1 00:00:01,960 --> 00:00:04,080 Speaker 1: Hey, everyone, welcome back to Bachelor Happy Hour. 2 00:00:04,160 --> 00:00:06,680 Speaker 2: I'm Joe and I'm Serena, and we hope that you 3 00:00:06,760 --> 00:00:10,000 Speaker 2: had a wonderful Thanksgiving us today if you did celebrate, 4 00:00:10,039 --> 00:00:11,800 Speaker 2: and we were so excited to be here today to 5 00:00:11,800 --> 00:00:14,720 Speaker 2: bring you a very special episode. As you know, we 6 00:00:14,760 --> 00:00:17,239 Speaker 2: didn't have any episodes this week. We took the week 7 00:00:17,239 --> 00:00:20,079 Speaker 2: off for the holiday, so no recaps, but we do 8 00:00:20,200 --> 00:00:22,400 Speaker 2: have a treat for you all. We know you all 9 00:00:22,600 --> 00:00:25,400 Speaker 2: absolutely have fallen in love with the Golden Bachelor and 10 00:00:25,440 --> 00:00:29,160 Speaker 2: specifically the women we've gotten to know. But what about 11 00:00:29,160 --> 00:00:31,880 Speaker 2: the women we haven't gotten to know, Well, we have 12 00:00:32,000 --> 00:00:35,360 Speaker 2: them on here today for a special episode of Happy 13 00:00:35,400 --> 00:00:37,840 Speaker 2: Hour with some of the wonderful Golden Bachelor women. 14 00:00:37,920 --> 00:00:38,680 Speaker 3: Joe, how are you feeling? 15 00:00:38,920 --> 00:00:41,440 Speaker 1: I mean I feel great. I actually am very excited 16 00:00:41,440 --> 00:00:43,360 Speaker 1: to talk to these women. How about you? 17 00:00:43,520 --> 00:00:46,519 Speaker 3: I'm excited too. We've got I think five women today. 18 00:00:46,880 --> 00:00:50,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, they were. They unfortunately were not at the Women 19 00:00:50,080 --> 00:00:53,200 Speaker 1: Tell All. So here's their shot to tell us all, 20 00:00:53,479 --> 00:00:56,240 Speaker 1: maybe to talk a little bit about Gary, find some 21 00:00:56,280 --> 00:00:58,840 Speaker 1: more things out. So we're going to get all the 22 00:00:58,920 --> 00:01:00,720 Speaker 1: drama from these from these women. 23 00:01:00,800 --> 00:01:03,279 Speaker 2: Yes, and behind the scenes on Night one, how they 24 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:05,959 Speaker 2: got on the show and just their stories. Overall, I 25 00:01:05,959 --> 00:01:09,440 Speaker 2: feel like all the women have had such incredible life stories. 26 00:01:09,560 --> 00:01:13,560 Speaker 2: So we'll be learning about these wonderful five women today. 27 00:01:13,680 --> 00:01:15,880 Speaker 1: You think any of them are currently dating right now? 28 00:01:16,000 --> 00:01:16,200 Speaker 4: Oh? 29 00:01:16,280 --> 00:01:17,479 Speaker 3: I hope so that'd be so fun. 30 00:01:17,560 --> 00:01:19,120 Speaker 1: Yeah, I hope so too. All right, should we just 31 00:01:19,120 --> 00:01:19,600 Speaker 1: get into it. 32 00:01:19,680 --> 00:01:20,160 Speaker 3: Let's do it? 33 00:01:20,280 --> 00:01:25,640 Speaker 1: Bring our first guest in. All right, everyone, please welcome Sylvia. 34 00:01:25,720 --> 00:01:28,720 Speaker 1: Sylvia to the podcast. How are you welcome. 35 00:01:28,800 --> 00:01:32,679 Speaker 5: I'm excited to be here. I'm a big fan, and congratulations. 36 00:01:32,720 --> 00:01:35,679 Speaker 5: I know you're newly wet, so you're still glowing. We'll 37 00:01:35,680 --> 00:01:40,880 Speaker 5: see what happens in ten years, but you. 38 00:01:39,080 --> 00:01:41,480 Speaker 1: Just ten only give it us ten years. 39 00:01:42,080 --> 00:01:43,520 Speaker 4: To be glowing, to be glowing. 40 00:01:43,760 --> 00:01:47,480 Speaker 1: Okay, all right, that's fair. Okay, So for our listeners, 41 00:01:47,960 --> 00:01:49,080 Speaker 1: when did you go home? 42 00:01:50,280 --> 00:01:53,680 Speaker 5: Unfortunately? I went home the first night, and I know 43 00:01:53,760 --> 00:01:56,120 Speaker 5: that you did too, Joe, so you can relate with me. 44 00:01:57,960 --> 00:02:04,920 Speaker 5: It was heartbreaking, but it was overall a wonderful, transformational experience. 45 00:02:04,960 --> 00:02:07,040 Speaker 5: So I enjoyed every single minute of it. 46 00:02:07,560 --> 00:02:09,000 Speaker 1: Yeah, I know, I know how it feels to go 47 00:02:09,000 --> 00:02:10,840 Speaker 1: whole night one? Is it is not? 48 00:02:11,120 --> 00:02:12,760 Speaker 5: Astros? 49 00:02:13,320 --> 00:02:14,919 Speaker 1: Why do you think it is? You just don't think 50 00:02:14,919 --> 00:02:16,840 Speaker 1: you got enough time with Gary that first night. 51 00:02:17,560 --> 00:02:20,400 Speaker 5: I think it's because, in all honesty, I had an 52 00:02:20,480 --> 00:02:23,160 Speaker 5: allergic reaction to something I ate the night before, and 53 00:02:23,200 --> 00:02:27,160 Speaker 5: I didn't sleep all night, and I was extremely tired, 54 00:02:27,160 --> 00:02:29,680 Speaker 5: and I was in the very last limo, and I 55 00:02:29,800 --> 00:02:32,440 Speaker 5: was almost the second to the last person to speak 56 00:02:32,440 --> 00:02:35,880 Speaker 5: to him. I barely had any energy, let alone spark 57 00:02:35,919 --> 00:02:38,600 Speaker 5: with myself, let alone spark with him and with the 58 00:02:38,639 --> 00:02:41,919 Speaker 5: other ladies. You know, one of the biggest regrets I 59 00:02:41,960 --> 00:02:44,160 Speaker 5: have is that I didn't really get to mingle that 60 00:02:44,280 --> 00:02:46,760 Speaker 5: much with the other women because I was so exhausted. 61 00:02:47,200 --> 00:02:50,480 Speaker 5: I was kind of just saving my energy and trying 62 00:02:50,520 --> 00:02:54,160 Speaker 5: to stay awake. I was so tired. So the stars 63 00:02:54,160 --> 00:02:56,440 Speaker 5: were aligned for me to be on the show, but 64 00:02:56,480 --> 00:02:58,760 Speaker 5: the stars were not aligned for me to stay on. 65 00:02:59,080 --> 00:03:01,440 Speaker 1: So what did you eat? 66 00:03:01,639 --> 00:03:03,680 Speaker 3: Yeah, those are my question, Like what what did you 67 00:03:03,720 --> 00:03:04,880 Speaker 3: have an allergic action too? 68 00:03:05,240 --> 00:03:08,680 Speaker 5: I have I'm allergic to citrus and vinegar. So I 69 00:03:08,720 --> 00:03:11,080 Speaker 5: think it was the salad dressing to the salad that 70 00:03:11,160 --> 00:03:15,400 Speaker 5: I had and I blow up or sometimes I get hives, 71 00:03:15,440 --> 00:03:18,520 Speaker 5: and I kind I blew up, and I had, you know, 72 00:03:19,120 --> 00:03:21,520 Speaker 5: a running, really running nose and I just wasn't able 73 00:03:21,520 --> 00:03:23,760 Speaker 5: to sleep all night, and as you know, that's the 74 00:03:23,800 --> 00:03:27,520 Speaker 5: longest night of the whole uh, the whole show. So 75 00:03:28,480 --> 00:03:30,959 Speaker 5: it just wasn't in the cards for me unfortunately. And 76 00:03:31,080 --> 00:03:34,320 Speaker 5: usually I'm very talkative, I'm very outgoing. I'm in politics. 77 00:03:34,360 --> 00:03:37,560 Speaker 5: I can work a room like nobody. But unfortunately, the 78 00:03:37,600 --> 00:03:39,280 Speaker 5: only thing I was trying to do is stay awake 79 00:03:39,320 --> 00:03:39,760 Speaker 5: that night. 80 00:03:40,160 --> 00:03:43,680 Speaker 3: Oh that's some seriously bad luck at a time. 81 00:03:44,160 --> 00:03:47,800 Speaker 1: SA Serena has a severe nut allergy, so she can 82 00:03:47,840 --> 00:03:48,560 Speaker 1: relate to that. 83 00:03:48,640 --> 00:03:49,600 Speaker 3: Yeah, I do. 84 00:03:50,000 --> 00:03:53,480 Speaker 2: And honestly, being up all night because you had an 85 00:03:53,520 --> 00:03:55,480 Speaker 2: allergic action, it's not just like you're up all night 86 00:03:55,480 --> 00:03:59,400 Speaker 2: with excitement like you're you're uncomfortable. Your body's recovering the 87 00:03:59,480 --> 00:04:02,440 Speaker 2: next day. So I just feel like it wasn't meant 88 00:04:02,480 --> 00:04:02,680 Speaker 2: to be. 89 00:04:03,080 --> 00:04:05,480 Speaker 5: It wasn't a yeah, yeah, it wasn't. 90 00:04:06,280 --> 00:04:09,440 Speaker 1: Sylvia. You just mentioned that you are in politics. What 91 00:04:09,480 --> 00:04:09,760 Speaker 1: do you do? 92 00:04:10,400 --> 00:04:13,440 Speaker 5: I work in local politics. I worked for elected officials. 93 00:04:13,520 --> 00:04:16,280 Speaker 5: I'm a media spokesperson. At times I do research and 94 00:04:16,360 --> 00:04:19,800 Speaker 5: policy or community outreach. And when I'm not working for 95 00:04:19,839 --> 00:04:23,520 Speaker 5: an elected official, I do government relations in the private 96 00:04:23,600 --> 00:04:24,440 Speaker 5: or public sector. 97 00:04:25,080 --> 00:04:26,520 Speaker 1: Nice and where do you live? 98 00:04:27,120 --> 00:04:29,080 Speaker 5: I live in Highland Park in Los Angeles. 