1
00:00:03,040 --> 00:00:05,320
Speaker 1: Welcome back to More to It, the show that takes

2
00:00:05,320 --> 00:00:08,760
Speaker 1: a deep dive into the biggest stories in sports, entertainment,

3
00:00:08,800 --> 00:00:12,399
Speaker 1: and culture. Start with headline news and then journey into

4
00:00:12,480 --> 00:00:16,239
Speaker 1: deeper conversations, always finding those life lessons that are presented

5
00:00:16,280 --> 00:00:20,480
Speaker 1: in every single story. I'm your host, Marcel S. Wait, dad, dude,

6
00:00:20,920 --> 00:00:24,759
Speaker 1: and today let's chop up some woods, starting with my

7
00:00:25,239 --> 00:00:29,520
Speaker 1: cleaning up for my championship party. Dash right had them

8
00:00:29,560 --> 00:00:33,440
Speaker 1: little seven year olds over here, my Buffalo Bills NFL

9
00:00:33,600 --> 00:00:37,760
Speaker 1: San Fernando Valley Flag Football champions of twenty twenty three.

10
00:00:38,080 --> 00:00:40,120
Speaker 1: I'm more proud of this than they are. They don't

11
00:00:40,120 --> 00:00:42,000
Speaker 1: even know what they did. I know what we did.

12
00:00:42,560 --> 00:00:44,479
Speaker 1: We didn't have all good players. Let me just say that.

13
00:00:44,520 --> 00:00:47,839
Speaker 1: And I'm sorry parents, I'm sorry whoever registered from my squad.

14
00:00:48,880 --> 00:00:51,800
Speaker 1: And my name is starting to starting to catch catch

15
00:00:51,840 --> 00:00:56,000
Speaker 1: fire out here, like the list of parents that want

16
00:00:56,040 --> 00:00:58,360
Speaker 1: me to coach their kids is growing so much that

17
00:00:59,560 --> 00:01:02,280
Speaker 1: thankfully the commissioner handles that and is taking care of

18
00:01:02,320 --> 00:01:06,000
Speaker 1: it and kind of exen some names off. But I

19
00:01:06,040 --> 00:01:08,600
Speaker 1: wish I could coach them all real talk, especially the

20
00:01:08,680 --> 00:01:10,280
Speaker 1: ones that are not that good. As long as I

21
00:01:10,280 --> 00:01:12,480
Speaker 1: got to MJ. We're gonna be all right. Let me

22
00:01:12,520 --> 00:01:15,200
Speaker 1: stop playing. I ain't playing. As long as we got MJ.

23
00:01:15,280 --> 00:01:16,800
Speaker 1: We're gonna be all right. But I love coaching up

24
00:01:16,800 --> 00:01:19,120
Speaker 1: a kid just to see him develop, Like you know,

25
00:01:19,160 --> 00:01:21,240
Speaker 1: the kid who can't even run, got two left feet.

26
00:01:21,600 --> 00:01:23,800
Speaker 1: Then by the end of the season, he's catching touchdowns

27
00:01:23,800 --> 00:01:27,400
Speaker 1: for you like that, dude. And that's been my experience.

28
00:01:27,440 --> 00:01:29,440
Speaker 1: And because I have him Jay, I actually get a

29
00:01:29,480 --> 00:01:31,880
Speaker 1: lot of those kids to balance it off, to level

30
00:01:31,920 --> 00:01:34,600
Speaker 1: the playing field right now. So look, I was young, MJ.

31
00:01:34,840 --> 00:01:38,759
Speaker 1: What nineteen eighty three, I get it. Stays Bolzeman myself. Shoot,

32
00:01:38,800 --> 00:01:41,120
Speaker 1: Curtis Conway, y'all want y'all want to go through the names,

33
00:01:41,160 --> 00:01:45,280
Speaker 1: Jalil Holloway, I've seen him, Bobby Lucky like dudes who's

34
00:01:45,280 --> 00:01:48,040
Speaker 1: just like Okay, that team is stacked over there, so

35
00:01:48,240 --> 00:01:51,240
Speaker 1: gumby all these boys tremain folks. I could keep going.

36
00:01:51,320 --> 00:01:54,800
Speaker 1: Hubert rushed in the building. But the point being, we

37
00:01:54,880 --> 00:01:59,120
Speaker 1: had our party yesterday and my wife I love her

38
00:01:59,200 --> 00:02:03,800
Speaker 1: so much. She's a warrior and a warrior. Y'all heard me.

39
00:02:04,240 --> 00:02:07,440
Speaker 1: She's a warrior and a worrior. God lead that lady

40
00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:10,240
Speaker 1: to worry about anything okay, So it's like time to

41
00:02:10,280 --> 00:02:12,600
Speaker 1: clean up. All I need to know is how you

42
00:02:12,639 --> 00:02:14,280
Speaker 1: want it, because I'm gonna hand to it. I'm gonna

43
00:02:14,280 --> 00:02:16,520
Speaker 1: do the dirty work. Whatever. Just let me know how

44
00:02:16,560 --> 00:02:18,560
Speaker 1: you want it. But my wife can't do that. She

45
00:02:18,639 --> 00:02:20,640
Speaker 1: wants me to make the decisions for her, but she

46
00:02:20,680 --> 00:02:24,320
Speaker 1: already has it in her head what the decision is, right?

47
00:02:24,840 --> 00:02:26,880
Speaker 1: You know somebody like that who asked you a question,

48
00:02:27,360 --> 00:02:31,480
Speaker 1: loaded question, not even rhetorical like loaded, like the question

49
00:02:31,639 --> 00:02:34,000
Speaker 1: is answer it this way? Oh you're not, Well, here's

50
00:02:34,000 --> 00:02:35,760
Speaker 1: my answer. I'm like, well, let's get the middle step

51
00:02:35,760 --> 00:02:37,519
Speaker 1: because you don't give a damn about what I'm really saying.

52
00:02:37,840 --> 00:02:41,040
Speaker 1: So that happened yesterday before the party. But I'm used

53
00:02:41,080 --> 00:02:45,160
Speaker 1: to her. You know, we've been together eight years, married

54
00:02:45,200 --> 00:02:47,880
Speaker 1: eight years, I should say you together ten plus, So

55
00:02:48,440 --> 00:02:50,320
Speaker 1: I know what I was getting myself into. We cleaned

56
00:02:50,360 --> 00:02:52,600
Speaker 1: up the house, got it right. Kids came over, Oh

57
00:02:52,720 --> 00:02:55,840
Speaker 1: so dope, like all their parents. We're sitting outside, all

58
00:02:55,880 --> 00:02:58,919
Speaker 1: the kids inside, running up and down the stairs, playing

59
00:02:59,000 --> 00:03:01,919
Speaker 1: video games, just living life man, stuff that I used

60
00:03:01,960 --> 00:03:04,600
Speaker 1: to dream about when I was little, Not so much

61
00:03:04,600 --> 00:03:07,840
Speaker 1: having my friends over, but being able to have things

62
00:03:07,840 --> 00:03:10,120
Speaker 1: for my friends, to be entertained with other than us

63
00:03:10,160 --> 00:03:12,920
Speaker 1: just talking in a couple of games. Right, it was

64
00:03:12,960 --> 00:03:15,400
Speaker 1: just great. But no matter what it is, kids could

65
00:03:15,480 --> 00:03:18,120
Speaker 1: get a piece of paper and a pencil and have

66
00:03:18,200 --> 00:03:20,720
Speaker 1: some fun playing tik Tak toll. Right, But it's just

67
00:03:20,800 --> 00:03:24,200
Speaker 1: good to see dreams realized, and especially those guys. Because

68
00:03:24,720 --> 00:03:26,920
Speaker 1: we weren't the favorites to win. We actually lost the

69
00:03:26,960 --> 00:03:28,600
Speaker 1: game in the regular season to the team that we

70
00:03:28,639 --> 00:03:31,560
Speaker 1: had to see in the championship game. That team was loaded.

