1 00:00:00,120 --> 00:00:02,640 Speaker 1: Am I the a hole for refusing to save my 2 00:00:02,720 --> 00:00:05,480 Speaker 1: brother in law's life with my inheritance money? 3 00:00:06,920 --> 00:00:12,479 Speaker 2: I mean, may kill him, let him have it, murder them, 4 00:00:12,560 --> 00:00:16,400 Speaker 2: let that hammer, you know, yeah, let me gabble fall 5 00:00:16,480 --> 00:00:17,280 Speaker 2: bab We'll just. 6 00:00:17,280 --> 00:00:20,480 Speaker 3: We'll just we'll just do it quick. Let's not waste 7 00:00:20,520 --> 00:00:21,040 Speaker 3: any time. 8 00:00:22,000 --> 00:00:25,200 Speaker 1: Save your inheritance, mondy pull the plug. That's right, that's 9 00:00:25,280 --> 00:00:30,200 Speaker 1: that I should be on a billboard. All right, contexts John, 10 00:00:30,280 --> 00:00:31,160 Speaker 1: we love context? 11 00:00:31,200 --> 00:00:31,320 Speaker 2: Right? 12 00:00:31,320 --> 00:00:33,200 Speaker 3: Oh? Hell yeah, we love text. 13 00:00:33,520 --> 00:00:38,519 Speaker 1: You know they say context makes me want to have sex. 14 00:00:39,120 --> 00:00:41,159 Speaker 3: That's exactly what they say. That's what they say. 15 00:00:41,159 --> 00:00:41,960 Speaker 2: Everyone says it. 16 00:00:43,360 --> 00:00:47,080 Speaker 1: My sister female twenty seven, and I eighteen, female, lost 17 00:00:47,159 --> 00:00:50,280 Speaker 1: our dad a year ago. Sad he was my only parent. 18 00:00:50,360 --> 00:00:53,080 Speaker 1: Mom was never in mind or my sister's life. Dad 19 00:00:53,159 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: left money inhabitants for my sister and I, and she 20 00:00:56,400 --> 00:00:58,680 Speaker 1: used her inheritance to get new cars monov at her house. 21 00:00:59,120 --> 00:01:01,000 Speaker 1: I live with my aunt right now because my brother 22 00:01:01,040 --> 00:01:03,040 Speaker 1: in law didn't let me stay with my sister, and 23 00:01:03,160 --> 00:01:06,480 Speaker 1: I'm planning on using my inheritance to pay for college tuition. 24 00:01:06,720 --> 00:01:09,399 Speaker 1: I've always wanted to be a doctor, but haven't decided 25 00:01:09,440 --> 00:01:10,560 Speaker 1: which branch yet. 26 00:01:11,280 --> 00:01:17,000 Speaker 2: Stupid your parents, your parents, bro, dude, college is lame. Yeah, 27 00:01:17,120 --> 00:01:20,280 Speaker 2: make an NFT bray and we we have been on 28 00:01:20,400 --> 00:01:21,800 Speaker 2: both sides on the college. 29 00:01:22,640 --> 00:01:23,120 Speaker 3: That's right. 30 00:01:23,360 --> 00:01:28,080 Speaker 2: We represent the entire college experience, experiences, the experience and 31 00:01:28,120 --> 00:01:29,080 Speaker 2: the non experience. 32 00:01:30,080 --> 00:01:34,319 Speaker 1: He let me tell you where you know. We're here together, 33 00:01:34,440 --> 00:01:36,759 Speaker 1: that's right. So college did nothing, That's right. 34 00:01:36,800 --> 00:01:38,959 Speaker 2: That's what we got to say. Yeah, look at say, 35 00:01:38,959 --> 00:01:45,199 Speaker 2: I'm hanging with this low life drop out garbage. 36 00:01:44,480 --> 00:01:47,600 Speaker 3: See fuck you. We're doing what we love. Bro. 37 00:01:47,720 --> 00:01:52,360 Speaker 2: Yeah, there we go without college, that's right. I can't 38 00:01:52,360 --> 00:01:57,600 Speaker 2: teach you this drop out garbage sumbag. 