1 00:00:00,480 --> 00:00:02,560 Speaker 1: Wake that ass up in the morning. 2 00:00:02,640 --> 00:00:08,760 Speaker 2: The Breakfast Club Morning, Everybody's dej Envy, Charlamagne to God, 3 00:00:09,400 --> 00:00:11,760 Speaker 2: Jess hilarious. We are the Breakfast Club. 4 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:11,960 Speaker 3: Now. 5 00:00:12,039 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: Jess is on maternity leave, so we have Lauren LaRosa 6 00:00:14,800 --> 00:00:17,000 Speaker 2: filling in and we have a special guest on the 7 00:00:17,040 --> 00:00:20,599 Speaker 2: line right now, she's actually out in Dubai. Ladies and gentlemen, 8 00:00:20,640 --> 00:00:25,639 Speaker 2: we have Sister Soldier. Welcome peace and how are you feeling? 9 00:00:27,080 --> 00:00:28,080 Speaker 3: I feel good? 10 00:00:28,240 --> 00:00:28,840 Speaker 2: You feel good. 11 00:00:28,880 --> 00:00:32,760 Speaker 3: Today's pub day, So I'm excited and I hope that, 12 00:00:32,960 --> 00:00:36,040 Speaker 3: you know, people will get a chance to read my book, 13 00:00:36,120 --> 00:00:40,720 Speaker 3: and people who enjoy the series will like this new edition. 14 00:00:41,240 --> 00:00:41,880 Speaker 3: Oh they will. 15 00:00:42,040 --> 00:00:43,760 Speaker 2: Now we ask for you to be in person, but 16 00:00:43,800 --> 00:00:45,760 Speaker 2: they say, Sister Soldier is in Dubai. 17 00:00:45,880 --> 00:00:47,760 Speaker 1: So have you moved to Dubai? 18 00:00:47,840 --> 00:00:49,880 Speaker 2: What is in Dubai? Why are you in Dubai? Why 19 00:00:49,880 --> 00:00:51,760 Speaker 2: did a girl from the Bronx decide she wanted to 20 00:00:51,800 --> 00:00:53,880 Speaker 2: go to Dubai to start writing? 21 00:00:55,560 --> 00:00:58,160 Speaker 3: Well, I needed some peace in my life. You know. 22 00:00:58,280 --> 00:01:03,440 Speaker 3: Writing takes a highlight level of concentration, and so if 23 00:01:03,480 --> 00:01:08,080 Speaker 3: I want to concentrate, I need things to quiet down 24 00:01:08,120 --> 00:01:10,800 Speaker 3: and be a little steady. And so I had come 25 00:01:10,840 --> 00:01:16,360 Speaker 3: here before, maybe around twenty thirteen, and I said, this 26 00:01:16,400 --> 00:01:20,080 Speaker 3: would probably be a good place to have that kind 27 00:01:20,080 --> 00:01:23,040 Speaker 3: of peace of mind. So much was going on in 28 00:01:23,040 --> 00:01:27,760 Speaker 3: the country, as it still is going on, and so 29 00:01:27,959 --> 00:01:32,279 Speaker 3: now at least I can concentrate and focus and feel 30 00:01:32,319 --> 00:01:37,200 Speaker 3: safe and healthy, and I can watch what's going on 31 00:01:37,360 --> 00:01:39,000 Speaker 3: at home from Afar. 32 00:01:39,319 --> 00:01:43,119 Speaker 1: You know, peace, How are you? I just walked back. 33 00:01:44,120 --> 00:01:45,880 Speaker 4: I'm blessed black and Holly favor. But I don't blame 34 00:01:45,920 --> 00:01:46,959 Speaker 4: you for getting out of here. 35 00:01:49,640 --> 00:01:52,760 Speaker 3: Yeah, no, I really At the time that I left, 36 00:01:53,000 --> 00:01:56,360 Speaker 3: I you know, I was really thinking about it quite clearly, 37 00:01:56,480 --> 00:02:00,480 Speaker 3: like could I, you know, move from where I'm rooted. 38 00:02:01,280 --> 00:02:04,720 Speaker 3: Can I leave all of my cards and house and 39 00:02:04,760 --> 00:02:08,480 Speaker 3: everything and go somewhere else and you know, I don't know, 40 00:02:08,600 --> 00:02:11,399 Speaker 3: maybe end up in a little rent a car or something. 41 00:02:11,919 --> 00:02:14,640 Speaker 3: But I was like, yep, I can do that, and 42 00:02:14,720 --> 00:02:15,079 Speaker 3: I did. 43 00:02:15,600 --> 00:02:17,120 Speaker 2: Do you feel a lot of the stuff that you 44 00:02:17,360 --> 00:02:20,520 Speaker 2: have talked about and discussed throughout your whole life just 45 00:02:20,560 --> 00:02:22,480 Speaker 2: seems like when you go back and look at some 46 00:02:22,480 --> 00:02:24,640 Speaker 2: of the things you've talked about, if you've spoken about 47 00:02:24,680 --> 00:02:27,400 Speaker 2: the themes, seems like things never change. It's like we're 48 00:02:27,440 --> 00:02:31,440 Speaker 2: still having those same conversations, whether it's politics, whether it's 49 00:02:31,600 --> 00:02:34,000 Speaker 2: racism in the country, and how do you feel about that. 50 00:02:35,800 --> 00:02:41,480 Speaker 3: I think things do change, and I think it's gotten worse. 51 00:02:41,600 --> 00:02:47,079 Speaker 3: Actually agree. When I look, you know, at the news, 52 00:02:47,720 --> 00:02:50,920 Speaker 3: when I take a break, you know, from my work, 53 00:02:51,680 --> 00:02:56,280 Speaker 3: I'm always shocked, like every time, you know, I'm always 54 00:02:56,360 --> 00:02:59,760 Speaker 3: shocked at what's going on at home. And the funny 55 00:02:59,760 --> 00:03:02,400 Speaker 3: thing as well, it's not really funny, I guess it's ironic. 