71
00:03:31,639 --> 00:03:35,160
Speaker 1: They didn't lose one game. That team first player of

72
00:03:35,200 --> 00:03:37,320
Speaker 1: the game. They scored on a second play of the game.

73
00:03:37,320 --> 00:03:41,760
Speaker 1: They picked us off. But my team persevered, and that's

74
00:03:41,760 --> 00:03:43,760
Speaker 1: what I love about it. So we had a ball.

75
00:03:44,000 --> 00:03:48,200
Speaker 1: We had a great championship party. Fam friends over, we

76
00:03:48,280 --> 00:03:53,280
Speaker 1: played basketball. Y'all look on Instagram and stuff. I kind

77
00:03:53,280 --> 00:03:55,640
Speaker 1: of hooked them up, man, because all throughout the year

78
00:03:55,720 --> 00:03:58,840
Speaker 1: they always asked me for playing cards, trading cards, coach,

79
00:03:58,840 --> 00:04:01,320
Speaker 1: where's your card? Ask for jerseys too, but I ignore

80
00:04:01,320 --> 00:04:02,960
Speaker 1: them when they ask for jersey. Hell no, a little boy,

81
00:04:02,960 --> 00:04:04,800
Speaker 1: you don't get no jersey. But they were like, where

82
00:04:04,840 --> 00:04:06,760
Speaker 1: you're playing cards? I want a card? I want a card.

83
00:04:07,160 --> 00:04:10,200
Speaker 1: So I was gonna give every kid a card, duh.

84
00:04:10,240 --> 00:04:12,360
Speaker 1: But then I wanted to have some fun, a little competition.

85
00:04:12,440 --> 00:04:13,920
Speaker 1: You know, in this world today, we don't want the

86
00:04:13,960 --> 00:04:18,120
Speaker 1: kids to compete. Where's the score? No score? Who won?

87
00:04:18,400 --> 00:04:21,800
Speaker 1: Who cares? Everyone gets a participation trophy, which I actually like.

88
00:04:22,520 --> 00:04:24,320
Speaker 1: But everything else, I'm like, nah, they still gotta know

89
00:04:24,320 --> 00:04:26,159
Speaker 1: who won, but they all get a trophy. Ain't nothing

90
00:04:26,160 --> 00:04:29,279
Speaker 1: wrong with that nice little hybrid fixed right. So I

91
00:04:29,320 --> 00:04:32,800
Speaker 1: had the kids to have a dunk contest. I had

92
00:04:32,839 --> 00:04:36,560
Speaker 1: the kids have a free throw contest. The strongest arm

93
00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:40,479
Speaker 1: accuracy contests. Yeah, man, And that's how you want extra

94
00:04:40,520 --> 00:04:42,640
Speaker 1: playing cards, extra trading cards. So we had a ball.

95
00:04:43,440 --> 00:04:45,679
Speaker 1: Love the little kids. Shout out to my team. They'll

96
00:04:45,720 --> 00:04:49,160
Speaker 1: never be together again. That's how sports works. You never

97
00:04:49,320 --> 00:04:53,000
Speaker 1: get the exact same team again. Remember when Nick Saban said, Daddy,

98
00:04:53,160 --> 00:04:55,960
Speaker 1: people walking to the meeting. You know, they just won

99
00:04:56,000 --> 00:05:01,200
Speaker 1: a championship one of them years, Nick Saban, just walk guys,

100
00:05:01,480 --> 00:05:05,480
Speaker 1: don't fool yourselves. We are not repeating as champions because

101
00:05:05,560 --> 00:05:08,799
Speaker 1: every guy in this room wasn't the same as every

102
00:05:08,800 --> 00:05:11,840
Speaker 1: guy was in the last room which won a championship.

103
00:05:11,920 --> 00:05:14,840
Speaker 1: I was like, damn, Nick, that's the hellu speech Nick

104
00:05:14,880 --> 00:05:17,760
Speaker 1: Saberman playing and he ain't lying. I've never been on

105
00:05:17,800 --> 00:05:21,560
Speaker 1: a team consecutively where we had the same exact team,

106
00:05:21,680 --> 00:05:25,520
Speaker 1: never any level like exactly the same. Hell no, even

107
00:05:25,520 --> 00:05:27,440
Speaker 1: an assistant coach to dip out because he want to

108
00:05:27,440 --> 00:05:30,320
Speaker 1: be a head coach. So nope, never seen it like that.

109
00:05:30,839 --> 00:05:33,200
Speaker 1: Speak of them, never seeing it like that. I've never

110
00:05:33,240 --> 00:05:37,080
Speaker 1: seen something like this. Let's talk about it. Colin Kaepernick,

111
00:05:38,480 --> 00:05:42,200
Speaker 1: white adoptive mom said he looked like a thug wearing

112
00:05:42,240 --> 00:05:45,719
Speaker 1: braids to school. So CAP's mom said he looked like

113
00:05:45,760 --> 00:05:50,159
Speaker 1: a thug wearing braids, accuses his white adoptive parents of

114
00:05:50,320 --> 00:05:55,720
Speaker 1: problematic upbringing and perpetuating racism. Oh my, haven't read the

115
00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,800
Speaker 1: book yet. I guess it's coming out another book or something.

116
00:05:58,600 --> 00:06:00,760
Speaker 1: So this is like the beginning of the promo tour.

117
00:06:00,839 --> 00:06:04,000
Speaker 1: I assume let's read through it before we get to it.

118
00:06:04,440 --> 00:06:07,520
Speaker 1: Colin Kaepernick is accusing his adoptive parents of being problematic

119
00:06:07,600 --> 00:06:10,000
Speaker 1: during his childhood, and a new interview with CBS News,

120
00:06:11,000 --> 00:06:14,000
Speaker 1: the former NFL football player explains the struggles that he

121
00:06:14,040 --> 00:06:16,880
Speaker 1: had to face growing up with a white family. In

122
00:06:17,000 --> 00:06:20,640
Speaker 1: his new graphic novel Changed the Game Told You I

123
00:06:20,760 --> 00:06:23,880
Speaker 1: know my parents loved me, but there were still very

124
00:06:23,920 --> 00:06:27,599
Speaker 1: problematic things that I went through. Kaepernick expressed the CBS News,

125
00:06:27,760 --> 00:06:30,400
Speaker 1: I think it was important to show that no, this

126
00:06:30,440 --> 00:06:32,839
Speaker 1: can happen in your own home and how we move

127
00:06:32,920 --> 00:06:36,960
Speaker 1: forward collectively while addressing the racism that is being perpetuated.

128
00:06:38,160 --> 00:06:40,240
Speaker 1: One particular moment that stood out to him was when

129
00:06:40,240 --> 00:06:43,040
Speaker 1: he was in high school and told his parents he

130
00:06:43,080 --> 00:06:46,080
Speaker 1: wanted braids just like the former NBA star Alan Iverson,

131
00:06:46,279 --> 00:06:51,240
Speaker 1: and his mother responded, he's getting what Roles. I don't

132
00:06:51,240 --> 00:06:54,520
Speaker 1: even know what to say. He's getting what Roles Kaepernick

133
00:06:54,560 --> 00:06:57,440
Speaker 1: said after styling his hair that way, his mom told

134
00:06:57,480 --> 00:07:00,279
Speaker 1: him his hair was quote unquote not professor, you know,

135
00:07:00,640 --> 00:07:04,760
Speaker 1: and he quote unquote looked like a little Doug. Okay,

136
00:07:05,480 --> 00:07:08,160
Speaker 1: let's unpack this one all right. First and foremost, you're

137
00:07:08,240 --> 00:07:12,880
Speaker 1: ungrateful sounding ass. I know his parents, his adopted parents

138
00:07:13,040 --> 00:07:16,880
Speaker 1: are thinking this motherfuck. He's so ungrateful, like you're bringing

139
00:07:16,880 --> 00:07:19,840
Speaker 1: all this hell and all this stuff up now, Like

140
00:07:19,920 --> 00:07:22,280
Speaker 1: we didn't do our best then and we didn't talk

141
00:07:22,280 --> 00:07:25,200
Speaker 1: through that problem. Then you're grateful. Little Your parents didn't

142
00:07:25,200 --> 00:07:26,880
Speaker 1: even want you, and I took your air. You took

143
00:07:26,920 --> 00:07:29,360
Speaker 1: you in and this is how you treat me. It

144
00:07:29,400 --> 00:07:32,000
Speaker 1: really takes me back to like that when Nwa try

145
00:07:32,040 --> 00:07:35,200
Speaker 1: to do that reunion and that doctor Dre voice, he said,

146
00:07:35,520 --> 00:07:37,960
Speaker 1: I did all this shit, and this the motherfucking thinks.