39 00:01:59,560 --> 00:02:01,400 Speaker 3: Yeah college sex, dude, you don't need it to. 40 00:02:01,440 --> 00:02:03,240 Speaker 2: That's why I got to drag op down for wanting 41 00:02:03,280 --> 00:02:05,840 Speaker 2: to become a doctor, because that's you know, I want 42 00:02:05,840 --> 00:02:07,160 Speaker 2: to drag her down to my level. 43 00:02:07,280 --> 00:02:09,720 Speaker 1: You know, dude, you would drag her up to your level. 44 00:02:10,880 --> 00:02:14,400 Speaker 1: Do you know doctors are it sucks to doctors. 45 00:02:14,000 --> 00:02:17,640 Speaker 2: Are just beneath me, Like it's I looked at doctors, 46 00:02:17,760 --> 00:02:18,880 Speaker 2: I'm like disgusted. 47 00:02:19,120 --> 00:02:23,600 Speaker 1: Then it goes doctors than missionaries yep, oh yeah, then 48 00:02:23,639 --> 00:02:28,440 Speaker 1: people who like missionary Mormons yep, Mormon missionaries. 49 00:02:29,480 --> 00:02:30,800 Speaker 3: We've met some moremon missionaries. 50 00:02:30,960 --> 00:02:34,480 Speaker 2: I I I actually have a whole thing with Mormons, 51 00:02:34,520 --> 00:02:37,680 Speaker 2: like I guess sex thing, not a sex thing, quite 52 00:02:37,760 --> 00:02:41,680 Speaker 2: the opposite known some Mormons. I was very close with 53 00:02:41,880 --> 00:02:43,720 Speaker 2: the son of a living Mormon apostle. 54 00:02:44,040 --> 00:02:46,960 Speaker 3: Wow, the cool guy. What does that mean? Uh? They 55 00:02:47,000 --> 00:02:48,000 Speaker 3: have like living apostles. 56 00:02:48,000 --> 00:02:51,840 Speaker 2: It's kind of like like the governors of the religious institution, 57 00:02:52,400 --> 00:02:53,480 Speaker 2: is my understanding? 58 00:02:53,639 --> 00:02:54,320 Speaker 3: Like miracles? 59 00:02:55,000 --> 00:02:57,120 Speaker 2: They can't, they have no powers or nothing. It's it's more, 60 00:02:57,160 --> 00:02:59,200 Speaker 2: it's more like a like a senator. 61 00:02:59,520 --> 00:03:02,880 Speaker 1: It sounds so much cooler. I'm like a living apostle, Like, 62 00:03:02,960 --> 00:03:04,240 Speaker 1: do what magic? Can this guy do? 63 00:03:05,280 --> 00:03:07,040 Speaker 3: Some magic? Turn turns some water into wine? 64 00:03:07,080 --> 00:03:10,800 Speaker 2: Dude? That would be They don't drink though, so not 65 00:03:10,840 --> 00:03:13,200 Speaker 2: even coffee? All right, I turned that wine into the water. 66 00:03:14,600 --> 00:03:16,680 Speaker 3: There you go. Nice. 67 00:03:17,840 --> 00:03:20,760 Speaker 1: My sister and I haven't been that close recently, started 68 00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:23,880 Speaker 1: after she got married to her chronically ill husband, who 69 00:03:23,960 --> 00:03:27,080 Speaker 1: was allowed to make backhanded comments about dad and mock 70 00:03:27,200 --> 00:03:30,079 Speaker 1: his illness and make a scene at his funeral. 71 00:03:30,639 --> 00:03:36,240 Speaker 2: Jeez, I just don't understand, Like he himself ill is ill, 72 00:03:36,440 --> 00:03:39,400 Speaker 2: and he's still making fun of their dad's illness. 73 00:03:39,480 --> 00:03:41,520 Speaker 1: It sounds like it's going to come back around based 74 00:03:41,560 --> 00:03:45,360 Speaker 1: on the title, and she says he shouldn't be held 75 00:03:45,360 --> 00:03:48,600 Speaker 1: accountable for his behavior because he's ill. So I've distanced 76 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:52,560 Speaker 1: myself from my sister, but my sister kept visiting recently, 77 00:03:52,960 --> 00:03:55,720 Speaker 1: venting about my brother in law's condition. He's been in 78 00:03:55,760 --> 00:03:57,680 Speaker 1: and out of the hospital for heart problems and is 79 00:03:57,720 --> 00:03:58,960 Speaker 1: in need of surgery. 