56 00:03:02,480 --> 00:03:06,680 Speaker 3: It's like when I'm working or when I'm with my 57 00:03:06,960 --> 00:03:11,400 Speaker 3: family over here, everything is peaceful, and then about six 58 00:03:11,560 --> 00:03:15,520 Speaker 3: pm is here is the open of business in America, 59 00:03:15,960 --> 00:03:18,320 Speaker 3: And as soon as I hear from my family at home, 60 00:03:18,400 --> 00:03:23,960 Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, no, you don't what's next, you know. 61 00:03:24,760 --> 00:03:30,239 Speaker 3: Oh that's terrible, that's sad, you know. And I try 62 00:03:30,280 --> 00:03:35,880 Speaker 3: to keep my you know, positive outlook, but I just 63 00:03:36,000 --> 00:03:40,000 Speaker 3: think that things are not going so well at home. 64 00:03:40,320 --> 00:03:42,560 Speaker 2: What do you think makes Dubai so peaceful? 65 00:03:45,120 --> 00:03:52,680 Speaker 3: Order Dubai Uae is an Islamic country, and so it 66 00:03:52,760 --> 00:03:58,440 Speaker 3: doesn't have as much of the contradiction or the hypocrisy 67 00:03:58,520 --> 00:04:00,880 Speaker 3: that we have at home. I think a lot of 68 00:04:00,920 --> 00:04:04,560 Speaker 3: people at home get confused because at home we have 69 00:04:04,720 --> 00:04:08,200 Speaker 3: the separation of church and state. That's the way our 70 00:04:08,400 --> 00:04:12,320 Speaker 3: constitution is set up. That's how our system is set up. 71 00:04:12,880 --> 00:04:22,800 Speaker 3: And so morality and certain order and certain civility is 72 00:04:22,839 --> 00:04:28,400 Speaker 3: not part of the legal code, whereas here the Qur'an 73 00:04:28,480 --> 00:04:32,280 Speaker 3: itself is the law. So you have to follow the 74 00:04:32,320 --> 00:04:38,679 Speaker 3: guidance and you have to respect the limits. At home. 75 00:04:40,760 --> 00:04:47,000 Speaker 3: I think our our appreciation for freedom uh leads us 76 00:04:47,120 --> 00:04:51,000 Speaker 3: or misleads us some time to exceed the limits in 77 00:04:51,080 --> 00:04:55,279 Speaker 3: ways that is not healthy. 78 00:04:55,440 --> 00:04:56,600 Speaker 1: You know what We're going to talk about a lot 79 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,040 Speaker 1: after midnight in one second. But you and the UAE. 80 00:04:59,440 --> 00:05:02,200 Speaker 4: Every black woman that I've met that in the UA, 81 00:05:02,279 --> 00:05:04,520 Speaker 4: because I love Abu Dhabi, they tell me that they 82 00:05:04,560 --> 00:05:08,599 Speaker 4: feel like a white man in America feels in the UAE. 83 00:05:09,640 --> 00:05:12,080 Speaker 1: That's how empowered they feel there. Well. 84 00:05:12,200 --> 00:05:18,719 Speaker 3: UAE is considered the safest country in the world. You 85 00:05:18,839 --> 00:05:24,440 Speaker 3: can walk and not feel any kind of anxiety, whether 86 00:05:24,520 --> 00:05:32,600 Speaker 3: it's daytime or whether it's nighttime. The police are actually friendly, 87 00:05:34,120 --> 00:05:36,080 Speaker 3: you know, which is mind blowing if you come from 88 00:05:36,160 --> 00:05:40,400 Speaker 3: New York City, right and you know, my husband and 89 00:05:40,440 --> 00:05:44,480 Speaker 3: I were walking outside one day for exercise doing some cardio, 90 00:05:45,080 --> 00:05:49,320 Speaker 3: and a cop car drove by and waved and my 91 00:05:49,400 --> 00:05:51,960 Speaker 3: husband was like, he's a Brooklyn cat. He was like, 92 00:05:52,480 --> 00:05:57,440 Speaker 3: are they waving at us? Are they trying to tell 93 00:05:57,480 --> 00:05:59,440 Speaker 3: us something? You know, what's up? And I said, no, 94 00:05:59,480 --> 00:06:03,159 Speaker 3: they just say and high. They're just saying ah, because 95 00:06:03,200 --> 00:06:06,160 Speaker 3: that's how it is out here, you know. Uh, it's 96 00:06:06,240 --> 00:06:12,240 Speaker 3: not the police versus the people. It's not. You don't 97 00:06:12,320 --> 00:06:17,279 Speaker 3: feel like your blackness is a crime or even a 98 00:06:17,320 --> 00:06:23,240 Speaker 3: consideration really, you know. So it's a lot of stress removed, 99 00:06:23,839 --> 00:06:26,440 Speaker 3: especially if you have children, if you're a parent. If 100 00:06:26,480 --> 00:06:30,039 Speaker 3: you are a parent and you worry at home, you 101 00:06:30,160 --> 00:06:32,760 Speaker 3: worry all the time. Every time your son walks out 102 00:06:32,800 --> 00:06:36,599 Speaker 3: the door, every time your daughter, you know, is outside 103 00:06:36,600 --> 00:06:41,520 Speaker 3: of your your eyesight. And here because everybody knows what 104 00:06:41,600 --> 00:06:46,360 Speaker 3: the rules are and they have to respect the limits 105 00:06:46,480 --> 00:06:47,920 Speaker 3: because the limits are the law. 106 00:06:48,760 --> 00:06:49,240 Speaker 1: That's right. 