99 00:04:29,520 --> 00:04:32,920 Speaker 1: Oh nice, nice, So it wasn't that far Ah, No, 100 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:33,440 Speaker 1: it wasn't. 101 00:04:33,600 --> 00:04:33,880 Speaker 4: It was. 102 00:04:33,920 --> 00:04:36,480 Speaker 5: It was exciting. I mean, I'm a big fan of 103 00:04:36,520 --> 00:04:38,719 Speaker 5: the show. I saw it from the first episode. I 104 00:04:38,760 --> 00:04:42,839 Speaker 5: saw when Trista got married. So I was in the limo. 105 00:04:42,960 --> 00:04:45,080 Speaker 5: I felt like I was an alien, you know, being 106 00:04:45,640 --> 00:04:47,800 Speaker 5: I felt like I was abducted by aliens or in 107 00:04:47,880 --> 00:04:50,240 Speaker 5: the limo watching you know, me and the in the 108 00:04:50,279 --> 00:04:53,200 Speaker 5: limo and the other ladies and the mansion and Jesse 109 00:04:53,320 --> 00:04:56,520 Speaker 5: Palmer there's there's a mansion. So it was it was 110 00:04:56,600 --> 00:04:59,039 Speaker 5: exciting and it was a fun experience. 111 00:04:59,520 --> 00:05:01,320 Speaker 1: So how did you How did you get on the 112 00:05:01,360 --> 00:05:02,680 Speaker 1: show in the first place. 113 00:05:03,320 --> 00:05:06,280 Speaker 5: Well, my niece told me about it. She nominated me, 114 00:05:06,360 --> 00:05:08,320 Speaker 5: and then I went through the whole process of the 115 00:05:08,360 --> 00:05:11,760 Speaker 5: interview process, and as you all know, it's very extensive 116 00:05:12,400 --> 00:05:16,240 Speaker 5: and everything worked well in that sense. I kept interviewing 117 00:05:16,279 --> 00:05:19,080 Speaker 5: and going up and moving up and talking to the 118 00:05:19,120 --> 00:05:22,680 Speaker 5: casting directors and the producers. So it was a fun experience. 119 00:05:23,960 --> 00:05:25,719 Speaker 5: It took about a year and a half. I think 120 00:05:25,720 --> 00:05:28,240 Speaker 5: because of COVID they put a halt to it so 121 00:05:28,880 --> 00:05:32,839 Speaker 5: that that process was fun and exciting. So I'm certainly 122 00:05:32,839 --> 00:05:36,360 Speaker 5: glad I made it to that Mansion night nice. 123 00:05:36,560 --> 00:05:38,560 Speaker 2: It's so funny because I think I've said this on 124 00:05:38,600 --> 00:05:41,200 Speaker 2: the podcast before, but I don't know if you know this, Sylvia. 125 00:05:41,720 --> 00:05:45,719 Speaker 2: I have not ever been to the Mansion because I 126 00:05:45,839 --> 00:05:51,160 Speaker 2: was a COVID season and Joe and I then obviously 127 00:05:51,200 --> 00:05:55,239 Speaker 2: to Paradise was at the Mansions. So we're going soon 128 00:05:55,680 --> 00:05:56,320 Speaker 2: for an event. 129 00:05:59,400 --> 00:06:02,599 Speaker 5: Imagine you spend the night at the Yeah. 130 00:06:03,000 --> 00:06:05,880 Speaker 3: Ever said that a few hours. 131 00:06:06,000 --> 00:06:09,479 Speaker 5: We're all match, but I'm best friend. There we go, 132 00:06:09,640 --> 00:06:10,960 Speaker 5: we spend a night at the Mansion. 133 00:06:10,960 --> 00:06:13,040 Speaker 3: You can start a club. But I'm excited. 134 00:06:13,200 --> 00:06:16,480 Speaker 2: I'm excited to go see it because everyone describes, especially 135 00:06:16,560 --> 00:06:18,960 Speaker 2: you know, people like you that are huge fans, lifelong 136 00:06:19,000 --> 00:06:19,640 Speaker 2: fans of the show. 137 00:06:19,720 --> 00:06:21,480 Speaker 3: Is it just being so magical to be there? 138 00:06:21,600 --> 00:06:24,400 Speaker 5: Yes, it definitely was. It definitely was. And the women 139 00:06:24,440 --> 00:06:27,040 Speaker 5: were beautiful and they were gracious and they were nice 140 00:06:27,080 --> 00:06:29,760 Speaker 5: and and I've actually become friends with the women here 141 00:06:29,760 --> 00:06:34,599 Speaker 5: in La So Edith, Marina and Christine we hang out together. 142 00:06:34,720 --> 00:06:37,240 Speaker 5: Yesterday I went with the hot with a hike with 143 00:06:37,320 --> 00:06:40,080 Speaker 5: the Marina and Edith in Eagle Rock, which is she 144 00:06:40,160 --> 00:06:42,480 Speaker 5: lives like five minutes from my house. We all live 145 00:06:42,520 --> 00:06:45,640 Speaker 5: really close to each other, so we become fast friends. 146 00:06:46,120 --> 00:06:48,200 Speaker 2: That's amazing. I feel like that's one of the best 147 00:06:48,200 --> 00:06:49,599 Speaker 2: things to come out of the show. If you don't 148 00:06:49,640 --> 00:06:51,840 Speaker 2: find love, you are hopefully going to find friendship. 149 00:06:51,960 --> 00:06:54,520 Speaker 5: Yes, and I have. So there's always benefits to life. 150 00:06:54,560 --> 00:07:00,320 Speaker 5: You have to look at life with optimism and gratitude, dude, 151 00:07:00,360 --> 00:07:03,359 Speaker 5: And I'm certainly grateful for the opportunity. 152 00:07:03,160 --> 00:07:06,440 Speaker 1: To either of those women tell you you're you're lucky 153 00:07:06,520 --> 00:07:08,440 Speaker 1: for going home early when you're dead. 154 00:07:09,320 --> 00:07:09,640 Speaker 6: No. 155 00:07:09,960 --> 00:07:12,200 Speaker 5: No, they just said, oh, it was too bad because 156 00:07:12,240 --> 00:07:14,160 Speaker 5: I wanted to stay longer, And you know, it was 157 00:07:14,240 --> 00:07:16,640 Speaker 5: just it was just the stars weren't aligned. It was 158 00:07:16,680 --> 00:07:19,680 Speaker 5: just my destiny. No, they had a great experiences that 159 00:07:20,120 --> 00:07:21,720 Speaker 5: they had a great experience, both of them. 160 00:07:21,760 --> 00:07:24,239 Speaker 1: Did you know sometimes when people go home like middle 161 00:07:24,280 --> 00:07:26,160 Speaker 1: of the pack, they're really like, huh, I wish I 162 00:07:26,160 --> 00:07:27,760 Speaker 1: would have just got eliminated right away. 163 00:07:27,880 --> 00:07:30,280 Speaker 2: Is that what you tell yourself, Joe, because you eliminated 164 00:07:30,400 --> 00:07:36,880 Speaker 2: right away that story, you guys start spreading that rumor, 165 00:07:37,200 --> 00:07:40,240 Speaker 2: you know, it's better to go home night one that. 166 00:07:40,320 --> 00:07:41,800 Speaker 5: I wanted to stay on longer. 167 00:07:42,360 --> 00:07:46,320 Speaker 1: I actually think it's almost like it's you're almost better 168 00:07:46,360 --> 00:07:48,200 Speaker 1: off going home night one. 169 00:07:48,680 --> 00:07:50,720 Speaker 2: I think it depends on your experience, if you have 170 00:07:51,360 --> 00:07:52,480 Speaker 2: if you get heartbroken. 171 00:07:53,080 --> 00:07:53,400 Speaker 3: Maybe. 172 00:07:53,480 --> 00:07:56,000 Speaker 2: I don't think anyone ever regrets any part of their 173 00:07:56,040 --> 00:07:57,760 Speaker 2: experience going the show, though, when you go home night 174 00:07:57,800 --> 00:08:00,840 Speaker 2: one and you go home, you know your heartbroken at 175 00:08:00,840 --> 00:08:03,720 Speaker 2: the end, because it is such a unique journey, you 176 00:08:03,800 --> 00:08:05,160 Speaker 2: always end up learning so much. 177 00:08:05,320 --> 00:08:07,080 Speaker 5: It worked out for Joe. I mean, I want to 178 00:08:07,080 --> 00:08:09,800 Speaker 5: be in Bachelor in pomp Springs whatever they call whatever, 179 00:08:09,800 --> 00:08:13,120 Speaker 5: then you want I know, I'm saying pomp Springs for 180 00:08:13,200 --> 00:08:14,000 Speaker 5: the older generator. 181 00:08:14,080 --> 00:08:15,320 Speaker 3: Yeah, that you think you think? 182 00:08:17,360 --> 00:08:19,440 Speaker 1: Do you think they'll you think they'll ever have that? 183 00:08:20,000 --> 00:08:20,440 Speaker 3: I do. 184 00:08:20,560 --> 00:08:22,760 Speaker 5: I think they'll have something. I hope and I'd love 185 00:08:22,840 --> 00:08:25,360 Speaker 5: to be considered. I mean, I didn't get an opportunity 186 00:08:25,400 --> 00:08:28,760 Speaker 5: for the whole experience, but I think they will, and 187 00:08:28,800 --> 00:08:30,960 Speaker 5: I think they should. I think there's a lot of 188 00:08:31,000 --> 00:08:34,280 Speaker 5: interest in it. What's great about the show? 189 00:08:34,679 --> 00:08:34,960 Speaker 4: For me? 190 00:08:35,080 --> 00:08:37,040 Speaker 5: You know, I've been single all my life. I'm I'm 191 00:08:37,080 --> 00:08:41,000 Speaker 5: the Bachelor, the real Bachelor rat in the show, and 192 00:08:41,160 --> 00:08:44,280 Speaker 5: I've always dated, I've always been hopeful, I'm always looking 193 00:08:44,320 --> 00:08:49,520 Speaker 5: for love, So for me, that was not unique. However, 194 00:08:50,120 --> 00:08:53,480 Speaker 5: I do feel it was a great opportunity to educate 195 00:08:53,559 --> 00:08:58,160 Speaker 5: America and the viewers and to see us as sexual people, 196 00:08:58,280 --> 00:09:03,359 Speaker 5: that it's important for any age to have physical emotional intimacy, 197 00:09:03,559 --> 00:09:08,200 Speaker 5: that love, companionship is a human need. It's a human trait, 198 00:09:08,320 --> 00:09:12,040 Speaker 5: just like we drink water, need the sun. Companionship is 199 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,840 Speaker 5: a very important part of humanity, you know, in the 200 00:09:14,840 --> 00:09:17,599 Speaker 5: fact people live longer because social networking. 