80 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,400 Speaker 2: Sounds like a ops, probably, I think, uh, I think 81 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:03,960 Speaker 2: I know where this one's headed. 82 00:04:05,040 --> 00:04:08,280 Speaker 1: She brought up my inheritance money several times, but I 83 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:10,280 Speaker 1: ended up just cutting the conversation right there. 84 00:04:10,360 --> 00:04:10,480 Speaker 3: Oh. 85 00:04:11,440 --> 00:04:14,080 Speaker 1: She then straight up asked if I could help pay 86 00:04:14,480 --> 00:04:17,240 Speaker 1: for her husband's surgery and she'd pay back in less 87 00:04:17,240 --> 00:04:20,720 Speaker 1: than a year. I felt a little uneasy because if 88 00:04:20,720 --> 00:04:23,280 Speaker 1: I gave her money from my inheritance, which is a 89 00:04:23,320 --> 00:04:25,920 Speaker 1: large amount, then there's no guarantee she'll pay back before 90 00:04:25,920 --> 00:04:27,239 Speaker 1: it's time to apply to college. 91 00:04:27,440 --> 00:04:30,800 Speaker 2: None. I mean, yeah, that's too risky, so risky. The 92 00:04:31,000 --> 00:04:34,600 Speaker 2: take out a loan, yeah, really like go go pay 93 00:04:34,680 --> 00:04:35,160 Speaker 2: back in a year? 94 00:04:35,200 --> 00:04:38,839 Speaker 1: Take out a loan yeah, boom man, I'm taking a 95 00:04:38,960 --> 00:04:41,320 Speaker 1: year gap, but I know my sister can't pay back 96 00:04:41,440 --> 00:04:43,919 Speaker 1: that much, and I felt I was risking my future, 97 00:04:44,080 --> 00:04:45,400 Speaker 1: which is totally true. 98 00:04:45,480 --> 00:04:48,240 Speaker 2: Dude, yeah. I mean, it's at the end of the day. 99 00:04:48,279 --> 00:04:52,279 Speaker 2: It's not her response. I think it would be nice 100 00:04:52,320 --> 00:04:56,840 Speaker 2: to contribute to it, probably, but that's that's her, if 101 00:04:57,120 --> 00:04:59,440 Speaker 2: she if she wants to be nice. Yeah, like, there's 102 00:04:59,480 --> 00:05:04,440 Speaker 2: no here, there's no obligation exactly. I refuse to help. 103 00:05:04,760 --> 00:05:07,119 Speaker 1: And then she had a meltdown at my aunt's house, 104 00:05:07,320 --> 00:05:07,960 Speaker 1: calling me a. 105 00:05:07,920 --> 00:05:11,680 Speaker 3: Heartless, cruel bitch with no empathy. Oh good you. 106 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:14,600 Speaker 1: She said that her husband's health should be a priority 107 00:05:14,800 --> 00:05:18,320 Speaker 1: and I needed to help because education is nothing compared 108 00:05:18,360 --> 00:05:21,520 Speaker 1: to someone's health, and asked if I'd be happy to 109 00:05:21,520 --> 00:05:24,400 Speaker 1: see her as a widow and my nephew with no father. 110 00:05:25,040 --> 00:05:30,680 Speaker 2: Oh wow, lady, just going in. 111 00:05:32,760 --> 00:05:35,320 Speaker 1: My aunt suggested others pay, but most of them cut 112 00:05:35,360 --> 00:05:37,760 Speaker 1: my sister and her husband off. Damn bro So like 113 00:05:37,800 --> 00:05:40,839 Speaker 1: her sister's super isolated or Op's sister is super isolated. 