107 00:06:50,240 --> 00:06:52,560 Speaker 4: You're here to talk about love After Midnight, which is 108 00:06:52,920 --> 00:06:56,080 Speaker 4: the latest installment of the Winter Santiago series. For those 109 00:06:56,120 --> 00:06:58,520 Speaker 4: who aren't familiar with the series, how would you describe 110 00:06:58,560 --> 00:07:00,400 Speaker 4: what the series is about? 111 00:07:01,400 --> 00:07:07,080 Speaker 3: Well, I don't know anybody who's not familiar with the 112 00:07:07,080 --> 00:07:12,400 Speaker 3: The Coldest Winterever has survived through generations. It's a book 113 00:07:12,440 --> 00:07:17,240 Speaker 3: that every new set of thirteen year old girls and 114 00:07:18,040 --> 00:07:22,040 Speaker 3: boys read. It's a book that is so popular in 115 00:07:22,080 --> 00:07:28,080 Speaker 3: the prison system, is so popular in all women's gatherings 116 00:07:28,120 --> 00:07:31,440 Speaker 3: and even sororities and so on and so forth. So 117 00:07:31,720 --> 00:07:36,040 Speaker 3: people who follow this series know the Winter series is 118 00:07:36,080 --> 00:07:39,760 Speaker 3: like the coldest winter ever, and then Life After Death 119 00:07:40,920 --> 00:07:45,480 Speaker 3: and then Love After Midnight, which is in stores now today. 120 00:07:46,120 --> 00:07:48,880 Speaker 3: I also this is the This is my seventh novel, 121 00:07:49,680 --> 00:07:53,920 Speaker 3: but this is the first time I ever read the 122 00:07:53,960 --> 00:07:58,600 Speaker 3: audio book. So if you buy the book from Audible 123 00:07:58,800 --> 00:08:03,240 Speaker 3: or wherever, you're gonna hear my narration of one of 124 00:08:03,240 --> 00:08:06,200 Speaker 3: my books, which was a big deal for me because 125 00:08:06,240 --> 00:08:08,720 Speaker 3: I never narrated the books before. 126 00:08:09,320 --> 00:08:11,320 Speaker 1: How was what it changed since Life After Death? 127 00:08:12,960 --> 00:08:17,720 Speaker 3: How has Winter changed? Yeah? I think Winter is so 128 00:08:17,880 --> 00:08:24,720 Speaker 3: much like us. In other words, you know how something 129 00:08:25,160 --> 00:08:30,120 Speaker 3: spiritual can happen to you, something really big, or you 130 00:08:30,360 --> 00:08:36,240 Speaker 3: almost met your demise or death, you had a car 131 00:08:36,400 --> 00:08:39,280 Speaker 3: accident and it spun out of control and you were 132 00:08:39,320 --> 00:08:43,400 Speaker 3: hanging over the bridge, or in the case of one 133 00:08:43,440 --> 00:08:46,480 Speaker 3: of my sisters, you know, she had a car accident 134 00:08:46,640 --> 00:08:50,079 Speaker 3: where a tree fell on her car. And I think 135 00:08:50,280 --> 00:08:55,439 Speaker 3: what happens is it's a really big deal when it's happening, 136 00:08:56,120 --> 00:08:59,800 Speaker 3: and it's a really big deal when you feel the loss, 137 00:09:00,040 --> 00:09:03,000 Speaker 3: you feel the pain, and you feel the suffering in 138 00:09:03,040 --> 00:09:08,120 Speaker 3: life after death. I think so many shocking, unknown things 139 00:09:08,120 --> 00:09:11,920 Speaker 3: happened to went to Santiago, and when she came out 140 00:09:11,920 --> 00:09:16,400 Speaker 3: of that experience, really by the grace of God, she 141 00:09:16,559 --> 00:09:21,000 Speaker 3: was very clear about it. But most like most of us, 142 00:09:21,960 --> 00:09:25,520 Speaker 3: we forget. You know, one day you were praying and 143 00:09:25,559 --> 00:09:30,079 Speaker 3: thanking God, and then two weeks later you're like born 144 00:09:30,160 --> 00:09:35,320 Speaker 3: with the show. So I think she has changed in 145 00:09:35,440 --> 00:09:40,160 Speaker 3: some ways. She knows that there is a God, and 146 00:09:40,240 --> 00:09:44,720 Speaker 3: I don't think before her death experience she knew that. 147 00:09:47,080 --> 00:09:49,720 Speaker 3: She is all about her business now and now her 148 00:09:49,800 --> 00:09:53,840 Speaker 3: hustle is legal, it is not illegal, and that's a 149 00:09:53,840 --> 00:09:58,640 Speaker 3: big deal. Her father, Santiago, is her manager. Now she 150 00:09:58,720 --> 00:10:02,880 Speaker 3: has her own reality show. She has a lot of 151 00:10:02,960 --> 00:10:05,280 Speaker 3: leverage though, because she has a brother in law who 152 00:10:06,679 --> 00:10:09,880 Speaker 3: is in the film industry, is quite popular and quite powerful. 153 00:10:10,440 --> 00:10:15,560 Speaker 3: So how she juggles is what we'll see when to 154 00:10:15,600 --> 00:10:19,080 Speaker 3: go through in Love After Midnight, and how she pursues 155 00:10:19,520 --> 00:10:22,240 Speaker 3: the thing she wants in her life, like she wants 156 00:10:23,240 --> 00:10:26,040 Speaker 3: she wants a man, but she's looking for a man 157 00:10:26,480 --> 00:10:30,200 Speaker 3: that feels like the men of the nineties, and she's 158 00:10:30,480 --> 00:10:33,440 Speaker 3: is no longer the nineties now it's the twenty first century. 