201 00:09:17,720 --> 00:09:19,320 Speaker 1: So I think it was. 202 00:09:19,720 --> 00:09:22,680 Speaker 5: I found it very interesting that people would be were 203 00:09:22,720 --> 00:09:25,440 Speaker 5: shot that when people were kissing on the show, that 204 00:09:25,840 --> 00:09:28,600 Speaker 5: it was like they were taken aback, and I thought 205 00:09:28,640 --> 00:09:31,600 Speaker 5: it was very odd. You know, my parents are still 206 00:09:31,640 --> 00:09:34,800 Speaker 5: alive by My dad's ninety two, my mom's ninety and 207 00:09:34,840 --> 00:09:39,280 Speaker 5: they've been married for seventy years. Wow. So I always 208 00:09:39,280 --> 00:09:46,079 Speaker 5: grew up with a healthy attitude about relationships intimacy, and 209 00:09:46,200 --> 00:09:50,000 Speaker 5: so I understand that that's just a part of life. 210 00:09:50,000 --> 00:09:53,640 Speaker 5: And I'm glad that the show was able to enlighten 211 00:09:53,679 --> 00:09:57,040 Speaker 5: the world and the country about how important to have 212 00:09:57,160 --> 00:09:59,480 Speaker 5: love and intimacy at any age. 213 00:10:00,760 --> 00:10:04,200 Speaker 1: I love that were you were you actively dating prior 214 00:10:04,280 --> 00:10:04,800 Speaker 1: to going on? 215 00:10:05,320 --> 00:10:07,000 Speaker 5: Yes? I was yes? 216 00:10:07,120 --> 00:10:10,320 Speaker 1: And how does that look? Are you are you dating 217 00:10:10,320 --> 00:10:10,800 Speaker 1: on apps? 218 00:10:10,840 --> 00:10:10,880 Speaker 5: Like? 219 00:10:10,920 --> 00:10:13,880 Speaker 1: How are you dating? I have done well. 220 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:17,560 Speaker 5: Right before the show, I think the three years prior 221 00:10:17,640 --> 00:10:20,000 Speaker 5: because of COD was the first time I had experienced 222 00:10:20,000 --> 00:10:23,160 Speaker 5: the dating apps, and I was scared for years about 223 00:10:23,200 --> 00:10:26,720 Speaker 5: doing it. But you know, my eldest brother had passed 224 00:10:26,720 --> 00:10:32,800 Speaker 5: away in twenty nineteen, and then, you know, really unexpectedly, 225 00:10:32,880 --> 00:10:34,719 Speaker 5: and then my one of my good friends died two 226 00:10:34,760 --> 00:10:36,280 Speaker 5: months after him. I said, you know what, I have 227 00:10:36,400 --> 00:10:38,800 Speaker 5: to take risk in life, and that's why I also 228 00:10:38,880 --> 00:10:42,080 Speaker 5: did The Bachelor. I wanted to do things outside my 229 00:10:42,160 --> 00:10:44,360 Speaker 5: comfort level, so I forced myself to go on the 230 00:10:44,400 --> 00:10:47,600 Speaker 5: dating apps. And what's good about it is you're able 231 00:10:47,760 --> 00:10:51,480 Speaker 5: to have a pool of candidates that are your age, 232 00:10:51,600 --> 00:10:54,520 Speaker 5: but the same experiences. A woman, a twenty year old 233 00:10:54,640 --> 00:10:57,560 Speaker 5: is experiencing the same things with the man if he's 234 00:10:57,600 --> 00:11:01,199 Speaker 5: sixty fifty or whatever. I mean, our men, have you 235 00:11:01,240 --> 00:11:02,560 Speaker 5: ever been ghosted before? 236 00:11:02,840 --> 00:11:03,160 Speaker 6: Oh? 237 00:11:03,280 --> 00:11:06,880 Speaker 5: Yes, I've had everything you know and you know, and 238 00:11:07,240 --> 00:11:09,400 Speaker 5: in our days it was just called shining you on, 239 00:11:09,840 --> 00:11:13,240 Speaker 5: you know, or or ignoring you. I mean, in all honesty, 240 00:11:13,360 --> 00:11:15,360 Speaker 5: I would rather have a guy ghost me than to 241 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:18,880 Speaker 5: dumb me. So if really, oh yeah, but guy's not 242 00:11:18,960 --> 00:11:21,079 Speaker 5: interested in me, so long goodbye. 243 00:11:21,120 --> 00:11:21,559 Speaker 4: I don't need it. 244 00:11:21,600 --> 00:11:22,840 Speaker 5: I don't need him to tell me. 245 00:11:23,160 --> 00:11:24,200 Speaker 3: That's so funny. 246 00:11:24,240 --> 00:11:25,400 Speaker 5: You know, I don't like telling. 247 00:11:25,480 --> 00:11:26,080 Speaker 1: I get that. 248 00:11:26,440 --> 00:11:27,960 Speaker 5: I don't like telling anybody. 249 00:11:28,000 --> 00:11:28,079 Speaker 7: You know. 250 00:11:28,160 --> 00:11:30,480 Speaker 5: I have a whole little speech. Well, it was such 251 00:11:30,480 --> 00:11:33,920 Speaker 5: a pleasure meeting you. Unfortunately we're not a match, but 252 00:11:34,000 --> 00:11:35,560 Speaker 5: I wish you the best of like I do the 253 00:11:35,559 --> 00:11:36,320 Speaker 5: little sandwich. 254 00:11:36,480 --> 00:11:39,240 Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I like that. One of my girlfriends was 255 00:11:39,280 --> 00:11:40,160 Speaker 3: actively dating. 256 00:11:40,240 --> 00:11:42,920 Speaker 2: She's now in a very serious relationship, but and she 257 00:11:43,080 --> 00:11:45,280 Speaker 2: had her little like yeah, she would never go to 258 00:11:45,320 --> 00:11:48,120 Speaker 2: anyone like if one day, five days, if it didn't work, 259 00:11:48,160 --> 00:11:51,400 Speaker 2: she had her like little hey, not interested message, and 260 00:11:51,520 --> 00:11:52,000 Speaker 2: that was that. 261 00:11:52,360 --> 00:11:52,800 Speaker 1: That was that. 262 00:11:53,120 --> 00:11:56,360 Speaker 5: So I don't care about ghosting. It doesn't bother me. 263 00:11:56,600 --> 00:12:00,120 Speaker 5: If then I just know the person's not interested, and 264 00:12:00,120 --> 00:12:01,920 Speaker 5: and you know it's time to move on. I don't 265 00:12:01,920 --> 00:12:04,360 Speaker 5: want anybody who's not interested in me. They're saving me 266 00:12:04,440 --> 00:12:08,120 Speaker 5: time and energy. You know. I've had those dating dating 267 00:12:08,160 --> 00:12:11,360 Speaker 5: periods when I was younger, where I was stupid, where 268 00:12:11,480 --> 00:12:14,240 Speaker 5: you know, where you hang you're into a guy that's 269 00:12:14,280 --> 00:12:16,640 Speaker 5: not into you, and every time he calls you, you 270 00:12:16,679 --> 00:12:18,760 Speaker 5: get all excited and think this is it. Oh he 271 00:12:19,160 --> 00:12:21,360 Speaker 5: can live without me. He's calling me back and that's 272 00:12:21,360 --> 00:12:23,960 Speaker 5: not the case. He's just he's just bored or who 273 00:12:24,040 --> 00:12:26,200 Speaker 5: knows why, he just calls you back because he just 274 00:12:26,600 --> 00:12:28,200 Speaker 5: needs someone to date or be with. 275 00:12:28,440 --> 00:12:31,560 Speaker 2: So that is worse to keep you so funny, like 276 00:12:31,640 --> 00:12:34,439 Speaker 2: at any age, any generation, like. 277 00:12:34,400 --> 00:12:37,280 Speaker 5: Men do the same then do the same thing. They're 278 00:12:37,440 --> 00:12:42,680 Speaker 5: just balder with bigger bellies. It ain't pretty serene. 279 00:12:42,720 --> 00:12:45,240 Speaker 3: It's just it's just women did the same thing too. 280 00:12:45,640 --> 00:12:47,160 Speaker 4: You can do it extend. 281 00:12:53,280 --> 00:12:56,280 Speaker 1: If you could give if you could give advice to 282 00:12:56,320 --> 00:12:58,680 Speaker 1: single people out there who are in the dating world 283 00:12:58,760 --> 00:13:02,560 Speaker 1: and want to settle down, what advice would you give. 284 00:13:03,320 --> 00:13:05,280 Speaker 5: Well, the best advice I give is the one I 285 00:13:05,320 --> 00:13:09,320 Speaker 5: give myself. Because I didn't keep my options open. I 286 00:13:09,400 --> 00:13:12,959 Speaker 5: was closed to opportunities that were good. You know, I 287 00:13:14,120 --> 00:13:16,360 Speaker 5: should have dated certain men that were interested in me 288 00:13:16,520 --> 00:13:18,840 Speaker 5: that I didn't give an opportunity. I would do things 289 00:13:18,920 --> 00:13:22,080 Speaker 5: like even I'm not dating anybody in the San Fernando Valle. 