Speaker 1: had had sex. So we went to the store and

895
00:58:21,960 --> 00:58:25,320
Speaker 1: got the Plan B peal so I wouldn't get pregnant. Well,

896
00:58:25,440 --> 00:58:29,080
Speaker 1: Plan B didn't work, and now you're pregnant. I knew

897
00:58:29,080 --> 00:58:31,200
Speaker 1: it was this guy's baby because I had not had

898
00:58:31,280 --> 00:58:34,920
Speaker 1: sex with my boyfriend before or after that night. Okay,

899
00:58:35,160 --> 00:58:38,600
Speaker 1: how long before and how long after? Obviously it was

900
00:58:38,680 --> 00:58:41,440
Speaker 1: close enough that when you found out you was pregnant,

901
00:58:41,520 --> 00:58:45,560
Speaker 1: you got back with your boyfriend and y'all had a

902
00:58:45,680 --> 00:58:48,440
Speaker 1: lot of sex. So then when I told him I

903
00:58:48,560 --> 00:58:51,360
Speaker 1: was pregnant again, he had no reason think it was

904
00:58:51,560 --> 00:58:56,240
Speaker 1: not his baby. Oh girl, you're real tricky, Yeah, you

905
00:58:56,480 --> 00:58:59,920
Speaker 1: real tricky. So now we got back together out of

906
00:59:00,000 --> 00:59:03,080
Speaker 1: and had the baby. Everything being great with my boyfriend

907
00:59:03,160 --> 00:59:06,200
Speaker 1: and I were had any problems, and he's taking good

908
00:59:06,240 --> 00:59:10,360
Speaker 1: care of me and the kids. Wow, you tricky girl,

909
00:59:10,440 --> 00:59:13,240
Speaker 1: But now you got a problem because you don't. Posted

910
00:59:13,280 --> 00:59:17,120
Speaker 1: a picture of my six month old daughter on Facebook

911
00:59:17,160 --> 00:59:20,000
Speaker 1: and her daddy and this family saw the picture and

912
00:59:20,120 --> 00:59:22,439
Speaker 1: now they want to be included in my child's life.

913
00:59:22,920 --> 00:59:29,680
Speaker 1: What just like that for? There's no way for me

914
00:59:29,880 --> 00:59:33,000
Speaker 1: to deny that she's his daughter. That little girl looked

915
00:59:33,040 --> 00:59:36,919
Speaker 1: just like that man that much. But my boyfriend ain't

916
00:59:36,960 --> 00:59:40,280
Speaker 1: got no idea. I honestly was my daughter's dad was

917
00:59:40,360 --> 00:59:43,160
Speaker 1: like most other dudes that don't care about their kids.

918
00:59:43,200 --> 00:59:46,520
Speaker 1: But he ain't. He's been asking to spend time with her.

919
00:59:47,840 --> 00:59:51,400
Speaker 1: What how old is your baby? Six months? Right, that's

920
00:59:51,440 --> 00:59:57,600
Speaker 1: what the letter say. This letter screams for opporternity test. Yeah,

921
00:59:57,920 --> 01:00:03,120
Speaker 1: so we can be shown. So before you throw your

922
01:00:03,200 --> 01:00:06,880
Speaker 1: life out the window, you really need to find out

923
01:00:07,520 --> 01:00:13,280
Speaker 1: if this is demand's baby. That's for starters. All right,

924
01:00:13,360 --> 01:00:16,000
Speaker 1: hang on, Steve. We'll get to part two of your response,

925
01:00:16,080 --> 01:00:19,360
Speaker 1: coming up at twenty three after the hour, subject the

926
01:00:19,560 --> 01:00:24,600
Speaker 1: second child could ruin my relationship right after this you're listening,

927
01:00:27,440 --> 01:00:30,880
Speaker 1: all right, Let's recap today's strawberry letters Steve, and get

928
01:00:30,920 --> 01:00:34,720
Speaker 1: to part two of your response, subject this second child

929
01:00:34,840 --> 01:00:40,200
Speaker 1: could ruin my relationship. Okay, this girl off and home

930
01:00:40,280 --> 01:00:43,040
Speaker 1: relationship with her man. They have a three year old

931
01:00:43,120 --> 01:00:46,160
Speaker 1: daughter together. They went off, she got drunk or night

932
01:00:46,320 --> 01:00:48,919
Speaker 1: passed out. I was out with a guy that really

933
01:00:49,000 --> 01:00:51,920
Speaker 1: liked He passed out, woke up next door and drunk,

934
01:00:52,280 --> 01:00:54,960
Speaker 1: realized they had sex when and bought a Plan B peel.