159 00:10:33,960 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 3: And she don't like these new dudes. So she's disappointed 160 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:42,360 Speaker 3: because she doesn't have somebody that you know, she really feels, 161 00:10:43,280 --> 00:10:47,559 Speaker 3: you know, deeply connected to, and so she's pursuing that. 162 00:10:48,320 --> 00:10:52,199 Speaker 3: But she's very picky and she'll she'll you know, choose 163 00:10:52,240 --> 00:10:56,080 Speaker 3: somebody up and spit them out in an instance. So 164 00:10:56,520 --> 00:10:59,959 Speaker 3: it's good for her business wise, financially, it's good for 165 00:11:00,160 --> 00:11:04,960 Speaker 3: her family wise. Uh, it's it's a struggle for her 166 00:11:05,080 --> 00:11:08,959 Speaker 3: because she has a certain kind of personality. But I 167 00:11:09,000 --> 00:11:12,560 Speaker 3: think that people will love Love after Midnight. I call 168 00:11:12,600 --> 00:11:17,160 Speaker 3: it a hood romantic comedy. And the reason why I 169 00:11:17,200 --> 00:11:21,960 Speaker 3: say hood is because romance in the hood sometimes it's 170 00:11:22,000 --> 00:11:23,040 Speaker 3: not that romantic. 171 00:11:23,960 --> 00:11:27,480 Speaker 4: It's actually it's actually more trauma bonding than anything more toxic. 172 00:11:27,320 --> 00:11:31,600 Speaker 3: Exact in the first so you're about to experience her trauma. 173 00:11:31,720 --> 00:11:35,199 Speaker 5: In the first chapter. Mood the like the first couple 174 00:11:35,200 --> 00:11:38,280 Speaker 5: of graphs grab me, you say, well, Winter is saying 175 00:11:38,280 --> 00:11:40,400 Speaker 5: I'm addicted. I'm addicted to the struggle in the hustle, 176 00:11:40,480 --> 00:11:44,040 Speaker 5: moving and maneuvering fighting, fury, action and reaction, pressure, intension, 177 00:11:44,480 --> 00:11:46,400 Speaker 5: And I was like, wow, you don't like as a 178 00:11:46,440 --> 00:11:49,439 Speaker 5: person growing up like a girl from around you don't 179 00:11:49,480 --> 00:11:51,920 Speaker 5: realize how much you're addicted to things that are really 180 00:11:52,000 --> 00:11:53,920 Speaker 5: traumatizing to you, and you think you need it, kind 181 00:11:53,960 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 5: of like to live and survive until you get out 182 00:11:56,400 --> 00:11:58,040 Speaker 5: of it, until you go through an experience like what 183 00:11:58,160 --> 00:12:02,000 Speaker 5: she went through in the last book. Speaking from that perspective, like, 184 00:12:02,040 --> 00:12:04,080 Speaker 5: you know, as a person who you know you're guiding 185 00:12:04,120 --> 00:12:06,640 Speaker 5: wins her, what do you want us girls to take 186 00:12:06,679 --> 00:12:08,439 Speaker 5: away from this book? Because when I read that, I'm like, oh, 187 00:12:08,440 --> 00:12:10,600 Speaker 5: this is deeper than like a lot of people even 188 00:12:10,600 --> 00:12:13,199 Speaker 5: probably know on the surface watching her journey through this 189 00:12:13,480 --> 00:12:14,000 Speaker 5: new book. 190 00:12:15,200 --> 00:12:18,559 Speaker 3: All right. In the beginning of my novels always there's 191 00:12:18,600 --> 00:12:22,760 Speaker 3: a poem, yes the wor and this one, you know, 192 00:12:23,520 --> 00:12:27,120 Speaker 3: is what to remember and what to forget? So what 193 00:12:28,679 --> 00:12:33,080 Speaker 3: as an author, what I'm showing is that sometimes we 194 00:12:33,240 --> 00:12:38,280 Speaker 3: don't focus on which things we should remember and which 195 00:12:38,559 --> 00:12:42,559 Speaker 3: things we should forget. And even artists in the entertainment 196 00:12:42,640 --> 00:12:46,400 Speaker 3: industry have the same problem. A lot of times. If 197 00:12:46,440 --> 00:12:50,520 Speaker 3: you're coming from hard times and then you get a 198 00:12:50,520 --> 00:12:54,480 Speaker 3: certain amount of money that you never thought you would 199 00:12:54,480 --> 00:12:58,560 Speaker 3: earn like you're making seven figures. You never thought you 200 00:12:58,559 --> 00:13:01,080 Speaker 3: would have that in the palm of your hand. And 201 00:13:01,120 --> 00:13:05,960 Speaker 3: you're young, so you want to bring everybody with you. 202 00:13:06,920 --> 00:13:11,200 Speaker 3: But if you bring the streets with you into your business, 203 00:13:12,760 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 3: things get complicated. And I think that we can all agree, 204 00:13:16,400 --> 00:13:23,920 Speaker 3: Like I'm constantly seeing cases on being aired on platforms 205 00:13:23,960 --> 00:13:29,600 Speaker 3: and on television about this rap star, that rap star, 206 00:13:29,840 --> 00:13:34,920 Speaker 3: this celebrity or that celebrity, and