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Speaker 1: It is time to ask the clo ask yes, ask

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Speaker 1: all right, here we go. Uh. Terrence in Staten Island writes,

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Speaker 1: there's this chick at my job that came out and

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Speaker 1: says she knows I'm married, but she wants me to

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Speaker 1: come to dinner at her house. My mind says no,

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Speaker 1: but my body wants to go see what she's cooking.

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Speaker 2: Is it to God he's telling me, yes, all right,

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Speaker 2: isn't too dangerous?

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Speaker 1: Swing by her crib? Thank you for stopping that.

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Speaker 2: Yeah, it is.

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Speaker 3: Dog's way too dangerous. It's because it's you go. You're

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Speaker 3: gonna break your files. You're gonna break your files. It's

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Speaker 3: too dangerous to do the dog.

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Speaker 2: I know. I know what happens. Ladies.

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Speaker 3: Let me give you a clue. Here's what happens. Nobody

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Speaker 3: escapes temptation.

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Speaker 2: In this life. Most men have faced it at one

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Speaker 2: point in time.

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Speaker 3: When you are faced with these tempting moments, somebody makes

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Speaker 3: you an offer that sounds too good.

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Speaker 2: To be true.

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Speaker 3: The only problem with that is you know what the

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Speaker 3: suggestion and the implications are.

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Speaker 2: You just man, it ain't gonna hurt nothing.

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Speaker 3: I'm gonna go on over here, just you know, just

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Speaker 3: talk we go over here and just sit up, watch

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Speaker 3: a little TV chi or uh, I'm gonna just see

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Speaker 3: what it's about.

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Speaker 2: And that's the beginning of the end.

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Speaker 3: Yeah, because you can't fight that type of temptation repeatedly.

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Speaker 2: You might can do it one time, but she's gonna

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Speaker 2: ask you back over there again.

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Speaker 3: You might can hold yourself together twice, but you can't

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Speaker 3: keep getting that temptation put in your face.

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Speaker 2: You can't win. You have to remove yourself from the situation. Now.

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Speaker 3: With that said, he going over there and it's gonna

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Speaker 3: be on and cracking. I'm just gonna tell you what's

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Speaker 3: finna happen. I appreciate you having this moment for me, unc,

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Speaker 3: but I'm finna go do this. Yeah, and I'm gonna

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Speaker 3: be able to go over here and sit and just talk, you.

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Speaker 2: Know, uh huh yeah right now.

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Speaker 3: But you ain't gonna believe what she gonna have on there,

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Speaker 3: wasn't it because she's not gonna have on nothing she

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Speaker 3: wear at work.

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Speaker 2: All right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to Michayla and Charleston, Mikayla writes, I've had

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Speaker 1: many lovers, and I didn't mind being honest with my

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Speaker 1: boyfriend because his buddy count is high as well. It's

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Speaker 1: his boys that are giving him a hard time and

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Speaker 1: making him second guest. Being with me, Why are men

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Speaker 1: being caddied like girls?

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Speaker 2: Why did you tell? Why did you? What made you

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Speaker 2: do that? Men are not like women. In the words

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Speaker 2: of my.

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Speaker 3: Father, Slick Hardy, who always told my old the sisters,

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Speaker 3: you can't do what I do and still be a lady.

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Speaker 3: These double standards have been around for a long time.

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Speaker 3: If a man sleeps with all the women in the office,

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Speaker 3: when he comes to work next day, he'll be mister Jackson.

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Speaker 3: If the woman sleeps with all the men in the

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Speaker 3: office when she comes to work, she gonna be everything

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Speaker 3: but the name her mama gave her. Because those are

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Speaker 3: the double standards, and I didn't make them up. And ladies,

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Speaker 3: we've talked about this on the show. What is your

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Speaker 3: maximum number that you are supposed to admit to? Twoue

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Speaker 3: three three is the maximum number your first one, your

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Speaker 3: ex and your current If there's a ten behind that number,

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Speaker 3: a zero shuts your mouth with three people, take that

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Speaker 3: zero off of it.

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Speaker 2: If that.

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Speaker 3: Dog she probably said about, she probably said about like like.

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Speaker 2: Thirteen thirteen, that's a lot. You can't say that to her. Lie,

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Speaker 2: what's your number? If she what? You don't ever ask

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Speaker 2: a man if you can ask me, But do you

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Speaker 2: know something? Man?

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Speaker 3: If you really told the number as a man, it

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Speaker 3: would actually shock y'all.

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Speaker 2: That number would throw out. Probably three is the magic

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Speaker 2: number for the ladies.

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Speaker 3: That's it for lady four the top. After you get

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Speaker 3: that number, you look at me different. Now you really

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Speaker 3: would look at it.

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Speaker 2: Discuss motivational talks. What did you talking about? You? You

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Speaker 2: need to wear what you need to go? Some wear? Wash? Wow,

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Speaker 2: I'm not shaking your hand. No more like that. All right?

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Speaker 1: Well three? It is from the man's perspective, all right.

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Speaker 1: Moving on to uh Delano in Minneapolis. Delano writes, I

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Speaker 1: had a date with a woman that said she is

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Speaker 1: a high value female. Her person shoes said otherwise. So

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Speaker 1: I thought she was trying to use me for an

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Speaker 1: overpriced meal. I didn't go to the restaurant of her choice.

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Speaker 1: I chose a less expensive one. Now she won't talk

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Speaker 1: to me. Did I do the right thing or play myself?

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Speaker 2: Well, you did the right thing.

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Speaker 3: If a woman won't eat with you because it's a

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Speaker 3: lesser restaurant, you have a problem. Y'all just met. That's cool,

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Speaker 3: you know, but not also bruhs. Let me say this

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Speaker 3: to y'all young men out here for the.

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Speaker 2: Rest uh huh.

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Speaker 1: Yeah, they did go. I mean he just didn't go

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Speaker 1: to the restaurant of perchoice. He chose a list, That's

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Speaker 1: what I'm saying.

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Speaker 3: But now let me say this young man out there,

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Speaker 3: I don't know when the thing started, where the turn

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Speaker 3: was made. Where you go Dutch? You don't pay for

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Speaker 3: a woman's food, I don't I don't know. I don't

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Speaker 3: know how that got started.

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Speaker 1: During women's liberation time and all that.

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Speaker 3: If you are pursuing a woman and you have a

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Speaker 3: problem with paying for a dinner, come school, come on,

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Speaker 3: you are setting yourself up for a massive amount of

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Speaker 3: failure in life.

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Speaker 2: Because one of our jobs as men is.

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Speaker 3: Provision and and young brothers, I just want you to

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Speaker 3: hear me, I ain't paying for that. We can go

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Speaker 3: Dutch till I find out what it's gonna be, No,

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Speaker 3: brou It's just a simple act of chivalry, It's a

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Speaker 3: simple act of kindness. If you can't invest in a

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Speaker 3: plate of food, what's your willingness to invest in a future?

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Speaker 3: A life of family? You have to practice being great.

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Speaker 3: Greatness is a practice. You don't just you you. You

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Speaker 3: don't just get to be great. You don't just get

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Speaker 3: to be a man. You have to practice manhood. And

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Speaker 3: it's okay. And if it turned out that is wrong,

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Speaker 3: then you understand that's you just put that in a

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Speaker 3: lost column.

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Speaker 2: God to take some hits, man. Yeah, the Dutch, don't

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Speaker 2: even go dutchy. You know what I mean.

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Speaker 1: That they're a welcome back nephew. Keep it stupid, you're

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Speaker 1: listening Harvey Morning Show.