935
01:00:55,280 --> 01:01:00,439
Speaker 1: Plan B peel didn't work. Um, she decided she knew

936
01:01:00,520 --> 01:01:03,040
Speaker 1: she was pregnant. She found out she was pregnant, so

937
01:01:03,240 --> 01:01:05,960
Speaker 1: she got back with her boyfriend. They had a lot

938
01:01:06,040 --> 01:01:08,280
Speaker 1: of sex, so it was no reason for him to

939
01:01:08,480 --> 01:01:12,080
Speaker 1: think that it wasn't his baby. She's passed this off

940
01:01:12,600 --> 01:01:16,360
Speaker 1: as his baby. Everything has been going good for this

941
01:01:16,600 --> 01:01:20,600
Speaker 1: past six months. The guy's acting right. He's taking good

942
01:01:21,120 --> 01:01:24,480
Speaker 1: care of her and the babies, and everything's been great,

943
01:01:25,000 --> 01:01:28,720
Speaker 1: and I had any problems, and but now she says

944
01:01:28,800 --> 01:01:31,280
Speaker 1: she's got a big problem. I posted a picture of

945
01:01:31,320 --> 01:01:34,080
Speaker 1: my six month old daughter on Facebook, and her daddy

946
01:01:34,680 --> 01:01:37,240
Speaker 1: and his family saw the picture, and now they want

947
01:01:37,280 --> 01:01:42,920
Speaker 1: to be included in my child's life. Okay, that's natural.

948
01:01:44,720 --> 01:01:48,880
Speaker 1: So it's obvious to me that for him to look

949
01:01:48,920 --> 01:01:52,160
Speaker 1: at the child and think that's his child, you must

950
01:01:52,240 --> 01:01:56,040
Speaker 1: have told him that the plan B peel didn't work.

951
01:01:57,000 --> 01:02:00,479
Speaker 1: So now when he online, because ain't no dude looking

952
01:02:00,560 --> 01:02:05,200
Speaker 1: to be no father, Not these dudes, not nowadays. So

953
01:02:05,440 --> 01:02:08,000
Speaker 1: now what happened is you probably told him to play

954
01:02:08,040 --> 01:02:10,200
Speaker 1: and be didn't work and then he I don't know

955
01:02:10,320 --> 01:02:12,720
Speaker 1: what he said, ain't look ad what and all that.

956
01:02:13,440 --> 01:02:16,920
Speaker 1: Now you go with your boyfriend pawned the child off

957
01:02:17,040 --> 01:02:20,000
Speaker 1: on him. He's going for it. Now he'd found a

958
01:02:20,040 --> 01:02:22,680
Speaker 1: picture on Facebook and go, damn, she looked just like me,

959
01:02:23,360 --> 01:02:26,280
Speaker 1: and you already think that's his daddy. There's no way

960
01:02:26,360 --> 01:02:29,360
Speaker 1: for me to deny that she's his daughter. But my

961
01:02:29,520 --> 01:02:33,320
Speaker 1: boyfriend has no idea. Now he ain't like other dude,

962
01:02:33,440 --> 01:02:35,840
Speaker 1: or he want to see his kids. He'd been asking

963
01:02:35,880 --> 01:02:39,160
Speaker 1: to spend time with her. I want to tell my

964
01:02:39,280 --> 01:02:41,600
Speaker 1: boyfriend so bad, but I know will be the end

965
01:02:41,640 --> 01:02:45,520
Speaker 1: of us for good. I think you're correct, but then

966
01:02:45,640 --> 01:02:49,240
Speaker 1: you may not be correct. He may stay in there

967
01:02:49,320 --> 01:02:55,720
Speaker 1: with you, but it's gonna be a problem that would

968
01:02:55,760 --> 01:02:57,560
Speaker 1: be the end of us for good. Then I will

969
01:02:57,600 --> 01:03:00,640
Speaker 1: be alone without a father for either one of my kids.

970
01:03:01,800 --> 01:03:04,560
Speaker 1: I can't help but think this is my calma for

971
01:03:04,680 --> 01:03:08,800
Speaker 1: getting drunk and having sex. Well, listen, young lady, it's

972
01:03:08,840 --> 01:03:13,240
Speaker 1: not your calma, but it is the results. You know

973
01:03:13,480 --> 01:03:16,800
Speaker 1: that behind every action there's an equal and opposite reaction,

974
01:03:17,440 --> 01:03:20,840
Speaker 1: and as young people, we have to understand that we've

975
01:03:20,880 --> 01:03:25,280
Speaker 1: got to really be conscious of our actions. Now you've

976
01:03:25,320 --> 01:03:28,440
Speaker 1: made a mistake, but it's nothing you can't recover from.