it was the person's 207 00:13:34,920 --> 00:13:41,040 Speaker 3: inability to transition from one level to another level, not 208 00:13:41,240 --> 00:13:45,040 Speaker 3: knowing what to remember, what to forget, what to hold 209 00:13:45,120 --> 00:13:49,440 Speaker 3: on to, and what to regret. Sometimes we glorify things 210 00:13:49,480 --> 00:13:53,199 Speaker 3: that are not good for us because we're just used 211 00:13:53,200 --> 00:13:56,439 Speaker 3: to it, right, And so if you hold on to 212 00:13:56,600 --> 00:13:59,800 Speaker 3: it because you're used to it, it's going to ruin 213 00:14:00,360 --> 00:14:05,120 Speaker 3: the gifts that you received. So I think life is 214 00:14:06,160 --> 00:14:09,440 Speaker 3: a balancing act. And I think that all of us 215 00:14:09,800 --> 00:14:13,720 Speaker 3: need guidance, and all of us need faith. And I 216 00:14:13,760 --> 00:14:16,079 Speaker 3: think if you don't have a faith, you know, whether 217 00:14:16,080 --> 00:14:22,040 Speaker 3: you're Christian or Jewish or Muslim or whatever your belief 218 00:14:22,240 --> 00:14:26,320 Speaker 3: system is, if you don't have a faith, you don't 219 00:14:26,400 --> 00:14:30,760 Speaker 3: have guidance, and you don't have limits to what you 220 00:14:30,880 --> 00:14:35,160 Speaker 3: will and will not do. And furthermore, you don't know 221 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:39,240 Speaker 3: who is all powerful, so you'll start doing things for 222 00:14:39,400 --> 00:14:43,280 Speaker 3: people because you think that those people are in control, 223 00:14:43,760 --> 00:14:46,480 Speaker 3: but really only one is in control. 224 00:14:46,680 --> 00:14:49,240 Speaker 2: No, it's crazy. You look at sports and you look 225 00:14:49,280 --> 00:14:51,640 Speaker 2: at all these other organizations and they have people that 226 00:14:51,720 --> 00:14:54,560 Speaker 2: actually come in to help these young men or young 227 00:14:54,600 --> 00:14:57,600 Speaker 2: women transition from one stage of their life to another 228 00:14:57,600 --> 00:14:59,320 Speaker 2: stage of their life. But when you look at the 229 00:14:59,440 --> 00:15:02,320 Speaker 2: entertainment industry, they don't have that, you know, because a 230 00:15:02,320 --> 00:15:04,880 Speaker 2: lot of these everybody, most people that come up from 231 00:15:05,000 --> 00:15:08,080 Speaker 2: the entertainment industry are from the street. So like you said, 232 00:15:08,080 --> 00:15:10,920 Speaker 2: they think what's popular or what they should be doing. 233 00:15:10,920 --> 00:15:13,120 Speaker 2: It's something that they see and there is nobody teaching 234 00:15:13,160 --> 00:15:15,640 Speaker 2: them this is not the way. There is no guidance. 235 00:15:16,960 --> 00:15:21,480 Speaker 3: But you know, envy there was. There were people who 236 00:15:21,520 --> 00:15:26,720 Speaker 3: were doing that. But if it's if it's any interest 237 00:15:26,800 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 3: of people who are financing these creative arts for their 238 00:15:31,960 --> 00:15:37,760 Speaker 3: artists to stay in a state of ignorance, then they block. 239 00:15:38,240 --> 00:15:40,880 Speaker 3: It's the same like you block somebody on your phone. 240 00:15:41,160 --> 00:15:45,400 Speaker 3: You block the good people, you block the leadership, you 241 00:15:45,440 --> 00:15:49,600 Speaker 3: block the intellectuals, you block the people who are just 242 00:15:50,680 --> 00:15:57,320 Speaker 3: good people who want to give guidance so that we 243 00:15:57,360 --> 00:15:58,400 Speaker 3: can prosper from it. 244 00:15:58,560 --> 00:16:01,560 Speaker 2: Yeah, and we see it so many different times. You know, 245 00:16:02,040 --> 00:16:04,320 Speaker 2: I just wanted to get your thought because I mean, 246 00:16:04,480 --> 00:16:06,480 Speaker 2: you're so profound in your thoughts and you actually do 247 00:16:06,560 --> 00:16:09,600 Speaker 2: the homework. What is your thoughts on what's going on 248 00:16:09,680 --> 00:16:12,760 Speaker 2: now with politics, with with Kamala Harris and Donald Trump. 249 00:16:14,160 --> 00:16:15,720 Speaker 2: What's your thoughts on that? Because you've never been a 250 00:16:15,720 --> 00:16:17,800 Speaker 2: person to bite your tongue, You're gonna say what it 251 00:16:17,840 --> 00:16:19,600 Speaker 2: is and how you feel and what you what you're thinking. 252 00:16:19,800 --> 00:16:22,440 Speaker 4: It feels like, to add to Envy's point, it does 253 00:16:22,480 --> 00:16:27,920 Speaker 4: feel like, especially around Israel, in Palestine, it does feel 254 00:16:27,920 --> 00:16:29,640 Speaker 4: like there's a lot of sister Soldier moments happening. 255 00:16:29,720 --> 00:16:32,560 Speaker 3: Yes, right, sister Soljier moments. 