290 00:13:22,120 --> 00:13:22,760 Speaker 4: It's too hot. 291 00:13:22,800 --> 00:13:25,360 Speaker 5: I don't want to drive over there, you know, or 292 00:13:26,360 --> 00:13:28,079 Speaker 5: you know, when I was brought up in a very 293 00:13:28,120 --> 00:13:32,359 Speaker 5: strict Catholic family home, you know, for my generation. Unfortunately, 294 00:13:32,400 --> 00:13:34,080 Speaker 5: and I talked to a little bit earlier about my 295 00:13:34,120 --> 00:13:37,080 Speaker 5: elder brother dying. But I had a sister that died 296 00:13:37,120 --> 00:13:39,560 Speaker 5: in my early twenties and then another brother that died 297 00:13:39,600 --> 00:13:42,679 Speaker 5: in my late twenties. So I spent my twenties grieving. 298 00:13:42,840 --> 00:13:45,319 Speaker 5: So I didn't really date as much. And then by 299 00:13:45,360 --> 00:13:50,439 Speaker 5: the time I was thirty, everybody was divorce or married. 300 00:13:50,640 --> 00:13:53,640 Speaker 7: And I was brought up not to marry, not to 301 00:13:53,760 --> 00:13:56,600 Speaker 7: marry or date a divorce man, you know, a Catholic family, 302 00:13:56,760 --> 00:13:59,640 Speaker 7: Mexican Catholic family, and so I didn't have very many 303 00:13:59,679 --> 00:14:02,600 Speaker 7: often and I closed my opportunities. 304 00:14:02,640 --> 00:14:06,360 Speaker 5: Of course, as I got older, I thought differently, but 305 00:14:06,600 --> 00:14:09,840 Speaker 5: during that time, you know, everybody was married in their twenties. 306 00:14:09,880 --> 00:14:14,560 Speaker 5: It was pretty it was a pretty unwise decision, but 307 00:14:14,760 --> 00:14:18,600 Speaker 5: you know, your upbringing and sometimes religion curtails your opportunities. 308 00:14:18,600 --> 00:14:22,440 Speaker 5: So you have to learn to broaden your your your mind. 309 00:14:22,520 --> 00:14:24,600 Speaker 5: And that's what those are the mistakes I made that 310 00:14:24,640 --> 00:14:28,960 Speaker 5: I wasn't open minded and giving people opportunities that I 311 00:14:29,000 --> 00:14:29,400 Speaker 5: should have. 312 00:14:29,800 --> 00:14:32,560 Speaker 1: Would you go on like so let's say, when you 313 00:14:32,600 --> 00:14:34,720 Speaker 1: were in your thirties, would you and someone and a 314 00:14:34,760 --> 00:14:38,000 Speaker 1: guy was divorced, would you instantly write them off? Or 315 00:14:38,000 --> 00:14:39,600 Speaker 1: would you go on like a few dates and just 316 00:14:39,640 --> 00:14:44,360 Speaker 1: be like I just I instantly write them off, interesting. 317 00:14:43,800 --> 00:14:46,640 Speaker 5: Instantly writing off, writing them off. Yes, you know it was. 318 00:14:47,000 --> 00:14:50,160 Speaker 5: Now the Catholic Church has different attitudes about divorce. You know, 319 00:14:50,200 --> 00:14:53,400 Speaker 5: people even divorce can take communion, and you know, was 320 00:14:53,400 --> 00:14:56,360 Speaker 5: the point where you couldn't do that. So you know, 321 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:59,800 Speaker 5: times have changed, culture has changed. And I really and 322 00:14:59,840 --> 00:15:01,920 Speaker 5: I so I have friends of mine that would marry 323 00:15:01,920 --> 00:15:04,680 Speaker 5: someone that was divorced with kids, but I didn't do it. 324 00:15:04,720 --> 00:15:07,440 Speaker 5: And that was one that was my biggest, biggest mistake. 325 00:15:07,720 --> 00:15:10,480 Speaker 5: And as I got older than in my forties and 326 00:15:10,520 --> 00:15:12,360 Speaker 5: fifties and I did start doing that. 327 00:15:13,040 --> 00:15:15,560 Speaker 2: I think that's great advice to just be open minded 328 00:15:15,640 --> 00:15:17,040 Speaker 2: and not close the door. 329 00:15:17,080 --> 00:15:19,760 Speaker 3: And people. Yeah, I don't know, Joe. 330 00:15:19,880 --> 00:15:22,760 Speaker 2: Joe's different than what I maybe would have ended up 331 00:15:22,760 --> 00:15:24,840 Speaker 2: with if I didn't. 332 00:15:25,400 --> 00:15:26,120 Speaker 1: I don't know if I. 333 00:15:28,520 --> 00:15:31,800 Speaker 2: Like, we live in different places real like, you know, 334 00:15:31,920 --> 00:15:36,040 Speaker 2: a bigger age gap. Like there's just that either I 335 00:15:36,640 --> 00:15:39,960 Speaker 2: too old, oh no, lives too far away, all those. 336 00:15:39,800 --> 00:15:42,640 Speaker 6: Things I'm talking, Yeah, those things, And that's why here 337 00:15:42,680 --> 00:15:45,560 Speaker 6: I am. But I've had a great life I've had. 338 00:15:45,680 --> 00:15:49,800 Speaker 6: I'm very independent, I'm financially secure, I have a wonderful 339 00:15:49,840 --> 00:15:52,800 Speaker 6: social network. I have a large I had six siblings, 340 00:15:52,880 --> 00:15:56,080 Speaker 6: I still have my parents, I have twelve nieces and nephews, 341 00:15:56,680 --> 00:15:59,960 Speaker 6: and I do a lot of volunteer work. I raise 342 00:16:00,200 --> 00:16:03,000 Speaker 6: money for Latino kids to go to college. I'm the 343 00:16:03,000 --> 00:16:06,720 Speaker 6: first in my family to graduate from college of all 344 00:16:06,720 --> 00:16:10,720 Speaker 6: my siblings, definitely my nieces and nephew. So I really 345 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:14,240 Speaker 6: make a commitment to mentor young people to raise money 346 00:16:14,280 --> 00:16:17,120 Speaker 6: so that low income people can have the opportunity of 347 00:16:17,120 --> 00:16:21,320 Speaker 6: a college education. And I've always been dedicated to getting 348 00:16:21,360 --> 00:16:24,400 Speaker 6: women elected to political office. So you know, my life 349 00:16:24,440 --> 00:16:27,440 Speaker 6: is varied and my life is fulfilled, and but you know, 350 00:16:27,560 --> 00:16:30,560 Speaker 6: I decided, like I said, that now is the time 351 00:16:30,560 --> 00:16:33,560 Speaker 6: that I'm going to concentrate on my personal life and 352 00:16:33,560 --> 00:16:37,520 Speaker 6: and do things outside my comfort level, push myself, date 353 00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:41,200 Speaker 6: be open minded, make mistakes, and keep going. 354 00:16:41,360 --> 00:16:45,560 Speaker 5: So that's my attitude. For me to prioritize my love 355 00:16:45,640 --> 00:16:49,480 Speaker 5: life is something totally new. I've always been a career 356 00:16:49,600 --> 00:16:55,000 Speaker 5: driven woman and financial you know, I grew up, you know, 357 00:16:55,120 --> 00:16:58,840 Speaker 5: with not that much economically, and my parents were immigrants, 358 00:16:58,920 --> 00:17:01,920 Speaker 5: and so he was really important to me. So I 359 00:17:01,920 --> 00:17:05,240 Speaker 5: always wanted financial security and I didn't want to depend 360 00:17:05,240 --> 00:17:08,000 Speaker 5: on a man for financial security. I wanted to you know, 361 00:17:08,119 --> 00:17:11,320 Speaker 5: buy my house and my income properties and do my 362 00:17:11,440 --> 00:17:13,920 Speaker 5: things on my own. So I have a beautiful beach 363 00:17:13,920 --> 00:17:15,760 Speaker 5: house and baha, I'd love to be able to share 364 00:17:15,800 --> 00:17:16,680 Speaker 5: it with someone nice. 365 00:17:16,680 --> 00:17:20,400 Speaker 1: All right there, that's that's your pitch, Sylvia. How old 366 00:17:20,400 --> 00:17:24,000 Speaker 1: are you? I'm sixty five, Okay, so the sixty five 367 00:17:24,080 --> 00:17:26,440 Speaker 1: year old Sylvia. What are you looking for right now 368 00:17:26,480 --> 00:17:28,920 Speaker 1: in a man? How should a man get your attention? 369 00:17:29,680 --> 00:17:31,879 Speaker 5: Well, I'm looking for a partnership. And this is something 370 00:17:31,920 --> 00:17:34,560 Speaker 5: I was always looking for, which also was difficult for 371 00:17:34,640 --> 00:17:37,280 Speaker 5: me because I men, we're looking for a wife, and 372 00:17:37,320 --> 00:17:39,240 Speaker 5: I was looking for a partner. I want, you know, 373 00:17:39,359 --> 00:17:44,359 Speaker 5: someone you know, to share chores and duties and and 374 00:17:43,840 --> 00:17:47,359 Speaker 5: I'll also contribute financially. But what I'm looking for is 375 00:17:47,760 --> 00:17:53,000 Speaker 5: companionship and kindness and respect. Kindness is just so important, 376 00:17:53,200 --> 00:17:57,160 Speaker 5: and I want someone who treats me kindly, treats other 377 00:17:57,240 --> 00:18:00,720 Speaker 5: kind other people with kindness. But a partner, you know, 378 00:18:00,800 --> 00:18:02,840 Speaker 5: I'm not looking for anyone to take care of me. 379 00:18:03,040 --> 00:18:06,600 Speaker 5: I'm looking for someone that will travel with me, you know, 380 00:18:06,720 --> 00:18:09,199 Speaker 5: teach me new things. I mean, they don't have to 381 00:18:09,240 --> 00:18:11,119 Speaker 5: do have the same interests as I do. I like 382 00:18:11,200 --> 00:18:14,320 Speaker 5: somebody that has different interests and I can learn something new. 383 00:18:14,440 --> 00:18:18,040 Speaker 5: So I'm looking for someone that has uh, is ready 384 00:18:18,080 --> 