977
01:03:29,320 --> 01:03:32,040
Speaker 1: So listen to me. I know it seems daunting, but

978
01:03:32,200 --> 01:03:34,640
Speaker 1: you want to keep your relationship with your boyfriend because

979
01:03:34,680 --> 01:03:39,919
Speaker 1: he's a good dude. This other dude than obviously said, see,

980
01:03:40,120 --> 01:03:42,160
Speaker 1: this is why I think that you may have told

981
01:03:42,240 --> 01:03:45,160
Speaker 1: him that the plan b pel didn't work. Because while

982
01:03:45,200 --> 01:03:47,280
Speaker 1: he onlines, he see a baby, he goes, man, that's

983
01:03:47,360 --> 01:03:51,560
Speaker 1: my baby, that's my baby. Don't dude, just go that's

984
01:03:51,640 --> 01:03:54,960
Speaker 1: my baby. Unless you told him you were pregnant, he

985
01:03:55,000 --> 01:03:56,520
Speaker 1: said he didn't want to have nothing to do with it.

986
01:03:56,800 --> 01:03:58,520
Speaker 1: Now he got the baby. Now him and his whole

987
01:03:58,560 --> 01:04:00,960
Speaker 1: family want to spend time with the That ain't right.

988
01:04:01,000 --> 01:04:03,400
Speaker 1: You don't get no girl pregnant and leave out like

989
01:04:03,560 --> 01:04:05,840
Speaker 1: that as his mama talking. Now, you know he got

990
01:04:05,920 --> 01:04:07,600
Speaker 1: to do the right thing. Now you want to do

991
01:04:07,680 --> 01:04:10,240
Speaker 1: the right thing, but the right thing is not the

992
01:04:10,360 --> 01:04:12,760
Speaker 1: right thing because you told your boyfriend it was his

993
01:04:14,840 --> 01:04:17,600
Speaker 1: What should I do? Should I secretly let my daughter

994
01:04:17,680 --> 01:04:20,520
Speaker 1: see her dad? That's the biggest mistake you can make

995
01:04:20,880 --> 01:04:23,600
Speaker 1: because there is no secret because the kid gonna tell it.

996
01:04:25,000 --> 01:04:28,640
Speaker 1: She's six months now. But what is she gonna be

997
01:04:28,720 --> 01:04:31,840
Speaker 1: calling that man when you go over to daddy. Ain't

998
01:04:31,880 --> 01:04:34,400
Speaker 1: you got her calling this one daddy? When she can

999
01:04:34,480 --> 01:04:37,480
Speaker 1: start talking. You don't think she's gonna get it confused

1000
01:04:37,520 --> 01:04:43,360
Speaker 1: one day? Secret? No, you got enough secrets, so we

1001
01:04:43,480 --> 01:04:46,280
Speaker 1: have to stop the secret. Shirley is right. Shirley said,

1002
01:04:46,640 --> 01:04:48,919
Speaker 1: there's some decisions you have to take to your grave.

1003
01:04:49,200 --> 01:04:52,640
Speaker 1: This is not one of them. This is where you're

1004
01:04:52,680 --> 01:04:55,200
Speaker 1: gonna have to stand up and bear up under what

1005
01:04:55,440 --> 01:04:59,600
Speaker 1: has happened. Now, what's the lesson we've learned here? Yo? Da?

1006
01:05:00,520 --> 01:05:03,120
Speaker 1: First of all, we don't do good when we drink,

1007
01:05:04,160 --> 01:05:07,440
Speaker 1: so we need to take drinking off the list of

1008
01:05:07,760 --> 01:05:11,920
Speaker 1: fun things to do because this fun thing then turn

1009
01:05:12,040 --> 01:05:15,880
Speaker 1: into a situation. Now you got two beautiful children. God

1010
01:05:15,920 --> 01:05:19,320
Speaker 1: don't mistake. God don't make mistakes with children, So they're here.

1011
01:05:21,000 --> 01:05:23,400
Speaker 1: You do have a dilemma because you're going to have

1012
01:05:23,720 --> 01:05:26,960
Speaker 1: to the first thing you need to do is secretly

1013
01:05:27,240 --> 01:05:29,880
Speaker 1: go get a paternity test. That you do need to

1014
01:05:29,960 --> 01:05:33,320
Speaker 1: do secretly so you can find out exactly who the

1015
01:05:33,400 --> 01:05:35,800
Speaker 1: father is because it may not be this one night

1016
01:05:35,920 --> 01:05:41,280
Speaker 1: dude's baby. It may not be, but then again, if

1017
01:05:41,360 --> 01:05:45,560
Speaker 1: it is, that's his child, you can't deny him. And

1018
01:05:45,680 --> 01:05:47,800
Speaker 1: then you got to tell the truth to your boyfriend.