256 00:16:32,680 --> 00:16:34,880 Speaker 4: You know, you know the politicians call these things sister 257 00:16:34,960 --> 00:16:38,240 Speaker 4: Soldier moments, And feels like a lot of that is happening. 258 00:16:39,600 --> 00:16:47,600 Speaker 3: Well, you know, politics. Why I grew weary of politics 259 00:16:48,400 --> 00:16:52,400 Speaker 3: a number of years ago because I don't think that 260 00:16:53,720 --> 00:16:59,240 Speaker 3: the people are given real choices. I think you're always 261 00:17:00,320 --> 00:17:04,840 Speaker 3: you're always just doing the minimum, you know, like, okay, 262 00:17:06,119 --> 00:17:09,919 Speaker 3: all right, it's this one or that one, but you 263 00:17:09,920 --> 00:17:13,320 Speaker 3: don't feel good about any of it, you know. And 264 00:17:13,359 --> 00:17:18,000 Speaker 3: then there's also the fact of being organized is a 265 00:17:18,040 --> 00:17:23,200 Speaker 3: really big deal because if a community is not organized, 266 00:17:23,400 --> 00:17:27,880 Speaker 3: they don't even understand the political structure. It won't even 267 00:17:28,000 --> 00:17:33,159 Speaker 3: matter what you vote for or who you vote for, 268 00:17:33,240 --> 00:17:36,000 Speaker 3: if you don't have an agenda, if you don't have 269 00:17:36,080 --> 00:17:41,840 Speaker 3: your agenda backed up by finance, if you don't have 270 00:17:42,560 --> 00:17:45,560 Speaker 3: an understanding of how the system works. And the system 271 00:17:46,200 --> 00:17:50,800 Speaker 3: is quite intricate. So I don't know. I think for 272 00:17:50,920 --> 00:17:58,600 Speaker 3: maybe forty years, I was always that voice that was saying, 273 00:17:59,840 --> 00:18:07,080 Speaker 3: was questioning and proposing and suggesting and working and communicating 274 00:18:07,160 --> 00:18:10,359 Speaker 3: and so on and so forth. It just got to 275 00:18:10,400 --> 00:18:16,680 Speaker 3: the point where it seemed like it wasn't that people 276 00:18:17,560 --> 00:18:21,560 Speaker 3: didn't know what to do, they just weren't interested in 277 00:18:21,680 --> 00:18:22,200 Speaker 3: doing it. 278 00:18:24,080 --> 00:18:26,840 Speaker 4: Do you think, well, I don't want to say, do 279 00:18:26,920 --> 00:18:29,240 Speaker 4: you what do you think of the Vice president Kamala Harris? 280 00:18:29,280 --> 00:18:30,640 Speaker 4: What do you think of this moment that we're here 281 00:18:30,720 --> 00:18:33,320 Speaker 4: in America? Do you think it's revolutionary? Do you think 282 00:18:33,359 --> 00:18:36,160 Speaker 4: it's historic? Do you think that it's something that could 283 00:18:36,240 --> 00:18:38,480 Speaker 4: change things? 284 00:18:40,480 --> 00:18:40,680 Speaker 3: Oh? 285 00:18:40,720 --> 00:18:42,520 Speaker 2: Boy? 286 00:18:42,720 --> 00:18:48,000 Speaker 3: Well, I mean when Obama was running, you know, everyone 287 00:18:48,240 --> 00:18:53,440 Speaker 3: was excited and probably in tears. And you know, actually 288 00:18:53,480 --> 00:18:59,119 Speaker 3: I was living in Japan when Obama was elected and 289 00:18:59,160 --> 00:19:03,560 Speaker 3: all watched, you know, all the different news agencies and everything, 290 00:19:03,600 --> 00:19:09,320 Speaker 3: and people who really were so overwhelmed with happiness and tears, 291 00:19:10,440 --> 00:19:12,520 Speaker 3: and they seem to think that the world was going 292 00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:16,280 Speaker 3: to change in some really huge way. And you know, 293 00:19:16,640 --> 00:19:21,119 Speaker 3: I think that President Obama was a nice guy, but 294 00:19:21,200 --> 00:19:24,280 Speaker 3: I don't think that the world changed in any huge way. 295 00:19:25,280 --> 00:19:30,760 Speaker 3: I think it's a matter of it's a matter of 296 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:37,639 Speaker 3: knowing and studying and learning and planning. So it's not 297 00:19:37,760 --> 00:19:41,560 Speaker 3: a matter of is it going to be this man 298 00:19:41,680 --> 00:19:45,360 Speaker 3: or this woman. It's not a matter of that because 299 00:19:45,680 --> 00:19:47,719 Speaker 3: at the end of the day, it's just the face. 300 00:19:48,560 --> 00:19:50,760 Speaker 3: But you have to know how to work the system, 301 00:19:51,720 --> 00:19:55,840 Speaker 3: and you have to be organized to impact the system. 302 00:19:56,119 --> 00:19:59,800 Speaker 3: And I think in the US we have a co 303 00:20:00,119 --> 00:20:03,720 Speaker 3: of personality. You know, we just pick who we like 304 00:20:03,920 --> 00:20:07,439 Speaker 3: or who looks the best, or these different things. But 305 00:20:07,520 --> 00:20:09,919 Speaker 3: it really has nothing to do with politics and power. 306 00:20:10,760 --> 00:20:11,240 Speaker 1: That's real. 307 00:20:11,480 --> 00:20:14,480 Speaker 4: Why have it the Coldest went to ever been turned 308 00:20:14,480 --> 00:20:16,240 Speaker 4: into some type of series, our. 309 00:20:16,080 --> 00:20:18,439 Speaker 5: Movie yet That's why I had that same question. 