147
00:07:37,960 --> 00:07:41,120
Speaker 1: So get hello, y'all. Remember that's so I started this

148
00:07:41,280 --> 00:07:45,280
Speaker 1: gangster ship. Kaepernick's like, God, leave y'all. Didn't do it right,

149
00:07:45,360 --> 00:07:50,080
Speaker 1: y'all didn't do it perfectly, and every parent ever it's like, duh,

150
00:07:50,160 --> 00:07:52,560
Speaker 1: that was the attempt, but obviously that wasn't gonna be

151
00:07:52,600 --> 00:07:55,600
Speaker 1: the result. Parents like, I did all this shit, and

152
00:07:55,600 --> 00:07:59,000
Speaker 1: it's the thanks I get hello, all right. My wife's adopted.

153
00:07:59,040 --> 00:08:01,000
Speaker 1: I don't know how that helps me in this situation,

154
00:08:01,120 --> 00:08:05,160
Speaker 1: but working through some of her trauma is interesting. It's

155
00:08:05,160 --> 00:08:08,560
Speaker 1: a different dynamic than me, born to my mother and

156
00:08:08,720 --> 00:08:12,840
Speaker 1: father in a nuclear family home. Different than my sister Tiki,

157
00:08:12,880 --> 00:08:15,240
Speaker 1: the one I always talk about who actually grew up

158
00:08:15,280 --> 00:08:21,040
Speaker 1: with my dad. But her and I our mom, right,

159
00:08:21,320 --> 00:08:24,440
Speaker 1: so we only shared mama together. But that was my daddy,

160
00:08:24,520 --> 00:08:26,280
Speaker 1: that wasn't your daddy. And I saw how that made

161
00:08:26,320 --> 00:08:28,720
Speaker 1: her feel a little different than me. So I got

162
00:08:28,720 --> 00:08:30,600
Speaker 1: my mom and dad, and my sister only got her

163
00:08:30,680 --> 00:08:33,600
Speaker 1: mama and Kaepernick didn't have either, and my wife didn't

164
00:08:33,640 --> 00:08:36,120
Speaker 1: have either. Let's talk about it. Okay, So this is

165
00:08:36,160 --> 00:08:40,520
Speaker 1: really about is that racism that she said, you're gonna

166
00:08:40,520 --> 00:08:43,600
Speaker 1: look like a little thug or something else? Of course,

167
00:08:43,640 --> 00:08:46,680
Speaker 1: you know, I think it's something else because black people

168
00:08:46,720 --> 00:08:48,319
Speaker 1: say that stuff too. And I don't know how racist

169
00:08:48,360 --> 00:08:49,959
Speaker 1: you could be on your own, but if you can, well,

170
00:08:50,040 --> 00:08:52,720
Speaker 1: then that redefines what racism is. Let's do it. Black

171
00:08:52,720 --> 00:08:55,440
Speaker 1: people like, boy, you're looking thuggish, you're looking crazy, you're

172
00:08:55,480 --> 00:08:57,800
Speaker 1: looking gangster, whatever it may be, we'll talk through it.

173
00:08:58,640 --> 00:09:02,880
Speaker 1: I think that symbol and style, you know, attempt to

174
00:09:02,920 --> 00:09:06,320
Speaker 1: represent a person or a group of people. But let's

175
00:09:06,320 --> 00:09:12,640
Speaker 1: explore the sociological why right style symbols cats actually wear

176
00:09:12,760 --> 00:09:16,040
Speaker 1: stuff to act like they're that thing. So let's just

177
00:09:16,760 --> 00:09:20,320
Speaker 1: let's just give it a tagline. You are not it,

178
00:09:20,880 --> 00:09:24,240
Speaker 1: but you look like it. You are not it, but

179
00:09:24,480 --> 00:09:27,319
Speaker 1: you look like it. You are not a little thug,

180
00:09:27,520 --> 00:09:31,040
Speaker 1: but you look like a little thug. What does that mean?

181
00:09:31,240 --> 00:09:34,840
Speaker 1: And is that racist or what is it it really intended? Okay?

182
00:09:35,400 --> 00:09:37,520
Speaker 1: I remember growing up in the first time I got

183
00:09:38,280 --> 00:09:42,960
Speaker 1: I guess around this topic, around this type of information

184
00:09:43,280 --> 00:09:46,440
Speaker 1: was when I heard ice Cube when I was living

185
00:09:46,480 --> 00:09:51,000
Speaker 1: in La. Right, I'm a youngster and ice Cube is

186
00:09:51,040 --> 00:09:56,120
Speaker 1: representing like gangster gangster. He had to portray gangster, not

187
00:09:56,280 --> 00:09:59,440
Speaker 1: just live gangster or see gangster stuff. But now you're

188
00:09:59,440 --> 00:10:02,400
Speaker 1: an artist, nobody knows how you live unless you put

189
00:10:02,520 --> 00:10:05,640
Speaker 1: tray it right? And what did ice cu famlessly say?

190
00:10:05,840 --> 00:10:08,600
Speaker 1: I were a Raider hat, T shirt and khakis. And

191
00:10:08,600 --> 00:10:10,280
Speaker 1: when he said that, I was like, why is he

192
00:10:10,400 --> 00:10:14,600
Speaker 1: saying that? Oh, because that's the uniform of gangsters. Now,

193
00:10:14,640 --> 00:10:17,200
Speaker 1: I don't know which one came first. Was cats really

194
00:10:17,200 --> 00:10:21,240
Speaker 1: wearing raider hats, T shirts and khakis and banging, or

195
00:10:21,400 --> 00:10:23,520
Speaker 1: when you were starting to bang you said I got

196
00:10:23,640 --> 00:10:25,880
Speaker 1: to wear a Raider hat, T shirt and khakis. But

197
00:10:26,040 --> 00:10:29,720
Speaker 1: let me tell you there were a trillion cats in

198
00:10:29,920 --> 00:10:34,160
Speaker 1: LA and it obviously took off nationwide wearing raider hats,

199
00:10:34,240 --> 00:10:38,920
Speaker 1: T shirts and khakis. Why to say to show that

200
00:10:38,960 --> 00:10:44,240
Speaker 1: they were gangster, even those that wearing gangster? Right, first

201
00:10:44,280 --> 00:10:46,679
Speaker 1: jacket I ever had started jacket? Guess what it was?

202
00:10:46,880 --> 00:10:50,360
Speaker 1: A black Raiders jacket. I wasn't trying to be gangster,

203
00:10:50,720 --> 00:10:53,160
Speaker 1: but I had on what the gangsters had on. Yeah,

204
00:10:53,200 --> 00:10:57,200
Speaker 1: catch where I'm going with this Okay, So if your

205
00:10:57,400 --> 00:10:59,920
Speaker 1: gangster in La at a time you wore a d

206
00:11:00,200 --> 00:11:03,160
Speaker 1: had T shirt and khakis. You also at a time

207
00:11:03,640 --> 00:11:06,360
Speaker 1: may have had your pant sagging at a time, may

208
00:11:06,360 --> 00:11:08,920
Speaker 1: have had a bandanna hanger. Now you really gangster? Island?