1019
01:05:48,320 --> 01:05:50,440
Speaker 1: And then you got to just say you I want

1020
01:05:50,480 --> 01:05:52,439
Speaker 1: you to forgive me, and you got to see where

1021
01:05:52,440 --> 01:05:54,480
Speaker 1: it goes. But you're gonna have to play it out.

1022
01:05:55,240 --> 01:05:58,040
Speaker 1: I don't think you love this new guy at allow

1023
01:05:59,120 --> 01:06:01,960
Speaker 1: all right, listen, you can post your thoughts. Thank you, Steve.

1024
01:06:02,160 --> 01:06:05,480
Speaker 1: On today's Strawberry Letter at Steve Harvey FM, or you

1025
01:06:05,520 --> 01:06:09,280
Speaker 1: can check out the Strawberry Letter podcast on demand. Okay, now,

1026
01:06:09,360 --> 01:06:12,760
Speaker 1: coming up at forty six minutes after the hour, trending

1027
01:06:12,840 --> 01:06:15,600
Speaker 1: political news. And did you guys see the protesters in

1028
01:06:15,720 --> 01:06:28,560
Speaker 1: London against mister Trump? He said it's fake news. Yes,

1029
01:06:28,720 --> 01:06:30,880
Speaker 1: wait till you hear what he said. We'll get into

1030
01:06:30,920 --> 01:06:36,680
Speaker 1: it right after this. You're listening to the show, Guys,

1031
01:06:36,840 --> 01:06:40,000
Speaker 1: what do you think about President Trump's visit to um England?

1032
01:06:40,280 --> 01:06:42,560
Speaker 1: And after a day of pomp and all this pomp

1033
01:06:42,640 --> 01:06:46,120
Speaker 1: and circumstance and everything with the Royal family of Buckingham Palace,

1034
01:06:46,880 --> 01:06:50,240
Speaker 1: President Trump spent the day discussing politics with outgoing Prime

1035
01:06:50,280 --> 01:06:53,880
Speaker 1: Minister Theresa May. Now, while Trump sat in meetings all day,

1036
01:06:54,000 --> 01:06:58,280
Speaker 1: there were tens of thousands of protesters just filling the

1037
01:06:58,400 --> 01:07:03,480
Speaker 1: streets of central London. Yeah. The the infamous baby blimp,

1038
01:07:03,560 --> 01:07:07,640
Speaker 1: the Trump baby blimp, was out there too. Yeah, it

1039
01:07:07,800 --> 01:07:11,240
Speaker 1: flew over Parliament Square. It's a sixteen foot statue of

1040
01:07:11,280 --> 01:07:15,440
Speaker 1: Trump sitting on a gold toilet while tweeting is also

1041
01:07:15,640 --> 01:07:20,280
Speaker 1: on display. But despite all of these protests going on

1042
01:07:20,600 --> 01:07:24,320
Speaker 1: over there, the President claimed in a tweet that he

1043
01:07:24,440 --> 01:07:29,120
Speaker 1: hasn't seen any of them, He tweeted, tremendous crowds of

1044
01:07:29,200 --> 01:07:32,840
Speaker 1: well wishers and people that love our country. Haven't seen

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Speaker 1: any protests yet, but I'm sure the fake news will

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01:07:35,640 --> 01:07:39,320
Speaker 1: be working hard to find them. Great love all around.

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Speaker 1: You're not to look out the window, stand around them

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01:07:48,640 --> 01:07:52,280
Speaker 1: called protest. Yeah, they ain't waiting on you to come

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01:07:52,320 --> 01:07:54,360
Speaker 1: out on the back. And they're like you Michael Jackson,

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Speaker 1: right sir, he don't see Yeah yeah, yeah, like you

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Speaker 1: couldn't him. In that meeting, neither were ahead. They were

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Speaker 1: very vocal. Yeah what what? Wow? Can I tell you

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01:08:14,120 --> 01:08:18,040
Speaker 1: another piece of news that's kind of crazy. Yeah, they're

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Speaker 1: really talking about sending Trump's X campaign manager Paul Maniford teammate.

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Speaker 1: It transferred to Rikers. I saw that hard times, hard time.

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Speaker 1: Did they say why step well? The prosecutors in New

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Speaker 1: York because this is the other phase of his us

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Speaker 1: going against the state charges and they want him at Rikers,

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Speaker 1: notorious Rikers Island or the type. Don't talking deep block boy,

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Speaker 1: but these are his boys. This is what you what

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01:08:56,120 --> 01:08:58,360
Speaker 1: you're doing. You're going to Rikers for the president. I

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Speaker 1: would have some information, Yeah, what I'm coming with some Yeah,

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Speaker 1: what piece of alimation can I give you to keep? Yeahah,

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Speaker 1: what you need, I got it for you. Yeah, seriously.