00:18:21,400 Speaker 5: to be a companion, to travel, to treat me with respect, 385 00:18:21,880 --> 00:18:25,359 Speaker 5: treat me with kindness, and someone that's fun and adventurous 386 00:18:25,480 --> 00:18:28,440 Speaker 5: so and accepts me for who I am. So okay, 387 00:18:28,560 --> 00:18:29,920 Speaker 5: those are the things I'm looking for. 388 00:18:30,359 --> 00:18:33,080 Speaker 1: Nice do you would would you say Gary was your type? 389 00:18:34,520 --> 00:18:35,400 Speaker 5: No? 390 00:18:35,400 --> 00:18:36,280 Speaker 1: No? Okay? 391 00:18:36,760 --> 00:18:40,240 Speaker 5: Will you be watching only be I think he's a 392 00:18:40,280 --> 00:18:43,680 Speaker 5: great guy, and I think he's charming and smart and 393 00:18:44,240 --> 00:18:48,120 Speaker 5: definitely attractive. But you know, I'm a city. 394 00:18:47,800 --> 00:18:48,840 Speaker 3: Of vallet girl. 395 00:18:48,960 --> 00:18:53,679 Speaker 5: I'm a city woman and I like uh, I like 396 00:18:53,840 --> 00:18:56,399 Speaker 5: very I have varied interests. I do very things I like. 397 00:18:56,680 --> 00:19:02,439 Speaker 5: I like access to restaurants and and concerts and have 398 00:19:02,600 --> 00:19:04,600 Speaker 5: you know. I'm near the mountains, I'm near the beach, 399 00:19:04,640 --> 00:19:06,720 Speaker 5: I'm near everything. And I like to stay at Los 400 00:19:06,800 --> 00:19:09,880 Speaker 5: Angeles because it's ethnically diverse. You know, you can eat 401 00:19:09,920 --> 00:19:12,040 Speaker 5: food and I have friends of all different kinds of 402 00:19:12,080 --> 00:19:15,920 Speaker 5: cultural backgrounds. So I I this this city is very 403 00:19:16,000 --> 00:19:17,199 Speaker 5: unique in that it offers that. 404 00:19:17,760 --> 00:19:21,720 Speaker 1: Yeah, I love I love La Okay, real quick? Or 405 00:19:21,760 --> 00:19:23,120 Speaker 1: will you be watching the finale? 406 00:19:23,400 --> 00:19:26,000 Speaker 5: Oh, yes, I've watched. I've watched all the shows before, 407 00:19:26,040 --> 00:19:27,640 Speaker 5: and I'm definitely gonna watch the finale. 408 00:19:28,400 --> 00:19:31,960 Speaker 2: Have you watched every single season, like since the show started. 409 00:19:32,119 --> 00:19:34,440 Speaker 5: I'm gonna be honest. I wish I could say yes, 410 00:19:34,480 --> 00:19:37,439 Speaker 5: but I didn't. I missed the I missed both of 411 00:19:37,480 --> 00:19:40,720 Speaker 5: your seasons. I missed kind of. I've been seeing it, 412 00:19:40,800 --> 00:19:43,919 Speaker 5: like the last ones, and I've I've got most of 413 00:19:43,960 --> 00:19:46,200 Speaker 5: the you know, all the ones, even in the middle, 414 00:19:46,240 --> 00:19:49,560 Speaker 5: but I've kind of missed like the last quarter. 415 00:19:49,640 --> 00:19:51,920 Speaker 1: Okay, and the before we let you go. The two 416 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:52,800 Speaker 1: women left. 417 00:19:52,920 --> 00:19:56,080 Speaker 3: Who you're rooting for, Leslie or Teresa. 418 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:59,480 Speaker 5: Well, okay, I'm gonna say that I wish that. I 419 00:19:59,520 --> 00:20:03,320 Speaker 5: think they're excellent choices, and I think that whoever he 420 00:20:03,359 --> 00:20:05,840 Speaker 5: picks is it does well. However, I have to say 421 00:20:06,359 --> 00:20:09,000 Speaker 5: that I have a closer bond with Teresa. I got 422 00:20:09,040 --> 00:20:12,080 Speaker 5: along with her very well that night at the mansion. 423 00:20:12,480 --> 00:20:15,720 Speaker 5: I've kept in touch with her, and when I was eliminated, 424 00:20:16,240 --> 00:20:18,919 Speaker 5: she took care of me. She came over to me, 425 00:20:19,200 --> 00:20:21,840 Speaker 5: she was kind to me. She you know, I wanted 426 00:20:21,880 --> 00:20:23,520 Speaker 5: to get the hell out of there, and she I 427 00:20:23,600 --> 00:20:25,879 Speaker 5: kept saying, can I leave now? And she kept saying, no, 428 00:20:25,880 --> 00:20:27,560 Speaker 5: they have to call your name. No, they have to 429 00:20:27,600 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 5: call your name, and she kept saying. 430 00:20:29,280 --> 00:20:29,560 Speaker 4: Look it. 431 00:20:29,880 --> 00:20:32,520 Speaker 5: There was thirty thousand people that applied. You're one of 432 00:20:32,640 --> 00:20:35,800 Speaker 5: twenty two. Don't feel me bad. So she was so 433 00:20:35,920 --> 00:20:40,439 Speaker 5: kind and sweet, and I really remember that, and so 434 00:20:40,760 --> 00:20:44,640 Speaker 5: I really am rooting for her in terms of her 435 00:20:44,680 --> 00:20:47,240 Speaker 5: being the choice because of that. And I've contacted her 436 00:20:47,359 --> 00:20:51,760 Speaker 5: and were friends, so I appreciate her active kindness. And 437 00:20:52,520 --> 00:20:55,960 Speaker 5: like I said, kindness and extending yourself and friendship is 438 00:20:56,000 --> 00:20:58,879 Speaker 5: really important. But I think Leslie is fantastic as well. 439 00:20:58,960 --> 00:21:03,320 Speaker 5: And Gary has has a lot of good choices. So 440 00:21:03,600 --> 00:21:05,520 Speaker 5: the last two are good choices. 441 00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:08,399 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for coming on Happy Hour. We 442 00:21:08,520 --> 00:21:10,320 Speaker 1: really really appreciate it. 443 00:21:10,480 --> 00:21:11,879 Speaker 5: Thank you. I'm to big kind of the show. I 444 00:21:11,920 --> 00:21:15,280 Speaker 5: wish you both love and success and lots of children. 445 00:21:15,880 --> 00:21:22,040 Speaker 1: Thank you. Have a nice one. Bye bye bye, Maria. 446 00:21:22,359 --> 00:21:25,520 Speaker 1: Welcome to Bachelor Happy Hour. How are you well? 447 00:21:25,560 --> 00:21:29,000 Speaker 4: Thank you? I'm great. I'm happy to be here, Serena. 448 00:21:29,040 --> 00:21:30,600 Speaker 3: I happy to have y ll. 449 00:21:30,840 --> 00:21:33,680 Speaker 4: Thank you, Thank you so pleasure. 450 00:21:34,280 --> 00:21:36,480 Speaker 1: Let's start off. Where where do you live? 451 00:21:37,080 --> 00:21:38,040 Speaker 4: I live in New Jersey. 452 00:21:38,280 --> 00:21:41,280 Speaker 8: Right across the bridge, I can see the George Washington 453 00:21:41,320 --> 00:21:41,840 Speaker 8: Bridge off. 454 00:21:41,760 --> 00:21:42,320 Speaker 4: In my roof. 455 00:21:42,920 --> 00:21:46,560 Speaker 1: Oh great, and what part of what part of New Jersey? 456 00:21:46,640 --> 00:21:50,640 Speaker 4: What is its Burden County? So that's it's in Teanic. 457 00:21:51,000 --> 00:21:54,240 Speaker 1: Okay, So we're in uh, we live in Manhattan right now. 458 00:21:54,359 --> 00:21:59,040 Speaker 1: So well, you know how often you come into the 459 00:21:59,040 --> 00:22:00,880 Speaker 1: city as often as I. 460 00:22:00,800 --> 00:22:04,840 Speaker 8: Can, depending on the episodes of the escapades I'm getting 461 00:22:04,840 --> 00:22:07,760 Speaker 8: into and the people I'm hanging out with or whatever 462 00:22:07,800 --> 00:22:09,960 Speaker 8: I'm doing, if I'm going into a play or if 463 00:22:09,960 --> 00:22:12,400 Speaker 8: I'm going out to dinner, or if I'm just going 464 00:22:12,400 --> 00:22:13,120 Speaker 8: to meet friends. 465 00:22:13,880 --> 00:22:18,280 Speaker 1: Got it? Nice? Nice? Okay? So how did you get 466 00:22:18,320 --> 00:22:20,000 Speaker 1: on The Golden Bachelor. 467 00:22:20,640 --> 00:22:24,800 Speaker 8: Oh that's a good question. I am. My sister who 468 00:22:24,840 --> 00:22:29,040 Speaker 8: is it? A wonderful relationship sent me a link to apply. 469 00:22:29,320 --> 00:22:31,920 Speaker 8: She said, Ria, you would be great in this show. 470 00:22:32,000 --> 00:22:33,240 Speaker 8: You would light it up. 471 00:22:34,160 --> 00:22:38,800 Speaker 4: Apply. So I said, okay, I'll apply, and then she said, you. 472 00:22:38,720 --> 00:22:41,040 Speaker 1: Know, I'm gonna stop. I'm gonna stop you right there. Though. 473 00:22:41,080 --> 00:22:45,240 Speaker 1: Did you watch the show beforehand before you applied or anything? 474 00:22:45,520 --> 00:22:46,520 Speaker 4: No, I hadn't. 475 00:22:46,720 --> 00:22:49,200 Speaker 8: I kind of had seen some shows, but the people 476 00:22:49,240 --> 00:22:52,359 Speaker 8: just look beautiful and sweet. But it just looked like 477 00:22:52,400 --> 00:22:55,000 Speaker 8: a show of young people kissing and loving each other 478 00:22:55,040 --> 00:22:57,800 Speaker 8: and it was fine. But you know, I, you know, 479 00:22:58,040 --> 00:23:00,080 Speaker 8: I'm kind of a busy woman, so I had a 480 00:23:00,080 --> 00:23:02,399 Speaker 8: lot to do. I didn't realize how much of a 481 00:23:02,680 --> 00:23:05,359 Speaker 8: pleasure it was for all kinds of people and how 482 00:23:05,840 --> 00:23:07,679 Speaker 8: you know, maybe they didn't talk about it to others, 483 00:23:07,800 --> 00:23:09,600 Speaker 8: or certain groups of people wouldn't talk about it, but 484 00:23:09,720 --> 00:23:12,159 Speaker 8: was their guilty pleasure or their way to relax, or 485 00:23:12,160 --> 00:23:14,960 Speaker 8: their way to just explore a whole new way of living. 