209
00:11:09,080 --> 00:11:11,280
Speaker 1: Ain't know if answer bus If you got a bandanto,

210
00:11:12,280 --> 00:11:14,400
Speaker 1: you got the flag hanging? Or you gangster? You crazy?

211
00:11:14,400 --> 00:11:16,200
Speaker 1: Back in the eighties, Oh hell no, that was a

212
00:11:16,240 --> 00:11:19,640
Speaker 1: death certificate if you weren't really banging a penalty remember

213
00:11:19,679 --> 00:11:22,600
Speaker 1: those like, you know, little checkers and stuff. You had

214
00:11:22,640 --> 00:11:27,120
Speaker 1: on a penalty sagging with some khakis and a flag hanging. Man,

215
00:11:27,200 --> 00:11:31,160
Speaker 1: don't even tell me you're not gangster. However, I wore

216
00:11:31,200 --> 00:11:34,280
Speaker 1: a Pendelton before in the house, I had flag. I

217
00:11:34,320 --> 00:11:36,440
Speaker 1: never go outside of the flag, but I had on khakis.

218
00:11:36,840 --> 00:11:39,520
Speaker 1: Was I a gangster? Nope? But was I looking like

219
00:11:39,559 --> 00:11:42,240
Speaker 1: a gangster? Hell? Yeah I was, because my mama told

220
00:11:42,280 --> 00:11:44,480
Speaker 1: me I was. My sister told me, I was like,

221
00:11:44,720 --> 00:11:48,120
Speaker 1: what you're doing trying to look gangster? Black people? Telling

222
00:11:48,120 --> 00:11:51,840
Speaker 1: me that? Was that racist? No? Was it something else? Yes?

223
00:11:52,200 --> 00:11:55,240
Speaker 1: Was it something else? With Colin Kaepernick's paris, Let's see,

224
00:11:55,920 --> 00:12:00,760
Speaker 1: so I knew that you can wrap some and look

225
00:12:00,880 --> 00:12:03,880
Speaker 1: like something, even if you weren't something, right, So then

226
00:12:03,920 --> 00:12:07,280
Speaker 1: I started looking around for other ways to identify. You know,

227
00:12:07,440 --> 00:12:10,600
Speaker 1: I went through my little dancer phase. What was that? Well,

228
00:12:10,720 --> 00:12:13,040
Speaker 1: somebody who had a high top fade, your kidn't play?

229
00:12:13,240 --> 00:12:15,400
Speaker 1: So I had the big daddy cane, curly top look.

230
00:12:15,880 --> 00:12:19,360
Speaker 1: And then I looked more dancer, right, I had on

231
00:12:19,840 --> 00:12:23,040
Speaker 1: the preppy look, you remember, like the button downs, the

232
00:12:23,120 --> 00:12:29,240
Speaker 1: colorful cross color pants, flower shirt, the high top, big

233
00:12:29,320 --> 00:12:32,960
Speaker 1: daddy cane kid and play. I'm preppy, will Smith kind

234
00:12:32,960 --> 00:12:36,160
Speaker 1: of whatever you want to call that, right, a living

235
00:12:36,200 --> 00:12:39,760
Speaker 1: color remember that, or even a different world? You look

236
00:12:39,840 --> 00:12:42,840
Speaker 1: like one of those. But were you? I ain't. I

237
00:12:42,840 --> 00:12:44,920
Speaker 1: ain't go to school, dad, I wasn't in college yet.

238
00:12:45,200 --> 00:12:48,000
Speaker 1: I wasn't on those show like that. It's just like projections.

239
00:12:48,160 --> 00:12:52,000
Speaker 1: Right then, you obviously know if somebody's wearing a suit,

240
00:12:52,320 --> 00:12:57,160
Speaker 1: Oh look at that businessman or businesswoman. Oh my god, right,

241
00:12:57,480 --> 00:13:00,440
Speaker 1: we see it all. We ain't stupid. You wear an

242
00:13:00,440 --> 00:13:03,480
Speaker 1: orange jumpsuit. You know, cats gonna be like them? You

243
00:13:03,559 --> 00:13:05,199
Speaker 1: trying to look like you a prisoner, You trying to

244
00:13:05,200 --> 00:13:06,840
Speaker 1: look like an m may you trying to look gangster,

245
00:13:06,960 --> 00:13:10,160
Speaker 1: whatever it may be. And I've seen them all. Let's

246
00:13:10,200 --> 00:13:13,559
Speaker 1: go real, let's go to the racy ones, six inch shields,

247
00:13:14,040 --> 00:13:17,400
Speaker 1: mini skirt, broad top. Oh you a hole, You are slut,

248
00:13:17,480 --> 00:13:20,200
Speaker 1: you promiscuous something right, And that gets a lot of

249
00:13:20,240 --> 00:13:23,200
Speaker 1: people in trouble because I am not a hole, I

250
00:13:23,240 --> 00:13:26,280
Speaker 1: am not a slut, but I am wearing what they

251
00:13:26,480 --> 00:13:30,040
Speaker 1: would wear. That's what we generalize, that's what you typically saw.

252
00:13:30,320 --> 00:13:34,680
Speaker 1: So me living in La dressing like a gangster, but

253
00:13:34,840 --> 00:13:39,040
Speaker 1: not being a gangster. Couldn't really attribute that to racism.

254
00:13:39,840 --> 00:13:43,640
Speaker 1: What can you attribute it to? Well, human beings are

255
00:13:43,640 --> 00:13:46,880
Speaker 1: wired a few ways, but one of them is that

256
00:13:47,040 --> 00:13:51,160
Speaker 1: we're wired to generalize to protect ourselves. How did we

257
00:13:51,200 --> 00:13:54,760
Speaker 1: get wired that way? Well, we didn't have the information

258
00:13:54,800 --> 00:13:58,120
Speaker 1: we have now even thirty years ago, let alone three

259
00:13:58,240 --> 00:14:01,920
Speaker 1: thousand years ago. You rumor, like before the Internet, you

260
00:14:02,000 --> 00:14:03,319
Speaker 1: just be at the red light and had to look

261
00:14:03,320 --> 00:14:04,640
Speaker 1: at the car next to you and that was it.

262
00:14:05,320 --> 00:14:07,120
Speaker 1: Now you're the red light sheep man. I'm about to

263
00:14:07,120 --> 00:14:10,880
Speaker 1: see what's happening in Japan right on that phone. That

264
00:14:11,000 --> 00:14:13,080
Speaker 1: wasn't even thirty years ago you could do that right,

265
00:14:13,240 --> 00:14:16,880
Speaker 1: let alone three thousand years ago, you go outside, Hello, Hello, Hello,

266
00:14:17,240 --> 00:14:21,080
Speaker 1: anybody anybody, anybody. You wait for your echo and be like,

267
00:14:21,120 --> 00:14:22,880
Speaker 1: that's somebody. You hear your echo and think that was

268
00:14:23,000 --> 00:14:26,640
Speaker 1: somebody else. Now I fool you by yourself out there.

269
00:14:26,880 --> 00:14:30,600
Speaker 1: So you generalize because I ain't got time to meet

270
00:14:30,800 --> 00:14:33,520
Speaker 1: each and every one of you. You generalize. I ain't

271
00:14:33,520 --> 00:14:35,840
Speaker 1: got time to go into the group and find out

272
00:14:35,880 --> 00:14:38,760
Speaker 1: the nice guy from the bad guy. Whatever you wear.