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Speaker 1: All right, coming up at the top of the hour,

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Speaker 1: we'll talk about trending money news. Forbes list Jay Z

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Speaker 1: and Serena right after this. You're listening to show, all right, Steve,

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Speaker 1: Congratulations are in order for jay Z. According to Forbes magazine,

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Speaker 1: he's become the first hip hop artist to make it

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Speaker 1: into the billionaires club. We thought it was Doctor Dre

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Speaker 1: when he sold Dre beats a few years ago, because

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Speaker 1: he made three point two billion dollars in that deal

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Speaker 1: with Apple, but he was only personally worth eight hundred

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Speaker 1: million dollars. This happened back in twenty fourteen when he

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Speaker 1: sold dray beats. Yeah, say only yeah, as opposed to

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Speaker 1: the billions. You're right, you're right. But when you're talking,

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Speaker 1: when you're talking to billionaires, you know, don't they look

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01:10:09,560 --> 01:10:19,040
Speaker 1: down on millionaires? Steve? Yeah, you need them for them

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Speaker 1: being to make those Yeah. Yeah, like millionaires need thousand

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Speaker 1: airs to continue to be a millionaire, right right, I

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01:10:28,760 --> 01:10:34,800
Speaker 1: mean thousand naires need d h I'm telling you man. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: And and Doctor Dre isn't that far off worth eight

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Speaker 1: eight hundred millions. If he don't go another do yeah?

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Speaker 1: Back in fourteenaire, Oh he didn't got that. Jay Z's

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01:10:47,640 --> 01:10:50,719
Speaker 1: net worth is at a billion thanks to successful ventures

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Speaker 1: in fashion, liquor, and technology. He owns homes in La

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Speaker 1: the Hamptons, and New York City, as well as stakes

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Speaker 1: and companies like Uber and Title. So congratulations to him. Now.

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Speaker 1: In other Forbes news, yes, yeah. Tennis stars Serena Williams,

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Speaker 1: Uh you know, she's also a fashion mogul as well.

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Speaker 1: She made Forbes list of the world's richest self made

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Speaker 1: women this month. Forbes estimate Serena William's wealth to be

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Speaker 1: at two hundred and twenty five million, which the magazine

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Speaker 1: report she earned mostly off the court in the past

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Speaker 1: five years. Yeah, she invested in thirty four startups, with

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Speaker 1: sixty percent of her investments going to companies led by

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Speaker 1: women and people of color. Yes. And then in April,

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Speaker 1: uh yeah, Serena also launched her own brand, Serena Ventures,

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Speaker 1: which helps to fund other startups and launch her own companies.

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Speaker 1: And wait, We're not finished now, Rihanna is the richest

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Speaker 1: female musician. Now all right, freemate? Yes, yes, yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: yes yes, in the past fifteen months with her fenty

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01:11:55,640 --> 01:12:00,920
Speaker 1: beauty line, which I love. Uh yeah, yeah, I mean,

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Speaker 1: I mean it's great Carla, right, they have makeup, how highlights.

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Speaker 1: It's her lip color. Oh, her lip colors are outstanding. Anyway,

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Speaker 1: She's worth about six hundred million dollars. Some people thought

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Speaker 1: it would be uh Beyonce, Beyonce worth Yeah, four hundred million.

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Speaker 1: Brianna is these of one point four yes, yes, yes,

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Speaker 1: uh so. Rihanna is the richest female musician, So congratulations

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Speaker 1: to all of them. Wow, it's really amazing, man, It's

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Speaker 1: really amazing how well and how hard these sisters are working,

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01:12:40,000 --> 01:12:43,800
Speaker 1: because that is a tough feat in a man's word. Yeah,

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Speaker 1: that's so big. Yeah. There's so many things set in

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01:12:47,640 --> 01:12:52,360
Speaker 1: place for you not to be successful, right, and it's

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Speaker 1: really really refreshing to see these women who are doing

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Speaker 1: as well as they're doing. I mean, my hat's off too,

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01:13:00,120 --> 01:13:03,080
Speaker 1: because it is hard, man, It really is hard. Yeah.

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Speaker 1: You always say that maintaining it is even harder than

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Speaker 1: earning it than getting it. Yeah, d um. And what

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Speaker 1: I love about Rihanna is that when she wanted to

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Speaker 1: do her makeup, lind there were so many naysayers telling her,

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Speaker 1: you know, not to do it because there's so many

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Speaker 1: makeup lines out here. Why are you going to do makeup?

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Speaker 1: And she wanted to do it. Yeah, makeup line, right,

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Speaker 1: and she did it anyway and look at it, look

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Speaker 1: at it? Yeah. Yeah, what if she had listened to them?