310 00:20:19,760 --> 00:20:22,240 Speaker 4: Yes, I know, Jada, I think if I'm not mistaken. 311 00:20:22,240 --> 00:20:24,160 Speaker 4: Didn't Jada Pinket Smith option it back in the day 312 00:20:24,960 --> 00:20:25,760 Speaker 4: or something like that. 313 00:20:26,119 --> 00:20:29,639 Speaker 3: She optioned it a long, long time ago. Let me 314 00:20:29,720 --> 00:20:33,919 Speaker 3: just tell you simply, like, just give you the truth. 315 00:20:36,320 --> 00:20:43,080 Speaker 3: A Hollywood contract can be maybe fifty pages long and 316 00:20:43,080 --> 00:20:46,120 Speaker 3: not just be one of them. And there's so many 317 00:20:46,200 --> 00:20:50,919 Speaker 3: strict change things in these contracts, and it makes me 318 00:20:51,359 --> 00:20:55,840 Speaker 3: understand how other people kind of got caught in a 319 00:20:55,880 --> 00:21:04,720 Speaker 3: bad situation. But I read the contracts line for line, 320 00:21:04,760 --> 00:21:09,840 Speaker 3: and I have my red pen, and I write notes 321 00:21:11,240 --> 00:21:16,800 Speaker 3: on the side, and I negotiate because a contract is 322 00:21:16,960 --> 00:21:24,280 Speaker 3: a mutual agreement between two or more parties, and so 323 00:21:24,640 --> 00:21:27,360 Speaker 3: I feel like I have a voice in the contract, 324 00:21:27,880 --> 00:21:33,280 Speaker 3: whereas movie houses seem to think they write down whatever 325 00:21:33,320 --> 00:21:35,639 Speaker 3: they want to write in this contract and you just 326 00:21:35,720 --> 00:21:39,280 Speaker 3: sign on the dotted line and don't ask any questions. 327 00:21:39,800 --> 00:21:44,399 Speaker 3: So I think my intelligence has worked against me in 328 00:21:44,480 --> 00:21:50,159 Speaker 3: terms of the Hollywood system. But at the same time, 329 00:21:50,440 --> 00:21:54,840 Speaker 3: I wouldn't want to just sign some weird agreement and 330 00:21:55,800 --> 00:21:59,119 Speaker 3: end up regretting it, so I don't. So we were 331 00:21:59,160 --> 00:22:02,600 Speaker 3: at a major student yo, and uh, you know, I 332 00:22:02,760 --> 00:22:07,040 Speaker 3: just found the experience not to be what it should be. 333 00:22:07,480 --> 00:22:09,719 Speaker 5: If somebody came to you with the right situation that 334 00:22:09,760 --> 00:22:11,760 Speaker 5: you were comfortable with and you could trust, would you 335 00:22:11,760 --> 00:22:13,639 Speaker 5: do it or are you just completely against it because 336 00:22:13,640 --> 00:22:16,560 Speaker 5: of like the politics that go bhind you know, closed 337 00:22:16,560 --> 00:22:18,160 Speaker 5: door sometimes with the Hollywood studios. 338 00:22:18,960 --> 00:22:23,840 Speaker 3: No, I'm not against it. The right deal, yes, the 339 00:22:23,920 --> 00:22:26,919 Speaker 3: right deal. Let me let me give you a better 340 00:22:27,000 --> 00:22:29,960 Speaker 3: example so you can see what I'm saying. So I 341 00:22:30,000 --> 00:22:33,600 Speaker 3: said to you, I have seven novels. So say I say, okay, 342 00:22:33,640 --> 00:22:37,399 Speaker 3: I'm interested in making The Coldest Winterever into a film, 343 00:22:38,000 --> 00:22:42,120 Speaker 3: and the Hollywood studio says great, And then they come 344 00:22:42,160 --> 00:22:45,359 Speaker 3: back with the contract. And then the contract says, uh 345 00:22:46,240 --> 00:22:49,399 Speaker 3: that they are accessing the Coldest Winter Ever, a Deeper 346 00:22:49,440 --> 00:22:54,479 Speaker 3: Love Inside, and some other book that I wrote. And 347 00:22:54,520 --> 00:22:57,840 Speaker 3: I say, no, no, no, no, that's not what I'm selling. 348 00:22:58,200 --> 00:23:02,480 Speaker 3: I'm only doing a one a one deal with The 349 00:23:02,520 --> 00:23:07,040 Speaker 3: Coldest Winterever, the film version. And they say, yeah, okay, 350 00:23:07,119 --> 00:23:10,960 Speaker 3: So what we're gonna do is we're gonna freeze all 351 00:23:11,000 --> 00:23:14,560 Speaker 3: of your other works. So you will agree that during 352 00:23:14,600 --> 00:23:19,359 Speaker 3: this whole process you won't sell or discuss with any 353 00:23:19,400 --> 00:23:26,560 Speaker 3: other company or business person converting this book into a 354 00:23:26,640 --> 00:23:32,600 Speaker 3: film and we're gonna freeze it for five years before 355 00:23:32,920 --> 00:23:38,400 Speaker 3: and after the film is made. Just strange situations. There 356 00:23:38,440 --> 00:23:42,399 Speaker 3: are even some contracts that want you to not write 357 00:23:42,480 --> 00:23:48,400 Speaker 3: anything else until this is produced. So I'm not interested 358 00:23:48,600 --> 00:23:50,640 Speaker 3: in legal shackles. 