114 00:05:40,880 --> 00:05:41,960 Speaker 3: I wonder why. 115 00:05:42,600 --> 00:05:44,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, it sounds like the husband's kind of a dick. 116 00:05:46,080 --> 00:05:49,240 Speaker 1: I argued that her husband's poor health isn't my fault, 117 00:05:49,440 --> 00:05:52,960 Speaker 1: and she kept blaming and guilt tripping me. She kept crying, 118 00:05:53,080 --> 00:05:55,000 Speaker 1: and although my aunt decided to stay out of it, 119 00:05:55,240 --> 00:05:57,920 Speaker 1: she said that I should be prepared for permanent damage 120 00:05:57,920 --> 00:06:00,360 Speaker 1: in my relationship with my sister if I don't help 121 00:06:00,360 --> 00:06:03,880 Speaker 1: her right now, sounds like the relationship is kind of 122 00:06:03,880 --> 00:06:04,360 Speaker 1: already going. 123 00:06:04,960 --> 00:06:07,479 Speaker 2: I think, uh, I think we might want to damage 124 00:06:07,560 --> 00:06:08,440 Speaker 2: the relationshift. 125 00:06:08,600 --> 00:06:11,119 Speaker 1: She's been sending text and pictures of her family, telling 126 00:06:11,160 --> 00:06:13,080 Speaker 1: me this is what I was going to say. 127 00:06:12,880 --> 00:06:15,800 Speaker 3: No to, taking pictures of her kid. 128 00:06:17,600 --> 00:06:19,920 Speaker 2: You want him, you want him to not have a father, 129 00:06:20,080 --> 00:06:22,039 Speaker 2: don't you. Yeah, you love that. 130 00:06:23,560 --> 00:06:25,360 Speaker 3: You're getting off to this, baiby. 131 00:06:25,839 --> 00:06:27,960 Speaker 2: You love this kid being fatherless. 132 00:06:28,000 --> 00:06:30,919 Speaker 3: Oh my god, you freaking love it, she was saying. 133 00:06:30,960 --> 00:06:33,440 Speaker 1: I was saying no to a happy, healthy family with 134 00:06:33,480 --> 00:06:36,320 Speaker 1: a healthy husband and father. I cried and felt like 135 00:06:36,360 --> 00:06:38,880 Speaker 1: I was being selfish, not being a good aunt and sister. 136 00:06:39,480 --> 00:06:42,000 Speaker 1: I asked my friend, and he said, let them sell 137 00:06:42,040 --> 00:06:44,719 Speaker 1: the cars and all the luxurious stuff they bought to 138 00:06:44,760 --> 00:06:50,239 Speaker 1: afford the surgery. True, dude, she they spent their inheritance 139 00:06:50,600 --> 00:06:55,080 Speaker 1: on all these freaking fancy cars, but the porch. Can't 140 00:06:55,120 --> 00:06:56,120 Speaker 1: get rid of the porche. 141 00:06:56,160 --> 00:06:56,839 Speaker 3: I can't do. 142 00:06:57,920 --> 00:07:00,159 Speaker 1: My friend also warned me, if I give them money, 143 00:07:00,200 --> 00:07:02,440 Speaker 1: I'll never get it back, and then I may not 144 00:07:02,520 --> 00:07:05,640 Speaker 1: be able to go to medical school. Bro, just have 145 00:07:05,760 --> 00:07:09,840 Speaker 1: hers sell the cars literally sell, sell the luxury items. 146 00:07:10,080 --> 00:07:13,960 Speaker 1: Like it's it's so simple, it's so it's so simple 147 00:07:14,000 --> 00:07:16,520 Speaker 1: that like like all right, if it goes like maybe 148 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:17,800 Speaker 1: life then education. 149 00:07:18,720 --> 00:07:20,000 Speaker 3: Cars are way below that. 150 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:23,840 Speaker 2: Dude, you can luxury luxury I think it said luxury 151 00:07:23,840 --> 00:07:26,640 Speaker 2: cars and other items or something. I mean, get rid 152 00:07:26,680 --> 00:07:26,920 Speaker 2: of that. 153 00:07:26,960 --> 00:07:29,000 Speaker 3: Get rid of it. Yep. Prescription done,