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01:13:32,120 --> 01:13:34,400
Speaker 1: What if she had listened to them? You know, let's

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Speaker 1: come up with ugly man makeup? You you be you

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Speaker 1: be the spokesperson? Are you? Are you saying you're ugly

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Speaker 1: Tommy at all? You get your glance in this box

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01:13:57,080 --> 01:14:02,519
Speaker 1: as we go, Do you look like me? All right?

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01:14:04,560 --> 01:14:07,720
Speaker 1: I can help you more of the Steve Harvey Morning

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01:14:07,760 --> 01:14:10,360
Speaker 1: Show and some trending news at twenty minutes after the

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Speaker 1: hour right after this. You're listening to show, all right,

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Speaker 1: and trending news. We talked about this yesterday, how Sizza

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01:14:21,680 --> 01:14:25,840
Speaker 1: shut down Sephora. Well, Sepphora, the cosmetics chain, we'll close

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01:14:25,960 --> 01:14:29,679
Speaker 1: down all its stores today for a diversity training session

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01:14:30,240 --> 01:14:33,880
Speaker 1: after Sizza tweeted that she was racially profiled by a

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01:14:34,000 --> 01:14:38,479
Speaker 1: Calabasa's location. So, um, yeah, this is a result of her.

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Speaker 1: So thank you for that, Sizza, because if they need it,

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01:14:41,560 --> 01:14:44,240
Speaker 1: they need to do it. Yeah, that's big. Yeah, it

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01:14:44,479 --> 01:14:48,160
Speaker 1: is big, you know. Yeah, Sephora's big, and they need

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01:14:48,240 --> 01:14:50,680
Speaker 1: to know better and do better. So that's what they're

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01:14:50,680 --> 01:14:52,840
Speaker 1: gonna do. We get that ugly man makeup in there.

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01:14:56,120 --> 01:14:59,479
Speaker 1: We're gonna make a killing. Put your product right up

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01:14:59,520 --> 01:15:04,040
Speaker 1: there next fenty ugly people putting it on all day

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01:15:04,080 --> 01:15:11,639
Speaker 1: in the Do you look like me? I really appreciate

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01:15:11,720 --> 01:15:19,280
Speaker 1: the fact that he's final. I'm woman. Listen. This was

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01:15:19,360 --> 01:15:22,840
Speaker 1: a bad day for Tracy Morgan. Bad day for Tracy Morgan,

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01:15:22,920 --> 01:15:26,439
Speaker 1: the actor and comedian. He crashed Steve his two million

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01:15:26,479 --> 01:15:30,360
Speaker 1: dollars Bugatti. Veyron TMZ says the accident happened on a

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01:15:30,400 --> 01:15:34,240
Speaker 1: busy New York City street Tuesday afternoon after someone driving

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01:15:34,280 --> 01:15:37,760
Speaker 1: a Honda CRV tried making a last second right turn

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01:15:37,880 --> 01:15:43,880
Speaker 1: and smashed into Tracy. Who wow. Yeah, Tracy's okay. Yeah,

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01:15:44,080 --> 01:15:47,240
Speaker 1: he's okay. He tweeted that he's totally fine. His new

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01:15:47,320 --> 01:15:49,160
Speaker 1: car may not be. The car is back up the

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01:15:49,240 --> 01:15:51,760
Speaker 1: dealer to assess the damage, and we can only hope

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Speaker 1: that they total it. At this point, two million dollars Bugatti.

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Speaker 1: We'll have more of the Steve Harvey Morning Show right

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Speaker 1: after this. You're listening right now, it is time for

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Speaker 1: Steve's favorite segment. It's called Asked Steve. All right, here

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Speaker 1: we go. How would you describe your life in one sentence?

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Speaker 1: It has been an amazing journey. I like that. Okay,

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Speaker 1: it has been an amazing journey. I like it. Okay, okay, okay,

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Speaker 1: I got one. What It's something you want to tell

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01:16:26,800 --> 01:16:31,320
Speaker 1: your significant other, but are afraid that if she find

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01:16:31,400 --> 01:16:36,720
Speaker 1: out your break up or devoce you. Oh, I know

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Speaker 1: the answer to that. I'm saying that, right, don't. I

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Speaker 1: don't know why the hell they give me that girl,

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01:16:48,000 --> 01:16:51,200
Speaker 1: because no, I'm not giving that. That'll be all over

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Speaker 1: the internet. Steve Harvey wants to Oh no, oh, no,

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01:16:57,240 --> 01:17:01,080
Speaker 1: great question. But that's a really good question. Oh the

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01:17:01,240 --> 01:17:08,240
Speaker 1: question is, yeah, I'm not walking into that. Well, maybe

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Speaker 1: you can answer this one, Steve, all right, here's a question.