273
00:14:39,040 --> 00:14:42,280
Speaker 1: That's why symbols were so pertinent back in the day.

274
00:14:42,400 --> 00:14:46,120
Speaker 1: Symbols they said, draw everything. Everything was symbolic. Why I'm

275
00:14:46,160 --> 00:14:49,440
Speaker 1: trying to let you know who I am. I'm representing this, that,

276
00:14:49,920 --> 00:14:53,920
Speaker 1: this or that. That's it. So when I read this story,

277
00:14:53,920 --> 00:14:58,040
Speaker 1: I was like, just sounds like some generalization. Actually in protection,

278
00:14:58,400 --> 00:15:00,640
Speaker 1: I didn't take you as racist. The only thing that

279
00:15:00,720 --> 00:15:02,400
Speaker 1: can make you take it as racist, as a white

280
00:15:02,440 --> 00:15:04,840
Speaker 1: person said it, Well, what happens when a white person

281
00:15:05,080 --> 00:15:09,200
Speaker 1: and a black person says the exact same thing? Why

282
00:15:09,280 --> 00:15:12,280
Speaker 1: is one deemed racist and one not? Right? I grew

283
00:15:12,360 --> 00:15:14,600
Speaker 1: up with a lot of black people clowning me, dissing me,

284
00:15:15,120 --> 00:15:17,600
Speaker 1: what racism? But then white people said the same thing

285
00:15:17,680 --> 00:15:21,240
Speaker 1: sometimes was that racism? Why? Why is that racism? When

286
00:15:21,320 --> 00:15:24,080
Speaker 1: a black person told me the same damn thing for

287
00:15:24,160 --> 00:15:29,360
Speaker 1: the same reason as soon. Ah man, that's crazy. I mean, look,

288
00:15:30,160 --> 00:15:33,320
Speaker 1: it was already a complicated matter. He was adopted, which

289
00:15:33,360 --> 00:15:35,760
Speaker 1: is unfortunate, but hey, make the best of it. Right

290
00:15:36,280 --> 00:15:40,400
Speaker 1: then you had interracial adoption, like your parents are white

291
00:15:41,000 --> 00:15:45,840
Speaker 1: and you're a black m Only in America do we

292
00:15:45,920 --> 00:15:51,920
Speaker 1: mix race and culture intimately. And this great, like greater

293
00:15:51,960 --> 00:15:54,840
Speaker 1: than any other country, Like most countries don't even attempt it. Like,

294
00:15:54,920 --> 00:15:57,160
Speaker 1: look y'all stay over there, y'all stay over there, your

295
00:15:57,240 --> 00:15:59,760
Speaker 1: race over there, your culture over there. Do not trying

296
00:15:59,760 --> 00:16:02,200
Speaker 1: to to grate those things, right, But that's why I

297
00:16:02,240 --> 00:16:04,560
Speaker 1: love America. That's why you guys all love America. You

298
00:16:04,680 --> 00:16:07,760
Speaker 1: hear right, at least some of y'all. I got audiences everywhere.

299
00:16:07,800 --> 00:16:12,080
Speaker 1: But I'm just saying, like that attempt, that ambition, that

300
00:16:12,160 --> 00:16:15,760
Speaker 1: aspiration is what we all love about America. It's like, na, dog,

301
00:16:15,800 --> 00:16:18,080
Speaker 1: we're gonna be a real melting pot. That's what it's called,

302
00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:22,680
Speaker 1: like properly defined, all those mixes of racing culture is

303
00:16:22,680 --> 00:16:26,000
Speaker 1: a melting pot. Got love for it, right, But let's

304
00:16:26,000 --> 00:16:29,160
Speaker 1: just just be careful every time we throw around racism,

305
00:16:29,760 --> 00:16:33,320
Speaker 1: like go a little deeper before you put that big

306
00:16:33,680 --> 00:16:37,560
Speaker 1: r scarlet letter on somebody because maybe it's something else.

307
00:16:37,640 --> 00:16:40,920
Speaker 1: I always thought growing up when I saw somebody looking

308
00:16:41,000 --> 00:16:44,240
Speaker 1: like something, that they could have been that. But let

309
00:16:44,240 --> 00:16:46,440
Speaker 1: me get to know them, to know who they really are,

310
00:16:46,680 --> 00:16:50,040
Speaker 1: because if not, I was judged as being a BNC

311
00:16:50,400 --> 00:16:53,360
Speaker 1: just based on that generalization. Oh he just a dug.

312
00:16:53,480 --> 00:16:55,920
Speaker 1: Look at them, big old black little dude, sagg and

313
00:16:55,960 --> 00:17:00,000
Speaker 1: I used to SAgs say the N words, sag Khakis,

314
00:17:00,280 --> 00:17:03,800
Speaker 1: cortez on. I looked apart. My mama and daddy used

315
00:17:03,800 --> 00:17:05,760
Speaker 1: to check me, dog, you're doing too much. You're looking

316
00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:10,520
Speaker 1: like a little gangster. Was I gangster? Nah? Were they racist? Nah?

317
00:17:10,560 --> 00:17:12,880
Speaker 1: All right, Let's get to something that I really approve

318
00:17:12,960 --> 00:17:17,479
Speaker 1: of and unfortunately just keeps taking hits. Hazing. I am

319
00:17:17,520 --> 00:17:19,440
Speaker 1: a fan of hazing, Yes I am. It's to write

320
00:17:19,440 --> 00:17:22,320
Speaker 1: a passage. You know, you gotta qualify to get in here.

321
00:17:22,600 --> 00:17:25,840
Speaker 1: Let's talk about this Harvard's mental health hunger games. Oh.

322
00:17:26,359 --> 00:17:29,720
Speaker 1: Katie Stone has been Harvard's women's hockey coach for twenty

323
00:17:29,720 --> 00:17:32,600
Speaker 1: seven season. She has the accolades to back up, such

324
00:17:32,600 --> 00:17:35,480
Speaker 1: as a successful and long career. Blah blah blah, buddy's

325
00:17:35,480 --> 00:17:38,080
Speaker 1: trying to suck you up right now, who cares? All right,

326
00:17:38,119 --> 00:17:41,680
Speaker 1: let's get to the point. Oh, there have been multiple

327
00:17:41,840 --> 00:17:46,199
Speaker 1: racially insensitive comments from Stone and her staff. Okay, twenty

328
00:17:46,280 --> 00:17:48,640
Speaker 1: twenty two, she said the team had too many chiefs

329
00:17:48,880 --> 00:17:51,280
Speaker 1: and not enough Indians. Damn, every one of my coach

330
00:17:51,359 --> 00:17:54,320
Speaker 1: has been fired. Say y'all said that too many chiefs

331
00:17:54,320 --> 00:17:57,120
Speaker 1: and not enough Indians in a team meeting which included

332
00:17:57,119 --> 00:18:01,320
Speaker 1: two players of indigenous descent. Both players eventually left the team. Hey,

333
00:18:02,359 --> 00:18:04,720
Speaker 1: I don't say what hate is unless you're talking about

334
00:18:04,760 --> 00:18:07,800
Speaker 1: something specific. And those people who you're talking about they

335
00:18:07,840 --> 00:18:09,520
Speaker 1: say it's hateful, then I got to bow down. I

336
00:18:09,560 --> 00:18:13,000
Speaker 1: goes up, let them, I defer, even though I got

337
00:18:13,000 --> 00:18:16,960
Speaker 1: my own opinion. All right, there's been an annual initiation week, okay,

338
00:18:17,000 --> 00:18:20,879
Speaker 1: that includes various hazing rituals. A neked skate. Now that

339
00:18:21,080 --> 00:18:24,439
Speaker 1: sounds too far. It's cold. Coach, got me out here

340
00:18:24,600 --> 00:18:29,359
Speaker 1: neck it bucking neked to this ass. See what do

341
00:18:29,359 --> 00:18:31,120
Speaker 1: you say after that? I forgot the part that's made

342
00:18:31,119 --> 00:18:34,040
Speaker 1: players uncomfortable. Players were pressured to participate in activities that

343
00:18:34,119 --> 00:18:38,880
Speaker 1: revealed their sexual orientation. Ain't that kind of obvious? Boy?