486 00:23:15,240 --> 00:23:19,119 Speaker 8: So once I applied and I talked to a producer, 487 00:23:19,119 --> 00:23:22,520 Speaker 8: I said, let me watch the show. So I started 488 00:23:22,520 --> 00:23:24,760 Speaker 8: watching the show and I said, oh, this is fun, 489 00:23:25,240 --> 00:23:27,840 Speaker 8: this is exciting, this is really something. 490 00:23:27,920 --> 00:23:30,600 Speaker 4: I could definitely do this because not for nothing. 491 00:23:31,400 --> 00:23:33,639 Speaker 8: You know, senior people have a lot more life to 492 00:23:33,920 --> 00:23:35,359 Speaker 8: explore and share with people. 493 00:23:35,440 --> 00:23:39,200 Speaker 1: So yeah, definitely, And I think the show has done 494 00:23:39,400 --> 00:23:43,119 Speaker 1: a pretty good job of showcasing that. What you mentioned, 495 00:23:43,119 --> 00:23:45,280 Speaker 1: you are a busy woman. What do you do for 496 00:23:45,320 --> 00:23:45,720 Speaker 1: a living. 497 00:23:46,400 --> 00:23:52,840 Speaker 8: I have a foundation that focuses on helping families with autism. 498 00:23:52,920 --> 00:23:56,760 Speaker 8: I have three children, two boys with autism. They're adults 499 00:23:57,160 --> 00:24:01,840 Speaker 8: and trying to really, you know, create a life that 500 00:24:02,119 --> 00:24:05,800 Speaker 8: is full of love and an inclusive life and safe 501 00:24:06,080 --> 00:24:08,719 Speaker 8: you know, a bubble where they can explore who they 502 00:24:08,720 --> 00:24:11,520 Speaker 8: are and really live happy. That's what any parent wants 503 00:24:11,560 --> 00:24:15,320 Speaker 8: to do. But when you have children and now young 504 00:24:15,359 --> 00:24:17,479 Speaker 8: adults on the spectrum. 505 00:24:17,240 --> 00:24:20,439 Speaker 4: You want to you really really have to, you know, 506 00:24:20,920 --> 00:24:21,600 Speaker 4: figure it out. 507 00:24:21,880 --> 00:24:24,160 Speaker 8: You know, it's not it's not a world that is 508 00:24:24,880 --> 00:24:26,200 Speaker 8: as accepting as it could be. 509 00:24:26,840 --> 00:24:27,040 Speaker 5: Yeah. 510 00:24:27,040 --> 00:24:32,320 Speaker 1: So yeah, definitely, Well good for you, thank you. Okay, 511 00:24:32,359 --> 00:24:36,280 Speaker 1: So then, how what it was dating life like before 512 00:24:36,640 --> 00:24:37,520 Speaker 1: you went on the show. 513 00:24:39,160 --> 00:24:42,280 Speaker 8: Well, you know, I had been married for twenty years 514 00:24:42,280 --> 00:24:44,960 Speaker 8: and then I was divorced, and then dating was such 515 00:24:45,000 --> 00:24:47,720 Speaker 8: an episode until I met my last husband, who I 516 00:24:47,720 --> 00:24:49,960 Speaker 8: fell madly in love with and he was my he 517 00:24:50,080 --> 00:24:53,439 Speaker 8: was my dude. His name happened to be Gary spelled g. 518 00:24:53,640 --> 00:24:57,159 Speaker 1: A r y yeah and sell it. 519 00:24:57,640 --> 00:25:01,560 Speaker 8: Yeah, So I thought, right, yeah he was. 520 00:25:01,880 --> 00:25:02,520 Speaker 4: He was my heart. 521 00:25:02,560 --> 00:25:04,240 Speaker 8: He was a hip hop attorney, so I got to 522 00:25:04,280 --> 00:25:07,280 Speaker 8: meet all kinds of exciting people, and you know, it 523 00:25:07,359 --> 00:25:10,639 Speaker 8: was a different life. And once when he passed, it 524 00:25:10,720 --> 00:25:13,719 Speaker 8: was very traumatic because it was in pandemic, so dating 525 00:25:13,880 --> 00:25:17,159 Speaker 8: was not existent. You know, there are different people, you know, 526 00:25:17,280 --> 00:25:17,760 Speaker 8: trying to. 527 00:25:17,720 --> 00:25:18,720 Speaker 4: See how I was doing. 528 00:25:18,760 --> 00:25:20,600 Speaker 8: But then they wanted to make sure I was okay, 529 00:25:20,680 --> 00:25:23,240 Speaker 8: maybe take me out that kind of thing, but nothing 530 00:25:23,280 --> 00:25:26,960 Speaker 8: really started happening until pandemic kind of eased up, and 531 00:25:28,240 --> 00:25:31,160 Speaker 8: I just got tired of people saying one thing and 532 00:25:31,200 --> 00:25:35,399 Speaker 8: really being something else. And when my sister sent me 533 00:25:35,440 --> 00:25:37,480 Speaker 8: the application, and I said, you know, this would really 534 00:25:37,520 --> 00:25:42,480 Speaker 8: be an exciting opportunity to not only be a part 535 00:25:42,560 --> 00:25:46,480 Speaker 8: of history, you know, a legendary experience, but in one 536 00:25:46,520 --> 00:25:48,800 Speaker 8: shot you get exposed to a lot of people as 537 00:25:48,840 --> 00:25:52,280 Speaker 8: opposed to having to be on dating sites and you 538 00:25:52,320 --> 00:25:56,440 Speaker 8: know that kind of thing. So it really was appealing 539 00:25:56,520 --> 00:25:59,040 Speaker 8: to be on Golded Bachelor for so many reasons. I mean, 540 00:25:59,080 --> 00:26:00,600 Speaker 8: the best thing that can happen. And as I find 541 00:26:00,600 --> 00:26:03,240 Speaker 8: somebody that I really really vibe with and he was 542 00:26:03,280 --> 00:26:05,960 Speaker 8: that dude for me, the other side would have been, 543 00:26:06,080 --> 00:26:11,800 Speaker 8: you know, hey, I could you know, just giving a language, 544 00:26:11,840 --> 00:26:16,080 Speaker 8: giving a visual to the world that women that you 545 00:26:16,119 --> 00:26:18,800 Speaker 8: know of a certain age can thrive through all kinds 546 00:26:18,840 --> 00:26:22,480 Speaker 8: of challenges and really live their best life regardless of 547 00:26:22,480 --> 00:26:24,800 Speaker 8: where they are in their life, you know. And I 548 00:26:24,840 --> 00:26:28,159 Speaker 8: think that that that message has been told and should 549 00:26:28,160 --> 00:26:32,119 Speaker 8: be reinforced because it teaches our daughters how to how 550 00:26:32,200 --> 00:26:35,000 Speaker 8: to how to how to live their best life. 551 00:26:35,640 --> 00:26:38,919 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, well, I'm sorry sorry to hear about your 552 00:26:38,960 --> 00:26:42,480 Speaker 1: husband passing. I do want to ask, though, who's the 553 00:26:42,520 --> 00:26:45,200 Speaker 1: most exciting person that you've met in hip hop? 554 00:26:46,119 --> 00:26:46,879 Speaker 4: Oh? Wow? 555 00:26:47,080 --> 00:26:51,240 Speaker 8: Who the most exciting? My husband was pretty exciting dude, 556 00:26:51,240 --> 00:26:53,840 Speaker 8: because he was an attorney and he always had stories. 557 00:26:54,680 --> 00:26:58,000 Speaker 8: Who is the most exciting person I met on the phone? 558 00:27:00,320 --> 00:27:02,480 Speaker 8: He was talking to Snoop on the phone once, and 559 00:27:02,520 --> 00:27:05,040 Speaker 8: he was talking to Drake on the phone once and 560 00:27:05,119 --> 00:27:06,080 Speaker 8: Setdie Waff once. 561 00:27:06,840 --> 00:27:08,800 Speaker 3: Nice, those are super exciting. 562 00:27:08,960 --> 00:27:10,240 Speaker 1: Whoa whoever? 563 00:27:12,119 --> 00:27:13,360 Speaker 4: I was just known as m Cat. 564 00:27:13,400 --> 00:27:15,480 Speaker 8: I don't know if they'd remember me at all, but 565 00:27:16,359 --> 00:27:19,400 Speaker 8: you know he was tucking business, you know that kind 566 00:27:19,400 --> 00:27:19,680 Speaker 8: of thing. 567 00:27:19,800 --> 00:27:22,680 Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, Snoop. Just I just saw Snoop just did 568 00:27:23,000 --> 00:27:27,320 Speaker 1: a pretty brilliant ad. Yeah, I saw just He. 569 00:27:27,280 --> 00:27:29,560 Speaker 2: Said he was gonna like quit smoking, He's gonna. 570 00:27:29,400 --> 00:27:33,280 Speaker 1: Quit smoking, and he's really promoting like a smokeless uh 571 00:27:33,600 --> 00:27:36,840 Speaker 1: fire pitters whatever it is. But it was genius. Whoever 572 00:27:36,960 --> 00:27:39,960 Speaker 1: the agency marketing team behind him, it was genius. 573 00:27:40,000 --> 00:27:40,720 Speaker 3: It was everywhere. 574 00:27:40,720 --> 00:27:43,880 Speaker 2: It was like Snoop Dogg says he's no longer smoking, 575 00:27:43,920 --> 00:27:45,280 Speaker 2: He's gonna stop smoking. 576 00:27:45,760 --> 00:27:47,760 Speaker 3: And then the ad came out that it. 577 00:27:48,040 --> 00:27:51,720 Speaker 2: Obviously was referring to something different, which is so funny. 