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Speaker 1: What is the most surprising thing you've accidentally overheard about yourself?

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01:17:19,040 --> 01:17:22,800
Speaker 1: He doesn't forget anything anything, you know, he observed things

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Speaker 1: about the time. One of the most surprising things was

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Speaker 1: a little boy who came up to me at the

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Speaker 1: Wearable Gala just this past week. And this is my

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Speaker 1: most recent surprising thing. He's the keynote speaker at the

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01:17:40,360 --> 01:17:45,000
Speaker 1: camp this Sunday, he mentoring camp came to my camp

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Speaker 1: eight years ago, came up to me and told me,

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01:17:49,280 --> 01:17:52,800
Speaker 1: mister Harvey, your camp changed my life. I was called

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01:17:52,840 --> 01:17:56,479
Speaker 1: to the ministry that night after listening to you. I'm

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Speaker 1: a minister and I'm preaching at the camp for the

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01:18:00,320 --> 01:18:04,920
Speaker 1: closing remarks on this Sunday. That was pretty surprising to

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Speaker 1: me because I don't know what I said turning into

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Speaker 1: a preacher many kids, I didn't cut down down, that's

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Speaker 1: tough love. It's a really big surprise. Wow. Okay, okay, right, junior,

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Speaker 1: all right up, all right. What is something you did

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01:18:29,560 --> 01:18:32,280
Speaker 1: when you were younger that could have healed you but

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01:18:32,439 --> 01:18:38,400
Speaker 1: you were too young to realize it. I got a

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Speaker 1: bunch of them. One time, my brother's convinced me and

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Speaker 1: my nephew to paint. My father had bought this catch

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Speaker 1: strap home that we got whippings with, and he kept

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Speaker 1: it on the hook right over his rocking chair. My

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01:18:51,400 --> 01:18:54,200
Speaker 1: brother told me and my dumbass nephew, if you painted

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Speaker 1: white and hanging back on that hood, he ain't gonna

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Speaker 1: know it because they bled in with the wall. We

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Speaker 1: painted it, and what happened right there. We almost got killed.

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Speaker 1: All Right, that ends it for asked Steve coming up

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Speaker 1: our last break of the day and some closing remarks

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01:19:19,360 --> 01:19:21,680
Speaker 1: from the one and only Steve Harvey right after this

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01:19:22,400 --> 01:19:27,800
Speaker 1: you're listening to all right, Steve, here we are last

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01:19:27,840 --> 01:19:31,000
Speaker 1: break of the day on this hump day. Time for

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01:19:31,120 --> 01:19:34,760
Speaker 1: you to leave us with some closing remarks. Yeah, you know.

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Speaker 1: I try to find different ways to encourage people because, uh, life,

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01:19:41,840 --> 01:19:45,679
Speaker 1: life is really challenging, man, and it's becoming even more

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01:19:45,800 --> 01:19:49,880
Speaker 1: so for all of us because of social media. Man.

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01:19:50,000 --> 01:19:53,880
Speaker 1: It's like craziness. It's it's you can become a part

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01:19:53,960 --> 01:19:59,800
Speaker 1: of the meal, so to speak. You can just become

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01:19:59,840 --> 01:20:01,760
Speaker 1: a part of the meal. And you don't even have

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01:20:01,920 --> 01:20:06,040
Speaker 1: to be famous, you really really don't. It can just

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01:20:06,200 --> 01:20:08,719
Speaker 1: be in your circle of friends that you start getting

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01:20:08,760 --> 01:20:11,679
Speaker 1: hated on or something like that. But it's really difficult

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Speaker 1: out here. So I really try to give people bits

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01:20:14,840 --> 01:20:18,080
Speaker 1: and pieces of things that happened to me as I

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Speaker 1: progress through my life and I maintain and I grow

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Speaker 1: all the while in spite of in spite of not

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01:20:27,960 --> 01:20:32,240
Speaker 1: two things help me. First of all, my relationship with

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01:20:32,400 --> 01:20:38,880
Speaker 1: God is probably better than it's ever been, because I've

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01:20:38,960 --> 01:20:42,040
Speaker 1: learned some really really useful tools over the past year

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Speaker 1: to really really help me. Now, little did I know

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Speaker 1: that God was presenting these tools to me so I

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Speaker 1: could so I would have them and be equipped for

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Speaker 1: the fight that he knew was coming my way. Man,

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Speaker 1: that's a cool, cool thing to know that God taught

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Speaker 1: me some things before last year that was going to

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Speaker 1: help me with what he knew was coming my way

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Speaker 1: this year. So the first thing I have to attribute