344
00:18:38,880 --> 00:18:41,359
Speaker 1: We're in a different world, different society. You gotta reveal

345
00:18:41,520 --> 00:18:44,640
Speaker 1: your sexual sexual orientation, like it ain't obvious, Like that's

346
00:18:44,640 --> 00:18:48,119
Speaker 1: a boy, that's a girl. Good Lord. Stone allegedly created

347
00:18:48,160 --> 00:18:51,240
Speaker 1: a climate where players were constantly on edge. Now that's

348
00:18:51,240 --> 00:18:53,520
Speaker 1: where I'm already with Stone, which means your own edge.

349
00:18:53,640 --> 00:18:56,280
Speaker 1: Maybe you're sorry, Maybe you ain't gonna get playing time.

350
00:18:56,760 --> 00:18:59,920
Speaker 1: Maybe you're just not that good, you know what I mean,

351
00:19:00,080 --> 00:19:03,320
Speaker 1: like move man, including dividing the team essentially into two

352
00:19:03,320 --> 00:19:07,560
Speaker 1: factions Stone favorites and players she didn't value. Usually coaches

353
00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:10,200
Speaker 1: value good players, but I don't know. The favorites would

354
00:19:10,200 --> 00:19:12,480
Speaker 1: then be tasked to monitor every detail about the other

355
00:19:12,600 --> 00:19:16,200
Speaker 1: factions daily laws. Oh damn, that's that's kind of case,

356
00:19:17,280 --> 00:19:19,120
Speaker 1: she said. Basically, the ones that are my favorites, y'all

357
00:19:19,119 --> 00:19:23,360
Speaker 1: watched them. Other ones who ain't. You can say that

358
00:19:23,720 --> 00:19:26,879
Speaker 1: to them, but you can't say that to all of them.

359
00:19:26,960 --> 00:19:29,200
Speaker 1: You can't tell both sides that I get that you

360
00:19:29,280 --> 00:19:30,600
Speaker 1: got in trouble. You just don't know how to play

361
00:19:30,640 --> 00:19:33,199
Speaker 1: the game, lady. These incidents just scratched the surface of

362
00:19:33,200 --> 00:19:36,879
Speaker 1: a problem and a program that was described as a

363
00:19:36,920 --> 00:19:41,600
Speaker 1: mental health hunger games okay, Oh, Harvard's reluctance to act

364
00:19:42,000 --> 00:19:44,600
Speaker 1: because These issues were brought to administrators at least four

365
00:19:44,600 --> 00:19:46,959
Speaker 1: times in the last six years alone. I'm still a

366
00:19:46,960 --> 00:19:49,840
Speaker 1: fan of hazing, y'all. I hear this problem sounds a

367
00:19:49,880 --> 00:19:52,960
Speaker 1: little more political and a little more bureaucracy and bs

368
00:19:53,160 --> 00:19:56,359
Speaker 1: than it does maybe actual offense. But let's talk to

369
00:19:56,400 --> 00:20:00,600
Speaker 1: it with hazing. Why I like it it is because

370
00:20:00,680 --> 00:20:04,440
Speaker 1: it actually is a qualifier, right, a passage, right, like gangs,

371
00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:07,439
Speaker 1: jump you in, get off the porch, homes man, fucked up?

372
00:20:07,480 --> 00:20:10,560
Speaker 1: You joined the gangs? Remember that colors love that part

373
00:20:11,960 --> 00:20:14,760
Speaker 1: a team. I played on every team every single August.

374
00:20:14,800 --> 00:20:17,040
Speaker 1: Guess what training camp? There ain't nothing but a big

375
00:20:17,040 --> 00:20:20,159
Speaker 1: ass hazing, a month long of hazing, and then you

376
00:20:20,200 --> 00:20:23,680
Speaker 1: got Hell Week. What your think? Hell is Heaven? Look

377
00:20:23,680 --> 00:20:27,359
Speaker 1: at Hell Week? Come on, man. But I do agree

378
00:20:27,400 --> 00:20:30,000
Speaker 1: with this. There has to be a line. It can't

379
00:20:30,000 --> 00:20:32,280
Speaker 1: be free for all. It can't be you could do

380
00:20:32,320 --> 00:20:34,720
Speaker 1: whatever the hell you want. Like I hear about a

381
00:20:34,720 --> 00:20:37,760
Speaker 1: lot of initiations and people who join frats and stuff.

382
00:20:38,000 --> 00:20:40,520
Speaker 1: I ain't eat no boo boo bro I ain't put

383
00:20:40,560 --> 00:20:42,720
Speaker 1: my hands and nobody boo boo either. I ain't. It

384
00:20:42,760 --> 00:20:44,920
Speaker 1: could be a banana all you think and all you want,

385
00:20:44,960 --> 00:20:46,840
Speaker 1: I better see a banana. I'm taking a blind food

386
00:20:46,880 --> 00:20:48,840
Speaker 1: off banana. Okay, I'll put it back on. Oh that's

387
00:20:48,880 --> 00:20:53,000
Speaker 1: boo boo, that's boo boo. You ain't fooling me. Nah,

388
00:20:53,040 --> 00:20:57,280
Speaker 1: I didn't join the frat. Colombia had like one one

389
00:20:57,320 --> 00:21:00,280
Speaker 1: alpha and two and a half cute dogs Like I

390
00:21:00,359 --> 00:21:02,600
Speaker 1: was like, man, this ain't it. Ain't you know? I

391
00:21:02,640 --> 00:21:05,159
Speaker 1: ain't down south. I ain't wear it sat So stop playing.

392
00:21:06,000 --> 00:21:11,439
Speaker 1: But hazing. The good, the bad ugly of hasting. The

393
00:21:11,480 --> 00:21:15,399
Speaker 1: good of hazing is yo. You joined it. You qualified,

394
00:21:16,119 --> 00:21:19,399
Speaker 1: You went through our initiation, not just oh because you

395
00:21:19,440 --> 00:21:22,199
Speaker 1: can play football or because you could play hockey. In

396
00:21:22,240 --> 00:21:25,480
Speaker 1: this case, you're on the team. There's another team, you know, Dan, Well,

397
00:21:25,480 --> 00:21:28,800
Speaker 1: there's another team. It's with the vets. It's a team

398
00:21:28,840 --> 00:21:30,720
Speaker 1: with the ballers. You want to be on that team.

399
00:21:30,760 --> 00:21:32,040
Speaker 1: You want to go to in and out with us

400
00:21:32,119 --> 00:21:35,760
Speaker 1: after team meal. What if food qualify for our team,

401
00:21:35,800 --> 00:21:39,000
Speaker 1: We're gonna jump you in now. Don't kill the kid,

402
00:21:39,160 --> 00:21:43,239
Speaker 1: don't beat him down for real literally assault, but um

403
00:21:45,119 --> 00:21:47,440
Speaker 1: bring him some pain, let him know he's into something.

404
00:21:47,920 --> 00:21:50,960
Speaker 1: Hell yeah, what's wrong with that? I know? I got initiated,

405
00:21:51,080 --> 00:21:54,800
Speaker 1: uh I told you guys countless times how they take

406
00:21:54,840 --> 00:21:57,600
Speaker 1: me to the gold Post and poured baby Potter and

407
00:21:57,760 --> 00:22:01,280
Speaker 1: oil on me. All right now, the looked at me differently.