578 00:27:51,760 --> 00:27:55,200 Speaker 4: It was huge, it was really well done. I was 579 00:27:55,280 --> 00:27:56,280 Speaker 4: very excited for him. 580 00:27:56,800 --> 00:28:06,880 Speaker 1: Wow, okay, so let's talk about let's get into Let's 581 00:28:06,880 --> 00:28:07,720 Speaker 1: get into night one. 582 00:28:07,960 --> 00:28:11,120 Speaker 4: So yes, well that was my night. 583 00:28:12,359 --> 00:28:12,600 Speaker 5: Yeah. 584 00:28:13,200 --> 00:28:18,680 Speaker 8: Fortunately it was you know, you know, getting out of 585 00:28:18,680 --> 00:28:20,439 Speaker 8: a limo, you know, it was a little wet, it 586 00:28:20,480 --> 00:28:23,679 Speaker 8: was slippery, and once getting the footing, I was one 587 00:28:23,720 --> 00:28:25,800 Speaker 8: of the last lemos to come. So it was later 588 00:28:26,480 --> 00:28:30,520 Speaker 8: and you know, Gary was standing up there looking so 589 00:28:30,600 --> 00:28:36,399 Speaker 8: handsome and kind of excited, and you know, I walked 590 00:28:36,440 --> 00:28:38,280 Speaker 8: up over to him, and when I looked at him, 591 00:28:38,520 --> 00:28:45,240 Speaker 8: I realized, ah, is this I realized what I was really. 592 00:28:44,960 --> 00:28:48,200 Speaker 4: Doing, you know what I mean, It hit me that disasies. 593 00:28:48,360 --> 00:28:51,720 Speaker 8: You know, we're thinking about possibly, you know, having a 594 00:28:51,760 --> 00:28:54,440 Speaker 8: life with someone and really pursuing. 595 00:28:54,320 --> 00:28:57,680 Speaker 4: Getting to know you, getting to know all that, you know, 596 00:28:57,720 --> 00:28:59,720 Speaker 4: that kind of thing. And so I was a little 597 00:29:00,720 --> 00:29:03,280 Speaker 4: taken aback because his name is Gary and the only 598 00:29:03,320 --> 00:29:05,240 Speaker 4: Gary ALLA ever know is my husband. 599 00:29:05,640 --> 00:29:08,880 Speaker 8: So you know, that exchange wasn't as dramatic as the 600 00:29:08,960 --> 00:29:10,160 Speaker 8: exchanges that. 601 00:29:10,200 --> 00:29:12,720 Speaker 4: Had passed or that he had earlier. 602 00:29:13,440 --> 00:29:15,640 Speaker 8: But when I got in and I saw the you know, 603 00:29:15,800 --> 00:29:18,719 Speaker 8: room full of so many beautiful women, everybody. 604 00:29:19,000 --> 00:29:22,360 Speaker 4: Ready to bring their a game, and which. 605 00:29:22,240 --> 00:29:24,440 Speaker 8: Was exciting for me because being in a room full 606 00:29:24,440 --> 00:29:26,640 Speaker 8: of women like that is something I enjoy and I'm 607 00:29:26,720 --> 00:29:30,360 Speaker 8: used to. And it was just it was just fun 608 00:29:30,400 --> 00:29:34,520 Speaker 8: to watch the dynamic. And then then sitting with him 609 00:29:34,560 --> 00:29:37,240 Speaker 8: and talking with him, I chose to be a little 610 00:29:37,280 --> 00:29:44,960 Speaker 8: bit more. And because it wasn't as I guess, I 611 00:29:44,960 --> 00:29:46,680 Speaker 8: don't know, Gary. 612 00:29:46,440 --> 00:29:47,760 Speaker 5: Gary, Gary, Gary, Gary Gary. 613 00:29:48,080 --> 00:29:50,760 Speaker 8: You know, I remember when he got up from our talk, 614 00:29:50,840 --> 00:29:52,960 Speaker 8: he kind of opened his arms and I just kind 615 00:29:52,960 --> 00:29:55,800 Speaker 8: of like went like that to him as opposed. 616 00:29:55,480 --> 00:29:58,320 Speaker 4: To maybe later kind of thing. And that wasn't something 617 00:29:58,360 --> 00:30:03,160 Speaker 4: that worked. Yeah, but you know, it's it's okay. 618 00:30:03,800 --> 00:30:06,240 Speaker 3: Was it odd to date another Gary? 619 00:30:08,000 --> 00:30:08,360 Speaker 4: It was? 620 00:30:08,480 --> 00:30:13,480 Speaker 8: It was strange, yes, and and and you know, from 621 00:30:13,480 --> 00:30:16,479 Speaker 8: my background in terms of the kind of musical we liked, 622 00:30:16,480 --> 00:30:18,560 Speaker 8: the kind of life I was living, you know, you know, 623 00:30:19,960 --> 00:30:22,720 Speaker 8: you know, would he be even exposed to that kind 624 00:30:22,760 --> 00:30:26,240 Speaker 8: of you know, he was from the Midwest, He lived 625 00:30:26,240 --> 00:30:29,200 Speaker 8: a really quiet, peaceful life. He was kind and gentle. 626 00:30:29,680 --> 00:30:33,520 Speaker 8: You know, I didn't want to be a little I mean, 627 00:30:33,520 --> 00:30:35,480 Speaker 8: we came from extremely two different worlds. 628 00:30:35,800 --> 00:30:37,000 Speaker 4: Yeah, you know, which could. 629 00:30:36,800 --> 00:30:38,720 Speaker 8: Have been exciting to some degree, but I don't know 630 00:30:38,760 --> 00:30:41,240 Speaker 8: how much it would have been a love connection at all. 631 00:30:42,480 --> 00:30:45,720 Speaker 1: So what's a night out for you? Now? Like if 632 00:30:45,720 --> 00:30:47,840 Speaker 1: you go out with your girlfriends, what do you guys 633 00:30:47,840 --> 00:30:48,400 Speaker 1: getting into? 634 00:30:49,240 --> 00:30:56,000 Speaker 4: Oh? Wow, it depends on which team a woman I'm with. 635 00:30:56,280 --> 00:30:59,360 Speaker 1: You know, I hate to let's go with the team 636 00:30:59,400 --> 00:31:00,480 Speaker 1: that's looking. 637 00:31:01,280 --> 00:31:04,600 Speaker 8: That's that's that's the little fire, you know, because you know, 638 00:31:07,360 --> 00:31:10,240 Speaker 8: unfortunately I recently lost two of my eighteen women and 639 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:13,640 Speaker 8: they were supermodern and all kinds of stuff. So and 640 00:31:13,680 --> 00:31:16,800 Speaker 8: because that's what happens as we age, we lose people 641 00:31:16,840 --> 00:31:20,360 Speaker 8: we love. And so, but what a typical night out 642 00:31:20,400 --> 00:31:23,000 Speaker 8: would be would be getting dressed, having the car come, 643 00:31:23,160 --> 00:31:26,480 Speaker 8: limo come, and we go into the city and you know, 644 00:31:27,280 --> 00:31:30,360 Speaker 8: you know you had special entrances because you were with 645 00:31:30,400 --> 00:31:33,360 Speaker 8: certain people and you know that kind of thing, and 646 00:31:33,920 --> 00:31:36,200 Speaker 8: then you would just go and have and just party 647 00:31:36,200 --> 00:31:38,680 Speaker 8: in the back and you know, hang out and. 648 00:31:38,640 --> 00:31:41,840 Speaker 4: Have dinner or you know, you know all night. You 649 00:31:41,840 --> 00:31:42,400 Speaker 4: know where you. 650 00:31:42,360 --> 00:31:44,960 Speaker 8: Would sit at you know, special tables with people and 651 00:31:45,240 --> 00:31:48,240 Speaker 8: people sending you, you know, drinks over you know that 652 00:31:48,360 --> 00:31:49,080 Speaker 8: kind of stuff. 653 00:31:49,200 --> 00:31:51,920 Speaker 3: You know, I want to be on your A team? 654 00:31:52,040 --> 00:31:56,720 Speaker 2: How do I get on this A team? That sounds 655 00:31:56,800 --> 00:32:01,040 Speaker 2: so fun? So how has dating been after the show? 656 00:32:01,120 --> 00:32:04,680 Speaker 3: Now? Are you dating? Are you looking for love still? 657 00:32:05,440 --> 00:32:07,080 Speaker 4: Oh? I know love will find me. 658 00:32:08,560 --> 00:32:11,960 Speaker 8: And you know, you know, you get interesting characters in 659 00:32:12,000 --> 00:32:16,800 Speaker 8: your dms and stuff or meeting you in the airport 660 00:32:16,920 --> 00:32:21,480 Speaker 8: and you know, some people recognizing you or some people 661 00:32:21,560 --> 00:32:23,520 Speaker 8: just you know, being you know, I mean, I wasn't 662 00:32:23,560 --> 00:32:25,200 Speaker 8: on the show a long enough time, but there are 663 00:32:25,240 --> 00:32:27,400 Speaker 8: people that you know, wait a minute, wait a minute, that. 664 00:32:27,400 --> 00:32:27,920 Speaker 4: Kind of thing. 665 00:32:28,840 --> 00:32:33,560 Speaker 8: What's it like? It's still you have to kind of decide, 666 00:32:33,640 --> 00:32:36,200 Speaker 8: you know, what is it that people want? Do they 667 00:32:36,200 --> 00:32:38,480 Speaker 8: really want to spend time with you? Are they really 668 00:32:38,480 --> 00:32:42,360 Speaker 8: campaigning for the ultimate vote? Or they just want a minute, 669 00:32:42,720 --> 00:32:45,920 Speaker 8: you know, just to just to say they were with you. 670 00:32:46,360 --> 00:32:50,040 Speaker 8: And right now, I just I trust that if God 671 00:32:50,120 --> 00:32:52,560 Speaker 8: could bring me the love of my life once, he 672 00:32:52,560 --> 00:32:55,640 Speaker 8: can bring me new love and something in my life 673 00:32:55,640 --> 00:32:57,040 Speaker 8: for now to go forward. 674 00:32:57,360 --> 00:32:58,600 Speaker 4: And I know that'll happen. 