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01:21:12,200 --> 01:21:15,720
Speaker 1: and give credit to my relationship with God has been

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Speaker 1: the real root of my ability to keep moving forward

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Speaker 1: in the face of all circumstances, whether they seemed appeared

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Speaker 1: to be what they were or not. And then secondly,

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Speaker 1: I have learned how to shield myself. It's not that

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Speaker 1: I know how to shield myself, but I've learned how

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Speaker 1: to put a protective coding over my mind to help

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Speaker 1: me deal with negativity because it's just so much of

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01:21:47,960 --> 01:21:49,760
Speaker 1: it out there. Man. And if you get if you

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Speaker 1: really listen to what everybody's saying, you know you have

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01:21:52,800 --> 01:21:54,720
Speaker 1: a lot more people that love you than hate. You

1242
01:21:55,240 --> 01:21:58,040
Speaker 1: know that the problem with hate is it's so dog

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01:21:58,160 --> 01:22:02,200
Speaker 1: gone loud, and love you just somebody call and say, hey, man,

1244
01:22:02,640 --> 01:22:04,320
Speaker 1: don't worry about none of that. I got your back.

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01:22:04,400 --> 01:22:06,320
Speaker 1: I love you, man, thank you for all you do.

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01:22:07,080 --> 01:22:09,760
Speaker 1: Your real friends know the truth. It's just people who don't.

1247
01:22:10,200 --> 01:22:13,080
Speaker 1: They have something to say. So, your relationship with God

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Speaker 1: and this practice that I've learned of how to the

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Speaker 1: coat now how to coat my mind from negativity, have

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Speaker 1: been two of the most powerful things that I've developed

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Speaker 1: over the past couple of years and last year and

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Speaker 1: few months ago. That's really really helping me. And So

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Speaker 1: what I wanted to kind of share in light of

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Speaker 1: all of that, or in that same vein as what

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Speaker 1: I want you to stop doing. If you're doing this,

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01:22:41,439 --> 01:22:50,599
Speaker 1: stop giving people permission to have an opinion about you. Man,

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Speaker 1: Stop giving people permission to have an opinion about you when,

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Speaker 1: first of all, they don't even know you. Number two,

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Speaker 1: are a lot of people with an opinion about you.

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Speaker 1: They've never met you. And here's the most important reason

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Speaker 1: they don't know you. They haven't met you. And you

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Speaker 1: want to know the real reason, you shouldn't care, because

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Speaker 1: they don't care. They don't care anything about you, one

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Speaker 1: way or another. They just riding through the system, pushing buttons,

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Speaker 1: and you happen to be the button that they pushing today.

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Speaker 1: Do not give people permission to have an opinion about you,

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Speaker 1: and you listen to it. I stopped doing that. I

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Speaker 1: stopped giving people my permission to have an opinion about me.

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Speaker 1: You don't have I'm not giving you permission. Now you

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Speaker 1: can go have one, but it's without my permission, So

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Speaker 1: therefore you can't affect me. Listen to me. People, If

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Speaker 1: you don't give them the permission to affect you, they

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Speaker 1: can't affect you. You can keep pushing on and upwards

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Speaker 1: to your goals. Don't give them permission to turn you back.

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Speaker 1: Don't give them permission to stop you. Don't give a

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Speaker 1: person permission to ride your back. Marty Luther King said,

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Speaker 1: a man can't ride your back unless you bend over.

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Speaker 1: Stand up, stand up to some of this mess. I'm

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Speaker 1: not saying go down there and do something about it.

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Speaker 1: I'm just saying, stand up, hold your head up, square

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Speaker 1: your shoulders, pinch your shoulder blades, get your chests out,

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01:24:39,920 --> 01:24:43,559
Speaker 1: hold your chein up, go on with your bad self.

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Speaker 1: Quit worrying about what they're saying. Then people don't even

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01:24:47,800 --> 01:24:52,880
Speaker 1: know you. Don't give these people permission to make you

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Speaker 1: feel less than who you really are. Your heavenly Father

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01:24:57,479 --> 01:25:00,040
Speaker 1: made you. You're a child of God. These people but

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Speaker 1: didn't make you. Do not give them permission. Don't give

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Speaker 1: them permission to be a determining factor in your life.

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Speaker 1: They don't have your permission to do that. They don't

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Speaker 1: have the ability to do that. Don't give them permission

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Speaker 1: to hate you, turn you back, ride your back, make

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01:25:26,720 --> 01:25:29,720
Speaker 1: you feel less, be a determining factor in your life.

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01:25:29,960 --> 01:25:32,160
Speaker 1: You know why because they don't know you, they never

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Speaker 1: met you, and they don't care about you. You should

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Speaker 1: not care about what they think. Those are my remarks.

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