408
00:22:01,359 --> 00:22:05,360
Speaker 1: I take it Pat Williams, that happened to him. Uh,

409
00:22:05,600 --> 00:22:07,720
Speaker 1: he got also wrestled and beat up a lot, like

410
00:22:07,880 --> 00:22:10,399
Speaker 1: not real beat up, but like they used to wrestle,

411
00:22:10,400 --> 00:22:12,199
Speaker 1: and I can't wrestle, and I don't wrestle, and I

412
00:22:12,200 --> 00:22:14,320
Speaker 1: don't like getting tickled, and I don't like nobody laying

413
00:22:14,320 --> 00:22:16,760
Speaker 1: on me. I get cross to phobic, I get weirdly weird,

414
00:22:16,800 --> 00:22:19,560
Speaker 1: I get super aggressive, so I stopped laughing fast and

415
00:22:19,600 --> 00:22:22,440
Speaker 1: then I dremond green your ass. And I don't fight

416
00:22:22,560 --> 00:22:25,240
Speaker 1: my own teammates, so they knew not to do that.

417
00:22:25,280 --> 00:22:28,200
Speaker 1: They're like, just duct tape his ass and leaving button

418
00:22:28,200 --> 00:22:30,760
Speaker 1: neckie ain't tripping on that. They also know that too.

419
00:22:30,800 --> 00:22:32,560
Speaker 1: They know like where the line is, So that's why

420
00:22:32,600 --> 00:22:36,320
Speaker 1: I'm like, did this cross the line? The neck is?

421
00:22:36,359 --> 00:22:40,440
Speaker 1: Skating is kind of use. These are not adults, these

422
00:22:40,440 --> 00:22:43,359
Speaker 1: are college kids, and Harvard should have did something about it.

423
00:22:43,359 --> 00:22:45,959
Speaker 1: But it's Harvard, it's not Columbia. Columbia would have been

424
00:22:46,080 --> 00:22:49,600
Speaker 1: next this. Let me get a recruiting chit on him

425
00:22:49,720 --> 00:22:52,160
Speaker 1: very quick. We would have been knocked that out the park.

426
00:22:52,200 --> 00:22:55,200
Speaker 1: What you mean Columbia Airs on the side of Oh,

427
00:22:56,160 --> 00:22:59,359
Speaker 1: did they disturb you any? Didn't anything happened to someone

428
00:22:59,440 --> 00:23:01,280
Speaker 1: look at you and roll their eyes? Oh my god?

429
00:23:01,600 --> 00:23:04,200
Speaker 1: Bring them up on chargers like that's Columbia Harvard. I

430
00:23:04,200 --> 00:23:05,720
Speaker 1: don't know what there y'all running over there, but y'all

431
00:23:05,720 --> 00:23:08,280
Speaker 1: need to listen to your damn athletes. Come up, get

432
00:23:08,320 --> 00:23:11,600
Speaker 1: with it. Y'all too smart, pun intended for this to happen.

433
00:23:12,080 --> 00:23:15,320
Speaker 1: M speaking about happening. Let me get into this Dion

434
00:23:15,440 --> 00:23:18,840
Speaker 1: Sanders topic I did. I did some work on this before,

435
00:23:18,960 --> 00:23:21,000
Speaker 1: talked about this before, but I ain't really hone in

436
00:23:21,040 --> 00:23:24,320
Speaker 1: on what I want to talk about right now. How

437
00:23:24,359 --> 00:23:28,160
Speaker 1: he wanted Colorado's band to be won with the team,

438
00:23:28,200 --> 00:23:31,920
Speaker 1: and that turned into a game of appropriation to everyone's

439
00:23:31,920 --> 00:23:36,320
Speaker 1: playing versus what's appropriate that we are witnessing, right appropriation

440
00:23:36,880 --> 00:23:41,680
Speaker 1: verse cultural appropriation versus what's appropriate to what we're witnessing.

441
00:23:41,760 --> 00:23:44,159
Speaker 1: All right, if y'all don't know what I said about that,

442
00:23:44,280 --> 00:23:46,280
Speaker 1: y'all gotta go find them old clips. I ain't gonna

443
00:23:46,320 --> 00:23:50,879
Speaker 1: regurgitate for my loyal fans who keep up with me appropriation,

444
00:23:51,880 --> 00:23:53,920
Speaker 1: tell me where y'all fall on this one? Right? Because

445
00:23:53,920 --> 00:23:56,800
Speaker 1: I heard this one a thousand times. White girl gets

446
00:23:56,800 --> 00:23:59,680
Speaker 1: her hair braided. Problem, you get your hair braided for

447
00:23:59,760 --> 00:24:01,200
Speaker 1: you try to look black, trying to act black, trying

448
00:24:01,200 --> 00:24:05,880
Speaker 1: to be black. Okay, but then I don't hear as

449
00:24:06,040 --> 00:24:10,160
Speaker 1: much when the black girl has blonde hair. M y'all

450
00:24:10,200 --> 00:24:14,400
Speaker 1: seen that everywhere? Right? No problem? Right? She good, she good,

451
00:24:14,440 --> 00:24:18,000
Speaker 1: she fresh, she got blind air. Last time I check?

452
00:24:18,080 --> 00:24:20,200
Speaker 1: Do we I mean outside of creoles? And I don't

453
00:24:20,200 --> 00:24:22,320
Speaker 1: even know if they didn't, like, do we do that? Whatever?

454
00:24:22,840 --> 00:24:25,359
Speaker 1: And then they'd be like, oh man, stop stealing our stuff,

455
00:24:25,359 --> 00:24:29,200
Speaker 1: stop profiting off our stuff, stop stealing from us. Then

456
00:24:29,320 --> 00:24:33,360
Speaker 1: literally we're out there playing basketball that white people created Canada,

457
00:24:33,480 --> 00:24:37,000
Speaker 1: Canadians football, IVY League created a white people. You think

458
00:24:37,040 --> 00:24:38,520
Speaker 1: it was black people in the IVY League and the

459
00:24:38,520 --> 00:24:42,840
Speaker 1: eighteen hundreds, Hollywood. You know what I'm doing right now?

460
00:24:43,080 --> 00:24:46,359
Speaker 1: Industry created by white people. The point is, man, I

461
00:24:46,400 --> 00:24:49,040
Speaker 1: just think it's a dangerous game. You know me, I'm

462
00:24:49,080 --> 00:24:51,080
Speaker 1: a unifier and I take all the hits. I'll call

463
00:24:51,119 --> 00:24:54,000
Speaker 1: me whatever y'all gonna call me, Okay, just call me though,

464
00:24:54,119 --> 00:24:56,439
Speaker 1: you know what I mean. But we need to stop

465
00:24:56,560 --> 00:25:01,520
Speaker 1: all this like like revenue sharing and like pie slicing.

466
00:25:01,720 --> 00:25:04,159
Speaker 1: Oh that's not ours. All that is ours. Oh you

467
00:25:04,160 --> 00:25:06,639
Speaker 1: stop right there. We all borrowing from each other. Damn it.