359 00:23:51,000 --> 00:23:51,239 Speaker 4: You know. 360 00:23:52,440 --> 00:23:55,600 Speaker 3: It's like if I had ten houses and I'm selling 361 00:23:55,640 --> 00:23:58,359 Speaker 3: one of them and you tell me, okay, i'll buy 362 00:23:58,400 --> 00:24:01,960 Speaker 3: this one, but you're not allowed to sell the other nine. What. 363 00:24:02,280 --> 00:24:06,720 Speaker 2: Yeah, but they're my house, that's right, So. 364 00:24:06,680 --> 00:24:09,320 Speaker 3: What are you talking about? Okay, well you can sell 365 00:24:09,359 --> 00:24:12,199 Speaker 3: it in ten years. Come on, man, what are you 366 00:24:12,240 --> 00:24:16,240 Speaker 3: discussing here? So I think that the contracts are also 367 00:24:16,280 --> 00:24:19,960 Speaker 3: set up in a way that they're using a very 368 00:24:20,080 --> 00:24:25,480 Speaker 3: you know, legalistic language of course, a very high language, 369 00:24:25,840 --> 00:24:29,840 Speaker 3: and so they expect you to not understand. But I 370 00:24:30,000 --> 00:24:34,600 Speaker 3: know what inperpetuity means. It means forever, all right, you know, 371 00:24:34,960 --> 00:24:38,879 Speaker 3: so you're agreeing to something forever when you look at 372 00:24:38,880 --> 00:24:45,240 Speaker 3: these contracts. If you have any kind of independence in 373 00:24:45,280 --> 00:24:48,800 Speaker 3: your thinking or intelligence in your thinking, you're not going 374 00:24:48,880 --> 00:24:52,639 Speaker 3: to sign them. And so people think, oh, we'll just 375 00:24:52,720 --> 00:24:55,480 Speaker 3: let her sit over there and wait. She'll get tired 376 00:24:55,520 --> 00:24:58,040 Speaker 3: of waiting, and then she'll come and be more obedient. 377 00:24:59,440 --> 00:25:00,680 Speaker 3: But that's not me the case. 378 00:25:01,640 --> 00:25:05,880 Speaker 1: That's right, because you live a great life. 379 00:25:04,720 --> 00:25:07,560 Speaker 3: In a moment of the law. I do you know. 380 00:25:07,720 --> 00:25:11,320 Speaker 3: I try to be a good person. I make my prayers, 381 00:25:11,520 --> 00:25:18,120 Speaker 3: you know, every day throughout the day, and the law 382 00:25:18,200 --> 00:25:20,840 Speaker 3: takes very good care of me, the law, so I 383 00:25:20,840 --> 00:25:24,840 Speaker 3: have no complaints. I'm not in a desperate state, and 384 00:25:24,920 --> 00:25:27,600 Speaker 3: that makes me really comfortable. 385 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:30,040 Speaker 4: Well, you know, my daughter just turned sixteen, so I'm 386 00:25:30,080 --> 00:25:32,800 Speaker 4: gifting her of the whole the whole book series, the 387 00:25:32,800 --> 00:25:35,639 Speaker 4: Coldest Oneever, Life after Death and now I Love After Midnight. 388 00:25:35,720 --> 00:25:38,120 Speaker 1: I think you know she's ready to read those now. 389 00:25:38,320 --> 00:25:39,520 Speaker 1: I think I believe she is. 390 00:25:39,680 --> 00:25:42,280 Speaker 3: I hope, I hope you give her the Midnight books 391 00:25:42,320 --> 00:25:47,280 Speaker 3: also because she needs to know how to evaluate the 392 00:25:47,280 --> 00:25:51,359 Speaker 3: guys that you know she will come across in I. 393 00:25:51,840 --> 00:25:52,600 Speaker 1: Don't want to think about that. 394 00:25:52,640 --> 00:25:54,280 Speaker 5: Y'all might got talked through those, like she needs to 395 00:25:54,280 --> 00:25:55,919 Speaker 5: read and then y'all sit down and talk because the 396 00:25:55,920 --> 00:25:58,800 Speaker 5: Midnight series it changed my yeah. 397 00:25:58,800 --> 00:26:02,879 Speaker 3: Wow, yeah, But he needs to know. She needs to 398 00:26:03,000 --> 00:26:08,159 Speaker 3: know what a man is and what a man isn't, 399 00:26:09,000 --> 00:26:11,480 Speaker 3: and really what a woman is and what a woman isn't. 400 00:26:11,520 --> 00:26:15,560 Speaker 3: Because the Midnight Books don't only address manhood, they also 401 00:26:15,720 --> 00:26:21,240 Speaker 3: address womanhood, you know, And that main character is very influential, 402 00:26:21,920 --> 00:26:27,320 Speaker 3: and that Midnight series I think should be required reading 403 00:26:27,400 --> 00:26:29,680 Speaker 3: instead of some of the silly stuff that you get 404 00:26:30,119 --> 00:26:31,000 Speaker 3: in high school. 405 00:26:31,320 --> 00:26:32,000 Speaker 1: I agree. 406 00:26:32,280 --> 00:26:34,040 Speaker 2: Well, make sure you pick it up if you're out 407 00:26:34,040 --> 00:26:36,840 Speaker 2: and about. Pick up Love after Midnight. And Sister Soldier 408 00:26:36,880 --> 00:26:39,520 Speaker 2: actually did her own audio this time, so you could 409 00:26:39,520 --> 00:26:42,199 Speaker 2: pick up the audible as well. And we appreciate you 410 00:26:42,240 --> 00:26:47,119 Speaker 2: and be safe out there. We love you, Sister Soldier. 411 00:26:47,720 --> 00:26:50,040 Speaker 2: It's the Breakfast Club. Good morning, wake that. 412 00:26:50,080 --> 00:26:52,760 Speaker 1: Ass up in the morning. Breakfast Club.