675 00:32:59,240 --> 00:33:02,560 Speaker 8: And so the best thing that being on the show 676 00:33:02,600 --> 00:33:04,760 Speaker 8: has done for me has helped me really kind of 677 00:33:04,760 --> 00:33:08,080 Speaker 8: tune into my vibe even more and appreciate it even more. 678 00:33:08,120 --> 00:33:10,320 Speaker 8: At this stage, I think I always know I had 679 00:33:10,760 --> 00:33:13,800 Speaker 8: my own kind of vibe, but now I have it 680 00:33:14,160 --> 00:33:17,440 Speaker 8: and I'm enjoying it even more, And that in itself 681 00:33:17,560 --> 00:33:20,200 Speaker 8: is attractive. And most women need to find their vibe 682 00:33:20,200 --> 00:33:22,080 Speaker 8: and be comfortable with it and not compare it to 683 00:33:22,120 --> 00:33:26,160 Speaker 8: anybody else, not expect anything from anybody else, just do 684 00:33:26,400 --> 00:33:30,600 Speaker 8: them honestly and not need approval from anyone. 685 00:33:30,800 --> 00:33:36,240 Speaker 4: And when that happens, look out. Yeah, it gets pretty poppin'. 686 00:33:37,800 --> 00:33:41,000 Speaker 1: Are you Are you close with any of the women 687 00:33:41,080 --> 00:33:43,680 Speaker 1: from your season? Were you able to make friends with thatone? 688 00:33:44,160 --> 00:33:47,640 Speaker 8: I didn't make any heavy duty friendships or anything like that. 689 00:33:49,520 --> 00:33:51,760 Speaker 8: It was difficult the person I you know, people were 690 00:33:51,840 --> 00:33:55,080 Speaker 8: kind of sharing kind of interesting stories. 691 00:33:55,480 --> 00:34:00,560 Speaker 4: But I'm sure maybe down the line, you know. 692 00:34:00,640 --> 00:34:03,560 Speaker 8: We'll run it to each other on maybe social media 693 00:34:03,680 --> 00:34:04,440 Speaker 8: or somewhere. 694 00:34:04,840 --> 00:34:06,960 Speaker 4: It would be nice to reconnect. 695 00:34:07,280 --> 00:34:10,720 Speaker 1: Have you have you have you been watching the show? 696 00:34:11,520 --> 00:34:12,239 Speaker 4: I sure have. 697 00:34:13,320 --> 00:34:15,399 Speaker 1: Who have you been rooting for any any of the women? 698 00:34:15,440 --> 00:34:18,760 Speaker 9: You've been rooting for Gary to find who he really 699 00:34:18,840 --> 00:34:22,560 Speaker 9: loves because I think I think, I think the attention 700 00:34:22,760 --> 00:34:25,759 Speaker 9: and all the trauma that's associated with this outside of 701 00:34:25,800 --> 00:34:27,520 Speaker 9: the show has been a lot. 702 00:34:27,960 --> 00:34:30,839 Speaker 8: So even outside the show, I'm sure he's getting attention now. 703 00:34:30,880 --> 00:34:34,080 Speaker 8: So whoever he's you know, in you know, between the 704 00:34:34,200 --> 00:34:37,279 Speaker 8: last two, I mean, I think he genuinely cares for 705 00:34:37,320 --> 00:34:39,719 Speaker 8: them deeply. But it'll be interesting to see if it's 706 00:34:39,719 --> 00:34:43,320 Speaker 8: something that's you know, made in heaven and last forever, 707 00:34:43,520 --> 00:34:46,200 Speaker 8: or if it, you know, it was just a beginning 708 00:34:46,280 --> 00:34:48,400 Speaker 8: of something bigger and better than he ever dreamed. 709 00:34:48,920 --> 00:34:54,600 Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah, if if they are to do a Golden 710 00:34:55,120 --> 00:34:57,320 Speaker 1: Bachelorette and they appro. 711 00:34:57,080 --> 00:35:00,279 Speaker 8: Absolutely, I would be line and said I would kill it. 712 00:35:01,400 --> 00:35:03,600 Speaker 3: You would kill it. You would kill it. A feel 713 00:35:03,600 --> 00:35:05,560 Speaker 3: this interview, I feel confident. 714 00:35:06,400 --> 00:35:09,040 Speaker 8: And and and casting would have to get a whole 715 00:35:09,160 --> 00:35:11,680 Speaker 8: mixture of men, you know, and I would just rock 716 00:35:11,800 --> 00:35:12,400 Speaker 8: that show. 717 00:35:14,239 --> 00:35:17,280 Speaker 1: Nice. I love it. I love the confidence. So what 718 00:35:17,280 --> 00:35:22,640 Speaker 1: what right now, let's hear what you are currently looking 719 00:35:22,719 --> 00:35:23,960 Speaker 1: for in a man. 720 00:35:25,280 --> 00:35:29,840 Speaker 8: I want a man that is independent in every way possible. 721 00:35:29,960 --> 00:35:34,399 Speaker 8: I want him to be funny, a really good sense 722 00:35:34,400 --> 00:35:38,640 Speaker 8: of humor, likes to you know, do a fee push 723 00:35:38,719 --> 00:35:40,919 Speaker 8: ups every now and then you know, he finds that 724 00:35:41,360 --> 00:35:43,960 Speaker 8: he needs some you know, health integrity. 725 00:35:44,719 --> 00:35:46,759 Speaker 4: Yeah, and it. 726 00:35:46,840 --> 00:35:49,319 Speaker 8: Doesn't have to be crazy about it, you know, but 727 00:35:49,440 --> 00:35:51,480 Speaker 8: he has to be on his radar. 728 00:35:51,640 --> 00:35:52,920 Speaker 4: And important to. 729 00:35:52,920 --> 00:35:58,040 Speaker 8: Him, to him, not necessarily anybody else. And he's and 730 00:35:58,120 --> 00:36:02,759 Speaker 8: he wants to just really really really have a love adventure, 731 00:36:03,400 --> 00:36:07,239 Speaker 8: you know, go travel, experience things we had we've never 732 00:36:07,320 --> 00:36:09,400 Speaker 8: experienced before. And at this stage of the game, we 733 00:36:09,480 --> 00:36:11,759 Speaker 8: might have to get pretty creative, which would require a 734 00:36:11,760 --> 00:36:15,719 Speaker 8: certain type of personality and intellect and definitely a sense 735 00:36:15,760 --> 00:36:19,759 Speaker 8: of humor and most of all, you know, really love me. 736 00:36:20,560 --> 00:36:21,920 Speaker 1: M I like that. 737 00:36:22,080 --> 00:36:23,640 Speaker 3: I like that. That's a great answer. 738 00:36:23,840 --> 00:36:27,479 Speaker 1: Do you have like a certain age gap you won't 739 00:36:27,480 --> 00:36:28,279 Speaker 1: go past? 740 00:36:30,040 --> 00:36:30,279 Speaker 4: I'm not. 741 00:36:30,560 --> 00:36:34,120 Speaker 1: I'm not interested younger. Oh yeah, yeah, I don't. 742 00:36:34,160 --> 00:36:38,359 Speaker 8: I don't really I'm a young golden bachelorette. 743 00:36:39,000 --> 00:36:39,880 Speaker 1: Yeah, you know, I'm not. 744 00:36:41,080 --> 00:36:44,239 Speaker 8: You know, I've been blessed and highly favored, you know, 745 00:36:44,320 --> 00:36:45,400 Speaker 8: so I don't really have. 746 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:47,800 Speaker 4: I mean, the only thing I take our vitamins. 747 00:36:48,040 --> 00:36:53,160 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, so, and I'm relatively fit, and I enjoy 748 00:36:55,920 --> 00:36:57,600 Speaker 8: a lot of my friends are at least ten to 749 00:36:57,600 --> 00:37:00,279 Speaker 8: fifteen years younger, you know, in terms of some of 750 00:37:00,320 --> 00:37:03,080 Speaker 8: the places I go, things I do. So even though 751 00:37:03,120 --> 00:37:05,600 Speaker 8: I might walk in the room and say, wow, I 752 00:37:05,640 --> 00:37:08,239 Speaker 8: know I'm older, everybody else doesn't know that. 753 00:37:08,560 --> 00:37:08,759 Speaker 4: You know. 754 00:37:08,840 --> 00:37:11,320 Speaker 8: Yeah, yeah, So that's that's fine. 755 00:37:11,480 --> 00:37:14,759 Speaker 4: But do I want a man that's definitely. 756 00:37:16,360 --> 00:37:19,080 Speaker 8: Happy with where he is in his life and ready 757 00:37:19,120 --> 00:37:22,160 Speaker 8: for something really exciting to happen to him in his 758 00:37:22,239 --> 00:37:27,120 Speaker 8: heart and in his soul, you know. So, so it's 759 00:37:27,280 --> 00:37:29,520 Speaker 8: if he if he's doing anything, it's it's more on 760 00:37:29,560 --> 00:37:32,719 Speaker 8: a philanthropic level or doing things that really kind of 761 00:37:33,000 --> 00:37:35,120 Speaker 8: you know, have the world in mind, you know, make 762 00:37:35,200 --> 00:37:38,680 Speaker 8: some differences with that. I want him to know who 763 00:37:38,719 --> 00:37:42,880 Speaker 8: he is, be powerful, and enjoy be powerful and and 764 00:37:43,040 --> 00:37:45,640 Speaker 8: enjoy having a woman that will support him and be 765 00:37:45,760 --> 00:37:46,200 Speaker 8: that too. 766 00:37:47,080 --> 00:37:50,680 Speaker 1: Nice. All right, well, I mean that's all sounds lovely. 767 00:37:50,760 --> 00:37:51,120 Speaker 3: Maria. 768 00:37:51,280 --> 00:37:54,960 Speaker 1: Thank you so much for taking the time and coming 769 00:37:55,000 --> 00:37:55,880 Speaker 1: on our podcast. 770 00:37:56,080 --> 00:37:58,279 Speaker 4: Thank oh, thank you for helping me. Thank you for 771 00:37:58,320 --> 00:37:58,719 Speaker 4: having me. 772 00:37:58,960 --> 00:38:02,759 Speaker 1: What a pleasure of course. And to our listeners, make 773 00:38:02,840 --> 00:38:05,880 Speaker 1: sure you stay tuned to next week because we're going 774 00:38:05,920 --> 00:38:09,600 Speaker 1: to have more fabulous women from Golden Bachelor coming on