468
00:25:06,880 --> 00:25:08,720
Speaker 1: If you're an adult in this world, you better be

469
00:25:08,720 --> 00:25:11,600
Speaker 1: borrowing from somebody one from your bank, use your debt

470
00:25:12,080 --> 00:25:14,320
Speaker 1: to your benefit too. You need to be borrowing from

471
00:25:14,359 --> 00:25:17,040
Speaker 1: your network, like yo, hook me up, work with me,

472
00:25:17,119 --> 00:25:19,800
Speaker 1: let's do this together in three. Don't use all yours

473
00:25:19,800 --> 00:25:24,640
Speaker 1: to do anything in this world, including culturally defining who

474
00:25:24,680 --> 00:25:27,280
Speaker 1: you are, like you borrow from everybody. So I just

475
00:25:27,320 --> 00:25:30,000
Speaker 1: thought that was a little interesting, especially when I'm watching

476
00:25:30,000 --> 00:25:35,120
Speaker 1: Alabama football games and I hearn Turner the mother because

477
00:25:35,119 --> 00:25:37,760
Speaker 1: I'm down. But I'm like, wait a minute, ain't that

478
00:25:37,800 --> 00:25:42,040
Speaker 1: a p WI? You know? You know in pwis played

479
00:25:42,040 --> 00:25:46,080
Speaker 1: down for my in words? Y'all need to stop playing

480
00:25:46,080 --> 00:25:49,280
Speaker 1: with this appropriation. All right, let's get into this wildyism

481
00:25:49,400 --> 00:25:52,400
Speaker 1: right now. Oh this wildism is a google one needs

482
00:25:52,400 --> 00:25:55,320
Speaker 1: your cool one. Success consists of going from failure to

483
00:25:55,359 --> 00:25:58,480
Speaker 1: failure without loss of enthusiasm. Who said that? It wasn't me?

484
00:25:58,680 --> 00:26:02,360
Speaker 1: Y'all know who said that? Winston hurt you. Okay, I

485
00:26:02,400 --> 00:26:05,560
Speaker 1: swear this was one of my superpowers growing up. Success

486
00:26:05,680 --> 00:26:09,760
Speaker 1: consists of going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm,

487
00:26:09,920 --> 00:26:12,439
Speaker 1: as y'all starting to get to know me intimately, like

488
00:26:12,520 --> 00:26:16,000
Speaker 1: without a co host, without a show production, kind of

489
00:26:16,040 --> 00:26:19,960
Speaker 1: like disguising and hide me from you. Clearly I'm a

490
00:26:20,000 --> 00:26:23,520
Speaker 1: goofy motherfucker, like I'm saying that, and I like it

491
00:26:23,600 --> 00:26:27,199
Speaker 1: keeps me light, keeps me pumped. I was worse when

492
00:26:27,240 --> 00:26:29,320
Speaker 1: I was younger. Let me just tell y'all that. But

493
00:26:29,920 --> 00:26:34,840
Speaker 1: I noticed that defeat defeated dudes, and I like how

494
00:26:34,880 --> 00:26:38,600
Speaker 1: that sounds. Defeat defeated dudes like they would lose and

495
00:26:38,680 --> 00:26:40,720
Speaker 1: really feel like they lost in life. I'm like, no, no,

496
00:26:40,840 --> 00:26:42,840
Speaker 1: that was just one day, one moment you lost that game.

497
00:26:43,119 --> 00:26:45,479
Speaker 1: Oh you lost her number. Oh she didn't like you.

498
00:26:45,520 --> 00:26:48,600
Speaker 1: Oh he didn't fuck with you, like who cares? Like,

499
00:26:48,880 --> 00:26:52,040
Speaker 1: keep going, like the whole marathon is take the next step,

500
00:26:52,400 --> 00:26:54,960
Speaker 1: not try to check every mile? Am I up? Am

501
00:26:54,960 --> 00:26:57,560
Speaker 1: I winning? You ever watch a marathon? That does not

502
00:26:57,680 --> 00:27:00,119
Speaker 1: matter who's winning at the mile one? Right? So I

503
00:27:00,160 --> 00:27:03,280
Speaker 1: didn't give a damn. I never lost enthusiasm between my losses.

504
00:27:03,560 --> 00:27:06,600
Speaker 1: I was like whatever. Next time, I stay pumped up

505
00:27:06,640 --> 00:27:12,160
Speaker 1: because I love life. I love life. Y'all don't love life.

506
00:27:12,160 --> 00:27:14,720
Speaker 1: I love life. I love how you compete in life.

507
00:27:15,320 --> 00:27:17,000
Speaker 1: I love how you wake up every day and ain't

508
00:27:17,040 --> 00:27:19,280
Speaker 1: nothing given to you. Gotta eat what you kill. So

509
00:27:19,440 --> 00:27:24,800
Speaker 1: let's go slight. Let's go slight. Casts out here scared

510
00:27:24,840 --> 00:27:26,760
Speaker 1: to slay. I swear the only thing I'm really trying

511
00:27:26,760 --> 00:27:30,200
Speaker 1: to make sure my kids understand is go slight. Turn

512
00:27:30,280 --> 00:27:32,679
Speaker 1: that damn engine on, rev it to one hundred percent,

513
00:27:32,880 --> 00:27:35,359
Speaker 1: and go get it, and don't turn it off, and

514
00:27:35,480 --> 00:27:38,800
Speaker 1: don't turn it down based on what you get. Fuck

515
00:27:38,840 --> 00:27:42,040
Speaker 1: them results. Keep going through that process. Them results gonna

516
00:27:42,040 --> 00:27:46,919
Speaker 1: take care of themselves. I'm a living example of that enthusiasm. Man,

517
00:27:46,920 --> 00:27:49,320
Speaker 1: don't let no people take your shine away. And that's

518
00:27:49,320 --> 00:27:52,600
Speaker 1: what's happening. These cats be getting emotional, and that Trump's

519
00:27:52,640 --> 00:27:55,120
Speaker 1: logic nowadays. And the next thing you know, you are

520
00:27:55,359 --> 00:27:58,840
Speaker 1: not as enthused and pumped as you should be to

521
00:27:58,880 --> 00:28:01,040
Speaker 1: do what you gotta do. Because to make anything come

522
00:28:01,080 --> 00:28:03,760
Speaker 1: to life, you gotta give it energy. Y'all. Can't just

523
00:28:03,800 --> 00:28:06,640
Speaker 1: say I got it right here on paper look so amazing.

524
00:28:06,920 --> 00:28:10,800
Speaker 1: You gotta bring that ship to life. Success consists of

525
00:28:11,200 --> 00:28:16,000
Speaker 1: going from failure to failure without loss of enthusiasm. Winston Churchill,

526
00:28:16,359 --> 00:28:18,600
Speaker 1: that's a Gangstad's name to it like if you if

527
00:28:18,640 --> 00:28:21,040
Speaker 1: your last name Churchill, nay name you Winston, Oh, You're

528
00:28:21,040 --> 00:28:24,359
Speaker 1: gonna be somebody in life guaranteed. All right, that's gonna

529
00:28:24,400 --> 00:28:26,320
Speaker 1: do it for More to It checked the show notes

530
00:28:26,320 --> 00:28:30,159
Speaker 1: for all the information on our topics to day. You

531
00:28:30,160 --> 00:28:32,119
Speaker 1: want to keep the conversation going, How know you do

532
00:28:32,240 --> 00:28:35,600
Speaker 1: less talk find me on all socials at Marcellous Way.

533
00:28:35,680 --> 00:28:38,040
Speaker 1: That's right. More to It is a production of Dan

534
00:28:38,120 --> 00:28:42,600
Speaker 1: Patrick Productions, That Dude Entertainment and Workhouse Media Shows Executive

535
00:28:42,600 --> 00:28:44,960
Speaker 1: produced by Dan Patrick, Marcelis Waity, That's Me. That Dude

536
00:28:45,000 --> 00:28:50,000
Speaker 1: was Paul Anderson and Nick Panella. Marcella's Way. Thanks for listening,

537
00:28:50,320 --> 00:28:52,400
Speaker 1: Thanks for those reviews. Keep them coming, man, I read

538
00:28:52,480 --> 00:28:55,520
Speaker 1: every single one of them. Reviews all what I got,

539
00:28:55,600 --> 00:28:58,440
Speaker 1: one hundred and eighty two of them. Something crazy. Um.

540
00:28:58,600 --> 00:29:00,760
Speaker 1: I love y'all man. There's more are coming from More

541
00:29:00,880 --> 00:29:10,400
Speaker 1: to It. Talk to you Hella soon. Com